How I deal with being ignored/rejected

2014-01-24T00:15:40+00:00

I think it's better to just realize a lot girls simply aren't available. They aren't rejecting you, they're rejecting your offer. It might even be just in that moment. I can think of a lot of times a girl was unreceptive then another time we're vibing fine. With your paradigm you need to reframe "rejections," when a lot of the time it's not even necessary. You shouldn't take it as a huge blow to your self esteem if a girl isn't into you. I'm not into a lot of girls. It happens, and its fine. It's not a conscious decision they're making to undermine your attractiveness.

groundzr0 · 2014-01-23T19:19:04+00:00

You are the fucking prize, not her. Remember this.

Okay. I can agree with that.

She's just a walking vagina with the [unstable] emotional depth of the Marianas Trench and the logic of a dying hamster with diarrhea.

Easy tiger. What is this, /r/theredpill? Be confident and all that jazz, but don't be an ass.

mic4ael · 2014-01-23T21:05:46+00:00

Thanks for this, you made me realize something very important.

Anaron · 2014-01-23T21:25:48+00:00

You sound emotionally compromised. And I'm not trying g to sound like an asshole. If someone ignores you, then move on with your life. There's no need to be spiteful about it. That's what children and unstable teenagers do. Just go on with your life and if an opportunity to hang out comes up, then take it. If someone disrespects you, then cut them out of your life. Also, women can be friends too.

weezyfGRADY · 2014-01-23T20:07:10+00:00

Women are people too.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-01-24T02:00:01+00:00

The most important thing to get from your OP is to not give a fuck. Everything else will follow that principle. Personally I don't even see getting rejected as being I'm the prize and not her, or she has no idea what she's missing.

First what most guys don't realize is that most girls will not outright reject you. They'll dodge situations to hang out, they won't answer your texts, and they won't reciprocate interest unless it is just friendly conversation. That being said, when I get rejected, flaked/ignored should be the right term, I mentally think oh so she's not interested, alright time to move on. I don't see how people think rejections like these should hurt. Now if a girl outright rejects you, which doesn't happen often, then yeah it can sting when it happens but I think that's normal to feel that sting. I believe it's also normal for anyone to feel kind of shitty when they've been rejected multiple times in a short period of time.

freefromdesire · 2014-01-25T08:33:17+00:00

Way more than 10k. Abundance!

I_WouldntRecommendIt · 2014-01-23T23:05:20+00:00

This hits me right in the feels. I asked this girl out the other day, she said she "Wasn't in the mood for coffee" but she gave me her number. She sent me a text so I could get her number and I replied with "Hey Whatsup?". She didn't reply back, and today I kiddingly called her out on it. 4 minutes later, she sends me a text. You can beat your boots that I didn't reply to that shit. Nah nah naaah nah naaaaaah

Alexfortomorrow · 2014-01-23T21:07:37+00:00

why are you so emotional...

if a girl "rejects" you, then follows up later, follow that lead and bang that ho. Who cares. dont be a bitter little chode.

you sound like someone who reads a lot of stuff and doesnt actually live the life.

DaveYarnell · 2014-01-24T21:34:55+00:00

This is r seduction, not r redpill

Title	How I deal with being ignored/rejected
Author	Alexfortomorrow
Upvotes	33
Comments	24
Date	January 23, 2014 6:41 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1vym87/how_i_deal_with_being_ignoredrejected/
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