i'm in an LTR and i am feeling happy with this, however I have noticed that I'm totally lacking abundance which possibly might be making me subconsciously more needy and dependent on my ltr.

I am not type of guy cheating while in an LTR but do you have any tips on building abundance? Just to keep the frame stronger and have options. Is daygaming the solution? I am not into cheating on my LTR, however I do not want her to think she's got me for granted.