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Red Pill Theoryyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 02:49 AM
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Red Pill Theoryyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 09:53 PM
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Red Pill Theoryyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 04:53 PM
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Red Pill Theoryyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 04:38 AM
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Blue Pill Exampleyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 10:03 PM
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Red Pill Theoryyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:37 PM
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Rant/Ventingyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 09:33 PM
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Ask Red Pillyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 04:04 PM
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Ask Red Pillyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 04:04 PM
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Metayankeetiger/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 10:34 PM
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Red Pill Theoryyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 12:33 AM
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Blue Pill Exampleyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 01:48 AM
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Ask Red Pillyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 09:40 PM
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Red Pill Theoryyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 06:04 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 01:06 AM
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Off Topicyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 03:50 AM
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Blue Pill Exampleyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 03:07 AM
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yankeetiger/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 11:01 PM
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Ask Red Pillyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:21 PM
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yankeetiger/r/seduction21/06/12 09:05 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 03:26 PM
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Red Pill Exampleyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 07:58 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleyankeetiger/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 01:58 AM
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I don't think he makes her skin crawl because he's "beta" No, this is literally why. She innately senses that her partner has inferior genes, making her uncomfortable and giving her cognitive dissonance as to why she's still with him. Like all women she is naturally drawn to more sexually successful men and repulsed by sexually unsuccessful men.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 06:00 PM
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I inwardly laugh at them for being that way. I embrace the schadenfreude of watching them fail Dude......no.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 07:39 PM
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The redpill is past caring about how you match up to others. So you have an advantage, your potential is higher than mine, so what? I'm not about to concern myself with that. I do the best I possibly can and I am happy. Although my height is a disadvantage, I've just stopped fucking thinking about it. I'm going to be as successful as I can.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 10:23 PM
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I am not surprised the red pill is rejected by and large. Women who come here are told, albeit truthfully, that their value is tied to their looks and after age 30 they will no longer be able to get their preferred type of man, having to instead settle for lesser men. This is a hard truth to accept.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 06:36 PM
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Listen it's obvious you have hangups about height. You can stop bringing it into every damn thread
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 01:42 AM
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You're right. I'd much rather be the guy fucking some poor schlub's wife instead
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 03:57 AM
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I've never been wronged in that way, actually. But I don't need to actually have it happen to understand how the world works.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 03:25 AM
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Don't let your personal morality get in the way of judging what others should do. Don't want to fuck married women? Fine. But if an alpha wishes to do so it's his choice and your opinion means jack shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 12:55 AM
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Every girl will trade up from you if she thinks she can do better. There is no loyalty, no honor among women- this is hypergamy 101
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 12:49 AM
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You should never count on meeting a snowflake. Period.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 09:32 PM
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Seems reasonable. As with anything, there may be pieces of the puzzle we don't know about (who the fuck knows what any one woman will do) but as a 5'3 man it does me well to pay attention to the patterns of successful men
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 12:00 AM
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This makes sense but can someone explain why she was perfectly okay with the shorter guy when she was a teen, when her SMV was basically at her highest? I think the wall is a good explanation for these trends, but probably not as black or white as it's made out to be.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 10:53 PM
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Sex to you isn't the same thing as sex to her. For men it is the end-all, be-all of the relationship; most guys have the explicit goal of getting laid when they go out. For her it's the gateway to what she really wants: your commitment.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 04:54 PM
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Good points about men who think they'll be able to approach when they reach certain milestones like a particular BF%, income, etc. Thinking like that is basically the result of a lack of self-appreciation. You can work to improve forever, but eventually you'll have to face yourself as you realize that you work to satisfy the "I'm not good enough yet" mentality instead of the "I love myself and I want to help myself get as good as possible" mentality. I was in that first state until I realized th…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 09:24 PM
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so alpha
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 03:03 PM
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Don't tell the mods what to put on the sidebar. They'll put it there if they think it has merit. Your points are okay but you come off as a superior douchenozzle
/r/TheRedPill07/09/13 02:39 PM
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The best lesson is this: Don't be the beta provider. Don't listen to her shit, especially if you haven't fucked yet. Don't buy her shit. This is how she will repay you.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 07:59 PM
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I'm 19, male, at U, just like you. I just want to let you know that it's gonna be okay, man. I got as low as a suicide attempt freshman year before I entirely turned everything around. It started with the red pill. This is a good, good place to get better. It helps your cognitive dissonance. Shoot me a PM if you need brother
/r/askTRP20/08/13 01:37 PM
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GayLubeOil I respect you but this is spot on
/r/TheRedPill20/08/13 01:15 PM
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You know, I almost respect them for being so upfront about their sexual strategy
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 05:24 PM
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This is what it looks like when a man takes control of his life. Well done
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 02:49 PM
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Demanding a paternity test isn't necessarily a sign of distrust. Given the ease with which a woman can dupe a man into raising someone else's kid, I'm surprised paternity tests aren't the norm.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 03:04 AM
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She's your ex, why do you care about looking aloof in front of her?
/r/askTRP18/08/13 02:42 AM
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Well, you're kind of right in that you can't "force" traits into yourself. The way traits are acquired is through the process of failing many times in social situations. It's not easy by any means. You go out, test the waters, then go home and reflect on the day. You'll begin to see ways you could have been more assertive or more open. The important thing, though, is that you really push yourself and go out 3-4 nights a week. As for hobbies, the main benefit of them is not being able to relate t…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 02:37 AM
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You can be gay and Redpill, but most straight posters here don't care about male/male sexual relationships
/r/TheRedPill18/08/13 02:17 AM
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Like other posters have said here, feminism is useless for the attractive, desirable woman. If you're getting alphas night after night, you don't really care about how men are objectifying you for your body. Of course they are; likewise, you are objectifying them for their dominance and success.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 11:12 PM
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You don't need to follow a specific model for leadership behavior. Some will be loud and boisterous. Others will be serious. Many of the best leaders tend to combine these traits in situations where they're appropriate. I have taken the leadership position from others, yes. It's never pretty; people get angry when they realize they are being usurped. You must ignore this and persist through. It won't always work, either; if they are a strong enough leader, they will know how to retain the upper …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 11:00 PM
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I think one of your problems is that you have trouble seeing yourself in a leadership role in the first place- I had that problem. Imagine yourself leading people; what are you doing? What is your body language like? Are you able to transition smoothly between situations and handle new stresses? Try meditation. Get in your head and basically run a movie of you acting like a social leader. Don't skimp on the details- get really specific. If you don't know exactly how an alpha would act, you can't…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 09:43 PM
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Absolutely I was awkward in all settings. I had pretty much no social network, which isn't surprising because when I was younger I was overweight and wore nerdy glasses, in addition to being short. I was a fuckin' dweeb. The few friends I had, I hung on to like they were gold and I'd always go along with whatever they wanted. You have to want to provide value to other people. Don't do it because you think you have to. Whenever you go out to do something interesting- and you should do this often-…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 09:14 PM
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It's also not really a skill, people are either naturals or they're not. You think I got these skills naturally? Fuck no. I was probably one of the most awkward boys in my school around 9th, 10th grade. I learned how to be charismatic through hard work and failure. I made speeches that crashed and burned.The difference between someone like me and someone like you is this: I am willing to fail for as long as it takes. All you are doing is making excuses.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 08:50 PM
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Who cares? Go learn a different skill, something you're good at. All I hear are excuses
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 07:50 PM
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A very above-average amount of charisma, coupled with the fact that I'm the best public speaker I know
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 07:07 PM
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I'm one of the shortest men I know, of course I do. But I don't think you've noticed that complaining gets you jack shit. Do you have the balls to be a short, successful man?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 03:26 PM
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And others apparently need to believe that their happiness and success is irrevocably tied to their height
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 02:53 PM
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Try to continually check if you are censoring yourself in any way. Make this a habit until you're sure if you are being genuine, and if you're not, adjust.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 02:51 PM
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I'll do it for a ham sandwich
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 02:22 PM
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I'm going to repeat the same advice I posted on a very similar thread to this one, because many men- including myself- make this mistake early on after they take the pill: Don't spend time worrying about if you're smiling too much. If you do that, you're already seeking validation. Smile when you're feeling confident and happy, smile when you want to.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 02:20 PM
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You make really good points, all spot on and definitely ones I can agree with. The only exception is with inviting women to our side- do you think a large percentage of women are capable throwing off their solipsism and seeing things as they really are?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/13 01:05 AM
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Just my thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 11:14 PM
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Haha that's exactly what I'm sayin my man
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 11:13 PM
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Excellent analysis. This is much better than either extreme of "do what you love" or "Only STEM will get you money".
/r/TheRedPill16/08/13 10:05 PM
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Some boys are natural alphas because of their size/stature. Strong boys will receive more attention from their peers, do well in sports teams, and be looked up to- all things that lead girls of the same age to see them as socially dominant.' Undoubtedly, it is harder for a smaller boy to assume an alpha role. Basically the boy must consciously ignore society's lessons that only big men can be alphas and attractive to women, and in its place supplement a belief of self-worth. It's no easy task.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 10:02 PM
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I personally found that starting a strength program helped me improve my body language most effectively. There's a few reasons why: increased confidence better posture (focus on back & abdominals) increased mass (takes up space) Another tip I found, oddly enough, was that learning how to sing helped me improve my vocal tone, as it allowed me to breathe from the diaphragm (stronger, deeper tone) as well as control my voice.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 09:58 PM
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A man should make his mission his first priority and not telling a girl he loves her unless it advances his mission. Part of the "mission" involves being authentic at all times, i.e. not censoring yourself
/r/askTRP16/08/13 09:54 PM
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You're describing a fwb situation. Relationships involve more than just fucking
/r/askTRP16/08/13 09:51 PM
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Say it when you want to, never censor yourself. That being said, living a busy, productive life with abundance mentality will naturally cause you to be less clingy and therefore feel the need to declare your love less often.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 02:00 PM
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A man who is secure in his abundance doesn't spend time thinking about the cost/benefit of his words. That's ridiculous and screams "validation-seeking". A man with abundance mentality says whatever he damn well pleases as the current time because he wants to. It could be "I love you", just as it could be "Make me a sandwich". The only thing he never does is censor his words because he's afraid of a woman's reaction.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 01:58 PM
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Knock it off. Men don't have to be emotionless walls of stone at all times. If you love a woman, you can tell her. Just not all the time, or more than she says it to you.
