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Constantly telling someone that he/she hurt your feelings and expecting him/her to apologize and do something to "make it better" is a common form of manipulation and control. Emotion is often irrational and based on egotism. Just because someone feels upset or hurt by something someone did or didn't do doesn't mean that feeling is rational or justified. Hence the importance of integrity, frame, and self-confidence. Integrity means treating people the way you know they deserve to be treated. Whi…
/r/askMRP16/02/17 07:33 AM
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RED KNIGHT, that was a fucking masterpiece. (Slow clap)
/r/askMRP13/02/17 04:27 AM
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Here's a possibility: The baby she's carrying isn't yours, it's her ex's. She fucked him with the intention of getting pregnant thinking it was a way to get back together with him. She's pushing you out to make room for her ex, the baby's father, to replace you. Bro, you have some major self-esteem issues. The fact you put up with even 10% of her shit screams that you don't think you can do better. You can, because she sounds like she couldn't be worse. You owe it to yourself to find a woman who…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 03:15 AM
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She sounds mentally ill. Has she gone to a psychiatrist?
/r/askMRP30/01/17 04:22 AM
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One observation: interesting how Mrs. 30-Something's end of the convo was one shit test after another: "I don't give my number to people I don't know." Passed. "Does your wife know you ask strange women for their phone numbers?" Passed. "And you expect me to give you my number without even exchanging names?" Passed. My hunch is that if you had failed any of these shit tests, you wouldn't have gotten her number.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/17 12:25 AM
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LOL. We've got a Hitch fan here.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 11:15 PM
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Dunno where you live, but Zion National Park is pretty epic. Loads of great hikes with amazing scenery. Hiking the Pacific Northwest would be killer too.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 11:14 PM
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Nice A&A
/r/askMRP18/01/17 11:13 PM
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He sounds Mormon. I was too once upon a time.
/r/askMRP18/01/17 03:01 AM
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I agree with OP: If a guy's woman thinks he'll never leave her, there is no dread. Where there is no dread, the woman has no motivation for self-improvement and cannot be led. FWIW, I was raised in a strict religion where divorce is not totally forbidden but is very, very strongly discouraged. So divorce is not an option in their minds. It's no coincidence to me that: a) most men and women in that religion are fat and dumpy; and b) most are miserable and unfulfilled in their marriages (but stay …
/r/askMRP18/01/17 02:01 AM
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I'm going to give this statement some serious contemplation. I've always thought being honest 100% to yourself and everyone else is a hallmark of ego--when that honesty concerns what you really do and don't like and want to do--but now that I think about it, I see what you mean: zero ego means you give zero fucks about whether people think ill of you for not liking or wanting to do what they want you to like or do.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 01:01 AM
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If you've done your reading, you know that romantic "love" is literally a chemical addiction. Fucking someone boosts your dopamine and oxytocin. It feels fucking great. And you get addicted to that feeling. But it's just a chemically-generated feeling. An illusion. A mirage. You seem to not recognize that you're the dying man in the desert who's chasing that cool pool of water he sees off in the distance. If you think you're suffering now, just wait until you realize that the pool of water isn't…
/r/askMRP17/01/17 12:39 AM
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I fuck her up the ass while pulling her hair.
/r/askMRP28/12/16 08:08 AM
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Am I wrong in seeing those statements ("Most of everything you do is self centered" and "You're just making time for us when you want to have sex") as comfort tests rather than shit tests? It seems what she's asking for is more concern for her and more time for her. Those sound like comfort test statements, not shit test statements. But I'm still learning, so please correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/askMRP22/11/16 05:44 PM
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To me the most illuminating idea of Red Pill thought is that women are biologically wired to want contradictory things: they are biologically wired to be sexually attracted to big muscular, confident, dominant, take-charge Alpha males. This can be seen by looking at the covers of romance novels, or what kind of guys star in movies like Magic Mike, or what kind of celebrity males are seen as heart throbs. Muscular, dominant men make women wet without their even consciously wanting it. On the othe…
/r/askMRP22/11/16 05:37 PM
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So many red flags. I'm sure you realize she is already fucking other guys, and has been for a while. Personally, I wouldn't want to remain in a relationship with someone who talks to and treats me like this. And I have to admit I'm baffled that you would. You seem to recognize that one of your core areas to improve is your self-confidence. Can you see that your lack of self-confidence is what is causing you to put her on a pedestal and endure all manner of insult and neglect from her? You alread…
/r/askMRP21/11/16 03:46 PM
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My ex-wife was fat. First off, there are genetics. Her mom isn't fat, but her dad is. She wasn't fat when I married her at age 23, but as time passed it became clear she inherited her dad's fat genes. Second, child-bearing really fucks with a lot of women's hormones and shit, and a lot of women seem to never bounce back to their pre-pregnancy figure. Third, a lot of women's self-image radically changes when they have kids. They stop seeing themselves as women in the sexual marketplace who need t…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 05:58 AM
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These 2 plates you're referring to, where they blondes or brunettes?
/r/askMRP26/10/16 11:02 PM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP26/10/16 10:57 PM
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Thanks!
/r/askMRP26/10/16 09:14 PM
