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I'm 5'7 and live in L.A and have done just fine. I'm not an ugly dude, but height is something a lot of women look for in a partner... But I live in such a highly populated area with so many different races and cultures that I've never really had a hard time meeting a girl that doesn't care about height. But I'm also charming,funny and confident and that will always go a long way regardless of physical features.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:34 AM
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It's because they have so many choices as supposed to us men. For every one girl you date, she has like 10 others trying to take her out. The problem with that is way too many choices. I've had a girl apologize for pushing me to the side so fast because she was talking to a handful of other dudes and couldn't choose and didn't want to sting them along.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:47 PM
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You know, I always wondered why I saw so many nurses and teachers on dating apps. This makes sense.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:03 AM
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Have a huge pee pee
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:40 PM
1

Have a huge pee pee
/r/seduction03/05/22 08:40 PM
1

It's a sub about Seduction lol I'm not going to go easy on him because he's on the spectrum.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:53 PM
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All the time bud. Your post screams insecurity.
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:53 PM
1

Are you getting laid though?
/r/seduction25/04/22 02:37 PM
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Dude, I've done this. It's not manipulating if you know that they're seeking validation or go to you knowing you'll give it to them and no reciprocate that energy. The girl I did this with did exactly what your girl did... She noticed I wasn't paying attention to her and she came back stronger than before. It's the whole " People want what they can't have" because your not at their feet giving them the validation they're used to getting. And to those getting mad at this tactic, he was initially …
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:59 AM
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I've never shared the nudes or videos I've gotten from exes. You're incredibly misinformed.
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:38 PM
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2 relationships in the past two years though Hinge. It's definitely better than the rest.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:03 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:35 PM
3

Bro, your whole interaction with her is a fail. You're not exclusive in any way. She can fuck anyone she wants.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:34 PM
1

Here we go again.... Hoe many times do we have to teach you this old.... Wait, young man!
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:50 PM
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Most people going through a sex shop want to be left alone. This ain't some porno lol
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:32 PM
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Hinge.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:23 PM
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I'm 5'7 and stopped caring a long time ago. Maybe it's because I live in L.A and there is such a huge pool with women who don't give a fuck that I'm on the short side and even then I date women who are 5 foot nothing and I'm actually quite tall to them or the perfect height. I've even dated girls a few inches taller than me...
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:59 PM
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The first date was over video(it was supposed to be in person and we had the place and time) . Second one she suggested in person again. Issue for the first one was her being around someone that had tested positive for Covid and didn't want to risk me being exposed. But your assessment that it was the time in between is something I can agree with. It wouldn't have worked out either way as I could tell(and she admitted) to terrible time management. I think she was just being a little too cavalier…
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:05 AM
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SHE said it went well and I agreed. SHE said she couldn't wait to meet in person later in the week. And her counter date plans were due to the fact that she had been exposed to someone with Covid. I will say that she was brand new back into the game when she matched with me and I personally think she's lost interest once she started matching with others. What irked me was my follow up after she hadn't contacted me. I've done this long enough that if I'm ignored then I get the idea behind you not…
/r/seduction05/02/22 09:49 PM
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Dude, this just happened to me this past wknd. Matched with a girl on Hinge, had great banter through text, video called the next two days that lasted 2 hours each and made plans to go out for dinner. The next day she says that she can't because she might have been exposed to covid, so she asks if we can do a video chat/date and order eachother food... That date went great too and she said that she definitely wanted to see me in person soon as she gets a negative. Next day... Nada. Message her i…
/r/seduction05/02/22 03:40 PM
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This. The nerd girls I've dated are freaks in bed. It's the quiet ones you have to careful with.... And by careful, I mean have a lot of fun with.
/r/seduction02/02/22 09:19 PM
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Don't be thirsty. Like some, not all.
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:38 PM
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Do you want be an emotional punching bag? Because that is what you'll be for someone not over their ex. You're just filling a void they're missing.
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:01 PM
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Yup. Women seem to be drawn to my arms and shoulders. It makes it so much easier to flirt. Awesome thing is that since Im in my mid 30's they're no so focused on the abs(which I don't have lol)
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:11 AM
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Man, I outright tell a girl she's pretty/beautiful, but in a flirty/confident way, not in a "I'm afraid to say this" type of way. Women like compliments, but it's the delivery. You don't want to sounds needy or like you're owed something by saying they're beautiful. And like other said, it's not necessarily being distant and non caring, it's creating a mystery around you...you don't want to drop everything the moment she text you because it'll seem like you're just sitting around waiting for her…
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:45 AM
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She wanted that dick, bro!
/r/seduction22/01/22 04:03 AM
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You should text her if she's down for a threesome with a picture of you and your buddy!
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:38 AM
1

