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Don't forget about Agree and Amplify. "What kind of fun are you talking about?" "Oh we can do each others nails, gossip about which boys we like, and then we feel each others boobs to see which ones are bigger" "oh boy how so?" "Slay a dragon. but since you're new just come over and check my bed for monsters" The key here is using the punchline to keep it sexual than just cracking a joke.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 02:49 AM
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you can always byob. last date I bought the largest horchata I could, then I'd put like 2-3 shots of white rum in and we'd share it at the beach.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 04:43 AM
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"Isn't it a little early for you to be showing me off to your friends?" Aside from that, I'd decline to go afterwards, if it goes well you can even assume the sale. "I gotta take care of some stuff at my place, but you can come over when you're done."
/r/askTRP06/03/15 10:39 PM
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Best answer here. Great reframe to put her in a chaser role. Alternatively, you can always make a counteroffer. "Wednesday is bad for me. I'm free on Thursday."
/r/askTRP24/02/15 11:08 PM
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Yup. That's exactly right. Keep frame, this guy whistling at your girl is not a threat to you or her. A little anecdote on r/alpha that may be worth your perusal.
/r/askTRP14/01/15 09:59 PM
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If the circumstance is unavoidable: Pinch it by thumb and index finger, hold it off to the side at arms length. Start rummaging through it. "Sweet, loose change!" "Hey, is this gum still good, I need a piece."
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:50 PM
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I don't like to lead. Mainly because if something goes wrong it's my fault. That's a risk you're gonna have to live with when it comes to leadership. If you make a bad choice, then own up to your failings, and learn from them. Focus on the reward as well - If it does go right, who do you think is getting the credit, who has the most to gain? I guess if you want some advice that's more practical, start with your circle of friends - find cool things to do that you might like, and invite them. Lear…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 06:07 AM
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The best regiment is one you can stick to. I caught the bug very easily doing a 5x5 because almost every session meant I was going to push myself forward, and improve upon what I did last time. What I also did was physically keep a notebook to record my sets. It's kinda fun to do it for a few months, look back and see where you've come from. It also keeps you accountable when you look at it you don't want to lose all that progress you did.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 04:50 PM
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My go to response: "Isn't it a little early for you to be showing me off to your friends?" Gets her on the defensive, frames you as the prize.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:40 PM
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Personally, I don't think so. If you manage to rekindle attraction, then you really didn't lose it in the first place. I'd recommend moving on. It sounds like you're already pedestalizing her. That's a bad frame to have going in and whatever strong frame you try to set up won't last. Take what you learned and apply it to the next.
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 05:18 PM
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"[venue] [time] see you there" then radio silence. It feels like a shit test, so ignore it and maintain that you're hanging out together by simple saying the time/place and then ignoring her response after that. In contrast, your response sounds like you're conceding.
/r/trpGAME28/08/14 01:44 AM
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"Oh I love my X. I also love my Y and my Z too. Q is a major slut though." For extra effect, substitute Q for the letter of her first name.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 10:03 PM
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I'm going to assume this alpha squad is legitimately good with you and not trying to drag you down on nights out. Try going out on your own or with a wingman from the group inside the same club. Talk to groups, see which girl is feeling you the most then bring her and her friends back to the group. That way, you look good because you brought the party together. Are these guys more fit, working a better job, and/or living a more extravagant lifestyle? The long term solution is to deeply examine y…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:13 PM
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Yes. Like everybody here said, if you're don't want to waste time, escalate quicker. My go to for the boyfriend line provided the boyfriend isn't there - "Cool. Are you happy?" and observe the reaction. If she answers quickly, tease her for lying. If she hesitates, tease her for not being sure.
/r/trpGAME25/08/14 05:58 PM
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But, in my personal experience, they end up not doing a god damned thing to help you. They've ended up standing around doing nothing. "Hey, she's pretty cute, you should talk to her!"