/r/askTRP16/08/13 01:54 PM
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Well said. Can you imagine if a group of men started a serious "Short Acceptance" movement? They'd be laughed out of every room. No one respects a man who complains; everyone respects a man who makes something of himself.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 11:26 PM
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Good point. Besides plumbing there are many, many respectable and well paying trades. Off the top of my head there's electrician, oil rig worker, sheet metal worker, fisherman, and butcher. If working with people is your strength instead, sales is always a profitable way to earn a living without a degree.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 10:42 PM
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Your major needs to be based on this very important question that is very rarely considered: Am I good in this field? High-paying, secure, interesting- these are all metrics we use to find a field, but none of them mean shit unless you're good at what you do.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 08:41 PM
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If your boyfriend does this, it’s one thing. Translation: "If you're attracted to the guy, it's totally okay."
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 03:32 PM
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You're right that lifting isn't the only part of fitness. That being said, a good and strenuous weight program will not only increase strength and size, but also reduce body fat, improve posture, and decrease resting HR.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 01:26 PM
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/r/short is the most pathetic community on reddit. Their sole existence is to gather and talk about how women will never love them, they can never accomplish their dreams, and society hates them. I'm a small guy but you'll never see me or any self-respecting man in that community; the day you attribute your problems to something outside your control, you become a whiny beta bitch for life.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 01:22 PM
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Not as a slight to you, but I believe that any time spent on "Recon" is better spent on skill-building activities
/r/TheRedPill12/08/13 12:56 AM
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And why would you be subbed there
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 10:24 PM
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Red pill music is whatever music you want to listen to. It's asinine to say that one genre represents red pill ideas, or any genre, really
/r/TheRedPill10/08/13 02:18 PM
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This is a crock of bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 06:35 PM
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You can be the man who provides for her, listens to her, and cherishes her......or you can be the man who fucks her like an animal. It's astounding how many men choose the former because it's what a "good guy" does.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 10:05 PM
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I see nothing wrong with plastic surgery. Say someone- man or woman- does everything they can to improve their looks. They hit the gym like it's their job. They learn how to dress for the opposite sex. They get healthy eating habits. But at the end of the day, maybe they're plagued with an ugly face. What is there to do? Plastic surgery is an investment; the future returns are higher salaries, better quality partners, and higher self esteem. To me, these returns are well worth the price. If peop…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 06:57 PM
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K
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 01:22 PM
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Stop polluting this sub. This is a discussion of sexual strategy- not of gun laws or abortion.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 01:36 AM
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Where the hell did this come from
/r/TheRedPill08/08/13 12:56 AM
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Assuming the study is accurate, it's important to remember that we shouldn't be altering our natural behavior too much in order to come off as dominant. Don't smile 24/7, but if you feel happy and you feel like smiling, fucking smile. A man with abundance mentality does not go around thinking, "Am I smiling too much? Is this alpha?" No. If it feels right, do it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 04:52 PM
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I agree with this. Playing the field and spinning plates is a perfectly fine strategy, but women do have a biological drive to have children and this means they should be let go when they show the first signs of becoming baby-crazy.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 03:32 PM
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It also produces the ability to make a woman cum
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 04:28 PM
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What?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 03:27 AM
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Alright, I'm sure you're right and he'll lead a happy, fulfilling life without focusing on getting fit and socializing
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 03:26 AM
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Sex is absolutely a skill-building activity. Being good at sex increases your SMV, and having a lot of it makes you preselected. How else could you get good at sex without practicing? Other than that though, good points about using your time productively
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 09:56 PM
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Women don't NEED men, women are STRONG and just as SMART as men, women are INDEPENDENT .....except for when a woman gets into trouble, then the man MANIPULATED her, she was TAKEN ADVANTAGE of, ASSAULTED... Un fucking believable.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 07:24 PM
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I'd imagine so too, but I'm sure the courts will find a way to hold the man responsible
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 07:19 PM
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I was that type you're describing. Right up until the guilt of not living a fulfilling life hit me big time. I really don't know how these guys deal with the cognitive dissonance they must get from seeing other men out there succeed physically, socially, and financially, and knowing that with some effort they could do it as well.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 07:17 PM
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And also why I'm taking half your stuff
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 06:31 PM
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Usually the smarter they were, the less likely they were to care about personal hygiene. Strikes me as odd. You'd think a really smart guy would figure out why fitness and social skills were important
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 06:29 PM
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Lots of hot men care only about looks. Trust me, these women have very little trouble getting laid
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 01:59 AM
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I've said this before in this sub and I'll say it again: Looks get you attention; game gets you the close. No matter how good looking you are, a lack of confidence can and will turn women away; conversely, no matter how good you are at game, many women will have a minimum threshold for attractiveness you must pass
/r/TheRedPill04/08/13 01:57 AM
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Looks matter. Thinking otherwise is naïve and ignores the reality of the dating world. They aren't the only part of the equation- probably not even the majority- but I can guarantee you that the better looking you are, the better your partners will be
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 10:43 PM
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Although, this is also a problem with "hot" women as well. Why do you think you can get away with a virtually empty profile? Because they can. It doesn't matter if a high value man sees her and decides she's too boring to pursue- there will be hordes of betas putting her up on a pedestal anyway
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 05:33 PM
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Exactly, that's what I said. The bf cares for her needs while the ex comes in whenever he likes and fucks her.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 04:22 PM
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"Never trade what you want the most for what you want right now."
/r/askTRP03/08/13 04:08 PM
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As for your ex, he must be feeling like a star boy. He is getting free milk. He would also be a fool to want you back and a jack—to take you back. What a sweet deal, having another man pay for a woman and listen to her troubles while you fuck her like a whore. How good it feels to know the truth.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 04:05 PM
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I think what rkg is getting at is that some males (bigger, naturally more charisma, stronger) can fulfill certain roles that a smaller man can't. Which is true; but doesn't at all disprove your point. All we can do is focus on what we got.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 02:40 PM
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Truth bomb has been dropped. Nobody likes to be told that they'll never be exceptional but it's true for ~90 percent of men
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 02:33 PM
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There are many ways a man can exhibit alpha traits. Not giving a shit, as you do very well, is one of them. No offense, but you can understand why we point new pill swallowers in the direction of the "total package" alpha (fitness, good career, passions) rather than in your direction.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 02:31 PM
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The ideal should be equal SMVs Not if you're looking for a woman to be faithful to you
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 02:56 PM
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Be sure to take up space with your hands- and your whole body, for that matter. Touch people on the back as a greeting, it's warm and friendly but if done right also assumes dominance tactfully.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 02:51 PM
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Omega: Slaves, Serfs, the Disabled/Insane You really just classified entire races of people as omega because they were born into slavery? It's not like a slave could just "man up" and move his way into the respected class of society
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 02:41 PM
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However, being a beta has none. And for good reason, too. Society needs and loves its betas. Betas are the cogs in the machine, the good little worker bees that do the bidding of people who lead. Being a beta is awesome for the rest of society, but shitty for the individual. How many times have we heard a story of a beta paying/driving somewhere/giving emotional support while the girl fucks an alpha? Society loves betas, loves to suck every last resource out of them while always withholding the …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 01:34 PM
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Feminism: where women take more time off work to raise children, but still somehow deserve the same pay!
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 01:22 PM
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Hypergamy had this covered long before feminism was even a thing
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 03:26 AM
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Seems your friend took it hard though. As is often the case with men who don't have an abundance mentality- they attach so much to each relationship with a woman, because deep down they know they won't get the opportunity too often.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 03:22 AM
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Oh yeah? How often do you see a feminist argue that men should get custody more often?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 05:00 AM
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Feminism was okay back when women had real discrimination take place against them- when they couldn't vote, were expected to shut up when they were harassed, when they were to put up with spousal abuse. Now feminism in its most current state is about preserving women's many advantages (sexual marketplace, alimony, child custody, rape/abuse claims) while screaming and making a fuss about inconsequential shit like how the word "woman" is demeaning, so we should change it to "womyn" because grrrl p…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/13 04:46 AM
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Not exactly. Some are more likely than others to pursue it, but self-actualization is an actual human need according to Maslow's hierarchy.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 09:38 PM
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Did it occur to anyone else right now that our ego is what, in part, prevents us from putting in the hard work to reach our potential?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 05:42 PM
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This is glorious. Great job on not only remembering the principles, but putting them into action.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 05:36 PM
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Well, yeah. This makes sense for beta males- its not like they're going to get too many mating opportunities, so they might as well guard the one they have. An alpha really has no need to be monogamous.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/13 01:58 PM
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Can you please recommend a bodyweight program to add strength and size?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 01:47 AM
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How is this connected to the red pill movement? It's the new Beats pill, which uses a lot of red in their brand.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 07:44 PM
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Curiosity about things that actually matter. Kindness/compassion. Sense of humor that is compatible with mine. Not being too clingy and needy. Willingness to be led by a dominant man.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 07:41 PM
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There are too many of us, myself included, just floating along without the slightest clue as to what makes us happy. Yep. It takes direction and willpower to stand out from the crowd.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 07:39 PM
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Yes, a thousand times. Women are so much more interested when they think you're getting play on the side.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 05:27 PM
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Making a habit of porn is not really conducive to the kind of life many of us strive for here. Why push yourself to constantly improve when all of your sexual needs are taken care of by your hand, a bottle of lube, and videos? Obviously, yes, we strive to improve ourselves for our own well being and self esteem, first, but if you jack off multiple times a day to porn you won't be as hungry to go out and actually approach
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 05:19 PM
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Hamstering from both sexes goes to show that many would rather defend their current worldview than go through the difficult process of rebuilding it. It is so incredibly worth it, but it's hard to know that unless you actually do it; that's why male TRP haters can't grasp what this can do for them
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 04:17 PM
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I believe it's one of the top posts in /r/seduction where it's a 4chan screenshot of life advice. One part talked about how confidence is absolutely essential- it doesn't just help with women, it helps with getting friends, your career, new experiences. I don't think, deep down, anyone wants to beat themselves up inside. I went through that (short stint in mental hospital) and I can now see pretty clearly that what i wanted was to be able to respect myself. To look at myself in the mirror and sa…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 04:13 PM
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Haha, I mean, this kind of applies to everything doesn't it?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 03:44 PM
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true, although you can just ask why this is as well
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 03:35 PM
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Signals abundance/preselection?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 01:15 PM
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Many of us came here because we realized we were beta, and wanted to make a tangible change in our lives. Every example of beta behavior is a way to keep destroying the beta that was once at the forefront. I see these examples and think to myself, "This sounds exactly like something I used to do. How can I make sure I don't do it again?"
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 02:33 AM
60