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I was dealing with a really fucked up situation. I'd been dissatisfied and miserable with her for years, but I figured that since I married and made kids with her, I owed it to the kids to stay with her. Things got crazy when I told her I no longer intended to be a Mormon (we were both devout Mormons when we were married). Over the next year she made my life a living hell, berating me for this or that, telling me what an awful husband and father I was for not being a Mormon anymore. I warned her…
/r/askMRP26/10/16 08:41 PM
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It's probably too difficult for you to allow yourself to see what is painfully obvious to everyone else: she already has someone on the side.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 03:08 AM
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And by the way, having a new lifestyle where you parent your kids half the week and then spend the other half of the week on personal time and fucking the brains out of your new girlfriend(s) isn't a bad lifestyle, in my experience.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 11:42 PM
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This post triggered some memories from when I was around your age. I'm now 42, but back then I was married to a woman whose SMV was a few points below mine. Her libido was crap. I got IOIs frequently at work and elsewhere. But the heavy religious indoctrination I'd received from the time I could walk and talk made divorce a non-option. I tried to work things out with my wife, but she was 100% invested in being a mom rather than a wife, and because of our shared religion, she had zero fear that w…
/r/askMRP24/10/16 11:39 PM
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All your post shows is AWALT. Is it really a mind-blowing revelation for you that when a married woman gets really drunk she'll be really flirty and sometimes with people other than her spouse? Let's put the shoe on the other foot: when you get really drunk do you sometimes flirt with women who are not your spouse? So remind me what's the big fucking deal here?
/r/askMRP24/10/16 10:34 PM
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Oh me so sorry. Me thought you speak same language me because you say "that only me who hug here at night" and things other like that.
/r/askMRP24/10/16 01:57 AM
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I think to you no watchy porn no more you makey you self blind no see no more meesa type rike a jar jar binks
/r/askMRP23/10/16 05:42 PM
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I recommend you DO NOT move out. It's still your house.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 06:38 AM
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You need a lawyer, bro. Stat. Nobody here can advise you as competently as a lawyer. Get one ASAP. So much of family law is based on precedent, on preserving the status quo. She will move to minimize your time with the kids and thereby maximize what you'll owe in child support. Also, if you move out, that establishes a precedent that she and the kids remain in your home without you. See a lawyer ASAP.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 06:37 AM
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Question: while your wife was doing what is your usual job (making supper for kids) and the baby was crying in the other room, what were you doing? And really, you can't understand why in that moment your wife would feel overwhelmed and bark at you to get some help? Don't be such a fucking pussy.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:48 AM
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Dude, are you even remotely aware of what having a baby does to a woman's body chemistry? Are you oblivious to the fact that she's totally sleep deprived and going insane being cooped up in the house being a human cow for a hungry newborn? If there was ever a time she needs you to step up and be extra-helpful, extra-patient, extra-understanding, it's now. Now is the wrong time to be escalating volatile situations with her in front of your kids. She isn't rational now. She can't be. Her hormones …
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:35 AM
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I don't see any issue/problem here.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:16 AM
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You saying the state of Utah doesn't impress the fuck out of you? ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 12:22 AM
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Sorry bud, but I can see we aren't going to agree here. There's no way you're every going to convince me that the fundamentals of Christianity are rational. Those being: That mankind is in a "fallen" and "sinful" state because once upon a time the first two humans, Adam and Eve, ate fruit from a tree that God said not to eat. That the only way for mankind to overcome its fallen and sinful nature is for God to become a man and make himself a blood sacrifice for the benefit of mankind. If you thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 09:11 PM
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I'm all ears if you'd like to specify what the "many rational reasons for belief" are. The Bible repeatedly uses the phrase "the four corners of the Earth". In order to have four corners, it would have to be flat. I see you didn't object to my statement that according to the Bible, the Sun orbits the Earth rather than the other way around. Not exactly a prophetic or scientifically accurate statement.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 09:07 PM
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As a former Mormon, I have a lot of concerns with "traditional religion". For every benefit you point to, you could point to a harm. One of my main concerns is that traditional religion is irrational. I was surprised that OP used the term "rational" several times to describe traditional religion. That could not be further from the truth. Traditional religion still promotes creationism and is anti-evolution, despite the fact that rational empirical science strongly supports evolution and disprove…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 08:38 PM
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Your wife sounds a lot like my ex-wife. I agree with those commenters who have said that you probably aren't using dread with your wife; she doesn't actually think you'll ever leave her, so she feels no motivation to put in effort to improve herself and your relationship. My guess is that you both come from a religious background where divorce is not an option. That was the case with my ex-wife and I. We were Mormons. My ex thought I'd never leave her no matter what. She matched your description…
/r/askMRP19/10/16 08:06 PM
