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Yeah and girls also say "Not here for hookups".. Which really means "I'm DTF" as long as you're not a beta simp.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:21 PM
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Of course, because your value goes up.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 03:02 AM
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Nice strategy. Anything else you Game related that's thinking outside the box like this one?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/21 11:58 AM
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I'm quite a bit older than you, and I also go after girls 25 and under as their more fun, more care free, look better, haven't hit the wall etc. Lots of DHV's The better your DHV's are, the more success you'll have with younger women.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:05 PM
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Fickle and flaky, 100%. That's why you need to stack as many good parts of Game together as you can. Everything matters, everything. Realistically you're probably doing almost everything not very well. Your approach, eye contact, body language, voice, opener, the framework of your set, how you get the number and pitch the date correctly, how to handle objections, etc etc.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:19 AM
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Leads is the most important thing. If you can get 20 new leads/numbers a week, even if your text is gawd awful, as long as you invite 100% of your dates to come to your place, even if you suck at almost everything else, there's no reason why you can't get at least one girl into your bed. That's 50 girls a year, and overtime, if you truly desired and improve your whole funnel, you'll get to 100+. Even if you suck at almost everything. So start with sourcing leads first.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:07 AM
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I find no difference between not attractive and attractive women when doing daygame. Unattractive women are sometimes the worst ones, angry at the world. VS The really hot ones often don't get approached in real life because everyone's afraid, hence them being just as cool as the others. Everyone loves making excuses. Plus even if a guy went after the less attractive ones, big deal. That's better than dying a virgin. These guys complain about all the girls only going for Chads.. These Chads aren…
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:44 PM
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I don't work. But even if I did.. ALMOST everyone here could do the same if they wanted.. "I don't have time" is a poor excuse. Get off and delete Reddit, IG, FB, Snap, TikTok, YouTube, Netflix, and PornHub off your phone. Now you have more than enough time to sleep with at least 2 new girls a week, every week. You can either make excuses, or make things happen, but you can't do both.
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:57 PM
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Most guys do and it's only hurting your ELO score.
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:50 PM
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Not all that hard to get a new girl in your bed every 3-4 days. Just work on your Game and follow my advice.
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:20 PM
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That is correct. It's quite simple. Go out and get 20 new phone numbers a week. Even if your texting sucks. You'll get 2 of those girls into your bed that week. There's your new girl in your bed every 3-4 days. If that's too difficult for you to comprehend, nothing will help you.
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:07 PM
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It's called optimizing your Game to give you the best possible opportunity to get the girl into your bed. Game is nothing but a sale.
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:03 PM
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I was only saying that don't take dating advice from short guys who always complain their height is why they keep failing. I know lots of short guys who do well with women, will it hold you back a bit of course, and so will everything else, it's all about stacking as many +1 positives as you can.
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:29 PM
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Yes I sleep with 100+ girls a year on average. Not all that difficult if you know what you're doing and take action.
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:27 PM
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This is you limiting self belief man, get the height thing out of your head, as it's only holding you back. Plus theirs ways to give the illusion of taller.
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:24 PM
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To be honest, my rule is don't spend any money on girl outside the house unless she has first. I made that comment because most guys are too scared to pull that off. $5-10? Coffee, ice cream, picnic, a bottle of wine while you walk the park, whatever you want. Your game shouldn't need to rely on you spending money on a girl. If you need to spend money to move dates forward you need to fix your game. 30-45 minute public date, seed the pull, take her back home.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:55 PM
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6' ish.. but I know Indian and Asian guys who are 5'6 and 5'7 who have 200-300+ notch counts. So leave your height excuse at the door.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:52 PM
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It's not, everyone choses who he wishes to cold approach or swipe R on apps.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:33 PM
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You don't even know the basics man, otherwise you wouldn't have agreed with that absurdity.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:03 PM
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bingo!! This shows me how you really don't have a clue about anything as far as Daygame.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:59 PM
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Waiting for IOIs or choosing signals or signs of initial attraction are only going to hold you back especially if you're new to daygame. It's too easy to make excuses.. Well she only looked at me for 1/2 a second, maybe she's not interested, I'll just talk to the next one.. She didn't touch her hair, she's probably not interested, I'll hit up the next one. Etc etc etc. By waiting for IOIs you're missing out on MOST of the girls that will date and sleep with you. Keep it simple, if you see a girl…
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:59 PM
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Everyone starts at zero. So you've watching videos and reading on this sub for how long? How many total approaches have you done?
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:25 PM
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How to pull girls,his advice is to either workout and focus on yourself or that game can't be taught Whoever says this you should never ever listen to them again.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:24 PM
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Maybe a little I'm highly competitive things that I take seriously, which is why I've been extremely successful at a lot of things in life.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:08 PM
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Get better during the interaction, get better at texting, get better at objection handling to significantly improve your meetup. Most guys here are really bad at all three of those crucial things.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:05 PM
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Stop making excuses. Get off Reddit, IG, Snap, TikTok, FB, Netflix, YouTube and Pornhub. Now you have more than enough time.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:04 PM
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you gotta lower your standards significantly. Ngl the women he went for were 5-6/10 at the minimum. Just because that's what he did, doesn't mean anyone else has to.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:02 PM
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Oh ok, so what you do, means everyone else should follow? Your way, is the right way? Nope, doesn't work that way. I'm highly analytical, that's how my brain works.
/r/seduction18/10/21 04:44 PM
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I do post my better strategies all the time, leave them up a few hours, then take them down. I'd be stupid to post my best ones, leave them up here for 1M+ readers to see, copy and then get overused and lose their effectiveness. That wouldn't make any logical sense. This is especially true for the specific text messages I send.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:36 PM
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You say you know everything there is to know about game right? If you really did, you'd be agreeing with this comment.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:32 PM
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We can agree to disagree, and nobody knows everything. And nobody on here or YouTube teaches anything but basic game or really bad game, like most, which is why this sub has a 99% failure rate. Failure rate - slept with under 5-10 girls total.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:31 PM
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Of course, but most of that is the teachers fault for not knowing how to teach daygame/game correctly. 99% of guys who take bootcamps still fail. Why? Because they were never taught the right way to do daygame.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:20 PM
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Her type meaning what exactly? There are Yes, Maybe and No girls. No girls are No girls even for Brad Pitt. Yes girls, some guys with beginner or intermediate game can close some of these. But if you don't know intermediate and more advanced game you're missing out on most girls, because most girls are Maybe girls. This is where proper good Game comes in. The difference between sleeping with 3-4-5 girls a year and 50-100. If one was so inclined. No, you don't know all there is to know, because i…
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:19 PM
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They don't act on the advice, because they're bad teachers.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:01 PM
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You can absolutely do that and see some results, but you'll get 10x more results and 10x more women into your bed if you optimize your whole sales funnel. You can throw up a website and maybe get a sale or two, or optimize everything and get more sales than you can handle.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:00 PM
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Even if I gave you one line, that won't help you much. This is only a bandaid to fix the problem. You need the full cure if you want to really be successful. Not bandaids and duck tape. You need to stack all the lines, phrases, texts, frameworks, together.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:58 PM
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Jealously, insecurity, fear, mindset, pick one or all. I'm not saying my way is the right way, but there's no excuses if a guy wants to go on one date a month, one date a week, anyone in this sub could accomplish that pretty easily if they got off their a$$ and learned proper game, stepped outside and talked to a few of the 4,000,000,0000 (billion) women in the world.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:56 PM
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nope. That sounds like a PUA coach tlaking nonsense trying to sell stuff to me It's called common sense. Game is a sale. It's like a business, you don't just go throw up a crappy website and expect people to find you and buy. You need to optimize everything, your offer, your sales funnel to get them to buy. This is super basic common sense a 12 year old would understand.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:35 PM
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Not for me. It's like a hobby for me. Some people sit home and scroll IG, FB, TikTok, or watch YouTube, Netflix and porn. Instead of that I choose to have a girl come over to my house, meet new people, learn new things, and have sex. Just a hobby to me.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:30 PM
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I think most guys who get attached often or easily are new to women, or haven't had many in their life. Desperation and fear they can't get another girl if it doesn't work out with the girl. Neediness, beta behaviors etc.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:12 PM
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It's not for everyone. There's no right or wrong way. It's like a hobby for me. Some people sit home and scroll IG, FB, TikTok, or watch YouTube or Netflix. Instead of that I choose to have a girl come over to my house, meet new people, learn new things, and have sex.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:02 PM
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Maybe the competition from other men is why you're no longer getting matches. Go out into the real world and talk to women. You get unlimited swipes and access to hotter women.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:46 PM
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Exactly this. 20 new leads a week and even if your texting skills suck, that's 2 new girls in your bed a week. There's your 100 girls a year right there. Improve your texting, invite all the girls straight to your place and have decent closing skills and that 100 turns into 150-200 girls a year.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:42 PM
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I've averaged 100+ girls a year for the past 13+ years, well over 1,000+ total. 100+ women is fairly simple. Learn proper daygame or online or night game and take consistent action. Most guys here could sleep with 100 women in the next 365 days if they were serious enough about it. That's only 2 girls a week.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:40 PM
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Todd V is one of the worst Daygame teachers on the planet. 99.9% of his watchers and students watch him for years and still havent approached 10 women. Almost everyone fails that follows him. Just search his name in this sub and you'll see tons of comments like.. "I've been watching Todd for years and still can't get over my approach anxiety, looking for wings". Fail after fail after fail.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:37 PM
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Definitely no right or wrong way to do it.
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:17 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, maybe in 5-10 years you change your mind. I can see myself getting into something more serious when I'm 60 or something ha.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:54 PM
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Find the best person you can find at daygame and listen to what he tells you to do. Hint - avoid everyone on YouTube as I haven't seen one guy that doesn't make the biggest fundamental flaws, and miss out on most of the girls.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:54 PM
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No, he's a horrible teacher. 99.99% of his people watch hundreds of videos for years and still get nowhere. So tell me your experience, about your Daygame and learning from Todd V. How long have you been watching Todd V? How many approaches have you done total? How many lays total?
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:53 PM
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That's up to you. Addiction, not for me. I could go months without sex if I wanted to no problem. I consider it a hobby. 50 girls a year is only 1 new girl a week. You can sit around and scroll IG, Reddit or watch Netflix or YouTube or have a new girl in your bed. Which of those you'd rather have is up to you.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:57 AM