Not treating woman like princesses: The moment I took women off the pedestal is the moment I started having lots of sex. It's just so satisfying realizing this, isn't it? I remember having this small moment of joy when I realized, "wait.....I can do whatever the fuck I want, AND women will love me for it? Fuck yeah!"
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 02:29 AM
1

Well said. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 12:04 AM
1

What the hell? Dude you sound like a scumbag
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 07:24 PM
1

I don't understand, is this implying that effective game can't be learned by someone who isn't a natural?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 07:21 PM
2

I never had the anger stage but I can definitely understand how men would feel bitter and deceived when first swallowing the red pill. Personally I am so glad for this stuff. No one else has ever shown me a reason why I should live up to my potential.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 04:07 PM
0

You're right RedSunBlue. I did find some of these posts useful though. As you said: Criminals and generals alike can be alpha. Your morals have nothing to do with alpha. Your ideals have nothing to do with alpha. There are various personas through which a man could display high value behavior; the problem many men who are new to this sub face is that they pick one and assume that it must be the only way to display high value: "That guy can't be alpha, he's 130 lbs." "A true alpha is a man of mor…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 04:02 PM
3

He's probably very attractive for women to open him like that. But he never closed before his wife because he didn't have game. Looks/fitness draw women in, game allows you to close.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:31 PM
4

According to what I've seen yes
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 08:08 PM
4

Well okay then, the answer is yes.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 08:04 PM
3

Everyone here takes the maxim: "On average, women prefer more muscular men" and twists it to mean: "If you're not incredibly bulky you won't get laid" I still firmly believe that men who agree with this do so because they're not in their best physical shape
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:52 PM
1

Like she might begin to consider OP's stuff her own, when OP obviously disagrees
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:27 PM
1

It honestly just sounds like she moved in with you, man.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:37 PM
1

I can vouch for that; I was the friend once. One of my best friends, a kickass redpiller, guided me to be the person I am today. He served the same role, kind of presenting the information and letting me come to the conclusions on my own. Our relationship is more equal now, and there's always a sense of mutual appreciation.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:35 PM
2

I agree but I don't exactly understand why fitness is more important than natural looks. Out of curiosity, can you justify that?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:29 PM
3

Forget comparing him to a bigger guy for a minute. Does this man have success with women in general?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:25 PM
2

Couldn't have said it better. If you think a friend will put in the work and will be receptive to changing his worldview, helping him is a massive DHV to your social circle
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 03:59 PM
3

Qualifying it with "I'm not seeking validation" means nothing. You still are.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 03:56 PM
4

But he doesn't really deserve criticism- so few people actually get to that level of fitness. Also he never described his body as alpha- you can pin that on me. Maybe I should reword my title: if you have a small frame to begin with, this is what you should strive for.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 02:05 PM
2

It's kind of confusing when you limit "looks" to only those things you came change- after all, it seems logical that your fitness level would be one of the components of looks
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 02:01 PM
3

Let me assume for a minute you are a tall, strong man. If so, you only can understand how to get women through your own lens- not his, nor mine. Therefore you assume that being like you, since it works, is the only way to get women. You can't imagine another possibility. If you are small like the guy in the pic and myself, you are probably not reaching your fitness potential because you'd understand well enough to think "Fuck what others say, I did what I could with my body and it doesn't matter…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:04 AM
3

Solid. Everyone is entitled to their own take on what alpha is and how to achieve it- I just happen to align with yours
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 06:00 AM
1

Yeah, this makes sense. Alphas don't get followers because they try to, it's because they have value to give to others and men will know it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:56 AM
4

No this is very wrong I'm sorry Get in the best shape of your life and tell me this again
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:55 AM
1

I don't understand everyone bitching about how he couldnt get as many women as a taller, more bulky man. Well, no shit. He did the best he can with his frame; why discuss it further? Instead of saying "Well he'll never get as much pussy as X", how about recognizing what true fitness can do for your game
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:53 AM
4

With that attitude, yes
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:49 AM
6

He seems to have achieved close to the potential his body gave him. It shows. Small he may be, but I am willing to bet he finds success with women easily
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:48 AM
6

You've never come across an alpha personality in a body like this? Are you kidding?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:46 AM
1

I don't have that understanding of friendship. Your point about natural hierarchy is exactly what I'm trying to get at; if you have trust within yourself and become self actualized, I believe you will enter friendships as a leader, not looking to impose your will, but rather looking to genuinely connect and give value.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:43 AM
9

You know you're beta when you're the chauffeur for your ex's hookups
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 12:58 AM
1

Exactly, I wanted to know if they were reasonable ones Being reasonable in your expectations is what helps avoid cognitive dissonance
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 12:02 AM
1

Not to diss you but legitimate question: Are you good looking, charismatic, and wealthy?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 11:31 PM
1

You enter the relationship by generally being the one who invites the other out to do fun, interesting things. An alpha is a person whose life is exciting, so he gives value to others by sharing it with them.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 11:18 PM
4

Disagree. I find it useful to have friends who are both more beta than you (lets you run tight social circle game) and friends that are more alpha than you (behavior role model). Obviously you want to enter most friendships in the leadership role, though.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 10:54 PM
2

Reported because....no explanation needed
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 10:50 PM
1

Thanks, I appreciate the input. It's most important though not to put on a fake persona. Genuine and warm in the club, genuine and warm over text.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 08:16 PM
4

Actually that sounds like someone starting to swallow the pill, albeit to much defeatism
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 07:13 PM
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OP learned more about being a man in 1 week than some do in their whole lives
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:57 PM
4

This was beautiful I want to show it to every woman I know
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:52 PM
3

He has good advice mostly but he really sends too many emoticons and exclamation points. Getting excited over one particular woman, so soon after you met her, is unfortunately a beta trait. Would an abundant alpha man get excited about every girl whose number he gets? Not when he can pull at will.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:44 PM
7

Looks don't matter very much to women. Game can help you pull consistently, but fixing your looks is the way to get from pulling 4's to pulling 8's
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 06:33 PM
3

Very well said. I think your John example explains what's wrong with /r/seduction's mentality that "You always deserve the best, so act like it". You only deserve the best if you strive to improve yourself in every arena- mentally, socially, and perhaps most important, physically. It creates a hell of a lot of cognitive dissonance when men go around trying to believe that they deserve 10's when their body is telling them otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 04:58 AM
1

You referred to "a dominant 5/10". This doesn't exist. Dominant men are high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 02:36 AM
0

I know it's my ego trying to protect me. Exactly. Most men don't approach because they are hardwired to be lesser males, males who are destined to settle for second-rate women. You can re-wire yourself into a man who deserves the best and knows it, but it's not an easy task.
/r/seduction23/07/13 11:01 PM
1

No. spend the time you use on POF and get in better shape, learn new skills, socialize.
/r/seduction23/07/13 10:59 PM
1

Upvoted for unadulterated truth. Manlet checking in here; every man's responsibility is to do as much as he possibly can with his body/mind. When you notice that ~90% of men don't fulfill their potential, you understand that becoming the man you want to be should take precedence over worrying about things you cannot change
/r/seduction23/07/13 10:58 PM
1

