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Honestly, Rhea shouldn’t even be able to S support Byleth. It’s kind of gross lol Edelgard being bisexual I think is meant to be a callback to her loving Byleth regardless of the form they take.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/20 01:18 AM
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LMAO but she tells Byleth her secrets almost immediately too 😭 There’s honestly a lot that goes into her character because of how they built her up, what with the secret she reveals to you pretty early on and the fact she is an old archetype in the series but the first female rep for it, which is part of what supported her as a likable character. However, they’re acting like all the lords weren’t very similar in how they all had something to hide. To disregard his issues based on him being a whi…
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/20 01:14 AM
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It’s definitely more expected of men to be able to provide for an entire family whereas women aren’t often expected of that unless they’re single mothers, and even then single fathers tend to have it harder due to certain prejudice and not likely having as many programs geared towards them. Though I don’t understand the gender traitor comment. I normally hear more issues with the system that handles sperm donation and the legal protection it’s meant to provide (or take away in cases where you tr…
/r/MensRights08/03/20 08:56 PM
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Why does everyone seem to think witch hunts exclusively targeted women? Men were killed during the Salem Witch Trials too...because four young women (likely from familial pressure) accused them and a lot of women of committing witchcraft. While there were a lot of women who died, that doesn’t mean men didn’t also die. Also, I’m pretty sure other people got lynched back in the day, including Italians and Irishmen, whom many consider white today (though they weren’t on the same terms as WASPs). Be…
/r/AntiFeminists15/02/20 05:28 PM
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For real. I don’t think my father has ever raised a hand to my mother, especially since she dealt with that from her own father when she was little. Regardless, there are far more men like my father than some people choose to realize.
/r/MensRights30/12/19 11:02 PM
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Renfri just reminds me of a type of character who just have a reputation for being strong and somewhat ruthless. I see a lot of female characters in anime who are like this so to me it just sounds like you aren’t used to it based on how you described her. Seems less like a “girl power” thing and more like she’s just one of the guys at that point, even if she’s a bit of a bully (which I don’t think is very uncommon in their world). Calanthe doesn’t sound like she’s meant to be a good person at al…
/r/MensRights30/12/19 09:45 PM
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I imagine there are a lot of women who aren’t really that worried about it either when they haven’t had a history of dealing with that, whether cause they’re single or their partner isn’t one to be physically abusive.
/r/MensRights30/12/19 09:05 PM
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They clearly don’t know male suicide statistics if they think males are less likely to kill themselves than respond aggressively. It’s true there are many females who try to commit suicide, but they more often try to poison themselves, rather than asphyxiating or shooting themselves, hence why they aren’t often counted in the suicide stats. Also, there have been female shooters before, they’re just much less common.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 04:32 AM
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This seems more like a bdsm femdom thing...the second part makes it seem kinda pedo-y 😬
/r/AntiFeminists11/12/19 02:51 AM
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Yea there are a ton of comments pointing out that it was fucked up for her to grab him and starting hitting him. One guy even talks a bit about his own abusive ex.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:28 PM
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Guess I’ll just never do this. Also, I assumed you couldn’t donate if you were gay, but I guess not. I’m more surprised they actually won the court case, honestly, but maybe I shouldn’t be...
/r/MensRights04/12/19 06:59 PM
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That’s a rough life to live; sorry you had to experience all that. I have nothing I could personally share on that since I’m attracted to men aside from some guys mischaracterize me because of some expectations they have of MRAs (even though those guys probably shouldn’t be throwing stones). Only thing I can really suggest is to find women with a similar perspective, if possible. Afaik the badger brigade is kind of the primary group of women MRAs, but if there are any cons with men’s rights grou…
/r/MensRights12/10/19 04:59 PM
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Personally not my thing for myself or guys I’m into, but more power to the men who are interested.
/r/MensRights17/06/19 02:02 AM
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"Male Beauty Pageant" sounds like bodybuilding. Glad they're being consistent.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 02:22 AM
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I’m pretty sure the only men into that are submissive bisexuals. Pornography may have made some guys realize they’re into it, but I doubt many of them (if any) are legitimately heterosexual. The only couples who I can really think of it being a positive thing are ones in which the man isn’t able to please his wife (whether due to a medical condition or whatever), but that’s only implying he wouldn’t mind seeing another guy fuck his wife in the first place.
/r/MensRights27/09/18 12:28 PM
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This ain’t new, but the “this video makes me homophobic” line was pretty funny (though the line prior to it was odd).
/r/MensRights26/09/18 01:56 AM
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Yea, I figured a larger cause for this was due to not being married in the firs place rather than “staying married”. The trend of marriage is not being followed as much as it was decades ago since a lot of people now don’t have the same sense of urgency to do so, for varying reasons.
/r/MensRights25/09/18 03:39 PM
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The reality is that this situation has degrees to it. There can still be people who blindly think the accused committed the crime even if he’s exonerated, found to be not guilty, or even if it was just a rumor that never went to authorities. The presumption of innocence is unfortunately something people don’t always tend to harbor in situations like this because they want to see their own twisted sense of justice be followed through. The way people often talk about rape or sexual assault tend to…
/r/MensRights24/09/18 01:46 PM
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Yea, realistically speaking, all rape accusations (taken to court) should be given the same credence from the onset, which is to say it goes in favor of the accused. If she takes it to a counselor, then she should be trusted, but only knowing the counseling will help her without harming the one she accuses. Only after an investigation is carried out will the truth of the situation be known. The matter of how people treat men and boys accused of this sort of thing is itself already far too much. …
/r/MensRights24/09/18 03:21 AM
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Because no one ever lies or brings harm to people with the use of other tools. What kind of high are they on where they’d tweet this sort of nonsense?
/r/MensRights22/09/18 06:16 PM
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A big reason is because transitioning has become more accepted and well known in the past few decades. I honestly don’t know of a connection between gender dysphoria and biological mutation by synthetic chemicals. I knew a chemist who was well aware of the effects of plastics like BPA on the development of adolescents, but she didn’t really go into any specific details (nor could she, I think). I won’t rule out that this could be a contribution to this trend, but I doubt it plays as much of an i…
/r/MensRights16/09/18 03:58 PM
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Psychiatry is different from Psychology, and the same for Sociology. They’re linked, but not the same. Psychiatry focuses entirely on mental illness and supplying medication for it, so they have to establish guidelines for it, making it a branch of psychology. Psychology is the study of the human brain and its behavior in general. Psychiatry, Sociology, Anthropology, etc. are all branches of Psychology. Either way, PsychologyToday is a separate entity from the APA. Just because they work under a…
/r/MensRights16/09/18 05:03 AM
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I think the American Psychiatric Association is a little different from PsychologyToday. PsychologyToday also has a lot of anti-circumcision articles, though I’ve only really seen them around and haven’t bothered to look much into them.
/r/MensRights15/09/18 10:22 PM
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Oof it’s Candace Owens lol At least we can agree on some things
/r/MensRights09/09/18 07:33 PM
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For a second, I thought this was another one of the subs I subscribed to lol
/r/MensRights06/09/18 06:42 PM
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I don’t know if there’s a law promoting circumcision, but there definitely isn’t one that’s practiced against it.
/r/MensRights06/09/18 06:18 PM
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I think it’s because male prisons tend to be more populated, so they spend more money on space over luxuries. There’s definitely been policies to reduce prison populations, and those appear to favor women from what I know (as sentencing is more often shortened while men are usually just transported to other prisons).
/r/MensRights04/09/18 10:02 PM
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Did you read what he said? He only talks about issues faced by men and boys, but with the reality switched to place it into perspective. He then suggests that because of this, misogynist dystopians are present in fiction likely to forward an agenda (such as The Handmaid’s Tale), or at least that’s what I interpreted.
/r/MensRights03/09/18 11:16 AM
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You may want to speak with a counselor about it. Do you have a school one who you can go see? I’ve had body image issues as well, but I don’t know the severity of yours.
/r/MensRights02/09/18 11:24 PM
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Gee, what a surprise. This is like a G4P guy claiming he was assaulted by the person who was paying him, for crying out loud. I’m open to the idea that some of these people could have been blackmailed or bullied into losing their career (which is really fucked up), but I have yet to hear of those with evidence (and something makes me feel like Weinstein wouldn’t do that).
/r/MensRights20/08/18 01:52 AM
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lol who cares if he’s any of those things. That wasn’t even what was originally seen as a flaw for Biden (something about him liking guns, but I don’t think Bernie even agrees with him on that). Being old is not a surprise for a presidential candidate. Also, isn’t he a jew? There also aren’t a lot of women running, and not all of them are even great options. Was this just some dumb young journalist or someone more important? Edit: Additional wording.
/r/MensRights17/08/18 08:42 PM
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It’s also referred to as the “price of vanity” or “price of higher quality”. There’s a concept called planned obsolescence that is used to determine the value of items based on how long they last. Razors marketed towards women also tend to be crafted to deal with softer skin better, whereas men are more equipped to use the less expensive blades on account of usually having rougher skin. I would say this, along with many other feminist issues, is blatant ignorance of certain factors, especially m…
/r/MensRights15/08/18 10:05 AM
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The feminist narrative is becoming more ingrained in the field of social sciences, so this is unfortunately becoming more common. It’s pretty obvious why those feminist psychologists couldn’t actually help men with their problems, since first they have to get the man to think it’s the fault of his condition (of being a man). CALM even has these obviously sexist terms regarding issues they think men suffer from exclusively, but think of them more as external issues as a result of being a man. It’…
/r/MensRights12/08/18 04:04 PM
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Honestly, I wasn’t even really considering that just because I know of plenty of people who are attracted to those with darker skin. I assumed they meant America because of how common white people are, so those in it are more familiar with them. Wasn’t really thinking of it from an evolutionary psychological perspective, but that is interesting if that’s the case.
/r/MensRights12/08/18 03:47 PM
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lol just wow I’m not into white guys because of “beauty standards” in America. I am into white guys likely due to the fact that most of my crushes have been white guys (I’ve been exposed to many growing up) and that my dad’s side of the family seems to be interested in white people (they’re puerto rican). With how liberal our society is, the only time a person would lie about their interests is if they’re guilted to.
/r/MensRights12/08/18 12:33 AM
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There’s actually been a more recent issue in which males seem to be disappearing from psychology. I think we all know the major cause of this. Alison Tieman (Typhonblue) of HBR also talks about men in psychology and the current issues with psychology in her negative sum game series: https://youtu.be/X3sOS1-hDhw When she talks about CALM, which is a feminist psychological organization, she mentions how the only male psychologist (Tom Golden) got all the male patients since the female staff couldn…
/r/MensRights11/08/18 03:24 PM
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So the term boy is going back to its original definition, it seems...
