Alexfortomorrow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
33	How I deal with being ignored/rejected		Alexfortomorrow	/r/seduction	23/01/14 06:41 PM
10	Never Settle	Red Pill Theory	Alexfortomorrow	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 12:08 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Here, in video form, I present to you the young American women of today. Am I the only one who noticed how the (redhead?) girl on the very top left is super sick of their shit?	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/15 11:25 AM
1	Sedditor Locator 2015 Italy	/r/seduction	01/10/15 07:45 AM
0	Magic /s OT, but is "Too Didn't Long Read" the new "Don't Dead Open Inside"?	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/15 01:19 PM
17	She's not yours to keep; she's only yours to have right now. This clearly implies that everything is temporary, really liked how you used it in the correct perspective. Literally everything is bound to an end, starting from your life, to more mundane things. Applies to situations, feelings, frame and mindsets, too. Therefore, what you get from going deeper is that: time is precious. Don't you fucking dare waste your time, it's the only true currency you should give value to. You only die once, make it count. Be prepared to lose anything and everything wit…	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/15 07:58 AM
2	Instant Gratification is a Poison - Advanced Monk Mode Theory Nice, very well written. I really like the method you suggested, I believe it would be perfect for people that lack the necessary degree of self-control. Discipline is key in the scenario you described, but still the 90 days method should be doable and have a good outcome for most people. You can accomplish that change, you can become the vision of yourself that you want to be. Become that vision. ^ Gold	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/15 01:28 PM
1	Rant for my beta friend In other words: excuses, excuses, excuses. A lot easier than actually doing something for a change. Great post, best of luck with your company!	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/15 08:57 AM
1	Never let a woman disrespect you because you upheld the rules. While I strongly agree, I also believe this would apply to anyone, not just women. Personally I have a very specific set or rules and behaviours based on my principles and morality, and I 100% respect and hold on to them, all day every day in any situation (so long as they do not cause any damage to me and/or others of course). Frame is important as much as the rules you give yourself. We all know very well, discipline is key in everything. Motivation is hard to keep for long periods of time, di…	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/15 08:08 AM
3	Just do it! How I stopped being a complete loser without even realising it Inner game, strong frame, total focus on self-improvement. Feels like you got into monk mode and got out of it successfully in the end. Totally agree with this. Way to go mate, good job!	/r/seduction	23/09/15 07:46 AM
1	Just do it! How I stopped being a complete loser without even realising it Dank memes can't melt steel beams	/r/seduction	23/09/15 07:45 AM
1	The Problem Is Not That Others Don't Get You. The Problem Is Your Perception. Discovering perception aka reframing only now. What an incredible tool, thanks for this. Will definitely use this more often.	/r/seduction	23/09/15 07:33 AM
1	Aspiring writer? Content producer? Really clever twitterer? Hey, why not? I love using Twitter on a daily basis, actually I almost decided to start a vlog recently (Casey Neistat is quite inspiring). Would love to help if needed, I'm Italian too so I could offer my perspectives as well. Check my post history to see if I might be fine with this. A bit busy with work sometimes, but I usually have some free time between working and lifting for sure. Count me inmaybe?	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/15 08:27 PM
2	One-itis, I never thought it could happen to me: A cautionary tale I feel you mate, and I know it sucks. Been there, felt like shit, made it through alive but better and stronger. Lesson learned, moved on with my life. Like you said: focus on yourself. Get better at something, workout, lift, meet more girls, whatever it is. Keep yourself busy. Don't give your mind and body a single second of rest. You can do it.	/r/seduction	22/09/15 08:45 AM
3	Do I drop attempts with girl who I just met suggesting to be friends whilst drunk? I'm kinda in a similar situation. I'll tell you what I'm going to do based also on some great advice I got at TRP. ignore what she said keep playing your "game" like nothing happened hold your frame at all costs keep doing what you want to do with her no matter what Let me quote you something a TRP user wrote me several hours ago in reply to my post, this is gold. To clarify my point about bringing girls into your reality. Don't bring attention to her subconscious behaviors that would indicate t…	/r/seduction	22/09/15 08:24 AM
