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Me ! Meee! Lmao I hate Instagram. I use it to find skincare products and clothing. Instagram is so boring- I don’t want to see photos of your face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:34 PM
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There will still be people in healthy and happy relationships. The ones that decide to be in long term relationships may hold more weight to be in one. Marriage and birth rate may decline in the US but idk whatever. Not everyone should be in a traditional relationship anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 04:52 AM
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I thought maybe an open marriage? There’s ethical non monogamy out there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:19 PM
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Oh alright so you’re thinking more if AI was an exact human replica. They wouldn’t have to say they weren’t real. Lmao all bets are off. I don’t know! But if they were a human replica wouldn’t they have faults? I’m sure we would be able to tell if they are fake... Relationships/sex is not always easy so it would be a flag for me to think “how is this person so accommodating” haha. As a side note, do people appreciate those that are harder to get? If relationships were easy all the time, do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:24 PM
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That’s true, porn is targeted towards younger men. Which is terrifying. I’m scared for the kids. I think as men get older and form real relationships they realize it’s fake. Wouldn’t you think that the bot was fake? I would think “wow, this robot does not challenge me at all and they aren’t a person.” I would feel slightly bad about that. Are we forming actual relationships with them? The whole point of human connection is validation from actual, live, people lol. I don’t think it would be fulfi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:08 PM
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Oh alright- I always thought mainstream porn was more for men. It doesn’t mean it’s healthy though... Wouldn’t a robot encourage people to not seek intimacy with others? I can understand if someone is socially inept or has trouble finding a partner but I wouldn’t want to discourage real human connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:18 PM
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Men should definitely be able to buy sex toys without shame! I remember getting one once for my SO and he was like wtf. Haha I was like oh maybe I should’ve asked, he doesn’t really use it. It was $$$. Women are able to purchase vibrators I think because it’s well known woman need extra help in the bedroom sometimes lol. Is porn sexually expressive for men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 05:34 PM
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So you’re speaking for all men? I find it hard to believe men are all wired the same. People have different kinds of attraction, not just sexual. I have had men tell me that they thought there was something wrong with them because they weren’t sex obsessed like their peers. They even went to a provider and couldn’t do it lol. So, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:11 PM
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I know plenty of average people in relationships. Stop saying people that are average are ignored, they absolutely are not. Not ONE of my female friends is dating because of his boyfriend wallet. They aren’t particularly attractive either. It’s just an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:05 AM
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Older men? Women usually prefer men around their age
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:00 AM
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Oh no- I thought monks were peaceful and pleasant folks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:38 AM
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This is true too! I had a friend like that and it was exhausting, all the different relationships. I couldn’t keep track
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:07 AM
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Wait, what do they do to kids...?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:53 AM
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I agree with you. There are people who are NEVER single and jump from relationship to relationship. It’s a turn off if someone can’t be alone, at least for me. I’d honestly prefer the person who hasn’t dated than the one whose had five relationships. Lol it makes me think they can’t stay with one person/quick to flee when things aren’t working.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:39 AM
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Eh, not necessarily. I think “men always looking for sex” is overdone. I don’t think they all are. Some also need a true connection or they can’t even get it up. It’s also a sign of maturity to realize life isn’t just about sex. However, I can understand a person being obsessed with sex if they don’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:37 AM
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I like this comment. I like slut salience too. How do you mean they capture your attention? Is it dress? Attitude? However dress and attitude doesn’t necessarily mean they sleep around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:33 AM
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Really? I’ve seen some really really out of shape men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:30 AM
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Coming from a woman and just observing, I think men look best 25 to late 30s, unless a beer belly starts to form! Men and women have to realize they can’t have the same diet as they did in their 20s. It depends on how the person takes care of themselves and dresses. With everything being said, if I’m in love with my partner, they only get better with time. I’ve seen some really handsome older men but it wasn’t a sexual thing- just handsome. Maybe as I get older they will be sexually attractive t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:20 AM
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I’m a girl and I made fun of them lmao. I just don’t like boy bands and I don’t like twilight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:05 AM
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Oh alright sorry. Lmao. We can notice people getting older, I don’t think that’s a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:30 PM
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Oh, but it’s just weird since you are so close in age. A woman can old be hot or a milf? You’re aware your wife will get older right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:07 AM
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Oh look at you, mr. handsome wrinkle free man. How is seven years older a MILF kink? I suppose you shouldn’t marry then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:32 AM
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Well it isn’t the easiest getting your body back after having a baby. It depends on the person. Some have easier pregnancies than others. Pregnancy comes with a lot of physical and mental changes- can’t necessarily snap right back to who you were before. It’s ignorant to think that your wife will go back to pre pregnancy body right away. Stretch marks, sagging, weight gain to support the baby, vaginal tears... Couples should really discuss the impact of having a baby before deciding to have one.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:27 AM
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It’s not gaslighting attempts. Not everyone lives for/gets validation through superficial things. I’m not sure who you hang around but my friends/family are in relationships because they actually love each other. But I guess the women you like are superficial, which is fine. Don’t complain about women only liking men for money/status if those are the kinds of women you’re going after. What’s sweaty?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:13 PM
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What BS is this. You have to meet people in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:39 PM
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People are more complex than apples lol. I understand what you’re saying however. You seem young. A person shouldn’t avoid relationships because it might not work out. It’s normal for people to break up. They grow and change. Marriage should be for people who chose to love their partner after the first few years of new relationship energy wears off. I think people make the mistake of thinking they fall out of love, but really the excitement of the relationship wears off. Love is a choice. Marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 05:04 PM
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Idk following an ideology doesn’t mean you’re 100% protected from divorce/bad relationships. People can really love each other and then one day, one of them decides to not anymore. Life isn’t certain. But going around expecting it to be is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:34 PM
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This is NOT right at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:37 AM
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That’s why I don’t give them. It’s too much of a risk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:25 AM
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I’m not game. Unless I’m on my last day. I just feel gross and annoyed on my period lol. I know it’s not hip to not like period sex but I could understood not wanting blood on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:24 AM
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Lol probably why women’s sexuality was controlled to begin with. I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:30 AM
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I look white but I can pass off as Asian or French or even Hispanic I guess idk, Native American too I’m mixed but my friends are different races lol. I think black, Peruvian, Hispanic I have white acquaintances but I find I don’t gravitate towards them. In high school I did but I thought they were kinda fake
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:19 AM
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This confused me too. I didn’t think women could own anything until the 1970s (credit card) I’m probably off with what women could own but in slave says, I don’t think they could own anything unless it was under their husbands name.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:13 AM
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Really? Idk I’m not around enough white women I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:12 AM
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It also sounds completely trashy. Idk, I up grew learning it was an insulting word if you’re white and use it. If you’re white you have NO idea what it’s like to be black. God, I’m half black and I HATE when my brother says it. Black folks have been systemically oppressed for centuries- I think it’s not that big of a deal if white people can’t say the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:41 AM
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THIS. Any derogatory term used to insult a race is absolutely disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:36 AM
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Oh man. I thought it was because someone made a comment about a porch monkey. Which, wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:34 AM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:33 AM
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I never knew their average height was 5’5”. I wonder what women are. In America the average height for a male is like 5’9/10 200lbs I think! Women is 5’4” 170lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:31 PM
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Agreed. Greek men are attractive but they might be eastern European. I’ve always seemed to be attracted to olive skin tone, dark hair. I don’t think I’ve ever been attracted to very white/light skin. I don’t know maybe because I’m olive and have dark hair lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:27 PM
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Thank you for the cat! I love cats- one followed me time today!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:30 AM
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If you’re talking about feminism in other countries, like India sure. There is a A LOT that change for a multitude human rights. But this forum addresses feminism in westernized cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:29 AM
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Dude, nobody wants to get married. A lot of women don’t want to get married either. I actually don’t fuck for free. But it doesn’t matter if I did. Men fuck for free too. Asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:49 AM
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The comments here are ridiculous. Extreme feminism that wants to do away with men’s rights is absolutely stupid. I don’t think anyone takes them seriously, except maybe the Internet. Feminism should be about choosing what kind of life women want and be able to do it. Whether they want to be a CEO and have kids, not have kids, or have kids and be a stay at home mom. Or do absolutely neither and just exist on the planet. The same goes for men. Birth control should absolutely be available. No matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:40 AM
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How are women at fault for the economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:34 AM
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How has the sexual revolution hurt women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:29 AM
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You’re missing the point. I don’t personally say “I’m a feminist, they tell me what to do” It’s people shouldn’t be shamed PERIOD about their sexual life. It’s nobody’s business. If it’s an issue for you, don’t date them. That’s all it is. Idk I’ve had sex plenty of times, I haven’t gotten an STD. Though I know my brothers have. Like ? That’s BS. Wear a condom. Be safe. That’s why we have condoms. Should women not get into relationships or be around family Members? A lot of rapes happen from peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:54 PM
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Men were forced to go to war. They weren’t fighting for women’s sake. It was illegal to NOT fight if you were drafted. And women stepped up to the workforce when men weren’t there. Piss off with the war BS. When did I say “men bad woman good?” I said we were more empathetic. And uh, feminism has so many different meanings. I’m assuming your referencing extreme feminism? Did I say all men should die? What’s wrong with you. Oh my god you sound insane
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:45 PM
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How is STD risk different? Most women already know the risks of pregnancy since it’s forced down our throats since we get a period. OBGYNS push birth control like it’s a cure for everything. The women I know aren’t having unsafe sex(?) to my knowledge. Strength and power are different, I thought we were trying to get away from “men are scary” rhetoric and encourage understanding what consent means. If you’re talking about rape, a person can rape anyone and rapes also happen in relationships/marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:39 PM
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Yeah possibly- I can’t speak for all women or even a majority. My closest friends and I seem indifferent to “one night stands” but it doesn’t mean we won’t do it lol. I have two friends who are into it. They are super social & think it’s fun, which I’m sure it is, if you like it. Feminism should just be saying as a woman, you don’t have to adhere to traditional female ideals. Just do whatever you want lol (as long as you aren’t harming anyone) The same can be said for men. Like people attract li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:22 PM
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Is this someone from now or 2006?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:59 PM
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This is sort of true, at least for me. Unless my one night stand has a perfectly shaped penis to hit my g spot or we want to talk about how to actually get me off then it doesn’t make sense for one night stands. But sometimes people have a lot a sex for other reasons- not just orgasms. Lol I guess more power to them (?)(!)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:57 PM
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I thought it was the fashion/media industry that tries to make people feel bad about their looks. This way we can spend money. And alsoooo a lot of women change their bodies because they think that’s what men like. I mean why are there butt implants now? Lmfao It’s just about money and how to get people to spend it. Make people feel insecure, make them never be able to catch up and boom there’s most of the economy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:31 AM
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Women have more empathy. It has to due with raising kids. Of course some women are jerks but generally women are more empathetic. We worry more about other people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:30 AM
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I was never super horny as a teen but as I’ve gotten older it’s a different story!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:18 AM
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Woah, wow
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:53 AM
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Some men don’t like sex and some woman already have money Some people like to actually raise families It’s not black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:20 AM
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When I used bumble I swiped right and then read their profile. But then it was up to me to reach out. Lmao Idk I hated that app
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:01 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2020/02/10/india/india-students-strike-assault-intl/index.html https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2019/11/30/asia/india-gang-rape-intl/index.html Jesus CHRIST
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:51 AM
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Yeah like she could have just wanted to lose weight to feel better, for health, for a change. Not because of anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:31 AM
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She just got healthy I guess. Idk if your body is naturally heavyset and your healthy that’s good. We all know that thin bodies aren’t necessarily healthy either Some people carry extra weight some people can’t gain weight. As long as you’re considerably healthy it should be fine! But society has something to say about everything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:27 AM
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You want friends who speak ill of you behind your back? Ok It’s being open to everyone but once they do something shady, drop them. I’m not understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:50 PM
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Because I’ve gotten older and have figured out who comes off as fake. For example, in school, I had a big friend group but it was only for parties and social stuff. Whenever I actually needed someone to confide in, it was very limited. Like, in high school I just remember everyone saying things behind each other’s backs. I didn’t think it was nice and didn’t understand what the point was of having friends but being so mean to them at the same time! I don’t really experience that anymore. My frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:45 PM
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I didn’t say that at all. Women can be fake and I think they are more fake than men. At least in friend groups. You just said men can keep friends longer than women, you’re making the same assumption. I don’t have male friends only female friends but the ones I have come off as genuine to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:37 PM
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lol Patricia Bateman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:28 PM
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Interesting. My older brother has all his friends from HS but for some reason I didn’t keep any of my friends. My youngest brother didn’t keep any of his friends though. I have three friends now and I hope to keep them! I think most girls can be fake AF- is that sexist for me to say? I just think it’s rare to form A LOT of genuine relationships with women. Idk I consider myself genuine lol who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:26 PM
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What do they teach? I like attention but only from a few. But I don’t like being the center of attention if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:12 AM
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yes, I do agree that millennials and gen z like attention. Men can be attention whores too ugh especially on the dating apps! No I actually forget his name! That’s horrible right? Who is Jordan Peterson?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:09 AM
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She wasn’t like this before. I think it’s fucking instagram and snap chat. Lmao and Twitter The politics of academia! My philosophy professor quit because of it. Lol he ranted about the politics everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:03 AM
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Don’t you’ll get messages from Weird people Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:01 AM
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Oh wow. Yeah, I never thought my personality would fit with Greek life. Too rowdy for me! And like you said, dramatic. I’ve never had experience with an ultra feminist teacher- wouldn’t the teacher get in trouble for being sexist? Maybe you came off aggressive? If there is anything I learn in life, a person might not be mad at what you say, but by how you say it. I don’t really know any extreme feminists. My one friend however is a little crazy about “training her man,” but if he doesn’t oppose …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:53 AM
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yeah, not on reddit long enough to figure out how to go to that comment Good luck with your life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:26 AM
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What? I don’t have a friends with benefits In a relationship Work part time in the industry You know zilch about my private life What’s your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:19 AM
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What happened in Greek life? My university didn’t have a big frat life. But it’s nice you seem to learn things! As a woman, I was never really anything. In university my friend group was kind of free spirited I suppose but my larger friend group was hipster-esque. I definitely wasn’t a sorority girl or athlete!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:10 AM
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Oh so you haven’t tried? Eh who cares. I didn’t really like dating but then I ended up meeting someone at a bar I don’t think it’s the most important thing. Maybe as you get older you start to worry you’ll end up alone but like idk sometimes relationships can really suck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:04 AM
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Lol ok. I hope you have a peaceful time dating. Do you mainly meet people online, work, club?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:59 AM
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Yeah maybe it’s because their young? I don’t know! Social media is probably not healthy either. What we see isn’t necessarily how they act in real life. I’m sure some do though. I hope you have better luck dating. It’s hard and quite unpleasant at times!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:44 AM
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Maybe you have to find another place to go lol. I hope you find a good spot for kebab. I don’t like too hot either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:41 AM
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You have a point - it could spread narcissistic traits. I don’t know too much about it but it sounds insane. I can’t imagine a person could actually be hyper “me me me”’all the time. You mentioned that girl Lilith but it’s funny to me. Idk I don’t take it seriously? I thought people were complaining about Biden? He’s old too. I don’t know if anyone can take him seriously anymore either. His brain is probably going. The older you get your filter diminishes. I’m not defending him at all. Who is li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:32 AM
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What is it? Is it spicy? I can’t think of what it could be. Where are you getting this turkish cuisine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:25 AM
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LOL yogurt sauce? Or tahini? Tell them!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:23 AM
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Lmao why? I don’t know a lot of them, I just have some friends from there. They moved out from their country for a reason...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:20 AM
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Well I think it’s just women are becoming more comfortable with their sexuality- I do think some people are too extreme. But, our culture places too much value on sex and it’s stupid. I think we will eventually even out but it’ll take some time. For example, casual sex can be something for men and women without a double standard. Men might not like it but I think it’s ok for us to explore sexuality. I do think there is more conversation about what women like in bed too. Which is important - sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:18 AM
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I don’t know you seem to be super offended. Are you greek? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:08 AM
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I’m a woman. I’m pretty sure you’re hanging out with crazy folks lol. I’ve never dated a millennial woman because I’m straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:07 AM
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I don’t know- it’s just where my friends said they were from. I’m aware it’s not the whole country.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:06 AM
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Oh me too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:05 AM
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uh, no. Depending what part of the country they are from/ they can be considered Eastern European
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:04 AM
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They are Eastern European
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:02 AM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:02 AM
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What was your experience? I’m tail end millennial / gen z. It depends where I get my information on generations lol it’s either or I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:10 AM
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Maybe but usually getting what you want (that’s worth it) takes hard work!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:45 AM
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no... wtf is that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:17 AM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:09 AM
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This is such a sweet comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:40 AM
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Idk though. My partner is Eastern European and he says in his country women are super high Maintenence and all they care about is money lol He literally said over in his country “if you have a vagina you think your owed everything” Russian, Turkish- all of them...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:38 AM
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Like men dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:37 AM
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Idk these people are wild but men do this too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:42 AM
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I don’t like frats
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:13 AM
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Ugh I figured this out in HS. Perhaps middle school. I have like two friends lmao! It’s crazy the shit friends do to friends. Can’t trust anyone out here!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:43 PM
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lol oh no I’m not single right now. I’m just curious Thank you though!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:37 PM
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That’s true. The respect thing is a big one. It’s an old way of thinking. Gosh, I shouldn’t care at ALL! I might as well be from 1912. In your opinion, do you think men lose respect for women after they sleep with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:17 PM
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I actually think in society women are told men are most likely using you and/or trying to sleep with you. I think it was a way for women to be shamed about wanting to have sex. Because I enjoy sex and maybe I could enjoy somewhat casual sex if I didn’t think I was being used. It’s definitely a me thing but I think I grew up being told that men will say/do anything for sex. “Be careful” Why can’t I just want casual sex? I could possibly not enjoy it - but I’ve asked myself this question before. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:52 PM
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It’s the danger that heightens sexual energy I think. Being used. I can understand it, but as a kink only. Which, if in a relationship with an actual decent guy, it can work! But it’s hard. The female version of this person is Sharon stone in basic instinct and she was an absolute sexpot! Damn she crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:44 PM
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I thought it was manic pixie dream girl or the damsel in distress or a straight up jerk lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:35 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:14 PM
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Absolutely! The tumbling is crazy. I was a cheerleader in high school and my friend excelled in tumbling! Went on to be professional- not for a sports team but in competition. Which requires a lot of strength and talent. She was built for tucks, full twists- she was very very strong. She was a flyer but ended up being a base- you have to be strong for that. I didn’t make it past a back tuck :p just so slow and I gave up. I was a flyer but then I outgrew most of my stunt group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:42 AM
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Gymnasts are definitely built. I was never a gymnast - I tried though haha. They seem to be more stocky than dancers! I wish I could be a gymnast. My limbs took so long to do anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:39 AM
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I mean I don’t care really lmao. I was trained classically as a ballerina in my younger years- probably doesn’t help but I like being lithe. It’s also my natural shape!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:17 AM
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I don’t know who raised you. But I don’t call overweight people disgusting. That’s just being rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:53 AM
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Oh yes I’ve heard that was good! I’m only a yoga/runner girl. I suppose yoga is good strength conditioning but I don’t use weights. On occasion I do but I’m not trying to bulk up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:18 AM
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What’s HIIT exercise? I stay away from canola and soybean oil. Avocado oil I like for salads. Olive oil with anything really. Coconut oil is good for baking (I think)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:13 AM
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Yeah they are. Not everyone should have kids. It’s a decision that shouldn’t be taken lightly. If everyone was a great parent there wouldn’t be so many messed up/homeless/impoverished/abused/neglected kids. I don’t know, you have never given birth so I wouldn’t exactly say it’s easy. Your experience as father is going to be different from a woman who gives birth. Every woman has a different experience- I wouldn’t walk around saying birth is easy when there have been actual mothers saying it wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:08 AM
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Same here! I try lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:54 PM
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Children aren’t a big deal either huh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:54 PM
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The amount of women on BC, I wouldn’t be surprised if it was the birth control making them unhappy. I’m not sure my stance on feminism. I don’t want to say I’m not a feminist but I know feminism gets a bad rap. Like there are crazy self proclaimed feminists out there but they really just want an excuse to hate men and act like gods gift to humanity - whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:26 PM
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Yeah- I don’t think too many people know this. But I think we are starting to! It was awful, the stories my one friend was telling me. She felt depressed, irritated, didn’t find her boyfriend attractive. Once she got off, boom. Mood stabilized, libido went up. Better quality of life overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:21 PM
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Not really, it’s just a new platform. Women have been participating in porn since it started and at least this way they can actually get paid for providing entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:18 PM
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Yes! Personal experience with a dad who thought he babysat us. I remember my dad was telling me “I helped your mother raise you kids, I let her sleep in on the weekends!” Lol alright buddy. One of the reasons I’m afraid to have kids. I’m just afraid I’ll end up doing it all myself while my husband can half ass it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:10 PM
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Yes! Aside from incontinence, weight gain, stretch marks, bouts of depression, heavy bleeding afterwards- My mother also developed varicose veins! And don’t forget it ages you a bit faster. She has always warned me about having kids. She did like being pregnant but she says it was hard getting back into shape and feeling comfortable with herself. Especially working pretty quickly after birth. There was a little documentary on YouTube about how after birth women were disconnected to their body. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:03 PM
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Yeah- women have to have fat on the top and bottom. Nowhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:42 PM
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Lmao omg gross
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:41 PM
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This is absolutely true. For men and women! And some women already have a pill like this, birth control. All my friends who have been on BC said their libido tanked. They have all since gone off and feel much better. OBGYNS push the pill hard core it’s offensive a little lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:38 PM
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If it bothers you just don’t watch it or subscribe? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:34 PM
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Wow that’s absolutely horrible for you. Manatee?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:28 PM
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Yes! Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:13 PM
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Lol people on the sub sound so crazy. Most folks are pretty average and you’re lucky to find someone who actually cares about you at all. Life shouldn’t be a race of “I have more / better than you.” Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:15 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:06 PM
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Uh, no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:56 PM
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Oh, gotcha. Nice experience, although I thought you both were dating lol! I don’t know much about STEM but I hear it’s interesting and important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:55 AM
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Lol booger sugar. I mean can’t you both party on a weekend? What’s your job if I may ask? It sounds like they can call you in whenever- not a set schedule?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:02 AM
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Oh so it was kind of an unfinished thing. I hope you can meet someone just as beautiful in the future! and you’re right, the grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:00 AM
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Lol well that’s neat. But a relationship? Woo! She’ll be forty when you’re sixty. 27 and fifty don’t seem that bad I guess as long as there isn’t a weird complex. Did you want to party? I’m assuming no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:47 AM
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really? I think it’s the opposite! That’s nice, sounds like you were in love at some point. Maybe in 2002 it was popular to be slim. Well, I think it’s worse just being seen as a sex object. But ill admit I get a little insecure when I hear my friend gets all the attention, sometimes you wonder...but I wouldn’t trade places. There are only certain moments when a woman wants to be an object and it’s not when she’s walking around trying to go to work (usually) lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:44 AM
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Oh! I want to answer. I’ve been thinking about this recently as I was talking about this with my friend. She’s curvy and I am slim. We always compare how people treat us. She is always complaining about unwanted attention and how random ass men ask for her number, whereas I don’t really get that, on occasion maybe. I suspect she likes the attention because she always talks about it! Me on the other hand, I’ve had a relatively easy life with men. Everyone is polite to me. This has been a popular …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:25 AM
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Whoops I meant more secure, lol. LMAO when we finally learn to have good, confident sex we can’t. That’s funny lol Life!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:22 AM
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Yup! Ladies be dreaming lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:47 AM
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Or the other way around lol. I could imagine wanting to be single- man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:57 AM
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I know there are young couples who don’t have sex either. Ever browse dead bedrooms? I’m just saying I hope to have an active sex life at sixty. I’m married, sort of, so hopefully. But I’m happy to know the older you get, the less secure you can be. That sounds nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:48 PM
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Yeah probably not. I like beautiful people not necessarily hot. It’s still valid. And you’d think as one ages they find the same people that look similar to them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:37 PM
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Being older shouldn’t mean looking worse. Aging is a normal part of life. I guess even if you’re young- there are only a few who are actually attractive. I’m trying to be positive about life lol. I mean, humans live to about age 80. That’s a long time to live “ugly.” It might not be that difficult to at least dress well- but it is harder to stay in shape unfortunately. Sucks! What I would give to age like Diane Keaton (shes so cute) or Blythe danner (?) I always liked them! Or as a man Robert Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:59 PM
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Ohh I would think CA was body conscious. Is that near LA/outside LA? I notice woman much more than men so that could be why. It could be that I’m viewing people differently though- attractive to me doesn’t mean someone I’d date. I should also take into account my age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:37 PM
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Oh I didn’t realize!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:12 PM
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Interesting! Where are you from? I think where I live people make an effort with their looks. I see people on the subway / bus. There is this one couple in my building. Both in their upper 50s, earlier 60s- they both look so good lmao. I’m like this is a goal. But I think it’s because they have a good sense of style. Which idk I really think that elevates anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:08 PM
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Lol- women look more attractive to me but I’ve only ever dated men. There are some good looking older men though. But then I say, wow- I hope my husband looks like him when he’s old :p but probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:52 PM
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What? That’s so friggen awesome! You probably have to date someone who has an adventurous spirit. That’s a really cool job. Journalists are cool as you probably learn a lot. More so than the average person at an average job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:50 PM
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Oh, I don’t mean those women with high numbers I’m saying in general. In general, not all women are sleeping with the whole town. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:44 PM
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I know. That’s what I thought! I suppose it’s karma. They were all married to my knowledge and had kids from their other marriage. It’s so dramatic I feel bad for the kids. They have a bimbo for a mom and like four dads lmao. I shouldn’t judge, maybe they will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:43 PM
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Lmao. I feel like this comment makes the most sense... 20+ age gap relationships make me worried for the younger one. The older partner is just going to die when you’re still relatively young
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:36 PM
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It’s true! The average woman is 5’4 170lbs and for men it’s about 200lbs and 5’11? 5’9? I have to look it up. It certainly ain’t 6”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:32 PM
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What do you do? Live in a van and travel?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:20 PM
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That’s crazy. My friends and I don’t sleep around at all. Lmao I only work with women and we talk about our sex life. The girls that are having sex are in a relationship and the girls that aren’t are single. I just think assuming a young woman has a lot of sex is dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:18 PM
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This is nice. I always think maybe you won’t be having sex with as many people but the quality of sex increases as you get older. I can’t wait to be sixty and have sex, a lot. I just think are older people insecure at all? I think a lot of young women are insecure about their body and I think it takes time for them to have better sex. Lol idk thats just what I think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:15 PM
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Really? I see women who seem to be in their 40s and 50s who look good. I live in a major city- I notice who is on the subway and bus. I could be biased to my own gender or a lesbian but damn, I see better looking woman. I always say I hope I look like her when I’m older lol. Women seem to be proactive about upkeep- wonder why, society hates older women. I never understood this because everyone gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:10 PM
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Unless they are religious. Funny story, my dad ended up cheating on my mom with a religious quack. She couldn’t get an abortion because she was religious. However, she could have a child out of Wedlock? Lmao. My dad told me he didn’t want another kid at 49. Anyway. She did this with three married men. Now she gets child support from 3 different fathers! I think she ended up marrying some man so I think it’s four men paying for her and her children’s existence. I know she has a job but I know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:04 PM
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This is true. Most people might find attractive people attractive but for relationships they prefer someone they are similar to. I can’t stress this enough! We tend to like those that we see ourselves in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:12 PM
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Maybe I’m dopey but aren’t humans supposed to be attracted to other humans? Lmao. Actually wasn’t the movie Her about Joaquin Phoenix falling in love with a robot? He eventually met her though- I think, sort of. I just answered my own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:58 PM
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What drugs are you on? People who have careers marry late 20s early 30s. What’s wrong with you? I’m generally curious how someone goes about their life thinking these absolute limiting thoughts. My oldest brother is 30 and his GF is 27. They aren’t getting married anytime soon, they are busy AF. They both practice law They are looking for a house in the coming years however But people usually get married, stay together because they love each other. Has nothing to do with being 22
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:24 AM
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A career? lol. People can have long term relationships in their 20s and break up at 30. Happens all the time wtf Just because you meet when you’re 23 doesn’t mean you’ll stay together. My SO could cheat on me and then I’m single at 27. Like ??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:21 AM
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Definitely. People have to get over it. who ever said life was fair? I wish I was born into a family of massive wealth, how much easier life would be! I’m not hating on the folks who have money. Good for them. In my teens and early 20s I was never considered “hot.” I didn’t put much effort in wearing makeup or dress in scantily clad clothing like my peers, who were all dating - it wasn’t really my style and I’m not sure I cared. I’ve been rejected too and I just got over that. Like who friggen c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:48 PM
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I think he’s marrying one, no? I always thought they used each other. Leo is interesting because I don’t know any man who actually does this, even if they can. I always thought he was gay and the women he dated were up and coming. OR he loved Kate winslet :p His model girlfriends get the spotlight and he gets a cover. But I think he’s getting married now so obviously that theory is false lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:24 PM
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People who have sex figure this out. Lmao. Sometimes shallow, superficial sex is fun. But it gets old quickly The thing is I don’t think folks on reddit who blab about just wanting sex are actually having sex. Which is why they don’t understand that banging everything gets boring after awhile!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:22 PM
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Those are both absolutely wild subs. They seem to be fueled with anger and aggression. It’s so wild
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:17 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:43 PM
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Oh GROSS
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:31 PM
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Lmao you can either save your ass or face! Ah! I want to do both!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:13 PM
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I was the same with men. When I was 18-24ish I wasn’t sleeping with “hot young men”- I wasn’t sleeping with anyone Lmao. I’m fine now. 25 and I find men 25-35 attractive. 20 year olds look like babies People who seek only the youth and pine after them when they are aged out of that age bracket have to have other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:10 PM
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Alright! Every time someone says they won’t respect a person my mind automatically turns that they will act ill towards that person. However I forget that a person can be civil and polite to someone they don’t respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:20 AM
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What does 0% respect mean? How would you act towards them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:03 AM
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Sorry- it’s hard for me to remember what’s going on in these threads. Attraction is different for everyone. Of course nobody will want to be around someone they find unattractive, should they? Would you want to be around someone you don’t find attractive? Would you want to be around a negative Nancy? I don’t understand the height thing as I am a tall female and miraculously dated under 6 feet. But if I was shorter it doesn’t make sense to want someone who is super tall. not every woman loves a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:13 AM
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What hoe? Sex workers? Who is a hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:26 AM
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Who is chad exactly? Lmao. Everyone has their own idea of attractive. These terms are so immature sounding. I can’t think of any grown man who uses the term chad/Stacy. It’s stupid. Same for women A woman who likes the attention from men, I’m sure isn’t too picky
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:59 AM
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Send all the facts you want. I still don’t agree. There is no way to know when someone will or why they are sexually unfaithful. You can’t use statistics on individuals. and I’d also add that many marriages and relationships aren’t even monogamous. There are so many ways to be unfaithful, not just sexually. But that seems to be the only thing anyone cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 08:28 AM
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Agree to disagree. You can’t meet the person you want to be with for the rest of your life right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:51 AM
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Not necessarily. that’s a naive perception. I assume most young adults have casual sex. They should - people are curious about others. It’s not that crazy. Having 20 partners is a lot but I’d expect my partner to have slept with a min. of four people. Once they get into a relationship, they aren’t sleeping with anyone else. People also go through phases. I can’t only judge someone based off of how many people they slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:29 AM
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Being a virgin and cheating on your partners have nothing to do with each other. You could be faithful in previous relationships and then cheat in your marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:11 AM
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Yeah. There are just some women who really love men. Which is alright, she’s having fun. sometimes I wish I was ecstatic about men like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:47 PM
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Damn, well that’s good. So are you in your 30s looking to settle down? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:46 PM
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Lmao a magnifying glass. I know! People always think women can’t have kids later, but would you want to be an old dad? I’m sure if has benefits but raising kids takes a lot of energy... Oh wow, I would think 35 is a good age for kids! But I’m sure you got through it alright. I know at any age a person could be a crappy parent. Just because they are younger doesn’t mean they will be better parents, which I think is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:29 PM
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Lol it is strange. It could be insecurity about experience! I don’t expect men to be virgins but if they are that’s alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:25 PM
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Yeah fifty is crazy in my opinion. I know celebs do it but they can afford fertility clinics and what not! We seem to be living longer and are able to have kids later. I wouldn’t be surprised if down the line we could have kids way later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:21 PM
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Does it matter? Not every person you date is the person you’re going to marry. It’s normal to have relationships and break up. It’s life I personally don’t want kids anyway and not a fan of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:20 PM
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I didn’t have sex until I got into a relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:19 PM
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I love these posts. Whoever you are OP your posts ignite rage in the comments. Lol it’s entertaining, thank you! As a woman who lived through her earlier 20s, it sucked. I was depressed, went on awful dates (not that I put too much effort into them anyway, I just thought I should try) I wasn’t going on dates with traditionally hot guys either, I don’t think I have a type- everything was so rushed to get back to his apartment. They probably thought I was stupid. So yeah not that fun. Not carefree…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:44 PM
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I think it’s 35 but more so at 40. Also sperm quality goes down. Half of the people on this sub shouldn’t even have kids. Everyone gets fertility wrong in this sub. A lot of people have kids in their later 30s- it might be harder on the body but as a woman, I’d rather wait to meet the right person than popping a kid out at 25 with someone I’m not a good fit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:35 PM
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Omg you’re so crazy. Some women like being alone and not having shitty sex with casual men in their 20s Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:33 PM
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Oh alright that’s nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:51 PM
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I could easily say “most men in their early 20s do not want a relationship” but I know that isn’t true. You can’t make generalizations about genders
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:26 PM
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Do you know most women? It’s best to make judgements when you actually know the man/woman. But I understand what you’re saying. It’s just I personally don’t know any women who slept around - even through out college lmao. Maybe like one of my friends? Which is why this claim always amazes me. Regardless of feminism there were always women who liked to have sex with a lot of people. I mean, it’s not that bad if they are sleeping with you?? As for sex work, the attitude around that is lightening, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:17 PM
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What young woman is sleeping with multiple men? Not every woman in her 20s sleeps around. I’m sick of this stereotype. Feminists telling women to sleep around? lol like half of this subreddit is based off assumptions and bias I got banned from feminism subreddit so I’m not sure what they are saying over there but they are crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:04 PM
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Yes “prime years” is such weird saying. Lmao a show horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:02 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:01 PM
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Who advises people to do drugs and sleep around? What lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:56 PM
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Alright. Your experience is not everyone elses
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:01 AM
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No, people are crappy in different ways. You can’t generalize people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:17 AM
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I’ve met both men and women brats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:04 AM
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I’m not sure who is not appreciative of those in the past that have helped to get to where we are today. are you talking about bratty people? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:06 AM
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Women work in engineering and in research. Doctors, lawyers, teachers, politicians, caregivers, midwifes, social workers aren’t influential/beneficial to society? Women are in military. I’m not knowledgeable on their positions but they are there. As for construction, if it’s a physical labor job, it makes sense for bigger people to do it. And don’t forget a lot of companies don’t hire women- maybe for a management/supervisor position. If you think about top companies and their CEOs are they real…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:51 AM
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I agree with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:41 AM
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What women are you speaking about? There are plenty of women who have the same careers/jobs as men. What planet do you live on? Social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:38 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:45 AM
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Yeah not all men think that way. But I don’t think it’s women’s fault either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:35 AM
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Lol like it’s weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:53 PM
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Which is absolutely crazy. I see men as human, as a woman, without a son. I have never understood how you can’t see another person as human. It’s stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:39 PM
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What? Are you drunk? Lmfao. Bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:39 PM
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Because these explanations for being so horny sounds like it’s coming from a 14 year old? as men get older, they aren’t slaves to their hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:29 PM
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itching is a reflex. And it’s not “us men.” Are you going through puberty? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:22 PM
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I’m not sure. There is no way to prove that the more horny you are you WILL have sex lol. You can’t prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:13 PM
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I’m not sure. A person can be sexually excited and not act on it. Just because your horny does not mean you’re going to have sex. Just because a man will have lower standards than a woman doesn’t mean she’s any less horny lol. More self control, more selective. People are different. Not every man is horny all the time. I’ve met men with low libido and women with high libido. You can’t make generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:05 PM
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This post seems like a whole mess. I am not sure if it’s the format or what is being said, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 07:52 PM
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Maybe but you can’t flush it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 07:18 PM
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Yes! T H I S lol Like one or two selfies are ok. Maybe you want to send a photo to your SO of person of interest. But on social media? I mean unless it’s for makeup tutorials or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:29 PM
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Who flushes a pad down the toilet? Wtf? You aren’t even supposed to flush tampons!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:28 PM
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Very important. I don’t have much but my credit score is excellent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:08 PM
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Aside from dating BS which I think has A LOT to do with media, Society values youth because it’s easier to sell things. Makeup/ anti aging creams, fitness crap, hair dye...if you aren’t young looking you’re worthless. It’s stupid but works! It could also be that 18-24 year old demographic are starting to buy things on their own and are a bit naive. Advertising and big companies love this. 18-24 year olds are the most insecure, you can get them to buy more things to fit in with their peers. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:41 PM
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Good comment!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:32 PM
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Really? The women I know who are into BDSM are the initiators... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:28 AM
1

I believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:41 PM
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Agreed!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:36 PM
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All of your responses absolutely kill it! lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:35 PM
1

Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:30 PM
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A woman can’t enjoy BDSM? Women aren’t automatically submissive in BDSM (not to say that submissiveness is giving up power, if done properly) You’re talking a lot of trash, you don’t understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:28 PM
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I agree with you. Just because someone isn’t into or doesn’t understand certain kinks or relationships doesn’t mean it’s invalid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:27 PM
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Nope nope nope. I do get sad if my SO and I don’t have sex. I hate that lmao. I like selective attention I suppose (?)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:01 PM
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I see attractive couples and I see unattractive couples. Looks like they are fine with being with someone who is in “the same league” I hate that term but most couples end up looking similar
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:59 PM
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It seemed you both had the same goal. Many of my friends when we were 19 never considered a man in his 30s. Maybe if we met one we liked? Lol idk but I’d feel weird. Just different paths- but it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:20 PM
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Sure that’s what you wanted but what about her? You’ve had time to think about what you wanted in life because you’re 30. but a nineteen year old? A lot happens between 18-25. I’m not shaming you, there is a drastic difference between nineteen and thirty. As for children, I understand when a woman is 40, it can possibly effect having kids (although people are successfully having kids later in life) but it’s not difficult for women to get pregnant at 35. Lmao. Maybe you both just clicked but a ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:44 PM
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Huh? I didn’t say anything about age gap relationships being an issue alone It’s an issue when one person is intentionally seeking that an age/race/height/weight is an only qualifier to be dating that person. There are cut offs: a 30 year old shouldn’t date an 18 year old. It’s such a difference. A 45 year old with a 30 year old? It’s not as big of a deal. I’m not shaming anyone- it’s just when there are age gap relationships where the “life timeline” seems super far off, it’s strange. When age …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:27 PM
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But you don’t find it strange when someone intentionally seeks someone younger? I can even say it’s weird when women intentionally seek someone older. Usually it’s not about the person, but their age. Like their age automatically makes them better. It seems unnatural. Age gap relationships that happen naturally and by chance are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:18 PM
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Agree! ^
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:15 PM
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You are correct. 36 to 26 years old is fine. 30 year old to an 18 year old? Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:14 PM
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Not all of them. lol maybe to a 20 year old who isn’t out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:12 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:12 AM
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I don’t want to think about it. I wish they could just get help. It’s very harmful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:04 AM
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But that’s the thing- there are so many different kinds of circumstances. I’m sure just as much as women have kids without the mans consent, I wonder if there is just as many cases where women are lied to about raising a baby together. In that specific case, she was told she would have help and he would move in with her. She’s too far along now to abort since her due date is soon. It’s just things to think about. I’m not saying men should have to raise a child but it’s tricky navigating every sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:42 PM
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What about circumstances in which a married man cheats on his wife with a significantly younger girl and tells her lies about raising a baby together? She has the baby but now what? Should the man be able to opt out of raising the baby/paying child support? I came across a post today talking about that and I just thought that was such a shitty thing to do. So I wonder about circumstances like that? ESPECIALLY if the woman is so young she might not necessarily know when someone is bullshitting he…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:39 PM
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Really? No it’s not. Are you being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:07 PM
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My period started at 16 too. I was later than all my friends :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:22 AM
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Our food! Higher calorie and possibly the probiotics we have in our meat/milk. The heavier we are or the earlier we are exposed to dense food, our bodies start to develop quicker. This doesn’t happen to everyone but at least in the US the fatter we are as a country, it jump starts puberty. However it’s weird because I think men and women are more infertile than ever. It has to be with all the crap we eat along with the environment. We are generally unhealthy as a country (US)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:19 AM
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woooooooo fifteen? Lmfao. That’s so young. If you’re over the age of 17 please please leave the kids alone! It’s so so creepy. I’ll never understand it- I see high schoolers and they look like babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:09 AM
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Not every rich man wants to get laid by a 20 year old. It’s juvenile to think so. Sometimes I wonder if they even have time to entertain a mistress There are many affluent ambitious men who aren’t obsessed with sex. Of course some are but I think a lot of smart folks have to focus elsewhere lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:57 AM
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Love the term “lazy-confident” It’s effortless! I’m sort of lazy too!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:19 AM
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Does auto pilot mean lifeless? Bored? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:13 AM
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I agree. 19 is so young for a 35 year old but to each their own. 35 is a good age for mid-late 20s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:12 AM
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Lol aw. That’s brave of her!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:09 AM
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BS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:41 AM
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It’s reddit lol gets heated on here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 06:04 AM
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How old are you 19?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:53 AM
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Maybe the women don’t think their better they just don’t like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:34 AM
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Weren’t we all born female? So males would be the accident! Lol Kidding but I had to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:16 PM
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That’s what I thought, sorry. I understand I am not the easiest to understand. These threads confuse me- I should pay more attention!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:47 PM
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What? I said in an above comment that men shouldn’t HAVE to be a parent if the mother decides to have a child. If I’m in a relationship and get pregnant- it’s a joint decision on whether to have a kid or not. I understand there are crazy women out there and try to have kids without considering the fathers choice. Which is why I said men should be able to opt out of being a parent. But I questioned if that would make men less likely to use condoms. If men weren’t tied to the possibility of having…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:42 PM
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A man avoids having a child by wearing a condom. A woman avoids having a child by using a condom herself, making sure her partner is wearing a condom or birth control. I never said a man should get a vasectomy- that’s almost permanent. I’m saying BOTH sexes have to make sure to wear a CONDOM. It’s stupid for a man to have sex with a woman without a condom hoping she’s on birth control. That’s so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:21 PM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about. No abortion shouldn’t be illegal. Women will always seek abortions legal or not. Making it illegal is extremely dangerous. Aside from being responsible, a lot of people who have kids shouldn’t have kids. Let’s give people an option to rethink if they are fit to actually be parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:16 PM
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Or a condom. Then again neither is 100%. Contraception is both male and female responsibility. Men and women should only have sex with each other if they have contraception (assuming they don’t want kids.)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 10:02 PM
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Who wants to go through an abortion? Having unprotected sex to me is so risky. I consider it a consequence for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:37 PM
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Sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 09:37 PM
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You said women don’t have consequences - they do. Abortion is a consequence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:50 PM
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Didn’t they try that? But the side effects were too harsh for men? Lol. Birth control sucks for some women. Blood clots, heavy bleeding, mental disorders. The whole thing. It’s not fun
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:38 PM
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Men should be able to opt out of parenting a kid It’s not fair if the woman decides to have a baby but the man who impregnated her doesn’t. I mean, your setting yourself up for a shit show situation anyway. I wonder if that would make men more eager (than they already are!) to not use condoms! A man can’t just not wear a condom and expect his sexual partner to get abortions willy nilly. I wonder if that would make people less cautious. If we can so easily opt out of responsibility, we aren’t car…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:32 PM
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It’s not like abortion is fun. There is a consequence- abortion SUCKS. Better than the alternative if you don’t want a baby. But abortion can be painful and psychologically damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:29 PM
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That makes no sense. By that logic I should be dating someone hotter and richer, lol Are you alright?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:20 PM
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I mean what do you mean by adventurous? When I say adventurous, I don’t mean going out every night and having sex with strangers. People can have multiple relationships in their youth- or have relationships that last for a few months. I mean if someone appeals to you, why not go for it? With that being said, I think most people do want to settle down. As someone gets older I think they learn more about themselves and that happiness comes from themselves, not another person, fling, affair. Someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:55 PM
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Did you misread what I wrote! I’m saying even if women looked their best for the rest of their lives, it doesn’t mean they will always do what they always do. What about mentally? People change and the same old thing gets boring. People in their 20s have a lot of growing up to do and are learning about themselves. I expect men and women to be adventurous in those earlier years. Some never are, which is fine. I just don’t think it’s something to judge a person on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:49 PM
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No they wouldn’t. They would still be getting older and mentally changing. Been there, done that. After a certain point, fucking around gets old idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:29 PM
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Ugh if a woman’s prime is in her 20s, I look like a potato. In my earlier twenties I looked like a HOT mess. It wasn’t that fun. Mostly bouts of depression. and it’s not like I was banging a bunch of people and getting hit on all the time. So there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:24 PM
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I guess a lot of people on reddit do? It’s silly to focus on something like that. But maybe I haven’t met too many people who sleep with loads of people. It just seems like an exhausting existence. Idk it doesn’t bother me but how much is a lot? If you’re older, obviously the number will be higher
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:13 PM
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What woman mistakes? Wtf are you on? Statements like that really touch on irrationality or anger. And my mom didn’t get lucky- she never wanted kids. Like I don’t think any of us were planned. What you sent me also said mens sperm quality decreases as they get older. Just because they can have kids in their 60s doesn’t mean it’s healthy sperm. There is a higher chance of a genetic defect. Who wants to have kids after age 50 anyway? And sperm count for men is not as high as it was generations ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:59 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:59 PM
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Uh, plenty of couples have kids mid 30s. I don’t recall my mother paying for treatments while she had all my siblings (3) in her 40s. And this was mid to late 90s. People are getting married later, having kids later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:14 PM
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What do you mean her worries are well founded?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:10 PM
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Low key can’t wait to be in an over 55 community. It sounds like they are all having fun...minus STDS. But hey, they’re old(er) I figure when I’m older, around 70, if I’m in a relationship it’s the most unconditional, loving relationship. I’m not young, I’m not working..he isn’t young and not working... It’s like there isn’t any manipulation going on. Lol y’all both old and just having sex. It sounds nice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:05 PM
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Dude, when I was 19 I thought 30 was old AF. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:02 PM
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I read Tropic of Cancer and it was like a porno novel. Lmao. I was like well I hope nobody has read this book that is sitting near me right now!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:00 PM
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I can agree with this. If you’re early 20s you’re more likely to be social and be doing a bunch of shit. I remember being influenced by my friends too. We would always bring our significant others to parties. I’d be embarrassed bringing a 30+, hell even late 20s man to my college party lmao. Or social events. I don’t recall ever being attracted to any men in their 30s or being around any. We did have tinder and other dating apps (HATE them) So idk. I also think my parents would NOT appreciate me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:58 PM
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Women dont lose fertility at 35. Plus not everyone wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:48 PM
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Lmao you’re absolutely wild
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:39 PM
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Being unemployed represents not doing anything. Who wants to be around someone who is home all the time? Uh, there are jobs out there that don’t make a lot of money, have you heard? Being an adult means being able to hold down a job, unless medical/mental issues. Who would want to date anyone who just sits inside and watches TV? I’m saying money is not a deal breaker. I’d rather date someone I connect with and love, who makes 35k a year than someone who makes more than that who is a douche/or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:00 PM
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Eh screw that. Looks fade for everyone as they get older. If you’re attractive in your youth, keep fit, you’ll still be attractive when you’re older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:55 AM
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I mean not every woman wants a baby. I could give a shit about money lmfao. Having a lot of money is an added benefit but not something I’m personally after, as a woman. Have a job. That’s it. Show some ambition (like myself) and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:47 AM
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This ^ I 100% agree. It screams immaturity to me. My significant other and I haven’t talked about it at all. Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:58 AM
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Still hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:52 AM
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Abandoning children might be a better option than being an abusive or manipulative/violent parent. There are soooo many people that shouldn’t be parents. Some “parents” just don’t care. It’s horrible. Some just want kids to abuse. Some aren’t aware how damaging they are, It’s sad. However, I’ve known kids with terrible parents and they don’t seem to take their anger out on others. It depends on the severity and individual. For example, not all abused children grow up to be abusers but some do. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:39 PM
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I think anger is a symptom of depression. It’s not a primary emotion. I think my therapist told me that. Usually depression sets off rage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:08 PM
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Uh idk. Crazy ass mothers can make children lose a few bolts lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:07 PM
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Who cares if someone is be taken seriously? What the hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:42 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 11:01 AM
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Uh, no. When I was late teens-early 20s, I’ve always thought men who were conventionally attractive were assholes. I actively avoided them. Now I’ve noticed people can be an asshole however they look- but chemistry and connection is based off of mannerisms and personality. Ultimately that is important
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:43 AM
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Yeah, picky, superficial people. People might start out picky but then realize it doesn’t necessarily matter. Wtf is a jawline going to do for me? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 12:44 AM
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Idk- to be picky about a jawline, you must be superficial lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 11:53 PM
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As women age they get pickier. A lot of women date crappy men when they are young and learn to not stick around if they see signs of this shit as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:44 PM
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Sooo sweet. Love this comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:57 AM
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Lmao I like this comment. It’s true. If I was 18, dating a man in his 30s- my dad woulda whooped both our asses lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 06:45 AM
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What? I’m not sure what personal experience you’re referring to. Actually, gasp my SO is not 6 foot & I’m tall. I find him handsome but I’m sure others think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:25 AM
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I find it hard to spend a significant amount of time with anyone You can’t spend your time with just anyone or be in a relationship with just anyone. Single women are single because gasp, they don’t want to spend time with people they don’t connect to. Which I’m sure applies to men too. wtf shit is this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:07 AM
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Crazy to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:36 AM
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Yikes glad I’m a woman lmao. I’d feel bad if I thought that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:01 AM
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Really? I don’t think it’s settling at all. I’m choosing to be with my partner. Maybe I’m cynical, but I think of love as accepting the shit parts about a person. I can’t say that me or my partner will be successful and achieve all our goals. The point is going through life together. I’d rather be with my partner living in a box than Steve over there in a house. Lmao And “better at sex” can mean curiosity of others. Or different kinds of sex. We might just be different in the way we view things.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 07:58 PM
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That’s how I feel in my relationship. I’m not looking for anyone else. Lol Sure maybe there are folks out there who are more attractive, have a better career, similar interests, better sex but nothing beats authentic connection. Nothing beats not getting annoyed of a person after four hours! Everyone is flawed. I like to think a relationship/marriage is accepting and working with someone’s flaws lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:38 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 05:59 AM
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LOLOL OMG
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 05:52 AM
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My mom had my brother at 46. Had another one after that. First one was at 40. It’s harder to have kids as you get older for both women and men (obviously.) Most couples prefer to have kids in their 20s and 30s so they have enough energy to keep up with the kiddos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:48 AM
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That’s horrible lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:44 AM
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Oh that sucks. I’m surprised doctors can’t do anything. Did you like your partners at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 08:28 AM
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I remember people in school who had lazy eyes. I think you aren’t giving yourself enough credit. But I’m not you so I can’t tell you anything. Are there surgeries or glasses to help a lazy eye? My one friend is basically blind but she uses contacts - I think she has one lazy eye though but it’s barely noticeable or something when she blinks How old are you? You sound young
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:23 AM
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That is true. I don’t know, I’m not dating at the moment so I can’t recall who I used to go on dates with lol. But I think it was all different kinds of men? Older, younger, tall, short. They all had the same thing in common, kind of quiet. I think there aren’t many undatable men looks-wise, personality wise definitely. People are limiting themselves if they focus too much on looks. I think you can find any reason to love someone. There are so many reasons to be attracted to someone at first sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:45 AM
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Sucks if you’re already infertile in your 20s. Not every 20 year old is going to have an easy pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:05 AM
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Lies. Sex can be nothing or everything to me. It ain’t that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:02 AM
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People are way too different for this to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 12:01 AM
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I prefer open relationships. I am a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 11:56 PM
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To each their own! We die alone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 11:02 PM
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What happens as you get older? Are you worried at all? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:49 PM
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That’s you. Why do you prefer younger men? I’m the opposite - they have to be a bit older than me. 20 year olds look like babies. But I look young anyway so the older ones don’t really register with me (at least not yet lol) or maybe I’m just doing the woman thing wrong. My SO is only a few years older than me but he looks young idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:46 PM
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not really. It’s reality. Folks pair up all the time at different ages. It’s immature to focus only on looks and money. Anyone with a brain knows that that isn’t what’s really important in life. Like my mom married my father 16 years her junior. My moms best friend who is fifty just got “swept up off her feet” by a man who actually has money. They are getting married. The wall is a load of shit. Of course people are attractive when they are young but as people get older so does what they perceiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:42 PM
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lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:17 PM
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Oh sorry. I do not say things in the easiest way. I am not the brightest I guess! But alright!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:17 PM
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Lol 20 year olds are kids. There are a lot of successful relationships after 30. It sounds so limiting: only meeting someone at 20. People who have careers or who aren’t trying to start a family right away usually settle down in their 30s. A lot of folks are having kids in their 30s too. It is very limiting if you only allow a certain amount of time to find someone. It’s different if you want kids I guess but idk Me at 20 was horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:15 PM
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What? First of all- money is power. But is power healthy? The political men in power, do they think they are doing a great job running the world? All of the psychopathic leaders, any of them women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:07 PM
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And men do well with power? Bro, please no. Men in power are absolutely terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:13 AM
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I’m sure there is a husband goggle too. As a 25 year old woman, dating a 50 year old man? Absolutely NOT. If he was rich? Absolutely not lmao. But if I were 50 and my SO was 50? Of course, why would I want to date a child? Lol like that’s so weird. If I got married today I’d be so happy to grow old with my partner. That to me is a good life! The point of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:09 AM
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really? I think being that involved with your kids lives takes skill. If you have more than one. You have to be efficient to run a busy household. Having a full time job and raising kids takes energy + skill. I’m not sure if one can be as attentive if they are working, everything’s rushed. But I also think that even if being attentive and caring isn’t a “skill,” someone has to do it. Is it not valuable if it isn’t a skill? People have different things they are good at- it doesn’t make any less o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:06 AM
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I don’t think anyone should believe their looks get a free pass either. Some people can make money off of it though- men and women. Lucky them. There are men out there that (woah, shocker) like women their own age. Why is reddit superficial? All these posts are about young women and men with money. It’s just a general question, like has anyone ever been genuine? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:38 AM
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You mean a woman who can decide her own life and not rely on a man is damaging to her? How is that biology? Lol Supporting oneself financially is healthy - this way one can’t be forced to be dependent on someone. What if the relationship was abusive? Of course healthy relationships require some dependency, but it is chosen dependency. Sheesh, if you can only be in a relationship with a woman because she has to depend on you financially, that is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:35 AM
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Did I say it was the hardest job? Of course being a lawyer or a doctor is difficult. It is a high pressure. I don’t think everyone is suited for jobs like that. I said running a household is something that people are not valuing. I also said, it takes skill to run an efficient household. Sure, anyone can get pregnant but raise a healthy family? Seriously? As child, it was my mother who taught me right from wrong. She made sure I made it to all of my cheer competitions, dance recitals, parent tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 08:12 AM
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Manly? Having a career is manly? If anything it’s to survive. I’m not sure what you think is going to happen if you fall in love. Maybe you shouldn’t. She won’t stay 22 forever and neither will you. Being obsessed with youth is stupid because aging is inevitable. Jokes on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:58 AM
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What? Who was pregnant? I am talking about cooking, driving kids to appointments, making sure the kids do their homework, parent-teacher conferences, laundry, cleaning, household budgeting, finances/bills, arranging family get togethers for holidays/travel, maintaining the house. Houses are not easy to maintain- they take a lot of Maintenence. Growing up, my mother took care of all of that. It does take skill to run an efficient clean household, at least a somewhat healthy one. It takes a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 07:52 AM
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A woman can’t cultivate skills throughout her life? You think a woman’s value is only her looks? Most women have careers. This isn’t 1950. But even if a woman decided to not have a career and raise a family, I’m sure you would need skills for that, right? Same goes for stay at home fathers. It seems like you are saying a woman’s value declines as she ages because she is only valued for her looks. So I wonder why so many women focus on looks? Lol like this is women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:51 AM
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Uh, what? People get old. Men get old. Women tend to take care of themselves more. Idk I’ve seen worse looking men than women, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:29 AM
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First of all, I’m a girl. In a serious relationship. Lol Im saying just because people party in their younger years does not mean they are low quality. I think it’s stupid for people to think that a persons value is based on how many people they have slept with. Or drugs they did. None of my friends are married- my oldest brother isn’t either and he is 32. Serious relationship. He is pretty stable, “domestic” and has a really good job. I’m glad for those that do settle down young- but I think by…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 02:42 AM
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What? I’m not saying high quality people screw around. Im saying it’s ignorant to claim that those that decide to have fun & not settle down in their 20s shouldn’t be a big deal. It’s does not lessen a person. I am not out there either screwing around - it’s just common for youth to be like that. Like why judge people in their 20s? People live until they are like 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 02:39 AM
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Young people should have fun. Obviously doing heavy drugs and having unprotected sex is a big no no. But people grow so much in their 20s, it’s ridiculous to settle down then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:24 AM
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Lmao. Easy attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:23 AM
2

Who stole your money? Is this a specific story?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:20 AM
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I don’t understand this. What “high quality” men and women are looking for one another in their early 20s? Everyone is too busy fucking one another or drinking and acting stupid. As they should, they are young. The same kinds of men are not going to want a woman when she’s 30? I mean, anyone in their 20s are going to be somewhat of a mess. They are still figuring out their career/who they are. People tend to be higher quality as they get older. People in their 20s act like brats (coming from a 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:17 AM
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The goods away for free? What is this 1935?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:14 AM
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The guy will age too. Like hello! Men aren’t prizes either as the years drag on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:12 AM
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I LOVE Christina Hendricks. I absolutely love her in mad men and that other show where she takes money or something. She’s beautiful. She’s like a renaissance painting lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 02:54 AM
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I thought so too. I don’t disagree with me too but I don’t agree with it getting out of control. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:11 PM
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lmao an aging rockstar! But hey most of the famous ones are in that “aging period” anyway. In fact I think all the rockstars are older now. The 1970s must have been a fun time. I wish I was a teenager/young adult around then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:40 PM
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Wow- I tend to like men with unbuzzed hair that is full but past the chin is too long! Lol But some guys can really pull off the rockstar look! I’m glad for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:16 PM
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I feel similar. Men and women are still attracted to others while they are in a LTR. I don’t think we are that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:12 PM
5

You wild
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:09 PM
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when did I say I want to be slapped hard in the face? I made a comment specifically saying I dont like that. And a lot of men aren’t comfortable hitting women anyway. Just because it’s in porn doesn’t mean men want to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:54 AM
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yes but we all eventually have history. I’m saying it’s ignorant to dismiss someone of something everyone has
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:53 AM
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They did have contraceptive back then. Did it work? I don’t know!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:44 AM
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I’d imagined that was what older weddings were like. I always thought I’d want to get married when I’m older- I don’t want children. The youth are so insecure (coming from a youth, sort of) I also find that by the time I’m 40, I’ll be confident and settled in my life. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:29 AM
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Everyone has a history
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:27 AM
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Healthy, normal people? What kind of crap is this! A lot of folks get divorced. People change, life happens. Some people might not be the marrying type but society (at least used to) shoved it down everyone’s throats. In my moms generation- they told women their only value was marriage. Lol my mother got effed up about that- obsessed with relationships and marriage. Lead to insecurity that she wasn’t married at 21. Ridiculous, thats unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:26 AM
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What if she hasn’t met anyone? I’ve always wondered this. Some people never meet the person they will want to marry at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:16 AM
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Ohhhh shit. Nice comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 02:14 AM
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I do find most of my friends attractive. Women & men. And if we weren’t super close I would probably have sex with them. It’s hard- I don’t want to break boundaries with my closest friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:36 AM
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Well it’s from a man they want the “male energy” from. Hellooooo! They don’t want male energy from men they are not sexually attracted to/love. Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:32 AM
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True. Being slapped in the face is a whole other level. Like it’s your face- it’s delicate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:19 AM
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I can vouch for this ! I like to say my explanation is if sex is rough at least I actually feel something. I don’t orgasm easily. I think I’m hard to please so I would rather be a pleaser I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:14 AM
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I’m a girl- I don’t watch porn at all. I think I watched one movie when I was a kid and it was so stupid. It was one of the movie types. Cheesy and stepson/stepmom or something lmao. Anyway. I prefer rough sex. I didn’t learn it anywhere. At least I don’t think so. I just imagined it when I was in HS
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 01:13 AM
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I’m a woman and I feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:10 AM
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What did they do? I mean I think symmetrical means attractive and attractive doesn’t mean nice. lol I think it’s more along bone structure, length between eyes, round face / angular face, where the corners of your mouth end when you smile- the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 11:34 PM
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You are right. It is overwhelmingly an issue. I’ve read (not seen) but read some posts about how it is 100% OK to date only young women (18-22), like leo. That is just weird. intentionally seeking someone out much younger is a cause of concern. Same goes with women too. If a woman intentionally sought out younger men, it’s just as weird. it’s just disgusting. With Leo, since it is such a strange case, I think he is actually gay. But I think he has been with his current girlfriend for awhile. I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:53 PM
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I’ve never seen it either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:15 PM
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Aren’t Asian women less curvy as well? I worked for a Japanese brand and all the women were obsessed with being tiny tiny tiny. Just super tiny. Maybe that is more Japan- I don’t mean to lump Asian countries together lol. But these thin women would complain about being fat and I couldn’t see an ounce of fat on them! They all wanted small butts too. The difference between the culture in the US and Japan, do different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:13 PM
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Favorite comment thread in the whole post. I feel the same. As a woman. I find plenty of men attractive in certain ways. You can really grow to love a person even if you didn’t think they were hot shit to begin with. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:09 PM
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This is so sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:07 PM
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Thank you! Said it perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:07 PM
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Some men are predatory. The men I have met in my life aren’t. At least that’s what I think. lol you never do really know people. Some women are predatory too. Also, women who protect the men are predatory. You hear that a lot in family dynamics. I think as a society we deem men as more predatory because women’s sexuality “should be protected.” Men are expected to get laid ASAP. I’m sure there is a truth to the sex imbalance, but an individual experiences predatory trauma differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:56 PM
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GOOD ONE. Remember that hullabaloo awhile back about fathers saying “once I had a daughter, I realized blah blah” or “Imagine if that girl was your daughter!” Lol and everyone was in a tizzy because supposedly men didn’t view women apart from sexual objects until after they had a daughter? Im not a man so I’m not sure. All that mess was over dramatic...I’m sure there is a truth to it but the same goes for women. Women in general do carry a bit more empathy, however I’m curious. If I had a baby b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:52 PM
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Do you think so? I read an article (many years ago) that said exactly this. There must be some truth to it- you can judge someone off of their face and expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:42 PM
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I remember reading a study / research paper about this. Very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:32 PM
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Do all men or women think this way, even with choice? Does it depend on the person? People tend to make connections and give value to those we come into contact on a day to day basis. For instance, I can’t imagine dating anyone else and I wouldn’t want to. Lol like even if I met a man who was richer or more handsome- he doesn’t have the same personality or connection that my SO has. Idk, that’s love and I’ve also come to believe that the affluent men I have met do not have the kindest hearts. I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:26 AM
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Thank you for the tip. I will have to try it out. What I really need is one of those rubber mat things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:24 AM
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Oh wow! I did not realize. Why don’t I ever hear about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 03:23 AM
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Who? I generally can’t think of anyone lol. Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore? But they divorced. I’m not up on the wealthy elites of the world. I’m average
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:08 AM
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I’m not shaming anyone or slut shaming. There can be a connection in age gap relationships. But if you’re realistic, people have more in common with people around their age. I’m not sure which wealthy people or celebrities you are referring to, Leonardo DiCaprio? I don’t think he’s looking for anything long term at all lol. I think seven years is like the age range between men and women. Which isn’t even that much. I can’t think of celebrities that have successful 20+ age different relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:07 AM
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That is so specific though. Lol. But his heart could not be healed if your mother left your father. I’d always say what’s the point of finding another love if they left? Older people date all the time. I find it hard that a significantly older person would want to build a life with a younger one. If you are 65 year you are already settled- wouldn’t you want someone somewhat settled? A 65 can’t go out partying with a 25 year old lol looks ridiculous. It’s the same vice a versa. I’m glad your folk…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:59 PM
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That’s super rude. If 25 is old? Lol but even so you’re rude af
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:57 PM
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I’m in a relationship. But your 20s is when you are still learning about yourself. It is the first time you are truly on your own and cultivating your style & gaining work experience. Maybe my perception of my 20s isn’t my prime. I guess my perception is more important lol. But still, I haven’t had men trying to date me all the time or take me out. It’s the same with most of my friends and they are attractive. These reddit posts sound like women are constantly bombarded with free drinks, dates &…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 11:55 PM
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I’m coming to this from my own perspective and time on my hands lol. I’m sure some men only want youth but some men also want more than that. Not every man wants to date a younger woman, I’ve heard men say this before. They would rather have someone “who looks like them.” It also calms anxieties about being left for someone else lmfao. Sorry I have a lot of time today!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:04 PM
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That’s true, I could be. But attainability can be said of anything- your job, your current partner. It depends on your day to day life, who you meet. We don’t have a plethora of choice. We can only make decisions based off of the cards we were dealt. Too much choice could also be overwhelming. At the end of it, don’t you think a true, stable connection with a person is most important? Maybe I’m justifying here, but most folks who have had “everything they thought they wanted” aren’t always the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:56 PM
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I thought women had vibrators because it is just harder to orgasm with a male partner. However, the photo is true, if people are assholes. Toys should be fine to use no matter your sex. You’re really just getting stimulation from it and it has nothing to do with connecting to someone. Sometimes you just want to pleasure yourself lol. Idk Sex robots are a bit unsettling because it’s simulating a person that you’re just using.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 07:45 PM
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To date? Uh, yeah. Most relationships are based off of relatability and being at the same life stage. As for sex, not all men want to have sex with every beautiful woman, it might seem like a great idea- but some men need connection to even have sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:24 PM
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Exactly. I have a more polished, fitted look whereas before I was a bohemian queen in wrinkled clothing. Lol I’ve also noticed my confidence improved, I understand my sexual needs and I have become more outspoken about what I need or want instead of worrying about everyone else. I’m nice, but I’m not a nice doormat like I was before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:16 PM
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My mom had her first kid at forty. Had me at 45 and my younger brother at 47- With a man seventeen years her junior. Marriage did not work out because he was serial cheater, but hey. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:47 PM
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Did you really have to say “old bitch.” You’re seventeen, aren’t you..?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:44 PM
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I want to have “subtly filled and botoxed faces” once I start seeing wrinkles! If you have any recommendations or advice, please let me know!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:37 PM
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My friend who gets cat called on the regular told me “I can’t wait until I’m fifty so I can be left alone.” As a side note, I can’t wait to be fifty so I can do nothing all day and it’s acceptable :p lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:34 PM
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Your first base rate is based off of high end companion rates. There are many 20 year olds who are 350/hr in NYC. If a provider marks 25+, you have higher quality men and longer bookings (events, dinner dates). Some older clients do not want to have sex with someone who is the same age as their daughter. Can confirm, part time in the industry. Lol not everything is as it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:28 PM
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Most men, however, would prefer to be in a relationship with someone close to their age. Most people’s attractions age as they age and if they are looking for something serious, a fifty year old man won’t have much in common with a 20 year old. Of course everyone looks better when they are twenty. However, doesn’t last folks. Lol so maybe we shouldn’t be so concerned with it, it’s inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:11 PM
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If this is true I’ve been having a hard time in my 20s (female) lmfao. I’m not attracting any older men. Maybe some of the homeless that hang out at port authority bus terminal :p As a woman in her 20s, my 20s have not been all that great. I’ve been in one relationship, rarely receive male attention - it’s not like all women in their 20s are having the time of their life. In my early 20s I was dressing like a foot and my face was very round even though I’m thin. Lol I’m 25 now and I think it’s t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 06:00 PM
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Interesting. I can NEVER open the god damn jars. I sigh with heavy exhaustion even before I try to open it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 05:55 PM
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Not really. As relationships go on both parties stop playing into each other’s desires. In other words, boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 05:13 AM
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Be careful of those charmers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:04 AM
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Second this. I have a definite look I like but I never know who I will be attracted to (sexually.) There are men out there who have a very lustful personality and not have what I typically like in the looks department. Lust doesn’t always equate with love however!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:02 AM
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I know- I can’t understand why people are competing with fake BS. Some even go into debt. I suppose if you represent a brand or have talent social media can make you money. I am so far behind & I’m 25. I’m not gonna make it. :p However, some people are really funny and deserve the attention. I like social media for the funny commentary/videos. But I don’t really learn anything from social media, except feeling bad about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:17 PM
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Oh oops I forgot it was a personal preference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:11 PM
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This is sweet. But marriage and family dictates if a woman is high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:15 AM
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For some reason your comment made me think about folks who are asexual. Like I wonder how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:42 AM
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Sounds like me female version. I can’t flirt at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:35 AM
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Interesting. My significant other said he was the opposite lol. Like, he has to get to know someone before having sex with someone. I was caught off guard- I assumed most men were like you. But I’m a cut to the chase kind of a gal. Sex is a good way to know if you’re compatible. I also know that’s usually the point of even dating, at least at first. However, it’s crude and a bit of a turn off to be sexual right away. Plus it’s too easy, it’s boring idk. The buildup is nice. Sorry I just ranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:33 AM
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Right? I never posted anything too close to my heart when I had Facebook or instagram. I realize a lot of people do. I mean, who gives a shit who I’m dating anyway? People forget in like five minutes and they are more worried about themselves. The only opinions that matter are my closest friends and family. These folks aren’t superficial. They are genuine and would clue me in on red flags. Social media is so fake, do we not know this already? The most beautiful couple could have a horrible relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:22 AM
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ooo, which types have glamour lives? The plastic surgeons? :p
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:15 AM
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Have you seen him in the professor? It came out last year. He looked hot in that. Woo! Then again, it’s a movie so I’m sure edits/and whatever else, makeup helped lol. I’ve always liked him though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:13 AM
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I’m jealous!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:43 AM
1