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I've daygamed in the UK and had lots of success. Stop using the typical "My city is different that doesn't work here excuse". That mindset will only hold you back. And obviously *IS holding you back right now. If you think you can't, you can't. If you think you can, you can.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:55 AM
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Keep thinking this and missing out on most of the girls you talk to because you have no strategy. That's like just start a business and the customers will come.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:52 AM
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This is why the first rule of Game is to never take dating advice from women. Whatever they say to do, just for the opposite.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:51 AM
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I'm saying you probably lack the experience to understand what she's really telling you. Or what to say right before insertion if you're not sure she wants it.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:45 AM
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She wanted to have sex with you, and you weren't man enough to see this and push through how she wanted you to and lost interest. More experience will help you get that sorted out, so it does't happen again/not much.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:41 AM
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Next time decline and get the number instead. Otherwise most likely you'll just end up being another beta orbiter treating her like a celebrity, while she treats you like a fan. Advice? Message her asap, after a handful of positive messages ask her out ON DAY ONE.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:39 AM
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Because you're not boyfriend/LTR material. Just "fuckable".
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:38 AM
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The best way to secure a second date is by having sex on the first. Waiting two weeks in between dates? Yeah way too long, 5-7 days max.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:37 AM
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I do 2-3 minute interactions for day and night game, that is all you need, as most girls know if they want to date/sex with you in 2 minutes. As long as you do most things right, you have good odds. Then on to the next girl. 15-20+ numbers and that'll give me 100-200 lays a year for only one day or night of work, especially if you add in a little Tinder/other apps. Sounds like it'd be easy to get over that. Go out the next 7 days and get at least 10 numbers a day, 70 leads, and you shouldn't be …
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:36 AM
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Deep down it's all just an excuse. I call it.. getting ready, to get ready When I get ripped, then I'll learn game.. When I get a better job, then I'll learn game. When I get a nicer place, then I'll learn game.. When I get a nicer car, then I'll learn game.. Insert whatever other excuses they can come up with.. All the while they've spent 3-5-10+ years watching hundreds of YT videos and reading thousands of posts on here and yet haven't even talked to 10 girls out in the real world and still at…
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:25 AM
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No clue who that is?
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:19 AM
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Dialed in life doesn't put girls in your bed. Anyone with half a clue about seduction/pickup knows that's basic game 101.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:14 AM
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I see a hot girl I talk to her, get the number, set the date, she comes over and we bang in 30 minutes. I have no interest in all the strong emotional connection BS. I'm not trying to marry these girls.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:13 AM
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There's no right or wrong on what kind of sex life you want. But if you want a lot of girls in your life, Game is more important than anything else, and it's not even remotely close. A list celebrities/athletes don't count.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:10 AM
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If you have good Game, you're getting both.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:06 AM
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Good Game meaning they can sleep with 100+ girls a year, every single year without fail if they were so inclined. Even if you're only getting 50 a year, I wouldn't consider that good game. If they're on that level with no Game, they're the exception, nowhere near the rule. If these guys are only sleeping with like a girl a month, that's not really all that much.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:03 AM
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Not really, not really at all. With Game it'll be 10-100x versus no game. There's posts here daily about good looking guys who get lots of IOIs, good job or business, hit the gym and are still virgins or have basically zero success with women except maybe a few girls who did all the work.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:51 AM
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Without Game you're getting no girls at all. (Generalization)
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:46 AM
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That’s the hard part though is over coming that. This is because 99.9% of guys who try to learn daygame do it ALL WRONG and learning from guys who don't have a clue on how to do daygame and teach people.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:43 AM
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This is true, but 95% of the guys in this sub and off this sub all think all that is more important than Game. A guy can have all of that and still have no girls in his life because he has no Game. If you want lots of girls in your life learn Game first. That should be your priority over everything else. And then do other things along the way.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:39 AM
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Thank you Wayne Gretzky. True, 99% of the guys on this sub pass girls everyday on the street that could be in their bed within the next 24-48 hours if all they did was open their mouth and say "Hi".
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:38 AM
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Yeah like I said, handle objections, because you're going to get at least 5-10 or more just to get her home, many of them 2-3x+. Unless you can handle all of them exactly right, 95% the time it's not going to happen. Night game same night pulls (consistently) are not for newbies or intermediates. Which is why 99% of the guys who night game are doing it wrong, and they shouldn't be trying to pull the same night, they're just killing their lay count. "Why would they let their friend go with you, a…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:30 AM
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Out of curiosity, how did you retire at age 20? Yeah and the reason why the cool background is because I haven't had to work for 20+ years, so plenty of time to do cool things. Successful business and investing. As the man you need to lead everything, you need to get them talking. You don't really need the girl to chase, that's overrated talk from guys who really don't understand real game. The only time you want the girl to chase is after you've had sex, after you've withdrawn serious attention…
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:23 AM
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I have a METRIC TON of super unique things about me, super well traveled, lots of unique hobbies, know a little about almost everything, retired at age 20, know lots of people, famous people, dated A list celebrities, models, acted, professional sports, it's endless. All those things hook the girl but most of those I never mention, maybe over years if I know the girl for a while, and I generally play the mysterious guy card, treat almost every serious question like a shit test, and I don't reall…
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:36 AM
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None of that puts girls in your bed. There's tens of thousands of guys who like the outdoors and have dogs. Most of them are still struggling with girls.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:40 AM
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do they try to keep you around? Almost all of them want or would like to see me again. I get girls really hooked really quickly for a million reasons that are unique to me, not even Game related.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:27 AM
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I used to do big rotations when I was newer to game or it just kind of happens every few years or so. But in general I personally don't like rotations. I'd rather meet a brand new girl, even if she's not as hot as a girl I've already been with. It's way more fun and exciting to meet a new girl vs meeting up again with an old. Of course I meet a lot of my old girls, but they're definitely all on the back burner to new girls. Plus I hate having to do maintenance bangs every week or two at the most…
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:14 AM
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Normal I think, the more women you're around and get with, the harder it is to find someone you're truly interested in. I sleep with 100+ girls a year on average for the past 13+ years, it's rare I meet a girl who I really care about seeing more than once or twice. I think part of this is because you no longer suffer from oneitis.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:03 AM
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Depends on where the lead came from.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:49 PM
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This is because online dating is the hardest place to consistently get the higher quality girls. The hotter girls have way too many options, coming in from every direction. "or approach more women IRL to have plenty of options going at once but since the majority will be duds (talking qualities not looks)" Improve your daygame and text skills to improve your meetup percentage. This is the only answer.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:49 PM
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She wanted you to know she's available.. she liked you. Did you get the number and set up a date?
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:28 PM
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Agree, talk to her like nothing happened, remind her of something you both enjoyed together, something to connect with, 4-5 good message exchanges and on a high note, pitch the meetup again - NO DINNERS or any other nonsense.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:03 PM
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By agreeing to what she offered.. meeting as friends.. But when you meet up, do what you should have done on the first date. Talk, flirt, sexually escalate and have sex.
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:43 PM
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This is why I always think 99% of guys shouldn't even be trying to same night pull from night game (except the last hour before you leave/club closes). There's way too many variables, and if your objection handling isn't on point you'll keep failing unless you get lucky every now and again. It's extremely inefficient if your goal is to sleep with lots of women. Even the best night gamers in the world only sleep with a girl every 3-4 times out. You should just treat night game like daygame, as yo…
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:42 PM
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"idk if i have the capacity for romance or intimacy right now, but i have alot of fun with you and want to keep hanging out! If your free this weekend we should hangout." Let me guess, 4 dates and no sex? If so, there's your problem, by not escalating and having sex, you friend zoned yourself. Salvage, maybe.. agree to whatever she says, go out with her again, and this time you 100% better escalate and have sex or it's probably GAME OVER.
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:34 PM
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Need more details.. conversations with a girl you meet randomly doing daygame? A girl you already know?
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:32 PM
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Logistics - how come no mention of logistics, you should be doing this within the first 60 seconds of any set. Also why didn't you just pull the first set to your or your wings' place? Don't venue change, get them to come back to your place, but even better is to try and isolate the one girl you like from the group and get her to come back with you, because unless you have a large house with multiple floors, you'll most likely get cockblocked by the group unless you're really sneaky about gettin…
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:31 PM
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See a guy you like, that you think you'd maybe get along with out on the street or wherever, go up to him and have a conversation.. If he seems cool, exchange your info.. "It's always great to expand your social circle, and I always throw parties/get togethers let me get your info and I'll text you when I do my next one" Do this with 5-10 guys a week, and invite all of them to your place or something else (It could be as simple as meetup at Starbucks it really doesn't matter. And you can also te…
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:06 PM
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"I’ve been reading books/doing online research, as well as putting some techniques into practice through cold approaches." How many books have you read and how many hours of line research have you done? How many total cold approaches have you done in the last 30 days?
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:52 PM
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"I of course ignore all of this as anything else coming from her but wtf is that shit? Seriously... I know that girls try to keep you on stand bye even though they are already with the next guy but this seems kinda extreme to me..." Slightly extreme yes, but this is pretty typical and to be expected if you date enough girls. Only you can decide if it's worth keeping her around in your life for the money and cats.
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:51 PM
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Online dating is good, but if you just do what every other guy does, you'll fail.
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:58 PM
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Depends on how you do it, for most guys, night and day, because most guys go for same night pulls doing night game as the focus. That's super low percentage, even for the best night gamers in the world. I think it's a bad strategy, unless you'd rather sleep with way less girls overall. I don't, I treat them more or less the same, just like daygame. The last hour before the club closes or I'm leaving I'll sometimes then go for a pull in the same night, but this is usually after I've already grabb…
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:56 PM
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Talk to lots of girls, meet lots of girls for dates, get a bunch of girls in your bed. Are you more interested in daygame or night game?
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:45 PM
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Because OP is a socially awkward with no game. Telling him to go out there and just talk to girls without knowing exactly how to build up from zero will never get him anywhere. OP should also start with daygame, not go straight to night game.
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:41 PM
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100% agree and while it's severely outdated it's still better than nothing. But you've just read a full book, how many girls have you actually gone out and used this knowledge on? No action = no results. 4,000,000,000 (billion) women in the world, go out and talk to a bunch, if you mess up or get shot down, cool, there's still 3,999,999,999 more women.. You basically get unlimited swipes and messages so go out and there and get to it.
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:34 PM
2

