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Has it always been this way and I'm getting older and just seeing it now? No. I remember most people busting their ass when I was younger. Me included. You didn't work, you were poor, dirty, and hungry. Now everyone who is not working is on disability, getting some benefits, etc. So they close to lower middle class, without doing much.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 03:24 PM
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I am as anti woman as it gets, but she's actually pretty cool and gets along with me super well, and I like her despite the fact that she is a woman, so I'd be sad if I lost her. What makes you think being "anti-woman" is something you should pick up and practice? This sub is about recognizing things as they are, including people. That is not the same as being "anti" something.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 12:28 PM
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Also another thing that really upset me was that her orbiter openly dislikes me, and never has anything good to say about me. If she was the right kind of woman to LTR, she would be distancing herself from him on the basis of that. She would not need you to implement any protocols.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 12:25 PM
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But now I feel like I'm just the beta bucks that she was trying to trap (she's 24 and I'm 26). There is a reason for that.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 12:22 PM
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Books can be on a screen.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 06:48 PM
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Weird thing is, i'm on good terms with freshman year girl now. You normally good with people shitting on you, and you do nothing about it, or even claim that you are on "good terms"? Smh.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 04:44 PM
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Bored? Read a damn book.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:10 PM
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I feel like she went out, had her fun as a young sexy woman, slept with a bunch of men and is now looking to settle down...and along comes me. Go listen to Tom Leykis and his bit about "I've had my fun..."
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 08:22 PM
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My GF has a way of explaining it away to sound as though it does not matter- things that have happened in her previous life. In what other context do we pretend that prior decisions and conduct are no longer relevant? Employment? Credit? Criminal history? Friendship? Exactly. Our past matters. To us. To others. As far as I am concerned, she can do as she will in terms of her partner count. More power to her. She can sleep with 200 men or 2. Totally her call. But you get to make decisions on who …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 08:17 PM
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She says, "why does it matter" and I don't really have a good answer. Why does it matter if you are over 6' to some women? Why does it matter if you are employed in a high-income, high-status job to some women? Etc. People want what they want, and that is just how it is. Some men do not want women with very high partner counts, relative to the more typical female partner count. Some men do not care about partner count.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 08:14 PM
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Personal information wiped first. Then mail it without a note. Why isn't she blocked on your phone and email?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 04:51 PM
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College is the time you are laying a foundation for the next 40 years. If you are spending that time drinking and clubbing, you done messed up. Treat college studies and working out like a full-time job Monday morning through Friday afternoon. Every week. Every semester. Every year. Get up early, get your day underway, go all day. Hit the bed at a proper time to get your full 8-9 hours of sleep. Eat right. No partying during the week. At all. Then have fun Friday night through Saturday night. Su…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 01:01 AM
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Would you spend so much time pondering a tree's penchant for leaves? Why the fish uses its fins? It something is simply part of the nature of a thing, it can be studied and even appreciated for what it is, but you don't demand it explain leaves, fins, etc. Don't demand that she explain being a woman. She just is.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 12:58 AM
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Tell your cousin to sod off.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:47 PM
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Why are you in contact with her in any form?
/r/askTRP24/09/16 12:18 PM
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If paternity does not matter, maternity should not either, right? Because equality. So just randomly send home newborns with MOTHERS from the hospital delivery unit. Somehow, that idea never is acceptable to the "genes don't matter" crowd. Genes matter to moms a lot, it seems, based on their reaction. (Also, when moms do discover those "switched at birth" incidents in their own life, what do they want to do? Meet their genetic offspring. Immediately.)
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 11:15 AM
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"(1) Thank you for the notice regarding my health. I will get treated. (2) In return for the favor you did by telling me, I want to let you know you were the only person I had sex with in the relevant transmission period window. You should look to the other people you slept with as the one that transmitted this disease to you. (3) We are now even. Have a good life."
/r/askTRP22/09/16 08:35 PM
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Today I no longer have any contact with any of them at all. Yup. Only way to deal with that sort.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 01:10 PM
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Ask out other women, even ones below your normal range, and get some action going. Soon. Stop trying to stop think about it. Instead, write down what they are doing, say it to yourself in the mirror, admit that you are being a silly kid about the whole thing, because your oneitis moved on from you. But only do it for 10 minutes at the beginning of the day. Then get yourself up, out the door, and moving on with your life. Keep that up until you find you don't need that 10 minutes, because you are…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:49 PM
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If someone does something rude or thoughtless, and asks, "Are you mad?", they are trying to get you to say "No." Don't. It is perfectly okay to say, calmly, "Yes, I am mad." What you don't do is raise your voice or take any action at that time. You simply confirm what they should know already: their conduct has made you mad. Denying that you are mad is to give them the succor they seek. Ignoring their question is acceptable if your response is to say you are leaving or otherwise indicating their…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:43 PM
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I told her I wasn't mad but in my mind I wanted nothing to do with her. Why did you tell her you weren't mad? Of course you were. You should has said, calmly, "You wasted my evening. Yes, I'm mad at you right now." Then listened to her apology. Then said goodbye. Period. Not wanting anything to do with her is right. She is either thoughtless or weird. And note that she is only saying sorry; she is not doing anything to make it up to you. Words mean almost nothing when you are trying to make amen…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:20 PM
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Never speak to her again. She did not do any ACTION to make it right. Just words. And not even any significant words were given.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 12:06 PM
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The only thing different is how you see her. She did not change; your perception changed, as you came to realize truth, not fantasy.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 11:27 AM
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Do a longer post on the front page of the sub and expand on this. More messages like this need to appear there.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:32 PM
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Delete. Block. Ignore.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:08 PM
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What can i (exactly) say to this people? "I very much like my life." Nothing more.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:35 PM
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Time to start looking for your next job. Never surf at work. Period.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 02:21 PM
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No argument here. I tell people to dump their television and turn off the internet at home. They will be astounded how much time they actually have, once those items are removed from the schedule.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:33 PM
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Still trying to figure out what a stay at home mom does. Once kids are in school 8:30-3:30? Very, very little. Washers, dryers, dishwashers, vacuums, grocery stores, etc. There simply is not much to do to maintain a household in contemporary western nations. You can make the work fill the time, but the time required is simply not much. Certainly not 40 hours a week.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 04:39 PM
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She said I can sleep with another woman if I feel it would help. The response to that is "You don't give me permission regarding a damn thing, so keep your damn consent,."
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 10:34 AM
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I've explicitly told her that this is not ok for me and she knows I'm a hairline away from leaving her. /facepalm
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:54 PM
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If she did all that, but has been faithful since you got together, that says a hell of a lot. What does it say? insecure Having a preference for LTRs who have NOT done trains is not an insecurity. It is called "being like most men."
/r/askTRP24/08/16 08:07 PM
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Look into getting your electrician's license via apprenticeship. Enroll in whatever classes you need to, and also take accounting and finance classes, so you can eventually have some idea how to run your own business.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 07:46 PM
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Just vanish. Move out and disappear from her life. She will always find that harder than anything else. More importantly, though, it is best for you.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 10:27 PM
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Next time she calls---and she will call---make sure the auto-block function refuses to even accept the voicemail. Email gets auto-deleted. Texts? Auto-deleted. No. contact. ever. again.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 08:17 PM
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Why are you posting here? You know what to do. Ghost on her. 100%. Never post vids online. Just move on. She is nothing to you. At all. Never discuss her again with anyone. Anyone who contacts you trying to intercede on her behalf gets instantly blocked too. No response. If she does not leave you alone after a few more days, spend $200 on a lame lawyer to send her a "no contact" demand.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 03:38 AM
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His email is concise, not "dominant. "
/r/askTRP02/08/16 01:08 PM
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Lighten up, Francis. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0OnpkDWbeJs
/r/askTRP26/07/16 09:58 PM
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I was thinking BJJ? Sure. Just recognize that as wonderful as Judo/BJJ are, you really, really do NOT want to take a street fight to the ground. Why? Because when you start winning, your opponent's buddy kicks your head in. Learn how to ground fight, so you can get up off the ground if you find yourself ground fighting. But always be getting up off the ground in a street fight. Way too dangerous to be on the ground, where you cannot run or see the other people stepping in. But as recreational sp…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:33 PM
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Lift. Join a boxing or other sport fighting club, to be around other guys. Exercise 4-5 times a week, your whole life. That one change will make more difference in your life than you can imagine now. Eat healthy foods. Nothing out of a box. Nothing out of a bag. Food is something dug from the ground, picked from a tree, or derived directly from an animal. If the stuff you have in your hand is not in a form like that, it is not food. It is something that got processed to look and taste like food.…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:02 PM
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Now I must find a Morpheus. Da fuck you think this place and TRP are?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 10:59 PM
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I would not marry a woman who was doing this. No, seriously, I would not marry a woman who, during the engagement, started trying to get other dicks into her body, with my cooperation. It would be over. Right then. She is floating this in a manner so she can back out and claim it was all hypothetical. It is not. She wants to have sex with other men. Period. You don't marry that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/16 11:56 PM
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I would like to punish her Nope. You focus on you, not her. Do things for your benefit, not for her harm. Spending time with your kids? Benefit to you. Keeping your kids from having to be with some other jerkwad, because you won't watch them? Benefit to you and your kids. Stop it with the search for vengeance, and instead focus 100% on bettering YOUR life and your kids' lives.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 04:04 PM
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Never, ever communicate with her again. Poison.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 04:18 PM
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Soft next. Work on other women. Let this one get no more of your attention until she is happy to bask in your time and attention, rather than presume she gets it while she actively goes about making you look like a chump for some unknown reason at a social function. Let her play her game with someone else. You have things to do, gals to date, and a life to build. Go do those things.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 03:17 PM
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Oh sure, she loves him. /eyerolls When OP is not useful to her, in her view, then watch how fast she disappears. Also, how many guys got some from her on this "break"? /knowingnod
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 03:07 PM
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Can't next a girl from orbit. You can only stop being a chump.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:13 PM
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Or get oneitis for a girl toying with you. Or chase headcases. Or send BS butthurt texts. Or..... So many fails here. Hard to list them all.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 08:06 PM
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Just because somebody else takes a lower salary to do a job, that does not reduce your value. Put another way if you are a $10 hamburger, you don't sell yourself for 5 bucks, just because somebody else is a $5 hamburger. Just be sure you really are a $10 hamburger. That said, make sure that you don't miss a good opportunity to develop skills overseas, which could increase your value. A small setback in salary on a temporary basis in order to increase long-term value is a good trade.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 02:09 PM
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Some procedures to reverse the permanent effects of vasectomies are successful. But vasectomies are considered permanent, not a reversible procedure.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 02:06 PM
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If some 21 year old guy comes in and demands a vasectomy, the doctor is well within their professional judgment competency to refuse to go along with it. Doctors are not obligated to follow your orders. The doctor's reluctance is because you will likely view many things differently 20 years from now, including kids. And vasectomy is a permanent thing. A 46 year old with 3 kids? Now a doctor has less room to apply their own judgment in lieu of yours. That does not mean the doctor has to do it, it…
/r/askTRP11/06/16 02:03 PM
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You need to go monk Uh, no. Just stop orbiting.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:31 PM
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Ignore. With prejudice.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 10:59 AM
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Why in the world would you bother to argue with some know-nothing trainer in a gym? Total waste of time. Smile, nod, say thanks, and then utterly ignore those people and their opinions.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 12:35 PM
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She wins when you play at all. DGAF, because not caring is the only win possible with that sort.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 10:36 PM
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Why are you bothering to write her about crap like that?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 12:13 PM
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It is not your job to police the conduct of other guys. It is not your job to police her conduct. It is her job to make it clear that she will have NONE of that stuff when other guys start up with it. When you see her open to such stuff from other guys, you pull away hard. You don't say anything, you make no ultimatums or demands. You just take it as a given that she is so disinterested in you she does not even care if you know that she is shopping for the replacement. If she asks "Why are you s…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 04:28 PM
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in fact most of the income tax is paid by just a few percent of the top earners. Something the data show quite unavoidably. However, don't expect others to know this, or when told, grasp what it means for their crank worldview that "the rich" don't pay their fair share. The best you can typically hope for is the person acknowledges the facts, but simply retreats to "I think the rich should pay more, even still." That is fine, of course, because everyone can have an opinion, but they cannot have …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 07:03 PM
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If you had ever done any economic review of this issue, you would have found the basics on this topic. Here are some made-for-the-averageman publications and releases. http://www.aei.org/publication/no-government-isnt-subsidizing-wal-mart/ http://www.forbes.com/sites/timworstall/2013/11/13/apologies-but-welfare-payments-to-employees-are-not-subsidies-to-walmart-and-mcdonalds/#692d52234bdb You need to clear your head. Although you don't realize it, you are in essence demanding Walmart pay employe…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:52 PM
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Her rep is pretty adamant that she's not getting a tax advantage by doing this Today. But what happens in the future, when gain is recognized via sale?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:30 PM
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The government has created a tax code where small businesses are taxed at significantly higher rates than large businesses. Most small businesses are organized as pass-through entities, and therefore pay no tax on their income. Instead, the owners pay taxes on the income they receive in dividends/distributions. Those owners pay taxes at the marginal rate imposed on such income. So you could say that small business income=taxed at 0% at entity level, unless the small business opts for subchapter …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:29 PM
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So Nike So Nike, worth billions, pays zero dollars annually to the government I assume you are saying they have not paid taxes recently. Please examine the following, and identify where your allegation is supported by the filed SEC information. http://s1.q4cdn.com/806093406/files/doc_financials/2015/ar/docs/nike-2015-form-10K.pdf I would also note that: Nike is not an s-corporation. It is a subchapter C corp. Although the annual report information suggests Nike paid income tax in 2015, I would n…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:18 PM
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This guy has zero clue about what the economic and tax payment data show. If he had familiarity the breakdown of who pays what bills in Western democracies, he would not say these things. The data shows a far more interesting and nuanced picture of matters. He is doing what SJWs do: spout garbage rhetoric, without data, and expect people to take him seriously. When challenged, more unsupported assertions, and a demand for proof from others without having shown his own bona fides. Putting this gu…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 03:06 PM
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I am talking about the people who are the level above that. MAth and data or STFU What is the rate you would apply, and how much of the overall tax pie should be paid at each level? Walmart is not obligated to pay people at a level you find appropriate. Their job is to pay people a market wage necessary to maintain operations. Don't make some employer the obligee on your desire to see people have more money.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:54 PM
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Lets agree on what the tax rates are, and everyone pay what we agreed to. If we agree that Apple should pay no taxes, great, let's write it down and I'll happily go along with that. The tax code is written, and there are people very familiar with its application and administration? Lots of people, in fact. Including plenty of people armed with guns who enforce said tax code. Having been in corporate board rooms and private consultations with fabulously wealthy people, I can assure you that my ex…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:45 PM
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To keep her name off public records regarding property ownership, she can hold the real estate via entity, formed in any number of jurisdictions, or by a trust having no obvious association with her, although she is the taxpayer on the private return filed with officials. But if those entities are subject to British taxation oversight, taxes will be paid on the certain-to-be-had gains on the London real property when sold. So yes, the privacy dodge she makes strikes me as a superficial claim, th…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:41 PM
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One of the big issues in our world today is wealth inequality. Worse than gender inequality I would say, .... Who let the commies in here? Money is literally being vacuumed to the top, You use that word "literally", but it does not mean what you think it means... social programs are not being sponsored. Math and data, or STFU. For decades, people have been cheating societies by being able to use community owned resources, while not paying the appropriate free that maintains those resources. Math…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:38 PM
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Go to the university administration and make a formal report and complaint. Monday morning. Quit playing your role in this drama and block her completely. No more contact at all.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 06:47 PM
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The race is long. Quit your simpering and get back in it. That wrestler may be selling cellular phones at retail when he is 22. Where do you want to be at 22? What you do now helps determine that. Go do the smart things: study, eat right, lift, study more, build a social network of valuable people, etc.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:25 PM
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End it.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 07:37 PM
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There was that time a bunch of black guys beat the crap out of me and my buddy, because we were white and in their neighborhood. There was also that time a bunch of skinheads wanted to beat the crap out of me and another buddy, because he was black. That is racism. Much of what people call racism now is just somebody's feelings being hurt.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 10:22 PM
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she likes to point out super hot dudes That is who she wants as her sexual partner. And you are the nice, safe guy she wants a commitment from.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 03:34 PM
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You will get no responses, I would expect. If you could get someone to respond, my expectation is the answer will be "kids". The prospect some guys face is that upon divorce, mom would start up with a string of losers, who would be hanging around the house where the kids sleep, bathe, etc. That is a pretty terrifying prospect to most fathers whose wives have poor judgment and a need for male attention.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 07:05 PM
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The lesson here is that they need to be protected off from these toxic friends of theirs before they start getting ideas. Mate guarding against a woman's toxic female friends is no more a winning strategy than mate guarding against other guys. If SHE is not intolerant of people trying to screw up her relationship, she is not LTR material. A woman should be shutting down guys and ejecting toxic friends who seek to split her from her chosen mate. If she fails to do that, she is no longer LTR mater…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 11:22 AM
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She can do what she wants, and so can you. Stop trying to convince her or influence her at all on this issue. If she is not 100% on board with your plan, she is not part of your plan. You go with your plan, and if she is along for the ride, great. If not, wish her the best, be polite, keep frame, and keep going with your plan, without deviation or hesitation. No complaining, no explaining. Not to her, not to anyone. Don't bother bringing up with her the "why" she is making her choices--whether y…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 11:17 AM
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So have a hot-looking GF not attracted to you and focused on raising her kid, while you perform manservant role to her and the kid? Wow...where do I sign up? Sounds great. /s Another guy got the good times, and you get the dirty dishes, doctor bills, and "tired" mom who appreciates how patient you are.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 02:36 PM
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If you want to be in shape for summer, be working out from September through August, and eating right. Being in shape is not a seasonal thing, it is a lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 04:45 PM
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Never address him or respond to him. Never talk about him to others. Only speak with or about him in the most professional of tones and words. And only do so when the job duties require it. Otherwise assign him to the category of socially dead to you. People will note your collected, professional approach versus his antics. His standing will erode. Yours will increase.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 07:28 PM
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This is when you wish her the best and break up.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 11:52 PM
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Stop inviting him. Don't bother with him when he is present.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 11:59 AM
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You need to nut up and stand up for yourself, My guess is, if this was a possibility for the original poster, we wouldn't be seeing this post in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 05:56 PM
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Separate your finances. Each of you contribute to the costs of the household, based on your income. She can then spend our remaining money how she wants. And you can spend your money how you want.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 05:55 PM
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They are perfectly willing to dump those HR jobs ... if the right guy was doing the asking.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 02:23 AM
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She might use sarcasm and backhanded statements to deal with her own anxiety. I would ignore it initially, but if it does not end when she gets more comfortable and used to you, point it out when she says things people will find offensive, and ask if she is doing it intentionally or simply does not understand what she is doing. If you point it out without anger, superciliousness or other form of contempt, but rather a distant, cool concern for her, it will really drive it home that her conduct d…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 02:19 AM
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Meh, you need to find another job or move internally away from both her and the morons who let her do this. (The bosses are the real problem, not her. A decent manager would spot her before she even started up this crap.) If you want to just be done with it all, have some fun and go to the exec's office yourself and ask them why they let the most unproductive team member destroy the team. She is obviously a disaster, and they have already lost good people because of her. How many more have to lo…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 12:59 AM
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I have a lot of fight experience. And I would most definitely get the bouncer. When younger and dumber? Probably not.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 10:39 PM
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Are you really doing this, beta orbiter? Are you really doing this? /facepalm Sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:12 AM
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Tell the bouncer the guy is manhandling your GF, and if he does not stop immediately, you are calling the police, because assault. Don't ever chimp out in a bar. Let the staff do that for you.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:04 AM
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So, TED talks have gone to shit, I see.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 08:00 PM
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Look at that male hamster go!
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:40 PM
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really I was making excuses to see her again Bingo.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:39 PM
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TL; DR: OP is trying to find a way to get in touch with a girlfriend who cheated on him, because oneitis.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 05:38 PM
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A quiet pause, casual look, and a totally calm "You done yet?" can work wonders sometimes.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:43 AM
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oneitis, without the sex. Beta orbiter level? 10/10.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 04:07 AM
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Quit paying attention to her.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 08:37 PM
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Recording people can involve legal issues in certain jurisdictions. You pretty up on those? Why do you keep meeting someone--alone--who, from your description, sounds pretty out there? You like putting yourself at risk? Enjoy drama and administrative proceedings? If so, by all means, continue. If not, you need to stop meeting with her, alone, where you engage in surreptitious recording, thinking somehow you have the Ace Card. You don't. So don't.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 07:04 PM
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Today he is very well off, which is no doubt the result of "white privilege" and "male privilege". Time and again, you will see the Apex Fallacy at play. People will hate on some successful person, convinced that person had it easy or was given what they have. Never realizing that so many others tried and failed, or simply never really tried, to get what the Apex Person has.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:08 PM
2

Just skip being the copy bitch for her and stick with "don't speak." Problem solved.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 10:58 PM
1

How can I get them to stop? Never speak to their annoying asses again. Simple.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 10:57 PM
2

but don't cry when someone points out valid criticisms of these political views. You are not doing any such valid criticism. You make an appeal to authority (logical error, look it up) without even bothering to actually provide the authority appealed to. You haughtily claim that "sociological studies" support your view. M'kay. If you say so.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:46 PM
1

This purely libertarian outlook is just as terrible as the unearned, parasitic socialism that trpftw descriped. Yeah, those mountains of skulls caused by collectivist ideologies in Asia, Europe, Central and South America, are only equaled by the ones the libertarians caused in....oh, wait. Silly me, libertarians have no mountains of skulls to explain away.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:44 PM
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These idiots are downvoting you. Unbelievable. The economic illiteracy displayed on this board is astounding. What you are saying is absolutely old news to anyone even passingly interested in contemporary economics. Yet these guys know nothing of it, while they spout their Bernie Sanders garbage about "the rich".
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:42 PM
3

Slave auctions and servitude contracts are not free markets, they are creations of the state's coercive power, where the subject peoples do not get freedom of choice. And don't bother arguing that indentured servitude is anything other than a variant of a slave market; it exists only where the state threatens violence against people for "breach". Jesus, people use these terms like they know them, and the first time they try and defend their position, it becomes clear: they have simply not done t…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:38 PM
3

now it's gotten to the point of her going to a strip-club after work to take care of him because he has been close to overthose in the past. WTF? If she wants to spend her time after work babysitting her alcoholic, dancer-paying boss, she should feel free. But frankly, if your gal is hanging out with other men in what are, in reality, little more than sex clubs (oh, you really believe there is no sex in the Champagne Room? LOL), until 5 am...well, damn, I will just say that is not what I look fo…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 04:13 PM
2

College freshman nonsense. At best. Just for laughs, go look up how many American millionaires inherited their money versus earned it during their working years. Rich get richer my ass. Data says different. And when is the last time a Vanderbilt had a million bucks? You know very little, but are filled with certainty.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:56 AM
1

Indentured servitude is not market based; it is based on compulsion via the state. Do the basic reading at least, for the love of Zeus,.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:52 AM
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Except in matriarchal societies, women don't have control. In fact, no one does. And bills don't get paid. Nothing works any more, so no bills get paid. The guys just drift about, doing whatever they please. Fatherhood is just not a concept much valued, so no one displays it. Boys often never get any real adult male connection, except that nasty gang leader, who is happy to give those 13-16 year olds some crazy ideas about how to fill time. With no calm, dedicated men around to actually produce,…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 09:39 PM
11

What's not to like? As we all know, the eventual outcome: 29 year old men, who never held a regular job, because their basics are covered, so WGAF about work? That is a movie playing now at lower income neighborhoods in your region.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 08:26 PM
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This is why agitating for economic change, like the institution of a guaranteed minimum income, should be one of feminism’s core projects So goddam stupid, this one. Um, so, when all those GUYS decide to just play Xbox, wank it, and smoke pot, because a check shows up every month sufficient to cover electric, rent, pot, and porn, who is left to pay the bills, dear? Hmm? This woman's first instinct is to say that men will get checks too, because equality. But when it becomes apparent that guys, l…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 08:23 PM
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If she does it in an obviously adoring way, ignore it. If she does it with any edge at all, a quiet "what did you just say about me?" while staring at her with no smile will highlight the moment. When she repeats it, nod, look at her without expression for another moment, then turn to the others and change topic entirely. Don't say another word about it at all. The room's mood will totally change, which is the point. Everyone will be a bit on edge, until you indicate you are friendly again. Agai…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 01:42 AM
2

Find an instructor who actually focuses on street self-defense from a practical point of view. Krav maga guys often claim to. But pay attention to what they are teaching. Does it actually make sense? Do people really fight that way? Problem is, however, even if you are justified in defending yourself, if you break a guy's leg, eye orbital, and throat punch him into the hospital emergency room, you are likely to be arrested and face prosecution. Winning a street fight is only a good thing relativ…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 04:35 PM
7

Some dude putting out his cuckold fetish stories. Nothing else. People don't just have to stay in the snowbound house, except in very bad slasher films.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:00 PM
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where this beta went wrong is when he dismissed the guy as being just a "douchebag" instead of addressing the fucker head on and explaining that he needs to behave in a certain way if he's going to be staying over. I think that is actually the GF's job. SHE should be shutting things down, hard, otherwise not GF material.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:52 PM
2

Yup. Offering a calm response of how you view it and the impact on the relationship status she will have is not admitting weakness, it can be giving guidance to her on what your expectations are. She may well be seeking it, because she wants to make sure she does not blow up her deal with OP. OTOH, she might have already infracted, and is not seeking retroactive permission.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:11 PM
2

If people interested in maintaining a relationship with you---in business, personally, whatever---ask you whether X action by them is okay, you are not giving them "ultimatums" to explain that Y will be your response. Assuming the inquiry is sincere, that person is someone seeking information about your posture, and giving them the likely consequences helps them make sound decisions to maintain their relationship with you. Not telling people what you are likely to do is for when you want to surp…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 08:07 PM
1

ultimatums are never a good thing. Explaining to people the consequences of their decisions is an "ultimatum?". Oh, right, Reddit calls that "ultimatums", but adults call it life. Don't do your job? Boss will fire you. Not an ultimatum, life. Don't pay your bills? People sue you. Life. Sleep over at other men's house while in a relationship? Dumped.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:43 PM
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Republican policies produce more of this exact group, while complaining about that group the loudest. T Assertion without any support. I am not dressed for church.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 03:22 AM
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Apologize for causing a disruption and for anything that you may have said. Nope. Never. Better to never say anything than this.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:16 AM
0

n the US, conservatives frequently push for really evil policies. To give one example - they are against sex education, which is known to reduce teen pregnancy and poverty. They're also against abortion, knowing that the kids who get aborted are among the most statistically at-risk. And also against social programs. Blacks do really evil things. To give one example, blacks commit crimes. Wait, what? My overly-broad, unnuanced statement of way-too-broad fact comes across as bigoted nonsense? Yeah…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:48 PM
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What's the underlying reason behind this? Validation. Don't overthink it. It is not about you; it is about her feelings right then. And she does not love you. She loves what you represent in her life: another step up the social ladder.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 03:14 PM
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Picture every fundamentalist Muslim rule for women as an attempt by older women to restrict their husband's access to younger women, and suddenly they all start to make sense Now consider the West, divorce, and laws regarding custody and assets...yeah, same wine, different bottle.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 10:21 PM
2

Dump her. No contact. If anyone brings her up, shake your head, say she is bizarre, change the topic. No complaining. No explaining.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:21 AM
3

Sidebar, orbiting beta, sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 03:43 AM
5

"I don't need it, love." /smile warmly and turn away
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:18 PM
1

We were friends No you weren't,. That is your mistake.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:20 PM
1

Sue him in small claims court Tell him to his face to enjoy the money, as he is apparently a deadbeat. Tell people he is a deadbeat. Those are two ways to deal with it without going full chimp about it.
/r/askTRP28/12/15 01:19 PM
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Honestly. if I could choose what tax contributions go to, raising some kids like hers would seem much more beneficial than contributing to bonuses of some crooks that more or less deliberately drove the world economy into a wall. Look up "false choice" error of logic. How about we go with option c: neither bad decision is tolerated.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 10:09 PM
2

Go. No downside but an hour, while you gauge her interest.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 03:20 PM
10

The women here are batshit obsessed with telling me I'm old and "fun times are over". They want you to validate their fear of the wall. They feel this very keenly, as they see their SMV cratering. They need to know that you feel the same way, because misery loves company and hates anyone who escapes. Just smile, nod, and change the topic. Be inscrutable.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:53 PM
8

Non believers don't get tenure.... They don't even get a job interview.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:50 PM
3

Wiki is good for getting a grasp on a topic - not for objective and in-depth info, as it is just a rowdy crowd with all infighting, politics and egos - in that sense it is just a reflection of life and the world - subjective, biased and limited - it should be banned by universities for official research. You do realize that books and peer review articles experience the same damn thing, only hidden from the reader's view, right?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:47 PM
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Why do you expect to be treated right, if you're not acting right? Awesome approach to people generally.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:38 PM
5

SJW puke in redpill terminology. What next, Occupy Redpill demonstrations, demanding the 1% share?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:34 PM
13

Change the topic to something worth discussing. If she won't let that happen, excuse yourself and don't bother with her.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 10:58 PM
1

This sub is not for 5 year olds or those who want to think at that level.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 04:54 PM
13

Start looking for her replacement. Next her, when convenient. Then go no contact. No big confrontation. No screaming at her. Just leave her life, live your life without her, and tell her to leave you alone. Click. Delete from phone. Block texts.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 04:02 AM
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No, you misunderstand: he is telling you to brush off the question with that simple answer. If pressed further after that answer, you simply and causally look at the person for a moment without saying anything (that silence and look sends a message), and then politely change the topic. No one will ever bring it up again. If they do, rinse and repeat. Eventually people will drop it.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 01:48 PM
6

The oneitis continues....
/r/askTRP02/12/15 01:16 AM
9

If and when my ex gf reaches out to contact me, should I ghost her forever or add her as a plate? <Phone rings> You: Hello? ex-GF: Hey..... You: Who is this? ex-GF: Me. [Name] You: Hey Cindy. Glad you called. We still on tonight? ex-GF: What? This is [name]. You: Who? ex-GF: [NAME!] You: Uh....oh, yeah, [name]. Huh. So why are you calling me? ex-GF: I wondered how you were doing, and... You: Oh, Cindy is calling in. I have to go. Later. <click>
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:01 AM
4

Except back then, the strength of a nation depended in great degree to the number of young boys it could put on a battlefield, so a decline in children was unacceptable and therefore not tolerated. Wait until people wake up to the fact that unmarried, fewer men means less productive societies, and fewer "gimmedat" opportunities for everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 11:39 PM
1

