If you’re new to cold approaching read this.

skatinislife446 · 2022-03-05T18:02:51+00:00

Uhhh, this is way more applicable to day game. In a bar/club you’re shooting yourself in the foot by not continuing to interact with her since there’s a decent chance she’s out that night to get laid in the first place.

Woujo · 2022-03-05T19:32:02+00:00

You need to have a long interaction or else she will flake. You need to build a connection before you get her number.

heaudle · 2022-03-06T04:44:14+00:00

You've got the right of it OP. You'll find her in no time. Not everyone (even women) are interested in hookup culture. You're displaying a high level of masculinity and poise which will go a long way with women also looking for a wholesome relationship. A bar arguably isn't the best place to find her, but you're not limiting your search field to just that, and you've got a very diverse friend group with you while you're out. Very good.

BluefinPres · 2022-03-06T14:13:17+00:00

Keep in mind cold approaching can be affected by the country you’re in because of the cultures. When I was in Ireland, I cold approached a few times and it worked every time cause the culture there is like that. People generally enjoy a good time in the pub and making new friends so they’re generally more approachable than many other parts of the world. A country with a high crime rate will result in women being very vigilant when they go our for the night so in some countries cold approaching by a man can be seen as suspicious. For instance you’re more likely to start a chat with someone at a train station in Norway than a train station in downtown New York.

ForsakenVE · 2022-03-05T19:27:38+00:00

To u/CompetitionFair7686

I'm sorry but Cold approaching isn't just about looks, just by the fact that you're walking to a random person and striking a conversation you're displaying confidence and your personality through the interaction

Online dating is about looks, you're judged there only by the way you look, and anything else makes little to no difference

Saying that cold approaching is just about looks is just stupid, but please give me an alternative, I kind of want to laugh. What would you suggest the average male do to meet women?

My point still remains, the only girls that you could ever hope to have sex with are those that are available and attracted to you, and as a male your best chance to meeting these girls comes from cold approaching and getting rejected.

By the way what a childish move to block me just because I don't agree with your point of view... Grow up

Altec5499 · 2022-03-05T19:47:31+00:00

[permanently deleted]

jjboy91 · 2022-03-06T12:36:36+00:00

Bars are a no go cause people are all sat down

Substantial-Ideal822 · 2022-03-06T02:58:15+00:00

If you back off from her There's a pretty good chance another man will swoop in there shoot his shot maybe go grind on the dance floor Make her horny and leave with the dude. That's probably what's gonna happen if you walk away from her with her number or not. you have to be more aggressive

cronasminate · 2022-03-06T01:52:57+00:00

This reminds of computer tech manuals for boomers. "To browse the internet, rest the palm of your hand until you can feel the coldness of the device deep into your skin... *10000 steps later*, and now you contract the muscle on your point finger to generate force that will cause the device to make an arrow on the screen interact with the object it is hovering on."

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-05T15:22:53+00:00

And why should she go out with you just because you introduced yourself and asked her?

And why do you even like the girl other than being pretty? Do you do this with other pretty girls?

Many girls ask that question, what do you say?

What makes you so special?

foofuufou · 2022-03-05T18:05:53+00:00

Why would a girl pick a 5'9 guy (me) over 6'2" chad? I can't build that spark that i desperately need to get attraction in women

lamambanegra777 · 2022-03-06T01:54:30+00:00

Gym?

2022-03-06T18:39:57+00:00

Good

Title	If you’re new to cold approaching read this.
Author	Altec5499
Upvotes	227
Comments	110
Date	March 5, 2022 3:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/t7bl4j/if_youre_new_to_cold_approaching_read_this/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/if-youre-new-to-cold-approaching-read-this.1265307 https://theredarchive.com/post/1265307

Comments