| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 261 | On self care | LEVEL UP | AllTheBeanToes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:20 AM |
| 183 | Rant: Pickmeishas taking their anger out at their daughters | RANT | AllTheBeanToes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:06 PM |
| 17 | FDS as a loner | SEEKING ADVICE | AllTheBeanToes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:33 PM |
| 4 | The Vindicta Subreddit | RANT | AllTheBeanToes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:24 PM |
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| 24 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsThank you for this comment. I am the child of a SAHM who fell into this trap not once but twice and it definitely traumatised me. The fall in status, moving into our wealthy abusive step father's house were we had to work like servants, bullying at the new school, parentification and constantly seeing your mother being emotionally abused will do a number on children. Women need to stop voluntarily trapping themselves for the sake of their children. I wish my mom had a career instead of playing m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 10:34 AM |
| 12 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsI'm so angry on her behalf but at the same time I feel sad that so many women put themselves voluntarily at the mercy of men like this - for a pipe dream of playing house. Please don't come at me, but I grew up with a mom who fell into this trap twice and I'm sick of it. Women need to wise up to the reality of scrotacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 10:27 AM |
| 19 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsTrue. But at least the childfree career women can walk away easily from scrote disappointment. My mom was SAHM without a career her whole life and now she's working a job barely above minimum wage after seperating from her husband. I wouldn't recommend this route to any woman except if she's very well off before becoming a SAHM and able to easily hold her own without her husband's support | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 10:22 AM |
| 16 | Found this gem on Pinterest. Ideal body types and classism.Belle *cough * Delphine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:50 AM |
| 4 | These cries for attention crack me up. “ChEcKmAtE, fEmInIsTs We ArE nO lOnGeR hElPiNg YoU!!!!” As if they ever did? I’ve had way more “help” or protection from other women in public situations than men.Because they were totally helpful in the first place 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:59 PM |
| 9 | Men’s magazine glamorizes 20 year age gap between old scrote and beautiful woman for their “modern love” edition. 🤮That's just bizarre | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 08:44 AM |
| 50 | Whose child is this? And she proposed at her brother’s wedding of all places?! 🤦🏽♀️ please do not mistake this as “gEnDEr EqAuLiTy” 😑It's trashy to upstage your own family on their special day. And even in my most pickme of days I'd never even think about proposing to a man, yuck 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:44 AM |
| 42 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsSame here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:48 AM |
| 15 | Examples of HVM or healthy relationships in media?He most definitely is! But I think Felix is too, just in a different way. He put his life on the line for his sestras and always offered his place as a refuge for them. I also loved how he was a sweet uncle to Keira | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:29 AM |
| 38 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂Yes, thank you. In winter my free time consists of mainly reading, watching Netflix and sometimes embroidery on the weekends. During the warmer months I'm much more active outside foraging /hiking etc but I don't have 'marketable' hobbies. I'm just a normal white collar employee without family money and I guess I will not be able to afford my own house until I'm at least 50. (houses are incredibly expensive where I'm from). According to some people here I guess I'm LV for life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:34 AM |
| 24 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂Yup and I don't think the busy guy would have that kind of effect on him if he wouldn't also hook up a lot. These guys are so predictable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:30 AM |
| 141 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂Tbh both men sound LVM. One is gaming his life away while the other is hooking up with lots of women. Meh. Sometimes the hyper capitalistic aspect of FDS really gets to me. Are you only HV if you work 60hours a week, earn over 100k, buy all the houses and rings and spend all your free time productively? I dislike lazy gamers as much as the next FDSer but this is over the top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:12 AM |
| 5 | Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam.Pickmeishas are so pathetic can't even feel sorry for them because they are so sanctimonious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 11:38 AM |
| 14 | Lasting marriage and well mannered children is all what matters. Women are just a collateral damage produced for a sake of pp. Straight from the horses mouth 😏Most men are sociopaths. Through Internet anonymity they just tell on themselves without shame or repercussions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 05:38 AM |
| 10 | China faces a looming population crisis as women stick by their standardsVery much this. Educated Chinese women are pinkpilled af. Good on them 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 02:02 PM |
| 9 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.My Mom's Bible when living with my abusive stepfather 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:21 AM |
