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3

If you're white, brown countries, if you know how to dress and have some conversation
/r/seduction27/07/26 10:17 PM
18

Hard pass I would cancel everything
/r/seduction24/07/26 02:59 PM
1

They like social status
/r/seduction21/07/26 04:19 AM
3

Sounds exhausting
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:42 AM
3

No idea where I live everyone is sat with their friends and they don't mingle as the service is at their table directly.
/r/seduction27/06/26 05:59 PM
1

Tall, fitting beauty standards, have a car, tattoos, drinking alcohol, smoking, etc
/r/seduction22/06/26 04:07 PM
3

By having the same lifestyle as them probably?
/r/seduction01/02/26 07:39 AM
1

They are doing you a favor, disregard them and move on
/r/seduction05/11/25 09:05 PM
2

Dude stop jfc if you have to guess it's not the right person period
/r/seduction01/10/25 10:55 PM
3

Depends on their lifestyle, education and many other things
/r/seduction29/09/25 11:52 PM
4

Yep except that personally 90% of my friends are women and I haven't got any opportunity / date while with them because how close we are. people often think we are together it's so annoying..
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:54 PM
2

Pull back and don't bother until they make a move
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:53 PM
1

Some don't and some use it to avoid talking to you that's all
/r/seduction29/08/25 10:24 PM
2

Yeah clearly and I think the next step is blocking her ;)
/r/seduction27/08/25 07:46 AM
52

Yep it's so weird because she won't reply but she doesn't mind checking my IG stories everyday lmao. I don't get the appeal to be a spectator of my life it's so weird.
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:25 PM
3

No idea I refuse to buy a car and only use public transportation and my bicycle
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:44 PM
-1

I'm not that desperate but why not
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:00 PM
2

Can't help I get no matches. What I wouldn't do is put them on a pedestal, keep it funny. To show you how shallow it ia for example, the last match I had I told her I was bartending to the festival she was going to. I told her to find me and she would get a free drink, she unmatched me.
/r/seduction03/07/25 12:57 AM
1

It's BS they expect a spark within a 2h date..
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:29 PM
30

You fit beauty standards that's all
/r/seduction17/06/25 07:58 AM
4

It's just because you're hot imo. I'm exactly like that and I never had such experience
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:01 PM
1

Apparently yes because I see people that hit the gym everyday, are fit and all settled for people who don't exercise and are overweight so anything is possible
/r/seduction21/05/25 12:32 AM
3

So that's why fit people who hit the gym regularly settle for overweight stay-at-home people?
/r/seduction13/05/25 10:27 PM
1

If you're scoring in your city , you will do great anywhere
/r/seduction11/05/25 10:48 PM
0

No it's not
/r/seduction02/05/25 11:09 AM
3

I don't date your ethnicity
/r/seduction20/04/25 10:42 AM
1

No you need to be top tier and being able to be noticable before entering
/r/seduction06/04/25 07:11 PM
622

That's a luxury and it sounds exhausting lmao
/r/seduction23/03/25 12:55 PM
20

Be honest with them before fucking them then...
/r/seduction22/03/25 03:00 PM
3

I can't even encounter people I'm attracted to so
/r/seduction21/03/25 01:25 PM
2

Show some pictures then we will talk
/r/seduction09/03/25 08:12 PM
2

Dating apps only work if you're considered attractive by the people that look at your profile.
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:09 PM
2

By stopping to buy fast-fashion, learning color theory, getting interested in the brands and product history, the fabrics, banishing anything with a visible logo.
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:12 PM
17

Friendzone
/r/seduction20/02/25 12:20 AM
10

Same as 2024 staying invisible and getting my heart broken at the end of the summer lmao
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:17 PM
9

Don't forget to include the teachers
/r/seduction18/02/25 10:14 PM
2

Not that it was a choice having a low one but now being more mature I would say I would rather find the right partner than chasing numbers
/r/seduction18/02/25 07:22 PM
6

5 but generally you know it by the third one
/r/seduction18/02/25 07:02 PM
-5

You are attractive so of course this would work
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:20 PM
4

No what is hard to pull is people that want to commit
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:18 PM
1

If she's really into you, then these won't even appear right ?
/r/seduction11/02/25 11:53 PM
1

It's only material stuff, don't focus on that and instead work on developing your personality and having fun on your own.
/r/seduction08/02/25 08:19 AM
1

When it triggers you
/r/seduction03/02/25 01:27 PM
6

Lucky cause it's not that expensive considering you had a lot to recover from. Got quoted 1.2k for a tooth removal / replacement. Take care of your health guys
/r/seduction03/02/25 01:17 PM
1

I'm not trying to build a fanclub lmao
/r/seduction25/01/25 04:33 PM
1

Stop putting them on a pedestal and it will get better for you
/r/seduction10/01/25 06:56 PM
1

For me the best way is from friends to lovers because if you can't be friends the rest won't follow
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:36 PM
2

Because there is a waiting like. It will be your turn when they are done with the top 3
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:44 PM
3

Inexistant as I don't fit beauty standards. I'm doing a lot of activities every week but I never encountered someone that was interested in me
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:41 PM
1

React to one of her stories. If she's interested the conversation will flow naturally
/r/seduction12/12/24 09:43 AM
2

If you have a shit personally you won't keep them but it most definitely helps in the social environment because you will naturally standout
/r/seduction29/11/24 10:26 AM
1

Good slow down, get to know her and build up trust
/r/seduction26/11/24 03:45 PM
5

Serious relationship or she has passed traumas and she needs time. In my last relationship I gave her space and time but at the end it wasn't enough and she left to deal with her past
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:31 PM
2

Not putting anyone on a pedestal, going there for 20 minutes without doing too much, usual outfit, and casual walk by the sea for example
/r/seduction22/11/24 03:32 AM
1

No just when you want to or when she texts you but if you setup a date and go back to your life it's also fine
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:44 PM
1

Not necessarily, maybe it's to try to see if you're a good fit, how you react to certain topics, etc
/r/seduction25/10/24 08:03 PM
2