3	Never Settle This hits home. Thanks for this man. Good point. I know I fucked up, and pretty bad. Messed up situations are my fav, and most of the time my actions are the direct cause of them. Hell, at least I'm never bored. In this specific case, I found the following mistakes so far: waited too long to decide if bangable or not no escalation due to that as a consequence, poor kino should've closed waaay earlier, instead too much time wasted. therefore, her pussy dried out -> she lost the initial interest -…	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/15 07:46 AM
1	Never Settle You're definitely on point. I didn't escalate at all actually. The problem is I didn't find her attractive as a whole until the last times we met, during summer while I was in ghost mode, she got more fit and better looking so when we saw each other again I was too late: the heavy hamstering was already in motion. I treated her like a random friend to hangout with, then realized she was bangable, but when taking her out of her own friendzone I failed in trying to making it rational; I should hav…	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/15 07:19 AM
1	Never Settle I'll be honest, never actually got into econometrics as it was a uni course completely parallel to mine, which instead is more finance oriented. Econometrics should be more math oriented IIRC. I'd ve probably liked it if I chose it, but I went on a different route so that's that..	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/15 07:14 AM
1	Never Settle Uh that's a nice perspective. Not sure though, I mostly view it from a "setting standards" point of view but you might be right, good point. On second thought, I'd probably do what you say in a natural way, since I would automatically exclude from my views anything that looks like an uruk-hai and pursue only the bangable ones.	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 04:35 PM
1	Never Settle Yeah I guess so, the ways are endless. Thanks though, much appreciated :)	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 04:33 PM
1	Never Settle Yeah I see. I'm by no means stating truths of course, just my perspective. Personally, not all pussy is the same. Can't even talk to her if she looks like a goblin straight from Mordor. However if she has a banging body, paper bags and some imagination would make it easier. Agree on the 5s treating you like 10s would do, good thing is it also happens the other way round!	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 03:36 PM
2	Never Settle I'm from the phone but I'll try to answer. If like me you treat economics and finance like a passion, it will be a blast, do it. Quantitative finance specifically is the shit, you'll get a good position in short time depending on your location. Also cash is good. Being an analyst for project finance modeling right now, investment banking or a good corporate finance position would be my best bet for the future. Still working my ass off but I'll get there eventually.	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 03:33 PM
3	Never try to fix a woman's problems Gold She should behave like a grown-up, let her deal with them. Let her get her shit together. The moment you take care of her problems, they become your problems as well. I might be wrong, but you can still offer a hand here and there IMHO, as I personally like to help people realize their dreams and solve their problems/insecurities, change their life for the better; however I never get too much involved in that. I might give away a fix, a solution, an alternative way of doing things to get th…	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 10:33 AM
2	Your Brand of Alpha Oh well, despite the schlong and the XY chromosome a man would still need to eat. Or at least I guess so, since I make shit up ;) Jk. Either way cooking is a skill everyone should have imho.	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/15 11:43 AM
4	Your Brand of Alpha Hola! Agreed, not being able to cook a decent meal is plain terrible imho. Hell, not even for others, one should learn and be able to do it for himself! A man that can't cook is not a man by definition (no offense to all you TRPbros who can't cook).	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/15 07:13 AM
6	Your Brand of Alpha Italian here, can confirm. AMA. Nice contribution anyway, totally agree.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/15 03:31 PM