| 12 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.That explains why most of them are fcking mouthbreathers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 10:19 AM |
| 10 | Why do men make idols of these emotionless, pseudo-deep characters that are almost always narcissistic and disrespectful towards women?非男子 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Neurodivergents & the Manic Pixie Dream Girl TrapIs it really? Do you have any sources? I was diagnosed with giftedness when young and I suspect being autistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Neurodivergents & the Manic Pixie Dream Girl TrapI was diagnosed with giftedness as a child. But I also suspect having high function autism or ADHD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:21 PM |
| 26 | Bets on how many times she told him not to drag dirt in after she mopped? And ofc hes upset that she didnt immediately praise him for doing the bare minimum and "letting her sleep in"... Sure her outburst was mean but it sounds like pent up frustration to me wonder which parts he left out 🤔Holy hell 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:07 PM |
| 25 | He didn’t wanna get a giftI got married at 25 and divorced by 29. Now Idgaf and I completely lost interest in romantic relationships and marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 11:42 AM |
| 11 | He didn’t wanna get a giftSame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 11:41 AM |
| 4 | Might be controversial even here, but I thinks BJs as demeaningI hate it. It's gross and humiliating. I will never do it again in my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:27 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else struggle to make other lady friends? 🥺I have the same problem. I'd absolutely love female friends but I've been burnt so badly by them before and also most are pickmeishas so our values are going to be much different. In my experience when you are loyal and supportive they are going to treat you badly as well. I wish there was a solution to this dilemma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:08 AM |
| 38 | Red flags & LVM husband, or is it just me? (start watching at 14:30)And all the pickmes simp for him because he's a tall Japanese guy 🙄🙄🙄 He's LV and she's gaslit and neglected into losing her marbles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:23 PM |
| 37 | Red flags & LVM husband, or is it just me? (start watching at 14:30)Dated a Chinese. Same Absolutely horrified me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:21 PM |
| 6 | Woman writes to advice columnist about her husband’s inability to parent and gets told that she is the problem.Yes and rightfully so! Most men abuse their children through downright neglect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:07 PM |
| 98 | I'm not even sure if I want to date anymore. And I think I'm okay with that.Yup. My husband neglected and gaslit me so badly I ended up in the psych ward. When I seperated from him all of my symptoms were gone in one month time. Funny how that works | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:39 AM |
| 6 | Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍Bahahaha the jokes write themselves at this point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Desperate, Deluded PickMe™️ Proposes to Her Felonious Prince the Day He Comes Home from JAIL. Pickmeisha Now Swears Her Life is ‘The Notebook 2’.......(Swipe for a wild & tragic ride.)They are so tacky 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:47 AM |
| 4 | “He always forgets teehee” Sure he does 🙄Damn she dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 2 | A “Not Engaged!” Photoshoot. She’s the one who booked this session too. (The ring she’s wearing is a promise ring).Damn that's pathetic and pure cringe 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Is pickmeism actually an unhealed inner child?My coworker has had the best family ever as well. No issues, parents in love with each other, no money issues etc but she's still a huge pickmeisha and forever gf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Humans of New York story about a HVM. Must read!!!What a sweet man. I wish I knew just one man like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:01 PM |
| 15 | Attractiveness won’t get you respect! Women need to stop believing this lie -Thank you. I posted about vindicta last week and unfortunately my post was deleted. That sub is so toxic and I noticed many women who post on FDS subscribe to their mindset | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:59 PM |
| 20 | Oh hellllllllllllllll no.How about fuck off? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 48 | This looks more tragic than humorous to me...AdULtInG iS sO hArD!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:09 PM |
| 4 | When you’re such a pickme you cook for his female roommates and question how to resolve thisIkr? Pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Healthy Male Crying Vs Manipulative Displays Of EmotionI agree 100%! In my experience men always cry in order to manipulate women. And I hate when I see other women falling for their bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:30 AM |
| 20 | When you’re such a pickme you cook for his female roommates and question how to resolve thisI don't have sympathy for these pickmes. Their submission makes life harder for all the other women who want nothing to do with this shit. Just how dumb can you possibly be? They don't even live together, like - just leave??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:10 AM |