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Your #1 priority should be to take care of you, so that you're able to take care of your wife and family. Lift. Eat well. Get plenty of R&R with male friends. Have hobbies. Same RP advice as applies to all men. With the added thought: do you really want to have so many kids so quickly? Whatever you do, don't fall into the trap of neglecting yourself. If you don't take care of yourself, nobody will. Beware that your wife will probably guilt trip you for every minute you spend away from the home b…
/r/askMRP17/10/16 09:17 PM
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Dear Sugarfreewillie, Hi, it's me, your wife's gentlemanly divorced high school classmate. I just wanted to thank you for loaning me your wife's orifices on the night of our HS reunion, and for doing such a marvelous job using text messages that night to make me seem far more attractive and desirable than you. If you had just let her go enjoy herself at the reunion without a fight, you would have shown confidence, which is attractive. Instead, you acted like a paranoid bitch with no self-confide…
/r/askMRP17/10/16 09:00 PM
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A few thoughts: I wonder if your wife wants to home school your children as a way to avoid having to get out in the big bad real world and get a job? Perhaps you can use scripture to get your wife to recognize that she has a religious duty to leave daddy behind and recognize and honor you as the head of the household. If she's going to be fanatical about her religion, why does she get to pick and choose which parts of the Bible to ignore? You should move away from both sides of your family. Are …
/r/askMRP17/10/16 06:29 PM
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Thanks for the additional details that your mother has "undiagnosed mental health issues" and brings up "whose family is more important" in almost every conversation. Geez, I wonder why your wife doesn't want to drive three hours to spend Thanksgiving weekend dealing with that. Fucking grow a pair and stop cowering to Mommy.
/r/askMRP17/10/16 06:07 PM
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Is it possible that you've Alpha-ed up a little with your wife, but still haven't grown a pair when it comes to the expectations of your parents? FWIW, I wouldn't want to do two trips either. You know damn well that a heavier burden falls on your wife than on you when it comes to taking care of four small children. Add travel to that, and it sounds like a fucking nightmare. She is not being unreasonable. You are. You want to be the Alpha Dog at your house but you're too much of a pussy to tell y…
/r/askMRP17/10/16 06:02 PM
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Hi Graham, I'm your wife's former co-worker. Your wife and I think it's awesome that you were so incredibly naive that you let us get a hotel room with a jacuzzi and wine. (Thanks for picking up the tab for that, BTW!) We fucked our brains out that night. Also, just so you know, we started fucking while we were working together. In fact, we've been fucking for years. And we still are. It's amazing to us that with all the red flags we were throwing your way, you kept believing whatever bullshit s…
/r/askMRP14/10/16 08:55 PM
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Maybe it's worth taking a poll here to ask how many people here have Skype connections with their sister-in-laws. I don't. I think it's weird. The only legit reason I can think of for your wife and STB brother-in-law to have a Skype connection is if your wife is helping him plan wedding-related stuff and they talk via Skype to avoid long distance charges. You'll know better than me whether that's a plausible scenario.
/r/askMRP13/10/16 08:53 PM
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Most of the problems seem to stem from a fundamental misunderstanding of what a true Alpha is. A true Alpha is a LEADER. But it seems a common noob mistake to assume an Alpha is an asshole or a bossy and controlling bitch. It takes time to win respect and trust and thereby become followed as a proven leader. Suddenly morphing into a demanding asshole does not inspire respect or trust as a leader.
/r/askMRP10/10/16 06:11 AM
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You can forgive her and also divorce her. Forgiving her doesn't require you to stay with her. There are two completely separate issues: (1) do you forgive her?; and (2) can you continue to trust her? You can say "yes" to the first question and "no" to the second question. You seem to be assuming that forgiving her means staying with her. It doesn't. Take another example: let's say you drop off your kids at your uncle and aunt's house for them to babysit. A couple months later, it comes out that …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 09:43 PM
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Breastfeeding is a total libido killer for a lot of women. Don't take it personally. It's not you, it's her. A sports bar is a perfect place to get away alone. You're just another dude sitting at the bar watching the game. No stigma there, and it's usually easy to chat up the people sitting on either side of you, so within a few minutes you remove any appearance of being there alone. As for what to tell her when you leave, I vote for telling her you're going to a cuddle party.
/r/askMRP07/10/16 09:19 PM
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Your wife sounds like a miserable, depressed, controlling, abusive, fat bitch. At least, that's the impression you give when you talk about her. Is that how you see her? Honestly. You're not at church here. You don't have to wear a plastic smile and pretend like everything is just peachy. Answer honestly. Do you see your wife that way? If so, do you even want to remain married to her? I cannot understand how you could ever want to remain married to a miserable, depressed, controlling, abusive, f…
/r/askMRP06/10/16 07:36 PM
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Here's how I see this: Red Pill is a counter-movement. One core Red Pill idea is that the pendulum has swung too far in the direction of radical feminism and the degradation of natural, healthy male masculinity. As with any counter-movement, swinging the pendulum in the other direction requires some hyperbole to present a clear, stark contrast between Blue Pill and Red Pill. The issue you raised--external validation--is a good example of the hyperbole that can be found in Red Pill publications a…
/r/askMRP04/10/16 08:11 PM
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Playful responses when she pulls away: "Good save. You might infect me if I get too close." "My bad. It's totally inappropriate for a husband to touch his wife like that."
/r/askMRP01/10/16 12:07 AM
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Travel/vacation is usually a fun topic and sometimes you get good recommendations from it. Ask if she's going anywhere for summer vacation, xmas vacation, whatever. Steer it into talking about where you've both travelled. Bonus points if you're well-travelled because she'll find that interesting and fun about you.