Just wondering: does this apply to different body types? I'm short and stocky- putting on stomach weight makes me look like a bowling ball. Do you have advice on how I can limit fat gain to as little as possible while bulking?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 10:10 PM
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A dominant man isn't a 5/10, I think you fail to understand this. Dominance is not an average beta trait. If you're dominant, it's more likely you have traits that actually make you better looking (Muscular, good posture, etc)
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 09:30 PM
1

Well, of course! No one is even remotely trying to argue that height doesn't matter. It does. Based on these studies and personal experience, it seems like this is proof for "Tall men get laid", but not necessarily proof for "Short men can't get laid". In other words, physical attractiveness is a huge boost, but not having it doesn't preclude from success.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 09:28 PM
0

Good for her on actually admitting to dual sexual strategy
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 07:57 PM
1

Very true- it's important that you incorporate SOME sort of flexibility/mobility training into your routine, doesn't really matter which
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 07:53 PM
1

Facial features improve greatly with excellent physical fitness; you can look at my first example and see that. I agree that not all upper limits are the same, but I imagine it would be very rare to find a man who could not make himself reasonably good looking through personal choice (7+)
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 07:52 PM
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Right but we're not working out just to look good for women.....we should be doing it because we want to feel as good as possible and be healthy. Yoga isn't obviously all you should do, but is a necessary workout supplement if your fitness goals are health-oriented
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 06:03 PM
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An entire courtroom doesn't understand that supplicating isn't what leads to attraction. Dear God
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 05:12 PM
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Whoa now don't be dissing on yoga/pilates my friend. Your body will be thanking you for it when you're 50. As we age proper stretching becomes more and more crucial to maintaining fitness. Lifting without stretching will net gains, but won't help with the various problems encountered with age.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 05:07 PM
2

To be honest if you complain about ANY aspect of your body, it's just a buffer for your ego, rationalizing why you're too lazy to put in the work
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 04:24 PM
1

Maybe so, but everyone's upper limit is relatively high. Did you see the potential in this guy? Or this guy- he's only 5'2 What about him? Any man who does not look like these "after" pictures is only making excuses for why he isn't reaching his potential. Worrying about your upper limits is bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 04:21 PM
2

I wish the sad men of /r/short would see this. Part of the reason short men do badly with women is because from a young age, they're told that this is the way it works. It becomes part of their identity. Source: manlet here
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 04:05 PM
3

This I can get behind. Started a bodyweight-centric routine lately, can confirm it feels great
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 05:06 AM
8

Society happened to you, man. But you're here now, seeing the truth, and that's all that matters right now.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 02:05 AM
2

Nice but you didn't answer my question.... I believe that men can make significant changes to their SMV, which is why I post in places like this where I can get input on how to do so. You don't believe that, so you post here because.....you want to make fun of men who will never achieve what they want? It doesn't add up. Why would you even be here?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 01:29 AM
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What's weird is I don't like strippers either, but for a very different reason. It's pretty pathetic when you need to throw cash at a girl to see titties. To me it feels no different than paying for a peep show. Why exactly would an alpha want to pay to see semi-nude women when he could do a few approaches and take a woman home for the night?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 10:30 PM
3

Absolutely. I do what's best for me
/r/seduction22/07/13 10:26 PM
5

Great job, keep us updated for sure
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 10:23 PM
4

When this enrages you, remind yourself that you are to be the man who sleeps with her and fucks her in another man's bed, not the one who consoles her after it's over. Life is good for those who take what they want. Fairness doesn't exist here.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 10:22 PM
3

I don't think I've ever seen you post anything that isn't related to how looks are everything. Why exactly do you post here?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 09:13 PM
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Lol, this is cute. Yes, men, if you have second thoughts about commitment, prioritize your passions over women, or choose to have fun, you're not a REAL MANTM
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 03:59 PM
1

Honestly none of this is surprising, what it tells me is this: The extremist views are incorrect. Saying "Looks don't matter" is erroneous, as is saying "If you're not good looking you can't ever get laid". I think it's clear that the truth lies somewhere between these two extremes.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 03:54 PM
1

I agree. My own personal experiences seem to be contradictory though; I'm unattractive, but have been approached by good looking women and have had good reactions to approaching them. Could it be that physical attractiveness isn't judged in a vacuum, but rather can be influenced by subtle things such as posture/body language?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 03:49 PM
1

What you can do with your face and hair is limited. True, although you'd be surprised how much facial definition can be added with proper exercise/diet Many of them do claim that you any guy can get stunners with enough game. With enough money and status, yes. Game, no. This isn't what respected teachers claim. I can join the manosphere right now and start a blog telling men that eating fast food is a good way to pick up women- but would I be right? Would people believe me? Again, this is a misu…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 03:42 PM
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I know your intent is to make the second option seem obvious, but it's actually a legitimate question you posed.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 03:44 AM
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The reality is that you will score two points above you at most In this context what exactly is "you"? Do you mean to say that everyone's attractiveness is fixed? What we think of as the self is fluid. The same man is capable of looking like a 2 if he ate himself into obesity or an 8 if he became a bodybuilder. The lie sold by PUA and game practitioners is that with enough game any guy can score any girl. This is ridiculous and is a misunderstanding of PUA on your part. Most PUA guides pretty mu…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 03:39 AM
2

Actually it does bode well for the relationship.....women start to look elsewhere when they think they can get a higher SMV male. If the male is higher SMV than her already, she has no reason to cheat.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 12:46 AM
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Not mine.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 12:33 AM
2

Lol, well then I guess we can all just pack up and go home because if you're not good looking you're doomed forever AMIRITE? ....or we could just, you know, stop fucking making excuses and work on becoming the complete package.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 11:58 PM
3

No. Women would rather share an alpha than have a beta to themselves
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 11:39 PM
7

It's not like he's pursuing LTR's with them
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 09:55 PM
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Female solipsism. Some women just cannot understand that not every person is entitled to the same quality mate. Thus, the "fat acceptance" movement, HAES, etc. The ones with common sense and good work ethic realize that in order to get a high-value male, they have to become a high-value female.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 08:39 PM
1

hopefully not
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 08:35 PM
1

Ah, ok, so this just applies to LTR's, then. In that case I understand
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 08:34 PM
2

It's not about "getting even". If you want to spin plates, you need to understand that one of your plates might look elsewhere when you don't give commitment
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 08:29 PM
1

Would it change if she was just one of the plates you were spinning?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 08:28 PM
2

What if you're fucking twice the number of people your SO is?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 08:09 PM
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If you're getting as much play on the side as she is, I see no problem.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 07:53 PM
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Maybe. It's really not enough info to go on here
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:06 AM
0

Hamstering is not just a woman's problem, apparently
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 12:13 AM
1

If you're beta, you will be used. FTFY. I strongly advise you to reconsider your views if you think that an alpha state of mind can only be tied to good looks
/r/TheRedPill15/07/13 09:30 PM
2

A rich, short, overweight genuine looking beta will just get USED A man who is overweight is not living a successful life.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 03:33 AM
3

Status trumps all. How else could ugly celebrities get laid?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 03:32 AM
2

You sound like you need us to pat you on the back and say, "Good job! Here's some validation!"
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 06:19 PM
11

"Of course I'll do X for you."
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 02:53 AM
2

Well, yeah. 90 percent of men can't be exceptional. We follow a bell curve for the most part, like many other things.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 08:03 PM
2

90% of us are probably deltas in our heart Yeah. It's not an insult, either, like you said. It's just that naturally most men are going to fall into this category of just normalcy; not exceptional, but not dreadful. It's what you do with this information after you know it- that's what's important.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/13 05:12 PM
1

No.....call it working out, dressing better, getting interesting hobbies, and being more social
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 06:05 PM
2

You can improve your SMV, you know....
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 04:26 PM
2

Aloof game will work very poorly if you are not at least a 7 in raw attractiveness
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 04:00 PM
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Poor guy. It does suck a bit being short (I'm 5'3 myself) but in NO way does it provide an excuse for being as beta and submissive as this guy was. I've had taller girls blush when talking to me and I've felt big compared to bigger men, simply because of my confidence at the time; self image is fairly fluid. Your frame is so key it's ridiculous
/r/TheRedPill11/07/13 03:33 AM
0

He's right OP. The internet can only help so much
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 01:15 AM
2

Some men choose to impregnate other men's wives because they, as the alphas, attract high quality women. Some men choose to respect the boundaries of committed relationships as alphas, because it's in their moral code. The only relevant question is not whether these behaviors are right or wrong: it's deciding if that's how you as an alpha want to live your life.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 12:52 AM
2

She can, but she shouldn't bank on getting an alpha's commitment. It's much like AWALT, in that way. AWALT is not an absolute, but rather a warning that men shouldn't expect to find a special red pill-minded woman. Similarly, a woman can't reasonably expect an alpha's commitment as it's unlikely
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 12:47 AM
4

ve witnessed 2 successful marriages in my life. The first, they met very young and the man was definitely not an alpha. He became sort of the alpha of the marriage and she loved being the housewife. The second, the man was very very beta and soft spoken, and the woman a loud mouth. Has anyone ever witnessed a successful marriage or long-term relationship with this "true"/"uber" alpha male? For the most part, this sub advises against legal relationships (marriage) with women. There's nothing in i…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 10:02 PM
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She comes over after work and basically straight up tells me she has unresolved feelings for him and is going to give him another chance. This is the guy who left her at the airport when she flew into town to visit him and didn't even show up to the house, at all, that night. The guy who never once bought her a gift, celebrated an anniversary, or celebrated a holiday with her. A guy who never once came to visit her It's never been about what you do, gentlemen. It's about how you make her feel.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 09:56 PM
1