Oh really? That sucks. Sorry. hard pass
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:20 AM
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good to know! I do like a neutral lip color. I get a bit insecure about not wearing make up because I don’t want people to think I don’t care. Usually cover up if I need to, clear mascara and a lippy. I just think make up makes me look like a child who got into her mothers make up bag. I’ll pass :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:20 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:12 AM
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Yup some girls have em! My friend actually made this point to me. Before she goes on dates, she makes sure she presents very well. She gets lash extensions, top shelf make up and gets her nails done! I don’t wear that much makeup and I do not get my nails done. HOWEVER every time I see her, I think I should do that! However, it’s expensive! And I would personally look silly! It depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:08 AM
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On the initiating sex thing, some people are responders to sex. It’s just a preference. I understand it could be annoying to have to always do that though. Personally, I am a woman and not a good initiator lol. On occasion I do & I TRY to but it does not feel like my place at all. It might just be shyness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 04:01 AM
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All my first dates has been men speaking mostly about themselves. However, I don’t talk that much about myself, so I prefer it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 03:47 AM
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Rip Jim Lahey!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 09:03 AM
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Dude, Harvey Weinstein used his power to expect sex from people wanting to further their career. There were people who turned him down & I’m sure they never starred in a film. The point with that is sex should NEVER be expected for someone to further their career. Sex should not have any power to influence someone’s career. It’s fine if someone chooses to have sex with a superior, but feeling like you have to to get ahead? Give me a break. You think that’s ok? And it’s not just women, men are se…
/r/MensRights13/02/20 08:25 AM
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It does. But it also got rid of a lot of bad people. Would we rather still have Matt Lauer giving us the news on NBC? Lol like really.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 08:08 AM
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Alright. What am I not understanding? That everyone who supports me too is a horrible human being? That is what I am getting off of this thread.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 08:07 AM
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I’m not understanding what you are saying. I said when I comment on feminist / men’s rights posts just because I’m not agreeing with every one else, it’s just hate getting thrown out at me. It’s so stupid. No wonder you all hate each other. It is common that men AND women get sexually harassed. And by harassed I include groping, sexually explicit comments, i.e cat calling. That is so common, do you live under a rock? I’m not sure, I live in NYC and it’s everywhere. And just because you don’t exp…
/r/MensRights13/02/20 04:37 AM
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I mean, I support me too but I don’t support amber heard at all. I haven’t read any sources of people defending Heard. Maybe send some along. Which is why I was here in the first place but everyone’s just getting angry because I’m not agreeing that me too was bullshit. Harvey Weinstein was a POS, Matt Lauer POS, Ed Westwick POS. I’m glad we were able to highlight the scum of that industry. As for Amber, I’ve only read hate comments towards her. I’ve listened to the audio tapes, YouTube comments …
/r/MensRights13/02/20 04:34 AM
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As a weapon? Some people use it as a weapon. I mean are women supposed to accept that some men sexually assault them at work? Even women towards men? Which isn’t funny or acceptable which I know the public still thinks is. This Amber Heard case can be a whistleblower on how women can use their sex as a weapon. Just like with Harvey Weinstein- he used his position to get sexual favors. It’s the same shit. Both needed
/r/MensRights13/02/20 04:33 AM
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What? Louis ck explicitly said hes fine. Lol alright there. Assuming things
/r/MensRights13/02/20 04:31 AM
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Ugh. Men and women are impossible to agree with I guess. I meant not just you lol
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:48 AM
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I didn’t know Louis ck had a son. Also, news of Amber Heard just happened. Give it a few weeks. I don’t think things will end great for her. It took Louis like a whole year to bounce back. What he did, asking CO WORKERS to be involved in his sexual kink IS NOT RIGHT. He should not have gotten away with that willy nilly. He was notorious in the comedy community of being a bit inappropriate. How do you think that is ok? Not everyone is comfortable with that behavior. In regards to the women who co…
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:43 AM
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How is this a reflection? You’re telling me I am wrong because you haven’t experienced it. You have a different experience- we are both right in a way. Anytime I try to say anything mutual on feminism or men’s rights it’s a shit show. You all are insane. I guess I’m missing the point, men and women can’t have understanding at all.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:40 AM
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listen up. I AM NOT AGREEING WITH MEN GETTING CONVICTED WITHOUT PROOF. I am not saying this ISNT AN ISSUE. It’s simple: people get assaulted, men and women and we have to still believe those that have had something happen to them. With PROOF. You guys are impossible to deal with
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:35 AM
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I never protested against him. What are you even on? Piss off. I’m done with you.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:34 AM
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Dude, he isn’t ruined. He is FINE. I don’t understand. He has enough support TO BE FINE. A couple of people called him an asshole, he got dropped from networks but he is on tour again. he apologized for asking co workers to watch him jack off (which is inappropriate.) that is workplace harassment. I don’t think that is right. Like I figure hire a sex worker if you want someone to watch you jack off
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:29 AM
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Which cases are men never believed? It’s more of a joke if a man says he was assaulted- that isn’t right either and I think culturally we are bringing light to this. But I think in Johnny depp’s case, it will be in his favor. I mean, there is proof in the audio. Amber also sounds completely insane.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:23 AM
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Yeah, I remember.... but he’s back to selling out shows. I didn’t agree with that either. But don’t act like he’s forever ruined. Lol I literally just bought tickets to his show. What I am not seeing is people agreeing with amber heard. I haven’t come across a post where women are agreeing with her. I’m a bit disorganized with my writing but that was what I meant. So I thought men’s rights would provide proof that women are agreeing with her. Do not tell me I don’t care about men’s rights. I’m n…
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:18 AM
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What? I’m on men’s right because I disagree with people agreeing with amber heard. I also don’t see it anywhere so I am just trying to get more information. Are you dense? I can say the same thing to you- by the way you’re refusing to understand what I am saying, you don’t care about anyone’s actual sexual / physical assault. But I know you don’t mean that I’ve had different experiences than you so I’m going to have a different view point. I know men AND women who have been assaulted and it is c…
/r/MensRights12/02/20 11:54 PM
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I included men in it too. I obviously care. I think we are looking at it differently. I am not agreeing with false accusations. I didn’t say that. You’re claiming women will lose out but you’re insisting that men are still getting screwed over by false accusations. Which one is it? I’m not arguing with you- it’s pointless. I’m not rooting for false rape and persecuting men.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 11:50 PM
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No it isn’t. It didn’t start off that way. It was actually from a black woman who was sick of getting cat called and realized in her environment she was more exposed to harassment. And nobody cared. Please don’t tell me that that is BS. Race is an issue, especially for black women. False accusations exist yes but that doesn’t take away from what the initial goal was from the moment — raising awareness. But I also think speaking about consent can create clarity when two people decide to have sex.…
/r/MensRights12/02/20 11:41 PM
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Harsh, don’t you think? When did I say destroying someone without evidence is right? That isn’t what me too is about. It’s spreading awareness about industries that have been getting away with things for too long. Getting positions because of sexual favors, feeling forced to do something. Careers put on the line. The entitlement to anyone’s body. It includes men too. Sexual harassment for anyone in the entertainment industry, corporate world..
/r/MensRights12/02/20 11:31 PM
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No- from personal experience and my friends experience. It’s common in their workplace and it was common as they were growing up. The me too also opened up discussions about consent, which is super important. Nobody should feel like they have to do anything they don’t want to. People should be aware when they are coercive (goes for men and women) either can be a “predator.” People should also read emotional clues. If someone is uncomfortable, stop. Don’t be afraid to say no. Yes also means yes a…
/r/MensRights12/02/20 11:30 PM
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Me too is an important movement, but the liars and false accusers should not be lumped with it. Sexual harassment is very common. VERY common. But I HOPE this Amber Heard story wakes people up to women being liars, manipulators and pieces of shit. She is absolute trash.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 10:29 PM
50

She’s a POS. Ugh can we delete her already?
/r/MensRights12/02/20 10:26 PM
12

I don’t understand where the $$ goes to
/r/MensRights12/02/20 06:21 AM
1

I find myself attracted to a lot of men. Lol so I’m not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:42 PM
1

Why do old guys hate you? They are jealous? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:14 AM
1

Shouldn’t men and women be asking each other about each other? That pretty much sums it up. Be aware of how they behave though ...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:37 AM
3

I did not understand your comment. Do (most) guys want attention, love and time alone? Perhaps no restrictions? That’s what I think lol and I also think women want that too... People do want to care for others, not everyone is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:35 AM
2

To clarify: I’m not saying men shouldn’t show their emotions. A healthy relationship needs both parties to show their emotions. My friend DID say that she was having trouble seeing her partner as dominant because of some issues he was having. But he said he didn’t feel dominant and therefore couldn’t not be dominant. As far as I know, they do switch. I know her natural disposition is a sub. Switching is acceptable if a person wants to do that. I’m questioning how I view sex. I’ve realized I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 02:59 AM
2

This is true! It is also a dynamic. For example, if I met a man who was an authoritative figure and we were not dating, I would only see him in that authoritative light. He does feel upset, sad blah blah but I never see him express himself that way. It doesn’t mean he is emotionless, I just don’t see it. However, I do believe with the right person- a submissive can have a functional, true dominant/ submissive relationship without real life imposing (as expressed in the comments) But I understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:48 PM
2

Why did you link this- are you implying men who are dominant are psychopaths?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:45 PM
13

I can relate to this post. I have actually talked about this exact topic with one of my friends. I explicitly stated oh my god, do they have a Madonna whore complex for women? I then told her about my issues with a seeing my SO in a dominant light. As a submissive, a relationship CAN take away seeing your significant other as a dominant figure- especially when you see them out of that space. Even my friend said her SO was not in a dominant space because he has shown submissive sides of him. To c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 06:57 PM
7

Which is why I prefer erotic movies vs porn. Porn looks completely fake as I don’t look like any of those people. Porn also just keeps it at one weird angle that I find gross. At least hot & steamy movies have something relatable- connection, character profiles, a build up, get into the psychology of it all!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:50 AM
-1

Most women want someone who is decent and someone they are attracted to. Someone they are similar too I’m sick of hearing about this top 20% get over it - is this from social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:53 PM
0

What? Lmao Jesus Christ that sounds horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:52 PM
4

Not necessarily everything is about getting laid. A lot of highly intelligent people were not obsessed with sex. Who has the time? A lot of inventions were because of OCD, boredom & recognition. Also naturally being good at something and having an ambitious drive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:49 PM
2

I remember it was a trend in Japan for women to cheat on their husbands. I briefly worked for a Japanese company and my Japanese co workers spoke about this often ...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:06 AM
33

Omg what women are rallying for amber heard? That’s insane. I thought she got in trouble back in 2009 for assaulting her then GF. The chick just screams insane.
/r/MensRights07/02/20 01:30 AM
4

JD seems like a down to earth, sweet person. Sure he did drugs and drinks a bunch of wine but don’t we all? None of his past girlfriends ever said he was physically abusive. Amber is a POS
/r/MensRights05/02/20 08:13 AM
3

She sliced off a piece of his finger? She is absolutely INSANE. I really hope her career tanks. Forever. She is an awful, manipulative demon.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 08:03 AM
4

Yup. I can agree that people are letting women get away with crappy behavior. I understand men and women have different perspectives and reactions to things. Most of the time, I think women who react emotionally is them just expressing their frustration at their significant others lack of understanding of their feelings. Which is known to be a problem between men and women. Lol. Men and women easily miscommunicate even when trying to communicate. This “men have it coming” culture isn’t a good me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 11:02 PM
2

Honestly, I feel for Johnny. I really hope he can get his career back on track. I think he will though. I can’t wait for his return, if he decides to. This women is true evil, she slanders him as an abuser and yet she is the one abusing. What’s wrong with her! Does she realize this? I can understand not being self aware but blatantly LYING to the public/lawyers. Come on. On another note of self reflection, I feel I argue like her - I just yell like an idiot. Men seem to be the calm ones (most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:26 PM
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Oh no don’t tell me this. I might as well leave my SO for a rich man. I mean, how immature can we be? Someone can be rich but have an awful personality. I am not saying it’s not true- but I wonder what people value in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 09:52 PM
0

Bro you are completely off. Do you get your knowledge of women off of social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:59 PM
20

I want to be a top tier woman, but I’m not. We all want to look better and have better jobs. People normally date those they are similar too- looks and job wise. I don’t understand how people don’t get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:58 PM
2

My boyfriend complains that I don’t need him because I make good money lol My best friends boyfriend says the same thing lmao. I think significant others like to be needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:34 AM
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What a mess of a comment. But I do like how you enforce family values. Family is important. If you want children, if you have stability for children, are healthy for children...all of that. People have kids way too easily. I also disagree on how women going to college doesn’t help the world. Half of the population that went to college is in some BS position. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 08:09 AM
1

In risk of controversy but this always makes me laugh: https://youtu.be/aUgQPzq6ifc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:54 PM
2

What? I hope your being sarcastic after “the worthless people out there-mostly men” comment. You act like women had no part in furthering our species intelligence. There has been great past women inventors, authors, engineers and scientists but were ghost writers- had to hide behind a man. Women weren’t thought to be productive in that way/ they weren’t allowed to be. In terms of labor, of course men did the hard labor. It was easier for them + women weren’t allowed to. But there was also a mast…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 08:53 PM
1

I never said respond negatively ..!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:27 AM
1

Complaining is different from expressing frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:49 PM
2

Exactly. This is why I vent to my friends and don’t turn to my SO. I know it might make him feel like he needs a solution. I really only vent to him if an issue involves him- like house / finances However I do like to make sure we are on the same page emotionally. I like to check in once awhile to see how he is doing because I know he won’t volunteer it. I just want to make sure he’s alright. Life isn’t easy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:03 PM
2

Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:59 PM
2

Is it really such a huge deal if someone expresses concern or frustration about a situation? I’m not talking about projection and blaming our partners. I’m talking about just giving an ear to someone - You’ve never had a problem or an insecurity before?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:59 PM
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I know that it’s best to find a solution. But you’ve never had an issue that made you upset and couldn’t think of a way to solve it right away? Men have vented to me before. It’s fine. Not that big of a deal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:56 PM
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Your concerned that the planet is under populated? As a side note, there are plenty of people on the planet, I mean we are pretty much Earths limit. Us humans take a lot of energy and natural resources. ALSO many people should NOT have kids. Aside from trusting EVERYONE to have morals, values, stable household... Give a me reason why a woman or man who has the possibility of passing on mental illness or another hereditary abnormality (which could make their child’s life significantly harder) sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 12:14 PM
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I listen to my female friends and the only thing I can say is we just need someone to vent to. Not a solution and not necessarily advice either. I’m not sure where you are getting contradictions from but ok your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:51 AM
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I agree with you except one point. A woman isn’t selfish, shallow, manipulative or exploitative of men if she doesn’t want to “serve a family.” I think that’s wrong choice of words. In the West, women are able to have careers and decide what they want out of life besides having kids. That isn’t selfish, it’s gaining autonomy. People underestimate how hard having kids is and how it really changes your own life. I’m not saying shallow, trashy women don’t exist lol but just as much as women are lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:14 AM
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I read a study that said men don’t listen to women. They listen to their male friends- but for some reason they just aren’t good listeners in relationships. I mean that explains a lot. I also think men and women approach things differently so there is usually a misunderstanding on a plethora of things. This is why communication is so important but it is difficult! Might not be the greatest source https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/how-do-life/201511/why-men-don-t-listen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:03 AM
1

Really? My mother still tells me this now. That is way different from my experience. If I even thought of marriage at 20, she would not agree. At all. I’m saying people don’t move to the middle of the country unless it’s for a job. Lol or if you grew up there. Most people want to get out. My college experience was all kids from Ohio, Louisiana, Kansas, New York, Jersey all over the place and most of the people I knew stayed in Philly, moved to NY or DC. I think a few went to CA. People have to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 11:23 PM
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Alright. With that being said, people should not feel they are less than if they aren’t married by a certain age. Higher value people don’t necessarily marry young, it depends where they are. I suppose if you grew up where everyone was married at 23 and all hope was lost that would suck. But you move somewhere else. I don’t know of many people who relocate to the middle of the country, unless for a job. Correct me if I’m wrong. It’s funny because I think people who marry young aren’t the brighte…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:40 PM
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I’m in New York, but I have friends in Maryland, DC & South Jersey. Most of the people I know who married when they were 23 are in the same town they grew up in and working entry level, minimum wage jobs. Which is fine. Though, I’d hardly say they were career focused. As a woman, I can’t imagine raising a child and putting my career FIRST. Extra help is always nice but as a personal choice, I wouldn’t want to raise my kids that way. If you’re ultra rich? Maybe. But even my well off friends are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:05 PM
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Yup. Of course people can change in their relationships, but I think by the late 20s, early 30s- you have your values figured out and some sort of direction. You can pick a partner with similar values. You could also be more mature to HANDLE changes in the relationship too. Your brain does not fully develop until 25. I thought I heard that they even raised it recently. Who knows!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:56 PM
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What? Middle to upper class people tend to get married later 20s or early-mid 30s. Depending on if there is someone in your life that you would want to marry. I don’t know anyone lower class- I know middle to higher class. Only one got married at 26 and the rest are still waiting to set a date, in long term relationships. These people are focused on careers too. what if you don’t meet anyone to marry in your 20s? It doesn’t mean your “undesirable” - you haven’t found the one you actually wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:18 PM
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I know many people, in relationships and not married in their late 20s. No offense, my opinion- socially aware, people with higher intelligence (career focused) marry later in life. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It was a way to avoid a mid life crisis. If you get married at 22, you are figuring out who you are. You JUST got out of adolescence and most likely living on your own for the first time. In ten years you will be different- if you marry someone young you will most likely g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:58 PM
3

Really? Most people get married later now. In their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:55 PM
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I imagine a man who is smart does not approach sex with single (his) minded. I’m sure most do, but I know some men who equate sex with meaning. Just like I know women who don’t. It’s an individual thing. Society tells us to believe men feel this and women feel that. Sure, there may be some truth but when it comes down to the individual- take it with a grain of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:06 AM
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Nice, thank you. A platonic women is best to open up emotionally with? It’s sucks men can’t feel they can’t open up to one another. I know in relationships, my SO tells me to just stop complaining and deal with it. Although I am just looking for an ear. not advice. I wonder if men say the same thing to other men. I know women like for their partners to open up to them, but I think women over estimate how “accommodating” they can be. It’s also best to have someone to confide in that isn’t your pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:49 AM
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Jesus lady. People fuck before they get married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:22 PM
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I know a few. If young is in their late 20s, early 30s... Ive noticed men grow out of porn as they get older. As a side note, there is a dedicated subreddit to stop watching porn. And for all the crap porn gets, I don’t think it’s necessarily great for a person (team amateur all the way) but in moderation, you’re fine. I’m sure men who are addicted to porn are not happy in any way. Things exist- good and bad, it’s up to the person to figure out how to have a healthy balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:10 PM
1

That is true. You would think people would be kinder if they aren’t interested in someone. I do understand it can be a defense mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:02 PM
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Interesting take. I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 07:55 AM
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She was befriending the men as a man.. how was she trying to find misogyny? I wonder if she expected men to talk “trash” about women. I can understand women being protected by default emotionally. I think it depends on the person too. As a female, the woman posing as a man was used to being emotionally supported whereas men aren’t used to that. Im hoping our culture is changing for men in that regard. I hate how there is this thick wall - with my male friends / significant others I do not really…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:00 AM
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I guess I walk around with a moody face for this reason...then I decide to smile. But there’s a difference if you’re practically staring at someone...no? Women should ask men out more even though I know women (including myself) prefer if a man does. It’s best to be straight forward in life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:15 AM
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That’s awful. I thought you meant she didn’t interact with anyone- she was accepted by other men, which isn’t surprising. I am wondering if they were able to attach to each other emotionally at least. I am not surprised about the cold approaches- it’s lucky & by chance a woman will accept a date with a stranger. Although I believe I did that a few times and it was a no go lol. People usually meet through work or mutual friends. Women are also picker I guess but that doesn’t necessarily make them…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:09 AM
2

I never understood how people judge their own looks. To yourself you might be ugly, but to another you are perfect. Something has to attract you to a person - a look, style, persona. I mean people don’t have to be conventionally attractive at all lol Unless you grow up with people making fun of your looks, I can understand that. People like that are absolute garbage. Ugh, I hate school
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:46 PM
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If I am interested in a man, I feel I make it clear. Eye contact, smiling and stuff. Like A LOT of eye contact and little shy smiles. Like how can you NOT know! Worst comes to worst I have to make the first move! Sucks because I’m shy but you know, gotta get it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:37 PM
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Men think women are special? Lmao this is news to me. At least for me. I figure a person gets a special place when you start a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:29 PM
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Do men talk to other men in regards to emotion? Did she try befriending men? I find people in general never really listen anyway. I have like one friend who actually gives a shit. I find life is lonely in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:25 PM
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Aren’t the Japanese super super polite and timid? Some of them anyway. I used to work for a Japanese company and everyone was shy and overly polite (to your face😊)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:22 PM
1

This reminds me of when I would be walking on the sidewalk and men would pull up next to me and ask for directions. I immediately felt uncomfortable and I am also terrible with direction. Nothing crazy happened, it’s instinctual to want to ignore them or get away. I think I’ve helped a few men out in the subway, but I try to make it a quick interaction. Then I worry I am rude but I am really just trying to avoid any lingering. I don’t understand why a man can’t ask a man for help. It’s not RIGHT…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 08:20 PM
1