They were just having fun and unfortunately today it's pretty common to give contact info just to avoid conflict or saying no
/r/seduction18/10/24 06:36 AM
2

Once you're at her place, get to know her, listen to her, have fun and escalate progressively by touching her hands. If she wants you she will let you know anyway
/r/seduction17/10/24 04:28 PM
-2

Kiss her on the cheeks and see how she react
/r/seduction17/10/24 03:52 PM
0

Ohhhhhhh I know they suck ! The racism, the discriminations, it's wild when you're a minority, I have enough already IRL I don't need extra
/r/seduction16/10/24 08:35 PM
25

Why do you even bother with dating apps if you have success IRL, I don't get it
/r/seduction16/10/24 05:52 PM
1

If they ghost they weren't the right person. And yeah sometimes the chemistry is so amazing that you just want to be in the moment and push some stuff for another time
/r/seduction16/10/24 02:07 PM
3

Physical touch, hands Look her in the eyes Be vulnerable and always honest If she is into you she will help you get there anyway or for the bold ones, they will the lead;)
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:46 PM
3

I talk from experience from what I've shown, given and what I had in return. Someone that knows you're a good fit for them will tell you so. If their boundaries don't match what you're doing they will tell and explain it to you without playing games. If they feel safe around you they will share what bothers them and so on
/r/seduction14/10/24 09:21 PM
21

No I'm not on the contrary, they just have to see how I'm behaving with them, how my actions match my words that's all. There isn't a need to play games when it's the right person and if I'm not her first choice, I don't want it anyway. I don't date multiple people at once and for me if we can't be exclusive from the flirting stage then they are not the right person for me.
/r/seduction14/10/24 02:54 PM
231

Lmao I don't have time or energy to waste for that
/r/seduction14/10/24 09:56 AM
1

Everyone has problems. It doesn't mean we should skip on being happy while working on them and build strong foundations with our partner
/r/seduction08/10/24 07:59 AM
1

So if she tells you she needs time, you're going to try it every time you hangout?
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:49 AM
-2

Well that would be a turn off for me if people were messaging me for my physical attributes
/r/seduction10/09/24 12:12 AM
10

You know why ? It's because you approach them with wanting to date them in mind while if you approach without any expectations you could be your true self and it would be more appealing.
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:41 PM
1

Because it's not something I can solve
/r/seduction04/09/24 05:51 AM
1

If you meet people in person, for sure it's a good idea.
/r/seduction01/09/24 07:24 AM
1

I had a partner who got annoyed by me for taking my time to get to know her. She reacted like that because she was used to guys who wanted sex on the 1st date while I preferred waiting for the 3rd. When I explained to her she was pleasantly surprised so I guess it depends on the person
/r/seduction28/08/24 08:01 AM
1

Of Course if you're attractive to them
/r/seduction27/08/24 06:17 PM
3

It's just that you're growing up and realizing casual stuff is a waste of time and don't bring anything in the long run
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:19 PM
1

Yes if fit, tall, and light skin tone
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:24 PM
-6

I cringe while reading this
/r/seduction24/08/24 08:32 PM
2

I wouldn't even care and would go in with my life
/r/seduction24/08/24 04:07 PM
0

I never encountered someone I was attracted to. If I do most of the time I just crack jokes at people I cross paths with at events or parties but it's just for fun nothing else
/r/seduction22/08/24 05:55 PM
0

Ask her where to find an item I know they don't have
/r/seduction22/08/24 11:31 AM
1

Just go to have fun, go early as there are generally less people
/r/seduction20/08/24 06:47 AM
1

What girls lmao, over almost a year I never encountered someone I was attracted to
/r/seduction20/08/24 06:43 AM
1

Yeah if they ain't a tad cosmopolitan then you don't exist
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:41 PM
125

It looks exhausting to be attractive
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:09 PM
1

Lmao you let them go
/r/seduction11/08/24 12:12 PM
2

Yes anyone with boundaries.
/r/seduction10/08/24 08:10 PM
3

Focus only on one and instead of talking forever, asked them out
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:19 AM
92

She's not interested
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:11 AM
1

Don't set up romantic dates
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:57 PM
1

Leave him a note with an invitation or a question
/r/seduction09/08/24 10:13 PM
8

I wouldn't waste my time , if she text back and it's serious why not but otherwise I would let it as it is
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:22 PM
1

She got what she needed and moved on
/r/seduction08/08/24 06:51 PM
25

If they do that on me I would be done with them, I'm not interested in people who play games
/r/seduction08/08/24 01:02 AM
1

Too small, don't fit beauty standards, minority
/r/seduction04/08/24 10:04 PM
2

No idea they only compliment my style 😭
/r/seduction03/08/24 06:56 PM
4

I don't even care about people like that anymore. If you want to play games that's fine but stay away from me
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:25 PM
1

Lmao 100 what for ? I can't even find 1 I'm attracted to
/r/seduction01/08/24 02:22 PM
1

I mean if you're hot and you found a way to save smalltalk time go for it
/r/seduction31/07/24 11:15 PM
24

If you're white and attractive anywhere
/r/seduction31/07/24 02:05 PM
7

They are not interested so they go to the trashcan
/r/seduction30/07/24 03:19 PM
6

I'm from Mauritius and I live in France and it's pretty much the same problem. The ones that focus only on the appearance immediately cancel me because of my ethnicity
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:25 PM
3

Yes this is what I understood the first time
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:11 PM
10

I'm doing the same since September and not once they have they approached me
/r/seduction30/07/24 02:08 AM
1

Trust me not getting any attention is wayyyy worse because you feel invisible. Improve your personality and don't put people on a pedestal
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:47 AM
1

Damn nice dude ! I've been going out alone since September, 3 to 4 times per week and I never met anyone
/r/seduction27/07/24 08:23 PM
1

I never attracted anyone by being myself so yeah
/r/seduction27/07/24 12:36 PM
2

Attractiveness to hook them and personality to close I only have the second one so it's like being on the central square but being invisible
/r/seduction26/07/24 10:01 AM
2

