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DaveYarnell/r/seduction21/07/13 12:10 PM
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Go somewhere that alcohol is involved. Don't drink a ton yourself, but when people loosen up you'll find the girls who have secret crush on you.
/r/seduction17/05/15 12:45 AM
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So first of all don't call it DHV that's fucking stupid. You're asking "How do I express confidence and value, and appear attractive to people?" Well, what makes you confident? What are you proud about? Who are you? Talk about those things.
/r/seduction17/05/15 12:43 AM
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Anything can be fun. I once had fun in a bed bath and beyond, then afterwards we went for dinner. I was joking about all the different quirky things for sale at that store and spontaneously making body contact or kissing. I had kissed her when I met her, so that was already established. She absolutely loved the experience. We had sex the next time we hung out.
/r/seduction17/05/15 12:40 AM
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I just ask calmly why theyre being rude. Theres no need to put people down, lets have a normal discussion. It usually throws people off when you call things exactly like they are in a very casual tone. If he insults you overtly again then just say "listen man, were torn from two different cloths" and walk away. Hes trash, youre nobility. Act like it.
/r/seduction17/04/14 08:04 AM
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Think it was O henry who said some books are meant to be tasted, some to be chewe, and some to be swallowed and digested. In other words, yiu cant assume that the material you read is actually good material.
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:11 AM
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I personally disagree with the person above me. If you had just focused on the girl who was interested in you and positioned yourself so that in order to talk to you her back was to her friends they would have been phased out subconsciously. Here's how I would do it. Stand opposite of the friends where I can see them, but she can't. I talk to her and totally ignore the friends behind her. Then I take a few steps backwards and people naturally close the gap to maintain a certain amount of persona…
/r/seduction18/03/14 09:16 PM
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Well you blew it by having nothing to say to the first girl and walking away after like one second of dialogue. If you had been chatting to her long enough then she would have been in charge of who she talks to and her friends wouldn't have cared. If I'm understanding your story right. When you run out of things to talk about always comment on their outfit. Just like at their outfit quickly, find the most interesting element of it, and ask about it. "That's a cool necklace! What kind of a design…
/r/seduction18/03/14 09:11 PM
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Basically you have to spend enough time and make enough of an impression on a girl so that when the next weekend comes around she will still remember you and want you. The texts are just little reminders of you, they don't build anything new. I used to be like you. I used to try to get as many numbers a night as possible. Now, what I have to do is feel out a girl to see if she is actually available, and if I am attracted to her I will actually focus just on her for at least an hour or so and mak…
/r/seduction18/03/14 09:04 PM
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HAHA yes, having a completely evil moral code will save you!
/r/MensRights12/03/14 03:05 PM
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What eexactly are you saying?
/r/seduction18/02/14 03:59 AM
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I've had a friend who I was not trying to get with do that. I just asked her about why she never responds. She made up some reason, and I said ok well you don't need to be shy ever, if I have bothered you or anything you can just tell me.
/r/seduction17/02/14 09:28 AM
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No.
/r/seduction30/01/14 11:00 AM
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I dunno man. Don't get too caught up in PUA theory-- in real life there are all kinds of women. Some are pushovers, some are sweet, some are supportive, some a bitchy, some are needy, some are high maintenance, etc.
/r/seduction29/01/14 07:12 PM
2

It also makes the whole community look like sleazeball rapists.
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:57 AM
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I was under the impression that in person > phone call > text was a pretty well established rule
/r/seduction25/01/14 09:33 PM
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No thr skill of making a perfect okcupid account. He spent nine freaking months on it and abandoned working on his thesis for that period. Plus, he didnt develop some kind of unoversal formula for everyone, all he did was find and answer the questions that were most popular and answer them in a way that most women he liked answered them. In other words, he made a billion profiles and answered questions non stop, wrote down what questioms theyd answered, and guessed answers until he found agreeab…
/r/seduction25/01/14 02:20 AM
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Small college town? Party. Get to know people in your classes (male and female) and find parties, or plan small parties yourself. Small parties are better in my opinion, because there's too much stimulus at a large party.
/r/seduction25/01/14 12:31 AM
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Just ask When she is free
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:45 PM
0

Way, way too muchtime spent on a skill that has no other use
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:44 PM
1