| 13 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...Their projection is pathetic Let's see... 30 yo me. -love to keep a clean and well decorated home -love cats -hate video games - don't own vibrators -beer is disgusting. I only like fizzy drinks -I don't talk to scrotes, happily single and childfree for life. Wouldn't want it any other way 30 yo scrotes : - apartment is a biohazard dumpster - hates cats, possibly an animal abuser -addicted to violent video games ll - jerking off all day, porn addict, fleshlight user 🤮 -drinks beer all day - has … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 09:58 AM |
| 8 | Anon is a sweaty neck beard that has never been to JapanLmao many urban Japanese women are pretty based and basically avoid getting married /having children. And if they do they sure wouldn't give those clowns the time of the day. A guy who wants to get married in Japan actually needs to deliver his part of the social contract. Neet/incel /lazy guys have a much harder time in all of East Asia than in the west | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:40 AM |
| 4 | Anon is a sweaty neck beard that has never been to JapanI mean... Japan is full of basement dwelling hikikomori incels as well. They'd fit right in 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:30 AM |
| 17 | Hurts to see beautiful women give so much of their love for a time-wasting LVMThat was me for the majority of my twenties. I was broken by trauma from years of severe bullying and abusive relationships. I was just functioning like a robot, but completely devoid of passion and creativity. What helped me most was going on antidepressants (zoloft). They pulled me out of my swamp of depression and numbed my pain and anxiety. I also got myself kitties. It's so good to have something /someone to love on who loves you back unconditionally. My cats won't turn their back on me whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 32 | I got me a divorce kitty 😆 Man better treat me better and love me as much as this little guy does to get me to spend time with him 😁 Burmese/Siamese snuggle monkey 💕Based granny 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Being low maintenance just doesn't work.I mean most of us have been pickmes at one point in their lives. But this one is an entire new level, dafuq? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:28 AM |
| 6 | Objectification and Physical CategorizationWhite Christmas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospital🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:17 AM |
| 5 | Women who are not similarly women-centered will take you for granted.I'm basically the same sis. Building my career right now, getting into some more artistic hobbys and becoming more healthy long-term. I'm also very much into foraging and exploring so spring is something I'm looking forward to a lot. Journaling sounds great as well. How do you deal when social gatherings like your birthday is coming up and you basically don't have any friends to invite? I deal pretty well all year round but that one hits me hard every time. Makes me feel very inferior, like I'm … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Women who are not similarly women-centered will take you for granted.Damn that could have been written by me. I moved cross country back near my parents just one year before covid hit and I was too busy with my new job to meet lots of new people. I met only one woman but she turned a narcissistic user and abuser and I blocked her after she told on herself. So right now I'm basically friendless and it's so hard to find friends once you are out of college, especially if you live somewhere more rural. I don't have any advice because I'm in the same boat haha. Unfort… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.I can't even feel sorry for that level of dumbness. Clownery is just embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:37 PM |
| 141 | If this is even 1% true, how much are you willing to bet that he groomed his daughter?Fetch me my bathing toaster 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 8 | If you keep explaining and nothing changes, it's not going to get better. He's dedicated to not putting effort in.That's literally my Mom's relationship with my stepfather. The cyclical fights and explosions, breadcrumbing until the cycle of neglect and gaslighting starts all over again. Everytime she has one foot out the door he throws her some mediocre breadcrumbs and she decides to stay while mumbling how this is the last time Sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | What do men have against lotion???🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Why does my 9 brother and his friends have more emotional intelligence than adult men?Happened with my brother too 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Mom is a pickmeisha - please help me learn to forgive her and prepare for the worst.Holy hell, reading this got me livid. Your mom sounds like a classic narcissist/BPD.. I'd cut her off. She's toxic and will try everything to keep you down at her level. Alas I don't really have any practical advice to add since breaking the lease is much less complicated in my country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:24 AM |
| 22 | Don’t you DARE kink shame him 🤡He violently raped her. That's what's happened. I hope he fucking dies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 7 | My mom had her birthday yesterday. I bought the cake, the balloons, ordered the food. My cousin and brother even admitted I was the only one who knew her exact birthday. Of course everyone enjoyed the food and cake.Same happened to me. Two years ago he forgot our Mom's birthday 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 28 | How does a HVW act when running into a LVM ex?Nah never hug. Why should I hug my abuser? I met my ex husband in divorce court earlier this year. We haven't met for over two years. I just greeted him politely and when he initiated small talk I cut it short by grey rocking him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:21 PM |
