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Sounds like a win win for you. She says too tired, you say. "cool let's sleep."
/r/askMRP30/11/16 08:30 PM
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See. You are adding value to men's lives already. I did not know that.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 04:08 PM
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Tl;dr Life was good. Now it's not. Need to act more and think less. Two actionable steps for today: 1) lift 2) Be present with your kids. No phone until they go to bed. You have a long row to hoe. But the time is going to pass either way and you might as well be going somewhere. You are adrift in an ocean right now. You fell asleep at the wheel and your ship has wandered way off course. Good thing is you found a GPS in MRP. Now chart where you want to end up and start heading in that direction. …
/r/askMRP29/11/16 04:07 PM
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Stay calm and take a 3 or 4 month view at least. See how your are doing come St. Patrick's day. Pay no attention to words, watch actions only. It will blow your mind. That goes for everybody. Not just your wife. Especially yourself. If you tell her you won't tolerate something and then tolerate it, you've actually told her that you will tolerate it. Actions always trump words. I learned this at my mothers funeral of all places. Many people expressed sympathy but very few came to the wake. Those …
/r/askMRP29/11/16 03:45 PM
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You are still worrying about her feels. You need to get out of her head. Then you need to take a good long look at yourself. Divorce isn't going anywhere. You are not ready for divorce yet. What you are ready for is sticking up for yourself and refusing to be treated like shit. Start there Gym, read, STFU at home. Do not tolerate disrespect. Next time she mentions divorce, ignore it. Give yourself three months in your on head space. Have you read No More Nice Guy yet? Start there. You are all ki…
/r/askMRP29/11/16 12:20 PM
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Holy fuck guy. It would take a fucking cop to take me out of my own bed. Go back to your bed tonight and do not move. Have some self respect. I'd also have an attorney draw up papers and serve them. Divorces aren't instant. You will have some time but she needs to know you will burn this motherfucker to the ground. Will you?
/r/askMRP28/11/16 07:08 PM
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Yep. Practice diplomacy. (Diplomacy is the fine art of saying nice doggie until you can find a big enough rock.) Use this separation as a sleight of hand while you prepare for divorce.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 06:58 PM
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Your response is fine. Move on.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 05:08 PM
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"Even if she says yes it won't make any difference." Truth. That's the part that you need to let sink in. You know it's true.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 12:52 PM
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Nice work. It gets tougher from here though.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/16 12:30 PM
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It is sickening. People just fucking love their little feeder bars.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 08:44 PM
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Well, sometimes.
/r/askMRP23/11/16 07:43 PM
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I like the idea of concert tickets or something like that. You always remember experiences.
/r/askMRP23/11/16 06:40 PM
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Yep. If somebody is late, they miss the boat. I've done this when showing my rentals. I leave at :01 after the scheduled meeting. If they are late to see it, they are going to be trouble.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 06:39 PM
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Rock on
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 04:29 PM
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Unless you have an issue. Then you are late and you look like a douche. Also this advice is for noobs. Not masters of the universe such as yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 12:46 PM
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Great strategy. How did it play out when you left her home?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 12:44 PM
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Yep. Most people I see waste hours each day on their phones mentally masturbating. Then they show up late because they were playing Candy Crush and lost track of time. It's bad form. It's pathetic actually. Most people are not nearly as harried for time as they think. They just waste a ton of if on stupid shit and then play the martyr card because they are "so busy."
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 12:43 PM
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Read the book. It's online in PDF for free. I read it on the plane home from Vegas. Reminds me of Art of War.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/16 06:07 PM
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I will when I get home. Can't copy and paste for reasons.