/r/askTRP08/08/14 07:04 PM
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Any real wingwoman must be totally comfortable grinding on you on the dance floor. She must be able to convey that you are a sexually desirable specimen to her, otherwise any girl she befriends will happily lump you in with the friend zone like she is. The more sexual you can be or have been with her the better. Also, be prepared to show her how to open groups since she probably has little to no practice opening them herself, especially if she's hot.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 05:54 PM
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Good men produce first, share second, consume lastly. Such a great distinction to make over the "Don't Give a Fuck" mentality - I would recommend learning how to make music or bar-tending based on your interests, OP. There's a vast difference between "I like girly drinks" vs "I like to make girly drinks"
/r/askTRP01/08/14 09:37 PM
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Get your logistics in place. If she lives with her parents then it's likely it won't be happening there. Don't knock her up. Don't knock her up. Yes, that important.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 06:27 PM
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If it makes it to a second or third season, the Alpha guy is gonna "fall in love" and it's up to beta guy to help him out!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 02:55 PM
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I'm assuming the point she's missing is that men aren't allowed to express their masculinity either?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:10 PM
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A lot of the images were a little too zoomed up to give a better than average score. It would be interesting to see how girls of a different ethnicity would have been surveyed.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 08:25 PM
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Frame, in the broadest terms, is the underlying context for your words/actions. For example, Let's say you're with a girl at a place and you tell her, "Let's get out of here." Depending on the environment and how you say it, it's underlying meaning can change. If you said it very coyly, you might imply you want to take her somewhere like your bedroom. On the other hand, if you say it with a bit of urgency, you would be implying that the situation at hand requires a hasty exit. What can happen in…
/r/askTRP02/05/14 09:07 PM
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I'm a fan of the cock tower theory - Number of dicks x 6 inches. If she fell from that height and gets seriously injured, then that's too much dick. You could also try summing up the length of every dick she's had. That would be what I'd say in mixed company. Or you exaggerate and say 8 inches or feet, depends on what you want to filter for.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:45 PM
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KT Tatara
/r/askTRP21/04/14 05:00 PM
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You want better results but you don't want to change? Tell me, how is that supposed to work? You don't have to be a 24/7 Mr. full-blown mega-dick-swinging fuck-the-world Alpha overnight, but you gotta at least start somewhere. Try this: Stop waiting for friends to invite you to something. Find something you want to do, and invite them. Don't confuse being beta with being passive. "Everybody wants to be a bodybuilder, but nobody wants to lift these heavy ass weights!" -Ronnie Coleman.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 04:36 PM
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I eventually outgrew it. I found a lot of new interests in dressing better, working out, socializing, and new hobbies, even DIY stuff. All that new stuff chipped away at the time and money required to sustain such a hobby. Nowadays I pick stuff up on the late when they're cheap - I have a 3ds when I play on some evenings and a gaming PC which I rarely turn on nowadays. I honestly think that a time will come where the next generation of videogames come and you'll just go, "meh." When that time co…
/r/becomeaman13/03/14 05:46 PM
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aBROham Lincoln
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 03:57 PM
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Or they can think outside their box (hah) and do other (or additional) things to keep a man around. Like fixing him a nice sandwich without him asking for one.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 09:42 PM
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The women out there willing to engage in traditional gender roles aren't going to pursue casual sex. So how does men pursuing casual sex ruin them?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 09:09 PM
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“When nothing seems to help, I go look at a stonecutter hammering away at his rock perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at the hundred and first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not that blow that did it, but all that had gone before.” -Jacob Riis
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 11:27 PM
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1.) Wake Up 2.) Morning toilet 3.) Shower- Face wash, shampoo on Wednesday/Sundays, Body wash 4.) Dry off - Brush Teeth, Shave if necessary, Contacts 5.) Face Lotion, Eye Roller, Deodorant, Cologne 7.) Dress, Out the door 8.) Podcasts on the morning commute takes me an hour on most days.
/r/askTRP07/03/14 09:15 PM
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Big Bank Hank - so fly he dissed Superman and took his girl.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 09:44 PM
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Also to add on - Leadership - Be team captain if you can, be the one always finding and suggesting to do shit in your circle of friends, head up some sort of committee. If that's too big of a jump, be someone's Second-in-Command and learn from them.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 08:41 PM
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Why would you bring a handful of sand to a beach?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 07:30 PM
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Steak and Bloodsport. It's kind of a tradition now.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 11:54 PM
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Just because you find her attractive, doesn't mean you should put her on a pedestal. You can't judge his taste, but you can sure as hell judge his actions.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:30 PM
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Interestingly enough, if you listen to the first Episode of the Victory Unlimited Podcast he talks about confidence as portrayed by Denzel and compares it to how it is portrayed by Sidney Poitier. Might be worth a listen.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 06:47 PM
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Whoa, that's a lot of information to give out at once. It's not a conversation unless both parties are talking. you can have the same and get her involved by asking questions after. Let's take this quote from the article: “Well I used to live in NYC, but now I live in Rio. I loved NYC, but the weather sucks for 8 months out of the year so I can’t do the outdoor stuff I like. And even more importantly the people in Rio have something that New Yorkers don’t, which is why I moved.” Long answer for …
/r/seduction10/01/14 08:35 PM
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explanation that "a key which opens many locks" is a good key, but a "lock which can be opened by many keys" is of low value. I've run that by people, and the common response is "Who's to say that it has to be the girl who has to be the lock?" The argument I issue instead is that it takes a lot more effort for the average guy to get laid than a girl. When girls bitch about putting on make up and heels, point out that guys need a good, well paying, exciting job, fight off other dudes, be cultured…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 03:46 PM
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The best part of getting rid of Oneitis, is that you realize whatever RP advice you can apply for "this one girl", also works on "this other girl", and applies to "this girl after the last two" and so forth... no "one" girl is so special that you absolutely have to do/run something different.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 07:25 PM
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Interesting, the beta in this case is LA Clipper JJ Redick.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 10:47 PM
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P.S. I don't keep pix in my wallet at all. Then next week she asks to see the pictures on your phone...
