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Eh not really for the summer. Try going to Paris or Rome and you will only find Americans and Brits... locals go on vacation and most Europeans go to the sea/lake/mountain, so you won't find many people in the bigger cities.
/r/seduction12/05/25 09:19 AM
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Imho in the first date you have to know a person, but not the whole history of that person. Moreover it is kinda weird to pretend to look for a relationship with a person you barely know and that barely know you in the first date you have with her. So it is much better to stay light on first dates, have fun, and reserve something for 2nd, 3rd, 4th,.... dates ;)
/r/seduction22/08/22 03:49 PM
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Just been occupied. I've been in your shoes, try simply to stay off the phone for long span and doing whatever you want, sports, watching TV/Netflix, video games. Whatever. You then realise that answering back in 10 sec is not necessary.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:55 PM
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Seems too needy to me rather answer something like "I'm not Security, I'm ...." followed by the name. From there start talking.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:52 PM
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Why would you care about strangers opinion on how many sexual partner a girl you probably like has had. Do you care if she has slept around in the past? Really is your confidence so low? The most important thing for you is if she is been honest with you, in that case you don't have to care about how many guys she has been with.
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:01 AM
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Because you are interviewing them! Why people are so hard to understand that! Text in general are little less personal than general talking when you start asking point blank questions it would directly become a boring discussion afterwards. One question is enough from that build some discussion and try to be light and fun. Then ask her out as second or at most third question...
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:38 PM
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Lmao that's literally untrue.
/r/seduction16/04/22 08:41 PM
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Download tinder and hook up with a real girl. Even if you don't particularly like her at least it is a real interaction that gives you some experience.
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:31 PM
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Why sounds shitty? If you have 10 women and had to pick 1 you would pick the worst? Or random? You would be pickier too.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:58 PM
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So if you want a girl with big tits, fit, with good personality and a career you are a low quality man? Lmao...
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:57 PM
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College itself? Just suggesting.
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:32 AM
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Lmao, loser mindset to come out with 3 "methos" only because you are so terrible with online dating. Also you are delusional if you think a person gets catfished online is then more open to cold approach. The contrary is rather true, imho.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:18 AM
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Address her you are no more interested, i don't like ghosting people and always felt like ghosting is a weak move. But if you feel better, it will work either way.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:51 PM
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It may happen when you kill the mood really hard... if your pause of 20-30 min included you doing some stuff or being mentally oriented to something else, then you have to start again from the scratch even if you are willing to go again. Take things slow in that case, make out, eat our your girl and get back in the mood.
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:35 PM
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Maybe, maybe not, because if I met a girl from my country abroad is not certain that she would be more open to me. But in general I think you are right, then you have to add a layer of "mystery" linked with dating a foreigners that most person would have (males too tend to think girls from other countries are sexier/better lovers in general).
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:33 PM
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Italy, but travelling around whole Europe (when possible).
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:30 PM
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Italy
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:29 PM
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What you called "down to earth" in reality is the myth of the foreigners. It is the same in each nation. As a non-american i would say you american girls are the easiest to get and the one of my nation the hardest. Then on the same theme I watched girls of my country abroad been the easiest going around, and almost incredibly when I met them abroad they are not aviable just to me... So I end up to the conclusion that girls are generally more open to guys from other nations respect to them. Moreo…
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:50 PM
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Probably they guys you are hit on are not that good in game. When you are really enjoying a conversation you will forget everything around you. Moreover it will help you going in social place where it would be seen normal to be approached, like bars or clubs. You will feel less social pressure. Finally, you could still use online dating, if you are hot you would have 100+ likes a day and you only have to pick the top 1% (or even less) of them.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:49 AM
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Pregnancy may be the last problem, first time you are with him and you trust him so much he doesn't have any STDs? Keep playing safe until you trust him enough at keast!
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:34 AM
1

Everyone has his preferences but I don't know a single guy that considered size/shape of boobs as a dealbreaker. Of course women with bigger boobs on slimmer bodies are generally considered hot, but I would say the face is 80% of the attraction, 20% is other physical attributes.
/r/seduction17/03/22 09:56 PM
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In my experience it really depends on the girl. In my country it is generally around the 3rd that a girl is open to have sex. But you have ti analyse objectively what went wrong and what went really well in your dates. And also is the girl open and willing to schedule more dates? If she is really positive toward you and you are having fun during your dates why not making more?? If you are dating just to have sex one and done, then you should move on ASAP.
/r/seduction13/03/22 05:01 PM
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This. People don't understand that been subtle piece of shit that just make friendship with the opposite sex just to lay with them is the worst way to make that happen...
/r/seduction12/03/22 10:03 AM
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Not only super models. Once it happened to look at this behaviour in a club with a super hot 10/10 girl. There was literally a "bubble"/circle around this girl. As soon as I approached her all the fucking betas felt like the enchantment was broken and that the girl was approachable and also them found guts to approach her.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:39 PM
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Quick answer: because they are boring. Elaborate answer: "rational men" usually aren't so rational as they pretend to be, rather are people living I their world and for this reason are mostly estranged by the reality of things and mostly lack the emotional connection to things human beings usually have. Moreover, women tend to be connected more to their emotional side, prefer to establish an emotional connection and are more empathic. "Rational men" tend in particular to be less empathic than co…
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:32 PM
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That BS it is like saying people want to talk to real people rather than sociopath is a way to reach more attention 🤯 That's so fucked up, but I understand why Pua suggest this way to people.
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:05 PM
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Ons = one night stand Ltr = long term relationship
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:29 PM
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Happened the same to me last time I had a tinder date. Thought it was because the girl just wanted a ONS, in reality it was that the girl was just private and didn't want to give away his social to random dudes on Tinder. I ended up in a LTR with the girl too.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:38 PM
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RSD Max is from Austria and on YT used to had shit tons of field report. Don't know if he disappeared now but back then was pretty popular as one of the major PUA of Europe.
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:44 AM
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Where I said that you have to "text a girl all the time"?? Tell me where. Start to learn how to understand a text before talking about seduction. The only person that get it all wrong here it is you. I Saif that not texting at all a girl or just for the purpose of setting up a date is pure cringe. And it is, you can call it having a goal, but in reality it is only a big big show of neediness, and most time than not you will get forget by the girl which isn't into a guy just after some random int…
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:44 PM
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Imho not texting at all a girl is the cringiest thing a man could do while interacting with a woman. It is like you don't know how to do a thing and so you completely avoid that? That's bs. Anyway it is not everything lost if I was you I will let pass some days and if she didn't text you anything you can text her back casually (if you really want her, I still suggest to move on).
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:15 PM
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There is a great response in the comment section (the one with 4 option). I think that the truth is among those 4 option, probably she was left after sex before or she really want a serious relationship not based mainly on sex. In any case I will talk to her if I was you. Try to talk seriously about your situation, be ready to listen her and let her open up about this problem. It is really the only thing you can do now, make it clear of of what you want even if you respect her choice.
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:47 AM
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Great answers imho, I was about to say the same possibilities. For me the 2 more likely to be are 1 and 4, and i think in any case OP should be talking to this girl to understand why she is behaving like this.
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:43 AM
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There is a chance that you are not for ONS and there is nothing to shame you for. Imho in this case there is nothing you can do other than avoiding ONS situation and rather pursue FWB relationships or more serious relation.
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:20 PM
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Lol you were not cucked, before you could be cucked have to be in a relationship with a girl. So next time worry less about a loss and just enjoy the night. If a girl isn't into you and prefere someone else is your fault only till a certain limit. Move to the next one and smooth the edges of your "game" to not make the same mistake all the time.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:25 PM
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Universities and campus facilities if you are in that age rage. Bar, cafeteria, book store otherwise. As for hobbies do what you like if you go there only to meet with girls you won't have as much success because people will know you are not really into the hobby. Anyway I will always suggest dancing class and photography class, as the majority of classmates will be girls. Also the gym is a viable option but I really don't like too much to hit on girls while training.
/r/seduction27/12/21 09:34 AM
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So wtf? Captain Obvious. It is a part of being human also tackle your insecurity and try to improve.
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:23 PM
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I think you had to watch a psychologist rather than looking on reddit, honestly. It looks like you are insecure but once again it is really hard to tackle this from the other side of the screen. I will generally suggest you to think that your girl have decided to date with you and not with all the other dicks around IG. So this put you much higher in the social scale than 100k other dudes out there, there should not be anything to be I secure.
/r/seduction26/12/21 11:47 AM
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Man it was clear from the title of your original post, and your last answer to my OP make it clearer (otherwise you would have known by yourself that what I said wasn't in contrast with itself). You come here to have some support on your beliefs and the way you are answering to my comments make it even clearer. You are not here to discuss if someone has different ideas than you. Otherwise you have already started rather than attacking me.
/r/seduction25/12/21 07:59 AM
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Struggling in what?
/r/seduction25/12/21 07:53 AM
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It is not contradictory at all. Power can come from social status and also you can totally get girls without been the most powerful person in the city. It helps but it is not a must. Second, even if you are broke you can be an interesting person, money could help, but they are not all. You could be rich and travel a lot and be way more empty and boring as a person than a brokeass guy out there. If you think money is everything I really suggest you to rethink your life priorities.
/r/seduction25/12/21 12:31 AM
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Ok when I says it doesn't metter at all i mean for average guy who has a work and a place to live. Anyway if you live in your mom basement and are unemployed I will rather suggest to find a new job rather than a new girl first so once again if you don't have some basis probably you have bigger problems in life than finding girls. And I wasn't referring to you in particular.
/r/seduction25/12/21 12:25 AM
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Being honest money doesn't matter at all. There are 2 things that matter related to money: 1st money gives power (in general) and power matter way more than money. 2nd money tends to give better life experiences so helps making a more interesting lifestyle that will help with girls.
/r/seduction24/12/21 10:47 PM
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I agree generally never ask if she has a boyfriend but I would also say that if you feel confident and you think it is the right thing to ask in a particular moment go for it. Gaming is about not giving a fuck and do whatever you think is the best aside from what the perfect answer is. You have to know basics to move the right direction but any situation is different. For example one time I met this cute girl in a club and after talking (like 5 minutes tbh) and joking a bit with her and her frie…
/r/seduction18/12/21 03:06 PM
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Oh wow now I see you so edgy, you are in the top 1% of the world.... I'm not a white Knight, I'm just not a moron like you. You pretend to be smart and entertaining in reality you are just mimicking what PUAs sold as the truth... Reality is you are as boring as anyone else and people are not divided into 9/10 boring and 1/10 interesting. But you probably lack the basis of social comprehension to understand that.
/r/seduction07/12/21 07:38 AM
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Don't want to impress anyone but saying 9 out of 10 women don't know how to flirt and are boring seems a lot misogynistic thing to say, and also totally untrue. You are not trying to impress people if you are just an ok person.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:13 PM
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I will take just the last line, because anything else is literally he worst possible mindset. "I'm not bad, it is your problem" that's literally why people now think to be smarter than everybody else. So I would rather say, that if out of 10 women 9 are bored by your text it IS actually your fault.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:02 PM
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What are you doubting about what I've said? What you say didn't respect my observation and full life experience as a man. I always had to do the first steps and so it was for most of my friends (only few very good looking could just wait women to do the first step, but also they usually made first steps too). I give you a suggestion, try to go to a bar a club or in general in more socially accepted placed to hit on girls. You will find at least a 50-50 of men hitting on women. Try it, you have n…
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:16 AM
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Mmmh I think you have to mention more things, like context, places and even city/country you are referring. If you go in a library for example, don't expect to be approached, even you make big eyes and smiles at a guy. Probably he is not there to flirt to begin with. If you just walk around and look at guys you like it would be difficult to recieve a lot of cold approaches, I would say that only a 5-10% of guys are bold enough to make a move like that, unless they are not out there for your very…
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:48 PM
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Man, you are not creepy if you look at girls. I would say also that after a while you will it totally normal as you probably watch other person. If you want a suggestion go outside alone to make a walk wherever you may like and force yourself to have your head straight up, never watch your feed or the ground underneath you. Then look a people, men women, whatever, and my assumptions about their names and life. This simple trick would help you to think about other like humans, with same struggles…
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:41 PM
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Totally agree, the easiest way to talk in the gym is to just ask how many sets they left.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:32 PM
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It's dependent if it is the very first meeting with the person (after meeting online). In that case it really depends on who you are and what frame you put 9n with the girl is, but an handshake is totally ok. In general do whatever you feel comfortable, it is not one of those deal breakers. But a hug is for sure the right body language in a date.
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:33 PM
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Lol what? Can you read or are you stupid? Where i said i harass girls at all?? In what world is misogynistic to say that guys didn't go after the sluttiest girl out there?? Because I don't know where you live but it isn't even close to be the case IRL... Anyway you are probably a troll or a total dumbass, i wouldn't even bother reading you.
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:48 PM
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It will make it easier to get harassed... also guys usually didn't really go with the sluttiest girl out there, only low quality men will pursue the easy ones.
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:12 PM
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Eye contact and body language are a must. Also smiling a lot towards him, be open and dance with him too. If a guy didn't look at you it is probably not interested, but you never know, so if you are really attracted to him feel free to approach. I won't follow the suggestion of other here if I was you about wearing provocative clothes. These make you look like a slut not as an attractive girl. Imho you should rather dress as you like and as it feel more comfortable to you. As a guy I assure you …
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:48 PM
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Ask to hang out or invite him to some event to do together, whatever it is. It is quite easy , don't overthink it, the sea is full of fishes too.
/r/seduction12/11/21 08:49 PM
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Probably he got frustrated by your behaviour in the first place, also because it is soo early in your relationship he probably won't understand your reasons. I guess you have to wait now, maybe you can double text him if you really care, this would improve his mood for sure and help him understand you had real issues. Next time this happens I suggest you to find 30 seconds to made a brief quick answer to his first message saying you are very busy and you will answer beck ASAP.
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:00 PM
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I think not, even if you change voce. If they find out they could fine you because you are using someone to make money without any agreement behind. Not expert but this could be labelled as illegal work if the people involved are not ok with that.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:58 PM
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Lol what truth? It is not 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:46 PM
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Yeah the kind of animals which have evolved enough to have rational thought... But you are probably closer to animals rather than humans.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:12 PM
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A lot of bullshit. I bet you are the type of man saying he is not misogynistic but actually is.
/r/seduction16/10/21 07:25 AM
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Wrong subs to ask, I think it has more to do with you and it is probably a psychology kind of thing. Anyway I'm guessing you are feeling insecure and that you cannot stay with a girl you have idolized like a pure thing, while she is still human and made your very same decisions. But to you probably she looks easy and not worthed once you know she slept with a lot of men. Spoiler: as you grow up you will find less and less girls with few or none experience unless you are ok on big age gaps betwee…
/r/seduction16/10/21 07:23 AM
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I'm guessing OP would have liked them breaking up so he could become the legit new bf of his fwb.
/r/seduction15/10/21 10:26 AM
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I think it is a personal thing. For me it was the exact opposite, as soon as I start to go at the gym and taking care more of diet my result went down. They began to rise again after lockdown when gym where closed or almost closed for more than a year (and I only trained in house, when I obtained great result based on effort only making push ups).
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:31 PM
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Cograts bro you do the right thing! If you don't want to do something you should never do that! No matter what, if the girl gets pissed of by you she doesn't deserve you in the first place. I can personally say I wasn't so ready to turn down the proposal when happened to me to have no condoms with me once and after talking to the girl and she assure me she was safe and relatively recently checked and on birth control she even let me saw the blister with the pills... I regret not been more strong…
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:06 AM
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Simply say that! Sometimes people forget how simple it is to speak. So for you it is awkward to ask someone to pay for his shit but it sounds totally ok if someone ask you to pay for himself. Would you always pay for your friends when you go out? I imagine not. What if one of your friends continues to ask you to pay for him? Wouldn't it sound awkward? So why if it is a girl asking you should consider this ok?
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:35 PM
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Just say no. I assure you they will like your douchebag attitude 😉 Also don't care, if the girls moved away from you after you refusing buying them the shots they will probably do the same after the shots. They are seeing you only as a credit card, so stop being someone else credit card.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:02 PM
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I considered it as a part of body language.
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:28 PM
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I think there could honestly be 2 things: you are not as hot as you think (but there is no problem in that); your body language mixed with your way of dressing and behaves gives the wrong signal to men around you. For the first you don't have to going mad, I don't know you so I can't judge, but I could say that also ugly people could find happiness in relationships with the other (or same) sex. In this case you have to work on your personality, be more friendly, find interesting hobbies and atte…
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:26 AM
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This is incel material. I told you form a foreign point of view. American girls are the easiest one to get by far I ever met. They are more open, less conservatives, more sexdriven and in general more inclined in hookups that most women around the world.
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:56 AM
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Best thing to do is going to the girl house. Also don't be shy to use university/public place bathrooms.
/r/seduction08/09/21 08:13 AM
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This. I see a lot of incel don't understanding this, that there are struggles for both just different types. I think also statistics says it is a problem with YOUNG people in in general men and women to not getting laid a lot.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:03 PM
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I reapet what I have said before. You need some serious help from professional psychologist! You are so fucked up mentally bro that you say things like "at this age it's probably too lete". Like if you are 60 or something...
/r/seduction05/09/21 12:29 PM
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If you don't find enjoyable seducing a girl and rather prefer to work you may have some problem dude, at least for my standard and I like what I'm doing at work. As for the inexperience part you could always find some inexperienced girl too. Use Tinder for that, is way cheaper than going to escort. Also I personally was in a lot of situations where I was the inexperienced one (or the less experienced) with respect to my hookup/girlfriend at that time, but it was never a problem for me. You can l…
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:21 AM
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I was never been in Australia but 150$ for a night out seems to be too much and on the upper bound of the spectrum. Also 100$ for an escort is not "cheap". If you really want to dive into the economy behind this "choice" I bet you can have a night out way cheaper, plus you can avoid going clubbing a lot and rather go out at bars (don't know how nightlife work there) and using tinder to set dates/hookups. Still I don't think is both cheaper nor convenient to go to escort rather than approaching. …
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:07 AM
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So you pretend to live in a country where having sex with an escort is cheaper than go clubbing?? Lol Anyway that's the weakest mentality a man could ever had, as if fucking a bunch of escort is the same than fucking a bunch of girls met and seduced in person. I may suggest you to rather "waste" (in this case not so wasted) your money in a good psychologist to learn exactly why you are so insecure about yourself that you need to "boost your numbers" then pretending you don't care about what othe…
/r/seduction05/09/21 05:21 AM
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Decisively not. If you think that you completely get wrong about the game. The game is about improving yourself, not changing yourself to look to others better. You actually become a better version of yourself, just like going to the gym make you bigger but you would never say that working out is about manipulating others just because people generally like fit people. So the game is about maximising your chances not changing who you are. And even if it was like that, if you don't like who you ar…
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:56 PM
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Man, please. This post is bad on different level. First you are asking generally to "successful guys" on here anyone bold enough will consider himself successful. Second, there is nothing written in stone and hobbies is not the key to success in life as much they aren't for girls... You have to find what you really like! You can start doing whatever shit people on here suggested to you and don't become successful anyway. If you do what someone else likes you will only end up disliking yourself, …
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:22 AM
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They feel in an higher social status that any other male just because they can send out shots and drinks to girls. Everyone get jealous when saw someone perceived on a lower status than him doing better things with women. It is usually a beta mentality. Don't worry about this behaviour bartender are usually not deserving their own perceived superior status and behaviour like that discredited them more than helping them.
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:40 PM
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You don't have to do nothing. Take a break. Then ask yourself is it really better not even trying vs gets rejection? I'm assuming you have studied the basis of seduction, otherwise use the gap time to study, ready and Wath as many material as you can about seduction. Then put yourself out there again. Because the worst rejection and failure you will ever get is from not even trying to do something. That's a live advice as much as it is a seduction matter. Never forget the goal is to enjoy your l…
/r/seduction28/06/21 12:57 PM
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I also find H&M shitty mostly but it is perfect for someone who doesn't understand much of style and doesn't want to invest a lot of money in it. Personally I don't like the style of Uniqlo it is too large and it seems like you pay 30$ for a unicolor piece of cloth that is 1000% above its production cost...
/r/seduction26/06/21 11:34 AM
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Agree, but maybe for a chubby guy a fitted T isn't the best choice. In that case maybe better a shirt.
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:37 PM
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Fake, go to H&M and buy 3 jerseys for 3$ each and a jeans and you are more than ok with 90% of girls. No need for fashion style, no need to wear Gucci, Versace or other big fashion firm, and you definitely not need nothing too extravagant. I literally had a couple of roommates that put all their attention to buy latest fashion styles shoes, jacket, shirt, whatever, and their success with women is not significantly better than most of the guys who don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:17 PM
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I don't agree. You don't know what shit is going on in their couple so you should not feel bad to let a girl leave her boyfriend for you. Maybe she and her bf are already on the brinks of separation, maybe he is abusive and she just seeking help, or maybe something different. Moreover people could change. This fucking stigma that people are just what they are is stupid. I get a lot of people make the same mistakes over and over again, but we are not all the same! The red flag came if she didn't …
/r/seduction22/05/21 10:21 AM
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I don't agree porn is anything close to be social accepted. Anyway I firmly don't think that caffeine alcohol porn or drugs are the problems. They are the SYMPTOMS of something more problematic for a guy. You keep a man away from those thing but if there is some problem he would turn on something else, e.g. among others gaming, gambling, OCD on stupid thing and so on. So rather than working on removing things from yourself or restricting their usage, understand why you begin to use them. If you …
/r/seduction17/05/21 06:55 AM
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It really depends on you and what type of person you are. If you feel like you may regret it then give to casual hook ups a chance.
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:15 PM
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In reality there are an appropriate subreddit to ask specific questions about single issue of seduction or relationship. This sub was not meant for specific situations, rather for general concepts, mindset, FR, etc. But nobody read the rules and there are nobody that moderating the sub nowadays.
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:05 PM
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There is a reason why you never ask a fish how to fish them... Bad/useless advices imho, don't want to offend you OP. What you say about women knows that men are horny and just want to fuck is absolutely out of reality where women constantly didn't recognize that a man are hitting on them for sexual reason only. That's happen all the times with my girl friends, and when i was bad women thought i was just friendly to them. So That's to me is just a big fucking cap. 1st approach is more dumb than …
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:13 PM
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If these are girls you hook up with probably they are just interested in that for you. Generally speaking if you are not into hookup or you want to built something different you can "use" these kind of girls just to try new things and/or set new frames. If every time you made the same mistake it's not all fault of the girl, ngl.
/r/seduction24/02/21 02:29 PM
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For fun, what could go wrong? of course if a person highly insulted you or your intelligence it is a different thing.
/r/seduction24/02/21 01:35 PM
21

Don't know if you are so insecure/closed minded to only be able to think on one person only. Even if a girl is just bored and reaches out on you after long time and you already have labelled her as non potential partner, what cast to just joke responding to her?? Sometimes I see you wannabe life master and game guru taking things too seriously, like in this case how can hurt you to respond to someone?? I think it is way worst to completely pass out on these kind opportunity, and that shows also …
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:37 AM
-1

Next to her all the time, in front of her is suboptimal because you pose yourself in a more formal way, instead been next to her you will look immediately more friendly and informal. Bonuses of sitting next to her is that you can do kino and touch her more easily.
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:21 PM
1

Things for what you have a logical explanation for ARE the truth and ARE NOT what I (or someone else) believe to be the truth. There's a lot of philosophy here and I don't want to convince you. I only hate to watch those irrational gratitude for some superior entity that for some mysterious reason have to influence you life. If you don't like my idea, peace.
/r/seduction09/02/21 03:01 PM
3

Lol can I suggest a more human-centric point of view? I think that would help you improving game too.
/r/seduction09/02/21 01:08 PM
-1

Yes and no. As far as objective stuff happens to me you are not allowed to believe in something untrue.
/r/seduction09/02/21 01:06 PM
-6

I like everything here but you faith in god. It wasn't god to help you but just basic human interaction and sociology/psychology. Stop giving credit to god for everything that went well.
/r/seduction09/02/21 11:52 AM
0

Partially disagree, if you are ashamed of yourself you will never improve. I even told that to my regular girls and that was never considered weird because of the frame I have and basically I don't give a shit, so I think it actually can help because when you say that you show a lot of confidence. If you said that like an excuse of course you will sound cringe.
/r/seduction26/01/21 09:06 PM
1

Go for it
/r/seduction30/12/20 01:29 PM
2

Yes but you are talking about other international students not italian women. But yes erasmus is notorious to be an easy way to get laid a lot.
/r/seduction29/12/20 11:23 AM
1

Almost 2 million people city with 5 or 6 different universities the first; 400k people city with just one (but big) university the second. In Bologna you can live more among other students, in Milan other than students you can meet a whole different world. Bologna is more about going out with friends in streets and squares, Milan is more going out on bars and disco. Bologna is famous for students parties at home, Milan is famous for its wild nightlife in clubs. They are different so each have so…
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:51 PM
1

Imho: Hungary, Czech Republic, Spain, UK, Netherlands.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:44 PM
1

Nah, Russian girls and in general eastern European girls are way more accessible even if prettier.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:43 PM
1

Pick Bologna, I will suggest Milan as the best place to do university. But Bologna is definitely the best to do street game both in day and night.
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:40 PM
1

In general are more conservative and yes they are less for casual stuff. Usually girls here have sex at the 4th or 5th date, almost never within the first 3.
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:16 PM
1