It's probably not listed because it's way too outdated. Stop reading all these books and start getting out in the real world and start talking to girls.
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:08 PM
2

I invite 100% of every girl I meet on the street, club or online dating straight to my place. You can also do a free or cheap date out near your place, within walking distance or a 5-10 minute drive max. $5-10 max on any date, unless she's your gf.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:47 PM
1

Plans were for today? You should've texted her this morning.. not wait for her. To try to get some objections early, so you can handle them and still get the meet.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:35 PM
4

Your fault. Delete and block her from everything. If she reaches out in some other way, delete and block. And for the future, stop being such a Mr. Nice Guy and taking girls out to dinner who aren't your girlfriend otherwise this sort of thing will keep happening.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:24 PM
3

All of those things don't put girls in your bed. That's what Game does.
/r/seduction17/10/21 06:11 PM
1

100% facts.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:47 PM
0

I don’t need plausible deniability. I want them to go home with me and my making dominant moves I take them home. I see, even more typical newbie mistakes.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:46 PM
-2

100+ girls a year on average, the past 13+ years. I get plenty. And no, you blow all your plausible deniability by kissing her in a non-sex can happen place. Typical newbie mistake.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:39 PM
0

Deny it all you want, but it's the truth.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:16 PM
1

No, you'll end up scaring her away. When she's ready, she will ask you.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:58 PM
2

Disagree.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:54 PM
3

Plausible deniability is always the best option, unless she starts telling you things like "Hey are you free Tuesday at 8pm, I'm horny and want to fuck".
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:54 PM
1

Don't ever take a girl out to a fancy restaurant as a first date, or any date unless she's your official girlfriend. Never ask a girl if she's in a relationship, unless you're only looking for an LTR girl. If you just want to have sex, then never ask. Why bring up cockblocks when you don't have to? So you don't want to escalate, even though you know it'll end you up in the friend zone, cmon man.. You know you need to escalate, so just do it. "Should i ask her straight up if we're dating next tim…
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:41 PM
3

1 rejection, big deal, who cares, there's 4,000,000,000 (billion) other women in the world to go talk to. Guys need to stop taking things so serious.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:37 PM
2

The population density being high is the problem This is a great thing. Lots of girls to practice with and endless options.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:35 PM
0

So walk, drive, take the bus or train to a populated area and get your practice in.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:19 PM
1

Learn better game + talk to more girls.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:05 PM
2

Not really, the devil is in the details. Every single little tiny thing all matters, some not so much, some make all the difference in the world.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:03 PM
1

True for life, business, health, dating, everything.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:57 PM
4

I've seen uncut infeild from all the pros You mean all the guys that don't have a clue on what they're doing? Go ahead and search on this sub for Todd V, Tusk, RSD, whoever else, these guys watch their videos for years and 99.9% of them get none or very little results.. And 99.9% of their paid students get no results because they don't even understand the very basics of daygame and don't have a clue how to teach beginners. If they knew what they were really doing, they wouldn't have a 99.9% fail…
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:57 PM
3

"those guys who couldn’t talk in person are online now," Exactly. If you want what others don't have, you need to be willing to do what others won't.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:52 PM
2

That's the basics, that's not a strategy. I beg to differ, it absolutely is. Every little tiny detail makes a small difference, some not much, some the difference is night and day. If you go out today, can you consistently get 10-20 numbers with a bunch of dates already set up on the first interaction? I do this just about every single time I go out. Lucky? No, I've done way over 10,000+ cold approaches and optimized and tweaked every little tiny minuscule detail. The devil is always in the deta…
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:50 PM
1

When you walk out your front door, are their girls around? If yes, there you go. Usually the simplest option is the best one. Forget social circle, that's the least effective way to do it, unless you know some of the few ridiculously effective strategies to do it, which you're not going to find on here or YT.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:47 PM
0

It's all about strategy. Bad strategy = very little success. Great strategy = lots of success.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:45 PM
-1

Talk to lots of girls, take lots of action, this is the only way to get a bunch of girls in your life.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:37 PM
19

yep - daygame is basically tinder but in person. Yep, with all 4,000,000,000 (billion) girls on the planet with unlimited swipes and conversations. Lots of surveys suggest that 80-90% of all single women aren't on dating apps. That means that 99% of the guys are only fishing for 10-20% of the women. This is why I always say that Daygame is like a cheat code to getting an unlimited abundance of women in your life.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:36 PM
1

james bond James Bond sleeps with his girls.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:28 PM
7

DM me I got a good resource for guys your age. Before you learn Game, you need to know what a man is and how to be one, and understand the basics of female nature, and how the male/female dynamic works. This needs to come before learning Game, or you'll never be truly good with women.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:26 PM
1

How are you with conversing to men or women who you don't find attractive or old?
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:22 PM
-11

It's not. It's the same everywhere. You need to show you have a higher SMV than everyone else. Don't dress like the average Indian - stop dressing like a boring beta. Don't act like a boring beta - be more manly and go after what you want. Learn proper Game and take action.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:21 PM
5

I think this is actually the fault if men getting way too eager. Online everything just made it easier for them to try to get in on the dating game. Versus 10+ years ago, these same guys weren't talking to any girls at all, unless one fell into their lap because of work or their social circle.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:18 PM
45

At least she's good for something.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:16 PM
2

You're probably making the #1 mistake most other day gamers do. You're not setting the date on the in person interaction. This doesn't always work but you should be trying to leave the set with the date already planned. You'll get an infinite better response to your first text afterwards. As far as spending more time with the girls, this is what most guys suggest. I strongly disagree. Most of the time, most guys will spend too long, and at some point the conversation dulls out, the girl loses in…
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:15 PM
4

100% not. You've already gotten massive preselection. Back when I wasn't as advanced as now when I used to do public dates before taking them back to my place I'd meet at the same place 2-3-4-5+ times a week, and the workers just give you that confused WTF how is he doing this look.. If anything this probably boosts you in her eyes.. "Who is this guy who gets all these girls, I'm intrigued, I'd love to find out more about him" So yes, ask her out, she may give you a shit test or two, so be prepa…
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:08 PM
1

the suspense is killing me! haha I backtracked and made my reply more simple, guess I missed the delete on that. One on one with a woman from Tinder is whole different world vs other social settings. Obviously what you're doing isn't working, so either keep doing what you're doing and getting the same results or try out new things. No wrong answers, up to you what you want to do.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:04 PM
17

"Girls seem much more reserved and prudish when it comes to sex these days." This is because unlike 9 years ago when girls didn't have many options, where as now girls are getting hit up by guys 20-50x a day. Text, Snap, IG posts, IG stories, IG DMs, FaceBook, TikTok whatever. Solution: Learn proper Game - have as many options as you want and can handle.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:02 PM
-4

He's the man, he leads. You're the female, you follow his direction. You don't need to do anything as long as you're showing high interest to everything he's doing. He puts his arms around him, put your arm around somewhere on his body and acknowledge you like it by pulling him in tighter for a few seconds. Hand holding is acceptable for most guys yes, so go for it. And be vocal, tell him sometimes how much you like it.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:59 PM
1

99% of the guys in this sub can just implement everywhere there and probably double their lay count over night. Go from 5 lays a year to 10. Then get better at texting, dates and everything else in Game and turn that 10 into 100 a year. Then add tons of leads to your pipeline and get that number 200+ a year. (if one had the time and so desired)
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:56 PM
1

I've been doing this forever. That's why I notice how much people never look back at me haha. Maybe you're coming across as to Beta Nice Guy, be more manly assertive and confident.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:51 PM
3

Which is what you're missing out on with this strategy. The hottest girls, have the most options, and are going to be the hardest to get to meet up with. (generalization)
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:24 PM
3

If he follows up thats some simp behavior This strategy puts more girls into your bed, then just giving up.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:21 PM
3

100% agree OP messed up, but she's still a warmish lead who he already knows in real life. Advice, like I'm saying here, don't give up so easily and keep pushing. Most girls aren't easy YES girls and just meet up without any objections.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:06 PM
3

Learn your lesson. You don't wait for a second chance that may never happen. And keep trying with this girl, do not give up easily like most guys.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:04 PM
5

I've never found it much different there. Get the number. Invite 100% of the girls straight to your place. If that doesn't work, tell her to meet/park at your place (because it's easiest for her) and because there's this cool X place within walking distance from your place. Try to get her to come up when she gets there anyways, if she doesn't go for that then go to the local place for 30-45 minutes, seed the pull, pull her back to your place for X plausible deniability cool reason, flirt and hav…
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:03 PM
3

It's often easier to reel in a fish you already have on, than go try to hook another one.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:51 PM
2

Closed mouths, don't get fed. You can't be passive and get girls. You must be the one to make the moves and lead the interaction towards your targeted desire, the girl in your bed.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:15 PM
2

Girls just don’t flake last minute Yes they do, often because of overthinking and their brain coming up with objections. If you want to turn these girls into dates and women in your bed you need to find out what these objections are and handle them to get her back on the path to meeting. Game is sales. Learn how to handle objections to get the customer to buy (meet you for a date). Of course some girls will come back and chase, but you're missing out on way more girls who could be in your bed by…
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:14 PM
2

Not at all I've lived and continue living an amazing life.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:06 PM
13

You can't run before you learn how to walk. Next time you go to the club, just make it a goal to talk to every guy in the club. Yes I said every guy. If you do that, it's win. If you're not comfortable with that, make it 20, or 10, or 5. But whichever you chose, if you're not pushing yourself slightly outside of your comfort zone, you're not growing, and things won't change. And the next time talk to all the men, and talk to a few girls too. Then slowly you can talk to more girls than men etc. Y…
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:00 PM
0

100% this. Go out and get 10-20+ numbers, work those leads over the next 7 days, and get 2-5+ girls in your bed per night out at the club. VS Deal with a whole lot of BS to maybe get a girl home a low percentage of the time.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:47 PM
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Did you kiss her? Generally a bad idea as it'll only hurt your chances of the same night pull because all plausible deniability's gone.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:46 PM
1

Same night club pulls is just about the hardest thing to do for most guys. Meet, get her logistics within the first 60 seconds, try to isolate and pull her away from her friends within the first 3 minutes, move her to another location in the club/bar, seed the pull, move her closer to the door, handle objections, get her outside, handle more objections while taking her home. You better live close by too, less than 5 minute walking distance preferred, if you live 30 minutes away, most likely neve…
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:46 PM
5

Normal no, as most guys prefer their age or younger. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with liking older women, so just do you. Plenty of older women will go for younger guys. You won't really get them on dating apps, you need to go them. See them on the street and go talk to them, or go to where that age demographic hangs out. Wine and piano bars, adult type places.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:42 PM
1

"I was looking forward to getting to know the kind of person you are to see if I like you, but I found it rude that you canceled last minute so Indont think there is anything there". Fairly decent response, I would've worded it a lot different, but don't like the last part as yeah some girls will then go back to chase mode, but a lot of girls will get turned off by it because I think it comes off as slightly but hurt and beta.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:40 PM
2

Horrible advice.. three weeks? All OP has to do is be a man, state his intentions, and set another date. Not wait three weeks to only drag your odds down of making happen down to like 10% or lower. "If she declines or cancels last minute, on to the next one." This is also horrible advice as you'll just end up missing out on a huge percentage of girls if you would've just played the game a little longer.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:38 PM
1

No.. she's a maybe girl and wants to get more details, and probably kinda of a shit test as well.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:36 PM
2