I just say that i want to take her out, and talk about food.
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:42 PM
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It doesnt matter where you go. I have literally had fantastic dates at the dollar store, just going around laughing about the products and goofing.
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:41 PM
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If you suck at texting just embrace it and stop texting. You shouldnt do it too much anyway and phone calls are a hundred times better
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:39 PM
1

You dun good, son
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:36 PM
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This is r seduction, not r redpill
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:34 PM
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Start networking then, and just meet people to meet people. Ive had a number of girls from my extended network/friends of friends go out with me.
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:34 PM
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Its about the setup before you get the number then. You arentgenerating enough intwrest.i
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:28 PM
2

Where do under twenty ones hang out? There used to be like hookah plaxes nefore i was twenty one. You can also go to places around the uni, like the clubs, interest groups, etc. And of course the most obvipus one is in class.
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:27 PM
1

Youre really dry. Tease her a little, be funny.
/r/seduction24/01/14 09:04 PM
1

Realistically youve probably disappointed a lot of girls by not asking for a number. Girls arent asexual beings. They just dont often make the move.
/r/seduction24/01/14 07:57 PM
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Talk with them
/r/seduction24/01/14 07:56 PM
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Independent
/r/seduction24/01/14 07:55 PM
1

What are some types of places you would recommend?
/r/seduction16/01/14 05:24 PM
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OkCupid is not like the real world. That's the first thing you'll have to understand. OkCupid plays by its own rules independent from normal life. First of all, time moves differently there. It isn't surprising to get a response 20 days or 2 months after your last message, then to chat back and forth within minutes, then go another week without a response. Second, the main thing that matters is your pics. Profile doesn't really matter much, even for men. Your pics need to be from a high def came…
/r/seduction16/01/14 05:05 PM
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Haha man girls like that worry me, she can meet an endless train of guys with her profile and who knows what kind of kinky crap she is doing behind your back.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:26 AM
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Don't do it. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:23 AM
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Sounds like she was a noob.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:23 AM
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Personally I hate that more girls aren't into sloppy. I love it sloppy.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:22 AM
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You gotta floss man. The first time you do it that shit will come out rotten and smelling almost exactly like shit. That stuff is in your mouth. Literally shit is in your mouth.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:22 AM
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Don't forget to work your hands and the rest of your body too.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:21 AM
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Yeah this is what I mean. Just take care of yourself. Style your hair in some way, put thought into your clothes, groom your beard and mustache or shave it, smell nice, etc.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:18 AM
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Sounds like you're over thinking it. Just live your life and it will probably all work out.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:17 AM
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If it doesn't work you can always ask her about something she is wearing. Many girls like it when you notice something on their outfit, because most put at least a little thought into it.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:16 AM
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Wow the man himself here chatting with us on reddit.
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:12 AM
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You've got to use your body language. It's going to be about how you position yourself, what you do with your feet and hands, where you stand relative to her, and so on. As you carry the conversation, just be aware of how you are standing and talking. At some point, always earlier rather than later, just ask make up any excuse and ask for her number. Gotta run, gotta go to the bathroom, don't want to keep friends waiting, don't want to lose friends, want to get a drink blah blah blah
/r/seduction20/12/13 03:11 AM
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After you've kissed her.
/r/seduction20/12/13 02:59 AM
5

Keep practicing amigo. Also, maybe get some glasses or contacts, seems like you have trouble seeing girls from a distance.
/r/seduction20/12/13 02:58 AM
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Don't do what you don't feel comfortable doing.
/r/seduction20/12/13 02:57 AM
1