| 44 | Saw this on twitter - Hinge date puts woman's pictures through an analyzer online to "check if she is actually attractive," tells her her "forehead is too big," then tries to secure a hang out next weekTypical incel. But muhhhhh cantal tilt /philtrum length /wrists 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”Sounds like me. I don't really have people in my life who are both enjoyable and spontaneous so pre pandemic I often took myself to lunch. Just me and a book. I miss this a lot 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Vegan vs. Non-vegan menVegan men? Pretentious woke SJWs who'll call you a racist nazi if you don't let them mansplain you. No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 43 | The new reality of dating over 65: Men want to live together; women don’tBased grannies 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 06:02 AM |
| 5 | How was your experience dating/marrying Engineers?I wonder myself. But you know 'wammen so cOmPliCaTeD!!!!' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me or there’s something off with this post? It gives me major pickme vibes. Like how can you feel this way about a guy you’ve known for two seconds??She sounds incredibly young. I was like this when I was in love for the first time at 16. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:06 PM |
| 3 | LVMS and “post nut clarity”All the abuse and shit on reddit made me completely lose any attraction to males whatsoever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 3 | What... the FuCK? 🤡😳Made me roll my eyes so hard. I can't even feel sorry for them anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | What... the FuCK? 🤡😳'we moved past this' yeah right. She just shut up about it that's all. Disgusting. I'm so grossed out males jerking off, I don't care if I'm shaming. Nothing is a bigger turn off 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 25 | How was your experience dating/marrying Engineers?Yep. This is my Mom's marriage. Her DH is super smart, hardworking and good with finances but by god is everything interpersonal a pain in the ass. You gotta spell out every detail for him to comprehend. I'd never date any kind of engineer no thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Being single is okay!My interests are houseplants, embroidery, cycling, hiking and foraging. I'm a very outdoorsy person especially in the warmer months but not a huge traveller because kitties. I basically built my life in a way that makes me comfortable being alone. Because one thing I noticed being around 'friends' /and boyfriends: I was still so incredibly lonely because I couldn't connect to anyone and always felt the odd one out. It's good that you are realising things way earlier than I did. It will save you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Being single is okay!I just misread your comment, sorry. I find it way harder to find female friendships. I could easily get a bf if I wanted but finding friends is extremely hard. Especially once you are out of college and not into sport clubs. And I don't try to find a male partner either. HVMs are basically unicorns which may or may not exist. I'm WGTOW but I love this community because I get to rant and process my experiences without males and pickmes barging in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Being single is okay!I was bullied during high school until graduation and I now find it very hard to genuinely connect to other people, both male and female. I always wanted female friendships but they never seem to be interested. It's much easier finding a boyfriend. Until my late twenties I was a serial monogamist because I was too scared of loneliness. Now I just turned 30 and I'm completely burnt out by all kinds of relationships. I guess I'm an alien and I've arranged myself being a loner until the end of my d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Being single is okay!I don't think sex is a huge motivator for women. More like fear of loneliness and peer pressure. Many adult women (myself included) don't have deep friendships anymore, that's why they cling to a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 12:51 PM |
| 8 | Reading this honestly made me feel...just sad. She's so very proud of herself for being a CoolGirl.The clown car just arrived to pick her up 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:37 AM |
| 45 | Why are women expected to change for men?I hate CoD. My first ex fresh out of high-school was extremely abusive and a die hard CoD fan. When he and his bros played it was a total rage fest. They also bonded over putting each other's girlfriends down over headphones. I hope the all die | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:34 AM |
| 50 | Why are women expected to change for men?Omg the placeholder thing is so true!!!! That's why every guy I dated looked down on my interests and expected me drop them while filling the void with interests approved by him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:53 AM |
| 16 | Imagine thinking consent is a turn offEven smart and successful women can be super pickmes in their private lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:49 AM |
| 61 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!It's harsh language but I tend to agree with op. Not even mentioning the aesthetic changes but so many women are left with permanent health issues after pregnancy and childbirth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:41 AM |
