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1

The only advice you need is : 1) be attractive 2) follow step 1
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:25 PM
-6

I like when people start with therapy advice, like you need to pay for that. Everybody giving advice like it is free real estate.
/r/seduction06/05/21 06:34 PM
5

Lol ask her the next day on a date dont complicate
/r/seduction02/05/21 03:30 PM
3

Hi whats your name ? This line goes a long way. Simple yet effective.
/r/seduction23/04/21 07:19 AM
0

If you asked her she would respond as a) but still you are going to speak to her because you are desperate and in a need for a pussy xd
/r/seduction20/04/21 10:34 AM
1

Go to a park where guys do bodyweight exercises.
/r/seduction13/04/21 03:26 PM
14

Well I do approach women, but I am not making it a full time job. And yes I was direct. It is the mentality: be realistic. If she found me attractive she would stay and give me a number.
/r/seduction08/04/21 07:28 AM
64

Moral of a story : if you were ugly she would chase the exit.
/r/seduction08/04/21 07:22 AM
2

Some youtuber once said: " THEY ARE ALL SLUTS!"
/r/seduction01/04/21 06:10 AM
7

I know many insecure guys with low self esteem or confidence and they have girlfriends. This bs of confidence I never get to understand. We as humans are all insecure in many situations. You cant say somebody is confident, because our emotions vary through out the day. And I never heard from a girl that she is with guy because he is super confident. Either he is cute, respects her or is good looking.
/r/seduction31/03/21 04:27 PM
50

You are lucky to come across such polite and open girl. Best of luck.
/r/seduction29/03/21 11:03 AM
5

Approaching 10 girls per day, best believe you are going around. But you do you, if you dont get laid, pls inform us.
/r/seduction16/03/21 08:54 PM
18

Good luck explaining to the girls what you do with your life.
/r/seduction16/03/21 08:20 PM
0

So what, like with that mindset you are extremely limiting options to meet girls. You shit at achool, work, gym, at home, in nature. Like wtf the most stupid quote: dont shit where you eat. Do you know how many actors meet their wife through job? Many.
/r/seduction14/03/21 05:19 PM
1

I also was raised only by mother. Yeah she indirectly thought me to be nice and respectful to women, but as I gain experience with women I see it is the opposite lol.
/r/seduction13/03/21 07:47 AM
3

No. Lol.
/r/seduction07/03/21 05:47 PM
3

Yeah that is hard after 5 years of singleness.
/r/seduction07/03/21 05:29 PM
2

In my college 90% of girls were already in relationship before they entered colllege. Now they are in 3+ year relationships. Yeah single guy here haha.
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:19 AM
4

It means dont act what you are not. Dont use some lines to get the girl. Simple hi whats your name goes a long way. Be yourself also means to say no when everybody tells yes, being true to yourself and what you stand for.
/r/seduction02/03/21 02:07 PM
2

You cant because todays world is heading in that direction, the major boost to that are social medias full of fake people who sale you the idea that when you work hard you will live their lifestyle. In reality they are taking steroids, plastic surgerys to sell you idea of perfect. Even if you are natty fit, earn not much but respectable amount of money, that will never be enough.
/r/seduction28/02/21 08:54 AM
15

Install tinder as a guy, and you will see who is wrong
/r/seduction25/02/21 04:47 PM
0

Also applies for younger ones too.
/r/seduction25/02/21 07:16 AM
8

It is easy to say that for every guy in every country when you are atleast a 9. PUA and all other advice seduction givers forget the number 1 rule: be attractive.
/r/seduction23/02/21 08:34 AM
1

Dont change, dont change good values just to get the girl. Finding love is about being at the RIGHT PLACE IN THE RIGHT TIME. You can be good, bad, nice, a jerk, a nerd, a freak, nevermind, if the timing of meeting other is off then everything else doesnt matter. You cant control what others like, you can only control yourself abd you have to be the guy that loves himself , let that be nice or bad it doesnt matter.
/r/seduction19/02/21 11:02 PM
56

But what if you dont crave for friendships and being tired of always putting effort into maintainibg one?
/r/seduction19/02/21 10:19 PM
1

So if I am 20 and need 30 year experience for every job, I am jobless for entire life.
/r/seduction19/02/21 05:17 PM
2