"Feeling sick" could be Chad asked her out. She didn't want to see anyone that night. Her buddy wanted to hang. Who knows? But remember that if a woman wants to be alone with you, she will take every opportunity to make that happen. If she does not take such opportunities as they come up, she is not interested.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 05:50 PM
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Schedule some group activity with fun people. Invite her. If she comes, she may still be interested. If she does not come, just tell her that you are done inviting someone who neither attends nor reciprocates. Then next.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 05:47 PM
2

No contact.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 10:43 PM
5

Oh, sure. Something something metabolism something something insulin something something glandular. /s No power in the universe can keep you fat if you consume 1500 calories amday while expending 1700 in activity. That deficit has to come from reserves; there is no second option. The fact that some troll is saying otherwise is bizarre, but not worth responding to.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 09:35 PM
5

And cheap roids; those guys are retaining water and bloating on their cycles.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 09:29 PM
1

Patriarchy, obviously. All those old boy networds are gagging to make MALE ethics scholars rich. But women? Nah.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 05:17 PM
2

she's studying ethics at uni Can't make this up
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:25 PM
8

It is not your responsibility to act in a way that makes her feelz good and warm. Focus on your work. Be polite, professional, and distant. Never be alone with her at work or elsewhere. Never discuss non-work matters. If she accuses you of being mean, deny it, and then exit the discussion.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 01:28 PM
26

just playing the waiting game now No, you are going out with other women and forgetting about this one. You are not waiting for squat; you are moving on, sincerely. No butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 07:04 PM
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Your only text back should have been "k", at most. Then when you encounter her or any of her friends from that point on, you are upbeat, friendly, on the move, and (this is important) AT NO POINT DO YOU GET DRAWN INTO DISCUSSING HER OR HER DRAMA. If she or anyone else tries to get you to "talk about things", you shrug, smile, and say, "Hey, nothing to discuss. I don't even think about it. Tom is over there, and I have to talk to him about washing ducks. Good to to see you. Keep in touch."
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:04 PM
2

My concern, is that this is trickle truth Of course it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 03:54 AM
0

They really are 2nd class citizens in society weither you admit it or not. Our nation's graveyards and prisons are not filled with ugly women, they are filled with young men in life's prime. When I form the line to shed tears for society's victims, ugly women will not be at the line's front.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 01:17 PM
5

she's got a kid and is probably at the wall. And she is still chasing Chad. smh Yeah, one to avoid, not woo.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:20 PM
5

but having been on a dry spell after my 'awakening' i'm kind of eager to get laid. Hence your pose here, wondering if you should capitulate to the "friends first" demands of this woman. She already established what kind of woman she is for the the other guy. She is just trying to raise her "price" with you, because she thinks you are lower SMV than the Chad who dumped her. Harsh, I know, but there it is. But you knew all that before you wrote a single thing here. You are trying to find some way …
/r/askTRP19/11/15 12:03 PM
3

What are some things high value people do that sets them apart? Offer more value to others than you expect from them. People notice, and want to be around you. Never lie. Never grab at the money. Never avoid difficult facts or circumstances arising from them; face the problem. Be loyal to those who reciprocate.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 02:42 AM
8

Does the red pill believe in love or is it just chemically induced pair-bonding between 2 transiently loyal individuals? Why do you see those as exclusive? They can be the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 02:09 AM
2

Exactly.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 07:38 PM
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Cook for people who are your guests, so they can have a good meal and a fine time. Who cares if it is attractive to women? You should know how to cook so you can eat excellent meals, and discern who is capable of making you excellent meals. Eating well is one of life's better experiences, and it is an experience to share with friends and family. You should know how to bring such experiences about. That is independent of whether women will appreciate it. If they do, great. If they do not, learn a…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 05:29 PM
4

In what way can I get her to stops? You cannot. What you need to do is stop thinking you are the one to address other people's problems. Your dad is like a spouse of an alcoholic or gambling addict, who enables the person who is a screw up. You cannot fix the screw up, and you cannot get the enabler to stop enabling. Mom and dad make their choices, and they need to deal with the consequences. All you can do is withdraw from the middle of it, minimize your dependence on them financially, and tell…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 04:24 PM
1

The more I think about that concept, the more fun it sounds.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:17 PM
1

AF BB. Do you even sidebar, bro? There is no why. It just is. Think of gravity. It just is for purposes of daily life. The why is not important, except to a small segment of interested scholars.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:31 PM
16

Open Marriage = letting your wife getting fucked by a bunch of other dudes. While still owing half your stuff and income for post-divorce lifestyle adjustments.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:10 AM
4

would you advise just removing her from social media? I would advise giving so little concern to her that you do not even bother to think about it, let alone do it. She is immaterial, and her Facebook actions are beneath your attention. What do you care at all about your "Friend" status with her, or her liking your posts. She is a squirrel moving about your front yard, while you sleep and go about your life. Immaterial to you.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 03:57 AM
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I would be interested to see a husband whose wife proposes an open marriage respond with, "Hey, great, let me know how much your lovers are going to contribute to the household bills. And now that we are 'open', I will be using some of our family's income to support my female lovers, who will need an apartment and other bills paid by me. I love this new idea of being open with the family's money, so I can find new female lovers." This is only a funny thought experiment, of course, but imagine th…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 07:38 PM
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if this is a red flag. Only insofar as she is your typical woman. Evidence, for this? This: She'd then respond that it's mostly platonic and she genuinely believes most of them have no sexual intent towards her She is pretending to not be doing precisely what she is doing: keeping her options open and available. Fine. She can play the dual strategy game; that is a woman's option. Just recognize that it makes her nothing special in terms of relationship material; she is like all the others out th…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 06:37 PM
3

If it's even close, And often when it is not. Seen it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 12:35 PM
2

What they'll do instead is try to force disclosure of it, so they know which men can be trapped into ambush pregnancies. Where I live, doctors keep insisting to speak to wives before they will perform a vasectomy on married men. I thought this was a urban myth, until first hand accounts from multiple men were told to me personally.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 12:34 PM
1

She goes against the double standard of us hating when girls wont sleep with US, and sleeping with bunches of other dudes. Does she? Where is she saying that?
/r/askTRP15/11/15 11:35 PM
2

I might call her in a few days Why? She said this: "shut up, you are a dick we arent seeing each other again" Seriously, why would you call that?
/r/askTRP15/11/15 09:42 PM
1

Soft next. Oh, and too many words and responses via text. "what are you looking for? cuz i dont just want hookups" "Meet me at Sea King for Sushi. 7:30. Great Sushi. Wear dress. Like you in a dress."
/r/askTRP15/11/15 09:11 PM
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Expect a loooooong trial period, where the FDA et al keep insisting that just a little more data is required. For safety's sake. And there will be nary a peep from the feminist left, which for decades screamed at how unfair it was that women bore the burden of birth control. Oddly, though, once no more delays are possible, and men have a 99.9% effective, REVERSIBLE means of birth control, I expect the same feminist left to suddenly grow very silent about the matter. They will likely not even und…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 08:01 PM
3

I recognize the sort of person he describes here. Hell, I met a lot worse than this sort of gal and guy. The sort of people described here are just plain old college town SJW saps, with their pipe cleaner arms, ratty tats, and wispy beards. Loads of them out there.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 09:49 PM
3

She simply let it slip that, to her, you are beta bux, and therefore, as we know, you always will be. There is not really much more to be said. If you are okay with that, so be it. If not, move on; there are plenty of other women out there.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 01:26 PM
5

I am looking for something LTR as a get a bit older Then stop asking out club girls.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 12:31 PM
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She likes having sex with tall, black basketball players. She cannot, however, get them to stick around. She is seeking you to stick around, while she continues to lust for tall, black basketball players. That says very little about you, except that she does not lust for you, because preferences. How do you proceed? Focus on your career, lift, eat right, sleep, socialize, etc. It is all there in the sidebar. Read it. Then go find a woman into guys like mobrowncheeks. Avoid women who straight up …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 12:29 PM
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her mom has been texting me Why is her mom involved in any way in this? That is some pretty bizarre stuff right there. Meet at Starbucks, to go over what, exactly? Terms of the break up? Nah. Just nah. She broke up with you. There you go. You are a free agent now. No need to have some talk about whatever the heck she thinks needs be chewed over. The rules of a break up are simple: you get to go look for a new person to have sex with. You owe her no explanations, no time, no concern, no time, no …
/r/askTRP07/11/15 10:20 PM
1

Nah, reading your post, I think you are pretty far gone too. Look at this incredibly stupid shit again: It doesn't matter that he was laying on the ground on his stomach with one hand up. In less than a second, he could have unholstered a firearm, turned around and shot the officer. If you really think this way, you are hopeless. What you write here is the sort of fantastical thinking that leads to any person being able to justify anything. Could that have happened? Yes. But it did not happen, a…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:24 PM
3

keeping his hands in close to his body and his body language is showing that he definitely isn't going to surrender unless he has to. Yeah, because getting electrocuted is not at all going to affect how his body flops about.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:19 PM
3

Assualt = full auto or semi auto. TIL that my hunting rifle is an "assault" rifle. Who knew? What is an "assault rifle" anyway?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:17 PM
7

Guy refuses to keep hands visible. He refused to keep his hands where she could see them, regardless of whether he verbally said he was complying. When someone is coursing electricity through you, let me know how well you are able to keep your body from curling into itself. The guy was laying down, convulsing, and as she keeps causing that convulsion, she is screaming incoherently. That guy's brain was operating far less effectively than hers, and she is essentially in a state of total panic, ju…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:11 PM
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so what percentage of the shock is he actually receiving? Yeah, he looked like a guy about to jump up and spin kick her. Good thing she went with the glock on his ass. /eyeroll Thanks for stopping by, officer.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:06 PM
1

Shutting her down is simple. You point out where she's not behaving like a decent or polite human being, where she's acting like a child. I had a belly full of ardent feminists in grad school. From experience, good luck with that notion. Sounds great in theory. In practice, this sort of "shutting her down" engagement precisely what they want: once you start saying they are not following social norms, you just handed them their prize. They are all about flouting social norms. This is essentially …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:18 PM
1

Ignoring the 5 year old brat is horrible parenting. Depends on whose brat it is. He is not her parent.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:13 PM
2

What should i do now? Try again...? You like getting treated like the third tier backup option? No? Then make other plans, and don't contact her again.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 04:50 PM
1

men have lower expectations of cleanliness compared to women. Women often live like pigs. You see their rooms or bathrooms, and you are simply repulsed.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:33 PM
1

Fair enough. You want to avoid doing that outside the family zone, though, especially in professional settings.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:32 PM
7

Am I reading this wrongly? Sounds like a gal pondering the wall is now seeking alpha bucks, from you. She is signalling her interest in your commitment, oddly to our eye, by throwing her options in your face (telling you about her wild times and current suitors), perhaps thinking preselection operates on men too. Not LTR material.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 02:06 PM
11

You need to report this to reddit admins. Yeah, justice will be forthcoming, forthwith. /s
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 02:00 PM
10

She was acting out like a 5 year old brat, and you noticed and engaged, which is what she wanted. She got her reinforcement: attention. Expect more of the same now. Next time, pretend like she is not even there, no matter what she says. And if her behavior becomes intolerable, simply stand up, thank everyone for the invite, but you have to go, since the evening is degrading into a farce, due to the cousin. Then exit. Don't stay when some dumbass decides to turn a social gathering into social act…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 01:53 PM
11

she did want his companionship Take away his bank account, and his companionship would be as appealing to her as rotten cabbage.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:05 PM
1

It is a strange world I just teleported into if someone taking your kids away from you is a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 01:42 PM
7

Don't go, and if it is a "Friend" who invited him to the same party you are going to, realize that person is no friend.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 01:39 PM
7

I assume they have some kind of connection with the judge If this is at all remotely true---and there is no way it is---you are a lucky man. The resulting civil rights violation lawsuit should pay off quite handsomely for you. Go hire even a mediocre lawyer, and get that shit overturned.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 12:13 AM
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The only reason you keep an unfaithful woman around is if you have young kids with her, and you are aware of the treatment you will receive in court as a father. Even then, it is usually better to end the relationship, however awful the loss of access to kids will be. The exception is when the mother is too weak-willed, and some neck-tattoo sporting jackhole will be hanging around the house as soon as you move out. But some woman you are dating? Done. Never speak to her again. A wife with whom y…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 05:20 PM
114

Your mistake was thinking those female roommates were friends. They are not. Never will be. Your second mistake was moving in and letting those women think you are anything other than a mysterious, aloof guy who pays rent but otherwise has little to do with them. The only way you can live with women who are not GFs is if you give off a complete and utter disinterest in them for nearly everything, including friendship. Failing that, most of the time you become the house eunuch, scorned as an asex…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 07:18 PM
6

Read constantly and broadly. Lots of history, economics, and foreign media sources. For fiction, stick to classic sci-fi from the canon authors like Clarke, Asimov, Heinlein, Herbert. Avoid internet chats, blogs, and pretty much all contemporary fiction. That is not reading. Avoid video games and comic con subcultures. Volunteer time at a place where you will be given some responsibility and treated like a full adult. Then act like one. Get and hold a retail job, so you can learn how to interact…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:57 AM
4

I'm tracking her on phone and nada. Burner phone. Duh.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 10:17 PM
18

Next. If she was into you, she would be wearing that outfit FOR you.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 10:12 PM
3

I would say ask her, but any answer you get might be full of crap. Better to move on to the next gal, see what happens. Never act unpleasant or unfriendly to the gal who blew you off. She is just a gal who was no longer interested. She did you no harm, so there is no reason to be angry or upset at her. Treat her like a gal you never dated, and enjoy her social company (or not) on that basis.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:25 PM
3

Go find another woman to have sex with. Stop thinking accepting some scraps offered by your ex is somehow "Red Pill" and alpha. It isn't.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:03 PM
3

Why wouldn't I talk to and be friends with the mother of my son? Talk to? Sure. Cooperate in parenting? Sure. Friends? Uh, she is not your friend. She is your ex wife, who likely switched her allegiance during the marriage, from what you say above. Friends are not ex wives who switch allegiances. Ex wives who switched allegiances are merely ex wives who switched allegiances. She is simply not friend material, at all. Never trust her. Never believe her. Engage with her like anyone else who has ha…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:58 PM
5

Insert Admiral Akbar gif.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:50 PM
2

Stare hard at them and their conduct. The question you need to think hard about is this, "Are they your friends, or hers?" Because your friends should be tending to say, "fuck off" to her in this situation, not worming around, trying to find ways to invite her to places where you will be. I would never invite my friend's ex over when I know he is going to be there, unless I cleared it with him first, or based on prior conduct, I knew it was 100% fine.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:44 PM
2

So how am i supposed to do in this situation not to come off as butthurt? Don't go. You are still too wound up and emotionally vulnerable to be around her. She will play with you like she has a laser pointer, and you are a cat. Then she will get bored, and having gotten her validation from your cringe-inducing need to interact with her, run back to Chad. You are self-selecting for the worst sort of orbiter role. More sidebar, more lifting, no contact with her. And those "friends" trying to get y…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:39 PM
17

Still damn good sex Compared to what, all the women you are NOT having sex with, because you are still entangled with your ex?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:33 PM
12

tl;dr: Still entangled with ex. Trying to hamster my oneitis as "testing my frame". Oneitis is strong in me.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:32 PM
3

Sounds like you don't want to have a study session with your ex. So don't. It sounds more like you want her to come over to have sex, which is not her plan. Sounds to me like you are setting yourself up to make an ass of yourself. I'll make 1 condition for her if she wanna spend time with me which is turning off her phone. If people are actually studying, phones are ignored, except for emergency calls. Also, if she pisses me off by mentioning her bf I'll leave immedietely. You sound like a 15 ye…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:18 PM
1

Also checked her phone (I'm so beta) she still texts an alpha ex when I told her it's a deal breaker. So break the deal. She did. Talk to a lawyer. Start making plans. To hell with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 04:13 PM
7

Be honest with yourself: she is no plate to you. She is a LDR. If she was a plate, you would not be so twisted up about things. Make your decisions with full knowledge of self. You might not know what others are thinking or doing, but at least know yourself.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:20 PM
2

They think their opinions and feelings are more real and weighty than fact. That is the horror of it. Of course, that is true for a good chunk of the men out there too.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 01:38 PM
2

What I see here is "Beta blah beta blah beta blah oneities blah bux blah orbiter blah." More sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:13 AM
8

Why are you fighting with her? If you are getting spun up by a woman and shouting at her, you have already lost. Never fight with 5 year olds, women, or the elderly. Ever. Listen, tell them you heard them, then do whatever the hell it is that you think is best. Don't fight. Just keep moving forward. Tell her to do whatever the hell she wants. Then go do whatever the hell you want, and next her until she stops being a pain in the ass.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 04:56 PM
14

I'm tempted to text the first girl to tell her since she didn't respond I made plans with another girl. Stop. That is junior high drama. Just move on. Gal blew you off. Blow her off in return, and stop with the nonsense. If the gal flakes, just go radio silent and move on. No need to try again.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 04:52 PM
9

Ill begin lifting seriously soon. Keep making those excuses. I am sure you will get results sooner that way.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 12:24 PM
2

Block. Delete. Ignore. You need to work harder at keeping her and her proxies from being able to contact you in any way.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 12:23 PM
20

As men, we can't truly understand what motivates a woman to do something like this. The whole point of this site sub is that we actually can, if we stop accepting the lies about the why.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 12:39 PM
148

If she found pictures of the car gifts, exotic trips, lavish dates, heartbreakingly romantic sonnets, and high status social soirées BF took the ex to,, but never her, she would understand. And talk about self esteem would not cut it with her.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 11:44 AM
6

dont forget that the "oh so great europe" is built on hundreds og years of colonalizing and slavery og Africa. Think a very long time about who taught you this, and what facts they provided. Now examine how well those nations did before and after Europeans left. Just think on it for a year, and do some examination of actual infrastructure building, life expectancies, governing practices, etc. You may find, as many have before, that colonizing by Europe is not the prime variable in bad outcomes f…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 04:24 PM
6

I am sure the philosophy professors were making their points even as the Khmer Rouge thugs were loading pistols and pressing them against tenured necks. Sentiments and six point postulate arguments are all fine and good, but men with swords don't pay much attention to them.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 04:20 PM
5

Bring a book. Read it the whole time. Say nothing at all, even if asked a question or someone challenges you for ignoring them. Nothing. Give them your attendance but do not make a sound. It will drive them nuts, but silence cannot be disruption, so they cannot punish you.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:00 AM
12

Does she seriously believe in what she is saying? Maybe. But the revulsion she will feel once you take her up on it will be far more real than her current belief that she is okay with it. Unless you have some other uber alpha thing going on that keeps you busy and high status---famous celeb, sports star, noted artist people fawn over, trust fund wealth---women expect you to be out slaying mastodons as a working stiff. Not lounging around, waiting for them to collect berries.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 09:05 PM
7

Your fiancée was brutally raped, and it is impacting your life plans. Quick! Post long, detailed accounts of it at the one subreddit sure to give MASSIVE amounts of SJW hugz and outreach BUT ONLY IF YOU STAY WITH HER! Which you do, of course. Massive upvotes and karma follow. /cue music Thing reads like a Lifetime Movie of the Week, not real life. I think the whole thing is some attention-seeking, lonely person's bid to Baron Munchhausen the hell out of Reddit. Hope I am right, otherwise sympath…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:14 PM
7

A low partner count doesn't make a woman somehow a good person or desirable wife https://www.youtube.com/watch?list=UUC3L8QaxqEGUiBC252GHy3w&feature=player_detailpage&v=khJlFvWGE7A#t=1230 Define "good". Because if good=lasting marriage, the data may not agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:52 PM
9

What do? Never, ever use that fucking moronic phrase again, that is what you do. I love her but feel like a chump knowing what I know. I feel like I'm too weak to leave her because she is successful and I am not Improve. You are going to be single again, so you might as well be improving now.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:54 PM
1

You are now having pretend conversations with her regarding a party 3 months from now that you will not attend. You really need to get a grip on yourself; you two might not even be seeing each other any longer after next week for all you know.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:50 PM
2

Of course you don't "call her out on it." What a laughable, contemptible waste of your time. She has done nothing wrong. You did: you let someone turn you into a chump. For her, it is her natural expectation that men will provide attention and support, even absent sex with said men. For you to challenge that notion would strike her as "creepy" or bizarre. Far better for your future to just walk away from any further contact. If she seeks you out, you are always "busy". Give her the polite intera…
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:46 PM
7

Mix of things, most likely. She is trying to show she is in demand, because women think that is going to kick in your competitive instinct. She thinks you actually GAF about her ex-BF's conduct towards her, because solipsism. She is shit-testing to see if she should slot you into BB (what, you think she would talk about her BF to Ryan Reynolds? lol Chad does not have to listen to stupid tales about pretend BFs living in Siberia). Double down on the IDGAF and start talking to other women, prefera…
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:55 AM
-4

GLO has t-shirts? I'm buying. Guy can post photos of his epic dumps and I won't complain.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:10 PM
10

Is it possible to actually really be in love with the woman you are with and still be able to use this concept? Where in the world did you get the idea that love and Red Pill are mutually exclusive? /r/marriedredpill is thataway-----> You will find a bunch of guys there who love their wives and think Red Pill makes both man and wife happier people in their relationships. See also Married Man's Sex Life by Athol Kay.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:07 PM
170

I cannot believe those young men are not working harder to make this society work for all the women out there. They need to man up! /s
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:42 PM
-1

"Only on Victoria Secret models...and some that could be in those catalogues."
/r/askTRP05/10/15 04:29 PM
2

Husband only marriage counselling sounds like a fucking goldmine if you'd be able to get the word out it is effective. It is called meeting the divorce attorney to plan the exit.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 02:26 PM
1

Why tell her anything? Just go about living your life and stop trying to milk this situation with her for more drama. You were the beta bux plan b. You exited the situation. STAY EXITED. Unless she sets up camp on your front step, why bother calling her? If she confronts you, you simply shrug and say, "It is not going to work out between us. Have a good life." There is no point explaining yourself. She will not accept the notion that you are not supposed to play beta bux until Scott or his equal…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 03:37 PM
2

Believe what you want. If you think there is some guy who actually is writing that as an account of his life, feel free. Me? I agree with the sentiments here. I don't think it is a woman writing it, though. I think it is a guy have a laugh. http://theothermccain.com/2015/07/20/is-the-male-feminist-cuckold-a-hoax/
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 02:47 PM
18

You are getting trolled. "Paulo". Think about it.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 11:34 AM
20

And that Maggie Gyllenhall thing is fucking weird. 37 is too old to be a 55 year old man's girlfriend? She probably didn't get the part of love interest because her face looks like a foot and she has the body of a donut-eating librarian. Rather than take a long look at her assets, she blames Hollywood misogyny. Yeah, right. Whatever. From now on, if the character is supposed to be presented as the GF of an attractive man, yeah, she is not going to get that part. Nor should she. She was miscast i…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 06:06 PM
7

This is like the guy getting up at the 12 step meeting, and stammering that he may have a problem, but he is not sure. Most likely you do have a problem if you find yourself at the 12 step meeting, wondering if you have a problem. The chorus here is to tell this guy, "Yeah, bub, you have a huge problem. Stale coffee is over there. Start telling your tale."
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 03:46 PM
2

Why even have a woman who can't really be a true companion anyway? Are you upset that your male friends cannot sing like Pavarotti? Do you find your father unacceptable because he cannot play middle linebacker for the Jets? The problem is not the women, the problem is your expectation of them. Stop expecting women to be other than what you can REALISTICALLY expect from them, and you will find your life much improved in regards to your relationships with women. How do you redefine intimacy in a p…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 03:43 PM
7

The oneities is strong in this one. By all means, continue to be her beta bux. The role is apparently to your liking.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 01:30 PM
2

I need to know what Iran, South Korea, Syria, Saudi Arabia and bumfuckistan have to say about this serious human rights crisis!
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 05:44 PM
1

Julius Caesar.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 09:30 PM
63

Males don’t deserve to live under the presumption of guilt any more than females deserve to live under the presumption of innocence. That is a concise statement carrying good rhetorical weight. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 06:09 PM
4

I'll leave the lecturing to Thucydides, Plutarch and Herodotus You say that like I didn't most likely read them long before you did. As long as we are measuring dicks, did you ever read Caesar in the original Latin? Give me a glorious death for a glorious state run by glorious men Good on you. Plenty of places in the world still offer you the chance to die young, screaming as your guts spill out of your abdomen. Me? I like penicillin, indoor plumbing, longevity, and weekends off.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 04:00 PM
10

Every single man starts out as below beta bucks. We rise from that station starting in early puberty. Some never get much past being that sexual nobody. Some guys are naturally gifted with looks, confidence, and social attributes that will help him achieve in life. Others get relatively nothing in that regard. All you can do is make the most of what you got from your genes and initial start in life.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:38 PM
2

I felt much worse at 19-24 than I did at 30. The emptiness fades, and if you engage in life fully, you will find your 30s are much better.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:14 PM
3

"[i]f thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee." --F. Nietzsche Once you accept as a reality what you are now recognizing about people, you need not dwell on it much. It is like death, inequality of talents, and physics: these are not things open to debate, or items to despair about. This is life, and must be accepted on the terms it comes with, not some wished-for other reality. So be valiant about your time, and enjoy what is offered. Try to make the most of what you ha…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:11 PM
8

You do realize that Sparta was a totalitarian state, complete with secret police, who brutally enslaved the helots and otherwise were complete assholes to other people, right? If you are into personal autonomy and freedom from state coercion, Sparta is about as praiseworthy as Germany, back when Germany was doing some rather unpleasant things.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:47 PM
22

To be fair, even fewer guys I meet would qualify for status as business partner or close friend, which are the only somewhat equivalent titles you would give to a guy. Making someone your wife involves giving to them your trust regarding money, social position, future plans, as well as the emotional connection. When people do not soberly consider just how well the person is going to be in all aspects of partnering, they make terrible mistakes. That is true whether you are buying a real estate bu…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:31 PM
17

Why is it such a big deal for them to conform to what everyone else does? Because to a woman, her social status among other women is heavily dependent on being able to obtain commitment from higher-status males. If she is only able to snag losers, or not even that, she is deemed lesser by her clique of friends. And that is death to women, being deemed the social runt of the group.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:21 PM
19

I might be just be her beta bucks If you think you might be the fish at the poker table, you definitely are the fish at the poker table.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:16 PM
43

This is such a brilliant and succinct explanation of how some (arguably most) women, simply aren't worthy of marriage. Out of 100 women I meet in a day or so, my guess is that 10% or less have enough character and self-discipline to be marriage material, and that is before you apply filters for looks. No, really. How many women do you know in your own life that you think are high quality enough people to give the title of wife to? Without even applying any test for looks. That is a big title, an…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:01 PM
8

"Keep dreaming dear, but make another backup plan."
/r/askTRP23/09/15 03:33 PM
20

Man. She slotted you for beta orbiter, and then put up a billboard to announce it to you. You did nothing wrong; she is just an impolite, self-absorbed mess, from the sounds of it. Just standing up and walking away was the most efficient way to handle what needed to be done: cut contact.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 04:26 PM
7

Now they all want to "catch up" and "see how I've been doing". Are any of them in any way useful professionally? If so, keep in touch with that one, without making him close in any way. As for the others, I would just say "No thanks, but I don't have time around then---too busy." No further explanation. If anyone presses,and won't drop it, then be frank and tell them that if they could not even bother to inform you about your SO banging other guys, you have absolutely zero confidence in their su…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 02:44 PM
8

I was pretty drunk (she wasn't) OMG, she was trying to relationship rape you, and get you to consent to a relationship when you were passed out! Call TwoXchromosomes to get some brigading in here to confirm this! Is she trying to get me to commit to her? Of course. But like most women, she is being indirect. Most likely, she wants you to desperately want to commit to her, even if she is blase about committing to you. Your wanting her will validate her immensely; she is relationship-worthy, which…
/r/askTRP19/09/15 01:29 PM
5

Usually the most effective ones go through 3-5 in a lifetime. That's a nice pile of cash. But yet, that same crew is always, always broke. Never saving, always spending.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:05 PM
22

Uh, yeah, you need to start laughing at yourself more. Right now you are taking yourself seriously, and that self-image is being hurt by the realization that you, like all other men, are entirely and completely replaceable. This woman's ability to move on and have fun after you is cutting at your own ego, because you are still measuring yourself according to women's estimation of you, specifically her estimation. Stop seeking to validate yourself via women and their reaction to you. Stop trying …
/r/askTRP18/09/15 02:00 PM
2

When you see her next time, it is a friendly nod, half-smile, "hello", and then ignore. No need to bother with her any longer. No need to be rude, but also no need to continue social connection.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 12:41 PM
1

If i have a girlfriend that was a slut in the past and doesn't want to do the same things with me as she did with former guys - is there even any hope for improvement? Read this. http://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:58 PM
5

Pay attention to any Tiger Beat hearthrob, and you will see that at some point, they try to take an "edgier", more masculine image as their second act. The overt sexuality is amped up, and the guy takes on a media-refined image of risky and dangerous unpredictability.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 03:00 PM
1

I told her I needed to speak to her. Man, you really need more sidebar reading. You keep jumping into her world, to play the role of dramatic foil for her and her needs. You need to speak to her? Need? Really? Even your language here sucks. You could not be more supplicating. No, really, you are telling her that at a particular time, you wish to present yourself for an audience with her highness. Never tell some social contact you need to speak to them. JUST GO FUCKING SPEAK TO THEM. Appointment…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:55 PM
1

You do not confront her, you let her come to you, and if she does you dismiss her. You do not "confront her". Why would you confront someone who does not matter to you? You don't seek out unimportant people in your life and confront them. You live your life and ignore them.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:08 PM
25

Young gals go through a phase where unthreatening male fantasy figures allow them to transition from asexual prepuberty to adult sexuality. Justin Bieber a few years ago, for example, is an archetype of this. He was an effeminate teen heartthrob who was so, so pretty and lacking in masculine traits. Girls could obsess over him from afar, and allow themselves to start transitioning into women who would, eventually, find such effeminate men off-putting, as they preferred more masculine men. Asian …
/r/askTRP17/09/15 02:06 PM
2

She doesn't seem to want that since she keeps trying to talk with me Said every beta orbiter, ever.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:00 PM
1

She said she needed about 2 weeks to do so. How many times do you think she made Chad wait for her number?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:00 PM
1

She is now insulting you to others. She is no friend, relative, or ally. You ignore her, and if she ever speaks to you again, you politely say "I am told you are badmouthing me to Sam, saying I am 'fake'. True?" She will lie and deny it. Whatever her response, simply nod, and very calmly say, "I don't think we are meant to be friends or anything like that. I wish you the best in life." /backturn She will hate you after that, because you stated the truth of the situation. Do this only if you face…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:56 PM
18