Easier than Italian girls yes.
/r/seduction28/12/20 12:14 PM
1

Believe me it is way harder. Take the average italian college girl and average Spanish (or German or other) and you will see that Italians are way less accessible. Source: went to university in Italy, spent my whole life here, versus travelling around the EU.
/r/seduction28/12/20 11:09 AM
1

Doing erasmus every country is ok, but keep in mind that some italian Universities are very very hard (and didn't have lessons in English). Also for the women keep big university cities like Milan, Florence, Bologna or Rome, you will find more open minded people there (in particular Milan) more foreigners like you, and erasmus parties are crazy (at least in Italy). As for France in my trips over there to me it seems harder to approach, girls avoid contact from strangers most of the time. I also …
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:48 AM
2

Believe me italian women are not so accessible.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:44 AM
2

Girls are harder to get. They are very pretty to me, with Spanish girls I think they are the best Europe can "offer", but they are really hard to game with (differently from Spanish girls). Generally I think it is because people are more closed and because men in those countries have already tried a lot with them (my opinion).
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:42 AM
1

Nope I'm Italian always lived in the EU and believe me, Czech Republic Hungary and all the other mentioned above are considered Eastern European countries.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:38 AM
1

If you want local girls yes, I would say so, in particular street game and using English. Cold approaching at night may be easier in both countries but still harder than other place.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:36 AM
2

In my trips to France it was like setting the game on hard mode 😅 biggest difficulty is the language, French hardly speak English in France and for what I see, differently from Spanish, they would help you to communicate.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:33 AM
2

If you never held a hand to a girl you have to work a lot on your confidence, like a ton. Do not discard completely cold approach, keep in mind that doing game on strangers is way way easier than on someone you already know.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:30 AM
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I mean, central EU is more France, Germany, the Netherlands, Belgium... historically the Eastern block included every east to Berlin.
/r/seduction27/12/20 06:40 PM
4

With Eastern European countries I mean: Czech Republic, Slovakia, Hungary, Romania, Bulgaria, Lithuania, Lettonia. But also Ukraine, Belarus and Russia.
/r/seduction27/12/20 06:13 PM
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Prague, Madrid and Amsterdam are some of the easiest cities to do games in EU. I'm European and I would had to your ideas: Approach locals when you are abroad, usually locals girls are more into foreigners, don't know of this works best for me as I'm Italian; in Europe all cities have a city centre, forget malls or other areas like in the US, you have to hit the streets and squares in center where the monuments and all the touristic points are. Over there you would meet the most person. Get info…
/r/seduction27/12/20 05:14 PM
2

I rather think that if a girl (or a guy) says that she/he doesn't want a ONS, she/he means exactly that are not into that experience. If you want a ONS I still think the best thing to do is to just be clear and honest. Also if you end up being needy after you get laid probably you are needy in the first place and you have just faked non-neediness.
/r/seduction21/12/20 02:13 PM
5

I don't think that beginner materials will kill beginners from even starting. I think that in this sub the most obnoxious things that will kill anyone game are the wannabe guru of games, the ones that told you they are ten years into game and stuff like that. And also the guys that says "Don't/Do X and your life would chance", mostly because there isn't any single issue that will help everyone.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:37 PM
0

There shouldn't be a focus, everything that could help knowing girls is useful imho. I read the post and it is crappy
/r/seduction24/11/20 10:49 PM
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I think that social media and dating apps are just two way to talk/know girls nowadays. Avoiding the use of one of this is equivalent to say to someone to stop cold approaching, imho. And I don't think that IRL interaction are that much better, mostly because texting and talking are not that much different. I know a lot of guys that like you didn't use that much social media and are super awkward when they use them and IRL they have no problems in talking to anyone.
/r/seduction24/11/20 10:16 PM
3

It depends on where you are looking for girls. And this doesn't mean that a tinder date could not be also the love of your life. But if you consistently rely, for example, on dating apps it is more likely that you find only girls that didn't want a serious relationship in the first place. Then you have to ask yourself what you are doing for the girls. If you are overly focused on sex or didn't give any boyfriend vibe to the girl she would never be willing to consider a future with you.
/r/seduction24/11/20 09:28 PM
0

Big ego is game killer...
/r/seduction24/11/20 09:17 PM
2

Cinge. Ultimately it's popping like shit this idea. But repeat a thing don't make it through. If you start with this mindset there is no game at all. Just to follow your numbers 5 dates per 100 tinder matches. How many girls you have to cold approach before getting a date? Be honest and you will see similar results. You prefer IRL interaction? Ok, but don't pretend that other ways to knowing girls aren't good. Imho, this way of thinking of OP is the real Beta-mentality. Probably OP is not good i…
/r/seduction24/11/20 08:53 PM
0

It is the wrong mindset because you cannot avoid completely a way to interact with women!!! How in the world you didn't understand that?? You go out made street game than what happen? It isn't always possible to insta-date someone, what will you do? You say fuck it, you will not take her phone/social media?? That's why your mindset is completely beta male and in general socially fucked up! Instead have the balls to ask for a phone number, text girls the right way and ask her by text. 90% of peop…
/r/seduction24/11/20 12:03 PM
0

It is not I don't believe you, that's just the wrong mindset. Don't know your demographic nor location, but this numbers seems hyperinflated. So you don't ask a girl out by text, I'm guessing you never ask for phone number/social media, right? To me it is stupid on so many level that it is not I don't believe you, what you are saying is simply laughable.
/r/seduction24/11/20 08:22 AM
1

I think you have serious problems in understanding people. If you think in texting like a never ending thing of course you are right, but in that way you are doing completely wrong. You know you can escalate and ask for a date THROUGH texts? That's a thing bro. If you are very socially unaware you cannot text as well as having an IRL interaction. IRL you can still be friendzoned and be one of the dozens simps a girl have. If you are not able to escalate through text and as a girl out you cannot …
/r/seduction24/11/20 07:23 AM
2

Lol why texting should be "girly communication"? Never heard bullshit like this... even talking IRL with girl give her validation and you could become her beta friend in zero seconds if you are bad in interacting with women. Following you beta-logic someone who is bad should never talk to girl too! Real beta male mentality is to quit on something you are not comfortable with, something you don't know and are not able too. As I say before you can avoid everything that is out your comfort zone, wh…
/r/seduction23/11/20 10:28 PM
1

So you rather eliminate completely something just like it is different from what you are used to? Just to be clear, adopting your way of thinking, selling things online should never work because you don't have the same feeling with the costumer; dating apps should never works because dating was always made in person; social media should never works because social interactions were made in person since 20 years ago. Are you understanding how non-sense your logic is? Texting is ONE way of talking …
/r/seduction23/11/20 09:57 PM
5

I think this is a perception thing, when you don't have time also little attention from others seems a huge thing that distract you. I noticed this spiked when I was preparing exams at Uni.
/r/seduction23/11/20 05:01 PM
1

This is real a poor suggestion. I mean this is good and perfect if both you and the girl your are/wanna be texting are socially awkward, introverts and boring people (which a lot of people are, even the ones that says the contrary). Sincerely I never found a problem in texting girls, of course like everything in the world you don't have to exaggerate this and you still have to know how to do it right. Knowing someone else through message is NORMAL, it's nothing to stigmatize or to avoid. Using t…
/r/seduction23/11/20 04:05 PM
1

Over text it could seem cringe but IRL it is a huge way to boost attraction. Another good example is when, after been intimate with a girl, you say something with a double sense and then you say "of course for x/y/z non sexual thing" instead of implying sex related thing.
/r/seduction26/10/20 04:34 PM
1

First, think what you want, the man have to do the first move. Is 2020 and even proud feminists wouldn't make the first move. So if you prefer waiting for the 5% of the girls out there who will make it then good luck. Second, nobody was talking to go straight to a stranger and the first thing you say is "can I have your number?". So the context is perfectly the same, the question arrive at the end of an interaction, of course I didn't consider at all the possibility to ask for number/social medi…
/r/seduction22/10/20 02:13 AM
2

Absolutely not, as it should be! She gave me her IG and I texted her first. She then continued to talk with me and planned a second meeting/date.
/r/seduction21/10/20 09:22 PM
2

Totally agree. The girl I'm dating right now was even hesitant to give me a contact at first, then she admitted she would have regretted if she hadn't done it back then because she realised in days after first meeting that she want to see me back. So don't follow shit like this.
/r/seduction21/10/20 06:49 PM
0

I don't think so. Believe me, italian girls are difficult also on dating apps, for this reason the ratio match to date is very low (also asking to other friends here). Watching on r/tinder in the US dating apps seems to me to be in easy mode with respect to here tbh. I think you are just putting up some excuses, anyway I just give a suggestion and I know that there are particular cases but in general is possible to boost, also just by a bit your ego. Of course you have to put some effort in maki…
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:03 AM
0

I live in a rather small city (Milan) in country not open go dating apps (Italy) where girls are mostly locals which are among the most difficult to properly approach and to deal with. So don't try to pick excuse. I you have such a big ego that not seeing every day dozens of matches you are at a wrong place to begin with. Personally I take dating apps like a game and just for fun (not meaning I looking only for sex, that would be thirsty af). If you have a playful mindset approaching them you wo…
/r/seduction12/10/20 09:22 PM
1

The best suggestion I can give to a guy is to use dating apps as most of the girls using them, to boost your own self esteem. And I know you can say "are you crazy? Girls revives hundreds of matches and likes per week, it's not the same". But, I can assure you that with an OK profile you will get a lot of likes and matches too! Also if you're not so much good looking (I will say at least 5/10, as I think of myself). Then you can get 10, 20, 100 likes/matches, no matter how many, think about them…
/r/seduction12/10/20 08:46 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:43 PM
8

Maybe you are an idiot, those seems like clear shit test. Girls want to see how you react to that. Are you the confident guy how isn't scare to talk about girls on his sexuality? Or are you the shy guy that turn red and didn't say nothing? Or something in the middle? To me those are just basic sht test girls give to men constantly while talking.
/r/seduction11/10/20 02:28 PM
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Nope and really I'm not that interested in opening a slutty drunk girl, I mean anyone could do that. And it is a 5-10% of all the possible girls out there? 15%? Still the astonishing minority of them anyway, if I have to adjust i have to do it for what it is in the middle of the curve. Then you're free to do what you want 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:03 PM
1

Meh i usually make a joke or two and I don't go straight for the date. First this help me let the girl know I'm not a weirdo but actually funny and second this personalized more the interaction and the girl didn't feel like she was just a number. It usually works well for me.
/r/seduction09/10/20 07:59 PM
2

Like shown masculinity in general you know? Be confident, eye contact, kino, for irl or been confident e make jokes about you and her through text. These are other ways. You know straight girls usually find sexy a man who could just be a man. There's no need to make double sided sexual jokes, at least at the very beginning of an interaction. I mean you don't do that to guys you just met why does this sjould sounds like a good idea with women? You may find more open girls about that, but in gener…
/r/seduction09/10/20 07:11 PM
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Yes you should, not too soon tho. Rather when you have talked enough to a girl. Think about that, would you make a sexual jokes with a dude you have already met? I don't think so. But you would do a lot of sexual jokes with your bros that you know long time. With girls is the same.
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:30 PM
10

Nah as soon as possible is bad, you end up been creepy most of the times. Introduce sexual jokes after a while. There are more effective way to not hide your sexuality.
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:29 PM
2

If you don't sexualize you will never be seen as a potential sexual partner by a woman. If not verbally you have to escalate physically. Pick your poison.
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:08 PM
2

When you get an info about her don't just get it and move on. Use that info to: a) make guess about her (the funnier the better); b) relate to this info with something about yourself (the more interesting the better). Then you have to be able to made funny jokes about what she said, after a lot you are talking or after some dates make also some sexy jokes. These will bring up the argument of sex in the convo.
/r/seduction09/10/20 05:45 PM
4

The only thing you can try to do is to ask her for a date on 2 weeks from now. If she have all is fucking life planned then you could do nothing but move on.
/r/seduction07/10/20 10:20 AM
1

Thanks! I just try to help others!
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:30 PM
2

Thank you 😊 that's the best compliment a girl has given to me in a while ahahah
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:23 PM
3

Yah yeah exactly! Anyway I'm sad about what you said about yourself. Hope you the best! Lots of Love 😊
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:34 PM
2

That's nice but quite uncommon between girls 😅 you sure have a lot of experience and you should be a very objective person. As I said before, most of the girl I know aren't aware of what works or not works with/for them and end up giving the worst advice possible to guys 😅 But nevermind I was just asking.
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:41 PM
2

It's not a cliche but reality, women don't know how to pick up women and would be strange the contrary. Same is true for girls asking advice from guys to how to pick up boys.
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:02 PM
5

I'm rather wandering were did you learn about seduction for men 😅 Usually girls suck in giving advice here, because they are a lot hypocritical in this matter. I have girl friends that would say touching is a no no for a first interaction but then when they recieve it they responded super well 😅
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:56 AM
2

Yes I will never suggest to be aggressive, i think it is a big red flag for a guy. Maybe out there there is a 1% of the girl that may end up appreciate it but I will never consider this an option in general. If a girl reciprocate with touching me I may be more willing to escalate but never in an aggressive way and always in a playful way. Dating is fun, there is no reason to be aggressive or pushy, everyone just need to have fun!
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:48 AM
1

What you don't want to do is to say her how shitty her relationship is. It may be counterintuitive but it will work better the long term. Instead tell her is bf should not be that bad if they are together. Let her think about her situation by herself, or if you openly say that you don't like him she will defend him. Don't be shy if she actually says good thing about him, take them as advice because that are the things she likes about him and you want to imitate them! You are in the friendzone an…
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:33 AM
2

Yes in one simple word you have to be social smart out there! And sorry if I wasn't clear enough before 😅 English is not my first language so I make a lot of mistakes
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:20 AM
10

You know when you are talking with your bros on you give them a tap on their shoulders? Or when you give them a little push? Or things like that? Think about that, with your bros you do this naturally. With a girl is almost the same. Whatever you are talking about when you make a joke put an hand on her shoulder when you feel you will do the same with one of your guy friends. Or if she make a joke about you give her a little push. Or if you have to say she is smart point at her head. If you are …
/r/seduction05/10/20 10:17 AM
4

Of course a guy have to see if the touching are welcomed or not. If the girl shy away from touching, even during dating it is a sign of her not be that interested, in my experience. Ando also yes, absolutely not touch the lower back of a girl if she isn't your girl. But without tuching you cannot jump straight into kissing or more... If a girl is really into a guy he could skip the small touch but i would never suggest to do so to a guy because it is the best way to built sexual tention during a…
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:55 AM
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WOW the first time i saw a girl posting actuall useful advice on here! Anyway that is exactly my way of doing. I will just add that kino is the key. light touching here and there, maybe on the hand or on the shoulder, while talking and get the girl used to the guy touch is the absolute must. Then yeah, hug and then kissing and all the other passages you have said!
/r/seduction05/10/20 09:31 AM
0

Yeah I said that for the lol
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:25 PM
0

The phrase was for the lol
/r/seduction03/10/20 09:24 PM
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You're a cringe guy
/r/seduction03/10/20 05:35 PM
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Don't be salty for their sarcasm and don't take them and you too seriously. Asker back to their jokes with your own and smile at their jokes if you find them funny. I saw that using self-irony is always a good thing in this case.
/r/seduction03/10/20 03:49 PM
2

I'm not talking about that, I'm saying your post is unreliable.
/r/seduction01/10/20 01:55 PM
2

You said things that are the opposite in the same post, like he was successful and have his life and then saying he chase women and put them prior to his interest. You say he sleep with a lot of girls and they you say he is needy and push away women from him. I mean you made a real mess mixing up shit and general good things, I think just to made a plausible stories to sell to betas and karma-whoring a bit.
/r/seduction01/10/20 12:44 PM
9

This post started well then went totally wrong. So basically it starts "I have a friend which is very successful and objectively attractive, he has great career passions, etc..." to "you are idealists if you have 1 nerdy hobby and disrespect yourself and your career". That's kinda bullshit to me.
/r/seduction01/10/20 09:15 AM
5

I would say that in general is not a huge turn off at least you don't come up too needy/desperate. So you can definitely initiate, I think he would appreciate it as a sign of your interest and it is a confidence boost for him, but don't push the pedal too much. Give him space and do not double text him too much. I know you may be horny, but if you message him too much without answer you will seem needy and desperate, and you will eventually loose him. Just think honestly what you would think if …
/r/seduction21/09/20 10:35 PM
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This is a thing I will always miss! But the days when I could have 4 years crush for a girl are done for a while for me. But I appreciate your post, I imagined the same back then.
/r/seduction17/09/20 02:26 PM
2

Remember FWB stands fro Friend With Benefit, so the girl should be your "Friend", not only a girl you want to smash. Anyway fuckbuddies exists you may be honest and tell her you are attracted to her and you just wanna smash. She might reject you, but I mean she is not your type so move on eventually.
/r/seduction16/09/20 04:46 PM
1

It depends on where you are. For beginners 50-50 is the best way. Then I will suggest a 90-10 or also a 80-20 if you don't feel too confident about your game.
/r/seduction16/09/20 08:30 AM
0

He was talking about the "spark", and surprise surprise there is no spark 90% of the time. I don't think he was talking about chasing. He would have say "don't chase girls". And that's would be fine. OP clearly talked about that seduction didn't work if there is no "spark".
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:35 PM
0

I totally agree!
/r/seduction15/09/20 02:37 PM
1

I know, but a lot of people seems not.
/r/seduction15/09/20 10:51 AM
8

For all the new guys in this forum, this is the one single biggest LIE you would read and heard here. There will be some girls that no matter what you do you cannot attract them, because they are already into a wonderful relationship, because they are not looking for new partners right now, because they are lesbians perhaps, or other thing. And that is fine. You cannot have control over these kind of things. But, the vast majority of the girls you would ever meet would not be into this category …
/r/seduction15/09/20 08:44 AM
3

That's basics seduction shit. Never heard of Models by Mark Manson?
/r/seduction15/09/20 08:09 AM
6

It really depends on the girls, I have talked to girls who were the first to put up some double entenders the first time I talked to them 🙄 as well I know girls that find these inappropriate also from their well established partners. But I may agree with you that in general it is not a thing to do in the first 15 minutes you are talking to a person, maybe later
/r/seduction08/09/20 02:16 PM
3

Maybe waiting till dating is a bit too much, but for sure I would not use them from the get go. I will rather reserve these more into the convo with a girl.
/r/seduction08/09/20 01:12 PM
0

Yeah truth hurts...
/r/seduction31/08/20 06:24 AM
2

Yeah this is one thing, but also friendzone exist because women usually like the attention of other men even if they will never make anything with them, it is a free confidence booster for girls (but this is true also for men friendzonig girls).
/r/seduction31/08/20 03:16 AM
1

How many girls are you fucking? How can you say that this is an issue for most of the women?? I mean to say that this is a common problem you should have "tested" a significant amount made by a statistical reliable number (so spread by different ages, cultural backgrounds and so on). Also did you directly ask those girls if the issue was 50 shades of grey or the use of vibrator? How can you put the blame on this? Truth is that there are some men and women that like vanilla stuff and some other t…
/r/seduction22/08/20 05:14 AM
1

Try with photography or art related stuff... since these are more "visual" not speaking should not be a huge obstacle (at least not for non retarded guys).
/r/seduction21/08/20 01:17 PM
1

Yeah but that does NOT mean that you can get girls only if you are handsome! That's bullshit incel mentality!! That's the problem not the shit PUA are selling. Seduction work on the numbers, if you manage with your action and words to stay in the middle of the curve you will get at least a fair amount of positive response, but if your behaviour put you in the lower end of the curve for you will be harder to close the gap, even if you are handsome as fuck! Also, good looking people generally have…
/r/seduction17/08/20 09:05 PM
1

Yes but look at the comments here, everyone is saying this shit and getting a lot of upvotes... this sub is doomed
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:31 PM
0

Aside from that I suggest you to live on what you can change rather than blaming what is out of your control 😉
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:46 PM
8

I' really concerned where this community is going right now. Seeing that the most liked comment (even awarded, gd) is basically contradictory to what seduction is, and is borderline incel theory, is very heartbreaking and a shame to this community... Too many shitty post lately and too much wrong mindset in here 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction17/08/20 05:52 PM
3

I completely disagree on more than one level. First I saw a lot of good looking guy act like creep and don't get not even nearly as much chick as they could just because they make the wrong move. Of course there is that 1 out of 10 girl or more that would be desperate and into the good looking guy no matter what, but this doesn't mean you cannot improve your chances. If not seduction is not a thing for you, and I completely disagree too with that. Second, I tried first hand, I managed to turn on…
/r/seduction17/08/20 05:46 PM
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Nah, absolutely not true. It all depends on what you do and say. Only then a girl could be attracted to you or not.
/r/seduction17/08/20 04:08 PM
1

You are welcome, hope you make progress soon ;)
/r/seduction13/08/20 10:08 AM
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I jump directly to answer your questions: 1) It's not usual for guys to be approached but since they recieve very few attention from girls, I think that every guy will be happy to be approached, it is as much of a confidence boost as it is for girls (if not more), and this will play in your favour of course against maybe prettier girls. I think it works the better on low confidence guys, instead for guys with very big ego it could be counterproductive (or at very least give the wrong image of yo…
/r/seduction13/08/20 09:20 AM
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I went out for drinks or icecream or coffee. To me the "alcohol factor" is non essential, because neither you nor your date will get this much of of alcohol in your veins to be more open. At least with one or two drinks this should be the outcome for two adults and I never get drunk on a date. So I think you can go for a coffee and leave drinking dates for when you have no option (like for going out on nights or if she is into it a lot). This way you can make your dates less expensive. Ps: 30 bu…
/r/seduction13/08/20 07:42 AM
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Nah, betas complain about everything and about shit they ain't much control over. That's beta mentality. Alphas actually do what they have to no matter what.
/r/seduction12/08/20 09:51 AM
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I agree with most of what you said, but I have the issue usually (don't know if it is only me) that when I talk and try to connect with people with my same passions that people seems to me more strangers and linked to me only by one common passion (which actually it is). For example, when I played basketball at young age I was one of the few that didn't make any friendship inside the team because after a bit I feel like those people are strangers and we didn't have anything in common outside the…
/r/seduction12/08/20 09:43 AM
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Unspoken truth: this is beta male mentality.
/r/seduction12/08/20 07:36 AM
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Yeah it is late but what does it change? For a boy it change nothing, for girls there are actual body changes and it is actually something to think about (and it is also painful for what they have said to me). Being virgin with the right mindset is better than losing virginity in this way or with prostitutes...
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:55 AM
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You lowered so much your standards just to fuck a living being and lost your V card that make it completely worthless. And I really don't understand what's the point to loose your virginity as a man, we are lucky that we didn't have the same relationship with virginity that girls have, so why we have to put on the same level our V? For us is just a matter of experience, been a virgin for a man mean bean at level 0 of exp, but being at 1 is really not different from being at 0. Moreover you're ju…
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:19 AM
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I read about that some years ago. Basically is a man that is extremely focused on himself, his career, his success. Is called sigma because he is almost the opposite of an alpha, because he doesn't seek the leadership and is not interested in social connections at least it is not his main focus. An example are usually extremely successful researcher, mathematician, musician, etc, who dedicates their life to their scope. Some women actually like this type of men.. Edit: this is what Urban Diction…
/r/seduction11/08/20 02:58 PM
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It should turn him on. At least this work for me.
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:52 AM
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It depends on your relationship with that man. If he is your boyfriend it should turn him on. If he is a guy you are dating but didn't have sex with it should turn him on even more. If he is just a random dude, meh it depends on the subject. You could seem to desperate in that case and maybe you end up attracting the wrong kind of man (the one who just see the opportunity to fuck you because you seem horny to him).
/r/seduction11/08/20 10:51 AM
2

I was thinking the same, that's a Simp bro
/r/seduction11/08/20 07:47 AM
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They are usually nerds. Real alpha men are natural leaders, have charisma and are charismatic. Are very social aware. Anyway there is no one type of alpha man, it depends on the situation, you can keep a man that is alpha in one situation and in other are on the lower end of social hierarchy. We are more complex than chimpanzees or wolves But anyway people that are only focused on work and improving are generally considering sigma-men not alpha.
/r/seduction11/08/20 07:46 AM
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I would leave apart your ideas about how to get a woman. But remember never ask a fish how to catch a fish (this is true also for me trying to answering your question as a man) But getting a man is based on the same principles of getting a girl (real ones not your ABC). Basically seduction is based on action and interest. Action: make the moves, even as a woman, not be scared. I know that most women (and also men) think that a girl that make moves towards men are usually considered "sluts" or at…
/r/seduction10/08/20 05:54 AM
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Just read her answer and this statement could not be more true! I always have said that!!
/r/seduction10/08/20 05:32 AM
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That's seems like an horrible ABC...
/r/seduction10/08/20 05:31 AM
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Man don't fuck up this please. You are entering in the "circle of suffer" and if you continue to think like that you will never come out of this. Focus on what could go well instead, she could be an awesome lover, person and who knows maybe she could end up been your wife... You don't need to be Jonny Sins in the bed, girls standards are lover in bed because usually boys are bad in it. If you are scared of not been good enough try to learn something that she could enjoy (like giving oral or fing…
/r/seduction08/08/20 08:14 AM
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I sow a steady decrease in getting girls since I get fit, even if that I have to admit that I recieved some compliments about my body by girls and that's nice. But I was better with girls when I wasn't in shape because I was more focused on impressing girls for what I am and not for what I seem.
/r/seduction07/08/20 05:50 PM
1