7	Nexting Eh, it varies a lot, but generally if by the third time I ask her out she keeps saying no and doesn't offer to reschedule for another day/time, she's done. End of texting/calls. Then, if she makes a comeback and asks me out, the score resets.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 10:24 AM
2	Texted her and she texted back but kind of confused... Stop. Now. Freeze her, no more contact. Delete her number if needed. Go on with your life.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 10:22 AM
1	Well fuck. The sidebar is literally kung fu, read that shit till your eyes bleed. Anyway welcome, swallowing the pill is the start of a great journey of self improvement. Rules: Stop being a beta faggot willing to do everything for her. It's bad. 1a. If you don't do it already: Lift. Forget everything you've ever thought you knew so well about women, sex, relationships etc... All those rules where complete BS. 2a. Prepare to have your mind completely rewired. It will look weird and fucked up at first but b…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/15 08:08 AM
1	If looks don't matter, why does everyone tell me to go to the gym? Beside the fact that the looks DO matter, lifting will teach you discipline, commitment, and in the process you'll look better and have a healthier, more muscular look. Also, lifting is a good way to kill stress and feel better psychologically as well. Pushing several kg/lbs on the bench or a heavy squat session will make you forget everything and clear your mind.	/r/seduction	16/09/15 06:10 AM
1	I've extracted the 7 most important behaviors from years of success with women in my social circle. Nice contribution, completely agree. Work on yourself first, everything else will come as a direct consequence.	/r/seduction	15/09/15 10:17 AM
3	Lets talk about text game. Texts are just a tool, more or less like everything else. It's up to you to make a profitable use of it, or suffer the consequences if you can't control yourself. Personally, I learned the hard way. Too much texting when I was in high school and girls constantly rejected me. LL: keep it minimal. Now, I use it only if it has a very specific purpose. One time is cause I freezed her for 2 weeks and it's time for a quick comeback, another time is cause I want to schedule a date for the evening, or m…	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/15 07:16 AM
2	Don't mess up your hard work. (Thoughts about frame regarding reformed betas) Thanks! And thanks twice for your insights, with which I totally agree. It's always nice to have an outsider's perspective, and seems like I got it right. Next time I'll just kiss her straight away, we both waited/wasted so much time on dates already! P.S. Kino = touching ;)	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/15 01:35 PM
5	Don't mess up your hard work. (Thoughts about frame regarding reformed betas) Thanks, I actually needed this insight today. Had a date last night with a girl, as usual all went good and we had a good time, BUT overall it felt like wasting time: she keeps asking me out every week and every single time it ends with nothing. No decent occasions to practice kino, let alone go for a kiss (not doing that without a decent amount of kinoing first). I just hugged her and kissed her on the cheek when leaving her (I live in Europe, it's quite common), then rushed home pissed as fuck…	/r/TheRedPill	14/09/15 10:31 AM
1	How much does social status really matter in seduction? It's not the status in itself but the perspective you have of yourself. The true fundamental question is: how highly do you perceive yourself and your overall image? Based on the answer, your brain will behave accordingly. It's all in your mind.	/r/seduction	15/07/15 02:12 PM
3	Huffington Post - How To Overcome Neediness. Not at all. It's ok if in your circle you text/call/ask people to hangout, somebody gotta start the conversation anyway. That's cool, means you wanna see them and have fun, no worries. It's NOT ok if she hasn't answered your text from 3h ago, you panic and keep sending text after text while always checking your phone for an answer. Not cool. Huge turn-off for her -> Friend zone or even worse straight to the creep-circle.	/r/seduction	15/07/15 02:10 PM
2	Had a FANTASTIC 1st date, second date tonight. Okay to text her you're looking forward to seeing her? Don't. This way she'll get even more excited. If you text her before the date, you'll give the impression of the beta-dude who's been thinking about her the whole day. An attraction killer basically. A big no-no. Forget about texts, enjoy your day, focus on having fun and have a nice score tonight ;)	/r/seduction	16/04/14 02:01 PM
