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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Red pill coaches advice was detrimental to my personality You have people coming at you with different levels of anger but it's still true. This sub is ex red pill, you're here for a reason, right? I'm not mad, I'm not saying you're a bad person. I am not going to debate this in depth, "males" and "females" simply does not sound good to the majority of people. It doesnt hurt you to stop using the terminology.	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/22 01:54 PM
8	Red pill coaches advice was detrimental to my personality "females" is a bit dehumanizing. It's terminology that rides alongside red pill mentality, so dropping it and calling women "women" is an easy step to take.	/r/ExRedPill	23/07/22 07:52 AM
1	Why do all you guys care about finding a relationship/love instead of funding solutions to your sadness Be in touch with your feelings, but don't have an out of control reaction. You can be kind to others if you're kind to yourself. I'm speaking from my own pov and not OP, but seriously. Feelings are important, emotions are important, but also what you choose do with them is important. Beyond this, blaming other people for your unhappiness isn't healthy. People's feelings are their own, and you can't live or die based on what other people are feeling/saying/doing in relation to you.	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/22 06:37 PM
3	What does "dread game" mean and what does it do to the relationship and other person? Yeah I understand, but those things are potentially separate from age. I'm happy you're taking better care of yourself and have job security, same here. But someone could potentially have those things at 22. My point here is just regarding the physical aspect.	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/22 03:14 PM
6	What does "dread game" mean and what does it do to the relationship and other person? Sperm defects begin in your mid to late 30s, it just doesn't fall off as steeply as it does with women. Your baby factory is gettin tired. Older men being attractive has more to do with financial security than anything. And relying on men for financial security is a social construct, that's just what we have established as a societal norm. Men and women both follow the same trend lines as they age, some people age better than others. But it gets skewed by the financial security aspect. I've alwa…	/r/ExRedPill	18/07/22 02:56 PM
5	Please stop, it hurts It's dangerous to reduce people into groups because it's always possible to get confirmation bias for whatever generalization you've made. All men are obtuse? You've had conversations with obtuse men. All women are cheaters? Someone you know is cheated on. This, to me, is the most insidious element of veiled racist and sexist constructs. Not only that, red pill is built like scaffolding against existing cultural gender roles and perceived weaknesses. It exists that way due to natural selection, …	/r/ExRedPill	30/11/20 08:15 AM
7	Ladies of exredpill, do you like the strong, sensitive type of man? I think the biggest problem with red pill is that it treats men & women as though they are different species with completely separate needs. This is fucking ridiculous. Think about it like this... when looking for a partner, would YOU want someone who is confident enough to be vulnerable? Someone stable, so she doesn't fear letting you know when she's sad, etc. She knows who she is, and trusts that you will love her. She knows that when she is vulnerable, it wont change how you feel about her, b…	/r/ExRedPill	16/10/20 11:38 PM
38	Is all red pill stuff bad or is there some truth or is it the people who lead the organization the problem? The problem with red pill is that it puts men & women into different boxes, instead of recognizing that these traits are things all people can have. And on the occasion that you meet men & women that fit into these boxes, often that's a symptom of societal norms, not human nature. So when Red Pill says "men want XYZ and women want ABC" it's because that's what we have been implicitly taught being raised in the current society. And where this is usually implicit or unspoken, Red Pill is explicit …	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/20 10:41 PM
3	Is my love language invalid? Some PEOPLE are like that. Has nothing to do with women, unless you're with someone subscribing to toxic gender norms.	/r/ExRedPill	09/05/20 12:15 AM
10	Older woman seem to be a little bit more easy to talk to engage with than younger women When people get older they calm down. When people are younger, they overthink things - goes for men and women both. You're dealing with people who are more mature and have grown into their own skin, and know more about who they are.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/20 08:50 PM
1	Dating Question I think that's entirely up to you and how you feel about it. If you don't lose respect for yourself, then she can behave however she wants. If you're showing interest, and she is interested in you, then she'll be along for the ride. If she's not into it, then no harm no foul. If you go your separate ways, then what does it matter? You aren't going to be able to manipulate her into being interested - you need to respect that she will behave how she wants and it will ultimately have very little im…	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/20 10:09 PM
1	Dating Question I think I'm having difficulty with the "putting in a hole" part of this - do you mean with how your friends perceive you or something like that?	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/20 09:56 PM
4	Dating Question first of all, she sounds like a woman, not a "female". But really, if you want to hang out with her, do so. How you feel about it and how she feels about it are up to each of you respectively. Sounds like she wants to hang out but keep it casual. when you say "orbit her" it sounds one sided - really that's up to how you feel about it. If your desires line up with hers, then go for it. If you don't think you'll be comfortable with it, then don't.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/20 09:48 PM
8	What do women think of the whole alpha/beta male concept? This is really well put. Toxic ideologies like this hurt everyone, even when it's channeled through and perpetuated by men. Just a real fucking waste of time for everybody.	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/20 07:22 PM
24	This PUA Youtuber says men should leave women "past their prime" to "low value men" who can't get "late Teens/early 20s". Agree or disagree? What was your experience with older and younger women? So what you're saying is... people are unique? Holy shit.	/r/ExRedPill	11/05/19 03:27 AM
1	My 2 month journey through r/theredpill has been a valuable one! keep an open mind about this stuff - I used to be like you. Christina Hoff Sommers has a very condescending and negative outlook, and tends to ignore the nuance of situations. Remember that not everything can be explained by numbers + armchair logic. Redpill and MRA both tend to exist because a guy has had a hard time, thinks that their trials and hardships are overlooked, and then responds by being dismissive of the trials and hardships of others. Redpill is openly distrustful, as you've seen, …	/r/ExRedPill	23/06/16 10:54 PM