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I was raised by a mom who worked from home and a dad who was a steel worker. I was raised with a parent or grandparent who was always there or my older brother so I was safe. I was raised traditionally and told to go to college for a good job but to make sure it was one that would still allow me to have a family or work from home. I worked in a job with developmentally disabled children for 10 years and had a large family. I worked my job because of the hours 8-4 and weekends and holidays off. H…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 01:31 AM
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Thank you! I think we're getting a water softener next fall but for now this is a godsend!
/r/RedPillWives14/03/17 10:32 PM
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Thank you! We have such hard water here and my skin and hair have been suffering terribly this winter and nothing is helping. I'm going to try this for sure. I hate how my hair has gotten straw like and my skin is so itchy and ashy.
/r/RedPillWives14/03/17 10:05 PM
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I'm sure when you told your grandmother that it must've made her heart so happy! That's a very kind thing you did for her. Being a housewife isn't always the most praised or thanked job. To hear it from her own granddaughter would've made it all worthwhile, as it meant all the time she spent instilling those values into your mother paid off as she passed those values down to you. Thank you for your kind words and for not being afraid to buck the trend and doing what's right for you and your fami…
/r/RedPillWives23/02/17 12:25 PM
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Why thank you, but I'm no role model lol just a mom and wife trying to keep it all together :) you'll do just fine
/r/RedPillWives23/02/17 02:04 AM
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You're more than welcome. It still hurts that someone who cares about you would comment negatively on something that means so much to you but I just assume it means they're unhappy with their own life. Don't let it bother you one bit. You're life will be better, kids will be happier and your marriage will strengthen.
/r/RedPillWives22/02/17 01:56 PM
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My husband actually helped me come up with it as I left a good paying career to be with my children. People were shocked and horrified that I would do "such a thing, when you were a career woman!". It shuts them up nicely and remains upbeat and happy. Plus once you change the subject to them and some bauble their wearing their quick to forget. Use it all you like!
/r/RedPillWives21/02/17 06:43 PM
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I tend to shut down any discrimination by turning it back to feminism if that's the angle they started with... for example "Oh wow... you went to college and had a career but now your a housewife..?" I then say "Yes, I'm so grateful that women have so many choices now a days and that I was able to choose to stay home with my kids since it's what's best for our family." I normally follow it up with a big smile and gush about my kids and loving being able to spend so much time with them. I also th…
/r/RedPillWives20/02/17 04:01 PM
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I make only one dinner and their choices are to eat it or not eat it. However that being said I make sure to include something in each meal that I know everyone will like. Example if we're having meat loaf, I make sure to make mashed potatoes for my son, green beans for my youngest daughter, and whole wheat bread for my middle daughter. They must all eat at least their age in bites of food even if they don't like it. So my 5 year old must try 5 bites of each item. I found this often leads to the…
/r/RedPillWives11/02/17 01:43 AM
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I always make dinner one of his favorites and no based on what the kids want. "He's the breadwinner... he should enjoy it". I make his lunch everyday and include a little treat in it that I know he'll like. Homemade cookies or candies he might like. I shop for clothes for him before he needs new ones. He tells me what he likes and I get them. I pick up treats for him when I grocery shop, food/liquor I know he likes. I keep his mancave clean and orderly but don't bother him when he's hanging out …
/r/RedPillWives10/02/17 02:00 PM
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Exactly! :)
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 01:31 PM
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Thank you! It's work but we both love it.
/r/RedPillWives17/01/17 03:30 AM
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As a woman with bigger feet I can't wait for the pointed shoe trend to end!! It makes my feet look waaay bigger..bring back rounded toes!
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 02:08 PM
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In our household I am submissive to my husband in all things. However it's more like a captain and first mate. He is steering/directing our lives. This is done through being the sole provider, being in charge of financing, the maintenence of the vehicles and things like major home repair. All major decisions are made together however he can veto my decisions. My role is the housewife/SAHM. I look after all the cleaning, cooking, laundry, shopping, holidays/birthdays, home decor and family health…
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 06:08 PM
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I'm thankful that my husband is such a good provider and that I'm able to be a SAHM with our children as it was always my dream from a small child. I'm grateful for large loving family that surrounds and supports my children as they grow and takes interest in them. It takes a village. I'm grateful that I have a close relationship with my mom and that we can shop, craft and hang out during the day as SAHM's together and for my Dad that will watch my littlest during the day so us ladies can go for…
/r/RedPillWives20/12/16 04:13 PM
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I'm not sure what your schedules are like or where you live but what about going out all together as a family to do something active? Like start with walks around the neighborhood for fresh air with your child and then gradually up to hikes in a local forest/wooded area. If you have a trampoline park nearby, or a YMCA go for a family swim. It's good for all of you and it's a fun and healthy way to relax all together. We live up north but we love going for walks, hikes, to the beach in the summer…
/r/RedPillWives19/12/16 12:45 AM
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I used it for years and also had horrible anxiety and depression. Thought it was just me, after our wedding I went off of it when we started trying for a baby. All of a sudden my moods changed and I stopped feeling irritable, anxious and moody. My husband was the one who noticed it first and actually pointed it out to me. I mentioned it to my Dr during an appointment and he said it known within the medical community. After we were done having children I decided to have my tubes tied during my fi…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/16 01:05 PM
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Yes I take prescription iron pills for my anemia but it's a constant battle during my period since they are so heavy. As for the migraines, they are hormonally based according to my OB-GYN and he told me unless they become a huge worry to use Excedrin for Migraines or Adil Liquid Gels. Combined with a dark room and cold behind my neck and on my eyes it helps somewhat.
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 11:01 PM
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I get rage/hulk like symptoms with my PMS as well as extreme lethargy ( I'm always fighting my anemia) and after 4 pregnancies it's super heavy (TMI I know). I found the most helpful thing was simply explaining what it felt like to my husband and that I didn't mean to act that way and to take it with a grain of salt. He's super compassionate as we've been through a lot together but he will also call me out and let me know I'm getting "PMSy". I've also found that if we both have space during that…
/r/RedPillWives07/09/16 12:50 PM
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Oh.my.god! Welp, who really needs sleep when I can buy maxi skirts for $2!