/r/askMRP22/11/16 06:06 PM
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You seem to misunderstand lifting. You are already thin. Getting thinner isn't going to help you. You need to bulk. I am picturing a tall skinny engineer type. Am I close?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/16 08:17 PM
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You seem to misunderstand lifting. You are already thin. You need to bulk.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/16 08:16 PM
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Yeah I think it was more of an offhand compliment to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/16 06:09 PM
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Yep. Never once in my whole life have I not enjoyed doggie style. It's the ultimate position for male dominance. Careful though, if you keep pounding her doggy every time she acts like a brat, she might start acting like a brat just to get you to pound her doggie style. Women are clever that way.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 07:35 PM
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I agree. One thing I do struggle with is how to raise my daughters to be sex positive. I don't want them getting knocked up at 16 but I also don't want them feeling ashamed for having sex thoughts. The shame is total bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 07:25 PM
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What I'd do....buy myself a nice single malt Scotch. And sip it, don't drink it.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 07:13 PM
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Your link is messed up. But yes, that's what I meant.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 07:08 PM
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Or AA it. If that friend mentions it in front of you, just throw it back without shame - to friend you say "Really?? You never fuck him? Wow...I can't keep this one off of me?" And your woman will blush and feign anger....and her friend will feign disapproval...then you leave the room. Always be sex positive. If women are talking about sex, they are thinking about sex. Be the rake.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 05:58 PM
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Me too. I'm almost 43. I will be 44 or dead in just over a year. Can't do anything about that. I can choose how I live every day between now and then.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 05:46 PM
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Thanks for sharing. It just so happens that I am meeting my dad for lunch today. I will appreciate this lunch more for having read your post. Thank you for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/16 04:55 PM
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Tl;dr. Women are nuts. Go lift.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 04:32 PM
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I love this response. Reminds me of the responses in the swoleacceptance sub. Have you not prayed to Brodin? Hast Broki stolen your gains and whey?
/r/askMRP18/11/16 04:28 PM
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I was kidding. I never actually though you killed a guy. Sorry if you have regrets.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 06:26 PM
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First rule.. I read you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 06:03 PM
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I've been in more fights than you it seems. What I learned. The fear of pain is worse than the pain. I have always had an aversion to pain (duh) but I think I played it up in my head worse that it was. Stay calm. Legs feed the wolf. Use them in a fight. They are the strongest muscles you have.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 06:03 PM
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You killed a guy? That's red pill as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 05:59 PM
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Athol turned me onto red pill theory. I was already 11 years married. I used to love his boards. But now it's just a damn hen house over there. I always wondered why he turned his back on men and went to catering to women. All his mods are women. His MAP book, while useful is way less red pill than Mmsl11. I guess when you do this for a living you have to make money but damn.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 04:13 PM
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I'm not kidding. Totally going to do it. But I'm a traditionalist so Christmas decorations don't come out until after Thanksgiving. A man must have principles.
/r/askMRP17/11/16 03:13 PM
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Thinking of killing the lights and using one of those Christmas projection lights that people stick in their yards that project reindeer or snowflakes on the side of their house. We have one that spins so it would keep moving around and be super intense in a small enclosed dark area.
/r/askMRP17/11/16 02:57 PM
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So who in here has actually ever been in a real fistfight? I have been in a few. Once in 7th grade. I lost. In 10th grade I won. In college I was involved in a big Dukes of Hazzard style brawl in a bar. Twice. Not sure what I found out about myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 02:29 PM
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Thanks for sharing.
/r/askMRP15/11/16 04:28 PM
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Thanks. It always strikes me how fast time flies. I was always a guy who would start getting in shape after (insert anything). Red pill reading has really helped me view myself in the present.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/16 05:31 PM
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You six month in. In six more months you will be a year in. The six months are going to pass either way just like the last 20 years did.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 07:13 PM
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We are talking about Kino... and he's out there actually grabbing pussies. We play checkers and he plays chess.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 05:00 PM
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This thread had great potential. But just like Athol's forums....the women come in and well...