What is a 10 lmao
/r/seduction24/07/24 09:10 PM
10

You're already tall so if you have a good style and good picture, it won't matter that much
/r/seduction21/07/24 02:52 PM
2

Just say hi basically, if they are single and you initiate it's pretty much a done deal
/r/seduction21/07/24 12:43 AM
1

She found someone more interesting and faster to ask her out. Don't text her anymore and find someone else.
/r/seduction19/07/24 12:40 PM
2

I have no idea what you are calling "game". Just crack a joke or say something to introduce yourself
/r/seduction19/07/24 12:28 AM
19

All of the singles if you bring the right energy and fit their beauty standards
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:18 AM
2

It's frustrating when it's not working in your favor. I see my attractive friends scoring 99+ likes without problems because they fit beauty standards and I took their pictures
/r/seduction15/07/24 11:38 AM
2

I'm fucked then cause I don't drink alcohol
/r/seduction11/07/24 12:56 AM
8

Couldn't say no to your face
/r/seduction07/07/24 10:40 PM
0

Over a period of 6 months, on various apps I had 11 matches and 6 first dates. 1 was a 5 months relationship, 1 lasted 3 months and 1 lasted 2 months as sex friends (summer 2023). After that period I deleted dating apps
/r/seduction03/07/24 11:09 PM
3

Toxic and drunk
/r/seduction01/07/24 01:58 PM
2

I don't meet people I'm attracted to and the people I met aren't attracted to me
/r/seduction01/07/24 01:45 AM
1

It's not that I'm " waiting" but rather that I don't encounter people that spark an interest.
/r/seduction30/06/24 02:10 AM
1

Go to therapy
/r/seduction30/06/24 02:05 AM
1

It won't change a thing cause it won't be for the good reasons and your energy will tell
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:13 PM
2

They just ain't attracted by my ethnicity I think
/r/seduction29/06/24 07:15 PM
2

I'm already behaving like that and I go out alone to meet people without people but I've never encountered someone that was attracted to me. The only compliment I get is always regarding my style and never about my physical features
/r/seduction29/06/24 07:09 PM
2

If high value is defined by beauty standards then absolutely
/r/seduction16/06/24 12:54 PM
1

Just slow down lmao. What are you trying to achieve by collecting so many partners?
/r/seduction10/06/24 09:02 PM
6

If making conversation is hard, she's not interested
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:28 AM
6

Don't put them on a pedestal
/r/seduction05/06/24 02:54 PM
-1

It depends on dating app I got it within 10 messages IRL if you talked a bit it's pretty much a done deal if she's interested
/r/seduction03/06/24 08:33 PM
2

People don't care, they are in their bubble with their friends and that's all. I've been going out alone for a year now and it definitely takes a few try but once you get used to it it's so much fun! No one to wait for, no planning to do, you can't do whatever you want.
/r/seduction03/06/24 08:32 AM
26

If you don't close the same night it's pretty much over
/r/seduction31/05/24 09:38 PM
10

It's superficial, I don't see the appeal tbh
/r/seduction31/05/24 06:46 PM
5

Just because she enjoys her life and rejected you doesn't mean she's sleeping left and right.
/r/seduction29/05/24 06:28 PM
1

No one has ever been attracted to me to my knowledge so no idea and initiated a talk. If I have to guess change the locations you hangout or the friends you go out with. Not sure if blending would be the right call tho
/r/seduction29/05/24 03:56 PM
20

It's the same shit everywhere when you stay in the same location for a long time, plus it's a capital so there are a lot of "high value" profiles
/r/seduction29/05/24 01:03 AM
2

She got what she needed
/r/seduction29/05/24 12:52 AM
2

Why should they bother making efforts when the next guy will do the work for them ?
/r/seduction28/05/24 03:27 AM
2

Nice ! I'm going out often but I have never met girls I'm attracted to. When they peak my interest, it's usually ruined when I see them smoke or vape
/r/seduction27/05/24 06:35 PM
1

Never kissed on a first date and when the chemistry was there a second date was no issue at all..it's not a sprint
/r/seduction27/05/24 04:58 PM
2

Where I go it's 95% people in their 40s
/r/seduction26/05/24 09:03 PM
0

By Not try, it makes them thirsty and you spot them easily. just go out to have fun and if your energy is the right one for someone it will work
/r/seduction24/05/24 09:00 PM
2

Go to therapy
/r/seduction24/05/24 10:06 AM
1

Doing better than most. Have fun and enjoy! Bonus point if you don't put her on a pedestal
/r/seduction23/05/24 09:48 PM
2

Don't put her on a pedestal
/r/seduction20/05/24 11:56 PM
1

It's unpredictable because it depends on what the person in front of you finds attractive. Often you can see "unattractive guys" dating "attractive women" so what's their secret ?
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:48 PM
1

Just give her a kiss on the cheek and it's done
/r/seduction18/05/24 01:28 PM
5

Never put a stranger on a pedestal
/r/seduction16/05/24 02:43 AM
143

You know why you're failing ? Because you have expectations from the encounters you will have during your day. Next time just go out to enjoy yourself and expect nothing. You will see that you won't stress a bit.
/r/seduction15/05/24 09:36 PM
-1

Something funny about their profile or a picture
/r/seduction15/05/24 08:32 PM
0

Be yourself, don't go there with an objective except than having a good time. If something is to happen it's going to happen
/r/seduction15/05/24 01:18 AM
1

Block and delete bro
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:31 PM
1

Post a story wtf dude, she's not that interested if she can't spare one hour during her week to go for a walk with you and get to know you.
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:56 AM
2

To each their own but if they look too young personally it's a turn off.
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:14 AM
9

She got what she needed from you, that's all
/r/seduction03/05/24 09:35 AM
1

It's not just a feeling, it's a reality but you learn to live with it and stop caring about what people think
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:13 AM
22

They did the job for you because you fitted what they considered as attractive for them nothing else.
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:25 PM
3