/r/MensRights08/08/18 11:07 PM
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Technically, it does exist, but it isn’t a result of sexism. It’s a result of many personal choices. It’s very shallow to assume it’s a result of sexism and honestly incredibly disappointing. The Equal Pay Act (I don’t know where you live, so this may not apply, but you might have something similar) makes it illegal to pay people different amounts for the same work publicly based on sex. Besides, if employers could get away with paying women less, they would only hire women. Karen Straughan (and…
/r/MensRights08/08/18 01:02 PM
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The lens you are looking through is incredibly narrow. You are not considering the drawbacks of the freedoms men were given, such as the obligation they had to be given to have those rights. You’re not accounting for the often harsh treatment of boys in many cultures, such as the Ottoman Empire, which forced Caucasian boys to engage in a death march where only about 20% of them survived (as young as eight). I don’t recall all the gladiator fights which men had to participate in, or how the men o…
/r/MensRights04/08/18 04:09 AM
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I think most problems with people are a result of “stupidity”, but that can mean multiple things. Of course they don’t understand the law and such as well, considering how many of them are self-identified communists, or don’t even know about the Equal Pay Act, VAWA, etc. Many also don’t know much about statistics, or look into certain studies that appear to verify their beliefs. Most, of course, are raised in a culture where they see men and women in ways that continue to support feminism, simil…
/r/MensRights28/07/18 10:32 PM
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Fair enough. It isn’t mutually exclusive to have both sentiments, but it unfortunately tends to translate that way nowadays.
/r/MensRights28/07/18 07:11 AM
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MGTOWs usually come from the guys who are not happy with the cultural expectations placed upon men when courting women. Many also tend to be anti-marriage advocates, which I can’t say I blame them based on court biases (women tend to get huge sums of money from their ex-husbands, mothers are often heavily preferred in custody battles, etc.). The reason that one man put that comment about the woman who lied about being raped is due to the ridiculous sentences given to men who are convicted of rap…
/r/MensRights28/07/18 07:00 AM
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I wouldn’t say they’re a minority. Effeminate men in general are a minority. There might be a more significant overlap with homosexual and bisexual men, but I’ve seen enough who didn’t come across as effeminate to think it’s more evenly split (at least, the media makes it seem that way, and can’t really trust that too much). Plus, most can’t tell I’m gay when they meet me.
/r/MensRights28/07/18 05:29 AM
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Men are biologically more inclined to be emotionally reticent. This is more of a biproduct of higher levels of testosterone, and also why men are often not as good with communication skills compared to women. It’s also been observed that boys who get into scuffles sometimes make friends afterward, though this doesn’t typically happen with girls unfortunately. While it is true that there is sometimes an unhealthy attitude expressed during boys’ development, that’s often due to a lack of positive …
/r/MensRights28/07/18 01:35 AM
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So what, being gay automatically means being effeminate? These people really know how to turn others away if this is real. Also, lipstick is a vanity item. To have it symbolize femininity means to be feminine, one must be vain. And yet they talk about toxic masculinity?
/r/MensRights28/07/18 12:09 AM
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He didn’t sue her?
/r/MensRights27/07/18 09:46 PM
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Honestly, I’m not so sure about “inclusivity” because I don’t know exactly what it all entails. It’s so broad the way it’s gone about. Inclusivity of opinion, yes, but certain manners can be unhealthy, regardless of whether the individual is more masculine or feminine. Same goes for diversity, equality, etc. I have my own opinions on this type of stuff, but I generally consider myself more “liberal”. That said, I don’t like r/menslib because it appears to see things through a feminist perspectiv…
/r/MensRights27/07/18 05:38 PM
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Not even really aware of the fourth wave, but the first and second wave are very much iffy. While the rights gained are arguably ones women should arguably have, they all came at the expense of men’s rights. Men always had obligations in addition to rights, of which are still expected, but the authority and even respect have been diminishing over time. Even voting rights were poorly carried out as men being conscripted into war originally had that as their primary justification. Now, while vets …
/r/MensRights26/07/18 10:09 AM
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Ok. Hope he feels good about himself when his kids grow up and have shitty relationships because his son is too afraid of hurting the woman’s feelings to help her and his daughter scares guys away because of her misplaced sense of independence. *Hope it doesn’t turn out that way, but since he used the term “mansplain,” I doubt his ability. Aside from that, I find it funny how he doesn’t point out the age of the kids. An older sibling always helps a younger sibling, regardless of sex. *Edit: addi…
/r/MensRights25/07/18 03:45 PM
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Good to hear, and I’m glad they got involved when they did. As for B, she is a female rugby player, so I imagine she’s at least a bit tougher than the average.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 03:11 PM
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They also completely disregard the fact that a woman is able to manipulate a man into getting her pregnant. A man can certainly trick a woman into getting pregnant, but she can typically terminate it, so it’s not an issue (in areas where abortion is legal). Even if he blackmails her, the law is not enforcing her to do anything. Even discounting the last one, she still has the advantage in the first two.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 03:07 PM
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I’m sorry this happened to you. Hope you’re alright now. Glad that A stepped in because I hate to think what would have happened had she not. It may be best to play on only men’s rugby if the teams really only intervened after A was hit (unaware of how large the field is, so maybe if their distance was shorter they would have). It’s good B didn’t get away with it, at least, but they certainly should not underestimate the damage a woman can do to a man.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 02:59 PM
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First comments I see seem satisfied that she’s being punished for this, though some are still trying to justify her actions. Glad to see there are those who will not stand for murder, even for someone who is accused of committing heinous acts.
/r/MensRights25/07/18 02:31 PM
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Children ideally shouldn’t be raised that way. If they are truly considering transitioning, they will do so on their own. Children should be raised as they are for two reasons: it takes less effort and exhaustion to remain the same; if they do intend to transition, they have a better reason to in the future knowing how they felt during childhood (I’m personally against restricting gender roles, but I don’t think it’s wrong to encourage typical behavior). This confusion, if it leads to them trans…
/r/MensRights23/07/18 08:51 PM
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I think some are trained to support it automatically, making them ideologically driven. However, the ones who prescribe the medicine used for transitioning could get more out of it, even if it's by bribery. The surgeons conducting the appropriate surgeries may also take a part in this (though, some of them would prefer post-pubescent patients so they can perform facial feminization surgery or a double mestectomy). I believe the experimental medicine used on children is a big part of why this is …
/r/MensRights23/07/18 06:00 PM
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While I am someone who believes in gender dysphoria and that a person who experiences it (perhaps to a more severe degree, not as certain about if it's not significant) should be treated by medical transitioning, I feel it is misguided to apply this to minors. There have been plenty of cases of people who have detransitioned completely after having irreversible effects done to them. This is a result of a misdiagnosis of gender dysphoria, with some patients actually having body dismorphic disorde…
/r/MensRights23/07/18 05:54 PM
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That’s utter nonsense. The goal should not be to “denaturalize” heterosexuality, but to justify homosexuality. The arguments for it exist (population stabilization, successor priority, etc.), so why not focus on those instead of trying to make it seem normal? Homosexuality should not and need not be normal. It does not help homosexuals to be lied to, but to be understood and integrated in spite of their condition (which is natural).
/r/MensRights23/07/18 04:13 AM
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When Alison said feminism places men in the role of actors, she didn’t mean this!
/r/MensRights22/07/18 08:48 PM
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For those who want an assessment of The Handmaid’s Tale: https://youtu.be/zjzfQ6rFhHE Keep in mind, Margaret Atwood once said: “Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.” Obviously, statistically, the former is more likely than the latter, and men are more likely to kill other men than women. Anyway, why is this? I’d personally rather not roll back on abortion rights, if that is the implication. After all, less abortion rights means less justificatio…
/r/MensRights22/07/18 08:23 AM
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Due to reduced sensitivity, men who are circumcised tend to be much rougher in bed as a result. Additionally, men who are intact are horny more often and are easier to satisfy. Also, no. It’s definitely not all women because the majority of men in countries outside of muslim majority countries, Israel, and the US are not circumcised. I don’t know about you, but as a gay man, I prefer intact. You say “anteater lookin’ dix”, but circumcised penises look a little dried out (I know because I have on…
/r/MensRights21/07/18 07:30 AM
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What is being ignored here? The definition of rape, or are you implying something else?
/r/MensRights19/07/18 10:47 PM
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Certainly, people often come to love those who are nice to them, but people can also never love those who are consistently nice to them. Why does this happen? I think there is a psychological explanation for that, but since this is just my own assumption, take it with a grain of salt. I believe it is because someone who is consistently nice has the recipient unconsciously perceive two things: this person is hiding the other parts of themselves, and they do not appear to be helping us improve by …
/r/MensRights19/07/18 12:21 AM
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Cassie Jaye is pretty well known, but if you haven’t watched the film, I suggest it. Pretty important in regards to her label.
/r/MensRights18/07/18 05:04 PM
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That’s disgusting. Why shouldn’t adulterers be held accountable?
/r/MensRights17/07/18 07:46 PM
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It is sort of biologically instilled in (what I believe) the average man to have sex with women on an unconscious attraction to signs of fertility, in an effort to also produce offspring of his own. If she sleeps with another man whilst in a relationship with you and you want a kid of your own, that’s highly unethical of her to do, especially considering how this only can happen to men. It’s fine if there are men who don’t care, but I don’t blame the men who leave cheaters. There are absolutely …
/r/MensRights17/07/18 07:43 PM
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Welp, that’s pretty fucked up. Even if he exposed himself, that in no way excuses her crime of stabbing him, not once, but multiple times. He would have been charged anyway, so what the hell?
/r/MensRights16/07/18 03:49 AM
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What did 50 Cent say? Womanists lol It’s not always that they “don’t care” (some are just money grubbing scum, which is bound to happen in anything that can make money), but they don’t have the same perspective. They have a different reasoning for why it comes about (some overlap, but it ends up being pretty different when you don’t subscribe to patriarchy theory or apply “toxic masculinity”), and their solutions don’t always work. I guess I’m not a very active MRA, so not in my case? I can’t im…
/r/MensRights16/07/18 03:43 AM
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Well I’m definitely not lol. Considering the increase in in-attendance and drop out rate for boys, I’d like something to be done (preferably changing things back to the way they were pre-70’s or 80’s, or just making a hybrid between now and then that allows more choice in learning). Children have to be taught to work harder, but if the parent is unaware, that may not work in the boy’s favor. I’m not all that aware of healthcare, but some of it is probably a bit of a scam anyway. The criminal jus…
/r/MensRights15/07/18 11:32 PM
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Is this any surprise? Haven’t they always done this?
/r/MensRights15/07/18 04:54 PM
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What was this exchange from?
/r/MensRights13/07/18 05:23 AM
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Ideally, the pair would have discussed this beforehand if they wanted a child or not. If he wants the kid and she doesn’t, then she has to decide whether she wants to spend nine months to act as a surrogate. Either way, she has the option to abort at any time (which is ideal, since I don’t think I would want someone doing it late term to be responsible for a child any time soon). If she wants the kid and he doesn’t, he shouldn’t have to take care of it when she has the ability to absolve respons…
/r/MensRights13/07/18 02:06 AM
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What was it originally? The “I’m with her” image with that attractive bearded gentlemen?
/r/MensRights13/07/18 01:54 AM
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That’s what porn theaters were for, but now...