The problem is that they should not exist. As a man i hate them!
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:01 PM
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Don't know, I mean the important thing is to be educated and chill in every interaction with others. Violent and obnoxious men are real things, and they should be educated better...
/r/seduction07/08/20 07:31 AM
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I really hate that men like that even exist. It make life worst for everyone. Girls rise their barriers against men, and men who are not like this have to fight through this barriers... Guys easy up and learn to deal with rejection!
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:53 AM
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Just don't give a fuck on your hands. I'm like, if you are enjoying your date or talk with a girl why you should think about your hands? Just move them a bit while talking, take one hand in your jeans pocket and the other outside, or both in the pocket. It really doesn't mean anything. More important is to stay straight with chest open, it is seen as confident posture and will show you in all your height, thus seeming taller than similar height guys.
/r/seduction01/08/20 01:58 PM
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OP said that 4 months were of quarantine. I think ti was out of is control to not seeing her. Anyway he played it stupid as fuck. If you don't put any effort in a relationship don't be surprised if it vanishes as soon as possible...
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:31 PM
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I'm the only one asking why a guy should try to slide into a girl DMs by asking this kind of things?😅 Also OP, you should have answered "never ask a fish how to fish, rather ask to a fisherman (and then giving him the contact of your bf)". I just realized that girls generally don't "understand" (not in negative way) why they are attracted to a guy. When I asked that to my girl friends (both gf and just friends who are girls) usually the answer is something like "I don't know he is so lovely, int…
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:32 PM
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That's not a confusing game, it is just that nobody like too agreeable people (i.e. the ones that push only. Life is simple, there is no need to be a master in irony to make someone laugh or just to not seem awkward.
/r/seduction24/07/20 06:34 AM
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That's the wrong way to deal with girls, imho. First, if you want to fuck a girl it is really bad to fake a friendship, and in general if you show sexual interest in one of your friends imho it is not really a friendship. Second, and most importantly, you may have luck sometimes with this, but in general acting as you said you seem mostly: desperate, not confident, overall not a great partner. For what I saw it is really rare for a guy to come out of the friendzone, so I would never suggest some…
/r/seduction15/07/20 04:50 PM
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It depends on your behaviour, be flirtatious and have fun. This mix will leave no doubt. And don't be scared of seem too interested in her, she would get this as a signal that you want more than a friendship. If she didn't get this, than she is not interested in you, so move on.
/r/seduction06/07/20 06:02 PM
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But in a relationship it is a completely different thing. And also push and pull is for starting a convo with a person and in first stage! I know that girls are more emotional, for this reason the jokes have to remain jokes and they are fun until they didn't last long. The perfect example of using push and pull is when you first met a girl and say "hey you have a very good style! I love your jacket" she say something like "oh thank you!" And then rather to just say how good she looks or continue…
/r/seduction06/07/20 09:00 AM
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But as I said, if someone did it in a non genuine way, or it is too forced, this sounds rude. But with guys being smooth in doing it this is great. As I say it is just normal interaction with your friends you are not always kind and you can joke with them also with their insecurities, it is just a fun way to create bonds. At least male friendships works like that. And this is the very same thing. The logic behind i think is that a guy which is "kind-kind-kind" and gives only positive spikes when…
/r/seduction05/07/20 11:44 AM
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You can believe me or not, but every single girls that I know and I have talked about that told me the very same thing, but then I saw the very same girls falling to this "tactic" everytime. Also in non romantic interactions I noticed girls making stronger friendish bond with guys doing this as friends (like in male-male friendship, this happen all the time). The point is, as you say, to talk in a natural way, and if a guy is good, he is just good also in push and pull. But I assure you to look …
/r/seduction05/07/20 06:12 AM
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This are really things that someone miss out in his life? And I mean some of those stuff are basics! I will suggest to brush your teeth 3 times a day anyway (after every meal would be even better), and when you cannot make a full shower due to time at least wash yourself by piece (that's why you should have a Japanese WC or a bidet in you bathroom), and at least under arms and groin area (but don't make less than 4 shower a week).
/r/seduction04/07/20 05:41 AM
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I generally noticed the opposite actually is true. And also for me it is the opposite, I'm quite better IRL than via texting. I always think that my jokes and kind of sarcasm and irony didn't translate well to text, and I'm a bit too shy via text. As I said I noticed also that for some girls that's true.
/r/seduction03/07/20 05:38 AM
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Meh, generally speaking this is a bad advice, mostly because most of the guys out there will rather chase the fuck out of a girl by following that. Also there will be some guys that will feel somehow attached to this girl and completely turn down other opportunities. So be very carefull to follow this advice, i will rather prefer for beginners or medium level gamer to move on if a girl is too flaky... you maybe miss an opportunity after 6 months but you can develop a world in those 6 months if p…
/r/seduction30/06/20 08:34 PM
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Push is when you say something to give her positive emotional spikes, pull is when you do the opposite, i.e. negative spikes. IRL a push could be a direct compliment the pull could be a sarcastic observation of something wrong with the girl behaviour/looks/outfit. Remember that the 'pull fase' should not be an insult, you have to use sarcasm and irony in your words always.
/r/seduction27/06/20 01:30 PM
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Yeah this is mind boggling to me. So basically down the street you didn't want to sexualize asap, but you want to keep things normal and on low profile. The most important int this post gave to non beginners imho is to make openers with assumptions or by complimenting the style of the girl (glasses for the OP). That's work well often because girls really put attention on their outfit and style in general so commenting on every accessories she have will grant her positive vibes at least (at least…
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:52 PM
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I think a lot of guys out of this subreddit, because this is really the basic of cold approaches...
/r/seduction26/06/20 07:19 AM
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That's literally basic stuff I'm still surprised how many guys continue to miss this kind of things. For example cold approaching down the street is possible, if guys gave you the same opener that you recieved in university your response would be better, even if you are in a rush. And in general when a guy is down the streets should be able to see if a girl is in a rush or not, if she may like to talk or if she just don't want to be disturbed by others. But as I said before, this is basic stuff.…
/r/seduction26/06/20 07:18 AM
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Yes covid killed dating, at least for me. Just yesterday I went out with a tinder date and she asked to were facemask and take at least 1 meter of distancing the whole date. At that condition it's a bit pointless to date a girl, but I give a chance to it. But turns out to be one of the worst date of my life with all the interest for the girl gone as soon as I met her...
/r/seduction24/06/20 08:20 AM
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"Bars maybe colsed but if people go outside street game may be an option" that way I interpreted that you mean outside the bars. Anyway general street game isn't better right now either...
/r/seduction21/06/20 08:34 PM
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We were talking about street game next to bars where small groups of people gather...
/r/seduction21/06/20 06:23 PM
1

Post funny stories, possible something that you really like and enjoy which also is something girls may like. Also respond to the stories of girls which you find interesting. Use their posting to know what the girls may like and be always chill and fun when interacting with women. Don't be a creep and don't comment on her body (at least not in the first stage of interaction), and don't be scared to text her, probably a dozen or more guys are texting her right now when you are thinking, so have f…
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:49 PM
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Good for you, in my country (Italy) girls prefer to stay more distant for strangers, and if they crave the attention it seems to me that they prefer the one from their friends. So for this reason this pandemic is showing me that it would be better to friendzone some girls to have them when I may need instead of having little to not friends which are girls...
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:44 PM
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I went out a couple of days and in my country we are out of the quarantine for a month now. Girls generally stay with their friends and when tried to talk they prefer to stay more distant, no matter what me or my friends say or do. I actually did it and prove that for now going to bars is not as great as it was before...
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:41 PM
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Yes start with IG, it gives you good chances of interemacting via stories. Good luck man!
/r/seduction20/06/20 03:16 PM
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Social media game and dating app is the way for now imho. Girls will be scared to meet strangers now, so you do better to invest your energy in social media game were just being friend of a friend is ok to be considered 'safe'. Also with dating app you have time to know girls and probably you can have a date in a safer environment so the girls shouldn't be that scared. Remember that not taking illness is one of the major blocker for girls to interact with men (that way their barrier to sex is hi…
/r/seduction20/06/20 02:15 PM
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Would you really enjoy doing street game if you have to stay 1 meters away from others and wearing a face mask (for some this will be better lol I'm joking)... also I think girls will be more scared of meeting with strangers which may be infected by covid so I don't think it is easier that way either
/r/seduction20/06/20 02:10 PM
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I saw a lot of "beta man" like answer to your post OP, I hope you actually didn't listen that much to those. First and foremost, I hope you understand now that asking if she have a boyfriend is just a stupid thing to do. Second, she might be in relationship or not, she might be shittested you and you are falling to her shit test, she might be at the very end of her relationship and just want someone to move on with in her life, and so on. The important thing is that you cannot know if what she s…
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:52 AM
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Naah, you don't know anything about this situation, she maybe isn't in a relationship and just shittested him (he made the most stupid question imho), she might be in a open relationship, she might be at the very end of her relationship and just want someone to move on (a monkey never left a rope before it have grabbed the next one). Sincerely you gave this guy the worst suggestions you can give him right now...
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:44 AM
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Like man, everything is better than dinner and movie (like the worst idea possible) for a first date. Usually a walk and/or a coffee is nice and give you a lot of opportunity. But also grab a drink at a bar could be ok if you can only go out on nights. If you want to be more original (but it really depends on the girl), go to a museum, a particular festival in you city, public event in general that are in open places and where the attention should not be that high to the performers, go playing m…
/r/seduction16/06/20 09:09 PM
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May I suggest you to read "the subtle art to not giving a fuck"? Basically you have fear to be rejected by a guy with you have a crush on, so you are try hard to be likeable and agreeable with him for the fear to lose him if you show to him your real self. But that's normal. The way to overcome this thing could seem brutal, i.e. you have to "trick" yourself to not give a fuck about your crush (or what real PUA would say you have to really embrace this state of mind). Convenient way to do that is…
/r/seduction16/06/20 06:30 AM
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I also constantly think that nobody is into me, but so what? What's the matter with this? I can't do nothing about it, you can't, anyone can't. So who cares? Just be you, try to be the best you can be and just approach girls! Don't overthink this IRL, just leave it as a shower thought...
/r/seduction14/06/20 08:09 AM
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30%? I was thinking something like 26.7% lol
/r/seduction13/06/20 09:59 PM
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I think that single women just like single men would be hornier after lockdown. On the fact to be more open for hookups I'm more sceptical, because I think that there will be a bit more of awareness about possible transmission of diseases (one of the major factors to restraint women to hook up in general). Nowadays just talking without a face mask on could be risky so I don't know if it will be good for cold approaches and in general approaches from strangers. But I think that if you have some g…
/r/seduction13/06/20 09:58 PM
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Targeting friends of friends is the best way to do social media games imho. You get to know "real" girls, i.e. girls that are not on social apps to "work" (or wannabe), also you have that link that bond you with her that is a great plus and let you be more familiar to her and she would be more receptive than if a random dude texted or followed her.
/r/seduction06/06/20 05:47 AM
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I really don't get this hate for social media and dating app here. We live in 2020, and we are just coming out of a global lockdown, how in the world would you know girls in this period if not online? And more in general, why in 2020 would someone have to completely ignore one way to know/getting girls? Because is also true that 80% of women you do cold approach will reject you anyway. Would someone say "do not waste time on cold approach"? It would be insane, also because mostly a man would be …
/r/seduction06/06/20 05:40 AM
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Go in the parks of your city, with beautiful days you will find a lot of girls just walking, or taking sun or reading. Also in the city centre (bonus point if you live in a city that attracts tourists for some monuments in your city) you will find a lot of people that usually are there to take a walk or doing something and you can just stop the girls you like.
/r/seduction03/06/20 01:03 PM
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I think that dating app like social media game should be only a side way to know more women with respect to IRL approaches. Personally I didn't dislike at all using dating app (even if I'm not a huge user and currently didn't have a profile on them for years now). I think they could be helpful to develop chat game, and also even if girls are not that good as the one you can get IRL you can still enjoy their company and grow in both experience and abundance mentality. So I would say: 1 real life,…
/r/seduction02/06/20 09:35 PM
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I don't think that i started from zero and I'm not even close to hero. But I think it is personal to considere where 'zero' and 'hero's levels actually are. For example when I began to improve myself I feel like a hero even if the result where modest in absolute numbers, but the firsts success were great compared to what happened before. Anyway stupid answer imho.
/r/seduction01/06/20 10:03 AM
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Be more "female", I think you have to give a shot to r/fpua But in general I think good dressing is a must (as for male), good hygiene (as for men, good smell, good skincare), smiling more is a boost to get more attention from men. And at the end of the day just be funny and a bit flirtatious, that will give dudes more guts to make the first move.
/r/seduction26/05/20 12:36 PM
2

So you are saying that you didn't look for her social media yet? 🙄
/r/seduction23/05/20 12:03 PM
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I think the contrary is true. You find yourself, what are your goals and you build up your confidence, then that 50 women will come.
/r/seduction21/05/20 08:57 PM
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The only bullshit i cannot state enough in the community is (OP quote): "finding who you actually are by approaching tons of women" That's just bullshit and stupid as fuck, and it also go on the opposite way where true alpha-man values go. If you need women to find who you are, there is something terribly wrong with you and your needy as fuck mindset.
/r/seduction21/05/20 12:07 PM
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I think a lot could change by what kind of girl you are looking for. If you want a deep connection with a girl you could find the right girl also on Tinder or other but, but in that case don't swipe right to Tinder-thot and too agreeable girl (at least that seems like that). Also I think dating app should be used as a filler for moment when you can't go out (like this pandemic) not on regular base and to substitute irl with girls.
/r/seduction18/05/20 08:10 PM
1

Lol Simp
/r/seduction20/04/20 09:44 PM
2

Is this some incel post?? Stop being a pussy and you will see that also girls better than you will consider to date you ;)
/r/seduction20/04/20 09:37 PM
1

What would be the next advice? To breathe? Or drink water? What? Don't go out during the hottest hours in summer? That's not an advice at all. Good karma whoring.
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:29 PM
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It's all about your mindset. Videos and books are not meant to be just copied IRL. If you cannot extract any values or basic ideas from those just stop watching that shit either because it's useful or because you can't learn anything from them. As for your IG game i will say that you choose an hard way to start. Moreover if you consider the situation we are now in, it's really not easy for improving IG game. Just for reference to have good IG game you have to: A) have a nice profile, that show t…
/r/seduction08/04/20 08:56 AM
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It seems to be a thing dumb as fuck. Also when you ask a girl for her email to write her over there, what she will think? It really seems to me a very cringy thing to do. And if you don't have anything to talk about 2 things are true: 1) you are boring/she is boring; 2) you didn't have that much in common. For me it's really hard to don't have nothing to say to a girl i like, usually this happen because the girl is boring and the snob type of girl, which immediately turn me off. I didn't have an…
/r/seduction31/03/20 05:03 PM
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Awsome but a little irresponsible. She expose herself to the risk of contagion comimg to your house (unless you are very close and she walked alome to your house) and also by kissing and everything both of you take the risk of contracting the virus via a person that you relatively don't know that much to be sure she is safe.
/r/seduction31/03/20 10:25 AM
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I was joking man! It was just an hobby that not imply meeting other people.
/r/seduction23/03/20 01:15 PM
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That's not at all a problem. At least your hobbies gives you something interesting to talk about (unless your hobby is to collect trading cards).
/r/seduction23/03/20 09:15 AM
1

Exactly!
/r/seduction16/03/20 06:41 PM
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Don't know for me it's not that much of a big deal, it depends on what your mindset is imho. Also i know a bunch of guys that are addicted to pornography that bangs more chicks than your normal Joe. And on this argument also other addiction seems to me to have little correlation with success/confidence/motivation with women. It all depends if you are addicted because you lack something and you use your addiction to replace a missing thing in your head. But other wise, if you just enjoy your life…
/r/seduction16/03/20 11:25 AM
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I think that as you grow up you also find out different things that you may like in a girl. And also as you know a watch many girls your standards will change. I notice this a lot in particular. When i went to HS the girls in my class looks fuckable, almost all of them, and some of them even hot (even if in those time i wasn't really attracted to them). And that's it, i lived in a small town so the most girls i could meet was at school. The first year in college as soon as i start to know more g…
/r/seduction14/03/20 09:31 AM
1

It's full of infected people from corona. Under quarantine right now.
/r/seduction11/03/20 01:44 PM
2

So basically in this time of coronavirus following your suggestion i should stop to text with girls at all, right? BS! (just for context i live in Italy, where the whole country is lock down)
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:08 AM
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I think it really depend on where you live and where you met the girl. Of course a stranger from dating app need a bit of warming up (imho) even if never too much of this (unless you're a champ in texting).
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:07 AM
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I don't see how porn will play a role in your inability to speak with girls... Of course you seem to be addicted to it, but i see a lot of guys addicted to drugs banging girls like nothing, and that is an addiction like your. So i think it is more a mental thing you have to pass. Watching porn everyday it's absolutely bad, for your life not for your game. You have to try one of those apps that block you from using certain websites. Anyway i will insist to use meditation instead, because the true…
/r/seduction09/03/20 10:30 PM
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Weird line to begin a convo. But you are right. The most important thing i think it's the number of followers. Girls nowadays think that someone is a creep or a highly unsocial guys if you have few followers. Meanwhile a profile with 1000+ follower is seen as a proof of value. It helps you as much as it could help to know a lot of people at a party.
/r/seduction09/03/20 02:45 PM
2

Same
/r/seduction05/03/20 08:12 PM
1

Actually girls appreciate when a man is pushing to change himself for the best. They recognise the effort and the will to be better.
/r/seduction05/03/20 06:55 AM
1

It's not only about having standards, but overweight person have not an healthy lifestyle! So basically if you would have said "i don't like alcohol/drug addicted person" that would be the same. That's bullshit from the Moderators/Admins.
/r/seduction03/03/20 04:59 PM
3

What really??
/r/seduction03/03/20 10:10 AM
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Every time i read post like this i really admire your ethic and commitment to the cause, but every time it let me think that the most important thing is to optimize the number and that seduction is not just a number game. It's like in basketball, where it doesn't matter if you shoot more, but it's important to be efficient, both it Fg% and in the shot selection (ie best shoots are from 3 and the paint). Imho seduction is the same, where i don't think approach 100 girls or any high number is usef…
/r/seduction02/03/20 03:14 PM
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I think what you saw is not a normal thing, but there are some things that you could take as a lession. 1) women love sex as much (if not more) than men. So don't be afraid, they also are just looking for a just ok partner. 2) some women, and from some country in particular, are more open amd easier to pick on. For example all english-speaking country, for some cultural reason are more open than continental european girls (with some exceptions). 3) Also the situation matters! Women on vacation, …
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:20 AM
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Don't know based on my experience the fact that she was playing with her hairs is way more powerfull that the fact that she didn't want strong eye contact. It happened to me that girls feels eye contact as "too much" to give. But nonetheless they were interested.
/r/seduction28/02/20 06:21 AM
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Lol, the worst thing to me is the kind of post that say: 1) do this X activity/ies and you will see your life will change forever! Bullshit; 2) all the other shit here is terrible just think to x, y, z. Litterally the same shit everyone posted before him. Post that try to teach techniques was always poor, but at least usually they didn't pretend to be a life changer or to be "different". Also an honourable mentions to all the "in field" make mostly to fulfil the ego of the writer (ie "look at me…
/r/seduction27/02/20 08:13 AM
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This post start with a libe that works for the very same post. Good job i think it's not easy to achieve that.
/r/seduction26/02/20 02:54 PM
1

That's just a good thing to say to us to be more confident, but it's not that true.
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:24 PM
17

Don't even bother to read. Kissing is 90% dependent on the girl you are kissing. I didn't give two kisses equal one to the other. There are girls that like using a lot the tongue, girls that prefer more gentle kisses, girls that are more touchy and prefere to be touched, and so on. It also depend on situation.
/r/seduction20/02/20 04:29 PM
1

That's the right mindset! I mean it's different from person to person. Since i start to working out my success rate dropped significantly. As well dressing well or bad didn't influence that much. The important thing is to dress smart.
/r/seduction18/02/20 06:07 PM
1

I really like your post and you remember me two years ago when i started all this seduction thing. Really the game changer for me was just my mindset. I had a lot of success my first 3 to 4 months. Then i have some issues to stick to that mindset, after a period when whenever i went out with my friends i was able to close a different girl. Now i lost the mindset because of some personal issues, but i really see myself of the past in your words! I think the most important thing is to acknowledge …
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:11 PM
13

That's just a lie. I would rather say: "don't be needy" that's translate to "don't 'over-chase' women". But if you never chase in any way a women you will obtain mostly low quality women, or if you are extremely lucky in that way you could come out of the friendzone with some of your girl friends (and that is not guaranted anyway).
/r/seduction18/02/20 03:27 PM
1

Sincerely, as you say a lot of this stuff is bullshit. But i have to admit that i didn't know a lot of the things PUA says. It helped me a lot to see people on YT just (seem) to pick out of nowhere, with different method and styles. It gave me comfort. And i never ever considered to buy into those shit because afterall i know that most of what they show is either fake or disguised. I aslo think that trying to make money out people desperation is not a beautiful thing. But on the other hand nothi…
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:32 PM
7

Lots of errors. Oneitis, too much of a big echo, too scared to approach, too scared to take the lead, too scared of opening up to others in general (and girls in particular). I think i've made all the possible errors, aside from throwing my life out of a window.
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:17 PM
1

Nope my first post was not about women. Nope it's not all the same. Nope i don't have issue with women. The fact that you are agressive is not a thing to be proud of. You are just obnoxius, and you clearly have more problems in your life than you want others to think and to admit to yourself. But your comprehension issues are seriously a think i would try to fix with some sort of grammar and literature lessions. Because they are huge.
/r/seduction10/02/20 05:21 PM
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Man it all started with you saying: "You are missing the point. These are only examples. The point is to have a life full of things bla bla..." I answered to this statement by you, so the whole discussion turn around what a life worth living is. We were not talking about dating and women. And yes j approach women on a daily basis, and no i'm not afraid of women, no i'm not afraid of rejection, and yes i'm ok with my rate of success. So don't say bullshit, we were talking of completely different …
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:44 PM
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You are completely missing the point here man... We were not talking about how many approach, but what is a life worth living. You are just another aggressive man here that have nothing to say but spit anger on everyone else... you are pathetic.
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:19 PM
1

I was talking about my passions and hobbies. Of course i try to improve myself in dating by improving myself as a person and stuff like that.
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:30 PM
1

I do it. Every single day. That's not a problem solver.
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:24 PM
1

Don't know, i don't think at all at dating life. For example i know that stay in shape and eating well is a great thing for my healthy in general. I really don't do anything just for sake of improving my dating life. I had my improvement in dating life when my life was easier and with less thing to do just because i was happier back in those days. And i was determined to achieve results. But since i get my MSc in July i start to feel depressed, and of course in that state of mind it's impossible…
/r/seduction10/02/20 06:47 AM
1

No i'm not missing the point. A life full of things you love to do is worth to live only if you are happy doing it. So really it doesn't have any sense saying "you are living a life worth living", because most life are worth living. Nomatter what someone do or not do.
/r/seduction10/02/20 06:40 AM
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I don't know if i need therapy at this point. For sure it will help a lot. I came out of other bad periods like this one using only meditation and beeing focus on my objective. Anyway, thanks i hope i could fix everything soon!
/r/seduction09/02/20 05:22 PM
3

No it's not for making excuses. The time is now, i agree. But a girl won't fix your life, so if you're not ok with yourself you will probably have less chance anyway to get the girl.
/r/seduction09/02/20 05:19 PM
2

Yes, but with girls every guy should have in mind that he could not rely on a girl to be happy. It could happen that a girl in your life will change your mood to be more happy, after all love is the most powerfull (and consuming) of the emotion. But the wrong thing is to pursue a girl to be happy. You have to be happy and have positive vibes BEFORE you meet a girl.
/r/seduction09/02/20 03:09 PM
1

Yeah, but it just happens that "doing stuff" is not always the right thing to do. This is a powerfull lession i learned 2 years ago by RSD Max YT channel, before it turns to shit.
/r/seduction09/02/20 10:21 AM
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I mean, that's maybe your kind of life, but man really doing rafting or jude or whatever shit make it a life worth of living?? Seriously? I will rather say that an happy life is a life worth living, nomatter what you do, you could even spent your days on the bed 24/7, if you are happy that's worth living.
/r/seduction09/02/20 07:45 AM
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What if you have a full life, several hobbies and you are always full of thing to do, ifcyou are working out and eating healty food for a more than a year now, and only if you are lucky have the time for date, but than talking to girls and asking them out (in proposing that just one little spot free) lead anyway to rejection like 95% of the time? I have the answer for you: a full life don't necessarily make you a better person! It didn't make you happy! If you have mental struggle sometimes in y…
/r/seduction09/02/20 07:43 AM
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Do not overgame, sometimes, ie if she gives you all the right signal, you have just to "follow" her lead. Anyway due to forced push and pull, and in general due to the "player vibe", i lost a very good FWB, a girl who have something special.
/r/seduction04/02/20 10:30 PM
3

What was the lay count for January? How many number close? How many kisses?
/r/seduction03/02/20 07:08 PM
1