She proudly told me that her girlfriends see her as a girl with Christian values. Because she doesn't fuck around. She banged two guys while you were away. Count on it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:49 PM
3

Those men are motivated to be achieving and successful at their chosen endeavors because nature selected for such traits. Those traits may express themselves in particular specific contexts in certain ways, but the "programming" is there for all them to begin with. You also see gazelles run, jump, and leap in different directions, at different times, often for no other reason than gazelles like to run, jump, and leap. Nature programmed them to do that and do it well. So gazelles do it. Same with…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:05 PM
6

http://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:06 PM
18

Equal consideration?! To a random guy she banged?! To give some woman the title of wife, and only expect equal consideration to some guy she had a one night stand with, strikes me as selling a Ferrari for the price of some half-chewed chewing gum. A woman that wants to be your wife better treat you with so much more consideration, care, and attention than she did anyone else. And yes, that includes sexual adventurousness. If she was good to go with something for someone else, but not you? Big, b…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 06:01 PM
58

Just imagine what that relationships sub would say if you had previously jetted GFs around the world for exotic trips, provided them with superb housing, entertained them and their friends with exciting social opportunities, and provided monogamous commitment when asked. But now you had no interest in providing your wife with such benefits, since you now feel yourself to be a different person. DO you think that sub would endorse you withholding all those relationship benefits from your wife, aft…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 05:40 PM
9

At 2 am, GF tells me that she is going for clubbing with her single friend and her friends, single guy friend. You: Hmm. Have a good time. Let me know how the DJ was. I have to go now; they are here to pick me up. /click She is now a plate. Don't bother telling her, because she is not bothering to tell you that Chad is taking her clubbing tonight. You now start looking for her replacement, because she is not investing in your LTR. A woman into you is not going clubbing at 2 am, when she is away …
/r/askTRP15/09/15 09:37 PM
7

I do not want you to go because I do not want men hitting on you and asking you to dance with them. Fail. Right there. I do not want to lose her as we have been together for 4 years. She is already gone. Should I move on? She has.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 09:26 PM
7

Is the ultimate goal to go have one final lift, and not go back? Is the ultimate goal to have one last great time with friends, and not do it again? Is the ultimate goal of work to have one final project, and not do more after that? Reading things like the Red Pill---i.e., works that lay out the cold facts of life, so you can maintain your perspective---is not like chemotherapy or getting a bone set. It is, instead, simply one more thing in your life to help you progress through life. This place…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 01:30 PM
19

Her partner count is unimportant, they say. So unimportant that lying about it is understandable, insulting him for asking about is acceptable, and there is no situation where he is right. That is how unimportant the matter is. /s
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 12:37 PM
24

So...she was singing from the beta bux hymnbook now that alpha fux are out of the question. Learned her lesson, eh? Lol. If she was a hardbody 20 year old tomorrow morning, due to magic, what do you think she would do?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 02:37 AM
3

"Polygamy, when tried under modern democratic conditions, as by the Mormons, is wrecked by the revolt of the mass of inferior men who are condemned to celibacy by it; for the maternal instinct leads a woman to prefer a tenth share in a first rate man to the exclusive possession of a third rate one." -G. B. Shaw They never turned away from it; they just couldn't practice it openly and with the law's sanction. Now they can again. They will.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 02:38 AM
122

Uh, yeah, you might need to work on your LTR maintenance skills, because you pretty much blew that one apart. Telling an LTR you don't care about her, and that she is utterly and completely replaceable to you in mere minutes is a great way to end things. Letting them have a sense you have options, and that you select them for their good qualities, is what you want to develop. Stating what you said just hurts like hell, and makes them want to leave. Which is what she did. I would tell her to move…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 03:08 PM
2

I don't think people outside of family are capable of giving a crap about anyone but themselves. Welcome to one of life's most important lessons and truths. If you are very lucky, you can count on your close family (mother, father, siblings). That is very lucky. If you are exceptionally lucky beyond that, you may get one or two friends who, during your lifetime, you can count on them in the same way. But almost everyone outside of those scant few people are just coming and going, and you cannot …
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:19 PM
2

I just wish she still cared. Wouldn't you rather have a good life filled with great people who give a crap about you? Go looking for those people, and eject those who do not measure up. She did not measure up.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:07 PM
6

Jesus, why the hell do you guys all think there is some magic posture of Alpha that will make all in your presence sane and easy to deal with? Everyone gets shit from someone. And your princely alphaness will not always be the universal solvent to make it go away. Here, you are a patron of a business. That business does not want its customers harassed. So use the services you pay for. One of them is a manager who is supposed to maintain order. "Cashier! Excuse me! This woman is being disruptive …
/r/askTRP10/09/15 01:02 PM
6

I wish it were like this. So you want the drama too? Gawd, you really, really need to avoid ever seeing her again.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:57 PM
4

I think I just want an excuse to see her again. Absolutely do not reply. No contact.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:20 PM
3

Just write that junk off as your tuition in the school of life. Don't reply to her text. No contact. Radio silence. Delete and block. If you are so dumb as you think you need that worthless junk, fine, stop by to get it. But for the love of Zeus, do not go in. Stay outside, even if she invites you in. Going inside is a bad idea, and suggests you are willing to stay. You are not willing to stay. Just ask for your stuff and remain at the door. When she insists you talk, you reply, "About what?" Li…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 12:17 PM
2

Women cry when they know that they are wrong. They cry to manipulate and achieve a goal. They are not aware of it in that way, any more than they are aware of why Chad is hot and the nerd is not. Just programming. Crying reduces the male's rage and reaction, disarming him and calming him. Since it works, it still is deployed.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:09 AM
39

We agreed to split up to see other people. She was certainly at his door 5 minutes after getting her "screw Chad without consequence" hallpass. She got her sex, and then wanted to reinstate your "monogamy" at a later time of her choosing. Ultimate AFBB protocol, man. No way do you commit to that, ever. She is hopping on and off the carousel right in front of you, thinking that she can just switch the relationship switch on and off, to suit her mood. Unbelievable. Yet at the same time, her attitu…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 11:24 PM
3

Depends. If Susan is a deft player who actually is better at the work, and has a lot to teach subordinates, along with providing opportunity for subordinates, I would wait until later, if I was Joe. Then I would identify that specific action, and inform her that, despite her many excellent qualities, it rankles me when she does that. It makes me less effective, since others see me as inferior due to her dismissive approach. If I was a valuable employee, she would likely listen. If she didn't lis…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:52 PM
6

She seeks conflict with you like a junkie seeks a fix. Don't give conflict. When you take a position, make sure it is one you can hold on to no matter how many threats she throws about motion this or complaint that. Once she learns that you are careful in selecting your fights, and only take ones that you can win, and that you will hold to your position, she will eventually stop the stupid crap. At the same time, see her as you would your five year old: when she starts in with the bullshit and w…
/r/askTRP02/09/15 07:23 PM
19

They love the idea of yoga, not its practice. in their minds, being into yoga, even if only in theory, makes them calmer, thoughtful, fit and soulful. The fact that they only went 6-7 times, two years ago, is not important. What is important is they are "into yoga", and thus can claim it in their ad, vaguely suggesting to men that the ad-placer is fit, soulful, etc. Much like guys will tell you they lift, do martial arts, ride motorcycles, etc., but don't belong to a gym or have a bike at presen…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 04:34 PM
3

He goes 8 hours a week. 2 hours x 4 days. I consider that just a modest amount, frankly. My guess is that it takes two hours out of his day to travel there, workout, return, and transition. Not that he is actually working out for two hours. Total workout time is likely 50-60 minutes, which is no big deal at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:52 PM
36

If you just let most people talk, and not interrupt them much, while superficially accepting all that they say and not arguing (e.g., thoughtful head nods, placid facial expression), they will pretty much tell you all you need to know about them. At the same time, do not disclose what you are thinking or your view. This post is a reflection of that tendency. With no one there to provide the writer feedback or criticism, they said what was on their mind and what their goals are.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:45 PM
3

One night when we were getting into bed together (literally getting into the bed), the guy texted her and said he was leaving a bar nearby, so she decided to go down and say hi. /facepalm
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:46 PM
14

I just remembered my gf suggesting a threesome when we were at a party ~2 years ago. How the hell does that sort of thing just pass on by, to be remembered much later? If you are some sort of wilder couple, who are down for pretty much anything, and threesomes were a common, acceptable thing to you guys, uh, okay. I guess I could see it as a comment to forget. But if you are in a traditional monogamous dating relationship, and your GF drunkenly suggests a threesome with some other guy, who she k…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:44 PM
164

Posted at three different subs that are suspiciously not friendly to the red pill sub, I note. Whoever that troll is, he needs to be less obvious if he wants to really get things stirred up. I would encourage him to not bother with such antics; better to spend time improving himself and adding to the lives of those around you, rather than just annoy others. That latter activity is what bratty kids do.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:28 PM
2

People will respond "AWALT!", but frankly, she sounds like a bit of an outlier. She went full hypergamy with sirens and bells wailing, whereas most women are able to keep it a little more on the down low than she did.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 03:53 PM
2

The thing is that other women like me until I open my mouth and they realize that I have no game. Where are you meeting these woman and what are their values? Because you might want to start examining what kind of women you are interacting with.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 02:59 PM
0

Meh. Whatever, No rule is absolute. If she goes out of her way to make it up to you with a cool date, which she pays for, it is not like you suddenly got issued a Beta Bitch Society Membership card. Most likely the gal will not take the initiative, because she is already focused on another guy she is more taken with.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 02:57 PM
6

Still, I can’t seem to get over her. You already have gotten over her, by seeing her for what she is. Like food that is rotted, she repulses you. But you are now just unable to get over having paid for rotted food. You have no interest in eating it, yet you can have deep remorse at having purchased the rotted food. In short, you are just mad at yourself for having wasted your commitment on a woman unworthy of you. You don't want her rottenness back. Stop beating yourself up for your mistake, and…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 02:51 PM
1

Question is what should I do with her? Nothing. Let her contact you. If she does contact you, say in a friendly but direct way that if she wants to see you again, she has to plan the next date, because she has flaked too many times in the past. She is on probation and you will not put forth further effort until she demonstrates interest via effort. If she ever flakes again, next her hard with "Leave me alone."
/r/askTRP31/08/15 01:32 PM
5

Edward Gibbon is considered the person who first addressed the topic with true rigor. Most people cannot read his work, though, because it is just too much. His work is a formidable read. You might want to start with something a bit less intimidating. The Great Courses website likely has some historians whose online lectures would address the topic. The free "History of Rome" podcast was a decent podcast of the entirety of Rome's history. You can find it on iTunes. In the end, there are plenty o…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 10:05 PM
-2

Ignore it. Talk about things you find interesting. Demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:46 PM
2

Tell them you have something you need to attend to. Then leave.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:24 AM
2

So, she is blowing you off, and you are here asking what exactly? Whether getting blown off results in you moving on? Have you not been reading the sidebar? Of course you stop making any effort to stay in contact. And any attempt by her is met with a frosty "what?" Sort of response, followed by "too busy". Then nothing.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 10:33 PM
12

She wants to get her "Good Person" merit badge. She thinks sending a text saying "sorry" is a big step in that direction. This is all about her, not you. She is just another 21st century jackass who thinks her 2 minutes of texting is enough to absolve her of months of being a shit to you. It doesn't, of course, but since she has no real interest in making amends, this is her way of convincing herself she did make amends. There is no hope for her sort. She is so self-absorbed, she thinks her path…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 04:51 PM
97

You can often request a paternity test, depending on the local laws. Note that, gentlemen: often. Not always. Pretty much says it all right there.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:18 PM
3

The test I apply in life regarding any talking head on any topic is the person can bring either entertaining color commentary or deep analytical insight to the discussion. If they cannot do that, I don't want to hear their yob open up. I am not into ESPN, so I have no concerns about that particular network. Network seems pretty damn cowed by the SJW crowd, though, so I am not going to start watching it now.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 03:29 PM
2

If you have the ability, just post a towing enforcement sign. Then have her towed until she learns the rule: don't park there.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 06:11 PM
-2

There's a greater amount of luck, and risk to that. Most programmers are not at that level that you described, and only a very small minority will reach that the level you described Luck? Fuck's sake, man, people call success "luck" all the time, because they have not bothered to spend any time understanding it, let alone pursuing it. Most people are too busy building up credit card debt, wasting their time in dumb jobs that lead nowhere, and otherwise squandering opportunity. And when they look…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 07:11 PM
1

it is not just a matter of knowing the law but also interpreting it Even more important in high-end problem solving is the cagey understanding of human motivations.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 06:56 PM
3

You don't build an expensive AI to replace a waiter or a clerk at a store that you only pay minimum wage. Fail. That is exactly who you create an AI app to replace. The work is not so subjectively dependent upon judgement and human artisanal input, AND there are many, many more independent transactions to automate at the clerk level than higher end professional services.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 06:55 PM
2

If you ever lose your job in your 50s, you're practically finished. In your 50s, you should be creating enough value via developed professional skills and, equally important, access to financial and human capital networks, that people are seeking you out. If you are still just working someone else's files in your 50s, yeah, you are probably screwed, because you are likely not so highly skilled that someone 20 years younger cannot replace you.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 06:53 PM
1

Doctors don't have to be constantly re-educating themselves nearly as much as programmers do. Name the specialty, for each. There is a material difference between an oncologist versus a foot doctor. There is a material difference between a high end security consultant programmer and an app writer.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 06:51 PM
12

Plates are like male orbiters: they think if they just keep at it, they will get the prize. In the case of guys, they deposit those emotional tokens like a LTR boyfriend would, hoping to get sex. Women, by contrast, deposit sex tokens, thinking they will get a commitment. And yeah, in both cases, sometimes it really does work. Since everyone thinks they are special, and the lottery ticket they just bought is surely going to pay off, people keep doing it.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:22 PM
1

I don't even want to say what it's so obviously lacking in the dating site sample that skews the rating so low because you'll probably get butthurt. You likely overestimate your keyboard prowess, internet warrior; I am pretty stable and secure regarding my intellectual chops.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:55 PM
155

It is amusing how "society" (i.e., men) is accused of holding women to unrealistic beauty standards due to porn or magazines. Then something like this comes out, which shows women literally cannot accept male physical attractiveness until you are pretty much talking about a few standard deviations out there on the right. Meanwhile, men are actually still able to sort out beauty along a bell curve for women (even if they still chase the hotties). Now, I think this stuff is hardwired, so there is …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:52 PM
9

She texts a lot of bs about how she's sorry Block her. Never see another text from her again. How do I get over the fact that she chose someone else other than me? By moving on with life and having a good one. Read the sidebar. And of course, go no contact, ever. Someone who you thought you knew, and shared so many experiences with ... doesn't give a shit about you. I feel worthless Sigh. Briffaults Law. She found what she thinks is a better deal, so she swung. AWALT Stop seeking your sense of w…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 08:45 PM
12

but once they are like 18-20, anytime a woman hurts him, it's his fault and he should've known better. No sympathy. There is a difference between being sympathetic and being realistic. I may sympathize with a cancer patient's plight, but I am not going to tell him that the cancer is not real, or that he does not have to fight it with chemo. When you reach your teens as a male, the rules change, and the rules apply to you now with some pretty serious force behind the new rules. Failure to appreci…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:38 PM
94

Women "get it" instantly when they find out their current boyfriend/husband lavished gifts and exotic trips on the last LTR the man had, and proudly took the former LTR home to the parents, but now won't bother texting the new GF back the same day, let alone gifts, trips, and parental introductions. They get the hurt and resentment real quick in that instance. Of course, they claim that it is "different", because opinion. But then, men and women value different actions in a different relative we…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:36 PM
136

men have no idea what it's like to live as a woman Actually, childhood provides some interesting clues to men as to how women go through life. Trouble for many men is they don't understand that upon reaching adulthood, they are now forbidden to enter that societal zone reserved for children and adult women. Instead, men are held strictly accountable for not only their own actions, but the actions of those around them. Don't be in the wrong place, young men, at the wrong time. Don't hang around t…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:32 PM
3

She was cheating on her LDR with me for a month before they broke up, red flag, I just recently found this out. Guess you know what will happen when she thinks she has a chance at commitment from a higher SMV fellow. I would ignore and focus on my own life, and keep one eye on her attitude towards the other guy. In your early 20s, your focus is on health, career, professional contacts, good friends, good times. Gals are a supplement to that. If she seems too interested in another guy, move on. S…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 02:28 PM
-1

If she brings it up again, how can I respond? "Look, you brought this up a couple of times in an indirect way. Let me answer you directly: I have no plans on finding another woman. If that is not enough reassurance, feel free to come along, and hang out in the hotel room for 3 weeks while I work each day until I am tired and boring. Then I will come back to the room, veg out for an hour, and go to bed, after eating some rubbery food. Business travel sucks. And I am not looking forward to it. The…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 01:45 PM
2

it's clear to me that the interviewer is a diehard feminist, bringing up issues of consent, asking her if her drinking was for some sort of feminist empowerment because she could drink at the same pace as men, etc NPR's Terry Gross as SJW-ideological diehard? The hell you say! /s
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:37 PM
5

America is only two days of missed meals away from anarchy.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 02:39 PM
57

You are making me beat our daughter! You are so evil!
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:04 AM
8

No one wins in this sub full of black and white toddlers. As opposed to the nuanced, complex vision you have regarding your fellow humans. it would appear, at least from this post.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:03 AM
89

They brag about it to their friends. But not their parents, coworkers, mentors, etc. Wonder why...wonder why.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 12:58 AM
9

The only reason to continue going is to actually start introducing them to philosophy, not the crap they got in their local community college Women and Thought seminar. But honestly, it is likely just casting the proverbial pearls to swine, so don't expect any of them to actually treasure what they see in the great books.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:32 PM
33

Contemporary sociologists would call that their sunday book club. Social science is now a wasteland of PC idiocy.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:16 PM
9

Have some fun at the next meeting. Say to the group you know everyone has got through Plato's accounts of Socrates and done their prison sentence reading Aristotle (god, smart man, but his writing....yuck). Everyone will nod and chuckle, even though almost none of them have actually read anything by either of those two guys, and likely barely know who the fuck Socrates was. (You better know those three guys, or GTFO out of Red Pill until you do, BTW.) Then suggest them to consider reading Marcus…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:14 PM
45

If this is what we are now concerned about, our ancestors in their graves must be weeping tears of joy as how awesome their great-great-great etc. grand daughters' lives are compared to their own prior, short lives of toil, blood, and tears.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:19 PM
38

So, what are their views on Roman versions of stoic philosophy? Thoreau? Just kidding! I know those prats are not actually reading any philosophy, apart from warmed over marxist twaddle from some recent vintage feminist studies dumbass. Why in the world would you waste 10 seconds talking to people like that? Apart from the passing "Jo Jo the Dog-Face Boy" circus freakshow aspect of it all, it holds absolutely no appeal to most people, I would think.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:16 PM
1

"Stop bothering me"
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:04 PM
1

Delete. Go find new women.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 02:21 PM
1

Why "appear" apathetic? Be apathetic, because you no longer date her. If she is an unfaithful, deceitful woman, and you are not into that, then dump her and go no contact. Move on with your life and quit letting her poor behavior dictate your (re)actions. She should be like the other 3.5 billion women on this planet: not impacting you in a negative way.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:44 AM
2

So tomorrow I'm gonna shake his hand when I meet him and try to break it with force, while staring the fucker out. Capital idea. /eyeroll Then what? No, really. Then what. Be older than 5 and think about what happens next. Either he properly beats you blue and black, you get charged with whatever, or you look like a complete moron when he does any number of commonly-known techniques to escape your Superman grip. It is not on him to maintain your relationship, that is on her. She did not maintain…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:31 AM
4

Well, that and she used these two weeks to fuck Chad. Now that Chad is ignoring her calls, she is trying to land soft with bb.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 12:24 PM
24

Don't apologize. Don't explain. Don't complain. Say little, if she demands some sort of speech, simply look at her and say, "I went to a strip bar. You dumped me for it. I don't see what there is to talk about unless you are asking me to take you back. If you are asking me to take you back, you need to stop letting your shitty friends dictate your decisions in regards to me." /straight face, DGAF
/r/askTRP30/07/15 08:10 PM
1

Problem is when women are corned they WILL throw accusations without much worry of consequence. Yes, women may. And the only thing you can do is refuse to date women who make serious allegations but do not address such allegations with serious responses.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 02:52 PM
111

She has been raped. First off, there is no rule that says you have to stay with a gal of 4 months who got raped. Not one. So if she is now a mess, and you don't want to date a mess, wish her the best, and move on. No need to become her therapist or steady rock as she navigates this problem in her life. Yeah, I am serious. She is under no obligation to stay with you if you got beat up outside a bar, lost your job, and had your mom die all in the same day. If she didn't want to date you because yo…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:33 PM
21

since they're all too ready to use this as 'evidence of abuse'. These days, simply making people live with the consequences of their decisions, and withdrawing further toleration of their bullshit is labeled "controlling" and abusive. The sense of entitlement to receive from others at least as much as you got yesterday is a real problem for people, it seems. Everyone thinks what they have now is what they are supposed to keep getting, no matter how bad they screw up. Strange world.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:57 PM
15

So her story to the cops about the husband's blackmail would be "He believed my lies about blackmail and rape, and told me to report it. When I refused, he stopped believing my lies and told me to get out, so I reported it, to convince him my lies were true." That is not going to qualify as a crime of blackmail by husband. Still a crime on her part, though. My guess is the wife would claim husband was abusive, and that led her to make the false police report. Police most likely would not take th…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:54 PM
474

Smart play is to pick up the phone, hand it to her and say, "You call the police and report this as blackmail and rape. Immediately. No middle ground. I will dial the police number for you." When she puts the phone back down, you say, "Get out, liar." Edit: bothered to read the r/ relationships thread. Fake story is my bet.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:45 PM
16

You should just treat her like a woman whose company you mildly enjoy, and who is part of your extended social group. But extend no other relationship or friend privileges to her. She is not a friend. She is not a confidante. You do no favors for her. No giving of rides or help with some problem. You are always too busy at the time she asks. She always gets a polite, friendly response to direct statements to you that are polite and friendly. No interaction via text or social media, beyond social…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 02:48 PM
10

, I might as well tell her she's a pussy ass liar, Right? No. You are not 5. Just ghost.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 04:10 AM
100

I agree. Troll succeeded, of course, when the comments exploded into a fireworks display of shaming the husband as "immature" and "insecure" etc. The further posts by OP that she was "forced" into the wilder sex only serves to egg on the Two X hivemind comments. My guess is some red pill aficionado cooked it up for lolz. I don't encourage that, and I think it is a waste of time, but whatever. That said, for further lolz, I confess I would love someone to post there that SHE found a book from her…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 08:55 PM
423

Don't worry, r/ sex and r/ relationships will there to tell her future husband it is all his fault when his wife is sexually bored and does not bother having sex with him after the kid shows up. Later, he will make Facebook posts declaring his love for his wife, before there is an eventual divorce. The guy will start to clue in when he sees his alimony and child support payments go towards paying off some paroled, tatted-up bad boy's Harley, when that guy moves into his old house with his ex, an…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 04:23 PM
3

What makes you think her SMV is high? Money and fame do not make men hard.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:25 PM
6

Oh, that part I would totally believe. A married woman of any attractiveness above cave troll would find plenty of guys from 18-65 willing to have sex with her. A woman would have zero difficulty finding plenty of interest in that regard. "Paolo" would just add her to the rotation, for a bit of passing fun.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 05:31 PM
21

"Paolo?" Seriously? That alone made me start laughing. The rest quickly then identifies as a knowing nod to places like this. The thing is what someone here would write as satire. My bet is this is just that, and not a true first person account.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 02:41 PM
4

Reddit would tell you to commmmmmunicate your feelings about this. That you should have a calm, adult conversation about your expectations and how her actions did not meet them, etc. Me? I would just inform her the night before or the day of that, "Hey, I decided to go do X, instead. You have fun with your buddies. " No complaining, no explaining. Be upbeat. If she demands more, be polite and just say "I don't want to hang out with a bunch of gals on a gals' night out. Not my scene." When she st…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 02:15 PM
3

If you are not into hanging out with 4 gals on a gals' night out, the night before, just beg off, tell her to go with her friends, and then go do whatever you find interesting. Then think long and hard whether this gal is really LTR worthy. Because a LTR should STILL be more thrilled at spending time with you on a special night than she is inviting along all her buddies to act as fifth wheels to the special night. Put another way, is she really still into you, or is she comfortable? Too comforta…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:54 PM
3

My guess is his (the ex BF's) version of this story is way different, and likely more believable.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:28 AM
2

what do you think? No kids? Hire a lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 07:04 PM
65

If a kid showed up at a woman's house, having been left at the hospital years ago by the birth mother, my guess is those same posters would not be insisting that "mom" open up her checkbook without restraint. Nah. There would be plenty of empathizing with the "mom" who made a painful decision--likely because of a man, of course--to leave the child, and that was something we cannot judge her about. Because obviously the "mom" only did that because of some external force making her do so. And now …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:13 PM
26

"Read your texts to that guy. Don't bother coming around any longer. We are done." Tell any friend who asks exactly what happened. Calmly, quietly, and without any adjectives. Make any such conversation brief before you change the topic, saying "Enough talk about yesterday's news." Then move on to upbeat topics. Ghost protocol her after that. No calls, texts, visits, emails. Any friend who tries to plead her case is met with a stoney "I made my decision about her. You need to respect that." Then…
/r/askTRP20/07/15 12:52 PM
5

They are the ones seeking the most attention. Are they the ones most likely to have sex with you? That is a question you need to ponder. Because if they are interested only in the top 1% of guys, and you don't qualify, your question is entirely theoretical.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 03:13 PM
3

Are there any books that I should tell Jane to read that would improve her marriage and her sex life? Jane? Nah. But John might want to try these Athol Kay's Married Man's Sex Life blog. The book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" I've also heard the "Sex God Method" clued some guys into the apparent fact that women frequently have an unvoiced preference for guys sex with who will dominate in bed. Never read it, though.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 04:53 PM
29

tl;dr: When dealing with anyone, including women, past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. Sex included. No 100% accurate predictor exists, however.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 04:24 PM
1

Look up false choice as a rhetorical device. One can assume a lot more than the binary world you present. For example, one could assume the board are idiots, and stupidly thought a "businesswoman" with Pao's record--i.e., no apparent history of directly managing a profitable business line--was the person to hire in this instance. My question is not about assumption, though, it is asking if anyone knows more about Pao's history.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:09 PM
1

Did she make it profitable, though? Because she claims to be a businesswoman. Okay. I am unsure, however, if she even did what her first job is: make more money in revenue than she spends in expenses. I am unsure if she ever did that anywhere where she had front-line responsibility for revenue and expenses. Yet people keep acting as though she is a star.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 12:47 PM
2

Serious question: did she make Reddit profitable? If no, then she should be fired. If yes, she may still be worthy of firing if she is pissing off the staff so much that good staff are leaving and bad staff are burrowing in deeper.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 11:29 AM
12

You want a lover. You asked him if he wanted the job. He said no. For your purposes, that answer stands until he expressly says otherwise. Right now you should stop hanging around him and go find someone who does want the job of being your lover. This guy is just farting around, and that is apparently not what you want. Go get what you want from a guy eager to provide it.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 05:22 PM
18

They have it for men they perceive as higher value than other options, and for them it is way more powerful. If you are the fat kid playing tuba in the band, rather than the quarterback? Well, that handicap will never, ever get triggered to benefit you, unless you make some big changes.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 02:38 PM
67

Women just have to be pretty. They don't even have to be that.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 01:36 PM
1

I would add that if they don't respond with enthusiasm, QUIT CALLING THEM or otherwise communicating with them. You are not looking for female friends, you are looking for sex partners. Those who do not want to be your sex partners are not friends. They are people who didn't want to have sex with you.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:54 PM
1

I suddenly become their best friend. No, you REMAIN a man she does not want to have sex with. So move on and stop spending any more time or attention on women who want to soak up your male attention despite not having sex with you.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:52 PM
12

It is not "abandoning" anyone to break up with a person who has not spoken to you for the better part of a year and is having sex with other people. It is having a lick of sense.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:50 PM
8

Or just say, "I am sorry. It is over. I wish you the best." And leave.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:49 PM
77

The therapist then pipes in with some logic about her taking back her sexuality since she was attacked and how this wasn't cheating in the same sense of cheating." Uh, okay. Doesn't mean BF has to bother with her any longer, though. Always remember: she is not entitled to a relationship; it always and every time depends on her behavior whether you are going to grant her the privilege of being in one with you.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:47 PM
11

the reality is that rape is very, very common. Did I just wander into a sophomore class in Women's Studies? You and I have different definitions of either "very, very" or "common". Go look at the actual crime stats, and tell me it is very, very common. (BTW, the 1 in 5 is a lie, lie, lie.)
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:44 PM
7

Just ignore it utterly, as if she had said nothing, and then get dressed to leave. When she says, "What, oh, now you are leaving, because I said ____?" Say, "Hmmm? Nah, I'm leaving to go to the gym/work/get coffee/whatever." Totally bored and bland look on your face. Then go do whatever it is you needed to do. Any time she says stupid things like that to wear you down, spend less time with her in the 48 hours after she says it. She will quickly associate saying stupid things that wear you down w…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 04:40 PM
1

They are way better at lying than you think. If they want it to be the truth at that particular time, it is not a lie, to them at least. People keep thinking women feel the same way about a lie that men do. In my experience, they don't.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:46 PM
2

If your workplace replicates the school environment--i.e, do this task, this way, for this end result, repeat---yes, I am unsurprised by this outcome. There are plenty of jobs where that sort of activity is sought and rewarded. Those jobs are not, however, what makes money for the company, most of the time. Those are jobs far away from the money, like HR, law, accounting, etc. Sales and product creation are where the money is made, and the skills to do that work are not typically obtained by sol…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 10:22 PM
1

how do you think these girls will respond to me? Who gives a damn? You should be talking to new women at the social event, who don't know you from before.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 09:19 PM
5

Next. Arrange a date with another woman on Friday, and still another on Saturday. Spend Sunday with the more fun gal of those two dates. At that point, you will be much less concerned about some gal who is, in essence, putting you into the "reserve" pile, while she goes out this weekend to assess her ability to pull something better. Yeah, she really is doing that, most likely, even if she claims otherwise.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 01:30 PM
5

The first lesbian or homosexual guy that adopted a kid with their former spouse and then during divorce proceedings gets treated like a straight guy would get treated in such a situation will go absolutely ape-shit, and insist that discrimination is the cause for the judge's ruling. Some will likely nod in agreement, and insist that no fair judge would do such things. Five to ten years later, once it finally settles in among the glitterati that, no, straight guys have been getting this treatment…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 06:37 PM
14

