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| 1 | Approach anxiety owns meThanks! I will try doing that | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety owns meVenezuela, over here no one does this shit so I'm pretty much on my own. But I think that's fine I just need to keep trying | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety owns meLol, one time I thought it would be a good idea to just tell the girl to come over and then make my approach. I ended up telling a girl ''hey'' and called her over using my finger, the girl put a face of total disgust and I bet she was thinking ''What the fuck?'' and kept walking... Lmao I laughed the whole way until I got home saying to my self ''I can't believe I thought that would actually work'' it's so funny, it's exactly this kind of moments that make me wish I could get myself to approach… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety owns meI think that's a good Idea, thank you! I'll give this a try! | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety owns meHey u/Sentilam u/Candy-Cane69 u/user009818 So I went out today to try again and well, not much changed. I spent around 3 hours walking and just like yesterday I wasn't being able to get my self to approach, but before I gave up I remembered about the advice you guys gave me and did my best to clear my mind and just say the first words. And well I don't know if it worked or if it was something else but I managed to say the words! I saw this girl walking towards me and I said ''Excuse me, can I te… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety owns meI think that this helped a little bit, thank you! | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety owns meI do understand, maybe I'm still unconsciously scared? I don't know, but today when I was trying to approach that sensation of fear I used to feel in the beginning wasn't there so I still don't think It's fear. But I think we can agree on one thing... I have to keep approaching until I break the barrier and get comfortable doing it But honestly I've been thinking about this a lot and I think that's actually the opposite, I think that I might be unconsciously scared of the girl actually liking me… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety owns meThat's true, which is why I'll keep trying! Oddly enough, like a month ago I did a few approaches and by the end I always had the biggest smile on my face, rejection makes me feel proud of myself But I don't know what happened, I felt like I did 10 steps in the opposite direction and I need to get to where I was | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety owns meI spend the whole day talking myself to do it and at the last second I chicken out over and over again :/ Feels bad man | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Approach anxiety owns meNo wings, no social circles It's just me, myself and I | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Approach anxiety owns meHad no idea what this was so had to look it up, it sounds amazing but I don't think I'll find it here in my country | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Approach anxiety owns meThank you for trying to help, but yes I've tried doing that too I don't feel fear when I try to approach because I want the rejection I just keep talking myself out of it every... Single... Time... | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 9 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.To u/CompetitionFair7686 I'm sorry but Cold approaching isn't just about looks, just by the fact that you're walking to a random person and striking a conversation you're displaying confidence and your personality through the interaction Online dating is about looks, you're judged there only by the way you look, and anything else makes little to no difference Saying that cold approaching is just about looks is just stupid, but please give me an alternative, I kind of want to laugh. What would yo… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.i guarantee you that stuff can work only if you are her type Isn't this exactly who you should be aiming to date? Call me crazy but I rather get a flat rejection than to spend my money on dates and being dragged on by a girl that's not interested in me So in a way you can say that this is a good way to ''filter'' those girls | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 06:51 PM |
| 6 | Text game is inherently dryTotal rookies, you're on the right track. Someone once said "you can't win a girl over text, but you can lose a girl over text" Leave texts and calls strictly for setting up dates and make progress in person | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 07:05 AM |
| 93 | she wasted my time then laughs in my faceDamn... What a bitch If u wanna piss her off get a hot girlfriend and let her see you. She's gonna question her whole existence if you pull it off | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 05:29 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Just got home and oh boy I had such an awful day... I don't even wanna talk about it, what a fucking mess I'll still try again tomorrow tho | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'm also going out tomorrow to do some approaches, I'll tag along! | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Don't feel bad bro, we've all been there. All that matters is that you do not give up and try again. Just remember that the feeling you're feeling right now is much worse than rejection so next time you start hesitating remember the feeling and take action | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I I think I’m too nice and it may have gotten me in trouble. Like actual trouble. Please be carefulDamn I've never found anyone else talk about this, I'm saving this. This is genuine gold | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:32 PM |
| 4 | The Best Dating Advice I've Ever ReceivedOmg this is so true | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on getting high before cold approachingThat last sentence was powerful... I'm saving it | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You do you. If you tried this and it worked for you. Congratu-fucking-lations Just saying that this isn't the ideal way to go about this because it actually hurts your chances | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 10:59 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user]Ideally you don't want to validate women (compliment them) when you approach because you are unconsciously setting a frame that you are below her and feel lucky to be in her presence This kills their attraction very quickly for a simple reason... Women only date "up" and the reason i quote up is because it all depends on how you make her feel You can be homeless living with yo mama, but if a girl finds you attractive, you are confident during the approach and you treat her as if she's nothing sp… | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 07:09 PM |
| 41 | [deleted by user]That's wayy to much free validation for my taste | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you all make girls stop walking and pay attention to you when cold approaching?I missed the part where that's my problem | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:59 AM |
| 2 | How do you all make girls stop walking and pay attention to you when cold approaching?Yeah I guess you're right, some ppl said that standing in front of her can be creepy and shit but honestly I still fail to see how... Like I'm approaching on the street at day, if they don't want to talk to me they can still walk around me. It's not like I'm approaching at a hallway or something 😂 But yeah I guess I have to test this shit for myself and evaluate the reactions I get I don't mind people leaving bad advice or trying to stop me from what I'm doing because I follow advice with an stu… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you all make girls stop walking and pay attention to you when cold approaching?It's a bit hard for me to relate with this example because I always walk past this people without taking the papers 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you all make girls stop walking and pay attention to you when cold approaching?Hello, I know that is true but what you must understand is that a woman that is attracted to me, wants to get to know me, and would not mind eventually having sex with me will not be bothered by the fact that I took 30 seconds out of her day. The only ones that would mind are the ones that would never give me the time of the day, and if that's the case why should I put their desires above mine? I'm trying to meet the first kind of woman but in order to do so I also have to talk to the second kin… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you all make girls stop walking and pay attention to you when cold approaching?don’t get in her way Any special reason for this? tbh this was exactly what i was planning to do, not anything creepy but I was going to try to walk in front of her, stopping at a certain distance and saying excuse me and then delivering my opener | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]No worries, I know that this will be a very challenging jouney (even more in my case because I have no friends or go out at night) but I'm actually exited to do my best at it. There are really few things that scare me like this so I know I must go through this process. The only thing is that most times I have to walk for HOURS before I get myself to approach the first girl and it is very tiring and time consuming. I feel like when I'm done with this I'll have the lower body of a bodybuilder lol. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Bruh I don't know how can you feel like this, Like literally each time I get rejected I get uplifted and can't stop smiling because I actually got myself to do it. You need to look each rejection as an opportunity to grow and improve your game, examine how everything went and try to see what you did wrong. At the end you're not getting mentally fucked up but the total opposite. You will obtain what is called social freedom my friend, and that is way better than any used up pussy | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 05:36 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]What a fooking legend, I'm on my way to achieving this as well. even though I just started and I am on my 5th approach lol. I'm not giving up! | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | What is a good way to meet a lot of women?I'm shocked at how similar my life is to yours, we even have the same age. I think the only choice we have is to try our luck with cold approaching, I'm still in the process of killing my approach anxiety so no success yet but I'm confident that this is the way to go. Worst case scenario I don't get laid at all but I kill my fear of women and conquer my fear instead. It's a win win. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 04:19 AM |
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