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Alextryingforgrate/r/seduction15/07/19 09:11 PM
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Dear Penthouse forums....
/r/seduction18/11/24 05:08 AM
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I'm not saying there isn't chick's in this sub. Ask reddit would be a better place. Or just fake being a chick inn your profile and gonto the ask women sub
/r/seduction15/11/24 02:48 PM
1

Because chicks get jerks arrogance mixed up with confidence. Chicks want a confident guy. Thats it end of story. Go throught IG and find all the women dating coaches and the #1 thing women are looking for is confidence. Even start a poll here on Reddit in askreddit and ask what women are looking for. End of Story.
/r/seduction07/10/24 08:55 PM
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James Marshall.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:22 AM
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It's the only reason I can thinkmof that someone would move cities and not do research maybe it's his dream job.
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:33 AM
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Work?
/r/seduction21/09/24 03:14 AM
1

Day game bud, get out on the street and go talk to everyone until you are able to chose the ones you want.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:31 AM
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I was at Cars and Coffee this morning a chick rolled in with a McLaren we chatted a bit and suggested tracking my cars as well. Not sure its in the cards really right now but why not.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:38 AM
2

Getting to know people through txt is difficult and it doesnt have the same effect as in person because you cant read the context of how you are trying to deliver the message. What im trying to saw is that you cant read sarcasm on a phone screen or computer monitor. Just leave those kinds of jokes out of it or use emojis on the second one. Yes most people are trying to be funny but not everyone is funny that is also another issue.
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:00 PM
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If its on delivered whats the problem, she hasnt seen it yet. it when its on read and its been a couple days. Of course if it just stays on delivered its also your answer.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:28 PM
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Any reply to that last one yet? Sounds like you handled it pretty well. Should have just brushed her off as it sounds like shes looking for validation or some dude trying to catfish you or something.
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:02 PM
2

Sounds like she has some plans at least to do better than just work for her body. Maybe she does want a future for more than just "servicing" giggaty giggaty!!! Sounds like you guys need to have some more talks about what is going on. I sort of missed the you guys talking about being exclusive. Maybe she does want to do the actual life thing and be a parent etc. I just had a though about a situation that i had regarding a waitress friend as well. Not sure if i dodge a bullet or could have had a …
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:41 PM
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Sure if thats what you want go for it. Just not sure what he wants. I do know some women that where just buck wild before having kids then after they had 2 children sex just pretty much stopped so theres only one way to find out on the rest of the variable and what not.
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:30 PM
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Depending on where you live, living with someone for more than X months makes you guys co dependants and thus when you split she still gets half so check your rules on living together.
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:29 PM
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Yeah but sounds like she wants to be a mommy with this dude.
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:27 PM
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just for safety dont forget that prenup
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:27 PM
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You at least have rubber right?! SERIOUSLY MY MAN! DO YOU HAVE RUBBER IN THE GAME?? Becuase #3 should be #1. And yes it is coming off as more of a want you to be her babies daddie not sugar daddy.
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:24 PM
1

Dartboards look cleaner and a bullseye makes you look talented. Maybe that is your issue?
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:40 PM
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Throw enough darts at a dart board and youll hit the bulls eye.
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:23 PM
4

This is the way. Now i need to play some video games to occupy my mind before going to bed, or i should just go to bed.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:50 PM
1

but she still follows me so what should I do? Move on.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:00 AM
0

