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ConversationAltec5499/r/seduction05/03/22 03:18 PM
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If you’re open to approaching more then go for it. In person tends to stick more. If you’re decent looking and charismatic you’ll do great. You’re probably not setting up one date a day at first. However, after some practice you could get close if you live in a large city. It’ll become a fun game. Much more amusing than an app
/r/seduction24/07/26 06:59 PM
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Leave 15 minutes earlier than usual and pop into some cafes around your area and then head to work. Start out with 1 a day and build your confidence. If you can hurdle the beginning and overcome the initial anxiety, you’ll never go on a dating app again.
/r/seduction24/07/26 06:20 PM
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Plenty of opportunity to approach women.. to and from work.
/r/seduction24/07/26 06:09 PM
2

How do you travel to work
/r/seduction24/07/26 05:56 PM
1

Damn lmfao
/r/seduction25/06/25 05:09 AM
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Not true. Not every woman is a one size fits all. Delays, immediate texts, random spurts, it’s random. The best method I had was to only text to set up plans. You’re a busy dude who has shit going on. Falling into the trap of texting all day with a girl is suicide. When I initially started talking with my current girlfriend, she would go quiet for days at a time. Not a big texter. Still to this day she isn’t a fan. If you date enough you’ll eventually learn how to let go of the outcome for each …
/r/seduction25/02/25 01:56 AM
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I understand what you’re saying. There’s more to it than that however. If you ask them for help they should be pushing you outside of your comfort zone and constantly critiquing every interaction in order to make improvements along your journey. It won’t be pretty in the beginning. It’s going to suck. Swallow your pride and go through the process. It’ll be worth it. If you don’t feel like they are being good mentors, seek out outside help. A good mentor is worth a million bucks. You can save so …
/r/seduction24/02/25 02:14 AM
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You don’t need to tell them that. What you need to do is shadow them. Watch how they move, speak, etc.. you need to mold yourself into who they are. You do this by asking for help and allowing them to mentor you. They don’t need to know if you’re a virgin. Plenty of guys are dogshit with women and aren’t virgins. Leave the word at your doorstep.
/r/seduction24/02/25 01:19 AM
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Do you have any friends that are good with women?
/r/seduction23/02/25 11:56 PM
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Not here to judge.. just curious because it relates to your problem. How many dates have you been on?
/r/seduction11/02/25 03:41 AM
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I’d suggest saying that you want to grab their number so you can hangout sometime. Be intentional without giving them validation and or neediness. There’s beautiful women all around us. You need to give them the idea that you’re looking for more than just their looks. This situation is difficult to frame online… easier to express in person
/r/seduction24/01/25 12:45 AM
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It’s a shit test. She’s trying to see if you’ll try and qualify yourself. The more you try and sell yourself.. the deeper hole you dig. You’ll be placed into a box like every other guy who has approached her and she’ll despise you. You say you ghost them after they ask you this.. what have been your actual replies to “why?”
/r/seduction23/01/25 11:50 PM
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He’s definitely saying he’s slept with 700 girls. “Been with” implies sex. Definitely doesn’t mean the number of dates he’s been on or the number of women he’s communicated with.. that would be extremely odd behavior to count such things.
/r/seduction09/01/25 05:23 AM
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2 days is too soon. 2 weeks and then re engage with your kidnapped line
/r/seduction09/01/25 05:14 AM
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To earn 10 points of credibility.. explain how a man gets better at attracting women.
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:55 PM
0