Well, nobody is a prize and nobody should think their shit doesn’t stink. No matter how attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:17 PM
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The reason women married very young 100-200 years ago is because the family needed land or money. Marriage wasn’t their choice, lol. It was definitely decided by family. And also our life spans were shorter. I can’t really say women just want money and resources. An employed man? Of course. But I have to look up specific studies on women only wanting money.. I enjoy being with someone close to my age as well. Of course like you said, not all women are like that, but I’ve read the majority do pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:16 PM
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Most women want to date someone close to their age. They don’t look for that much older. Usually they marry someone 2-5 years older!!Look it up! The ones who want money? Possibly they date older or they date a rich young man. Of course some women like older men, but that’s not a large percentage of women. It makes sense to want to date someone in your age range- at the same stages in life...etc. your most likely to hang around those that are your age, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:32 PM
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I don’t know what they mean by good men. Younger men? Rich men? Lol. This economy is garbage. I also think people should date on their level. A man could be attractive but br boring. A man could be not your preference looks wise and be amazing. It’s hard for everyone to check all the boxes. We have to lighten up a bit. But there are plenty of people who shouldn’t be in relationships lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:29 PM
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But you can’t stop your body from changing.. that’s impossible. That is what I am saying. And as a woman, especially after birth (if you have kids) your body will change. Not just weight, but skin texture etc etc. Not everyone has the opportunity to be at the gym four hours a day. Of course I wouldn’t want to be lazy in a relationship either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:24 PM
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I don’t see it that way. Observing and commenting how people treat each other doesn’t mean I’m so kind. I’m talking about the wall and how ridiculous it makes people seem. You think we should be crappy towards one another?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:26 AM
-1

What is femcel? Female incel? Ugh, reddit is too much with these terms. Why are you so angry about this post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:18 AM
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If it’s against the rules, it’ll be deleted. At least some people were able to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:13 AM
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What? Did I ever say I was nice in the post above? I just called you an asshole disagreeing with the wall is me being righteous? Lmao alright Who is sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:10 AM
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Well I put it under discussion. It’s not a baby overview of the world- I am just saying people should be kinder, that’s all. If you have a problem with that you’re probably an ass
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:55 AM
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Americans are very unhealthy. We don’t have healthy lifestyles! I hope I feel more confident as I get older! Everyone says your 20s are prime but I certainly don’t feel like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:31 AM
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I know! Every time I go on reddit I find the worst subs. So hateful. Lol it’s a black hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:23 AM
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I absolutely do not want to sing kumbaya! I thought we progressed because we were able to build helpful communities, had ambition (this is why boredom exists) Just because you aren’t insulting someone does not mean you are a doormat. I’m specifically talking about shaming people about things that aren’t in their control. It’s a cheap shot to bash someone for their looks and age. I know the world isn’t nice. It’s just a PSA to remind people to be kinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:21 AM
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I know you aren’t insulting. It was a rhetorical question. Just the human race- we want connection but we are mean to each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:11 AM
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Why are we insulting each other? Honestly I’d be so happy to get old with a partner. It’s cute and endearing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:09 AM
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I know people say women don’t like weak men but I find it impossible thinking a person is always confident, always sure of themselves, and always happy. Like you can act like the most “alpha” man and I’ll still be like what’s really going on. I’m a skeptical lady But therapy is good because your partner doesn’t necessarily want to hear your problems. This goes for both men and women- there is only so much negativity a person can handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:48 PM
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Emotional intimacy is just (possibly greater) than physical intimacy. People need to connect with each other. Isolation is a form of torture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:42 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 12:24 AM
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Lol alright. I was like oh, yikes. Any manipulation is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:31 PM
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Yes! Although 30/35 might not be a huge difference. People like to have similar looking partners. Lol even if a man will always say I’m more attracted to women in their 20s- Of course people look better in their youth. But a couple who ages together and is relatively content seems to be the goal for long term “happiness” and companionship. Which is really what matters in life. It’s the ultimate bond haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:26 PM
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Manipulating women to their advantage is a lot of fun? Oh...that sounds horrible lmao Jesus Christ stay clear
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:29 PM
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I don’t fear sex. I just think I don’t like things in my body that alters it. I’d rather adopt. And also, oh I’ve heard horror stories. Pregnancy sounds like a legit nightmare. Trust me, I won’t regret not having kids. it isn’t a woman’s destiny to have children- they are expensive, are you mentally healthy to take care of kids? Do you have a stable environment? Do you have healthy genes? These are questions people have to ask themselves before bringing a child into the world. It’s an actual per…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:19 PM
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If they look older than you, it’s a no. I can understand that. My SO is in his 30s and he says everyone in his age group looks so much older than he does. I feel the same way. I’m 25 and although it isn’t weird to date a man in his 30s at my age, if he looked like he was in his mid 30s he would feel too old for me. It isn’t because he’s “old” it’s because we aren’t on the same timeline, visually. That was a lot sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:07 PM
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But for a relationship? If you’re 55 I hope you at least try to date women in their 40s. Much more relatable. It’s weird to date someone the same age as your child...it makes me wonder if they ever grew up. Also, a lot of people look different at age 20. Some 20 year olds like 13, some 20 year olds look 30. Some 30 years olds look 20. It’s kind of a perception too...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:01 PM
1

24? Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:00 PM
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Dang. The female hormone is literally a sharp rise & sharp decline. But the idea of having kids is absolutely disgusting. I personally have a phobia of getting pregnant. I can’t stand the thought of sperm inside me- It’s such an invasion it makes me feel nauseas lol ah. It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 11:08 AM
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Oh I thought you were a woman. Sorry! Woah, why are you cutting out foods? You don’t want estrogen? Lol Maybe it will make your life easier. I’m not sure if the food I eat is effecting me as much as just my “natural” hormones. However- I’m sure if I experienced with it...I’d see changes. For example, maybe I should eat foods that increase testosterone but I don’t think I’d want that lmao I’m very feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:06 AM
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Oh my god me too! I mean, I can think with my brain but hormones mess with you. With ovulation I know it will go away so I say to myself be careful this will pass. But I am super wild and down for almost anything. A week before my period I really don’t like to be touched and I am absolutely disgusted by sex. That only lasts for a day or two. Haha . But it’s true, even depression and anxiety can be caused my imbalanced hormones. Frightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:35 AM
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I thought I was like this. And then I wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:32 AM
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Sometimes I imagine a young males horniness is the equivalence to a female ovulating. Because when I am ovulating I just need that release and almost anyone will do. It’s insane. Hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:30 AM
5

32 is old? Jesus Christ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:29 AM
1