| 47 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!He's a hypocrite though. This fuckwad didn't carry seven!!!! children in his body!!! Also male bodies are hyper effective for burning fat, while female bodies tend to store fat. There's no excuse for males being fat or pudgy yet males get to call their moobs and beer bellies 'dadbod'. Mom bid doesn't exist even though mothers' bodies are permanently altered after pregnancies and childbirth. Another reason why I'm happy to be childfree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:38 AM |
| 75 | No way this wasn’t done on purpose so she’d never ask him again...It's why so many women in ltr hate sex with their male partners. I became repulsed by all of my male partners because at some point they started to behave like disgusting entitled manchildren. Who wants to have sex with THAT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:30 AM |
| 20 | No way this wasn’t done on purpose so she’d never ask him again...Yes exactly. They're trash as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:28 AM |
| 32 | 8.5k People Upvoted This... Why Am I Not Laughing?That was me when I just finished high school. The guy I was with was 29 and also abusive. These are NEVER healthy relationships. Go figure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:24 AM |
| 29 | Why do men side with each other!! This "friend" never met my ex.He didn't even meet him before???! Omg men are simping so hard for each others dicks, it's just gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:16 AM |
| 33 | Why do men side with each other!! This "friend" never met my ex.' I'm jokiiiiiiiiiing!!!' gaslighting piece of shit. Yes he isn't your friend. Reminds me of my brother wo sides with my exes and other abusive males who hurt me. Men ain't shit and not capable of empathy with women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 07:14 AM |
| 2 | On self careDamn I'm really thrilled now! I've also never smoked in my life and rarely a drink here or there so I'm really looking forward to the visible effects. Keto is just amazing - I wish I took the plunge way earlier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | On self careLooking forward to it. I just turned 30 so that's really appreciated ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | 🌺💜🌺I love this. Where is it from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | On self careAwwww thank you 🥺❤️ For me food (especially high carb) was a coping mechanism as well. I'm so glad that thanks to keto my compulsive eating issues are a thing of the past. Now food is just that. Food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 05:14 PM |
| 10 | On self careYou are so right! The best self care comes from within really. New stuff is nice of course but in the long run it barely causes a dent in the mountain of mental health issues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:27 PM |
| 15 | On self careThanks for the heads up. You might be onto something here. I already wondered if I might be prediabetic/insuline resistant because my symptoms matched except for rapid weight gain. When I ate any kind of carbs I would also bloat like crazy and look pregnant by lunch time. Fuck carbs 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:22 PM |
| 12 | May be FDS or may be that after I saw myself in a picture with my “hot” crush I was more attractive... either way, even hot men are meh now.Most men look like something the cat dragged in. The type I find the most repulsive are those nerdy types with beard and glasses. They look creepy and often are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Broadchurch on NetflixI loved Broadchurch so much, especially the first two seasons. Worth every minute 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:37 AM |
| 71 | Asking for men to pull their weight is MaNiPuLaTiOnHaving children with men is just that. A trap. And the most pathetic thing are the women who go apeshit on you for pointing out the truth 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:45 AM |
| 8 | Pickmeisha on r/offmychestThis should be way higher up 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:38 PM |
| 13 | Pickmeisha on r/offmychest'I'm a feminist!' - tells women to stay in their lane and shut up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:35 PM |
| 4 | From Halsey’s poetry book “I Would Leave Me If I Could.” Don’t turn your trauma into adventures for someone who will leave you anyway.Damn 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:02 PM |
| 10 | Self care isn't always bubble baths.This. I'm on keto for one month now and I started to love really my body. I finally feel healthy and up to task when I haven't felt this way for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:49 AM |
| 68 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMI hate pickmeishas like that with the power of a thousand suns. Such disgusting handmaidens throwing other women under the bus for some scraps from the master's table 🤢🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:58 AM |
| 40 | From Halsey’s poetry book “I Would Leave Me If I Could.” Don’t turn your trauma into adventures for someone who will leave you anyway.Haley is the biggest pickmeisha there is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:13 AM |
| 7 | Just the proof that TwoXChromosomes is a pickme place. The woman makes the moves and does the whole service for an older man, and people think it's wholesome.That's like a super annoying helicopter mother - but for sex and dating 🤢🤢🤢 If the roles were reversed I'd feel so patronised and creeped out. Ew Ew ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:39 AM |