Hell no, been there and the shit they put you through afterwards is not worth it IMO
/r/seduction18/02/24 12:08 PM
2

lmao not at all she said that so you don't think she's easy to sleep with
/r/seduction13/02/24 11:50 AM
2

Because of your batman mask
/r/seduction06/02/24 12:29 AM
1

Bro knows the 1 and 2 rules! What is a good IG?
/r/seduction02/02/24 10:07 AM
305

Ok tomorrow I'll go buy a car, that's the only thing I don't have from your post besides having no friends
/r/seduction16/07/23 09:45 PM
2

I'm comfortable and feel great about myself but if I don't meet what girls expect for their ideal guy, then it's not going to work period
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:09 PM
-1

Because they don't know what they want
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:24 PM
1

No my cup of tea personally, don't try to force things if it's not your thing
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:33 AM
1

No
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:43 AM
1

Make it playful for you and use it as a game without any expectations/ goal Rejection is also great because it will help you grow
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:39 AM
1

It's not possible for everyone dude...like you talk to 10+ girls mean you're hella good looking. I don't fit beauty standards and despite dressing well, and have an interesting personality, girls don't see me because of my ethnicity that is not appealing for them If I can talk to one girl it's the end of the story lmao
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:44 PM
4

They experience abundance easily so of course they will ghost in their quest for the best partner
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:34 PM
1

I hate going out for drinks, no matter the date haha Usually an outdoor activity the city is organizing it photography, scuba diving
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:57 PM
1

What do you mean by "meet a decent number of women" ? You can love yourself but if the girls ain't attracted by your looks or aesthetic maybe you can change the type of person you are spending time with
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:49 PM
1

Just start easily with strangers on the streets during your daily commute. What makes you stress is that your goal is anything but a friendly exchange
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:39 PM
1

I don't struggle talking to strangers in public places but "bars, clubs, festivals" are the things I like the less actually, I don't smoke, consume alcohol or dance
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:16 PM
1

Where do you go IRL ? I'm from India and living in Europe but it's crazy hard to get girl to notice cause most are attracted to that tall white guy we see on every ads lmao
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:43 PM
3

Online girls experience abundance whereas irl it's only the most audacious ones so not even 1% of their matches
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:29 PM
13

What massive social proof means
/r/seduction04/08/22 09:07 AM
1

Girls when you say clean you mean showered, wax everywhere ?
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:58 AM
2

Clean is more than a shower ?
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:50 AM
2

No idea but never got any reply anyway
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:05 AM
2

So you are hot AF but didn't realize it and the little light in your head magical woke up in 2020 ?
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:33 PM
2

On Instagram they don't get the message notification if you don't follow so it's a waste of time and energy
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:30 PM
1

Well some have told me so, it's weird in 2022 but ok I guess. On earth maybe but like it's farfetched if I have to travel else where to date..
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:49 AM
0

If you have the answer to why girls like my company but will never date me because of my ethnicity then I am all ears
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:47 PM
3

100% rate rejection lmao
/r/seduction17/07/22 04:16 PM
1

Hobbies you like not what are socially acceptable
/r/seduction17/07/22 04:11 PM
1

It's about physical appearance so chill dude...I do a lots of stuff but they dgaf because I'm brown and it's not appealing to them PERIOD
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:52 PM
6

The main problem is "decent looking guy"
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:47 PM
2

Since University I wasn't able to make new friends. I learned on how to enjoy life on my own and dating someone is just a bonus but not my main focus. I don't think you should overthinking this, go with the flow if it's a deal breaker for them so be it. Making friends is harder than dating
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:45 PM
4

What does outcome independent and being masculine means ?
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:35 PM
1

You can't see them tho. I don't have anything over 35...
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:17 AM
1

Being attractive
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:01 PM
1

Bro this is a luxury only available to attractive people
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:20 PM
5

Just to confirm the next date. Texting for me is just for planning, I don't have to time or energy to talk over text. Also don't forget that your not the only one she has plans with so don't wait after her
/r/seduction10/07/22 10:55 AM
16

How did you come to that conclusion lmao
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:47 PM
8

No it's not, it's more a matter of finding a place that would fit your vibe and where you'll be comfortable enough
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:44 PM
2

It's not on your end my dude,. Just trust her
/r/seduction09/07/22 09:10 PM
2

Someone close to how their daddy looks like and behave
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:32 PM
9

As you're indian like me and living in an occidental country well that's mainly the reason. On dating apps it's the least preferred ethnicity, yeah it sucks because even if you do better in life than others, online they will never see you. You may have more options irl tbh.
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:03 PM
6

If you're not attractive and fitting beauty standards that's not an option tho
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:40 AM
1

I've talk to hundred of random girls just for a project and I'm 1/10 so no one need Chad energy to talk to people. Just be presentable and know how to introduce yourself and when to stop
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:36 PM
1

Ok, I'm not hot enough for that ^
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:41 PM
1

What are insta dates ? Cold approaching will never work if they don't see you as attractive and you're unable to spark their curiosity.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:14 AM
1

Learn dancing, dress properly, be confident with yourself
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:12 AM
12

Not from my experience. I live where people go for vacations and never had a tourist remotely interested by me. They seek free parties but they always end up chasing the same attractive dude 😂 The last one from tinder matched with me and some friends. She was just scouting for free drinks and looking for people to entertain her during her stay..
/r/seduction04/07/22 10:31 PM
1

I guess I don't know how to have fun then
/r/seduction04/07/22 09:53 PM
1

I'm Indian and where I live girls ain't physically attracted to our ethnicity so yeah it's for sure unfair but that's life
/r/seduction04/07/22 09:40 PM
2

When you're hot you don't have to use that much energy lmao
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:48 PM
33

Because in our society, girls are competing against each other. If an attractive dude has lots of other women circling around him, he has a higher value on the market, and of course your date will be more interested for the higher prize. Why do you think girls go out with unemployed, lazy dudes, that don't even know how to dress properly ?
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:39 PM
0