I would also add that, for what is my point of view sometimes life achievements, like getting a new job, getting a degree, accomplish something, have no sense if lived alone, i.e. having someone to share your success with is way more powerfull.
/r/seduction29/01/20 05:28 PM
1

Don't know what do you mean exactly with "send him a Snap", anyway i would rather try to talk with him in person, if you text (or snap) him try only to do so in order to set a date with him. Don't be worry, this is what men feels in general when they have to approach/talk to a girl they like, so your feelings are nothing strange to humanity. Think that life is too short to waste time thinking about what may happen or what may have happened if you do X. Do whatever will lead you to what you want!…
/r/seduction29/01/20 01:13 PM
1

Asides from all the good reading they suggested to you, i have some suggestion as a guy that was and sometimes kind of is in your shoes. First: start always with foreplays. Let her give you a blowjob and, no matter what, if you cum quickly you can tell her that she was awsome. She would be eventually turned on by your compliments and could think that your quickness is related to her ability and/or beauty. Then give the favour back! Spend at least 20 minutes kissing and teasing her, and the same …
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:21 AM
3

You have to analyse what happen during your interaction. In the most objective way. After all you can not controll the distorted mind of anyone else except you. So don't be too mad for what happened, after a certain point it's not your fault.
/r/seduction27/01/20 12:48 PM
1

Hey don't worry are young an can fix all of your problems. Start to learn how not to give a fuck. Actually search and read about a book colled "The Art of not giving a fuck". That will help you
/r/seduction25/01/20 10:02 AM
4

Why are you shy? If you really don't give a fuck just go doing cold approach. There is a difference from being quiet and be unsocial.
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:54 AM
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More easly women are attracted to confident men, that don't give a fuck (about what others think or do). That's why it is important to not give a fuck.
/r/seduction24/01/20 06:54 PM
3

Maybe i am, but you don't seem to be that great player, but more one of that needy guy that go after a girl no matter what, resulting in nagging and haras a girl rather than seduce her. Anyway you are completely misunderstand the meaning of EFFORT, that's not the simple time itself you spent in texts. But again you completely miss the point and what you're suggesting is only to be needy, not to silence the ego, but to completely destroying the credibility of a man.
/r/seduction20/01/20 05:43 PM
3

You should know, when a girl is no engaged trough messages it's clear enough. If she ghost you several time it's crystal clear.
/r/seduction20/01/20 05:36 PM
2

Yeah but it is super weak and nead to chase that girl to the hell. I'd rather pass on my ideal 10 if that take TOO MUCH effort. Of course i will put the RIGHT ammount of effort, but after a couple of ghosting, i start to think that maybe she isn't my 10 after all, that's a red flag also for personality, so if she slip from the top of the list, why in the hell i have to continue to put effort on her?? It's like to put effort on an 8, while innthe sea there are many 10s
/r/seduction20/01/20 04:32 PM
0

Meh he's shooting 44% from the floor. He take the most efficient kind of shots, i.e. from the paint, 3s and fts. But there are way efficient scorer in the game (e.g. KD, Kawhi, Curry, LBJ till last season, AD, ecc...) but they don't have the VOLUME that Harden put on. In game you have to do the same, i.e. maximising your VOLUME trough efficient methods (in basketball points in the paint from 3 and FTs).
/r/seduction20/01/20 04:28 PM
10

Hell no, continue to text someone that didn't want you is neediness materialized.
/r/seduction20/01/20 02:40 PM
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I agree with most things you have said. But, shit i actually have abundance and standars, i've never chased an attention whore, so there is no fucking way i will chase someone that ghosted me more than one time. I say that because i give anyone the benefits of doubt and i accept that maybe at first i may have not made the best impression so a second chance is up there for everyone, but sincerely i don't have the time to waste with an attention whore.
/r/seduction20/01/20 02:39 PM
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I like your basketball comparrison: game is like playing like James Harden, i.e. in otder to be the scoring champ shoot the rock 25+ times even if you are not the best/more efficient shooter, and shoot only from the most profitable positions, i.e. in the paint, from 3 and on the line. Practice will lead to perfection then.
/r/seduction20/01/20 12:54 PM
1

Use self irony on your situation to show confidence. Put all your money on the character, be funny, smart, interesting. That will be enough to be better than most guys. If i was in you i will invest a lot in growing up your social circle.
/r/seduction12/01/20 07:27 PM
1

Rather than looking for castration think about brain surgery. Because you have completely the wrong mindset and you have to go into a full brainwash. You are overreacting, do you think that all the other guys always succeeded? There are PUA that get continuously rejected, you are not special. Moreover, girls don't have to do nothing for you, it is about what you do to them the most important part.
/r/seduction12/01/20 02:18 PM
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It is a mental thing you have to overcome. I don't think that trying more will help you as soon as you didn't change mentally. For what to do i could say nothing, it depends on you. I can suggest meditation and you have to reach a state where you could self determine what are your problems.
/r/seduction10/01/20 01:42 PM
1

I think that two drinks are just ok, so what's the problem?? Moreover, if you do nightgame and didn't even show up with a drink or if you don't drink at all in general, you will be kind of social awkward and out of place, so in that situation drink a bit is ok. The important thing is to not drink too much (this will kill your game "long" term, during the night).
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:26 PM
1

Spoiler allert: this feeling will not pass once you will have the body of your dream, you can overcome that feelimg only with mental amd interior work. Source: been in that situation and occasionally come back into that shit, even after put up some muscles and proving that girls may like them.
/r/seduction08/01/20 04:51 PM
1

Do your parent live 24/7 in home? If they work i guess it should be easy for you to meet her at your home in daytime. If not go to her place, what's the problem?? Her roomate will not spent his/her whole life in the fucking apartment. Hotel room and airbnb should be used only in extreme case, imho.
/r/seduction07/01/20 06:29 PM
2

Agree
/r/seduction07/01/20 04:38 PM
11

I have mixed feelings about this. A part of the post is completely reasonable and i agree with that. The last part and the first. It's a number game, approach more and that stuff. But, there is a part of the post that i don't agree with that much. I my life, before i know something about game i (almost) NEVER have a girl attracted to me, no matter what i did, how good i look, and whatever i said. So two things left: 1) we just assume that someone could born with (almost) ZERO flirting skills and…
/r/seduction06/01/20 07:31 PM
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I was in your very same situation, but i decided not to play the social media game at all at the beginning. Last year i change my mind after seeing the surprise of literally every girl when i say that i didn't have IG, and after seeing how much success my roomates get on it with basic simple and stupid stuff. So i decided to play the game, but in my own way (not at first where i just imitate others, i have to admit), now i post only photos of my trips, i'm not into expanding my "fan base" (aka f…
/r/seduction06/01/20 11:04 AM
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WFT? If a girl answer to the question "tell me about your self" with "i like reading/writing/painting/whatever" that's a great conversation starts as you could let her tall avout her passions (the easiest thing to do), give you some ideas if your passions match, and also give you a lot of hints for let the conversation flow. For example if a girl answer me "i like reading" i will say "oh great also i love to read (which is actually true), i like to read x y and z, what do you like?" She answer, …
/r/seduction05/01/20 06:28 PM
3

The best way is by hitting clubs with your friends and just plan to have fun with them. Not plans other than that. There are different type of club, you say that you go to salsa class, so maybe find some clube that drop hispanic/latino music, there will ve easy for you to show of your dancing skills, even if the songs will be more commercial you will be able to stand out of the mass with your dancing skills.
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:36 PM
3

It's not kissing his ass, it's just about to be friendly and don't let him feel like you are scared of him. It works also for the girl who can feel your confidence and boldness to not giving a fuck about negative attitudes of others, while spreading positive vibes.
/r/seduction05/01/20 02:17 PM
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Fucking hate that kind of dudes, even more than cock-blocking girl firends of a chick. They are only jealous of your success and if you didn't want to engage any fight you could literally do nothing. One little thing that i try to do in that case is try to establish some contact with the dude and to be friendly towards him. If he continues to be rude then just move to more easy sets.
/r/seduction04/01/20 04:44 PM
1

Years into game and i always believed that cold approach was related to indirect approach! English is not my first language so i may be confused in traslation in the past.
/r/seduction04/01/20 06:54 AM
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I did not. Cold approach mean something. On night game you could do cold approach or rather use direct approach.
/r/seduction03/01/20 09:43 AM
1

It's way more direct approach during night. Cold approach is more of a daygame thing.
/r/seduction03/01/20 08:10 AM
2

You forgot completely night game/clubbing. For me the most successful way to get girls.
/r/seduction03/01/20 06:33 AM
1

I think the right mindset is: she is girl like any other; do stuff that you would do with ny other girls; and just chill and have fun! After all, she will be out of your league for sure if you didn't approach her or if you do stupid things. So just give yourself a chance by doing what you know.
/r/seduction01/01/20 09:47 PM
0

Great!
/r/seduction31/12/19 10:20 PM
1

Again, first hand experience is not a reliable statistical measure. Google it and you will find that Millennials and Zoomers have more interaction and social skills than previous generations. It is a fact, no matter what is your experience. Not to mean as an offence on you, but maybe with your sons it's also your fault.
/r/seduction31/12/19 10:19 PM
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Sorry but also what you had written is only a stereotype. Moreover is completely false as Millennials and Zoomers on average are way more sexual open and aware that previous generation and they end up in sexual relationship earlier in their life, i.e. guys in this days are better than before (if we don't want to slutshame nowadays girls).
/r/seduction31/12/19 05:25 PM
1

Did it work on men or women? Is was not clear lol
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:59 PM
0

Probably yes and probably they are actresses (even not professional one).
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:51 PM
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Ok boomer
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:45 PM
2

Also, it is worthless to spend time and effort to someone who doesn't care about you! She doesn't deserve you, move on. Time is limited guys!
/r/seduction31/12/19 04:42 PM
2

It's not a lack of abundance because you could have both abundance and care for another person. And no, i'm not stuck in your fairy tale of two people that have to love eachother for the power of love. You could replace anyone and that is the right mentality when you APPROACH a woman, and also i can agree that high level of neediness are a cancer for a man, so a guy have to be self conscious of his value. But i repeat, in order to form a relationship, a stable one, a guy and a girl have to CARE …
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:04 AM
1

Then i don't think it's related to lack of abundance mentality. Absolutely it's the worry of losing her, but i mean, it is normal when you care about someone! And i'm talking about normal anxiety not pathological one! If the girl didn't put any effort at this stage, what kind of obnoxious relationship will start even if you are bold and confident? Isn't it better for both to part away anyway at this point?
/r/seduction31/12/19 07:57 AM
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Agree in general. But liking and caring a girl is not a "personal issues". Can we all stop thinking like PUA for a second? The art of not giving a fuck is meant to be used to overcome the approaching anxiety, not when you're trying to establish a relationship with another person. What kind of obnoxious relationship will be formed by two individuals that don't give a fuck eachother? And all of my previous post is about a normal anxiety that a guy could have at the first date, of course i'm not ta…
/r/seduction31/12/19 07:36 AM
1

Again we are talking about two different stages of seduction. You are talking about the very first meet up and impression, i'm talking about something that happens after weeks.
/r/seduction31/12/19 07:28 AM
1

Ok so you are not talking about a first anxiety, but rather a persistent one, right? In that case i agree with that. But in general i see too many girls don't put any effort to help guys (also some of my girl friends), and i associate that to not giving a fuck about the guy or not feeling his anxiety. That is ok, but i think that in this case it's better for the guys (or both) if they don't ended up in a relationship.
/r/seduction31/12/19 07:24 AM
1

I maybe agree, but only as soon as we are talking about strangers. Both the OP amd the CP are talking about something that happened after week(s) of knowing eachother with the girl/guy. Would you like to start a relationship with someone who doesn't give a fuck about you? I don't think so. So as soon as a girl actually give a fuck about a guy she will help him, in particular if she feels that his problem comes from linking her.
/r/seduction31/12/19 07:17 AM
1

That's completely right and i agree with that if we are talking about the very first impression and stage of seduction. But it seems to me that the OP (and the previous post) is talking about something that happened after the first stage. So the girl has just picked the "man" among the "1000s of dm's". If she doesn't put any effort at this stage is probably better for any men if things don't go further. P.s and OT: did youbreally think that girls have 1000s of dm' from men that already have game…
/r/seduction31/12/19 07:11 AM
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Nah, i don't think it is abundance. Two years into game and i could EASLY address that to GIVING A FUCK about the woman you are on a date. It's easy to not give a fuck and be a "free flowing fun loving guy" with girl that you don't like that much, and i agree that you have to put effort to stay in this frame as much as you can. But as soon as a guy start to care about a girl all this shit will come to an end. Of course if the problem is to be anxious every time you talk with a girl it's a huge p…
/r/seduction31/12/19 07:01 AM
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But if you could feel the anxiety and overthinking as you say, why just don't you help the guy?? I mean, if a guy is anxious with a girl 90% of times is because he really like her (for my experience almost 100% of times) and he end up struggling because he try so hard. In my experience, if a girl helped me a bit in this situation is because she like me back (it's very rare), and i appreciate that a lot, but more often it seems to me that girls could not feel the emotional part of the guy they ha…
/r/seduction30/12/19 11:12 PM
2

Not getting into relationship but also not getting any result after a while.
/r/seduction30/12/19 04:41 PM
4

Congrats man! Almost two year into this "shit", i saw some result (in particular at the beginning, where you are now almost) but nothing permanent. I think i'm the opposite of you! Hope some day i could figure it out as you did!
/r/seduction30/12/19 02:06 PM
1

Personality is absolutely a big turn on for me.
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:27 PM
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Don't know that! English is not my mother language so maybe i know that practice under other names. Yeah it was like that, a new word as xmas gift, thank you!
/r/seduction24/12/19 04:41 PM
6

Ice skating is skiing or snowbording??
/r/seduction24/12/19 04:19 PM
4

I think that walkimg in the city center if you live in an historical or cool city, is the best thing to do. Bonus points if there is/are park/s in between the walking. On a walking date you could make a lot of important things like: show leading capabilities, be touchy without the risk of beeing a creep, you could show off your knowledge of the city, make fun of things that happens around you (really important feature also to make good conversation). Alternatively you can: go in a museum if you …
/r/seduction24/12/19 04:19 PM
3

This post is completely unreasonable. So in your opinion just because 90% of guys sucks at messaging so nobody have a chance with sliding into dm's?? In my opinion your point means the exact opposite thing! Lol. As soon as 90% of the guys will come with something boring, rude and inappropriate, it is a lot more easier to stood out for the girl if you are good enough ad it. Personally i can say that social media game is way better than dating app, mostly because gove you more chances, because it …
/r/seduction22/12/19 08:37 AM
1

It really depends on the girl amd the situation. I have kissed a lot of girls also by not doing any physical escalation, as well as when i have escalated a lot
/r/seduction21/12/19 01:55 AM
1

It depends, i personally think that getting fit actually hurt my game, but it could be that also other factor in my life (like high level of stress due to graduate and beginning to work) have played a role in it. Even if i have to admit that it seems like i get a little bit more attention from girls. I think that getting fit is a thing that we do mostly for our fear of not liking enough to others (girls or guys) so it could help to bust a bit your confidence but it just covers your insecurities …
/r/seduction08/12/19 10:44 AM
11

Agree, the worst thing is that some bonobos also upvoted it...
/r/seduction04/12/19 06:46 AM
10

Did you really have richness as a value for make new FRIENDS? Or even relationship? Goddamn...
/r/seduction04/12/19 06:44 AM
1

Absolutely not. I would love it. Maybe i would say to her something to not seem like she actually hurted me, but at the end of the day is through knowledge of your weakness that you can improve.
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:36 PM
1

It would be better but to bw honest it is easier to ghost and don't even explain anything. As men we have to accept also ghosting, in the end it is like when IRL a girl just leave you, it happens and says a lot about the person. If any women behave like this clearly didn't deserve any of your time anyway.
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:35 PM
1

Hey a fellow European here, and i think you make the point here: Maybe in the US/western Europe it’s different . That's all that matters. I noticed it while travelling, there are some place where people are more open, and these are not the most part of Europe. For the other things that you have pointed out i've mixed feelings. You something correct in "theory" but also some things are a bit bullshit. I'm personally not that into day-game for some of the reason that you said, but i would recogniz…
/r/seduction14/11/19 02:14 PM
1

It depends, i prefer not to set hard boundaries even for beginners, or they will have too much things to focus on and they completely lost their flow.
/r/seduction13/11/19 09:49 PM
2

Hands in pockets could be cool in the right situation. Also it helps to show a relaxed way of you, instead of moving nervously your hands.
/r/seduction13/11/19 09:01 PM
1

You don't need that shit. I suggest you starting with meditation, it is 100 times better. Through asceticism you would not solve a thing.
/r/seduction11/11/19 11:12 PM
1

Why should i try bullshit? Hell no! Take your bullshit for yourself please...
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:13 PM
1

I did say that i want give all my love to one mate for life. Also you could never be able to attract every single other hot wome. So the importance to be able to attract hot chicks is fundamental to have real "abundance". Then if you are into monogamy is perfectly right to switch to love only one parson i think. If not than it is perfectly right anyway.
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:06 PM
3

Because only among many hot chicks you could really find out which one is a great fit for you. If you could not attract any woman you could never reach the woman of your life.
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:33 PM
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Because you can watch porn every day, masturbate every day, have sex every day and going out every fucking day for 90 days, and you will have the very same result of not doing it. Mmmmh in reality i think you would have way more benefit actually. And that is just one thing, but all the post have little to none sense. Changing mindset is not related on what we do, but on HOW we do the things.
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:32 PM
17

That's the second most bullshit on a post on this subreddit...
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:43 PM
1

Doritos and wine?? Oh god!
/r/seduction07/11/19 01:03 PM
2

This is subjective I think you have to put this on top of your post. As for the other parts i could say, based on almost two years into "game", that: Direct: night game is way more direct and less time consuming. Girls usually going out to have fun (this doesn't mean they want to have sex) in night, meanwhile in daytime it is very unlikly that someone is going out just to have fun. Meeting a lot of girl in the very same places, requiring you to move little to none saves you time; meeting girls t…
/r/seduction27/10/19 09:57 PM
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You could do better than that! But if you feel too anxious then go with your steps. I would rather increase the number of girls to be approached as time passed, not the cintrary as it seems from your post, anyway.
/r/seduction19/10/19 04:01 PM
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Oh, ok. But then why not just do it? If a girl engage a game like that there is 90% chance that she likes you and will kiss you back anyway.
/r/seduction19/10/19 03:58 PM
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Am i the only one that is thinking this is kind of bullshit? So basically let the girl (amd you) be a bit drunk before going for kissing?? That's may be a good idea for a 16 yo, but that is not really a "great setup" as the OP wanna it to be... I would reder go with emotional spikes, jokes, escalating kino, push and pull, and some boldness without the use of alcohol to let her go a bit.
/r/seduction19/10/19 09:25 AM
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What if she will never reach at you again? For example i was texting with this girl that used to respond to almost all of my stries on IG during August and the beginning of September. When i tried to set up a date she was firstly vague about the opportunity to meet, but then she agreed to set up a date in a day during the week (two weeks ago). It's been two weeks now that i'm "waiting" (in reality i don't care since i'm texting to other 3 girls meanwhile) for her response to me asking if meeting…
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:25 AM
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No, why can you say something like that? Getting a girl and keeping a girl are two different things. Seduction is the act of getting the girl. And all the mindset that you need to get the girl is usually enough to keep her (of course not only that) if you stick to it. But most importantly keeping a girl is more a subject for other subs, like r/relationship. If not, why did they exist?
/r/seduction13/10/19 06:29 PM
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In reality there are various reason why a woman (or a man) may cheat. And that is not strictly related only to seduction or attraction with her.
/r/seduction13/10/19 04:01 PM
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I don't call that "the other sid of seduction". You are only pointing out things that are (should be) normal man behaviour after getting a GF/Wife. That's not seduction, but is the way to be a good bf/husband (and also a lot of the things you have said are questionable, but i don't even want to enter in this discussion). Instead, Seduction is the mix of technique/behaviours/mentality that will make a woman fall in love with you (or the opposite, but this subs is specifically for men seduction). …
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:58 PM
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Where is the "seduction" part in the post?? I think it is a metter of r/relationships or r/relationship_advice, not for seduction.
/r/seduction13/10/19 02:32 PM
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Cockblock friends are very common, but that is not meaning that you act like a creep necessarily. Next time try to be friendly with her firends. Once it happened to me that the friends of i girl in a club actually helped me to close her, just by beeing friendly towards them (and they know that she kind of likes me).
/r/seduction28/09/19 05:33 PM
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We guys use to put more focus than it deserves on how to kiss a girl. I personally don't have a thing that i do everytime as routine, but i think it is more important to follow the "rhythm" of the date and going with my feelings. It happens that in a first date never happen a good situation to kiss a girl so don't be mad at you. The first time i kiss a girl on a date (and i think i will never forget, mostly because i think it was a very cleaver move) i use an inner joke inside the same date, whe…
/r/seduction28/09/19 01:58 PM
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First thing first: you actually look more like a creep if you remain in your corner without doing nothing to a girl. Talking to a girl, make a joke, dancing are all things pretty normal in that situation. Then, if a girl is interested in you (mostly based only on your look in inverse ralation to the time you have spent talking with her and showing off your personality) she will do one ore more of this things: making eye contact, answer to your questions, asking some questions about you, joking w…
/r/seduction28/09/19 01:46 PM
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Yeah i agree but that is not because of pure numbers, rather is a mindset where you know how valuable are you and that rejection happens, whatever you will do.
/r/seduction21/09/19 05:24 PM
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The math behind this is completely wrong and have to be checked, imho. Are you seriously believing that almost 10% of the population of a city is composed by hot (single) women?? So the number should be higher considering also the women in a relationship or too young. That's simply crazy. Anyway abundance mentality is something more, from my point of view. It's when you don't act like a needy guy because you have other choices, it's when you are confident because you feel like the girl is not th…
/r/seduction21/09/19 02:37 PM
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Hey but cheer up, a good female friend could easly help you to hook up with other women! Not everything that hurt will kill you! Look at the positive aspects of your relationship, friends are limited, but the world is full of chicks ;)
/r/seduction17/09/19 09:43 PM
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Two things: 1) she is 47 and probably is more in the mindset of a LTR rather than something nonsense. 2) you are a perfect example of guy in the friendzone, if she says all that stuff to you (sexual and personal life) it's very likely that she didn't see you at all as a potential sexual partner. For this two (main) reasons i would suggest you to looking somewhere else.
/r/seduction17/09/19 12:11 PM
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I think the difference for you is to find other bisexual or homosexual girls. Give a shot to gay pub and clubs, there you will find other girls interested in girls. Because you could not change the sexual orientation of etero-girls i think, at least without the right amount of alcohol lol
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:48 AM
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The important thing of your story is: abundance mentality! With your behaviour you seemed to her more confident and absolutely not needy at all. It is the key with all the girls not only thebone with a bf.
/r/seduction14/09/19 01:29 PM
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The best thing to do is just chill and be funny. You have to act like nothing happened. It happened to me severl times, and i know it hurts a lot because you feel so close to get the "goal" and somehow you could not get it. But i've learned to deal with this special kind of rejection (because it is a rejection) by making jokes about what just happened. In this way you will show to the girl that you are not that needy and that you could deal with her behaviour. It is also the only thing that you …
/r/seduction14/09/19 01:25 PM
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First thing first you have to approach 8 girls a week not 1 a months. How could you do that? Go out, in city center or in shopping centers you will find tons of girls. Open single girls, and also groups don't be too shy. I know right that talking to groups is more difficult but just try. Also go to clubs, nights, bara and pubs. Just hang out with your friends or you could go solo (i think it will be easier with at least one friend). And just have fun over ther. Finally, you have to completely ch…
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:58 PM
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Your answer was a bit a "beta male"-like move. But it is just a feedback for the future. I would have responded with a more bold statement, maybe something more funny and playfull. You played the soft game and now you really don't have to fall into the friendzone (because she already knows that you like her anyway even without dating etc). You have to tease her a bit and remain funny and nice with her. I think also that you maybe have to be more "explicit" with her and sexualize more, because sh…
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:09 AM
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Hey man just get out of your room and try! Everything is possible if your believed in it strongly enough. Keep pushing, get out approach girls, keep pushing for your goal no matter what. Rejection will come in the order 9/10 or worst, but no matter what you have to do something because is better than doing nothing!
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:28 AM
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More simply you should say that you have to cover neediness with a non-needy behaviour.
/r/seduction11/09/19 11:48 AM
1