2	Do these girls exist or I'm just imagining things? Yeah definitely, she's probably attracted by your looks etc.. Being good looking myself as well, I noticed how most girls are literally frightened to have a conversation with me, only few ones have the balls to actually open me first. I know it's going to be quite a hassle to make her feel comfortable around you, but that's your main and only problem at the moment. Keep up the light talking and the eye-fucking, build comfort, make her trust you, let her feel the sexual tension between you (witho…	/r/seduction	16/04/14 07:53 AM
1	Loners who do well with high-value attractive women yeah I agree. Being 100% introverse is not always a good thing, sometimes [most times] you gotta be social, especially when you're working or doing stuff with other people. You can't just be a ghost the whole time :) As for what I wrote, I had to write just to point it out to OP, I hardly speak nor brag about it as it's just part of me and defines my personality.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 08:13 AM
2	Be bold when texting (Even though I can agree with what you wrote), how about less texting and more being bold in real life?	/r/seduction	27/01/14 08:08 PM
1	Loners who do well with high-value attractive women Hey, great line, I like it. Definitely my "style". Have an upvote :) edit: oh wait a second, was it directed to me because of what I wrote or what?	/r/seduction	26/01/14 08:57 PM
1	Quick question for the pros. She's playing with you, just having fun. Freeze the shit out of her for weeks, maybe months, be completely unrechable on the phone and online - unless you see her in real life (in which case behave like nothing happened, cut whatever conversation she will start and leave her asap). In the meantime, go out GFOTW and forget her :)	/r/seduction	26/01/14 08:56 PM
36	Loners who do well with high-value attractive women That's a quite precise and fitting description of myself lol. Allow me to answer then. "What they do?" The don't give a single fuck, quite simple. They focus on themselves and do what they like. They're always busy, they're not the needy type who always need attention from everyone. They don't necessarily need other people to feel complete or to complete their life. They provide for themselves, but yet they're ok with having connections and helping others. However, when it's time to be all alone…	/r/seduction	26/01/14 08:02 PM
1	Can't talk to females, please help! Work on your inner game, first. How can you convince women you're the best thing they've ever met/seen if you hate yourself? Work on yourself first, then proceed to work on girls.	/r/seduction	26/01/14 07:47 PM
2	1st date - just drinks or do you mix it up? Soft drink (coffee, tea, things like that. That's how we do in Italy, I have no idea how it works abroad tbh), then change location. Don't stay in the same place the whole date, move somewhere else with her. Do something new, take her somewhere she hasn't been yet. Do something new. Be a totally unpredictable surprise for her, every second that passes. Make her live the dream.	/r/seduction	26/01/14 07:44 PM
2	25 YR OLD Average looking male, slept with well over 50 women.. My perspective I prefer quality over quantity. It's not about how many girls you've slept with, wrong mentality imho. You're showing really low value to yourself and others when you fuck every trash bin walking down the road. Generic rule #xyz: You (supposedly) have a penis down there: have respect for him!	/r/seduction	26/01/14 07:40 PM
2	How I deal with being ignored/rejected Honestly, after reading this again, I might've beeen a bit too emotional as I have lot of stuff going on and to take care about atm. I personally always had a really hard time finding female friends: every single one of them ended up wanting something more, eventually we fucked and then all went to shit in 5s because I didn't care about having a relationship with her and blablabla friendship ruined.	/r/seduction	23/01/14 09:31 PM
3	How I deal with being ignored/rejected Sorry, we have a different approach to women and "game" in general.	/r/seduction	23/01/14 09:28 PM
4	How I deal with being ignored/rejected Behaving that way, she'll never learn to actually respect you. You'll be treated like a toy with no balls, until she'll cheat on you and leave you for a giant douchecanoe. There's no "emotional" bullshit involved. When se disrespects you, wasting your time/energy, she has to be "punished". Lesson learned? We start from square one, otherwise NEXT.	/r/seduction	23/01/14 09:23 PM
1	How I deal with being ignored/rejected Harm? What harm? Explain please.	/r/seduction	23/01/14 09:14 PM
2	How I deal with being ignored/rejected That's the point. I admit I was a bit too harsh with this post, but that's the point. People take decisions. Shit happens. Deal with it and move on. :)	/r/seduction	23/01/14 08:18 PM