Yeah she doesnt sound interested. So here is the thing. Just go out in style and tell her how you feel, get some emotions going through you already. The way i see it youll be here in a coule months asking about school is starting up in a couple months and what should i say to my crush. What she is the ONE? You're 16 you have a whole life a head of you. What do yo think College/University is about? Start getting shut down so you can learn how to succeed. Just tell her how you feel about her, give…
/r/seduction15/05/22 01:06 AM
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Thats really oversimplified to getting a date. Thats how it goes essentially, if you want a better chance at scoring number and getting dates have a small conversation with her so she will remember you and try to make a connection with her.
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:43 PM
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Hand on the lower back means nothing, most chicks dont like that, if its any consolation for your loss of a couple of dates.
/r/seduction14/05/22 10:27 PM
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Yeah you are over reacting. You are assuming things based on a picture. You also said you're not official with this chick. Not sure who the real drama instigator is here because here you are on Reddit looking for validation based on nothing. So maybe wait till a little later and call them up talk to them and find out your shit. then be an adult about it and make a decision based on better information.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:14 PM
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Now you just gotta be cool about it, go start banging other chicks and dating other women before you really fuck up a friendship. I just lost a friendship as well. There is a lot more to my story even though i told her how i feel about her and would like to be more than just friends some day. Anyways it was the decline of a friend ship from that point on. Hopefully she is still cool with being friends with you but you need to start dating other women to show this friend that you have value than …
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:28 AM
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If you’re getting feeling for someone that just wants to fuck it’s not going to end well. You’re not dating her you’re having a sexual relationship with her. Of course there will be a point where dick is no longer a priority so unless you’re timing is right just bang and have fun. If it doesn’t work out move on.
/r/seduction10/05/22 02:39 AM
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James Marshall, The Natural Lifestyle
/r/seduction23/04/22 01:26 PM
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Just work it into a conversation talk about eating and cooking and ask what she like to cook for her partner or have her partner cook for her. I just assume most women a have a boyfriend or partner etc.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:03 PM
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like 1 million to be honest. Dont sweat these sort of things losers that judge you because you like sex are just insecure about theirs and that you have your sex life figured out or trying to figure it out.
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:28 AM
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whats your solution?
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:22 PM
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Shave it dude, dont spend money on cheap gimmicks like hair plugs, sure someone like Elon can pull it off be he also has a car manufacturing company makes space ships etc. Chicks also dig bald guys. Just own it, it shows some maturity as well that you can deal with a shitty situation.
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:42 PM
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Cute is soemthing you use for cats and dogs pets etc. Step it up and use hot, attractive you looke greast today, etc.
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:25 AM
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Keep on bangin on!
/r/seduction15/04/22 11:22 PM
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I always remain professional in my job and will always prefer to not overstep any boundaries Thats your answer.
/r/seduction15/04/22 10:49 AM
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5'9" isnt short but its not tall either. Just work on everything else you can like wieght, hygene and fashion. Lets also just get the height thing out of the way as well since you mentioned it. When you meet chicks not happy with your height you're probably not going to miss out on much anyways. They most likely have really high expectation or maintenance. You're dodging a bullet there. So just take care of looking good, fashion, hygene and having a healthy looking body.
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:46 PM
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Sounds like you sister has some underlying issues. 5-10 years younger than you is meh. Its when you're driving around the local high school in your 30s trynna pick up the ladies is the red flag.
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:21 PM
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Seriously? Anywhere dude, any fucking where is a place to meet chicks. Sounds like you're not trrying hard enough and just expect women to grovel at you. Enough of these low effort posts mods. Seriously is there not an FAQ for this basic of a question?!
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:46 AM
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I can have fun, dynamic conversations but I just can't conjure the energy to engage in loud, dramatic interactions or to come in at high energy (or sustain it for more than a few minutes). If shes not your energy then dont waste your time unless its someting you really want.
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:13 PM
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might want to follow that up with an example
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:07 PM
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This minus the constantly teasing her. Having different chicks on your arm will be enough to let her know you have value and that you're moving on and DGAF.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:14 AM
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Can I just tell em during a conversation the same thing that “listen bro I just wanna travel and fuck bitches you know what I mean” Yes, this is an option.
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:32 PM
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What are things you would talk to less hot chicks about. Thats what you talk about with this chick. Dont over think it just make conversation. As everyone has pointed out she is still a person.
/r/seduction01/03/22 08:46 AM
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Guess youve been living a golden life down easy street? To a lot of people life is hard. It only gets easier through practice and going and doing. How many times did people build airplanes until the Wright brothers built their first plane. How long did it take to figure out the telephone, the telescope. Fuck imagine where we would be if people just said fuck it after not being able to do things.
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:17 AM
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I mean the door is open right there. You need to do something and soon. like tomorrow soon, so if youre going to bang her remember to communicate with her about what she likes her boundaries and what not. Also eat her out, chicks love it when that gets done.
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:25 PM
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Dont use preframed routines. People are variables they arent going to react to your routine the same way all the time. You need to learn conversation as a skill. Being a robot doesnt help you at all. You need to learn to be fluid and go with the flow. Besides it shows women that you are human and can be your own person. Who are you guys following that still promotes or talks about routines?
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:26 PM
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You have girl friends, hang out with them and get them to help you being social. Go out for coffee with them. Cant tell me that you suck that bad if you have friends like that.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:45 AM
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So are you just wanting to get into these circle becuase you want to be one of those things or just trying to find an easy way into getting with models. Of course if you just became the greatest seducer in the world you dont have to worry about any of those circles as they will come to you. To add to that all of those options is going to be a lot of work. So might as well work on your game.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:50 AM
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Yes for sure it was worth the cash. Youll be working with a bunch of guys and maybe a chick to figure out where you are with yourself. Like this isnt just a go out and talk to that chick, talk to that chick, talk to that chick. Its a whole workshop to work on your inner game, your mental state, get some exercise meditate also help you out with some clothing if needed. As for where i was with women was, I was completly oblivious about women acutally liking me. Now its easier to see when women are…
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:26 AM
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Well you can’t fix your problem with out doing nothing. I had a boot camp with the natural lifestyle. Really helped me with a lot of my Issues.
/r/seduction02/02/22 12:30 PM
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She is now just a coworker. You can try to be friendly later on and just have regular conversations with her in the lunch room etc. Aside from that just get going back to work and start getting shit done.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:04 AM
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Sorry for being a downer, looking at the numbers they are usually not in your favour when its someone that deals with customer service. If it is busy and she still looks at you then maybe she does like you. Just go shoot your shot if not then oh well at least you know the answer.
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:27 PM
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Just keep it small for now. dont worry about getting a number. Like how many people are also in the gas station when youre there? Are you the only one in the store then thats probably why shes looking at you. But if the place was packed and still looking at you either A you look like youre going to rob the place or B she acutally likes you. Other then that just small steps. Hopefully she doesnt find a better job till then.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:09 PM
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Rejection is the entry fee to being a great in the world of seduction. We all have to pay that fee. Learn to deal with it and learn from them. Thats how youll get better at this.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:47 AM
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Alright theres a lot going on here. 1 youre giving nothing but excuses 2 you dont seem to want to change and only complain 3 you need to work on yourself, your self confidence, your image 4 until you want to change stop complaining 5 we all have issues that make things difficult if you really want to go on a date youll find a way to do it
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:34 AM
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You still need to get out of the house for food and what not? Make an effort then to meet people. So we are getting it that you have a difficult time to make time you also need to learn to manage your time as well. Eventually youll need to move on.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:13 AM
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Step 1, get a job in a city that you can go out and be social in. step 2, go be social step 3, ??? step 4, profit.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:05 AM
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A, do the same thing B, get rid of her and move on.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:11 AM
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approaching them.
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:01 PM
1

So even when you do something epic, are you going to sound like Ben Stein in Ferris Buellers day off or Neil?
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:17 PM
1

Well compare Karl Sagan to Neil, both can wax poetically about space but Neil has the little more that really keeps my attention. I think one would call it charisma?
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:24 AM
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Pretty sure charisma has something to do with it as well.
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:21 AM
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You can still do these locations just dont do all the touristy trap shit. Like doing that holding the leaning tower of piza up thing that basic people do because its fucking clever LOL!L!!L!!
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:37 PM
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So why did my science teachers sound so fucking boring then.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:59 PM
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Its called not giving a fuck in what other think and how epic you can tell a story or make things sound. i.e. Neil Degrass Tyson makes space sound super fucking amazing.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:44 PM
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If your female resources are low it’s time to look at your life and move somewhere that there are a lot of chicks.
/r/seduction18/01/22 11:10 AM
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Go talk to r/datingadvice.
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:24 AM
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Do you just ask questions on your dates or have a conversation with them? Do you gaze into their eyes or stare like a bozo just hoping that being good looking is good enough?
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:31 AM
0