2 days and no response? 100% normal. Sounds like she's giving you opportunities but you're the one not taking the initiative and making it happen. Girls at a party and you wait for her to come to you? Yeah, sometimes this happens, but don't rely on it. You're the man, you're the one who needs to lead.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:32 PM
2

Disagree with this. Why waste a warmish lead and start over fresh with an unknown. When OP has a great chance of getting the meetup.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:31 PM
2

Nope, but I've seen your comments here before. Pretty much whatever you suggest, just do the opposite, because you really don't have a clue.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:28 PM
7

Do you even read people's posts before replying to them?? Yep. "Doing it in the day is disruptive to others unless certain conditions are met. Like for example, if you're her classmate, it's totally acceptable to ask her out. But you being some random guy in a fast food walking up to one of girls who work there alone and then trying to lead the conversation to a phone number? No." You lack the confidence to do approaches unless they're only the easy ones.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:26 PM
4

Stop watching porn as it's only killing your Game. You lose all your sexual desire and become more passive. Versus horny and trying to find a girl to have sex with. Practice your eye contact every day, all day long while out in public. Look at everyone in the eyes as you pass them. Men, women, young, old, fit, fat, doesn't matter.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:15 PM
3

Nope but that 20 year old technique is probably better than what you just posted.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:13 PM
2

IG only helps if you're in the top 5% of your market area. Which generally means that if you don't have professional pics of you doing lots of high value things and posting high SMV stories regularly then IG will only hurt you. Because most girls have guys on her IG that are hitting her up that have all those things. And instead of not giving her your IG at all and keeping your life more mysterious, you just opened up your life and show that you're below her other guys vying for her attention. A…
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:10 PM
7

100% normal. Give the guy a break.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:06 PM
1

No woman is too busy to take an hour or two out of her day to meet a cool guy. Improve your online SMV and texting skills.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:05 PM
5

You're a man. She's a women. Man sees woman he likes. Men always go after what they want in a confident way. Man walks up to girl. Man talks to girl. Man flirts with girl. Man gets date. Man gets number. Man leaves. Man meets up with girl. Man talks, flirts, sexually escalates and has sex.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:03 PM
2

Funny you thought I was serious. The line's ridiculous.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:02 PM
27

By touching your first breast in life. Then everything changes.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:01 PM
50

Daygame will almost always put hotter girls into your bed than Online Dating. Instead of never seeing the hottest girls on apps because of your ELO score, or even if you match with them, the odds of meeting them are low. Of course you may get a few because of perfect time, but consistently getting girls at your level and especially higher, you need to go out into the wild and go talk to them. Daygame is a skill anyone can learn if they give it 100%.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:00 PM
13

Doing it in the day is disruptive This is a bad self limiting belief and mindset to have and why daygame will never work that well for you unless you change it.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:58 AM
3

I usually go with "kangaroo" but that'll work too.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:57 AM
1

Yes and it never ends well. It's a waste of your precious time on this planet.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:55 AM
4

Finally the magic one line I've been waiting all my life to get every girl I talk to into my bed.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:54 AM
3

Are these public swinger clubs that any guy can go to or private clubs? Because if they're public clubs with 50 guys to each girl, you're going to be an Alpha Chad or have some really good Game. VS Private clubs where it's usually about 1 : 1 male to female ratio.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:52 AM
11

Social media game is probably the hardest Game there is. This is what most guys are doing and why it doesn't work. You can't have what others don't, if you're not willing to what others won't. Delete social media and go out in the real world to talk to girls. There's 4,000,000,000 (billion) girls in the world, get off social media and go out your front door and go talk to them.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:46 AM
50

Yes, tens of millions of guys. Common misconception #284 Guys think just because they look good or like a Chad the girls will just smile at them, wave them over, and tell you they want to fuck you, and ask you can show them your bed and get naked for you without any work (Game). Every single guy on this sub need to get this creepy word out of their mind. Going up to a random girl you like, isn't creepy. It's called being a man and going after what he wants while having a human to human conversat…
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:42 AM
3

Make out, kissing and no sex? He's probably just tired from lack of sleep. Sex? It takes a lot of energy out of a man when he cums.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:35 AM
1

You can continue to stay in your comfort zone, where nothing changes. OR Get out of your comfort zone, take action, and things change. The choice is yours.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:33 AM
1

Step #1 - Learn Game. Take massive action. Get an abundance of girls in your life. No point in waiting until you figure other things out to get girls in your life when you can start right now. Step #2 - Get your money figured out so it gives you options. Step #3 - Then go and do whatever the F you want, when you want, wherever you want.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:31 AM
1

So then why are you wasting your time? Delete social media and go out your front door, there's 4,000,000,0000 (billion) women, endless girls to talk to.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:24 AM
1

Get off of social media, it's only hurting your overall Game. Get out into the real world and talk to girls.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:23 AM
11

Yes exactly, but 99.9% of the guys here wouldn't have had any idea what I was talking about if I said that.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/21 11:13 AM
1

It's not what you say, it's how you say it. I generally don't like "career women" as their often times not feminine but I've been around many, and it never seems to matter, maybe you don't know how to make it come across the right way, all girls are curious about what they don't know, let them hamster wheel.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:29 AM
3

Yes then don't wonder why you keep failing. Women aren't going to smile and wave you over and then ask to go back to your place and then strip naked upon entering and tell you to fuck them. This isn't porn.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/21 05:25 AM
1

You can always make your lame job seem interesting or treat it like a shit test, or make something up that's ridiculous and keep it moving. Keeping things a mystery works wonders. Never make things easy like every other beta.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:23 AM
1

Yeah of course, but this sub isn't really geared towards settling down. But yeah of course I agree that stuff matters more if you're looking to get married. But I find no matter what age, 18-40+ year old women, career and money make virtually no difference at all, unless you're trying to play more of the long game or trying to put a ring on a girl.
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:14 AM
5

If you think you're a creep, then that's the energy you're going to give off and probably come across as a creep. You need to fix your mindset. You're a man. Men like women. Men talk to and flirt with and have sex with women. Be a man. See a girl you like. Talk to her. Pitch the date. Get the number. Confirm the date. Meet. Talk. Flirt. Sexually escalate. Have sex. There's absolutely nothing wrong with any of this. This is what both men and women want.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:08 AM
1

Sounds like she's definitely open to banging, you're just going to have to work the communication and interaction correctly. Give up? Why? This girl is a pretty warm prospect. Most of you guys are giving up way too easily. Girls give objections and you handle them. It's a sales process. Small baby steps of compliance until you get your desired outcome.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:05 AM
1

If they were YES girls they would've met up. Guys who don't have any or much game, get the YES girls. These are all MAYBE girls, which is most girls that you get their number / match with on apps. The better your Game is, the more of these girls will end up in your bed. Game is a skill anyone can learn.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:02 AM
1

You're being flaked on because your text game is really bad and you just let her state her objection and don't try to actively solve it to get her back on the track of meeting up.
/r/seduction17/10/21 03:51 AM
3

If it's jusf a hookup, it really doesn't matter.. it's up to OP to decide what he wants to do. Do you expect a girl you just had sex with the first time to say.. "Oh by the way I like girls too". No.
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:36 AM
3

Men chase. If you see a girl you like, go up to her and talk to her. It's that incredibly simple. Getting reps in at the gym or just being "good looking" doesn't equal girls, but you've probably already figured that out. REAL game, beats JUST looks
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:50 AM
4

Most want to see me twice, and a lot of them I do. But I'd rather meet a new girl than a girl I've already seen. More interesting and fun. Unless a girl catches my real interest. Relationships of course, most girls who I spend a few 2-3 days with want to lock me down or are on that track. Normal.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:48 AM
1

Do I like it, nope nobody likes it. I like hanging out with lots of new women, all the time, and this is just something that anyone who wants the same deals with. Do what you want, just know that you'll lose out on most of the girls you could be meeting.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:29 AM
1

She likes you.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:23 AM
2

Dress up like a super hero if they'll let you in. Guarantee you'll get more IOI's and girls opening you than you ever have in your life. If that's too extreme, just avoid dressing like everyone else and blending in. Don't dress like a Mr. Boring Beta Provider.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:08 AM
1

What lead source?
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:07 AM
6

I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, I'm only saying it from a woman's perspective. "So basically you're just saying it's an unattractive quality to women?" 100% yes. Either keep it a secret or you'll continue to lose lots of girls.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:56 AM
3

Of course it's logical. You were born a man, you're supposed to like women, not men.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:47 AM
1

OP and 99% of the guys in this sub need to read this 3x to let it sink in.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:29 AM
2

All those are great, but where is taking massive action on the list?
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:23 AM
1

Sucks but nothing you can or should do. Easiest way to get over it is to talk to a lot more girls asap.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:19 AM
1

You be a a man and walk up and talk to her.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:14 AM
2

Ghosting shouldn’t be something you should tolerate from people what are you on This is 100% your call. There's no right or wrong, it's your choice on whether you want to keep pursuing or not.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:13 AM
2

Don't think many women have a small P lol. Thickness is more important than length. So what, you've got a slightly smaller penis, big F deal.. Own it.. learn how to finger and whatever else interests you. Stop overthinking all this stuff as it's only holding you back
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:08 AM
4

Stop making out with girls in the club or anywhere else were sex isn't possible - you're only hurting your chances of making sex happen. Stop getting Snaps or iG - always get the number. Stop buying girls drinks - it's like you're paying money in exchange for their time and attention. No more girls on apps. You don't like bars/clubs.. Learn daygame, you have endless swipes and opportunities.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:06 AM
1

most attractive men Get very few girls.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:57 PM
11

This is exactly me. Basically a 30 year old virgin learned Game and took massive action and slept with 80 girls in my first year. And now it's an easy 100+ a year on average over the past 13+ years.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:56 PM
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There's no right or wrong If you want to be a one woman man all your life, cool. If you want to sleep with 100+ girls a year, cool. No need to push your agenda as the right way you should live your life.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:54 PM
1

Push for sex.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:50 PM
3

Daygame is easier for beginners to learn.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:45 PM
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"Ghosting is unacceptable behavior but would you guys make an exception here?: You need to get over this as you think it's bad now, it's only going to continue to get worse over the next 10-20+ years. Most girls ghost or make excuses not to meet, normal female behavior. Either deal with it, or miss out on most of the women. If you're only looking for an LTR/wife - then yeah, move on to the next.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:34 PM
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That means bust out the credit card, momma wants a new pair of shoes.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:31 PM
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"I feel like I should stop concentrating on women and work on myself." Absolutely not. Going to the gym and getting bigger, getting smarter, making more money, still don't equal girls in your life. The only way to get girls in your life is by talking to them. You should do all of those things, but you should also learn and implement Game too at the same time. Otherwise you're just getting ready, to get ready making excuses to yourself about doing all these other things because you're too scared …
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:26 PM
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How do you get better at eye contact? By practicing. Look at everyone in the eyes when you're out in public. Men, women, young, old, cute, ugly. It's an acquired skill, so go out their and improve on it.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:23 PM
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Exactly this. Stop jacking off.. You'll be hornier, and start looking for prey (women). Better eye contact, come off more masculine, and more apt to making a move.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:22 PM
1

