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Am I just being an insecure little bitch? Yes.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 07:46 PM
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Shave her head and you got Humpty Dumpty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/19 04:58 PM
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Yeah. Go to Walmart, get a little pink book with a bow on it. And a sharpie. Go home, write “DIARY” on your brand new cute little book. Now write this post inside it
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:50 AM
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This guy fucks
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:44 AM
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I think of girls in binary terms rather than 1-10. She’s either a 0 (won’t fuck) or a 1 (will fuck). Don’t focus on the fact that she’s hot as hell. She’s just another 1
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:10 PM
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"Why is there so much bad advice on this sub lately?" he said in a bitching tone
/r/askTRP16/08/19 11:33 AM
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Answer the following questions with either “Men” or “Women”. Then, you tell me. Who . . . . . . Built the first car? . . . Built the first plane? . . . Had more impact on the development of modern civilization? . . . Grew up wanting to be doctors, engineers, and scientists? . . . Keeps families from starvation, a roof over their head? . . . Fought wars / battles to keep country / tribe safe? . . . Invented the television? . . . The telephone? . . . The cell phone? . . . Invented video games? . .…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 05:12 PM
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Was it a bar thot ONS? Or is she plate material? If bar slut 👉🏼 don’t text her, unless you wanna look like a bitch and be left on read If potential plate 👉🏼 wait a few days, tell her to come over again In either case, “had fun last night” puts you as the buyer of fun, not the seller. You’re the one giving value, not her
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:46 PM
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Probably got them pepperoni nips
/r/askTRP14/08/19 07:40 PM
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What you need to do is add 16 oz water to a blender. Add a banana, half a cucumber, some cayenne pepper, and some ice if you prefer. Then, proceed to cum into the organic mixture. Blend it up, add one of those little umbrellas, and shove it up your ass. Instant RP mindset
/r/askTRP14/08/19 12:00 AM
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Keep a high enough SMV while in the LTR to where you know, and more importantly she knows, that you could go fuck any other woman at the drop of a hat. This is dread game. Keep her hamster spinning
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:15 PM
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You’re confused as to what the concept of frame is and are conflating it with total unreactiveness. All frame is is outcome independence. It does not mean you have to play aloof asshole 24/7. Have more options than the girls you’re fucking, your boss, and your bros, and you will always have a stronger frame than them
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:07 PM
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Solid interactions lead to solid numbers. Don’t just get in and get out. If you’ve never tried instant dates, give em a shot. I have never been flaked on by a girl that I grabbed a coffee etc with right after meeting her
/r/askTRP09/08/19 09:58 PM
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That’s because NoFap is retarded. It’s a community of lazy incels who think glazing themselves in their own semen is the reason they suck dick. They glaze themselves in their own semen because they suck dick, not the other way around. Quitting jerking off will make your testosterone decrease and it will predispose you to prostate cancer. You can’t expect your life to get better just by not masturbating. You have to be a man and put in the work. Also, quitting porn and masturbation is not an acco…
/r/askTRP09/08/19 08:03 PM
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Anything that’s not your imagination is external, not present during sex with an actual human being, and therefore detrimental to your future sexual experiences. If your body gets accustomed to anything that you won’t have access to when fucking a real girl, it will be harder to get hard. Stop making it harder to get hard, and stop making your brain think you’ve earned sex when you haven’t
/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:54 PM
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You poor thing. That victim mentality must really hinder your success. Have you tried writing it in a diary?
/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:46 PM
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If you’re hung up on one girl, you’re probably not fucking other women. Fuck other women. Ignore her until she acts right. When she finally hits you up again (she will), make her eat your ass for punishment.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:38 PM
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Anything that’s not your imagination is external, not present during sex with an actual human being, and therefore detrimental to your future sexual experiences. If your body gets accustomed to anything that you won’t have access to when fucking a real girl, it will be harder to get hard. Stop making it harder to get hard, and stop making your brain think you’ve earned sex when you haven’t
/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:35 PM
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Congrats, you just won the 2019 Sperg Award, for the most spergy post on asktrp. It was certainly a close call between this one and the guy who asked if he should get face tattoo to become more alpha in the workplace But you managed to come out on top
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:29 PM
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Sexual strategy is amoral Don’t think about right vs wrong. You have plates to get your dick wet and to experience abundance, not to keep your beta peers happy
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:45 PM
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Then they aren’t your friends. Let’s be honest. If you were a girl, would you want to fuck you? A suicidal loser? Probably not. So stop being one. Forge yourself into a winner
/r/askTRP06/08/19 03:14 AM
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Are you absolutely certain that what comes after death is better than what you have now? What about what you could have? Is it better than that too? Everyone’s got their struggles. Every single “problem” you listed is very common here and is capable of being fixed. Do you want to give up because you’re inherently lazy? Or do you want to finally take charge and live the life you’ve always craved?
/r/askTRP06/08/19 03:09 AM
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Go read u/CainPrice ‘s newest post
/r/askTRP05/08/19 08:15 PM
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Read up on how to not be socially awkward. One sentence from anyone here isn’t going to change you. Only you can do that.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:16 AM
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Watch what they do, not what they say Let her hamster spin. She’s frustrated because you won’t let it stop. Don’t let it stop, until she’s no longer smiling.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 04:14 AM
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This is exactly how 80% of guys go about it. Except it never works that way. Indirect vs direct is an endless going nowhere debate. We might as well talk about left vs right within the US bipartisanship. Accomplishes nothing. Moral: Do what you want
/r/askTRP05/08/19 03:14 AM
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Yes. You are a massive red flag.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 09:31 PM
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If you have to ask yourself this, you’re an incel.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 01:25 PM
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Wanna start out by saying I’ve never been depressed, so take this with a grain of salt. You wrote in the post why you’re depressed. It’s clear you know why you’re depressed. Depression sucks because it’s paradoxical. It’s self-fulfilling. Try to understand my words here: people with depression are depressed because they’re depressed. Therefore, the only way to get out of depression is to become not depressed. This is hard because, 1, quite frankly it doesn’t make any god damn sense, and 2, depre…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 02:54 AM