Betas should be treated well, almost as a father treats his children. They are your followers and you are their leader- lead diplomatically, certainly not harshly for no reason, but be sure to call out intolerable behavior when it occurs. Let it never be questioned who the alpha is.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 09:28 PM
2

I know right? Damn cis white males, check your privilegeeeeee
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 08:17 PM
2

Anybody who shames someone else for not wanting to sleep with trans people is despicable.....you can't control what you're attracted to
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 06:40 PM
1

I think it's the exact same, good catch
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 06:39 PM
1

Many betas carve out their niche in society by being as agreeable as possible and adapting to other people's wants. At least, I did.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 05:28 PM
2

My only question would be, how can you have these traits and deal with the guilt? Your brain knows damn well when you aren't living up to your potential, and it reminds you by making you feel shitty- this is where many cases of depression come from. It is very, very hard to be broke, weak, and fat while also being alpha.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 05:27 PM
3

Not very large of a disadvantage. If she's seeing your dick she's already attracted to you
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 05:13 PM
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No these are primarily to please yourself. Self actualization is pretty awesome
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 04:11 PM
11

you ought to be muscular and have a v-taper Yes, yes you should. You should also be rich, witty, confident, fashionable, gregarious, and ambitious. We work on these one day at a time, remember that.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 03:38 PM
2

If you care about it that much and are that dedicated to improving your looks, get cosmetic surgery.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 03:36 PM
1

This is really good, comprehensive advice.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 02:55 PM
11

It's all about being popular or not. To an extent. In my more beta days I became popular by being an acquiescent person and trying to be agreeable to everyone I met. This netted me the friends I desired, but not the women.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 03:32 AM
8

Well the mantra "Be attractive" applies to more than just looks- otherwise the mantra would be "Be good-looking". Attraction is not only your looks, but your charisma, your confidence, and a host of other factors. Of course looks matter- anyone who says they don't is a damn fool- but the overarching point is that looks are not the only component of attraction
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 07:30 PM
4

Is there really any other reason for failure, ever?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 06:33 PM
0

You're absolutely right. I believe the mark of red pill maturity is when a man stops blaming women and starts accepting their behavior as a natural result of hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 03:31 PM
3

The fact that you posted in here asking if you were right after being downvoted means you want validation. Don't take this as an insult, but this is a huge beta tendency. Try to practice catching yourself when you care about the opinions of others, and block the behavior.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 03:28 PM
6

Like everyone else has said, when you want to. Show your generosity as a high value male who seeks to give value to others, but never give if the motive is only self-serving or validation-seeking.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/13 12:47 AM
5

Ok
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 11:46 PM
5

This article is not the respectable version of alpha but is a good read on alpha as being the state of making your own rules/not caring about judgment
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 10:14 PM
2

If every man knew about what this, then of course more could change; yet there is very little chance that this can ever be mainstream enough for that to happen- and we like it that way. I agree that tangible skills begets confidence, but confidence is also a skill in itself. Someone with a hardcore beta mindset probably would also need to put in a lot of intentional work on confidence in addition to improving their body and skills.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 07:52 PM
5

you're never going to stop being a "beta" until you stop thinking of yourself as one. I realized this last week and I just felt a wave of relief and renewal wash over me.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 07:40 PM
4

A bunch of men who'd all make fun of each other for being betas if they weren't busy practicing hiding the fact that they're betas too. About 80 percent of men are betas, so your criticism is unreasonable. Confidence is a skill, as is playing an instrument or learning to cook. The only way to improve is to practice having it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 07:27 PM
10

We have to earn it, and act like we've earned it. Doing only one will always result in a lack of confidence
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 07:12 PM
6

What I see as being wrong with liberalism is that it purposely punishes the people who add most value to society- working males- therefore taking away the incentive to succeed
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 04:03 PM
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The more I read of examples like this, the more I realize that it's actually right. There is no injustice being done here to the "nice guy" man who rolls over on his woman's command. Alphas get what they want because they deserve it. If this sub has taught me one thing it's that nobody is entitled to shit- we have to go out there and act like we've earned it
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 03:59 PM
3

This is absolutely ridiculous. I cannot believe most of society actually tolerates shit like this on the premise that women can act however they please without repercussions. At first I was really against the idea that women are emotionally stunted......but now I'm not so sure...
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 03:56 PM
1

Haha, isn't it sad we've gotten to this point? I just realized that those two top preferences I listed actually apply to what a woman wants in a beta.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/13 03:49 PM
2

Yeah but they're not attracted to a man who obeys their commands and laughs at their bad jokes. They're attracted to a man who knows himself and, as a result, won't put up with their shit.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 03:49 AM
2

The best response is to find other plates to spin. Don't indulge this behavior.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/13 01:46 AM
12

In the context of belonging to an alpha, I would say so. It's a social superior being gracious.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 07:36 PM
9

Women say they want nice guys too. True. Although this could also just be seen as ego preservation
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 05:21 PM
15

Yes. Another way I like to think about it is that these type of surveys only work in the hypothetical. If you ask a bunch of women if they would date men below 6', of course the reaction is going to be "hell no". This is women projecting their ideal partner onto the survey questions. But when you actually put a rich, ripped, socially dominant 5'5 man in front of them, all bets are off....
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 05:20 PM
30

This is absolutely true, but I can't really put any stock in the article's conclusions when it lists women's top two preferences as sense of humor and kindness.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 04:02 PM
2

If a man could only subscribe to 5 subs, /r/keto would easily make the cut. Improving the body is, I've noticed, one of the fastest ways to improve the mind. Now this has got me thinking about the 4 other subs that would make the cut; I'd venture /r/TheRedPill, /r/Fitness, /r/GetDisciplined, and the last one would probably be related to a passion, for me it'd be /r/ClassicalGuitar. What would yours be, /u/RedPillSchool?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 03:57 PM
7

Did you hear that? That's the sound of every Washington lawmaker's testicles retreating into their abdomens, collectively.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 03:51 PM
1

but neither of your suggestions hurt
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 03:02 AM
1

Red pill truths
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 03:02 AM
2

I use them to make my life better.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 01:30 AM
14

Split the bill. The vast majority of men who take out women pay for them, and it sets an expectation that you'll take care of her financially without needing to have sex with you.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 12:24 AM
1

I agree that teasing should always be spontaneous, I just found it useful to break it down. Excellent input on forming a secret with women- definitely creates good rapport
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 12:13 AM
2

I'm not informing you how to do it.....if you read my post you'd see that I asked the EC's to tell me if I was on the right track or not.....
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 12:10 AM
7

I wouldn't say that this line of thinking shames women who cheat, but rather it just points them out as unsuitable LTR partners. After all, if hypergamy is indeed a thing (which is almost undoubtedly true), we can't hold women accountable for obeying it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 04:09 PM
-1

Or maybe you should stop comparing yourself to other dudes and realize that you are the shit. This, all the way. When you believe you are worthy of a woman, you become worthy of her. Get good enough at it, and it becomes the woman needing to qualify herself to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 03:45 PM
1

Yeah.....no.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:46 AM
2

Dude stop complaining. You get what you get
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 12:42 AM
2

By the number of people who come in here and actually try to argue NAWALT, it's hard to know.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 03:57 PM
1

The vast majority would, given the right opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 02:57 PM
11

Yes. To them, equal rights is reforming the few disadvantages they face while maintaining the many advantages they enjoy (child custody, alimony, mate choice, etc.)
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 12:13 AM
20

"I want the same rights as men, but I also want absolutely no responsibility for my actions!"
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 11:29 PM
0

Part of being a red pill man is learning to love and appreciate women for what they are. Can they be a pain? Yeah. But they can also be stunning, sexy, smart, and warm individuals who can add so much to your life. The driven man with an abundance mentality cherishes high quality women because they're just a natural part of his life.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 06:04 PM
2

I like that she feels "safe" with you. Excellent sign for the relationship; this is one thing women look for in an alpha. Stay golden my friend, and remember that push-pull dynamic!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 04:10 AM
1

I would say it exists, but so infrequently that it's not smart to realistically expect to find one as you search for a partner. Kind of like playing the lottery.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/13 03:59 AM
5

Yes, it does. Making yourself available all the time has the effect of showing that you have a lot of time to devote to her in the first place, which means you must not be living a rigorous life or getting the attention of other women. Women will respect you if you have plans and stick to them when they come calling for your attention.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 09:22 PM
3

In absolute terms, we have had very, very little time to deviate from other primates in the way we function.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 06:08 PM
4

Let's not presume that all single mothers are terrible relationship partners Think of it like selling a new car immediately after you've bought it. It might not have anything wrong with it, but other people will look at it and assume that it must be a lemon since you sold it so quickly! In other words, people sacrifice specific knowledge about the situation in exchange for an easy heuristic to judge many similar situations by. The same applies to dating single mothers. A particular single mom mi…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 06:03 PM
4

He's not white knighting. Just because men are usually the beneficiary of prenups, doesn't mean wealthy women can't benefit from them too
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 05:24 PM
3