/r/askMRP09/11/16 04:58 PM
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Any of this shit applicable to married guys?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 08:41 PM
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It's amazing to me the innate knowledge women have of the red pill. It's like s second language to them.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 07:24 PM
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This is brilliant advice. Best post I've read in the sub in a while.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 06:36 PM
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No half measures. Ask for enough to pay off the credit cards and whatever else you need. Fuck pride. Fuck all of it. He knows. He already knows. Then get your feet back under you and pay it off ASAP. Think of the number that would clear all this bullshit away. Ask for that number. Then ask him to show you how to make real fucking money.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 06:02 PM
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Yeah my wife tried to get me to start ripping on my sister in law because she didn't help with dishes at a football party. I said "look if you wanted her to do dishes, you should have told her before she came that you wanted her to do dishes. You told her you wanted her to come to a party. So back the fuck off her." I think I could hear the lightbulb for just a second before her hamster wheel drowned out the sound.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/16 07:03 PM
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Sure you can. It's not easy to do, but everyone on this board has it within their ability to punt this whole fucking thing.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 06:51 PM
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No I got it. Focus on the fun. Focus on everything outside the hotel room. I've probably fucked this women 2000 times in my life, I'm pretty sure I can read when she's ready to fuck.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 06:48 PM
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I tend to think we are going to be fine on the sex, I just want to prevent myself from letting my mind count those chickens before they hatch. I'm kind of assuming the sale but don't want to be left unprepared if it falls through.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 05:04 PM
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My plan upon rejection is probably pass out or go play poker. We had a long weekend last year and fucked 6 times I think in two days. I think the advice to let her come to me is spot on. I do plan on hitting some sex centric shows (thinking Absinthe or some such). I've always been the funny chill guy. That's my wheelhouse. That's what I want this trip to be.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 04:54 PM
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You wake up the next morning and start again. Tell yourself you are running the plan today. You are going to follow your map today. And then do that. Life is simply a series of days. It isn't what happens. It's how we react (or don't). Be methodical. Lift that day Eat clean that day Take your vitamins that day Don't talk a lot that day Deal with disrespect calmly that day Go to bed early that night.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 04:32 PM
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At least it isn't hard on the checkbook.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 04:20 PM
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I agree. Some women are also so caught up in the good girl image and being "mature" that there really isn't a type of guy they'd just go fuck in the bathroom. Contrary to teachings here, not every women turns into a feral slut as soon as she sees a six pack.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 04:19 PM
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No they(covert contracts) aren't. I have actually backed off the planning quite a bit. I'm planning on hitting the sports book And having some fun with betting Saturday for sure. I never said she barely fucks. I said I'm in monk mode and I barely initiate. I'm not going to a fucking club with 20 year olds. But the theme of his post was taken to heart. Back the fuck off on the fucking aspect and focus on the fun stuff. I'm going to maybe go out in the Desert and shoot the machine guns. Would love…
/r/askMRP04/11/16 03:29 PM
0

Yeah lifting 4 times is going to make a big difference between now and next weekend. Great advice.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 02:26 PM
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Yup. My 40th sucked I was so disappointed. Nobody invited or showed. I ended up organizing a poker game I think later that week. Hers is next summer. She says she wants nothing. Fine by me.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 02:23 PM
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Holy shit guy. Buy yourself a fucking cake next year. Abundance right? If she happens to make one, two cakes! Awesome. Buy her flowers on her birthday. That's it.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 02:15 PM
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Not sure what you a driving at. Have a great day.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 01:22 PM
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/r/askMRP04/11/16 11:36 AM
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I agree. Especially with your last paragraph. I like the buying the dress instead of lingerie. And if I nail it, well we all know women never throw anything away so she will have it for years to come.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 11:33 AM
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While I don't deny I need s lot of work, I think her giggling is some kind of anti slut defense. She really struggles with immersion.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 11:30 AM
1

Ok so, I try to fuck her ip against the windows, and she refuses, says let go gentle on the bed (she has this annoying patronizing habit of telling me to be gentle when I get too revved up)....then what? Me: No - Ima fuck you right here... Her: why do yo have to be an asshole.... And scene.. what then? I'm not saying this is going to happen, just trying to plan out a decent contingency if it does...what do I do next? go fuck her on the bed tell her...that's cool. Hit the shower and then head dow…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 07:20 PM
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I don't really want to give away my location if she ever stumbles onto this board. Let's call it elective surgery that isn't recovering quickly.