Its all BS.
/r/seduction18/02/21 02:53 PM
2

50k followers on instagram. Hmm that is really relevant in todays dating world.
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:01 PM
1

She has something, maybe and I know it is harsh, on the side, another guy or guys 😅🤣. Idk I hate that spark, dating has become so complicated , it has predisposition to be an actual course in college 🤣.
/r/seduction11/02/21 12:52 PM
1

Agree that is how I also think. Bro if you were the guy she wants she wouldnt mind the availability. Think of it this way: you like her, would you be upset if she was available to you, aka wanting to see you often? Heck no. That is the answer. I would spend 24/7 with the girl I like.
/r/seduction11/02/21 12:39 PM
1

That is BS exscuse just to let you down easily. There is not such thing as spark, either you like the person physicaly and mentally or you dont.
/r/seduction11/02/21 12:29 PM
2

You just didnt find the right girl. You can be a 11/10 in looks and personality, but if you are stranded in antartica you would still be single. I am the same as you, just in a process of getting a job, but successful in many areas in life, yet still get rejected. If I would be single until 24 or 25 after that I will just go yolo mode to extreme.
/r/seduction11/02/21 07:50 AM
3

This will mainly come from non single girls. From my exlerience they appreciate more the effort.
/r/seduction11/02/21 07:43 AM
1

Yeah like men and women can be friends as acquaintances, for example I like to hang out at uni with girls but doesnt mean it is true friendship. We never hang out outside uni activites. If I find some attractive I would want to hang out with her more and I wouldnt want only friendship.
/r/seduction08/02/21 09:02 AM
2

But he did prove a point. As I guy I can really relate.
/r/seduction08/02/21 09:00 AM
2

Stop them ask for directions. Make something up and say btw my name is x, what is yours? Fistbump and continue the flow of conversation.
/r/seduction06/02/21 12:40 PM
-2

Women have hobbies. Thats new lol.
/r/seduction05/02/21 07:42 PM
-1

Yeah but houses dont have emotions. Idk and that is how I think. I find it much respectfull do give each person a date or 2 before going on a date with another person.
/r/seduction03/02/21 07:20 PM
-1

Well dating one person at a time shows that you are a committed person nevermind of the outcome. Arhitect build 1 building at a time. He cant focus on building the entire city.
/r/seduction03/02/21 07:01 PM
-3

She likes the attention thats the point. The term leading on was created by womens behaviour. Girl are much more complicated from a biological standpoint. As I guy I am very simple. If the girl is cute and has good personality, best believe I would pursue a relationship with her. The spark or chemistry is not in my vocabulary. I dont believe in fairy tales.
/r/seduction03/02/21 06:17 PM
-2

Well she is the one who plays games in the first place.. she agreed to go on a date with him then later the coward of a bitch send long ass text.. ohhh I have been there. The problem is we men get attached, we play the fair game and then realise that she didnt care a single % for you. Sad world. But she will be 30 and best believe she will regret all. By then the OP will be married with kids the dogs and cats.
/r/seduction03/02/21 05:48 PM
-2

No chemistry = she doesnt find you attractive.. dont worry girls are good at manipulation. She used your free attention. Never mind you learn from everything new. I assume you are a young guy. If she liked you it would be much easy and you wouldnt get mixed signals. Best of luck in finding the right girl.
/r/seduction03/02/21 05:44 PM
5

How can someone expect loyality when the dating advice you give is to date multiple people at once. I myself cant date multiple people at time.
/r/seduction03/02/21 05:37 PM
1

Yeah I agree, people really toss the looks part under the bed but it is subconciuosly the most important part. You can be a nice person but if you dont look so I wanna have sex with you it doesnt matter at the end. The gold mine is being a good person and also an attratcive person.
/r/seduction01/02/21 10:09 PM
1

Well 16 year old girls and guys dont know what they want. You are kids lol. And also when you help them with work ask them on a date. If they reject you, you know that they can kiss goodbye with help. Idk why you even help them in the first place. School is for your own self improvement.
/r/seduction01/02/21 06:30 PM
2

Well if ryan was 6 foot 2 with jawline, broad shoulders and smile to die for , then he would have all affection from girls he did help and those he didnt.
/r/seduction01/02/21 04:54 PM
2