0	How I deal with being ignored/rejected LOL ok, I might have went too far with this one but yeah, some girls are terribly crazy.	/r/seduction	23/01/14 07:29 PM
1	If a girl shit tests you, does ignoring pass the test? You thought, that's the true and only problem. You're not a moron though, you just made a mistake. It's ok, shit happens. Well, that was a big one, but yeah, whatever Deal with it, forget about this thing, convince yourself this never happened, and next time you see her, go get her :)	/r/seduction	22/01/14 09:09 PM
2	If a girl shit tests you, does ignoring pass the test? So basically she grew some balls for you and opened a fucking huge gate to her wet vagina. All off this was right there in front of you, and you chose to walk away, basically refusing her. Damn, this is a confirmation that hardly anyone actually LISTENS to what girls are saying. And even less people truly understand what they are NOT saying. Stop thinking about all those nerd theories for a single damn second, enjoy what you're doing. It's not a math exam. My friend and her friend were in the ro…	/r/seduction	22/01/14 08:57 PM
2	How do you get back your game after a break-up? You have to be your cheerleader, your coach, and your star player This, this line was awesome. +1	/r/seduction	22/01/14 02:07 PM
2	Just try Agreed, spot on. 12/10 would read again. Experience on the field > spending hours sitting in front of a pc reading books/posts/manuals.	/r/seduction	21/01/14 01:54 PM
1	How I ask girls out Best post. Ever. Loved it, I really liked your analysis. Wish I could upvote this 10x.	/r/seduction	21/01/14 01:44 PM
3	I can't see myself dating girls, how do I fix this Agreed, overthinking kills your frame and your game almost instantly	/r/seduction	21/01/14 01:35 PM
2	I can't see myself dating girls, how do I fix this Stop finding shitty excuses to avoid going out and approaching hot girls. Here's a list to help you with this: Go out. Find attractive girls to talk to. Have fun Eventually have sex with 'em ??????? PROFIT. :)	/r/seduction	21/01/14 01:34 PM
1	Mixed Signals? Yeah that's how you should deal with the situation IMO. Also, you could try to freeze her for a couple of weeks (or months if you have a strong mindset) and see how she reacts. I freezed a girl for 6 months and well, let's just say it worked really well :D	/r/seduction	20/01/14 09:00 PM
2	Mixed Signals? I'd NEXT her asap. Maybe she's a psycho, in which case she's too much of a hassle. Sorry OP but IMHO, from what you wrote she's quite probably not interested. Either be aggressive and ask her again to hang out the two of you alone, or just be her friend and let her introduce you to her hot friends :)	/r/seduction	20/01/14 08:10 PM
1	How do you deal with the "religious" type? I like your mindset, that's a nice way of dealing with a possible different result :) Anyway, long distance relationships are not to be counted as real. She won't see him often, he's not 100% in her life,so go ahead and don't care. No dilemmas here, go for it. Remember: nobody is single. Everyone always has somebody he/she is attracted to. Make your move, be your own miracle. And good luck mate :)	/r/seduction	20/01/14 06:55 AM
1	How do you deal with the "religious" type? The fact she might believe in something that's not exactly what are your beliefs, should never stop you to try and see her, hang out with her etc. Just, never talk about it in a judgemental way. Religion and politics are two difficult topics that can be treated with a girl only if you really know her and if both of you have something in common in that specific area. Definitely go for the # asap, ask her out right after and try to create something with her. Focus on having fun. If by any chance o…	/r/seduction	19/01/14 09:43 PM
5	How do you deal with the "religious" type? You respect her beliefs, and play it "safe". A true man should never disrespect a woman. If you truly think she's worth your time, always show respect for what she believes in, as it's what makes her valuable in your eyes. "Don't judge lest ye be judged" :) I'm kinda in your situation tbh, about to start dating seriously a Christian/Catholic girl (me being Christian as well make it easier though) with which I had a huge flirt months ago - eventually went into nothing due to work and both being b…	/r/seduction	19/01/14 09:23 PM
3	How I get girls phone numbers. Damn that's a great idea, love the app! As a proud #HOLOWARRIOR, I approve in the name of #33B5E5. May Duarte be with you, always.	/r/seduction	19/01/14 07:45 PM
1	How to make the transition from talking on the couch to kissing That's a great move indeed! This is used to show here you're in total control. Quite useful in a "make it happen" context :)	/r/seduction	19/01/14 07:34 PM