You say "Sweet where are you going?" "Have fun!"
/r/seduction20/12/13 02:56 AM
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As long as youve got good hygeine you will never be too far from "good looking"
/r/seduction20/12/13 02:46 AM
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Sorry amigo, I disagree here. You should never compliment a woman's looks whom you've just met for the first time. Compliment her fashion, sure. But sparingly.
/r/seduction02/09/13 10:55 PM
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Reply to the comment so that I catch it when you do.
/r/seduction21/08/13 07:30 PM
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Please write a guide or as much of a guide as to recognizing these opportunities as possible. I've gotten bored with normal PUA and am trying to find something more interesting.
/r/seduction21/08/13 10:57 AM
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Alright I'll do that. Thank you.
/r/seduction19/08/13 09:18 PM
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I used to have a formula. First, get on the dance floor by yourself. Try not to look like an ass. Look up basic dance moves so that you can avoid that and practice at home. Things like just stepping from one side to the other with rhythm. You can build on it. Nothing fancy. Then look around, find your target. Don't go up and grind on her like a creep. Say hello. My line used to be I would walk up with a big smile and yell "Do you wanna dance?!" and dance with a little space between us, like its …
/r/seduction18/08/13 11:04 PM
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Sounds to me like a big issue was the noise level. Bars are great for low-challenge interactions with drunk girls, but sometimes its best to keep your mouth shut and escalate on the dance floor. Make out with a girl first, THEN take her hand and pull her OUTSIDE and have a quick chat with her about who she is, make out again, go back inside.
/r/seduction18/08/13 08:37 PM
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I've done the same thing. OkCupid is not a great way to meet attractive girls, but it is a very easy way to meet girls who you can be fairly certain are interested in sex by perusing their question area.
/r/seduction18/08/13 08:27 PM
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You just need to make a move.
/r/seduction13/08/13 05:24 AM
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There is no line. There is a spectrum, and we're all always somewhere within the spectrum. We're always at least a little bit alluring, and at least a little bit creepy.
/r/seduction12/08/13 03:03 AM
1

Why thank you!
/r/seduction01/08/13 12:33 AM
0

"You're part of the secret society, where condoms aren't necessary because they are logical entities and not emotionally relevant." I don't think sleeping with a gay man without a condom is a good idea. Sex with anyone for that matter, but considering the local gay club has flyers for aids and free condoms in the bathroom... If a girl is down with that, there is no way I will have sex with her without a condom.
/r/seduction28/07/13 11:41 PM
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I learned about the boob smash a long time ago. I remember a few times in less nightclub-y places when I was 21 a woman would do that and there were such obvious other paths. Then when I started going to actual nightclub-y bars, some would do the same thing. It became a standard cue of mine to go up and chat with the girl, and usually they were delighted . It's a great signal.
/r/seduction25/07/13 08:49 AM
1

So true. Brilliant!
/r/seduction22/07/13 08:39 AM
42

minutes instead of hours, right?
/r/seduction22/07/13 01:40 AM
2

I cannot imagine how easy nursing school would be. I bet you could literally not even approach and women would approach you.
/r/seduction21/07/13 08:49 PM
1

Okay, good point. Yeah in the city where I live there are definitely sections with a lot more younger/single people, but I live in a suburban family area so it has been all moms and wives when I've gone grocery shopping.
/r/seduction21/07/13 08:48 PM
1

I know, I know. I have special circumstances that prevent me from it currently that I can't get into over the internet, unfortunately.
/r/seduction21/07/13 06:29 PM
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I like this. Going to a yoga studio regularly, yeah as a male you may stick out. But that's good. The women will all get to know you gradually. It's perfect.
/r/seduction21/07/13 06:27 PM
1

I don't know if it is the area I live in, but there are just really, really few of those girls (probably 1% or less of the women there) and often I'll see that even they have a wedding ring on. I came to the conclusion that it is just not an effective usage of my time. And I couldn't figure out how to stay there long enough without needing to buy much of anything without looking out of place. Ideas?
/r/seduction21/07/13 06:26 PM
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What areas do you recommend are best for meeting women in the street, and what are some common excuses (openers) you use to start talking?
/r/seduction21/07/13 06:24 PM
1

Nothing really bad has made me disfavor nightlife, I'm just bored with it. I feel like I must be missing on a lot of the women who aren't into that scene and I want to try something new. And about the school, basically I can't get into it over the internet, but I am not supposed to be at that school and so I do my best to leave immediately and talk to as few people as possible while I am there.
/r/seduction21/07/13 06:23 PM
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I absolutely agree with this. I used to be crippled with shyness and confused in my life, and the PUA community taught me that you need to get yourself to a place where you are proud and confident about who you are. Then, I learned how to communicate with others, especially with the opposite sex, and the importance of many positive things like having good manners and etiquette, the importance of paying attention to what people say, and the nuances of body language. Whether or not you use this to…
/r/seduction21/07/13 12:02 PM
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The "Stand up straight" rule is because some people (like my former self) have really bad posture. This wasn't something that I fixed while talking to a girl, it was something that I had to train myself all day, every day to fix. When you're talking to someone you don't worry about it, you just rely on the fact that it's how you stand because it's how you always stand and have become comfortable standing.
/r/seduction20/07/13 07:52 PM
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What are some of the more advanced books?
/r/seduction20/07/13 07:31 PM
2

