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| 1 | How do I manage loneliness better so that it doesn’t disrupt my life?Loneliness is the leading cause of death worldwide. Just socialize man. Dog parks, bars, events, etc. Be vulnerable and start talking to people. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 11:22 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You need to get rid off this mindset ASAP. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Not really. I've repeated what OP posted when I was 26, and had just moved out and got my own apartment for the first time. Your social circle, confidence, and proximity of where you live with relations to the bar makes a huge difference. I was renting an expensive apartment in a downtown within walking distance to the strips of bars and had established a group of friends whom we had gone out with on a regular basis. This group consisted of both men and women. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 10:34 PM |
| 6 | Going to a bar tonight to try and approach someone. Any advice (M25)Looks like you got the prerequisite covered - personal hygiene. After that, I recommend having the mindset of socializing and having fun. Women are much sharper than men, and they can spot you from a mile away when trying to pick up. Focus on having fun and take the opportunity when it presents itself. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Lost all my confidenceExactly. I've accepted the inconsistencies in life. The up and downs. These include your charisma, your feelings, and your accomplishments. Just ride the wave and accept that not everyone will find you funny. Not everyday you will be on your game. By doing this, you will focus not on the end goal, but the process. And focusing on the process lets you sleep better at night. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do women settle at a specific time, no matter with who?You are right and my apologies. I should've said "some women." I stand corrected. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do women settle at a specific time, no matter with who?I am interested in hearing your experience. Did you go no contact and she reached out back to you afterward? And what age was she? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:42 PM |
| -4 | Why do women settle at a specific time, no matter with who?So the result is to take a gamble and have a child with the first person in line? As a man, I find it very intriguing. What I find most intriguing is how some of these women don’t get that they’ve gotten pregnant with another man, and still trying to reach back to their exes they’ve had great chemistry with. This is what I am trying to understand. As a male, I want nothing to do with an ex that had the child of another man no matter how good of a relationship we had. Why do women not get this? I… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Friends curvy cousin got what she wantedTLDR please. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:35 PM |
| 15 | [deleted by user]Because of the differences between different genders’ physiology, my dude. You can overpower women physically, but it is highly unlikely they can do that to you. You just gotta be in the right environment to be hitting on them. And driving them for work isn’t one of them. If, however they initiate, then absolutely go for it. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it supposed to be this difficult?I had a lot of success in meetup in my 20s. I guess it may be because I ran my own meetup, but I did have a lot of dates that just spontaneously happened. You just have to join groups that you are genuinely interested in. If you join Salsa events and you go there to pick up women, they will spot you right away. Just gotta tread that fine line. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 03:49 AM |
| 4 | After a shit tests you and says “I’m just playing!” does that mean you fail the test?That is like a sociopath behavior. Run away from women that does the hot and cold like that. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 38 | Is it supposed to be this difficult?Online dating is cancer and is fraud. Just join meetup or go to local events. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 09:20 PM |
| 9 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menOLD is a scam. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I can never date anyone whose social media consists of photos exclusively of them. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:08 PM |
| 38 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herAs someone who is older - mid to late thirties and have experience, the rule of clubs is this. You either close that night or there is a 99% chance you won’t see her again. You should have taken her over to your place or a hotel if yours isn’t available. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | I finally understand why being nice is such a turn-offYou said it better. I stand corrected. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | I finally understand why being nice is such a turn-offBeing nice is being needy, therefore it is a turn off. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Is this cougar hitting on me?Do tell. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:16 PM |
| 29 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thI am in my mid thirties. Really nice job! I wish I had half the courage as you have when I was your age. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 12:50 AM |
| 21 | Talking to a girl every single day for the rest of the year (update) June 22nd-25thHow old are you? | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 11:54 PM |