I think women can have sex without emotion/connection too. It’s just sex is better with someone you are connected to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:28 AM
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Sex IS bonding for men. At least in a relationship. More so than women. Men might be easily attracted to women, but they aren’t heartless. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:26 AM
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Some women like shy. However you have to put yourself out there. Most women expect you make the first move. Unless they are drunk lol then they might make the first move. Quiet isn’t always bad. I like quiet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:23 AM
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some men can’t get hard if they don’t have a connection to the woman (I have experience with this!) They exist. Of course people will feel attracted to others, it’s natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:21 AM
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This post is a mess. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:40 AM
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What? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:49 AM
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That’s way more intimate than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:10 PM
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Why would anyone go to a strangers apartment to spend the night? That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. I’d rather be safe than naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 10:35 PM
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Ugh, but what if he decides to not show her work if she doesn’t sleep with him? Lol like hellloo A man who proposes this is stupid to think that the woman would not think this was coercive. I don’t care if someone thinks it’s not an asshole move, there is no way getting around it. It comes off as coercion. It’s like Harvey Weinstein. Threatened people’s careers, “was the big name in town,” it’s similar. I can’t blame the women who felt like they had to sleep with him so they could get ahead or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 10:31 PM
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if she didn’t stay at his apartment, would he still showcase her work?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 10:30 PM
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Essentially she is saying I will show case your work or let you speak if you sleep with me. That’s coercive. Now a person feels pressured to have sex or be sexual with someone. Hello? I’m so confused how you don’t get this. Someone’s career shouldn’t be determined by sleeping with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 10:19 PM
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That’s your perspective. If someone is requesting my professional work, I expect it to be just that. If we end up building, and key word there: building a relationship that is fine. It’s just creepy to stay at someone’s apartment that you don’t know lol. Especially as a woman, I’d take it the guy was using me. Any man should know that that is completely unprofessional. Completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 10:18 PM
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I can’t understand how you don’t think this is manipulation for sex. Oh my god, scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 10:03 PM
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Wouldn’t you think your work is being devalued? What if you didn’t want to sleep with her and she decided to not have you speak about your career? Lmao like bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 10:01 PM
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I guess the woman didn’t want to feel like the only reason he showed cased her art was because he wanted to sleep with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:59 PM
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I mean it’s weird to sleep at someone’s house you haven’t met before.... Lol red flags all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:57 PM
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Alright so we do agree about novelty. It seemed like you were saying women liked routine..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:34 PM
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lol wow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:10 PM
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Did you read what I said before? Having explorative relationships doesn’t mean just physical things. What woman doesn’t want to try different kinds of dates? Who wants to sit in every weekend? I’m applying novelty to new experiences, which can be anything. Most men and women I know, go out to dinner (different restaurants), go on vacations, go hiking. Maybe they take up a cooking class or visit a museum. That is included in novelty. You keep learning new things together and that creates a bigger…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:08 PM
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My friends aren’t in the industry/ What
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 03:46 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:15 AM
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A lot of people aren’t into swinging... it is still taboo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:59 AM
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Swingers are married (wife and husband) who switch with other couples. That’s men and women doing things together. “With their husbands/boyfriends” This is still considered taboo. If you’re in a relationship exploring with your partner you have to be good giving and game. You can’t expect your partner to do anything for you if you aren’t willing to do the same. You both aren’t going to be into the same. This is why it’s called compromise or try it out. I wouldn’t want to explore with my partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 04:20 AM
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Actually no it hasn’t! It was still taboo for their to be “swingers” in the 1970s, I am sure it is now. As a side note, I think most men are guarded around female sexuality. For example, threesomes. There aren’t that many men who are comfortable with mmf even if a woman does ffm. That is just my experience. I’m not sure what yours is. When I discuss with my girlfriends it’s always pulling a leg (after they had a ffm threesome with their SO) to have a mmf with their SO. It’s absolutely annoying. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:58 AM
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really? My friends are very explorative regardless of pay. I’d also be explorative regardless of pay. I suppose we can’t make general statements based off of our experiences. It’s hard to pin point a gender. We have experienced different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:48 AM
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really? My friends and I seem the complete opposite of that. The point is both partners have to give in and try things (good, giving and game) Of course everyone is not into the same thing (obviously) Don’t blame this on women. And I’m not talking about just sexual exploration I’m talking about trips, DATE NIGHTS, something. I’ve met women who were kinky AF. Their male counterparts were the monogamous type. They were just taking one for the team lol. Women are a bit more sexually fluid than men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:08 PM
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Bro, women cheat just as much as men. As for history, I think you should do a bit of research about how humans (before we became modern) lived. It was known for men to protect but we worked more together, like a village. Women gathered food too just not so far from home. Everyone raised each other’s kids- it was communal. That’s the highest chance of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:03 PM
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Or it’s become socially accepted for a woman to have desire and explore that. Maybe that’s what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:01 PM
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Women cheat just as much as men lol...possibly for different reasons. But you are wrong about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:59 PM
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Having new experiences with your partner. You’d be surprised how often my friends complain about how boring their SO is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 06:59 PM
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There are a lot of different reasons why women and men leave relationships. Its normal for people to get comfortable and lazy about two years in. The thing is, if you understand that you are bored or are looking for the “new feeling” again- it’s not worth leaving a relationship. It’s a wake up call to start doing new things together! I know I value new experience. It doesn’t make me want to cheat, it makes me have to put in effort to do new things together. It can be a drag being the only one wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 08:35 AM
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This. As a woman, novelty is a thing. However I guess there are ways to make sex with your SO new but it takes work. A lot of us are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:44 AM
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As a side note, I think you’re having a hard time spelling 🤣. I understand what you’re saying but the under ground has always been a normal part of society - if not always accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 03:26 AM
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Yes why not? Sex toys aren’t just a hole to put your dick into (like a robot/doll) Cock rings are also helpful for women too. And prostate stimulation can be done with a partner. (?) I’m not understanding where you are getting at. Robots and dolls are replacing the person, toys are not supposed to replace anyone. That is not the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:52 AM
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Actually parents did train women to be prostitutes, especially if it ran in the family. I think it was the 1600s? There was a documentary that I watched awhile ago and it said that many women wanted to be in the profession instead of marrying. That there was a “freedom” to it. They were called courtesans, not prostitutes. I am going to see if I can find it. There are a lot of notable muses/prostitutes in history, I hope you do know that 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:50 AM
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It wasn’t surprising if a king or someone who could afford to have a mistress did. People with power and money always had a concubine/courtesan/mistress
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:02 AM
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Who me? I said in the above comment my thoughts. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:54 AM
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This is true. Maybe in the elite world it was normalized, however it will still looked down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:51 AM
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LOL nice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:55 PM
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LMAO. Nine days out of 10 you regret it. It is known that marriage benefits men more than woman, especially as you get older. I’m sorry I laughed I just- it was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:49 PM
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A sex toy is different than a sex robot. A sex toy isn’t imitating a person or being a replacement for a person. As a side note, couples can (and many often do) use sex toys together. It is known that couples use vibrators together because for some women, it is they only way they get off. It’s not because women are desensitized or used to get off from PIV and then boom, vibrators destroyed that. most women do not get off from PIV. How many times do we have to say this? I can’t imagine a woman wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:47 PM
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I’m not agreeing that it’s right, but I understand why quiet men seem creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 09:57 AM
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That’s true. As a woman, I am definitely on the shy side. I’m a bit awkward lol and my voice is soft. I’m like a mouse it’s so annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:21 AM
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I like the quiet ones. Charisma throws me off because most of them are just bull shitting. I think people who don’t speak that much, do not need to. Also, I like the ones that open up more once you get to know them. Like, keep some mystery! It’s also nice to know that they can open up to you. Then again, I’m not as outgoing as my peers. lol- people lie a lot. Half the stuff they say is insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:18 AM
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What does being ugly have to do with anything? I’ve ran into men I have found attractive that we’re the sweetest. I’ve run into men who I did not think was ugly but not attracted too and they were manipulative lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:02 PM
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I feel oblivious because when I was little I always thought it was a joke. People take it seriously. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:01 PM
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Nobody is desirable as they get older, physically. Well actually no, some people age beautifully. Maybe not the average public but if people put effort into taking care of themselves...perhaps maybe. I’m quite looking forward to it. It’s a challenge to look good as you get older— it’s admirable idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:05 AM
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No way. As a woman gets older she gets pickier. She knows the lies and BS men can pull so she avoids that. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:04 AM
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If it’s the Lolita express that means underaged. They weren’t prostitutes in that plane. They were young girls picked and chosen by recruiters. Most of them were found at schools. They were promised loads of money and got what 300 bucks? Not expensive and they weren’t prostitutes who were advertising themselves as such. Just your average young girl, sounds like manipulation to me. And actually a lot of successful sex workers are 30+. Believe it or not, some men in their 50s+ prefer women that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:51 AM
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What? Older men who intentionally seek out younger women are usually doing so to manipulate and coerce Chill bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:00 AM
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Yup! It’s a learning experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:32 AM
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Women who are obsessed with resources and status do not seem to be the best kind of women to be around. Most women are happiest if their partner is in the same age range— think of as you get older; will she become your caretaker? There are diamonds in the rough where age gap relationships are fine though. But I wonder how the woman will fair as the years go on. It is however, a good thing for the women to be able to identify her needs and wants. I do not understand why you wouldn’t want a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:29 AM
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Or if you are the same age as the older woman. It makes sense for people to date in the same age range. Of course if you’re a 22 year old man why would you date a 30+? Lol For example, a fifty year old man should date 40+. 40 year old man late 20s+. Now early 30s to mid 20s not that weird. But like 33 to 21- different life stages. It also depends how you look. There are older men out there and by older I mean like 40 lol who look like they are late 20s. It makes sense to date people who look sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:25 PM
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Men reach an age where there body doesn’t signal ability to reproduce, well healthy babies. I’m not sure about this. If a woman has a baby too young- it can be damaging to herself and the child. By the time men and women reach late 40s-50s then I think it’s safe to say kids are off the table. But sex isn’t only about procreation, I think you’re missing that part. Plenty of people have sex with people they would never want to reproduce with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:17 PM
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it depends how old you are. I think it’s harder for a man in his 40s to settle with a 20 year old. If you are around the same age as the person you end up marrying then you can go through those “older” changes together. And prettier doesn’t necessarily mean they are nicer or even be fit to have a family. Obviously having kids in your 40s and 50s doesn’t make as much sense as having them in your 30s. But 20s just seem so young to have kids. Maybe later 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:57 PM
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By who society?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:55 PM
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The most simple answer. We all age, get over it. Like MEN AND WOMEN AGE and we can age like wine or like feet. Accept it now, life goes by fast!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:32 PM
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This is true but for men too. This is why when I see an older person who is dressed to the nines, looks healthy and has a personality to die for...it definitely takes more work! It’s easier to be attractive when you’re younger. Not when you’re older, which makes it all more worthwhile. Especially when I see an older couple, like in their 70s who look so cool. I want to be like that. That’s how I see it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:29 PM
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Age doesn’t do well men for either. At least women are still attracted to men in their age group, it makes it easier for them. Men on the other hand, if it’s so hard to find a woman in their age group attractive and they think they are too Good for her and can get better..they will be disappointed since women tend to date/find men in their age group attractive. It just sounds like a loss for men. Unless of course he hires a sex worker which I’m all for. But you can’t have a relationship with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:25 PM
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Lmao I wish my mom divorced my dad and took his money. He was a cheater and had another baby with another woman. Yet although they have been separated for OVER TEN YEARS- she doesn’t want to file because he will lose health benefits. I am being sarcastic because I don’t think it’s right to try and take someone’s money. But if you’re too nice you don’t really get much in life do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:17 PM
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Not necessarily. Most young women want to date young men. Women like to date those around her age. But as women who have careers they have a lot to offer as they get older as well. More money, time to take care of themselves as well as (hopefully) the ability to make decisions based on her needs and wants. People should try and find their worth and validation through something other than dating, it’s stupid. And if people also looked beyond looks, they would be happier I’m sure. You never know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:12 PM
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This I agree with. If I got married at 22! Are you serious. I was in the middle of changing jobs- moved to a new city. Not to mention, not actively dating. Men have never been on my radar. I’m 25 now and although I’m in a serious relationship (wasn’t looking for it) let me tell you. I’ve changed so much over the past few years! I expect when I’m in my 30s to be the confident and determined woman I’ve always wanted to be and to feel secure in my career. I expect so much personal growth; better se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:02 PM
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It depends. If a person has had sex with a lot of people they weren’t in love with and then finally has sex with someone they love- it doesn’t make it less memorable. Sex with a person you love is memorable, regardless of how often you have had sex. But I also don’t want to forget that after being in a relationship for a few years, the sex may get less memorable. But there are ways to combat that. I’m not sure how other people think / view sex but you KNOW when sex stands out it’s with a person …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:50 PM
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30 is old? You are implying all women have to offer is youth and that’s ridiculous. I’m not saying older is more mature but as a person gets older different things begin to matter to you. You are at a different life stage. For example, basing relationships solely on physical attributes- thats immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:46 PM
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In your comment you said women in their 30s who aren’t married aren’t stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:19 AM
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Emerging adulthood is a cultural phenomena. It’s new. It’s common for both men and women to marry later. If you want to get married in your early twenties, go ahead. But don’t shame women who decide to get married in their 30s or 40s. It doesn’t mean they were sluts in their 20s or immature. They just didn’t want to get married. Maybe they didn’t meet anyone they wanted to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:16 AM
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Maybe by the time she’s 50. But I doubt many men want to start a family at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:12 AM
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Not ever woman wants to get married. Also it’s not like you can chose when you will meet “the one.” Or the one you want to marry. Love has a lot to do with timing. I’d rather marry someone I actually loved in my 30s than some bloke I met when I was 23. You don’t just marry because you’re young lmao Like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:48 AM
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Of course not. However it’s becoming common to get married and settle down in your 30s. Plus you are kind of figuring out who you are, what you like in others in your early to mid 20s. There isn’t anything wrong with exploration in your youth. And there also isn’t anything wrong with settling down in your early 20s either. The only thing I have to add with settling at such a young age is that there is a chance that you will change and a higher chance of a “mid life crisis” Ages 19-30 includes a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:43 AM
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is this a serious question? Oh wow, you’re saying women can only offer their bodies. Well, specifically younger women (eye roll) so I guess older women are useless. I would never want to date someone who thinks this way, let alone be in the same room with them. Oh god this is so nauseating. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:34 AM
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🙌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:39 AM
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This comment makes a lot of sense.👍🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:37 AM
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Has anyone ever thought that as a woman gets older she wants someone more reliable because uh she’s maturing! She’s realizing that if she is going to date, it has to be with someone who has a decent job and is kind. Women don’t think “oh no I’m old time to settle down” it’s more like I’ve reached an age where I want to date a man who can afford his lifestyle and possibly we share our lives together. Young women don’t go around having sex with every good looking guy. Maybe some do. But I can’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:33 AM
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Lol wtf is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:32 AM
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Lmfaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:31 AM
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Oh neat. I hope Amazon is an OK company to work for. I here mixed reviews Also thank you. I love almonds
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:14 AM
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Don’t diss retail! One of my goals is having my own little shop or creating the visual space for the store lol. Of a brand that I respect and like, of course. It’s not my only goal however!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:14 AM
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Plenty of people in their 30s work in retail. Actually the workforce in America is largely retail and driving trucks! My SO drives a truck! It’s not easy! It’s grueling and it frankly terrifies me. (hopefully I’m not assuming most people are from the US, if so, by bad!)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:12 AM
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Happy cake day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:03 AM
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Why can’t people just try and be decent to one another? Eye roll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:18 AM
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Well not all women. Lmao. If a guy looks too good I just assume he’s cocky AF. Men that look sweet are the way to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:10 AM
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🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:05 AM
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Not really. Men AND women have kids from previous relationships. If they break up- they find someone else. If you’re 18-27 possibly 30, you probably don’t want to care for someone else’s kids unless you have them yourself. Plenty of people get divorced in their 40s and 50s and plenty of them have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 05:02 AM
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That is true..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 01:25 AM
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I thought female incels thought themselves to be ugly, had bad social experiences...which therefore influenced their personality to have social anxiety/depression, body dysmorphia. The works. A lot of people forget that how you interact with others has a MAJOR influence on human connection and relationships. Not just looks. I’m sure most incels have crappy personality traits. Either mean or have social anxiety out the wazoo. But I’m sure they weren’t always like this. If they were bullied or pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:02 PM
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Yes! I think beauty triumphs youth. It is just easier to be beautiful when you are young— depending. I look at actors/actresses and sometimes prefer when they are older. They have certain features that start to stand out as they age. However I wonder if it is just how I know them. For example, if I look at Meryl Streep I prefer her a little older because that is how I know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 11:55 PM
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Not everyone participates in CC (I despise this term, it sounds immature) or porn. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re ruined either. Marrying in your 30s might even prove beneficial - might lessen the chance of a “mid life crisis.” People are maturing (mentally) much slower, we are living longer blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 10:11 PM
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Women have kids in their 30s all the time. What planet are you on? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:40 PM
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That sucks though. Imagine being attracted to those who aren’t your age? It’s so much harder to be with them!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:36 PM
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Charlize doesn’t look young. She’s a hot 44 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:27 PM
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Charlize is absolutely beautiful! I didn’t realize she was almost fifty. Dang. She doesn’t look old to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:24 PM
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This is so true!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:19 PM
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Younger women might not be as intimidating, sure of what they want and lower expectations. But I also think it’s a power imbalance. I’m sure most men find younger women more attractive but it doesn’t mean they want to date them. The same for women. However I also find that men have a harder time with accepting their old age. I remember a man telling me that once. He wanted to sleep with younger women because he felt young again. Lol I was like ? & society pushes younger woman + older man through…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:10 PM
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yeah there’s that. mick jagger is living the dream
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 10:06 PM
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not sure what that is... but erections aren’t easy as you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:40 PM
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no problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 11:11 AM
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Lmao I didn’t even think of that. How does a man even get an election at 80? I would feel like I couldn’t match the spirit of a 20 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 11:10 AM
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I have known so many women who have had kids in their 40s. Later rather than earlier...and this was the mid-late 1990s. Most of my friends parents had kids in their 40s. I don’t think it’s significantly harder- slightly harder. But it’s also harder on the body as you get older. Mick jagger is an exception— just how you occasionally hear in the news about a 60 year old woman giving birth. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:34 AM
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Shows what I know? What? You just sound like an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:31 AM
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It is note worthy. As men get older the chances of their offspring being susceptible to diseases or chromosomal disorders slightly increase. You might be able to have a kid but not as healthy. It can be harder for a woman to fall pregnant in her 40s and harder on her body, but the health of the baby is dictated by the sperm too! It’s also harder to get hard as a man gets older, just like it’s harder for a woman to get wet. Both needed for baby making I suppose. That being said- having children i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:15 AM
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Men’s fertility declines as well. However I don’t want kids so I don’t care! If anything adoption but...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:46 AM
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Where do you get your stereotypes of woman over 30? Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:39 AM
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Nobody has sex for love anymore? This is absolutely ridiculous. Just because younger (men and women) might look more attractive doesn’t mean everyone prefers to have sex with younger people. You sound super young. It’s probably impossible for you to imagine having sex with someone older because you are probably like 22. You’re going to get old—get used to it. And if you are an older man— some say having sex with someone younger is easier. Go figure. And a person isn’t a low value, loser if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:36 AM
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How is younger men being attracted to older woman a myth? Are you sure you aren’t just projecting? Calm down—people have different ideas of what they find attractive. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:01 AM
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But a lot of young kids get their ideas from sex on there. It’s different than movies. You realize it’s fake as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:01 PM
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I don’t wear make up. Possibly a nude lip color or something that looks close to my own lip color. I wonder as I get older if that will change lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:00 PM
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Who is you? All of us women? Lol She needs money! And also some people can be proud of their bodies. Porn is fake though unless you get the amateur porn. I’m glad I am not a guy. Most kids today are exposed to it and it’s just a nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:53 PM
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Yes! I can’t remember the study but I think a scientist or a researcher (yikes this already sounds weak) created a fake beautiful robot butterfly and released it with the other butterflies. The male butterflies kept trying to have sex with the most beautiful fake butterfly. It made me sad but— that butterfly didn’t exist in nature. Anyway, this sounds completely made up and I can’t find anything online about it. I Believe I watched it in a documentary on Netflix lol This whole post is worthless!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:50 PM
