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“Whatever experience is about to happen is the one that needs to happen” I feel like this could apply to a lot of things in life
/r/seduction16/07/13 07:46 PM
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Direct, always direct. I'd love to learn how to assimilate my wing in the conversation, as I have some great wings at my disposal
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:59 PM
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I did this about two months ago. One of the hardest things I've had to do, and I still can't stop thinking about her, but it's sooo rewarding. Ever since I "broke up" with her, I started regularly working out, taking cold showers, meditating, doing yoga, eating better, and just a shit load of other self improvement things. Once you understand that she can get another guy in a second, it really motivates you to better yourself. Plus there's no more bullshit clouding my mind. Definitely do this!
/r/becomeaman21/01/13 05:51 PM
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I think it depends on weather you're doing daygame or nightgame. In nightgame, giving a compliment on looks is definitely not gonna work because they're expecting it and its generic. But during the day a woman in not expecting a random guy to come up to them and compliment them on their beauty, so it has a lot more impact. Yeah it definitely better to compliment them on their style or preference in whatever, and I think if you do both ("Hey I just saw you walk by and I wanted to come say that I …
/r/seduction20/01/13 09:04 PM
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I also feel it's not right to bother someone when they're walking on the street. I don't know, I'm messed up Work on your inner game first. Start watching direct approach videos (Youtube Simple Pickup, RSD in field, Sasha Daygame, etc) and make walking up to girls in the street a reality in your head. When I talk about direct game to my non-pickup friends, they think it's stupid because and weird because it's not part of their reality. Make it a part of your reality and really believe it and the…
/r/seduction16/01/13 03:25 PM
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Doesn't working towards a goal make you outcome dependant?
/r/seduction10/01/13 06:36 PM
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Thank you good sir! Now text me back!!!
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:28 PM
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Yeah definitely. I'm still happy that I opened her and got a number (something I've never done before) but I gotta work on my actual direct game.
/r/seduction08/01/13 02:16 PM
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I've heard it's never wise to give a girl that you're not fucking anything without asking for something in return, no matter how small the value of it is. It subconsciously conveys that you're not a push over nice guy who bows down to their every wish or command. If anyone I don't know asks me for a cigarette, I usually ask them to tell me an interesting story first. Obviously this doesn't apply to every situation, for ex. if you're just friends with the girls and she forgets her wallet or somet…
/r/seduction08/01/13 12:26 PM
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Yeah and it's harder cause girls are not expecting you to hit on them (as much). And alcohol is rarely involved in the day so you're forced to practice your game sober.
/r/seduction08/01/13 01:36 AM
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I've found a quick meditation session (10 minutes or so) really helps me get out of my head and clear my thoughts.
/r/seduction07/01/13 09:17 PM
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This sounds logical but I'd love to see some studies about this
/r/seduction07/01/13 09:16 PM
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Not only does it make you physically feel better/more confident, it makes you LOOK more confident, relaxed and easy going. And smiling helps a lot too
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:36 PM
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Source?
/r/seduction31/12/12 04:58 PM
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Read my reply to smo0rphy's comment!
/r/seduction31/12/12 03:30 PM
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I know what you're saying, but I was really just trying to get over my approach anxiety at clubs, as I keep opening sets I'm gonna work on each little part of my game :) And as for meditation, RSDTyler's video is really really helpful. It's a bit over an hour long and covers basic FAQs and benefits of meditation.
/r/seduction31/12/12 03:29 PM
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Think of it like this. There's two parts to exercising your body. You have to physically go to the gym and exercise, but it's also very important to understand the concepts behind what your doing. Sure you can go straight to the gym and workout, but if you're trying to bulk up by lifting a lighter weight 20 times, you're not gonna get as far, and it's going to take you longer to get the results you want. It's essentially the same thing for the mind. To understand the concept of getting stuck in …
/r/seduction31/12/12 03:27 PM
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I've watched TED talks and read articles that state that just the act of opening up your body bigger leads to chemicals being released in your body making you more happy, so your experience is completely believable
/r/seduction31/12/12 03:11 PM
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Just take it slow, small successes keep piling up and eventually you're doing shit you never though you could do before. You just gotta push yourself to do a little more, a little more, a little more. I gotta work on initiating kino more during the conversation and not ejecting as fast. I always eject when I think she's not interested, but I heard unless she gives a clear sign (like "fuck off') you should stay in the set.
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:51 AM
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I seent that red head, she was pretty fucking hot, I must say. Don't feel too down about it though, the timing was just a bit off. And definitely! I wanna get better at day game, such a wider variety of girls out during the day
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:48 AM
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Honestly I just never know what to do with my hands, they always end up just awkwardly by my side or in my pockets. Now with some alcohol... ;)
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:47 AM
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And then you just gonna maintain it! I've become a lot more social than I used to be, but there are still days when I find it hard to talk to random strangers sometimes, even when they initiate the conversation. Those days are far and few between, but they still exist!
