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LifestyleAldamis/r/seduction05/07/22 03:48 PM
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Some people resonate with "try hard" and others resonate with "have fun, and let it happen". They're different paths on the same road, and someone shouldn't force themselves to be something they're not if they don't want to be. Some people here just want to polish up their confidence and skills for when the time is right, and others want to become conquerors of a hundred women. So, no, the advice you're referring to isn't stupid. It's just different. Relax, and walk your path, my friend. We're a…
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:21 PM
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Definitely bookstores. And some other extracurricular classes that they might go to. A good rule of thumb is to think of the girl you want to find, and then imagine where that girl would go. What hobbies she might have. What nerdy stores she might visit.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:00 PM
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I think it's hot when women take a lead. I've actually slept with girls I wouldn't necessarily have otherwise because they made the first move. Idk it's just exciting to me. And with the reverse I've got a checklist like "is this going to be worth all the work?" But if a chick comes up and starts talking me up I'm like "Oh okay, let's see where this goes.."
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:45 AM
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Goddamn dude this cracked my whole paradigm... Being able to notice when girls are into you. Knowing what to do and how to escalate. Fuck that's so simple. Honestly that's exactly where my learning has been focused. Yeah, this resonates.
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:43 AM
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I have a lot of attractive female friends, and One thing I've learned is that looks don't matter to women NEARLY as much as they do to men. These are nice, confident women, and they'll meet a guy who's maybe a 7 at best, but all his other qualities are on point. He's kind and find to be around, etc. If you place a limit on yourself (I can't do this because I'm not attractive though) then that's only doing yourself a disservice. You can get into statistics as much as you want, but people are comp…
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:45 PM
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💯 Yep. Unfortunately it's easy to become jaded in this facet of life. The comments always have the venting of someone who's grown bitter. I hope they eventually realize there's freedom in acceptance, and making the best of your situation.
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:16 PM
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If that's where someone is stuck then maybe they should work on self-improvement instead of seduction until their inner & outer confidence are in order.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:16 PM
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Important post. I stopped following insta models a couple years ago. Exposing yourself to giant (probably photoshopped) asses and flawless pictures of bodies every day can fuck up your attraction to actual real women. When you stop looking at them and stop watching porn (at least not every day) regular women get hotter. Hot women you see in person get even hotter, too.
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:51 AM
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Maybe it would work better once she's already pretty interested. So she's invested enough to not think it was a game.
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:46 AM
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I hear salsa class is such a great place. I've been looking at potential classes in my area actually. What kind of ladies do you usually see there?
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:04 PM
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LMAO definitely
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:18 PM
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Yep they're hella rare unfortunately. That's why I'm going out of my way to find them lol
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:27 AM
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I haven't been to one in quite a few years but after all the suggestions I'll definitely start visiting the one in my mall.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:52 AM
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Those are admiral qualities my man. Conversation is an absolute must because you're going to talk to each other forever lol. It's the only trait that will potentially get better with age. Like wine.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:39 PM
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Ohh for sure man. I get what you're saying. Gotta be careful to not let them become royalty or they'll end to treating you like a peasant.
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:33 PM
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Damn dude she sounds like a vibe and a half 🔥😂. I'll definitely be checking out their band shirts here soon.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:11 PM
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Oh yeah I've been in hot topic quite a few times. It's been a few years and I wasn't really looking for girls, so it'll be worth checking out.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:37 PM
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Ohh damn man that's tough. I know a lot of these girls had a slew of mental issues when they were young, but some made it through and learned how to fix/handle the residual "crazy". Others weren't so lucky.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:47 PM
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LMAO dude that's honestly how I feel about those "basic" chicks. Add pumpkin spice latte in fall to the mix.. I don't like to talk shit about anybody, but I'm 100x more attracted to the alts.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:44 PM
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Okay I'm seeing a lot of concerts, so I'm definitely going to keep that in mind, thank you!
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:41 PM
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I got you. I'm definitely into the lifestyle as well (maybe I should of stated that). I just live it myself and haven't really found any community in my city into the same taste. But follow the music.. that's a great point. I'll keep that in mind, thank you.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:40 PM
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Don't worry I'm fully perceptive on the front haha. I know there's a large risk of crazy. I've just always appreciated their unique perspective, as it tends to break away from the mainstream. And I don't see anything wrong with having taste? We are subconsciously attracted to all sorts of different traits - and almost everyone manifests those traits externally with what they wear. So you can pick up a certain vibe from just looking at a girl.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:34 PM
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Lol that's a very silly generalization, but I'll laugh at it.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:30 PM
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That's a good point. I mostly mean the "pick up artist community". You see videos of a PUA guru sarging at a club with the sole intent of taking home the hottest chicks, and it looks fun sure, but I'm much more into the down-to-earth/quirky girls.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:29 PM
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Hmmm.. There's a few places like that in my town, but I've only been there to check the shirts briefly. I've not been a regular visitor. Perhaps I should go shopping there more lol. And I used to go to metal/rock shows when I was younger. Maybe I can get dip back into the scene for fun and see what's up 🤔🤘
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:25 PM
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Real talk dude. It's so wild to see how many dudes here put sex on a god-tier pedestal. Yeah it's great and all, but it's DEFINITELY not everything. As I've gotten older, anime and pizza sounds pretty fucking awesome as opposed to that feeling of emptiness after busting a nut with someone you have zero attachment to - at least for me anyways. I resonate with your post. I will keep this in mind, as I believe it's exactly what I needed to hear 👏
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:15 PM
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Okay so you just have to have SOMETHING in common with the person to make it not a cold approach. If you're at a concert or a show or class of some kind, you already have something in common with them! So you can just bring that up to start talking. Also joining classes is HUGE. I joined a small yoga studio and I was like 1 of 3 dudes in the entire roster. I ended up dating one girl, and multiple others were interested in me. I hate cold approaching, and this was easy as hell for me. If you real…
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:01 PM
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You didn't do anything wrong. You only filtered out an asshole and his cunty friends from your future. The positive about that level of rejection is that's virtually the lowest it can go. Every reaction from now on is going to be better than that shit. I'm sorry you had to go through that, fam. But it'll make you stronger in the end 💪 Keep approaching!