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Wrong. Completely wrong. You never heard the cliche of the million dollar making Wall Street ass hole who begs to be tied up and humiliated behind closed doors? Lol Who cares- it’s a kink. Sex is meant to be fun and meant for relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:11 AM
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Not for sex. Sexually submissive men can be quite fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:08 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:49 AM
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Or check for an infection. If you smell like fish you probably have BV. It’s pretty common. It’s not an STI or STD but it can be hard to get rid of. Vaginas are so moody. Annoying. That being said- men make sure your dick is clean because if your dick is dirty that can cause infections too. Lol so Yes hygiene
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:25 AM
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Love your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:21 AM
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Omg lololololol. WHAT. I wish my life was like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:04 PM
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You’re right. I haven’t been to San Diego- just LA and San Fran! But it does have a lot to do with the rich and poor areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:42 PM
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Yes. The colors were bland, the people looked unhealthy. Gun magazines, religious magazines, religious billboards and signs. I was amazed. I live in a literal bubble. However they might have decent thrift stores and I’m sure not all of middle America is like that ....? I do not want to be rude but I would never want to live there!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:37 PM
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Starbucks is absolutely disgusting. I do drink their blonde flat whites though! When I get a latte, I always ask FOR ONE PUMP OF THE FLAVOR BECAUSE THEY PUT IN FIVE. Absolutely disgusting. You are drinking diabetes. Same with Dunkin’ Donuts. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:30 PM
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It depends where you are. I live on the East Coast and I do not see that many obese people. I do see overweight people— but almost equal to thinner people. In the industry I work in, there are much more overweight people then thin. I have always been a slender person and I always get shit on for being thin. I just don’t have a crazy obsession with food and I generally eat healthy. Plus genetics. HOWEVER I once went to middle of America and LORD. Everyone there .. men and women..the kids were obe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:26 PM
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Jesus- where do most of you people live? I hold the door for men and women both who I find attractive and not attractive lol. Young or old, in fact if they are old I hold the door open longer. I am not out here in the world to be mean. I don’t appreciate inappropriate comments from men (either attractive or unattractive) The only thing I do is stare at someone I find attractive— maybe not stare but I look. It also depends on what they are wearing, maybe it’s a nice style (men or women) I general…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:11 PM
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Really? In my High School my female friend group was mean. It was always two against one— having to take sides. I don’t think I was ugly or below average but I looked different from my white girl friends (I’m mixed BTW) and I personally felt out of place. That welcomed a lot of subtle bullying lol but I didn’t realize it until later like the true idiot I am!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:53 PM
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The human species - typically the West
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:55 AM
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That’s a nice statement. It seems like we are slowly valuing hedonism over child rearing. Interesting, I like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:11 AM
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I’ve heard this before. Men do want women to be enthusiastic. I also hope the same from the man- as in being attentive to my needs as well. I don’t understand why you’re getting blasted lol like- nobody wants someone who just lays there. But sometimes as a woman if you’re having PIV what else can you do? You’re kind of pinned down... unless she is on top but that’s a preference tooooo just like being a bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:05 AM
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No you aren’t understanding. Sex is not black and white for each gender. Everyone approaches sex differently. How am I wrong with that? It sounds like you personally took the time to figure out female sexuality but most men don’t. It would be great if every sexual encounter with a male for a female was interested in getting her off (with instruction if need be) Sex education is mostly through porn (male centric) and basic anatomy taught in schools. This is why most men aren’t attentive to women …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 03:46 AM
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...yeah...every woman is different. I would think you would know that from all your exes. The same thing got them off? Are you sure they even orgasmed? I was telling you how much easier it is for men. Do they necessarily have to learn anything? You’re an idiot. Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:00 AM
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I was going to mention testosterone but I know women can have high libidos as well and still had to figure out how to please themselves. Not all women can masturbate the same. I’m sure it’s the same for men but it’s safe to assume you all started in a similar way (?) correct me if I am wrong.. For example, I’ve heard in discussion that some women can’t put things inside themselves because it makes them feel sick. Fingering makes them feel sick- any kind of figuring isn’t that pleasurable. It’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:37 PM
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Great. Like I said, your sexual organ is outside of your body- more exposed and therefore open to sensations. And female sexuality is responsive not necessarily the “aggressor” which is why foreplay is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:10 PM
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Too stupid to figure it out for ourselves? Your sexual organ is literally outside OF YOUR BODY. All you have to do is create friction and you can stimulate yourself. Every woman is different in the sense that the areas where she is most stimulated is hidden. I’m sure you couldn’t even figure it out. It’s about having a conversation about helping your partner get off. Not making stupid excuses saying it’s the women fault. In fact, trying to direct a man on how to get you off isn’t that easy lol s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:06 PM
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Well growing up as a girl- nobody in my friend group really spoke about masturbation. It’s not as in your face as a mans sexuality and it’s also a bit more complicated. I know some women (including myself) who can’t just get off by touching themselves. Some need a vibrator - some need to be introduced to material that can help her get off. I don’t really know any 14 year olds buying vibrators. It’s not uncommon for a woman to start learning her body way after a man does. In my experience, I didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 05:18 AM
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I know a lot of women that love skinny guys. Skinny guys as in- they are much bigger than him. Lmao I don’t get it. I like my men to be bigger than me but I’m already thin
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:03 AM
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Ah - men building attraction is on point!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:38 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:37 PM
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No it doesn’t - what
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:16 AM
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Insulting at best
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:57 AM
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Jesus Christ. What’s the point of acting like an asshole to people who ask you out or show signs of liking you. Grow up and be decent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:13 PM
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It’s not sarcasm. Objectification has to happen for sex lol. Of course I would want my partner to view me sexually and the same goes for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:17 AM
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OVER Sexualization of women in media enforces the idea that women are only available for sex or that women should dress / act a certain way (which isn’t true.) Men are sexualized as well but to a lesser extent. Some sexualization is okay. Sex is natural but - it’s just so bizarre seeing a half naked woman on a commercial when I’m sitting with a five year old. It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:13 AM
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Louis!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 03:07 AM
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I agree with this comment. Sheesh people! You can objectify properly!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:50 AM
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It definitely is. A child is a person whose brain is not developed- which is age 25 lol or a medical condition. It’s bizarre- I always wonder if people mature at different ages? If you don’t look similar in age/mental maturity to the person you are having sex with That’s abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:18 PM
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People who don’t shame others are passive aggressive people pleasers? What? Personally- I do not shame as long as everything is consensual and age appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:15 PM
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Stupid question
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:11 PM
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It’s not just body. What about personality or putting yourself out there? That’s like as a woman saying I’m thin and no guy wants to date me lol. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 03:00 PM
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I guess but I recommend people to do it. Its similar to not getting brainwashed into consumerism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:36 PM
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Is it because women are more likely to initiate the divorce? I can only reason that the courts were set up this way was because women generally made less and did not work/ therefore if they were married they needed a man to survive. As for the kids, any woman who tries to get back at a man by taking away his kin is evil and I can say (as I’ve read men on here type that it’s a woman’s fault for marrying a loser) why didn’t the man know she was evil before he married her!?! But I won’t because peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:51 AM
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I know! My mother was/is too nice. Same goes for women too. Divorce a woman if she’s trash!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:33 AM
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Huh? I actually didn’t sleep with anyone until my first relationship- thank you very much. It wouldn’t matter if I did though because uh my boyfriend slept with plenty of women before me. But I don’t care because people have sex- big whoop de doo. At this very moment I have slept with more men because I’m getting older which means more experiences / more people you meet... you know, life? Sexual exploration? Or is that only for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:19 AM
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I’m not sure if it’s so common as I only know my mothers story. Her husband cheated and had another baby with another woman- left her with three kids. He drained all the college funds for his “business” and stopped helping to pay the mortgage. My mother still didn’t divorce him lol. He still gets his health benefits while she stays in a decaying house lol. Personal. I know. But I can’t quite say all men get divorced raped. Its not all cheery for women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:15 AM
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I’m not sure as each person sees an opportunity to connect in a variety of different ways. For example, if you see someone in your day to day frequently- by what they wear- if you like the way they look- if you like their personality. All I know is people attract those that are similar to themselves, if that helps. For me personally, I know I always find myself attracted to someone but their demeanor or dress. Lol idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:55 AM
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I didn’t understand what happened at the past wedding you were invited to. What did the couple say to you? Eh, life is kind of out of your control- your response and mentality is within your control. Cliche but it’s nice to remember. I always think just because I exist doesn’t mean good things can happen to me lmao - but I can at least try and I will always try!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:43 AM
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Only demanding careers? Lol it’s a case by case. Most marriages and relationships lose the spark. It takes both parties to put in the work to keep it alive. Career driven or not. It doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:34 AM
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But your few experiences doesn’t amount to how each person is. As a girl, I was rejected in high school and college but that didn’t stop me. I didn’t have a first date until 24- like get over it already. Our experiences shape who we are but it shouldn’t generalize an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:24 AM
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THIS COMMENT. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:20 AM
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I agree that as you get older things are not black and white. Each person determines their way of life based on their experience. Whatever. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:16 AM
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It’s not really about guys having “successful” strategies or game- it’s also about a girl finding you. Not all girls are into the generic type of man. I think it’s lucky to even have someone who cares about you and by cares, I mean really cares. It’s not easy to come by.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:12 AM
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Do you ever think men want what they see in porn because they think that’s what sex is? I always question what I like or what I find attractive and try to determine if it’s what culture tells me I like :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 04:27 AM
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So crazy. I admit that shit right up front! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 04:14 AM
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Sex work is trashy? You can think that. It’s about connection- especially to those who can’t access physical intimacy due to disabilities or social awkwardness or just fun. I actually help manage an agency, if you must know. So good on you. Asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 01:00 AM
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I don’t read feminazi stuff(?) Im not sure all women have most of the power either. I don’t think I’ve experienced that, thanks. I’m just saying you sound trashy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:50 AM
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Okay- so what if people in poverty are more subjected to abuse? We hate them for it? Great, we have resources for people in abusive relationships but we also have resources for those uneducated / sick blah blah - but it’s not easy to navigate. Just because there are solutions doesn’t mean people can find a way out of something. And not all sex workers go into sex work because they have to. Sure, a lot do but not all of them. It’s stupid to blame single mothers on only women. One sided and bias. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:39 AM
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The problem with “making better decisions” is relationships deal with emotion rather than logic. You’re asking people to be perfect, to make perfect decisions all the time. That’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:33 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:31 AM
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Your post sounds disgusting. If you have to say something so crude, choose different words.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:44 PM
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Abusive relationships aren’t easy to leave. Also men can become abusive LATER
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:36 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 03:34 PM
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Oh give us a break. Shaming a person for how they live their life is absolutely pointless- as long as they aren’t killing someone/abusing someone. Someone hurting an animal well uh hello? It isn’t my place to say “Betty your a slut, nobody like sluts! Women can’t enjoy sex at all.” who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:40 PM
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I like your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:36 PM
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The worlds over populated anyway. It’s harder to have kids- blah blah. I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing to have less people. People won’t stop having sex. But I don’t understand how a liberated society contributed to social security / retirement being difficult to attain. I wouldn’t glorify a traditional society either- a lot of people were depressed/repressed. Men and women. The end of the 1950s were doom and gloom- everybody thought the world was going to end. Same shit different era…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:33 PM
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Mothers and fathers provide the first relationship dynamic for their children. Hopefully it’s a healthy one. I think fathers are just as important as the mother. It’s nice to grow up in a balanced family where you can learn things from both mother and father lol. However, realistically, life isn’t 100% perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:10 AM
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I agree. Of course I trust my SO wouldn’t intentionally hurt me. But I know he’s human, like me. I trust that he will try his best and so will I - but I know that well; life happens. Lol so(?) there are worse things than infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:04 AM
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This is true. I’ve noticed some female friends never question my uh questionable behaviors. Which I know ARE. Now my BEST FRIEND she puts me in line real quick!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 04:00 AM
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I agree it does depend on the person. I know religion is an influencer as well. Sex can be casual and it can be very significant. One can believe that it can be both ways or only one or the other. Neither way is wrong. Dang! Everyone in my HS was having sex. I wasn’t interested but I did have a bit of insecurity because of it. It’s not a big deal though!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 03:58 AM
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It’s not too much to ask it’s just not realistic. Most people have sex in high school. Most people don’t marry their high school sweet hearts. People change as they get older. Not all people, but most people. I didn’t have sex until after college but that doesn’t mean I’ll only have sex with one person for the rest of my life. I wouldn’t want to limit my partner either. One person can’t give you anything. Unfortunately an emotional connection and sexual compatibility don’t always match up in a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 03:25 AM
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The comment was implying that men like when a girl is a virgin because he’s special enough for it or whatever the hell it was. Not all men obviously - but some men do feel that way and it’s weird. Why on earth would I assume every guy is like that? I’m clearly referencing the comment way above.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 04:01 AM
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I mean if a man and a woman have a drink and he forces himself on her, well yeah it’s rape. Same if she forced herself on him!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 03:31 AM
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If your partner went behind your back that’s untrustworthy. If people were honest about why physical cheating is hurtful it would probably be about insecurity. As people, we have to know we can’t be everything to our partner. To each their own though. I know people have different perspectives about sex. But it’s also ridiculous to think a man should wait for a woman who thought “he was so amazing that she gave up her virginity.” Is sex something women give up or give? Uh, no. They participate in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:45 AM
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I didn’t look at it that way. The comment I responded to sounded like entitlement. Of course people want to feel loved- that’s human nature. But the expectation of being the only man a woman has ever had sex with? That’s ridiculous. People are different - at different stages - at different points in their life and try different things! People obviously feel sexually attracted to more than one person and they obviously try different ways to get what they want! I’m not saying everyone go out and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:23 AM
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The ego! Haha like get over yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:36 PM
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LOL ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 04:33 AM
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Compartmentalizing sex is easy for some and not so easy for others. I don’t think transactional sex is harmful but it’s not easy. It’s not an industry built for everyone. Some sex workers really enjoy their profession and others don’t. I think if you are insecure with an inability to be assertive + not having access to tools to keep you safe, then it can be potentially dangerous. It’s an unregulated industry if it’s illegal and that’s where it’s dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 04:21 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:05 PM
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A lot of comments here say men have it worse but I think it’s about equal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:03 PM
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I’ve actually heard men say this.... Out loud when I was near them! Lol rude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:44 PM
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Hopefully not their SOs! It’s disrespectful to shine your partner in a not so bright light- that’s for close friends. On the other hand, I hear men bitch about women too, welcome to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:34 PM
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alright
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:28 AM
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Those you have asked out rejected you because you are a virgin? I think that’s silly. Maybe you don’t need to disclose that you are a virgin lol. Or the right person could come along and not give a shit, like you said. Honestly something as superficial as virginity shouldn’t cause someone to run the other direction! Would you ever consider hiring an escort? It’s not all human trafficking, I know plenty of sex workers who enjoy their job. You just have to make sure the provider you find has a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:03 AM
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You never know I guess. I understand. Do you define yourself as an introvert? I find that introverts tend to have harder luck finding relationships but I think they are just more selective and aren’t out in the world as much. It’s not bad at all it’s just harder to meet people! I’m like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 02:11 AM
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This is true. As a female I was a virgin later in life. It didn’t bother me because I couldn’t figure out why I would have sex with a random over a relationship. It just all boils down to love I guess. Well I hope you put yourself out there and I hope you find love. It’s not easy though!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:10 AM
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It’s not satisfying. Sex with a random makes me question myself. It’s a “never again” situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:10 AM
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Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:08 AM
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A mans success is getting laid? Set your goals higher; wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:07 AM
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THANK YOU. Said it better than myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:06 AM
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What am I whining about? She isn’t having sex because she can only have sex with someone when she is in a relationship. I don’t think she understand that’s though. She said she needs a connection and doesn’t want him to have sex with other people. And that’s exactly what it is, whining. And the OP is referring to and also a lot of men are angry at women for how “easily they can get sex” or have problems with women who do express their sexuality. If you’re a woman you are a slut if they aren’t ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:40 AM
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But the point is having the benefit to be able to have more sex doesn’t mean it’s more fun or important to a woman. There are tons of women out there who don’t fuck around for exactly this reason. I’m tired of hearing men complain how easy it is for women to get sex. It’s mostly pointless for women so we aren’t exactly happy about it. Like it sucks for both genders stop whining
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:07 AM
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I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:35 PM
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Son, get OFF REDDIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:35 PM
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He should go to therapy I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:32 PM
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Are you speaking English? I can’t with this shit. Biological clock? Every woman wants kids? Every woman is slut? Are you a troll? Grow up. Change your attitude and maybe your horrid view on women will change. Get off Reddit , go outside. Do something. Good luck to you. You’re putting yourself into a hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:32 PM
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Well yes, risks for the fun of it. But what do you mean by that? I think we are thinking of different scenarios. The problem is you never know if a risk has a benefit - you have to see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:30 PM
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She does not want to have sex with people she does not have an emotional connection too. How hard is that to understand? Oh my, she actually has to like the man to have sex. And she has said she was always the one to go up to men and she was tired of it. She thought they just had sex with her because she was there. So. Men and women both have it hard in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:27 PM
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Who gives A SHIT. Attraction does not just come from looks. Are you serious? I’ve been attracted to so many kinds of men. All over the looks range. Cut the crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:26 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:25 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:25 PM
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You have so many people telling you you are wrong. Can’t take a clue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:23 PM
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Why do you think all women don’t find their husbands attractive? Have you spoken to every married couple before? As a side note, long term relationships and having a family- well it takes word to keep desire alive. It’s on both ends. Such a shit. Of course women wouldn’t get married if they never found their husbands attractive Lol like ?? What
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:22 PM
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this is off topic but I saw your posts in rate me and you are definitely not ugly! Lord Jesus But don’t focus so much on looks because in reality it can only get you in the door! Personality can too and usually that’s what makes people stick. Whatever have a blessed life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 03:18 PM
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Taking risks doesn’t mean irresponsible. If people didn’t take risks we would be in the same place as we always were. We can agree to disagree. But life isn’t black and white and it isn’t always straight forward (for everyone.) Everybody makes mistakes. It’s life. Sorry lol we can agree to disagree I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 02:56 AM
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Yes but people also have sex but do not want kids. I am not understanding what you are saying. Hypothetically, I could use a condom for birth control, not believe in abortion and fall pregnant. That does not make me irresponsible. Have you never heard of people lying? Pretending to be there for a pregnancy and disappear? Same goes with mothers who leave the baby with the father. People tell people things they want to hear all the time. Jesus it’s like you see the world how you want to see it. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 02:51 AM
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yes. Abortion? If it’s available / you believe in it. Some people don’t and they aren’t wrong. People have their values and beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 01:42 AM
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So you’re saying people don’t change? They never change? Even having a huge life shifter like cancer, a baby, finding a new love, a mental illness or a death? What about becoming disabled? A high demand job? You think people are always the same? Having a kid changes everything. And just because it hasn’t changed you doesn’t mean it doesn’t change other people. And believe it or not birth control can fail. It’s easy to misuse a condom and even with the pill, iud or patch- birth isn’t always preve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 01:26 AM
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It’s not acting irresponsibly if you don’t know an outcome? It’s the women’s fault if her husband cheats and they have two kids? It’s the women’s fault if her husband decides to leave her for someone else? It’s the women’s fault her husband became neglectful or abusive after the baby was born? It’s the women’s fault if she gets pregnant and depending where she lives can’t afford/have access to abortion? Single mothers don’t intend on being a single mother for gods sake, unless that is their plan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 12:32 AM
3

I’m sure it’s easy for attractive men to get laid. It’s not easy for unattractive women or unattractive men. But there are other things in life besides validation on how much you get laid. It’s not only beauty that gets people laid- it’s a multitude of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:44 PM
1

Women troll? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:35 PM
1

You’ve never loved anyone before have you? So easy to say until you are actually in it. People do change in marriage as well. I do generally believe people try the best they can. Why would anyone want to make their life harder or more depressing than it already is? You never know how someone is going to feel in a few months or even a few years. You can’t know if someone will fall in love with someone else. If we all had answers we all would be fine right? People don’t know everything and if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:34 PM
1

I didn’t reference that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:32 PM
0

Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:32 PM
7

I don’t know what is stopping her. She’s shy I guess but also might not think it’s worth it for a ONS. I’m just saying young women aren’t all out there fucking people. This idiotic trope about women being able to get sex all the time is absolutely ridiculous. Sure maybe sex with people she doesn’t actually like. It’s not easy for women either and it’s silly to think “oh women can get sex whenever they want, lucky luck” but most of the time it’s shitty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 10:29 PM
1

