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dasanman69 · 2022-02-04T14:49:15+00:00

The 'top' is ever changing. A top college player often times bombs when he/she goes professional. Now the mindset of top means that there's a final destination when there isn't. It's a never ending game in which you can reach top status at times and not the top other times. Just strive to be better than you were the day before. The only true competition is with yourself.

Home-Civil · 2022-02-04T14:51:13+00:00

What is "the top" anyways? Just be yourself and hangout with ppl you vibe with.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-02-04T15:06:40+00:00

You are looking at this the wrong way. The reason things like being in a fraternity or getting a high status job is that you have other people reinforcing the belief that you are worthy and therefore you give yourself permission to feel good about yourself.

This is the socially acceptable way to be good with women. The guy who is taller and more athletic is deemed a high value member of society by said society, the guy who joins a frat and has his frat brothers instill in him that he is part of an elite club, the guy is good looking and cool in high school and everyone thinks he is popular. The only advantage these guys have over you is that they have something society values and they are allowed to feel good about themselves and be confident.

See confidence is not something someone can give you, or something that you find somewhere. Only you can award yourself with confidence. But the w way society brainwashes us it tells us that if you are average or below average? You are not worthy of confidence. You are indeed worthless.

So guys like you walk around feeling worthless and they subcommunicate that lack of worthiness to the world but especially women and women don't want to touch you with a 10 foot poll because they are attracted to high quality, worthy guys.

Have you noticed some asshole who came in and took your girl and you spent agonizing nights thinking about how there is nothing special about him and how could she choose him over you? Maybe you are right, maybe you have better qualities than he does, but he has something you don't. He doesn't sit around wondering if he is worthy of banging a hot girl. He knows he is. He feels good about himself although you may think he is a jerk.

So focus on that. Focus on feeling good about yourself and not punishing g yourself for your perceived flaws or your less than ideal past. If you feel good about you and feel worthy, women will come easily.

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