That plus the gulags for those who still speak out.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:31 PM
53

i think it's sad really when you genuinely live in a place where you even have to CONSIDER arming and protecting yourself, this should not be happening All people everywhere throughout recorded history and before recorded history genuinely lived in places where they had to arm and protect themselves. Anyone who thinks otherwise is deluding themselves by assuming you can rely on other people to protect you and treat you well. Protip: humans exploit each other, and often only the threat of violenc…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 05:06 PM
1

Men don't run away from their problems. Neither do they fail to cut their losses when in a bad situation.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 10:10 PM
1

Always is in government and academia, where the revenue is mandatory and going bankrupt an impossibility.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 10:09 PM
1

If they are not alphas, no one is.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 02:58 PM
41

And the women likely haaaaaaaate him when they find out they just gave it up to a guy late on his credit card payment, rather than flush with cash...which they hoped to tap. For the gals, no matter how much they enjoyed the time with him at the time, the memory of being scammed will make them hate him, and insist the time together was crap. Weird how that works, but you see it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:42 PM
3

They suck at doing actual work. Heh. Saw what you did there. More seriously, yeah, gals who worked in the sex trades get used to not having to actually work, and generally stick to trading on their looks and sex appeal long, long after the expiration date. They just don't know what it means to be a working stiff (no pun), because they always and every time used their looks to make their lives easier.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:56 PM
2

Too afraid to ask? /facepalm This is not asking her why she is doing this or that. This is you saying, "Dear, if you want him to leave you alone, this is how you do it." Then explain to her what I wrote above. If in response to your simple prescription, she starts to look for ways to address this that are not direct, clear, and otherwise ending of the situation, just say bluntly: "Why are you not going to do the obvious thing to solve this problem?" My guess is if she is not going to do the obvi…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:36 PM
2

Your GF needs to tell her friends that if the guy is going, to not invite her, and they invite her, to not invite the guy. She should explain precisely what the problem is, and not apologize or back off her stance. If she loses all her friends over it, so be it; they are not her friends, they are his friends, and she needs to find that out. If she finds herself where he is, she says nothing to him. If he approaches her, she says, "Stay away from me." No smiles, no banter. If he touches her again…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:18 PM
24

Women lose sexual attraction, emotional attachment, and social connection in that order. Divorce is the last step, not the first. And when attraction is lost, the reason offered---if any is given---is likely not the real one. No woman can say, "He lost his job." Nope, it has to be a more socially acceptable reason, even in her own mind. That way she get "attagirls" from the amen chorus in her life.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:28 PM
132

Without kids in the picture, why the hell didn't he just get up, leave the room and never speak to her ever again? It would be my instant reaction. I just don't understand people. Absent the threat of taking your kids away, there is simply no reason to spend another second with such a person. Take half my stuff? Fine. I can buy more and make more money. Make me pay alimony? Meh. I will move to another land or go all cash or even do time for failure to pay. Don't care. But spend another second wi…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:39 AM
27

I don't get it, does this actually work on anyone? Yes. Most guys, in fact. We call it typical Blue Pill acceptance of the lies fed to guys.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 03:52 PM
123

Men who don't have a partner often go without experiencing meaningful touch for years, even decades. We work hard through public service announcements to tell people who feel suicidal that they are not alone, but in all honesty, how could you feel anything but utterly alone under those conditions? Dang. That one strikes me as one of those Sudden Clarity moments about what I saw in many men over the years. ♂
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 03:06 PM
5

"I'm fine. Want to hit [fun location] with me on Friday? 9 pm. Meet there." If she evades or saying anything other than "yes", next, unless she proposes a counter.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 02:57 PM
6

Just start lifting. Learn how to form the alphabet before wondering if you should be a poet or a journalist.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 12:07 PM
2

Next time, angrily kick her ass out. Watch the effect.
/r/askTRP31/05/15 12:04 PM
3

Do you want to hear from someone else that life is often not pleasant? You will get fired by stupid bosses for stupid reasons, and it will jack up your life. You will get old, sick, and scared of death when time marches forward. Women can be empty, vapid creatures who, via various legal mores currently in force, can completely wreck your life for a decade or two. On a whim. All true. But no one ever appreciates the guy who points such things out.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 09:04 PM
1

Make sure the salesmen follow this, when pitching company product. After all, we cannot have the guy salesmen bringing in more revenue than the gal ones! Make sure the purchasing department does no negotiating with vendors for better pricing--again, we cannot have the guys obtaining lower cost products for the company than the gals! Oh ,wait, I see. You want the guys to deploy their talents on behalf of the company, but not themselves. Got it.... To each to their need, from each according to the…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 08:55 PM
7

I'm really supposed to stand here and pretend like I can't count the dimples in your buttcheeks and just look around like nothing's going on? If the woman does not find you attractive, yes. That is precisely what you are supposed to do, according to their view of things.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:50 AM
42

Every young woman you see around you is having sex with someone this weekend. Every. one. If she is not at your place, she is at someone else's place.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:42 AM
25

Spend less time speaking with her. Do not avoid her, but never seek her out. When she says things, look at her and nod, to indicate you heard her. If you don't agree, say so quietly and directly, and then do what you think is best. If you do agree, say so, and give a simple "thanks." Do not gossip with her. Do not confide in her. Do not speak of her to others. If others bring her up, whether positive or negative, say nothing about her and change the topic. If she starts pulling some drama, just …
/r/askTRP28/05/15 01:39 AM
85

That was a few months ago. ... but recently she's been sending me weepy texts about wanting to give things another chance So the guy who was sexing her just dumped her. She made her swing, but the branch broke. Hire a lawyer. Tell her you want to be unmarried, without rancor but without payments to ex. Follow lawyer's advice where it makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:28 AM
5

You still care too much. Your post reeks of not indifference, but deep and intense emotional need and turmoil. Until her request is beneath your notice, don't do anything. Just keep keeping on. The only time you would ever bother to reconnect is when you could not possibly care less about her, the past, or what she did. And at that point, you would not bother to reconnect.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:44 PM
1

/r/deadbedrooms Your story will be familiar over there...
/r/askTRP27/05/15 12:32 AM
11

Not sure, I think we'll receive more clarification as time passes. Ha ha...sure we will, sure we will.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:00 PM
3

So sex up her mom instead. Kidding...kind of...
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 02:31 AM
1

She has many connections all over the city Does this mean she knows a bunch of guys who want to sex her, and will do her small favors in the hopes of that happening? Because those are not connections. And those guys will generally not help you much at all.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:36 PM
1

so it wasn't technically 100% cheating Please. Apparently, sex with third parties and indifference to honesty is on her menu of items to select from while in a relationship with you. It is, therefore, perfectly fair if you reciprocate such treatment. Dump her soon, though. Unhealthy to hang out with people like her for long.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:31 PM
31

How pissed would such women be if they found out their current BF/hubby had taken a hot 22 year old on a world cruise and bought her a Ferrari. But now? Pffft. Trip to Mickey D's and a bus ticket for you, sweetie! They would flip shit and be screaming with rage. Why? Because the gals would---rightly---interpret the guy's interest in her as lower than the hottie 22 year old received. If you started a thread as a guy asking, "Should I lie about how well I treated my prior gals, because I don't wan…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:24 PM
7

I clearly lost frame and I'm clearly still in the anger stage here /trp. How would you guys have handled it? After 20 seconds of them annoying you, inform them they can get their act together, or you are going to have security escort them out for bothering the staff. You are there to serve drinks to customers. If someone is squatting at the bar, harassing you and impeding the flow of people and serving them drinks, they are working against your interest and the bar owner's interests. Isolate the…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 04:52 PM
4

People give me that stuff; I have no idea what it is. Now that I know it apparently represents real cash, I will hoard it and never pass it along. It is nice to be able to just view threads in the VIP mode, so there is that.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 10:28 PM
1

Courts don't want to get into the fact inquiry necessary to establish infidelity and who went first. They have better things to do.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:16 PM
14

affairs are way less about sex, and a lot more about desire What a load of crap. So why don't the two people sit around in the hotel bar, just desiring each other? Why do they move upstairs to have sex in a room, repeatedly? This is a lot of non-gender specific talk about something that, for men, is quite visceral. When a woman turns away from her avowed partner to sex up another man that act is saying what 100,000 words will not cover up: AF for one, BB for the other. She has taken the opportun…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 03:19 PM
7

Those guys are a hoot. "Safe space." Those people are living in the Western Culture bubble, and think they need a "safe space." Their whole life is a safe space.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 12:11 PM
2

You need to make it clear her whole life hangs above the abyss, at her doing. There will be no reconciliation. She may not be able to fix it even at this point.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 04:04 AM
7

Again, wild internet guess is right now she is still assessing how much fun she will have versus how secure her finances will be. If she thinks there are Good Times waiting post-divorce and her financial life will be okay (perhaps even a daydream of a potential reconciliation with you someday down the road, because, you know, soulmate...after a few flings, of course), then katy bar the door, because she will be out and the ugliness ensues. She is likely not getting the real lowdown on divorced l…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:00 AM
3

Hooo boy. Those are some serious stakes right there. Get yourself a deep-thinking lawyer and stay very frosty about things. Any idea what is going on in her head? My wild internet guess is some friend(s) of hers took the divorce plunge and want company. Sound right? It is odd how 40ish women will so often move in packs when it comes to divorce. Only later do they figure out how crappy it is out there to be 40+, single, with kids.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:36 AM
2

Ages? Kids?
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:24 AM
6

So some idiot is preemptively banning people from some backwater internet chat forum. /sipbeer /turnpage
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 09:53 PM
1

Drywall. Minimal tools required, and you can learn the skills needed fairly quickly. Just make sure you know how to keep the wall flat and the seams from showing through the finished product. Advertise in Craigslist, Angie's List, and by leaving business cards/flyers everywhere you go. If you get any good at it, you will get referrals from others. Then start hiring people to do the actual work, while you take the calls, cost the job, ec. Run it all off the books, like the illegals do. Write pape…
/r/askTRP21/05/15 01:35 PM
2

Tell me what you do, and I'll give you an outside view of your field, and show you how nonsensical things like this are. Sometimes the most trenchant observations come from those not getting their paycheck from the process. What, you think those Dachau guards were the most astute observers about the situation? Rats, Godwin....<poof>
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 12:22 PM
7

Why are you still seeing her? That is likely why you have the following issue: How do I stop this? Stop comparing me to him? The shitty part is, In my mind I always come out on the low end.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 02:30 PM
1

Accepting the SMV curve and the wall is particularly harsh for women. Just wait until they find out about death...
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:04 PM
14

She: is a knockout. Intelligent and classy 9/10. He: On the surface, kind of a creepy looking guy. 5/10 in looks, With this as the background, the rest of the post reads much differently than if he was a 10/10 stud. I don't think I need to explain why, right?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:33 PM
11

Probably the safest large group of people who ever lived are upper middle class females in western societies. Somehow, they got it in their heads that they face extraordinary risks, relative to someone else in our society. The RELATIVE rate of safety of such people is never examined, only statistics showing a lack of PERFECT safety are provided, as though someone somewhere can actually expect such a thing. Thus the astounding achievement of western culture---the heavenly relative safety and pred…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:26 PM
6

You need to start standing up for yourself and stating clearly that you see what they are doing when they mistreat you. Identify the specific actions as and when they do it. Tell them, "That statement right there. You are treating me poorly and unfairly when you do that. Stop doing that." When they deny what they are doing (and they will), you simply reply, "I am not going to debate it. I stated what I see as your poor treatment of me. You can either modify your conduct from now on, or continue …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:18 PM
262

"unsafe" They keep using that word, but I don't think it means what they think it means...
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:27 PM
1

I would tell J he has 48 hours to tell S what is going on. Then you will confirm with S the conversation has occurred, including details. Then stop being friends with J, since he clearly has insufficient character and loyalty to earn the status of friend.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 03:23 PM
3

Who has the value and who has the dread? Because you seem to be the one exhibiting concern here about the status of your relationship with her. Seems to me that she is the one with the IDGAF attitude, not you. If she is actually choosing to be seen socially with LMV guys at parties, and is indifferent to you leaving her at the party, that is pretty much the definition of DGAF about you and her connection to you. If she is a LTR, I think that is going to be over soon. If she is a plate, don't exp…
/r/askTRP08/05/15 03:21 PM
6

The ex does not exist to him. Or shouldn't. Why bother trying to affect her mindset in any way?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:11 AM
-22

Think ostrich hiding its head in the sand and calling it self-improvement.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:06 AM
4

Guys, when people tell you partner counts don't matter, just think "herpes". I honestly don't know how to feel. Relieved. Bullet avoided. Good for her for telling you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 12:31 PM
2

University is a job. Treat it like one. Monday through Friday is work time. You get up, shower, eat, go to work. Even if you do not have class until 11 am, you are out the door at 8 am, heading to go study at the library. Lunch. Then back to work. No class until 2 pm? Study. Dinner. Study an hour or two each night after dinner. Then, around 7-8 pm or so, relax by hanging with people. Avoid television and video games. Those are time sinks. Weekends are for fun. Reduce your studying on Saturday an…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 12:22 PM
3

Let me know when you win the National Book Award, genius.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 07:39 PM
1

Dear King Tommen, first of his name: Your wife and her brother are part of a very powerful clan who are much better and able at politics than you and your mother Cersei are. You need to get your mother back to Casterly Rock, and you need to start recognizing that in the Game of Thrones, you win, or die. But then, no one wins at the Game of Thrones...that is the joke. Your "father" figured that one out. So did Ned Stark, Lord Janos, your grandfather. Etc. Anyway, best of luck. You seem like a nic…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 12:50 PM
11

She's having thoughts / fantasy's of cheating on you
/r/askTRP05/05/15 12:42 PM
7

so i think i'm gonna text her "it's too late now, you lost the train" or something like that No. Just stop it. Quit trying to keep the drama rolling. Just move on. It does not sound like you could date her now either, because you seem a bit too pissed and upset about things. You need to start getting that under wraps too.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 02:29 PM
1

Take classes while in service. Start chipping away at the college credit mountain while you have all that dead time. DON'T be one of the guys who buys a new truck, hits the bars, and gets all Living it Up while pulling pay. And yeah, if you have your act together, college will be easier. You can consider even joining a frat when you enroll there, if you want to instantly have a social network. Also seek out veterans' groups on campus. Again, instant social network. Those things help. At 23, you …
/r/askTRP01/05/15 12:30 PM
2

how do I do Vegas the TRP way? Go to Belize.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 09:13 PM
2

Spend less time with your frat. And when you do, be the guy who comes in for the good times, and then fades when the drama begins. Don't take sides. Don't be identified in a clique. Focus more on studies, outside activities that will develop your career, lifting, social networks, etc. When brothers start gossiping, change the topic. Do not participate in gossip, do not listen to it. If they won't quit, state directly, "Hey, I have to bounce. Hope you guys work this out. You should speak to him a…
/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:05 PM
14

I dunno. But check your own conduct first. You still slim, not fatting out? You still eating right, sleeping, going out on your own with friends, staying interesting? Or are you going all "relaxed fit" khakis and antique shopping with her mother? It is not so much about dread game as it is not turning into Sam Sadass, and wondering why she is not attracted to Sam Sadass. It is like those women who gain 30 pounds after getting into a relationship and then wonder why their boyfriends are not inter…
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:51 PM
40

Gawd. More passive misdirection, trying to make you jump through hoops blindfolded, in order to obtain assurance that she holds the whip hand. Don't play that game, OP. She is experiencing a drop in her level of sexual interest, for whatever reason. Rather than just acknowledge that this is going on in her head, and HER addressing HER loss of interest, she is running the contemporary script that HER libido is something you must keep alight. So it must be something you are doing wrong right now. …
/r/askTRP27/04/15 04:22 PM
1

"8 pm my place. Bring da movies."
/r/askTRP26/04/15 12:54 AM
5

When you see her at the 10 year class reunion, try not to have any feelings about her at all by then, either anger or pity. She is just doing what women like her do. You need to just keep motoring on in life, improving.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 01:03 PM
2

she will end up making another beta out of an alpha and I'll make her a plate Still dreaming of reconciliation, I see, but calling it something else. Keep working on accepting the reality of just how badly she treated you. Based on what you say above, she treated you very badly. Accordingly, she should never reenter your life, even as a plate/FWB/whatever. She is just bad news, and you eject bad news from your life. Too risky to keep such women around in any manner.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:52 PM
11

Look, if you are breaking balls in a joking way, but cannot take people giving you the business in response, you need to either stop breaking balls or learn to take it in response. I am assuming, though, that you are doing your teasing/joking a socially adroit way, while she is not. Because frankly, if you cannot discern the difference, you have bigger problems. So, to your question, but i feel there are intermediary steps. We've been friends for 5 years, being "done" with her without even letti…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 01:17 PM
27

For the love of Zeus, how many times do people have to hear this: if some person--especially a woman you are NOT dating--is bad mouthing you in a social setting, you are @%$@#* done with them. Yes, they are sabotaging you. Yes, it is hostile. And yes, they know EXACTLY what they are doing. What, you see them bad mouthing the boss, or the boss' boss?! NO! They are bad mouthing YOU, because they can, and because want to put you lower on the social scale, and that is how they do it. And let me gues…
/r/askTRP23/04/15 12:41 PM
3

Too many people think buying airline tickets, a North Face clothing ensemble, and staying in hostels makes you a more enlightened, worldly person. It can have that effect, I suppose. It can also be just a rum run with a bigger bill and longer bender time involved. If someone is citing their "traveling" as part of who they are within seconds of meeting them, I strongly presume they have very little else to commend themselves. Moreover, as I noted, buying airline tickets and walking around cities …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:35 PM
8

Anyone want to bet she was shopping on the Upper West Side or some similar locale in London or LA? Yeah, $29 bucks won't go far in those high-priced neighborhoods. I would be interested to see what $29 gets you in Missoula. Also, is anyone seriously going to argue that poor Americans are going hungry? Anyone notice anything about Americans in the past decades? Hint: almost no Americans look like they are going hungry, based on very, very easy to observe body shapes....
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:40 PM
2

Why do you think feminist's scream about Evo Psych and try to make people believe its "Junk science" A feminist scholar calling Evo Psych junk science is like a fortune-teller calling Vegas odds-makers a bunch of charlatans. Sure, the latter may not be a hard science, but consider the source of the complaint.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:24 PM
11

OLD people in society want domesticated males to produce their comfortable polyester stretch pants and otherwise pay the bills and keep the lawns green. (Young females are born domesticated, so no need to worry about them.) YOUNG people, especially men, want to be young, and not have to pay for old people's shit. The old people are currently winning. Age and treachery winning over youth and enthusiasm once again.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:19 PM
14

Love to see the cross examination on that accusation.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:41 AM
141

Make sure you show buddies the text and tell the story, so word gets around about her. Watch her eyes melt in rage when she hears that you.....told people the truth about her.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:04 AM
12

Legally.... What followed after that was internet nonsense, not law.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 01:30 AM
1

Go back and consider the insertion of the word "like" in those sentences. Those actors are used as beauty archetypes.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 05:52 PM
33

How many of those fat models lust for a short man with a body like Jack Black? How many of those fat models and designers lust for a tall man with a body like Ryan Reynolds? But I am sure they will be happy to sex up the paunchy short guys, to show how they are breaking with norms regarding beauty. Etc. /s
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 09:01 PM
5

Asking gals who see you as an orbiter to set you up is like asking the wolf to watch your sheep: the outcome will be the exact opposite of what you hope for, and it is not the fault of the wolf. Those women will make sure you do not get any other woman. They will instead actually make sure you do not. Women want their orbiters unsexed and single. That is how they keep them in orbit.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:51 PM
2

Just do the fade....if they get angry and call you on it, be nice and say, "Nah, totally not blowing you off. I am just real busy." Then keep fading... There is zero need to or profit in telling them you are finally aware of your beta orbiter status and thus ending it. Just pull yourself from their orbit, silent and quiet.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 09:49 PM
3

At the end of the day if your calories in > calories out, you're going to be fat. This is physics and chemistry. No one is immune to the fundamental laws of the universe, including fat people. If you consume fewer calories than you burn, you will lose weight. Physics and chemistry.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:37 PM
31

Most likely she wants to reset the relationship back onto a long term relationship narrative, where you two woo each other and put off sex until your love has blah blah blah. Somewhere between that first night and now, she got it in her head that the way to catch a long term boyfriend is to deny him sex at first. So she is trying to go back to that. Just a guess.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 12:39 PM
1

This is like LITERALLY what a girl would do in this situation... And she will understand the message, as a result. What do you think dread game is all about? It is communicating to them in a way they get.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 10:21 PM
1

I said something like Me - That's really inappropriate. I don't appreciate comments like this. No reaction is proper response, or dismissive joke, since you were just sitting there in bed. She does it in a group, when others are listening? Again, say nothing and continue on as though nothing was said, or say dryly, "Get his number, single gal." Then go distant and distracted for the evening, giving her zero indications of connection. Don't ever explain why, but she will know. By the end of the e…
/r/askTRP31/03/15 09:55 PM
11

I didn't feel it was time to throw out all our kinks in the wide open driving in the car the second time we met up. Wrong. Always warmly and smoothly encourage them to keep talking when they start opening up about their sexual preferences and history.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:52 PM
1

men just as reluctant to date someone ABOVE him? I doubt men would turn down shacking up with a horny Scarlett Johansson because her status is too high.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 04:39 PM
1

44% of female physicians were married to fellow physicians And the other 56% are married to high status men or not married. You will not meet a female doctor married to a garbage man. Not happening.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 04:36 PM
5

Nice to live in a leafy suburb in America...
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 08:03 PM
1

Change the topic to something else you find interesting, like redirecting a kid's attention away from whatever is making them act out.
/r/askTRP26/03/15 07:31 PM
1

how am I a orbiter? Because if she wanted sex from you, it would be happening. She doesn't even want KISSES from you. Orbiter status.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 05:17 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 04:11 PM
2

First off, the nose picking thing is either the most brilliant troll toss-away line, or you need to get some help regarding your touch of aspergers'. Moving on to the rest, you are trying way, way too hard to make her happy and love you. You spent this whole post simpering about how she is not appreciative enough of your loving, tender blah blah blah. Only at the end of your post do you finally consider, for a moment, that perhaps she finds your efforts unattractive, despite what all those movie…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:33 PM
2

She needs to report his conduct to her supervisor at work, and then consider a restraining order if he ever does anything similar ever again. You need to stop it with the Captain America crap. This is her issue to resolve via the obvious and readily available remedies of reporting his over-the-top antics. If she is not going to do that, she is not LTR material.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 03:22 PM
4

If I see her at a party, maybe see if I can get some sex then dip back out Good lord. If you see her at a party, your thinking should not be you try to wheedle some sex out of her. You should be having a good time, meeting other people, enjoying life. She is just another person you know at that party, and not some focus of hope and longing.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 03:18 PM
4

She has been sexing some other guy for at least a year, and you get a text. And on that basis, you are getting your hopes up? For what, to sign up as her beta orbiter? Or her attempt to branch swing back to you, if the current guy is not working out? /slap Wake. up.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 03:17 PM
13

Hello reddit cuckold fantasists and urban mythology.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 12:36 AM
12

And remember: MMA fighting is much different from bar brawls. Bar brawls are usually first attacker wins (in the sense of damage done), and there is not much time before it turns into a scrum. Key thing to remember about bar fights is the winner's prize if often criminal charges. But the loser's prize is often dental work. If things are looking ugly, be the winner, just have a good explanation for why you put your elblow across the guy's jaw. A man digging his hand into your pocket is committing…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 01:21 PM
8

You were too scared to put an elbow across the jawline of a guy in no defensive position and standing right next to you? Your problem is not you need more training. Your problem is 100% mental.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 01:05 PM
2

Women only become wasps when you give them the ability to blow apart your life. Up to that point, they are just women. It is a man who gives over to a woman that power to blow the man apart that makes problems. Don't do that. It is hard, I know, because culture and the law are all slanted in ways to essentially force that circumstance upon you, but don't do that.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:59 PM
11

she simply never mentioned it Because doing so would have resulted in a dumping, as she likely understood from knowing him. That is not being honest about who you are, that is hiding what you have done, in order to avoid consequences. People who feel guilt or shame do that, not proud, independent women secure in their sexuality, etc., etc. Look, she can bang whoever she wants. And he can wife (or unwife) whoever he wants. And neither have to explain themselves to others. So she is just seeing th…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:30 PM
11

Why would you hate women, just for being women? They can be quite wonderful people to have in your life. But you must understand the set of assumptions and approaches towards life that women will carry with them. Those assumptions and approaches likely differ from yours in some very key ways. Expecting them to think and act precisely in the ways you would, or would like to, is going to be detrimental to you, in many situations. So stop putting that set of expectations on them. That is your fault…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:19 PM
5

If a girl enjoy(ed) sex and wasn't looking for a relationship during her youth, does that mean she cannot/shouldn't have a family? Stop it with the strawman/absolutist crap. You are no Plato, and this is not how you do that Socratic Dialogue stuff. But you should know that women with higher partner counts tend to experience a higher divorce rate.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:10 PM
12

Would you really leave your loved one (yeah, some people end up together with a person they care about. Weird, uh?) just because she/he had a 'crazy' period of their life? Tell me what actions they engaged in, and I will let you know. Trying to just say "crazy" in a hand-waving means of avoidance and obfuscation, and I doubt anyone can really say. If you are saying that a girl is not allowed to have fun in her youth, does the same apply to a guy? People can sex whomever they want. And other peop…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:08 PM
3

So, she tried to branch swing. Failed. Dog bites man.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:09 PM
10

DGAF. Next question...?
/r/askTRP20/03/15 01:37 AM
1

Think about it what does she have to offer besides being 'friends'? Exactly. What is she going to do? Come help him move? Hang out and watch the game with him? Play wing-woman and help him get some action from another gal at a party? Give him a ride to the airport when he flies out of town? Nope. She will do none of this. She will, however, call him when she needs a ride, someone to move her stuff, take her and her friends to the bar (and pay for a round or five), etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 02:18 PM
9

Move .... on....and....stop ...using...all...those...unnecessary. ..periods... She is not your friend. Quit orbiting.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:21 PM
44

Man, you are spending way too much time thinking about this one. To quote you, "Do what feels good." Stop overthinking this one.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 02:05 PM
23

Bu...bu...but the guy at that PUA seminar I paid for SAID I would be getting 9/10 models any day of the week, if I just followed his program. Are you saying that is not the case...? /shockedstare
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:14 AM
6

She is on her way out the door, but doesn't want to be mean about it, and (or) is trying to find the courage to end it. She probably wishes she could feel that way, but just doesn't. No reason to be mean or spiteful. It happens. Wish her the best, and move on.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 04:09 AM
3

Not worth the time you spent typing it out. Ignore. Continue on in life as you would otherwise.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 05:37 PM
6

I'm really concerned about how he will be doing in 5-10 years time. Stop. You need to be concerned about how you will be doing in 5-10 years time.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 11:20 PM
1

-I think I fucked up because I got drunk Don't get drunk on dates. Don't get your dates drunk. Having a drink is okay, getting drunk is stupid.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 12:57 PM
1

I definitely was ignoring her hoping for a confrontation Oneities without her even being your GF. You really need to work on things more.
/r/askTRP13/03/15 12:53 PM
1

That text was a huge mistake. Your conversations with a gal who tried to put you in orbit are always very short (60 seconds or less), completely superficial (hey, how are you, nice to see you again, gotta go!), and only accidental (i.e., bump into her somewhere, never initiate contact or respond to her reaching out via phone/text). There is no payoff in getting into conversations about why you won't orbit her, which is what that 15 minutes was about. There is no payoff in sending feeeeeeelings t…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 12:48 PM
41

Then go ice cold on her. Be utterly polite and professional, but your eyes are as dead and uninterested as Mike's in "Breaking Bad". You don't ask her any questions about her life. You don't respond to any questions about yours. She is just another person in the class. When she tries to engage with you, attend to whatever she asks that is class related, and anything else is, "We can talk about that later." When later comes, tell her you have an appointment you need to keep, so this will have to …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 01:23 PM
32

God, man, stop the simpering. Solution: stop giving her lessons and cut her out of your life. Completely. Don't give her the option, just cut her out of your life. No contact. "But, but, but...." you simper, and then provide excuses why you cannot? Then you are not serious about solving this problem. Come back when you are serious. Now I used to just have fun with the attention, but honestly, it is getting me too horny and I am starting to become jealous if she even talks to another guy. Why? If…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:38 PM
11

You just wrote a novel about some chick that rejected you. Read the sidebar again. And don't take that "final shot". There are literally BILLIONS of other options. You realize, I hope, that some other guy has been getting sex from her this whole time. Think about that. Now move on.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 01:09 AM
2

Ignore it. Change the topic to something you find interesting.
/r/askTRP12/03/15 01:05 AM
4

If you understand feminism as an attempt to replace prior religious myths with new ones, all they are up to makes a lot more sense.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:55 PM
2

Do what you want. She did, and then lied to you about it.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 01:34 PM
88

As you read this from the article, remember they are only talking about the top 10% or so of men. The rest are going hungry, sexually speaking, and don't control squat: After decades of feminism, Crouse noted that young men are now the ones who set the parameters for intimate relationships, and those increasingly do not include a wedding ring. “And I know the feminists just yell and scream if you say anything like this, but time was, girls set the cultural [mores], the standards, the parameters …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:39 AM
64

So much for "leaning in", I guess. Next up, men need to stop jumping so high and running so fast, so women can play in the NBA. We will call that athleticism display "narcissism", in order to pathologize normal male conduct in a competitive setting.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:02 PM
4

What percentage of a situation where a girl has mostly male friends is about the comfort/validation of having orbiters vs. repelling other females because of her toxicity? Don't overthink/intellectualize this issue. You got rejected by a particular gal. Period. I ended the conversation by generalizing her as "one of those kinds of girls who only has male friends." So in other words, you ended the conversation with a barb after she rejected you and friendzoned you? If so, don't do that. Don't thr…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 04:37 PM
4

Stop trying to make her into an honest, loyal woman. Either she is or she isn't. And her actions---not her words---will tell you if she is honest and loyal. So, what are her actions telling you? Ignore her words.
/r/askTRP09/03/15 01:06 AM
1

No. Contact. Ever.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 01:55 PM
1

Women would never, ever accept such conditions, as they would be expected to do all the garbage moving, cleaning, repairing, and other normal work performed by invisible males and post-wall females.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:04 PM
11

You could always just judge her based on her actions as you date her. /gasp!
/r/askTRP01/03/15 05:40 PM
6

All those betas working to keep this world up but they get shit on. They just want to keep seeing their kids more than twice a month and not live in a trailer while paying child support.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:20 AM
3