Additionally, the very act of not focusing on women makes you look preselected! It's a win win.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 03:48 PM
1

A respectable alpha wouldn't; unfortunately not all alphas are respectable people, nor is respectability a prerequisite for being alpha
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 03:34 PM
1

True but if an alpha came early would he be embarrassed?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 02:38 AM
1

Your point makes sense, but do you really think there will ever be a sufficient amount of men who are willing to put in the work? Much like there is a fixed proportion of alphas and betas, I'm willing to bet there's also a fixed proportion of men who are willing to better themselves and men who aren't. We're unlikely to ever reach a point where self improvement fails to provide sufficient dividends.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:19 AM
3

If the average man is a beta, maybe. An average man, though, with hard work, can make himself into an alpha; if we accept this, then the sexual revolution actually improved the market, as women no longer feel the need to wait for a committment to hand out sex. Either way, it's worth looking into.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 11:07 PM
2

What's your best advice for a non-10 percenter?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 04:33 PM
3

i did until I realized it was just a colossal waste of time
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 04:26 PM
10

Your username is Women-Are-Objects. Please stop trolling this forum and don't slander actual fucking rape victims
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 01:41 AM
2

You need to respect your mother. She raised you for 18 years and this is a debt you can never truly repay.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 01:27 AM
2

I had not considered that, well put.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 01:24 AM
6

I believe innergame is everything. This is wishful thinking. Natural alphas are good looking men who have developed confidence due to women reinforcing their looks. Now of course you can put in hard work and develop yourself as an alpha, but it's silly to say that inner game is everything.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 01:24 AM
1

You're absolutely correct with: I believe that in any one social group there can be only one Alpha at a time But not so much with: ....and most likely will never be Alphas IMO, alpha is a fluid description that applies to different men in different situations. I'm a beta among a group of young rich executives, but I could very well be an alpha in a group of my friends, where I am the center of activity and the one who plans everything. Most men will experience both sides of the spectrum at diffe…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 01:15 AM
8

Shit, this is so accurate to how I used to sound
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 07:40 PM
2

Good point, I think I've seen enough to change my view
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 07:30 PM
2

Asking as an honest question: are there situations where playing video games contributes more to social value than the things I mentioned?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 07:03 PM
2

Video games are a touchy subject here. They carry with them the stigma of "forever alone nerd", even if they are a part of a life that signifies otherwise. Although it's completely valid of OP to live his life the way he chooses, commenters are correct that the time he dedicated to WoW could be spent improving himself by learning how to cook, learn a language, gym, etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 06:25 PM
5

It sounded an awful lot like you were trying to make an excuse for browsing /r/feminism
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:23 PM
10

Observing the enemy. If you name them as your "enemy", they've already won. The best way to assert your beliefs is to completely ignore them while you lead a fulfilling, successful red pill life.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:00 PM
17

Shit, man. I can't believe they just allowed feminists to roll over them like that. "Please take our balls while you're at it, too!" I wonder if Kickstarter would have the same reaction to a project dedicated to helping women be more attractive to men.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 04:58 PM
4

The proof is in the pudding. This women fucked an alpha for his genes, and then got a nice beta provider to raise the kid. This is the textbook definition of AFBB.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 01:05 PM
0

Of course, didn't you read the post/title?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 03:59 AM
0

Care to explain?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 03:52 AM
4

You are either trolling, or helplessly uninformed. Read the damn sidebar, read Rational Male and Chateau Heartiste. If after this your main focus is still getting in a woman's pants, then the red pill might not be for you.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 01:38 AM
4

Every attractive Western woman has been fucked at least once. You need to either be okay with this, or move to Asia.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 05:00 PM
1

I think she helped temporarily, at least enough to get out of the hole and realize that there could be a better life.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 02:23 PM
2

If you haven't experienced before I could probably see not understanding, but its physical and real and not tied to me thinking life sucks or being sad, its just my body doing something that doesn't happen to other people. This I would both agree and disagree on. Personally, I attribute my depression almost entirely to my personal failures. However, I did see some people who had a lot of things going for them who literally could not be happy. My view is that there definitely people with a real c…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 03:50 AM
3

Creative types tend to be betas as well. Based on....?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 02:00 AM
0

No, i mean, like what do you think this says about red pill theory?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 01:46 AM
1

Nice read. How do you think this relates to RP theory?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/13 01:20 AM
1

During an LTR you should aim to mix alpha and beta qualities, perhaps even more beta ones if the relationship is long enough. Just keep your frame, and keep your boundaries well defined (call her out when they're broken), and your sweet behavior can be seen as a confident, strong man acting that way because he chooses to.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 11:39 PM
2

I find it difficult to give a catch-all definition of a shit test, but this thread from the sidebar of /r/seduction shows how a good response to a shit test can completely reframe an interaction.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 09:01 PM
9

It's not a man's wit that does this, but rather what it demonstrates: the abundance he must have to say something like this.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 07:29 PM
1

Video games are not inherently "nerdy", but they are inherently unproductive. You're consuming something others have made while failing to add any skills for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 06:48 PM
1

Will do
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 05:07 PM
2

I actually don't think it's a troll. It was pretty hard for me to reject everything I had learned when I swallowed the pill, so I understand.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/13 02:55 AM
1

I'm sure there are good exceptions, like yours, but from the examples posted here it's clear that most cases can be prone to a loss of attraction.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:13 PM
1

I would say that they can choose to at first but this will damage the relationship over time as you lose respect for him.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 09:45 PM
1

What is more likely- that he just loves fat women over thin women innately, or a whole host of reasons to explain it? (he's stressed out, actually gay pretending to be straight, low self-confidence, etc)
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 06:06 PM
7

Sorry, but this is incorrect. This peer-reviewed study shows quite clearly that men have to be stressed out in order to find a heavy woman attractive, likely because the male feels he might not get another mating opportunity and therefore should mate as soon as possible.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 04:25 PM
2

If you cultivate an interesting life with productive hobbies you're passionate about, you'll automatically have openers/conversation topics. Women might even open you.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 03:36 PM
4

No. Alphas know instinctively that they can attract the physically fit women.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 03:31 PM
1

I disagree. As a natural beta, I find it useful to have an alpha standard of behavior to train myself with as I'm transitioning.
/r/seduction18/06/13 02:14 AM
3

Obviously the punishment was not going to the movies
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 01:29 AM
1

Guys improving their looks, go ahead, get to the point where a woman starts taking off your belt on the dance floor at some house party (or some other ridiculous displays of lust) , then talk about the importance of looks. You know full well most guys can never reach that point. Saying otherwise is just feeding into that false hope delusion you're so bent on dispelling.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 12:43 AM
4

I agree that it's mostly luck, but going to the gym, stretching, getting a new haircut/wardrobe aren't worthless endeavors by a long shot
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 11:03 PM
12

If you don't think that most women find it easy to get laid, you probably haven't ventured out from behind your computer screen
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 09:54 PM
13

This is just straight up not true. A perfectly average woman can sign up on a dating site and have hundreds of messages in her inbox by the morning, just by virtue of the vast number of single men.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 09:42 PM
2

otherwise 80% would have shit confidence levels Is this a problem? Why should betas be confident?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 06:15 PM
4

I disagree. The author makes it pretty clear that she believes the desire for men to be women is ingrained into their psyches- much like, for example, the desire for women to be hypergamous. I know the article is incorrect, but do you see the parallel?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:18 AM
4

Either this applies to all males or none of them- you can't cherry-pick who you want this to apply to.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:02 AM
6

Reading this makes me confused as to how feminists get offended by reading our stuff. What did this article get from me? A slight chuckle and nothing more. Certainly not grounds to make an angry post about the clear misandry to my progressive, like minded friends.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 05:00 AM
5

No! It seemed like he was so close to getting it at first....but then he took the blue pill and went back to sleep.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 04:41 AM
2

Great point Nutz. If men were attracted to older women we'd be a sicker, weaker species due to higher rates of defects.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 12:12 AM
1

Dude what
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 11:52 PM
1

Waiting to to respond shows evidence of a busy life, which is a good DHV
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 09:59 PM
2

You seem really, really concerned about this.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 09:56 PM
1

Sht tests aren't that hard once you actually believe that you have value to women.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 08:24 PM
2

I just visited and I just feel bad. Bad for the woman who doesn't understand that acting masculine isn't going to get her more male attention. Bad for the man who thinks he should be a feminist, and bad for the kid who's being influenced by his feminist mom.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 03:24 PM
5

she only dates 6'2 guys I'm telling you bro, fuck Asians. Literally 80 percent of all the female attention I got this year came from them haha
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 02:19 AM
5

It's all good, man. My strategy seems to pay decent dividends: shameless confidence in all situations, a sincere abundance mentality, and focusing on tiny Asian girls :)
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 01:54 AM
18

I think it's true in that when your goals focus mainly on women, you'll fail because they can sense that this means you don't have abundance. After all, why would a man who consistently gets laid worry about getting laid? Like others have said on this sub- put yourself first and the women will follow.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 01:35 AM
3

Ah as a small guy this makes me sad :( I'm fairly muscular but I can never truly satisfy these fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 01:31 AM
10

The rest of SRS to this guy: "Good job! We're so proud of you for renouncing your privilege and having feminist views!" .....yet these are the same women who will find themselves turned off by him while they're getting alpha cock....
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 08:54 PM
-6

but to be fair, no-life betas consume much more than they produce.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 08:49 PM
2