As I guy I would like to be approached and just block afterwards. Some guys dont vent here they just commit suicide.
/r/seduction31/01/21 06:50 PM
10

This..... couldnt agree more. If that was Zac Efron, she would have said: I am not a gamer girl but I can game you.
/r/seduction14/01/21 08:16 PM
3

With that mentality you are just making exscuses. So what if she rejects me and sees me everyday. That is her problem. Just be a man, grab your balls and do it.
/r/seduction14/01/21 08:25 AM
2

Yeah at the beach girl eye contacted me more than once, I approached and she rejected me. But later on she looked at me admiring the v taper haha ( my friends said that).... shitshow
/r/seduction09/01/21 09:55 AM
2

The competition is making us weak. On the other hand average and below average girls can still find thirsty men. Men date down, women date up.
/r/seduction07/01/21 08:16 AM
1

Yeah internet, social media fucked up dating for guys.
/r/seduction04/01/21 10:17 AM
1

In front of what... dating? But dating is self improvement.
/r/seduction04/01/21 10:07 AM
1

How to get gf ? Become gta 5 star wanted.
/r/seduction20/12/20 03:00 PM
2

I wouldnt say approaching in club is cold approaching. Like they are made designed for people to have fun and meet others.
/r/seduction20/12/20 02:02 PM
2

Just look how everybody treats girls from birth. Oh look you are my little princess, you deserve everything. Basicaly, women are treated like gold mine from their birth. Men are treated as potential. Like if he does this that and that he will be looked upon, but if he fails he will get walked over like a useless piece od paper.
/r/seduction19/12/20 10:03 PM
1

During the summer I find it easy to approach at the beach, but now during winter and this corona, I find it hard meeting women.
/r/seduction19/12/20 07:19 PM
1

Yeah like even I got rejected we really had quality conversation. Some single girls really dont bother stoping, they just continue to walk and ignore like I am piece of air. Non single girls stop and even smile at you.
/r/seduction19/12/20 07:15 PM
5

I noticed from my personal experience that when you approach a girl who is in relationship, she is very polite about rejection and admires the courage, whil when you approach single one, she makes the situation awkward or makes up some stupid exscuse not to exchange numbers or something else.
/r/seduction19/12/20 07:10 PM
1

How did you begin to cold approach? And what is the best place to cold approach?
/r/seduction17/12/20 08:41 PM
1

Well I am not selling anything so good intelect fella
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:21 PM
1

Ok grandpa chasing girls on the streets.
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:09 PM
1

If you are 50 and still mingling... well thats odd.
/r/seduction15/12/20 05:41 PM
3

The biggest value a girl can give for me is companionship and support. I dont care for her salary. I only care that she is cute, has something that she is passionate about.
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:15 AM
0

Dont think I am rasist or anything but from the post I get the vibe that you are maybe black guy. Like you know when you hear some song and from the tone you can guess which skin color has the person. Sometimes I am completly wrong. Dont get butthurt.
/r/seduction05/12/20 08:32 AM
6

The game that you need to learn is that no matter what comes through your mouth if she doesnt find you attractive to her eyes you wont game your way to her heart.
/r/seduction26/11/20 09:16 AM
2

There is no learning just you have to be at the right place in the righ time and hope that luck is on your side and that you will marry that girl someday.
/r/seduction22/11/20 04:51 PM
3

Comment somwthing she is wearing
/r/seduction15/11/20 06:28 PM
10

If I see a hot girl on the beach by herself... you bet I will approach her.. I dont need friends to achieve my goals.
/r/seduction10/11/20 07:59 PM
2

Have you ever seen poor and ugly man pulling girls because of confidence?... lol probably not.
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:15 PM
2

There is so much pressure on man in dating world. You have to be good loooking + confident + have status ( social and economical) + good personality + funny + many hobbies + enough luck to meet available women. Women have to be somewhat good looking and decent personality and thats it. Plus they can drink and smoke nowdays and still have men in line waiting for text back.
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:59 PM
1

You invite her for drinks after work.
/r/seduction07/11/20 06:24 PM
2

Yeah but if the first girl liked you, she wouldnt mind all the neediness. If the second girl didnt like you, no matter how long you waited to text her it wouldnt matter.
/r/seduction07/11/20 07:39 AM
2