She will lose the weight when he walks out the door. Or when Paulo Thunderdick is her new "personal trainer".
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 03:17 AM
43

Marilyn was slim and smoking hot when she started. When she got fat, she was on the slide career-wise. People point to large, later period and say, "See!" Bullshit. Look at her Playboy shoot. Enough said.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:17 PM
26

Because no one gives a shit when lower class males get fucked. Or middle class. Or upper middle class. Only when apex men or women get screwed does it become imperative to change things.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 09:23 PM
2

The reason you gained weight is because you are not following the incredibly spartan workout and diet regime of a late-season wrestler. Almost no one can follow that regime who is not currently in mid-season competition mode. Your current body is likely much closer to the one you will have when you are not stressing it with the weight-cutting and 3 hour cardio-intense workouts. That said, your body is also likely "Calorie Hoarding" and making more fat than it otherwise would, since after being s…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 05:32 PM
2

She told him. /knowingnod
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:22 PM
12

If— BY RUDYARD KIPLING If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being hated, don’t give way to hating, And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise: If you can dream—and not make dreams your master; If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim; If you can meet with Tr…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 03:57 PM
1

And don't forget to LIFT! Seriously. Huge difference in my life.
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:40 PM
1

You are still focused on interactions with her. Get her out of your life. Just stop. Find another gal. Hell, find other GALS, and just stop it with this obsessive interest in her. Now you are living for chances to tell her off. I know guys like you. YEARS after breaking up with a woman, they are still all "@$%% that bitch! She blah blah blah." God, those guys are boring. Seriously. Boring people who never get past something. Don't be that guy. Laugh about it instead. Think of her as the gal who …
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:30 PM
2

Stop talking to her at all. Just stop. Treat her like someone you don't particularly like, but to whom you are polite, when you must be together. She sounds like just a vapid, flighty gal who used you for validation. Your fault she succeeded. The fact that you are here simpering in 750 word essays about her tells you everything you need to know about how you have not, in fact, moved on. So move on. Quit talking to her. At all. When she comes to your social setting, because she is friends with ot…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 10:16 PM
1

I'm not allowed to give legal advice If you live in China, who the hell is going to stop you? The Iowa Bar Association? lol
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 09:42 PM
2

but gather evidence of her infidelity No fault. Courts don't give a damn.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 05:20 PM
35

We got into swinging 3 years ago (yes, I know...). Worse - it was only her doing the swinging. I was never into it and never did anything with another woman. Not swinging. Your wife is having sex with other guys. You are paying the bills. Of course you divorce her. You are already ruined financially. It is only divorce that will provide you the fresh start.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 04:49 PM
19

My favorite thing to try on girls who have beta orbiters they consider "friends" is to ask them a few basic question about them that any friend should know. "What does he want to do with his life? What's his favorite food? What are his hobbies? What's his favorite movie?" 75% will get them all wrong, the other 25% get one or two. I used to hate having my RP beliefs confirmed as I was still clinging to hope that not AWALT, but now it's just funny. Try this on anyone who claims someone is importan…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 01:39 PM
14

Just because you age, that does not make you smarter, more interesting, more educated, etc. People don't seem to understand how much daily work must go into becoming more anything.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 01:28 PM
6

Insert "/s" at the end of my comment, and it should be clear what I am actually saying.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:26 AM
13

Courts don't give a shit in America. Have you guys not learned anything yet about no fault divorce?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 01:32 AM
48

If she cheats, it is his fault anyway, so he deserves it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 12:46 AM
-3

This is the third or fourth post in a few days about this. Moderators, what is up with this?
/r/askTRP23/02/15 12:44 AM
17

You did the right thing. Move on.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 03:30 AM
11

<whoosh> Right past you, eh? The point is that there is almost no circumstance where the good professor would have said to a MAN facing her circumstances, "Yeah, give her a good punch to the mouth while she is sleeping; cheaters deserve it."
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:13 PM
3

"$"
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:56 AM
14

Do you think doing her hw will help me fuck her? /facepalm
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:51 AM
3

Even if he is having sex with her, the response he should give is still no.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:46 AM
2

Why in the world would you do some person's homework for them? Is she paying you? Has she saved the life of a family member? The request is over the top. I cannot imagine asking some person, even my SO, to do coursework for me. Someone who asked me had better be someone I owe much to. Otherwise, they are likely to get "GFY" in response. The only exception I would make is for professional contact development, where I am making a long term investment in a relationship in a business setting. Even t…
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:45 AM
6

"No. I have a life."
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:39 AM
8

Your "GF" has unilaterally decided to end your sexual relationship. To you, she is now what we call an acquaintance. How much time do you spend worrying about why an acquaintance does not have sex with you? Why are you spending time trying to figure this out? Whatever her reason, you should be shrugging and looking for a woman who wants to be the full GF, not just an acquaintance.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 02:36 AM
3

"Kissed". Is that what they call sex in multiple locations over a few weeks? Who knew? My guess: He dumped her, and she is trying to grab her old branch, rather than be single.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 10:17 PM
24

I would not bother saying anything. Let him learn. But if you want to go the full Captain Save a Beta, there are two courses: Route 1. Lay it out straight and point out exact instances of her conduct and tell him he is an idiot. General statements of her activity are not useful. Instead, say, "you remember when you did X, and she did Y? Yeah, that is what I am talking about. And how about when she did A, and you found out later B?" Then tell her she is a mooch and a tease, and that she should cu…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 06:45 PM
0

When the drill sergeant is coating your face in his spittle, screaming at your for your stupidity, that is not him losing frame. That is him scrubbing away the dumb. Same here.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 09:20 PM
2

After all, do you find decent people to be in the majority anymore? Define decency and I could answer. Most people are safe to be around, and many consider that decent. By that measure, I suppose most people are decent. If you mean people of value, substance and integrity, those people are in short supply, relative to the overall population.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:09 PM
26

If you have no one who will help you out in a jam, despite having met tens of thousands of people in your life, that likely is not a coincidence. Likely, you screwed over so many people, that no one wants to help you out. Think about it, guys. How many people have you met since you were 5-6 years old? And in that time, if you have not kept any of them as close enough to you to call on them for help, who is likely the problem there? Because nearly all those tens of thousands of people have someon…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 01:25 PM
5

Wait for her to finish her insults then when she allows me to leave I can? Yes. Pull out your phone. Start recording. Say nothing. Go see lawyer. Rinse, repeat. Never, ever, ever take the bait. The WHOLE system is designed to punish you for taking the bait. You are currently taking the bait.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 09:24 PM
11

You are an idiot. All your tough guy posturing and yelling is giving her all that she needs to wring your neck in the coming legal battles. You need to get your ass to a lawyer. Listen to his or her advice. Write him or her a check, and start doing this the correct way. You are clearly unable to understand that your ex is playing a longer game than you, and is winning right now.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:49 PM
69

That is cult shit right there.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:39 PM
113

I never followed instructions like that. Don't. You are not a cow to be ordered about. If challenged, look bored, stare at them without expression and say, "Leave me alone. I don't want to play your game."
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:39 PM
363

I often think you guys need to start quietly recording this stuff and posting it online for mockery and review. Anonymously. The same professors who take this stuff and themselves so seriously, and claim to want to "spread the message," will have nuclear meltdowns once their nonsense is opened up to a wider audience to get the ridicule it deserves. Universities will claim you have to take it down. Feminists will talk about how you are triggering their rape culture triggers, etc. But the real eff…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:36 PM
3

We all fall madly in love with the first gal who boinked us even remotely well. Biology, yo. The only issue is whether that lasts 5 minutes or 5 decades.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:30 PM
15

After the first 7 or 8 gals come and go, you will stop it with the teenage imprinting stuff. Right now, since this is all new, your endorphin-soaked pleasure-seeking brain is telling you Venus has come from her temple to bestow blessing upon you. Date a few more women, and you will come to see her has just a gal. Nothing more. in the meantime, stop putting it on a pedestal, and recognize that it is the endorphins talking, not love.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:28 PM
19

Consider that, someday, your sentience will end. In the face of that inescapable reality, what do you care about how many guys some gal had sex with? Date whom you want. Do what you want. But stop giving a damn about who some gal boned when she was 17. For pity's sake man, get some sense of perspective. I am not saying marry some gal who pulled a train with the basketball team. Quite the opposite. Stop worrying at all about that sort of gal or the team. You are focused on living a quality life. …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:12 PM
3

Not a competition. The only losing is your time, if you keep trying to make it one.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 04:41 PM
18

I bet she didn't act "friendly" with guys who weren't good looking, rich and/or popular. Dead on. Funny how she is not friendly to the smelly, fat clerk at 7/11. But Chad at the party? Oh, he is just so niiiiiiice. Just a friend. Whatever. You cannot hate on your dog for spinning around at the sniff of cooking steak and trotting in that direction. You cannot hate on your buddy for glancing at your hot GF's body now and then. You cannot hate on a gal who seeks the endorphin drip feed of solicitin…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:54 PM
16

Lift. Wider shoulders and bigger arms always help. If you cannot grow a real beard, stay clean-shaven. No wispy proto-beard. Make the hair more severe and angular, not feminine. Lose the chub. Be a razor. Practice speaking in a lower, more moderated tone. Smile less. Your clothing should suggest maturity, not immaturity. Expensive and well tailored is better. Don't go full ghetto loud. Keep it tasteful.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:48 PM
5

Never, ever talk about your own sexual history. Not with women. Not with other guys. I learned that lesson when I was 15. Gals are paying attention to whether you can keep your mouth shut about your sex. If you can, they get more comfortable with the idea that you will keep their secrets too. And women want you to keep their secrets for them.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:48 PM
13

Yeah, they had already classed him as "no sex". So when confronted with evidence that he is, in fact, a sexual being, it triggered their revulsion reaction. He was now "creepy" and that weird guy who showed them that post. In the mind of a gal who has classed you as "no sex, their sexual histories are fun, vivacious, empowering adventures. But the no sex guy's sex life is, again, in their minds, just a sad thing, or worse, just one rape van cop stop away from a headline. Women who have classed y…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:46 PM
59

Gotta keep that price high, yo, and keep substitute outlets for sex off the market. Otherwise all these beta guys whose taxes keep the faculty lounge coffee pot full will start spitting the bit and not marrying or chasing the chubbies available to them.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:38 PM
1

but somehow her tentacles would find some obscure route to reach me Because you want her to.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 06:26 PM
2

Man, you are a wreck. Reread your post. You are admitting to waiting around for her to crook her finger, and you will go running back. You need to get a grip on yourself. Of course you never speak to her again; you are too weak to deal with her.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 06:24 PM
9

If I was the groom, I would tell the wife her friends are shit, and she should have put a stop to it. If I were a groomsman, and the gals would not make it right and pay for their bullshit, I would not speak to them at all during the wedding. I would be polite to all, but make it clear they are nobodies to me. All the men should be that way to all the gals. If the wife and groom get hot about it, fuck 'em. My response would be, "Oh, it is okay for them to essentially steal my money, but now you …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:06 PM
2

I just told her to fuck off That was your anger and emotional upset talking. Cool that down. You are letting the hurt you feel control your words and actions. Get cooler in the head. Take more time to process and think. Get some distance from the situation by talking to your old man or brother. See what they think. Make plans about the future that do not depend on her. Remember: she is just the gal you are dating and having sex with. She is not the gal that can make you lose it. That gal has not…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 12:52 AM
2

Acknowledge it politely and gracefully, with a brief word, and then move on. Yes.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 12:46 AM
11

"You are welcome." Learn how to accept praise and appreciation with poise and grace. People like that trait in others.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 12:21 AM
3

One of the more bleak, but amusing, lines I heard about open relationships is that there is no such thing. It is really a situation where one partner has sex with other people, and the other partner sits at home, feeling sad.
/r/askTRP09/02/15 12:07 AM
15

If some former guy friend of yours had gone around town, claiming you had beat him or stole his money, when you hadn't, you wouldn't be accommodating. You would detest the guy, and avoid him entirely. Why be different just because it is a gal here?
/r/askTRP08/02/15 05:28 PM
3

She made her decisions. Make yours. I would recommend investing less, not more, in a gal who thinks like she does. I think the presumption that her own self-discipline regarding infidelity is superior to mine--even as she pals around with former lovers, and I do not--would be enough for me to be put off.
/r/askTRP08/02/15 04:51 PM
3

It's kind of difficult as she is always demanding "gf treatments" (calls, texts, asking me to go out) If you like doing those things with her, great. But when a person "demands" you treat them a certain way, well, they better be giving you a paycheck. Only people who send me cash money get to demand things of me, and even they are likely to get fired as clients if they are a pain in my ass. A romantic partner who is high maintenance is someone begging to be dumped. A high maintenance romantic pa…
/r/askTRP08/02/15 04:11 PM
18

Let her have her career and professional relationship. You just put it in your mind that, most likely, something is going on. Rather than get obsessed and upset and focused on it, mentally downgrade her to "current gal I am banging and hanging out with." She is removed from the potential marry list. She is removed from the long term commitment list. What she does with her own time is her concern, not yours. In short, she is a plate. She is treating you like a plate, so return the favor. Why do I…
/r/askTRP08/02/15 03:46 PM
2

As I understand the storyline it is this: Hot, young, socially-alpha billionaire is filled with lust for a a young woman in the prime of her sexual life at age 21 or so and then sexually dominates (and routinely satisfies) her. Given that all women fantasize about a hot, young, socially-alpha billionaire who is filled with lust for them and then takes control of them sexually and satisfies them, I wonder why you are surprised that this movie is highly anticipated by women of reproductive age? Oh…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 06:55 PM
7

Laugh about it, right when it happens. Humor is a near-universal solvent in terms of getting over something, even while it is happening. It will slice through your own anger and the resulting reaction in your tear ducts, which is an involuntary thing. Just own it, make fun of it, and then continue on with your agenda. Say something along the lines of "Oh, great, here I go, crying like a kid whose candy just fell on the carpet. Ah, well. As I was saying about this crap pissing me off ...." In add…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 05:16 PM
2

God fucking dammit. Would guys quit it with the "butthurt" shit, already? It is like you learned a new word, and use it everywhere. There is a difference between jealousy and telling people to STFU already. And it is not "butthurt" to tell people to STFU about annoying shit, it is the opposite of butthurt, in fact. It is telling them to STFU. If she doesn't STFU about it, he dumps her.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 01:42 AM
2

Dismissive. Indifferent. Bored.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 01:01 AM
-4

"Sick of hearing that shit. Keep it to yourself."
/r/askTRP05/02/15 01:00 AM
3

You need to stop hanging around those women. They will sabotage your development into the guy you want to be. Women do NOT like betas who start morphing into something better and more attractive. They will torpedo you if you bring gals around who are interested in you. They will torpedo you if you are in a social setting, like a party, and a gal shows interest in you. I know you are saying, "Nah, they wouldn't do that. They are my fiends." If you are saying that, YOU HAVE NOT DONE THE READING ye…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:09 PM
32

IIRC, 80% of relationships end shortly after one of the parties to the relationship gets bariatric surgery, resulting in signficant weight loss by one partner. People who suddenly have more and better options will usually exercise them.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 04:59 PM
9

She can solve this in an instant if she stops laughing and coldly stares at him when she says, "You need to leave me alone and quit talking shit about my man. Next time you do this, I go to the boss. Steer clear of me." He will. Otherwise, yeah, she goes to the boss.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:55 AM
5

Sounds like it worked out, but yeah, that would put me off her a bit.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 04:23 AM
9

You: "Why would you expose yourself to a stranger's stalking?" her: blah blah blah hamster hamster You: (roll eyes) "When some creep throws you in the rape van, don't expect me to be an action hero and come find you. Do whatever you think is best, dear, next time some dude creeps on you and you give him your actual number."
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:55 PM
3

No. Today is the very best of days: you now see the world as it is, not as they told you it was. That is the first day of freedom and wisdom.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 11:50 PM
1

but my professor wants us to come in and create posters for a display, which is a good amount of work. Fuck. That. Unless the poster will be a resume item for you, which allows you to get a leg up on your later grad school application, fuck. that. General rule of life: Do NOT do free work to improve a work-like situation for others, in the hopes it will lead to something some day. Only do work for grades, money, or a very explicit, clear promise to assist you in reaching your immediate or long t…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 04:15 PM
18

With all those labor saving devices present in even lower middle-class homes, and the prevalence of obesity of stay at home moms in western nations, you have to start laughing at the idea that mothering in Western nations is "hard" in any way whatsoever. Yes, the coal-miners of China weep at the difficulties faced by the mothers in San Diego....
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:04 PM
217

I wondered if it was worth pointing out that she didn't raise my brother and I, we essentially raised each other while she was off with her hobbies. In other words, you are still too scared to tell your mom how it really is, and that she is a thoughtless prat. Ice out your mom. Tell her why. Hang out with your dad. Tell him why. He will really like hearing that someone recognizes what he did. Better than a Congressional Medal of Honor it is when your son says "thanks" for being a good father.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 01:04 PM
1

I imagine a guy with a red face, and shouting, as I read this.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:33 PM
5

she only uses it to respond to emails letting people know she’s in a committed relationship. Yeah, just have to make sure those perfect strangers know what is going on in her life. Because, you know, otherwise....oh, wait there really is no otherwise. Oh, look, it must be because so she is just so, so thoughtful that she would not want all those guys to be left hanging. What a great gal. /s The alternative explanation is she is still checking it, for the validation of attention from other men. M…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 06:28 PM
105

The trouble is the men that excite her will not marry/commit to her. She knows this in her reptilian hindbrain. So what is a woman to do? Opt for beta bux, of course. The strategy is as old as time, and is playing itself out constantly. Any guy who was the hot guy in high school remembers how many of the homely gals would hopefully present themselves as potential mates. This dynamic is ever present in culture. Even 45 year old gals still pine for the alpha stud to come over and knock one out. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:16 PM
3

why did I do this to myself Your sin was hubris, thinking you could turn that sow's ear into a silk purse. It is a sow's ear, and you will not change her. Drop it and move on. Stop pretending you are so special a snowflake that she will change for you; she won't. She won't be loyal and decent to any man. Hypergamy will always be driving her to think, "Well, if I can get this guy, I can probably get a little bit better one too...."
/r/askTRP26/01/15 03:17 PM
6

Want to get started? Sleep more, eat better, work harder, unplug your television, be more aware, no vid games, make new friends, contact old ones, no more pot, reduce booze to one quality drink with dinner. Eject any bullshit people from your life. Reward quality ones with a thoughtful gift and statement of your appreciation of their quality. But don't for the love of god, go into some sort of avoidant seclusion and pretend you are making yourself better. If you flunk out at bars, stop going to …
/r/askTRP26/01/15 01:46 AM
17

Having The Big Scene TM is a bad idea. People always want to imagine that they will say the perfect things and cause the other person to be forever shattered and sorrow-filled. But most of the time I have seen the Big Scene TM, it is a humiliating session for the person cheated on, and leaves them shattered and sad. The other person typically says it is the cheated party's fault, and blah blah blah, how dare you say, etc., etc. Hamster on steroids appears and starts gnawing on the guy's nads. No…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 01:23 AM
98

Go hang out with your old man or your closest sibling. Tell them what is up, and ask them for advice on keeping it cool and steady for the break-up. Talk it through, so you have a chance to process things. Your goal is to feel better about it, so purge your anger if you need to. Then promise yourself to get a little less angry about it every day from now on. Keep that promise. Don't do the break up in person. Just text her "It is over. Your stuff is in a box and in the mail to your parent's hous…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 11:24 PM
9

but I do want to eventually provide my son with a family environment he can be comfortable in. No. Your focus should be on giving your son a role model of a man who is in control of his life, and provides him a stable home. That means your money situation is under control--you have steady income, pay bills, and live within your means. That means you do NOT introduce him to any slags you may be plating. Women who are coming and going in your life never meet your son. If women you are "dating" cha…
/r/askTRP25/01/15 06:13 PM
3

If you have to ask if you are her orbiter, you are her orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:12 PM
4

Hey, now, those houses that are filled with labor-saving devices, those things don't turn themselves on, you know. /s
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 06:01 PM
14

The point to make here, is this: "If it was 'no big deal', dear, why did you hide it, and then lie about it to my face? If it was 'only ice cream', why did you hide it, and then lie about it to my face? It is apparently a big enough deal that you hide it from me and lie to me about it. Those are big deal infractions when dealing with your romantic partners, so yeah, it was a big deal, and it was not only ice cream. If that was the case, well, your approach would have been totally different. Quit…
/r/askTRP23/01/15 09:11 PM
1

Everyone has been there. Everyone. Is part of learning how to approach life and have a good one.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:44 PM
1

Nope. No contact is the better policy. Until you feel nothing, it is better to not see such people. Go find a new woman who brings out something better and more pleasant in life. Don't wallow in the muck of your prior relationship, where you were the clueless cuckold. That is the definition of not moving forward.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:50 PM
3

And so now you know why the GF is sending her proxy around: go see if there is any chance by beta will take me back.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:48 PM
4

It might be genuine interest Your mom, dad, siblings and 1 or 2 VERY close friends have genuine interest in your well being. No one else gives a shit. You need to accept that is how life is. People who are not your parents, siblings or very close friend (and only 1 or 2 people qualify as such over a lifetime) are simply feigning interest, before they return to their cigarettes and lottery scratch offs.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:47 PM
1

I initially thought this was a chance to send a subtle message of indifference and mastery over life via a meeting. On further reflection, though, you should just utterly cut this crap from life and spend time on moving forward, not playing games with the ex and her proxies.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:45 PM
1

She is terrified that you have actually moved on and are fine in life. She would much prefer to know you are unable to leave your filthy bed, crying constantly, and considering the priesthood, all because she is no longer in your life.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 03:44 PM
9

She would smile as she picked them, reassured that he "needed her" to take care of him. It would be part of the essential role she feels she plays in his life, even if he does not recognize it fully. Same activity for a lesser man is seen as evidence of his cluelessness and contemptible weakness.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:49 PM
144

Her husband's version, upon hearing this: "I work my ass off at the firm, and she is ordering crap off QVC all day. When I get home, I am met with this: the kids are in dirty clothes, there is nothing to eat, except junk food. She tells me she "needs some time alone", so I am supposed to watch the kids and keep them out of the television room, where she is. Apparently, she is too busy taking care of the house in the day to actually take care of the house by, you know, buying food, cleaning the h…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 08:43 PM
4

A woman who's into you doesn't bring a chaperone. Moreover, she gets rid of anyone who would possibly play that role.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 08:54 PM
95

This is rape culture! /s
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 02:09 PM
5

It sounds like that guy she was lusting for didn't work out for her, so she is running back to you, because she realizes the next branch is out of reach after all. You can always meet up, and listen to her jive, for entertainment value.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:54 PM
2

A modern woman's dowry is her youth and beauty. If she does not bring that to the marriage, and provide it to her husband, the only other thing she can bring is her ability to bring income and child-rearing capabilities. Her awesome personality? Yeah, whatever. Everyone is a special snowflake, right?
/r/askTRP16/01/15 12:55 AM
2

Gawwwwd, all the advice to go all dark and angry on her is terrrrrible advice. Ignore it. Instead make her feel comfortable and safe telling you about her past. Listen, nod, smile and say things like, "Look at you, you naughty girl. I knew you were a wicked little kitten." Etc. Getting the whole story will take multiple times of showing nothing but warmth and encouragement about being open with you. THEN you can put everything she ever did with anyone on the menu, and escalate beyond that. But i…
/r/askTRP15/01/15 10:16 PM
7

You honestly find this to be new information? I figured that out before I even got to college. And I graduated some time ago.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:07 PM
21

Just start looking for other women. She did the same, so feel free to reciprocate without informing her.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 06:06 AM
1

Then just motor on with indifference. If she texts, say "no worries" but let her initiate any subsequent get together.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:04 PM
0

If you are truly indifferent, you just don't call, text, or email her. Don't bother with unfriending her or any such social media crap. She just doesn't matter in any way, so you treat her like some tertiary acquaintance you neither love nor hate. Indifference. You don't bad mouth her to anyone. You never mention at all her flaking, except to note it to a very close friend who is considering relying on her in some way. If you ever encounter her socially, you are polite, and act as though there w…
/r/askTRP12/01/15 07:22 PM
8

If you are an hourly-paid worker, yes, always clock your overtime. What you actually think you should go without doing so, to curry favor? Nuts on that. As a wage slave, you can expect absolutely zero in the way of advancement in life from giving away your time. Large organizations and small businesses will both just say, "Thanks, sucker!" and forget about your contribution. If your boss suggests otherwise, (s)he is bullshitting you. If you are a salaried employee, then there is no issue of over…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:49 PM
2

So just be mellow about it next time it comes up, and in a relaxed, friendly tone, just start asking questions. Nod, smile, and warmly say, "Man, look at you, all sexy wild child." Etc. Keep asking, keep affirming, and she will tell you everything eventually. Then be good about things. Take some time to think about what you want from a gal, and if she fits the bill. Then, after calm consideration over a week or so, if you are going to break up, be cool about it. Don't go all Red Ross on her and …
/r/askTRP10/01/15 04:27 AM
7

After they catch up, ask how it went. Listen, nod, encourage her to tell you more. After you have heard everything, say, "Great. Hope she has her life together now, as compared to before when you knew her and she tried to sabotage you." "What, what do you mean Rust_Cole?" "Maybe you don't recall how she tried to sabotage our relationship by (cite very specific examples of beeyotch's conduct in the past). Generally, she was a pretty lousy friend to you by being so hell bent on breaking us up. May…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:20 PM
3

When she starts up, tell her to cut it out immediately or one of you will be leaving in the time it takes to put on shoes. Then follow through if she doesn't calm down and be rational immediately. When she later comes to apologize, tell her next time she is no longer GF material, so she needs to get her anger issues sorted out. If she does not apologize as part of trying to fix her next fuck up, you are broken up until she does apologize and promises to fix her anger issues. Most people claiming…
/r/askTRP07/01/15 10:45 PM
2

She can get as angry as she wants....but if she treats you with disrespect, kick her ass out right then. She can be angry all she wants, just so long as she deals with it all on her own. You are not her chew toy. Don't act like one.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 10:37 PM
6

so what does it mean when she wants me to open up ? She means "say things that I find comforting/exciting/interesting and lead me to believe that you and I have a deep connection". That means you divert her with amusing stories about your past, with you as the protagonist doing interesting things. It means you show enthusiasm for certain hobbies or interests, and share them with her. (e.g., like movies? Take her to some good ones that she will like, and then explain to her what makes that bit of…
/r/askTRP07/01/15 07:40 PM
5

You orbit by liking all her photo posts and telling her she looks great in every picture. Meanwhile, her BF does none of that, and has sex with her.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 01:21 PM
2

You will be friendly, not a friend. Since she does not understand friendship, those two things seem the same to her. Do this both for your son's sake, and your sake. The years when your son is small and young come once and never again. Dealing patiently with his mother is a small sacrifice to be more involved in those few, glorious years when you are his hero. You will not regret making that gesture towards her to get so much in return. Your son will not regret it. And she is incapable of regret…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 03:50 AM
8

None of their business. Don't ever explain, justify, or otherwise discuss your relationship with your ex-wife to other women. If a gal you are dating ever challenges you about being close to your ex, you simply say you have to maintain that relationship, because the woman has your son in her possession. But beyond that, you go totally Michael Corleone on the topic and tell her, "Don't ever ask me about my business, Kay."
/r/askTRP05/01/15 04:43 PM
8

She needs a friend, and you can provide at least a friendly ear. You benefit because you get more time with your kid. Be the calm rock in her life, in order to show your son what it means to be a proper adult. Then, when you son is old enough to fend for himself, you can ice this woman out for good. But until then, tolerate her and show her some measure of concern, in order to maintain things for your son.
/r/askTRP05/01/15 03:41 PM
69

One friend of mine has Roman god good looks. The kind where when he walks down the street in his suit, women literally--literally, as in they actually do this--stare at him as he passes, and then turn around to keep looking at him. The man is also 6 feet tall, and has an athlete's build, with ortho-perfect teeth. This is done by gals from ages 14 to 54. In bars and health clubs, women approach him and basically present themselves for sex, marriage, whatever he is down for. Hot women. Women most …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 06:17 PM
11

Ostrich mode is the better name for it.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 11:19 AM
1

Good man.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:21 PM
16

I might have followed up with, "How do you view her action?" before exiting stage left.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 04:57 PM
28

Have sex with ten other women. See if your view of things changes. Lift, call buddies, focus on work, join a new co-ed club where no one knows you.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 01:32 AM
50

She says " I met him in a club when he was visiting from Switzerland, and he was wondering if it was ok to go to lunch as he is visiting England again" This is just some guy she met in a nightclub? I figured it would be some old buddy or professional contact. But some guy she met once, in a club? Here is what you say: "Have you lost your mind? Are you seriously asking me for permission to go out on a date with some other guy?" Then stare at her. If she does not immediately retract it and say, "D…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 09:09 PM
2

A society where 98% of the males are pussies is a good feudal society. Not really. Feudal societies are essentially "soft slave" systems, where the choices of the majority of people are constrained, and the overlords get to extract wealth based on titular privilege. The system needs younger males who bust their ass in that system in order to support the unproductive entitled classes. If the males are soft and "go Gault", and thus don't produce, there is no system. No wealth to extract. The middl…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:30 PM
5

Certainly knows how to select for that most elusive of species: alpha bux.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:54 PM
18

Hello oneitis! She is yanking you around, and you are letting her. That message reeks of simper. It is the opposite of controlling; it is impotence. You need to get back your sense of your independent self, rather than trying to protect via email (eyeroll) some gal's goodies from guys halfway around the world. Imagine she is doing what you fear she is: going to bars, getting guys all wound up, and likely doing more than she should. That is the point of her phone confessions. She is escalating he…
/r/askTRP16/12/14 08:47 PM
5

You played it fine. Now stop thinking about him. How did your ex-GF turn out?
/r/askTRP15/12/14 10:04 PM
0

Two simple steps: Be Ryan Gosling Don't be you Those steps are simple. Not easy. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:41 PM
5

A month ago, this person was sending emails asking for help from kind strangers....to unlock the $10 million fortune of a Nigerian prince.
/r/askTRP15/12/14 07:38 PM
1

My pet peeve is the whole "monk mode" thing. That sounds like guys trying to rationalize hiding in their apartment and pretending like they are undergoing some sort of chrysalis experience, before reemerging as a beautiful, beautiful alpha butterfly. Leave that fairy tale crap to kung fu movies, guys. There is no monk mode, there is only dealing with the world or hiding from it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:10 PM
3