So your bday was 2-3 weeks after initial contact? Yeah, that's super low odds of meeting up. If you don't meet a girl within 7 days, the odds drop significantly. You should've said forget the gym for now and met up within 24-48 hours of first contact doing something else.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:20 PM
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I'd suggest something away from volleyball.. To show that you're not just a friendly guy and possibly get yourself into the friendzone. Whether it's before or after.. But strike while the iron is hot, try to set something up with her one on one with her to meet tomorrow.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:18 PM
1

Are you asking these girls out on day one of communication? Because you should be. Sounds like you're overtexting.. or their just adding you to their list of beta orbiters who they leach free attention and validation from. The way to combat this is to ask them out on day one, make them shit or get off the pot.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:12 PM
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seekingarrangements Doesn't mean he's paying. There's some very effective strategies to pull girls from websites like that without paying a single dime for any of the girls. I've banged hundreds of girls from websites like seekingarrangments, Backpage, or strip clubs and I've never gotten a lap dance in my life or ever paid a dime to have sex with a girl. There's a unique angle or strategy for everything.
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:02 PM
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say they can’t leave their friends(which imo is a sign that they aren’t attracted enough) I wouldn't say it's an attraction thing usually, it's a legitimate reason.. but you really need to know exactly what to say to get her away from her friends, out the front door and to your place. Night game same night pulls are very hard for most guys. You really need to know what you're doing to be effective in it. Have you done much daygame?
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:59 PM
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The hottest girls in the world come to America, its just theyre only available to top tier men, usually very rich men. Maybe Brazilians are his favorite.. so why should he go to the USA when it's not like they're everywhere.. plus pay 2-5x more in living expenses.. First of all it's not a third-world country, and not everyone moves to other countries to be a benefit to their game. I personally hate the USA as it's boring, predictable, and it's way too much of a I'm better than you, keeping up wi…
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:46 PM
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Screen for logistics in the first 60 seconds.. try to isolate from her friends within 2-5 minutes, then try to pull home. I don't care if it's 9pm and the club closes at 4am. You should always be trying to pull the girl out of the club no matter what time it is. But you better live close to the club/bar if you want to have a lot better odds. Telling the girl you live 5 minutes away is a lot more appealing than 20+ minutes away. The key is to be walkable.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:39 PM
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Career I think this is one of the least important things as far as being successful with women. And I'll throw money in their as well, not really all that important.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:36 PM
1

What country are you in? Are you in your home country? Whoever told you money = girls is lying to you. There's plenty of millionaires on this sub who're virgins. What have you done to try and get girls up until this point? You mention suicide, how happy are you in life besides the girl part?
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:32 PM
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Treat day and night game exactly the same. Go out once a week. Get 10-20 numbers. Work those leads over the next 7 days. Get 2 lays minimum for the week. 2 lays a week x 52 weeks in a year = 100+ lays in a year.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:29 PM
1

Trojan Magnums, wider, but you don't need to be 8-9" to use them. Just buy them and be done with it. As far as not performing good.. you're way overthinking this. It really doesn't matter. Plus if you feel like you didn't perform well, cum in 1-2 minutes, shrug it off and just tell her you were so excited and came so fast, girls like pleasuring a man.. rest a while and do it again.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:26 PM
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No doubt, I can certainly see both sides of it and can see how doing that could maybe keep her coming back. But in my experience, I haven't seen any difference in the amount of sex I get or if they keep coming back from going out of my way to make he happy. And on the other side, girls like feeling used by a man.. grab her, fuck her, cum in 2 minutes, get up and leave and go do something else. Girls get off on that too. For female retention, I don't think it really matters all that much in gener…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 10:23 PM
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Tell her the truth. Everything you said in your post and in your comments.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:16 PM
3

So when you feel it's about to die out or is going downhill, get the number and bounce. You don't need to do more than 5-10 minutes to form a solid connection and get a good lead. Almost all of my daygame sets are 2-3 minutes. A lot of guys say you need to prolong the interaction as long as possible to create a better connection to help secure a meet up. I 100% disagree. Anyone here who's had a lot of success with dating apps can get a girl to come straight to your place, and all she's seen is a…
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:14 PM
1

So she dumped you because you were trying to be nicer than normal to make a good impression on her family and friends.. Don't think you did anything wrong here..
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:09 PM
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Jump on him and initiate sex at random times, be vocal and tell him what you want or what you like, take control every once in a while.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:07 PM
1

How old are you, these seems like something that would happen with 15/16 year olds?
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:05 PM
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Next time you're on the couch with her again, kiss her.. the rest should figure itself out. Don't forget condoms. Bring 3, have sex 3x.
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:49 PM
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Sit him down and be 100% honest with him.. if he's really your friend and into girls in a somewhat serious way, he'll help you.
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:48 PM
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He lives in brazil cause of cheap escorts and sugar babies. Or maybe he prefers that type of women.. Brazil is often one of the top countries mentioned for having the most beautiful women in the world. Have you even been to Brazil? So he should move back to the USA pay 2-5x more money on living expenses and have to wade the seas of land wales and fatties? Todd V is a horrible teacher of Game.
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:30 PM
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Seems pretty accurate to me.. I've been around a lot of female conversations where they'll admit to F the bad boys on day one.. and make Mr. Boring Beta Bux Provider wait months.. They'll do anal and all sorts of more extreme stuff on a one night stand with a bad boy. But with Mr. Boring Provider they don't want to seem like a slut, because they think he could be a potential provider. So they go more of the good girl route. And never consider doing that sort of thing with the provider.
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:23 PM
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Say what you want but I bet the $20 whiteboard wall is more effective than your $8,000 couch.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 09:16 PM
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Tell this girl that you want her to have it because x What are some good x reasons you've come up with?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 09:14 PM
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But im curious, why such a stigma on sexually satisfying a woman? There are times i fuck solely for my pleasure... Agree with this.. lots of guys say you have to F the girl good to keep her around.. I generally don't go out of my way to make the girl happy in the bedroom, yet the girls always keep coming back. I think most girls if the can make the guy cum they're happy.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 09:12 PM
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Somewhat on topic.. Reminds me of this girl who I saw a few times.. She had a female roommate and they would keep all the used condom wrappers and tape them to the wall in the living room.. Weird.. She also told her roommate liked being cut by knives until bleeding during sex. Jeez
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 09:09 PM
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Reminds me of this girl who I saw a few times.. She had a female roommate and they would keep all the used condom wrappers and tape them to the wall in the living room.. Weird.. She also told her roommate liked being cut by knives until bleeding during sex. Jeez
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 09:08 PM
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Awesome man, let me know how it works out?
/r/seduction16/10/21 05:09 PM
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Todd is super smart, but 99% of his watchers are at level 1. He confuses everyone, and nobody takes action.
/r/seduction16/10/21 05:07 PM
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About what exactly?
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:51 PM
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RSD and Todd are the worst of them all. 99.9% watch their videos for years and get absolutely zero results.
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:51 PM
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What's this tell? Let's hear it.
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:50 PM
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Not at all. I've done well over 10,000+ cold approaches and slept with 100+ women a year on averager for the past 10+ years. I'm an action taker. 4,000,000,000 (billion) women in the work, no excuses.
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:09 PM
1

You should be doing both.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:07 PM
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Yes that's exactly what I'm saying. Like is said, if you're good at game, she'll never even know.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:59 PM
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If you're good at game, she'll never know what you're doing.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:51 PM
3

If you're good at game, she'll never know what you're doing.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:51 PM
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Treat her like a celebrity, and she'll treat you like a fan. Get off social media and go meet girls in the real world.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:49 PM
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She's meeting/sleeping with you or she's not. If not, she doesn't like you or your have bad Game.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:49 PM
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Do you want the same things now at your age, that you did 10+ years ago? Life things change.. good for them. Plus all these political correct people getting all these channels banned and now your business is gone overnight. You just have to go out there and do it and stop relying on others.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:44 PM
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Reading all these books, great. But how much of this have you been implementing out in the field? How much action are you taking with real life women?
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:39 PM
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oversimplified .
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:08 PM
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That's pretty good, so 2 girls a week, that means you're on pace to do 100 a year.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:07 PM
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A lot of bullshit. Don't shoot the messenger. We're all just animals after all.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:07 PM
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Pretty shocking all the downvotes on my comment. It's common sense.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:06 PM
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No idea who that is.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:04 PM
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I don’t consider it a double standard because men and women are biologically programmed to worry about different things. 100% this. Men are programmed to have sex with everything that moves. Women are programmed to be selective and only mate with the most Alpha available to give birth to best possible offspring to keep the human race from going extinct..
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:12 AM
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double standard Disagree, I agree with Agreable.. men and women are hardwired completely different when it comes to mating.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:11 AM
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** I realize that it isn’t healthy but I don’t understand why I feel this way.** I think it's pretty normal.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:10 AM
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Yeah we all know ha. I hit him a little hard, but he needs to hear the hard truth, no sugar on top.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:05 AM
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Anywhere in the world you see a girl you like. You're making a lot of assumptions here.. Why would you think it's best not to go up to groups? Approaching a single girl in the group works great too as it gives you an even higher boost from the girls perspective because It shows you're super confident. I've approached 1 girl out of 20+ many times.
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:50 AM
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I don’t feel comfortable. I’d wear a mask but good luck having anybody hear you. I've done 1,000+ cold approaches with my mask on.. and besides the first few months over a year ago, the results have been great. But if you're afraid of Covid, nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:46 AM
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You see a girl you like, you walk up, say hi, have a 2-3 minute conversation, get her number, set up a date if you can, and be off on your way. Those are simple terms. I've done 10,000+ cold approaches.. you're really just having a human to human conversation, something we've been doing for a million+ years. Like I said, you need to get out of this mindset that it's something that's wrong in some way. And like I said, would you rather regret your college life, or face a few rejections, and proba…
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:41 AM
1

