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[–]CoffinEluder 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fear of rejection. Also, they know guys will approach them.
[–]Deep_Instruction4255 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They’re shy around you because you aren’t projecting calm confidence and emotional content in a way that entices them
[–]meogdon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Care to explain what you mean🤔?
[–]gordons_vodka_lillet 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is such bullshit. If a girl is not even a little bit nervous around you she doesn't really like you.
[–]double_prong 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Evolution. Women aren't shy per-se, they're risk-averse. They don't want to be seen as responsible for anything that could cause them problems later. This isn't just humans, in most animals the female is the play-it-safe sex while the males take the risks.
For example, in song birds which sex does all the singing?
[–]Doctor0z 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They are not “shy” per se. It is years of being “taught” how to behave. I think mostly societal expectations of how a woman should behave. Whereas not a lot of judgment is placed on men.
[–]Deep_Instruction4255 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’ve been around many women who were not shy because they were emotionally engaged in a convo with a calm confident person. Maybe try telling a short funny story that they can engage with instead of having just a list of questions. When women are unsure of your intent and level of confidence they may not be responsive in the way you want.
Also lots of women have lots of great reason to avoid whatever contact with strange men in most situations. Turns out we men are sometimes violent creeps and we need to be better. Some women are violent creeps too but the stats that I’ve read and women who have told me stories are pretty clear that it’s not on the same level
[–]meogdon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So how do you suggest a man learn’s how to tell an interesting story (one that is not used to telling stories)?
[–]Deep_Instruction4255 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Listen to great stories
Good answer👍🏾. And what are ways we can use stories to flirt/sexually turn a woman on?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same reasons why a boy might be shy, lmao
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's in their nature.
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