I run long game on all my friends wives and girlfriends. Make that pretty much all women you ever meet. Why? Because it makes dealing with them so much easier. Seriously. Never say anything that you could be called on ("Whoa, nice ass!"), but always be lightly kidding them, push/pull, agree and amplify, redirecting, etc. Always. It works wonders in dealing with middle-aged office battle-axe staff gals when you are a young, fit, ambitious professional guy who would otherwise get totally submarine…
/r/askTRP15/12/14 05:17 PM
2

Growing up, I always heard girls complaining about how guys didn't want to be their friend....Girls are the ones who have no desire to be in platonic relationships with men they deem to have a high enough SMV. Imagine a gal knowing Ryan Gosling, and just wanting to "be his friend", without more. The idea is preposterous, of course. She would be staring at him like meat the whole time, thinking of how she was going to get him. And if he friendzoned her, do you think would she be chipper about it?…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:33 PM
70

Shorter version: Government is now the gun-toting intermediary extracting the beta bucks, by pooling tax receipts and distributing them to "poor families" (i.e., moms with bad boy offspring but no bad boy to pay bills). This function relieves women of the bother of having to snag and keep a single beta around. Betas are in less demand, alphas are in more demand, and women cannot understand why they feel so hollow and empty every time they cash a government check. But don't worry, there is someon…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 08:17 PM
6

Of course you go speak to a lawyer. Do not tell her.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 04:06 PM
4

Seriously, though, this weekend, be long gone from the apartment the whole time. Spend it with your closest male family members or buddies who are free. Tell them exactly what happened. It will help you get perspective when every last one of them says, "DUMP HER ASS, NOW!" Then implement either you-move-out-and-ghost-her protocols or "you need to move your ass out now if you want any chance for this to survive!" followed by ghost protocol. The reason you misdirect on the move out now, or else it…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 04:05 PM
12

Her n-count is non-existent. Fucking a guy while she is committed to you is like +200 to her number.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:55 PM
5

She seems genuinely upset and sorry about it. And what is she doing to make it up to you? Some sniffles and downcast eyes don't make nothing right. Apologies are easy. Making things right? Now that is some hard work, by her, until you are feeling almost okay about things. Women never do that hard work, in my experience. They think that some sniffles and a few minutes of sadness, and it is time for the guy to "move on", because the gal said she was sorry. What more could you possible expect? /s
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:53 PM
26

You just found out that were not in love with the woman you thought you were in love with. She turned out to be an entirely different sort of person. Would you want to date that person, if you were not suffering from the sunk cost fallacy right now? Nope. You would eject her as an applicant for LTR status immediately for being a disloyal, untrustworthy person. So do that now.
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:51 PM
6

I have known plenty of guys who got cheated on. Plenty of them stayed with the gal trying to "make it work". I know of not one guy who, after trying to make it work, did not bitterly regret that decision later. Mind you, these were guys who did this in order to stay in the home with their kids, and avoid paying insane amounts of money to their ex, so they had a huge incentive to do so. And they still look back and wish they had left when they found out. You need to quit this simpering attempt to…
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:46 PM
6

No second chance. Ask her to move out, immediately, if you are the one on the lease. If she is the one on the lease, move out immediately. And when I say immediately, I mean it: she goes to work at 8 am on Monday, at 8:05 am your moving van pulls up and your stuff is gone, gone, gone before lunch. No prior indication of this action is given by you to her. After that, accept no calls from her. Block her on your phone. When she tries to find you at your new location, refuse to answer the door and …
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:41 PM
6

Perhaps, but has it changed the price of companionship, such that divorce laws make it cheaper for men to withdraw from marriage, thus making the price of marriage, in effect, lower? What I understand is that divorce is not the balance-sheet-destroying event in those same nations with prostitution available, such as various European nations and elsewhere. In those countries, the gals are just sent packing, and even child support is not too onerous. I don't know from my own knowledge or study, ho…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:49 PM
4

Do NOT leave your home. Contact divorce attorney immediately. Leaving reduces your legal rights in a divorce. Open marriage offer is crap. She is either already having sex with someone else or has him all picked out.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 10:52 PM
2

If you got your waistline, money, swagger, and job taken away during the divorce process, yeah, you are damaged good. Still trim, funded, confident and well-employed? Still a catch.
/r/askTRP09/12/14 04:24 PM
2

That video producer needs to tone it way, way down. Speaking in snarky, snide tones every. single. sentence. becomes tendentious and annoying. Lighten it up by just imparting facts, facts, fact, and then, when every solid fact is presented without the snark and interspersed asides, THEN give the opinion part. And give it with a restrained tone, not supercilious inflections. Leave that arched sarcasm tone to the SJWs, whose arguments need the help.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:18 PM
13

If the question is what people call a "shit test", you thinking the question is direct is the first mistake. The question being asked is not really what the female is interested in. She is really sizing up another part of you entirely. Just because a question is superficially simple does not mean that there is not another level to the inquiry that is more important. When a cop asks a suspect if they need some water, the cop does not care a bit about the person's thirst, he is gauging the suspect…
/r/askTRP08/12/14 03:21 PM
71

"Girl"? Middle-aged woman needing health insurance and a 160% increase in her household income for disposable consumer items, you mean.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 12:12 AM
6

Fail. Asking the question indicates you give a rip about him and her and all that.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:46 PM
10

Gal stops taking birth control, without discussing it with her partner? Her body, her choice....and pregnancy is the man's fault for not using back up birth control. Welcome to /r/relationships.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:52 PM
2

Never try to pretend that the practice of slut-shaming is in any way similar to pointing out that men having sex obviously--obviously!--carries with it whatever consequences society cares to impose. Never even try, shitlord. /s
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:47 PM
27

Why in the world are you letting this gal waste your time at all? That "date" is nothing of the sort; it is her trying to put you back into your proper orbiter status. You never should have agreed to it. If you were out living your life, and she encountered you during that time, while in your element, maybe you could bother with it. But you are essentially walking back into her frame of reference, which means her view of you will not have changed. And simply look at your post: you are trying to …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:50 AM
10

THat sort of shrugging attitude is passable, if sorry, only until the Dunham fan girls start tracking people down and accusing them based on her "facts" in her book. Some guy is getting accused of being her rapist, and he says it was not him. Dunham either needs to clear the guy's name or take him on and say, "Yeah, that is him." She does not get to remain silent now, if that guy is innocent, and still claim to be a decent person. And if he is the guy, then she can STFU about victim this and tha…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:02 AM
1

(1) Women do not send away men the women perceive as top shelf. If a top 1% guy perceived as such by the gals gets sent packing by the group of women, it is because ALL the women have top 0.1% men who will drop them for not sending the guy packing. If even one gal in the group is in need of a top 1% guy, the group will keep the guy there, for the friend in need. If a top 1% guy is dissed, though, he likely shrugs, because in fairly short order, another gal will be presenting herself to him. (2) …
/r/askTRP04/12/14 01:46 PM
1

The assumption that the arc of civilization is onward and upward from here amuses me. Ever heard of the Dark Ages, guys? And that is hardly the only example. Civilizations throughout recorded history have arisen, peaked, and then collapsed back into a much lower level of achievement and capability. Ours will too. Ours. will. too. It is as certain as death for any man that his culture will, at some point, fall.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 10:58 PM
164

One of the smirking replies I tend to leave at places where those "even if he isn't the bio dad, he should act like a father" discussions occur is "So, if genetics don't matter and it is only the love the parents feel that matters, why are mothers so terrified of "their" baby being switched for another at the hospital?" I have yet to get any reply, let alone a reasoned response. More seriously, if the baby's future health is her concern why doesn't she adopt? Or why not get donated sperm. Ha ha …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 01:28 PM
40

Tl; dr: She slotted you for beta bux.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 12:04 AM
11

Why don't you want to hang out with me? Being the palace eunuch sucked. Moved on.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 11:10 PM
6

I so sick of these drama king sorts announcing they are going "monk mode" as if this is some sort of vision quest or some shit. If you are going to shrivel up your social life, don't act like it is some sort of self-improvement regime; it is just shriveling up your social life. Drop the monk mode shit. That is way of saying forever-alone-MGTOW guy who has social phobias and won't address those directly.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 03:23 PM
3

Why would you bother addressing that stuff? Ignore it.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 01:38 PM
5

The prize for winning a street fight is, in many cases, you get to go to jail, rather than the hospital. So the best course is to avoid winning or losing by avoiding the matter entirely, if at all possible. But if you must win or lose, because there is no avoiding it, make sure you win.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:16 PM
13

I just got done saying elsewhere that the most dangerous opponent is not the guy you are fighting, rather it is his buddy in the crowd. I know that from a misspent youth.
/r/askTRP26/11/14 02:40 PM
19

Never, ever, ever go to the ground in a street fight. Never, ever, ever stay on the ground if you find yourself there in a street fight. Why, you ask? Because the scariest opponent you will ever face is your opponent's buddy. Yeah, his buddy. His buddy is the guy who steps from the crowd to kick your fookin' head in the second you start winning. And being on the ground makes that very easy to do. Oh, you thought there were rules against that sort of thing, did you? Trust me on this one, folks, s…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 02:37 PM
1

Stop hanging around those females. Find new ones. Around the new ones, don't act like you act now.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 02:18 AM
4

Probably not just hormones. Imagine if you went 20-25 years with guys fawning over you at work, school, etc., and then you became, essentially, invisible to them. Or if you got noticed, it was like those men were looking at you, well, like an old woman: absolutely no real interest is evident on the man's face. According to women, it is often a bit of a shock to have men look at you like you are just another person, not a sexually available woman. Suddenly things are not as easy, in some cases, b…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 08:14 PM
11

Were they middle-aged women? If so, there are plenty of middle-aged gals no longer interested in sex with their husband, but still wanting the fiscal comforts and social standing of marriage to those guys. Such women typically get mad when they have to deal with the actual reality of male infidelity as it actually affects the women's lives. But so long as the infidelity stays far, far away from their consciousness, and their daily routine (i.e., security), the women care less than you would thin…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:03 PM
59

In short, her friend picks fights with her BF so your wife and her have an excuse to go party like club floozies, while you sit at home, with the kids. Step one. Call a lawyer. Yeah, seriously. Step two. If it were me, I would tell her I think it is best for a while if she get her stuff, move in with her friend/mom/whomever, join AA, and start getting help for her problems. If she took those steps, we can then discuss, in a few weeks, what has really been going on. After that, if all goes well, …
/r/askTRP21/11/14 01:49 PM
1

Good to see you found your proper place. Now go to /r/thebluepill and confess. Confessssssssssss!
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:29 PM
2

You sound bitter. I feel sorry for you. /s
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:24 PM
0

I think you will likely experience what you already know is likely to happen.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 10:22 PM
7

And look, Brazil and Dominican Republic are lands of almost unbelievable chasteness and fidelity. /eyebrow Almost unbelieveable. Almost. Unbelievable.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 10:20 PM
6

Mixed bag. Strippers, teachers, PhDs, therapist, middle level managers.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 03:50 AM
1

See also, "man up", "don't be a child", "grow a pair", etc. Women play the insecurity card as a shaming tactic, by suggesting the man experiencing sensible caution lack confidence. Nah, he is just experiencing sensible caution, given the stakes.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:10 AM
4

I cannot answer the question directly as a person who was in such a relationship. I can only relate have watched my high count female acquaintances get married...and divorced. Often more than once. I have watched my high count female acquaintances try really, really hard to maintain a long term relationship, and repeatedly fail. I cannot think of a single high count female acquaintance who has maintained a relationship that lasted more than 5 years, even where there are kids involved. I am not s…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:04 AM
5

I am so damn sick of people who drank a bottle of Boone's Farm and two shots over 5 hours claiming the booze made them do it.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 11:56 PM
2

I would not care a fig if someone astutely criticized conservatives for their foolishness. Also, check the murders in Chicago, NYC, LA, etc. Yeah, those kids are killing each other daily, or nearly so. But hey, don't splay your fookin' legs on the subway, shitlord!
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:35 PM
19

I don't know a single guy who could keep it going after he found out. Sure, some tried, for up to two years, but only when there were kids involved. Every other guy ended it, because he became revolted by the woman who offered her naked body to another man for his pleasure. It is primal stuff. They never cared about changing her, only getting away from her.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:26 AM
4

No big deal at all. But I sure as shit would not risk marrying that, or trusting her with being the gatekeeper of access to my kid, which is how it is here in the states. Women control assets and kids of their husbands and baby daddies. Women with high partner counts are just for fun. You DON'T marry them or procreate with them. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:51 AM
13

She is with a fit 48 years old dude (what?) He is banging other women (while she pretends to not notice), and she is paying the rent. Bet on it.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:45 AM
7

Precisely. She should be using it to filter out such losers! She should insist on not only telling her number, but disclosing detailed information about acts and endowments, so she can make sure her future husband is sex positive. /s Somehow, my guess is she is not too much interested in limiting her potential of beta provider husband candidates in that way. She wants a big, big pool to choose from, like all people do. So she will lie, and hide, and tell herself that the number is unimportant to…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:31 AM
9

I am not all Stormfront, but note how the pictures are ostentatiously displaying white skin. Liberal America runs NYC, Chicago, LA, etc. Ghetto kids can't read, kill each other every day day, and NYC people need to talk about this? Yeah, welcome to Liberal America, which cannot deal with the shit that they are in charge of, and which has real consequences, so they want to talk about....white guys and how they sit on the subway. This is what the End of Days looks like, guys. Right here.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:26 AM
53

As that internet legend Great Books for Men says, "Why should you value her sexual favor any higher than she did for any prior guy?" That is, if she raw dogged it with two band roadies in a one night stand, why are you expected to court her and marry her in order to become her lover? Answer: lower status, beta male, so ante up. But that is an answer that makes men say "Uh, no thanks. Keep it, dear." And that very honest interaction is exactly what the feminist viewpoint is very much interested i…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:39 PM
70

How many of us would like to live life without consequences? Alas....
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 08:26 PM
24

Alphas everywhere give a hearty thumbs up and thanks to feminism for today's paradise created for them by such gals and their allies!
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:42 PM
403

That information about partner history is not important. In fact, it is so unimportant she will lie to everyone, and ask her friends to lie for her too, to keep that unimportant information from ever reaching a man she wants to marry someday. That is how unimportant that information is. /s
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:27 PM
-1

Text" " I found out about Chad four years ago. Your stuff is on the curb. Locks are changed. I called your parents to let them know you are moving back in with them. They are waiting for you. Don't call. Don't visit. We will sell the house or work something out through the lawyers."
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 04:16 AM
5

But first, there will be a "conversation" regarding what sort of community we at reddit should have etc etc etc. Then the witch-burnings will begin.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 02:25 AM
12

You don't think you broke frame? Ha ha ha. Wrong.
/r/askTRP15/11/14 05:13 PM
4

Your sexism and misogyny are sickening. How dare you try to embarrass this proud, independent woman by mentioning her past conduct in a disrespectful manner?! /s
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 09:00 PM
3

Move.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 04:30 AM
10

when my female friends told her what I’d got up to with other girls at university, not realising it would hurt her to the extent it did. Your "friends" knew perfectly well what they were doing, and kept doing it. They were sticking it to her, just for the lolz. My guess is your gal is already having sex with someone else or very close to it, given her wild conduct. Her statements are there to "test the water" and see if she can put you into beta bux zone and be her back up for when her fling end…
/r/askTRP10/11/14 09:08 PM
8

So when I've tried to break orbit I'm guilted heavily until I get back in line. Simper, simper, simper. That is all I am reading. It is not hard to say, "Don't you ever call me again, you soul-sucking asshole. I mean it. Don't ever, ever contact me again." Hang up. Block number, delete from social media, refuse to discuss the person with any mutual friends. Never go where that person will be. You act like this is qualifying for the special forces or something, but it isn't.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:32 PM
20

Good man. Make sure you bite down hard on any former behaviors coming back at you.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:41 PM
63

Hard talk ahead; put on your helment. Late twenties?!?? She is no virgin. lol What a joke. You are still deep into oneitis denial if you think she is virgin. Sounds like plenty of guys have been inside her, but she is telling people otherwise. You are still wasting too much time on this woman. Re-read your posting. This thing should be 1/2 as long, if your point is to convey your history as a learning opportunity to others. You should have blocked her and otherwise eradicated her from your life.…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:31 PM
11

I honest to God hear one of them say: "I'm just going to get into whatever party town will take me then marry a rich guy." Yeah, because no other gals are angling for this, and the competition will be easy, amirite? Those rich guys, yeah, they are such easy marks and found without difficulty. I am not saying there are not such opportunities for gals. What I am saying is gals vastly overestimate how many such opportunities there are and their ability to snag such a guy.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 03:16 PM
17

Stop looking for their approval and validation. Live your life, on your terms, the best you can. Or, as Roosevelt said, do the best you can, with what you have, where you are. Treat their antics for what they are: young adult/teenage antics. They are amusing and fun social companions at this point in your life, but that is all. Their insults are the insults of schoolyard buddies--they mean nothing except passing amusement. Their opinions of you are similarly amusing but unimportant. The women ar…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:54 PM
85

Imagine the outrage there if a gal claimed her boyfriend dated hot models, strippers, etc. for 10 years, then hooked up with her, despite her plainness and lack of sex appeal to him, because she was a loyal hausfrau who would properly raise his offspring. The women there would be buying plane tickets to participate in the lynching of a guy who said that to a woman. Woman says "I want you as my beta bux"?, however, well that is just her expressing herself and her needs. How dare you, or even he, …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:34 PM
1

What is the proper way to handle a shit-test like this? If it was you, you would see her as some gal you have sex with. Remove girlfriend status and privileges. Withdraw any sense that there will be a future, because she comports herself in a way that makes a long term relationship an impossibility for most men.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 03:01 PM
2

By not making it clear to all who she values, she identifies herself as a less than trustworthy partner. She is playing this like an AWALT average gal. And average gals get treated like average gals.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 12:08 PM
19

Plate her, ignore him, keep striving toward being an awesome 35 year old.
/r/askTRP05/11/14 12:44 AM
72

Yeah, because it will be so cool having that guy kicking your door, screaming at you, so everyone living nearby can hear all about it. Kids crying on the front lawn, wondering why their dad is losing it and getting arrested. Seeing him every day, and his kids, as you leave or come home. Sure, sounds like a great idea. You totally need to sign up for that. Because surely that woman is worth it, right?
/r/askTRP04/11/14 08:20 PM
4

Don't expect to go from orbiter to lover in 3 texts. That said, don't bother trying to convert gals who friendzoned you. Just go meet new ones who never did that categorization to you. Don't look back. And don't let the gals who friendzoned you hang out with you as you move forward. Why? BECAUSE THEY WILL KEEP TRYING TO GET OTHERS TO SEE YOU THAT WAY. Gals will be the opposite of wingmen for you; they will cockblock you by treating you like an orbiter in front of new gals.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:42 PM
207

I looked her up via Google and saw that she eventually got married, I'm pretty sure it was to the guy she dropped. She only took a "break" with him, don't you know, to "find herself", before realizing she loved him totally and completely. He has no idea what the real story was....and still is.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:35 PM
5

Go to bed earlier, the same time every night. Lay down and leave the lights off after about 9:30, and you will fall asleep naturally. 8.5 hours later, you will be awake. After a 2-3 weeks of getting full rest, you will notice a difference in your mood, energy level, etc. And you will not need an alarm clock to wake up at a specific time. You will find you wake up like we are supposed to--over the course of about 20 minutes, as we slowly come out of the last part of the sleep cycle. Do that for a…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 12:01 PM
4

If you met them, you would not even bother speaking with them, in most cases, because their views and abilities are so uninteresting. So why waste time reading or considering their writings, which are no better than they?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:52 AM
0

Lose the alarm clock and go to bed earlier. You should be getting enough sleep that your body wakes naturally, not as a result of a loud noise. Get rid of the television watching in the evening and you will have plenty of opportunity to sleep more.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:46 AM
7

What are some shock changes I can make effective immediately on this relationship Find a new girlfriend who is into having sex with you; your current one isn't.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 02:14 AM
9

Go ask them. I don't bother thinking about why.
/r/askTRP29/10/14 11:30 PM
143

Nah, just walk those same neighborhoods as a guy wearing an expensive suit and tie. You will get panhandled way more than this chick got harassed. And there is a good chance some dude will seriously size you up for a mugging. Me? Sheeeeet, I would take her treatment over the stuff a dude in a suit would risk. This is really an indictment of urban "corner" culture than anything else. She did not walk through Park Slope or the Upper East Side, is my guess, and have anything to show for it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:22 PM
2

It always more of that old Saturday Night Live satirical skit of "don't be unattractive" when it comes to sexual harassment in the workplace. If Jared Leto catcalls a gal on the street, she sprints across traffic, knocks over a Brownie troop, and vaults a trash bin to talk to him and offer herself up for whatever he may have in mind. If Sam Fatbelly in work overalls does it, it is a violation of the woman's etc, etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:00 PM
2

We are not wolves we are men and the whole alpha and beta terminology sounds like pseudointellectual mumbojumbo. Short hand terminology often does. When economists say "moral hazard" as a term of art/shorthand for a set of issues that frequently express themselves in human affairs, they do it to keep the conversation flowing and relatively shorter than it otherwise would be. Alpha and beta serve as shorthand for men women desire sexually and men they want provisioning from. Don't make it more co…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:13 PM
30

And every unemployed, pudgy, simpering guy thinks his Nice Guy attributes should get him laid too. Why do those guys resist improving themselves, to be more like Chad Thunderfuck, who keeps getting the women? Same reason: laziness and self-delusion.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 03:42 PM
2

Years down the line, things aren’t looking so good. She’s almost 40, seriously overweight, with no man or baby in sight. That is all a man's fault, somehow. Bet on it.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:25 PM
2

And mothers should tell their daughters.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:37 PM
23

You are being used like furniture in those situations.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 06:33 PM
2

Yeah, except I don't sound anything like that at all, if you actually read what I wrote.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 09:46 PM
42

Pharmacist should STFU at work on her views regarding morality and choices; her job is to push pills, not provide sermons or other editorial commentary. I would feel the same way if some guy was buying condoms to have sex before marriage, and the pharmacist was preaching on about abstinence.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:36 PM
2

I wonder whether she remembers her vows. Yeah, but they are more like guidelines, you know...
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:24 PM
76

She would not breathe a word of that. It would be a wall of text about how the ex-husband is abusing the children emotionally, without any facts to support the claim, beyond some made up stuff about how he freakishly slut-shames her for going to church meetings. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:21 PM
113

Trolling MRA dude, most likely. Story is too perfect and reads like MRA revenge porn.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:20 PM
3

Nicholson was bedding hotter women when he was sixty than Schwarzenegger ever did. lol You know nothing. Arnold was a poon hound before he was famous. And afterwards, well, it was ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:29 PM
32

Women don't like admitting what they want. Why? Dunno. Mix of things, I think. At its core, I think females in the animal kingdom often have very covert reproductive strategies, which at some points would be best not conveyed to males. This is just one aspect of that. I shall now return to my coffee house philosophizing..../siplatte
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:18 PM
10

She tried to branch swing back to her prior alpha BF. She failed. Now she wants her beta bux back-up, you, to resume your plan b role. Next.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 01:15 PM
4

Most 18 year olds will be found outside of colleges. "39.6% of all young adults ages 18 to 24, were enrolled in either a two- or four-year college in October 2008" http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2009/10/29/college-enrollment-hits-all-time-high-fueled-by-community-college-surge/ You can find plenty of 18 year olds at the local community college, if you want some concentration agent like education to help draw them in.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:29 PM
3

Men in college, your option is simple and clear: do NOT date or sex women in college. Date gals not in your college or university or any other. Treat campus like place you go for a specific set of purposes: classes, study facilities, workout rooms, etc. It is NOT a place for your social life to be conducted. There are bars, music venues, and all sorts of social centers off-campus that should become where you hang out. Find a few like-minded friends and avoid campus life. Live off campus in affor…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:21 PM
2

Why do you guys frown on vengeance? Most people are so bad at it, they have to shoot through their own skull to knick the other person's toe.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:16 PM
4

Or use open-handed palm strikes, rather than those tiny bones in the knuckles as your striking surface.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:05 PM
6

Yeah, she is totally worth 25-to-life, and that outcome is so great for you.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 12:52 AM
2

/deep nod Good sister, that one.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 03:57 PM
9

Esquire has been shit for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:48 PM
3

Fookin' lift, bro. Study. Focus on work skills. Swagger into that party J invited you to. Don't bother going to talk to her first; let her come to you. Chat up the first three people you bump into by the door. Find some diverting, amusing reason to talk to them, which makes them chuckle at your amusing anecdote. Meet more gals at the party. Have good times and be pleasant and upbeat to J and everyone there. But don't you once follow her around. Treat her like you barely know her. Your mission is…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 09:07 PM
25

Totally. The fact that sis was not ready to icepick the gal instantly upon seeing what was up would make me pretty much write sis off as Not Family. Mom would get similar treatment.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:13 PM
140

his sister organized a bachelorette a few weeks before the wedding. They went to Vegas, hired strippers and got wasted. The bride to be somehow ended up alone in a room with a stripper and the sister saw him leave the room. I would dump my mom, wife, and my sister at this point. The relationship with them would forever be much colder and more distant. I would tell them why, and make sure they stayed away from me. People who betray you in such ways can never be trusted again as intimates. They ar…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:22 PM
8

but I just found out she ended a long relationship and slept with 7 guys in the last year. The number is higher than that. Gal to date. Not marry--too risky.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 05:52 PM
2

I'm talking about my best friend of fifteen years who is closer to me than my own brother, so that's not an option. Bullshit. You treat her with a distance from now on. She is not part of your circle of friends, she is a person married to a friend of yours. You confide nothing to her, and in the future you are polite, but never close with her. She is like a person at work you treat with professional courtesy and diplomacy, but not a friend. She will recognize the difference, but you never cop to…
/r/askTRP17/10/14 05:13 PM
1

If she is a real friend, the kind you should actually call "friend", it is no big deal at all. I am busy and often have to cancel plans that I wish I could keep. My friends understand this, and I apologize for it when it happens. But if I am cancelling plans with them to go have fun with another buddy, yeah, I would expect them to be "hey---screw you", because that is insulting. Now, if the other plans I am ditching them for are galactic-level upgrades, such as "Hey, it is stayinghereforreal--I …
/r/askTRP17/10/14 05:01 PM
1

Who gives a shit about some stupid college crowd of bsy-bodies looking for cheap, easy ways to be offended?
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 01:48 PM
2

Ice that sort of person right out of your life. If she thinks you are unfuckable, that sort of disregard spreads to others in your social circle. Find people who respect you. Befriend them.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:16 AM
17

Sarcastic comedians, like the court jesters of old, now fill the social role of saying in public those undeniably true things that all of us wish were not so damn evident. It is how we collectively puncture the stupid lies foisted on us, and sometimes crammed down our throats, by people who think everything will be somehow better once the lie is universally acclaimed as truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 08:17 PM
37

The only force involved is the issue of the kids. That can be a lot of mutherfing force when the state stands behind restricting a father's access post-divorce.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:53 PM
19

Because man-shaming all of us for the actions of a tiny minority is a valuable political tool for purposes of control. A tool they refuse to allow their opponents to wield.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 07:44 PM
-2

Don't be so butthurt. I am not the one talking about how dad didn't do enough for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:55 PM
3

It's his father fault. Did he have food, lights, shoes, medical care, decent school, etc? Yes? THANKS, DAD!
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:50 PM
3

I think a lot of people are in my position. What, blaming a hard-working parent who provided for their own fuck-ups? Yeah, a lot of people are in your position, and they need to get their shit together on their own and quit blaming dad for their shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 12:49 PM
5

as most of our friends are mutual and she will turn them on me. You need to redefine in your mind what a friend is. Friends would not turn on you just because you break up with some gal in a situation like this. Those people you know in her social circle are social gad-abouts, not friends.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 07:13 PM
12

My guess is she was doing more than flirting with those men. She might not be giving blowjobs in the parking lots of the bars, but she was grinding, kissing, and doing plenty of kino. All in that "I am a party Guuuuurl!" thing that gals do when out for a GNO. In telling you she was "flirting", she was desexualizing you. You were becoming her beta BFF, not the man she first fell for. Oops! Bad move on her part, and you suddenly reverted to the alpha she lusted for, because you just walked the fuc…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 06:37 PM
1

I would tell OP to assess what he likes doing. Does he enjoy spending lots of time alone, reading and analyzing, until he is able to easily best other similarly-inclined bookish people in direct mental engagement? Does he ALSO enjoy then going out and schmoozing busy business executives, and earning their trust? If not, he is unlikely to either enjoy law or have much success as a rainmaker, both of which are typically necessary to experience real success in that field. Unless OP goes to an elite…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:51 PM
6

Yeah, because law school is cheap, there are plenty of jobs for law grads, and the work is sooooo exciting. Wait...
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:34 PM
12

Affirmative Action" doesn't mean they randomly pick a person of color or a woman to fill a role. Generally, it refers to a "tiebreaker" - when two candidates are equally balanced, AA/diversity means the non-white, non-male will be chosen. Ha ha. You still buying that line?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 08:34 PM
25

MAking me pay for such surgery, in some sort of social justice ethic of fairness, is what makes the whole thing insane. People want to cut their own junk up? Feel free. Expect me to pay the bill? Wait a friggin minute....
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:59 AM
2

How do you just act like you no longer care?" Tell them having a new gal, or two, provide enthusiastic sex is a great cure for a broken heart. In fact, it makes the prior broken heart worth it.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 09:19 PM
6

You are Rarg, but enjoying the benefits of birth control, so no kids.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 07:41 PM
60

What do you think women did in 40,000 BC? Let's play pretend for a moment.... Mroganna already has two kids with Rarg, the Manslayer. Rarg goes out on mastodon hunts, and tends to really bring home the meat, literally, and then give Mroganna the Meat, figuratively. Mroganna loves that meat... What a man, he is. No other one will do. Oh, sure Rarg occasionally knocks one out with some of the other tribe's gals, but she is the one he spends time with, feeds, protects, etc. So Rarg is her guy. Stra…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 06:42 PM
120

I know it will offer you little comfort, but the one nice thing about countries actually trying socialism and communism is that the resulting Heinlein-esque outcomes of "bad luck" demonstrated how absurd the ideas really were. I expect Argentina will soon serve as an example of what unrestrained marxist feminism will produce in terms of outcomes. Too bad so many have to die and suffer in order to relearn what everyone in prior generations understood perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:55 PM
44

An 8/10 guy will definitely use a 7/10 girl for sex, with no intention of ever committing. More like 4/10, depending on level of horniness and immediately available options. Mot guys have that one woman they got with and then later said, "What. the. hell. possessed. me...? /facepalm"
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:50 PM
4

Turn this into a posting on its own, and relate it to what I just said above. The younger, less experienced guys on this board need to hear real world accounts of how others use female sexuality to control and manipulate them. Come to think of it, I should post my observations as a top line post...
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:12 PM
17