/r/MensRights13/07/18 01:52 AM
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lol “sexism,” yea because heterosexual and bisexual men’s sexuality is inherently sexist...against women... While the excitement of the game is one thing, it is not a bad decision for the industry to use provocative images of women to keep their male fanbase interested. This is just a poor decision unless they feel they make enough money already. Also, a lot of the players are pretty hot, so it balances out imo. I’m just wondering if it’s more effective based on if it’s “kid-friendly” or if not …
/r/MensRights12/07/18 08:04 PM
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Did you even read OP’s comment? The sign claims it’s for “gender parity,” but what exactly does that mean? In normal terms, you got it right, but when people usually say this kind of stuff, that’s not what it means. It was put up on International Women’s Day for crying out loud. They act as though women have less than men, and so they put up this nonsense in the guise of something innocuous, despite all the shit feminism has started. Women have been gaining rights without the same degree of resp…
/r/MensRights12/07/18 07:45 PM
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I mean, this post was just a joke anyway, pointing out the hypocrisy in sjw ideology since many are incredibly divisive and femininity-oriented. It’s all about who is perceived to be the most oppressed with them, and conversely, who is perceived to be the least oppressed (or just not at all). Making fun of stuff like this is hardly alt-right; it’s what most anti-sjws do anyway if you’ve ever seen a youtuber who is one (and there’s a lot of them). I suppose this topic might not seem men’s rights …
/r/MensRights11/07/18 11:20 PM
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It’s less about white people being victims and more about sjws who shit on white people and justify it because of racism against non-whites, despite the fact that white people weren’t even treated the same in the past (Irish and Italian men were also treated poorly, to almost the same extent as blacks; of course, with individual cases, a lynched man was a lynched man, and it happened to all of them and likely more that I’m forgetting). While it is true that systematic racism exists for black (me…
/r/MensRights11/07/18 10:54 PM
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The editing should give it away. The last part originally said something along the lines of “but all that matters/is what’s in their hearts”.
/r/MensRights11/07/18 09:49 PM
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Alt-Right agenda? I’m really not seeing it.
/r/MensRights11/07/18 09:45 PM
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The film is called Rug & Tug about some trans man by the name of Dante “Tex” Gill who owned a massage parlor. She doesn’t exactly look like him, though, so I assume the tone is going to be more in the style of what she’s used to.
/r/MensRights11/07/18 09:27 PM
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Honestly, I read this as Men taking paternity leave is THE BEST THING TO HAPPEN...to feminism. The last part leaves a sour taste in my mouth, really. Is this an achievement for the fathers who have not had the ability to be as involved in their children’s lives, or the women they work with? Some of those women might not even be mothers or consider having children, so they’re unaffected by it. While you stated this is a good thing for fathers and their children, it comes across as though this is …
/r/MensRights11/07/18 03:56 PM
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Tbf some people take pictures of themselves for medical reasons, but you can usually tell the intention based on how they position themselves. Though, what about men who take dick pics, or equally provocative photos?
/r/MensRights11/07/18 01:27 PM
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I’m uncertain of if this was intentional, but those two sentiments seem clearly ironic when placed together. Perhaps it’s my knowledge getting in the way. Meanwhile, girls are being raised on a different standard than boys and many are suffering for it, just arguably not to the extent men are for having to often confront it. Used to be seen as different but equal, and even in an attempt to be more blatantly equal, we’re still different in those same terms.
/r/MensRights11/07/18 01:17 PM
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I am not for one minute claiming men are somehow the great oppressed. In many ways it is the patriarchal society that we have created coming back to bite us. Oh please. No man alive today participated in any of that, so even if it was “oppressive” towards women, it is not the fault of the modern men, nor is it any man’s responsibility to correct it. Besides, these women never had to feel that. What the hell makes them think they deserve anything from the alleged suffering of our great mothers? T…
/r/MensRights11/07/18 06:20 AM
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That’s not a surprise. Many women always enjoy being recognized as women. Edit: It’s why some get so picky over male-oriented terms, even though they’ve been considered gender neutral for a very long time, such as his and man in literature. It’s arguably a privilege to not have your pronouns treated that way.
/r/MensRights11/07/18 12:59 AM
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Yea, for the most part. Albeit revoltingly manipulative on the part of many feminists who try to broaden the definition, there are those who are more complacent in it because they don’t really know that much about feminism’s history. There are also those who are active in it, but also know little of what feminism is actually about. They assume the “bad feminists” are just some fringe groups of people—but really, they’re the ones framing public policy, and they have been over the course of the la…
/r/MensRights11/07/18 12:30 AM
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So the solution to the endangerment of women as a result of treating women like children...is to treat men like children? You’re right; I can’t possibly see any issues with that. After all, children never rebel.
/r/MensRights10/07/18 03:51 PM
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Seems a little suspicious, since I think a lot of them are feminists, which can skew one’s perspective, even if only a little (being ignorant of feminism* can also do this, frustratingly enough). Not to mention these are all actors, right? So I’m a little apprehensive for some of them. What was your take from it? *This is to say believing things like “women were oppressed in the past,” and so on, which even some anti-feminists believe. For this case, if women ever had it bad, boys likely had it …
/r/MensRights10/07/18 11:19 AM
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It’s a “gender neutral” way of saying Latino/-a. I’m sure spanish speakers and hispanics totally care about this change.
/r/MensRights10/07/18 10:49 AM
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Well that seems a little retarded lol. Regardless, it might just be for awards?? I don’t pay a much attention to this stuff, so it could influence screening as well afaik, but I’m glad you won’t let it stop you from trying.
/r/MensRights10/07/18 05:04 AM
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Ah the ol’ “First they came...” argument. Might be a slippery slope, but so many westerners are ridiculously complacent. Obesity is only a major issue today because of it, among many other issues. Don’t underestimate people’s willingness to follow instruction. The Milgram experiment wasn’t done for nothing.
/r/MensRights10/07/18 04:58 AM
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Well, it depends. It’s pretty innocuous in most cases, but sometimes it can become too much. I don’t really know the circumstances of your situation, but it shouldn’t be done in excess. Ideally, it should be done for attention initially and then spark a conversation, as opposed to just continuously making comments.
/r/MensRights09/07/18 07:38 PM
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It would be =p I kinda wish men would whistle at me, though ngl. I can understand not being in the mood for it, but some women really take being attractive for granted.
/r/MensRights09/07/18 03:03 PM
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huh maybe that explains why I can’t whistle...
/r/MensRights09/07/18 11:23 AM
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same argument Sorry for not specifying, but 17 year olds are way more likely to be just as or even more mature than some 18 year olds than 15 year olds are. The law is ridiculous to push this as a hard rule rather than realizing some 17 year olds can fucking handle it. It’s different if they’re still unsure of if 18 is even the right age to allow this, but 17 is not nearly as far from it as 15. Claiming I’m using the same argument is ignoring the factor of development. Not everyone is the same o…
/r/MensRights09/07/18 02:10 AM
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It shouldn’t matter, really. Being in something doesn’t necessarily mean you support everything about it. You could have just been observing it, for all they know. Either way, banning someone for just being subscribed to another reddit page is dumb, and says more about that sub than it does about the one it’s accusing of being a “hatereddit”.
/r/MensRights09/07/18 01:53 AM
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Women are major consumers, so that’s part of why they have many commercials of high quality products, since there’s a market for them. Of course, that manifested itself in the pink tax, but that only exists because many women choose the more expensive, higher quality option. Why don’t men do this as well? Because they put their long-term savings over pampering themselves, especially when their income isn’t just theirs (by the law’s standards). For career women, they also are faced with this chal…
/r/MensRights08/07/18 04:42 PM
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Well obviously, and that’s why people support this movement. However, people have so many issues when identifying corruption. It’s why groups like BLM still have a following. We’re not denying that black men people are still disproportionately targeted by police, but we’re not just going to abolish the police or make a big deal about small cases where it being racism could be denied, are we?
/r/MensRights08/07/18 03:47 PM
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When you spoil someone too often, it becomes an expectation. It happens quite a bit with kids, and it’s definitely not good for them when growing into adulthood. This tends to be more the case with men, but in western culture, with women becoming more active in work, it sort of began to wear down. However, with things like affirmative action, it unnecessarily sets the bar lower for women, so it becomes more engrained in our culture as time goes on.
/r/MensRights08/07/18 03:36 PM
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Muslims also practice it, but there’s presumably less of them. Plus there are jews against circumcision, but they aren’t quite as vocal afaik.
/r/MensRights07/07/18 08:20 AM
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I checked it again; wikipedia says it’s closer to 58%, but the video I took it from claims it’s up to 77%: https://youtu.be/3z5OESt3TCg Here’s the link from which it was taken: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/9091693/ I sometimes hear it being at around 66% as well. Either way, I imagine the number is incredibly high. As someone who came from a background of christians, with atheist parents who still decided to have both of their sons undergo the procedure (due to ignorance, naturally), it…
/r/MensRights07/07/18 08:02 AM
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So MGM, Selective Service, Forced Fatherhood, Custody Rights, and the definition of rape. All very good points. 70% of men in America have undergone MGM (30% in Canada, Australia, and the UK, not combined, afaik). Women’s suffrage altered the condition of voting rights for women, but without acknowledging the double standard in conscription, or even the fact that there were women who were in the army (even if not in combat roles). Still, the draft only selects men, which is relatively common in …
/r/MensRights06/07/18 03:19 PM
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15 is a little different, but that does remind me of that case where that dude got sent to jail for having sex with that girl who was either 14 or 15. She consented to it and lied to him. A child’s lie should not result in jailtime for the one who could not have known. 30 years is also absolute nonsense for a crime that was so close to not being one, especially for someone who hasn’t even been alive for as long as he’s being sentenced.
/r/MensRights06/07/18 04:03 AM
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I mean, I said before that I don’t personally care about a 17 year old having sex with a 40 year old. 14 is a bit too much, though. I think the blanket law here is inappropriate, honestly, but I suppose I see where you’re coming from in the sense that he could possibly share the pictures of her. However, sending a 20 year old to jail for 30 years just for some images of a girl who is almost legal is fucking nonsense.
/r/MensRights06/07/18 02:39 AM
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Ok, so he can have sex with her, but cannot take any pictures for later? If you’re just relaying the laws themselves, that’s fine, but I’m worried if you agree with them, considering how absolutely ridiculous this seems.
/r/MensRights06/07/18 12:34 AM
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She was not a child. Here’s two things to consider: he was only twenty at the time, just three years older than her, while she was seventeen. That is bullshit if it’s illegal given the context that she is well over 14 years of age and he is very close to the same. I don’t speak for anyone else here, but personally, I wouldn’t give a shit if he were an old man either. I was 17 two years ago. She knows what she’s getting herself into, and if she didn’t, I can’t be certain she would when she’s olde…
/r/MensRights06/07/18 12:27 AM
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I mean, I don’t really care when it comes to clothes, but hormones are the most basic thing when it comes to being transsexual. If a transperson doesn’t take hormones, how are average people supposed to be able to associate them with that sex? No one said it was going to be easy to live a life like that, but people aren’t really equal in that regard. I honestly feel I’d have to see an example as to what you’re claiming, but I suppose I understand. Usually, when I think of trans activists and con…
/r/MensRights06/07/18 12:11 AM
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Ah ok, so just sjw trans activists. My apologies for misunderstanding.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 11:35 PM
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gender neutral men’s room Why even have something like that? It’s either a gender neutral bathroom or a men’s room. Do they simply not have a men’s room? I don’t think I agree with removing the ftms from the male locker room, though. I honestly think it’s rather petty to do something like that, especially if they look male.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 11:34 PM
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Uh it comes across as disingenuous if there’s no effort put in. I don’t know if I necessarily consider myself “pro-trans,” but what you said is an obvious contradiction. I don’t believe any of that nonsense of sex being a social construct, but I don’t see all transsexuals as being illegitimate. However, it’s pretty obvious that a lot of people who say they are trans are just posers, since it’s essentially become the new goth. There’s also some political motivation involved for a few.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 11:29 PM
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One in three women are victims of violence? Seems oddly high. However, it just sounds like just went a step up from the faulty “1 in 4” statistic that’s already been debunked. Sorry if that’s not what it actually was, I guess? I don’t think any smart person actually believes the numbers correlate in such a way (in regards to “1 in 3 men”). The poster even admitted that it’s probably not that, and instead more of a few men committing these offenses repeatedly. However, 1 in 6 is obviously nowhere…
/r/MensRights04/07/18 05:56 PM
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Damn, they’re fast. 1 in 3 women (presumably everywhere) are victims of “sexual assault”...banking on the normal people to just assume what that’s supposed to mean and think this as true simply because of the effort needed to disprove it. All modern feminism seems to do is rehash old arguments and premises as if they were true and reword them to make them seem worse. Not bad for people who know better, but awful for those who do not.