Ahh epimps burner account. Welcome to the chat
/r/seduction03/01/25 06:29 PM
7

Your comments attempt to display that you understand how a woman’s mind works. Every individual is different. For you to place all women into a box and say “A woman will respond and or act like this” shows that you lack experience.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:14 PM
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The problem is you’re stuck in your head and you’re unable to let go. Start talking to everyone.. forget women you’re not ready yet. The goal is to warm yourself up to eventually talking to someone you think is attractive. Start small and approach people for directions, questions about your environment, etc.. eventually you’ll realize that the hot girl across the room is just like everyone else and you’ll have something to say
/r/seduction14/12/24 03:27 PM
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There’s normal people on both sides of the coin. There’s a right and wrong way of going about it on both ends. People limit themselves based on their environment… they are strangers, who cares. Just walk up and say hello
/r/seduction17/11/24 12:16 AM
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I’m pushing back here… you’re at the club too yes? Pretty hypocritical to say all women at clubs are bad quality… Might as well tie yourself in as well. Women want to have fun. If you’re doing everything right when it comes to attracting a woman, she will chase you. Excessive partying will become an event of the past when she meets a competent human being. Anyone who says otherwise did not effectively execute this.
/r/seduction17/11/24 12:11 AM
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First off, you shouldn’t be seeking attention like this. It’s feminine energy that will lead you into chasing women for validation. Your focus should be on yourself. Work on being more charismatic, competent, and masculine. Eventually, if you’re playing the game correctly women will eventually gravitate towards you based on how you act around them. Do not seek validation, it will blow up on you
/r/seduction13/11/24 09:20 PM
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The skills that are needed to be successful in the dating world most definitely impact your ego. People will tell you to just be yourself and someone will eventually come into your life. Bullshit. You need to go into a complete transition to overcome a dating plateau. With this journey, you will obtain skills that will effectively change your thought processes and alter your ego. It’s necessary to grow as a human. I Learned so much about myself after I committed myself to stop being a pussy and …
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:57 PM
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You said you don’t talk to women to obtain skills. It’s directly related. You’re chasing skills in order to obtain a plethora of women. It’s self improvement.
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:39 PM
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Would you agree that confidence is a skill?
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:07 PM
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Definitely true
/r/seduction03/09/24 05:01 PM
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The amount of dog shit advice that people have posted is astounding
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:11 AM
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It’s essential. If you’re not challenging yourself everyday, you’re wasting your time. Good luck homie
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:06 PM
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Finding new hobbies that scare the shit out of me, stepping up in public when everyone else stays passive, changing careers, etc… I found a ton of growth internally when I put myself on the spot in front of a stranger. Now I’m trying to challenge myself everyday to get that same feeling. It’s not the same but it can be close sometimes.
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:00 PM
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Create lists with each girls info. Before each date, scan the list and execute the date. It definitely takes work. Try and limit the number of plates. Anything past 5 can be tiring… limit the texting to help yourself out
/r/seduction02/06/24 02:51 PM
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You can consume free content online and then apply it to your approaches but make sure it’s an individual who is reputable. My recommendation is a guy named Marc Sing. He has a podcast called “the unapologetic male podcast” that is free along with YouTube videos. I will stand by what he says, it’s simple and extremely effective.
/r/seduction02/06/24 05:18 AM
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You need to find a reputable mentor to guide you on what to do first. No one is naturally good at approaching. It’s a learned skill. 10 approaches a week for 52 weeks will put you into an experienced position. However, everyone is different with how they progress based on their determination and work ethic. I’m out of the game now but at my peak my ratio was around 50%
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:54 PM
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You spin plates
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:45 PM
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I truly just desired putting myself on the spot and lighting a match. I didn’t even necessarily care if the approach went anywhere after the first date. I felt a great amount of power with every yes I would get. So fucking addicting. I almost went into sales because of this mindset but I’m trying to light myself on fire in different ways in my current career. This is how I can curb the addiction but it still doesn’t quite cut it. Approaching a group of women is the ultimate test to your self con…
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:43 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction31/05/24 11:01 PM
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I feel the same way about this. Even being out of the game for 2 years after meeting my girlfriend, I think about it everyday. Fortunately, I’ve been able to compartmentalize it. The rollercoaster is fun but as I’ve matured I’ve realized that I can use the adrenaline dump that I would get with women and push it into other areas in my life. Because of this, I’m not a slave to the game, but a player who has moved on to the next mission.
/r/seduction31/05/24 09:25 PM
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A lot of people are giving advice on how to approach the girl you’re interested in. The thing is… you don’t want to approach the girl you like in the group of girls. It’s best to approach the girl that appears to be the “leader”. I mean this with as much respect as possible but the leader amongst a group of women is usually the most unattractive girl in the bunch. Just like men, girls have a hierarchy amongst their group. So.. how do you do this? To inject yourself into the group, you approach a…
/r/seduction25/05/24 09:09 PM
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No
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:57 PM
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This is the answer
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:57 PM
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Start out by giving compliments to random people and then walk away. Inject and eject… do this approximately 50 times or until you’re comfortable with it while you’re sober. Next, move into striking up random conversations with everyone, not just women. You want to build your mind up to a cold approach if you have a lot of anxiety. Like easing an old lady into a hot bath. Eventually your confidence will grow and you can directly approach women. Tried and tested.
/r/seduction14/05/24 11:50 PM
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Very true. Emotional intelligence definitely plays a big part also
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:05 PM
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Being passive is not necessarily bad. It all depends on the situation. However, when a man falls too far on the spectrum it can become an exhausting issue. In the dating world- men need to be more assertive (masculine trait) and women need to be more passive (feminine trait). It’s one way or the other. You cannot both be assertive and or passive. Why? Because two individuals who are assertive will constantly fight each other in order to achieve the dominant role. Both parties cannot be passive e…
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:41 PM
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Yes. That’s exactly what they are doing. Women are picking up what men are lacking and they are miserable because of it. It’s a mentality reversal that goes against our biology.
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:02 PM
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If you’re talking about American men. Then no. Most need alcohol to grow a pair of nuts
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:50 PM
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One most definitely caused the other. There is a laundry list of reasons why. The patriarchy is only a small fraction of the problem. Question- are you attracted to men that are passive or men that are assertive? Given that you’re assertive
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:39 PM
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Obviously a joke
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:23 PM
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Most women assume a more assertive role because the modern day man is extremely passive. It goes further than a lot of people like to believe. It’s a survival mechanism
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:20 PM
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Why do you think they are?
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:17 PM
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Stop going on dating apps. Problem solved.
/r/seduction24/04/24 11:06 PM
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What you’re saying is not necessarily correct. All of those statements are putting the girl on a pedestal. The idea in all of this is to apply the correct attraction triggers so that you can flip the script. Essentially you want the girl to be saying these things to you, not the other way around.
/r/seduction23/04/24 08:23 PM
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So then by that reasoning. Everyone who has “status” is not necessarily confident with women. Why? Because everyone has insecurities… regardless of their social status.
/r/seduction23/04/24 02:15 AM
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So you believe people who become famous are immune to insecurities? Just because they are around other people who are “confident”? Politely…You’re wrong
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:45 AM
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I understand what you’re saying. However, if I get famous for being the best football player in the NFL… I will be confident.. on the field. This doesn’t necessarily translate to women. There are a plethora of people who have “status” but are insecure when it comes to dating. There are layers to self confidence.
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:18 AM
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So you’re saying…having looks, status, and no confidence is the recipe for success?
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:17 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction31/03/24 04:37 PM
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You don’t need a line. Just say hello and ask them what their name is.
/r/seduction27/03/24 11:22 AM
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His podcast and “the unapologetic male podcast”. Epic finds
/r/seduction26/03/24 10:55 PM
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I appreciate the effort you’ve put into your replies However, Comfort = building rapport, not breaking it. This is why everyone is confused and or misled by your post. Stop telling people to go back and re read. What you’re saying isn’t correct. Your idea on what comfort is.. is confused for other parts of seduction.
/r/seduction20/03/24 03:55 PM
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No it doesn’t. When you’re breaking rapport, you’re not creating comfort. Comfort involves building rapport with an individual. You need to reevaluate the information that you’re pushing on people
/r/seduction20/03/24 03:07 PM
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Banter has nothing to do with comfort. You’re mixing topics that don’t correlate. Before posting this, you should have collected your thoughts better. You’re headed in the right direction though
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:32 PM
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Breaking rapport is more important than building it. Too much comfort and rapport on a date will lead to you being looked at as a friend. Maybe your philosophy has worked for you, but it’s definitely not a one size fits all strategy
/r/seduction20/03/24 11:44 AM
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Good post man.
/r/seduction16/03/24 01:10 PM
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Where are you having your initial dates?
/r/seduction16/03/24 01:02 PM
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If you lead your relationship correctly, the woman you’re seeing will follow. So yes, if the relationship fails, it’s the man’s fault. A tough pill to swallow. I accept so much blame for my previous relationships. You might think that this isn’t right… but it’s the truth. Due to my lack of experience, I hired a reputable relationship mentor who opened my eyes to everything. More men need to seek help. It will prevent so much wasted time and heartbreak.
/r/seduction16/03/24 12:45 AM
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There are real life relationships that can prove my point. They are successful relationships because the man understands competency and is still able to spark arousal for the long term Yes, marriage is a form of commitment that can change the dynamic of the relationship.. However, it is up to you as a man to lead and set the tone. It is 100% your fault if you bring someone into your life and let them walk all over you. There is risk all around us in life. Marriage definitely falls into this cate…
/r/seduction15/03/24 11:41 PM
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Not true. It doesn’t matter what stage of a relationship you’re in. The beginning, or all the way to marriage. You can have a successful relationship if you don’t allow yourself to become a pushover. This means… the person you’re married to, dating, etc… understands that you won’t deal with bullshit and you will walk if necessary. This will keep your partner in check at all times.. this applies to both sides of the coin.
/r/seduction15/03/24 03:17 PM
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Lmaoo
/r/seduction13/03/24 11:48 PM
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That’s not how life works. Stop giving predatory advice. He can get laid without doing creepy shit at bar close.
/r/seduction13/03/24 11:32 PM
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He’s explaining his situation. Doesn’t necessarily mean he’s just trying to fuck. Probably looking for a girlfriend by 30. Teaching him how to bag intoxicated people isn’t the most sound advice. He needs a crawl, walk, run approach to improving his dating life
/r/seduction13/03/24 11:18 PM
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I believe he said “turn his dating life around” that doesn’t necessarily mean he’s just trying to have sex
/r/seduction13/03/24 09:38 PM
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Women have internal instincts that force them to always be searching for the biggest and baddest man. A survival instinct that men don’t understand and or care to think about. When you display that you lack options, are needy, predictable, overly nice, etc.. a women’s survival instincts will kick in and she will crave someone who is displaying the correct masculine traits. You were no longer looked at as a sexual option because of this. Unfortunately, this is the reason why a vast majority of re…
/r/seduction13/03/24 06:50 AM
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I think you’re referring to the category episode where he talks about how women Place men in a box based on the traits that they possess. Like… a loser dude who doesn’t give a fuck about his living situation, job, etc.. lives on his own terms and doesn’t care what people think of him. On the other hand, the successful individual who has his life together and is extremely logical about day to day activities. The logical dude is boring and the loser is exciting. I’ve took this and made a combined …
/r/seduction08/03/24 12:44 AM
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So much useful information. I’ve listened to almost every episode and it changed my life. Keep on doing you man
/r/seduction08/03/24 12:03 AM
2