Jesus Christ op keep the work stuff on work sites find her other profiles and hit her up there instead. Ffs the last thing a chick wants to see is messages about hey let’s go for food through her LI profile. At least finding her other stuff shows her your clear intention that you would like to be more than work friends.
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:59 AM
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r/dating advice is elsewhere bruh
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:12 AM
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Wait for him after the gym and go talk to him. A lot of people dont like being bothered when they are working out. So just wait near the door grab a drink or something or prolong your work out so you Just happen to be leaving at the same time.
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:40 AM
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Not sure either getting a little late for me. So yeah you had people to hang out with in Mass. So you had a social value. Like in NYC im sure there is some FB group for PUA or seduction or a singles club something to make a couple of friends with even if its platonic chick friends. They always have other friends. Like even for now just take a break on trying to get numbers and just try to make friends with people, who knows you might just get lucky with out trying.
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:55 AM
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​ She is walking forward so do you want me to jump right in her way to get in front of her? Also wdym stop being lazy work for someone’s attention? Would you rather I did a triple backflip into a somersault Yes, and well a back flip will get anyones attention over just "hey, you" ​ Idk if your being sarcastic in this third point. But I guess I would say instead of focusing on what she says I should pay more attention to body language. No there was no sarcasm implied. When a chick is not showing …
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:46 AM
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did you have a lot of friends before you moved or was it all people that you knew before?
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:28 AM
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I will say looking back at it this girl prob had like no interest in me at all. We were walking on a busy street at night and I had came from behind basically saying what’s up. I am pretty sure that scared her Yup thats about the whole story right there. Dont be calling chicks from behind on a dark street. Most people get a little more scared at night its sort of a normal thing since we cant see to well in the dark. So if you're going to be doing day game get in front of them, even during the da…
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:43 AM
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If youre getting answers like please leave me alone you are clearly doing something wrong or plain and simple being a creep. Like how does the interaction go in the first 5 minutes. What are you talking about and if its closed yes/no questions you wont get anywhere. Begging for her number is going to just make you look weak as well. If your going to answer with hows the weather type shit you're not going to get anywhere. Also how do you dress like is your stuff clean, how is your hygene? Like wh…
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:32 AM
6

It's a fantastic literally read because it's well-written and interesting story. That
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:05 PM
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Women know how to play the game better than guys do. Any club chick always gets that sort of attention and is in it for the attention. That 6 2 chad that cock blocked you is her fantasy or better option. The same way guys fantasize over club chicks. Yeah she liked you because you showed interested and showed that you go for what you want. Just keep showing chicks you have confidence and you'll get yourself a chick. Just remember she and other women always has better options, what ever their stan…
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:13 PM
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asking the real questions here.
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:06 PM
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If you’re waiting for the perfect mood you’ll be waiting a long time. Going out when you don’t wa t to let you learn to be more fluid in social situations. Just get out and go meet people. Who knows maybe you run into the one you like by accident instead of waiting for your Disney/Hallmark moments.
/r/seduction30/12/21 01:53 AM
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You’re also sending mixed signals. Showing interest then not. Holding hands then not. You’re acting like this is grade school. Dear diary today is the big leap of faith. I may go to deep depth of heck for this but, I’m going to do it. Hold her hand! Wish me luck. Do you like this chick or not? Anyways sounds like her liking you window has closed. Might want to learn to move a little faster.
/r/seduction30/12/21 01:47 AM
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I was out one night and had a girl call me a pussy becaue i wasnt drinking, i told her its been 6 months since my last drink and i had stopped. Suddenly she had respect for me becuse of that. Not sure wtf is up with that but thanks, although i did lose interest when she called me a pussy.
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:59 AM
4

Because not everyone is looking to get jacked. They just want to lose some weight and not go full juice monkey. So that to you is half assing it?
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:47 PM
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Getting some proper fitting clothes. It gives women the idea that you have some sort of your shit together. I use to have loose fitting clothing, then bought proper fitting pants and it looked good on me. Then the same with shirts dropped a size and could see my own figured. I liked looking at myself more, not in a narcissistic way but in a way that gave me confidence. Also working out as mentioned earlier, not full on balls to the walls TST, and roids, or creatine and 42069 different supplement…
/r/seduction26/12/21 03:54 PM
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Well hes still out there so hes must be doing something right.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:38 PM
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If you’re looking for natural type stuff just google. The natural lifestyle, James Marshall et all, has a ton of info there they still have boot camps that you can attend and get some feed back to see where you’re at with you’re seduction life and how you’re attire is etc.
/r/seduction23/12/21 03:45 PM
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I’m in my 40s what pressure. That’s something you are putting on yourself.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:23 PM
1

so it sounds more like people are using it for prostitution that they are dating or even looking for a sugar daddy or fwb. In that case just stop using it since you dont seem to be looking for that at all.
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:27 AM
1

Sounds like some people are intentionally confusing FWB for sugar daddy.
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:51 AM
1

Try to clean as much dirt off as possible. Try to find something that doesnt have holes in them. Keep the guttermouth a little as possible. Just dont step over her conversations or when she is talking.
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:34 AM
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So you got caught sucking dick?
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:50 AM
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Driving truck once doesnt make you a truck driver, this keep talking to her. If you can get a good conversaiton going then invite her for a coffee or post work out drink or something. Best to try and catch her when shes leaving for the conversation.
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:47 PM
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If you dont have money, fame or social status and wants to do things with you, she probably likes you.
/r/seduction24/11/21 07:18 PM
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It’s a good story about a guy driving himself batshit crazy in the pursuit of women. Take that as you will. Personally I follow the natural lifestyle with James Marshall. Seriously he shows infields with his students. If you guys want real proof of someone wanting to help people out. Check out his stuff.
/r/seduction23/11/21 10:56 PM
1

Dance like nobody is looking. Just not like your having a seizure.
/r/seduction21/11/21 01:23 PM
1

So what do you do for meeting people? AA?
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:51 AM
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Is there another part to this or you just flat out asked her because your eye meet twice. Like she was probably looking at stuff on the shelfs and you just happened to look at each other? Ill give you credit for flat out asking for phone number but there was no conversation or rapport going on. No connection being made. Next time you need to make conversation. About what? I dont know anything but the fucking weather and small talk and closed ended quetion. Start a conversation then ask for a num…
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:51 AM
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Dont ask questions you dont want to know the answer to. If it makes you uncomfortable to know you really shouldnt ask.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:51 PM
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If shes really fucking plastered ill pass. If shes a little tipsy dont hesitate. Otherwise just stay away from a bad mistake or what can turn into a nightmare.
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:33 PM
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change the topic if she keeps changing it back to her ex cut loses and run and leave.
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:10 PM
2

Funny how you tell them the truth and your other comment is being sent passed the basement.
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:31 AM
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Yup. Kissed had a good time for hours is when they should have been fuckin.
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:24 AM
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How is this bad advice? Maybe she legit forgot or was busy etc. what do you guys think happens on a chicks regular day. You gotta work a little harder than sending a “Hey how’s it going” text and expecting a chick to show up with her legs spread and a dripping wet pussy. As I said send at least two more txts if nothing then move on. I didn’t say write Shakespeare to her. Do you yougens expect the world to stop and cater to you for a half assed txt?
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:30 AM
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Yeah it’s already too late let her go. OP should have made boundaries after 2 or 3 tests. The second OP was thinking about coming here to ask this question is when he should have told her to kick rocks go buy a dildo and go fuck herself.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:38 AM
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The fact that you did it in person get points. Send her a text tomorrow and 1 a couple of days after that if she doesn’t reply. After that call it quits until she starts to reply to your txts. It’s like a job you want. A follow up call or email doesn’t hurt just dont do t be doing it too often.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:27 AM
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Yeah also don’t forget those folllow up phone calls and emails. If it’s a job, college or chick you think is worth it the call or email then telling them you’re interested and serious.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:23 AM
-14

its a better place then here.
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:53 PM
-11

r/askwomen or some other relationship sub is better.
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:31 AM
1