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 01:26 AM
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What?!? $9?! How did you find boots for that cheap? Are you a wizard? There goes all my allowance from my hubby. I loooooooove boots and a good deal. ;)
/r/RedPillWives31/08/16 06:06 PM
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Yes I always dress attractive when I'm out of the house. I'm a married mother but I want to look presentable and a bit like arm candy for my husband. I always wear my wedding rings and drop my husband into convos if I'm being hit on. I try to dress in the styles he likes.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/16 01:33 AM
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Awesome. Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWives15/04/16 07:37 PM
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How do they hold up on the wash etc? I'm tempted to buy one!
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 07:05 PM
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Omg! Those are amazing, can they be purchased in stores? Where have they been all my life. This will make looking after the kids and house cute and comfy!
/r/RedPillWives14/04/16 03:35 AM
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Exactly true. When the whole Ashley Madison scandal broke and it turns out there was a huge amount of men looking for affairs and virtually no women (most were bots) I said to my husband it makes sense. If a man wants to have an affair he needs to put in effort to get a woman to fuck him, drinks, time, dinners possibly etc. A woman? She can literally head to any meat market style bar and say to the first guy she meets "I want to get fucked hard, no strings attached". It's easier to be a slut.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 07:03 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your difficulties too. Sometimes you don't realize these things can happen to someone who is younger. My mama always says "The best laid plans are set in sand".
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 01:39 PM
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Oh gosh no lol I'd love a larger family but after losing two and a difficult final pregnancy riddled with complications I had my tubes tied.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 04:21 PM
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No just a mom of 4 lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/16 01:37 PM
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Yes yes yes! The husband is the brain when yours is completely focused on the contractions. He is the one doing the communication with your nurses/midwives/doctors. My husband did the same, when I became irrational with the pain after a long long labour that ended up in a c-section he snapped me out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 06:53 PM
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It's so special and intense. You go through every emotion together. Fear, pain, nervousness, happiness, exhaustion, joy etc. So amazing!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 06:48 PM
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My husband was there for all of our children (we have a big family) and I loved every second of it. Who better than "your captain" to support and strengthen you during the hardest thing you will ever do alone. Birth isn't a cake walk and I loved having him there rubbing my back, keeping me sane and whispering things like "You got this babe" and "We're going to meet our baby soon, you're doing so good!". When one of my births had emergency complications and I had to be rushed into the OR for an e…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 01:22 AM
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Agreed. This is our stance too. We're friend as a couple and I will hang out with the wives one on one and he with the husband's but not the other way around.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/16 02:05 PM
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Yes take her to do things just the two of you, you will show her what a high value man should treat her like. My Dad used to do "Daddy Daughter Dates" with me in my teen years and I still think fondly of them as a grown adult/mother. He would take me for something as simple as a walk with ice cream on the beach or to an amusement park. He took the time to just get to know me and talk about what I was into. He encouraged me to do things I was afraid of like the giant coasters. It meant so much to…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/16 03:14 PM
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Dealing with this too. My kids are cranky and confused about going to bed when it's light out after a long winter. Daylight savings with toddlers is the worst. Naptimes and meals are off. I try to circumvent it but someone is always cranky for at least 3-4 days until they get used to it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 02:48 PM
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Yeah and if you come back pregnant you know who the dad is lol!
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 02:42 PM
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You're not missing out because instead of wasting resources on short term gain you're saving your resources for the long term. Saving money for a new house is a great idea. I like the other posters married young to my college sweetheart and had kids young. Now at 31 I have the big family, cozy house and devoted husband I wanted and the life I love. Now let me tell you I did get jealous when my Gfs were going off to booze filled caribbean vacations and flitting off to Europe to sightsee. I felt b…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/16 01:57 PM
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Agreed. You need to focus on your mental health before making any potentially life altering decisions.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 01:21 AM
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Seriously! Poor men. My hubby like good down home cooking. We eat healthy but he loves the classics which I make healthier. Like chicken and potatoes, meatloaf, spaghetti and meatballs, anything southern.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 12:10 PM
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Same reaction but mine was hidden in with meat. First bite he had an odd pensive look, second bite "Babe, this meat... I think it's turned" when I explained it was tofu, he stopped eating altogether. I told him it was cooked to instructions and it's supposed to taste like that. I wasn't digging it nor the kids. He stood and told us to get our coats and we went to a restaurant. Never attempted it again.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 01:09 PM
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Is there some form of welfare you can get on until he finds a job? Do you have enough supplies for the baby, like a bed, clothes and diapers? Or is there a mother allowance program that could help you?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 01:24 PM
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I liked when my friends came over with food/gift cards for takeout as often the novelty wears off after a few weeks and if the mom has nursing issues etc she can quickly order in a meal and not stress. I loved when people would come and hold the baby so I could nap for even an hour and have a shower. Coming over to gab and have tea made me feel normal because those first few weeks feel so different as now you have a small baby that requires all of you and you need time to be a friend/wife. Offer…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 01:09 PM
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Oh my that was heartwrenching.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:12 PM
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Her recipes are to die for. Never had one fail. Very well spoken and likable too. She deserves all her success.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:07 PM
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Was it your SO? Was it your own choice? We have 3 small children and I currently work full time in a nursing job. I was trying to do it all caring for my patients at work, being a mom, being a good wife, keeping up with the housework and all the kids activities and schooling. I found it was impossible to keep in top of it all and suffered a nervous breakdown a few months ago. My husband was the first to bring up me being a SAHM but I didn't initially want to as I was worried we wouldn't have all…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/16 11:41 PM
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You're welcome. Quick note, I've made it at Christmas with green and red marachino cherries for a cute festive look.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/16 04:02 AM
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Please let me know if you like it as much as we do.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/16 04:01 AM
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http://www.shugarysweets.com/2015/09/cherry-7-up-pound-cake This is the closest to mine but I use plain 7 up and a 1 cup of diced maraschino cherries.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/16 09:17 PM
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http://www.shugarysweets.com/2015/09/cherry-7-up-pound-cake This is the closest to mine but I use plain 7 up and a 1 cup of diced maraschino cherries.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/16 09:17 PM