/r/askMRP30/09/16 11:57 PM
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Don't get married
/r/askMRP30/09/16 01:03 AM
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Brace yourself. You're going to get a lot of shit for this post.
/r/askMRP29/09/16 12:31 AM
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Next time she bitches about your ripped-ness during sex, cover her mouth with your hand as you tell her to "shut the fuck up and ride my cock, bitch!" JK. That was for all the blue pill lurkers who assume we're all misogynists.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 02:43 PM
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Have you recognized why you flipped out on her when she came home and gave you a shit test after you sent her that text? That text was a classic Beta covert contract. You figured that if you acted like a good Beta and texted her some comforting words, then she would reward you with affection when she came home. When you held up your end of the covert contract, but she didn't, you flipped out on her for failing to honor her half of the covert contract. Re-read your text and see how obvious of a c…
/r/askMRP21/09/16 09:20 PM
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If I recall correctly, most of the advice you got on your last post was to get out of her frame and stop hamstering so much. Your response? You write a tome showing that you're still hamstering and still firmly within her frame. That's great progress! Keep it up!
/r/askMRP21/09/16 09:01 PM
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If I wanted to read a stream of consciousness, I'd go with James Joyce or William Faulkner. This was a mess. Get your thoughts organized and try again.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 03:32 AM
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Jesus, you need help. How would fucking another woman on the side, on the down low, be entering her frame? It seems like you don't understand what frame means.
/r/askMRP21/09/16 01:38 AM
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Jolie says the split is about difference in parenting styles, particularly with regard to alcohol and marijuana. Doesn't say anything about her trading up for a newer model. For all we know, Brad is crushing twenty-something poon on the side and Jolie found out. Brad's legendary status remains intact.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/16 09:11 PM
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What should you do? Do you live on a deserted island where she is the only woman?
/r/askMRP20/09/16 03:00 PM
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Do you really need other guys to tell you what you already know because your wife has made it so obvious? She's not into you anymore and the only reason she keeps you around is so that one day you can be a sperm donor so that she can have a baby so that she can drop her 70-hr/week job, and she resents the fuck out of you because you aren't making that happen. Spoiler alert: even if you started making Beta Bux and got her a 4 bedroom house in a beautiful neighborhood with great schools and made s…
/r/askMRP20/09/16 02:57 PM
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It was good of you to draw the line at her disrespecting you, but you did it in a bitch way by saying "if you want to continue watching this show, you'll have to do it in the other room.". That was weak and she showed you how impotent an attempt at manipulating her it was by simply going in the other room. It was a good idea to leave the house. Just don't come home shitfaced and acting like a belligerent asshole. BTW, are you hiding something in not telling us what your "suggestion" was that set…
/r/askMRP19/09/16 02:58 AM
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I think the sabbatical is a good idea. Hearing your situation, I couldn't believe someone would choose to endure it (especially because you don't have kids). The fact that you've put up with an unsatisfying, dead relationship for so long suggests to me that you have a high level of fear when it comes to change. Of course, most people do. Most people find change inherently stressful, especially when it comes to big changes like marriage/divorce. Overall, the sabbatical idea sounds wise because it…
/r/askMRP18/09/16 11:13 PM
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This reads like a drunk post. And the author can't spell or punctuate for shit. Sounds like he's lecturing himself. Way to go, keyboard cowboy.
/r/askMRP18/09/16 10:14 PM
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Try learning how to flirt and be suggestive in a more subtle way. Remember that sexual tension requires mystery, and mystery is something that can only be hinted at. Your approach has no subtlety, no mystery, and therefore cannot create sexual tension. "Shake your tits in my face." Jesus. Flirting is not telling her directly what you want her to do to you like you're ordering off a sex menu. Instead, use words to spark her imagination, and then let her imagination do the work. You're leaving her…
/r/askMRP16/09/16 08:49 PM
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White, suburban
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 06:32 PM
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I have yet to hear of a marriage therapist who the couple thought was actually helpful.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 04:38 PM
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Yeah, my ex refused to do doggie style because "that's how the animals do it"; she had to put the magic underwear on right after sex--in thirteen years of marriage we never once slept naked together; I had to spend years talking her into giving or receiving oral. Thank god I divorced her sexually dysfunctional ass.
/r/askMRP15/09/16 11:14 PM
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Out of curiosity, are/were you guys Mormons? Your description of your upbringing and your wife's sexual hangups gave me flashbacks about my ex-wife. I'm a former Mormon and my ex had all those same hangups. My reaction to your wife's first question (why are you working out so much, etc.) is that she's starting to feel dread. This is an accomplishment and you should be happy about it. Because she's feeling dread (i.e., that you could be fucking someone else), she's seeking comfort. So that was a …
/r/askMRP15/09/16 10:43 PM
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I'm no expert, but in the dozens of anecdotal cases I've seen with friends and friends of friends, if one spouse has enough reason to suspect cheating is going on, it's happening. It's eventually discovered and/or admitted, and in hindsight the suspicious spouse's suspicions are vindicated. Does she have apps on her phone that could be used for cheating convos? Apps like Snapchat or Kik? The smartass in me would want to amp up the "whore" thing. Like come up with something even more insulting an…