I have tried that many times. Leaving the ball entirely in her court is always a bad idea. Girls are flakey and air headed (well, many men are too) so leaving them responsible for something when you can handle it is worse than handling it yourself. If she is busy, asking when she might be free a few days in the next two weeks. If she says she isn't free at all then say something like "Okay, well I will check if you still want to hang in a couple weeks, or you can feel free to message me when you…
/r/seduction19/07/13 09:45 AM
1

Something tastefully sexy, but boring enough to where neither of you is sucked in to it.
/r/seduction19/07/13 03:33 AM
1

Don't text too much. When you do, make it brief and relevant. Relevant means either related to things you have discussed (hey, I am here at that restaurant you told me about right now. Trying the _______. It's good!), or things you will do (What is your schedule like this week?// Hey what kind of food do you hate so we avoid it on Friday? Haha) Less is almost always more unless you're texting so little that it seems like you are 0% interested (which most people don't do unless they're really ind…
/r/seduction18/07/13 03:28 AM
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I've been picking up girls for about 4 years. I dated a girl for a year and after we broke up (in March) I had sex with 6 girls in the course of about 5 weeks. After that, I realized that most women are really just a bother. They're easy to seduce, and the sad thing is that it doesn't even hardly require customizing a strategy to each one. With most of them you can use the same formula and it will lead to sex on the first date. So, for me, it is getting easier to settle, because almost all of th…
/r/seduction17/07/13 04:45 PM
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I'm on girl number 20 and I've always had a separation between girls to have sex with and girls to be romantic with. I've only had romantic feelings for one girl. But the nice thing is that you're in the driver's seat. If you want to date the girl, you have the capability and skills to find a girl to date. If you want to just have sex with her, you have the capability and skills to seduce a girl to bed. I think most people have both desires, at least sometimes. Personally, the thing that turns m…
/r/seduction16/07/13 07:37 AM
1

Some girls just have rules that they stick to like that. You can try to break them, or you can just roll with it and kiss her on the second date. It isn't a big deal. Her lack of physical reciprocation probably means that she is a noob; as also shown by her being caught off guard by a guy trying to kiss her. Cliff jumping is pretty sick btw. I would say just ask her what he schedule is like and then plan something when you ar eboth free!
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:02 AM
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Every girl is different, you have to feel it out. I've had girls where not contacting them was just fine, and I could tell because they were very matter-of-fact and were busy themselves. Then, on the other hand, some girls are more air headed and flakey, and you have to text them once in awhile so that they don't get distracted by someone else or by some other event to attend. With these ones I usually try and text in a way to keep up the attraction established upon meeting; something funny or a…
/r/seduction15/07/13 04:07 PM
1

It's about context. Don't hit on a girl where everyone is hitting on her because then you lose your individuality. You aren't /u/zr6z instead you are "a guy at the bar." It is very difficult to overcome that. If, however, you met her somewhere else where she rarely or never gets hit on then you are sort of like a beacon, definitely something more alluring and unique. If you must hit on a girl at the bar, then I would say just stick to the fundamentals. Which as you mentioned you are reading in t…
/r/seduction14/07/13 09:25 PM
1

I think that both for the sake of your reputation and for the sake of her feelings you should lie and say that the girl was from your study group and you guys went to the art showcase afterwards. Tell her she is just a fellow student. "L" won't believe you 100%, but she will want to believe you, and it will at least help her avoid the feeling of being used. It will also leave the "ball in your court" so to speak as there is a chance she will dump you or use the information against you in the fut…
/r/seduction14/07/13 08:57 PM
2

I personally like a simple "Hey!" opener. "Hey! Hows it going?!" then follow with something situational-- "Do you come here a lot?" "You have a really unique hairdo! Did you watch a youtube video on how to do it? It looks complicated!" Something along those lines. Then I would just recommend knowing what you want and softly guiding the conversation towards those subjects. Do you want a girl who likes bars, or doesnt? Ask her if she goes out often, what her favorite bars are. Do you want a girl w…
/r/seduction14/07/13 10:02 AM
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Wut? That isn't what the photo is.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 08:41 AM
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Yes I understand that there is a difference but I don't believe that it is as astounding as some may argue. Yes women have to bear children, but we aren't that distant from bonobos and bonobo females are just as horny as bonobo males.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 05:09 AM
2