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Yep
/r/askTRP03/08/19 02:37 AM
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I’m not implying you say “Hey check this out”. The words that come out of your mouth should be generally similar when opening any set, wherever you are and whatever time it is. If you break down the meaning of “Hey, check this out”, and you are capable of basic English comprehension, you can infer a couple things from just these four words. 1) The person who said “Hey check this out” has made an observation, probably regarding their immediate environment. 2) It’s also probable that this observat…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:19 PM
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I wonder if these spergs know they’re spergs or if it’s a mutually exclusive sort of thing
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:58 PM
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Is this a joke? Have you nothing more productive to do?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:22 PM
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Unfortunately for you I don’t argue with emotional cum guzzling white knights. Feel free to fuck off. I’m going to have my ass eaten by one of my plates in the meantime. Misogyny ftw
/r/askTRP02/08/19 05:17 AM
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I mean that frame is profoundly more non-verbal than it is verbal. You can pretend to be an aloof opinionated asshole all you want, but when you don’t have the body language to back it up, you’ll get called out. Picture the perfect you. How does he act? He does he talk? Walk? If you’re talking to a girl, picture a camera on you and other people will be watching. What would you do differently?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 05:04 AM
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No. “Hey, check this out” is what should be going through your head when you approach. At the gym, in the strip club, and the homeless shelter. It’s a useful mechanism to have at the front of your mind in any social situation. Instead of take take take value... give give give. And an easy way to give value is to think “Hey, check this out.”
/r/askTRP02/08/19 05:01 AM
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The Red Pill is a hard pill to swallow If the truth hurts your feelings, you are in the wrong place. We are nothing but a group of extremely radical truth seekers. OP is going through some shit, yes, which is why he needs a kick in the ass. I’m not going to pat his bottom and rub his belly. This is not how men get better. If you’re active in this sub and you disagree, then there is something wrong.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 04:55 AM
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Go watch a rom com. Skip to a part where they kiss so you don’t spontaneously grow a vagina. Watch how they’re in sync, lost in the moment. That’s all you need to be a good kisser. Synergy. The tongue movement comes naturally
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:42 AM
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You lick it. Slowly. Change head angles. Smooch and repeat You don’t want it to be firm. You’re not trying to stab her tongue. You’re massaging the inside of each other’s mouths. Once you do it for the first time you’ll never worry about it again
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:35 AM
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Firstly, congratulations on finding RP at 17. Do not take your early start for granted. Buddy, I was the same as you. Scared to death I’d do it wrong and get a bad rep in the process. I don’t even want to describe it to you because it’s so god damn easy I fear you’ll overthink it even more. I will say this: whatever you think a kiss is, it’s exactly that
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:27 AM
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If you can’t even surf the web by yourself how are you going to get laid?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 03:08 AM
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1) This question gets asked every day! There’s a little bar at the top of the subreddit, it says search! If you type your question there, you can get instant answers! Really cool! 2) There’s another thing called Google! Type your question in the search bar there too! And you get even more answers! Neat! Nobody wants to answer you because we know you won’t go through with it. Anyone so unself-sufficient isn’t going to listen
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:36 AM
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Victim mentality. Poor baby. You are the only person in the way of you becoming who you want to be. Quit bitching
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:32 AM
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Me: “Stop being a pussy” You: “omg no I’m not I swear just tell me how to get girls while being a pussy” Stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:36 AM
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Did you read your question before posting? “The girls are pretty sheltered here” Ok. So you’re telling me that every single one of the girls near your age, in your entire town, 1) never go out in public and 2) ignore you when you talk to them on the street? No? Because that’s what I read. If your true situation is anything other than the above points, then you’re just being a pussy. Stop asking how to be a pussy and get girls. You can’t.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:15 AM
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How would you fill your day? Asking that, it’s clear you don’t have a mission. You’ve been living like a woman. Entertainment after entertainment, dopamine rush after dopamine rush. Never working or or playing. Only passing time. Always bored. Sound like you? Stop living like a woman. Find out what you want to do. Smoking? Video games? Do you really think anyone here is going to encourage that shit?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:11 AM
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Give value. “Hey, check this out”. She’ll remember you No reason to strike up a conversation when you’re trying to get meaty. You’re busy
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:42 AM
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If you talk like an asshole, you can’t walk like a pussy. Actions speak louder than words. Especially to women.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:36 AM
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Pay off all debt first. Use credit cards if you have money in the bank. Budget
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:56 AM
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250+ g of protein. Buddy must be high
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:11 PM
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From Mark Manson’s “Models”: “The general principle at work here is that you want to gently push things towards sex until she says stop. If she doesn’t say stop, keep going. Next, take off your shirt. For whatever reason, when you take off your shirt, it sub-communicates that you expect sex to happen more than her taking any of her clothes off. This is usually where you’ll get the, “We’re not having sex tonight,” objection, if you do at all. “The answer to this objection is always, always, “OK,”…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 12:08 PM
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If you don’t have a mission, it is your mission to find your mission. Until then, grind in the classroom, in the gym, and in the club, on some nice round ass.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:15 PM
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When you give yourself the option to stick to your routine or not, you will choose the easier option every time because you're a god damn loser. ​ All you need is a simple paradigm shift. It's not optional that you go to the gym today. It's not optional that you stick to your diet today. ​ You don't go through your day thinking "Hmm, I may watch porn and eat some Taco Bell today." Instead, porn doesn't exist. And sporadic cheat meals certainly don't exist. ​ Only when you decide that it's physic…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:42 PM
