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Akotad/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:21 AM
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Do not listen to the person you’re replying to, there perspective is completely warped. They’re saying he’s receiving “wifey” benefits while you are not receiving “husband” benefits. If he is paying for 50% or more of the rent/bills, financially providing for you, being monogamous, leading the relationship, and using his age/experience/status to help you make good life choices, he is absolutely giving you the perks of a husband. In return you’re providing him...sex? Food cooked occasionally? A c…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/21 03:40 PM
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Take this with a grain of salt from somebody who lost attraction to his partner and regained it back. As a man there can be a few issues causing the lack of intimacy towards their woman. The standard ones are going to be low testosterone due to aging, porn/substance addiction, change in sexuality, or loss of attraction to their partner. Low T? Needs to get checked by a doctor and if so? Hooray, the easiest fix. A shot a week and he’ll feel 20 again. Porn/substance abuse? Hard to kick, hopefully …
/r/RedPillWives26/04/21 02:10 PM
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I probably wouldn’t respond either. You’ve had what, 4 interactions with him and are talking about exclusivity? It takes people months to decide somebody is “their” barber/hair stylist lmao. If after 4 interactions or dates, none of which involved sex, a woman asked me about my stance on exclusivity I would ghost them. A month is nowhere near enough time for two individuals evaluate each other as long term prospects, you simply haven’t experienced enough together. You state in your message to hi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 05:13 PM
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Right so, grocery shopping and other errands for the household should be run while I’m at work, since she has free time. In that case she needs to pay for things. A credit card that rewards her for the spending would be good, and then I can simply pay that bill. Now the spending on the card would obviously be monitored and reviewed and if things were a little too high I’d have a conversation about the budget and whatnot. I think this is also better than giving her money or giving her an “allowan…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/21 03:49 PM
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So I think a large portion of miscellaneous expenses do need to be further categorized. Makeup, skin care, mani/pedi, etc, are all a maintenance fees that I PERSONALLY would have no problem subsidizing PROVIDED it’s within reason. At the end of the day I have certain likes/preferences. If my woman is going to maintain my preferences, and I make more than her by a significant margin I have no problem subsidizing that. Shopping, however, is way to broad to be categorized. Are we talking home furni…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/21 01:34 PM
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I could not imagine the effort and time required to have that many plates going. I see mine once a week basically, but if you have the time/need for that then do what you gotta do. I’ll put it to you in sales term. If the client doesn’t buy or use the product, you failed to demonstrate the value of it. You can take that how you want, but point is no 5/6/7 is gonna be turning you down if you’re a high value man. 8’s will because they still have their choice, and 9’s are so fucking rare and troubl…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:09 AM
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I mean you’re going out with women you find attractive, fucking them more than once (most of the time) and then the plate breaks...what exactly are you trying to figure out lol? You can’t really put a number on how long a chicks gonna stay, and it’s really not worth your effort to try and quantify it/strategize around it. Point is your satisfying your needs and accomplishing your goals. Now if in reality you’re trying to get a quality chick to have a quality relationship, and you feel like you n…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 01:40 AM
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What it sounds like to you isn’t really my concern, but I can see how explanation here could be useful to OP so I’ll respond. I don’t like girls who drink alcohol often, I don’t like girls who’s idea of a fun Friday night is getting hammered at a club, I don’t like girls who smoke or do drugs recreationally. I am not her jailor. These preferences I have for my LTR’s are expressed to them casually and confidently. Sometimes I don’t even verbally say these things. The point is they know how to act…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:20 PM
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You don’t have a muscular imbalance you likely just don’t have muscle...lift more and eat more, do a solid bulk, followed by a cut. Reassess your situation
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:24 PM
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I’m extremely direct with most people but especially my women. If I saw this I’d bring it up to her. I wouldn’t try to get details, I wouldn’t ask how she feels, I’d state (casually while cooking dinner, hanging out, watching tv, whatever the fuck) “Yo I saw that weird caption about your ex. I don’t really deal with that kind of stuff, but if you’re still thinking about him we can wrap things up and you can go figure it out. I’m cool with it” or something along those lines that lets her know tha…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 06:23 PM