Not allowed to go out at night because of curfews or you don't feel comfortable?
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:37 AM
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This is all because yeah, they know they have a problem that needs solving, but they're not all that serious about solving it. Like everything else.. Starting a business, losing weight, hitting the gym etc etc. I get a bunch of teenagers DMing me asking for advice when they see some of my successes with some and they ask me how to do it.. So I tell them some resources, yeah, it's about 20 hours worth of info.. They all complain.. I can't give dating advice if you don't even know the very basics …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 03:36 AM
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Having an abundance of girls around helps. So it sounds like you'd rather be out? If so, why aren't you?
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:28 AM
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Ha yeah "she's just a friend" is all you need to say. Let that hamster run wild.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 03:27 AM
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I pretty much never approach girls maybe because of fear of rejection but mainly because I don’t want to be seen as a creep. Regret is worse than rejection.. What's with young guys thinking that talking to another human being will label them as a creep? Do you really want it to be 4 years from now and the whole time you are in college you were too afraid to make a move and missed out on an endless supply of some of the best looking women you'll ever be around in your life? Or do you want to mayb…
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:25 AM
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Dating apps progressively keep getting worse for most guys, because they think they can just throw up some dirty bathroom selfies and get girls, this no longer works. Many surveys say that only 80-90% of all single women use dating apps, that means that 99.9% of guys are fishing for only 10-20% of the women. This is why 99% of guys don't do very well on apps.. Yeah the way you do street approaches versus work approaches are completely different. But yeah, learn daygame, there's an endless supply…
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:09 AM
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I have a stable job that pays me enough, I have multiple hobbies and interests, I go to the gym 4-5 days a week religiously, I just bought a nice new car, and I take pride in my appearance whenever I go out. This is all passive.. Being passive doesn't put girls into your life or bed. Game and talking to girls does. Besides online dating.. What have you been actively doing to get girls?
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:55 AM
1

120 month. How many dates? How many lays?
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:49 AM
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Marker on the wall idea isn't bad.. what other Home Setup ideas do you have?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/21 02:42 AM
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"No hookups" = DTF ASAP "No fuckbois" = I'm addicted to players who make me one of his rotation girls. "Looking for a relationship" = Post wall 30+, already been ran through by 50 guys, I don't want to die alone.
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:14 AM
1

How many in the past week? How many in the past month?
/r/seduction16/10/21 02:12 AM
1

As far as the death glares, just make it a game, kill them with kindness.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:48 AM
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Who knows.. most girls are interested in having 15-20 beta orbiters showering them with daily attention and validation.. But as far as one on one with you.. Nobody knows.. The answer is always the same.. Either you're meeting and fucking, or you're not. So ask her out asap.. If she'll meet you within the next 7 days, she likes you at least a little bit, if not, then she probably doesn't at least in a serious way.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:39 AM
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Nothing wrong with being single for life, and stop worrying about what others think.. and get the snip snip if you decide you don't want kids.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:36 AM
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The better your daygame and general skills get, you'll get a lot of higher quality numbers, meaning responsive numbers, dates that show up etc. Yeah just having the balls to approach on the street and you gain at least +1 or +2 points depending on how much she values that confidence.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:27 AM
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Good on your for being one of the few here who are trying to take action. So around 7-8 per day. Results?
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:09 AM
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What world do you live in where you think saying Hi to another human being is creepy. You know what's more creepy? Sitting in the corner staring at her for the entire period 5 days a week, all year long without saying a single word to her.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:08 AM
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Drop this friend, that's what I would do.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:05 AM
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Walking up and saying "Hi" has been known to work.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:58 AM
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That's a weird thing to agree on.. did you bring that up or her? As far as your buddy? That's F up.. He really doesn't know the girl you bring to the party is off limits?
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:50 AM
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You don't get to know a girl over your phone, you do that in person. Ask her out ASAP
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:43 AM
1

There's been many experiments with eye contact and strangers, a lot of the people end up getting married because they develop such an emotional bond after staring in other peoples eyes for only minutes. Yeah 99% of guys here don't really do anything right lol.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:32 AM
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Apps are great, but only 10-20% of all single women are on dating apps.. That means 80-90% of all single girls aren't online.. This is why daygame is like a cheat code to getting an abundance of women in your life. How do you break the cycle by not doing what every other guy is doing. If you want what others don't have, you need to be willing to do what others won't. 4,000,000,000 (billion) women in the world. Endless options.. the only thing holding you back is you.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:30 AM
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60 in how many days? Results?
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:09 AM
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Yeah, find out when she can meet, then set it up.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:08 AM
2

Absolutely nothing. Proceed as normal.
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:10 PM
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Set the date for as soon as humanly possible. Whether it's an on the bike date or at your place. The longer you go without meeting her again, the higher chance you'll never see her again. Lots of texts and winky emojis don't mean anything, she already does that with 20+ other guys on a daily basis. The only way to know if a girl really likes you is if she's seeing and fucking you. Set up plans now.
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:05 PM
3

Simple solution. Learn proper game.
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:46 PM
2

All depends on how important having a good sex life is for your self esteem / happiness.
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:41 PM
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1 - you end up in the friend zone because all you do is act like a friend - no seductive I want to fuck her eyes, no flirting, touching, moving towards sex. You can't expect to not be friend zoned if all you do is act like a friend. 2 - up to you, is it worth getting out of your I just like to do my own thing to get more people in your life or not
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:21 PM
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Social with others. Her, your grandma, the five dudes behind you at the bar.
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:17 PM
1

It's pretty good, flirt, on a high note, get her number and set up the meet. Don't just have her be your in school flirting partner for the next 4 years in school.
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:13 PM
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The restaurant isnt that fancy, probably be $30 for both of us. Doesn't matter, I'd advise you don't do dinner dates with girls who aren't your girlfriend, unless she's begging you to go and wants to pay.
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:06 PM
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"we hooked up 2x before" Sex? First date and taking her out to dinner? No, don't do that.. too late now, but don't do that in the future.. Save the fancy dinners for when you get a girlfriend. Your setting the Mr. Boring Beta Bux frame. Do a free or cheap $5-10 date max. You also should have sex firm exact plans the day you got her number, because now you're just starting from scratch on text, when you could've handled all that stuff at the best time, in person. Don't let girls off so easy.. gir…
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:52 PM
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Gotta have fun with it.. I've gone to night clubs dressed as Super Man.. why? Sometimes a dare, sometimes, because.. Why the F not? I don't give a S what all these guys in the corner are saying about me.. Most of them deep down inside would love to have the balls to do something similar, but fear judgment from others.. Sometimes you gotta just go out there and entertain yourself out of self amusement. Make life fun and entertaining. I never really did that sort of thing for game or to 'try and g…
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:46 PM
2

Makes me very non threatening. Doesn't hurt that I got the injury in the most badass way possible too 😂 Exactly.. She says, what happened to you? "We were doing a secret special opp out in Afghanistan a few weeks back, we were getting shot at, they shot my parachute fell 100 feet, heavy gunfire, barely got out alive.. so by the way, what's your name again?" Wanna bet me you get some numbers?
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:37 PM
2

Use your down time, to work in other areas of your life or Game. Hell yeah, don't let crutches get you down, I bet that would work well for doing daygame ha.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:30 PM
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Turn all NOs into YESES get outta here with that nonsense. I don't care if you're the best in the world at game, nobody can get every girl.. not even 50%. Unless you're just cherry picking the SUPER YES come fuck me girls. Some A list celebrities can probably get over 50%, but they get rejected too. Not everyone thinks Brad Pitt (or whoever else) is attractive etc etc.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:25 PM
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I know I might’ve said some sexualized things a couple days ago Don't think would make the girl lose interest or ghost.. There would be more.. she lost interest, her personal problems.. you would know better.. Some girls just drop off for no explanation.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:21 PM
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Everyone is different. Some guys who sleep with lots of women have bad self esteem. Some guys who are kissless virgins have great self esteem.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:19 PM
1

If you have to ask.. :) There's never going to be a perfect time to approach.. Stop wasting time.. each day you wait, you take the chance at some random other guy swooping in and taking her.. when she could've been yours months ago.. Yes go talk to her the next time you see her and come report back. Win or lose, is still success as you grabbed your balls and decided to be a man for once, got up and went and talked to her. Regret is worse than rejection.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:15 PM
1

Yeah definitely no magic lines that'll turn NO's into YESES.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:10 PM
2

Seems like you're doing a lot of things to put you in the right direction.. mental stuff, maybe try to get help, but that's not my area of expertise. Add more friends? More hobbies?
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:07 PM
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Suggestions, yes.. Go talk to 20 more girls and go on at least 2 dates in the next 7 days. Get so busy, and get so many other girls in your life where you look back at this moment and realize what was wrong with you..
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:05 PM
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There's no excuses for 99% of the guys in this sub, unless you have a major deformity, everyone in this sub could get girls if they put in some effort and talked to some girls.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:03 PM
4

Work on improving your daygame skills, but what you're saying matters a whole lot too.
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:02 PM
1

Maybe consider getting with a girl who isn't up to your normal standards to break your dry streak to get some confidence back. Like in basketball and you keep missing.. get to the free thrown line or get a layup.. See that ball go in, and then you should be back to normal.. May work? But only you, know you.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:59 PM
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I'd say 100% salvageable if you can get a decent text conversation going. If she doesn't respond back today.. Hit her up tomorrow morning or something, forget talking about the date.. if you can get a decent good text conversation going, then ask her out again.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:57 PM
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Find the girls who think you're hot. Those are the YES girls and if you have a little bit of a clue on what's going on you can probably get them. But most of the girls you could get are the MAYBE girls, this is where proper good Game comes in. The better your Game, the more of these MAYBE girls you can convert into YESES. I usually sleep with 100+ girls a year for the past decade, I'm no Chad, but I've made up for my looks by learning great Game. If I just relied on girls who thought I was hot, …
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:54 PM
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1 girl in 4 months. What about the 4 months before in your old city? Is 3 girls a year, an average year for you or? Meaning are you where you've always been or you used to sleep with 50+ girls a year and now you're struggling or what?
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:46 PM
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"Sweating women this much will only result in keeping them away." Disagree. When I'm in my get as many women as possible phases, I'm taking massive action but also getting massive results. "Continue to woke on yourself and thru bettering yourself, the women will come to you." Disagree. This is the same advice that every guy and girl who's bad with women all say.. Just be yourself and the women will come.. This is exactly why most guys struggle with women, because they're passive.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:44 PM
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You're doing a lot to get girls.. so how many girls are you getting? How many girls did you go out with/sleep with in the past 30 days? Year?
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:41 PM
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Good on you for taking action and making it happen. But don't make the mistake of thinking that all of everything doesn't matter, because everything matters. You found a YES girl, and a lot of that stuff didn't matter. Good for you, you got her because you went out their and made it happen, now get out there and do it again and make it more of a habit and your daily life. But YES girls are the fewest girls there are.. The more skills you learn, the better you get, the better your 'offer' is, the…
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:36 PM
2

Ask her out again asap.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:31 PM
1