She is looking for a sugar daddy to pay for her living dude. That’s it that’s all. Full stop. End of story. Move along.
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:07 AM
1

Cause I’m busy doing shit that’s why. Keeps the mystery going.
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:16 AM
3

Hey would you like to come study with me at my place for the test. Yes seriously that fucking easy.
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:40 AM
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r/askwomen
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:25 AM
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No you dont. You can jump into conversations introduce yourself and talk to everyone to assert that you're not intimidated by people, youre showing that you have confidence and can hold court. Just dont show up negging people and hold cards doing tricks. Yeah its fun and all unless you can follow it up with actual conversation. But honestly who goes around with a deck of cards in their pockets all the time unless your a magician.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:06 PM
2

You just need to let her go become a bad ass and unintentionally win her back.
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:36 AM
2

Did it or are you just not getting the answer you want?
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:24 PM
2

Here's the problem OP. You're both looking for FWB. You both seem to have the B part down. Yet he wants to put effort into the Friends part of the acronym. The problem is you just want more B than F. This is the major problem with the FWB title. People always want the benefits more than the friendship. If thats the case then you just want a fuck buddy. Real FWB, also includes not banging every time you guys meet up. Maybe a movie like a semi date night but nothing serious or having to go to each…
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:59 PM
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Well look at it this way. You can go out to clubs maybe 2 nights a week, maybe get a good conversation in, if they arent in party mode wanting to just hang out with their friends. In this case you get to see their party side and this sort of gives you a missleading idea about what said person is like. OR Go talk to a girl on the street because it where youve seen her and take the chance and man up to the situation and you get to see them as to how they are going to be in about 85-95% of the time…
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:44 PM
1

Or go to the grocery store, library, etc anywhere else but the night life in small towns. Chances are people are just wanting to get drunk on a friday night after a long week of work.
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:00 PM
2

She was pointing at her crotch called her best friend and said she wanted me to fuck her. Even had a shirt with u/grizzle eat my pussy. What am I missing?!
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:08 PM
1

Is it, or is maybe outside and having actual social skills just as successful.
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:22 AM
1

Outside, any fucking where.
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:31 PM
7

Yup. I’ll be hanging out with Mrs Robinson as well. Cause she know how to fuck and i don’t have to worry about getting the rona either.
/r/seduction26/09/21 11:59 AM
1

Sounds like you need to move out of London.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:45 AM
3

Maybe he did find the right one, its possible. Hate to break it to you it is a numbers game. Go watch TNL videos and ask James Marshall himself about meeting women. He will tell you as well its a numbers game. As someone that goes out and day games not every encounter is 5 starts getting numbers and banging chicks every day. There is still rejection and no numbers. Its still a numbers game. Whats going on in the UK that daygame isnt possible?
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:07 PM
10

Its still a numbers game, making a connection with women is the key. You might make them feel the best they have ever been. But because they are in a different part in their life they just might now want to call you back.
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:20 PM
1

What she said, Dont worry to much about it. We all want that to happen and think we will be prepared for it. Opportunity just doesnt hang around either and you need to be on your toes. At least you got the compliment from her so that should give you some sort of confidence if you're lacking in that dept.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:59 AM
11

If you can continue the conversation when her BF shows up youll do well. You seem to know how to adapt in social situation instead of just leaving disapointed because ShE hAs A BoyFrIeNd!!!
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:29 AM
3

Then I was like "I think you're really cute and I was wondering if you're single?" Which would usually result in either them saying yes or their friends getting excited and start laughing, eventually resulting in her giving her Instagram after I ask for it, but I didn't really make full conversations with anyone and wondering if I needed to? You started well with the compliment, YOU need to follow through with making a connection. Therefore a conversation is needed. What to talk about? Youre at …
/r/seduction09/09/21 08:46 PM
1

You can DM her right away while in front of her. so she does remember you unless youre a bozo that takes foodie pics and reviews them. Also id much rather get digits as well.
/r/seduction09/09/21 08:43 PM
11

Do NOT send her dick pics. Don’t ask just tell her you want to go for coffee and sit next to her. Talk about shit and try to find a topic that is sexual the escalate it from there.just don’t over think it.
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:48 AM
14

Easy now. One step at a time.
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:47 AM
5

Advise that would have been useful 6 months ago.
/r/seduction31/08/21 09:54 AM
28

GF is a different situation
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:26 AM
79

Nope even if they ask I wouldn’t send one.
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:40 PM
1

Just straight up approach women that we find attractive. To be honest how often do you as a women just swipe right? Would that not make a guy more interesting if he just approaches you and wants to get to know you?
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:11 AM
10

How old are you my man? Because there’s lots of fish in the sea. Maybe she does like you. But she probably wants to get her freak on with this dude. Tell her to go have fun and if she comes back so be it. BUT also go out and have your own fun. Don’t torture your self with one girl who knows maybe you find some one better anyways.
/r/seduction22/08/21 09:15 AM
0

Spending your free time just on the internet. Translates to watching a lot of porn. Quit that shit, eat properly and go out side. The answer is simple the actions are hard. If you believe that starting a business to hire women for your pleasure is easy to do. You really are reading to hard into the wrong stuff.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:24 AM
17

Yeah nothing is going to go wrong, with this Harvey Weinstein type of plan.
/r/seduction16/08/21 09:16 AM
1

Just own it and keep talking to her if she starts to ghost just move on you sound like your doing fine.
/r/seduction13/08/21 09:51 PM
2

FFS ask her out before someone else does. How? I dont know i dont care just go do and again dont come back until its done.
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:32 AM
3

You know whats going to happen someone else is going to be with her because of this "its too early" shit. ​ Do you like her or not? ​ Dont post in here again until you have gone up to her and introduced yourself to her and told her youd like to go out some time.
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:39 AM
14

If you’re treating seduction as a tiring job that’s what it going to feel like. Wanting to meet people should be fun. Not everyone is going to be upbeat and happy to meet you. Being Brad Pitt doesn’t mean chicks are just going to drop to their knees and start sucking your dick. I’ll try and find it later (I’m at work) even someone like James Marshall whom is by far a master of this game still says that as beginners you have to be meeting at least 5 women a day to build a good foundation to be go…
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:54 PM
7

You’ll also get your groceries done.
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:31 PM
1