Just visited /r/bodyacceptance for the first time based on your comment. It was funny yet sad, watching them softly console each other that it's okay to be a landwhale and that men should be attracted to them at any size, god dammit!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 05:17 PM
6

This might just have to be sidebar-ed.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 03:38 PM
1

Yep! It's a slow change but I'm noticing more and more that my reaction to a situation is to do what I want. The nice guy inside of me is dying.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 03:28 AM
1

I like this- much better than what I would have first thought of. (I guess that's why I'm a recovering beta!)
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 02:19 AM
3

Good idea, but I don't think any bluepillers will show up. It's not like they can fight science, and they know it, too.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 11:22 PM
2

My first time on TRP And I'm guessing it won't be your last!
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 10:42 PM
4

What hobbies is a red piller supposed to have besides going to the gym? The question itself is kinda flawed. There is no set list of "acceptable" hobbies, but most ones TRP endorses are things that add value to you as a person in the form of a skill, such as learning an instrument, exercising, cooking, writing, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 10:38 PM
68

I knew /r/relationships was blue pill......but damn. Those knights are so white, they might as well be sitting on a bench in the NBA
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 05:41 PM
1

Go cultivate interesting activities and meeting women will follow. Take up rock climbing, salsa dancing, improv comedy. Do anything, but make sure it's something you love so that you're doing it for you and you alone.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/13 04:22 PM
7

If you fuck a woman without a condom, you are responsible for any results of that choice. End of discussion.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 10:53 PM
1

This topic is always so difficult. It's not fair, but there's really no other way to ensure that the child grows up with enough financial support.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 08:24 PM
4

I found this article to be a really good opinion on the matter: Acts of generosity and compassion are actually genetically selfish behavior. A person sees himself in another person. Genes identify similar genes and control human behavior so as to assist the survival of similar genetic data.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:33 PM
19

The first guy is just great! Maybe I am not valuing him because he is sooo into me, right from day 1? This is so honest it's got to be a troll.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 07:18 PM
6

You need to call her out when she disrespects you; doesn't have to be mean, just clear and unequivocal. Stop it in its tracks early before it grows to bigger signs of disrespect.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:29 PM
16

I'm glad I found this sub before I found that thread.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:22 PM
1

Many of you downplay looks because you do not know any better True. But it would hardly help us to sit in the corner and cry about how if you're not good looking, you're fucked. Given that I'll always be at a disadvantage, does that mean I shouldn't try to improve every part of me to max out my attractiveness potential?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:16 PM
2

I think you're right that money is a circlejerk in this sub. But I think your yardstick is too high; when the average income is just over $40k, the difference between $80k and $150k is pretty significant, especially if we're talking about a woman who wants to play second fiddle to her man.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 05:13 PM
1

Damn, that's what I call loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 03:51 PM
1

I read it more as "Here are some ways that men have totally messed up when talking to me at a bar"
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 02:20 PM
1

haha nice, link me please?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 02:17 PM
4

I understand that you don't like my opinion, but you can be useful to the sub and actually explain why.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 04:49 AM
1

Love it. It's a cruel quirk of nature for the beta that he thinks his behavior sets him apart from the crowd, when in reality most men believe as he does.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 04:16 AM
3

Again, life isn't fair. All you can do is work with what you've got and improve where you can. Bingo. To those on this sub who claim that a man who is not classically good looking can never succeed, this is the proper response.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 02:48 AM
2

We can give suggestions, but at the end of the day, parenting is not a thing that can be crowdsourced. How do you believe you should raise a daughter?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 01:51 AM
1

I might be in the minority here, but I found this pretty useful, actually. I know it's a bad idea to take a woman's advice on how to get women, but at least she was able to highlight the caricature that is the PUA whose only goal is to sleep with girls.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 01:42 AM
1

Not nearly enough to offset everything else.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 12:34 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/13 12:33 AM
5

I was? I'm 5'3. I love life, girls actually pay attention to me now that I have confidence and a lifestyle I can be proud of. Chin up buddy :)
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 07:59 PM
5

If we're assuming that he's rich, then of course he's going to get women. But I assumed we were working off of a real life version of Leonard (who rents an apartment with his nerdy friends). I don't follow the show- is Leonard rich?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 07:49 PM
2

Grow up and focus on making the most of what you have.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 07:47 PM
3

According to this sub, yes. Show me in this sub where someone says that a hot girl will be attracted to a physically unattractive man with no game, a boring job, and nerdy hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 07:35 PM
2

Dude I'm just talking about the role of intelligence here, of course good hygiene is a must
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 07:12 PM
3

Intelligence is awesome to have, but I think it's something a woman looks for after she's already attracted to you. It's a plus, but for your average woman, dumb + game >>>>>>> smart + no game
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:47 PM
1

I agree. While there are some literally useless degrees out there, a fair portion of the workers in the industry I'm looking to go into (management consulting) have degrees that aren't directly related to the field. Passion and dedication to one's craft are, above all, the best predictor of future success, monetary or otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:33 PM
4

Well done with that frame, man. A lesson in text game if I've ever seen one. She sounds hot too
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:28 PM
3

You sound like you have a lot of promise. Please don't get discouraged just because girls your age will begin fucking guys with an IQ lower than their BMI- take it as a redpill truth that women like impulsive men who act more than philosophical men who think. This doesn't mean you need to give up your love of learning; rather, incorporate these truths into your everyday life and cultivate a personality that retains your natural smarts while embracing the attractive qualities of the alpha.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/13 05:23 PM
5

For good measure, yes. But neither will matter if this poor guy doesn't get his head screwed on straight
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 03:20 PM
6

Meh, not really important. Even as a German student. Feminists can change our languages but they'll never change the hypergamy which leads to them wanting to get fucked by a dominant alpha.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 03:14 PM
1

In hindsight, yes. But it was anything but obvious to me before I came here.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 02:16 AM
40

She wants a man to take care of her. I am not that man. I think you just solved your own problem.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 10:42 PM
1

Question: can an improvement in a beta's behavior at least cull the hypergamous behavior, or will a woman always be looking for the something better than what she's got?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 10:23 PM
0

Proven very well by all the ugly fangirls of extremely high SMV male musicians.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 10:21 PM
16

The best boys will push me face down into the bed, put their full weight on top of me, wrap their arms around my chest and my throat, and whisper in my ear that I have to take it. That I should calm down. That I should shut the fuck up. That I’m such a good girl. Red pill or not.....do this to the wrong girl and your entire life is fucking ruined.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 09:31 PM
1

Nowadays, a large portion of these men will stay alone for the rest of their lives. True.....but this is not /r/mensrights, where the welfare of men in general is considered. This is a subreddit that focuses on how each of us men, as individuals, can gain the most personal happiness.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 09:15 PM
2

Men with no game and no money should, in all truth, aim to get with average women at best. Social matching theory at its finest. The best, or even marginally attractive, women have no obligation to mate with beta males.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 08:48 PM
8

I agree with what you've written here. And it's going to create a mass influx of sexually frustrated betas unless most of these men embrace learning game as a central facet of self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 08:32 PM
1

Being humble has no place on this sub. Examples like this, this, and this should show you that humility is not a virtue we aim for here.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 03:34 PM
2

Makes sense. Would you agree with the author's assertation that selfishness is the most important trait to have in order to be attractive?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/13 02:16 AM
1

True, man, I see what you're saying. I'm a pretty confident guy, and I do enjoy a moderate amount of success. My problem is pretty much unfixable (I'm 5'3) so my philosophy is to just make the most out of what I have, to try and get people to notice the person I am before they notice my physical features. I know that it's BS to blame any problems I have on what I look like.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/13 02:02 AM
0

If there were more alphas, women would be happier as they have more options (attractive men) to choose from. Definitely, and this is why I'm against it. I'm too physically unattractive to have more men learn game haha
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 10:57 PM
0

Good question. I think......I'd prefer that the status quo remain as it is. Society and feminism have indoctrinated, really, a striking number of men into believing that if they supplicate, they'll be rewarded with attraction. As draconian as it sounds, all these artificially made betas mean less competition for me. A man's gotta do what's best for him, you know?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 09:15 PM
6

As a man who is not classically attractive, it benefits me personally to have this knowledge under wraps. With game and red pill knowledge, I'm free to take an alpha role among my social circle (which I've done). But if all of the more physically attractive men in my circle knew about this, I'd no longer succeed as much.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 08:58 PM
2

And where would you get that from?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 08:54 PM
11

These are some examples of black men who are redpill, sure, but in what way does this suggest the same about the larger population of black people?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 04:38 PM
1

huh, that's a good point that has absolutely nothing to do with my response.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 01:46 AM
2

Sure she'll be attracted to a hunk of mineral that I'd buy for her.....but she'll be more attracted to me sticking to my beliefs on diamonds (refusing to buy a real one) and not caving into her like a beta.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/13 12:39 AM
3

Diamond rings are actually helpful to us red pill men, I've realized. When a woman makes a big fuss over one, it's a convenient indicator of how the relationship is going to play out.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 08:21 PM
1

Really insightful analysis. Putting a damper on how much you spread your attention really does increase its value. I've heard the same thing around here in referring to acting nice, in that acting aloof and self-centered as one's usual state makes nice gestures more valuable.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/13 07:34 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 09:15 PM
33