| 3 | How will the Roe v Wade decision affect the culture of casual sex, casual dating and hookups?I don’t think things will change much. Most people will travel to other states. This decision will mostly affect the people of color and poor people in general. Abortions will still take place, but not regulated. And it will cause deaths. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached storyI am sure you made her day. My only gripe is the approaching at work part. I tread carefully in those situations. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Very well said. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | I fucked my co-worker last night .. should i keep her around?Grats. Do you work in a serious office environment? Depends on a lot of variables. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Is a 29 year old asking out an 18 year old waitress creepy?:D :D :D | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Should I apologize for flirting with a lady who invited me to have drinks?Yes. Most likely. She is interested. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 3 | shit test pop quiz: what would you do?I don’t feel like wasting my time in any of these shit tests. That is what I do. If I sense a girl doing most of the things you’ve listed, I am cutting my losses and move on. Plenty of women who will appreciate who you are. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 12:36 AM |
| 6 | Best books for inner game?Models by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itRead Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm looking for a coach, I've been out of the game for 12 years.It is about your internal game. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 10:54 PM |
| 9 | I'm looking for a coach, I've been out of the game for 12 years.Yeah bro. Also read Models by Mark Manson. And don’t beat yourself up, man. You probably are playing so many scenarios of “what if I had done…” and she wouldn’t have cheated. Just use this as a chance to transform yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 10:05 PM |
| 11 | Should I tell this woman I'm dating about how I have anxiety?Dude, stop it. Of course not. When I was going through therapy for anxiety, my therapist, who was actually a PhD Psychologist told me that people around me cannot tell most times how anxious my brain is. If you already had multiple dates, your perceived level of anxiety is not stopping these women from continuing to pursue you. It is your need to explain this is the big red flag. You can, however subtly talk about it and laugh it off. "Ooops, my anxiety got the best of me." or something like tha… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]When in doubt, always assume she has no interest. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Different to every other guy. A 10 to someone could be a 1 to someone else. Rating someone is also just very immature. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes. Or get the audiobook. It is great. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah, true. I’d read Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 08:58 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]She ended it suddenly, so fight the urge of welcoming her back with open arms. She has to earn it back. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:49 PM |
| 23 | Date Gets Another Guys Instagram on DateGirl inviting you to the club is not a date, my dude. Are you sure it was a date? And are you sure, you guys are a couple? There could be a few reasons why she did that. Maybe she doesn't see you as a boyfriend, or perhaps she did it to make you jealous. Without knowing more details, you can't really tell. But, this is where the inner game of abundance mindset comes into play. You should not have been phased by this at all if your mind was at the right place, instead of asking us here. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Confused after hooking upWhat are you confused about? | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 06:17 PM |
| 64 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkStudent loan debt probably | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Does the whole thing feel like a chore? Do you actually want to bang this chick? Are you straight? Sorry, based on all of your comments I had to ask. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do you take any depression medication? I see that you have stopped masturbating and are very attracted to the woman. It doesn’t make sense to me that you can get hard but it goes soft when you insert it. This tells me it is in your head at a subconscious level. Something is holding you back. Are you straight? And how many women have you had intercourse with? You had the same reaction all the time? | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:59 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Honestly, it would be a huge turn off for me if the girl I am dating is still entertaining the idea of not blocking messages from an ex who keeps sending dick pics. And OP mentions he does not trust her with the details so 1+1 = 2. He has to draw a line. Or be a cuckold. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 11:45 AM |
| 7 | She says she she has a boyfriend FOR NOW!!I love and respect women, but one thing I will never do is take dating advice from my female friends. 10 out of 10 times, if we deep dive to my question of "Had Steve taken the advice you are giving me, would you have dated him/slept with him?" always lead to long pauses and agreements that she would have not. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | She says she she has a boyfriend FOR NOW!!Thanks. Adding this to my handbag. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:50 PM |
| 6 | She says she she has a boyfriend FOR NOW!!Do you want the OP to clearly state with verbose sentences what his intentions are? What you are saying makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:49 PM |