Yes once i had a fwb relationship (close to a normal gf) with a girl met in university completely random.
/r/seduction11/09/19 10:28 AM
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Yes it could actually work way better than other place if you are average or below average looking. Just because girls will appreciate your boldness to approach them where almost nobody else tried. Streets, parks, universities commom space (library, hall, etc), are all great place to meet women! And just to give you an example i had approached this super hot girl like 10 days ago just in the metro, amd the interaction was quite good (for my standards and also because she was a 10, so it usually …
/r/seduction10/09/19 08:53 PM
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Yeah just going down the streets and in clubs will maximize your chances with hot girls! Dating app? Not really
/r/seduction09/09/19 05:02 AM
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I said that because i'm above average with my muscles (even if i'm not big and super muscolar), but i'm ugly and my result before and after i start to go to the gym are basically the same (or actually it was a bit better before, i think because of luck and a way better mood and positive vibes that i had back in the days).
/r/seduction08/09/19 04:52 PM
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I think you are the exception not the norm. If you are really good looking ok you may get a lot of matches and so on. For average or below average guys dating app is only a way to kill their ego.
/r/seduction08/09/19 04:06 PM
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It is not a matter of being muscolar only, if you look like Connor Murphy you could be half of his weight and chicks will come at you anyway. Being muscolar is only a plus, but ugly muscolar guys cannot get chicks easier than any other ugly guys.
/r/seduction08/09/19 04:03 PM
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It's all about you, i think if it is a part of your personal story you should tell that to the girl. Maybe you could wait to know her better, but do not confuse that with waiting till she is your GF or something like that, that will look like more as an hiding of yourself, and that is not attractive to women. As soon as you say the truth you have to be proud of what you have done.
/r/seduction08/09/19 10:37 AM
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You're basically asking how to approach almost every woman. You're also over-thinking what the reaction of the girl would be, you never know if you never try. And also you are over-thinking about the judgement of the girls, they didn't expect you to openly approach them on the fist place, only few guys are bold enough to do that, and also girls have so much abundance that it is very likely that they were not thinking abput you all that time. So what you have to do now is to simply approach them …
/r/seduction08/09/19 10:15 AM
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You have to be honest and clear. You shouldn't talk about drugs as they are your focus with girls you just met, but maybe you could tell them about your personal history, with your period into it, and also talking about your feeling about freedom of use drugs. That will give you two bonuses: 1) you will open up to your vulnerability with her and with that you will seem genuine to her and this is the basis for creating a bonding with the girl (as Mark Manson say's in Models); 2) you will be emoti…
/r/seduction08/09/19 09:52 AM
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Once a wise man had said "don't compare to other, but compare only with you in the past" if what you said is true, you are a very better version of you right now, girls will come and you have your whole life to get chicks. And i say that from the point of view of a guy who is into seduction only from the second year of my MSc (and had very few experience prior to that, and a lot of anxiety in talking with women).
/r/seduction06/09/19 12:19 PM
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It think you had yet figured that out. Alcohol is a boost in the right quantity, also i find it super socially akward (and also social unaware) to go to a party or a club and don't drink a shit and stay super sober. A thing that PUA always point out to be very important (being social aware or at least not akward), but then fail to recognize the importance to drink a cocktail or two in some situation. Of course you should never get drunk.
/r/seduction06/09/19 08:37 AM
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It hapens to me now, even if i'm not even close to be good looking. But maybe it happened also back in days but i never noticed it. Anyway even if a girl give a look to me it didn't mean that she could actually like me (i know that because i used to approach that girls as well as girls that didn't look at me before and the result were almost the same).
/r/seduction06/09/19 08:31 AM
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I think it could turn out terribly for you. You have to be as good as older guys, but you cannot compensate their experiences whatever you will do. I also think that now you can do very few things because telling her that you will not go may put you in a worst situation than actually going with her. If you can try to make out with her prior to the party, so if she doesn't want at least you are sure to have played all your cards.
/r/seduction06/09/19 08:25 AM
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Good point, for this reason i think it is a huge bonus to try to live a life that at least excite you and then talking about that to others (girls of course). And also the people find different things as exciting.
/r/seduction05/09/19 02:14 PM
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Let me understand: 1) in clubs did you ever used a more physical approach like straightforward dancing? I used it some times and went really well, but i usually be too shy to do that on a consistent base. 2) in solo game did you open only girls for 1vs1, or did you approach also sets of a lot of girls or even mixed? I didn't like too much solo even if i never had a good wingman (instead i would say i had only very bad to bad wingman) but when i did it i always found difficult to talk to groups o…
/r/seduction03/09/19 09:44 PM
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I guess he is between 27 and 30, if i followed the steps correctly.
/r/seduction03/09/19 09:34 PM
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In the past i usually went more chill with 9s and 10s, i really don't a main strategy but i prefer to go with the folw of the moment. Usually i noticed that looking (and being) confident is a must with those girls and as you say before you have to threat them like normal girls and don't overreact to their beauty and behaviour (usually a bit different form more standard cute girls). Anyway everything is a good feedback for future learning, especially rejection.
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:01 PM
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That are great suggestions. For some reason that didn't work for me yesterday i completely forgot that, maybe because she was a legit 10 and it is not common to have some interaction with them.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:41 PM
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In some way you are right, but social status is also made by friends, knowing the place, and in general being cool. Most of the girl are interested in those things.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:04 PM
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Maybe also that. And also i thought that the language was maybe a big obstacle too, because she didn't talk very fluent english and i don't talk spanish.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:02 PM
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We really don't know were to go as tourist so going to that party was not sure for us. When i asked for her IG i said that this was to stay in touch if we decided to go to that party in the end so i mean i put up the idea of meeting at that party. Anyway i think it is better not to pass an approach, you never know what could happen so i have no regret. Maybe yes the luck was not with us and also i maight have overestimated their interest in the first place.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:01 PM
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Oh ok, so it depends on the place you are in. Here most indians come frome India and its neighbour countries.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:17 AM
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Really? I thought that South African are mostly black african and white european people. Anyway if someone see am indian should straight forward think that he/she is from India. Maybe someone could say from Pakistan, Bangladesh, Nepal or other country near India.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:12 AM
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Yes, i personally did it in the past. When real life strikes down there's no attractio that could compete.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:01 AM
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I'm not here for battle, can you (not only you) move out from that mentality? that's onlu a thought of mine. You are free to think something different. I'm not here to convince you, i only point out a real problem that men here have. And that is overreaction to a single 'no', that sometimes is really motivated amd sometimes is just an excuse.
/r/seduction14/08/19 05:00 AM
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Also a couple of week could be normal for any person. For example (that's not the case) when i had exams in university i will lock in my room studying for more that couple of weeks. Moreover she say that she will be a bit busy, not that she absolutely will not find time for him. The point is that sometimes we guys overreact to this kind of "flake" from girls, when in reality the calendar of person could really be very busy.
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:36 PM
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Yeah i know that there are some languages but i thought that most of people speak and understand english. I my country there are companies that organize english studying trip to South Africa, that's why i think english is predominant over there. As for girls, i really don't know, but never heard something like the compliment given to the OP.
/r/seduction13/08/19 08:55 PM
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But it is not fricky dicky that a person is busy for next couple of days. I don't know if OP os not interested in him, it didn't seem to me, instead i think she appreciate the approach. Anyway the point is to not overreact to what may not be a rejection.
/r/seduction13/08/19 08:50 PM
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Ah lol maybe that will work, give it a shot!
/r/seduction13/08/19 08:48 PM
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Ok, but it is different if a girl keeps saying that she is busy rather than when you ask a girl out and she say that she's busy you immediately interpret that as a rejection. The point is to not overreact to what may not be a rejection.
/r/seduction13/08/19 08:46 PM
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It depends, of course if it is a clear excuse i agree with you. In the other cases it depends. I'm also ok if a girl just need more time to evaluate me. Not a deal breaker. The important thing is to not overreact to what may not be even a rejection.
/r/seduction13/08/19 08:44 PM
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I don't have a calendar but i almost always full. So i can expect that also other person could have full timetable.
/r/seduction13/08/19 08:39 PM
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"You look south african" never listened or seen a compliment like that lol 😂 I don't even know if South African girl are more beautiful then other, nor i get how someone that thought a person is from South Africa could speak to him/her any other language than English, lol. Anyway hope he will be a guy for you ;)
/r/seduction13/08/19 05:04 PM
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That is what most men here cannot get. Also women have real things to do in life, so answering "i'm busy" is not always a 'no'.
/r/seduction13/08/19 05:01 PM
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You are totally right!
/r/seduction10/08/19 10:42 AM
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Yeah i say that more as a step 0, it is just the foundation for something bigger
/r/seduction04/08/19 01:49 PM
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Try with meditation and relaxation in general. It will help you with your anxiety.
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:44 AM
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Great i will try some of these things! I usually have some problems in making ONS, and mostly i go only for kiss-close plus number/facebook/instagram and then set another date.
/r/seduction02/08/19 01:45 PM
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Yeah probably is that the difference maker.
/r/seduction02/08/19 04:40 AM
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Never experienced that. I rather found out that french girl are very conservative, maybe they just dislike italian, don't know. Eye contact means nothing in Italy, girls can make that without the willingness to move forward. They could have beautiful asses, but are a pain in the ass to seduce and the ONS are very rare and limited to certain situation.
/r/seduction01/08/19 08:57 PM
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I absolutely agree, i love to take a walk during the date. As you say you can make a lot of Kino, but also you can show leading ability, and as you say that is great for conversation. Moreover i noticed that walking in the city center (at least in Europe) or in a park make a girl generally more open to talk and open up more than on regular date in bars or wherever, even with minimum Kino.
/r/seduction01/08/19 06:12 PM
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That's strange as fuck. I'm italian, born and rised, i was in France 3 or 4 of times, travelled all around western europe and a bit in the eastern. In 25 years, neither in Italy nor in France i ever saw a girl approach a guy, even the most beautiful among guys. Never seen that in clubs, in the street not even thinking about that (also when guys approach girl in the street they usually get rejected in zero time from locals), nor in bars or on the beach (maybe the best situation in Italy, mostly b…
/r/seduction01/08/19 06:07 PM
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Happy for you that you're living the life that you want. But please, 8 years in Europe didn't teach anything about European women to you. Polish girls, like all the eastern european one, are the exception, not the norm in Europe. Women like far more indirect approach than the US, in western european countries like France, Italy, Germany and many other. Maybe among western country only dutch girls are a bit different, and open, but there is a completely different things from US girls. Women in Eu…
/r/seduction01/08/19 03:36 PM
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Generally i agree, but the risk is that she is friendzoning you. Usually i will make a joke and change argument.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:52 PM
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Kind of agree, but i also think that only experience sometimes didn't work. Sometimes life is hard and it is hard to maintain the right mood all the time. But yes, eye opening experience are welcomed.
/r/seduction27/07/19 07:58 AM
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I strongly disagree. For what is my experience men cooperate togheter way much than women. Women instead suffer more the presence of other women and they end up hating eachother and they usually have less female friends. Instead, men used to make strong relationship with other man and it is way more frequent that they end up helping eachother. Maybe men are more hostile with other men that they don't know (generally is not my case thought). But i absolutely do not think that we "fail to acknowle…
/r/seduction24/07/19 05:42 AM
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350K but how much are active? And how many of them posted somithing at all?
/r/seduction21/07/19 11:31 AM
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Totally agree, i think the mod works mostly under reporting from users. So if you see something not related feel free to report. I did that sometimes in the past.
/r/seduction21/07/19 11:30 AM
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Every guy have to read this and be convinced about that.
/r/seduction20/07/19 04:58 PM
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Don't understand that feeling bro, since i had a pretty big beard 😂 But yes i know that demographic could kill us because we are too common type of guy, or the opposite.
/r/seduction20/07/19 03:58 PM
1

Ok but Eminem is good looking and he was always a badass. I bet that i could smash a lot of chicks back in those days also without a paur of shoes on.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:07 PM
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Agree with that, i was ironic in the previous comment
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:05 PM
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Ok but Eminen could go without shoes and he would have dozens of girls that wanted him. And even if he wasn't famous, his attitude will killem... Anyway i know right that.
/r/seduction20/07/19 10:58 AM
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Never heard about that. I never had good shoes (at least not expensive ones, i like them) and for sure i've not a good face, but still manage to have some success with women. I have to think that i was lucky?
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:31 AM
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100% true. It is about location and age of the women.
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:29 AM
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You have no need for tactics when a girl is that much into you. Seduction is somthing that could help, but since most of the people don't know/use them, and we are not extint as species there are other ways to get laid of course. If i was in you in that situation i would have played the role of the wing for both of them and maybe you would remediate a date with the other firend of that girl.
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:27 AM
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Do you understand that this sub is called "Seduction" and not "tips for life"? Anyway the whole point is the sensationalism around one thing and one thing only that "will change your life". As i say before this kind of strict things didn't work for all, anyone have to follow his path. And as for the scope of this subreddit, seduction ia more about the mindset, general social behaviours/dynamics and taking action. Not about learning how to dance or putting up some muscles. So, imho, you're comple…
/r/seduction20/07/19 04:59 AM
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It was not a critique to you but on what this sub is becoming... Sincerly is so dumb to read every three day how making this or that completly change your life and you should do that. Ridiculous.
/r/seduction19/07/19 09:05 PM
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Every week come out a new thing now... the last one was dancing, know lifting waights, what's up next? When will you learn that everyone is different and the things that works for one do not work for others necessarily?
/r/seduction19/07/19 04:13 PM
1

Ying/Yang method is the Chinese version of Push&Pull method? lol
/r/seduction17/07/19 01:01 PM
1

Ok i get now. I mean i don't like too much to dance but i simply learned to have fun with my friends in clubs and disco and now my positive ibes are enough to close girl. I think that taking dancing class could be usefull for guys that are afraid of touching woman and need a confidence boost so in clubs they don't feel stupid (as i do, but i turn stupidity into funny things).
/r/seduction15/07/19 09:34 AM
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Yeah but differently from social skills, dancing is just not a thing needed, as i say in the previous comment there are a bunch of reason why. On the other hand being socially awkward and a lack of any social skills didn't just help, they are the core base of seduction. Being good locking is just a completely different thing, something you could work only a bit on. Maybe dancing helped you, but i think that's because is a thing you liked to do and it boosts your confidence. But it is completely …
/r/seduction14/07/19 08:14 PM
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Nah i think that knowing how to dance is one of those unecessary thing for "gaming". For two principal reason: There are very few girls that know how to dance properly, even in dance club (at least that is my experience), so you don't need to make some awsome dance move; If you are not an expert in dancing you can actually make funny jokes with girls, also in dance club (but that usually works better on parties), and that is always a huge plus. The important thing is to stay positive and have go…
/r/seduction14/07/19 01:55 PM
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If you know the girl IRL and you can make some joke about the snap you can use that as the beginning (or an excuse) for texting her ;)
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:23 AM
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Only if you know the girl in real life. Social app game is very effective if done in the right way, i had some succes (and a lot of my friend had some too) with instagram stories.
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:22 AM
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Yeah you right, i had a poor choice of words. I mean that even if you put a lot of effort to make intresting a conversation it is very likely that you still find the person you are talking with boring. And i'm the type of guy that is always positive and try involve other person in discussion about what they like. Simply most of the people are not so intresting to me, as i probably am not an intresting person in the eyes of a lot of others.
/r/seduction03/07/19 08:24 PM
1

Agree, but also most people could simply not become appealing to us whatever is the effort you put in them.
/r/seduction03/07/19 05:37 PM
1

I understand but i disagree, i know girls that at 18 are way more mature than women of 40. And personality is a thing (in my opinion) that someone have and could develp but if you don't like a type of personality it could grow up as much as you want but you will never like it. I believe in that, for what were my experiences.
/r/seduction03/07/19 05:35 PM
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I think you are trying too hard and you're just not enjoying the situation. Stop over-thinking, girls are creature leaded by emotions, so you have to work on building an emotional connection with them while talking. Do not focus too much on what you are talking about. And if the problem persist, i suggest you to change the place where you meet girls. For example if you are very interested in photography you will find girls with your very same hobby in a photography course, so just attend one of …
/r/seduction02/07/19 04:15 PM
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I disagree with that, you could enjoy the conversation with another human being even if you don't talk about serious or "adult-life" related stuff. I think this happen most of the time, so rather than change the age of the woman is more important to looking for women with something in common with you/us.
/r/seduction02/07/19 04:10 PM
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Most PEOPLE are boring (to us). It is not a thing of gender, it is simply statistics that the majority of the people around us is boring. Just think about how many people you could meet in your life and just few of them became your friends.
/r/seduction02/07/19 04:07 PM
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I was in one group of RSD, and i found that useless. For what was my experience, that was a place for guys to boost their self esteem in the name of "teaching" to others, a place where guys post photo, screen, audio, of their "catches" only to recieve validation from other guys. Basically it was the worst environment possible for everything, except knowing about some cool events in your city, but also in that case there are more efficient way to do that. It was toxic for everyone who didn't need…
/r/seduction22/06/19 02:50 PM
1

So basically you are saying that game is worthless in the seduction community. Ook bro. I don't agree with you and your example is not well fitted into the situation of seduction. I rather think that game maximise the possibility of the seducer to attract the people of his/her intrest. People are not black or white, yes or no, they are way more complex, so you could shift someone opinion if you do enough to convince them.
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:08 AM
1

The issue is I used to attend these classes with my ex, could that be something that turns her away? Also what would be a good way to socialize with her? 1) Maybe, but as soon as she sees you come without your gf she will know that you and her have broke up. Moreover you could casually say that you are single during one of your convo. 2) Just talk with her, and ask her out as soon as you have a good opportunity. It could/should be nothing serious at first, like a cup of coffee. Then just ask som…
/r/seduction10/06/19 08:24 AM
1

Lol you are funny, i never say that i am the big shot, and yeah you all are the real alpha-men with your behavior woow, you didn't act at all as crying pussies. Virgins...
/r/seduction10/06/19 08:18 AM
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I'm done with that shit. Man you just play the role of passive aggressive virgin, please stop. You live in Narnia man, have a nice day with leprecauns or whatever open minded creatures you have over there, lol...
/r/seduction09/06/19 04:00 PM
2

Worst first date is movie date. Never go for the movie date. I can list off many reasons for it but I feel it's been posted enough times. I guess/hope you are referring to cinema date. Because Netflix and chill is very effective instead (even if it is my preferred choice for the second date, not the first).
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:52 AM
2

Always take some coffe and (most important) take a walk in a park or in the city center. I like the walk in the park part because i think that walking instead of just been sitting in a place could help both of us to talk and could lead easier to effective kino. Moreover i didn't meet a girl yet that didn't like to go to park for a relaxing walk lol, and to the eyes of a girl it could seem a more romantic set up (i guess).
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:50 AM
12

Just relax man and don't "try to hard", this almost never work, because girls could smell your "sense of urgency". So i suggest you to regain control of your life, expand your hobbies and do something you really like. I can also suggest you to start a new course to learn something new maybe, that is always a good way to get in touch with some interesting girls. ​ If you don't have the time to do something like that, then go to clubs and bar, but be sure to not be a creep, hangout with your frien…
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:45 AM
12

That's also true, it give you some sort of background social status that is club is very hard to build (but not impossible).
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:35 AM
1

Straight truth, i wanted to say the same things. For this reason i always prefer bars and smaller clubs, because the atmosphere over there is more similar to an house party, imho.
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:33 AM
1

I've never seen a more obvious example of a die hard virgin with no travel experience in my life. Look at the mirror man! I'm joking, anyway i'm not a liar, and what you say is nonsense. I'm European and i trvelled in most of Europe, i have the lucky to live in a city where i could meet a lot of foreign people (and of course girls). Saying that Scandinavian girls are open is the real lie man, they are not even close to american girls. So please stop, just stop. You could say that i got owned by …
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:27 AM
1

Lol the touched in head is not me here... Good life
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:19 AM
1

What exactly am i supposed to be jealous of? Lol Please don't say bull shit! I just say that is way below my standard and by any means what you have done is not seduction nor game. In your post there is no skill involved in the hookup, you just paid to go in the right club. Nothing else. And again i really don't see nothing to be jealous. But also if would be something i'm just not the that type of guy because i'm proud of my experiences and don't care about others. To me seems clear that you ma…
/r/seduction08/06/19 10:42 PM
1

Lol so you are saying that you didn't pay ti have sex with that women? There is nothing too different. Ok you may be appealing to them, but there is no skills in what you have done. I literally say the opposite, in the US there are liberal women, not in Europe. Going to Europe to improve seduction is stupid for a beginner, usually European guys go to the US to have some fun with girls. It could have some sense for more advanced gamer. And don't worry you're not successful, and not even close to …
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:54 PM
1

Lol, it could be the most stupid idea ever to travel throught Europe to improve your seduction skills. Girls here are way way harder to get than in the US, and are way less open(-minded, also). Moreover going to a club like that is 100% like to go to prostitutes, so i will not be so happy/proud if i was in you.
/r/seduction07/06/19 09:30 AM
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I'm doing what you say that will "naturally help you" , all the things from exercise (4 times a week, have now a lot of muscles), to stop watching porn (it happens only once in a while, and i think it is very natural to jerk off sometimes). Results? Zero. Let's be realistic. What you said is good for everyone but it cannot help mentally anyone. All those things are only a little brick in a whole wall to by built before being successful with woman. I personally was way better with women when: i d…
/r/seduction23/05/19 11:37 AM
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It is called dick rest face 😂 Anyway i had the same problem, you need to focus on have always a small smile on your face.
/r/seduction08/05/19 04:02 PM
1

Seduction and game are the answer to your question. The very same things you say a girl doesnt need...
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:50 PM
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So you basically doesn't understand nothing about this subreddit and seduction, as well as "game". Women seduction exist and is far more differnt from just beeing the girl who get laid a lot. Just to remind you that also sluts get approached a lot, so only getting approached is not the whole thing.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:37 PM
1

this comment is very mean. Also girls could use seduction to improve their odds with more appealing partners.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:33 PM
1

Wow US sucks for this thing... anyway there are parties also for under age. And hook-up in the street doesn't have age limits as well.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:31 PM
1

Wait who is saying that thisthings are not true? I never say that a girl didn't need personality or skillset. I'm arguing just the opposite against the OP!
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:29 PM
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But this is not the point of the OP... Where is she asking for advice for improvement? Where does she talk about her newly learned skills in seduction? I'm the first one that welcomed girls that want to improve their approaches (either style and number), and i have have nothing against girls that post on this subreddit. But please let's talk about "game" and seduction not how you changed your body or plan to join "Greek life" just to bang with more dudes. That's not game nor seduction.
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:09 PM
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Getting approached is not game. Is like saying that a beatuful guy that get girls attention as game. Or is like saying that a guy who get laid with sorority girls has game. These are not example of "GAME". Move your ass on the streets and in clubs or bars and actively approach girls/guys, is "GAME".
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:05 PM
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I really don't see the part where you will start to have "game", but OK...
/r/seduction30/04/19 07:45 AM
1

It is actually an hard question for me to answer. You have to free yourself from any negative thought. Do something you really like and try to avoid at most the things that put you in bad mood. It is not easy i know. Having a good mood is for most a matter of mental toughness and self control.
/r/seduction15/04/19 01:16 PM
2

Yes of course if you have to fap everyday it is bad. As everything, too much is bad for you.
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:07 AM
0

Yeah but no more than eating something you like, marking sport or drinking beer. And it doesn't have a long effect as the OP want to say. Edit: and of course after fapping dopamine is higher (not lower as the OP pretends to be). But also in this case there is a very little difference.
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:05 AM
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It depends. I personally do not think that fap is this huge game changer it is a very small thing instead. Also if you workout a lot, wake up early in the morning, etc etc, you will be way more motivated to get laid. Fapping is just a little brick. Of course if you have to fap two times a day (or just once a day is too much imho), you have a problem. I don't question that. Fapping once in a while is perfectly normal instead (let's say once in a week).
/r/seduction15/04/19 08:59 AM
1

Yeah, but it is no more than eating something you like. And that dopamine shok last for minutes or at most hours. Not almost a day as the OP suggest.
/r/seduction15/04/19 08:54 AM
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There are also a lot of studies about the benefits of masturbation. It depends on the person at the and. But anyway dopamine is not influenced by masturbations so the entire point of this discussion is false.
/r/seduction14/04/19 11:18 PM
1

Yeah of course the good mood is the key to good game. Just because if you are in a bad mood nobody will find you a good potential partner. But of course the dopamine levels in the body are not influenced by fapping and you could be in bad mood even with (or after) dopamine shock.
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:26 PM
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This is real bullshit. There is no correlation between fapping and dopamine levels in your body. There is a little correlation with testosterone and fapping. But even the levels of testosterone are not significantly lower after fapping (and the body recover its natural level of testosterone in few hours). And to be honest masturbation could give you a boost in dopamine, but it would last for minutes, at most hours.
/r/seduction14/04/19 08:24 PM
1

Lol maybe 😂 But in that case just bring always with you your best smile :) and you will see a lot more men will come to approach you.
/r/seduction10/04/19 04:33 PM
2

Yes, bitch resting face is a big no for most men. I personally think that a girl have some sort of problems in that moment (in her life) so i don't want to mess up with her. You need a more friendly attitude in order to be approached.
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:50 PM
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That is not a guide. There is nothing new here. They are all old good advices.
/r/seduction05/04/19 10:34 PM
2

Love your answer! I have tried to do something like that by my owm!!
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:22 PM
1

So you don't believe that a guy could seduce a girl once she has decided, i assume in superficial way? I don't believe in that shit, and actually i take the sentence "i have a bf" only as a shit test, because there are better way to understand if a girl doesn't like you. And i will always suggest a guy to not let a "i have a bf" be an absolute no!
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:20 PM
0

Oh this is poor... A girl that told you that she has a bf, in let's say 2 minutes, if it is fake, means that she isn't into you?? What the fuck? In this case you fucked up all seduction thing, reducing liking eachother only to a physical aspect... bullshit to me.
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:25 AM
0

But this is a persistent problem with men, especially the men that follow "the game". There are men that did not accept a "no" even from single women. That kind of men are a problem for all type of girls not only engaged one...
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:22 AM
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This post is the most pathetic thing among all of the things you have said... There is not a single good thing in your post. 1st it is not a matter of seduction (so it is oddly out of topic). 2nd who are you to say and decide that a girl is not smart enough or that she is not emotionally stable enough to reject another man if she is already engaged? Women are way better then men to refuse the attention of males that they don't like so why an engaged women would be worst in doing that? 3rd you ma…
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:19 AM
1