You want confidence? Go do something you haven’t done before, act like you belong. Therefore; fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:30 PM
8

Dont giver her the option to chose women want the large details taken care of. I.E. hey lets go eat at __________ we can go meet ___________ at _______ oclock.
/r/seduction13/07/21 07:26 PM
4

Just a reminder that if you hook up with chicks at the gym and things go wrong you are probably still going to be going to the same gym as said chick. just keep that in mind.
/r/seduction15/06/21 06:34 PM
1

In order to be an Alpha you need to be a leader. All dating coaches will say this as well as any book on management. People want to around someone that can lead. Not just be loud and flashy, that gets obnoxious. If you can converse with people and hold a conversation and hold court, this will get people to gravitate towards you. Then you can start to sort out whom you want to talk to. If you are talking to everyone in the room your chances of landing the chick you want will greatly increase. Wom…
/r/seduction24/05/21 07:33 AM
1

There seems to be some info missing in here. Some how you find out shes 51 but youve been looking at her for a bit. We could sit here and disect this. Sounds like you either hesitated too long and she just said fuck it ill just make an excuse or she really doesnt like younger guys. Ive had a few conversations with women in this age range and they mostly dont like really young guys like yourself as they just want to bang away like a jack hammer. They do love a good fucking but like all the aspect…
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:50 PM
1

You're 25, not 30. First get to NYC, and start gaming. Then figure out if you really need a car. Dont get a car to impress others. You wont be happy. Yes its convenient, but you cant make out in the front seat of a car unlike in a cab. Now your appartment, where are you living? Whats near by? Any bars, grocerie stores, cafes? Do you have somewhere near your place to take your date? Somewhere to get to know them? On your route to work what is on the way to help you game? Car? Who cares figure out…
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:14 PM
3

Yup sounds like he low key calling you ugly. What have you done for yourself to help your self esteem? Are you going to the gym, eating properly, grooming yourself taking care of yourself? Personal care goes a long way in this game. Dont let your cousin push you over.
/r/seduction18/05/21 02:21 AM
2

You have to learn the art of the conversation. Yes ask her abut her goals dreams life expectations. Just asssume that every guy that talks to her asks the usual how was your day shit conversation. Ask eccentric questions. Like who was a better captain Picard or Kirk. BecUse if you’re on snap chances are she is just getting boring convo anyways. Also get out on the street and talk to chicks ffs.
/r/seduction05/04/21 12:04 AM
2

Do you even game?
/r/seduction27/03/21 06:12 PM
9

Screening long or short term to see if her priorities are on par with yours. Long term would be, what are her life goals, does she want to have children does she still party where does she see herself in a few years things like that. Short term, is she looking for a rebound fuck, a fling, someone to just hang out with.
/r/seduction15/03/21 11:18 AM
0

Fuck move on from these bozos theres a reason their shit is taken down and doesnt exist anymore. Check out the Natural Lifestyles instead.
/r/seduction27/02/21 07:12 AM
6

What ever dude its her loss if she only wants guys over 6 feet. As others are pointing out she probably is toxic and a bad time is not had by you.
/r/seduction21/02/21 05:36 PM
123

Still need those anomalies to get to 100.
/r/seduction21/02/21 05:31 PM
-1

Sit next to her, this way it doesnt feel like an interview, also some touch escalation.
/r/seduction18/02/21 04:09 PM
3

smh and sighs.... what are you currently doing? picking your nose when you go talk to them.... are you even trying to talk to them? As far as what i think? I think you are being lazy, just look at your question, zero effort, dude.
/r/seduction05/12/20 05:49 PM
8

Hey we should go somewhere quite and talk or have a drink or coffee or show me your guitar or watch a movie or come to my place and watch a movie.
/r/seduction30/11/20 12:55 AM
1

Or you pay them to make a video.
/r/seduction22/11/20 07:37 PM
1

Isn’t following routines a form of institutionalization? Following other people’s set and memorizing lines instead of showing intent and having a conversation.
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:35 PM
1

You can be multiple types of seducers. One will be stronger than the rest. But if you have friends that are saying you’re charming then work on that type. Yeah you will get noticed because you are tall, that honestly don’t mean shit. With that said. Keep working on seduction try being the star see how that works try the rake see how that works. Just keep working on seduction.
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:30 PM
2

Dude thanks for this post. I have girl friend that I’m in a similar situation with. She’s been with this loser for a few years dude is going no where she sobered up and has a lot weighing her down finances emotional etc. but she has been working on things. I just never knew how to approach it. Thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction27/08/20 07:37 PM
3

This I always take the friendly banter with people in customer service as just friendly banter. Sometimes rarely, but some times it happens that they want to know you more. So go ahead try that kiss and see how it goes. Or at least ask her for a coffee to see if she is up to getting to know you more than just a customer she has to be nice to.
/r/seduction27/08/20 07:21 PM
2

20yr old virgin. What are your standards Kylie Jenner or bust? Dude just go on a coffee date and walk through a park and figure it out if she really is to nice girl. Besides how else are you going to get experience besides coming here asking for advice. Get out there and just enjoy the company.
/r/seduction25/08/20 10:30 PM
1

That is quite the definition of this sub. I doubt you’ll find people like James Marshall just sitting around Reddit all day waiting for questions. All those that know how to get it done are out getting it done.
/r/seduction23/08/20 03:54 PM
2

r/malegrooming
/r/seduction23/08/20 11:25 AM
1

I said pretty much everything.
/r/seduction04/08/20 12:36 AM
8

Yeah. If you keep it up you will be like a ton of other people out there in an unhappy relationship. Just tell her how you feel that you don’t feel a connection and move on.
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:04 PM
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The way you are answering this question sounds you’re like 12. Either don’t have sex or use a condom. Besides there is a cure for pretty much everything out there.
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:01 PM
3

Just like any other situation hi my name is _________
/r/seduction09/07/20 04:40 AM
5

So have you done this to prove his hypothesis or just shit posting?
/r/seduction18/06/20 12:33 AM
52

Sounds like you ask interview type questions in hopes that she qualifies for you. How often do you ask to meet for a coffee or walk. Something to do in person?
/r/seduction30/05/20 12:40 AM
1

Yeah details you missed.
/r/seduction28/05/20 05:45 AM
2

She wants you to duck her sister cause you made her feel better about her self. If you didn’t she would not have talked to you at all.
/r/seduction28/05/20 03:57 AM
2

Who was the boot camp so those reading this can avoid said person. Fuck that if they aernt going to give you any feed back.
/r/seduction11/05/20 08:50 AM
2