/r/askMRP03/11/16 03:22 PM
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Did you read Tides of War? That's where I got this username from. Also good, I'm about halfway through it.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 06:33 PM
1

Well there is always the side piece.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 06:32 PM
1

I haven't read that one yet. How does one look manly reading a book with that title? I might audio book it and listen to it. I'm a slow reader and guys on here said it gets tedious.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 05:53 PM
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Awesome book. Just builds and builds.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 03:29 PM
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Cover by TFA
/r/askMRP02/11/16 03:07 PM
1

I read Book of Poon in audio format from YouTube. Even when I read your paragraph my internal dialogue read it in the sing song voice of the computer audio conversion...lol.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 03:05 PM
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Keep reading the side bar. This is a shit test through and through. She doesn't want you to be a bitch, she is testing to make sure you aren't.
/r/askMRP02/11/16 10:54 AM
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You aren't ready bud. This will end your marriage.
/r/askMRP01/11/16 11:33 AM
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But he can if he wants too.
/r/askMRP01/11/16 11:26 AM
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He doesn't look like that. Said he's already ripped. I think there is plenty of dread for a guy like that.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 06:18 PM
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So if you "kill the puppy" you get a huge windfall right? And you are already in great shape? Fuck man, what's the problem? Wait...are you Tom Brady?
/r/askMRP31/10/16 05:06 PM
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If you are as built as you seem to think you are, go work at a gym as s trainer or whatever. That's inspiring dread.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 03:16 PM
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Great post. I'm going to work on this angle.
/r/askMRP28/10/16 12:15 PM
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Not for nothing. I mean you did get a bj out of it. You know what you do now? Lift, read, manly hobbies, etc.... The red pill is not a destination, it's a journey. What can you knock out of the park today?
/r/askMRP27/10/16 11:31 AM
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You have a lot of misunderstandings. If you are in shape, great. Your hobbies are your hobbies. Do whatever the fuck you like. There is a post on here about playing D&D like a boss. You want to re attract your mate? Well become a better version of you.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 05:19 PM
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I agree. You cannot out alpha betrayal. I haven't been on here long but I have seen three main posters on here who preach a lot. Two of the three seem to have total oneitis and the third I think isn't married at all and simply projects what he thinks is a bad ass persona (and thus comes off like a 15 year old calling everybody faggot). Too bad because I think this sub could really help people.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 03:40 PM
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OP - get your Testosterone level checked. I'm betting you are way low.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:18 PM
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I'm guessing you end up with more of the same. You wear what she wants. You still don't get the bj you want. If you do get it, she will sabotage it by saying she has a sore mouth, looking up at you like "are you almost done?", her jaw hurts, or just simply anticipating when you want to collect and making it impossible. You aren't getting the goods she is selling. Get your head around that. You want to wear the fucking sweater or whatever, fine do it. If you don't, don't. If you honestly don't gi…
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:10 PM
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Wrong.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 12:30 PM
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You played it right. You showed interest. When you hit the road block, you didn't whine or negotiate. Why so sleep deprived? Little ones? Work? How many hours a night are you sleeping?
/r/askMRP25/10/16 11:30 AM
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Sounds like you have a firm grasp on the situation. But then again she might just surprise you and turn into a little minx once dread sets in. It's good you aren't rushing but have a plan in place. Do not knock her up. Do not knock her up. Do not knock her up. Do not knock her up. Do not knock her up.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 11:44 AM
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Never mind.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 11:37 AM
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What the fuck is wrong with some of you guys?