1	How to make the transition from talking on the couch to kissing Of course it does, if you do it correctly it always works :) Everyone has its own personal style of course, but if you established enough comfort through kino and created a good amount of sexual attraction, kissing her is quite easy. I know, it might sound cliché, but I'm Italian and if it works with Italian women, it will work with every woman in the universe! And let me assure you, we Italian men have to play always in hardmode. Most girls here are literally impossible lol	/r/seduction	19/01/14 07:30 PM
1	What does it mean if a girl asks to come with her on a girls' night? Here's your answer: I didn't say it was a given thing, if you actually read my comment I never mention any of that. I only said it was "possible". It might happen. It's like saying that hanging out with a girl will automatically entitle you to have sex with her. Nobody said it was going to happen automatically. Fuck me for even mentioning that. Look I'm Italian, and I don't know where you're from but things like that happen here IRL. Sure thing it's quite rare, it requires loads and loads of luc…	/r/seduction	19/01/14 05:23 PM
1	Am I right? Attraction is permanent. You don't "have" to simply assume it, it's always there. Everytime you look/talk to/meet a female a certain dose of attraction will be there. It might be minimal and barely noticeable, or so huge that you can't ignore it, but it will always be on. So yeah, hang out with her and have fun :)	/r/seduction	19/01/14 04:02 PM
-3	What does it mean if a girl asks to come with her on a girls' night? If your plans are staying alone in a dark corner all night sipping a shitty cocktail and you add a negative mindset, you're most probably going to end in a fivesome. With your right hand.	/r/seduction	19/01/14 03:56 PM
5	What does it mean if a girl asks to come with her on a girls' night? Oh well, I wasn't referring to clubbing. I hardly do that as I dislike it. Here in Italy we have different names for that stuff. If for club you mean a disco then it's a big no-no for me and I agree with what you said. Will never happen.	/r/seduction	19/01/14 01:26 PM
28	How to make the transition from talking on the couch to kissing While she's talking about random/boring stuff, start getting closer with strong eye contact, put a finger on her mouth to make her shut up, gently put a hand on the back of her head and kiss her. OR v2: At the first moment of "awkward" silence, get close and kiss her passionately. Always works lol	/r/seduction	19/01/14 12:46 PM
-15	What does it mean if a girl asks to come with her on a girls' night? WTF WHY THE HELL DID YOU DECLINE?WHY?WHY?WHY?? lol no seriously, why? It would've been a whole lot of fun! Not to mention possible threesome opportunities, being introduced to her female friends, chances to DHV etc.. Yeah sure, shit-tests at every corner, but man you'd have learned and improved a lot on everything! Next time, if there will ever be a second chance, just say YES :) edit: wow, donwnvoted to hell again? Seriously? At least make an attempt to reply and we can discuss about it.	/r/seduction	19/01/14 12:44 PM
7	How to Get Laid: "Get Off This SubReddit" Finally somebody who actually understand how it truly works. It's 90% a mindset problem, everytime all the times. There's no magic routine or convo line that will make her into your bed in 5 seconds. There's no magic trick or attire you can use/wear to make her leave her bf for you (which makes you a rebound and her total whore anway lol). It's more like 20% reading, 80% practice and experience on the damn field. Couldn't agree more with what OP wrote. My generic rules are: You have to completel…	/r/seduction	19/01/14 09:19 AM
1	Going on a "friend date", i want to escalate Rule #1: KINO ALL THE THINGS! You have to create some sexual tension between the two of you. Touching is a great non-verbal start in order to create comfort and escalate properly. Rule #2: don't behave like her gay-friend to which she tells everything. Every girl has at least one, don't let it be you though.	/r/seduction	19/01/14 09:10 AM
1	How to recover from an embarassing moment? Well it was 1:30am I was half-asleep and I sent some paragraph long text that I can't even read and understand. Here you fucked up, pretty bad. Long texts are a no-no. Even worse if they are incomprehensible. Next time, avoid texts at all costs, or limit them to the bare minimum, and focus only on face to face interaction :) Anyway, don't care much about this. Keep doing your game like nothing happened and have fun!	/r/seduction	18/01/14 08:37 PM
3	How to recover from an embarassing moment? Next time you see her, act like it never happened. Stop giving a fuck about that embarassing moment, act like you just don't care. Use the magic word: whatever	/r/seduction	18/01/14 06:40 PM