| 11 | Thank you to the queen who called me out on another sub! You’ve helped change my life.So glad you found FDS. Sometimes we need a sister's tough love as a wake up call. Good on you for being able to self reflect and implement changes. I wish more women were like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Rant: Pickmeishas taking their anger out at their daughtersAt this point I don't have another choice. If she comes ranting I will just grey rock her - she doesn't listen to reason anyways. He could murder someone and she'd come back because she needs to 'listen to her heart'. Right now they are fighting so loud I can hear them one level lower in my apartment. He's giving her the silent treatment and she's yelling until her voice is gone. Sick and toxic (they are both children of narcissistic abusive parents and it shows whenever there's any kind of conf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:01 PM |
| 321 | Lord have mercyHe's basically raping her everyday and she thinks it's normal. That's what our society has come to. I'm speechless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:53 PM |
| 6 | Rant: Pickmeishas taking their anger out at their daughtersSeems simular like me. Except my mom I'm very much alone because it's hard meeting new people once you are out of college and don't have kids. And I'm very picky. I'm rather alone than dealing with LVM, Pickmes and Narcs - I had lots of those in my life when younger. I've seen my mother despair about her husband and my brother and after my own bad experiences I decided to stay far away from men in general. My life (if it isn't disturbed by some outside forces) is very serene and uneventful. That… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:41 PM |
| 8 | Rant: Pickmeishas taking their anger out at their daughtersOh no, please don't apologise! Your story is important and I love reading about women standing up for themselves and becoming independent. ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:51 PM |
| 11 | Rant: Pickmeishas taking their anger out at their daughtersI'm so sorry you had to cut contact with her in order to protect yourself. I would have done the same if I were you. The difference between our mothers is the severity of their pickmeishaism and that my mom also loves me a lot. She came to pick me and my cats up (5 hour drive both directions) after I seperated from my LV ex husband, in order to move into the vacant flat in the building that her and my stepfather own. You are a very, very strong person for sticking to your guns 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 18 | Rant: Pickmeishas taking their anger out at their daughtersThank you! I will concentrate on getting my own place directly after Christmas. Not far away because I still want to be able to visit on a whim for a cup of coffee, but far enough from their bullshit. It hurts a bit because I love living close to her but I feel I'm getting the short end of the stick lately. Also being too close makes her taking me for granted. And only if she's actually making plans on leaving him I will listen to her woe is me again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 6 | "HVM" who only want sons?I think many posters on here confuse rich, ambitious and high IQ with HV. LVMs aren't only basement dwelling neckbeards going 50/50, there are lots of types, see Elon Musk, Wolf of Wall Street types etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:34 PM |
| 7 | The way he talks about fictional women will be the way he talks about youYep. I don't like ASoIaF anymore, but the Sansa Test is spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:24 PM |
| 28 | I think I found the queen of pickmesSounds like a gay man larping. Some of them are obsessed with straight men and think straight women don't deserve them 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:00 AM |
| 4 | People really think "communication" is going to help herAll three of my exes did this. First love bombing me at the beginning and once they had me on the hook slowly starting to erode my self esteem by never complimenting me, searching for flaws to point out and triangulating me with other women. She needs to run fast. I was stupid and thought I had to appreciate their 'honesty'. Never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Where to put LVMBased | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:59 AM |
| 41 | Why are mothers such Pickmes for their sons?Are you Chinese? I studied Chinese in college and I found Chinese women to be some of the most pinkpilled women I ever met. When I was still a young pickme their ruthlessness scared me, but now I understand. 加油💪💪💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:52 AM |
| 5 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮I don't cook, I don't clean, but lemme tell you how I got that... PS5 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Swooooooooon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:24 PM |
| 7 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Most women are so sad and pathetic literally looking for bread crumbs on the dirty floor 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Find a partner that is supportive and proud of you! Even though her husband is more on the conservative side he fully supports her and that’s important.Yeah it grosses me out 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:03 PM |
| 13 | Find a partner that is supportive and proud of you! Even though her husband is more on the conservative side he fully supports her and that’s important.Her hubby is so ugly ughhh. She's selling herself so short, but that's koreaboos for you. Any Korean guy will do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Am I the only one who is heterosexual and would - in theory - love having a loving partner and a family, but after seeing all the degeneracy of men, has just given up on it completely and deemed men in general to be undateabl/unwantable?Yes, that's me. I just turned 30 and divorced my LVM ex husband at 28. I've been single a little over two years and I can't imagine ever being with a man again. Good thing I'm childfree by choice as well so there's no biological clock holding me back. I'm by no means rich but my job pays well enough to have a cute little apartment, treat myself and go on vacation abroad every year. Maybe when I'm in my 40s I will buy myself a tinyhouse somewhere remote. But as for now I'm very content with my li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:31 PM |