Are you trolling? Are you incompetent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:33 AM
1

Are you a woman hater?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:31 AM
2

Not really. Some women hope their SO will change after they have kids. It’s a mistake. But if you love someone and want something to work... Logic goes out the window. It’s also really hard to imagine your partner doing some effed up shit. Like come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:31 AM
11

Wow all the men on here trying to tell women how they ~actually~ think. No wonder the lot of them can’t get laid. Grow up. Go outside. Talk to real women not what you gather from media and culture. These are the stupidest most immature comments I’ve seen in awhile. Congratulations you all look like fools and this kind of ~generalizing whore attitude~ about women you have will keep you alone. My female friends are all in LTRS or are single and don’t have one night stands. I think I had one, ONCE …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:24 AM
0

Are you fifteen years old? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:22 AM
5

Girl, I’m with you. I’m not sure why men on reddit think women whore around. I’m sure it’s because they don’t talk to real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:21 AM
19

This is BS. Most of my friends never had one night stands before. To be honest, I personally do not know any woman who does this. My other friend who is attractive hasn’t had sex in two years and complains about it on the regular. Men have assumptions about women. Whiny ones at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:20 AM
5

This is going to sound horrible but the sizing for womenswear here in the states is so messed up. Bro. I’m a size four. But I go shopping and now I fit into the 0s because our vanity sizing! It’s so sad lmao like I was a size zero in 6th grade. The standard sizing for lower tier brands makes me think I’m anorexic. I’m healthy and have a healthy BMI but; Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:16 AM
1

Dang! I eat cashews and other nuts everyday. Granola is way too sweet for me. I eat unsweetened peanut butter out of the jar. Lmao yikes. It’s so delicious!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:14 AM
1

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:33 AM
0

Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:29 AM
1

Can you explain those attracted to the similar sex? Older people enjoy sex. That can’t have a biological reason if we are less able to procreate in our 50s+. You haven’t persuaded me at all. It’s an inability to face fate, getting older + society that those decide to prefer younger mates. For a human, a biological impulse only is null. There are gay people, kinks and asexuals. We are so much more complicated than biology. Does porn have anything to do with procreation? Nope. If we are referring …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:51 AM
1

Sperm count decreases as men age. In fact, the older the man there is an increase of that child having health issues. Men and women are both optimal in their youth for having babies. But humans are living longer, are presumably healthier, so having children in your late 30s-40s isn’t that uncommon. Sperm count and quality decreases as does eggs in women. It’s BS that it’s all on the women. If all attraction was based off of procreation, why are people attracted to those of the same sex? Why are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:17 PM
1

And men look better? No necessarily. Both sexes are essentially decaying lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:25 AM
1

A 35 year old isn’t fertile? I suspect it’s more about men fearing their own mortality than fertile BS. Not everything is about procreation. I think men attach to their youth much more than women do. If they sleep with someone younger it makes them feel younger but that facade fades pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:21 AM
9

Men don’t age better. I can’t even get my SO to moisturize. It’s best to seek out those around your age. I mean what else can you expect? People have to get with reality. We all get old. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:18 AM
8

I don’t understand the hype with sleeping with a bunch of people. It’s so much work and hardly validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 07:07 AM
1

I understand the entitlement part. I always try to check myself on that. I don’t think I’m entitled but I do get frustrated with myself when I can’t do things a certain way to obtain a specific goal. I’m not sure if complaining is the same thing as entitlement but complaining is definitely annoying and I definitely do it. I try to say I am venting but it comes off as complaining and well I’m trying to not complain. Lol But how could I expect things to go my way if I can’t accomplish the things I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:07 AM
1

I love her!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:05 AM
1

Or some people just cry because it just happens. I wish I didn’t cry easily, but the tears come before I even realize I’m upset. I also cry when I’m PMSING. So who knows? It’s not always manipulation. It’s not my fault you guys get all soft lol like it just happens. I hate crying. I prefer to do it in private. It is healthy to cry though!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:00 AM
1

Oh eye roll. Why does it always have to be about sex? What about lying about something else for gods sake? Men, get over it. Women, get over it. Your SO probably had sex with other people, big whoop de doo. Like really? How boring are you people? Get mad about something original and not something “society” tells you be mad about. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:58 AM
1

Good reply!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:55 AM
1

Same. My SO went back to his home country for a month. I was fine. It’s not that hard lol We did communicate electronically and face timed a few times a week, so!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:54 AM
1

Not necessarily. It’s not true for every woman/girl. The smart women know sex starts in the brain. Haha not to be cliche but. Eh, maybe it’s from personal experience but attraction for me starts with an attitude. Maybe I’m easy! Who knows. I think it can be easy to fall in love but it’s harder to be on the same page with someone. Which in reality is what a relationship is. Anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:39 AM
6

Oh nice! I can’t wait until I can tie mine in a bow. A twenty four hour present, everyday of the year. I think I have a few months until I can become a present but my only question is, does it hurt?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:35 AM
1

If you’re a male, feeling like you have to do things. As a female, I always thought men wanted to or were good at things. Now I know it’s just for women(?) which makes me feel depressed because who cares. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:32 AM
1

As a woman, looks aren’t everything. It’s attractive if I can learn something from a man. Something else besides your face needs to draw me in! I love a man who knows things I don’t. I love a man who has a passion - probably because I do not have a passion and I do not know many things :) But in all seriousness. Looks are superficial. It doesn’t get you in deep. It cuts the surface. Personality and knowing some dank information will help you much more! At least the attention from women of qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:29 AM
1

I don’t know. My SO was not aloof from the start and it’s been almost (cringe) five years. When you care about someone or really when you make the effort and commitment to care about someone, it doesn’t matter. Clingy, too touchy, annoying blah blah. Maybe it’s true love, maybe I’m not one for games or maybe I’m easy but I prefer someone who is interested in me and shows it. But of course, I have to have the same interest. It is rare for two people to be on the same page- I can tell you that. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:23 AM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:57 AM
10

I can confirm. Almost 30, boobs are knee guards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:56 AM
1

Eh flirting is BS anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:22 PM
3

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:51 AM
1

Ones that look like kids? WHAT AH. Pedophiles need therapy not a child fuck doll. I’m sure science will be able to fix abnormal brains at some point. Anything that encourages harmful behavior should not exist. Abusive people need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:28 AM
1

They had kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:27 AM
1

Oh no way. That is so bizarre. They can giggle when you hit them? Well that seems like an issue. How is that ok? Now that’s effed up. Nobody can deny that!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:38 PM
1

I know but sex is also about connection. Oh man! I’d hope in 20 years you and your wife will still have sex (given you both are healthy!) obviously you both will look different but that shouldn’t be a reason to not have sex! People get older so we should all get used to it lol I mean your wife still has sex with you even if she has a vibrator. It’s different. Sex is about connecting to your partner too, not getting off (which is what hands and vibrators are for) Robots are different from vibrato…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:03 PM
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I met a man like this once. He was married to a beautiful women but he showed her nude photos to everyone. He was on the phone once with her and called her a cum bucket. Lmfao. Wow what a gentlemen. Very overweight, poor hygiene, bad manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:32 PM
1

Eh, people prefer having sex with people over robots/ vibrators. Just make sure you have sexual compatibility. Getting off with a vibrator is almost like getting off with your hand. Women are slightly different in that way. Not all women can orgasm from her god damn hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:30 PM
-3

Well no, just bring awareness. People have to realize what they do say impacts others. Even if is just their thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 04:13 AM
1

MGTOW did start off as men doing their own thing. I’ve read some of their posts and it doesn’t seem all innocent to me anymore. Agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 05:54 PM
1

I don’t. But they are hateful, just like other groups. There are always the few in the group that do actual harm to other people. They all rile each other up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 05:40 PM
6

It’s just a question / comment. OP isn’t toppling societies. However it is dangerous to have like minded people of hate to gather in one big jerk fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 05:01 PM
2

It doesn’t really matter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 03:07 AM
2

lol would be interesting and scary. Survival of the fittest. Oh wow. We would all really be pressured to staying fit!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 02:14 AM
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I don’t know. Women are aware of the wall since I’m sure they were told youth is powerful blah blah through out their whole life. They don’t all necessarily believe it but apparently some men claim age is a defining factor for a women (eye roll.) Which is why we lie about age. But men suffer from aging too. We all do. It just happens. Like we all can’t be 23 forever. Essentially that would get quite boring! My mom shaved off 10 years since she was 15 years older than my father. She damn well foo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 07:31 PM
1

BUT some relationships have a great emotional connection and the sex is just off. It’s not BAD but then there needs to be a discussion of opening up the physical part of the relationship. I personally do not have a problem with this as not every person can fulfill every desire but a lot of people do not like this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:59 PM
1

BUT some relationships have a great emotional connection and the sex is just off. It’s not BAD but then there needs to be a discussion of opening up the physical part of the relationship. I personally do not have a problem with this as not every person can fulfill every desire but a lot of people do not like this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:58 PM
2

Where did you get that idea from? You should be in a relationship with someone your sexually compatible with. If not, might as well open up the relationship. As a woman, it’s easier to have enjoyable sex with your significant other because you feel safe and (hopefully) he takes the time and effort to make the sex good for her too. Relationships provide safety and time to explore/respect what each other like. I’m not sure as a guy though. Or it’s all personal preference and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:57 PM
7

Why are you separating a girls behavior vs in a relationship and not? I mean your girlfriend can suck your dick in the car....(?)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 07:58 PM
2

I agree with this. It’s the same for any person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 07:52 PM
13

I agree. I know women who do not act in the ways TRP describe. It’s so dangerous to think a gender all acts the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 07:50 PM
1

You keep generalizing men. I’ve met men who do not enjoy casual hook ups. I’ve met women who do. I’ve met women who don’t. As a woman, I could give a fuck less about a man I have sex with. I can have sex with a man I care about and one I don’t. I don’t equate intimacy nor substance to sex. At all. But I don’t sleep around because it’s essentially pointless and dangerous. It’s a stereotype that all men want is sex. We can agree to disagree because I think you’re wrong. Any man of quality knows be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 10:26 PM
1

Fantasy triumphs most actions. I don’t think you could survive your fantasy of having sex with all the women you want. It’d be disappointing, tiring and you wouldn’t be able to physically achieve it. Whatever validity you get from that is completely substance less and empty. Ask anyone who had their “hoe” phase. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:53 PM
1

It’s not like women are running around having all the sex with people they want to either. I’m sure they would only choose who they were attracted too. But then again, I’m not sure. I can’t speak for a whole entire sex and neither can you. I suppose you can only speak for yourself. We aren’t animals. People have consciousness, things that make us think. There are also reasons why we don’t act on desire, like STDS, emotions and all that. There is a reason for that and you know damn well if those …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 07:47 PM
1

well then wouldn’t every man do this? I’ve actually known men who are more monogamous than my female friends. I call BS on male sex drive being so strong that men can’t think (?) It’s just an excuse to act like an ass. It is important for women to have healthy sex life is too. It’s not just a male thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:01 AM
3

Ah BS. Me and my friends did not hook up with every guy we met off an app. Stop generalizing it makes you look stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:48 AM
1

LOL Not any friends I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:48 AM
4

ONS aren’t bad. If it’s a regular thing, maybe off putting. But damn y’all are so crazy. Lol like let people live on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:34 AM
1

Definitely not my experience as an American women. Uh, women aren’t all out there having sex with a bunch of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:33 AM
1

maybe. But we have to eat or we will die. But it’s common for people to exhaust themselves with the whole “fucking beautiful people” thing. Like, I mean essentially that’s it. Lol. There is more meaning to life and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:17 AM
1

Yeah but doesn’t superficiality get old? Too much of anything makes it not exciting anymore even if it is different women. Eventually it’s all the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:32 AM
1

But forever? Wouldn’t that get old?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:25 AM
1

I wonder how a person does not get exhausted from that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:17 AM
1

Each relationship is different. I am saying a person who consistently goes through a lot of people through out their lifetime is strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:00 AM
1

I don’t think so. How could one connect with all those women? How could one have an amazing connection with so many people? It appears superficial. Not to mention they all look alike. Which is fine but it doesn’t seem nice. But why would he care?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:42 AM
1

Well not boo hoo for him but for them. I wouldn’t want to date a guy like that knowing he only sees me as fleeting and only worthy because of my youth. And I agree with you in the challenge part. But I also believe it’s all PR stunts and he is gay lmfao OR he was always in love with Kate Winslet and she never loved him back. And now he is forever dating women half + his age! Lmao It’s just so weird to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:37 AM
1

Relationships don’t have to last forever. That’s not what I mean. It’s breaking up with the women before 25 and dating someone else quickly. He could never want to settle down which is fine but it seems sad. Why be in a relationship at all if you can’t see yourself with them for awhile? Honestly, by now any woman who decides to “date” Leo should know she has a time limit. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:22 AM
1

Lol It comes off as unhealthy because it looks like he can’t hold deep, meaningful relationships. Can he? And it’s also unhealthy to view people just by their age! How is that not bizarre? And I don’t know! Maybe he tries to cover up being gay by dating young women. Age gaps alone aren’t cause for concern alone but it’s odd how he doesn’t hold onto any relationships. Is he superficial? That is the turn off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:15 AM
1

Yeah but he still get judged for it lmao. It doesn’t seem healthy but what do I know? I always thought maybe he was gay!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:08 AM
1

But he has a history of this. That is the weird part. Most of the women Leo has dated ended up settling down. These girls haven’t been alive long enough to have a history of dating older man and then dumping them. I also think since Leo dates up and coming models, it could be a PR thing or whatever you call it. Usually the older person in the relationship takes the blame. They are the older ones and should know better. It’s also weird to be dating people not in the same age range for a prolonged…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:45 PM
1

they could be using him too but... The age difference is also weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:58 PM
0

What? Not really. Energy and vibe is not what they look like. It’s how they present themselves and their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:49 AM
-1

Vibe is the aura and energy they give off. Not personality but it’s a part of their personality. It could also be what they wear and how they present themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:34 AM
-1

It’s not only looks though. I have been attracted to people by the vibe they give off. People I would never consider attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:13 AM
-1

Everyone has a different idea of what is attractive to them. A man can have a look, a vibe or a presence that just makes you want to have sex with him. It’s not only looks. I’ve found myself wanting to have sex with men who weren’t conventionally attractive but there was something that pulled me in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:35 AM
1

He did? I’m impressed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 09:52 PM
4

Nah, I’ve heard people explain their dislike of Leo because it seems like he’s just using those girls. It is kind of weird. Lol like dude never had a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:22 PM
2

Nope! I’ve always thought this is who I am. I never thought about gender. The only thing I can remember is feeling bad about guys having boners in class lol. I never thought what was more embarrassing.. Me having my period blood all over the damn classroom seat or the dude next to me having to hide his boner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:37 AM
1

No. My perspective is a person who cares about another person and taking whatever baggage they have on. Maybe that’s the masochist in me. But fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:36 AM
1

...? Divorced could be because people in the United States have terrible family values. It’s not just women. The reasons for marriage in other cultures is not the same in the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:33 AM
1

Uh. I’m not objecting women being held accountable for their actions. It’s more not generalizing and assuming things about people. You’ve had one experience with your sister..., ONE. Does that sum up everyone? If I based my view of humanity off of one person I would have a very messed up view of every single person I met.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 08:31 AM
2

What? It’s not “maning up to a slut.” Excuse your words. You sound like your 17. If you are, good because you have time to mature. It’s not assuming every single mother is a train wreck. And what makes you think women aren’t providing for their children already? If you go in with a sour attitude you will get that back in life, I am sure of it. I’m not saying walk around with ~rose tinted glasses~ but you are summing up people before you know them. Stop assuming things about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:59 PM
1

Yes! I am the same. I don’t think I value myself based on how much sex I can get haha. I don’t like casual sex either. I am selective too but I am sure my standards aren’t high. It just so happens that I can’t bear to be around someone for too long unless I REALLY like them. And that has only happened once. You seem to have a calm approach to life and I think others should try it. I’m not sure though, maybe others like casual sex so they must validate themselves in that way? I don’t know. I alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:54 PM
0

Yooo boy, you wild. This is why I can’t go on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:43 PM
0

I don’t want kids either. But I guess I always thought if I fell in love with a man who had a kid, I can reconsider. Like there are worst things in people than having a kid. It just doesn’t sound like you have a healthy view of women at all. They aren’t all monsters but the way some people talk about the other sex on here is frightening. And you act like women just want some random guy to help raise her kid. Women and people who are worth the time to be around are careful who they introduce thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:38 PM
1

I can’t recall anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:35 PM
-4

It’s not attention that’s welcomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:21 AM
8

Same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:18 AM
0

Egocentric much? Everything has to be about you? It isn’t uncommon for people (especially later in life) to merge their families. People start their lives over. People divorce and remarry~ obviously there is going to be “baggage.” You’ve never made a mistake before? Your feelings have never changed before? Calm down. That’s the problem with a lot of people, they expect everyone to be perfect. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:12 AM
3

What? I’ve never heard of any women wanting to control their SOs sexuality. Lmao. Men never get jealous or possessive over their SO? People in monogamous relationships do not like when their partner cheats. It’s not about controlling sexuality. It’s about trust and loyalty and even hygiene. Lmao like??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:15 AM
1

I friggen hear you too. This should be a top comment!! People expect way too much. They narrow their choices down, complain about being alone and generally make themselves unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:14 AM
1

True !!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:07 AM
8

Yikes. There are a lot of whiny and mean men on here. I never knew. Anyway, people get older and LIFE HAPPENS. People have kids and people get divorced. When you’re in your 40s and single, chances are some woman you actually like might have a kid. Big whoop. It’s not like you have to pay for the kid right away but I’d assume once you generally care about the woman, wouldn’t you want to build a life together with her kid? Like wtf is wrong with you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:54 AM
5

Yeah, well wait until your single and 45. It’s different as you get older. People get divorced blah de blah, have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:51 AM
15

I agree with this. Not all single mothers are to blame for being a single mother. I can’t understand it. Fathers aren’t always the best either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:50 AM
2

lol what..you seriously live under a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:25 PM
1

Have we forgotten personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:23 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:21 PM
4

🙏🏽. I think this too. Life should get better as you get older. My earlier 20s were terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:20 PM
2

This is true. Black skin ages the best. Seriously! I’m half black so hopefully I have some of that! Some lighter skin folk do have beautiful skin as they age but it’s a fact that if your black your skin doesn’t crack. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:19 PM
2

Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:16 PM
6

I agree. I’m 25 and I feel attracted to older men but I’m not sure if I’d have a relationship. 30 is still quite young in my opinion. I wouldn’t want to go above 33. In my earlier 20s, HELL NO. I looked like I was 14 anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 05:03 PM
1

She’s a HOT blonde cheerleader lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:16 AM
1

Not necessarily. Older men don’t want to date younger women. I think this is just society planting that in people’s heads. I also think society plants “women only want money blah blah” BS too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:11 AM
0

It could also be that you gained a friend!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:06 AM
1

I’m all for people doing anal but I still can’t get past the poop part. Maybe because of the smell. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 08:58 PM
1

I mean it hurts. Lol it hurt enough for me to never try again. NOPE Plus I’ve always thought shit comes out of there. Literal shit. Why would anybody want their dick in there? Also, I’m too lazy to make sure I didn’t eat anything crazy or make sure the poop shoot is clean. You never know what’s going on up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:35 PM
2

Eh, I mean orgasms are important for women. We don’t talk about male orgasms for evolutionary reasons (only health class but I think we didn’t use the word orgasm lol.) Talking about and observing sex is male oriented because it’s easier to understand. HOWEVER I think times are changing. Female orgasms ARE important. If you don’t think they are well ..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:16 AM
2

Ah that sounds terrible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 05:08 AM
3

Vet Uber drivers? What? You’re using a CAR SERVICE.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 06:16 PM
2

Yeah, everyone’s so obsessed with numbers that they could be turning down a completely compatible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 03:00 PM
4

What? “girls girl brain” Are you five years old? Uh, people experiencing their sexuality shouldn’t be shamed. If you’d rather not date someone who slept with more than you (insecurity maybe?) then that’s a personal decision. Most people don’t sleep around. It’s not a big deal if one does as long as they understand the consequences / are safe about it. Jesus Christ you all are nuts on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:10 AM
-1

Sucks, sorry! I hope you can be happy in another way or someone else... ha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:37 AM
15

I mean, it’s really that. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:37 AM
1

Wtf obviously women are people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:42 AM
2

I think you’re right. The problem is people make assumptions based on their own experiences. I would too TBH. How else do you form a perspective in the world? But I think a general good piece of advice is to be open and be aware of what you project. Every person is different and not everyone is a POS. Let people earn your trust and “niceness.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:31 AM
5

It’s a little unsettling if either gender/sex has sex with a lot of people if it’s not their job (pro sex work) And by a lot, I mean 2-3 DIFFERENT people a week. People do go through phases and who am I to say they are unhealthy people? It doesn’t necessarily mean they can’t hold relationships, it just seems like they can’t be alone or they crave a new energy constantly. It sounds exhausting. It comes off as instability but as long as you’re safe, it doesn’t matter (??) Eh, I probably wouldn’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:37 PM
5

Just because she orgasmed with some other guy doesn’t mean she will cheat on you. What the fuck? All these posts scream insecurity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:30 PM
0

Oh ok! Cool haha. Women enjoy casual sex too so I am glad you found good times and women. I wish I was more social in that way but I find it exhausting, good on you!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:37 AM
3

That there is a lot of hate out there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:24 AM
3

Loved your comment!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:21 AM
0

Was the only benefit with these women sex? Im curious. As a female, should I say I’ve met men who had a substantial amount of money? lol I know you mean no harm by it but it makes me cringe when a guy says “I went from having sex once a year to thirteen times a month!” Like that’s all that’s important? Did you learn how to really listen and meet people without the goal only being sex? It’s not bad to have casual sex at all but I just hope these women weren’t used or something like that ha. Same …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:12 AM
1

At least there is a benefit there! But I am sure you look fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:10 PM
10

Location is important too. I remember being in the middle of the country once on a road trip and every single person I saw was obese. Not just a little overweight, but very very big. The kids, the moms and the dads. Jesus Christ. Lol. I like living on the coasts!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:53 PM
2

I agree with you. I never had casual hooks ups and one night stands because it never appealed to me. I am open to an open marriage because strict monogamy is scary. Ethical non monogamy, with boundaries and rules appeals to me. I am also curious about jealousy. I am not a jealous person by you never know. I would however have to be the primary EMOTIONAL support. Definitely. You are right, many people are not open to it and find it weird lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:26 AM
3

I agree with this. It’s not considered “normal female behavior” or whatever BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 02:16 AM
2

Eh; my mom had me at 46. Not worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:29 AM
1

Yeah it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:29 AM
3

My mother is a boomer and she tells me this shit everyday LOL She is right though. In life, you can only rely on yourself. You better have a skill or something to be able to sustain a comfortable living.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:55 AM
5

It’s true but I know plenty of women who do have kids and still have accidents at 40. It’s crazy lol Humans are living longer. We are settling down later, we adapt. I suppose evolution will follow...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:52 AM
3

Agreed and also true. The less educated marry earlier, have more kids whereas those with more education~ get married later have fewer kids. Whichever is better I don’t know but that’s how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 04:51 AM
1

Ohhh ok. Thanks, good to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 07:40 PM
1