Do you listen to Casey Zander’s Podcast?
/r/seduction07/03/24 11:41 PM
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Never pursue with a relationship. You can pursue a girl but you need to be patient with how you go about it. This means not texting her 24/7 because you have other shit going on, being unavailable from time to time because of other plans, etc.. you simply cannot be needy. She should be the one reaching for your attention. There a lot of men who believe that by expressing their intent in a relationship that they are being masculine because they are telling someone what they want. This is unfortun…
/r/seduction06/03/24 02:11 AM
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You never pursue… relationships are not the masculine role. This is human nature. Every relationship must be pushed by the girl that you have interest in. This allows her to fall into her feminine energy by continuing to chase you. Never try and define what a relationship is with a girl. When she’s ready, she’ll ask you.
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:53 AM
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Do you still have her phone number? Are you still following her on social media? You need to unfollow and delete everything. Next, stop chasing short term pleasure. Look for women you have an internal connection with… this will fix your problem. Meaningless sex will leave you empty and wanting more
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:09 AM
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With all do respect. Seek help.
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:43 AM
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Your name is chad? lmfao All of this makes sense
/r/seduction19/10/22 04:22 AM
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This is the reaction I was waiting for. Please delete your whole post, absolute nonsense.
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:40 AM
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Usually conversations open with questions like “what do you do?” And so on… here’s a fun way to make things interesting. When she asks what you do for a living.. reply with something funny and unique. My go to joke- I am a urinal cake technician at the local high school. Some women would spit out their drinks at this... And then I would eventually get to the truth about what I actually do and provide a good story about why. When flipping the occupation question.. I would cut them off before they…
/r/seduction12/10/22 01:59 AM
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I understand where you’re thought process is coming from but you’re wrong. He barely knows this girl. Gauging interest by texts will drive you insane. There could be a handful of things going on with this girl. Stick to logistics early on with texting. Give her some damn space and ask her out again. If she doesn’t reply or flakes.. move on. You cannot listen to 70% of people on this app. Absolute dog shit advice
/r/seduction11/10/22 01:20 AM
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Texting should not be a gauge for interest. In person experiences should be. Get off your phone
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:20 PM
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When you stated “Ask her to Netflix and chill” is when you lost all credibility to your post. OP- Ask her out the next time you cross paths. “Hey I’ve always thought you were attractive, I want to take you out to “x”… slowly build attraction throughout the date and eventually ask her if she wants to go back to your place to see more of your drawings. If you want a more detailed approach.. DM me, I help dudes for free
/r/seduction02/10/22 06:15 PM
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When I was actively dating.. I would run the same first date with every girl. First bowling and then other games to follow. Slow escalation when it comes to physical contact.. start with a high five in bowling and then eventually sitting close to her when playing Jenga later on. The best first date imo is a date that will put you both into a child like state.. it will take the pressure off. Bust her chops and be a goof ball. She want’s to have fun…be fun and you’ll get a 2nd date. Perfect practi…
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:07 AM
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Are you pushing yourself to be better every approach? Are you getting in the gym? Are you wearing good clothes and smelling good? I can keep going.. it’s a never ending self improvement journey that requires a lot of effort. Are you putting in 20-30 approaches a week? You will evolve and you will prosper if you approach everything at the right angle.
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:55 PM
2