/r/MensRights04/07/18 04:20 PM
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So the law wasn’t really for it? Apparently, the solution was divorce and criminal prosecution, though it was seen as less effective. Hardly legal, though not recognized as an independent crime. Seems more like a blanket solution to prevent being caught up in a lie. I swear, the law is either all in or all out with shit like this. Regardless, my point about Roosevelt was less about the law and more about public opinion. A woman who is beaten was probably more likely to be given social benefit, w…
/r/MensRights02/07/18 07:46 PM
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I learned more about it from Honey Badger Radio, actually. Specifically this video: https://youtu.be/dWSXMOjBugE However, I’m not exactly sure of how to find the documentation Alison was referring to.
/r/MensRights02/07/18 03:23 PM
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I don’t know who told you that, but it was not legal to beat your wife. Theodore Roosevelt wanted wifebeaters to get the death penalty. Meanwhile, male victims of domestic violence were always humiliated because they were seen as allowing their wife to beat them. Quite the catch 22 if you’re not even allowed to defend yourself against your abuser. A lot of those women probably didn’t care about the right to vote because they saw themselves and their husbands as a single entity. Besides, there we…
/r/MensRights02/07/18 03:12 PM
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Feminism is the reason so many people believe the idea of historical female oppression, despite it being highly inaccurate (you thought they treated women bad, just wait to see what they did to boys). It is not synonymous with women’s rights, as much as people like to think it is. Camille Paglia is one of the true women’s rights supporters, in the sense that she supports women’s freedoms, even with the risk of consequences such as rape (she compares how many women should live more like gay men: …
/r/MensRights02/07/18 02:53 PM
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Benevolent sexism Do they mean spoiling women? I feel “toxic charity” is a better term. It’s done to kids too. You’re not always the center of attention, ladies. So they like being spoiled? I mean, it depends on how it’s seen. Sometimes, it’s patronizing, but other times, it can be nice. Depends on the mood. Edit: Oh wow, they felt it both patronizing and nice simultaneously. I wonder if there’s any other conflicting feelings people experience that are used to shame others. The human mind works …
/r/MensRights01/07/18 10:18 PM
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I could see its potential legitimacy if it was used only in regard to male bullies’ behavior (and even then, it feels inappropriate), but it’s used for various things. I think it has been used to explain why men don’t open up about when they feel negative, as if there isn’t any other reason. Generally, it sounds much more belittling of the man himself rather than the culture that it is supposedly meant to be directed towards. And sorry if the sarcasm wasn’t as obvious in my original statement lo…
/r/MensRights01/07/18 10:13 PM
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Who’s to say she doesn’t like both? I know I do. Also, shave your head, hippie. ;)
/r/MensRights01/07/18 09:42 PM
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you’re seriously hijacking this man’s noble fight against sexual harassment of men and using it to push an agenda Yea, cause “toxic masculinity” isn’t a term used to push an agenda. Also, it’s fine to disagree with a victim. It’s not like he’s trying to deplatform him, or even interrogate him.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 09:39 PM
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This was an arguably more appropriate response compared to what some think when a woman harms a man’s genitals, but I still think imprisonment into rehabilitation is better. Regardless, Africa has its own issues in that regard. Male victims of sexual violence tend to be disregarded, regardless of if the perpetrator was male or female.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 05:19 PM
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Haha maybe I will though, not women, and probably not younger. I’ll look into that diet as well. I normally just eat whatever is at home without much variety.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 03:54 PM
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The only victim of a false accusation is the accused. If you disregard proxy victims (friends, relatives, and especially children), whose suffering is likely not going to be as great as a result (not in the west, anyway), then yes. It will be an accident for the complacent ones who become the accused. The people in control of this know what they’re doing, but not everyone has that luxury and is merely a pawn.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 03:35 PM
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Ok, I’m sorry that is the case, and I’m afraid we’re in the same boat. I assumed you had not been. I guess it’s just my lifestyle for why I’m not as sexually active.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 03:30 PM
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The ultimate victim of a false accusation is the accused. Though it is hard to measure pain, I feel I’d rather be raped than subject to a false accusation knowing how I’m basically living in late 17th century Salem, Massachusetts. These people have no understanding of how much power they’re giving the accuser* (except for those making money and fame off of it, of course), and I doubt a single one of them even understands the importance of the context of that period and how very similar it is to …
/r/MensRights30/06/18 03:09 PM
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I’m not an incel. I’m a young, mixed race gay man lol.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 01:59 PM
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As do I, and for all of the current people caught up in this nonsense simply because they don’t know any better.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 11:54 AM
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Not my first time seeing these images, and I was informed by those posts that it was a man who said that. Some claim he’s a white knight, but in thinking about it, he could just be a poor soul who was brainwashed by the ideals of feminism and revenge tactics (it’s ok if they do it because they’re a part of a group that was oppressed years ago), despite how revenge only sows further revenge.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 11:53 AM
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The one with the name covered in gray is a man.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 11:49 AM
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He’s so far removed from the situation that he doesn’t understand what she put that man through. He has a hard time seeing the perspective on the victim’s end, and so he can say something like this unapologetically. He also fails to understand how the tides would inevitably turn if our history eventually had women being given freedom to harm men, which is why the only real solution is equal opportunity, equal treatment under the law, and equal responsibility. It’s worse knowing that his actual i…
/r/MensRights30/06/18 10:46 AM
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White knight who said that, actually.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 10:42 AM
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I think the kid’s mom is making it hard for this guy to see him, but he isn’t going to let her take him out. He also mentions the other responsibilities he has to deal with on top of what the mother is intentionally not doing for their child. He’s definitely a trooper, but it’s never easy hearing stuff like this where these women think they can be brats because a relationship went sour.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 10:40 AM
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Do they not understand that lying about rape is a massive insult to those who have legitimately been raped? ...what am I saying, of course they don’t, just like how they don’t realize feminism is ironically sexist against women.
/r/MensRights30/06/18 04:54 AM
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Forgot to ask, but have you been circumcised?
/r/MensRights30/06/18 04:48 AM
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If being men is the standard for being human. Men don’t want to see women as men because that means putting them through all of the shit they have to go through, which is hard for some to grasp. However, it isn’t necessarily due to thinking they are incapable, but that they deserve better. I think a more accurate way of phrasing it is that men don’t often view women as adults capable of handling situations the way they do. This mentality has always been in our history, but also because it was bi…
/r/MensRights30/06/18 04:13 AM
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Well, it’s a few different things. Men are biologically inclined to want to help women when they see them suffering. It’s very different from how they see each other, which is why it was so hard for many in the past to see them as complete equals to men, since they didn’t want them to be exposed in that way. The men in the past saw it this way as well, which is why those in control allowed women the vote without the price of conscription. Realistically speaking, there are many options in the mil…
/r/MensRights30/06/18 02:14 AM
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Only unempathic spoiled brats see someone like you as a creep. Even if you give off an odd vibe, the fact that your record is clean should mean something. The “always the quiet ones” mentality is ridiculous since more often than not, a person is going to be innocuous. If that’s her claim, she might have more issues than others realize. I see no reason to distrust you. I’d rather take your word for it for the time being knowing it’ll help you. While committing acts such as molestation is one thin…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 07:59 PM
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That’s disgusting of them to just believe her without even considering you. Do none of these people know what a lie is? She and any of those “witnesses” easily could have been exaggerating, and the fact that these people use you as a scapegoat is unsurprising but shameful nonetheless. Wish I could go there and knock some sense into those people. Hopefully, wherever you are, the college you’re applying to will see the potential of it being a misunderstanding. Have you spoken to your parents about…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 05:20 PM
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Wish I wasn’t knowing I’d enjoy sex more, but it is what it is. There are places which can reattach it (presumably by making a skin graft and then surgically attaching it), such as Foregen, but I don’t have the means to do it for the time being.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 05:12 PM
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Then what is your take on the large amount of adult men being undiagnosed with it?
/r/MensRights29/06/18 11:19 AM
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What do you mean? I wasn’t saying ADHD is no longer real, or even that the medication is ineffective. What I’m saying is too many boys are misdiagnosed with it and inappropriately given medication as a result. The reason the boys show symptoms of it is likely due to a lack of recess and possibly disinterest in the learning material (particularly literature, which tends to be more oriented towards girls). However, many doctors don’t really care about the external factors and would rather just tak…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 11:08 AM
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Evidence clearly shows that putting women in prison could do more harm for good than society, failing to cut the cycle of reoffending and often exacerbating already difficult family circumstances. As someone who wishes for prison reform to better the lives of those who committed lesser offenses, I’m fucking seething. To offer this for women despite having both the biased notion that male criminals are worse and the idea of how many innocent men are jailed makes me sick that these scumbags don’t …
/r/MensRights29/06/18 04:56 AM
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Suicide is a result of one’s own actions, by definition, so it can be prevented accordingly. Knowing this, what could possibly be driving someone to end their own life? I think it’s time to start asking these men that and to see if there are any environmental influences. Blaming masculinity is ridiculous when this clearly wasn’t a problem before, when masculinity was still present (as it has been since before mankind). This reeks of feminist shenanigans.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 04:40 AM
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there’s probably more of them than there are men Actually, according to a statistic that was shown in The Red Pill documentary, the survey showed that men had a higher report of intimate partner violence than women did. I only say this because so many people want to sort of wager that women have it worse, because we should honestly not think like that. I say this due to the lack of support or focus on male victims on the basis that there are too few of them, and with the way some feminists try t…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 02:25 AM
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The problem with the wage gap is that it’s presented as though it’s a problem that women take lower paying jobs. People should be able to make their ow choices and live with them, but feminists want to disrupt that to push women into higher jobs, even if they don’t actually want them. Not only this, but their solution is often to lower the standard for women, which we see with Affirmative Action. Women should not have the standards lowered for them because it undermines the men and women who ear…
/r/MensRights27/06/18 09:33 PM
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I watched a video by Theryn Meyer (another MRA if you haven’t heard of her) about biological differences between boys and girls and how boys have prenatal testosterone, which fuels hyperactivity. Sports programs are really good, but recess is an essential break for them to work off their energy. It’s unstructured, so no one is forced to do more activity or anything. Yea, unfortunately, the DSM tends to change every so often. I think they did something similar in regards to diagnosing gender iden…
/r/MensRights26/06/18 05:10 PM
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I believe so. My best friend from eighth grade told me that many adult men are undiagnosed with ADHD. Christina Hoff Sommers also talks about how a lack of recess contributes to boys being less focused since they have so much energy. Obviously ADHD is real, but the amount of boys who actually have it is much lower than people think it is.