| 14 | what would you say are the most common mistakes men make when interacting with women they like??I am in my mid 30s and it makes me furious when I think of all the incidents where a woman showed clear interest in me, and I screwed it up. I would say, reciprocate, but don't open up fully by unloading your "issues," etc. Although a lot of these incidences were due partly to my ADHD and not being medicated. I would blurt out unnecessary/unneeded stuff when she was clearly inviting me upstairs, etc. If she opens a window for you to make a move, take it. Always. Don't be afraid to transition to … | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Whats your "Zero to Hero" story? (or other success stories)You don’t kiss and tell. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 01:38 PM |
| 20 | [deleted by user]And cutting that friend out. What kind of a friend or anyone with half a brain could say something like that. There are no leagues outside of your own head. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It looks like you don’t trust her. Just talk to her man. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]"Anyways I told lucky I had feelings for him not to destroy a relationship but more so for the fact I wanted to move on and get over him and just recently I have been able to do this." Really? | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Guys older than 30, how often have you slept with or dated women significantly older than you?Once when I was 30-31. She was a medical doctor that had something to do with one of the medications I was taking for IBD. Sorry, can’t give more details but it was an interesting night. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Advice after admitting you came on too strong.Why did you feel the need to say that to her? I think you have an underlying anxiety issue(s) and what you said is an anxiety binding experience. It mitigates your anxiety temporarily when you say it but comes across as confusing and perhaps needy to the outside. I think now is a good time to really analyze why you said that. Internally. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Am i being usedWhy don’t you ask him to see where he thinks you guys stand? | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Look at articles online to see how you should talk to a depressed person. I am guessing somewhere in there, there will be a suggestion to encourage therapy. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]She seems interested. And I think her message implies “just take me out already.” So maybe meet for a day and then drinks after. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 01:53 AM |
| 106 | Have you ever messed up your perfect tinder matchProbably has nothing to do with what you did. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 02:58 AM |
| 0 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.So once you walk away from her, do you just stand around? Why walk away? | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]He has a bigger chance of being with her now than if he has agreed to stay friends. What you fail to understand now is that feelings change. Perhaps he was friends with her in the beginning and developed feelings, hence him asking her about it. Her turning back and gaslighting him actually showed her true colors. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Should I keep trying after being ghosted..? Perfect looking girl from my past.No. Don’t blame yourself. You did nothing wrong, trust me. Had you not texted her and then she ghosted you, then you would have said “oh man! I should’ve texted her.” | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Should I keep trying after being ghosted..? Perfect looking girl from my past.I don’t think you fucked up. You played it playful and asked her to come over like planned. I hate situations like these, where everything seems to be going great. And out of nowhere, bam! Ghosted. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | How can I escalate on this girl when giving her a massage?Come back and update us. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I just finished about 80% of Models by Mark Manson. It had the most profound effect. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 2 | OLD: Responding to a Ghoster (kinda)Yes. You are investing way too much. The book Models by Mark Manson covers this topic in great details. You investing in someone you have never even met shows neediness. And that neediness is unattractive. I suggest keeping texts to a minimum after the initial chatting of getting to k ow each other and meet in person. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It has been proven that there is no such a thing like alpha male, etc. Just don’t be needy and enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:46 AM |
| 6 | I’m confused why this girl went radio silentGirls like these are headaches. Hot and cold is super frustrating. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | OLD: Responding to a Ghoster (kinda)Careful, meaning mentally. Don’t invest in it so much because it is online dating. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:25 AM |
| 2 | OLD: Responding to a Ghoster (kinda)Dude, of course. Get her number and start talking. Careful though. This back and forth is going to create a lot of headache for you. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 11:40 PM |
| 7 | What’s up with this married lady at my workplace?Why are you so invested in her? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 11:52 PM |