Play truth or dare Jenga with her. A fantastic game of silly questions and goofy dares. This game is rock solid and will amplify your date if done properly
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:43 PM
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This is not necessarily true. It depends on how you navigate the relationship. If things begin to change halfway through, it’s your responsibility to engage in your partner and set boundaries appropriately. If they cross you, you have the power to leave… And vice versa. Manipulation occurs when both parties don’t state their intentions and or tell the other person what they want to hear in order to get in their pants. And yes, I understand you don’t give a fuck. I hope you never have a daughter …
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:51 PM
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No they are not. Guys like you are the reason why women don’t trust men.
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:55 PM
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Your comment implies that he shouldn’t try. Nothing encouraging. It is pessimistic
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:42 PM
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You definitely need to rethink this. You’re talking about manipulation. Telling a girl lies so that you can hook up with her… big yikes
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:28 PM
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She says “I like your face” … your response - stop, focus, and breathe… almost every guy I know struggles with anxiety given a situation like this. You have to harness the adrenaline dump so that you can effectively reply with… “Thanks…. Your face is okay” with a wry smile to let her know you’re messing around. She may slap you on the shoulder after that or have something sarcastic to say back. This is a good way to start bantering… everything else comes with practice. You have to keep pushing y…
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:53 PM
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With this mentality, you won’t go anywhere with women. With all do respect.. don’t post shit like this. People need encouragement. Save the pessimism for your diary.
/r/seduction11/09/22 01:41 PM
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I weighed 108 my freshman year of high school.. I dedicated myself for 2 years and bulked the entire time. My metabolism is sky high and it’s extremely difficult to gain weight. I hit 170 my junior year. It’s about dedication and literally forcing yourself to eat
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:22 PM
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If she’s responding there’s potential interest. I would match… and possibly shorten my replies. If you just met her, it might be a warming up process. Text her to set up plans initially, no small talk bullshit
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:05 PM
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The better you get at it.. the more natural it will feel. Direct approach may seem unnatural because no one does this in public. However, over time and thousands of approaches, you can blend into indirect approach methods. It takes a level of understanding for it to work. Attraction is not a choice. A girls “type” is not usually a deal breaker. If you can emotionally stimulate her, she will be responsive. Meeting through friends and hobbies is definitely easier. However, there’s an issue with th…
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:32 PM
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I’m very open to having a civil conversation about this. Your success rate with cold approaching is definitely on you. You have to stack every card in your favor for it to be effective. Anyone can produce results and those results can be improved through small adjustments over time. It’s all about self improvement. I know this through my own journey of approaching. Improving how you dress, charisma, confidence, etc… are all extremely important. It’s about putting in the work. Most want immediate…
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:30 PM
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All good stuff. However, you need to be able to break rapport or else you’re walking into friend zone territory. This means you need to become proficient at teasing her, asking qualifying questions, push-pull, etc. If you need further help, dm me. I help dudes for free.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:03 PM
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Meeting people in the flesh is the most natural. This can can be through sports, hobbies, cold approach, etc. Meeting people through a swipe site is unnatural. Your success is based off your level of commitment to improve yourself.
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:58 PM
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Meet a girl out. Make a great impression. Grab her number instead of bringing her home. Set up a date. Get to know her more. Push for sex on the second date. You need to slow down.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:19 PM
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Being direct could work on a specific girl. However, not every girl is the same. Being playful about this results in a better success rate, tried and tested.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:20 PM
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Friends.. try and help other friends fix their problems. Stop doing this and you won’t be friend zoned.
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:55 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:58 PM
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She says “oh yeah…. Suuure. You’re just trying to hook up” You say “The chances of us hooking up tonight are like the chances of shooting an arrow through a cheerio” ……. In a playful manner.
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:15 PM
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Tell me -what’s your opener -how long do you chat -do you have any fun gambits to use -how many women are you approaching every week -what do you wear when you approach A good starting point
/r/seduction28/07/22 02:16 AM
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Texting should start with setting up dates at first. No small talk. I’d even push this further and continue this as the relationship evolves. This allows you to have great conversations in person. Texting can dry up in-person communication. However, most women want someone to talk to throughout the day. I’d suggest finding a non needy girl. What you can do… and what I do to keep her interested. I’ll play games (drop clues) with her throughout the week on where you’re bringing her. She has to gue…
/r/seduction28/07/22 02:05 AM
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I hear you. I fuck up too every now and then, no one is perfect. We just have to hold ourselves accountable. Keep on grinding brother
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:49 PM
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Your issue… you’re not neutralizing the cockblocker. Let’s start from the beginning… there’s a group of girls and you spot one of them that’s appealing. You don’t approach her to dance and or talk. The first step.. You’re looking for the girl who you know is going to try and sabotage your final move. She will stick out in the group… seem as if she’s in charge, etc. you want to approach her and befriend her. Tell her she looks just like your cousin, bust her chops a bit, and be friendly. When you…
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:35 PM
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Hey my man. Love all of the knowledge you dropped on this dude. However, you’re missing one thing in all of this. You’ve expressed that you have welcomed rejection in a non reactive way which is awesome, not many can do this. You’re holding your frame and internally validating yourself, all good shit. The thing that your missing.. holding your frame and being non reactive isn’t just for women, it’s for everyone you meet on a day to day basis. Yes this dude commented some crap on your post. Every…
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:34 PM
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Push all of this aside and approach women in the flesh. Online dating is very finicky. Girls will flake, guys will flake. It’s a shitty way of life. What will stick… if you approach women the correct way and show confidence and conviction in your voice. It’s hard at first don’t get me wrong. Nothing good comes easy but you will go through a transformation if you stick it out. You owe it to yourself. Dm me for tips, I help dudes out for free.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:48 PM
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Competition anxiety is crucial. Everything is sub communicated at a deeper level. No one wants something that is easily obtainable. These aren’t mind games.. this is how attraction works
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:46 PM
1