/r/MensRights26/06/18 12:18 PM
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Yea, saying that isn’t really going to convince any of them, considering how often people talk shit about them already. Meanwhile, the women who act just like them (sexist, self-entitled, etc.) don’t get called out nearly as often. As for looking into Men’s Rights, I’d suggest going to CAFE’s website rather than visiting reddit for it, as they’re incredibly more organized (and with reddit, you’re going to have posts like this): https://equalitycanada.com It’s also worth noting that many incels d…
/r/MensRights24/06/18 04:38 PM
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You could just have a higher sex drive, honestly. Working out regularly and having a proper diet contributes to this. I sit around pretty often and don’t work out, so my testosterone levels don’t tend to get a boost. That said, how often do you do it, and how much do you work out in between the periods?
/r/MensRights24/06/18 02:14 PM
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It’s pretty common that it’s more satisfying the longer you go without it. Not to say it’s no longer enjoyable; it’s just more so if you wait. As for sex, in my personal experience, it was that way for a hookup. However, it could have been stage fright, since I (still) am a virgin.
/r/MensRights23/06/18 05:58 PM
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Really? I’m a 19 y/o man and I’ve felt that way before.
/r/MensRights23/06/18 05:09 PM
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It’s less enjoyable the more often it’s done. Everything in moderation, after all. Additionally, if you’re seeking sex with someone, you won’t be as into the sex if you masturbate beforehand, even if it reduces stress.
/r/MensRights23/06/18 04:01 PM
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Incels tend to do both, as far as I know. Really, I’m sure there are plenty of women who feel that way as well. However, I imagine they naturally feel unattractive afterward, and they only do that because it’s easier to deal with when you claim sour grapes. The issue is more that, culturally, people aren’t going to be as likely to tell a woman that she’s wrong when she claims that men are the problem and she isn’t on any level, even in worse cases. To many people, it’s fine if men look bad, but …
/r/MensRights23/06/18 11:21 AM
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Did you read what the poster said? “The bullshit door can swing both ways,” likely meaning it’s not always the case that women get off the hook for crimes, and some men do who probably deserve harsher sentencing.
/r/MensRights23/06/18 11:12 AM
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So I’m pretty sure cuckoldry is more of a bisexual male fantasy, and even then, obviously not all bisexual guys are into being humiliated. I find it hard to understand why a completely heterosexual man would be into some other guy having sex with his girlfriend, unless it’s in line with the concept of a “rape fantasy,” I guess. Either way, it’s too uncommon to promote, especially for straight men.
/r/MensRights21/06/18 07:15 PM
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Yea, she may want to work on that. Her attempt to be more protective of women is arguably misguided, as a girl should be able to handle the situation just as well in that hypothetical you gave. I don’t see what boys magically have that makes them immune to bruising, or that girls are made of glass. There’s not enough difference in the two for the results to be much worse. Besides, women can be predators as well.
/r/MensRights21/06/18 03:50 AM
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Depends on how attractive you are if you’ll be looked at as a sex object or not, really, and even then, some people might simply look at you more as a tool to get something. In terms of objectification, everyone treats other people as objects to some extent, particularly strangers (this is a mechanism used by people to not feel bad about rejection). Yea, in society, but prison? There is no rape culture in normal society, but there is in prison, particularly male prison. She should be ashamed of …
/r/MensRights20/06/18 08:15 PM
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A kiss on the cheek is pretty low in terms of “sexual assault”. I’d mostly chock it up to either being rude or just inappropriate, but I don’t think it’s serious enough to warrant labeling as assault if it only happens once. Touching someone’s hands or shoulders is also pretty low on the list, so it’s really not a big deal, especially as some cultures see it as being friendly. I get her not wanting to be touched, but just tell the guy not to do it. Problem solved.
/r/MensRights20/06/18 04:24 PM
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She’s also denying the possibility that a woman could be upset with it.
/r/MensRights17/06/18 08:48 AM
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Chris Hardwick was always pretty cool. Even when I was a feminist, I still liked him. She probably just isn’t a fan of his comedy. Also, I have no clue who his accuser is, since I wasn’t really following their relationship at all. Perhaps she’s telling the truth, but it could just as easily been motivated by career decisions if she’s that type of person.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 02:03 PM
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Maybe when men become victims the law gets changed very quickly. That’s laughable. Glad people are calling her out.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 01:53 PM
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In the article itself, or have you not looked into the education gap? If not, Christina Hoff Sommers talks about it quite often and even wrote a book about it nearly two decades ago called The War Against Boys.
/r/MensRights16/06/18 04:26 AM
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The Prim Reaper does a very good job at explaining and humanizing the incel community: https://youtu.be/QdPe8OkWmt4 They were rejected by girls and women and began to internalize that feeling. They don’t often have close friends to pull them back and pick them up again. They live life going through standard things and routine, not completely sure of where they should take themselves. As a young man who isolated himself to some degree from his peers, I understand their loneliness somewhat. When y…
/r/MensRights15/06/18 02:38 PM
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Sorry, but I don’t remember living for millennia or ever wronging you as an individual. The only one beating you down is yourself. This woman should really read a credible history book if she wants to preach about activism, and stop blaming all men.
/r/MensRights12/06/18 11:35 PM
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Sexist and racist stereotypes? Is this gonna be preference and kink shaming? Porn is meant to act out a fantasy, regardless of how far from reality it may be. Also, user submitted porn and specific sites have fat and old people on them. Maybe I’m just so removed from this as an American and they actually have like laws against pornstars not fitting certain standards, but then why not just have a site that allows user submissions? Oh right, because then we can’t get on our high horse and literall…
/r/MensRights11/06/18 09:04 PM
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So like mothers who take the role of fathers? Wasn’t there a similar thing for single fathers on mothers’ day, or am I mistaken?
/r/MensRights11/06/18 08:42 PM
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Single and Same Sex couples should not be considered a norm. The nuclear family is still important as the parents, mother and father, are still incredibly significant in the developmental health of a child. For single parents and same sex couples, they have to try a little harder to be as well adjusted, naturally. This is not something to applaud. This is something to be very concerned about and looked into to solve. As a gay man, I know my life might be a little harder with the choices I’m incl…
/r/MensRights06/06/18 09:51 PM
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Well, I wouldn’t say no reason. In trying to silence a group, to associate them with another already infamous and hated group is desirable, regardless of how potentially beneficial the former might be. When being as politically driven as they are, you sort of put all of your enemies in one group, no matter how different they actually may be.
/r/MensRights02/06/18 07:31 PM
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Same sex couples How is father’s day disrespectful to same sex male couples? It only would be to lesbians, and even then, it isn’t disrespectful. To my memory, there was a thing on mothers’ day about dads who took the role of moms, so they could simply do something like that if they want (I don’t remember what it was from, but it was nice). If they want to make a neutral parents’ day or whatever, that’s fine, but if they’re taking away fathers’ day, they have to do the same for mothers’ day (whi…
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/18 10:38 PM
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Sexual repression, presumably. I think that was part of the reason circumcision was being practiced since it reduces men’s sexual sensitivity, because it couldn’t have always been just hygienic. Being against porn and prostitution is in the same vein since it represses sexuality in general.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 12:01 AM
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Honestly, the fact that they need to say feminist over equal rights or women’s rights activist should say enough on its own. It’s a shame people don’t realize that. The suffragists supported more than just women iirc, since they wanted all citizens of the state to be allowed to vote. The suffragettes were the ones who only cared about middle class white women’s suffrage, without regard for men’s responsibility (the draft) or other races and classes. The second wave also spawned a lot of this non…
/r/MensRights24/05/18 02:41 AM
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I wouldn’t say it’s all false, but I do think the reason boys are more often diagnosed and then undiagnosed when becoming adult men is due to schools not allowing for recess to work off their energy. People who are really hyper due to a lot of energy will display symptoms of ADHD, and not allowing boys to participate in recess will cause them to be hyper.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 02:34 AM
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Yea, it’s definitely not as difficult for women in these situations as it is compared to men.
/r/MensRights24/05/18 02:18 AM
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Oh great. Another “journalist” here to make complaints. This is something that she be posted on a forum of some sort, not a news outlet that is trying to make itself seem legitimate. Also, how is it associated with sexism? Is there some scandal I’m unaware of? Because men like it and women don’t? The guys who question your intelligence for not watching it will do so regardless of your gender. Some people do become obsessed with something to an arguably unhealthy degree, and it can happen to anyo…
/r/MensRights24/05/18 02:15 AM
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To be fair, even if she meant what she said, she’s leaving herself to some clear backlash. However, I have interacted with some who were like this, though only through the internet so I wouldn’t really know.
/r/MensRights22/05/18 12:30 PM
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Peterson is very knowledgable when it comes to anthropology. He’s very understanding of human beings (evidently as he’s a clinical psychologist) in addition to other organisms (he mentions how lobsters also have inequality in their culture, but it is neurologically driven). His communication skills are also fairly good, but they often go a bit passed how others think due to how many people apply biased implications to his speech (as a result of giving into “short circuit” or assumption based thi…
/r/MensRights22/05/18 12:25 PM
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I remember when I was still a feminist back in high school and when we were actually talking about abusive relationships in my health class, they presented both male on female and female on male abuse. I had some dumb standards and beliefs back then, but at least I understood a woman could abuse a man and that it is not ok under any circumstance. I’m pretty sure everyone in that class understood that. Also, if touching is involved, it can legally become assault (if intentional and done in a harm…
/r/MensRights22/05/18 02:54 AM
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Fecundity just means fertility. This is the first time I’ve seen this word as well. Not sure how the author expects to get their message across if the vocabulary is like that, but search engines help.
/r/MensRights20/05/18 06:41 PM
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Think of it more as “an object of desire.” The thing is is that everyone who feels sexual interest in someone else will sexualize them. It’s just how it is, and they can’t unteach a biologically driven function. What they can teach is self-discipline, but this is honestly just nonsense because the more revealing and provocative the clothing, the harder it is for the person to not want to look, and this is arguably worse for boys due to their hormonal state being wonky and men investing more sexu…
/r/MensRights20/05/18 06:34 PM
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How does it infringe on someone else’s rights? Feeling comfortable is not right. If a person does not want to risk feeling uncomfortable, then they should stay inside all the time. Once you are in the public sphere and are interacting with other people, you risk feeling discomfort. Harassment is one thing, but a person just making a comment should be taken as just that: a comment. It doesn’t affect you unless you allow it to, and it only becomes harassment when it becomes overt and persistent de…
/r/MensRights20/05/18 06:01 PM
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The body positivity movement is one of the things that has been produced as a result of feminist nonsense. Its entire conception is based around the idea that women deserve to feel good even when they’re actively destroying themselves, of which these spoiled women are already doing so due to entitlement. A good expression of this movement should be that any problem outside of our own control should not be worried about (like being short), while anything within our own control (like being fat) sh…
/r/MensRights20/05/18 12:41 PM
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This is likely because the men’s rights movement tends to focus on men’s issues rather than women’s, which is a given based on the name. Feminism has had the claim of promoting “equal rights,” with the idea that men have no legitimate issues, and if they do, it must be viewed from the feminist perspective, which inherently favors women and bases the standard of behavior on what women think without consideration for the male perspective. We usually don’t talk about women’s issues also because the…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 10:36 PM
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Are they feminists? The original video only refers to them as actors.