Read both, personally i would start with AoS. AoS has a bunch of information of how certain types of characters or styes are. I.E. the natural, the rake, the charming type. The AoS will help you figure out the type of person you are or want to be like. It goes into some of the celebraties like Elvis, Cleopatra and of course Cassanova. The game is a good story book about ones life in the former PUA world who couldnt hold it together at the end and trying to figure out how to keep a chick long ter…
/r/seduction27/04/20 11:18 AM
1

Its more informative than the Game, at least with AOS you can figure out who you are instead of wanting to turn into a megalomanic like Mystery in The Game. edit; made a better answer.
/r/seduction27/04/20 09:18 AM
2

1.6k comments Your body language is already revealing that you like her.
/r/seduction14/04/20 01:02 AM
2

They are good conversation but dont try to blast threw this list on a date.
/r/seduction01/04/20 06:10 AM
1

You can watch all the car repair videos on Youtube all you want and still mess up an easy oil change. Sometimes you just need to go to a profesional and get them to show you what your are missing; i.e. posture, talking points, how you present yourself, sense of style etc. TNL, gets you to go through a whole bunch of things and not just approach. They teach you about meditation, style, posture, taking care of yourself and some spiritual things. You can go out to chicks all day but if you arent in…
/r/seduction29/03/20 08:45 PM
0

Women like a guy that takes control. Dont wink just go in for the kiss, if she freaks out just own it, tell her you though it seemed right. But you need to own it. This is when Confidence pays off. Own it.
/r/seduction27/02/20 06:37 AM
1

That too but for different reasons.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:34 AM
14

After reading some of your replies it sounds like you have a bit of a weird mindset going on dude. Normally i don't go this route but you sounds like you need a good break down and rebuild from some outside help. Have you thought of a dating coach or life coach. I went on a bootcamp not too long ago with The Natural Lifestyles, and some of the guys there where in the same situation. Awkward, weird, even broke down crying because they could not open about their issues when we had our first meetin…
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:32 AM
2

The memoires of casanova
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:08 PM
2

Txting her till she blocks you goes beyond looking needy.
/r/seduction13/12/19 09:33 PM
2

What are you doing for conversation? If you meet a chick on the street there are signs of what she is doing for that day. Schoole yoga groceries etc. You also need to observe her. Check her out but also LOOK at her and her attire what is she bringing/carrying with her the clues are small but huge and will help you with conversation.
/r/seduction04/12/19 08:10 AM
1

I hear what you are saying but that is also the underlying of seduction. Being able to communicate with people. Yeah we are all wanting to get pussy. Following the mystery method of playing card tricks and other mystical bs only gets you so far like good looks does. Truth is people ALL people want to make a connection the better you are at making a connection the better you will be at seduction. Getting 1 nighters are fine if thats all you want and carve your heard board to a tooth pick. But hav…
/r/seduction04/12/19 07:58 AM
2

As Chaoaticneutral said, the more you socialize in your circle the more you are exposed to other women. You will find yourself in different social circles meeting more women and people. Example a bartender [F]riend of mine, has been dating another good buddy of mine for a couple years now. My bartender friend and i have had good conversations while she was working and i had a few drinks. By this time she knows that I'm not a total piece of shit loser. That said we were at an event a while ago an…
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:40 AM
12

Dont forget to have a few female friends, actual friends. Because she has friends, and she has friends.
/r/seduction26/11/19 12:53 AM
1

X as in xoxox kisses and hugggz?! Thats cute. Just want to ask what are you looming for out of this relationship because it sounds like she wants to be monogamous with you. If that is what you want.
/r/seduction25/11/19 06:25 PM
2

This. To adresse his points What are your conversations like? Are they conversations or interviews. Are you making her doing all the talking? Are you reciprocating anything to her, are you telling her anything about your self. What was your intention. What is your end goal with the person you are talking to? This goes back to 1. What are your interactions like. If you arent making a connection then there is no reason for her to call you back. This brings us to 4 If you are making a connection wi…
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:27 PM
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It shows her that you have an opinion, can stand your own ground and can challenge her thinking and not just being yes man trying to get into her pants. Chicks dont want a guy that just goes with what she wants. She wants to be lead around and wants someone able to make a decision. When guys show up and just what ever what ever the conversation its a turn off for chicks.
/r/seduction25/11/19 02:44 PM
1

Have alot of girl friends and not care about what they think.
/r/seduction07/10/19 06:12 AM
7

Hand on knee is Definatly a green light.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:05 PM
4

Next time you approach try to make a better connection in person. It makes things 1000 times easier.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:30 PM
1

First dont start with sorry. Just go in and say Hi. Secondly that sucks. Just move on.
/r/seduction18/07/19 04:24 PM
10

Username checks out.
/r/seduction14/07/19 03:49 AM
6

You live in DT LA and you want to pay to meet chicks in a single class room. Just let that sink in. Because you will be that guy. You have an entire city to go out and day game on. Figure it out bud.
/r/seduction14/07/19 01:40 AM
4

Lets go for coffee after work sometime Seriosuly thats it. Mind you dipping into the company ink will.cause issues and make things awkward in the future should/when things go wrong
/r/seduction08/07/19 03:19 AM
2

No you have the oneitis. How many other chicks have you approached this week? If the answer is none then you have oneitits. Go out and hit the streets and daygame go do something with yourself outside the office.
/r/seduction06/07/19 04:41 AM
2

If you are there for 2 weeks shoot for the stars. If you get blown out then so what you tried for something. Just dont do any of the cheesy stuff that is suggested The note is lack of effort and comes off as begging, chicks want a dude thats gonna take control Flowers is cheesy and sorta creepy if she does not know you Small talk will get you no where given you are there for only 2 weeks. Gotta be like Ali stick and move. None of this pussy foot stepping on egg shells shit.
/r/seduction06/07/19 04:34 AM
1

That is lack of effort will probably go no where. Personally if you're visiting a town for 2 week just shoot for the stars.
/r/seduction06/07/19 04:31 AM
3

A lot of us have. Its a good story thats it. Dont read any harder into it. Read this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/c9dd7j/fuck_learning_tricks_or_tips_99_of_the_time_they/
/r/seduction06/07/19 04:18 AM
4

In the street doing day game. You can see people for who they are.
/r/seduction01/07/19 09:11 PM
1

Yes, but if you stand straight with a good posture it looks good on you. You will look slightly taller and more confident. This will help you in leaps and bounds when it comes to being shorter.
/r/seduction01/07/19 09:04 PM
2

James Marshall, the Natural Life Style. Lots of content
/r/seduction01/07/19 09:03 PM
4