Toys. Toys are a man's best friend. I'm 34 and will always ask my gf's or fwb to pull out their vibrators or any toy they use to reach orgasms when I'm not around. There are ones that suck on the clit, there are vibrators or the multi use ones that go inside and hit the g spot and hit the clit on the outside. Not only is it fun to be dominant with the toys they use to get off, they climax a lot faster than just penetration alone. And of course eating her pussy like it was your last meal on earth…
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:15 AM
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Say "Cool" and move on?
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:56 PM
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Every girl I've ever dated seemed to like to and one of them actually told me it was a non negotiable when we first started dating. Pretty funny to be told by a girl that she wouldn't date if I didn't like head every time we had sex lol I think about her sometimes.........
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:38 AM
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Come on, man. Guys like you just love to keep digging your holes deeper with stupid comments like this.
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:48 AM
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Nope.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:25 PM
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Fuuuck no. Especially from a girl so willingly to fuck a complete stranger.
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:22 PM
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I'm currently in a situation where I've told a girl I've know since high school that I've had a crush on her for years. At first I was a bit hesitant to even flirt with her because of the fact that we've know each other for so long, but this past wknd we hung out and I decided to flirt pretty hard to the point that I was making her blush. Well guess what? She became more loose and accepted it and we started to talk about getting to know each other more personally. There was a lot of flirting, ey…
/r/seduction04/01/22 05:40 PM
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Me and my FWB do it. It's actually pretty fucking hot. But it really depends on the person.
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:01 AM
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Just to be clear, you weren't interested or ready for a relationship in general or with him?
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:33 PM
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I'm going to assume that you're not the only person entertaining her if she's able to just dissappear from time to time.
/r/seduction29/12/21 08:18 PM
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They know, but in all honesty... if I were getting matches like women do, dealing with the lack of quality guys(because a huge percentage talk out of their ass) I'd be desensitized too. The fact that a woman can get upwards of 100 matches a day, have to navigate the same old bullshit to find a diamond in the rough.. Sounds fucking exhausting.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:50 PM
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Yeah, basically. I looked ripped when I have a towel over my midsection, but once that puppy comes off I've got a dad bod lol Luckily I'm in my mid 30's, so I larger percentage of women have stopped caring about ripped abs on a guy.
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:54 PM
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Yup lol it's definitely deceptive. But im in my mid 30's and luckily a good number of women stop caring about ripped abs when you get around this age.
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:12 PM
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Yup. I basically looked ripped when my towel covers my midsection lol
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:10 PM
1

Yup. I basically looked ripped when my towel covers my midsection lol
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:10 PM
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Honestly, lifting weights. And I'm not even ripped(i basically have a dad bod)but having muscle in almost all the right places has gotten more girls to give me compliment and some can't help but touch or grab.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:31 PM
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You're providing my point my guy. You're really jumping through hoops to read about women who don't like short men? Quit focusing on what women who only want tall guys say and focus on those that will give you a chance (which is many if you love in a decent sized city) Confidence is fucking key and you sound like you lack it because you're hyper focused on the negatives. And yes, I'm on all platforms. I'm on Hinge and get matches and dates. Height isn't my problem.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:02 AM
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I'm assuming because your face is on their package at that height?lol jk
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:36 PM
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Oh, Honey. All my Gf's have been my height or shorter(I did date a girl that was 5'9 and it wasn't that big of a deal). Honestly, I did grow up a little insecure about my height, but the older the got, the less I cared because I was still attracting women. So I'm definitely one of the guys that go for girls your height because your heads fit perfectly on my chest lol
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:56 PM
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It doesn't bother me. Guys focusing on their height and what a woman think of it is only bringing themselves down.
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:02 PM
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"Located in rural Wisconsin" 😂 that was fucking gold. As a regular looking dude who is 5'7(Because height seems to be so negatively looked on my so many guys on here) this shit is spot on.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:25 PM
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I'd laugh internally because any girl I date would have my full confidence in making the person hitting on her look like a fool.
/r/seduction21/12/21 01:44 AM
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I did something of the sorts with a girl I'm into. Basically it started getting cold when we were at Disney and I hinted that I run really warm and if she wanted she could use my warmth. So she hugs me for a while and from there on the rest of the day she was grabbing onto my arms to keep warm. Also, when we were taking pictures together I would put my hand on the small of her back(where her butt starts) and she'd started doing the same while talking to other folks around the park. Sometimes you…
/r/seduction17/12/21 07:05 PM
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No, you.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:44 PM
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You were stalking her you dummy.
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:38 AM
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I'm good. This works for me.
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:31 PM
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Yeah, it is. Unfortunately this is how I've gotten most of my dates. Going the genuine route for me on a date has hardly ever worked out as I'm an naturally shy and introverted and that in itself makes first date impressions hard.
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:28 PM
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Build a sense of mystery about your life. Always post yourself doing cool shit and don't get back to her right away. When making plans, make it seem like you're busy and have to squeeze her into your schedule. Trust me, I've learned the hard way that putting a girl up on a pedestal hardly ever works in a guy's favor.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:40 PM
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My guy, I'm 5.5 and have fucked skinny chicks and chicks with big ol' butts. Yes, there are size queens(I've dealt with two in my life) yes, it sucks getting told "that's it" but most girls I've been with didn't care and that is because I always put their pleasure ahead of mine. Being unselfish in bed is a huge plus for women. Go in with confidence and you'll win more often than not.
/r/seduction14/09/21 07:40 PM
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I see plenty of my asian boys getting play from white girls here in L.A. It's your attitude my guy.
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:25 AM
1