| 0 | Alli Grace on TikTok- not my content. Kinks can be straight up red flags. We should be talking about ‘kinks’ and how using that specific term for harming women in any way is a smokescreen, at best. ‘Don’t criticize my kink’ is often gaslighting.Of course she has a septum piercing lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 23 | Do you think that a lot of women identify as asexual, demisexual, or are completely uninterested in sex is because of how male-centred and degrading sex is portrayed in society?Yep this. I'm het in theory. But practically I'm repulsed by 99% of males, either physically for their lack of grooming or mentally for their LVness. Thank fuck I've a low ass libido, so I'm not tempted by OLD or hook ups at all. WGTOW for life!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 09:22 AM |
| 16 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would!!I see I hit a nerve with all the pickmes down voting 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 09:15 AM |
| 43 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would!!I don't really see any effort here. Sorry. Women do this and much more for their male partners and we aren't heralded like this at all. Praising men for basic shit is peak pickmeism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 09:09 AM |
| 25 | So many men do this there's a name for it now. WokefishingIn fact I'd run whenever a man mentions anything related to feminism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:56 AM |
| 15 | “I love a woman with a sense of humour.” Translation: she must laugh at my shit jokes.My brother who is 30 thinks humour is playing physically painful pranks at his friends 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:52 AM |
| 38 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would!!Yeah but that 'dinner' is literally just rice and sliced avocado. How is that 'how to high value'? A ten year old could prepare a meal like this. This is so basic, can the new pickmes please stop? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:18 AM |
| 3 | Wow!He is literally jealous because he wasn't the one to bring her physical pain. Are men even human? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:01 PM |
| 11 | We don't need any boy's help!Men use women's help all the time. Actually I don't know many women who leech off men in the same way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Start your marriage off right by settling 🙂IT jUsT iSnT HiS lOvE LaNgUaGe Lmao. The love language shit is one of the most toxic and useless books ever written on relationships. Way to gaslight yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 08:14 AM |
| 8 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.I hope he dies. What a monster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:50 AM |
| 29 | LVM Gaming addict??? Don’t be mad sis 🤡 just GiVe HiM HeAD 🤡🤡🤡Somehow all these egirl pickmeishas look the same. Hypersexualized pornified augmented everything 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:08 AM |
| 2 | She spends so much time just pandering to men and trying to justify Feminism and why she's a Feminist. Making herself amiable to men and constantly explaining 'true feminism'. And they still hate her for it. It's sad libfem ideology.Omg is this true? Do you have more? 🍿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:18 PM |
| 4 | She spends so much time just pandering to men and trying to justify Feminism and why she's a Feminist. Making herself amiable to men and constantly explaining 'true feminism'. And they still hate her for it. It's sad libfem ideology.Yes exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:14 PM |
| 3 | You can thank “iTs nOrMaL” porn for turning men into brain damaged disgusting shits that accomplish nothing. This picture becomes more common everyday. Incapable, shit men. The bar isn’t low, it no longer exists. So gross.Male sexuality is repulsive and degenerate 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:07 PM |
| 8 | NEVER TATTOO HIS NAME ON YOUWhy are pickmes so trashy omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever think about how many HVM are/have been secretly bad people?I'm the older one. The one who was always supposed to be mature and reasonable because as you said he got himself in trouble all the time. Most of my teenage years revolved about the trouble he and his friends caused. He was super popular and extroverted while I was bullied friendless and introverted. Maturity and compliance was expected of me while he was praised for how fun and outgoing he was (if he wasn't in any trouble atm that is). He always puts strangers he barely knows over his family w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever think about how many HVM are/have been secretly bad people?Holy shit, are you me??? Your brother sounds just like mine omg Everything even the dangerous career down to a T. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:50 PM |
| 13 | Man loses respect for a woman because her feces was on his finger after her put his finger in her assIt's true. But then gay bottoms actually get something out of receptive anal sex, having a prostate and all. A gay acquaintance once said (regarding women and anal sex) : why do straight guys wanna gave anal sex with women when they have a vagina that's perfectly fine? Women don't even have prostates so what's the fun in that? ' Gay guys get it and have no reason to gaslight us about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:43 PM |
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