If you drink just one or two cocktails and then your brain works at 50% you have something to check my friends 😅 For a normal man it usually doesn't happen. If you like or not, nowadays drinking give social status to you. Not drinking AT ALL, will prevent you to reach this social status. Of course it depends on the Country where you live, but for what i see it is a common things in most Countries culture. For this reason drink just one drink (or two) could really help you to: 1) do not look weir…
/r/seduction18/03/19 07:13 AM
1

Where i live usually a drink is included in the price to enter in the club. Anyway if you cannot afford that you could also not buy a drink is not the end of the world.
/r/seduction18/03/19 06:57 AM
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Another helpfull trick is to buy a drink and when you finish it you ask for a glass of water. In clubs usually they give to you it in a glass similar (if not the same) to the one of drinks. Then take a straw and act like it is a drink 😂
/r/seduction17/03/19 03:18 PM
3

It is a possibility. I actually do that when i attend clubs and discos.
/r/seduction17/03/19 03:16 PM
3

General stuff, i personally don't agree with the game mantra "Don't drink when you go out". It turn out to be super social awkward in most of the situations if you go out and don't drink. And with this i'm not saying that a guy should get drunk before talking to a girl. But just a drink or two should be fine and could really be a boost to your social status (or at least you don't look like the awkward guy that refuse to drink a glass of wine/beer or a cocktail).
/r/seduction17/03/19 01:12 PM
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Mankind had invented things like motels, cars, HER PLACE, and alot of other solution to hookup with a girl... So your apartment is almost irrelevant.
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:28 PM
1

Ok in real life an 'hey' could be fine. And for sure in real life you have to think in the moment when you are speaking, every single time. Of course real life and texting are completely different things.
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:03 PM
1

Yes basically everytime i text to a girl before knowing about seduction. I just write the simple "Hey!" but then nothing super good happened... I prefere to have something in mind.
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:41 PM
1

I prefer to have already something to say and not find myself in a fucked situation. Anyway, everybody have his tactics.
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:52 PM
1

Hey, i would like to have the point of view of an older woman, also for future situation. Would you like to stay in contact with me? Maybe via PM or reddit chat?
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:34 PM
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I think this is not so useful. But, it actually happened to me yesterday that i type an "Hey, how are you?" random text to a girl (because i have to ask her some shit nothing related with flirting with her), and then when i send it i thought "Oh shit what the fuck am i doing?" And i come out with something funny (and related to my task) right after, before she could see the message.
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:47 PM
1

Thanks for the support again!
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:23 PM
1

Don't really know if she is a dive type or not. I will do it for me anyway, and for the joy of flirting and approaching. And also i think it will seem normal to approach girls in a party rather than stay only with people that you know/stay only with the girl you like. I don't want to look like too needy, mostly because i'm not so needy.
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:10 PM
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Yeah for sure i will be spontaneous! But i can see her only on night out with friends and parties (and that could be the case of next saturday). So i don't think we can take a coffee right in that moment lol. Anyway, if i meet her next saturday at this party, i'll be spontaneous, and i let her see that i approach also other girls. Then i think i will try to escalate "rapidly" (relatively) to a kiss close so i will have a stronger point than before to ask her out again. Thanks for support anyway!…
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:00 PM
1

Europe. Why are you asking?
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:55 PM
1

I know. Actually i like a lot this girl so i really don't know what to do. The "good" think is that i may don't see her in a while (if she come to a party Saturday i will meet her over there), so there aren't possibility to mess thing up. But if i see her again i will try to flirt again with her going for a K-close at least this time.
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:33 PM
1

I reality i will be interested in ONS 😅 But yeah i think i miss my opportunity even if she say "Yes for sure we definitely have to take some coffee one of this day". That's why she pissed me off a lot by not responding at me nor doing anything to let that happen... I'm really really confused about her behaviour. Because even if she want only ONS, why she don't answer me back? We can have a ONS even some other days 😅
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:56 PM
0

How about a situation where: 1) i talked a lot with this girl for a solid half of an hour, me and her only and when someone other try to enter in the conversation she gave them nearly zero attention; 2) she smiled and we laughed a lot together and we both make jokes; 3) she let me touch her hands and her shoulder. Ok i didn't make a lot of contact (i know i have to increase that), but during the night, before we start talking we also have danced a bit together so i think i mostly missed the oppo…
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:08 PM
2

😎 thumbs up for the rejected guy!
/r/seduction06/02/19 03:22 PM
2

You are trying to hard, relax and take it easy. Also i suggest to you to drink one or two cocktails or glasses of beer/wine, this could help you to take the situation more easy. But not too much alcohol !!
/r/seduction01/02/19 12:55 PM
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Great job man! You actually give some hopes to people in your situation! Luckly i try to avoid friendzone at all, but when it will happen again i follow your strategy for sure. I think this could work well also with some of your real friends (girls friends), whit only one girl that have put you in fz.
/r/seduction30/01/19 08:28 AM
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yeah yeah, i've just pointed out a really big issue with guys that try to make super logical conversation. When it is actually possible to get some info in a funny way.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:48 PM
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When I manage to keep a logical conversation Man your error is here. Less logical conversation and more emotional conversation. Make some jokes and make her laugh. Try to show her your emotional side and let the girl show her own. Than ask her out as soon as a little bit of emotional connection is in the air between you and your match. If she use some real exuses (like if she is really busy) try again some day after that. If she use just ordinary excuses than ghost her and move on.
/r/seduction26/01/19 04:13 PM
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You have to make an estimate in your head, nd this is a thing that only you can do. For you is more important to chase other women and feel free to do that or is more important her love? Basically when you answer to that question sincerly you have done. In my experience the faster you arrive to a conclusion the better. Anyway try to ask on r/AskReddit or r/relationship_advice or r/relationships. That are better subreddit.
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:41 AM
1

Yeah you should! Don't overthink, sometimes taking action is way better than doing small talk.
/r/seduction20/01/19 09:21 PM
1

Kino - Kinesthetics - Touching, physical contact with a female. The act of making flirtatious physical contact with a person of sexual interest. These are the exact definition of kino. But what's kino in reality?? Well it could be whatever physical contact that could be interpreted as "flirtatious". Like a hug, touching the shoulder, taking the hand or fondle gently and arm or the knee of a girl. That could all be considered KINO. But pay attention to not jump too much steps, because you could n…
/r/seduction20/01/19 09:20 PM
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Hey guys i read a lot of answer to that guy trying to explain what to say or what to do. But men, you are missing the point! The guy of the post say that she was clearly into him. She touched him, she had strong eye contact and she even offered him a shot! So there is nothing more to say and to ask at this point, in my opinion! You have to go for a kiss as soon as you escalate enough with kino. Bring her to the dance floor if ther is one. But you really don't need to asker anything more.
/r/seduction20/01/19 05:36 PM
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There are a lot of good answer yet, but i want to suggest to you one more thing. Aside from all the specific advice, you have to be more confident in yourself. Try to be more open to people , be positive, smile, and try to make new frinds and know you people. As far as i know, for men and women, it is the same. They are way more attractive if they are positive people with everytime a smile and their faces and nothing seems to piss them off. Then when you are more confident and self aware you wou…
/r/seduction17/01/19 11:35 AM
8

I don't think this guy is going for the approach, but rather he seems that he is going to catcall her (i think it is called like that that harassment).
/r/seduction16/01/19 06:19 PM
1

Yeah, exactly!
/r/seduction03/01/19 10:42 PM
2

Totally agree with you man. If i found a low energy girl or one that is super resilient to the approach usually i say some shitty things, somethings that hit her ego. Nothing really offensive, but something about her city, her accent, her style or her work/study, in a funny way.
/r/seduction03/01/19 08:36 AM
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Yeah you right, but there are a lot of shy super hot girl that just reject every wrong approach, or simply don't have a lot of experiences because they are introverted. Also creeps used to piss hot girl off, so it is actually easier to elevate over the mean value ;)
/r/seduction01/01/19 10:15 PM
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You right man! It happen to me one time in a club that there was this stunning 10, super hot, alpha-woman, that every other men in the club are almost scared to approach. And i was one of them at first, but after some time i just thought "what the fuck i have lose!?" And i decide dmto go dance with her and she actually liked my confidence and dance with me all night long! That was a real moment of epiphany for my "game" as well as for my social life in general.
/r/seduction01/01/19 10:12 PM
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Come back at the same restaurant some days after this experience and now flirt you with the 10/10!! Not all the bad feeling happen to harm you! Learn from that and adapt ;) There is no failure, only feedbacks bro ;)
/r/seduction24/12/18 09:47 AM
0

Never see a more beta male post on this sub like this one. Our ancerstor didn't have tinder, social media and the sexual freedom that we have now. So in their time there was other problems. Don't be a pussy and adapt to what you have now. It is plain simple what humankind have done for thousands of years.
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:22 AM
1

It mean that the friendship is already over because of the crush you have on your friend.
/r/seduction20/12/18 03:28 PM
1

As other people say, she doesn't see your friend as one of her friends. You are just one of her friends instead. So of course she make a move for a potential partner rather than with a beloved friend. It's simple, it's how social relationship between men and women works.
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:03 AM
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Because you are her FRIEND, and to her eyes you're only a friend, not a male with a penis. It's normal, try to sexualize more with her, escalate with more contact and stop beeing only her friend, start to be a man. If you have a crush on her ask her out directly when you're ready.
/r/seduction19/12/18 09:07 PM
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Tell her what you feel, don't worry to "ruin your friendship". The friendship between you and Mia is over. For you to wait ages before doing anything will result only in suffer.
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:23 PM
2

Ask her what her passion are other than modeling. Then suggest some activities related to this if possible (if she say she like art, history, photography it will be pretty easy). If she say something that is not possible to transform into a date, then you can wait for one of her insta-stories, and start to chat on instagram, then ask her out in other way (maybe she post a story in a bar or something like that and you suggest to go there together next time).
/r/seduction19/12/18 12:02 PM
1

Yeah but as co-worker. What i mean is not to game too much girls that are working, while you are just gaming around (or any other shit you're doin). C'mon i it was clear enough to not be confused with what you say...
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:04 AM
1

Ok do whatever you want, with my experience i can only suggest to not mess with working people. Also for what is my experience giving a number randomly to a girl (working or not) was always the wrong move (or at least the one who give you 99.99% of failure).
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:02 AM
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I don't want to justify her behaviour. I only say that if a girl is working, don't bother her, she is working! People when working are not in the best mood to be approached! For me is pointless to leave your contact info to a girl in that situation. If there was a good interaction then she would probably take your number directly or give to you hers (but i don't think it is an easy thing to achieve with girl at work).
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:19 AM
1

So it is even less likely that she will text you if you leave her your number. If the interaction was good enough there are no reason why she will not take a coffee or some other shit in her free time. If she doesn't then jump on the next girl. But the point is that it's useless to approach girls during their working time, most of the time you only piss them off.
/r/seduction13/12/18 09:16 AM
0

I agree with that, but my statement was general.
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:25 PM
0

Nah i think it is not worth. If you really like that bad this girl ask her when she will finish working, then go out with her.
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:24 PM
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Shit happens, but follow het tip: don't game with a girl that is working, she'll probably reject you because she is working. In the worst case scenario this happen. Not failure, only feedback.
/r/seduction12/12/18 03:50 PM
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40 bucks to fuck a chick you can fuck for free? What the fuck?? And by any means 40-50$ for three hours is not what i mean for "cheap", for a little more you can have an all night room in normal hotels, with breakfast included (where i live). For that price take an airbnb 😂
/r/seduction09/12/18 07:04 PM
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Search on this sub you will find an older post with all the main shit test solved with explanation
/r/seduction08/12/18 04:19 PM
1

You have only to think one thing. "If i don't do nothing she will go out of my life for ever. If i do something i could prevent this!" It is only the reward mechanism that you have to trigger in your mind. And i don't say thst it is an easy thing to do, but realize that it's all that. Another important thing that pua don't say is that not every girl is aviable (the vast majority will reject you). So don't worry, you can't wait the perfect moment, just make a move when you are comfortable ;)
/r/seduction04/12/18 11:23 AM
3

Enjoy the night first. When you are happy with your friends or only by your own self you can face rejection easly. But take the lession from this night. I had a similar night back in days and from that day on i learnt to do not give a fuck about rejection. Shit happens.
/r/seduction02/12/18 10:37 AM
1

Go to bars and do street game. These are the easiest way to know new women.
/r/seduction01/12/18 11:03 AM
1

No it's not true. I had a lot of experience where without any sexual-related stuff i managed to get the conversation going with a girl. Also in this situation i managed to close. So that is not a mandatory thing in a conversation with a girl.
/r/seduction24/11/18 02:40 PM
2

Use kino my friend, touch the girl your talking with, hug her and (if you can or feel confortable with) dance with her (also for no reason e with no music, at least she should find it funny). Also you have to make strong eye contact and talk with her about sex related stuff (also if sex is not explicit in the argument).
/r/seduction23/11/18 10:10 AM
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You don't have to talk too much my friend! Lead wirh kino, use just one or two arguments of talk (like where are you from, what are you doin im your life and similar), then go straight for dance and then kiss her. Is not too difficult. If she don't like you or your vibes you could know from her first answer. In club use a lot the smoking area for talking, maybe you can go there just to breath if you don't smoke, or with some of your somers friends. Don't be shy and if you need to talk a lot to g…
/r/seduction22/11/18 11:28 PM
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I just proved on my skin that club game is easier than a lot of people could thing. 8 months ago i was pissed of by club mechanics, but now i can close at least a girl a night without even try-hard. A big suggestion that i want to share (with beginners majorly) is to go to a club one night, with at most one other friend, and approach all the girls in the club (or at least a huge number of that). I did that couple of mounth ago and i get rejected by almost every girls in the club. You may say: "s…
/r/seduction22/11/18 10:53 AM
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I agree with you, usually i when this happen i say to myself (or friends when happen to them) "also girls make poop". But of course that could not be the standard, if she is always too busy, maybe she is really not into you.
/r/seduction21/11/18 09:35 AM
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think they mean if you're on a date or something. At a club or bar it may be better to show that you're attractive to other woman but in a one on one situation it's better to give the girl your full attention to make her feel important. Just my 2 cents Oh ok i misunderstood that! Yeah in 1vs1 situation (on a date) i think it is awful to show intrest to others. Even if i try to be social with other people also on date (that doesn't mean that i flirt with other girls of course, but i only want to …
/r/seduction14/11/18 10:11 PM
2

I mean you can say the same about men as well. I think social media has made more humans be followers than leaders. Everyone wants to be a model or famous YouTuber or Rapper or Travel the world forever Yeah that is the hyper-consumistic world where we're livin. Everyone want to be famous and rich but most of them can't be happy. They need to have the last model of something, they need x number of follower on social media, they need approval from others, etc etc. Basically humankind became more a…
/r/seduction14/11/18 11:08 AM
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this is right, but the problem is that the average girl get a lot of validation for some shitty photos she post on IG or whatever, and she will probably interact with dozens of men. So, it is very likely that also the average girl could find a man (among the betas) on social media app instead of a man casually down the street. But what you have said is true and i think this is the reason why nowaday street-game is more valuable than ever. On the street, or also in a bar/club, there are no casual…
/r/seduction14/11/18 11:03 AM
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You can stop to be a "looser" even if you have some social problems (or disorders). You have to work on your inner game more, and find out a motivation to do that (e.g. fuck a girl). Then you can play also the role of "the guy with shitty life", or "problematic guy", or something similar, to attract women. In this case also if you are a shy guy you can play with your style and intelligent. I know a lot of guy that are like that without any problem but on purpose (or because they are lazy). I cal…
/r/seduction14/11/18 10:40 AM
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Number 3 is the only one i don't agree totally. It depends on how a guy do that. For example when i open a group of grils i give to them equal attention and possibly make jokes that involve every girl in the group. Also when i am in a club and i talk just a bit to a girl, then i probably start to talk also with other to show that i don't need her and i play a bit of push and pull game in this way. This appear to me to be a huge turn on for girls, instead of a turn off, but this is only my experi…
/r/seduction14/11/18 10:33 AM
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Ok thanks for your advices! I'd check the facebook page and the website. Of course i understand that i'm a bit needy, for this reason i wait for some advices before texting this girl, so i could seem to her less needy ahahah
/r/seduction09/11/18 03:30 PM
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I didn't text her yet! My problem is that there are very very few things that i will consider as inside joke because as i say a talk very very little to her. I seduce her for most by eye contact, kino and dance. I can't even remeber the shitty things that i say to her, that are not so funny tbh. Anyway should i text her just today or it will see as needy from girl perspective?
/r/seduction09/11/18 03:07 PM
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Yeah i was thinking the same thing. He could save her number only to text her first, then delete the number and wait for the answer.
/r/seduction06/11/18 10:21 PM
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Yeah it is what i want to say. Only one very good girl found on internet, when in the same time in real life there are a lot of them...
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:26 PM
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I agree they are good only for killing time! I actually hace some dates with girls, but usually they are not very quality one. Only one great girl found out there.
/r/seduction04/11/18 02:03 PM
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Usually high value girls do shit test. But anyway it is simply stupid to avoid opportunities only because you can't manage or sustain shit test! Put in this perspective, if you could pass any shit test you have a more wide choice of girls. Straightforward girls are only a part of all the girls.
/r/seduction04/11/18 12:12 PM
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Yes especially in Itally and France romanticism play a huge role, for what i know the US are not even close to that level. Also i'm actually surprised that you pick Rome, because italian girls are probably the most difficult to game with success i ever found. Maybe as you say is because they see you as a foreigner. Prague is considered an eastern european cities, for those reason i don't count it, but yes over there game is super easy and everyone could close local girls with relative easy.
/r/seduction27/10/18 08:55 AM
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I will say 8/9 out of 10 girls would never call you back. This for my experience. As you say when things come up by themselves it is 100 times better and when you ask she directly say yes.
/r/seduction26/10/18 10:09 AM
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"Romanticism is so prevalent in the U.S." Lol are you kidding me? Try to game in central/western/southern europe and we would talk again then. On the technique i could agree but for my experience it is not so powerful. I always use it because i really don't like to force things up, but it had a very little level of success.
/r/seduction26/10/18 10:06 AM
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I just say that there isn't a man that don't know the advice "make her laugh". It is almost like to suggest to breath. It is basilar, but actually not all the woman you make laugh with come in your bed so it is clear that there is something other than that. For example is as much important as laughing also nagging a girl. And so on. So suggesting "make her laugh" is a basic advice that could mot help you very much.
/r/seduction17/10/18 09:36 AM
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Yeah on your perspective beeing a human is a prerequisite for sex (with a girl at least), but this not a very good advice as well as "make her laugh".
/r/seduction17/10/18 09:12 AM
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They seem like vert general statement. "Make them laugh" is the oldest advice with woman i ever heard of. I don't say that it is not good but it is kind of meh. In my experience i found that every girl laugh for different reason, so the general statement is in practice useless. Your dating advice seem very plain instead. Arcade rooms? Take food before after a concert? (At this point the concert would be better, if it is not the first date with the perso, or if the girl is in your social circle, …
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:45 AM
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What are the difficulties? I can't see something difficult here. She is into you, you are into her. So go with her running. Then ask her out together (without all the other friends). Kiss her we both of you are sober and not in party situation if you want to built a strong relationship with her. Then all the work is done. But you really are at 90% and now is very difficult for you to make something wrong.
/r/seduction14/10/18 09:34 AM
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Your 4th way of passing shit test is barely OK, if you use it once in a while. If you use that more than once you will be only perceived more like a beta. Also you don't answer to any of the most important shit test, for which only 2 pr 3 out of 5 of your methods works.
/r/seduction01/10/18 08:09 PM
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Your game have to be very straightforward, for what i know on cugar. If she is interested in sex yet, of course. If she doesn't have a bf/housband and she is in her finals years of fertility is likely that she will jump on you if you gibe her the right signal. So now you may think "ok but what should i do?". Talk and be friendly with her tray to may joke (not stupid or childish one), and once you have established a certain (open amd friendly) frame with her start to be more explicit. Don't be af…
/r/seduction01/10/18 09:11 AM
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Most of your problem are actually caused from men that DON'T use social dynamic and seduction with girl, but that are only weirdos. So you only have to choose better the place where you go, not every men are 100% focus on get laid, is like say that every woman are interested in sentimental relationship over fwb or fuck buddies. So enjoy your life also as a girl.
/r/seduction22/09/18 03:07 PM
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But if all the girl post here the fpua subreddit will be more and more dead. I think it is better if they have their own comunity, with specific expert and fpua. Because i really don't think that seduction work equally for men and women, of not for some limited things. Mainly the mindset is equal, but the 'game' is completely not.
/r/seduction16/09/18 10:02 PM
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There is a subreddit for female seduction, i don't remember exactly its name. Once it was on the sidebar (now i don't see the sidebar anymore).
/r/seduction15/09/18 06:11 PM
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You already do stuff in bf/gf style, so why bother asking? I mean, she is actually your gf for what you do together. At least you can introduce her to your parents sobit it is a little more "official" or maybe just say to her something like "now that you are my gf... " and complete the sentence with whatever you want, amd then let's see what is her reaction to this. Anyway this is a lot out of topic here, stuff like this are for r/relationship (or whatever it is call).
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:04 PM
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Do that, aa lot of post nowaday are only regarding specifical personal issue of users, that have to post o the other subreddit, i think it is called askseddit.
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:47 PM
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That is actually gold man, you have the ability to regroup all the idea behind the pickup artists comunity. Great job!
/r/seduction11/09/18 07:53 PM
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I agree it all depend on places. In university and libraries he could find a lot girls matched with his description.
/r/seduction08/09/18 01:39 PM
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I personally think of going with the flow, just having a good time and treat it just like any other date. Some kino and if it goes well enough at least a k-close. ​ That is the point. It's just a normal date, the only difference is you now her on tinder. Also, i think she is interested in you, because even if she flake you at first she try to figure out a way to meet you. So go relaxed.
/r/seduction08/09/18 12:41 PM
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Don't overthink, you just have made the wrong decision with the girl to approach. Don't try to game with a worker girl, this is unrespectful for her work, but most important you could piss off her a lot, because she is working and probably have to be professional so she is in a bad situation because she could not reject you badly (or she may loose a costumer) nor accept you (because it is not professional). So stop to approach girl workers and start with common girl down the street.
/r/seduction08/09/18 12:20 PM
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If your problem is mainly due lack of endurance i could say view on the matter. Otherwise i could suggest you to be a giver in bed. If you portrait yourself as cocky then eat out pussy like a demon, make her come first with pre-sex so even if the sex will be kind of disappointment you will be able to save the day with making her coming first.
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:53 AM
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Man the reality (and you know that better than me) is that you don't need or want a gf. There isn't a woman that would do what you want from her. Having a gf is far different from having an 'emotional connection'. You just need good friend. I know that because i use think the same way as you did, and sometimes i have the same ideas that you have know. But i recognize that as soon as i idealize a woman for what i want from her, i will never have a gf at all. So i stop to have expectations from gi…
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:40 AM
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You give no much information about your previous relationship with this girl. Maybe if she know you for a while you could have passively seduce her (by your attitude). But two things are important in your story. The first is that girls are just like guys, if they like someone they could do the same thing a guy would do. The second is that if a gilr havr a bf is not always an impossible mission to take her to your bed. Ok it could be immoral, or whatever you want, but you never know what is the s…
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:23 AM
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Cool story but i expected him to grab her number in the first day. Seriously i was far far away to be defined a PUA in my first day of university, but i take at least 3 numbers/Facebook profile in day one. In three days i had more than a dozen new friends (a lot of them were girls at the time).
/r/seduction07/09/18 12:49 PM
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Join an RSD WhatsApp group and then see how many guys pull ons or long relationship from casual meeting down the street or in clubs. And they for most guys in collage years (so no more older than 25/26).
/r/seduction07/09/18 12:46 PM
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These the worst
/r/seduction05/09/18 04:23 PM
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Thats good. Also a little risky could be "i'm here to check in(to) you lol"
/r/seduction05/09/18 12:38 PM
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I think it could turn in a little too much disappointment in women if the response is something too dumb. I usually use that kind of exaggeration/suspense for propose a date/game to a girl. I use something like "do you know what is the best game ever?" Or "do you know what is the best bar in the city?" Then i come out with something funny. In your case instead, what is the right answer to "is it true ofnwhat they say about spanish/itialian/american/nurse/etc?" ? I really don't know and it depend…
/r/seduction05/09/18 12:10 PM
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You are right man, i had an experience like yours, but in a club, where an hot alpha woman had intimidated all other male in the club. So i act like an alpha by myself and treat her like one nornal girl. The result? She danced with me all night long, i almost k-closed her but her friend cockblock me hard (at the timeni was a newbie in seduction).
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:41 AM
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He is funny, that is the point ;)
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:21 AM
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Build muscle on a 5'5 frame could result more hilarious than impressive.
/r/seduction05/09/18 08:45 AM
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Take a notebook, write everything that went wrong in this 7 dates. Analize what you're doing wrong the most and try to figure out how to deal with it. Solve one problem per time, use seduction books and forum to fix every single aspect of your game. Then, go out and start to get rejected a dozen of time a week by girls. Every time write what you are doing wrong and every time work on that. But most important, GO OUT AND GET REJECTED, over and over, so you learn naturally out to deal with rejecti…
/r/seduction04/09/18 02:35 PM
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Great great post friend! This sub would be better with more qualitative post like this!
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:07 AM
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Actually been the friend of the coolest guy raise your social status over the roof top! Of course you have to be the smartest and funniest among them. You could use the good look of your friend to let the chicks come near you, then you beat your friend with game and social awareness, but you have to talk to your friend and clarify that or they could be get offended by that.
/r/seduction02/09/18 05:05 AM
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I think for this the sub /r/relationships should be better ;) Anyway there isn't a unique answer to your question, amd actually it is not really matter of seduction.
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:34 PM
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Absolutely! They love it! Actually if you learn some italian or french meal you gain some extra points to your game ;)
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:32 PM
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I don't buy that. I don't know what Tyler Max or other on internet do. As you say they are first vendors. I think most of them have abandoned the PUA life in real life). Instead all the pua that i know in my group of pua are way more salfish. Only one have a three year fwb relationahip with the same girl (even if he fucks a lot of other girls) and he thoughts to raise her to the status of GF, but he didn't. All others fuck different chicks every week, and we do that for years (i'm actually in on…
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:10 PM
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Hey, i don't read all the answers from other, so maybe mine is just another answer similar to others... Anyway, if he is shy you have to show intrest to him. Tease him with kino (touch him on harm and neck, but also chest and shoulder) and escalate to sexual content the conversation with him. Be open and friendly from the get go. If you do all that stuff and he doesn't kiss you, he is probably not intrested, so i would avoid a direct request for that. But if you feel that you need to make a move…
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:40 PM
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Worst case scenario. She doesn't have to do that at least she is pushed to do so.
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:34 PM
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You don't have to overreact of this. Be yourself, if your girl picked you that would be a reason. Make joke about him with your GF, but don't take it too seriously or she could think that you are a frighten beta male. If he continue to text your girl for a while, say to her that she have to stop answer back "because is bad to put guys into friendzone for no reason... and you are a good girl, don't you?"
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:32 PM
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Pua usually avoid attachment to a girl so they usally don't end up in a LTR
/r/seduction01/09/18 04:29 PM
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Make friends if you don't want to fuck them! Don't mesh the two concept. You could also want to make some cool and hot girls as your friend because they are cool amd hopefully intresting, and they could help to raise your social status over the top, but be aware that you would never bang these girls.
/r/seduction31/08/18 06:26 PM
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You actually dom't need to built a social circle from zero. You don't have notifications on phone? If someone will say that just respond you have turned them off. Also if you are looking for a social circle you can do two easy things: 1) stay in contact woth the PUA comunity of your city/state, you can start looking at Facebook page of RSD, then make some friends there and let others add you on various WhatsApp group. 2) when you go out for day/night game don't go out only for the pussy. Try to …
/r/seduction29/08/18 08:34 PM
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I don't buy yuor answer to the problem. You could be the biggest guy on earth, but if someone want to hurt you he could with ease, using a knife or worst a gun. Then you can say "so i could buy gun and knife, and a bollet proof jacket" but the problem remain anyway.
/r/seduction29/08/18 03:35 PM
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then stop texting until you see her but if she text him he have to text her back ;)
/r/seduction29/08/18 01:18 PM
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The ability to joke about yourself and don't take it when other joke on/about you, is one of the alpha traits. When someone make a joke about you just smile shrug and say something like "ahahah yeah that's true!" And after overexagerating the previous statement/joke to let it seems more ridiculous. In that way you show others that you're so confident in yourself that nothing could hurt you. And sometimes just be you the one who make jokes ;)
/r/seduction29/08/18 10:47 AM
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The worst move EVER in humanity is to flirt with a waitress. She is working and have to be friendly, so don't overestimate your chances and her behaviour. Anyway if you want to do that, you have act like she is a normal girl, maybe wait till she end her turn. But don't rely on that.
/r/seduction29/08/18 10:40 AM
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I have to agree because you say "on average". But this is the same for men on dating app.
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:52 AM
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He says "on average", there are also quality girls on app, but (as for guys) they are view. I think that dating app could be a good compromise and through quantity it is possible to find some quality...
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:50 AM
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Best advice! Lot of guys on this sub think that things came without practice but only because they know the theory...
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:39 AM
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this is material for r/askseddit but anyway it is definitly a stupid move to do...
/r/seduction28/08/18 01:17 PM
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You have to explain how to seduce her? But seduction is not a standard mechanics, you can do something that in general are good, but for most is a "read and react" game, depending on the girl and situation. Anyway, if you know something about her you can try to tell to the cuck that you will going to exploit her passions, or that you could date her to know something about her, then you can start an intresting conversation. Tell him that you would escalate and sexualize with her using both words …
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:54 PM
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Naaah it isn't true! If you find the right group of girls and you are good with everybody you won't be roasted.
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:29 PM
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It seems easy, but naturally it isn't. That until your fuckung brain produce dopamine and others ormons when you're attracted to someone. But the best thing is that with training you can be used to the feelings so you could act in perfect normal way ;)
/r/seduction28/08/18 12:27 PM
3