My dude you're clearly not ready for dating..work on yourself first
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:26 PM
1

How do you build friendship when people don't even notice you ?
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:21 PM
1

Heck no dude. I personally trying to improve what I can and do stuff out of my comfort zone.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:16 PM
0

Where I live girls straight out told me they would never date a brown dude..
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:13 PM
1

No but they have more options obviously
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:11 PM
1

If she's a 10/10 you're not she only guy she's fucking so maybe do the same a Ms during the pandemic with s lot if sexting, FaceTime and share with her your holidays. You see if she's interested or not.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:29 PM
2

I'm too brown for white women so don't worry too much
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:30 PM
2

They live in easy mode thanks to simps
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:01 PM
9

Wtf is this joke
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:04 PM
1

It's like that all the time, like you match, she says you're fun and all then you start talking a bit more and she becomes MIA lmao It either means she's busier than the president or she has move towards a better match After 2 days I unmatch and move on.
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:34 PM
1

The people in my circle are all in relationships so it's not going to help me.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:57 PM
1

I don't have the luxury of meetings girl attracted to me but good for you for figuring this out.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:51 PM
1

Don't out her on a pedestal or whatever because she's model. You are already friend so keep doing what you do because you know she already value you and your time
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:06 PM
1

Let's go for a 101 crash course from you then
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:41 PM
3

Why ? It's literally all they search for
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:14 PM
1

I'm fine as I am. If they ain't attracted by my ethnicity that's on them.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:58 PM
2

Why the dirty delete...
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:22 AM
1

Maybe but realistically I'm below the "ugly guys" you talk about. If they don't date my ethnicity, there isn't a thing that I can do about that.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:42 PM
45

She isn't making you wait, she just hasn't finish doing bizz with her ex my dude.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:27 PM
1

I'm not realistically remotely attractive. Even if I dress good my face doesn't work for them 😅
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:40 AM
1

Nah I'm good with that, just being realistic.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:29 AM
1

Because they didn't get back home alone dude
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:40 PM
3

Yeah sure lmao the op is going to be waiting for a long time
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:07 PM
2

Good luck with that cause they get dozen and dozen of DMS per day
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:06 PM
16

The worse being that even if you pay, it won't push you to the top lmao.
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:05 PM
1

I'm not hot, it will only be me and the Airbnb lmao
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:07 PM
3

I can't do that cause I live in a village so do it once then you're burned
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:00 PM
2

What social circle lmao
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:08 AM
3

Personally if she drank with you around I wouldn't go cause don't now how far she is
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:43 PM
1

Personally where I live, at bars sitting is mandatory so it's Impossible to meet strangers. If yours allow people to stand besides when ordering at the counter then yeah go for it
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:31 AM
1

I don't even cross path with people my age on the streets so for dating I have no idea lmao
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:54 PM
0

If they out of your league it's not worth the trouble
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:15 PM
1

Hey, I'm brown (indian) living in France and the struggle there is real. I have a really good situation and never been able to understood why my ethnicity was so repellant to girls in my city. They prefer to go out with unemployed, violent, disrespectful dudes, it is the way it is. Sometimes I just want to give up and focus on enjoying my life alone cause constant rejection is exhausting specially for things out of my control.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:01 PM
160

You're overthinking this lmao
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:16 PM
1

How did you figured out girls that like you ? I live in a conservative city and 99% are white people so it's complicated.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:11 AM
12

5'5 brown Indian, No car Owner of a house Lucky to be living by the sea, zero everywhere friend's opinions: Wish my BF would dress like you Great personality Great listener House great parties Go figure
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:00 PM
2

Dodge a bullet for sure. Hope you didn't go down on her lmao
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:33 AM
1

Depends on how attractive you're perceived. If you are, you will get opportunities without looking for them. If not welcome to struggle city.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:59 PM
1

You can't bro her dick carousel is over few miles
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:26 PM
1

Big Dick energy
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:58 PM
9

Bro apparently even if you pay, they still treat you like garbage
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:38 PM
2

No it means you respect her boundaries.
/r/seduction06/06/22 09:00 PM
2

If they love their body I don't see the problem. It's ni one biz
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:58 PM
11

Haven't cracked this one yet I don't like loud places like bars so it cuts a lots of opportunities for me.
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:26 PM
1

Bruh their is no rules. You just have to connect with them and be in the moment, Instead of analysing everything
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:08 PM
1

Means you're hot if they notice you like that
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:44 PM
3

Night events if you're not hot AF are ruthless
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:20 PM
3

It just confirmed what I already knew about myself. They like my company because I'm an artist, funny good listener but at the same time will never date someone like me. I'm at the bottom of the attractive scale and my personality, style, doesn't matter if girls from my area are not attracted by my ethnicity.
/r/seduction05/06/22 08:08 AM
1

I wouldn't want to date someone like that. It's just a meetup, so if she don't propose something then for me it shows that she's not really interested by me
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:52 AM
0

What do you mean, in I'm not putting myself out there ?
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:46 AM
0

It's her move now, If she's not adventurous enough to propose something then it I don't even want to meet her tbh
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:41 AM
0

Often I joke/ tease on their bio or pictures Last one said she is a steward, so I asked her to guess 3 flags, one of them was my country and I knew the odds of her falling were pretty high She did failed and as a result I asked her to make up for it. I don't think she will have the courage to ask me out tho and the conversation will die^
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:36 AM
2

Too long Remember they have hundreds of dude messaging them. Make it more light and see if she engage or not cause sometimes even with a good line, they will give zero fuck about you. If they find you attractive often they will engage first
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:28 AM
14

It could be. I'm brown, from India and living in France. There, girls don't want to be seen in society with a partner that is from a minority. The reason mostly are the lack of representation, stereotypes, and judgment from others making them insecure. In every poll Indians living in Europe are the least preferred ethnicity. It's even more obvious on dating apps because people for some reason allow themselves to be disrespectful and mean.
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:17 AM
-7