/r/askMRP15/09/16 10:33 PM
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Definitely a troll, but it seems to me his angle is to demonstrate some of the common ways noobs misinterpret and misapply Red Pill and end up acting like faggots. Like thinking you can get amazing results in just one week, thinking you're the shit for noob gains in the gym, trying too hard to dread your S.O. too early, etc. I give him an A for effort and comedy.
/r/askMRP13/09/16 12:55 AM
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Jezus effing christ. You really need advice on this? She is a crazy bitch and you should kick her cunty ass to the curb. DO NOT impregnate her unless you want to live in her hell and eventually pay her alimony and child support.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 11:07 PM
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Apparently you can't (or more accurately won't) see what she's been communicating to you through her behavior: she doesn't want a relationship with you. If she did, she wouldn't be a cold, non-communicative cunt to you all of the time. Listen to the message she is sending you with her behavior: she doesn't fucking want you anymore. Her cold indifference following your planned dates is her way of saying that nothing you can do will change her mind. She's checked out. She's made her decision. She …
/r/askMRP07/09/16 10:42 PM
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A few questions & comments: Why is your wife to blame for the fact that you said 5 sentences to each other yesterday, didn't touch each other once, etc. Are you mute? Are your arms paralyzed? Why aren't you equally to blame for the lack of communication and touch? Why do you want to spend time with someone who apparently doesn't want to spend time with you? Get your own life. Your own friends. Your own hobbies and shit to do. Hell, get a girl or two on the side if you feel like your wife gives y…
/r/askMRP07/09/16 10:25 PM
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Sounds like you live in the South. Every time I travel to the South, I'm blown away by how many obese fucks there are everywhere.
/r/askMRP07/09/16 08:22 PM
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IMHO, if a romantic couple has great chemistry, lots of passion for each other, a great boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, etc., then the absolute worst thing they can do is get married and have children. From early childhood we're brainwashed with the idea that if two people fall in love, they should get married and have children. But that is the worst thing they could do. Getting married and having children together will not prolong their awesome romantic relationship; it will kill it. For a h…
/r/askMRP06/09/16 07:15 PM
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If she takes that approach, tell her "This conversation is over. I'm willing to resume this conversation when you're willing to take responsibility for your unacceptable behavior yesterday." Then work on your projects and STFU. If/when she continues to scream at you, leave.
/r/askMRP01/09/16 11:00 PM
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Kick your dad and wife in the head for being stupid enough to take politics seriously enough to fight about it. Spoiler alert: both parties and their candidates are corrupt as fuck and are elitists who don't give a shit about the average American.
/r/askMRP01/09/16 03:44 PM
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Also, it seems the researchers didn't account for the intensity of the work, only the time spent on work. An hour chasing antelope does not equate to an hour picking berries or sorting laundry. Not all work is of the same intensity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:03 AM
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What this research is helpful in demonstrating is that the quality of the men in a society determines whether it remains a stone age society or becomes a technologically advanced civilization. If the men work four hours a day like in bum fuck Amazonia, they remain in the stone age. But if the men work tirelessly, they build a technologically advanced civilization that eventually colonizes all the primitive societies full of lazy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:53 AM
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In some bum fuck village in the tropics. And that's the basis of your sweeping generalization that men are lazy by nature, including in the US where men often work 50-80 hours per week. Pull your head out of your ass. The men of bum fuck Amazonia do not represent all men on Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:47 AM
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I wonder if the researchers--presumably educated in liberal Western schools--made all their observations, analysis, and conclusions while looking through feminist lenses. In any event, the OP gets it wrong in the title of her post. The findings laid out do not support OP's broad brush assertion that men are lazy. Rather, the findings show that men do less women's work (e.g., taking care of kids, doing laundry) than women do. You wouldn't have to be a rocket scientist to figure that out. When men…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 02:34 AM
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My wife had the same concern. I figured it was easier to ask forgiveness than permission. The SKS showed up a few weeks later and there wasn't shit she could do about it.
/r/askMRP31/08/16 02:39 AM
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"You don't want to give me a blowjob honey? NEXT!"
/r/askMRP31/08/16 02:37 AM
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Anarchist first, Libertarian second, fuck everyone else third.
/r/askMRP30/08/16 10:31 PM
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I don't remember reading anywhere that showing anger is a DHV or a demonstration of solid frame. In fact, I can remember reading exactly the opposite dozens of times, and I'm just a noob. Your anger isn't going to get you anywhere unless you get angry at yourself and channel your rage into your lifting at the gym.
/r/askMRP29/08/16 11:59 PM
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Don't be an asshole to your pregnant wife. Weight gain during pregnancy varies greatly from woman to woman. Different hormone levels, genes, amount of water retention, etc. Doctors have charts with AVERAGES. There are always people above and below the average. It's a benchmark, a guideline. It's not something you have to become a fascist about imposing on her. You will fuck up your baby more with the stress you put on your pregnant wife than above-average weight gain ever could.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 04:56 PM
1