I know this is old but fuck it. Love all of this besides a point at the end. You give a direct day and time for her to meet you. That’s great and all but sometimes chicks will just reply “oh I’m busy that day” and then nothing. You’re then left in the Jack ass position to ask when she’s available… very low value in my opinion. I’ve learned this the hard way. Now my question is always “what is your week looking like?” She will then tell you when she’s free.. it’s fail proof
/r/seduction27/06/22 03:36 AM
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Never defend yourself. Agree and amplify. “Absolutely… my current top prospect is my grandma. She’s a fierce little sea donkey”
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:50 PM
6

Which makes you hungry. Hungry to go out and kill it. There’s no other option. Men need to stop taking the easy way out. I was guilty of this for a long time. One day I decided to make a change and stick to it. You can do it too
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:07 PM
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Give up on what exactly? Beating off everyday is like sitting in a car and revving the engine. It feels good but it serves no purpose. Get out there and approach women. If you need tips on this dm me. I help dudes out for free
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:06 AM
4

This is my own experience with stopping. It’s about self talk and control
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:01 AM
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Think of it like this. Not releasing through porn will force you to find a woman. This shifts your mindset in the right direction. Self satisfaction can create complacency. Also… my libido is extremely high. Porn puts you in a thought process where everything is sexually driven. Eliminating the addiction is a feeling of freedom and control.
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:27 AM
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What I’m getting at… no one does it. It’s a short conversation that show’s that you’re wildly confident all while showing interest in meeting up. I’m all about putting myself under social pressure to increase charisma and I feel like this has potential. Chances are she doesn’t answer because it’s super bold. However, you’re going to stand out from every other guy who grabbed her number.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:33 AM
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This is for after a cold approach. Me trying to think like a girl…. ”how many girls has he done this to”.. “if he can do this to me, anyone is fair game” I believe these thoughts go through every girls head and it can come off as “gamey” if you don’t show enough interest in that girl. The FaceTime show’s that you’re confident x1000 and there’s genuine interest. A text saying let’s make plans this week is dry and lacks effort Your FaceTime is to set up the date. It’s not a pointless interaction
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:18 AM
4

Women date down. This is extremely common. And it’s a compliment to women because they can see past looks. Men are not the same. These are facts
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:20 AM
1

This is a harsh reality. Men and women have different planes of attraction. Men need to be more on the physical side, while women need someone who can spike their emotions in a positive way. I can meet a 5 at the bar… she’s witty and fun but at the end of the day I simply would not pursue her any further. Her value did not increase because I’m not attracted to her. How often do you see an 8 or a 9 (F) with an average looking guy. It’s extremely common because women need a guy who can understand …
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:43 PM
10

You just need a little momentum. A slight nudge that will get you rolling. Hit me up if you want help along the way. I do this shit for free
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:45 AM
15

Anxiety will definitely be present. It comes with the territory. The more often you push yourself, the quicker it will fade over time. I struggled with extreme social anxiety… I overcome this by approaching. I firmly believe everyone is capable of achieving the same results through grit and will power. It’s life altering
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:10 AM
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This works and it costs nothing to produce results. Walk into a bar, do not buy a drink, walk the venue and spot out attractive girls, circle back and approach. Tell them “hey, I have to get out of here in a second but I saw you from across the bar and thought you are attractive so I wanted to say hi” “what’s your name” then.. Introduce yourself to the group and then direct your attention back to the girl. Ask her rapport building questions and then qualifying questions (if you don’t know what t…
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:58 AM
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Hear me out. If you're going on tons of dates and you want to become a master of your environment... pick one venue that will put you in a child like state and run it over and over and over and over again. This is how you create fantastic first dates because you own the environment. Example.. I love playing games. Board games, Jenga, bowling, shuffle board, etc. There's a place nearby that has all of it and I bring every first date there. This is how you get 2nd dates. Own the first one. also, i…
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:44 PM
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I can help you out for free, no strings attached. Dm me
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:34 PM
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-Game is required to have interactions stick. -A social circle will not guarantee success for you unless you are leading that group. -Approaching women in an appropriate way will allow you to stand out from every guy. -I agree texting does not matter at first. However, if the relationship grows, you should be able to send a few witty texts to her once she's attracted to you. -There will be massive drama circulated from dipping into your immediate friend group. You need to find women on the outsi…
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:15 PM
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I agree with your post. Also, shitting where you eat (your social circle) tends to cause massive amounts of drama if things end poorly. The ideal situation (in my own opinion) is to meet women outside of your circle, bring them into the circle, and then take it day by day to see if they are a good fit for you and your friends. There's plenty of attractive women out there, don't go prowling for your friends.. friends
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:45 PM
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It’s the wrong mindset. Once you pull your mind away from the end result with each interaction and you do it for yourself… you’ll truly start to see the results. Each approach is for yourself, not the date. You internally validate yourself by doing this. If she blows you out, that’s her loss because you believe that you're an absolute champion in a non arrogant way.
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:41 AM
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To me, I feel like when I find the right person through this.. maybe then… maybe. I will want to stop. Best of luck to you man
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:21 AM
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Hell yeah man. The self improvement story of a lifetime. The only problem I have about the cold approach is that when you stop... you slowly begin to lose that gritty/ bold mindset. It's almost like an addiction. I need it to make bold decisions in life, without it I feel soft. Obviously appropriate decisions. End rant
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:06 AM
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You're missing the real point of the cold approach. It's about putting yourself in the fire and being confident when the walls are collapsing around you. It's a grind. You know this. Getting dates is just an added bonus.
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:53 PM
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This is the wrong mentality. A high value/confident man will go where he pleases. He will follow his moral compass and create positive experiences. He does not need to be externally validated because he knows internally that he is a 10/10. A man who will approach 100 times, get rejected 97 times, and still have the confidence and determination to not give up because he knows that he is worthy and that rejection does not define him.
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:39 PM
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Answering her question with “my friends didn’t want to come out, so I came alone” with zero hesitation is good. However, if she pushes with the nagging further.. example she says “that’s weird” or something along those lines, you need to realize she’s checking your frame. Coming back with negativity will get you blown out. A nice counter is a laugh as if you’re unaffected, followed with “actually, I have to tell you the truth. I don’t have any friends and because of this I usually pay people to …
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:11 PM
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Just think… you’re bowling with her and she gets a strike. A high five is warranted and will come naturally. Keep going on dates, you’ll get the hang of it eventually. Have to put the work in, your mind will follow.
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:14 PM
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You should do something that you’re super comfortable with. I love playing games so I bring my dates to a place that has games and also a bar. We can chit chat at the bar, go bowling, play scrabble, and my personal favorite… truth or dare Jenga. You want your date to see yourself in a child like state… this will make it easier to flirt, tease, and create tension. Stay away from interview type dates. She wants to have fun.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:53 PM
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Start out small with this. If you’re getting signs of attraction from her (you will know this by reading body language effectively) -give her high fives for doing something sweet on the date… I like to play games such as bowling on the first date -sit close to her without touching her -try adjusting her hair -when she’s sitting down, put you’re hand on her leg (close to her knee)….. again, she needs to be attracted to you first. You will look and make her feel uncomfortable if you do this withou…
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:43 PM
1