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Sure ladies! Let me look
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 03:34 PM
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I often surprise my hubby with his favourite baked goods. He can smell it as he opens the door and will say "Did you bake cherry 7-up cake (an old recipe of his mothers)?!?" Even before he says hello. He looks like a little boy with the huge grin on his face. It's simple but it's such a nice thing to come home too. Or you could initiate (once the baby is down for the night) sex or a blow job and take your time just focusing on him. Do the things you know that drive him wild. In the afterglow of …
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/16 01:12 PM
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My son is young and my husband is present but some of the things he has our son do is: Boy Scouts, our son is learning valuable life skills, making friends and learning respect. Plus it's super fun and there's lots of great role models. Sports that are predominantly for men like football, hockey, baseball. He will be surrounded by other boys his own age striving toward a common goal and learning to respect the coach. It will also keep him physically active which helps him release that physical e…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 06:30 AM
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Agreed. Eating fewer calories and healthier food is important but so is working out. It's good for your body, heart, and mental state. People who regularly exercise have lower rates of depression and anxiety. It's important to be physically active especially as you get older. It also can help you to have a healthier pregnancy and it's good in the long term.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/15 05:46 PM
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Their hate of parents and children makes me very sad. Even before I had children I could never hate someone for choosing to share the joy that their children bring them. That sub is filled with very sad people who I think have some underlying issues.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 09:31 PM
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Why did we choose to have children: My husband and I aren't religious in the least,in fact we are atheists, however we have always wanted a large family. We both come from loving families, love our siblings and love children. The choice to have our own family was an easy one, we wanted to have children to share our lives and joy with. We wanted our parents to have grandchildren and our siblings to have nieces and nephews. We have a large family and though it's hard, we wouldn't change it for the…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 09:25 PM
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Exactly! Once the wedding fun is over the real work starts, your married relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 08:27 PM
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We looked at styles together when we knew we wanted to get married, as he wanted to get an idea of my style and taste. We visited many stores until he said he knew what he liked. That was it on my behalf, he had my ring size and knew what I liked and didn't like and the rest was up to him. We've been very RP before we even knew about it. My ring is perfect to me as it represents us and our commitment to each other. I have no idea how much it costs but it doesn't matter to me. It's not huge and f…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 02:25 PM
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Great idea on the pinterest board! I'll definitely do that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/15 03:21 AM
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Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/15 11:19 PM
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This is an excellent list! Going to buy the acrylic nail forms as with a large family I can't afford biweekly manicures and a home planner to make my life easier. Definitely looking into this capsule wardrobe trend too. Do you have a capsule wardrobe and do you like it?
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/15 05:41 AM
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Omg there's books?!?!?! Eeeeek gotta go find them. I saw Love Comes Softly advertised on TV. Is it similar?
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 05:59 PM
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Omg yes! I love them because they always have the sweetest story lines and the characters are always sweet. I also adore a movie series called "Love Comes Softly" that I believe is by Hallmark about a woman in pioneer times who falls for a single Dad. Heartwarming.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 11:54 AM
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Come! Lol on Christmas eve I'm doing dinner for 25... people will be eating everywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 10:06 PM
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Oh god I'm such a Christmas freak! I have Christmas scents burning in my Christmas Scensty Christmas pillow covers, throws and table cloths 2 trees covered in twinkling lights and decorations, one in the front window and one by the fireplace in the living room Garland with ribbon and twinkling lights over the mantle heat turned low and the fire going each night christmas lights outside I tape every christmas special on the PVR (heads up ladies Michael Bubles is tonight @ 8) Christmas stories eac…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 05:09 PM
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Please understand that your gf is wanting to do something very reasonable, which is stay home and raise your child/care for the home. This is a job women have done since the beginning of time and is perfectly rational. The money issues and housing issues if you are the captain you should be can we worked out. Both of you will have to give up things in this situation, she might have to concede in housing and you may in "not support an adult". This is no longer about the two of you living separate…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 02:03 AM
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So basically it has to be completely original, expensive, awesome, perfect in every way or he's dumped? No Tiffanys or BnB works, poor guy that tries to impress or pamper her. Christmas isn't just about gifts you can instagram, it's about spending time with someone you love and showing them how much you care. This girl makes women look shallow and stupid. She doesn't deserve a man to even date her let alone buy her the perfect gift.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 08:53 PM
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Oh I hear you with those darn 6 emails a day! What's with that? I signed up for the 1 email version a day and used that. The biggest help for me is 15 minute increments and the donating instead of holding onto things. With a large family it really helps.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 03:37 AM
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FLY lady helps me immensely. It's low key and non stressful.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 02:16 AM
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It's super yummy and you can make it anytime of the year truthfully. If you make it and like it let me know. I love your idea of a typical christmas meal even though you aren't Christian. We're atheists but we love Christmas for the family and food aspects.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 06:13 PM
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http://www.food.com/recipe/home-style-creamed-corn-casserole-50675 Is similar to mine but I don't add pepper. Instead I do 1 tsp of onion powder.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 06:02 PM
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I have a delicious recipe for a corn casserole that goes over very well whenever I bring it. Let me find a similar one. Or you can just cook corn from frozen, canned or off the cob with butter. I also sometimes add parmesean cheese and parsley to the butter.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 06:01 PM
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What about a nice roast chicken, stuffing (even from a box), mashed potatoes, gravy (from a package even), some corn and cranberry sauce. It's festive but not overboard and you can easily make enough just for the two of you and leftover are always good. We did this before we had all of our children and it was lovely. Still very much a traditional dinner but smaller and easier.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 04:55 PM
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Gifts: my hubby is going to buy his big gift himself as its a TV and Xbox and he wants to get it on Boxing Day. But I'm giving him "The twelve lays of Christmas" where I do something sexy each day that's slightly different. The link has some ideas that I will switch up for other things but I can guarantee he'll love it! http://www.thedatingdivas.com/just-the-two-of-us/12-sexy-days-of-christmas/ Food: I'm baking Christmas cookies and candy for him to bring into work and for the children's lunches…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 04:53 PM