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:06 PM
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Honestly, it's like people can't pick up the subtext that they're flirting with each other. As the phrase goes, "Game recognize game." Usually the lyric everyone likes to point out is when she says "Say, what's in this drink?" which always gets interpreted as the guy slipped something in there. Haven't come up with a good response to that.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:17 PM
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I didn't see a post here regarding the first update, where he initially called the marriage off. It seems that his brother had a lot to do with him breaking his frame. Make sense since it is OP's older brother and that can convey a level of trust, but I'm guessing OP's bro thought he should do what was best for the both of them (and family) and not what's best for OP. He's maintaining skepticism of his wife's rationalizations over the sex. Not sure if he'll believe the comments on that but it's …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 03:53 PM
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Here's to opening every set And here's to getting our dicks wet!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 07:34 PM
3

That Gaston bulk. Soon, you'll be roughly the size of a barge!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 05:35 PM
1

Sriracha Bottle. Everyone loves hot cock sauce. If you wanna show off that bod, wear tighter clothing.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 08:27 PM
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Just be wary of the male 'Miley Cyrus' Cross Dressers doing it to be funny.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 02:38 PM
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She laughed too because she was trying to save face. The fact that he was calm about it speaks volumes.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 02:52 AM
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As the poet Nas puts it so eloquently: "You lose money chasing women, never lose women chasing money."
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 04:54 PM
1

Physically write down the qualities that you will or will not accept from yourself or others. List the values that you stand for. Be in constant contact with people whose causes match and reinforce your own. Commit it to memory and feel free to revise it as you go. I find it's much easier to stand your ground once you explicitly know your inner boundaries and how far you will compromise them (if at all). As for your coworkers, it's very tough to rework their perceptions of you. Your new self may…
/r/seduction11/10/13 07:36 PM
2

I pay dinner, she pays dessert, switch roles on the next date.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 06:57 PM
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Exactly. A female HB6 has more opportunities for sex than an male HB6 (Hot Bro? hahah) The example I like to use is if your average girl went to a mall, and announced to everyone, "I would like to have sex right now." She'd easily have a crowd of men to choose from. If the average guy does same thing... no one would give a shit. And it's not like fixing the double standard would fix anything. If anything more women would sleep with the alphas.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 03:28 PM
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Basically, if you're not a party/night club promoter, or buying table service, you're gonna have a tough time inside. That is basically the biggest "status" makers you can have in a night club environment. Plenty of other places to meet girls.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 05:51 PM
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"If she says 3, that's 10.You gotta give every woman like a 7 dick curve. That's more like 3 dicks to the 8th power. " - Chris Rock
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 02:50 PM
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Do you want give it a cute little term like "1 on 1"ing her? You're sure as hell not going to ignore this step. Isolation is necessary.
/r/seduction23/09/13 08:57 PM
1

You can also look into fortune telling using common playing cards. It's a bit more convenient having those around as opposed to a tarot deck.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/13 07:37 PM
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If you have a source to back this up, I'd love to see it; my dad has gout.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 03:07 PM
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Agreed with the opening statement, making sure she understands the the theory and what it really means to wing; a lot of girls say they're good wing women, very few actually are (you can totally make this a game for your target too!). I would also add that both you and her should be very comfortable with kino'ing each other and taking your lead so you look great and not just a "nice guy" orbiting his friend. When another girl sees that, she'll put you in the same spot if you meet her. In additio…
/r/seduction29/08/13 06:24 PM
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Dr Ed Pill
/r/TheRedPill26/08/13 10:01 PM
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Thank god. I've been waiting forever for the next 2pac album to drop. Get to the studio!