What sort of LTR are you talking about? If I am 25, starting out in life and trying to build my wealth, seeking marriage to have children, etc., I am going to seek one sort of gal. Her count is going to be looooooooow. If I am 45, divorced, have my wealth, kids are already partially grown, and I have ZERO intention of getting married, the sort of gal I would have a LTR with is going to be entirely different. Much more relevant to the issue is my life circumstance, not her age. The younger and mo…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:38 PM
3

The highest earning bargirls might not be the best looking, but they have the best personalities. Best personalities=giving the clueless patrons enough hope that sex will result from tips but still retaining enough distance that when the barmaid brushes the guy off, there is no social basis for the men being upset at having been led on. Same thing at strip clubs, Hooters, pretty office receptionists, airline stewardesses, etc., only to different degrees. The accommodating, interested sexually ma…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:09 PM
27

I would never expect gals to go against their preferences, but when you get those two sentiments from the same person, it is time to smile, nod, sip your beer, and then change the topic. There are relatively few people with enough remove to be able to laugh at their own cognitive dissonance, when it arises from this sort of disconnect being pointed out. Pointing it out tends to make you the bad guy, not a person who is wryly pointing out a humorous, all-too-human double-standard at work. You get…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 03:20 PM
144

They are really complaining about how an out-of-reach alpha they desire is simply exercising his ability to bed other women.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:17 PM
184

Women typically feel they are entitled to friendship the option to call on a male for his attention or resources when it suits them It is really about a woman wanting to keep a sexless harem of males who will provide as "backup" in case they cannot swing to higher branches.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:16 PM
6

Nah, don't overcomplicate it. The point of view expressed here just comports better with people's everyday experience, as compared to what they are being told in education, government, and large corporate settings.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 01:33 PM
160

Fat chick lusting for hot guy? You go, GUUUURL! Don't settle! Hot guy not wanting fat chick? OMG, you are so shallow! Patriarchy! Body-shaming! The irony is never recognized.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 12:48 PM
1

Those Romans probably did not like hearing that Zeus did not exist either.
/r/askTRP07/10/14 12:30 PM
3

I feel like my gut says im getting used, but i can help but just go along with it, even if kicking and screaming, because I am so super attracted to her and a part of me hopes she will, "come around" and we will either end up hooking up at some point, or she will get what ever other bs she is dealing with out of the way and actually express her feelings which seem very genuine and sincere. Said every beta orbiter everywhere every time.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:14 PM
0

Now that it is socially acceptable for girls to get blackout drunk and sleep around the amount of 'rape' cases has gone through the roof. No one sensible argues that the stumbling, nearly-comatose, incoherent drunk can consent to sex, whether male or female. The problem is we are now seeing people trying to criminalize morning-after regrets. That is when the person was genuinely participating in the prior night's sex, and did engage in it consensually. But now, the morning after, finds themselve…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:32 PM
1

Feminism is the soft "equality" rhetorical glove covering a hard fist of control by an elite. They are just trying to use gender rather than religion or nationalistic fervor to control. The mask is slipping, though. Look at this "War on Women" stuff in the latest attempt to whip up anxiety in professional and middle class women. The class of people who are literally--literally!--the safest, most secure people who ever lived in human history are told they (or their daughters) are at constant thre…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 02:06 PM
0

I think it's acknowledged that it's in part a response to more radical 3rd wave feminism. More like living as people did for thousands upon thousands of years, prior to people pretending otherwise. That is not to say that everything done by humans for untold centuries is the right way to proceed, but before rejecting something, we should have a pretty good sense of why it is there and what will replace it. Feminism said its vision of equality would lead to a better deal for all, not just gals. I…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 01:59 PM
6

(1) Stop talking politics in social settings. Always avoid that. Always. Just smile, nod, and change the topic when such things come up. Sex roles are now political discussions. (2) Continue on being who you want to be, and let the results speak for themselves. If those guys don't clue in from seeing a living example, let them continue to wallow where they are. Don't try to save every shipwrecked sailor who refuses a life vest or a lift into the boat.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 12:54 PM
-4

Making you wait=you are beta bux.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 12:48 PM
18

This apparently infuriated Emma, who then filed a sexual harassment claim against him nearly a DECADE after these incredibly flimsy allegations took place. Decade? That alone should be enough to make this go away. She will likely come across to the administration for what she is. Yeah, colleges are pretty far gone, but they don't cotton to attacking professors with tenure. They tend to get their SJW rocks off by breaking 19 year old males, who are a much easier target. You should also call the g…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 12:43 PM
3

Be neutral. If asked a question, answer it politely but simply. If a request is made for you to perform a task for them, say no because you are just about to leave or have another task underway (whatever the reason, have one) unless you have an obligation to do the task (e.g. part of work responsibility). If he makes a joke at your expense, don't laugh, but don't get mad either--just continue conversing as if he said nothing. Focus primarily on other people, and show them enough warmth and inter…
/r/askTRP04/10/14 02:17 PM
12

Get a good haircut by a hairstylist. Keep that haircut going. If noticably balding, do NOT try to do some comeover or other cover up. Shear it down to fuzz or shave it. Round out your wardrobe with quality shoes that show well. No, not "gators" or some stupid pimp shoe thing. And don't be foolish and buy wingtips because you think those are quality shoes. Quality leather shoes and boots for contemporary guys wearing business casual are made by vendors like Alden or Allen Edmonds. If you need a m…
/r/askTRP02/10/14 02:42 PM
4

Any tips for the married man? Athol Kay's married man's sex life. Start lifting. Keep lifting, every day. Start walking at least 2 miles a day. Then jog those two miles when you drop 130 pounds. Only eat fruits, vegetables, and lean meats. Nothing in a box, nothing in a bag, nothing that your great-great-grandmother would not have recognized as food. Make your own meals. Nothing from a restaurant. Nothing from a delivery service. Use only the ingredients available from trees, roots, or dead anim…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:33 PM
1

At this point it sounds like you are apologizing for apologizing. Go back and read your OP up above and tell me you don't come across as a simpering, desperate guy. You likely screwed this one up completely. Stop it with the obsessive focus on this gal. Go ask out three other women. Take them out on dates. Have a plan for a diverting, fun evening or afternoon. Make them laugh. Thrill them with some activity that makes their heart rates and adrenaline levels elevate. But cut it out with the self-…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 01:22 PM
1

Given how few facts you provide, it is hard to say what you should do.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:17 PM
4

Why does she or what she does matter to you in any way whatsoever? Who cares at all what she says to you, about you, or near you?
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:05 AM
2

Here is a start: Victor Davis Hanson. Donald Kagan. (Catch his Yale course too, now on podcast) Gywnne Dyer. Also, check out Hardcore History podcast for fun. The podcast really got going after about the 10th one or so, so if you buy the early ones and don't like them, don't give up. The ones on Rome, Mongols, and Eastern Front suffering are sublime.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:04 AM
12

The first time a woman is accused of raping a man under these new rules, you will see a looooooong pause by the administrators, as they try to craft an explanation of how those rules are obviously--obviously!--not relevant. (The same administrators would likely let a case against a woman filed by a woman go forward, I would expect.) Then, after a looooooong time of examination, the administrators will declare that obviously--obviously!--there was no violation of the rules by the accused woman, a…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:19 PM
70

Not giving up the seat to that self-entitled woman is an act of public service. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:25 PM
12

I happily teach people skills and knowledge I have and they want all the time. I find it enjoyable. If those people eventually exceed me in knowledge and skill in a particular discipline, that is wonderful, since human progress pretty much depends on that occurring. I think I can and should do something to help that along---just doing my bit in our species' long march from grass huts to skyscrapers. I am not hurting myself. There is plenty to go around. And in fact, people are often so appreciat…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 05:06 PM
94

You will find a bunch of SJWs with no lives will take up moderating/adminning positions in influential reddits they had no hand in building up but sure crave to control. They do this in universities, governments, corporations, social clubs, endowments, and all sorts of other institutions. Just look around and you will see people of sub-mediocre talents conniving to achieve some position in a place they could never build themselves. Once there, they implement policies sure to bring about the rise…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 05:00 PM
33

Try an experiment. There are always the same sort of posts now and then on things like Askmen, where some boob asks "Am I right to be upset about my GF lying to me about her number" or "Just found out my BF/GF cheated on me! What do?" Etc. About once a week, you will see those. Post the exact same advice, separated by about a few months. The first one is just straight advice. The second time, preface the whole thing with the line "As we would tell you over at /r/theredpill..." You will see the s…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 04:56 PM
2

We've been 'together' for about a week now, Overheard her friend saying she'll meet with her ex on the weekend. I'll dump her straight up if I know she cheated on me Little soon to treat a plate like a girlfriend. Why not just say you overheard her plans to visit her ex this weekend? Calm voice. No expression. Then ask whether that means you guys are free to see other people at this point. No need to be all CIA about the matter.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 04:11 PM
28

"Look, I am not involved in your personal life; I only work with you. Let's keep it at a professional level from now on. I don't need to hear about your private life. Thanks." Any further attempt to bluster and bother you about "being an insensitive" jerk" by her after you say this is met with a shrug, and you essentially repeating the line above. Do NOT answer questions. When she says, "So you are telling me [outrageous interpretation of your calm statement.]" you reply with, "I didn't say that…
/r/askTRP25/09/14 03:25 PM
42

In the application, these rules be implementing the following worldview: A man doesn't do what makes a woman feel great about herself? Domestic violence. (The man's intent is not important, what matters is what the woman feels.) And because the rule depends upon a man being involved in the situation, these rules will not apply to lesbian relationships. Naturally.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:10 PM
35

Met plenty in grad school. But their idea of feminism was they had the expectation of getting a swanky urban job, a hawt man, trips where they wanted, and, right on schedule, a baby that would require them to leave their high-powered career so they could stay at home while hubs worked. Then, after dominating the playgroups and becoming the Maven of Slope Park, all while being the best couple with the best kids, she would reemerge from the chrysalis of domesticity to publish her witty, erudite, s…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:16 PM
10

Women want to date men who other women want to date. They are constantly seeking approval of their choices from other gals, to verify that they are, in fact, gathering the right DNA material.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:55 AM
20

Talk to her like an adult. Ignore the little kid antics. Don't try to "tame her", because conflict and drama is what she seeks. Instead, ignore her utterly when she does stupid stuff, and provide moderated, sincere, short positive feedback when she pleases you or otherwise acts appropriately.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:54 AM
17

Oh, she fucking knows what is best, eh? How? Oh, she makes faces for money and is famous because of a historical quirk. Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 09:56 PM
3

I would not even much point it out, though, or argue. I would just start fading in terms of emotional investment, and see if she clues in. When she asks what is wrong, you say, "Look, you seem to like harems of attentive former lovers. I am not into that. No judgment, but I am a person who is all in. You are not. No hard feelings. Just wish I would have picked up on it earlier." If she is somewhat indifferent to that message, she was never much into you. If she freaks out, drops hanging out with…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 04:11 PM
3

Depends on the deal she is seeking. She wants a monogamous commitment from me, that may lead to marriage/co-habitation? Hanging around 1-on-1 with any guy she used to bang --Casually. Seriously. Whatever-- is going to indicate she is not qualified for that status. Similarly, I would not expect her to tolerate me sashaying around town or lounging at home with a gal I used to have sex with. If I was trying to say, "What? No biggie. Just friends!", she would be perfectly justified, to my mind, in j…
/r/askTRP23/09/14 04:00 PM
5

When you are not around, he is angling for sex, and she is, at the very least, considering it. Always.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 03:05 PM
9

One of the great things about my anger management issues is that in instances like that, I am telling people to fuck off and get away from me long, before they get so far into wrongly giving me shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 01:08 PM
10

made out with him. I think you know what they really did. She said she will exclusively fuck me, but she wants to be allowed to make out / things like that. lol Her exclusivity with you will last about 5 minutes into her next "make out" session. Stop it with the denial, mi amigo. This gal is opening up the relationship. You are beta bux.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 04:37 PM
5

Gals who act like they really want a fight and physically confront men have never been in a real fight. Broken eye orbitals are real things. So are dental plate installations. Gals are too often brought up on the idea that some slaps, a hair-pulling, and a lot of screaming is a fight. Nope. A fight is something else entirely, when the wrong sort of guy is involved. And the damage a trained blow can inflict is sickening to see.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:40 PM
8

Well, her loophole was certainly involved....
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 01:12 PM
80

Or she's a lying hoe. Let's just call her a woman with a healthy sex drive who can craft creative narratives.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:33 AM
62

Shockingly enough, she didn't cheat or stray in the 14 or so months they've been together. Until last night... Yeah, she went 14 months without sex. Riiiiight. You are the special one.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:24 AM
6

I certainly hope he is planning on getting some gal action on the side, for his trouble.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 09:28 PM
2

Pffft. I would put this nation into the hands of a reincarnated Maggie Thatcher without a second thought. If Jeanne Kirkpatrick from back in the day wanted to be Prez, I would vote for her too. Heck, I might be able to get behind Condi Rice. Hillary Clinton is a horror because of what she does, and what she would do, not her chromosomal make-up.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:35 PM
6

Sandberg's quote has been posted and beat up here more than once. Use a google search to find the posts. Contemporary females see nothing wrong with the idea of having sex with exciting but unstable men, before settling into a relationship with less exciting but financially stable men. They see this as "growth" and part of "maturing" as they find themselves etc etc. But it is just AFBB.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:12 PM
1

In decades of fighting, I have yet to meet a single gal I considered to be an intimidating fighter, even the ones who had been training for many years. They are out there somewhere, perhaps, but even tough, trained gals just cannot hang with even a middle-sized guy willing to put the knuckles to the gal for real.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:01 PM
2

You are talking too much. Ask people questions about themselves and their interests. Get them talking about them. Smile, nod, show an interest. Add the occasional anecdote that complements their story, but listen 70% and talk, at most, 30%.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 08:53 PM
1

The article is behind the paywall.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:31 PM
5

Nah nah nah Nah nah nah Hey hey hey Goodbye....
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:57 PM
28

I would not bother getting into the debate in the first place, but if you insist on trying to educate her, resort to gentle mockery rather than this stuff you are trying. You might as well have fun with it. Note to her that since attraction is just the result of media pressure, she should use that to her advantage. She should merrily go out and start asking out all those fugly dudes with pot bellies, Kentucky waterfall hairlines, bad teeth, etc. After all, their appearance is not the issue--much…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:52 PM
12

You got nexted by her in favor of a higher branch, and then you send her a text, as you are preparing to leave the state. What does she do? Call? Stop by? Nope, she sends you a beta orbiter maintenance text. And what do you do? Scurry to the Red Pill to try and divine its meaning, and ask what to do. You, sir, need to reread the sidebar material, lift more, talk to and date more women, and focus on how great your life is going to be when you get to Colorado.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 04:21 PM
5

I would not call it "wrong" until hypergamy gets backed by the state's monopoly on violence, and then guys find themselves hustled out of their house, not able to see their kids, have their income and assets taken, and watch some new dude set up camp in the bed he paid for. At that point, the costs of hypergamy are being borne not by the person executing on that protocol--the gal--but rather the guy. She can do as she will, but to expect guys to suffer the costs of making the hypergamous switch,…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:58 PM
50

Fathers. Plural. Anyone doubt it? Still, feel bad for the kids. Not their fault. And I can even have a measure of empathy for her; learning the hard way is something we all eventually do, and I don't wish it on too many people.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 02:42 AM
49

The reason nasty people give any care to what female officers say is because they can get male officers to arrive in short order. Remove that threat, and women officers will not last a week on the streets. It is the threat of male force being deployed against malefactors that keeps things civil in a society, and without that threat, females are not going to be able to keep order at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:38 AM
5

Quit being so butthurt. Your attitude should be light-hearted and fun. She wants to rant and vent. Ignore it and then change the topic to something that you find diverting and will amuse her. If she refuses to be amused, then you just keep stepping on in life, popping your fingers to the fun times music. But don't be all "put this bitch in her place" tough guy about it. That reeks of all sorts of things, none of them much attractive to women worth hanging out with.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 01:27 PM
11

Don't buy a Harley motorcycle as your first introduction to riding. That is unsafe and stupid. I don't care how many fat accountants going through their mid life crisis do it; it is still stupid. Get yourself a smaller enduro/dual sport no larger that 300cc and learn to ride that thing around town at 25 miles an hour. Also do some light trail riding to develop your reflexes. Once you feel very comfortable riding that bike, consider a larger bike. Not before. As for the wife, well, don't be doing…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:58 PM
-1

I wonder if she really believes that you will, or if she does. Could it be she thinks this sort of arrangement just a posture of Brave Independent Womanhood, but she really does not think you are doing so? Or that she actually would?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:41 PM
50

It is an odd thing, to my mind, that a sex worker/stripper will engage in their professional activities, but still expect a man in their life to play the role of monogamous man committed emotionally and sexually only to them. The fact that they regularly engage in sexual activity with others is immaterial to the relationship they expect, in their minds, because it is for money. Somehow the absence of cash exchange in the sexual engagement turns the whole matter of sex into a much bigger deal.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:39 PM
1

who is adamant about nothing serious Curious. Is she aware of other women, and perfectly okay with it, or is she practicing a "don't ask, don't tell" mindset, giving her the ability to pretend, in her mind, you are exclusive to her?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:32 PM
16

Ah, changes things a bit, that does.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:52 PM
22

Now ask yourself the real question: if you weren't having sex with her for 10 weeks (one date per week, I assume), who was? Because it is unlikely that she went 2.5 months without sex. Yeah, exactly. Some other guy was likely getting it, while she tried to figure out whether you were a branch to swing to.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 03:44 PM
16

"I want to find myself" There are other guys I want to bang more than you, and I think I have a shot at them.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:51 PM
89

"See, aren't you glad we waited? .. She protested and said she just needed time, to get to know me, etc etc etc. Blah Blah Blah." lol Yeah, because three weeks ago, the sex would have been so much different. /eyeroll Careful with that one. She is thinking she can regrow her hymen, and that you will thereby be magically under her spell. You know damn well guys in the past didn't have to wait 10 dates, and that was when she had more to trade with.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:35 PM
4

I think her mom made him a real bad conscience. When that woman called, his only response should have been laughter and hanging up. He should not give that old woman ten seconds of his time now, particularly to listen to her shaming bullshit.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:54 PM
7

And watch the insta-ban that follows...
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:16 PM
13

Now 3 hours ago the mother of his ex called and made him a real bad conscience with the usual hamster tactics. (everything is his fault, he didn't do anything she wanted, he was cruel because he stayed silent etc...) He starts to doubt his actions and is thinking about paying the money (its worth a third of salary) lol Her mother called? Seriously? What are these people, 17 years old? He should be rolling on the floor, at this point, laughing like Joker after offing Batman. No way should he pay …
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:14 PM
4

Given the new technology, if I was a semi-public figure like him, I would be recording every public event and discussion with journalist, and then when necessary, make the tape available to refute people who maliciously edit for print. Check local jurisdictions, of course, to make sure there are no anti-wiretap laws, but there has to be an exception for public speaking and journalism, so claim those.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:11 PM
25

Oh, a /r/relationships thread telling a guy that his intended wife should not be judged based on her prior sexual conduct, only her stated wants now, in relation to him? Shocking. Of course he is not entitled to sex with her. But she is not entitled to a relationship with him, either, and he can dump her or withhold marriage for any reason, or no reason at all. Go post that, and see the downvotes blossom...
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:03 PM
0

Who the hell watches the NFL, anyway? Loved playing football. Detest watching the pro game, though. Boring as hell.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:18 PM
2

Nah, gals are too risk averse for that. But in 70 years when Islam is a rising tide in America, you can bet your great-granddaughter will be dating a strong, conservative Muslim young man, and happly being his wife. Maybe even his second wife, if he is high status enough. When they start shutting down clubs and forbidding licentiousness, it will be hailed as advancement for women...brought about by women, who profess Muslim beliefs, with the men simply helping it along. All of it done for the ch…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 05:16 PM
0

Are there any movements dedicated to actually changing the sorry state of society? Yes: Islam. Over the next century, things will go back for the West, because no one will be left who believes in it AND is capable of fighting for it. See also prior invasions of settled agrarian communities by horsed marauders. It is our turn to be overrun by the Mongols, who still know what they want and will fight for it.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:36 PM
2

So she thinks she pulled one over on you. Whatever. You are still who you are. And she is still stuck in a life where she pulls trains, lies about it, and scrambles to pay bills. Yeah, she sure is "winning", when you look at it that way. Seeking revenge against her is like hating on a small child for doing what small children do and seeking revenge. Wrong approach. You don't seek revenge against lesser people who have too-diminished capacity to understand what they are doing. You either correct …
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:14 PM
9

The bitch lied about being raped. Which is a HUGE reason to make sure you never, ever, ever have any sort of contact with this woman again.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:10 PM
3

I just want to crush that false sense of worth that she has. Life is in the process of doing that. She is about to start her final approach to the Wall.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:09 PM
3

So I'm wondering - is there any point in telling her that I know? To what end? It changes nothing about the past. It affects nothing in the future, since you are cutting her out of your life. Stop seeking drama. That is her job in her life. Your job in your life is to reduce such stuff. Don't worry about revenge. In ten years, she will be a total wreck. You will be fine, but only if you get people like her far, far away from you, and keep them there.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 03:07 PM
24

So, let me ask you the hard question: is she really just getting done with some other guy, mainly because he dumped her after they had some sex and he was ready to move on. And so she is now coming back to you, as her plan B backup? Because if that happened, then no, you are not in a good position to resume what you had before.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:02 PM
1

Have fun at that restraining order hearing.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:15 PM
3

Treat her like a fat slut who has never done anything to harm YOU. Yeah, she is screwing up your buddy, but he has to learn this one himself. If you start bad-mouthing fat slut or telling your buddy he is an idiot, guess what will happen? Yup. Your dumbass buddy will choose fat slut over you, because that is his first piece of ass, and he is pathetic enough at this point to think it is worth anything to keep it. This is totally on him for accepting that. So let him plumb the depths of fat-slut-f…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:01 PM
9

she came into the cafeteria, she sat down next to me, A good sign. didn't even bother looking at me, Immaturity at work. I went alpha and said "hey, how are you this morning?" That is not alpha, that is boring. She said nothing. Awkward silence. That is pretty damn rude towards you. AND that is where you can be a full person. A full person does not try to keep conversing. They say something along the lines of, "Hey, I just tried to start a polite conversation with someone who crossed a room to s…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 01:56 PM
12

Every guy not on the dole in your nation needs to start asking himself one question: "Why the #*%&^ am I paying for other people's food and shelter? The only time you should be willing to do so is (1) they did it for you when you were small, (2) they are having smiling, fun sex with you, (3) they are your kids, or (4) you legitimately adore them as a positive thing in your life in some way not described by 1-3. Even (2) is a dicey thing, since that reason alone is insufficient justification to c…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 01:12 PM
3

Said every orbiter ever. I am sure if you just wear the right shirt, cologne, etc., along with just the right amount of listening to her concerns, then she will surely see that you are the Right Guy for Her. /s Reading what and how you write here, my sense is you over-intellectualize things that are not terribly complicated. You are doing that here.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:51 PM
2

Just don't respond to emails, texts, or calls. Ever. If they come see you, shrug and tell them bluntly you see no need to keep in touch as you are not lovers or friends. Quit letting them leech off you.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 12:29 PM
14

Go see a lawyer, not reddit.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 02:38 AM
2

So, in sum, women getting pointless liberal arts degrees may think they deserve a higher-status man, because education=value, in their minds. They will have high student debt, low pay/no job, and an inflated sense of their worth on the marriage market. Sometimes large numbers of people need to learn bitter lessons via experience, because wisdom starts getting derided as nonsense. America has a lot of that right now. Trouble is they want to keep using other people's money to learn what really is …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:17 PM
3

Why would you be capable of being shamed at such a thing? I don't like even the idea of having sex with the super-annuated women in a retirement home, and I don't need to just try it once to make sure. Similarly, if you don't like even the idea of having hard dicks anywhere near you during sex, you don't need to just try it once to check it out. Right? Disgust is disgust, and you don't have to justify it. If she is similarly disgusted at the very idea of being with a naked woman, then I guess sh…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:07 PM
13

No fucking way are you going to be the live in houseboy while she spends her time with another man. What, you want to live like that? Seriously? Jesus, the open relationship sounds like it was her AFBB wet dream, and you agreed to it. To hell with that. You need to get harder, colder to her. You ar enot the chump fixing the plumbing at home while AF fixes her plumbing at the bachelor pad. You are the guy cutting ties and getting free to date fresh meat, leaving her the dregs of being single and …
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:58 PM
6

Trading insults indicates you think the person is an equal or superior. You don't trade insults with young kids or doddering old people, you indulge them like the pitiful people they are by ignoring their bad behavior. That is how you can best instantly reduce a person's status--by treating them like their opinion so does not matter that no response is necessary or appropriate. People watching hear their words, and see your utter indifference, and realize they just saw that person challenged you…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:46 PM
6

The proper response is to briefly--very briefly. Like 3 seconds max--look at the person, without saying a word. No expression. Then begin doing whatever it is you were going to do if the person had not said that. If you were leaving, leave. If you were about to tell a joke, tell it. If you were going to order everyone a beer, order it. But whatever you do, it is not directed at the person who just said that. Indicate by plowing ahead that you are utterly uncaring about the order that person just…
/r/askTRP12/09/14 06:44 PM
3

The corollary to Briffault's Law is the woman will have an expectation of receiving the benefit UNTIL she doesn't want to.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:17 PM
17

Read those comments. Holy crap. TIL: When a woman wakes up and feels bad about last night's sex, she was raped. But a guy? He is just getting past society's prejudices. Got it. /eyeroll
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:54 PM
137

Let us know how that works out for you, Mr. Spock.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:00 PM
45

Oh, gawd. Women over 35 can have healthy kids and they do it all the time the world around. There is a increased risk of difficulty in getting pregnant, and increased risk of the child having certain abnormalities. But those are only increased risks, not certainties. The data does support that sense of things. It is not like the women become infertile at 35 and capable of producing only misshapen hunchbacks. The data does not support that notion. Of course, he can decide to dump her for any reas…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:47 PM
3

Simper simper simper simper simper You like reading that? Neither do we. You know what you have to do, and you are looking for permission to avoid it. You will not get it here. If you want to be told to "try communication" or that "you need to really listen to her", then try /r/relationships. Here you will be told to stop losing your dignity in public and stop taking massive amounts of crap from a gal. In a few years, you will look back on that night as either the moment you woke up or gave up. …
/r/askTRP12/09/14 11:49 AM
20

I have lifted since I was 13. A few times in my life, I will take some time off, and eschew lifting. Sometimes that will go for 2-3 months. I start to notice that my mood and perception changes a bit during that time off. But I think it is no big change. And then, the day I go back to the gym, and I get about 2/3 of the way through the workout, a stupid grin crawls across my mouth. It is coming back, I realize. Over the next few weeks, as I keep lifting, a fog I didn't realize was there starts t…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 02:36 PM
78

I suppose what I mean by that is that it's difficult to essentially tell them the bullshit they are texting me I couldn't give 2 fucks less about. Why tell them? Just ignore their texts. it seems like they are only reaching out to me because enough time has gone by to where they feel I might forget about them. It seems that way because it is that way. You never cross their mind unless and until they need you to give them some emotional drip feed. Then they resume seeking the D from their preferr…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:29 PM
10

Guy should have completely nuked it by calling over the waiter and saying, "My date here apparently wants to spend time with Mr. Jordan. I will be leaving, so give me a bill for whatever I have consumed. She will be paying for her own drink. Thanks." Then look at her like you just asked the waiter about the day's soup and start talking about how you hope she has a good time with Mike and his boys. No anger, no upset, no shits given. From that point on, as far as he was concerned, she was nexted …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:14 PM
3

Educational opportunities like that one are always costly in some way, whether it is time, dignity, or money.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:23 PM
13

Dude should have left way, way early in that story.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:05 PM
2

You don't talk about it because it is sorry and boring. She needs to realize she sounds vapid and shallow when blathering about some star.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 11:26 PM
14

"Look, I want to doggystyle Scarlett Johansson and her sister, but I don't talk to you about it, for the same reasons I am sick of hearing about some guy media star." Then resume silence on the issue.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 10:58 PM
16

The plan now is to drag her feet on the divorce process so that she will have been married to him for five years. That will entitle her to HALF HIS PENSION. Oh, look, gals sitting around drinking cosmos, thinking they know how the court will apportion assets. That is like schoolyard advice about contraception: if it is right, it is only by accident.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:18 PM
11

Never complain. Never explain. Just shake you head, say, "Yeah, that wasn't going to work for me." and then change the topic. You never, ever have to explain anything to anyone about that.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 05:51 PM
11

Cool story, sis. /r/thathappened
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:21 PM
2

I'm pissed off that she Indicating you care too much.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 07:17 PM
11

Like it's even relevant to the story. Like it is true. She is even getting B+s in her marketing degree major, her internship is fetching coffee, she has no job, and her nice boyfriend dumped her ass, so now he is "abusive".
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:16 PM
6

she straight up just tells me that she wants to be single, and go out and have dates, and that what we had was too much like a relationship. You: "M'kay. It was bullshit I had to chase you down, though, to hear that. Later." Next. She wants to "stay friends" ha ha ha ha Whatever. She brought some random guy with her out this weekend...made sure she locked face with him right in front of me a few times during the night. Hard next. I told them more or less that I want them to come up and be my dat…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:07 PM
0

Plenty of guys lose money while chasing women, successfully or otherwise. No guy ever lost women while successfully chasing money.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:44 PM
29

Alpha widow who married at 29, right on cue, is now well past wall, but still thinks she could have done better. If I was her husband, her shit would be in a box the day after this published. "Go visit your former lovers, dear. I am sure they are eager to see you. Me? Oh, I am going to go spend money on 25 year old trollops. Ta!"
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:56 PM
18

Do it also an exercise for yourself. Being able to stand up in a meeting and in a controlled, focused, terse manner take someone apart with facts and your own presence is a very valuable skill. As an attorney, she likely thinks she is well-prepared to do that, but lawyers are almost never challenged to defend themselves and their bad conduct. They tend to totally lose it when they get negative feedback, no matter how accurate. And to take away some of her status in public, at a meeting? My guess…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:47 PM
10

Its only after fucking 20 stupid alpha motherfuckers does intelligence become sexy That and they come to realize IQ correlates with income.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 01:43 PM
61

Mistake No. 1: Thinking lawyers are competent or know how to run shit, just because they went to a good law school or work in a large law firm. Don't ever assume that because someone holds a credential or a title, they have their act together. Mistake No. 2: Never, ever take the slightest bit of shit from someone not paying you for that express purpose. Hell, I "fire" customers who presume to give me shit. I would never, ever, take a phone call like you did, from some lawyer do-gooder who presum…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:59 PM
5