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There shouldn’t really be a reaction. I tell girls up front 100% of the time the kind of guy I am because Im unapologetic about it. My girlfriend isn’t going out for a girls night, she’s not going out dancing alone or only with her girlfriends, etc. if she’s not cool with that she can leave or we can just be fuck buddies, fine by me. You’re young and can definitely count on this relationship ending because y’all are only 20. Learn all that you can so you can be better prepared for the next one
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:31 PM
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Dude as somebody who went through a break up and as since has completely upped his SMV, BE THANKFUL. You get to become a better version of yourself. Not the best, because that's unattainable, but the best that you can be at this very moment. That is very attainable and very empowering.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:09 PM
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You’re right. I’ve been doing it, but I think that petty feeling I’ve had about wanting to “show her” needs to get the fuck outta here. No room for it.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:14 AM
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The point was to ascertain whether others thought this made me seem weak, as I'm conflicted on the topic. The point was to ascertain whether others thought this made me seem weak, as I'm conflicted on the topic. My bad, kinda was typing this post out while playing some games lmao. Achievable natty, however I am on TRT, have been for about three years. I've got the highest Test levels you could achieve naturally, but I won't claim natty because I inject test. Have been working out for 6 years now…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:15 AM
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Mind going into more detail? I'm assuming it's because I'm the one who decided to call it, so there's nothing "to get back at". I made a decision at that time that I felt was the best decision for me with the information at hand, still feel that way, and therefore should be confident and content in my decision. Thus, this is really silly and beneath me.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:14 AM
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I broke up with her, however, it was after finding out she was "texting"(and lied about it, pretending not to know his name when I asked her "hey so who's ____ and why are you deleting his messages) some guy and they were just "friends". Spoke to the guy and just asked straight "Hey if you fucked her, that's cool, just let me know and be honest so I can dump her. You can have her, I just don't want to waste my time." Dude swore he didn't, and that they were strictly just friends who never even h…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:41 AM
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Yeah I know it's petty, that's stated in the title. I'd never take her back, and I've never taken back an ex-gf so we're good on that front. The point was to ascertain whether others thought this made me seem weak, as I'm conflicted on the topic.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:38 AM
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Im sure she does get hit on, but whether its 1 time or 100 times, it's irrelevant. Don't worry about it. Something along the lines of "well im sure you know how to handle that" or "That's nice" is all that needs to be said. I mean who gives a fuck, really. Its part of her job so you can't police it, and why would you want to? If she cheats leave her and move on. That being said, most of the time we date somebody it's because we like them and would want a relationship. To completely avoid these t…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:10 PM
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Have dated women in the service industry. I could 100% say something like that and get an "omg!" followed by a playful slap. I'd smack her ass and then get blown. If your frame is strong enough you really can say whatever you want.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:05 PM
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I don't know about all that. The RP can be whatever you want it to be. I'd be wary of any man who lets the words of other men be the "very core" of his life.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 08:33 PM
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They can't, it's in their nature. Now that being said I'm gonna assume you were not RP when this relationship started and that you found the RP more recently. If that's the case, it really isn't fair to say LTR's don't work or are a "sham", because you haven't actually had one. You've only experienced the BP bullshit people are fed. I say this because there's no way my girl could act the way your woman is acting, because I would have left her. She knows that and operates accordingly. At the same…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 06:13 PM
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But why is it a sham? My LTR is 20, I'm 26. Its the typical RP relationship. Captain/first mate dynamic. In all actuality I could run over this girl and abuse the power I have, but I don't because I care about her. Shes submissivie, does what I want in bed, always wants to please me and look good for me, etc. All that being said I know she has the ability to bag another guy and leave me if I'm lacking in any way. It's unfortunate, but it is what it is. So why is it a sham?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 04:57 PM
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Being an Alpha imo can be summed up as the following: 1.Not giving a fuck about unimportant things. 2.Giving a fuck about important things. 3.Knowing yourself well enough to be able to determine what is important/unimportant at any given moment and adjusting to that perspective as you grow and change. 4.Have your shit together. 5.Don't be a pussy 6.Don't be autistic (unless you actually are in which case oh well). TRP a few years ago really focused on this. I don't know what has happened to the …
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