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Carrie Underwood fan here. I think you're mistaken, she's married to Mike Fisher and has a little baby. They are very much still married and together without an affair.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 03:07 AM
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Fudge is a lovely hostess gift that keeps well and leaves a nice memento of you for later. When they go to eat it later they will hopefully have a fond moment to discuss you "Wasn't she the sweetest thing? She is the nicest girl and the fudge was lovely!" Also yes to the overeating, as well as over drinking. Kids are also your best bet for winning over people. Ask them about things they like and try to see if you have anything in common with them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 01:54 AM
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Yes! Agree even if it's a super different view than you have. Just smile and agree politely and if someone brings up another topic jump on that and steer your conversation to that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/15 01:49 AM
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-A nice bottle of wine if they drink or flowers in Thanksgiving colours go a long way to the hostess. -Compliment her on her home and try to be specific like "You have a lovely home, I really like the way you've decorated the sitting room, the colours are beautiful". You'll seem more sincere if you pick something concrete instead of generalities. -Brush up on your table manners and make sure not to start eating until the hostess sits down. -Try to engage his family in light topics, avoid religio…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 10:54 PM
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I'm glad you liked it! I've listened to it something like 6 times now, often on my way to work and always pick up something new or catch myself realizing I'm picking up bad habits.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 10:10 PM
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I second this, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" is a book I've listened to countless times and I seem to glean something new from it each time. Her podcasts are good as well.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 11:20 PM
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My husband likes "old fashioned" style meals. They're hearty and you can always cook with high quality cuts of meats with sides of vegetables and salads. I always cook extra so he has some for lunch. Some of his faves are: meatloaf and mashed potatoes with green beans homemade chicken pot pie with a salad roast chicken and potatoes with cooked cabbage stir-fry of any kind fajita or taco night shepherds pie with a salad homemade pasta sauce and meatballs with salad traditional English roast beef …
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 05:23 PM
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You could always mail or drop off a condolence card with a gift card to a local restaurant (that delivers). In the card you could write something about you being only a phone call away and that you would love to have her over for a coffee. That way you're still letting her know you care but also respecting your husband's wishes. I know you must feel awful and it's hard to watch someone deal with that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 02:42 PM
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I hope it helps :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 01:24 AM
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I highly recommend Dave Ramsey's "Total Money Makeover" book. It's a great tool for setting up a budget, paying off debt quickly and efficiently and for saving for the future. Yes, he preaches a bit in it but nothing that an atheist or agnostic couldn't ignore like we did. We have paid off vehicles, my student loan and line of credit in 3 years. It has really put everything into perspective and given us firm goals for the future. I can't recommend it enough, I suggested it to my husband who love…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/15 04:00 AM
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I agree. He's not going to wait around forever.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 04:07 AM
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The best piece of advice I ever received on parenting and sustaining a happy marriage is "Your spouse is always going to need you, your kids will grow up and not need you." If you neglect your spouse for your kids, one day the kids will be gone and your marriage will be in shambles. Kids need to see their parents be supporting and loving to each other so they can emulate it with their own spouse.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 02:41 PM
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Hair- at work my hair is always curled, straightened or "done" neatly. At home with my family I have it more casual with maybe a messy fun bun or pony tail (my husband loves messy/cute hair on me) Makeup- at work I always wear a full face of makeup though it's not caked on. I use concealer under my eyes to hide an bags , BB cream all over to even out my skin tone, I tight line my eyes (god send) use eyeshadow and mascara with light blush or bronzer depending on the season and a lip gloss. My loo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/15 05:46 PM
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I've done this since I started with my husband and nothing gets my heart fluttering as much as when I place the plate of food I prepared in front of him and he gives me the happiest and proudest smile. He always thanks me for preparing a beautiful meal and encourages the kids to do so as well. Now my son will copy his father and say the same thing.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 06:07 PM
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A lady doesn't air her grievances in public to anyone who will listen. She deals with it appropriately in the right space. If she's having issues with her friends or family she speaks with them privately and deals with it maturely. Same goes for her captain, no man bashing with her girlfriends. You look trashy and immature "bitching" out in a bar or restaurant. These people are your family and loved ones and deserve respect. A lady always dresses for the occasion. She takes pride in her appearan…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 03:19 PM
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Subscribed and read frequently, however I never comment. I don't feel it's is my place unless they specifically would ask for women's opinions. Just like I'm sure many RP men read here and don't comment unless asked.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 02:50 PM
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This damn fat acceptance and skinny hating trend really irks me as a lady and a mother. Fat is NOT healthy, sure some men may be "into big beautiful women" but the majority of men are not into obese women. An obese woman isn't sexy when her knees are buckling together from the weight she carries, or the wheezing she makes when she walks or exerts herself, how about when she sits on a couch and takes up two cushions and sprawls across it making heaving noises. High blood pressure, high cholestero…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 05:16 PM
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Congrats! It's a long tough road, but with "gazelle like intensity" it can happen. I swear people think I'm a crazy missionary when I start talking about it. It's not some gimmick it's a $10 book, YOU do the legwork in paying off debt.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 02:29 AM
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I think they are a good example :) My captain is a huge fan of Dave Ramsey. Him getting me on board was a huge positive in our marriage. He took total control of our finances, called me out on my hideous overspending, put me on an allowance and took away the credit cards. Right now we're on track to being debt free in less than two years!! I can't advocate for Dave Ramsey and "The Total Money Makeover" enough. Also for fellow atheists, yes he's quite preachy but you can just read past it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 12:14 AM
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Maybe instead of complaining that men "don't rush to help her", she could try using basic manners. Realize you can't do something? Ask for help. I'm sure if you said to the flight attendant or the man (looking at the sticky floor) "Excuse me sir, but I can't seem to get my bag up in the compartment by myself, could you please help me?" I guarantee most people would be glad too, so that they could get to their seat. I've struggled with things and I simply ask for help, she needs to wake up and re…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 03:39 PM
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Big family chiming in. We have soooo much laundry and I was at my wits end until I just learned to breathe and use fly lady. Now every morning this is my routine. after breakfast gather all dirty laundry and spot treat with Spray and Wash (3 kids ughhhh) throw in all in the washing machine (unless it's one of my white camis for work or a delicate) Tide HE cold water, Gain fabric softener and Oxy-clean. Wash on cold/cold. everything in the dryer with a Gain sheet unless delicate or a sweater with…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 02:24 PM
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Oh I like that idea! I could use nursery rhyme tunes!