| 91 | [deleted by user]Honestly, this situation deserves intermediate level of skills. Some guys can take subtle cues and translate them so well and can also make subtle moves themselves. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | If you invite someone out for coffee can you kiss them even if it is a getting to know them date and not an established official date?Depending on the situation. I can either go with “I really want to kiss you,” and make eye contact. Or if the situation is a bit unclear and I want to find out quickly it she is receptive or not, I ask - “Can I kiss you?” No wrong answer. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | If you invite someone out for coffee can you kiss them even if it is a getting to know them date and not an established official date?Don’t get stuck in following a rigid program. Be fluid. It all depends on the situation. You can also ask the girl you are with if you can kiss her. I always had success asking this question. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?I did it in 4 different instances. AMA. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Do I salvage or walk away?Read/listen to Manson’s Models book. He definitely gave you as an example several times. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:14 AM |
| 6 | Asked for her number and she said next timeIf you have to ask, it is a no. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Success Story - Cold Approaching WorksCould you elaborate on your initial contact please? Do you remember how you opened the conversation? And great job! | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | I just asked a tinder girl out.Interesting perspective. Thank you for sharing. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I just asked a tinder girl out.She gave no counter. It is disrespectful. “I am busy this week and the weekend.” That is it. What should the OP do? Keep trying? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:16 PM |
| 5 | I just asked a tinder girl out.No. We are not agreeing with you. You focus unnecessarily in petty details. She offered no counter after saying she was busy for the whole week + the weekend. Stop overthinking this. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:12 PM |
| 8 | I just asked a tinder girl out.Not even a sacrifice. At least offer a counter, which she hasn’t. “How about next week when I am off from work?” Etc. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:11 PM |
| 0 | I just asked a tinder girl out.She also did not have a counter offer. Done deal. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Edited my post - the fear of not spreading it. Yep, fully agreed. I did mention that I would hate it to give it to her, even with the slim chance of me having it + transmitting it. Maybe my hyper analytical behavior scared her, dunno. I really hated losing her and did beat myself up, but it is what it is. I probably would the same given the situation and this was early in the pandemic with a lot of unknowns. But I also did have a lot of success with mature and intelligent women, and she clearly … | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 05:07 AM |
| 31 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?This! Gents, read this. If you are an ugly mofo - give a good vibe. You’ve got this! :-) | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Interesting that this was studied. I will definitely check out the book. Do you recall if the results varied by gender? I notice this a lot in my female my friends as a layman. They say one thing, but almost always do the opposite. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:51 AM |
| 14 | Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy?Agree. Quick anecdote- Went on a date with a hot 25 year old (I am in my late 30’s.) her body reaction told me she was very into me. Heading to the restaurant and she is always touchy and in close contact. Held my arm while walking, etc. That told me she was physically attracted to me. What ruined it was, that I felt a little sniffles and got paranoid of Covid and the fear set in of not wanting to spread it. Ended the date early and took her back with both of us wearing masks. Maybe that scared … | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 04:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You are fine. Yeah, then give her some space but do follow up in a day or so. After all, you need to get your stuff out of her apartment. Either way - if a woman truly likes you, they will come back. And if she doesn’t, then it was just a matter of time. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 08:24 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]And? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 02:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not all strippers are prostitutes, my dude. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:53 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]There are valid chances of recovery. On a positive note, what happens next will make or break your relationship. Send her a short message of an apology and move the ball to her court. Stay calm and wait for her to reach back. Do not bombard her with texts. Just very brief explaining that you were developing feelings for her, and her friend visiting her made you uncomfortable and act in an irrational way. And that you’ve made a mistake. And that you understand if she wants to move on because of w… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 15 | How do I ask my neighbor to cuddle with me?Don’t add her on IG unless you have exchanged usernames. It will come as creepy/stalkish. Just wait to see her next time and talk to her. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 46 | [deleted by user]What are you even talking about? I got a headache reading what you wrote. Calm down, collect yourself, and write it in a cohesive manner my dude. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you continue to seduce and go on dates with a girl that’s somewhat physically attractive but you’re not into at all mentally just for the sex?On my younger days, yes. Now that I am older, sometimes no and sometimes yes. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Cold approaches are working for meI wish I was half as brave as you at age 30. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Do girls like Indian guys?One of my close friends is Indian/brown, Canadian. He has 0 issues. Dated many white/brown women. I’ve also personally seen many interracial dating in a major metropolitan city. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 03:35 PM |