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:28 PM
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After looking at both of the videos, the girls seem to be having more fun in the uncensored version. Must have been quite the shoot. They can make as much noise about the song and the video as they want, but as soon as it comes on in a party they'll be the first to get down.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 09:03 PM
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I like my go-to, mostly because it's outright silly, and sometimes people like to imagine what it's like and how much it pays. I tell people I tame unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 03:02 PM
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Interesting how you straight up told booth guy to fuck off. Any particular reasoning behind it? Also nice to see that you stayed consistent even if he had girls with him.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 03:39 PM
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Me: "If you ask me for boyfriend services, you're going to have to offer girlfriend services in return." And now I have a go-to answer for turning down favors.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 04:55 PM
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took her phone and called up a friend to come get her. Damn, I didn't know that's an option - A damn fine one too. Thanks for the tip.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 08:14 PM
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Nice way to handle the logistics for protection - definitely gonna keep that in mind next time. In return, what's helped me with conversation is just maintaining a sense of curiosity about everything, even if you're somewhat familiar with it. For example, if work is the topic, ask them how they like their current job, or if it's like in the movies/TV, or what they really want to do. If the topic is a person - if you know them, ask them if they also notice quirks about this person... if you don't…
/r/seduction09/01/13 11:30 PM
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Sometimes it depends on the booth - If all they have 4 person or circular ones, you can easily sit next to her and kino much easier. Last dinner I went to I basically had my arm behind her for most of dinner. I do like the idea of siting at an angle next to her though, and the "This or that" game is really good for attraction and comfort. Definitely going to borrow that. Dug the Epiphany too! Great Field Report, best of luck to you!
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:24 PM
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Possible ideas for a funny retort: -"I wouldn't come if you wanted me to!" -"Funny, that's how I met my last ex! She tell you about that move too?" -"Whoa, slow down, we just met!"
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:03 PM
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That's why you ask if she's ever played the game before telling her the rules. If she says "no" in the last question, then she told the truth and you win. If she says "yes", you can neg her for cheating because she lied about having playing the game before. If she insists that she honestly didn't cheat, then she's qualifying herself to you. If she really did cheat, then you can neg her about lying about other things too.
/r/seduction26/10/12 09:52 PM
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Maybe play words like "MEMBER", "THRUST", "COITUS" and the like to drop hints? Insist she's trying to peek at your tiles and nudge her playfully. Make a bet on the outcome of the game.
/r/seduction10/10/12 06:31 PM
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For myself, I've used meetup.com to widen my social circles and try new things in my post-college era. It also helps talking at the meetups because you have the website to draw topics from.
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:40 PM
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Always interesting to hear it from another perspective. Any observations about the Mr. Goodlooking? It'll be cool to see the contrast between him and Luc, if there are any.
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:12 PM
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Ballsy. Did you just walk back inside or did you leave the place as a whole? Heck, how did the guy react?
/r/seduction01/08/12 08:31 PM
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Yes, but it would make an interesting episode of South Park.
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:24 PM
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That's an amazing breakthrough. It's great how many people just start out using this knowledge to interact with women, and then finding out how else these skills improve the other aspects of your life, which then helps you interact with women! Here's to the new future you. I'm pretty sure he's glad you came to this epiphany.
/r/seduction10/07/12 04:42 PM
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As a 5'6" guy, I'm definitely saving that height retort for my own use.
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:50 PM
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If you've read DiCarlo, then you should know that you start off with incidental kino before doing deliberate kino. You can create or make use of opportunities to plant your hand on her waist/back incidentally, even for just a second. Try it next time when you can't hear her and you need to lean in close. Or maybe when you want to whisper to her that the guy that walked by you totally had his fly open and he doesn't seem to notice. I sense that this specific kino feels awkward because you don't d…
/r/seduction31/05/12 09:18 PM
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no excess thinking: the barrier between your pure thoughts and your spoken words is more often foe than friend. Love this quote right here - I have the same problem over-thinking sometimes.
/r/seduction10/06/11 02:48 PM
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Bail without a word. Telling her how you feel does absolutely nothing to help you. However, leaving without a word will create some mystery for her to dwell on and if so inclined, seek you out. If she asks why, that is not permission to spill your guts. Go find a new girl or maybe a hobby in the meantime.
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