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Yep. If you give em double it’ll help you more
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:43 AM
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Real change happens when you make it. Stop waiting around
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:41 AM
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Maybe not for everyone. Definitely for me
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:40 AM
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Zac Efron
/r/askTRP27/06/19 02:01 AM
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Can’t help being ugly. No point in bitching. If women legitimately on more than one occasion have blocked you after sending one picture of your face... you’re no Zac Efron. Make yourself more attractive. Until then, quit behaving like a sorority girl and go talk to chicks in real life where they can see that you’re confident despite how ugly you are
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:35 AM
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It’s an amino acid. If you normally could get 10 reps, creatine would help you hit 11. Over weeks and months, this one extra rep every set allows you to build slightly more muscle than the guy without it. If you take it, drink lots of water or risk it not working and getting acne
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:30 AM
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By jerking off multiple times a day, watching porn, and playing Fortnite with cheeto fingers but telling everyone on TRP that you have abundance
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:26 AM
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This is the most depressing shit I’ve ever read. Midway through after falling asleep and waking back up, I’ve just barely stopped myself from shooting myself in the mouth. Seriously, what the fuck is wrong with you? Are you this inept? Do you and your little incel buddies think it’s because you’re ugly that you get no vagina? I think it’s because you’re a whiny pathetic pussy who sits around wallowing in his own self pity waiting for a fox to come and cup his balls. You’re a 28 year old child. T…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 05:21 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP23/03/19 10:33 AM
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I don’t believe the issue here was your vetting technique but rather your relationship game, or lack thereof. Did you get too comfortable? Did you let your SMV slip? Remember, you gotta have the mindset of “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” in any LTR no matter how solid you think it is. Relationship game is something Rollo writes about a lot, given the fact he’s been married for like 20 years. Get to reading
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:37 PM
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That last sentence or two is the problem. If you want an LTR, you need to be spinning plates to screen for a quality gal. If you’re dicking down women as good as you say you are, they wouldn’t withdraw attention. They’d be initiating nearly exclusively. In the words of the wise Biggie Smalls “she gonna come if she gonna cum.” Attachment simply stems from non-abundance. Find a mission. And grind. And you won’t give a fuck about a bitch
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:53 PM
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Brother, you just said exactly what I said you’d say. I want you to sit down and fucking work. And you will find true abundance. If you have no idea where to start, digital marketing, e-commerce, or computer programming are 3 great different niches with huge upside potential to give a shot
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:46 PM
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If that was true you wouldn’t even debate bringing her back. Would you rather eat a left over slop of a burger out of of the trash at the local McDonald’s or just order a new one? She knows she gave you shit. And if you hit her up again what does that tell her? That she’s your only option. Doesn’t matter if you actually are fucking other women. She will think “ damn, this guy wants to fuck again after I gave him chlamydia!” And you will quickly become a needy fuck in her mind
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:44 PM
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It’s not a one way path to overcoming desperation. A true abundance mentality is hard to grasp let alone implement. The preach here is to grind your mission. Do you have one? Are you grinding day in day out? No, you’re not. Otherwise you wouldn’t care about one bitch in a pool of nearly 4 billion. One of the most common things I hear / read: “yeah I know, I know I know I need to work on my mission” No, you don’t. If u say this you’re hearing what you wanna hear. Find your purpose. And put in the…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:39 PM
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“I’m just worried she’s got that post-wall mentality” She does. She has a fucking kid. She’s been trying to find a provider since she first learned she was pregnant if not before. “I don’t have plans this weekend yet” There’s your underlying problem. It’s apparent you need plans to feel secure. That’s not abundance. I don’t think you should see her, I think you need to become comfortable with being alone. Grind your purpose
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:34 PM
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This is shyness. This is introvertedness. You’re scared you’ll say something and people won’t acknowledge what you said, and don’t understand that the very reason you will be ignored is because you’re scared of being ignored. No one gives a fuck what you say. They’re all only thinking of what they’re gonna say next. Just say something
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:29 PM
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First off, you should be wrapping. Whole situation could’ve been avoided. Next, meeting women shouldn’t be something you take time out of your day to do. You meet them everywhere throughout the day. Obviously you should screen them.. ask if they have STD’s. Who gives a fuck if she walks. If you’d rather fuck a bitch with chlamydia than go meet 4 or 5 other women u got a lot of work to do
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:27 PM
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You managed to completely miss the point. Impressive
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:36 AM
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Guys from weird countries, please stop complaining you’re from a weird country
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:04 AM
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Wheelie style, Reverse Drivers seat, kappa sigma dashboard, and Junk Trunk are some of my favorites
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:51 AM
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You’re overthinking it already. The sidebar covers everything shit tests so read it then go to some clubs and have fun. There’s no such thing as saying the wrong thing. Pass the shit test and hold frame and her fish taco will begin thawing. To keep a vibe up you have to stay congruent. If you come in high energy, stay high energy even if she doesn’t react well to whatever you say. This is how you hold frame. You sound like a giant pussy. Quit thinking the world is stacked against you and it won’…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 01:09 AM
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They have game, sure, so you can learn from them in that respect but that’s it. The new Tyler (late 2018 and forward) and RSD Max are the only ones worth watching imo. They are still mostly chumps unless a girl they wanna bang is in front of their face so keep that in mind. Not RP role models at all. More like Seddit fedora tipping “M’lady” types. As an aside they tend to way overcomplicate things. You don’t wanna have to compute the quadratic formula in your head when you’re trying to get your …
/r/askTRP02/03/19 11:47 PM
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A reply written purely for provocation. Spoken like a true retard sperg
/r/askTRP28/02/19 03:27 AM
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95 % of questions asked here are retard spergs who can’t read. “There’s this girl.. she’s the one.. how do I make her suck my oversized clit?” If you don’t know that this sub is about men’s growth, mental, physical, and social, then you’re a retard sperg. Additionally, the other 5%, the true TRPers, are too busy grinding and testing theory, and forming their own conclusions