| 11 | Cute girl slid in my DMIt looks like whatever you have been doing works and she is interested. Don't overanalyze it and start pretending to be someone else. Just keep doing what you have been doing. | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | My formula for setting up dates from dating appsMan here. I find women who ask for my social media childish as well. I usually ask to meet in person, and offer to video chat before to get to know each other. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ding ding. Pay attention to what women do and they reciprocate by actions, and not what they say. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Girl takes hours to reply even half a dayI am in my 30s and had my own share of these unresponsive women. Some play hot and cold/ the common denominator is the occasional going cold and late responses. My suggestion- ask her about the possibility of you two dating. I have not yet figured out how to ask this question but I think it puts the final draw and let’s you know where you stand. Then there are those women who have these personality disorders/ they are headache too as it is not your job to fix them: | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 06:34 AM |
| 6 | Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.She is crazy. Rule #1 is don't stick it in crazy. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Feeling a little tight lolI am interested in hearing the responses. I did get hit with the "we are not having sex" card, but this was the girl I picked up from the bar. She was smoking hot and was dressed to have sex (lingerie and everything.) | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Why?They are not “shy” per se. It is years of being “taught” how to behave. I think mostly societal expectations of how a woman should behave. Whereas not a lot of judgment is placed on men. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:51 AM |
| 0 | Body Language Question - what does this mean?That is what I think. Do the same and approach her for a hug next time. I mean not super direct, but open hands, walk towards her and pause to see if that is what she actually means. LOL. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Is this good or bad?Sorry if you take this the wrong way. I skimmed what you wrote and noticed keywords like “uncomfortable,” “apologies,” “what do you guys think,” etc. Lately we have been getting a lot of posts like these. It screams - “I have no self esteem.” Dude - you wrote a chapter on an interaction you had. Have you ever seen successful men be this hyper analytical and lacking in self esteem? Stay calm. Accept the reality and be smooth. Give and take. It is a balance. And no, I didn’t read what you wrote bu… | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 28 | Go out and cold approach and don't worry about the girls saying not to.One thing I learned in life - is to take my good female friends' advice on approaches with a grain of salt. Almost all the time, when I ask them "so, if Steve followed your strategy, would you have dated/slept with him." and they always stumble and pause forcing a rethink. Sorry if I sound sexist, but this has been my experience. Best strategy - don't force anything. Be smooth. Notice a girl at a grocery store? You need to approach her whereabouts and say something neutral - "oh, damnet - I ca… | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Who can I talk to for therapy about datingCould you elaborate on this? Entering mid 30s here, and had a somewhat successful dating life - but not sure if it is isolation due to Covid, or something, I am getting the blues and getting my mind stuck on regrets of the past failures and keep ruminating on them. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else lose interest in a woman when she shows lots of interest in you?For me - I don’t. On the contrary, I like her amd embrace her more. That is if I am also interested in her. If it is a fling or someone I don’t see as pursuing a relationship with and just see her as a hookup; then I back away. That is to not hurt her. | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 01:02 AM |
| 26 | [deleted by user]Well done! My first ever one night stand happened during a solo night out. It really was a transformational experience for me. I’d be happy to share the experience one day in detail and go over my emotions and how everything turned out that night. 7 years later, I still embrace those lessons learned to this day. | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 12:55 AM |
| 2 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):And use retinol. I do both :) | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 01:57 AM |
| 12 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):Thanks for posting this. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I can tell by the sheer amount of words in your post that you are overthinking it. I am/was the same way. See this post as an ex: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/kyrcbw/7_hour_date_gone_wrong/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf The dude did overthink and did not go for it when there was a clear signal of attraction. My advice: Go in confidence in yourself, knowing, knowing or faking it until you reach the state of being perfectly happy with your life without the need… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:11 PM |