/r/MensRights18/05/18 10:27 PM
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It is illegal in my state to avoid signing up for selective service as an eighteen year old boy. I know this because I had to do this only last year. It is the same thing as the draft, but we’re more fortunate due to the higher number of military volunteers and the low demand for ground soldiers due to other methods of war. However, there’s still the possibility that we’ll end up losing all of that or even just the other soldiers, and then guess what happens? Selective services becomes typical c…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 06:01 PM
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Patriarchy ended in many western nations the moment women began being prominent leaders. However, women have always had sway, as is to be expected when they are the other half of the species. Women are often indirect when it comes to stuff like this, and this becomes more apparent when analyzing how girls often bully others (through rumors and gossip). With many decisions that men would have to make, it has pretty much always been a compromise with women, but even if not, the security of women a…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 05:54 PM
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The first part was true about men taking more violent methods for suicide, which I believe has to do with the risk promoting side effect of testosterone. However, that’s only one perspective, whereas the other could be, “I’m at least thankful this man chose to take only his own life when he had the chance to excuse himself by taking the lives of others.” While it is arguably selfish, the default mindset is not the feeling of wanting to blow your fucking brains out, and I find it very telling how…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 04:00 PM
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Let’s just forget how it was men who did most of the hard labor since the conception of our species. Let’s just forget how most of the victims of rape, murder, and crime are men. Let’s just forget all the women who have committed horrible atrocities throughout history. If men didn’t exist, society would be far less stable and things would not be done as effectively, as testosterone boosts both muscle growth and fearlessness. I imagine women being gone would also fuel instability (even if alterna…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 03:49 PM
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Men don’t tend to talk about their emotions like women do, as it isn’t very appealing generally. However, men who do feel emotional like that are more prone to risk taking than women, as evidenced by how much more violent suicide tends to be for men, whereas women often poison themselves. This combined with how many in the social sciences, who are meant to help people with mental issues, have a bias against men and therefore do not handle them properly. It’s already hard enough for many men to b…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 03:33 PM
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Yea, a lack of male role models is very detrimental for children, especially boys. This is very apparent in the black community here, where fathers are often absent, largely because of the god awful war on drugs that was established years back. The punishments are ridiculous, especially since it only happens to drug dealers whilst the doctors who played the gatekeepers to addiction were let off the hook, and an old friend of mine had essentially lost his father due to how fucked up he became ove…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 03:48 AM
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This is probably the biggest problem with feminism. It makes an assertion without evidence and people just accept it as truth. Did anyone stop to think that maybe there’s some justification for this inequality? Evidently, it would appear not, except for those who did not really have the power to stop this madness. Meanwhile, biology, culture and history are constantly throwing it in our faces that they are lying, and yet many don’t even realize it. Humans have had such an awful history of being …
/r/MensRights17/05/18 11:04 AM
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I’m also a gay man, but I have been circumcised on account of the medical industry lacking knowledge on the matter. Even if we don’t have to worry about women in sexual and romantic relationships (aside from particular situations), there’s still very toxic things that affect all men in western culture. People will still have more accusatory attitudes towards us as males, since they wouldn’t be able to immediately identify sexuality. We can also still be accused of sexual assault as well, though …
/r/MensRights17/05/18 09:31 AM
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It actually is more common for men to sort of grow into this attitude of being comfortable and caring towards one another, but they have to be willing to mature first. The concept of toxic masculinity is heavily overused, but it more accurately describes an immature attitude of men and boys whose insecurity manifests through tearing down other people, typically in a direct manner since males are more confrontational. The equivalent in women and girls is more indirect tactics, such as deception a…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 06:54 PM
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It depends, really. This idea in the modern world is translated into male responsibility. This is indeed the case for countries like China, in which boys were more valued under the one child policy due to their responsibility. It’s more of a difference of what is valuable in each one. Women are valuable due to the need for them to produce and care for children as well as take care of the home, and because they would often handle resources when men were unable to. Men are valuable due to their be…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 06:33 PM
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From my understanding, it’s a reflection of biology. Women are more valuable than men biologically because it takes very little time for a man to do his reproductive job, whereas with women it takes about nine months until she’s “done,” and even then there’s the matter of caring for the child. A man with 100 wives will have more children sooner than a woman with 100 husbands, so a woman is worth more from a reproductive perspective. Men are also more physically capable of handling hard tasks (or…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 05:41 PM
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It’s about the sake of history, and as shown by history, the government clearly cares more about women than any male veteran. The controversy is really just in conscription, which in most places is exclusive to males (I think Israel has it for both, but I don’t remember). Conscription originally was justified by suffrage, but now it’s just simple responsibility, because fuck men, right? Well, I guess I should be happy you think he at least deserves good options, even if they are more limited tha…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 08:56 AM
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Actually, feminism has simply been a history of women basically demanding things and then those in power giving it to them, even if it harmed other people in the process. For instance, the suffragettes, who wanted middle class white women to be able to vote, fought against the suffragists, who wanted everyone to be able to vote. Not to mention how feminists basically shat all over veterans by doing this and then forcing the government to put more women in college when it was only accessible by t…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 08:17 AM
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My main issue is the last part. Feminism has pervaded academia and public policy, and so those identifying with the men’s rights movement are largely vilified in many places. A feminist based march is not going to get the same reaction from people as a men’s rights one. If she has the ability to have it terminated late term, I think it’s fair that he be given basically the same deal. I don’t see any potential flaws in this option, especially since it’s fair. It’s not like divorce is ruled out in…
/r/MensRights16/05/18 07:37 AM
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Ad homs are pretty lame, and that’s about all you had to say tbh. I know plenty who don’t fit that description. I do agree with you here. A relationship is an agreement and he should understand that he has to have that conversation with his girlfriend. The equivalent matter to abortion is forced fatherhood, in which men (some of whom are raped by women) are forced to become fathers by the women they have sex with, even though she can terminate it whenever and she also had a choice to have sex. I…
/r/MensRights15/05/18 11:59 PM
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I think they did in Israel, but that’s about it from what I’ve gathered.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 11:32 PM
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I’m not a very social person, so that first one doesn’t really click with me. Either way, I guess I’m fine with not defending the accused; that’s the law’s job, but it really depends. I think it’s important for a person to be compassionate when someone is coming forward to them, but there’s nothing wrong with feeling skeptical of what they are saying (personally, I would want to hear them get everything off of their chest first and console them before addressing my concerns). My main issue is no…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/18 04:03 PM
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You mean neckbeards? They’re in a different category, but they could overlap some, I suppose.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 03:29 PM
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How are they supposed to protect them? That’s partially a biological and cultural condition in which men will have a more significant reaction to a woman being attacked than another man. Also, there’s a considerable amount of female abusers, but unlike male ones, they don’t get punished as harshly and many are just left off the hook, often because their husband decided to fight back. However, he’s the only one who has to take the blame for it because the current policies are basically “women can…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/18 03:25 PM
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What purpose? Things only got worse 50 years ago. Also, a century ago, the suffragists were the ones who won the vote for everyone, whereas the suffragettes only protested (violently, from my understanding) and committed acts of domestic terrorism.
/r/MensRights15/05/18 03:17 PM
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Tell that to the overwhelming amount of men who have been abused. Also, “victim blaming” is an overused term. A person who is the victim of an assault or something is naturally going to feel some level of guilt about it. There are always ways of preventing those situations and it’s often the result of a lack of foresight that can cause these things. The accused is likely to take more responsibility for it, but in some cases, it’s an overreaction.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/18 03:12 PM
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I don’t think so, considering time and time again people have exposed the reality of the wage gap. In addition to this, feminists never talk about the spending gap, of which women have a lot of power in to begin with (wives often have control, coming from someone whose mother controls all of our finances). It doesn’t make sense for this thing to be real when the Equal Pay Act has been around for so long, since we should have women who exposing these companies for discrimination, but it really ha…
/r/MensRights15/05/18 02:36 PM
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I think this is partially due to men being sent to those places, whereas women who commit similar crimes are not (or at least not the same place). My therapist also works with sex offenders and afaik they’re all men. I imagine there are places female sex offenders are sent, but knowing how women who commit those crimes are often not taken as seriously, I wouldn’t be surprised if there were virtually none.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 09:50 PM
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It doesn’t claim to; it’s just that it’s only referring to bad men, without including bad women.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 09:45 PM
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Feminism is fundamentally not pro-men. It claims to be for men’s wishes, but that’s based on their assumption of men rather than reality. Warren Farrel saw this when he did an experiment placing men and women in opposing roles, of which the feminists who supported him were not interested in, which was one of his major red pill moments afaik. Now, I don’t know your views exactly, but I don’t think feminism is what you think it is. I shouldn’t have to be a feminist to be an advocate for humans’ ri…
/r/MensRights14/05/18 04:20 AM
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Just a note since I don’t think anyone else stated this yet, but “cis” refers to sex, not sexuality. Gay and bisexual men don’t seem to be allowed in either. Trans men are, though, as are anyone who claims not to be a man. If I considered going, I’d probably go and just claim I don’t identify as a man, but still use male pronouns. The nature of the event makes me want to avoid it anyway.
/r/MensRights14/05/18 02:39 AM
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As I said before, a lot of them are gay guys. Therefore, they’d be in relationships with other men interested in men. I’m unaware of any drag queens who are in relationships with women, but I didn’t want to ignore the possibility. I know many of them only do it for public appearances, and I assume their personal lives don’t get too much into their stage ones. I guess I only know so much about this because I am gay. Also, I’m sure there are women who wouldn’t mind it, but I don’t know how common …
/r/MensRights12/05/18 02:27 PM
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I mean, it’s crossdressing in a manner to appear as a woman, but it’s often exaggerated for the sake of humor. They’re often effeminate gay men, but either way, they are actors and are therefore still men. It’s not like they just wear that stuff for normal things they do, otherwise a lot of them wouldn’t be in relationships with people attracted to men.
/r/MensRights12/05/18 01:56 AM
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Trans people identify as either the opposite gender or as non-binary (or something arguably made up). Many go through hrt and have certain surgeries due to distress from gender dysphoria. Drag queens are male entertainers who simply don the appearance of a female character. They’re more similar to crossdressers.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 08:01 PM
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I’ve never heard this meme before, honestly lol I imagine that it can be taken as him being gay or just really high maintenance. There’s also the matter of him being able to buy it for himself, since girls typically would invest more in themselves than their partner, especially where hypergamy is concerned. I don’t really see it as abnormal if a guys wants to be trendy and attractive, especially since that has more benefits for social interactions.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 05:08 PM
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I mean, obsessed with clothes is more of a pretty boy thing, but shoes? I’ve known about lots of guys who were into shoes who weren’t gay, so it comes as a surprise to hear people make that assumption.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 02:06 PM
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Who cares if they’re offended? The real world is cruel and they should have a thick skin if they wish to live in it. This is especially true for these people.