This post reminds me of the woman who put spermicidal jelly on her toast and ate it. "Am I allowed to talk and interact with my wife and other humans anymore?" Jesus Christ.
/r/askMRP29/08/16 03:00 PM
7

Remind us why you're wanting another child with this woman?
/r/askMRP29/08/16 02:52 PM
1

Apply the Golden Rule: if your wife told you she was going to be gone and refused to give any details, would you be cool with it? Of course not. So why fuck with her head like that? There are other better ways to get her hamster going than being unnecessarily secretive.
/r/askMRP28/08/16 03:58 PM
3

This post should have been entitled: "Cock-Blocked By My Own Ego". "She didn't say please for my cock like I told her to, so I rolled off and didn't fuck her." LOLZ. That'll show her!
/r/askMRP27/08/16 02:02 AM
1

TL;DR: A couple with the maturity of twelve year-olds pointlessly exchanges repeated salvos of retaliatory passive aggression. But at least the guy got a 69 out of it.
/r/askMRP27/08/16 12:25 AM
5

Women look down on video games and nerdy/geeky hobbies because they are childish/juvenile hobbies and not manly/masculine hobbies. Hunting, fishing, golf, motorcycling, etc. don't serve the female imperative either, but they aren't looked down on like video games because they require athleticism and skills that involve the actual real world.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/16 07:00 PM
2

Start him with No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 06:55 PM
4

Have you thought about motivating him to lift by informing him of the fact that it will increase his odds of getting laid in high school, college, and beyond? Pussy might be a better motivator than "I'm gonna make you man up, sonny boy".
/r/askMRP26/08/16 04:15 PM
2

Getting easily overwhelmed, feeling overstressed by not-so-stressful things, dreading your life, and over-sleeping are all symptoms of depression. Your wife sounds depressed. A combination of exercise and medication should help. I got the double-whammy genetically from my parents (both very prone to depression). I exercise every morning religiously to flood my bloodstream with endorphins. It's been far more effective for me than medication alone was.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 03:09 PM
3

If you don't want someone who talks too much, you need to be gay. Talking too much goes with having a vagina. Most men I know (myself included) deal with this by pretending to pay attention to what she's saying while we're actually thinking about something else, usually sex.
/r/askMRP23/08/16 11:11 PM
1

If that's all the case, then it sounds like she has a medical issue and needs to get a doctor's help to resolve it.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 08:44 PM
3

If a First Mate were to report to his Captain all the chores he'd done to keep the boat in ship shape, would the Captain ignore the First Mate's efforts or thank him for a job well done? She wants to contribute, she's contributing, she wants you to see she's contributing, and wants you to acknowledge it. In short, she's seeking validation from you. That's a sign that she is in YOUR frame--the person whose validation is sought is the Captain. I'd say this is a positive development.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 08:20 PM
1

Do you two engage in any physical affection at all? Do you give her hugs? Hold her hand? Sit next to her with your arm around her? Do you ever tell her she looks good? Compliment her? Tell her when her ass looks good in those jeans? Do you ever do romantic stuff for her? Arrange a nice dinner, share a couple bottles of wine, offer to give her a massage and . . . let's just see where that goes? Have you ever suggested watching porn together? Or using a vibe on her to get the juices flowing? The w…
/r/askMRP22/08/16 08:08 PM
3

You're not in this situation but you are preparing yourself for the hypothetical possibility of your wife texting guy friends "she has hooked up with only once"? Sounds like an unusually specific hypothetical situation that hasn't happened to you yet.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 07:57 PM
2

Posts like these always leave me feeling like the author isn't telling us everything. It doesn't make sense that a woman with a lower SMV than her husband (who rates himself as SMV 8) has zero interest in sex. Either the wife has a serious medical problem (which should be addressed by doctors) or the author isn't telling us everything. BTW, "we should have sex" is a weak ass way to initiate sex. "We should" implies duty or obligation, like doing a chore. No wonder she gives passionless duty sex …
/r/askMRP22/08/16 07:54 PM
6

You're only six days into this. If you're adding activities to your schedule and she doesn't know about them, I'm not surprised she's butthurt. I like to know when my wife has other activities planned so I can plan activities of my own at the same time, and vice versa. It's common courtesy. So I wouldn't look at this as a shit test. More like you didn't give her notice, which is a breach of common courtesy, and she got butthurt. I think the Golden Rule is a good way of distinguishing between a s…
/r/askMRP18/08/16 09:27 PM
1

I recognize the type: my mother fit the same description. Being highly insecure and having constant anxiety made her highly controlling and extremely sensitive to social slights (like your wife not being included in that group). She relied on big, loud, explosive, emotional outbursts to manipulate and bully my dad and us kids whenever she didn't get her way. If she's talked about suicide and cutting herself, she needs help ASAP. The human brain is an organ, and like any organ it can malfunction.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 09:18 PM
2

Your wife sounds crazy. Literally. I am sure you have realized this before now. Hopefully you're not in denial about it. Hopefully you recognize she is literally crazy. You and your children are either going to live in your frame or in her crazy frame. Pick one for you and the kids, and don't second-guess your decision. If you allow yourself and your children to keep living in her crazy frame, you and your children will deeply regret it and your children will have childhood issues they'll need t…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 05:14 PM
2

Absence
/r/askMRP16/08/16 04:24 PM
1

Channel your anger into your lifting. Your anger is fuel for the gym. Every time it hurts when you lift remind yourself you deserve the pain for being a Beta puss. I call bullshit on Alpha being unattainable for you. Your anger alone can motivate and fuel you to accomplish anything if you direct it properly. As a Beta you figured out what your SO needed and wanted and you found a way to do it and give it to her. As an Alpha you need to do that with and for yourself. Figure out what you want, mak…
/r/askMRP16/08/16 06:04 AM
1

Sounds to me like your wife STILL isn't being 100% honest with you. She says they had sex three times. Let that sink in. Not one oops. Not two oopses. Three oopses. Three times. Without condoms. Three times. But supposedly he never came. Three times. Three times sex. Three times no condom. Three times no cumming. Does that add up to you? If it does, that explains how she fooled you the first time and you still haven't learned to trust your gut. Your accurate gut, we now know with hindsight.
/r/askMRP16/08/16 04:06 AM
3

You can be angry, but you should direct all your anger toward yourself because you are to blame for being an inadequate man who therefore has an inadequate marriage. Then channel all your anger toward yourself into your lifting. Punish yourself with pain in the gym.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 01:04 AM
2