You were completely correct in ending it.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:43 AM
1

Change the topic to something you feel like talking about.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 03:06 AM
18

I bet those grapes, er, abs are sour..... This is like the nerd in high school calling the cheerleaders stuck up and stupid.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:03 AM
2

No contact.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 01:00 AM
5

Pretty much, yeah. Don't expect the science community to admit as much, no matter how much data collects showing that to be the outline of things. Typically, in the academy, even proposing to look into things like this would be deadly for non-tenured faculty. And even once you have tenure, why go through what guys like Murray went through after publishing "The Bell Curve?" Better to just enjoy the life of an academic.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 11:24 PM
197

"I'm leaving. You coming?" If she hesitates, spin on your heel, not another word and start towards door. Don't look back once.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 11:16 PM
15

You care too much already.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 08:11 PM
9

I am sure he will get great advice over there at /r/relationships /s
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:51 PM
1

Tell them if they want to meet up, they need to schedule a time and place, and buy dinner in apology.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 12:17 PM
3

Tell them to lose weight, stop smoking, get some sleep, eat right and lift. Funny thing will happen: erectile function returns.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:28 PM
8

Treating her like a lady! /s
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:05 PM
90

What a revolution would occur in health and psychology if everyone suddenly (1) ate lots of vegetables, lean meats, and fruits...only, (2) slept at least 8 hours a night, and (3) exercised for at least an hour a day, until slightly winded and muscles are fatigued. In short, if human lived like our bodies were designed to live, an amazing thing would happen: people would feel, look, and be better.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:29 PM
19

She knows the real story regarding these men's interest, or lack of interest, in her. All those words she writes are just a dam to keep the sorrow from our view.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:14 PM
18

Hmmm. Anyone else out there in the private equity industry wondering why she is worried at all about money, if indeed she too is running a hedge fund? /arched eyebrow Because surely her ROI is the same as his, right? And her being an independent woman of talent and skill, she is able to parlay her business into big money. And surely--surely!--she has had the sort of success in the profession that makes her indifferent to what his wealth increase has been over the past 11 years of marriage. Surel…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 08:41 PM
6

should I approach her No. Why bother, unless you have a proper goal or purpose. Being her orbiter is not a proper goal, BTW. Exes are just people you knew better, and now relegate to a "Hey." /chin nod category of people you largely ignore except for the minimal level of politeness necessary to avoid being labelled rude or angry. She dumped you. Apparently in an ugly period of your existence. Hold her to it. If she starts coming around, now that you are rising in life, recognize that she is just…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:06 PM
7

Is it really a non-event though? Don't you see it that way? You should, assuming you put her behind you.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:53 PM
19

You are too interested in this non-event. Oneitis relapse imminent.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:40 PM
15

When I was a kid, guys who rode harleys often did time and would regularly hit people with bike chains. Now fat accountants ride them. So that bumper sticker is a pathetic joke.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:14 AM
4

No doubt she only likes rom coms that feature unattractive men who fit the proper roles approved by feminism.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:42 AM
16

"A real man...." When you see that at the start of a woman's sentence, it is time to move on from an article.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:00 PM
4

I didn't bother reading it. Did she simply say, "I don't want to have sex with you. Get your clothes on. This is over." Because saying it is even easier than writing it. And where is the evidence of his "enthusiastic consent?" If she cannot prove it, then she raped him.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:17 PM
23

Who will society tax with all the large corporations paying almost no tax? Corporations, functionally, do not really pay any taxes; they pass it along to consumers, shareholders, workers. I.e., people pay all taxes, not corporations. Will there be a more brutal bachelor tax on men? Of course. Most women will always vote for more goodies for themselves and their kids, which must come from somewhere. There are plenty of simpering men who will white knight their vote to help this along. Will they m…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 03:10 PM
1

she's huge advocate of frank, honest discussion. When it suits her mood and interest, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:54 PM
4

Lots of men feel this way. Why is this something that should be stifled? Because it interferes with the female imperative.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:52 PM
3

Not joking, I'm serious That is what is so damn funny, sad, and contemptible.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:41 PM
12

No one is talking Bill Gates, at least not me. Everyone can likely name, from their own lives, guys who slayed it at 18 but became chumps by 25, and by contrast, guys who were largely unsuccessful with chicks and sports in high school but became successful 27 year olds. Status and dominance is often contextual. In different venues, different talents will be rewarded with status. Don't assume that status is permanent, or that the same people will always hold it across venues.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:32 PM
7

a socially savvy bully will always be more successful in every endeavor in life than the socially awkward nerd he beat up. Nah. Life can sometimes reverse things dramatically. Put another way, sometimes that nerd goes to MIT, gets some skills that command premium compensation, and he does just fine in a larger world. Meanwhile the bully just gets fat and wears his high school letter jacket waaaay past graduation.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:52 PM
7

^ overthinking.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:46 PM
11

Let her raise the topic. No need to disclose where there are no requests for information. In sum, don't answer questions she is not asking.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 07:13 PM
4

Also, a 17 year old guy is not given the same default status as a 25 year old guy. You get "points" for status just by living a few more years. Couple that with a proper bearing and some tangible accomplishments, and you will find that at 25 you can completely and successfully pull shit off that would cause giggles if a 17 year old tried it.
/r/askTRP31/08/14 05:37 PM
4

Telling someone to "fuck off" isn't cool, it isn't edgy, and it sure as hell isn't maintaining frame. It's just being an asshole. This is accurate. The only time you should use this is when it will be like farting in church, and you specifically intend to send that message to God. What I mean by that is, you never tell some street rat to fuck off, because that is their everyday, go to interaction. Instead, you maintain a lofty reserve, and deal with them coolly and without emotion. People of low…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 05:34 PM
3

"Actually yes, I am a mathematical wizard. Right now, I can see that the probability of you being a bitch is 99%". Seems like stooping to her level and engaging in an almost childish game of name-calling. Always think, WWCD? (What would Ceasar do?) Would Ceasar deign to respond to some plebian heckle insulting his indisputable marital prowess, or would he ignore it as the nothing it is?
/r/askTRP31/08/14 05:26 PM
2

You need to develop the mindset that you could not care less what that gal says about you. She is nothing to you. People will notice that, and they will know that her insults are meaningless to you. When someone insults a person in a crowd, and the target is obviously utterly indifferent to the insult, the person who hurled the insult is thus shown to be the weak, ineffective, and helpless one. That is why not even a smirk should escape you lips at that moment. Act as though the person said noth…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 04:14 PM
8

You care too much what she says. Stop that. She tried to shame you, because that is what women do when a man they perceive as lower SMV rejects them. By telling her to fuck off, you are indicating with your conduct you have zero interest in bedding her. That threatens a woman's self-image. In order to put you back into your place, she is attacking you. She knows you regard your math skills with pride, so she went after that. If you were a football player stud, she would mock that. When women hav…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 03:52 PM
1

All those rock stars with well-sucked dicks and sexless neckbeards would disagree with her.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 02:53 PM
2

The reason she's brought YOU is so that he can show him that she's got something better If that were remotely true, she would have been hanging off OP's arm the whole time, not the ex's. This was a soft version of a woman's "Hey, let's you two fight, over me, because tingles." Thank god OP shut that down.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 02:45 PM
4

If she were male would she be a valued friend? /drop mike
/r/askTRP31/08/14 12:53 PM
32

An eighteen year investment is nothing to take lightly. You "invested" in a black hole. And now you expect a return on that? She doesn't sound like a friend, she sounds like a mooch and a leech. I would just recognize you wasted 18 years orbiting a hot chick and move on. When she tries to yank you back in, just say, "Look, we hung out, but let's be honest--you just used me for vacations and such, and didn't give much of a shit about being my friend. When I was young, stupid and attracted to you,…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 12:18 AM
2

A guy who lives the Red Pill prescription without really being aware of doing so. He just goes through life that way, like a fish swims.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 04:43 PM
3

PhDs are crap in fields like education, sociology, business, arts, history, etc. They are more often jokes, and should be treated as such. That is true whether men or women get them. When someone has a STEM PhD, and has published research as part of that process, then you nod with some approval; they have paid some dues to get that accomplishment. Oh, and law degrees, MBAs and MDs. Whatever...those are, at best, trade school certifications. Air conditioning repair certificates more than actual e…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:41 PM
7

Because their pool is drastically limited by their refusal to date down, in their view. Men of the same station have no similar filter similarly reducing their options.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:00 PM
1

They both want one last night with their close friends before they leave. It's not going to be one on one. I'm not even going to drink much, if at all. Ha ha ha Look at that hamster spin. She already knows it is totally on with her ex-lover. I think it's time for some serious dread game Downgrade more like. She is already putting you in cuckold category.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 03:54 PM
74

That is some black belt red pill right there.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:44 PM
3

The guys do fight an uphill battle in most courts, but unless there are kids, she is likely about to find out that she gets very little in terms of ongoing support, unless this has been a multi-decade marriage. Where both parties earn money in reasonably commensurate amounts, as here, and there is a history of employment with benefits, etc. Courts are generally no longer in the business of making one spouse pay endlessly for another. You still have some legacy cases, where women are claiming dec…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:46 PM
23

explain in court. lol. Pathetic. Ignore him.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:26 AM
7

More like not be as good as the next option. Hypergamy, yo.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:37 PM
25

i think she forgot No she didn't.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 06:13 PM
23

Your GF has too many "close" guy friends, it sounds like. Red flag. Why? Because gals are generally situational friends; they are "friends" with the people around them who have some usefulness to them. What use do these men have to her? Orbiters. But whatever. Attractive gals are going to have orbiters. Fact of life. But this "She says she sleeps in the sisters room..." is a "uhhhhh...okay," that would make me wonder why she just has to sleep at other people's house after drinking, without me ar…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 06:12 PM
1

Yeah, gotta go, then. Just do the brake repairman back turn when she comes up to you. When she comes up to you and says "Hi" you engage for about 40 seconds with the "things okay? Good" talk. Then you move on. No smiles. No hugs. If she tries to hug you, no response, and then look at her like she is your grandmother who just farted. You need to get over this gal, and getting her out of your life is how you do it. You do that by ending any sort of ongoing validation you give her. At present, she …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:48 PM
40

No, that case will go nowhere. The cop can ignore the report. The prosecutor can ignore the matter. The judge can dismiss the matter. It will go nowhere, because gender.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:39 PM
0

I want her to get the impression .... Diagnosis: Still in the grip of oneitis. Caring is the problem. Her perception of you will be that you are trying to hard, because you will be. Consider skipping the reunion. If you have some odd notion that you must go, now you have to blow it off, to show the family you are your own man who does as he pleases with life. But, but mom will be mad? Grandma will be upset? Dad will be pissed? @$%#$ them. You control your schedule, and if seeing this gal sucks, …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:30 PM
56

Young men, do you feel crosshairs being placed upon you? If not, you are not paying attention.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:36 PM
57

"Don't teach my daughter to be a money-wringing leech."
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:39 PM
7

Dread game works well in marriage, it's all about frame. Only if she will lose status/face/orgasm quality without you being around. Otherwise she is fine with you packing your shit and leaving.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:01 PM
118

Oh, look, /r/relationships is telling some man to trust his wife when she leaves him with the kids, takes her vibrator, refuses to show him what other goodies she takes, and goes incommunicado. And he is told that she needs time for herself, etc. Riiiiight. Any guesses what people's reaction would be at that sub if he was packing sex toys, refusing to show what is in his luggage, and then goes silent for days?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:57 PM
-1

The male version of this despair and upset is being a male and realizing that 99.9% of women you encounter will have absolutely no sexual interest in you whatsoever, unless you are among the genetically gifted top .1%, measurably richer than almost any alternative, or work very, very hard for years to increase your place in life. That realization can occur at 15 or 55, and can be quite the crisis.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 05:06 PM
3

How many of you think she gets upset when unions stage protests outside the homes of their opponents, and harass the families of their opponents in that way? But when she is inconvenienced...well, now it is time for action to be taken by the authorities! /fistintopalm
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:46 PM
16

To my perception, at least, it went from a woman showing off to a husband she trusts to her trying to make you jealous and run her own version of dread game. Pretty much dead on. The original post reads like a guy who had the situation well in hand prior to this, and the gal was reaffirming that she looks to OP for validation, even in the face of an apex male's offer for sex. Good situation. Good GF. The extra facts he provides suggests, instead, that she sees him more as a sexless drone, possib…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 04:08 PM
34

What is there to confront her about? She was at some work thing, it appears. A celebrity had the houseboy/security guard give her a number to call if she wanted to sloot. In a moment of flattered surprise, she took a card from houseboy/guard, but called you, to express her pleasure and surprise at the attention. She did nothing bad here, and in fact, her calling you shows she goes to you with this stuff, rather than some slag GF who would say, "Yeah, baby, call him!" Ignoring it now is the best …
/r/askTRP27/08/14 03:47 PM
28

That is as good as you can do in those situations. Don't bring it up again with her.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 03:39 PM
10

What is expected of men? Depends on who you ask. It is fairly clear, at least to me, that divorce and custody laws operate for middle class to upper class men as a severe sanction against upgrading. They do not operate similarly for women. In less formal relationships, such as dating, men are much more free to upgrade, and often will when given the chance. Typically for men, however, they will have opportunities to upgrade only as they move upwards in social status as they age from 18 to middle …
/r/askTRP27/08/14 01:38 PM
3

she wants me as an orbiter I think She has you an an orbiter. You are her beta bucks when she needs validation. Cut her off. Totally. Hard next. No more relationship. She is not your friend, she is an emotional vampire.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:28 AM
15

They just drink till they black out, That is what they claim, anyway, that they blacked out.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:21 AM
3

Two x Chromosomes. /changetopic
/r/askTRP26/08/14 01:06 PM
8

every time she meets a guy and they start something new, this one guy from her past shows up and fucks everything up. And she can't do anything about it. lol Always the man's fault. It is not like she could, you know, tell him to get lost or anything.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 12:55 PM
53

It is female imperative all. the. way. down. They spend a lot of words and engage in much sophistry to say, "Meh. Whatever is best for her. Fuck him."
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 12:17 AM
12

Don't call plates girlfriends. Don't GF girls who act like plates. Ask yourself, does she act like my GF or a plate? This one incident would not make her a plate, IMHO, but what else is there making you uncomfortable?
/r/askTRP25/08/14 09:52 PM
14

It is because he cannot handle a strong, confident, vivacious woman, who is secure in her weight and sexuality and etc etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 09:34 PM
9

I'm sure not one of the negative commenters would be hot enough for him to consider bedding. He wouldn't even have them as coffee-fetching assistants.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:12 PM
49

Unfit? Him? Shit, that guy is in great shape, from what I can see. If some gal is calling that guy unfit, she has no clue what fit guys look like. Hit arm is vascular and there is an indentation between his bicep and this elbow. That equals low body fat and a regime of lifting.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 07:57 PM
3

Once she has a kid with him, she has her income anchor, and the pre-nup, in a practical sense, starts to become far more "negotiable" than most people would expect.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:35 PM
72

/r/relationships will tell him to see a counselor, listen to her feelings about why she did these things, and look into his heart and try to forgive her. Of course, if the genders were reversed, the fury at the gold-digging, cheating gigolo would be so powerful that small cities could be lit with all the electrons flowing into reddit servers, demanding his head.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:32 PM
7

"Sorry about your cord. I didn't see it. Next time don't fucking yell at people; people don't like that, including me." /utterly calm face; turn and exit
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:28 PM
4

I've never met somebody who let oneself go on a christmas party or business trip. This would damage their reputation. One slip could ruin your career. Where do you work, a Mormon accounting firm?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 07:20 PM
18

Yes, AWALT, and yours seems to have an extra heaping. Stop calling her your GF, because she is self-identifying as plate material.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:10 PM
1

SEntence? Ha ha. Good one. Judge will likely let them off and scold the young men for not controlling themselves and being gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 12:27 AM
2

There are plenty of guys who would marry the cows, but the gals don't want to give milk to those guys. The guys the gals do want to marry get the milk free, from multiple cows.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 12:21 AM
3

in the real world I fucking RARELY meet these radical feminists. Nice to be away from campus life and large corporation organizations, isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 06:49 PM
31

she said she would also want to do it with me and another guy. And the real agenda thus presented itself. You realize this was the goal, I hope, and the other proposed activity was just the lure. BTW, you will find a guy for her (unstated, perhaps, but certain) preferred activity--MFM threesome--in about 10 minutes of looking. You will find a gal for your preferred activity--FMF threesome--in about....well, get back to us when you do find what couples like you call The Unicorn: a bisexual, non-p…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 03:58 PM
6

how could I have acted differently in this situation? Rear naked choke her into unconsciousness, followed by a kabar knife beheading, rather than a noisy security round. Or you could have just played it off like the no big deal it was. She was just doing the stripper routine of pretending like she owned the place, and could talk smack to men in the audience, rather than being meek about displaying her body for money. (That is what she is, essentially, a quasi-sexual body performer, somewhere bet…
/r/askTRP22/08/14 01:58 PM
1

Tom leykis. Be prepared; it is not for the faint-hearted.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:07 PM
21

Jenny who won a hotel in Las Vegas for this weekend and Jenny has invited Sally to come spend the weekend partying with her in Vegas. Riiiiiiight. She just happened to win a trip to Vegas, and she just happened to invite her fading friend, Sally. My first thought is the whole "win" story is just cover, to make things seem more innocuous and put pressure on you to accept the situation. After all, who could possibly be against accepting a free trip to Vegas, right? Being against a "free" trip make…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 06:52 PM
1

Don't take other people's stuff. Don't make them do what they do not want to do. No hitting, except when struck first. Volume does not make your opinion better.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:59 PM
41

Sometimes a unicorn is just an otherwise-perfectly-decent donkey with an empty toilet paper roll taped between its ears.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 07:08 PM
1

in his future. Nah, it is already in his past and present. He is just getting the notice now.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:41 PM
4

Reddit see every social interaction with rose colored glasses. Depending on gender, of course. If he was the one getting and sending texts while in Vegas, the people at /r/relationships would give entirely different advice.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 01:47 PM
1

There will be demands that young men be allocated to such people, to help them perform such tasks. Taxpayers will be told to pay up, and voters of advanced age will, once again, reward the political party responsible for giving them, yet again, the resources of others.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 01:39 PM
10

Quit responding to her texts, except when you have a need to. She is still feeding off your responses. End them. It will help you move along in life.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:02 PM
18

Well, I guess cunnilingus is totally off the table now, even if you like it, because no one gets a free fucking ride. And if there is anything else you don't feel like doing--sharing money, cleaning the gutters, whatever the fuck--you let her know that shit is over too, because wives told her they don't do things for their spouses unless it is liked.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:33 PM
10

. She wants to stay married Why should a little thing like her not loving you, providing sex, being kind, etc. get in the way of her beta bux? Lose your job, then see how long she wants to stay married.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:06 PM
5

She wants beta bux in the form of military pay and benefits, yo. She knows precisely what she wants, and how to get it: stay married.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 06:05 PM
19

Her family answers the door and tell me she slept at a friend's. So she lied. She is sexing someone else.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:00 AM
10

When I was younger, I would have said, "How attractive are the women who hit on you? Women tend to try and trade up, so those gals are typically on a lower level. That will give you a sense of things." But looking back on things, that would mean that around 90% of guys would have no clue, because gals only hit on the top tier of men.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 12:48 PM
7

TL;DR: AFBB appeals to women even in middle age, if they think they can pull it off. Also, the columnist is a terrible writer. She takes the laughable cliches about how men were lords of the castle, mixes it with cliches about how now women are independent and strong, and thinks she just provided insight. That plus she uses 50 words when 10 would do.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:18 PM
7

Dumb way to approach the kids in the example you provide. Rather than react to the obvious attempt at negative attention, your buddy can say, for mom to hear as well, "You can stop jumping on my couch, or you and your mother need to leave. I don't let anyone act that way in my house." If he is at her house, he looks at the kid, then the mom, and says, "I will come back later; you two obviously need to discuss his behavior and set some rules."
/r/askTRP12/08/14 01:46 PM
15

Why is he telling off the kid? His interaction should be like that of the mother's other friends, who would not presume to parent at all. Let the mom deal with that. His only job is to have fun with the mom, and when the kid brats it up, step back and let the mom deal with it. If the kid is always around, bratting it up, he should stop seeing the mom. But he should in no case accept any responsibility or role as a disciplinarian with the kid.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 01:05 PM
8

Speak for yourself. At different times in my life, I read Caesar in the original Latin, mastered subtle arts, fought in alleys, killed my meat, mourned my dead, and climbed mountains. I contain multitudes, dude, and sound my barbaric yawps, etc. You want to see yourself as simple? Leave me out of your club.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:58 PM
8

The notion that men are more "simple" than women is a contemptible bit of stupidity peddled by people without sense of history. Look at the greatest works of art and literature. Yup, primarily men, throughout the thousands of years we have records showing who did what, that is who put down mankind's most wrenching, heartwarming, harrowing, beautiful, sorrowful, etc. works. Does that indicate simpleness is at work in men? Or does it indicate that, relative to females, men are capable of profound …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:38 PM
33

Would they go visit their dead friends ar Arlington? If they were a boy, would they listen to their brother express sadness at being kicked out of his house and denied access to his kids? Would they accept going to jail for not having enough income to pay what a judge decided they should pay, based on imputed income? Etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 11:21 AM
2

Steel sharpens steel. Women are not steel. Men can be, if raised by men. And I await her article bitching about how we need more male elementary school teachers NOW! /Crickets
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 01:57 AM
14

the author wonders how hookup culture became so prevalent in modern dating that the more traditional methods of dining out and pleasant conversation somehow leave women not wanting sex with their evening date. They were not dating 50,000 years ago, either. The women were paying attention to who was the alpha stud, and then presenting themselves for sex with him. Why are people surprised that this behavior is somehow not the norm, or that "romantic" dating was ever really a thing?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:37 PM
5

The most crucial part is not losing your cool, not remaining in the situation, and not explaining yourself in any way once he starts in with the "What are you saying, brah, why you so mad" misdirect about his aggressive behavior. The whole point of the jackass' conduct is to get you to do all three, of course. He knows perfectly well what he is doing. By not doing any of the three, you give the other people--who are the real focus of his efforts--the chance to see that the guy is a socially aggr…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:32 PM
1

Do they really expect that to result in a happy, lifelong marriage? Alimony and child support after 5-10 years of stay-at-home indolence is just fine in terms of an outcome for that sort.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:59 PM
66

I treat guys like that much as I do retail store clerks. I am distant, but polite, and as soon as the purpose for which I am interacting with them is over, I leave their presence. If the guy comes into your orbit while you are talking to others, and starts running his mouth, look at him while he talks with a perfectly neutral face, no matter what he says. Funny? No reaction. Sad? No reaction. Insulting to you? No reaction. Then, when he is done, continue the conversation without saying anything-…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 02:48 PM
3

It is all about dem resources, yo. The love, honor, and cherish thing doesn't buy a week in Cabo, his income does.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:50 AM
6

No, because then she cannot spend it. And that is financial spousal abuse.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 05:28 PM
15

You: "I want you to get a job. I am sick of carrying all that weight on my own." Her: "blah blah misdirect blah red herring blah blame shift blah tears blah blah blah" You: [impassive face/say nothing until she is totally done talking and there is a 3 second pause.] "I am not interested in all that shit. When are you getting a job?" Her: [repeats earlier performance, only louder] You: I have said what I have to say. You have choices to make. But you really need to get a job. It is important that…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:28 PM
1

"Quit seeking to cause me anxiety and create drama. If you need help, ask me for it. If you want to discuss something with me, provide context and we can do so. Otherwise don't bother me with this 5th grade crap." When she goes off on you, your response is silence and a stare. Then tell her she now needs to not only knock it off but also apologize.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 03:45 PM
10

"When a male friend is doing something sexist (being a deadbeat dad, down-talking women, ogling women, secretly spending shared money, lying to their partner, etc.) have integrity and say something to your friend." So A man doing things A woman doesn't like because it is against her specific interests is now sexism? GMFB. "Have integrity and..." Oh, look, shaming some men to police the conduct of other men. My my. Shocker.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:30 PM
16

So she lied to a man bout who she was and what she was all about, because she wanted him to marry her, which would be bad, but because he is attractive as a mate, and she really wanted it, that makes it okay? Putting "really in front of a person's desire doesn't change the ethics of the situation. Why call her out and embarrass her? It changes nothing. She is still who she is. She still did what she did. The only issue now is whether he wants to stay married to a person he just met. A person he …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:43 AM
30

but I honestly couldn't stand to stay with this woman, no matter how good our past together has been She already lied to him in order to con him into marrying her. So that past was built upon his misapprehension of who he married. Eventually she will treat him like any other mark. That is what people like her do. That is what she is.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:09 AM
57

A woman who engages in that level of sexual manipulation and promiscuity is not going to be a woman who remains faithful (in any sense--sexually, emotionally, or putting him first before all else) over the long term. He might as well get the whole divorce matter out the way now, rather than wait until there are more assets and such at risk. And her manipulation was not just of the nerdy guys, but also of him. She has already demonstrated she regards him as just another mark for the con. He disco…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 12:50 AM
2

I get your point, but what if she actually comes close and tries to have a conversation? "Go away. We will never speak." /back turn
/r/askTRP03/08/14 09:31 PM
3

Yes, she is living under a rock. It is called contemporary Western girl Cosmopolitan culture. It tells them things like that.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 01:32 PM
3

You should watch this and draw your own conclusions. https://www.youtube.com/watch?list=UUC3L8QaxqEGUiBC252GHy3w&feature=player_detailpage&v=khJlFvWGE7A#t=1230
/r/askTRP01/08/14 06:59 PM
5

Enjoy her company while it lasts. Wish her well when it is over. Don't try to pretend that you were her first, and don't bother thinking about how you might be her last.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 06:40 PM
427

When you end it, do not tell her why. If she is going to announce her beta bux agenda in so vile a fashion, let her warn the next target too. Telling her that she is totally screwing up only allows her to drape more camouflage over her festering sink pit of a personality.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:48 PM
2

"do you know any attractive swingers?" Wait. Wait one minute...are you saying that all those websites are not real life videos of swingers? The hell you say!
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:41 PM
2

For guys with multiple gals, and an express "no commitment" arrangement, it can work, I suppose. Just having some fun with a gal now and then without having to date or dine or etc her is fine. I would think that the relationship has to be that way from the beginning, and the man in that situation cannot slide into being a "boyfriend experience" provider while the good, hot sex is delivered by someone else. If she starts to slide into dumping her emotional needs on you, you are then providing the…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:35 PM
5

She asked me if I would date her if she got fat "Would you date me if I was unemployed and scared?"
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:20 PM
12

Check in with her at 35 and see what she is blathering at that time.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:33 PM
1

If she is lying about a $19, 000 gambling debt she ran up, that is different than lying about leaving the stove on.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 01:00 PM
3

if you want children, and you are willing to go through the pain of holding your frame every waking moment of your life Having kids makes holding frame a breeze. You love the snotty little buggers so damn much, giving them the right example to follow becomes a joy, not a burden.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 10:10 PM
2

I have to worry about some cop blasting half my race off because he felt like killing darkies that day, and you're sweating this? How actuarially likely is this form of death for your socio-economic strata? Because unless you are gang-banging and slinging on the South Side...
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:40 PM
0

might go to a club or something with friends. Nah, something more intimate and up close with both guys and gals. Some activity as a group. Clubs blow.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:39 PM
3

but how do I make it clear that she shouldn't get with anyone else etc without coming off like a needy/worried guy - advice? She is clear on that. What she does, however, is another story. Sounds like you should be lining up something to do that night, with gals.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 09:28 PM
3

Somehow, I doubt those women are going to see movies with fat men as romantic leads. Rather, my bet would be they settle in to watch a good old fashioned "True Blood" or some such show, filled with male hard body dudes. Anyone want to take the other side of that bet, and then look up the various authors' writings, to see whether they go for John Candy reruns or "Magic Mike" when it is time to rub one out?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 02:10 AM
1

There actually is a few such games out there: all those stupid games like "Candy Crush" that are pushed on Facebook.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 02:06 AM
0

If height doesn't mean anything, she needs to immediately submit her application to fight in boxing and MMA and go earn the millions just waiting for a short chick like her who can beat up the tall bruisers inexplicably dominating those sports. People would pay lots of money to see her put a whuppin on those tall guys. Avoid discussing the issue with her. If she hits you again, just quietly say, "I don't hit you. I expect you to show me the same courtesy."
/r/askTRP28/07/14 07:23 PM
1

correlation is meaningless unless you can prove causation The way causation is often proven is to note the correlation, and then remove all other reasonable means of causation. When all other variables are removed as likely causitive factors, you surmise that you have found causation. Your argument is essentially the same one tobacco companies used all those years. No, we cannot prove absolutely that the correlation between smoking tobacco and all those diseases is the result of causative factor…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 03:59 PM
1

"GFB." Then silence.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 12:01 AM
159

Older women are finding out what it means to be an average to below-average man.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 11:56 PM
104

Goddammit, I hate these "I know the obvious answer is X, but I will not do X because simper simper simper and mew mew mew. So kind internet strangers (cringe cringe), what should I dooooooooo?" So stop calling her and stop thinking about her as a "plate". She dumped you. When you see her in your social group, be polite, but be different. She is not a lover any longer, so DON'T TREAT HER LIKE ONE. She is like every other woman you do not have sex iwth, so treat her accordingly. No investment in h…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 10:05 PM
2

Developing your ability to provide a service to others is how you develop the ability to make a living.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 12:53 PM
15

I, for one, am quite happy to see deletion of those "I think you are all idiots here at TRP, so convince me otherwise!" posts that occasionally appear. Keep pruning them out. I would also encourage pruning out some of the simpering "I am still so lost and lonely after swallowing the red pill...please comfort me, kind internet strangers." If you find yourself writing either of those two things, you are in the wrong place. We are here to fix cars and appreciate their appeal, not discuss or allay y…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:42 PM
16

Focus on being as absolutely good and on-task as you can, making yourself available to them every minute and doing whatever work you can as well as you can. Show up early for work. Stay past your scheduled time to make sure you finish up anything needing to be done. Never gripe. Never shirk. People will notice.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:36 PM
2

Of course they would. That is what makes it all so funny, and sad, at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:34 PM
56

If this is all in reaction to her, you are living life wrong. Set your goals, and go. Don't spend you life reacting to her.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:01 PM
14

People who insist that you not give them the right advice, should get no advice.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:31 AM
4

If they didn't, evolution would not have equipped men with an interest in bonding with their kids and kids related to them. Evolution does not waste calories, and raising kids, that takes up a man's calories.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:26 AM
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