/r/MensRights11/05/18 01:59 PM
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Yea, I’m American, and I think my grandparents on both sides are fairly liberal Catholics, while my parents are more secular (my dad is an atheist and my mom is unsure). Afaik all the men in my family are circumcised, and they just did it out of tradition. None of them knew about the process or the side effects, so I don’t blame them for it. My father still doesn’t seem to understand the faulty reasoning behind removing it (or that it can only become infected after forceful retraction). My mothe…
/r/MensRights10/05/18 09:28 PM
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Oh I don’t think they should take his right to free expression, but I do think the part where it claims he is “fully naked” is rather odd lol. I wish most people were smarter than that, but the moment someone claims something to be “racist” or whatever, they try to steer clear of it. If anything, I’d say the way people are taught to treat racism and such as something to be feared rather than understood and challenged is ridiculous (especially since a lot of people try to challenge it anyway, but…
/r/MensRights09/05/18 07:05 PM
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The definition of rape is also pretty faulty imo, as it doesn’t include the possibility of forced ejaculation (or really, anything involving a penis except when it’s penetrating). This is also google, right? Of course they’re largely feminist lol his attitude towards women is patronizing and sexist Doubt they were talking about male feminists, but if the shoe fits...
/r/MensRights09/05/18 12:32 PM
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Well, it wasn’t for my father’s family, which I think was Roman Catholic, but I could be wrong (definitely some type of Christianity). Though, that’s anecdotal; either way, sucks for me. I recall hearing a statistics that over 70% of males in the US are circumcised and like just above 30% of the population (in the US) identifies as Christian of some kind. It’s insane how such a practice became commonplace, honestly.
/r/MensRights09/05/18 12:25 PM
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Seems a little dishonest for him to only be calling out Judaism when it’s practiced in the other two Abrahamic religions as well (most people probably wouldn’t say shit if he mentioned Christianity). As for Foregen, I don’t really blame them for pulling out of being associated with him since their goal is to restore circumcised men, and they would be seen as less attractive if they were labeled “antisemitic”.
/r/MensRights09/05/18 11:01 AM
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If they’re open to criticism of feminism, then I imagine they’re fine with you being an MRA.
/r/MensRights05/05/18 11:34 PM
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Not all media, of course, but definitely a lot of televised news networks. I mostly get my information from online articles and youtube, sometimes watching clips from televised media (that’s usually being made fun of or something). It’s somewhat of an explanation for me as to why my dad buys into their nonsense and I don’t. Just about all of the news he observes is from leftist favored networks, while I’ve been into mostly antifeminist youtube channels (even ones which aren’t explicitly antifemi…
/r/MensRights05/05/18 04:31 PM
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It bothers me, but it is what it is. They’re authoritarians who mostly just don’t know any better, and the media sides with them cause they’re bought. Manipulation of the media allows for these corporate entities to better sell their products cause they know how to appeal. Corrupt just like many in the food industry trying to get people to go on “diet” food just to make them crave more and keep consuming. I think I’m more in the middle, but maybe I can better convince these people as a leftist. …
/r/MensRights05/05/18 08:33 AM
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Wow what a piece of shit. While there is nothing wrong with effeminate men necessarily, it’s disgusting to have a blatant preference like that as a parent rather than simply loving your child for who they are. She is just as bad as any traditionalist parent who places ridiculously high expectations on their kid. I would like to point out that war caused by masculine aggression has killed FAR more people than even the spread of HIV & all other diseases caused by anal sex! This was funny to me. “M…
/r/MensRights04/05/18 11:04 PM
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Oh I wasn’t aware that the clitoris was mostly internal, but that makes sense in regards to female genitalia. Thanks for informing me.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 10:25 PM
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I was talking about the complete removal of the clitoris, but this brings up another point in how circumcision falls under the term of genital mutilation, therefore, it’s all bad. It’s also not unheard of for accidental removal of further tissue beyond simply foreskin in regards to circumcision, such as with David Reimer and probably many others. Generally, this could all be avoided if people just don’t touch them, but traditionalists wouldn’t like that very much (despite backlash from their own…
/r/MensRights04/05/18 09:46 PM
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Maybe if she saw a video of a live circumcision and looked into the long-term effects it has on a person, she wouldn’t feel the need to make this argument. It’s really hard to determine which is worse, because while FGM removes more, circumcision is far more common in a hell of a lot more nations.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 06:21 PM
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Maybe? That’s a shitty excuse to call the cops, honestly. She shouldn’t have been so paranoid. Ofc CNN would bring up the phony Starbucks incident. Idk about those other things they mentioned, but that had nothing to do with race.
/r/MensRights04/05/18 06:14 PM
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If we can define rape beyond PIV (which I have heard people do plenty of times in the past), then a woman can indeed rape a man. Rape is defined as “unlawful sexual intercourse of any sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim.” I think this definition is a little flawed because I think forcing a man to maintain an erection and making him ejaculate is also rape, b…
/r/MensRights03/05/18 11:02 PM
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So essentially, I have to not only go out of my way to find those authors, but I basically have to make sure it’s equal for all parts? What am I supposed to do with the other ones once all the authors run out, burn them?? Also, what kind of millennial owns physical copies of books??
/r/MensRights03/05/18 04:09 AM
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This reminds me of ZoeDoesLife’s video in regards to this whole double standards bullshit. There were a few other antifeminists who covered this topic as well. It’s very cathartic to listen to them, especially when it’s coming from a woman.
/r/MensRights03/05/18 03:55 AM
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Eh, I disagree. I think all opinions should be given voice. That way, we can identify who is probably best to interact with and possibly who is best to debate issues with. We can always try to disprove the ones we disagree with, even if it takes a while for them to just be open to the possibility of being incorrect.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 09:12 PM
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I remember this one. I think Armored Skeptic did a video on it. It’s in reference to the Oedipus Complex that Sigmund Freud talks about. Honestly, I don’t even know how to go about that claim, but I suppose it isn’t necessarily something that must be challenged. The guy also quotes that one feminazi (Andrea Dworkin) who claims “all vaginal sex is rape” or some nonsense. This guy seriously has a few screws loose to quote her and agree with her, but this is an opinion piece, so whatever. He acts a…
/r/MensRights02/05/18 08:58 PM
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Teach women not to use men to buy them free shit. Teach women not to force men into fatherhood. Teach women not to prevent their ex-husbands from seeing their children. While I do think that teaching children about healthy relationships is important, this approach is deluded, condescending, and harmful, as it is placing preemptive blame where it is not needed. Wanting to rape is not a normal desire, and we have biological, social, and institutional barriers to dissuade people from it. Most peopl…
/r/MensRights02/05/18 08:29 PM
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Aren’t there already groups which do this? Why bother with the boy scouts? Of course, the girl scouts will likely remain unaffected.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 07:15 PM
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Of course the male feminist admits to having those feelings. Not because he might want to give data like that, was coerced to, or that’s just his fetish, but because it’s obviously true for 100% of cases, right?? Feminists are such liars. While males and females are different, we are still more similar as human beings than we are different. Both men and women can become corrupt when having more power, hence why great power comes great responsibility. Changing male leaders to females is not going…
/r/MensRights02/05/18 04:47 PM
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False alarm, OP. It’s actually “hetetosexual” men, not heterosexuals... I love how women having children with men and then raising the children and building up the house is slavery for the women, but somehow doesn’t apply for the man who is likely working in very poor conditions just to care for his “slave” and the children. Oh, I guess it’s only cause these women are pretending to be heterosexual. Yea, because there definitely hasn’t been hundreds of cases of men suppressing their sexuality for…
/r/MensRights02/05/18 08:15 AM
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I apologize for not realizing there was a second half. So she didn’t want to take the risk of childbirth and had to travel out of Ireland because abortion is illegal. However, it does permit abortion if child birth is highly likely to be life threatening to the woman, so she could have waited. Otherwise, she did have to go to England as, according to Marie Stopes UK, that’s commonly what happens. I live in America, so I didn’t even know this is how abortion was handled in Ireland. Makes me wonde…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 06:59 PM
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I thought the alt right was about white nationalism? It’s even funnier because those terms (toxic masculinity and feminism) switched are the reality. Feminists don’t even seem to know what toxic masculinity is. Christina Hoff Sommers has used the term “pathological masculinity” to describe traits of men and boys where they target and bully people (usually other men and boys) in a direct manner, but this is viewed as a sign that they aren’t stable and should receive help. The issue is that femini…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 06:19 PM
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These arguments are all done on the basis of collectivist thinking. Should we, as human beings, all be held responsible for the atrocities in the past? Or should we hold the individuals who started those atrocities accountable? I do think we have some responsibility in preventing this situation from reoccurring (“those who do not learn history are doomed to repeat it”), but we shouldn’t forget who started it and who suffered as a result. I imagine all of those young men who were literally blown …
/r/MensRights01/05/18 05:21 PM
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My main question is: why did she try to have an abortion when she could have simply waited to have the baby? Doctors who recognize the health risks of a childbirth should prioritize the woman’s life over the child’s, from my understanding. Did she live someplace where these health risks were recognized, but that they’d put her life at risk regardless for the sake of the child? Would she get backlash for giving the child up for adoption if she has it? It’d have to be pretty socially conservative,…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 04:51 PM
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I still think women should have agency, even if many of those women do not see how they have been robbing men of theirs. I’d prefer to just open their eyes to understanding the plight of many men who consented to sex but not children or didn’t even consent to sex and still had to pay for children. They just have to understand that it is patronizing to give women more choices and appalling to not treat male victims seriously.
/r/MensRights01/05/18 04:16 PM
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How is this propaganda? I don’t understand what you mean by your comment.
/r/MensRights01/05/18 12:48 PM
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On this subreddit? There was a post not too long ago about outlawing rape or whatever that implied he ruling only went towards women and girls, not men and boys. Afaik Indian men can be sexually assaulted by women legally. Edit: Responding to your post at large, I do not believe feminism has only recently been bad and that women are oppressed in those countries. Women might be oppressed in those countries, but if that’s the case, so are many men with them. Feminism’s roots were pretty bad when y…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 12:39 PM
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I think this is what the average person in the west might believe, but Idk about the average MRA. I suggest anyone take a look at Karen Straughan’s videos or HoneyBadgerRadio if they honestly still believe this.
/r/MensRights01/05/18 12:37 PM
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What about young men who go to university to get a good education to provide for their family? What about white collar workers who help solidify the foundation of your country? What about off duty policemen who need help defending themselves? This policy is ludicrous and makes it seem like the police are incredibly incompetent if they can’t be bothered to help english speaking men, especially young men. The police are intended to protect every citizen without prejudice of any kind. Can you imagi…
/r/MensRights01/05/18 12:27 AM
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Yea, fine now. Wasn’t very fine as a baby when they don’t give you any anesthetics, but it’s alright since we can’t remember, right? It’s rather disheartening knowing that sex will only be about half as enjoyable now (well, in regards to my genitals, that is). People should really start asking themselves what exactly the point is of circumcision, because we know there virtually is none considering the overwhelming insignificance of genital problems related to foreskin.