Dont worry people will not tolerate this BS for much longer.
/r/seduction27/10/20 11:20 AM
7

Nothing haha
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:24 PM
1

Lack of sex and no options is why men are like they are today.
/r/seduction17/10/20 05:49 AM
1

Okay just put them on pedestal... wait until 3rd date that she tells you: You are like a friend to me
/r/seduction15/10/20 12:53 PM
0

Bruh you organised the date, you asked her out, you made her laugh... now is her turn... now sge has to chase... dont fall into temptation and text her first... just chill relax and she will reach out. If not she wasnt interested.
/r/seduction15/10/20 10:22 AM
1

Hmm on the other hand woman only need 2 things beauty and decent personality... it is hard to be man these days.
/r/seduction12/10/20 07:46 PM
7

If a girl is shy even she is interested she wont make eye contact.
/r/seduction07/10/20 06:30 PM
629

So alcohol = confidence unlocked
/r/seduction02/10/20 06:12 AM
2

Yeah sure... maybe I will go to germany in future to work and live there if the situation in croatia in terms of employment and income doesnt get better.
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:48 PM
2

For example one day during summer I was going to the beach by myself and I was just chilling. I noticed while I was looking around one girl laying on the beach sand near the sea. I though she was cute and I shoot my shot. I approached and had small talk. Eventually she told me thst she has a boyfriend but nevertheless we had a good conversation. Some days ago I was at the bus station waiting for bus. After some time one girl came and sat next to me. So I asked her did she came from one gym which…
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:31 PM
3

I live in Croatia in town where live 180 000 people. I also dont like to party so I approach a girl if I happen to come across one during my normal day to day activites. I dont go out in streets just to approach girls haha. But yeah most of the time girls tell me how they almost never get approached in person and that I came across as a brave guy. I tried going to clubs but there is simply to loud where you cant talk normally but unfortunately most girls go there and expect to be approached ther…
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:07 PM
1

Ofcourse that he will nevermind tha age... you cant stsrt of in something and expect 0 disappointing outcome.
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:14 PM
1

Who said that 23 is a bad age? Lol
/r/seduction22/09/20 01:01 PM
5

Well as a 23 year old guy you can expect a lot of diasappointment in this journey. Be open to everything, dating apps, approaching girl on the street.... well it all boils down to luck in many cases.
/r/seduction22/09/20 12:56 PM
1

My sister is a 10 but she dates a guy 13 years older, dad bod look and is 3/10...
/r/seduction19/09/20 08:30 PM
0

Totally agree.
/r/seduction19/09/20 05:40 PM
1

If she is like that in person then move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction17/09/20 01:42 PM
1

Well heartbreak after heartbreak doesntchelp at all
/r/seduction16/09/20 09:38 PM
7

He who doesnt, gets rejected, still masturbates
/r/seduction29/08/20 10:33 AM
4

Excuse me your daughter is wonderful, would you mind me asking her out? Go ahead son xd
/r/seduction25/08/20 03:03 PM
2

Everything good but for contact information it is the best to get a phone number, because she probably has a lot of guy sliding in DM, so by getting a phone number you stand out and she will remember better who you are.
/r/seduction10/08/20 08:34 PM
3

You cant choose how you are going to meet girls... try every source possible ( dating apps, friends, family, cold approach...), and if you are lucky you will find one.
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:59 PM
1

Cold approaching is self improvement.
/r/seduction01/08/20 10:09 AM
-4

Women are pathetic nowdays... they are a afraid to meet a date at the evening but dont hesitate to break a guys heart.
/r/seduction31/07/20 08:16 PM
2

You better of with video call.
/r/seduction31/07/20 08:08 PM
1

Beach, park
/r/seduction31/07/20 07:56 PM
0

It is hard to build friendships, especcially when in the past all so called friends just used you and never cared for you. Better to be alone than in wrong company... Founding love partner is more meaningfull and thst person will always be there for you.
/r/seduction28/07/20 06:31 PM
8

In order to move forward, you take one step forward, that first step will set momentum for others to come, before you know it you are far ahead.
/r/seduction25/07/20 06:49 PM
4

Do you approach only girls you are attracted to or ? Because finding 5 per day is little rough.
/r/seduction25/07/20 11:50 AM
1