It's more like men's mentality needs to change on that. The body count shouldn't matter period. Like why should it be ok for dudes to have a high one but not for girls.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:32 PM
38

Because they have the power my dude. While you're waiting for a "haha or ok" from her. She's sorting dozen of messages. Like they can smash 3 dudes per day if they want to While for us, you can only do the same if you're considered really attractive
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:12 PM
1

How did you work on your voice ? I actually have mine
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:13 PM
1

In France too bro, I'm 5'5 and not super attractive so I let you imagine how difficult it is
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:01 PM
2

What is a social circle lmao
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:44 AM
1

Go collect your XP, as you're attractive you won't have any issues getting matches so it can work until you are satisfied or meet the right person for you.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:34 AM
2

May be a bad idea but tinder is pretty ruthless for ugly dudes. Like if within the first hours if you don't have like 20 matches it's pretty straight forward
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:01 PM
12

Answer message under 2 days
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:33 PM
3

5-6 messages ? Damn you're a killer
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:30 PM
0

What are you talking about it applies to anyone. It's just about being brave enough to go after what you want. Rejection is part of the package but it's not a bad thing
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:02 PM
0

So ?
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:51 PM
0

Girls can get anyone. Go in front of him, strong eye contact, grab his shirt and kiss him
/r/seduction24/05/22 07:11 PM
1

They have dozen of options in progress while they talk to you
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:01 PM
2

Not that I can afford to be picky but It's a turnoff for me so I cap it at 21
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:35 AM
2

I feel weird like on dating apps they look like babies lmao
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:28 AM
1

Go with the flow and capitalize on the experience
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:38 AM
1

What if you attract no one ?😅
/r/seduction16/05/22 07:21 PM
2

Nope, if they see you as ugly it won't even matter
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:37 PM
2

If you're hot yeah, they won't hold you to it and if lucky they will engage first
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:27 PM
3

Nah I'm a lost cause any way. Like I check zero beauty standards girls are looking for. 🤣
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:53 PM
1

Social validation
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:51 PM
0

Get a mainstream haircut and they won't care
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:25 PM
1

Abundance doesn't vibes with ugly sir
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:34 PM
3

Keep it for a special occasion or 5th date with your crush
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:17 PM
3

Not is BS, it only boost your own confidence
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:47 PM
4

I tired of passive girls. Like why everything rest on our shoulder..
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:12 PM
3

Because they get bored faster than a 🐝
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:40 AM
-1

Bad boy energy they want to change x social status x tall x attractive
/r/seduction22/04/22 05:34 PM
1

No France
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:02 AM
12

Get in shape for yourself only. Plus you should be aware that minorities are not favorite on the dating department. Indians are at the bottom. Speaking from experience, I had girls flat out told me they wouldn't date me because I'm Indian, I live in a city where the majority of people like 99% is white
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:26 PM
1

High social circle periodt
/r/seduction20/04/22 07:22 PM
1

I'm in France and bro I'm telling you it's not the case, even attractive brown dudes struggle where I live. I'm from Mauritius but everyone thinks I'm Indian or Pakistani and of course there girls hate Indian dudes. Just go and visit and enjoy your time but just don't go for that one purpose.
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:12 PM
6

Because they already have their side Chad they're riding and you are just kipping her company
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:12 AM
1

I already checked your list haha but I see what you mean , wrong time, wrong place I guess
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:48 PM
29

I can't even get a date to apply the first point lmao
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:56 PM
27

Why is it an issues when you finish at 8pm often you don't have the time and energy to go out
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:56 PM
2

If you're good looking and fit what they are looking for yeah
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:43 PM
3

Under one year 1k is insane
/r/seduction12/04/22 10:00 PM
4

No small city so it would be weird
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:46 PM
1

How many did you asked twice ?
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:37 PM
1

I'm not attractive enough for girls to see me as a potential partner 😅
/r/seduction11/04/22 11:43 AM
2

They are just attractive to the person
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:42 AM
27

I see women everyday dating dudes dressed like trash or unemployed so they must be doing something good. Work on your personality
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:47 PM
2

Yeah they have to sign a contract when they book with me. It says that the photographer can't touch them for hairs fix for example without their approval. (I don't do it anyway) What would you add specifically for this ?
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:55 AM
3

They are at their job so it's not possible unfortunately
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:31 AM
14

This shit scares me. In dating but also at work. I'm a photographer and often shoot girls nude. I'm respectful and all but if for some reason they didn't like their session or whatever they can easily tell lies..and I have no way to protect myself. I have a friend who got into this situation.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:56 AM
1

Bar sucks where I live. You can't stand up and mingle you have to go and sit at a table and wait for the server like in a restaurant so it's boring AF
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:45 AM
1

You're not below average if you dated that many people.
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:21 PM
3

The op not realizing he is attractive periodt
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:14 PM
1

What does it even means ? They don't even know you
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:26 PM
3

I stopped at how tall you are 😅
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:41 PM
2

I have no friends so happiness feels out of reach
/r/seduction28/03/22 11:26 AM
1

Where are live, bars sucks cause they ask you to sit at a table. So you can't interact or mingle with people. I would say, do what works for you
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:33 PM
1

Bffs
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:47 PM
1

I don't because where I live it's only bars where you have to sit at a table. It's pretty boring and doesn't help to meet people
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:21 PM
1

She already had plans so no big deal. You should have asked for her number
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:39 PM
1

When you want but remember your not her only choice
/r/seduction20/03/22 02:03 AM
2

If it's just for a hookup just talk to her like you would with a friend. Personally I don't expect a bj and I don't go down without a dental dam cause it's not safe. Some don't care but I would rather not taking any risks.
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:39 PM
1

Yes I do speak French. It's a touristic area so seasonal workers, families but mostly retired people. Off season we are around 18k people and during the summer 200k
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:26 PM
3

If your attractive it comes to you.
/r/seduction19/03/22 04:25 PM
1

But I dress good like I know my colors, hand pick my clothes from local designers, no fast-fashion.
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:51 PM
4