Welp, as she stated she does not think this is a good idea since you want to smash and she wants friends since she has a BF. Secondly she was bored and you where a fun option. She still respects her boyfriend as she shut you down when you went for a kiss. Dont take it the wrong way, you where an option because she was bored. She is cutting you off and letting you know she has something going on. Seriously, think about it from her point of view. She may have a few years invested into this relatio…
/r/seduction01/07/19 08:11 PM
2

Thats a fucking detail that needs to be mentioned in these questions. Personally move on. Im not down for that drama but if its your thing then go for it otherwise leave the drama to TV and movies.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:58 AM
2

How you win her is how you lose her.
/r/seduction30/06/19 03:57 AM
1

Yeah joking aside, if you dont do something soon, I.E. the next time you see her she's gonna get freaked out and shits gonna get weird. Unless its a weird case that she is chose you to get her preggers and just wants to harvest your sperm. Otherwise just get to it already before you lose her.
/r/seduction29/06/19 11:04 PM
18

Dear diary, today the girl of my life was dry humping my leg whilst sticking her tongue in my ear. Im still not sure on the clarity of these "signs" maybe i should wait some more.....
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:47 PM
1

The whole point is to make it easy and not awkward on her. An FTC is a "lie" but its not a full on delusional thing. I would equate that to her wearing high heel shoes. First off it releases pressure on her and you. Think about it some stranger just starts talking to you, the first thing you think is WTF does this guy want? Lots of chicks just want to be talked to but also left alone and go about their day. Im a bigger guy so i want to make these interactions as comfortable as possible. Letting …
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:44 PM
1

You just have to be confident to be a natural. Looks has little to do with it.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:34 PM
2

Stop overthinking things, just go with it. Make sure you let her know what your interests are.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:23 PM
9

If you're looking for a Fuck buddy and she isnt just accept it and move on. It saves both people a ton of headaches and games. Be good at conversation, keep it fluid and you'll be alright.
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:08 PM
1

If the BF shows up just man up say you where hitting on his chick and move on wtih your day. Also dont say shit like you're a luck guy just appologise and leave.
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:00 PM
5

Introduce yourself in a voice suitable for the library.
/r/seduction29/06/19 02:57 PM
1

Just be more specific about whatmakes her cute.
/r/seduction19/06/19 01:06 PM
1

Try day gaming. A lot better for you if you're going to do things alone. But if you want to keep going to clubs then look up places that arent couples focused. Thats all. Also take dance lessons all kinds of dance lessons.
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:04 AM
2

Talk slower not louder. Yes speak at a volume to be heard but dont yell. Speaking quickly implies you are in a rush. Slow and eye contact shows interest.
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:00 AM
1

Might want to read op's name.
/r/seduction02/03/19 06:06 AM
1

Naw just go fuck his best friend. Fuck him.
/r/seduction02/03/19 06:05 AM
4

Confusing friendliness and attraction is easy to do. If they have a bf then just move on talk to them and what not but dont be a douch in trying to break up a coupld.
/r/seduction23/02/19 10:55 AM
51

Dont ask to kiss her. That.just kills it.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:02 AM
17

Holy fuck dude. Yes she likes you. Im oblivious to when chicks are attracted to me bur if the green light was any bigger or brighter it would be the fucking sun.
/r/seduction01/02/19 02:51 AM
2

Dont wear a hat. Chicks will notice it.
/r/seduction22/01/19 12:47 AM
1

What do you do for work that shes a regular? Kinda need some details on that. Are you a bartender 9r work in an office together?
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:21 AM
2

Put your back into it!
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:51 PM
1

Once, ok Twice, got me thinking Third strike, yer out
/r/seduction05/11/18 01:40 PM
1

James marshall and Sasha daygame
/r/seduction30/10/18 04:26 PM
3

Sounds like meditation is the answer to lots of things. And Yoga as well
/r/seduction27/10/18 12:42 AM
2

Watch some YouTube. But go practice. Watch people like sasha daygame and James Marshall and go do.
/r/seduction26/10/18 01:19 AM
3

Cops just dont escort you out unless youre being a nuisances to the shops or mall. So you either hang out there way to much and security has taken note of you and shops have also noticed. Or you are just trolling. Regarless more details are needed about your habits
/r/seduction26/10/18 01:03 AM
2

What is it or at what point do you realize that the person that is talking to you is someone you want nothing to do with? How much time are you investing into getting to know said person?
/r/seduction02/10/18 11:19 PM
5

Right because being honest and telling a good looking woman how you feel is a lot harder and coming up with bs all day errrrrray day.
/r/seduction28/09/18 02:11 AM
1

Depends on the chick. I have to shave for wprk and am getting mixed reviews from when i had a beard.
/r/seduction28/09/18 01:29 AM
22

Let me create the Eminem method go up to said girl. And say Hi my name is ________________ and compliment her.
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:48 AM
4

You still have a means of communication. You can still get a hold of her and try to get somethng going. If not jsut let it go and move on.
/r/seduction24/09/18 01:43 AM
2

Get rid of social media. If youre worrief about likes and shit like that its a good start. Also it seems people habe already given you advice in other subs. Might wanr to start there.
/r/seduction24/09/18 01:22 AM
2

You should have asked her to go get stoned instead of what are you doing this weekend. Show some initiative instead of playing her cards. At least she'll know you have the guts to ask her out.
/r/seduction02/06/18 11:52 AM
1

Smoke a joint in the parc with her.
/r/seduction02/06/18 11:49 AM
1

Yup important getting out of the house and having actual conversations
/r/seduction28/05/18 02:08 AM
1

Nice opener. How many have you gotten in bed?
/r/seduction27/05/18 11:53 PM
1

That sorta why I shrug off the word cute it can be used in many ways and can be misinterpreted easily
/r/seduction26/05/18 07:57 AM
1

Take the boring small talk out of the picture. Theres an article somewjere 16 questions to skip the small talk, google it. Atleast these question will give you a little more foot in the door to something a little more of the Ralph Wiggums "so you like stuff" conversation.
/r/seduction09/05/18 09:25 PM
1

Im not really digging these dudes at all. I havent watched anyone or anything since i got hooked on James Marshall threw Sasha Daygame. I skimmed threw some of the RSD guys videos and none of them have shown, or i havent found anything in their library of them actually going out and putting out any game. Thats why i like James Marshall he just walks around talks about stuff and manages to pick up chicks in some of his videos. I got to meet James and he is pretty much that chill dude that he pres…
/r/seduction08/05/18 01:45 AM
1

just hug her and tell her everything is going to be all right
/r/seduction18/04/18 10:27 AM
1

sounds like its working, might want to make plans with her so she knows you're a little more serious.
/r/seduction16/04/18 08:10 PM
1

what does your boy corey say about that? so what do you want from this girl, FWB, or something a little more serious?
/r/seduction16/04/18 07:33 PM
1