Ask yourself: "Why is anyone's opinion of you more valid or important than your own opinion of you?" I was once in a somewhat similar situation as you're in. I was raised in a strict Mormon home. I became a strict Mormon myself, and I married a strict Mormon. All of my extended family and almost all of my friends were Mormons. Fast-forward to my mid-30s. I decide that Mormonism is bullshit and I want to leave it. In the Mormon community, that brands you as a Judas. I worried and worried and worr…
/r/askMRP14/08/16 04:20 PM
8

As a neutral unbiased observer, something stands out pretty obviously: she gave you lots of sex to manipulate you to marry her so she could secure her legal status, and now that her legal problem is fixed, she no longer needs to use sex to manipulate you. So she's not fucking you anymore. Don't feel too bad about it. You're not the first guy this has happened to. But you should kick her to the curb unless you want to put up with more of this bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 09:31 PM
1

Out of curiosity, how do you rate your SMV in comparison to hers? How often do you initiate sex with her? You mentioned that the last time you had sex was June. How many times have you initiated since then? How did she respond?
/r/askMRP11/08/16 09:10 PM
13

It's hard to believe you've read No More Mr. Nice Guy. I'm just a noob but after reading that book and reading your post, it's pretty obvious you're Mr. Nice Guy. You say you "make over 150K . . . raised 4 nieces . . . do all the cooking and cleaning in the house (dinner is ready when she gets home), foot rubs and full body massages for an hour each most nights and pretty much live to please her and make sure she's comfortable." This is so textbook Mr. Nice Guy that it seems like a troll post. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 06:43 PM
10

Sounds like she intentionally didn't give you a heads up knowing it would anger you so that she could play the victim of your anger. The question is why she would do such a thing. Maybe you need to make yourself absent more often and give her less attention. You make her dinner and she treats you like this. What a bitch.
/r/askMRP11/08/16 02:40 AM
1

Donkey Punch: The Donkey Punch is when you're engaged in anal sex and when you're about to ejaculate you punch the poor little lady in the back of the head so her anal cavity tightens, making the orgasm all that more better (for you of course).
/r/askMRP10/08/16 07:34 PM
3

Correlation does not prove causation. You're noticing a correlation (i.e., when I fuck her doggie, she acts more hormonal and short-tempered) and erroneously concluding that A must be causing B. It could just as easily be the case that when she's hormonal she's at a point in her cycle that makes her more sexually adventurous, (i.e., is willing to be fucked doggie, rather than tender missionary sex while she thinks about bracelet designs) and short-tempered. In other words, it's not your doggie s…
/r/askMRP10/08/16 07:13 PM
6

Maybe she has GI issues and she's crop dusting you.
/r/askMRP10/08/16 07:02 PM
1

If you say anything, it has to come from a place of feeling playful and fun. Maybe you say to your sister in their earshot, "Hey sis, check out Cassanova over here. Has he been going to pick up artist camps or something? Better keep a close eye on him." And laugh. When wife flirts back, you say loud enough for everyone to hear: "Are you flirting with him now?" (Laugh) Then with a playful I-feel-sorry-for-you voice: "Aw babe, are you so insecure that you're looking for validation from [BIL Chad]?…
/r/askMRP09/08/16 09:38 PM
3

Per the sidebar reading, (c) would be a demonstration of insecurity/low value, so that's a bad idea. Option (b) opens you up to being viewed as a sensitive, insecure bitch, not to mention giving BIL "Chad" more time with your wife without you around (which it sounds would make you hamster like crazy). Option (a) has the potential for you to demonstrate Amused Mastery, but it all depends on the execution. You sound pretty butt hurt about this all, so you'll probably reveal the seething anger unde…
/r/askMRP09/08/16 09:16 PM
1

If my wife pisses me off, I just save that anger and use it the next time we have sex. She's been somewhat bitchy the past couple weeks, and as a result, the past two times we've fucked she's had to make me stop because my rage thrusts were hurting her. "Ouch! Ouch! That's too hard! You're hurting me!" Nothing brings a smile to my face like hearing those words.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 09:02 PM
10

This is a troll post
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 03:16 AM
2

Your wife's behavior--cheating on you with her best friend's husband--demonstrates a level of narcissism and sociopathic symptoms that it's impossible for me to believe she's good wife material. What did she think would happen if she got caught? Did she think you'd be such a doormat that you'd keep her? If so, that's precisely the reason she's letting another man cum all over her face. Did she think you'd man up and divorce her? If so, the fact she went through with the affair says she was willi…
/r/askMRP03/08/16 12:26 AM
1

Every other day, holmes
/r/askMRP02/08/16 03:07 AM
1

My disbelief in Mormonism was a dealbreaker for my first wife, so we divorced. We had four kids together. I got married again. New wife had no kids, she wanted one, and I figured I'd be a dick if I said no. And yes, sealed in the temple, hard core. All that bullshit.
/r/askMRP30/07/16 02:55 AM
2

The short answer is that I was a giant Beta, but some elaboration is in order. I was raised in a very strict Mormon home. I was raised to believe there are certain things God wants you to do and that it's irrelevant whether you want to do them or enjoy doing them; you just do them because you have to. One of those things is having lots of kids. My wife came from a family of five and wanted four or five kids. I didn't, but between church guilt and wanting to please my wife, I disregarded what I w…
/r/askMRP30/07/16 02:03 AM
1