/r/askTRP28/02/19 02:58 AM
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You’re always shitting on every deserving dumbass in this sub. Love it
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:42 AM
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Who gives a fuck? Your only goal in the beginning of your TRP journey is to become more attractive. There are many ways to do this, all discussed here over and over again. Work out, eat good, dress better, take care of your skin and get regular haircuts. Get good game, study more, find a mission and focus on it. Improve your income. If a 4 did all this he’d instantly become a 7. As far as your question goes, it makes sense psychologically. Ugly people have less options so they cling to theirs th…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:08 AM
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Have you ever seen Iron Man? Watch how he says really funny cocky shit to himself, even though no one’s watching. Example, after Tony smashes a dime piece reporter for Vanity Fair magazine, and he’s late to his private jet taking off: “3 hours” Tony: “what?” “3 hours I’ve been here waiting on you” “Got caught doing a piece for Vanity Fair” He says stuff that makes him laugh. He’s not looking for external validation or to make others laugh. It’s like he’s the star of his own movie. He’s watching …
/r/askTRP22/02/19 11:58 AM
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Stop listening to yourself. Start talking to yourself.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 11:21 AM
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That’s just wrong you sick fuck
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 03:17 PM
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Even if our ideas do harm women, which is a ridiculous assertion backed by zero evidence, no one here cares. If by harm you mean offend, nobody has a right to not be offended. What is harmful is young men growing up being taught that if they want to use their dicks on more than just their own hand, they have to be a sweet, loving, nurturing nice guy. Which leads them right back to their hands.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 03:13 PM
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The feminine-favoring psychosocial conditioning is so hammered in to your brain that you think any post that doesn’t praise women is hating on women. There is a large difference between the two.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 03:07 PM
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You gotta let their hamsters spin. Don’t give much away. When you ramble on for hours about how you miss your mommy tucking you in at night while away at college, she realizes that you’re a cuck. Good little tip is when she asks you a personal question, answer with something ridiculous. She asks again, you tell her the truth but vague. Example: “Haha so what do you do?” “I’m a gay stripper at the club across the street” “Haha no really” “I work in insurance” She loses interest because you’re too…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:12 AM
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Not your problem.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:07 PM
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Birth name Nicholas or was the change more extreme from something like Johnny?
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:38 AM
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You got two options. Be a short little bitch. Or be a short man.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:53 PM
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Just keep crying about it on social media. Surely a loving, caring girl will come by your post eventually and instantly fall in love with you because of how supplicating and pathetic you sound. As a short man, I always make sure to whine about how short I am when I meet girls and they immediately bow down and suck my dick. Works wonders
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:22 PM
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You’re forgetting the bigger picture. The goal here is to make sex the only way you splooge. It sounds to me like you only have one plate. And it’s likely that you feel dependent on her because she’s your only option. Get more plates.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:09 PM
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They don’t look at you like a loser because of your job. They look at you that way because you are a loser. I’m not sure where you work but I used to bus at a restaurant on the beach, and when summer time came around the waiters and waitresses made fucking bank. You can too. Low IQ? Who cares. The average is 100, which is much closer to 75 than it is to 125. Be honest with yourself. What can you improve? You haven’t given me much. But you need to mold yourself into someone who’s not a loser. And…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:55 AM
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Another way to think about it is this: it’s a compliance test. Women on a macro level tell men that to get a girlfriend they need to be sweet and caring and kind, send them good morning texts and tell them they’re beautiful. It’s therefore reasonable to conclude that the beta losers listen to them, do what they say, become the perfect “nice guy”. And then, they never have sex
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:32 AM
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Ok. So you’re complaining about the fact that your friends are being bitches. In which case you’d need a diary, not this sub
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:39 PM
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That is certainly not a flaw imo. Sounds like what’s known as hyperfocus, common among ADHD people. You can commit to anything for hours, so you say. So, if your hyperfocus during approach session isn’t working the same way as when you work on your mission, use a simple psychology trick. Listen to music while working on your mission, and listen to the same songs while approaching
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:18 PM
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I’m not sure how long in advance you had those plans made, but you cancelled 2 hours before... and you’re curious as to why they’re upset? Seriously? Solipsism to this degree is textbook of a legitimate narcissist. PSA: the world doesn’t revolve around you
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:11 PM
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A truly high value man would have her wanting to come to him. Although pussy is nice, if you drive an hour to see a girl, it shows her you have no options closer to you. Thus, upon arrival, it’s likely you’ll have a hard time getting her fuck hole open for business
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:07 PM
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You get rid of them by not watching porn. I disagree with NoFap. It’ll only make it exponentially more difficult to quit porn if you cut out masturbation too. Set a schedule to jerk off. It’ll help you control impulsive horniness, which will help you stop the porn that comes with it. Deleting Instagram would be ideal too, so much ass and titties on there nowadays. One bikini pic and you’ll jump to pornhub. If I were you, I would start off by jerking off every day, only after going to the gym. Bu…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:04 PM
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Google.com
/r/askTRP07/02/19 06:32 PM
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Because a woman’s hypergamous instincts are reinforced by a social imperative, they are seen as decent when acting out their hypergamous nature, and men are seen as villains when acting out their polygamous nature. Rollo has written countless articles explaining this, and it’s talked about in his book The Rational Male as well.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:29 PM
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Yeah. You miss her because you have zero options without her. Waking up and deciding to impulsively dump her is fine. You’re in charge of your life. The only way to end oneitis, ever, is to get abundance. You do this, unsurprisingly, by talking to women. If you talk to 100 women, 60 of them may want to get to know you, 30 may want to have sex with you, 8 of them actually will, and out of those, half may decide to come back for more. Plate status, abundance achieved.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 02:29 PM
5