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 12:36 PM
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My mother worked part time but she and my grandmother taught me to cook and bake from scratch, how to sew, needlepoint and crafts, making preserves and pickles, gardening, how to dress appropriately for situations (weddings, special events etc), strict European manners, etiquette for parties, how to be a proper hostess and guest and mothering skills. My daughters are still quite little, however each day as I dress them I say things like "we need to make sure we always wear clean nice clothes and…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 01:06 AM
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Thank you for the lovely compliment. My family is from Finland originally, and I love the play on words of "mommy dearest" a bit tongue in cheek joke :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/14 02:02 PM
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Love muscles on a man, it says strength and the ability to get things done. Tattoos aren't my thing personally and my husband doesn't have any. However I don't mind them on military or men in firefighting or police. Simply because it wasn't done as a trade but to show support to their brothers in arms and the organization for which it stands.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 02:43 PM
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I've broken your questions up as best I could on mobile. Something that has always bothered me and has caused me deep conflict within myself. Are relationships about exploiting(strong word, I know) each other. Is our marriage exploiting each other? No and yes. By definition exploit means to make use of or take advantage. I guess all relationships have some form of exploration as there is give and take. I give my husband a warm welcoming home, supplemental income, children and someone to take car…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/14 02:27 AM
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It's worth the wait definitely. Don't waste your best years with men that aren't what you want in a husband as so many young girls do. Don't sleep around and have one night stands, don't be THAT drunk girl at parties and value yourself and you will find a good man.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 04:49 PM
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We've had a very old fashioned relationship since the beginning and have always found that our sex lives have always been the most fulfilling when we hear our close friends problems. I think, when we have set roles in our marriage, it allows everything to fall into place. He is the breadwinner, father, boss (our term for captain) and protector. My job is supplemental income provider (niceties like trips and home decor etc), nurturer and mother. We don't fight ever, literally because we laid down…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 03:07 PM
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When you get it right you'll know. My hubby loves it and calls them my bedroom eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/14 01:56 PM
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Amazing post OP thank you so much for posting. This really spoke to me. Be loyal. Stand by those you care about in their darkest moments, not because you want to stand in the dark, but because you don’t want them to either. Brave the shadows alongside them until they’re able to find the light. On the flipside, stand by these same people on their sunniest days, not because you want to scorch your skin, but because you’re not afraid to let them shine bright.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 02:32 PM
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Perfectly stated and so true
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 01:13 PM
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This exactly. And half the time once I start, I'm right into it and whatever hesitations/upset I had all fades away in his arms.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 01:12 PM
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Very traditional married mama of 3, however we are atheists. We firmly believe in teaching our children the golden rule "treat others as you wish to be treated" and that a good strong set of morals does not need to be tied to a specific religion. My strong and very atheist husband is a very dedicated volunteer who supports charities and our community. He works daily to instill these values to our children around the dinner table.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 01:41 AM
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Count me in too!
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 01:34 AM
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Omg didn't even realize there was a RP parenting!!!! (I'm on mobile always)
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 06:24 PM
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Congratulations! I was in your spot 2 year ago. A miracle IUD baby
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 03:44 PM
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I use HomeRoutine app. https://itunes.apple.com/ca/app/homeroutines/id353117370?mt=8 It's a couple of bucks but it's worth it. It breaks your home into zones for cleaning.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 07:28 PM
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We had a long conversation and decided based on likes and dislikes what each would do. Then we looks at our weekly calendar with sports etc and decided how to divvy it up. We have 3 categories as some tasks in a large house with a large family require a team lol. Me- kids bathroom, powder room, beds, laundry washing and putting away, cooking, menu planning and prep, mopping, schedules of who needs what like uniforms for school, dance, birthdays upcoming etc) Him- our bathroom, vacuuming, laundry…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 01:33 PM
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This woman reeks of insecurity. If she's unhappy with the way she looks, then she needs to change herself. I bet she's the kind of woman who repeatedly begs for compliments or asks "am I still pretty?!" "Do you still love me like you did when you first met me?!? " or "am I as pretty as ----?!?". I have a traditional/ RP marriage and my husband notices beautiful woman all the time, as do I. Who doesn't enjoy looking at beautiful bodies? But it doesn't make me insecure because I know I am his wife…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 01:15 PM
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My husband likes long (real or fake), soft feminine colors ( pinks, mauves, corals) for everyday and sometimes more vibrant for special events. I have loads of polishes, acrylic kits, gel and UV kits etc. I paint my toes but vary my nails depending on my mood and the season. I ADORE all things nail related.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 02:03 AM
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Agreed, the creased lid doesn't look right in my workplace either. Unless someone is wearing the right outfit and hairstyle it often looks like they let a five year old from the 80's do their makeup lol.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 11:16 AM
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I like it! I have very few friends my age that can cook or clean. Even fewer knew anything about raising children or making a house a home. I would literally put both of my daughters into this. The closest I think I can do would be Girl Scouts, cooking lessons, sewing lessons and a sport like ballet or gymnastics (to teach poise, grace and fitness). It would be nice to go to one set lesson a week paid for by the state. There is no shame in my mind in learning to take care of yourself and one day…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 10:55 PM