They both may be at fault, but only one was immoral: the thief.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 05:04 AM
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Thank you for seeing it my way. I don't understand why people want to bash on promiscuous girls, they make everything easier.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 05:04 AM
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Oh, because molestation is totally fine. I don't mind it at all when I go to the beach without a shirt on and a bunch of men come up and start crowding around me, getting unruly and excited, and start rubbing my chest and reaching into my shorts. Nope, that's totally not messed up at all.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 05:02 AM
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Yeah that sounds like you aren't seeing the world for what it is. If humans are damaged by an excess of sexual partners then men ought not to indulge in numerous sexual partners either, sluts or no sluts. If, however, humans can indulge in numerous sexual partners with psychological safety, then one ought to encourage women to shirk the sexual repression of the Victorian era (and its modern leftovers) so that we can all enjoy sex together as was the case in the ancient world.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 04:59 AM
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Why do you guys care so much about how many men a woman has sex with? You do realize that this is both detrimental to the seduction community as well as hypocritical, seeing as how this community exists for men to liberate themselves from societal stereotypes in order to be capable of seducing women?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 02:13 AM
1

I'm asking zfolwick. In my experience the girls from Vancouver Washington are relatively eager for boys. Maybe its that there are fewer boys, that the area is lower income, that it is kind of spread out, who knows.
/r/seduction10/07/13 04:10 AM
1

Why are girls in Vancouver Wa so easy?
/r/seduction09/07/13 11:46 PM
1

I live in the Pacific Northwest too and it looks like the "my daddy is rich and he paid for all this" style. Yes, suburban white girls will like it until they get to be about age 23. After that, those guys become associated with immaturity and drinking.
/r/seduction09/07/13 11:46 PM
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I absolutely disagree with the shoe thing, a mature guy is to wear dress shoes, not Vans. Vans are for bros who just graduated college and are going to get stuck in mid-level management. Also, shoes are the single most important aspect of your outfit. I saw a study (you can ask me to cite it, but it was years ago and I doubt I will find it) that 60% of a woman's first impression of a man's outfit was determined by his shoes. How they measured that I don't know.
/r/seduction09/07/13 11:43 PM
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Yeah I still like women. I have a lot of female friends and am certain that one day I'll find a woman I actually enjoy spending idle time around, and I'll settle down with her. A lot of guys are very bitter about women because they've stereotyped. Just like every group, "women" are comprised of 3 billion individual characters, each with distinct and widely varying cultures and personalities. Many of the ones raised in the USA, just like many men, have issues handling their social demeanor. Some,…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 03:57 PM
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I don't think you understood my point. I've had a lot of girls express reservations about having sex too quickly and when I explain to them that they are just shirking the double standard between men and women it often helps.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 03:43 PM
2

I disagree, setting up a date is almost sure-fire. Meeting someone that night requires a lot of "getting lucky" i.e. playing a numbers game and hoping that on that particular night you find a girl who is at least somewhat in the mood. On a date, you have the time and privacy to gradually create the mood.
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:10 AM
1

I have had sex with about 20 women and had sex with about 10 of them on the first instance of our hanging out (which sometimes was a date and sometimes wasn't). On about 4 occasions (not included in the 10) I have gotten a blow job from the girl but couldn't have sex due to both of us living with our parents. I lost my virginity in mid 2010, when I was 22 years old.
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:06 AM
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She wanted to fuck and you were all weird about it. If she says she's a slut then just tell her that sluts don't exist and she's a rare girl who is comfortable with her own sexuality. Which is true. Girls don't react to sex the same way as men. They more often than not become emotionally attached. If you had taken the opportunity to have CONSENSUAL sex with her (assuming this was indeed consensual--I wasn't there) then she would have probably been more inclined towards a romance with you
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 06:16 AM
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I've always thought that a good wingman just makes his buddy sound like an interesting person while making sure to keep conversation flowing.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 04:15 AM
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Very interesting story and very good storytelling! Interesting both from a redpill perspective as well as a simply sociological one.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 10:34 PM
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I think that it makes it more taboo for men to value beauty. Personally beauty is a big deal to me and a beautiful woman has much more pull than an unattractive one. Unhealthy, overweight women are not attractive but because of the body-acceptance movement it is taboo to hold that opinion.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 10:30 PM
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Hahaha why do you like the 20 year olds so much? They get on my nerves! I definitely appreciate the story though.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 09:23 PM
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