When you told people they came across as innocent, you didn’t mean it as an insult right? If a man says it, is he trying to tell me I’m stupid? Naive? The last thing I’d want is to be treated like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 05:36 PM
2

lol. Well of course! Who wants to be perceived as innocent?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 05:31 PM
2

Oh! I’ve never looked at it that way. Lol great. It’s so common, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 04:57 PM
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LOL I never had that change. Men have always been disinterested. I have never been overweight, I have a classic fashion sense. I never really dated in high school, maybe once in college, briefly. Ive had Guys tell me I was too innocent. I find that very strange. I don’t radiate sex though, so that’s why. Go figure. I was never really bothered by the disinterest but I remember feeling self conscious that all my friends were dating in HS. I felt like I was out of the loop or not cool not because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 04:01 PM
2

What trend? People get older, they look different. However some people tend to look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 03:46 PM
1

So it’s good modern health is focusing on women. It’s just all this is recent and it’s important to highlight that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 06:16 AM
2

Women manipulate themselves physically too. Like surgery. That can be dangerous. Idk as a woman, buff guys are a turn off. Like, an average build is perfectly fine. Many of my friends feel the same way. I guess men and women change themselves to what they think the opposite gender finds attractive. Or maybe they just do it for themselves, who knows? Idk but everyone needs to chill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:18 AM
2

Dude my friend in college cheated on her military boyfriend. It was so so sad. He really loved her. I remember her boyfriend showing up to the apartment with roses and the dude JUST left. Dramatic and sad. My roomie ended up dating the man she was cheating with and her military man got married. However my roomie and the cheater man broke up. She’s kind of a foot now...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:12 AM
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It can’t be less than 1%. Aren’t 1 in 3 women sexually assaulted? I remember thinking wow, I am super lucky as I have never had an experience with a man like that. Maybe once but I was able to get away. 1 in 3 is not a low number. But I remember, now I remember..all my friends who say some man did this or that to them. It can’t be less than 1%. It’s not a majority of men but I’ll be damned if 1 in 3 woman being assaulted is less than 1% or men committing that assault. Well some women sexually as…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:01 AM
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Well it is known that previously, medical research was usually tested on men. It is only now that female health is taken more seriously. I worded that completely wrong. I am exhausted, but I hope you understand. Not only did medical research not take women into account...most research does not include the elderly!!! Which I think is the absolute worst because most elderly people are on tons of meds that were only tested on adults. I’m going way off topic but we need to have a healthy society for…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:54 AM
1

Eff off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:04 AM
4

Men and women can’t do other things besides have sex? Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:40 PM
6

No. Not everyone’s an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 03:00 PM
1

Louis*****!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 05:46 AM
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What a weird question? People only look good in their teens/20s? Post wall hags? Wtf, are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 05:41 AM
7

I remember once I got fired from a job I hated but I still cried! I was so embarrassed. Afterwards, I couldn’t for the life of me figure out why I cried. I hated that place! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 11:39 PM
4

Did you read what I said after...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 10:55 PM
6

Women aren’t manipulative. Some are. I wish I didn’t cry in public but it just happens. I can’t control when the tears start coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 10:37 PM
2

They were forced to have rough sex and they were abused. Did you read the first article?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:51 PM
1

We don’t know what happened when they were shooting. If you read the article, the women agreed to do porn, but did not agree to rough sex and abuse. Neither did they agree to be paid $400 when they were promised 2k. They also did not consent to having their names released. It’s a very unregulated business but porn is everywhere. I wish we could make it safer. Come on. Most men watch porn~ have respect for those that fucking make it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 04:42 PM
2

Not really. You’re coming across as extremely rigid that is all. Of course in a relationship, both partners have to do things happily for one another. And as men get told to keep their wife happy, women are always bombarded with you better Keep him satisfied in bed or he’ll cheat. Generalizations of genders of course but just circling back to “happy wife, happy life.” We are all essentially responsible for our own happiness. If I’m in a relationship, I pretty much keep it low key. I’m not expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 09:57 PM
2

Sounds like your hard to please! (Ha) Marriage isn’t always perfect or black and white. But regardless of age, aren’t both partners in the relationship supposed to contribute? Why stick around if not? Are you saying you would tolerate crap behavior from a young woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 06:19 PM
3

Leonardo is an actor. As well as it is strange how he won’t date anyone over 25. Does he not like these women at all? Are they just an age? So weird. I think he’s gay and it’s a cover. It’s just bizarre to be obsessed with age. People don’t find love? You would divorce your wife because she got old? That’s horrible. That’s like my divorcing my husband because he started to bald. Everyone gets older. It’s not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 03:39 PM
1

I guess so. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 04:00 AM
1

Yeah...I have.. And there is a difference between being an actual slob and expecting someone to pick up after you. You never hear about how women complain about uneven split of chores? Or even men? It’s common. Couples do not do things the same way and it can cause tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:38 AM
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What? I’m saying hypothetically. Also, people usually present themselves as clean. You never know someone until you live with them. And it is a big deal. Who wants to pick up after an adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 12:19 AM
1

I see. But attraction doesn’t always fade after the first few months. But you’re right, even if my live in boyfriend doesn’t wash dishes and the attraction level high, we will still have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 08:04 PM
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That doesn’t last though. It’s not attractive if someone can’t clean up after themselves. Maybe the first month or two you let it slide but it gets irritating to have to clean up after someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 06:19 PM
1

Men find women their own attractive too. It’s not only 20 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:22 AM
1

Yeah, if they pay someone lol. Want to shell out 800/hr every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:22 AM
1

People in the west are walking around with dirty assholes. It’s a life changer. See, I think it’s weird if you have sex with everyone that comes your way. Like, you don’t know every girl ~ who knows her hygiene habits / who she has been around. Same goes for women having sex with men. Lol. Plus who has the energy to be around so many different people!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 03:19 AM
2

I was in college when this happened, haha. It could just be me. I don’t give off a “sexy vibe.” But come to think of it, there were a few guys who didn’t pursue that much. The more low key, quiet ones. But there were many that did. And I didn’t mean to put words in your mouth! I guess men are all different, like women. And bidets are awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:28 PM
2

Fantasy = not reality, imagination. I would never want a man touch me who I did not like. Are you serious? I’m telling you that and that should be enough. If a woman says don’t touch me that’s exactly what it means. Take it at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:08 PM
3

Fantasize about rape. The fantasizer is in control. In real rape, they aren’t in control. It’s not real rape if it’s a fantasy. Of course some do want it in reality (I guess?) but this is a slippery slope. Most women I know and speaking as an actual woman, when we discuss fantasy it is literally by someone who we like. Not a random guy on the street. This is BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:04 PM
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Sir, women do not want to be raped. Please do not advocate this. What behavior shows women want to be raped? We try our best so avoid dangerous situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:00 PM
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Surprisingly not. I probably give off that “too innocent” vibe. I am not exactly walking around with my tits out. But I know men who are selective. I’ve actually had some think they were gay because they weren’t focused on trying to have sex with every girl compared to their peers. Come on! Give men credit. They aren’t all walking hard ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:50 PM
4

What? Women don’t want to be raped. Maybe some want to rape role play with someone they want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:44 PM
5

But ravishment fantasy is something I’ve heard people talk about. It’s important to know the difference between rape and ravishment. Rape excludes consent, ravishment is CONSENTED. It’s essentially a role play for a rape, not actual rape. There aren’t too many women around who want to be raped by someone they know or don’t know. Women don’t want it from men they don’t want it from. It’s not hard to understand that there is a difference between rape fantasy and actual rape. If it is not discussed…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:36 PM
3

It is. It doesn’t make sense. Even if I wear heels, it’s usually because I have something important to do and well, it makes me feel important. I can honestly say that unless I am specifically dressing for one man, for a specific situation, I am always dressing for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:50 PM
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It’s disturbing if a man thinks women want to be raped. There is ravishment fantasy, which is done with a partner or someone you consented with. It’s not uncommon for women to have a rape fantasy with someone who they WANT to ravish them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:45 PM
6

Because I said lmao? I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:36 PM
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I’ve been rejected. I cringe at myself sometimes. I’m usually the one to make the first move. Not all men just want sex. There are men out there who are selective and who do prefer having sex only with someone they are in a relationship with. I always end up finding those kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:35 PM
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It’s weird. I get dressed every morning because of what I like to wear. I have a specific taste. If a man finds that attractive, I didn’t do that on purpose. Certainly doesn’t mean I am asking for any kind of attention!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:30 PM
3

What women has a rape fantasy by a man she doesn’t know? Wtf. It’s usually a played out fantasy, with a trusted significant other. People who are raped can suffer severe severe trauma. Did not happen to me. But my mother experienced it was a teen and it happened to my friend in school. It’s really disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:10 PM
3

I agree with your comment. Especially the last paragraph. Yuck. Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:06 PM
9

Well, vaginas naturally lubricate themselves by forced entry. To protect itself. Women aren’t turned on by being raped. This whole post is creepy. Stop being weird about asking a girl out and just do it. This whole post sounds like you’re stalking and it’s quite frankly freaking me out lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:04 PM
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This all just sounds like a game. A very exhausting game. I’m a girl, I don’t fuck with mixed signals. Lol men shouldn’t either. Maybe I just don’t like games though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:00 PM
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Yeah. I mean, do men like when women go after them when they aren’t attracted to them? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:57 PM
1

What’s a shortcel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:51 AM
1

That might have been your situation. Relationships require self sacrifice and compromise on both parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:31 AM
1

What companies hire women to work in coal mines or any construction? And no. I am not trained to work in coal mines. I live in the city. If you’re taking about the 20s-50s, there were women who worked while their husbands were at war. It’s only recent or more modern that both partners are working. Women did not demand men slave away in coal mines, it was how society was set up. Women were expected to raise the children and stay home. If you’re talking about coal mining in middle of America, I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:17 AM
1

Really? I don’t think so. Women also experience sexual attraction lol. I’ve had partners where I supported them!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:36 AM
1

Really? I don’t think so. Women also experience sexual attraction lol. I’ve had partners where I supported them!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:35 AM
2

Really? I don’t think so. Women also experience sexual attraction lol. I’ve had partners where I supported them!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:33 AM
3

Not every woman wants kids. Shallow minded, aren’t we?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:22 AM
3

It’s not fucking science. There are plenty of infertile women in that age group. If humans were solely primed to mate with each other, why is sexuality fluid? Why are there gay and bi people? Its just an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:21 AM
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This is so c r i n g e. I feel I need to protect all the 14 year olds from you. You’re watching too much damn porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:19 AM
1

Creepy ass men. Like it is unusual to be attracted to someone that could be your daughter. It’s just societal validation BS
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:18 AM
3

Thank you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:17 AM
1

Society tells them they should be attracted to youth. It’s not necessarily true. It’s like how people always say women like tall men. Like who fucking cares? People tend to find validation through what society tells them is attractive. There are men out there who do view women in their early 20s as children compared to their mature 50 year old body and mind. Maybe it’s because you aren’t older yet. But you’d be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:16 AM
5

You don’t think an older woman can’t manipulate a younger man? Or be abusive? They certainly can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 03:14 AM
5

Why? I’m assuming you don’t believe in love. Sad for You. You do realize everybody ages, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:01 PM
1

They are. People hook up / stay with people in their age group
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:01 PM
5

It comes off a predatory, that’s why it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 11:00 PM
2

It will always seem weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:53 PM
6

18 is young too. If you’re an older man and you are attracted to 16-22 year old women, it is weird. It’s weird because the age difference makes it seem predatory. Same if it were a woman and a boy who was 16-22. Its not necessarily normal. Lol people are usually attracted to their age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:51 PM
1

It’s just creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:49 PM
5

Yeah but sex at a young age isn’t the best mentally. Tweens and teens become obsessed with boy bands or actors because it’s a safe way to express their sexuality. If a young girl begins dressing provocatively, she’s most likely testing out her own sexuality, doesn’t mean she wants to fuck. It should not be too hard to understand. Just because a singers lyrics are explicit does not mean she wants men to fuck her or sexualize her. Women have sexuality separate from men’s attention you know. It doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 10:48 PM
3

Nice people are nice people regardless if they are “attractive” or not. I’m not mean to people I don’t find attractive. I understand what you are saying but if someone’s an ass for no reason, that’s their problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:52 PM
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So it’s no surprise when you act like a jerk, people won’t be nice either? Is it really that difficult to be pleasant and considerate? I’m not a hot ticket, but I’m generally nice to people and wow, they are (mostly) nice to me too. You get what you put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:08 PM
1

I’m saying, so we should of Never had feminism? I’m not saying women don’t have rights now. It’s just silly to dislike something that did help woman in the past.
/r/MensRights27/07/19 08:34 PM
1

So we shouldn’t have feminism
/r/MensRights27/07/19 03:31 PM
2

Ok. I must ask if we should go back to the way it was it feminism was all bad. You don’t think feminism did anything for women? At all?
/r/MensRights26/07/19 02:53 PM
2

Rejecting modern feminism, I understand. But if it wasn’t for feminism we would be exactly where we were in the 1900s I’m not saying men don’t have disadvantages. I’m saying rejecting the whole idea of feminism would bring us exactly where we were trying to get out of. What?
/r/MensRights26/07/19 02:38 PM
1

You completely changed my mind from a blog post and an Atlantic article. It appears you do not like to work hard. Cheers
/r/MensRights26/07/19 05:45 AM
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Quick to rage aren’t you? Bricklayers? I’m talking lawyers, doctors, corporate, scientists. I’m talking professionals. Not bricklayers. Would anybody hire a woman to do that anyway? It’s obvious you have a lot of anger. Maybe get off the internet and meet real woman, too much social media has clouded your judgement. Your reaction screams anger and immaturity. Grow up.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 05:35 AM
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Holding doors for women? Lmao. That is what women really need .. You’re wrong. Women did not have power of influence, they had to marry into it. Are you living under a rock? Were you aware we had to protest to have the right to vote! Are you 14? Any man who says fuck you to a random ass woman on the street, is misinformed. Have you ever been a woman working in a field dominated by men? And since when is exploiting people proper? Wtf is wrong with you? You were never a woman so you don’t have tha…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 05:25 AM
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I think it’s the particular person. Not because Feminism happened. I’m not miserable or working 2 jobs. You can be a guy, miserable with 2 Jobs. That’s not feminism’s fault. People have less money because of our economy (United States.) Its just getting worse and will continue to get worse. We have been declining economically since we landed on the damn moon. Women didn’t have much before feminism. They weren’t able to have a credit card in the 1970s or a career (it was very hard.) If you weren’…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 04:37 AM
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Do you mean modern feminism? Eh, I’m glad me too happened. I’m glad people are aware of how much sexual harassment women go through. I don’t understand how feminism is ruining mens lives. I’m glad women can work just as much as a man can. This way, she doesn’t have to rely on anyone but herself. ?
/r/MensRights26/07/19 04:26 AM
3

An acronym for everything. I suppose that’s all you do. You don’t think rape exists? Very concerning. Yikes..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:33 AM
2

You mean a celebrity? I was talking just anyone that I see on the street with a dark complexion...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:58 PM
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How are women not a risk for rape nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:20 PM
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What? Because I want to gage whether he really wants to hear what’s wrong. I also decide in that moment if I am really going to say what’s wrong. It also seems like they really care if they know you aren’t really fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:56 AM
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What? I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 05:50 AM
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Yeah. Too busy worrying about feelings! Lol (exhausting)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:56 AM
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I’m sure most men who have dated enough, been around women.... understand that fine does not mean fine lol It’s weird. When I say “fine” I want to make sure my SO is listening and cares about what I am about to say..so I won’t feel bad about not feeling fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:43 AM
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And women like attractive men as well. PLUS many women have their own careers. Not all women need a man with money. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:48 AM
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Idk. I don’t think average 20 year olds are attracted to older men. Money, yes. But unless your a handsome older man or rich (?) I wouldn’t recommend trying to date a 20 year old... If both parties don’t mind basing their relationship off of status ( youth + money ) then do be my guest. Seems kind of empty though... Most people are compatible within their age range. Aside from all that, why did you feel ashamed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:41 AM
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There are 50 year old hot woman. Women don’t all turn ugly when they get older. Not all women experience the sort of attention men think they get when they are younger. Of course a celebrity is used to attention and when it dwindles, they take an ego hit. It’s weird to be so concentrated on age. The average 50 year old man will date in his age range... like, you’d rather date a 20 year old when your 50? It’s not realistic at ALL. There is a reason most people pair off within their age range. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:36 AM
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But why want the attention of random men for just youth reasons.. seems empty. If an older man, or a man her age called her an old chick, well that’s sad. She’s obviously not 20 anymore. She will look older to 20 year olds. So yeah maybe she is the old chick. Plus, if you’re a celeb, aren’t you always compared to your “best time?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:02 PM
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Good point..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:59 PM
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Not really. People learn from experiences. Obviously not everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 04:03 AM
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Really? That’s sweet. I’m sure I can be annoying when I start worrying haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:59 AM
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Eh, I think women are more at ease with getting older. They may worry when they are younger but I’ve heard older woman say they wouldn’t go back to being younger. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:18 AM
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Lol what a weird post. Dominican cashiers... I can’t understand how this can be fulfilling in the long run but alright. All for some fun. But I’d be careful calling women your own age bitter...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:16 AM
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Not at all true. Really? I see a lot of men in their 30s with pot bellies! It’s not a deal breaker, but men need to sit the fuck down about aging like fine wine. They do not/ they age however they will age. Some people do age very nicely though. Men and women. Women tend to take care of themselves more (jeez I wonder why?) All you men care about is looks!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:12 AM
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I agree with that too. Older women are much harder to fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 03:07 AM
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As a woman, I always try to do relationship check ins. I always worry that something is wrong or my SO isn’t happy. I feel bad because I probably bother him so much. But I want to make sure all our needs are met and to communicate problems. Though I don’t nag. I think my mother did a lot though. I let my man be in terms of his life decisions unless it’s dangerous. But he doesn’t have much to nag about besides having to wear proper attire to certain functions..eye roll
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:42 AM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:38 AM
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I suppose I am talking just relationships. I wonder if by the time I am in my 30s I’ll find 20 year old men sexually attractive. But I don’t think so.. they look like babies (even now and I’m 25.) How long did you last with the 19 year old? Did anyone have any comments about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:35 AM
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That’s interesting. That makes more sense to me. We should be open to all ages but it’s weird when people seek out a specific age group. But 2-4 years I think is a good difference. Similar stages in life. **not all ages lol but adults of all ages. Lmao oops
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:30 AM
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It’s not that younger men aren’t attractive, I just couldn’t date them. I don’t see them sexually attractive. They look good, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 02:29 AM
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Good point. They want to fuck a younger woman to feel younger. Because getting old is the end of the world. It’s normal. I’m kind of curious to see how I will transition. Nobody else is? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 10:19 PM
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That’s true. Most successful relationships there is like a 4 year age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 10:18 PM
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I agree with you. However, if men are only attracted to 20 year olds, it’s their loss. If they can’t accept that they are getting older as well, then they have bigger issues. And the biological attraction is BS. Attraction isn’t always related to fertility. There are plenty of young woman who are infertile. There are plenty of gay people. I think dating a younger woman just makes a man think he is hot shit because society says so. Just like how money and status is drilled into our heads. But do …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 10:16 PM
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But if you’re 50, what can you possibly have in common with a 20 year old? Don’t get me wrong, age gap relationships can work. But if relationships are solely based off looks....?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 10:03 PM
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It still seems like a lot. Like, if you’re seeing someone and they are showing signs of possessiveness~ just end it. Minimizing people to checklists is so weird and it’s impossible to know right away if someone has a mental illness. What if they develop one after you have been dating for a few years? What if your partner wanted to keep their history the past and regretted how they lived beforehand? What if they lose their job? Life is one hell of a ride. Not everything can be a checklist to keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 05:00 PM
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It’s a long list and it’s hard for everyone to actually be all of those things. Checklists can be damaging when finding a partner because it limits you. Honesty is important, caring is important, employed is important.. lol having the same values and goals is very important. I mean, what else? People have flaws, it just depends on which ones you’re willing to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:44 PM
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And men say women are picky!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 05:21 AM
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Good comment ! But waiting tables isn’t below average. I don’t think jobs should determine who is a “quality” person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 05:18 AM
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Incapable of saying no to sex? That’s...concerning..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 05:18 AM
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Men seem to seek support more so from their female significant other than women do. My friends listen to me better than my significant other. Idk. Haven’t you heard “men don’t listen, which gets them into trouble in the first place?” Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 02:51 AM
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Yeah. Just because someone is attractive doesn’t mean they can touch me randomly. That’s as off-putting as if he were attractive. It’s super weird. Men and women ignore red flags in partners that they want to work out or who they are in love with. But when it comes to some attractive random, he doesn’t get any less scrutiny for being inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:18 PM
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“Gut feeling” is used when you’re in immediate danger. I think everyone has the ability to to realize they are in danger, but that doesn’t mean they will. If something doesn’t feel right, you’re better off leaving than finding out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 03:16 PM
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Women can be pretty bad too. Whiny men and women are the absolute worse. Get it together!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:45 AM
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It is for women too. It can be harder for some Women to get in the mood though, which is where the husband comes in I suppose. But I think people need to chill after a newborn. Your life is going to change and you have to be ready for it. Allow things to settle until you can get your groove back. Hormones change a lot after a women gives birth, a change in sex drive has to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:44 AM
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It’s not unreasonable to want it but it’s unreasonable to act like you deserve it or say “woe is me.” Or to take it out on other people, in this case women. Women do it too, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:38 PM
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Beautifully written!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:35 PM
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Moderation of both is key!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:23 PM
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Being a winner isn’t the definition of making your life better. And “winners” aren’t always winning either. Life ebbs and flows.. People are so obsessed with not having things and are so focused on others that they make their life shitty. We all have to chill out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:29 PM
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There are ways to work on yourself. Self pity is so annoying / unattractive. There is always a way to make your life better but it takes work. Learning how to socialize and dress better is a good place to start lol. Some people are naturally born with the skills and looks (and connections) to be “successful.” Most of us are not so life is a learning process.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:20 PM
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There are women who feel the same way about men. There are women who have had bad experiences with men too.. This post sounds like only attractive people end up pairing off but many kinds of people are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 04:01 PM
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I don’t see the big deal in having kids in your 40s. Different mentality I guess. It’s not that idiotic. 40 year olds have more money than 20 year olds. Stability is one thing. Maybe you never met anyone to have kids with in your 20s-30s but met someone in your 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:47 AM
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Yeah but it’s the same for men too if you’re 66. Depending if you care for yourself. The women in my family had kids well into their 40s. I’m a little biased I guess. They all seemed to have energy to me growing up and still do. Three young kids at that! And this was in the 90s. I think fertility treatments have gotten better since then, if you need to go that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:30 AM
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I agree. The comparison doesn’t make sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:18 AM
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Everything else aside, you can have kids in your 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:17 AM
1

Same the other way around I guess. I’m all for open marriages. Practiced safely of course ..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:43 AM
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If a couple just had a kid, it should be expected that sex is going to be hard to find time for. It isn’t just the wife’s fault, both parents should be stressed from the new born. I can’t understand why patience is so hard to come by. Give it a few months and let things settle. Lol having a kid is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:41 AM
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Good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:22 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 04:19 PM
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What? You think marriage gives you access to the other persons body whenever you want, disregarding their wants/feelings? Wow. Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 03:59 PM
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I listen to dan savage and he always says you have to leave them in better shape than you found them too, Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 04:39 AM
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