I need to encourage my dick to be more patient 🤣🍌
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:48 PM
0

Still I didnt encounter a girl who is willing to exchange anything so....
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:40 PM
0

I am not talking about online cold approach, it is about in person, on the street, in the mall, bus, beach....
/r/seduction20/07/20 07:33 PM
3

When I was your age, 23 now, I really wasnt into girls, now I am and the struggle is real hahaaha
/r/seduction18/07/20 06:28 PM
9

I would suggest not to force everyday approach... just live your life and places where you go to, there if you see young attractive girl, approach her, comment something what she wears and if you have time have a conversation, if not then ask for a coffee or a drink later during the day or week when both of you are free.... dont overthink to much before approach, and always be prepared for rejection.
/r/seduction18/07/20 06:21 PM
4

If a guy goes alone with a girl to walk cafe and so on... it is a date
/r/seduction06/07/20 03:39 PM
1

I rely on it will be what is supposed to happen... I forced some stuff but it was never mutual... guess I need to be more patient :((
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:31 PM
1

Confidence is an Illusion.
/r/seduction12/06/20 08:03 PM
10

Croatia
/r/seduction16/05/20 08:50 PM
18

Me personally and how I see my society in my europe country, we tend to have sex when in commited relationship, not after first date. Sex is viewed as intimate act, therefore it should be with special person.
/r/seduction16/05/20 08:44 PM
19

Maybe in America yes, but in Europe I doubt it.
/r/seduction16/05/20 08:01 PM
0

3 you cant control, either you found right friends or you didnt.
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:59 PM
1

If you can provide (have money) it doesnt make you more confident.. Women want the hole package.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 12:36 PM
1

Bruhh how did you left the brozone?
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:52 AM
1

You get to know someone by having a live conversation.. keep the texting to set up the date. Well now use facetime or videochat
/r/seduction29/03/20 06:49 PM
3

That spark thing is the greatest bullshit in dating. And hollywood is guilty for that.
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:37 AM
9

At the end of the day if she really likes you she wont mind if you are needy. Heck romantic partners are besides family our strongest support so we need them as much as they need us.
/r/seduction15/01/20 07:57 PM
1

A girl is like a game where you start with all things are unlocked. For guys game is a grind from level 0 and going slowly up haha
/r/askTRP07/01/20 07:31 PM
3

Put yourself in her bf shoes.
/r/seduction25/12/19 11:54 AM
1

Money can help to get into position to meet girls.
/r/seduction24/12/19 06:51 PM
-5

Overall op point of view is mostly true
/r/seduction21/12/19 03:31 PM
1

If she likes she will enjoy the chase
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:14 AM
10

Marriage with bad guy is also very predictable
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:21 AM
1

Yeah of course it is... many said to me that it is a sign of courage. You only have to hope that feelings are mutual.
/r/seduction13/11/19 06:41 PM
2

This alpha beta thing is like emotions. Throughout the day you can feel sad happy.... so in different enviroments you feel more confident and in some not as confident. At the end of the day trying to become something that you arent is the worst thing you can do.
/r/seduction12/11/19 08:23 PM
2

You are just hurting more and more yourself.. The longer you still make the sam mistake the longer you will need to recover. Just block her and move on.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:21 PM
1

This dont eat where you shit is really BS. Like isnt the best to meet people in places where you often go to.. It is probably that the person you meet there has some interests as you do. Key to long and happy relationship are same interests so you can have longer and meaningfull conversations.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:13 PM
3

Set small goals... dont go cold turkey... step by step
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:33 PM
9

You have a low smv but still end up having more dates then I in 2 years... LOL
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:55 PM
0

None
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:40 PM
9

I admire the effort but dont let approaching women to be only goal of your life. Try to focus on improving your life so women will approach you. Find what you like and become good or better yet a master at it.
/r/seduction19/09/19 08:42 PM
2

Yeah just arrange a date and thats all. Keep texting to minimum. Dont complicate things keep it simple.
/r/seduction19/09/19 07:51 PM
3

If she is your offical gf then yes but when it is first date ofcourse not
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:59 PM
5

Give her a hug and a kiss on cheek
/r/seduction17/09/19 11:12 AM
10

This is some Connor Murphy cousin.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:03 PM
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