1	My rules for texting Yeah definitely, sometimes just plain calling out of nowhere is better (unless she's the kind of girl who get scared easily from this behaviours).	/r/seduction	18/01/14 06:15 PM
3	Went out by myself tonight and had a blast: a story of an introvert facing the terrors of college bars and clubs. yeah it's just like that, in fact if you feel comfortable the 3SR is applied automatically without even thinking about it :)	/r/seduction	18/01/14 02:57 PM
3	Went out by myself tonight and had a blast: a story of an introvert facing the terrors of college bars and clubs. contrary to what you read a lot on here, I don't really think the three second rule helps a whole lot. To me, it's way more important to feel comfortable in an environment, so anything I can do to help me with that is going to pay off in the long run more so than acting like a street performer and trying to talk to everyone I see. This. More or less what I think too. It only helps if you usually start overthinking and don't do any move because of that. If you feel comfortable with you and your s…	/r/seduction	18/01/14 01:12 PM
1	I feel depressed after sarging if I don't get results It's a long way until you'll have any sort of "big" result. Accept it. You have to, in order to grow you must accept that you'll fail throughout this journey, a lot and pretty bad too. You'll fail, you'll suck really bad, you'll get laugh at, you'll be rejected multiple times by a lot of girls, you'll look like an idiot perhaps. But remember, just say WHATEVER. Embrace your failures and learn not to give a single fuck about it/them. What matters is what you get out from this experience. Imagine,…	/r/seduction	18/01/14 09:24 AM
1	My rules for texting Agreed, though I generally dislike long texting session. What I generally do is, send her a random text to make her curious about something, and then call her with an excuse - or just out of the blue because IDGAF. Actually, happened to me yesterday evening. Sent her a text because I remembered about her, then when she replied I wrote I was busy at work and that I would call later (she kept sending me texts over Whatsapp anyway, in a super needy way..WTF?!). Called her after work, and she was ex…	/r/seduction	18/01/14 08:56 AM
0	Is online dating worth it? Nope. A single real life date/game is worth more than 100k online dating bullshit. You might use it just for fun, but make it your default method of getting girls and you're fucked.	/r/seduction	16/01/14 08:55 PM
2	What affirmations do you constantly remind yourself of? What works for you? You want something? Go get it. Period. If I won't do that, who will then? I'm the motherfucking best of the best here, no one stands a chance. Some might beat me at something, I'll outclass them in everything else. If I accidentally get an unexpected result [read: fail], I won't give a fuck because I really don't give a single fuck. It actually works, seriously.	/r/seduction	14/01/14 09:35 PM
2	Oneitis vs Chasing With that kind of girls, I generally keep pushing and pushing until I get what I want. They will never do anything, you have to do most of the things and make the k-close happen by yourself. She won't help you in anything. Instead, she'll make your game harder. That's basically every Italian girl you'll have the chance to meet. As I always say, here in Italy we play in hardmode all the time :) Watch out though, there's a thin line between Oneitis and getting what you want. As soon as what you pu…	/r/seduction	14/01/14 08:34 AM
5	Oneitis vs Chasing If your investment > her investment, it's Oneitis and you should GFOTW. If your investment = her investment, you can keep chasing her.	/r/seduction	13/01/14 09:58 PM
0	Why I prefer to approach 3 girls instead of 1 oh well, to have a threesome you gotta be quite good+lucky. A foursome might not even happen once in a lifetime. IOW I can't count past three.	/r/seduction	12/01/14 05:38 PM
2	Would not having a facebook hinder your success? Ever since I logged out from Failbook several months ago and never logged back in, everything went even better. No more random people who wants to spy on you, hating on you, wanting to know everything about what you're up to/working to, who you're dating etc.. Life is "private" again (though it depends on what you share anyway) Also, if used improperly, it's gonna make you look like a beta-needy loser. AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS (for seduction/girls of course) Not having failbook, or not using it at …	/r/seduction	12/01/14 10:39 AM
1	I am happier now, than I have been in a really long time. Glad it helps! The first person you have to convince that you can and will do it, is yourself.	/r/seduction	12/01/14 09:33 AM