"Sleep is good but I know someting better lol do oyu want to get mexican with me tomorrow or saturday?" I took that "I know something better" as sexual.. meaning sex. And after your last comment to her about sexual stuff.. She may have thought this was sexual too.. If I made that mistake, she may have too..
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:30 PM
2

Do you do field reports for every night out, or only the ones that amount to anything?
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:24 PM
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Delete her from your life.. Phone number, Snap, IG, whatever.. delete and block from all apps.. Move on with your life as it's only holding you back.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:24 PM
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In your title you said you hooked up.. that means sex. You had sex at the party or? But overall inexperience. Night game and daygame same day/night pulls aren't easy to do, especially for the inexperienced, lots of moving parts, anything can happen in an instant, and if you don't know what you're doing it's over in a second.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:23 PM
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Next time, do not message the boyfriend. I understand both sides.. But if my girl was F some other guy, I'd be happy this guy messaged me and told me about it. Would I be mad, of course, at him, not really. It wasn't his fault, it was hers. And she can pack her S and get the F out.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:10 PM
2

Ask him if he wants to do a three-way.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:09 PM
2

Yes of course, but in relation to this being the seduction sub, lifting doesn't put girls into your bed. Game does.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:07 PM
1

I just told you to chill with the sexual stuff that you may have scared her away. Then you go and do exactly what I told you NOT to do anyways. FACEPALM
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:05 PM
1

You sent this text after you posted this thread yesterday?
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:50 PM
5

Stop treating these girls like your sister or the 400 pound girl you're not interested in. Flirt with eye contact, body language with words, get numbers, set up one on one dates. Get out of the "friend frame".
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:46 PM
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Sounds like too much of Mr. Boring Nice Friendzone Guy. Not.. Confident flirty knows what to say, how to say it.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:10 PM
2

I'm not really a go out and try to give your women as much pleasure as possible, I'm more indifferent on that.. But I did date a girl for 4.5 months that had some crazy orgasms like I've never seen. Weird crazy connection, we rarely left the house, we rarely left the bed, we just had sex all day and night long. Don't think we ever got her to 20 in a row from one penetration, but definitely 10 if we did it for more than 20 minutes. And figuring this is a rare chance, we tried to get her to orgasm…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/21 02:50 PM
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Compliment her at least three times I personally don't like the compliment part.. but it's clear you know what you're doing, but for most newbies it may come across as too needy/beta. You could always be super interested in something she's wearing and talk about it in an interested fashion, this would be better than just a random compliment that doesn't really hold much weight. Wink - don't see that advice much - haha
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:42 PM
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Planned on getting her favorite food at my favorite restaurant. This sounds like a first date, I'd seriously avoid taking girls out to eat at restaurants for first dates, before you've had sex, or at least 3-4 dates and only if you really like the girl. Good move on sitting next to her, you 100% need to do this, and it seems like you already know what to do, just don't puss out and keep escalating throughout the night, seed the pull and go back to your place and seal the deal.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:40 PM
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a hookup This isn't a hookup. All you did was kiss a girl. and she found out I was inexperienced.... so maybe it's better we end it off here? No, she doesn't care, you're the only one who does. You've got a lot of work to do here.. Everything you're talking about here is all about YOU being the one who doesn't want to move things forward. She's making it incredibly easy for you, but it's like you're trying to run away as fast as possible. The only one stopping things from progressing is you.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:38 PM
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Incredibly simple.. Talk to more girls, go on more dates, have sex with more girls. There's 4,000,000,000 (billion) women in the world.. No excuses.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:33 PM
3

No it's an ad for her OnlyFans.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:31 PM
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The eyes are the window to the soul. There's been studies on eye contact with men and women in rooms, often times a lot of these test subjects end up getting married. Eye contact is a powerful thing in the male/female dynamic. You could say nothing at all and stare a woman in the eyes in a certain way and make her wet and or form a strong emotional connection and bond. Why do women have better eye contact skills than men, because they practice it all day long.. Watch two women having a deep conv…
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:30 PM
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Save the long texts - and say all that in person. Unless she's sending you just as long of texts. Don't be "that guy" sending 200+ word texts when she's sending 10 words. Keep it simple. Mirror her texting, or text less.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:21 PM
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or knows a way to say yes I want to date you and get to know you but I’m not after anything immediately serious nor am I looking to waste my time going on endless dates without any results Sure you can tell girls "I'm not looking for anything serious, only something casual". You'll miss out on all the MAYBE and NO girls and only the YES girls will meet you. So if the girl meets up with you you'll 95%+ have sex on the first meet. The worse your Game is, the lower percentage of girls you'll close.…
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:19 PM
1

"But on the other hand, I do not know if she would try to encourage me. I am not even sure she is willing to wait. What should I do? Should I ask her out again? Or talk to her" Stop with the what ifs and ask her out already. Stop over talking and over sharing with this girl on text and on dates, because all you're doing is sabotaging your chances. Meet and try to have sex again.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:13 PM
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What is this garbage.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:09 PM
2

So go to Colombia and go check out the top 3-5 beach towns, you could easily do that in less than a month. Only YOU can decide if you like the town, area, vibe and girls. The hotter and most of the girls are going to be where the jobs/money are at.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:05 PM
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Have you met this girl? How many dates have you been on? How many times has she been naked in your bed? If the answer is none to all of those questions then it sounds like you're over texting and this is only going to land you in the friend zone, and most likely she'll never meet you. Use texting to set up dates. You don't get to know a girl over text, you do that in person.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:02 PM
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Depends on your preference too.. Pick a few countries where you think you'll like the girls and go spend a month in each country, flying around to 2-3+ cities in each. VS What a few guys think because they like a certain height, skin color or amount of curves.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:52 PM
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If you start touching girls and you're not her type, it will often lead too a pretty harsh rejection I generally do at least one subtle touch within the first 30-60 seconds almost every time. Showing I'm a man who's not afraid to touch a girl, breaking the touch barrier which is super important to get that started right away, so you can build on that as the interaction goes on, and to see her reaction. I'm talking usually a very subtle way. Not usually grabbing a girls wrist like OP did. Not say…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:35 PM
2

Everything is part of game.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:30 PM
2

I'm telling you the reality of the male to female dynamic. You can chose to believe me and go on to improve your dating life. Or think I'm wrong, keep doing what you're doing, stay right where you're at, and keep failing.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:27 PM
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For the MAYBE girls this may work. For the MAYBE girls it gives her a chance to watch you more, think.. "Hmm I guess he may not be that bad.. maybe I'll see what this guys all about" And then re engages. For the NO girls nothing will work.
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:56 PM
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I don’t know. It always has the potential to backfire hard. It's not a backfire, it's showing your true intent. Women respect that a lot more than, being too afraid to do what a real man does, and go after what he wants.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:13 AM
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This is exactly the reason why there's rule #1 of Game. Don't take dating advice from women. Pretty much whatever they tell you to do, just do the opposite and you'll have way more success.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:06 AM
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But my mind has this unspoken rule of no kisses on the first date. This is the type of thinking on why most guys fail over and over again with women.. By not kissing her in this situation it shows that you weren't confident enough in yourself to be a man and go after what you want. This is the type of thing that will turn most women off, and lead you to never seeing them again.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:05 AM
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A real man walks away from a fight with a guy that shouldn't matter in his life. You did a good thing, ignore the drama, get on with your life. Nothing good will ever come of trying to prove how 'hard' you are.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:03 AM
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Agree, but this is the seduction sub. The only way to get girls into your life, is to talk to girls.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:35 AM
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If girls are your priority, the gym shouldn't be your priority.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:23 AM
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"should i devote a few years of self developement and remain unexperienced with girls until i build something or should i start dating right now?" Absolutely not. Some people would call that Monk Mode and I think it's the most ridiculous thing ever if you're doing it mostly to get girls in your life. Yes you should do those things, but you should also go out there and talk to women. Do you have many friends and any hobbies besides gaming? If not, go get some.. it'll help get you out into the wor…
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:17 AM
1

Daygame, night game, online? What's your current process?
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:08 AM
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The bracelet thing wasn't that big of a deal at a macro level. She's either lost interest in your or the depression thing.. or both. But no way just the bracelet destroys a good relationship.. She's just using that as an excuse to have a reason to end it, or it's the depression, or both together. But don't sweat the bracelet thing, it's an honest mistake and she should be grown up enough to understand that.
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:07 AM
1

What exactly is tough?
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:00 AM
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Nobody here can answer that.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:45 AM
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You're a man with a dick, you got hard, own it.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:43 AM
2

You have an issue, so work on it, do it on your own. Don't use drugs to mask the problem and not face it head on.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:42 AM
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Good job on going out there and taking action. But stop getting Snapchat as it'll on hold you back and you'll miss out on girls by getting that instead of the phone number. You already pitched the date, so set it up right over messaging.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:38 AM
1

In the terms of this thread no, consent is verbal.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:19 AM
1

Yeah like I said just be careful, you talked a bit, but a lot of girls don't like you talk about what you were saying about her legs up etc. Some do, some don't.. But some get embarrassed and run away and don't respond back via text when you say stuff like that as maybe it was too much.. That's why I'm saying be careful.. If you've been seeing the girl months and had sex 4-5x you're probably ok.. But 1-2x and there's a good chance it's too much. From here.. wait for her response.. Message her ag…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:32 AM
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I’m curious what OPs conversations are like I bet he does not sexualize at all, poor eye contact maybe. Not showing some intent. It's most likely a little bit of everything, but I think he figured he looked good that he didn't have to put in any work which isn't true at all. As far as your last sentence, that's normal. There's guys posting on this sub everyday just like OP - I work out, girls tell me I look good, but I'm still a virgin or can't get dates. I knew a guy who looked 9/10 and had goo…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:20 AM
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I'd avoid the sex talk unless she brings it up.. there's no need for it, most likely only bad things can happen if you're the one who brings it up.. but even she brings it up, just be careful and don't act too thirsty. Not sure how you're sex talk went, but this may have scared her off a bit. If that's why she's gone a little cold, that's not a shit test, that's being annoyed that you're so caught up on the sex.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:14 AM
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Seems normal to me, stop overthinking. Chase = she's putting in more effort than you. I'd say you should NEVER be the one who asks for a relationship. Women are always super quick to want to lock down a man they seem worthy. When SHE'S READY she'll ask you to go exclusive. Otherwise if you ask her first you lose all your power.
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:52 AM
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If these girls are you friends, keep talking to them.. But if you're not going to see these girls in the next month, spend your time talking to local girls.
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:21 AM
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It's only creepy if you think it's creepy. Because nobody else really F cares.. If you wanna go, go and have a good time. Stop overthinking and worrying about what all these other people might think.
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:59 PM
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"The 9’s and 10’s. These girls are absolute stunners, yet they rarely get hit on. Why? Because guys are more afraid to approach the super hot girl than the safe 8. Usually these girls give you more time of day and are super nice." My experience too. "Oh she must get hit on all the time" .. "She's super hot, she must have a rich boyfriend, no point in even trying".. This is what most guys think, so they don't talk to her.. And then the next guy, and the next guy...
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:57 PM
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Go out with every match...even the cute fatties. Go on 20 dates a week. Agree with this for younger or inexperienced guys.
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:43 PM
2