I have no objections to Taiwanese culture; there's more than one way to do marriage and family. But something to think about: What is going from $150K/year combined to $70K/year going to be like? Are you going to be able to pay for a maid/nanny on top of everything else on one five-figure salary? Also, even if the wife and nanny/maid do all the work with the kids, the fact that your wife will constantly be focused on her work with the kids is going to severely reduce her ability to spend time wi…
/r/askMRP29/07/16 11:46 PM
4

I have five kids. Let me be brutally honest: Until you have kids, it is impossible to even begin to understand how much having kids turns your marriage and life upside down. Right now it's just you and your wife. Your relationship has been based on your romance as boyfriend-girlfriend, lovers, husband and wife. It's a wonderful phase of life. A wonderful phase that should not be cut short and that should be extended and enjoyed as long as possible. Why? Because, as you will discover after it's t…
/r/askMRP29/07/16 11:15 PM
-1

I just roll over and fart in her direction.
/r/askMRP29/07/16 10:35 PM
5

With her repeated dishonesty and breaches of trust, I am shocked that you are even considering staying with her. You're never going to be able to trust her again and that is going to torture you. You seem to be bent on a course that will inevitably put you in a state of constant suspicion, paranoia, and agony. I'd be mad as hell if I were you, and I'd file for divorce. DO NOT give her a separation as a "compromise"--what she will pitch to you. Sounds like she wants your money but wants the other…
/r/askMRP26/07/16 10:06 PM
2

I think you'll find that trying to spin plates while married will be totally unworkable (best case) or shitstorm catastrophic (worst case). Better to be upfront with your wife and all involved about where you're at. Anything less than that and you'll inevitably end up getting the reputation of a douche.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/16 12:31 AM
1

This was an awesome post. I'm 99.9% sure it's a joke, but it was hilarious. Whoever wrote the role of the fictional wife in the story sure knows how to apply RP.
/r/askMRP20/07/16 11:18 PM
9

Different set of circumstances, but my parents disowned me--completely cut off all contact with me and wrote me out of their will--when I left their church. They treat me as if I, my wife, and my son do not exist. Having been on the receiving end of being disowned by parents, I do not recommend that any parent disown his/her child unless you want to be an asshole-type parent who inflicts emotional abuse on his child.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 09:27 PM
4

I've always understood women's rationale for not having sex too quickly with a "quality guy" they want to have a relationship with is that they don't want to come off as a slut who fucks everybody on the first date because they think no quality guy will want to marry the slut who's been fucking every guy on the first date. When they meet a quality guy that they want to have a relationship with, they want to give him the false impression that their sexual partner count is lower than it actually i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/16 10:33 PM
5

You need to divorce her immediately. She cheats on you two weeks after your wedding? You will not be able to trust her for as long as you are married, and that will drive you crazy. Spare yourself the torture and end this bad marriage before you waste any more time in it.
/r/askMRP18/07/16 09:53 PM
2

You seem to think you're connecting dots to Red Pill philosophy when in reality you're connecting dots in a "Beautiful Mind" sort of way--i.e. seeing connections that aren't really there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 04:34 PM
2

What does this weird story have to do with red pill, blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 04:19 PM
1

There are no guarantees but you vastly improve your odds if you Alpha the fuck up. Getting your Alpha on will increase her attraction to you and reduce the probability that she cheats again. If she does cheat again (which, sorry, but she's done it twice already, so . . .) then being in top Alpha condition will enable you to next her and find women more deserving of you.
/r/askMRP14/07/16 02:43 AM
7

Anyone who says this is ignorant of basic Red Pill reading. It goes into a lot more than lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 12:27 AM
9

Lifting is your new masculine hobby
/r/askMRP13/07/16 10:36 PM
37

IMHO, no need to be so anal about the sugar thing. This isn't Sharia law. You don't have to be a fanatic. It's a fucking birthday cake; it's what everyone does for their birthday. Refusing her a birthday cake will make you look like a fucking fanatical lunatic. It's great to be more decisive, leading, and stoic, but a good general knows how to pick his battles. Birthday cake ain't one of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 09:33 PM
5

If I were you, I wouldn't lock myself into a LTR, and would not move in with a LTR. You haven't yet maximized your SMV (more income will raise your SMV), so why the rush to lock yourself into a LTR and move in together? Why not enjoy yourself spinning plates? To your immediate question: Why do you want to blow her off Wednesday?
/r/askMRP12/07/16 12:36 AM
1

What is it your LTR thinks she's going to get from Mr. Emotional/Spiritual/Musical? Will he sit and listen to her talk for hours on end and express empathy, agreement, and validate her? Will he make her feel like the Princess Soulmate he's always been searching for? Sounds like your LTR isn't getting enough Beta from you and therefore feels attracted to Mr. Emotional/Spiritual/Musical as a potential source of the Beta that she wishes you had. Per MMSLP, you need a balance of both Alpha and Beta.…
/r/askMRP08/07/16 07:24 PM
3

Thanks for the advice. I think your observation that I'm still strongly in her frame is correct. I've been a hard-core Beta Nice Guy in my relationships for the past 20 years. I was totally bought in on all the Fem conditioning. I've finally woken up to the Matrix, but I'm still groggy and clearing sleep from my eyes.
/r/askMRP06/07/16 10:12 PM
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