A lot of it is subconsciously motivated; at the same time, however, women are aware they want a successful man. Similar to how you know you want a woman with a nice, round ass
/r/askTRP07/02/19 02:24 PM
4

Cut it out with the NoFap. That shit is wack, bullshit pseudoscience. Before TRP years ago I went 56 days on NoFap and felt worse than I ever have in my entire life. You need to feed the geese. You gotta keep the blood flowing. Especially if you’re not getting laid on a regular basis. I’m willing to bet, that this is why you’re so cynical, why you’re so depressed, why you’re so insecure; because your testosterone levels are effectively negative at this point. But, no porn
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:45 AM
2

Those girls are entitled sloots. Regardless, you can’t act like a whiny little bitch and kick and scream at them. If I were you, I would have simply walked up and cut them in line back. They could either do nothing, or say “Excuse me?” Or something like that. To which you nonchalantly reply “I was in front of you.” Straight face, hold frame, no hard feelings. If she says “Are you angry?” Again, straight face. “Yes. Livid.” As far as general impulsiveness goes, it stems from a lack of self-discip…
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:37 AM
15

You ignore it. What she says clearly provides no value and is irritating to you. By ignoring her, you pass the shit test. Explaining the joke or defending yourself is what dries her vagina
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:33 AM
6

Zero correlation. Sidebar
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:30 AM
4

If you want to skip to play video games, don’t. If you want to skip to study or work, go for it.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 07:01 PM
1

Because fats take longer to digest, this may sound counter productive, but try lowering your fat to 50 and increase your protein and fiber. Also, some tips I’ve learned 1) fibrous foods are filling 2) more volume when you take out things like rice and 2 am loaves of bread and replace it with broccoli and spinach 3) the higher percentage of your total body weight that is muscle, the more protein you need. In other words, as you lose weight, protein should be increased and carbs lowered. 4) loweri…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:19 AM
2

Opinions are based on experience. Experience is personal. Personally, this is how my RP journey went. And I’ve been a part of this subreddit long enough to know it also resonates with many others’. Hence why my answer may have seemed a little selfish. The problem with your hedonism comparison is that it assumes you can’t actually derive pleasure from pleasure-seeking in and of itself. But the point is is that when you become good at sex-seeking, sex is acquired, which indeed is actual pleasure. …
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:43 AM
2

That’s not the moral of the story. Work your ass off in the gym and the kitchen, learn how to talk to women, and remember you can be sexual outside the bedroom. Oh, did I mention he was 5 foot 4? If looks were all that mattered, height surely does too
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:09 AM
1

When he was recently divorced, he sure did. Now he’s cuffed by a milf 12 years younger than him
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:06 AM
3

My dad divorced my mom at 39. He started hitting the gym every day. He blew up. To this day (he’s 47 now) he is fucking massive. Obviously, TRT would be a fantastic choice for anyone over 30-35 and would only improve your results. But my father is proof (assuming he’s natty, he says he is) that you can do it
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:59 AM
2

What exactly are you having trouble grasping? When you fuck enough chicks, you become desensitized to their bullshit. It doesn’t phase you. It’s called amused mastery. And you don’t care about them on a very deep level because the vast majority of them are sluts unworthy of your commitment, or in some cases, even much of your time. When you fuck enough chicks, you realize how easy it is. So you focus your efforts elsewhere, like making money and your mission. My mission is furthering a career in…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 03:55 AM
1

Personally, I take all my food for the day and put it in a crockpot so when I come home it’s done. And that’s all I eat. Sucks the first week or two. But it takes something extremely challenging like losing weight and makes it so much simpler and easier. Not to mention how much money and time you’ll save
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:14 PM
33

Typical anger phase. It passes with pussy. Eventually, you’ll be so consumed by your mission you don’t give a fuck how shallow women are
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:45 AM
4

From Rollo’s The Rational Male “Women would rather share a high value man than be saddled with a faithful loser.” Don’t overtly state you’re seeing other girls. It should be very clearly implied from the get-go
/r/askTRP27/01/19 03:15 PM
1