/r/askMRP21/10/16 12:22 PM
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I think he just wants to come off looking awesome. I didn't get insecurity from his post. He wants instruction (and validation from here) while he continues to build his frame. His gut is telling him the right move. He just reads a lot of shit like AWALT and hypergamy and wants to make sure he isn't being a dumb ass here. He's not.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 12:36 PM
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Run
/r/askMRP20/10/16 12:17 PM
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This is a seriously fucked up situation. Borderline cuck. Why the fuck would you ever allow this? Fuck it, you've gone this far. Just give her the damn Hall Pass. I kid I kid. Seriously though. Tell her you aren't going and neither is she. If she goes anyway. Change the fucking locks.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 04:17 PM
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1) Why indeed? You have to answer that question. If you can pull a HB7, why keep your 3 wife around unless she's a truly awesome cook. Also kids complicate things immensely. I don't like the thought of my wife hooking up with some jag off who will potentially impact my kids. Although most likely she would find beta Marvin Milquetoast who would just model weak behavior. 2) Good strategy and if the biological pull of kids isn't a huge factor for you...well you win! You get the GFE until you don't …
/r/askMRP19/10/16 01:04 PM
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Not true. With your wife, you are starting out (on your red pill journey) with a ton of additional baggage (kids, mortgage, years of failed leadership, in-laws, common debt, etc). With a new women you start at square one, not square -8.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 12:03 PM
1

Pretty simple. Just don't go. Your wife should not be subjected to the wrath of a mentally ill parent. There comes a time when a man must choose between his wife and mother. Well, it's pretty obvious you need to choose your wife. Your mom is not stable nor healthy to be around.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 12:02 PM
1

I agree. My father in law is perhaps the smartest man I know. He is late for everything because he's a procrastinator. Major DLV.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 11:34 AM
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Most men are blue pill drones who heroically fall on the sword as a last act of honor. Then hate the decision as soon as they find another woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 12:05 PM
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You are failing at the most important thing. You need her more than she needs you. The more vested party is always the weaker party. No amount of parlor tricks or false bravado will help if she's willing to play chicken and you are not. It's really that simple. Kill your oneitis. Back to square one. And I hate to say it but getting a side piece would probably change your mind in a hurry. She's not yours, it's just your turn and all that.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 12:04 PM
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No. that's not true at all. That has covert contract written all over it. His wife could have any number of issues which would thwart her attraction. You cannot make somebody attracted to you even if you are attractive.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 08:11 PM
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This is kind of bullshit. He said he's increased his earning by a lot. He's losing weight. He's made some meaningful changes. I'd say those are very meaningful. Does he have a lot of work to do? Sure? Who amongst us doesn't? I don't tend to think of the red pill as a destination so much as a journey. He's at least put on his boots and started his journey. He just hasn't stopped at the gym yet. He will if he wants this journey to run through Pussyville, USA. He might want to get his Testosterone …
/r/askMRP14/10/16 05:46 PM
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I don't think monogamy is a red pill congruent concept. However most of us are already married so we are doing the best we can. You work within the reality of your situation.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 12:03 PM
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This is great advice. Women who have properly betafied their husbands are great at acing shit tests. Observe, and learn.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 07:18 PM
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Exactly. Don't go half measure. Fuck that. Join a band that performs in front of women. See if that unfucks your wife's libido.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 05:17 PM
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I'd rather vanquish your enemies than fetch your errands. Head nod "good one!" Good idea, I'll take one when you get up. Kids, mom needs a Sammich! I like the "I'm you lover not your butler" one as well. If she's familiar with Will Farrell just yell back "Ma! Meatloaf!" My wife prefers the pre-empt. Like when I'm still in bed but just rolling out "let's make the bed." I always just don't respond. Go take a piss. Brush my teeth. Take my time getting dressed. Then if she's still waiting there when…
/r/askMRP11/10/16 02:52 PM
2

Become the man you always wanted to be. She may or may not want to fuck that man. If she does great. If not, well you'll need to evaluate at that point. But if she doesn't want to fuck the best version of you, she's probably not the girl to grow old with.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 11:48 AM
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Happy Birthday. Set a goal for this year of 12% body fat. See what happens.
/r/askMRP11/10/16 11:01 AM
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