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:52 PM
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I recently overcame my fear of dancing in public, so this would a perfect follow-up. I've heard great things about salsa dancing regarding women. Maybe it's the to bust a move..
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:31 AM
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Agree 💯
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:19 PM
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Well, good luck with that man. I hope it works for you.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:49 PM
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So basically 99% of women don't want to interact with guys whatsoever? Lol. IDK dude.. and how are we supposed to tell if they're our target audience? We can't. We just have to say fuck it and approach. Any thoughts like "oh geez I hope I'm not bothering her" is just an excuse for us to not walk up and talk to her.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:01 PM
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Lol exactly.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:07 PM
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Your perspective is fair, but I wouldn't assume every girl would have the same reaction. I'm sure there's plenty of women who wouldn't mind being approached in the grocery store at all. We're complex creatures so all advice from a particular person should be taken right a grain of salt.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:31 PM
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Lmao. There's a used bookstore near me that sells movies, games, comics, manga, etc. It's a popular hangout for nerdy people. If I see a cute girl in there I might actually consider using this line 😂
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:27 PM
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Definitely the same. Now I only try to get laid when I'm going through a dry spell. I'm definitely a one-woman type of dude.
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:37 AM
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In my experience if they ask that question they're usually looking for something serious.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:28 PM
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Lmao taking this
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:26 PM
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What do you think about, "I'm looking for something a little more serious, but open to something casual if that's where the vibe takes me." It's honest. But I'm trying to keep it ambiguous and relaxed.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:21 PM
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If you don't drink much you can invite her out for a drink and only drink 1 beer and just nurse the hell out of it the whole evening. If you absolutely don't want to drink any alcohol just invite her out for coffee! It'll be harder to go from coffee shop to sex, so you might invite her to your place afterwards for whatever.
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:58 PM
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Don't chase women, attract them. When you chase you put out a "needy" energy. When you have fun with it, any don't hinge your entire existence on getting laid, then it can happen organically.
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:55 PM
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Exactly. It's remarkable that the information he gives out is totally free. It's incredibly valuable education.
/r/seduction20/06/22 06:55 PM
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I'm glad you recognize the power it has! I hope you find it useful.
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:59 PM
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True that. I focus on staying positive, but sometimes ignoring things that might be upsetting me deep down. Like "It's okay that this is bad thing is happening, at least you're still alive." But you're invalidating yourself. A really good way of dealing with pent up emotions that I've learned: You close your eyes and imagine you sitting across from you, and you talk to yourself: "What's bothering you man? Just let it out." There might be some resistance at first "Everything's fine..." But you ca…
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:26 PM
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Right. Tantrum is a bad word. I only used it to here to differentiate between a legitimately serious problem women might be dealing with that's put them in emotional turmoil, and one that's not overall very serious (tantrum). We've been taught that expressing emotions is weak or feminine, and it's led to our previous generation having heart attacks and stress from bottling things up over a lifetime. Luckily the younger gens are more aware of this and understand it's okay to express. I mean... Cr…
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:39 PM
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Completely agree. And the two sides of the coin meant to balance each other out... I've heard recently from a Neuroscientist's podcast that women's brains release chemicals that lead to attachment when men show resolve in the face of a woman's problems.. When we "handle" their emotional hardships (or sometimes tantrums) instead of getting too upset (like what you recommended to you friend) then they think "Oh okay this guy shows resolve and stability in the face of chaos." And on top of that - m…
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:05 PM
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Daaaaamn that's gold. I'm glad you mentioned that men are illogical, too. I don't appreciate the stance a lot of men take that somehow women are intellectually inferior to us because they have less control over certain aspects of their brain chemistry - Like we're not BOTH animals. I mean.. look at all the time, money, and energy we'll put in just to bust a nut lol. But I digress.. That quote is straight fire by the way.
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:25 PM
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This
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:49 PM
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Three weeks? She's probably patiently waiting on you dude lol. Most people age 20+ have sex within the first two or three at the latest.
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:50 PM
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Wow that's interesting... Literally siking ourselves out by making up false qualifications. Thank you for your input. It's very helpful. I will remember this 🙏
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:19 PM
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I asked a random chick for her number for the first time not long ago (I've never done a cold approach before, there's always been someone introducing me to my past relationships) and I was HELLA nervous. I said some messy nonsense and barely remember how it went, but I ended with "I came over because I thought you were super cute. Can I get your number?" She happily gave me her digits, and my thought at the time was "Wait a minute.. that's all it took? I've spent years too afraid to do THAT??" …
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:12 AM
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