You’re allowed to be sexual outside the bedroom
/r/askTRP27/01/19 02:38 PM
5

In addition to V’s posts, the Sex God Method is a good read
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:05 PM
3

Who gives a fuck? Do you want us to applaud you for being a pussy?
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:35 AM
2

There is no unknown area. Come on to the girl. And then undress her.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:22 AM
3

But do you prefer porn over pussy? Probably not. It takes a little effort to get pussy. Porn takes zero. Instant gratification. Careful playing with fire.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 03:19 AM
3

Your social status is garbage not because of the quasi shitty hand you’ve been dealt in life. It’s because you have a garbage personality. Serious question, do you have some form of autism? The caption on that picture you linked is just purely strange. You’ve got a lot of work to do
/r/askTRP07/01/19 02:17 AM
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You humiliated him in front of women. Were you expecting him to bow down and suck your peen on the spot? Having TRP makes you more powerful than most, but it doesn’t entitle you to be a dick.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 11:50 AM
3

This is the opposite of abundance — re-engaging a girl you soft nexted multiple times, and/or one who ignored your previous text. She doesn’t want to meet because you’re needy
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:38 PM
1

Me
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:48 AM
1

Everyone on this sub has been in your situation. The ones who broke through it did it by gripping their nutsack and talking to women. There’s no way around it. To get good with women, you have to.. get with women. Over and over.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:48 AM
3

You don’t owe anyone an explanation. If you don’t want to fuck her anymore, stop fucking her. When you see her in school, ignore her. If she sees you though, just smirk at her. She ain’t gonna do shit. The worst she can do is spread rumors that you have a small pecker. In which case, you hold frame, and it won’t matter anyways
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:52 AM
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Her issues are not your issues. She is there to eat your ass, not to nag and complain. If she’s too much of a psychological burden, she is not worth your time
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:47 AM
9

You’ve asked 20 questions similar to this one before. Stop looking for validation. You know the answer
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:49 PM
5

Not sure anyone here would condone being a pussy
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:15 PM
4

People with disorders tend to see therapists to learn to cope — not a sexual strategy forum
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:26 AM
4

‘No oneitis feelings yet’ Yes, yes you do
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:57 PM
5

Because it’s shaped like a dick, and eating dick lowers test #gainz
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:37 PM
0

To increase testosterone: higher fat intake; more heavy weight / less lighter weight; no bananas; lower your stress levels (meditation); and of course, fucking hot women on a regular basis. To stay healthy: lower alcohol intake; no weed, tobacco; cardiovascular training in addition to weight training; in general, staying active during the day rather than a sedentary lifestyle; track your macros, how strict you are is completely up to you; fish oil; multivitamin; 1-2 gallons of water a day (the h…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:01 PM
11

Even better, just take a pregnancy test to make sure you’re not pregnant
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:39 AM
3

If you do that every single day, and throw around heavy ass weight as often as you can, imagine where you’ll be in a year. Other than that, your protein is way too high. You do you, but read some stuff online and see if you change your mind. Higher bf % = less protein. Also, more fat, AFAIK, means potentially more testosterone production, assuming you’re doing everything else. Good luck
/r/askTRP11/12/18 09:03 PM
2

Are you tracking your macros? It takes a long time for a natty ectomorph to pack on muscle. Gotta make sure that anything you can improve on, you improve on it pronto. What the other dude said, .7-.8 protein per pound is good for a bulk. Slightly higher when cutting. Probably 70-90 g fat depending on how tall you are. And the rest, say with a 600ish calorie surplus, is carbs
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:24 PM
4

Brother, listen. No one can make your situation better but you. Have you read the sidebar? Are you consistently approaching women? Die at 60? Are you absolutely sure that what’s on the other side will be better than what you have here? Or, instead of your current scenario here, the best possible scenario here? That’s a mighty big risk to take. The way I see it, you have one life on this earth, and one body. There’s nothing worse than being in a bad situation, and, instead of setting goals and pu…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:54 PM
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I think you’re being a gigantic pussy. Your hamster is going off the rails. Everyone’s afraid of hot girls. The more you talk to them, the less scary they are. “Unfortunately this sets me back getting in shape” How? How does you being a bitch mean that you can’t work out and eat healthy?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:10 PM
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"Frame" in this sense is your paradigm, your worldview. The way you see things. To you, it's what's good and what's bad, what is interesting, what size tits are the most attractive. You know that everyone else has their own frame, but you also know that you're fucking *you*, and therefore your frame is better than everyone else's. ​ You can't really fake a strong frame as it's so non-verbal. The one thing you can try is when you're in social situations, just simply react less. (ex: you're playin…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:55 AM
6

Digital marketing, computer programming, dropshipping single products with Shopify etc EDIT: codecademy.com if you want to learn to code. Starting salary’s at like $60k USD. That’s without a degree
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:24 AM
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Generally speaking, of course it’s bad. But, being a man is doing what you think is cool, and mentally telling everyone to fuck off who thinks otherwise. Do you think it’s a problem? Chances are you do, otherwise you wouldn’t be here. Yeah, talking to women is hard, and watching porn is easy. Start with reading the sidebar. Good luck
/r/askTRP02/12/18 04:31 AM
27

Yeah. You have AIDS
/r/askTRP01/12/18 10:54 PM
3

“Come over”
/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:24 PM
11

Yeah, lose your chub
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:38 AM
9

By fucking her, and not performing oral on her
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:49 PM
3