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Be the best spouse I can be. Be the best mother I can be to my and other peoples children (you don't know which kid may need a motherly figure) Be the best woman I can be and for me that's being a RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 04:37 PM
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I agree there is a saturation point, however I would much rather see women post pictures of their kids and everyday family life over partying pictures and slutty selfies. As RPW we should be glad to see more of these types of pictures. The younger generations are looking up to us and we need more examples of traditional women.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 08:52 PM
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Quizzes make me want to pull my hair out. Same with "Grrrrrr I HATE when he disappoints me. I'm a good person and don't deserve this stuff. Maybe I should be single!!1!!!!1"
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 07:36 PM
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Thou shalt not have single men you were at some point interested in on your friends list while in a relationship. Thou shalt not air every detail of your relationship on Facebook. Only positive and happy things. "Spent the day at the beach with Josh, such an amazing time, thank you again" Thou shalt delete EX's off your Facebook. Your broken up and nothing good can come from it. Would you like your SO/husband to have his past conquests on his list? If thine SO/husband tells you to take down a po…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 07:04 PM
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shudder how is this even an option? Shave them everytime you shower or every other time if you have particularly sensitive skin.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/14 02:09 PM
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Thanks Dana
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 02:21 PM
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I'm planning my youngest daughters first birthday party! It's an old fashioned ice cream social and I'm doing a huge spread of home cooked food and doing all the decorations myself. I'm making huge tulle pompoms, banners, treats, and favors. I'm also in the planning stages of rag quilts for my three monkeys. Edit: not sure how to post pics of my own
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/14 02:05 PM
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1- drink a lot of water 2- saunas 3- always take of makeup at night. ALWAYS 4- moisturizer daily with SPF 15 5- use a honey aspirin mask once a week for amazing glowing blemish free skin for pennies 6- don't get sunburnt
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/14 05:40 PM
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Oooo dilly! Trolls coming to save and educated us. I should definitely listen to them more. I mean please come fix my loving and awesome marriage with my strong, handsome, and powerful husband, my 3 beautiful children, my spacious and inviting home and my racy and breath taking sex life. If they feel they can improve on all that, have at it!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/14 12:47 PM
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Agreed. What I took from it is the happier and healthier a woman is the more she "fights" intrinsically against the wall. Cleanses and herbal remedies won't stop the wall. My mom is a homeopathic, herbal loving, cleanser, and it drives me bonkers.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 10:54 PM
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But but but those fat non-sexing feminists need that chicken since they eat their feelings! SMH this list is gold and all women do is pick it apart. Put it in Cosmo titled "Drive your man wild with love!" and women would be sharing it on Facebook.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 12:15 PM
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RPW don't neg, if you do your attracting betas. Here's an article about women negging directly from Roosh V. Also you will never get or keep a RP man with negging, he owns that game. Lighthearted coy teasing is much more lady like. Now allow me to trace the history of girls using negs: The Game was released, teaching guys to go around insulting girls. Negs were the main principle of the book mentioned in dozens of articles and television reports. Unfortunately they don’t work like newbies though…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 11:28 AM
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I agree, I think it's kinda like a "WTF am I doing?" moment. They come here but the feminist programming is hard to shake.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 11:21 AM
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I like them in the right situation, like jogging, running or working out. The rest of the time it's ballet flats, heels, sandals or boots.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/14 12:11 AM
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Sorry, my comment got posted under the wrong comment. It was to breads who posted that negging is her specialty. I was trying to say that in a RPW relationship negging is not supposed to be a specialty.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/14 02:29 PM
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I know! Aside from all the religion there a sweet family and a program that I enjoy watching. Also since I have a large family I find it full of tips lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/14 11:29 AM
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Really? So men enjoy it when you make fun of them and boast? Negging is definitely not a RPW quality that is encouraged.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/14 11:26 AM
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I've said this before, but Michelle Duggar (not saying you have to be a fundamentalist). But she's an excellent example of a submissive RPW. She puts her husband and children before herself, wears her hair and makeup and dress the way her husband likes, cooks and cleans, never argues or belittles her husband on camera (Kate Gosselin I'm looking at you), shows pride in all that she does for her family, never whines and moans about equality/feminism, is greatful and respectful. Try watching some 1…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/14 03:25 AM
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The negging! Dear god yes! Ladies please realize when you act boastful, proud and better than the man your with it makes him feel emasculated. My bf did this all the time to her bf, paid for all her own meals, got angry over door opening, said stuff like "flowers don't impress me". Know what he did? Left her after a year, for a beautiful, soft spoken girl who adores and admires him. She still doesn't get it. This article is being forwarded to her. Ty OP.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/14 03:09 AM
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Exactly! Strippers if they will have sex with you do it for cash, girls in nightclubs will do it for compliments and free drinks.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 06:50 PM
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Agreed. My husband sees bars and nightclubs as a place people go to pick up. In our marriage he is not comfortable with me going to nightclubs or bars without him. Once while out at a nightclub without him early in our marriage, a drunk guy grabbed me forcefully and got quite handsy. The bouncers took care of it but it made me realize "Wtf was I doing out in a bar with my gfs without my husband?" My husband hit the roof when I got home explaining that it was unacceptable for me to be partying wi…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 02:25 PM
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Love Ralph Lauren and JCrew dresses!