I’m just going step in and say you should buy the first round. This will show that you’re not a cheap ass. They should follow up and buy the 2nd however… you’re not paying the entire night. I have a few chick friends and I hear the constant complaint how dudes will either split or make a girl pay for the first date. This is incorrect. Show some chivalry and pay first, you’ll turn heads
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:47 AM
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My biggest suggestion. -Do not orbit the girl you’re there to see. -Interact with both of them by playing games (Dm me for ideas) -Get to know her friend and ask her thought evoking questions. -talk to other people in the bar. Do not devout all of your attention on them. -look up topics on current events to talk about Just a few, good luck -Mike
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:57 PM
1

If you can learn anything, I’d suggest you look into frame control.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:39 AM
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A successful approach means you went through with the approach without allowing you’re brain to convince you to not approach. Everything else is just a bonus.
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:28 PM
1

I do it for free. DM me if you’re interested
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:35 PM
1

I’m 27 lmao
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:27 PM
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It’s much easier than approaching someone in person. That’s a fact. Leaving a conversation with a girl and having a positive enough experience that you were able to get her number and or hook up that night is legendary stuff. You lack these skills when swiping all day. These skills translate in other areas of your life also. Yeah, I’m trashing it because it goes against human nature. Men need to approach women to overcome social anxiety. It’s not just about hooking up. No one talks to each other…
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:49 PM
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OLD is for people who are terrified of rejection. The only exception to this is if you’re cold approaching AND also supplementing with OLD. OLD is the easy way out. No one has the balls nowadays to throw it away and seek people in the flesh. Also… if you’re looking for a relationship, the story on how you two met.. matters. Especially to women.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:07 PM
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I’m all ears on this. How would you approach a girl in a public setting
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:23 PM
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Check out my post. It has more info on it
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:10 PM
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Yes. It’s extremely confident and a no bullshit way to snag a girls number/ hookup if that’s what you’re looking for
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:42 PM
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In a bar … approaches attractive girl “Hey, I saw you from across the bar and thought you were attractive and wanted to say hi” “what’s your name” You can use this in any setting btw, just change the wording
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:37 PM
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You’re wrong, it’s the flashy over done nonsense that kills your chances
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:32 PM
1

You’re using it as a crutch because you’re social skills suck.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:35 AM
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I love this hahahaha
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:35 PM
1

Ever thought about joining a fraternity? This is a sure fire route to parties
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:24 AM
2

Are you enrolled at the college that you’re trying to party at?
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:00 AM
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You need to have connections. Befriend males/females that can open doors to the party scene.
/r/seduction08/04/22 11:17 PM
1

These are just examples. If you’re not a student, walk around campus. You’re bound to find someone that you’re interested in.
/r/seduction08/04/22 11:14 PM
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Parties, the library, around campus… there are girls everywhere. Approach them
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:05 PM
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Why do you care is the question. Who gives a shit about what other dudes think of you. You improved yourself, great. There’s still more work to do. Aim your focus on your purpose. The mentality/frame you should be holding…. I’ve looked this way my entire life. Nothing has changed. They bring up how you’ve changed, great. Lead the conversation elsewhere.. be a fucking man and stop worrying about stupid crap. Also…. You claim to be higher value because you look better. Maybe you should ponder that…
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:58 PM
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Parties are easier because bars usually don’t have beds within a hands reach lol
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:00 PM
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If you’re comfortable in your environment I don’t think you will have issues with #1. Also, if you’re doing this stuff enough you’ll start reading body language very quickly and you will begin to realize what works and what doesn’t. Everyone has their own style, what works for one guy may not exactly work for another but you have to constantly analyze yourself after each interaction. Growth is key.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:08 AM
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Awkward fake nice guys- A form of manipulation. Prove me wrong
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:06 AM
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By being upfront and honest with every girl you date.
/r/seduction10/03/22 01:18 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/t7bl4j/if_youre_new_to_cold_approaching_read_this/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Read this.. it will help get you get in… chat a bit with everyone. And then get out. It works
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:39 PM
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Keep putting yourself out there and try it. Who cares if it comes out weird at first, you’ll get better with practice. Don’t be afraid to DM me for more tips
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:28 PM
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Next time try and start out with qualifying questions. Examples.. you ask her “I like women who are fun, are you fun?” “I like girls who workout, do you workout?” These are great starters and they force her to open up. Write down what you want in a girl and push these into conversations. Remember, you are the prize.
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:15 PM
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You need to leave enough of an impression on them. You said they are approaching you? You need to approach them. This is fundamental. The more woman in a group the bigger impression you will land on that one individual chick. You’re a masculine dude who doesn’t care what people think. Tell yourself this everyday. Go out and make bold moves, this is how you’ll get her to text you back. Dress nice, be confident, and stand out in conversation. Want more tips? DM me
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:58 PM
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Ask her qualifying questions. Remember you’re the prize. Right down a list of things you want in a girl. For example.. I’ll ask a girl “I like women who workout, do you workout.” “I like a girl who likes to have fun, are you fun” these are simple examples and you’ll force her to open up and talk more about herself. This is just a piece to the puzzle. DM me if you’d like more tips -Mike
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:49 PM
1