Since this is asktrp, and you asked nothing
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:15 PM
1

Wonder how fast this will get removed
/r/askTRP24/11/18 05:45 PM
6

Hey buddy, newsflash: you’re going to die. Got that? We are put on this Earth for a very limited amount of time. The answer to your question is to just do it. You sound like you have low self esteem: raise it. Lots of books and articles on this but the most important thing a shy person needs is experience. There’s no trick to getting out of your shell. You can have the life you’ve always dreamed of. And you know what you have to do to get it. So go do it
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:29 PM
1

That’s just unfortunate. Your parents suck dick. The way I see it the best you can do is the 3 days in a row, and some at-home calisthenics whenever you can. Good luck
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:01 PM
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“Too sore too lift” did your clitoris write that? Untwist your pigtails and do what you want. Yes, you can. Lifting 3 days in a row is perfectly fine. If you’re a beginner, your diet will need to be on point. Not saying you should be slacking on it if you’re not a beginner just because you can, however. Try lifting in the morning, early Edit: just ride a bike. Don’t get caught. If you get caught, your parents will realize that they’re mad at you for fucking going to the gym and let you off the h…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:24 AM
1

Jerk off and watch porn multiple times a day. That should do it
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:28 PM
2

Firstly, you can hold frame more often than when you’re conversing only 1 on 1. If you’ve read the sidebar, you should know that increasing your SMV and working on your mission is foremost. And in the case of life, focusing on those two things, rather than the gossip you think is about you going on behind your back, would be holding frame. Another aspect of TRP is the philosophy that you aren’t a special snowflake. Sure, they may talk about you behind your back, but it seems as if you actually b…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:43 AM
1

If you have a ridiculously weak frame, you will become the joke of the group. Everyone will look at you for a cheap laugh. Read the sidebar, strengthen your frame through experience. And you will build relationships that don’t involve your loser friends, over the long run. The true TRP man is comfortable being alone because it’s at this stage where you will feel the loneliest
/r/askTRP16/11/18 12:51 AM
2

Social market value isn’t a thing. The term is sexual market value. If you want to increase your value in social situations, read books on charisma, and read the sidebar
/r/askTRP02/11/18 11:07 AM
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No that’s illegal
/r/askTRP22/10/18 03:45 AM
6

There’s 7 million of these same questions on this sub. The answer is and always will be: no. Imagine you, having a great day, cozied up in your comfort zone and happy with all your little blue pill thoughts dancing in your head, like sugarplums. Then, your friend tells you something about what he called the Red Pill, tells you you’re 100% wrong about basically everything, that women are useless other than pussy, that you’ll never find love the way you expect it. He tries to completely 180 your l…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 03:17 PM
0

The answer is read the side bar, then apply it. Raise your SMV as high as you can. Work on yourself. Find a mission, work on it as well.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 03:06 PM
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Women possess a biological imperative to be subordinates to men. There are always outliers. Subordinate does not mean property, and one of the first things you learn after reading the side bar is that it’s not your woman, it’s just your turn.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 04:09 AM
2

Dude that’s exactly what I’ve been wanting to do for years. Got any tips? Where do I start?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 12:47 AM
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Haha. Inspirational. Thanks! I’ve been meaning to get into the whole reading thing outside of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 12:31 AM
3

Thank you! Wise words. Others have bashed me saying “Just find a balance!” Of course I’ve tried, but I can’t. So thank you for the perspective
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 12:29 AM
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Gotta keep the blood flowing, brother!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 11:44 PM
12

We are very similar. I appreciate your two cents
/r/TheRedPill14/10/18 11:11 PM
3

About that last bit, something I’ve learned recently: literally all having male friends is is passing shit tests. It’s reasonable to assume that men shit test each other so much to stay above par for when they’re with women. If you have male friends that you never hold frame with or pass their shit tests, they know you get no pussy. And vice versa.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 04:04 PM
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The girls see your higher SMV. Use it to your advantage. They think you’re still a pathetic loser. Show them that you are awesome. The men see your higher SMV. They are jealous. Like you said, they can go fuck themselves. Also, I agree with the other commenter. Lighten up, Shakespeare
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 06:10 AM
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If you’ve experienced enough abundance and are ready to settle down, go for it. Although this doesn’t sound like a prime candidate. After all, the main goal, at least for me, is to date enough women that you find out what you like in them and what you don’t. It appears the only thing you like about this girl is her looks. In 20 years, hell even 10 or 5, will she look the same? And then, will you regret it?
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:44 AM
1

Equal opportunity is a right wing ideal. Equal outcome is a left wing ideal. Being left alone to live your life is a right wing ideal. Government intervention is a left wing ideal. "Being a good person" and "taking care of each other" is extremely vague, and when it comes from the mouth of a lefty, it is usually done so intentionally. The way I see it is "Being a good person" and "taking care of each other" is thrown in there by lefties because they want to be seen as tolerant and empathic. Blue…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:07 PM
7

I’ve read studies before claiming it can give you gum / throat cancer, not sure of the credibility but I assume that’s what everyone is referring to
/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:08 AM
1

Lmfaoooo that’s not what I meant, I’m straight
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:20 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. I however failed to mention my problem lies more in male relationships than female
/r/askTRP10/08/18 03:18 PM
2

Thanks bruh! As for my physical shape, I’m very fit. Also very short, so my confidence levels kind of balance out to none. Not over- or under-confident, physically. Yeah, idk man, for me, the fact that I moved schools so much, I have a very limited amount of friends, and that has always damaged my self-esteem. I still struggle with esteem issues. But you’re right
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:27 PM
1