| 118 | Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself.I would disagree with "made a fool of myself" statement. Dude, sometimes the women could be seeing someone, married (without a ring), etc, etc. And women are humans just like us males, so I would say it was a fun exchange you had with no boundaries crossed and both parties had laughs. Please don't feel bad and keep going. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Fuck this seduction bullshit, man! Fuck it.Why you have lost yourself during the process is what you should be questioning. Life is all about learning and growing, my dude. But your desire of fucking the hot chick at the grocery store won’t change. It is how you approach the steps of gaining her should. Sure - you can just walk up to her and just say “hey, I find you attractive, can I get your number?” or you can choose something random to comment on and see how she responds. No one specific method is right or wrong, but you have to reco… | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Fuck this seduction bullshit, man! Fuck it.You are looking at it wrong. It is more about enhancing your existing desires and aligning yourself, rather than creating something different. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been interested in a parent at my daughter’s school, and not sure how to proceed.Instead of focusing on what could go wrong, I’d focus on what could go right, OP. Sorry, it is a bit of a cliche but life happens, my dude. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Guys that have multiple fuck buddies, how did you do it?The most I had was 4. It was exhausting to be honest. Just preserve your energy and don’t “settle”. Some say you have to trick your mind to go out with the mindset that you are “single” and “hungry”. I don’t know, it just happened. It will happen to you too if you keep at it consistently- going to the scenes where there are women, i.e. bars, happy hours, etc | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 02:30 AM |
| 12 | 7 hour date (!) gone wrong?"That would have been way too much?" My dude, she talked about sex, came over to your place... What else do you want? Her to open up her legs and say "come and do it?" How old are you? In my earlier days, I did experience similar scenarios but I mean, she gave you all the signals that she wanted to hook up with you. Her lack of eye contact and being nervous are good signs. She wanted you to INITIATE, my dude. Women will give you all the hints and signals, but they will want YOU to initiate. But … | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 2 | 7 hour date (!) gone wrong?we sat close to each other Did you initiate any contact? You have to play with your body language in this situation - touch her, rub her, kiss her neck, or something. | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Best contact info to give a womanYou flirt and go after married women? | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Hot and ColdShe did respond yesterday saying that she is sorry for late response as her weekend has been packed busy, but asking my availability for this week. She seemed sorry and forth coming. Do I cancel this week saying that I am busy and plan for another, or just go for it? | /r/seduction | 06/12/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Man up and go for it!Agree! What you did, OP is show confidence and initiated it - in which 9/10 men would not have. So that is something that will stick in her mind. What u/PokemonKidPUA is saying that "stirring up emotions and displaying high value" would be an icing on top of the cake you had already provided. Good job. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Hot and ColdAppreciate your advice - but her last text to me was Monday evening, saying “we should definitely catch up. It is scary times but we shouldn’t let Covid stop us from living life.” I asked her out yesterday (Friday) asking her if she is still vegan and that we should meet up for food and maybe drinks this weekend. If her message was on a weekend, then yeah. Either way - maybe I should’ve done what you said. Schedule a time immediately after her text and do your strategy. Oh well. Based on her his… | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Hot and ColdThank you so very much! You have no idea how thankful I am for taking the time and responding to me. Copy all loud and clear. No more texting on my end. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Hot and ColdAppreciate it! And holy cow, so true! She does check almost all!!!! https://149405263.v2.pressablecdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/10-signs-dismissive-avoidant-attachment-300x300.jpg | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Hot and ColdThanks! So absolutely no pursuing on my end anymore, right? Pride is going downhill if she doesn’t at least respond or do I text her a few weeks from now, etc with a Christmas wish, etc? Or no contact at all. Genuinely curious as I have some sort of autism and can’t read situations well. But super thanks for responding. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Hot and ColdAppreciate your comment, but I do date, lol. I am currently single hence reaching out. I did keep it neutral and she kept initiating so I went with the flow. But you are right. Maybe I should just forget about this chick completely. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Hot and ColdThanks, brother! “I keep second guessing myself” is what we have in common in this case. And it is eating me alive. Like - did I mess up the timing, did I respond in a bad way, etc? She just takes a sharp 90 degree turn. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Hot and ColdTo be honest - I did walk away many times because of this. She is hot for a few weeks, then disappears. Like she has mood and personality shifts. I then keep asking myself if I had done anything wrong, and start questioning myself. From her response - “we should definitely catch up! It is scary times but we shouldn’t let it interfere with us having fun”, etc gave me the vibe that she was game. And from my initial message - she initiated by asking me how I was doing and where I was, etc - so she … | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 08:55 PM |
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