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 01:20 PM
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I have 3 small children so I like to look feminine BUT it has to be practical. So this is what I do. I wear a lot of tunics or dresses over Capri length leggings in the spring, insulated fleece leggings or tights in the winter and just the dress or a maxi skirt in the summer. I shop at thrift stores or Target for cute dresses or leggings that way if my kids get finger paint or play dough on them I won't cry. Discount and thrift stores allow me to have a HUGE closet full of these skirts and dress…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 12:28 PM
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I have the same problem! I'm tall and find that leggings in a Capri length under my skirts and dresses can make them more modest. By modest I mean my bum doesn't show every time I bend over. Plus that way I can wear them to wrangle kids and work and the world doesn't see everything.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 12:18 PM
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Prenatal vitamins! I have a large family and each time we've been trying to conceive and I take prenatal vitamins my hair and nails become amazing. My hair is below my shoulders and thick and shiny My nails grow stronger and faster and my hair grows thicker and healthier. Now I just take them all the time. That way I know I'm getting essential vitamins and minerals and my hair and nails are beautiful. Also I hear great things about taking fish oil supplements though I have tried them yet.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/14 08:19 PM
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Gardening, deep thorough spring cleaning, some painting, more walks in the evenings with the family, picnics in the park, photography, feeding the ducks, making Easter goodies.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 06:40 PM
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Agreed! I stand up for my man when my gfs start a husband bashing rant. Or if I sense one is coming, I start a husband uplifting rant. I start about how my hubby "did the sweetest thing.... " Or how "he's been working so hard lately to take us to the carribbean". Always smiling etc and then the others follow suit. I find that women are pack animals and want to be the same so they start doing it too. So much nicer to sit around and talk about our amazing husbands than listen to "he never listens,…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 01:39 PM
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Amen! As long as he's happy why does the internet care about what we do or don't behind closed doors :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/14 03:42 PM
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Thank you :) it's just my everyday life and duties but written down it makes me smile and feel pride.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/14 01:46 PM
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1- cooking 2- cleaning 3- decorating 4- laundry 5- mothering our 3 kids 6- shopping and keeping track of clothing needs 7- grocery shopping 8- sewing and mending 9- taking care of school and daycare needs 10- intimacy and love 11- conversation, serious and silly 12- support and cheerleading for him in all things 13- vacation planning (big for us) 14- pet care 15- medical and dental tracking
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/14 01:10 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. It's captain first mate relationship in RPW marriages but not a dictatorship. If the wife is physically or emotionally uncomfortable with something, then it should be respected. Just like we would never force our husbands to do something that might hurt them in a similar manner.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/14 02:53 AM
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I agree. I would much rather work out and have a toned and flat body all over. Corsets are uncomfortable (wore one for my very formal wedding and 3 other weddings). I think corsets can be great for posture but I worry that people may use them to "rest on their laurels" and not make conscious changes to their health.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/14 01:05 PM
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Why does this feel like an advertisement for a website or fetish community? Once again RPW isn't a fetish community etc. if you genuinely enjoy wearing corsets and are a RPW great.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/14 11:50 AM
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Our relationship (married) is fantastic. Wonderful valentines day, where we both spoiled each other. Getting ready to celebrate our 6th wedding anniversary soon and youngest child's 1st birthday. Hubby received a raise and promotion at work and has a coworker he is responsible for now. Life is good. Trying to come up with a romantic wedding anniversary idea.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/14 01:31 PM
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You're feeling the urge to have babies because your body knows this is the time. Don't wait to have kids, seriously, jobs come and go but the love and joy a family brings is always there. My favourite quote "You will never regret having a child, but you will regret NOT having one". Go for it. We support you, as would legions of women before you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/14 04:39 AM
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Yes awesome role model of late for RPW. She shows grace and poise with the media constantly criticizing her for being submissive.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/14 02:59 AM
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Michelle Duggar, regardless of your religious beliefs that woman epitomizes RPW and RP mother with a HUGE dose of baptist mixed in. Her body language is always positioned in an adoring way to Jim Bob (looking up at him as he talks, walking slightly behind him, holding on to him), she let's him do all of the talking unless asked, SAHW, raises her kids to know definite difference in the sexes and praises those differences, dresses the way her husband likes (long hair and skirts), never bashes him …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/14 02:57 AM
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I hear you, Southern Belle born as a Northerner. My family called me Belle since I was little because of it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/14 02:49 AM
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I totally see this with my peers (25-35 year olds). Many young wives feel it is okay to slack on cleaning, cooking and child care. It's very popular on the mommy blogs to to have saying like "a messy house is a sign of happy kids" or "I don't excuse the mess, we're making memories". Pretty sure no one likes visiting someone else's pigsty of a house with toys, diapers and laundry everywhere. It's disgusting and lazy. Pick your house up so you can be an example to your children. They learn from yo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/14 02:43 AM
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Amen. Had my 3 kids young, would've had 6 but we had complications. The greatest thing you can do as a wife, is raise your husbands children to be a shining example of your values.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 06:29 PM
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LOVE Fascinating Womanhood. It's truly changed my marriage when I was struggling with submission after my 2nd child was born. I found it online for free in kindle format. Seriously can help anyone's marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 03:43 PM
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I think you need to give her a serious ultimatum and up your dread game. If you haven't read MMSL primer. Let her know what you want and expect out of your marriage. Let her know she either shapes up or it's done and your fine with that. Maybe she could try reading some books like "The Surrendered Wife" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands". Also hold frame, your going to have to be incredibly firm with her. Good luck and get to those forums and TRP fast.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 03:26 PM
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Hiya ladies! Babies are awesome. We have kids under 5 and wouldn't change it for the world. There is nothing more rewarding than sitting at the dinner table with your children and husband gathered around sharing a meal and talking about you day. I started having kids young so that when we are older we can travel etc without worrying about little ones. I know money can be scary but it works itself out. We found Dave Ramsey helped us immensely even though my husband is paid very well. I work fullt…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/14 12:13 AM
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Not unless you want her to become a LTR. She may also be upset with some game tactics of she doesn't read in depth first. At first glance TRP and RPW can be off putting or shocking.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/14 08:19 PM