Go out pulling man!! Came back and use this sub reddit only to tell us about your success!
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:30 AM
1

Desperete? Why desperete? Is not the most beta (or maybe better omega) trait to think that flirting with girl is a "desperete" move? There is nothing bad, or "desperate", in flirting with girls that say they have a bf.
/r/seduction28/08/18 04:46 AM
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Ok, it's a word matter. I don't know of to say other than "date". Actually the guy in the post is a friend of the girl so they know each other. But anyway i say something like a coffee for this reason
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:35 PM
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Date don't mean necessary that you have to take a dinner or watch a movie. You cannot start a FWB without a date, because without a date is almost impossible to create the right atmosphere and situation for starting a fwb. Moreover, girls prefer a more gentle way to approach sec even if they want anly fuck buddy relationship.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:57 PM
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Something like:"i guess you are a top model" or "i guess you're name is Hanna" and something like that. You can guess on everything about the girl or the set (i.e. in a group in a group of girl you say "i bet you're sisters").
/r/seduction27/08/18 05:59 PM
2

How do you start a fwb without date a girl?
/r/seduction27/08/18 05:55 PM
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Situational openers are the best. Only with practice you can master them. Nearly every time i open a set based on the situation it go well for me (with at least a number close). If you are run out of thing to say you can try the "game of guessing", one of my favoirite way to randomly open sets. You can see a girl and start guessing, than ask her if you're guessing are right. With a little of exercise you could pass from awkward/creepy, to funny and confident. Not a 100% good opener but you can h…
/r/seduction27/08/18 05:35 PM
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No c'mon man, in 50 years you can pass from retard to super cool guy. You have a lot of time to learn. Study a bit of seduction, read some books, and work a bit on your mentality and body. That are all things you can do in less then 1 year for example. If you can't afford that try with speaking about that with a really good friend of you.
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:56 PM
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Stop man, try to play videogames when you have free time. Try to avoid internet connection in place where you can fap. Try also to go to a doctor, he could advise you better. Don't be afraid for asking help with a professional doctor!
/r/seduction27/08/18 03:01 PM
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WHAAAAAAT?? No man quit porn, seriously!
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:49 PM
3

Goosebumps by Travis Scott ;)
/r/seduction27/08/18 12:46 PM
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Teasing verbally or physically? In the first case just exploit her fantasies and kinks, maybe you could use some drinking game as a go to. In the second, use kino smartly, and teas her in the right spot at the right moment of the conversation (i.e. touch her neck, or move smoothly your hand in her hand/on her arm). Anyway go for a date, maybe a coffee or a drink (better), and escalate than.
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:55 AM
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@mod it isn't a matter of seduction. Can someone move this in other subreddit?
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:44 AM
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Bad, don't shame on girls for dirty thoughts (at least you're doin ot playfully and to joke). Anyway she is probably interested in you, try to date her. I think the most important thing to do to start a fwb is to set the tone immediately, fuck her on the first date, if possible, and yeah you can also teasing her with dirty topics. It wouldn't leave any space for "romanticism", also talk with her about your intention right after (or even during) your first date. And of course be prepared to loose…
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:42 AM
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Man really?? REALLY?? You call me retarded when you can't even understand three lines that i wrote?? Are you fucking seriuos?? Please tell that youa are a fucking troll, or i have to think that you have serious brain problem. I never say that if a girl don't shit test a guy is low quality, never. I say that USUALLY, high quality girls shit test in hard mode the guys. Also, a lot of low quality girls do shit test. But it is fucking facts that any girls shit tested guys at some point or in some wa…
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:14 AM
2

Or you can go only with virgin! lol i'm joking. Anyway too much masturbation could be a problem for men.
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:32 AM
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Like, I fucking love every part of sex, even if it doesn't feel great on my dick for some reason. Just the entire experience from start to finish is excellent. Agree, the mental part of doing sex could be better than sex itself. Beeing involved in a relationship could be a boost in sexual pleasure for this reason.
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:31 AM
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It depends how much he do that. If it is two or three time a week could be ok. ​
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:29 AM
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No man i'm not retarded, but in your life you seem to have talked with two girls, and that are your mother and sister probably... Not every girl, but 80-90% of high quality have to play hard shit test! For the obvious reason that they have lots of men behind them. The retarded is the one who can't understand that. And for god sake, the quality of a girl is not in her will to play shit test, it is a complex evaluation.
/r/seduction27/08/18 08:07 AM
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For those that are saying stuff like "100% true go away" or "it's not a shit test! Go away", you are simply BETAMALE, don't be offended by this, but it is plain simple the truth. Read this splendid post, made when this sub had a lot of real men and was not full of pussies: Shit test. It say clearly: "I have a boyfriend." Everyone has heard this one at some point. Most guys just eject and bail here, but it's always worth giving it another shot. Throwing out an alpha response here definitely takes…
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:32 AM
1

Where the fuck are you livin? Is this paradise? In my city only very low quality girls don't play shit test, because no one usually approach them! Or becuase the guy is at least 10 time better then them. High quality girls, instead, have hundreds of guys that want to fuck them, so they need to play shit test to have a "preselection", between man and pussies. And "i have a bf" is one of the oldest. And in what world did you live? Seriusly! Evry girl shit test guy in some way, you have always to p…
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:24 AM
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What the fuck are you say?? ​ Did you EVER, read something about seduction? Do you have ANY in-field experience?? I think No is the correct answer to both of this. Read this: https://web.archive.org/web/20111018201257/http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iq6nx/common_shit_tests_and_how_to_defuse_them when this sub was not full of pussies...
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:14 AM
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I don't say that! Are you stupid or something? I say "girls doin shit test", usually (70% of the time at least) when a girl say she have a bf is only a shit test.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:10 AM
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What? No! If you refuse to face shit test, and not fight a bit for seducing a girl, what the fuck are you doin here? And what kind of girl do zero shit test to guys? Only low quality, low self esteem, type of girls!
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:06 AM
1

Nope
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:42 AM
-1

What!? So you fail shit test on purpose? So you're banging only low quality girls(?)
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:42 AM
2

Yeah this is the normal way of seduction life...
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:40 AM
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It is a rejection only if you act like pussy and say "ok" and go away. Actually "i have a boyfriend" is one of the biggest shit test the girls use. If you manage to handle it, you 100% going to bang the girl...
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:14 AM
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No this is so wrong! "I have a boyfriend" is a "now i don' like you/don't know you well". A good 50% turn out that she actually don't have a boyfriend and she is interested (if you can seduce her).
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:12 AM
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No
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:10 AM
2

Lol you know 0% of seduction instead
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:09 AM
1

I'm just thinking the same thing! This sub has become more for psychological support rather than for real seduction, and the people are almost newbies in seduction or completely pussies...
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:09 AM
3

You have no experience in seduction if you say that.... Girls have to be seduced, often a 'no' at the beginning of the interaction is not a 'no' at the end...
/r/seduction27/08/18 06:05 AM
1

I'm southern european lol
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:00 PM
1

Oh yeah i agree, also i enjoy flirting for the sake of it. For this reason i approach even group with 10 or a dozen of girls (it was a birthday party with all girls, i was lucky that time), but i did not have any expectation on that.
/r/seduction26/08/18 02:39 PM
2

I say group of 4 or more girls, not considering splitting. If the redditor of the post want to rely on splitting, he wouldn't have problem in approaching big group. Anyway, i have approached gruop of 4 and even 10 girls sometimes, the real problem is not how to open them, but to close something in bigger group. Girls usually don't want to be judged by their friends, so they're feeling less free. But even when that is not the case (you find a group of all open-minded girls), it is difficult to ob…
/r/seduction26/08/18 01:46 PM
3

Approach large group of more than 4 girls is very difficult imho. Usually the effort to approach them in an effective way is not equal to the obtainable result (because it is very hard that you can fuck a chick in a group).
/r/seduction26/08/18 11:36 AM
1

I was thinking the same thing. Thats the esact meaning of the term "abundance".
/r/seduction25/08/18 07:26 PM
15

Search it on youtube, so you can see some example. Anyway, it is a smooth way of approaching girl, talking about normal thing at first then escalate. A straight forward approach instead is when you say to a girl "i think you're cute, wanna know a bit more about you" and stuff like that.
/r/seduction25/08/18 04:56 PM
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Not to straight forward that could be exchanged for a creepy/needy behaviour. I prefer a more smooth approach, using principle of cold approach. But if you are super confident a more staight forward approach could avoid useless waste of time.
/r/seduction25/08/18 03:48 PM
5

She is intrested, 100% sure, she even do the first move! Know you have absolutely not let her be your friend. You don't give a shit about her relationship and texting her as flirty as you can. Try to set a date sometime in the near future and pressure her (in subconscius way) to break up. Show her how wonderful could be a life with you an so lead her to break up as soon as she can.
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:00 PM
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Be funny and stay chill! I don't believe in one magic question/way that would lead you between the legs of the girl. You have to work with the environment around you, and also loocking at the girl and try to guess something about her, make some compliment about her dressing style or others.
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:09 PM
15

You have to be casual, not put too effort in that, just live the moment and when you feel there is an opportunity go for that. If you're looking for a "go to move", i personally grab the hand of a girl and let her made a spin, when we are talking about our passions or what we like to do (usually me or her say dance, or i talking about my mentality). It worked 100% of time (the girl smile and don't dislike contact). Another way is to grab her hand and just say "came with me to x" and then you dri…
/r/seduction25/08/18 08:29 AM
1

You can do nothing. The only thing is to be more open to them and let them know that you are interested in them (not sending ambiguous messages). But if a guy never do a move he is actually not a good guy to fuck with right? He immediatly show you non-dominance so why do you care about them?
/r/seduction24/08/18 04:25 PM
2

I'm not a woman but i can try to give you an answer based on my experience. On campus should be very easy to tall to a girl, you have multiple choice. You can stop girls while walking around the campus, using basically same approccing techniques of day game, with a huge advantages pheraps. You know that the girl you're talkin is a student and attend college so you have easy arguments to start conversation, but you also have an idea of what are the passions and of the cultural level of the girl, …
/r/seduction24/08/18 01:28 PM
1

Same here. Even if i think my language could be better for seduction pourpose, i take more the initiative if i have to speak in english (that is far from perfection). I think it is like that because i read and view a lot of material for seduction in english, so i know better what to say in certain situation in english rather than in my home language.
/r/seduction24/08/18 01:13 PM
1

Go out, try to pull girls, talkin with them, practicing stuff that i read on internet. But i want to stress the importance of the needed change in mindset that i forced in me.
/r/seduction23/08/18 09:03 PM
1

I study a bit of seduction and do a lot of practical stuff. Basically i changed my mind.
/r/seduction23/08/18 07:27 PM
1

Nah, i find more intresting and functional other type of arguments, like TV series, movies, art and litterature. But it depends, usually i push the girl to talk about her passion. If a girl have the passion for the music we can talk also about that.
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:08 PM
1

Great! I hate to see guys doing always the same error, texting girl like "what are you doing...". It is a turn off for every women...
/r/seduction23/08/18 03:02 PM
4

If she doesn't ask you questions, shes not interested In reality this could also mean lack of personality, i found some girls that didn't ask anything but are interested.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:30 PM
1

But a lot of girls (for my experience) answer with shitty/general kind of music. If a girl is not really into it i find music a poor argument.
/r/seduction23/08/18 09:25 AM
1

Relationships seems a little risky, at least at the beginnin.
/r/seduction23/08/18 09:23 AM
1

feel I ask her straight out she might get very nervous as I’ll be putting her on the spot. I forgot to mention she said to me as well “You’re a very straight forward person” couldn’t tell if that was bad or not haha Asking her out is the only solution imho. Maybe try with something easy like coffe.
/r/seduction23/08/18 08:45 AM
2

It seems to me that you're faceing italian or in general mediterranean girl for the first time lol. Girls in that part of the world are a bit more closed, that maybe because of the huge number of attention that local guys give to every grils. A mantra in that case have to be "don't fuck with those kind of girls", because usually the effort doesn't match the real value of these girls. Anyway I don't believe in this too much. I think you have to slow a bit your pace, but also you have to be very s…
/r/seduction23/08/18 08:26 AM
1

Man it went very good for you, what are your complain? I'm 24, in 8 months i pass from beeing a shy needy guy, who had little to non experiences (never done more then oral), to be at least "normal" (for a lot of people i look like overconfident but it isn't like that) confident guy, with more experience in 8 months then in 23 and half year. If i manage to do that, everyone could do that too! EVERYONE! I really miss a LTR, you have the opportunity to have that, now you have only to learn more abo…
/r/seduction22/08/18 08:55 PM
1

Man it went very good for you, what are your complain? I'm 24, in 8 months i pass from beeing a shy needy guy, who had little to non experiences (never done more then oral), to be at least "normal" (for a lot of people i look like overconfident but it isn't like that) confident guy, with more experience in 8 months then in 23 and half year. If i manage to do that, everyone could do that too! EVERYONE! I really miss a LTR, you have the opportunity to have that, now you have only to learn more abo…
/r/seduction22/08/18 08:55 PM
1

Man it went very good for you, what are your complain? I'm 24, in 8 months i pass from beeing a shy needy guy, who had little to non experiences (never done more then oral), to be at least "normal" (for a lot of people i look like overconfident but it isn't like that) confident guy, with more experience in 8 months then in 23 and half year. If i manage to do that, everyone could do that too! EVERYONE! I really miss a LTR, you have the opportunity to have that, now you have only to learn more abo…
/r/seduction22/08/18 08:55 PM
11

Ugh god I just want to let go of the past and start new but sometimes I wonder if it’s too late. C'mon man! Really?!? How fucking old are you? Even at 60 there is always a lot of time to change and there are always dozens of reasons for doing that. So spend some time on books and watching some video about social awkwordness.
/r/seduction22/08/18 01:09 PM
3

Yeah i totally agree. It could survive only if the sex with the hottie is something she could only dream, but this is clearly not the case....
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:53 PM
1

I think you have to work on your mind first. So talk to her and talk to a terapist, give some psycoanalysis could help you a lot. I'm not an expert but i think you have to quit your mentality and let things happen. Live more on the "carpe diem" mantra and absolutely not overthink! You rationalize too much, when you have to think in reality only two stupid think: 1) Have fun and enjoy the moment (with your gf but also alone); 2) give pleasure to your girlfriend. One last thing i want to say to yo…
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:49 PM
5

You're going back to school, let her go. That's the grown up option. That's SAVAGE!
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:44 PM
16

You have to create isolation between you (you and your girl) and all the others of the group. How to do that? Talk with her, "monopolize" the conversation with her, but in doing that you have not to act like a creepy needy guy, who can't manage a situation with other people. Make joke that every one could laugh on, every now and then talk a bit to the others (expecialy girls). But more important: establish yourself as the "leader" of your group, take the lead and make decision for others, propos…
/r/seduction22/08/18 08:33 AM
1

Probably she is using you. Leave her asap
/r/seduction21/08/18 03:05 PM
2

Grab her hand and make her spin. Spinning is the key in dancing, i don't really know why, but when i started to make girls spin i dulicate my chance of success with them.
/r/seduction21/08/18 01:15 PM
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I think the best advice have to be: "go to an expert, a doctor or a psycoanlyst, an see what he say". And i stay with that. We here don't know nothing about you, we can't help much. But if you're not intrested in a relationship it coul be normal, in particular if you have high level of stress due to work or university. But also there could be a moltitude of factors that play a role in your sex-driven and sexual life that it could be very very difficult for one people on the internet to bet what …
/r/seduction21/08/18 12:57 PM
1

Yeah probably she is kind of psyco. But what she say could also mean that she want open relationship/fuck buddy, and that she is probably into female-cuck...
/r/seduction21/08/18 12:45 PM
2

Go out saturday and friday, bars, clubs and street are your best friends. Also go to library and university campus (you're not too much younger than univeristy freshmen so you can be exchanged by one of them), but also frequent more your highschool, it will be some sort of extra-courses to attend
/r/seduction21/08/18 08:58 AM
2

Ok probably if you are like Connor Murphy you will have more chances but since you're not like that why do you have to care? You could pull also as a balding guy, and this is 100% true, so who cares?
/r/seduction21/08/18 06:43 AM
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It is your lack of confidence. Just look at guy like Tyler from RSD, he is fat and balding, but he pull. If you are not confident with your hair style cut them to zero, completely bald guy attract woman (and make you look older so you can pull 30 to 45 chicks).
/r/seduction20/08/18 06:59 AM
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And this is true in some part. Anyway women remain seduced by some of the trairts of badboys (like the ones on this post). But this is because have a lot of confidence is a great thing in general, for example, and this is true for a lot of that traits.
/r/seduction20/08/18 06:37 AM
1

No there is no trick. If someone say that he know some trick, be suspicious about him. You can kill overthinking only by doing things, if you do, you'll not have the time for thinking.
/r/seduction20/08/18 06:35 AM
1

Wait and let's see what happen. But i don't understand, do you want something serious with her or just sex?
/r/seduction20/08/18 06:31 AM
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Most of that are not related with bad boy traits, but just to normal man. Everyone have that, some more one than the other/s, but everyone have them. But that are the trait that most women search in a man.
/r/seduction19/08/18 04:44 PM
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I'm on your side man! I also don't really know how the other could manage to do that. Even in my last relationship (even if it was a not so long one), when i broke up in a relatively friendship, I'm the first one to cut off all the relation with my ex. I don't really know why it is spontaneous for me but at the same time i feel bad because in reality i'm not so offended or frustrated by the break up, even if it appear the esact opposite.
/r/seduction19/08/18 04:31 PM
1

Exercise constantly my fellow wannabe-pua.
/r/seduction19/08/18 03:14 PM
1

Never mind lol
/r/seduction19/08/18 03:06 PM
0

ahahahahah ;)
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:14 PM
2

Ask her out for a date, she is probably into you as well.
/r/seduction19/08/18 09:18 AM
0

I will date you, as a mediterranean type of guy lol i'm not really into appearance only
/r/seduction19/08/18 09:08 AM
2

Turn this to your favor. DOn't act like it was your fault, but say something like "hey, you have to work harder if you want my cum", or "only if i stick my dick in your pussy i will cum". SOmething like that. Also you can use it at your advantage say something about your epic endurance and the fact that you can fuck her for a longer span of time than anyone else
/r/seduction19/08/18 08:56 AM
1

Thats bullshit, don't rely on that
/r/seduction19/08/18 08:31 AM
2

Meh as a Mediterranean looking guy, I love Mediterranean looking women but apparently that feeling is not mutual lol
/r/seduction19/08/18 08:25 AM
0

Don't agree with that. Never see a huge trend for "inter-racial". I see a lot of couple where both are blond, or brown or with dark skin.
/r/seduction19/08/18 08:24 AM
1

If you're confidente as fuck you could do that, maybe the best way is to grab some hot chick and start to dance with her (if you have previously talked to her of course). It could be game changer with a girl, showing that your not afraid to take control of te action.
/r/seduction18/08/18 02:36 PM
4

They are looking for attention. Also they use that to "remain in shape", or because they thinck it is funny. Also guys filrt with woman they don't like so much just for fun.
/r/seduction18/08/18 02:20 PM
1

Nope you're not alone. I can say that for me all depend on the girl i find. With some girls is impossible to have some genuine connection with others it came before sex. It all depend.
/r/seduction18/08/18 01:15 PM
1

I agree with you on everything. It's hard but it is true. Also i noticed that a lot of guy after just read a bunch of things believe that they are now PUA so they must have succes with women, but it doesn't work like this. And they don't know.
/r/seduction18/08/18 08:25 AM
1

evergreen, worked 60-80% of the time.
/r/seduction17/08/18 03:22 PM
1

You have to look for something in profile pictures and bio (if there is one), to make some assumption or to make some question about. I use that and work nice, but it depends from girl to girl. I'm open to try some different opener.
/r/seduction17/08/18 03:03 PM
1

lol just seen
/r/seduction17/08/18 03:00 PM
1

No one girl want to be, or feel like, a hoe. So if she said that she was super honest with you. So both your assumption could be right. You know have to let her not feel like a slut, you have not to judge her for her behaviour. But anyway if she send to you some photo it would be absolutly a sign of intrest in you by her (sending a photo is just a way for girls to gain/looking for validation), so you don't have to overthink to much ;)
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:57 PM
1

WTF?? LOL you'r growning quickly boy!
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:52 PM
3