Absolutely.
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:11 PM
1

Oh shit, me too bro
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:32 PM
1

I’d like to keep this going. You are a woman correct? Just entertain me for a second
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:41 PM
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Yes of course. Good point!
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:36 PM
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This is normal. It’s extremely difficult at first. Check out my post “read this if you’re new to approaching” it’s something good to start out with. As for the rejection part, who cares my man. You did something no one else is doing. It’s not easy stuff, it’s courageous and you’ll get better with time. Don’t stop with the momentum, keep going even when it sucks. You’ll break through, it just takes time.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:49 PM
1

I almost think of it like online dating… each girl gets a glimpse of me. Interested? Text me back. I hate OLD and this is my way of stopping myself from logging in on those half assed apps.
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:18 PM
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I understand what you’re saying. The counter argument I have is that it still works, maybe not as effective as a day approach but the results don’t lie. I don’t change much for day and or night. Just word everything based on the environment. It’s particularly effective on girls who are in large groups. Women will gatekeep their friends. You get in and get out. If they text back cool, if not cool. There’s plenty of chicks out there. Another way to put this… while you’re out putting in work on one…
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:11 PM
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By using this method you can acquire an abundance of numbers. Then you can pick and chose which numbers to entertain. You could use it to just hook up with every number you get, I just choose not to.
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:42 PM
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I don’t necessarily agree with his advice. Yes it’s good to develop a social circle but the only way you can get better at talking to women is by.. talking to women. You’ll slowly learn what works and what doesn’t. Make more eye contact… breath… slow down… talk with conviction… be able to sit in the fire and stop caring about what others think of you
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:23 PM
2

Because you and I have different intentions.
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:26 PM
2

You’re asking me how do you do this in the gym? If that’s what you’re asking, you might be too late. An approach works when you don’t hesitate. If I go to a bar and a girl sees me sitting there for 2 hours and I don’t approach right away.. she will sense that I am nervous and unsure of myself. Not attractive traits. So… assuming you’ve been at the gym and you both have seen each other before. You didn’t approach right away. She will sense hesitation. Not saying you shouldn’t do it but your chanc…
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:11 PM
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I’d stick to other public places then. Or… if there’s an open chair at their table… I would tell them I think they are attractive and then I would ask if I can sit down for a brief period of time to talk
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:46 PM
2

Not true… maybe a sports bar haha. I live in Chicago. Weekend bars don’t even have stools sometimes. Everyone stands
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:39 PM
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It’s seems like it’s a line because you’re reading words off a screen. When you see a girl you like and you want to approach, you need to sell that emotion through your body language and the conviction in your voice. It’s not a copy and paste thing that I do. I literally mean it. I will cut her in half with a glued eye stare, and speak from the heart. It’s essential to be successful at this
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:12 PM
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You can do this anywhere. I live in Chicago with mask mandates. Masked approaches are stupid and I don’t like them. I used this in bars because it works. Not every bar has women in it that are looking to just get fucked. Lot’s of mellow places with women who are looking for relationships.
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:02 PM
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To add to this, I do believe talking more helps… this is a beginners guide. You can still be successful with it but it’s to get your feet wet. The biggest thing I’ve noticed is that women will in fact text back the next day because you’re confidence really appealed to them. So yes you did make them feel something even though the interaction was short. Some girls would even approach me again after I walked away- Going back into the non needy aspect. This shit is against the grain. You will stick …
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:59 AM
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The more you approach in any setting, you’re odds of finding someone increases obviously. Don’t jump on the first girl who reacts to you though, you need to sift through the bullshit.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:53 AM
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I have met a lot of women with this type of opener. It works and it’s easy. I don’t necessarily go by it now, it’s more of thinking on my feet because I’m comfortable with sitting in that uncomfortable house fire. Still looking for the right chick, I’m not settling.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:51 AM
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Let’s talk more about this. Do you go into every interaction with the mindset .. “I’m going to fuck this chick tonight”?
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:45 AM
1

Appreciate your post!
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:55 AM
2

I chase numbers and turn them into dates. I know I’m effective at it. I have created an abundance of opportunities. If an approach doesn’t work out, who cares.. there’s another girl out there and I know it. I don’t sweat the small stuff, just have fun and build connections.
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:52 AM
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Talking to her a bit to find things in common is good and then molding the date to push the connection further is key. You don’t need to talk to her for an hour. Especially if she’s with her friends. Which most girls are.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:57 AM
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Again, I don't care. If she's just about hooking up, then that's what she's going to do every weekend. I'm looking for a relationship. I use my method for day and night. I do like it more for the day time but it's been hard with all of the mask mandates. I live in Chicago. They just loosened some so i'm going to be re directing obviously
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:03 AM
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I understand where you’re coming from but I don't go out to "pull". I approach to overcome social anxiety and to hopefully find someone I can connect with. This isn’t just for night game, it's any environment. Why would I post this if it does not work. It's also a beginners guide and most people are taking it like it's the holy grail lmfao
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:17 AM
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Why would you think that my friend group would be similar to your friend group. My group consists of couples, singles, and some married. I'm happy you’re going out and having a good time, keep it up man. I have my ways of doing things and you have yours. Best of luck to you!
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:06 AM
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Like I said, I don’t care. And i'm not needy. I don’t need to entertain a girl the entire night especially if i'm with friends. If i'm alone, sure. Whatever. When you establish yourself in this world and you have the abundance of options, small shit doesn’t matter anymore.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:29 AM
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You can do whatever you want. I go hangout with my friends because I want to. If she wants to stick around, cool. If not, cool. Don't overthink it. Stay cool calm and relaxed. Nothing phases you. You’re a masculine dude. Tell yourself this everyday.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:24 AM
2