Urban legend in my reality, they don't care that I am successful, respectful and we'll educated. They only see someone that doesn't fit beauty standards
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:38 PM
18

Thank you, hope that I will be able to find someone who sees that
/r/seduction18/03/22 08:41 PM
4

What do you mean ?
/r/seduction18/03/22 08:22 PM
27

Yeah I know 🤣
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:04 PM
24

Like less than a mile
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:50 PM
108

I'm Indian, small, hairy, not good looking according to beauty standards. I live in south of France on an island where 95‰ of the population is white. I'm very friendly, respectful, have good style, good job, own my house and let me tell you that dating is a freaking nightmare.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:38 PM
1

She already moved to someone else
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:55 PM
7

Step -1 : have someone interested in you
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:03 PM
2

Don't worry they already assume all guys are only there for casual
/r/seduction16/03/22 12:23 PM
1

Why do you go for inexperienced ones ?
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:13 PM
13

Where do you go then ?
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:57 AM
0

Personally I don't like clubs at all so I wouldn't. Bars where I live, you can't stand up and have to pick a table so this sucks too. I do meet people from my hobbies but they are only interested by a friendship. Maybe you can try to help people in need or something like that
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:56 AM
1

I fucked up all my 20s by putting work over life so you still got time to shift thing but you've got to stop looking back to the things you have missed cause they're gone. First step is taking care of yourself, get into a nice routine where you go out to walk and learn to enjoy stuff on your own. Then try to get into an hobby.
/r/seduction12/03/22 07:58 PM
1

Why does it bother you ? Stop stalking her and mute her stories..
/r/seduction10/03/22 08:13 PM
23

I don't the itching are unbearable after few days
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:12 AM
-1

Didn't say gigantic^
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:36 PM
-8

But if her dildo us bigger that your pp no way she will be okay with that
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:31 PM
2

She found someone else don't get too attached my dude it will fuck you up.
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:29 PM
1

I don't like clubs and bars where I live are only with tables, you can't stand up so to approach it's impossible.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:26 PM
2

Where I live there is none where you can stand. At the counter it's annoying because it's where people get their orders when it's not at their table
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:40 PM
2

Bars are a no go cause people are all sat down
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:36 PM
1

Not possible if you're a dude...you glowed up in the train or something ?🤣
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:15 AM
1

Because they have dozen of other opportunities
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:47 PM
1

Move on cause it ain't worth it
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:38 PM
1

You got lucky I guess 😂
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:55 PM
2

Don't go down on her without a dental dam tho
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:21 PM
1

What changed?
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:20 PM
2

Maybe in your world but irl this is not happening my dude. I have a good situation, house, I dress well, take care of my self. I have interesting hobbies, nice personally yet girls ain't interested period. Sure they smile and laugh when we talk but they don't see me as a potential partner. Two things I can't change, my height and ethnicity.
/r/seduction28/02/22 06:16 PM
1

Nope physically it's more like Race > Height > Face > Style
/r/seduction27/02/22 07:14 PM
1

For the first time I would be chill AF, you don't want to spook him
/r/seduction27/02/22 02:06 PM
-1

Hasn't helped me in any way so idk
/r/seduction26/02/22 08:45 AM
1

Now how attractive are you ?
/r/seduction26/02/22 06:02 AM
2

I has been hard for me too cause I am nowhere near close to beauty standards. But it can happen just look outside some are worse than you've described and are in a relationship.
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:52 AM
2

It doesn't mean anything
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:57 PM
2

I feel it cringe to compliment a stranger on it's apparence or it's physical traits
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:54 PM
1

That's some nice BS
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:34 PM
1

I dress good all the time and it never helped me
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:32 PM
1

I'm always getting rejected so I made my peace with it and enjoy life alone. It's not fun every but it worked so far.
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:26 PM
1

I don't think so. In the streets I see dudes poorly dressed like worse than wearing sweatpants and they ain't single.
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:05 PM
1

Nope never had that
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:58 PM
1

No idea, I'm not in their head but it has to do with social status / validation from my experience
/r/seduction13/02/22 12:52 PM
2

Doesn't exist bro. According to the people I've met, I have a good style, hygiene, personally, fun to be with, sense of humor BUT girls can't get pass my physical traits : hairy, small, and many are bugs by the fact that I'm brown, they will never say it to my face but I noticed in when we are in a social environment.
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:41 AM
15

Cause this is how they met the dad and now see the results.. trying to go round 2
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:47 PM
1

It's because they like to jump to kiss their man It cracks me in the streets when I see them
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:52 PM
3

You were already attractive gym just gave you confidence
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:43 AM
1

Okay I hope everything will be fine 🤙🏽
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:07 PM
1

Dude you obviously knew the risks, why didn't you stopped instantly, it's huge red flag..
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:36 PM
1

Damn bro your so brave. I can't even go to the beach / pool cause I'm a freaking yeti and people always look at me weird.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:39 PM
5

I feel the same, impossible to have meaningful encounters yet I live in a touristic area
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:13 PM
1

What is that ?
/r/seduction04/02/22 04:22 PM
1

No and where I live people sit around tables so it's impossible to mingle 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction03/02/22 12:19 PM
3

You don't have anything to say about that.
/r/seduction02/02/22 12:11 PM
1

I shower every day Cut my own hair Don't like perfume or deodorant Don't like to wax cause I'm a Yeti Wear clean clothes Do I qualify ?😅
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:30 PM
2

Yeah sure and a tiara and bottle of wine ?🤣
/r/seduction31/01/22 07:15 PM
1

Your goal should be getting your match's number ASAP otherwise someone else will get in.
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:55 PM
1

When you're dating
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:07 PM
1

They just put an emoji and simps spawn from everywhere
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:31 PM
1

Go travel for a few months 😉
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:29 AM
4

I'm around girls all day and it couldn't be any harder.
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:13 AM
1

Either not interested, either she you as a friend, either okay mind games and succeeding. Ask her out or move on, who has time to waste 😁
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:33 PM
0

🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:25 PM
0

If you're approached by women then you're at minimum a 7/10
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:44 AM
1