"Just hang out" is her telling you up front that she's not trying to fuck. Girls do this bullshit all the fucking time. This is actually a shit-test imho. It would not mean that he never gonna fuck her, he only have to play well his card.
/r/seduction17/08/18 01:22 PM
2

What kind of literature? Mainly italian or english literature. But i'm also a huge fan of sci-fi (aka Asimov) and thriller books (scandinavian writer like Nesbo ar great in that).
/r/seduction17/08/18 08:32 AM
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LOL..what are we talking about? I went off on a soap box. LOL you went off a lot! Anyway i think that all that matters is the ability (for a man more than a woman) to calibrate the discussion on the base of which kind of person you're talking about (man or woman). That because i'm a guy who like long and philosophic discussion as well as nerdy discussion about literature, but in my entire life i found oless than ten girls really into that stuff and for the 99% of the time i have to speak like a …
/r/seduction17/08/18 06:40 AM
2

Oh i just realize that you are a girl lol. Anyway don't now how good or bad the guys are, personally I'm not one creepy guy neither one who want only sex, but it appear that also the girls (with which i'm chatting) aren't really into more serious or intresting and complex discussion. Maybe it's only a bad time to looking for a smart partner for both gender.
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:56 PM
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No, it was really the first time i go out after have red somenting about seduction tactics and i couldn't handle the situation with her two friends that cockblock me.... But it was fun and a great experience overall, also because it was a milestone for me.
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:49 PM
1

Yeah it could work with hobby, but i agrue about personality of a man/woman. I personaly use only a quick description of what i like (e.i. basketball, cooking, cryptocurrency), but it is as far as possible from showing my personality.
/r/seduction16/08/18 04:20 PM
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in reality is very very difficult to put your personality in a single bio without seeming a complete different people. Everyone on dating app are bored as fuck from long bio, so the effort to put a very solid one is useless.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:41 PM
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Yes a Bio is needed, but i personally notice that a schematic one is way better than a long and well explained bio. Also i never see a girl with more than qoute from some shitty-wannabeintellectual-book on her bio, so i processed that it is completly unecessary to have a detailed bio in a dating app.
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:39 PM
2

Totally agree with you man! Girls are as superficial as men but they don't admit it and it is even worse...
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:36 PM
2

I agree, clubs are neither my prefered place to looking for girls, but it is impossible to exclude them completly just because a lot of people there are dumb as fuck. It is not the norm, but due to large number it is possible to find smart and funny people also there. It maybe depend also on the club and on the type of event hosted by the club. For example univeristy night (at least in europe) lead to high volume of intresting people even in club. Said that i personally don't like too much clubs…
/r/seduction16/08/18 02:30 PM
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In my experience clubs are an awful place to gauge IQ and IQ is my top priority when seeking a mate. I agree with that, it is true also for me. But yes i mostly loking for girls in their 20's (even if now i started to want more grown woman) because I'm in my 20's yet. And clubs work well in that age span, it is possible to find also fun or smart person in them just because nearly every one go to clubs even if they found it little annoying...
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:49 PM
1

And girls are attracted to the shiniest objects in a club. Absolutely agree with that! I have experienced that once, when for the first time i go to club (after starting some pua-training) and dance with a so high level of confidence (even if i was bad in doing that), that a solid 10/10 super hot blond dance with me for a good part of the night.
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:37 PM
1

instead of alcohol you/he can try with weed.
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:33 PM
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Tend to agree but it is not always like that. I found lot of quality girls in clubs and i found out that it is easier than anyone could think to have good interaction with girls also in clubs. Also in clubs is way more easy to find "openminded" girls, great for a ONS, in bars it is way more difficult.
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:32 PM
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Goddamn man your word are gold for the newbie! I only have to disagree on one parte of the "Pro tip #2", when you go to a club it was 99% for 18+ yo, and also you will always found some crappy girls asking for drink but it is pure gold to say to never buy , for any reason, drink for girls! 99% of the time it is equal to give away your money to the first person you meet in a street.
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:28 PM
1

I never looked in that way. I've to think more about that.
/r/seduction15/08/18 06:40 AM
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Absolutly normal. They act like "needy" to you so you dislike them.
/r/seduction14/08/18 02:13 PM
6

I think she only want to know first that your not a creepy and/or dangerous guy....
/r/seduction14/08/18 02:10 PM
5

It fucking work with 30 yo or more woman! I'm a little more surprise that it work also for younger girl. For my experience girls from 18 to 25 yo hate to not be recognize for their age, maybe because a youger woman want to feel more adult.
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:54 PM
1

Ok you have to go to a psychoanalyst or a psycologist and work on your inner side. It is useles to try to text a girl or to be in a relationship if you hate so much yourself and you're so unable to do anithing. Nobady could give you the key to magically open the legs of a woman.
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:42 PM
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C'mon man are you the dumbest people on the earth? Try to invent something, also and exactly true story. If you can say nothing before starting to text girls and in genral before tring to have a relationship you have to work on yourself. Work hard in your inner gmae, attend speech classes, creative writing classes, but also go out of your room and explore the world. Try to find something other then soccer to love, and if you can't find it at least try to live in your passion, doing stuff like: g…
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:39 PM
2

If you're sure she likes you then it is better to try to isolate her even if you and her are in a larger group (in school or if you're out all togheter). It should not be too difficult if she likes you, you have only to monopolyze the discussion with her don't let any other of your group to jump in (not in a creepy way, nor with aggressive manner). Use a lot of eye contact and kino. Then you can ask her out even without her number, or you can ask her number if you prefer but it would be a matter…
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:55 AM
1

If you have a car try to set a date in place where you can park your car outside of the eyes of other people so after the date (it could be also only a drink if money is also your problem) you can bang her in your car. Otherwise, you can set a date like watch a movie with her in your/her place when your/her parents are not in tha house.
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:31 AM
2

Abosolutely don't do that. You havly want a massive rejection eh?
/r/seduction14/08/18 07:18 AM
1

Never use the interview mode to text girl! If you like soccer (many girl dislike it so i suggest to find something other) try to say something about it, maybe some funny story about your past as a player (if you have played in the past) or as a supporter in the stadium. If you need to use and interview style of question try to ask "what's your passion" to the girls and then say something about yours.
/r/seduction14/08/18 06:27 AM
1

But you have not to ask question like an interview! Never! Try to make girls laught using meme or funny photo, when you have to text them never use direct question as "what are you doin?" or "How are you?", use indirect form of those question instead, say something like "you could neve image what happen to me ....-something cool or funny-.... are something as fun/cool as mine happen also in your day?".
/r/seduction14/08/18 06:23 AM
1

No man you make it wrong. Don't text any girl like and interview! Moreover don't start any conversation with "how are you" nor "what are you doing", it is simply lame. Any girl has dozens of guys texting her like that so don't do that.
/r/seduction13/08/18 04:17 PM
1

You have to work on your passion. You're probably boring because you're try to talk about something you really don't like/don't know. Try to find a passion, like photogray or foreign languages or reading, and try to attend event about your passion and try to know new people there. After that share your common passion with any of your significant other/s. For texting it came with practice. Try to be funny but also here try to share and communicate your passion, try to share emotion and show empat…
/r/seduction13/08/18 04:15 PM
2

Ahahah you say? So i've to work to improve even more my cooking skills lol. Anyway I enjoy talking with you about these kind of arguments, would you like to stay in touch and talk more privetly? Maybe with whatsapp, telegram or facebook? It could be also an opportunity for me to learn more english tho lol.
/r/seduction13/08/18 03:48 PM
1

Not at all. An abundant life came from a succesfull life rather than from a succesfull relationship life. If your super confident with yourself you are also super abundant, or at least abundant enough to not be creepy and needy as fuck for a girl.
/r/seduction13/08/18 03:23 PM
2

Yes for sure, it is risky to invite a girl home as a first/second date. It could be done with strong interaction. For me worked well when after solid day game and after instant date i saw the girl enough into me to try the move. Also i've noticed that this kind of situation worked better with foreign girls which are in my city for vacation, maybe because they are also attracted to the italian meal (as i'm an italian who can cook typical italian meal) and wine.
/r/seduction13/08/18 02:34 PM
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ahahahah i know you girls like men who can cook as i am lol. I think that if i engage a girl in something she like she will be more prone to say yes to my dating proposal, even if she is not sure about my as a sexual partner. I also think that this tactic could work on the contrary, so if you propose something the guy would like to do he will probably accept even if she is not into you at that time. Unfortunatly for me, it never happened to me from a girl in the past but i would appreciate that.
/r/seduction13/08/18 01:15 PM
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Don't know. For my personal experience also girls who want only hook-up or fuck-buddy relationship don't admit it clearly and tend to pass on guy who want only that kind of relationship. I think it is a sort of inconscious seduction process, where a guy who say openly that he is only into non serious relationship may be perceived like a non good-partner because of neediness, insecurities, and overall not a stable and "secure" man.
/r/seduction13/08/18 07:17 AM
3

Just put on your Bio that you're and adventurous type of guy, looking for new experience and good vibes. They'll now anyway there is a big chance that you want only casual sex. Imho you could completely skip this bio description and make them now your intention by the way you text them.
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:53 AM
3

Mmmm not sure about that, usually girl don't like this kind of open things....
/r/seduction13/08/18 06:50 AM
1

But close a woman is actually easier than open her a lot of time lol! Technique: i personally don't believe in such thing like "do that and you 100% f-close with her". It all depends on the frame you have with the woman. SO, for me there is no technique i only can speak in general term. But if you want more specific thing i guess something: - try proposing her to share a bottle of wine, older woman usually love wine; -try porposing her to cook a meal for her, or even better to cook togher with h…
/r/seduction12/08/18 06:58 PM
1

I don't pretend to be good, i think to have a lot to learn. I spooke for my expirience, i saw older women be less attracted by common seduction game and for what i saw and learned they prefer a mor direct approach. But of course it all depends on how you are direct. Nobady can go to a girl and say "i want to fuck you" of course. I mean only that with older women (expecially if they are inclined to cheat on husband) the tipe of game that a guy should play have to be more direct and straightforwar…
/r/seduction12/08/18 05:16 PM
1

As a youngster approach your wife he have only to play the card of endurance and strenght. Also with older woman (from 35 to 50) a guy must be very direct because it is very common that women of that age dislike very much tricky games of seduction. This is normal if you think in the genetic behind that, a mature woman have less chance to be fertile so she have to skip some standar seduction to avoid useless waste of time. Anyway if you want i can try to seduce your wife so you can see how to app…
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:47 PM
2

University and college campuses are the best. Any place there would be fine.
/r/seduction12/08/18 04:41 PM
2

Yes i take it! I also use the "would you like to take a bottle of good pinot in my place? So I can show you 'x' " and the in the x i put something that I know the girl like, such as "cooking skills" if i've talked to her about that and she is into that stuff, or massage or others.... of course the wine changes as i know what she like and if she prefer stronger or smoothier taste of wine. I know the game well ahahah ;)
/r/seduction12/08/18 02:49 PM
0

When you arrive at the point of kiss closing you have to stay focus and go for the big deal. Kiss her harder as you can, then arause her and lead the frame in some more privete place. Use the excuse to lead her to your car, because you have to take something or put something in it (it is not so much important why you have to go to your car) then kiss hard and escalate to sex. Otherwise lead her to the bathroom, but so many girls think that the bathroom is a place to bang sluts and no one girl wa…
/r/seduction12/08/18 02:27 PM
2

He say what i nearly always say to girls to take to my appartment for some fun lol. Seriously nothing special by him, just average texting maybe also little helped by your way of talking to him. Wine and Chill is an evergreen.
/r/seduction12/08/18 02:21 PM
1

How long depends on how long did you waiting to text him back in the past? It have to be a similar ammount of time i think. If i was you i would go with something different, or at least if you want to built something with that guy as i interpreted from your previus response.
/r/seduction12/08/18 07:52 AM
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You have to do couple of things imho. You have to be funny and as less akward as you can, try with inner joke recalling to your first date (something funny that happened) or even something of your previous relation with this guy. Second, you absolutely have to be non-needy, you have to text him smootly. Don't text him too much, but don't show too much disintrest as well (or he maybe think that your just up for a fuck buddy relationship).
/r/seduction11/08/18 03:11 PM
2

Yes you're right. I want only to say that is unusual to see girls apply to PUA techniques, or at least i never see one before you. Anyway your welcome in the comunity ;) and yes i also think that you're a bit more strategic than averege, but it absolutely fine like this!
/r/seduction11/08/18 07:57 AM
1

Whoa a PUA woman?? However, how to reengage someone? Easy, you have to charming try to re-call some funny moments passed with that person. You have to use some inner joke of the "relationship", but be awere that the line of neediness is very near. I don't know what NLP stand for sorry, lol.
/r/seduction10/08/18 04:18 PM
1

I not agree in part of your response. Join group, attend classes or doing some squad sport are all good advice, but because someone have to choose to do whatever he like! Not to meet girls!! It is stupid to attend photography class if you dislike it, but only to meet girls. Plain stupid. Moreover, if you attend class to get laid you could found some problem. Problem related to the frequency of meeting the girl you like. This frequency may affect the seduction process imho, and is easier to get l…
/r/seduction30/07/18 03:29 PM
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You have to try to go "gaming" (seduction game) in univeristy bar and place where students go to take a break from study, not necessary attend party or go to disco. You can also try with library and books store, where you can approach in easy way a lot of woman without any other men interference.
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:40 AM
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It seems like a behaviour of an italian or french girl that one, lol. Anyway good story, but in your case i have to ask you why if you have a strong first date and you chat with this girl for a month you don't close her in that date? Also only a K-close would be better than nothing.
/r/seduction20/07/18 03:39 PM
1

I disagree. It is not confermation bias. A lot of time if you have even a strong interaction with a girl and you set a date in more than three day (from the day you set it), and you don't text with her in the meanwhile, 80% of the time she will flake you. At least this is what my experience (or the one that i heard from friends) teach to me, and this is valid in my european country. And for the last part of your post, it is true that you have to make a life outside of the man-woman interaction, …
/r/seduction20/07/18 06:41 AM
1

You don't need to ask about a FWB relattionship. You are young it's more easy that you get a non serious relationship, even in a LTR, so why you have to ruin the pathos of the moment? 90% of the time girls feel like slutshamed if you openly ask for a fwb relationship, even if she want the exact same thing. After few dates (hopefuly you get laid also), you have to be honest with her and put the things as they really are.
/r/seduction19/07/18 07:59 AM
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Not a great advice in general situation, imho. It work for you because you act like an "I don't give a shit" alpha. So she began to be attracted to you. But in general is a good thing to listen on what a girl say, because you can find in her words somthing intresting to turn on the conversation.
/r/seduction07/07/18 05:08 PM
1

If you are good teacher it is true. But i didn't talk for a LTR. In general if you have a LTR you maybe practice a better sex in time, but it is not always true. For example if you really like a girl and having a relationship with her you may close an eye on the fact that she is awful in bed. But it all depends. In general term i suggest you to do not think a a lot on that kind of things, but you rather have to focus on your self-amusment with any kind of girl.
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:51 PM
1

Yes, i thought like you in the past. I felt like "omg, i want to find a girl that is not a complete thot!" But some years after that i start to thinking for myself, so a thot will guarantee a better sexual experience than a virgin girl, and also is very difficult to find virgin cute girl out of HS nowadays. So you have to boost your ego only. And start with the mentality of "It's my turn now!!". If it can help you, try to avoid asking to a girl about her sexual life in your first dates.
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:40 PM
1

I know n closing is not much a big thing. But as an 18 years old is was quite good for me. Now, not even a k close is what i'm looking for lol
/r/seduction07/07/18 12:31 PM
1

I understand. But put it in perspective. If you want to date only virgin girls, you highly reduce the number of possible girls that you can get. So, you have to accept to date also non virgin one. Also, you have to try sex with an experienced girl. It is way way better than the sex a virgin could ever offer you. I know, you think of other men fuck her before you, but hey, now is your turn! That is what you have to think.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:31 AM
1

Yeah it is pretty normal (i think) to have those thoughts. It will be better believe me.
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:09 PM
1

You have to pass throught that kind of things very often. Then you will find it a normal thing so you would not find it disgusting. On the other hand you have to change a bit your mentality (and you can change it by practice). You have to think for the moment, for you and your significant other, and let the past be the past, evene the recent one. You have to accept that the only thing that matter is the present.
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:54 PM
1

Ok, but you know there is a lot of christian who don't go to church? At least do not seek in church a place for building social circle. Forrign language courses are pure gold, man. You can't even compare with churches. Driving lessons are good, i meet and n close (but i was awful with girls in that period, so no more than that) a cute girl back in the days of my driving course. So also that is not a good example in my opinion.
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:05 PM
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Hey man don't be too severe with yourself. I'm studing civil engeneering, not the easiest subject in university, and still manage to catch opportunities to have fun (with girl or not). So i think also you can, you have only to try as hard as you can imagine.
/r/seduction06/07/18 01:27 PM
3

To pick up girls? Holy shit yes!! lol
/r/seduction06/07/18 01:23 PM
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You say you go to church? Are you serious? Never think to try to go to a party or simply a disco or a bar (maybe saturday night!), instead??
/r/seduction06/07/18 10:36 AM
2

We have poor witnesses from the game in the past, we don't really know how much chivalry and poetry works for example (a lot of poet didn't have a good sex life and a lot of that went unmarried for their whole life). Also the role of the woman change a lot, and now they are more free, in the past every woman have a different mindset and they have to pick an husband as fast as possible. But also the abundance of men, coming form social media, for the women is unreal, so a guy now have to improve …
/r/seduction25/06/18 07:15 AM
0

At 20 you feel old?? LOL At 30 what you would say? That you're about to die? :D C'mon man, you're just an average 20 years old boy. The majority of the guys at that age couldn't do a thing in bed with girls. Now, if you want to learn something real (an escort would only suck you money) i suggest you to watch more porn. You can think it is a stupid things, but i think it could really help you (it works for me). Of course i don't mean average pron videos, but if you search on every famous porn sit…
/r/seduction18/03/18 10:56 AM
1

Yeah i know, i was tired and seems to me that the friends knew what i was trying to do (isolate the hottest one). But thanks, i'll take you in mind in future and i'll try to improve myself!
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:54 AM
1

I'm only a student how to justify that?
/r/seduction25/02/18 06:02 PM
1

Ahahaha where the fuck i pick pen and paper in a club?
/r/seduction25/02/18 05:25 PM
1

Ok thanks. I was minimum good with the two friends of the sexy girl. I try to dance with them (they don't seem intrested even if i do it in the same way with the 10), i pay them attention also. But when i find the three girls outside, that two girls start to say (almost immediately) things like "She have a boyfriend! (referred to the hot girl) She have a good relationship right know!!" I respond (a little pissed of, but with irony) "So do I! What's the matter? I believe it is not illegal to talk…
/r/seduction25/02/18 04:59 PM
3

I tried a lot to be open also with the other girls. I tried to dance with them insead of the hottest one. To me it seems that this girls are jealous of hot girls so they have to try to prevent her to be happy...
/r/seduction25/02/18 04:47 PM
2

Simply self-amusement on the beach, just chill there. You'll probably find some cute girls and you have only to talk with them without being to creepy, like "c'mon came in my house!". Just chill.
/r/seduction21/02/18 08:50 PM
4

Never read so much bullshit since i've read a little bit of bible....
/r/seduction19/02/18 11:15 AM
1

A little tip is to use something in girls profile to start the conversation, maybe something in one of her photos or in the description. After that i think a lot depend on the girl you face off, in some case you have to be more direct, but in other (girls who want relationship at most) you have to know them better, starting to talking about her and your passion, work, future, ecc...
/r/seduction18/02/18 08:59 AM
2

there's no failure, there's only feedback ;)
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:52 PM
2

It is motivational mate! Thanks!
/r/seduction17/02/18 09:14 PM
1

thanks mate!
/r/seduction17/02/18 08:32 PM
1

Thanks bro. I asked that only because i'm going to start two different fuckbuddy relationship, and for me would be great if that two girls could sum up for a 3some
/r/seduction17/02/18 08:30 PM
2

Ok thanks mate! I believe that i could sum two fuckbuddy situations in some way, but anyway seems to be more plausible to get two new girls pick up only for the 3some purpose...
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:04 PM
1

Ok cool, it is fine when in a club or in similar situations you're gaming is very good with two girls and they don't have problem in do that. But now i'm wondering if i can trigger that situations if i know before the two girls (already worked as well as i can), and i know i can have sex with them (individually), and than i create the situations. Or a threesome is possible only if the two girls already know each others?
/r/seduction17/02/18 05:59 PM
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I know that performance anxiety is when you cum too fast, not when you can't even make it hard...
/r/seduction17/02/18 01:09 PM
1

Sorry i've read wrong. So i suggest you to have some compromise, and start to take what you can, then you have some sort of abundance (also if you are not so intrested in that girls) to mentally spent during the approaches of the hottest girls. I know is a little bit un-ethical to use someone, but in my suggest you have not to be rude or impolite to that worst girls. Also you can find some very good girls even if you initially don't like them after (maybe you find some sort of sex-god under a ug…
/r/seduction16/02/18 09:00 PM
3

Women are fantastic creature, how can you feel angry and frustated while you are flirting with one of that? I think you have to learn first how to do not give a shit. To be filrty with a girl is NOT equal to misslead girls. It's just have fun. Your fun, but also girls fun. If you don't want to do that, why you even think about "abundance"? You would never achieve abundance without be in touch with multiple female...
/r/seduction16/02/18 06:33 PM
2

You can create abundance just talking and chatting even with girls you wouldn't like to fuck. When you start to flirt also with medium-low quality girls you'll start feel better and more natural also with the top ranked girls, that you actually want to fuck.
/r/seduction16/02/18 04:52 PM
1

I can say what worked for me in my first year in college. I didn't know anyone of my classmate the first days so i try to talk with others who seems in my same condition. I try to be te "leader" of the "others" and make myself as cool as possible, talking with nearly everyone a seem way too confident (than i really am). A make quickly a bounch of new friends and start to organize party and other social event, like group of studying, or also simply meeting in pubs or bar or go out for a walk toge…
/r/seduction14/02/18 11:13 AM
1

Send pics of your penis to her. It work 100% if she was born in 2000 or later
/r/seduction10/02/18 10:05 PM
1

I also live in a college city (in Europe), and there are some themed night. But in general bars, pubs or whatever, are only full of couples. So for me that idea doesn't work.
/r/seduction10/02/18 07:52 AM
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I think that the idea to go to a Valentine day theme night is a terrible idea. In that night probably you (he) will find only (or vast majority) couples, and it'll be more difficult to game in that situation...
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:52 PM
17

LOL
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:50 PM
1

How much bigot you are?? Goddamn...
/r/seduction09/02/18 08:50 AM
3

You can use also photo or audio recording, so you can make her understend by your body or vocal language/behaviour if you're joking or not.
/r/seduction08/02/18 09:52 PM
2

I say maybe... i once know about a girl who showed to a frind of mine some of her naked photo, but he was in FZ till the hair. Maybe this case is different, but i don't really now the relation between the guys in this story.
/r/seduction07/02/18 09:58 PM
2

KINO == kinesthetic. You flirt with the girl and have an escalation in contact, tuouching her "hot spot" (like shoulder, neck, face...), increasing time of contact.
/r/seduction07/02/18 05:29 PM
0

Man, don't be a freaking puritan. They are 20-years old guys, they are not married. If the girl want to break her relationship, why in the hell she is not allowed to have sex with someone other?
/r/seduction07/02/18 05:22 PM
10

Actually no. She may be want to friendzone that guy. Showing her nudes because she is not even consider him a possible guy to fuck, but more like a gay friend... But nothing is lost forever, and not all the girls act in the same way so, why not try to seduce her?
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:23 PM
3

but if it work, is really really better than with some random chicks
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:20 PM
-1

WTF? Who say that a girl with boyfriend couldn't have sex with other guys? If she want to break up than our hero there have to force the situation, showing her that he want her, and more important he have to seduce her...
/r/seduction07/02/18 03:19 PM
1

If it was a shit test you failed it... Anyway that was a clearly a comment of a true girl friend, not even a FZ comment. She see you as a cool guy, but she actually try to say that you have to find a girl...
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:15 PM
2

I have some of your issue. I think that the most important things, while texting, is to be funny, smart and (also auto-)ironic. I know it's not ever possible, but just try. I'm not one of these PUA, or something like that, but just a simple guy like you, so i can give you a "to do list". I also try to improve my texting game in the last few mounth, and i have expirenced that, as you mantioned, girls have generally way way more boys who text them than a guy have girls. For these reason girls are …
/r/seduction06/02/18 04:14 PM
1

Man, in that case the problems are the questions. Try to use the so called FORD method for your questions. F=family; O=occupation(or what she studies and why); R=recreation; D=dreams. Try to use that way to make questions, use that topic. If she is still not cooperative, than leave her and move on to the next one ;)
/r/seduction06/02/18 08:04 AM
1

Hey @bsbnsc i have a little tip for you. When you chat with a girl try to be yourself the catalyst of the conversation. Try to expand the dialogue after the answer at your questions by the girl, with some funny comment. Avoid to past directly to the next question, without any interaction.
/r/seduction05/02/18 10:30 PM
1

Oh shit, it is real mess! I think you should find some time for him as soon as possible and have some fun with him. Later you could act as a "friend with benefits", or if you're more intrested in him, why not have a relationship with?
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:56 AM
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