Obviously looks matter. But just because you’re good looking doesn’t mean you can pull. I’ve seen handsome dudes shut down and average looking confident men pulling. Explain how this works. This isn’t a fairy tale, learn how to communicate properly. No one knows how to anymore
/r/seduction05/03/22 07:20 PM
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Looks aren’t everything. Women do not think the same way as men. Women need to feel connected with another man, while men are more drawn to the physical attraction. This means that chad might be able to pull in a single night but won’t necessarily be able to keep such girl because he never made her feel anything other than lust. Go into interactions without sex on your mind, learn how to flirt and hold frame. Look these things up if you’re lost, you’ll turn heads.
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:36 PM
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If that Chad can’t tap into a woman’s emotions he is meaningless. Get out there and put in the work
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:26 PM
10

That 6’2 chad would crumble if you told him to approach. Height doesn’t matter. Balls do.
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:12 PM
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This isn’t about sex. This is an abundance mindset. You also add mystery to the mix by not pursuing her further. She suddenly thinks… huh?? Why did he stop. You’re already building attraction by doing the bare bones minimum. Me personally, I like hanging with my friends and not talking to a girl for hours on end. It’s what I do, because it’s what I want. I like going on dates. I’m not into hookup culture. Do what suits you best.
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:07 PM
1

We meet again 😈
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:14 PM
2

This is a template for someone just starting out. You can do whatever you want, but do something and be direct about it. It’s really just about saying hi and getting comfortable with being uncomfortable. 99% of guys do nothing, that’s the real problem
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:02 PM
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Attraction isn’t just about what you look like. The most handsome dude can approach and not get her number because he didn’t speak with conviction and act like he’s been there before. How you carry yourself is HUGE. An average looking, confident dude will be more successful than an insecure attractive dude. It’s not all about looks.
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:52 PM
2

You’re trying to make a solid first impression, that’s it. You share a bit about yourself, she shares a bit about her self. It’s about finding a connection and then offering a date that can push that connection. It’s quick, non needy, and works.
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:34 PM
2

If a girl asked why I should go out with her, I’m hoping I would have already talked to her about her likes/dislikes so I can formulate a date that we can connect with. So simply she asks that question and my reply is “I’d like to get to know you more because of x,y, and z”
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:30 PM
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You will stand out if you do this. Woman love someone who is direct and doesn’t beat around the bush. Countless times I’ve had people text me back the next day saying they appreciated the confidence and or courage. It’s all about sitting in the fire and having conviction in your voice
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:26 PM
5

He said cold approach
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:01 PM
2

Look, being afraid is a part of life. You have 2 decisions in life, walk on eggshells and be afraid of every decision you make… or adapt and learn how to sit in the house fire that is your current situation. Overcome small challenges everyday that scare the shit out of you. That’s where growth is
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:10 PM
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Also, I’d like to include that this must be done sober. You need to get over your fear of rejection and alcohol is not the solution. Every night you’re out.. put pressure on yourself. Set a time.. say 11:30 and tell yourself you will approach by then. I started doing this because I needed to get past insecurities.. not to hook up with women. If you can get past this, other areas in your life will improve. Put in the work
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:56 PM
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You’re overthinking it. Keep it short and simple. Walk up.. make uninterrupted eye contact and say “I saw you from across the bar and thought you were attractive and wanted to say hi” ask her for her name… tell her yours… talk to her for a bit about her friends and introduce yourself to them.. then direct your attention back on her. Don’t talk for too long, tell her you’re interested in taking her out on a date and would like to get back to your friends. Ask for her number and that’s it. Don’t o…
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:13 PM
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You’re overthinking the fuck out of this. The hard truth is that you need to stop being a pansy ass and approach women. Overcome your fear bro
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:31 AM
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A man with no masculinity and no confidence is the same as if you’re on a date with a chick and she rips a mad burp and says yo bro pass the popcorn. It’s unattractive
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:43 PM
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Stop caring. Keep doing it
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:19 PM
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Seeking advice from Reddit is shallow water tbh. Sometimes I wonder why I even have an account. If you don’t already.. check out Casey Zander on YouTube or check out his podcast. Some solid shit
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:31 AM
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Just people who are scared of rejection.
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:07 AM
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Chin up brother.
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:48 AM
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This. Want to stand out from every other guy? Do something bold. A girl will be flattered and a bit taken back because 99% of the dudes out there don’t have the balls to do the approach. It’s lacking in the current dating scene. Be confident and take advantage
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:47 AM
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You’re overthinking it. You need an abundance mentality. She says “fine!” Your reaction should be indifference. If she flakes you know you have other options. You’ll never know what’s going on in her head. Don’t even try
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:08 PM
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That is true. However, you’re talking about back end game (high value man)… you won’t even get your foot in the door if you don’t know how to communicate properly (front end game).
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:28 AM
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This is wrong. “Women”.. want someone they can connect with. “girls”.. want the superficial looks/ status/ money. If you can tap into a woman’s emotions and create a connection on a day to day basis… you are in the top 1%
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:05 AM
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Found this to be difficult in Chicago. I have yet to do a mask approach. I guess the right person would respond appropriately, just feels odd
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:12 AM
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First dates are more like an interview if you’re both looking for something serious. Second dates and so on should have increased escalation
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:09 AM
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Is everyone wearing masks when you approach them? Everyone in Chicago has one on so I’m clueless on how to approach unless you’re at a bar
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:11 PM
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Okay, but how do you approach during the day in a big city when everyone is wearing a mask. I find this to be a complicated issue especially with everyones fear of the virus.
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:14 PM
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