/r/MensRights30/04/18 09:42 AM
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I like how she just projects her entire experience as an individual onto a collective that she happens to be a part of. Like, she could just apply the same arbitrary standards due to her being a brunette or some other nonsense. If she understood anything about sexual dimorphism, she would know that men and women complement one another and therefore they’d be attracted to one another more typically. If anything, she’s a defective woman, and thanks to society now, that’s more acceptable. However, …
/r/MensRights29/04/18 06:52 AM
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It isn’t that it’s ok. They are still punished because they committed an egregious act, but they still have to serve their time for the act. Life-term sentences are strange to me, but if they make them do something productive, then I suppose it isn’t pointless. Of course, their main focus would probably be to escape, but they can simply be sent to a maximum security prison for this. The only issue then is keeping them alive, but of course they can just pay that off with their labor (that would h…
/r/MensRights29/04/18 02:39 AM
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Toxic masculinity, or pathological masculinity, is behavior in which a boy harasses or possibly attacks others he sees as being weaker or inferior. This is due to his insecurities, and can be a signal that he is not adjusting well, likely due to a poor environment. This behavior is seen in male bullies, who tend to be confrontational and direct. This is something that only tends to be experienced by men who are distressed and not mature or insightful enough to handle their situation (by seeking …
/r/MensRights29/04/18 12:36 AM
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‘Whataboutery’ comes from a place of maturity. ftfy god forbid someone understand that not everything is about themselves
/r/MensRights28/04/18 07:58 PM
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You come across as far too black and white about this issue. Sympathy for “evil”?? These are other human beings we are talking about. They can be sociopaths, psychopaths, sadists, etc. but, independent of those factors, they can be victims themselves who could not see other options because they couldn’t see them. People can become monsters as a result of a poor environment, but I think it’s shortsighted to think they can’t change. You seem to be disregarding the possibility of this and that is w…
/r/MensRights27/04/18 09:42 PM
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The issue here is that the death penalty for a murder is an eye for an eye punishment, which I’m completely against. The state should not follow such a line of thinking, especially considering the different degrees of murder (I’m assuming manslaughter is fine since it’s not technically murder?). Murderers often have other issues that we have to take into account, and so we should try to understand them at the very least to know how to possibly prevent it again depending on what circumstances cau…
/r/MensRights27/04/18 06:07 PM
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Well, let’s see. There’s the normalizing of girls’ behavior over boys’ in school, especially how they misdiagnose a lot of young boys with ADHD and put them on medication that they shouldn’t need because they’re young boys. Girl behavior is the standard. That’s probably the biggest contributor, in addition to intersectional feminism which infantilizes everyone it reaches who isn’t willing to denounce it. This nonsense is what’s really afflicting us, and Christina Hoff Sommers warned us about it …
/r/MensRights27/04/18 09:33 AM
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It depends on the circumstances of the murder, really. Not everyone kills for the same reason, and for that, we have to give some benefit to murderers. I’m less forgiving of people who induce torture on others simply for the fact that they put their victim through worse pain. Regardless, the punishment should fit the crime and America is sometimes a bit too jail happy. This mixed with the fact that our prison system should be rehabilitating people to show them the value of life and the error of …
/r/MensRights27/04/18 09:13 AM
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I’m a liberal who is against feminism, even if I might be considered an “outcast” due to this. I recently started listening more to Karen Straughan and Alison Tieman, and much of what those two have to say is the reason I’m antifeminist and an MRA. They point out how even the original feminists, the Suffragettes, were mostly comprised of incredibly entitled middle class white women. Giving these women suffrage during 1920 was a great offense, as WW1 just concluded about two years before, in whic…
/r/MensRights26/04/18 03:12 PM
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Isn’t that also due to Japan’s imprisonment culture? They have a pretty high conviction rate as it is iirc, so this didn’t surprise me as much. Either way, they’d still have to add cameras since I doubt there are no cases of same sex groping.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:42 PM
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lmao you mean when they had a serious discussion on cuckoldry? I forgot about that. He’d probably just brush it off thinking it’s a little odd, but that they’re being open-minded about something, so Idk (if it doesn’t involve minors, then whatever). I wouldn’t be sure as gay and trans men tend to be more accepted by these types of people unless they really hate men. They do crucify people who aren’t about what they are, but yea. I imagine some transmen do commit suicide because they don’t experi…
/r/MensRights26/04/18 03:56 AM
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I learned about Incels through ThyNameIsSkepticism and MGTOWs through ArmoredSkeptic. While I did see some MGTOWs who seemed somewhat misogynistic, it was during a time when I didn’t know much about it, and I really can’t fault them with the knowledge I have now. Incels are largely just guys who have deemed themselves as being too unattractive, for whatever reason, and so they keep to their small circles online. Incels are clearly misogynistic and many are psychopaths to some degree as a result …
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:12 AM
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Well, I’m gay and not completely white (though, I mostly am). Though, it does depend on the area where you’re coming from, as majority black places may discriminate against whites (not guaranteed, but a possibility). I’ve more recently been somewhat coming out with these beliefs, and my dad just sort of laughed off my criticism of feminism as being “woman-hating” or some nonsense. He didn’t really get into it, but he watches mainstream media, so I’m not surprised if CNN has him thinking more rad…
/r/MensRights26/04/18 02:00 AM
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No thank you lol. I’m perfectly fine with the way it is now. Though, I heard Iran has toned down in recent years. I mean, they’d still have roles of their own, I imagine. Gender pronouns don’t necessarily have to exist anyway, but it would be surprising if they didn’t even have terms to describe the roles themselves.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 01:12 AM
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Ah right. I didn’t forget about the woman who almost murdered Warhol, but the comparison didn’t even come to me. Thanks for pointing it out. I actually learned about Valerie Solanas back when I still identified as a feminist and just wrote her off as a radfem. Sad to see how just about every feminist now is radical. At least Sommers, Ali, Paglia, and a few others are still critical of it, but it sucks they’re largely written off by most feminists.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:09 PM
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Well, kind of. The primary issue is the lack of challenging one’s own beliefs and the manipulation that can occur. However, this can happen with any person who is too righteous and any organization that is deemed to be above criticism. Any belief can become radical and justify extremism. We know this based on the horrible implementations of communism by dictators, many of whom were against religious practices (but did have others revere them as a god). I’m an (agnostic) atheist myself, but I thi…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:34 PM
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Apparently, we used to be called wereman and wifman instead of man and woman, making mankind more obviously unisex. I think it’s only cause men would be regarded as a single unit more often (likely due to militias) that it became more popular for men to have the shorter term, though just about every male pronoun can be applied to a female as well. Feminists are too triggered by the term history to know that, though.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:25 PM
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I don’t really have strong ties to either, honestly. I’m also a gay male, and I used to be a feminist. However, that was back in high school when I was more gullible. I’m 19 now and have been challenging my beliefs more for the past few years, allowing myself to get a better handle of these issues. I personally still identify as liberal, but I think people can have very different perspectives in regards to certain issues. I see the left vs right as being simply a difference of priorities, withou…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 08:07 PM
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I was talking about women’s suffrage, specifically middle class white women’s suffrage. Not long before, they had determined conscription of men was justified through suffrage and that basically women were “too good” to be drafted (there were still women in the military, but only cause they volunteered). I’m still not sure if they’ve justified conscription or not, since it still exists. Either way, the suffragettes fought against the suffragists, who wanted everyone to be granted suffrage (inclu…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:53 PM
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Actually, that’s due to toxic femininity. Feminists aren’t wrong when they acknowledge toxic masculinity; they merely have an issue applying it and don’t acknowledge the other side. In school, male bullies will target people they deem as “inferior,” and will confront them directly to intimidate and possibly physically assault their victim. Female bullies, however, are much more insidious. They’ll use indirect methods of bullying, such as spreading rumors, verbal intimidation, etc. It may have so…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:03 PM
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She shouldn’t be allowed to bring her politics into the classroom. Even still, there’s no way she would be allowed to discriminate against you. Maybe you can talk to some other faculty about feeling uncomfortable about how she addresses you or file a complaint of some kind? If it was me, I’d probably bluntly call her a liar and tell her she should teach at an all girls school if she’s going to have that misandrist attitude.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 09:29 AM
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Realistically, women are people too, so it’d likely be just as shit as it is now if run by women. Then again, it makes me wonder what they could mean. Women had control over children and, to some extent, their husbands, in addition to having cliques among other women in the past. Hell, you’d think people would take a hint from the Salem Witch Trials that girls could make some serious accusations against other people and be believed, but I guess all those people died brutally for nothing...
/r/MensRights25/04/18 07:57 AM
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Thing is, that crazy woman I heard talking about male preservations or w/e was not the only one I heard saying nonsense like that. Besides, feminism lays out pretty clear terms. It continuously blames everything on men, despite the fact that this “patriarchy” has sided with feminists for nearly a century now (since at least 1920). The whole privilege idea has been used to justify genocide in the past, including that of the Holocaust and the Rwandan Genocide. I listen to male feminists and they’r…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 05:55 AM
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Very dishonest article with some degree of truth. The real issue is the criminal justice system and the prison system in general, which is very corrupt and doesn’t properly punish and rehabilitate people. There’s still stupid stuff in regards to drug related crime, and placing someone who merely pirated something in a hostile environment like that with murderers who take others’ lives with little regard is just irresponsible. If we can’t even take care of the lowest of the low of our citizens, w…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 04:39 AM
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This is what they’ve always been doing and it’s so disgusting and dishonest. This clearly shows how feminism pervades our culture when the men’s rights movement can be so easily conflated with inceldom to these people. Anyone who knows about incels and antifeminism to some degree know that chads and male feminists are two very distinct things. Inceldom is basically just radical feminism, but switched around. I recall a post about this one incel talking about how women should be basically auction…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 03:58 AM
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Feminism condones the career destruction of heretics, though, so to act as though they wouldn’t have similar attitudes (if feminism was the main ideology in a place with a low human rights standard) just cause one is arguably more male oriented is silly. Plus, there are plenty of women who follow Christianity who are against homosexuality, and there’s still a stigma against bisexual men that’s largely propagated by heterosexual women (not all, but more than with bisexual women and heterosexual m…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 03:37 AM
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Well, liberal Islam in general is a very different matter compared to the literalist version. Just about all western muslims adopt some degree of ideas that are based around Islam, but aren’t often as radical, and if they are, not directly discriminatory or at least not unfair. The middle east has a low standard for human rights in general, especially taking into consideration how boys will sell themselves as sex workers to make money for their family if they do not have a father. The father is …
/r/MensRights25/04/18 03:31 AM
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Well, no surprise here. This is the same news network that called the Drunken Peasants an “obscure rightwing podcast,” yes? They love painting MRAs as being extremists and misogynists because it promotes the feminist agenda that’s ingrained into our culture. I can’t stand how my dad still defends it even though he’s skeptical of other things (which is strange, because he knows how my mom acts and shrugs it off quite a bit, but can’t see how feminism doesn’t even follow his same thought process).…
/r/MensRights24/04/18 04:32 PM
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