3	How to close with girls at work? Sticking your penis in the printer is generally considered a bad idea.	/r/seduction	12/01/14 09:31 AM
5	How do you avoid the relationship vibe? NOPE, never tell her. Words suck. ACT like she's a fuck buddy. IOW, the time you spend together sould only involve having rough, hardcore sex. As soon as you're both done, leave immediately. No time for emotions if you want to avoid an LTR. If you start bulding an emotional bridge, she'll want something more from you and you're basically fucked.	/r/seduction	12/01/14 09:26 AM
44	Why I prefer to approach 3 girls instead of 1 True. Also, threesomes.	/r/seduction	12/01/14 09:22 AM
3	hey R/Seduction Thing is, the more you fake it while trying so hard at being the master PUA who gets blowjobs every minute from random passers-by, the more she'll be pissed off when se realizes you're just a big fake who tricked her in a mindfuck game. She'll feel betrayed by both you and her [totally disturbed] mind, and will proceed to flip you off instantly. My general opinion is, be alpha as much as you can, but please stay REAL. Don't try or pretend to be someone/something you are not. Be the best yourself…	/r/seduction	12/01/14 09:21 AM
5	Living an attractive lifestyle... does it work? Of course it works. Not only because it makes you look a lot more desirable, but also as you got better/more interesting shit to do than spending time on thinking on girls all day you'll be more confident and won't give a fuck in case you'll be rejected: you have other things to think about instead of being all like "boo hoo that girl doesn't want me boo hoo, let's be a creep and fill her inbox with a message every 2 seconds" tl;dr get a busy life, fuck bitches	/r/seduction	12/01/14 09:12 AM
1	Overwhelming amount of things to keep in mind, how does everyone manage to keep tabs on all this stuff when in action? no problem. Just remember that reading stuff, and getting to know more things, techniques and whatnot is not wrong per se. It becomes wrong when you do 99% reading and 1% applying what you read. Everyone has to find a balance. Most people who do the opposite, so more real life gaming than reading generally get faster and better results because there's no better book/manual than a woman's [totally alien fucked up] mind.	/r/seduction	12/01/14 08:28 AM
0	Girl challenged me to a drinking competition, wants to come over Any tips on how to maintain control and make it a great night? Don't mantain control and have a great night, most probably after the first couple beers.	/r/seduction	11/01/14 07:10 PM
9	Overwhelming amount of things to keep in mind, how does everyone manage to keep tabs on all this stuff when in action? By going out regularly and doing said stuff with hot girls. Also, don't focus too much on theory or reading books. You don't wanna be a seduction nerd, you want to focus on the process of having fun with girls. Yep, it's that easy. Now go out and get the girl(s).	/r/seduction	11/01/14 07:07 PM
1	Whats the best single piece of advice on girls in general? Literally anything, while considering moral and basic social principles for a decent and respectful living. Including showing your cock randomly to everyone in public places. Or gangbanging aliens in a dark alley. Specific enough?	/r/seduction	10/01/14 04:28 PM
1	Whats the best single piece of advice on girls in general? Yeah of course, that was implied.	/r/seduction	10/01/14 02:42 PM
1	Potentially helpful post for those like me who have failed to reach the point where KINO is second nature However just realize that the very first TOUCH is connected directly to the last one, your penis in her vagina. And that basically it is utterly essential, and frankly it can be considered minor sexual activity in itself THIS! Great post, totally have the same opinion. Here, have an upvote.	/r/seduction	10/01/14 12:16 PM
23	Whats the best single piece of advice on girls in general? Don't give a single fuck about literally anything.	/r/seduction	09/01/14 09:46 PM
1	Touching is easy, unless I like the girl. [help] Why is it awkward? She's not something you can't touch. She's a human, just like you. Do you like to be touched from a girl? She does as well. Girls are a lot more sensitive to touches than us men, so just touch her randomly. Touch her while talking, while walking, or doing anything else. Don't worry about it, unless you're acting like a creep she'll like it. I use to touch girls on arms and shoulders if I haven't build comfort yet. Then, on a more advanced level of interaction, I aim for the ba…	/r/seduction	09/01/14 12:13 PM
4	How to treat girls who start to show interest only after you stop trying? I generally go NEXT with this kind of mad girls. No time to waste, thanks for nothing.	/r/seduction	09/01/14 11:55 AM