We have a simple solution for dealing with women like this. We don't date them.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 04:11 PM
1

I appreciate the honesty. And banging sluts is fun.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 04:50 AM
1

Would you ever be open to the possibility of one?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 04:47 AM
1

I'm curious about the role of emotions in long term relationships. I agree that sharing all of your insecurities and fears with a woman is the fastest way to turn her off. But can one really go 1, 5, 10 years with a woman without ever telling her anything you feel?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 04:42 AM
0

Thank you for putting it that way, really cleared things up.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 04:16 AM
-2

This is an awesome book. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 05:22 PM
1

I love how stoic the guy was up there. Just "Yes, Ma'am" and "No ma'am" whenever she asked him a question.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 03:43 PM
1

I'm not saying it's fair, but in the eyes of the law, the most vulnerable party ( the child ) has priority. I mean, how else can they assure the kid's got enough to live on?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 03:05 PM
1

Me, or redpillers in general?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 01:18 AM
1

Then what are we doing discussing these things at all?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 12:58 AM
1

Exactly, but we can use logic to explain the emotional preferences we had when we chose a mate.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 12:46 AM
-2

That's some seriously good analysis my friend.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 12:33 AM
1

Why?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 12:22 AM
0

The title of patriarch has to be earned. It's not automatically given.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 12:13 AM
0

I think you're confusing minority with immigrant....
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 10:39 PM
2

God damn. What did I just read, seriously
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 10:36 PM
2

We're the opposite of putting women on a pedestal. Isn't it refreshing?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 10:34 PM
-1

I agree, it's much more comfortable to stick with the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 10:30 PM
2

Devil's Advocate: would it not be incredibly unfair to the child, who needs a father's resources, to allow the man who acted as a father for 6, 7, 8 years to suddenly just stop providing?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 08:08 PM
6

Excellent to see. The more scientific study we can point to, the quicker it will take for Red Pill thinking to be embraced.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:52 PM
5

This is really interesting, highlights the role of physical dominance quite well.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:43 PM
4

You're right, my bad.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:44 AM
3

One of my friends from high school was an overweight guy with a face that looked like he'd gotten into a fight with a Mike Tyson. Without fail, at parties and in the halls, he'd do the exact same things you described, and get the same reactions. He's incredibly charismatic and I don't know a single person who dislikes him. (See, I can include personal anecdotes that don't try to disprove the main point, too.)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 05:25 AM
2

I believe as men we have the distinct advantage of demonstrating to women exactly how attractive we are. If I'm rich, it's difficult for a woman to know this just by looking at me. She doesn't know if I'm a good mate until she sees my bankroll- or talks to me. A confident demeanor and an expectation of success allows us to partially supersede our physical appearance by creating an alternate method by which our resources are judged. When I meet a woman on the street, she doesn't know how to treat…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 04:17 AM
1

If looks matter completely (except if you're making bank) why do we talk of things like building confidence, improving social skills, and pursuing passion? Aren't these things now irrelevant?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:54 AM
2

Of course attractive men will usually do better than unattractive men- common sense. How can we use your belief to explain the minority of ugly men who (demonstrably) get women with their confidence and charisma?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:23 AM
2

I agree. But do you think that the same principle applies in real life interactions?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:11 AM
8

Awesome job by the mods and frequent contributors in getting the sub this far.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:05 AM
5

This is the most painful thing I've ever read here.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 11:16 PM
1

So brave.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:18 PM
0

I don't want to complain about double standards. I just want to avoid making them in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 02:24 PM
0

I really hope you're right! It would add a lot more to life. I might be a little bit of an extremist for analyzing from the evolutionary perspective.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 06:44 AM
1

Sounds great to me!
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:58 AM
1

Reading the replies here it seems like I've crammed myself into a view that's not optimal for long term happiness. Do you have any suggestions to bring myself out?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:52 AM
1

Really does, thanks. That's crazy to grasp.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:50 AM
1

What do you think is the best way for me to widen my worldview?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:48 AM
0

I've never heard Red Pill knowledge in that context, and it sounds great! Thank you for raising decent people. We need more like you.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:46 AM
0

I really appreciate your input, and this thread has made me realize that life entails more than the pursuit of women. Up vote for you. However, your characterization of me as bitter is totally off the mark- honestly I couldn't be happier after finding all this stuff out.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 05:44 AM
0

We encourage being a slut among our own kind, though. How are you not seeng the blatant double standard you've set? This is the kind of stuff The Blue Pill gets on our case for.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 12:46 AM
3

Good point. I think my view would be better expressed as, when we try to better ourselves through exercise, better financial situation, higher social status, etc, that raising our sexual market value is the underlying motivation.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 10:58 PM
1

I agree. Perhaps the feminist movement would seem less ridiculous if they stopped declaring everything an affront on women.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 10:47 PM
0

What purpose, evolutionarily, do we have other than passing on our genes? If the answer is none, then my post is the logical conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 10:37 PM
1

Ain't it always about her?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 10:31 PM
3

Damn straight.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 10:13 PM
2

Personally, does the number of sex partners a woman has had factor in a all for you? Just curious.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 09:49 PM
1

True, but it's counterproductive to just pretend like the problem doesn't exist. Just because the sub doesn't officially advocate for it doesn't mean that it has no effect on our aims.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 08:44 PM
2

Nicely put, hadn't thought of that.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 08:10 PM
2

It's funny/sad how, deep down, their hindbrain knows that they're past expiration date, but they think that if they change the terminology it'll change the problem.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 08:09 PM
3

Uh, okay?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 08:05 PM
3

Question: is is the actual act of rising the carousel that lowers a woman's SMV, or is it just that time spent on the carousel puts a woman past her peak?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:55 PM
1

When we figured out the dynamics of human relationships, it didn't change us in any way. We just became aware of our animalistic tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:54 PM
1

Thanks for your input, man. Personally I've started to switch to gaming without alcohol, as I'd like to be just as effective in situations where drinking isn't possible.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:50 PM
1

Think about how quickly, in absolute terms, we developed society. It took us two thousand years to develop everything around us. Evolution takes millions of years- so, evolutionarily speaking, we are still animals and still slaves to our animal desires.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:45 PM
4

Makes sense, thanks. I assume it doesn't matter at all if the guy made it clear he was using other women for sex only and not providing them anything?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:37 PM
-3

Thank you. I think TRP as a whole really needs to talk out its issues with hating women who do the exact same things as we do. They use their sexual advantage to get the best partners- why should they be shamed for that? I can't stand guys blaming women for doing things hypergamy orders them to do.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:35 PM
2

I definitely agree with what you're written, and I think that one thing that really upsets feminists is that sexist dudes don't tend to get laid any less than non-sexist dudes.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:26 PM
6

How is a girl a bitch for hooking up with several guys she's attracted to, while going all the way with the more attractive one? We do the same damn thing without a hint of remorse.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 07:09 PM
-14

If we accept the belief that all energy is sexual, we also have to accept that all of our endeavors are, in a roundabout way, connected to getting sex.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 06:58 PM
3

Really good point.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 06:56 PM
-2

But as a general rule, won't fucking more and more attractive partners make us happier? I understand there are exceptions, but all else being equal, you're happier if you're getting some.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 06:55 PM
2

Well said.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 04:19 PM
2

To these accusations I say: who the fuck cares? We're scumbags? So what. We're the dregs of society? Not relevant. We're bigoted, misogynistic, and judgmental? Cool story bro. We're here because we want to get laid. And we judge ourselves by the fruits of that labor, and nothing else. Being good people isn't why we swallowed the red pill. And to that extent, we do extraordinarily well- we've seen enough evidence to know that women love a red pill man. As for hating and blaming women for our prob…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/13 12:15 AM
1

I'm replying to softharem's claim that TRP doesn't play the male supremacy game.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 05:14 PM
1

I understand, but I think a large percentage of posters here playing the male supremacy game. Look at what we've written. Posts saying women have no value other than their pussies. Posts shaming good looking women for riding the cock carousel when they have every right to do so. Posts painting women as childish slaves to their own emotions. What part of these posts implies equality between the sexes?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 04:32 PM
1

Isn't it hypocritical of us to hate feminists, though? It seems as if the whole point of feminism is to shift sexual strategy in favor of the woman, allowing her to gain access to the most desirable sex partners. With Red Pill strategy, isn't that what we're setting out to do? Get the most desirable partners? I don't see how we can hate feminists for playing their version of our game.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/13 01:18 PM
1

Hey man, I'm an 18 year old guy in Boston who's trying to get into the game and just improve my life in general. I'd definitely like to meet and practice game, could use some help!
/r/seduction28/01/13 03:43 AM
1

haha, yeah, gotcha. care to explain said shit, please?
/r/seduction24/04/12 01:04 AM
1

Nah. As Adam Savage said, I reject reality and substitute my own =)
/r/seduction23/04/12 02:16 AM
8

I love how you're pandering to the short men of reddit, just looking for validation of your outdated, pessimistic worldview, so you can justify the way you live your life right now and think "oh, there's no hope for me." No. Please, everyone, just stop this shit. It doesn't matter whether or not you're screwed by being short. But the fact of the matter is, if you think you're screwed, you are, right from the start. It's not going to change, ok? I'm five foot three. Short as fuck, so I don't want…
/r/seduction23/04/12 12:55 AM
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