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:46 AM
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I love the lesbian comback! I'm still pretty new to approaches but I hope I can think of wittier remarks as I continue to work on them. I always think of perfect things to say after I finish talking to them, kinda like a George Castanza type thing.
/r/seduction31/12/12 02:44 AM
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Great FR man! Can't wait to hit up the club with you tomorrow night. I've been working at maintaining state, I need to go out and apply it now
/r/seduction29/12/12 02:53 AM
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Good job man! I've had those moments too when I knew I should've kissed them and only realized it later. It should come with practice! :)
/r/seduction17/12/12 04:01 PM
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Thanks! And yeah there is
/r/seduction14/12/12 04:06 PM
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I asked for 1/2 numbers of the employees I talked too, but I'm still happy that I was able to hold a good conversation with someone, even if they are obligated to be nice to me. Around a year ago I couldn't even do that, I would get nervous if I was talking to any HB, even a girl I didn't find attractive or one that was in my social group. Small steps!
/r/seduction11/12/12 06:16 PM
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I understand what you're saying. I'm not going around asking random girls for their phone numbers just so I can get a number, I did it to prove that I can. So when I do feel a real connection with a girl, I know that I can ask for her phone number and that there's nothing to be afraid of. I had a good conversation with her, but I would never see her again regardless of weather I ask for her phone number (and she doesn't give it to me) or I don't ask, so why not just ask? It did more good than ha…
/r/seduction11/12/12 06:13 PM
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I didn't rate the girls based on weather they rejected me or not, that's not something I can really prove though, you just have to take my word for it. Why not learn to approach people and ask for numbers too? I AM happy with how I carried on the conversation, and even if she doesn't give me her phone number, it doesn't matter cause at least I tried. And it's not like asking for her phone number negated all the great convo we had or something
/r/seduction11/12/12 03:34 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction11/12/12 03:31 PM
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I dunno if it was threatening per say, I think it was just because it as the last approach (I was only doing it so we could leave) and I didn't approach with confidence. I wasn't in the right state of mind and i didn't pick out the girl to approach, PUAollie did. I could tell by the sound of my voice and how I approached it that these were the problems.
/r/seduction11/12/12 03:30 PM
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I like the general gist of your approach, may be stealing a few lines :)
/r/seduction10/12/12 09:20 PM
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Well I actually needed a Christmas present for my mom lol so it worked out alright. And yeah, i definitely can't only hit salespeople exclusively. Hit us up!
/r/seduction10/12/12 08:45 PM
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Thanks! I didn't think it would fair well because it didn't include an epic story of alpha manliness or an awesome kiss-close or anything, but I'm very proud of my minor progress.
/r/seduction10/12/12 07:25 PM
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Just start small. Ask someone at the bus stop when the bus comes, and then tell them that you like their hat. If their friendly enough, they'll probably give you something to work with and then you can continue on with the conversation. Do this to EVERYONE. Eventually it won't be too hard making small talk and you can work on the next part of your game. Trust me, a year ago I was TERRIBLE at this. I remember I was paired up in class with this HB9. Such a beautiful girl, and I was literally shaki…
/r/seduction10/12/12 07:24 PM
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I definitely will, I love this kind of mindset. Thanks for the advice man
/r/seduction10/12/12 06:01 PM
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I never thought about it that way. I'm not sure on calling her out on it, but I think it'd be funny if I gave her a cheeky "Hey I know you" type of look instead :D
/r/seduction10/12/12 05:26 PM
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Yup I'm down for just a chill session, plus I've never been to a vapour lounge so it'll be an interesting experience for me! :)
/r/seduction10/12/12 05:25 PM
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Yeah I'm proud of you too man! Especially with that shy chick, she walked by twice and I was gonna smack you if you didn't end up approaching her LOL. I'm definitely gonna try to start meditating and work on my inner game. We should have more goals and incentives too next time. And yeah I'm so down for Yorkdale! And maybe we can even do a Vapour lounge sesh soon too, I got a few friends who would be interested in joining us :D
/r/seduction10/12/12 05:17 PM
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Thanks! I agree, all my friends think that you shouldn't need it and you should just know how to approach women. But honestly I've learned so much from this subreddit and reading about pick up in general. And the stuff I did know, I now know WHY it works, which is really helpful too. Try posting on Seddit and see if you can find any redditors to sarge with!
/r/seduction10/12/12 05:10 PM
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I was talking about this with a friend and he said the exact same thing. I know it doesn't count per say, but it's great practise for me since I'm just starting to overcome approach anxiety. Especially since they have to be friendly, it's great for working on conversation skills
/r/seduction10/12/12 05:06 PM
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