Have you guys talked about if you're on a FWB thing or does she want to have seomthing a little more serious? Might want to figure that shit out. Id man up and make some plans with her if you like her or want to do things with her.
/r/seduction16/04/18 07:11 PM
4

Personally i see the messaging an old crush as a bit of a clingy thing. Kinda looks like you didnt move on. BUT if you see them in public just go and approach them, this way here you can show them that you've done somethings in life and changed.
/r/seduction21/02/18 11:35 AM
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If they are with a group of girls they are there on a ladies night. Just out to have fun. Its loud an noisy communication get fucked up. Its still doe able if you're going to do it at the club wait till she's off the floor getting a drink. Its less intense less noise and you can get her attention. She pretty much got off the floor because its not her favorite song. If youre going to try anything on the dance floor just dance with her see how it goes.
/r/seduction15/02/18 04:54 AM
23

As a bar fly. Lots of my friends are waitress and bartenders. Yes their jobs is to complement and be nice. But when a waitress does that, yeah dude. She likes you. So go back hopefully shes working and if the piano is free go play a few tunes. If the same thing happens ask for her number. She does know you have talented fingers!
/r/seduction07/02/18 10:26 AM
2

Go to AA. Or just go out and do day game. You'll have to just go out and do it sober thats all.
/r/seduction04/02/18 10:53 PM
2

Go to AA.
/r/seduction04/02/18 10:52 PM
2

There are a couple of solutions. If you're going to keep going on to rely on the booze for pick up, once you feel you have the edge off start drinking water, you're going to have to piss like a mofo but it will help prevent black outs and being a dick in general. If you're being a dick when drinking then maybe just stop drinking in general. Its a healthier choice and you'll be saving money. That said doing pick up when you're sober will challenge you to be a better person and see who your charac…
/r/seduction04/02/18 09:58 PM
10

Fuck the Mystery Method, fuck negging, direct game, dont be a bitch compliment her.
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:25 PM
2

I get shit happens in life but usually how good is she with money, if youve been with this chick for 9months you should know something about her. Is she one of those chicks who gets Yeezy's and a Supreme appearal, does she party lots, and is she always getting fucked up? what are her plans for a full time job, what is she looking for? what does she think she will be doing? If shes always out doing the first thing then yeah bud you dun goofed. If she is looking for work and is wise with her money…
/r/seduction18/01/18 05:37 AM
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If you're in a dorm or apartment, open your door and knock on the one across your hall and introduce your self. Its a start and will lead on to other things. Other than that, anywhere. The bus, subways, markets, lines, anywhere dude. Just go out and start. Im not gonna start this its a new year new you thing, you did post this on Jan 1 2018. Just go and talk to people.
/r/seduction02/01/18 02:44 AM
1

first things first you both finished high school went to college/uni and got a taste of life. That im saving myself for later usually only holds true when living with the folks. Now that she moved from mommies and daddies shes experienced some life probably had a chance to get some action. It also might be possible that she really is saving her self for marriage but i doubt that. The question is what do you want to accomplish? Do you want to have a good xmas fucking or still be friends? Also rea…
/r/seduction26/12/17 04:12 AM
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I just want to say something about #1. Dont turn into a robot. the end game is to always bring her home and have a good time but dont fall into your routines. Its nice to have some emotion and be human with people just dont turn cold and beep boop, beep boop your way threw things. otherwise shell be the one calling it quits since you dont have a connection with her.
/r/seduction26/12/17 01:12 AM
2

Instead of worrying about this one chick that you rarely see, start getting some game in with the rest of the crowd. If you approach other chicks at least you work on your anxieties and hang ups. If you're out approaching other women at least you'll be getting better at seduction and who knows maybe you'll randomly see this girl and you'll know what to do instead of beinga bumbling sack of nervousness. go out and get to work!
/r/seduction24/12/17 10:07 PM
2

Since you have the confidence to want to do things why not go talk to her in person. Kinda seems a little weak sauce to put all this effort in to your inner game and you're worried about what shell think of you on your 1 pic facebook feed when you can show her the whole package in person.
/r/seduction24/12/17 06:47 PM
1

fake it till you make it. even when she is around her friend be confident and just talk to her, fuck what her friends might think of you just talk to her thats all you want right now right? then talk to her. as her out if she says no then move on. sounds easy but do youll have to go threw it and rejection, thats one thing that lots of people dont talk about the rejection. deal with it.
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:47 AM
35

this is a trick question, its the man with confidence that gets the women.
/r/seduction25/11/17 10:36 PM
3

Are you doing all the talking or are you doing any listening to them? Its good to let the chick know you're getting your shit together, but they also want to know that youll be able to listen to them. Ask her about her self and what not. Chcicks still love some mystery in their men.
/r/seduction25/11/17 05:03 AM
1

I agree but there are periods in those days that you can break some ice to get used to having to be social. i.e. getting groceries, coffe, etc, look the cashier in the eye and genuinly ask her, how is your day going. Its just to break the ice and get things going for you. After that go out and talk to a chick that is waiting for the bus, so you dont come off as creepy tell her you are on your way to the bank or something, chat for 2 minutes and move on.
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:26 AM
1

Move on and come back to her later, if you think she is the "one" then go bang other chicks and get that out of your system instead of trying to settle with the one. lots of people that i know wished they hadnt gotten tied down so early in life and wonder what other pussy is like.
/r/seduction09/11/17 11:49 AM
1

Sure why not, just during the rush most people dont want to be disrupted. So when you do approach in the morning they will probably remember it. Also if there are some coffee shops around your work go for a walk on your breaks and hit them up to see if there is any talent around.
/r/seduction31/10/17 06:29 PM
2

Either ruin a friendship or get laid.
/r/seduction21/10/17 11:02 PM
1

Heh, i had a chick call me funny looking on tinder, threw me off for part of the day but you just gotta realise that there are lots of options out there. Fuck it and move on.
/r/seduction21/10/17 12:45 AM
1

yup and tahts what i put in the crazy column
/r/seduction20/10/17 10:47 PM
1

sounds like shes crazy, just stay away.
/r/seduction20/10/17 10:00 PM
1

One thing i do is small talk cashiers when i buy something at a store, coffee shop, corner store etc. Just a hey how is your day going. Nothing more than that. Smile at her no matter how not your type she is. The smile will get you going, at least it does for me. You might as well work on making some part of your life better might as well be social skills those will help you a ton later in life anyways.
/r/seduction16/10/17 01:13 AM
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