I've been in this situation. She likes the attention and she's not getting it from her ex, so naturally you'll do as you're a former flame. So to put it kindly, she wants to be with you, just not right now............ Read that again. If you don't get what I'm saying, it's she's stringing you along.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:32 PM
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The fuck are you going on about.
/r/seduction05/07/21 01:46 PM
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The fuck are talking about.
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:32 PM
2

Dancers as in love to dance, un professionally.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:27 PM
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That is a good move my guy. Two of my exes are dancers and before I started dating them, they'd say "I wish I could find a guy that knows how to dance. Let's you know they got moves in bed" mind you, I'm a terrible dancer and I got them with them by my other qualities, but I goes to show you how men who dance are perceived by women.
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:49 PM
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I agree with this fully. A couple years ago I fell madly in love with a girl and I put her on a pedestal and I went through hell trying to win her affection to the point that she became my girlfriend. She didn't want it "at the time" but said she could see herself being my girlfriend. That sliver of hope made me work on overdrive trying to win her affection adn in turn put her on a pedestal. It didn't end well of course and that whole situation mad ME look like a desperate fool.
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:46 PM
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These are great and have worked for me.
/r/seduction10/06/21 06:17 PM
2

Don't even bring that shit up. It'll make you seem needy.
/r/seduction07/06/21 05:27 PM
7

Like book nerdy or gmsr nerdy? Book clubs and Cons
/r/seduction07/06/21 04:22 PM
3

Look at it like this, us guys have to be rejected multiple times and keep going. You'll find the right one if you keep putting yourself out there, promise.
/r/seduction22/03/21 02:48 AM
2

It's also what you put on your profile. You might not be the best looking dude, but if you look like a good time and the women like what you're writing, they'll swipe right. Obviously there's more to it once you're messaging them. Look it up on You tube my guy. I don't even know you, but it's sounds like that's the problem you're having.
/r/seduction08/03/21 03:34 PM
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Fuck no it's not. It that were the case then if be getting laid all the time in high school and in my 20's(I wasn't) confidence is what I lacked when I was younger.
/r/seduction08/03/21 12:54 PM
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I do and obviously they find out I'm telling the truth when I meet them. Like OP said, many women don't really care if you're not too much taller than them or same height. That's been my experience. The size queens generally put that they're just that on their profile.
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:13 PM
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Yup and being assertive.
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:54 PM
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True my guy. I'm 5'7. I see a lot of dudes post that they can't find girls to match on OLD because of their height, but my gnome looking ass has been on 3 dates in the past two weeks and it's because I've been charming, funny and confident. Confidence is very important to them, so don't ever put them on a pedestal.
/r/seduction06/03/21 12:36 PM
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Ge it, bro!
/r/seduction15/02/21 06:01 PM
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I got a question for this sub that is along the lines of this post. Say, I'm newly single and have started hanging out with an old high school friend. Whe never were super close and interacted though the years by seeing each other at parties. Times goes by and she ends up in my DM's(last year around this time)liking that I go on hikes...so i invite and we go on a couple of hikes together. During these hikes we stick close to each other touching hands from time to time and being some what flirty.…
/r/seduction03/02/21 06:35 PM
2

Just be her friend and set your sights on a new girl. Some weird psychological shit happens to women when they friend zone you and they see you move on to someone else. Show no emotion.
/r/seduction21/09/20 03:45 AM
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Join a book club.
/r/seduction20/09/20 08:08 AM
1

🎶Knees weak, arms are heavy🎶
/r/seduction16/09/20 10:49 AM
111

Bro, trust me, take the shot at end of your date and kiss her. Your chemistry with her will tell you if it's a go or no. Just make sure you let her know your interest in her. Too many of us dudes have sat on our ass idly while thinking we're being pretty obvious when we're not. Take initiative, girls like that. Good luck, bud👍
/r/seduction26/08/20 05:07 PM
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Oh, yeah, she's trying to back out in a nice way.
/r/seduction20/08/20 01:56 PM
2

Honestly, the most compliments I've gotten were from Abercrombie Fierce.
/r/seduction29/07/20 07:11 PM
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Found the white knight.
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