Not sure about that they all said they want something serious 🤣 and I can't know more cause my match score is at zero. I'm confident it's not the issue, just that I don't fit their search. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:42 AM
1

Write everything out on a paper and then burn it
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:56 PM
3

I attract nobody so that's simple
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:05 PM
6

No idea I'm realistically not hot enough to attract anyone
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:56 PM
2

Ask her boobs size ,🤷🏽‍♂️ I don't even understand why she asked you that 😶
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:30 PM
2

They're the best you can buy
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:30 PM
1

Hell yeah 🍻
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:06 PM
2

Yessir so much !! Okay I am going to try to find some classes Absolutely but it's mostly ignorance I think.
/r/seduction25/01/22 09:03 PM
1

It's a must see, now with covid it's sad but you'll love it anyway. You're making me want to travel now 🙈 Oh yeah artsy girl ?? Any examples ?😅 It was hard AF, because people were not very welcoming with foreigners. Lots of judgements, etc Kids are ruthless tbh. With time it got better, I learned to ignore these people and focus on the good.
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:56 PM
1

Thank you it is. I was raised in France actually so french 😅 I understand Mauritian Creole but can't speak it very well. 🙈 Yeah for sure I need to try it again.
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:29 PM
1

3 weeks in Norway and 1 in Denmark in 2018
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:46 PM
1

Glad it worked out for you! I'm brown, from Mauritius.
/r/seduction25/01/22 07:42 PM
1

South African white or black ? Cause I never found them receptive to poc so maybe you got lucky or you have rad social skills idk 😂
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:07 PM
1

She found someone else dude, just move on
/r/seduction24/01/22 06:19 PM
6

Stop thinking that she's hot and just see her as a human being or a friend
/r/seduction22/01/22 11:29 AM
1

For reference what is a 10/10😅
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:59 AM
1

Not weird but personally I couldn't pull this off. Where I live people at bars all sit at a table so I don't see how a stranger would be welcome or could approach any group of people
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:56 PM
1

I don't have that luxury and it's wrong anyway
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:59 PM
2

I'm 5"6, brown from India, good job education personality and style yet girls don't give a F about me. Go to the gym to get some 💪🏽 and some confidence it will help you allot I think
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:30 PM
1

Food poisoning was a deal breaker I guess 😂
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:32 PM
2

I can't pull this off like I would feel super weird being alone at my table when everyone around are with friends
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:52 AM
101

Yeah we don't have the same life bro. Life didn't get any easier since moving out 🤣 All the stuff you need to manage is a pain 😁
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:32 AM
1

You magically slide in her dm ?🤣
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:18 PM
3

Same, go out then what 🤣
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:07 PM
2

Yeah I'm a positive person, I've learned to accept the things I can't change and focus on the real deal but I'll gladly take the reminder
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:34 PM
3

I'm around girls all the time from work (photography) but it's clear that friendship is their limit. I live in a city with poor melting pot unfortunately.
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:29 PM
4

I now it's stupid to think that but it's what I'm noticing everyday. Social proof is the issue, where I live my ethnicity is not deemed attractive (Indian) and on dating apps it's even worse cause they say it out loud without problem.
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:18 PM
7

She'll do the work for you 😉
/r/seduction11/01/22 11:31 AM
3

I talked to strangers for a year for a project, around 100 and it never lead to anything 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:03 PM
1

Well damn...how can you meet so many people and still be searching for
/r/seduction10/01/22 11:49 AM
1

Lmfao in your dreams 🤣
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:59 PM
-1

Yeah the op is not small 😂
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:43 PM
1

Definitely trying this
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:40 PM
1

Yeah cause they use too much
/r/seduction08/01/22 06:23 PM
3

Good question, where I live, all the people at bars are sitting down so it's super complicated.
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:57 PM
1

It's impossible to be your best self IMO
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:49 PM
1

What if I don't like sports ?😅
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:34 PM
2

As you have the luxury to fuck so many girls why do you even bother. Like just move to the next one if you can't be honest with them regarding your intentions
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:20 PM
42

I'm in the same boat and it's hard seeing everyone in a relationship in the streets, sharing moment and having fun. I don't have a fix for you but I've tried doing some stuff that interest me like photography in hope to meet someone people along the way. Hasn't work yet tho.
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:42 PM
1

Wasn't aware it was a thing ?😳
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:52 PM
1

I'll have to come to Paris haha, I shoot on film so I only made prints for this project.
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:14 PM
3

Before COVID, I had a photography project where I approached strangers to talk to and then take their portraits. I did 100 portraits and got 78 NOs and it's fine too, it was nice to talk to strangers, groups, couples and talk about anything. It didn't helped me create any new friendship or whatever I just improved on my self. Maybe I should try again but without the photography part. Nice share, keep it coming
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:06 PM
13

You need the emotional connection more than you think
/r/seduction02/01/22 10:29 PM
8

I wasn't aware they were open to it before the 4th date 😅
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:18 PM
1

Simple, drinks, then go get some takeout and end up at the beach for the sunset. But apparently it is too much for the few encounters I had so 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction31/12/21 01:35 PM
10

Great tips but I am at Step 0. Be invited to a social event
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:18 AM
9

I only match with people like that. Like we match, smalltalk, I propose to do something fun they agree, like very excited, etc, then when it gets real and it's time to plan they disappear, and no longer reply on tinder.. I know girl have 1000 of matches to choose from and don't give a fuck but still
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:00 AM
1

Ok I was just asking for oral stuff cause we got to stay safe too 😅
/r/seduction25/12/21 02:52 AM
1

How did you stay safe (HIV and all) from dating so many people ? You never go down?
/r/seduction25/12/21 02:47 AM
3

If it has been that long she's smashing elsewhere bro
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:27 PM
0

Don't sweat it, they're retarded. If you do it politely and with respect then it's fine
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:12 AM
0

People expect to be DM for dates on IG ? It feels super weird to me
/r/seduction11/12/21 05:24 PM
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