How the BodyAcceptance Campaign/Propaganda skews the Dating Market

James_Coook · 2013-07-07T21:07:36+00:00

I LOVE how whenever I see fat acceptance propaganda it NEVER features a man. Its always obese women who we should accept...never guys. Don't get me wrong I don't think obesity is ok with either gender but I always loved the double standard.

t21spectre · 2013-07-07T20:35:52+00:00

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MockingDead · 2013-07-07T21:28:48+00:00

Fat women have the strongest hamsters in the world.

Women is fat, Men have to be attracted to it Man is fat, man has to lose weight

This is why I have a no fatties restriction on my dating. I am working stupid hard to get in shape, I am working stupid hard to fix my mindset, and I am working stupid hard to fix my financial situation.

And in return for this effort and work I am told I should date this

VZPurp · 2013-07-07T20:42:12+00:00

I won't fuck a fatty. It might mean I face greater competition for women who can take care of their bodies, but it also filters out lower value women quite easily.

My unapologetic nature with respect to fitness preferences have made at least two girls take an active role in their own health. If they know you'll be with them if they let go of themselves, they will. If they know you'll go for better looking women, they'll take better care of themselves.

Women will get away with what you let them, but if they start receiving rejections from men they desire, they change their act.

t21spectre · 2013-07-07T20:58:28+00:00

Health insurance premiums are going to skyrocket to offset the additional cost to cover the long term health conditions of these land whales.

GayLubeOil · 2013-07-07T23:09:30+00:00

The difference between most* men and body acceptance women when it comes to fitness. When it a man sees another cool man lets say Dwain the Rock Johnson of Daniel Craig or whatever he recognizes that, that man is cooler than him. He then goes on to climb the mountain to become like that man. When a woman sees another woman who is better/fitter than her she declares the other woman a cunt/ genetically lucky/ born with it. Rather than climbing any mountain she declares wherever she is currently standing as the peak and hamster rationalizes herself into being happy while continuing to be a lardass.

ultimatebacon · 2013-07-07T21:10:24+00:00

Fat acceptance in a nutshell:

"They want to perpetuate the delusion that a fat woman is as likely to snag a hot guy as a skinny woman is."

Case in point: Google "attractive and fat" and see what images pop up.

sniperhiding · 2013-07-07T23:45:55+00:00

I didn't know this was out there. So basically it's a bunch of fat chicks that want to be accepted by skinny dudes, while not giving the time of day to fat dudes? Double standard anyone?

rebuildingMyself · 2013-07-08T06:24:33+00:00

Very similar to the "trans-acceptance" movement where everyone is trying to convince straight guys that banging a transwoman (post-op) is the same as a straight woman. The trans-woman shouldn't have to disclose her past medical history (aka becoming a transwoman). I've been labeled a bigot for saying I'd never sleep with a transwoman nor appreciate the deception. Throw in the virgin/neckbeard/no-woman-would-sleep-with-you shaming BS for good measure.

DaveYarnell · 2013-07-07T22:30:04+00:00

I think that it makes it more taboo for men to value beauty. Personally beauty is a big deal to me and a beautiful woman has much more pull than an unattractive one. Unhealthy, overweight women are not attractive but because of the body-acceptance movement it is taboo to hold that opinion.

wrongful_ignorance · 2013-07-07T23:04:11+00:00

Body Acceptance ads attempt to influence a women's definition of what a man's sexual and non sexual desires should be, away from his current instincts and knowledge of what is available... it ignores logic and encourages the use of powerful shame tactics on males (saying that women have inherently large value, even without considering their sexual appeal, but you should find her sexually appealing too) which the audience is all too passively accepting to.

It's disappointing to know that every man doesn't understand that no one is valuable either sexually or otherwise for having a heartbeat, even himself. Value is defined by what it can or can't be traded for in a market.

I don't think it will change the dating market all that much, it may become an extra excuse or an even bigger shit test than it is already for current long term relationships, and maybe that will lead directly to male impotency from lack of attraction and lack of real world use. But there is not much else to worry about if you already understand that sheople are more than happy to have their experience of the world shaped by others.

tl;dr guys, no matter how bold the text or glossy the pages of the pamphlet are, it's the potential customer who, after careful analysis of the options, decides where the value lies.

2013-07-09T13:45:57+00:00

It doesn't, it's just a wish of lazy fat uglies to have the same chance on dating market as their much hotter counterparts. Maybe they can shame some beta into dating them, but other then that its a lost cause, hot guys have much better options and just don't give a shit in general about these kind of campains.

noblepaladin · 2013-07-08T05:19:49+00:00

So if a girl doesn't want to participate in a gangbang with a bunch of Asian guys, does that make her racist? Some people are born with undesirable traits that that they cannot control, such as skin color. They get judged on it in the dating market even though it does not signal health, fertility, or anything about the probability of the offspring succeeding. Obesity is not one of these traits, it is a strong indicator of poor health.

2013-07-08T12:15:17+00:00

Basically I love it how (for a want of a better term) ultra-liberal or SWPL people screw with their own circles these days! If you define yourself as a, dunno, tradcon who gives no shit about being popular in their SWPL circles, they hardly have a handle on you.

But if you want to be one of them, one of the progressive and enlightened, they will give you a ton of shit which is really amusing to watch from the outside. They will tell you to go feminist, and if you are a feminist, then to go vegan, and yes, don't be judgemental and date fat chicks, single moms and so on, and not accept job offers at socially unconscious types of corporations and whatever else.

They are tying themselves, each other up in knots more and more with more and more kinds of restrictions, and it reduces their effectivess of forcing their will on anyone who is not one of them.

Stayinghereforreal · 2013-07-08T13:00:05+00:00

How about pushing women to date unemployed nerds?

ladyuniscorn · 2013-07-08T20:42:10+00:00

It is easier as a woman of normal weight to look attractive than a fat woman. My fat friends are amazed that I have it so easy, I never have to worry about hiding my rolls or bingo wings (because there are none). I can throw on just about any dress and I will get compliments, my fat friends don't understand why that is.

When I tell them to get in shape they just give me excuses for why it is so hard for them. Body acceptance is just an acceptance of laziness, accepting your skin color and bone structure is fine but accepting fatness is not.

Title	How the BodyAcceptance Campaign/Propaganda skews the Dating Market
Author	ultimatebacon
Upvotes	15
Comments	52
Date	July 7, 2013 8:21 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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