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I hear you! I'm 5'7 and even with a tall hubby I can tower over a lot of men in 4' heels. I tend to stick with 2.5-3' heels. That way I still feel feminine. When I'm taller than men I don't feel feminine. I like to feel smaller, delicate and dainty.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 04:13 PM
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Damn you to hell! Feminism was built SO strong but you found the weak spot in its armor! No one was supposed to know that baking, sewing, and mothering could weaken it. But you had to hit it with its kryptonite.... Stockings and dresses. Seriously this argument is so tiring. If your movement of choice for women, is so strong, then how can another woman making a different choice from you ruin it or set it back. Cognitive dissonance that's how.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/14 03:02 PM
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We celebrate this holiday every year literally. Started as tongue and cheek but now it's something to look forward to. I buy a super expensive cut of triple A angus beef that is aged 45 days and then season it overnight. I make he's fave side dishes and a super rich chocolate devils food cake. Add in some beer and an extra long, sloppy and earth shattering blowjob and it's a great night. Nothing like seeing your husband stuffed to the gills on your cooking with that dreamy "I just came face" lyi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 12:01 AM
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I agree a sincere apology is needed. Also I would peruse some books like "The Surrendered Wife" and "The Proper Care and Feeding of husbands". You need to say your sorry and more importantly ACT sorry. Try to institute these things but don't make a big deal of it (ie, look I'm cooking YOU YOUR favourite dinner). Try to remember what things about you drew him to you. Maybe he liked your long blonde hair or dresses or heels. Maybe you were flirty and coy. Slowly bring those thing back. Put him fir…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 06:05 PM
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Not look advice but just general advice. bring a nice bottle of white wine or red if you know what they're cooking. bring a nice bouquet of spring flowers, this time of year tulips will make her think of spring and happy memories bring a dessert is appropriate, to show mama that you can cook and take care of her son. be on point with your manners, compliment the cook, offer and help wash up dishes, thank her for the invite. No talking about politics or religion at the table, instead ask her abou…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/14 07:56 PM
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Seriously amen. If your unhappy ladies than woman up and deal with it IN PERSON with your s/o, not bitch him out online. Still not happy? Buy and gift him "Married man sex life primer" by Athol Kay.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/14 07:51 PM
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Baking and cooking difficult dishes (baked Alaska pie, etc), Zumba, quilting and loom knitting for my kiddos, style and decor for our home. DINNER PARTIES, I love having people over and proudly serving my home cooked food and drinks and setting the table and arranging flowers etc. plus getting all gussied up and chatting with my fellow girls and their husbands is too much fun! Pinterest has definitely upped my wifely skills, if your not on Pinterest ladies I strongly suggest it. You'll learn tip…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 02:17 PM
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My husbands handles all financial and house related issues (bills, mortgage, outdoor upkeep etc). When people find out, they FREAK out and try to tell me this and that about a strong independent woman. My response generally stops all conversation and the only reply is "Oh well that's wonderful then". "My husband lovingly takes care of those things for me because I found them overwhelming and stressful. He hated seeing me like that so he does it so I have less stress and can focus on other things…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/14 12:08 PM
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-show her what a good hearted, hard working, determined and strong man looks like. For when she looks for a potential relationship it can help her weed out the duds. let her know who is the captain in the family and who is the first mate, but show how each is important in their own right. "Daddy works outside the home, but mommy works at home, but we both work for you all" show her how feminism and male chauvinism can be harmful to a persons worth be them male or female. No one sex is "better an…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 02:15 AM
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Before we leave for the day or an event I always ask my husband what he thinks of an outfit and he will tell me honestly. Most of the time he likes it as I have always made an attempt to dress for him. Often we women dress for each other, we try to impress our friends and strangers. When we stop needing validation for our friends and instead seek only the validation of our spouses it really puts things into perspective. He's your man, you already got him, now keep him! If he likes skinny jeans a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/14 01:05 PM
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Yes, yes, and yes to the long hair. I cut my hair from mid back length to the posh Beckham bob after my second child and my husband hated it. I have to agree it aged me and made me feel less feminine. Long, silky, well maintained hair ads a youthful look. Now I'm not saying "down to your butt" but generally men like shoulder length hair. Remember to maintain if though, just because it's long doesn't mean it doesn't need trims, cuts, conditioning treatments and frequent styling.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/14 02:33 AM
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Love this! So cute and true. Makes me want to post this to my Facebook instead of all the crap that's been posted by others lately. Ie "look, act, drink, have sex with whoever you want and everyone should like it. If not, who are they to judge".
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/14 01:55 PM
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Awesome! Non-religious is what I need. I don't mind sifting though religious oriented sites but everything biblically based is not our lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/14 03:57 AM
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I value my marriage over any friendship, so I always refer back to my husband. If he was okay with it,as I do have some male friends, then we would hang out all together. I think it's very difficult for a man and woman to be super close friends as usual there is some undercurrent of attraction in on of the people even though they may never admit it. Our difference is that the male friends are my husbands friends first and my secondly. One is like a family member to me, however I wouldn't hang ou…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 04:50 PM
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Hey! I'm a long time reddit lurker who recently found the TRP and then this sub. I'm a 29 year old married mom with 3 kiddos under 3 (yeah we're busy ;) ) and am currently on maternity leave. My husband and I have always had a TRP relationship though we didn't have anyone to influence us other than our parents who lived the same way. I'm proud to respect and submit to my husband as he is a strong and honorable man. He is an amazing father and is involved in our community. A lot of my gf's who ar…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 04:34 PM
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A girl after my own heart! Shit happenin in da sky be scary!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 04:22 AM
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Love this! Especially the part about girl game with pickle jars is so true. Even though I'm a mother and I know storms in our area aren't generally that bad my man loves that I'm frightened of storms.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 03:26 AM
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I like other posters and my husband were naturals RP'ers. I met my husband as a friend in college and was drawn to his confidence, maturity, his masculine traits, drive, lack of drama ( oh young college boy drama lol) and ability to not take a woman's shit tests (his ex started shit testing and used sex as a weapon). We both we're dating others when we met, but I dropped my beta after seeing what real men were. We got together months later and have been together for 9 years. We knew the fit was …
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/14 05:54 PM
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Something I will never understand about feminists is how they argue so hard that "they fought for equal rights and choice!1!1!!1". Then as soon as a woman chooses to be submissive/SAHW/SAWM/etc, she is looked down on for making that choice. You can't have it both ways feminists. Part of giving people choices is that they won't always pick the one YOU like.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/14 02:38 AM
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