Great, thanks
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:17 PM
1

Will do, thanks!
/r/askTRP27/04/18 07:10 PM
2

Yeah, maybe self-esteem is my problem. Holding frame is on my mind 24/7. I try my best, although maybe I don’t understand as well as I think I do. Holding frame to me is, for example, when I die in Fortnite, staying calm rather than yelling “fuck man I hit this dude 3 fucking times what the fuck!!!”. Or, more relevant to this question, when called a faggot by a buddy, saying “oooh you got me” as if I don’t give a shit. Yay or nay on the holding frame examples?
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:47 PM
2

I go to a huge university also. I haven’t gotten laid in 2.5 years. I can attract women, I just don’t go out that much anymore since classes are getting harder as an upperclassman. Honestly, yeah it is; in college you need a social circle. I have one kind of, however generally it’s me doing the wingmanning and rarely the other way around when I do go out. I’m here however to get help with male relationships not female. I know why I’m failing with girls, it’s because I don’t even approach current…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:37 PM
1

Well, i am certainly swole as a motherfucker, but I’m also 5’4”. If a 5’4 dude said that to you I’d bet you’d laugh, no matter how swole he is. Right?
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:32 PM
2

Actually I am in college, but the majority of guys I’m talking about are from high school, although I’ll admit that’s the case only because I don’t have many friends in college. The same still applies to them, if I’m being honest
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:30 PM
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So I need to reciprocate every time they do it, as well as initiate it more
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:28 PM
1

Thanks for the tip. Yeah, 7/5/3 is great. Although, it includes overhead press which most people hate, myself included. Personally, I do my own variation of the program; I use the regimen for compound movements, which build my strength, and then do a bunch of hypertrophy after, as what Ogus listed in his program was very different (and, to me, not as good) as what I'm used to. I'd be more than happy to send it to you, if you want. Also, the program makes you do your heaviest sets all in 1 week. …
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:20 PM
1

Thanks so much. I will continue my journey. Good luck hitting 405 on squat dude. If I may, I recommend Matt Ogus' 7/5/3 program. I've always been pretty strong, thanks to genetics, but this program has increased my strength rapidly nonetheless. One more thing: although it sounds ridiculous, I seem to control frame much better in person, but what caused me to post this is my struggle with voice only, like when I'm playing Xbox with some buddies. I have no charisma, which I think is caused mainly …
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:06 PM
1

Unrelated, but I used to study stoicism, and I feel like I may have misunderstood it to a degree. It is my interpretation that a display of stoicism in any interaction means, essentially, keeping a straight face. In my experience this led me to downright apathy, and a total not-giving-a-fuck attitude, in a bad way. Thanks for your tips!
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:45 PM
1

I guess I will have to do just that!
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:44 PM
2

😂😂😂 Watched it twice through. Harmon
/r/askTRP08/02/18 04:26 AM
1

You’re right, and I don’t care, however I was more concerned about trying to figure out the best way to respond to make sure the girls knew I wasn’t succumbing to him trying to out-alpha me in front of them, if that makes sense
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:44 PM
1

I said something like “I actually haven’t worked out in a while” or something similar, which is so cringey to me and is why I remember this so vividly, although I was drunk
/r/askTRP07/02/18 02:42 PM
2

Appreciate the replies guys, this post is more geared towards how to reply to a hostile guy in a mixed set. Not necessarily how to not take myself so seriously; I poke fun back at that buddy just as much if not more than he does me. The guy who asked me if I lift enough wasn’t my friend, he was trying to make me look bad in front of the girls Thanks!
/r/askTRP07/02/18 04:11 AM
1

I hear ya. My buddy’s comment isn’t what got to me, I can take jokes just fine, it’s more of what the random guy said to me, just wanted to make him feel like shit for trying to out do me in front of all those girls
/r/askTRP07/02/18 04:09 AM
1

😂😂😂
/r/askTRP06/02/18 09:35 PM
6

Wait, is this some kind of satire?
/r/askTRP16/01/18 07:10 PM
1

Because it fucking IS. Girls are complicated. Read the sidebar, there’s a post that explains this in great detail.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:30 PM
1

Sounds good! Like the other guy said, it’d be easiest to start a workout program. It will teach discipline and at the same time takes a lot of the stress off your side. Bodybuilding.com literally has hundreds to choose from.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:59 PM
1

Start going to your campus gym now, don’t be a twat. Stop putting it off. The sooner you start, the sooner you will have abs and veiny arms
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:54 PM
1

It’s not frowned upon. But you are severely mistaken if you think lifting “only works the pecs and triceps”. Lifting is the act of going to the gym and workout out, lifting heavy ass weight, building muscle and enjoying the sight of your own body in the mirror. It is not limited to only bench press. Anything that causes microtrauma in your muscle fibers will in turn cause growth. To cause microtrauma, all you have to do is get to the point where you feel the buildup of lactic acid in your muscle…
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:53 PM
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She sounds like more of a FWB than a plate to me. Be a fucking man, and hard next that hoe. Completely ignore her, and find a replacement.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:38 PM
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They just want to have sex with you. Walk up to one and start passionately groping her breasts. Then, making sure the boyfriend can hear you, whisper “These are my tater tots.” She will bang you on the spot.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:37 PM
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Idk, do you want to? Lmao, the questions on this sub..
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:48 PM
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