The answer is always the same. Learn proper game + take massive action = an abundance of women in your life.
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:42 PM
3

Common misconception #284 If I just workout, look good, make good money I'll get all the girls. It doesn't work that way. If you don't have Game, you don't get girls.
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:39 PM
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Read something on the weekend about always opening with touch or at least touching in the first 20 seconds or whatever. But i think it's just lame PUA advice. It's not lame advice. It helps. Every little thing can help or hurt you. This is how you turn MAYBE GIRLS which are most girls into YESES. By stacking as many +1 as possible. Tilt the tables in your favor. You're not a man who's afraid to be a man and go after what he wants and get physical with a women. It shows clear intent that you're n…
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:36 PM
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Just grabbing her by the wrist could be escalating too fast. Who knows, but we weren't their.. lots of girls will get turned off by this, but a lot of them will like it to. Caveman Game works if you're bold enough for some hard rejections.
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:34 PM
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"I asked her some questions and dropped in some DHV's." What types of DHV's do you use? "Opened next girl in the beer garden and touch her arm on the open and ask who she is." Which part of the arm did you touch her on? "I tease her for not speaking and stuff, but she asks me to go away again." If you think you still have a chance with the girl one technique you can do when she tells you to leave, depending on where you're at in the establishment is not leave, turn your back on her and ignore he…
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:32 PM
3

Have sex with her and don't develop feelings.
/r/seduction14/10/21 11:25 PM
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I do be masturbating doe This is holding you back and you don't even realize it. If you hadn't done this in weeks or months imagine how horny you'd be. You'd be a LOT more horny and more apt to make a move on this girl. It makes a difference.
/r/seduction14/10/21 10:00 PM
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I never made a list.. Offer the best product you can, have a great funnel, add lots of leads, and get lots of results. Maximize yourself, learn proper game, talk to lots of girls and you'll have an abundance of women in your life.
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:47 PM
0

What a woman says is meaningless. Watch what she does, not what she says. You'll have your answer by Saturday. Just have your texting and confirming texts on point to put the odds in your favor.
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:44 PM
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Yes 100% The absolutely best way to secure a second date, is to have sex on the first. If you don't do that, no matter how amazing you think the first date went, you never know if you'll get a second meet. Learn from this mistake and don't let it happen again or you'll keep facing the same thing over and over again. Be a man and take what's yours. He who hesitates, masturbates
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:41 PM
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She's probably losing interest and possibly flake. One question.. Did you have sex on the first meet? If not, why not? The absolutely best way to secure a second date, is to have sex on the first. If you don't do that, no matter how amazing you think the first date went, you never know if you'll get a second meet.
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:37 PM
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Looks 100% The only time where money 'may' be more important is if she's post wall, her baby timer is going off and she's ready to settle down with the first betabux that seems like an 'acceptable' mate. You guys need to get it out of your head.. Money isn't even in the Top 10 of most importance when it comes to getting women. You could be homeless living under a bridge and sleep with 100+ women a year.
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:36 PM
1

Not all girls are going to make it easy for you and come over to your lace, get naked and say F me without any work. Yeah you jumped the gun. She didn't do anything abnormal at all.. Ask her out asap. The longer you wait, the less chance you'll have of seeing if it goes anywhere.
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:33 PM
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This is incredibly common. Work on your texting and add more girls to your life. Go talk to 20 more girls within the next 7 days. Serioius.
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:26 PM
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It's sad man, really is. 4,000,000,000 (billion) women in this world.. it's ok if one girl isn't interested in you as there's an infinite supply of more women.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:06 PM
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Normal growing pains, all guys go through that. The cure is to ask her out on day one asap and always be talking to lots of girls so you don't suffer from oneitis.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:04 PM
2

"But I should adapt this as you know when you are not interested girls are much more interested in you" Before the first meet I don't play the hard to get much anymore.. I know a lot of guys still do it, but not me. Girls are way too distracted and have way too many options these days and you need to get that first meet/sex asap. But once you have sex with a girl and that connection is formed then if you pull back attention it's way more effective.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:03 PM
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"How should I go about seducing her?" By going up to her and opening your mouth. Closed mouths don't get fed. You mentioned this hispanic woman with a late 40's fat husband.. Reminded me of a girl I met once.. Met her online.. She wanted me to come over on a Saturday night after 10pm because that's about the time her husband gets drunk and passes out.. She wanted me to come in through the basement door, and meet her downstairs to fuck.. Of course you can't pass up experiences like this as they d…
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:57 PM
1

So you've never once had a guy message you online? Not in text, IG, Snap, TikTok, Tinder etc? Age?
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:53 PM
2

Yeah I'm good like that too. Super quick-witted, It's like dynamite for Game.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:52 PM
7

I've made peace with the fact that some guys will just never listen. I've tried to help so many guys out. The only thing holding 99.99% of the guys in this world from having an abundance of women in their life is their self limiting beliefs. And not willing to do what it takes.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:49 PM
9

well I once had this goldfish that I cared oh so much for, but things eventually went belly-up I love nerdy lines like this, great for self amusement. Stealing this one.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:46 PM
8

So stop telling them no relationships.. Just tell them you're super picky, lots of girls want a piece, but I'm a hard man to lock down.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:45 PM
1

The black guys that I know that have done decent in Asia all go with the super nice beta black guy. But that's the general rule anyways in Asia. Beta game for the win.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:43 PM
4

Regret is worse than rejection. You're young, hopefully you figure that out way sooner than most guys.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:42 PM
2

I go through phases.. I've had rotations of 10+ girls, but I've realized over time I just don't like them. I'd 10x rather have sex with a brand new girl, than one I've been with before. Even if the new girls isn't as good looking as the first one, I'd still rather take the new girl. Just my thing. Many of the girls I see once, I'll see again, but they're always on the back burner to brand new girls. Which obviously that makes them chase even more as most guys won't not be super thirsty to meet g…
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:41 PM
1

Maybe I'm weird I never ask girls for nudes, doesn't really interest me in the slightest. Sometimes you get those girls that want to send you a daily video of them masturbating.. gawd damn, stop flooding my inbox with these random videos I didn't ask for.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:31 PM
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Why do you think Snapchat got so popular when it first started? A way for girls to act slutty and not have to worry so much about her pics being stolen. This is also the roll of the beta orbiter.. a whole lot of free attention and validation that they're at least somewhat desirable.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:29 PM
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Why do you think Snapchat got so popular when it first started? A way for girls to act slutty and not have to worry so much about her pics being stolen.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:28 PM
2

Forgot to mention in your other thread.. Go to swinger parties or find a girl that likes them. She'd most likely be way more open to make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 07:26 PM
2

You see all those attractive women outside when you've left your house on the street, coffee shop, grocery store, mall, gym.. There's 4,000,000,000 (billion) of them just waiting for you. See one you like, go up and have a conversation. Daygame is the purest form of Game. You as a man, see a girl you like, you then be a man and go and talk to her.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 07:24 PM
3

Dressing towards racial stereotypes is definitely a strategy that can work.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 07:18 PM
1

Yes, everything matters to some degree or another. You say you're not good looking.. Have you ever seen guys similar to your looks with other girls? The answer is yes. So stop making excuses. Improve what you can, get out there, talk to women, and get women in your life. Or you can just make excuses and nothing changes. Take some self ownership. All this is 100% in your control.
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:05 PM
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"I don't see a future with her anymore" "I really want to experiment, go out there and improve my game with other girls." 4,000,000,000 (billion) women in the world Life's too short to waste your time and her time if ultimately it's not going to work out. Do you and her a favor and break things off asap Don't wait more weeks or months, and waste more time.. because you're comfortable or you don't want to hurt her feelings It's going to happen anyways, better to do it now than waste more time. Th…
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:02 PM
2

You essentially came across as either: You don't like her in 'that way' and view her as only a friend, because you didn't make a move. OR You did like her and you were too much of a puss puss to make a move, showed no confidence in being a man who goes after what he wants. The latter is a huge turnoff for women. Sounds like you're super lucky you got three dates out of her. Yes you absolutely need to learn from this, otherwise the cycle will continue, forever. But yes you should absolutely try t…
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:57 PM
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Who knows, texting usually dies down after initial excitement.. whether that's hours, week or months. There's only one true indicator on her interest. Are you meeting as much as before. If that drops down, then there's a problem somewhere and she's losing interest, which may or may not be in or out of your control.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:49 PM
3

Another brother, from another mother? Or are you hitting on me ;)
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:46 PM
4

There's a fine line between trying to go down to her level, and then things go stale, she gets bored and it's over though. Because if you go down to her level and stay there, things can stay there, versus if you make an attempt to bring her back up, you can get things back up in a more positive vibe, and better for everyone, better chance at a better date, to close etc. I think this is more in person than over text though.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:44 PM
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If it's been more than a week and you still haven't met her, then you probably overtexted, overshared, she got bored and lost interested. You don't get to know someone over text, you do that in person. The longer you talk to a girl, the more messages you send, the less likely you'll end up meeting in real life.. All of that is a first class ticket to friend zone no fuck zone.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:39 PM
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nd also, spend some time thinking about whether there were things you may have done wrong that caused her to want the attention of others over yourself, identify those things, and fix them so that you don't relive this experience over and over with every woman you date. Great point.. It's usually one of two reasons a girl will break up with you.. You weren't being a man and on your purpose or you got lazy, complacent and lost value in her eyes. OR You were too beta (needy, whiny, not manly enoug…
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:35 PM
1

Disagree, check my comment to him.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:13 PM
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Seduction rule #1. Give zero fcks, don’t ask for it anymore and let them bring it up. Women can smell the 3some desperation on a dude a mile away. Disagree. OP is waiting, hoping, wishing it'll happen and it's not. He's the man, the man needs to lead in all areas of relationships (except when starting a committed one - he should never ask - let the girl chase) just like this one. It's not and won't come across as "desperation" if you know how to frame and say it correctly.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:13 PM
2

Yeah no worries, most guys think that details don't matter. Details are everything. Every little thing matters. It either helps you or hurts you.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:10 PM
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She did state that she is not ready for a relationship , but that it has nothing to do with me just in general . This is a lie all women are happy and ready to settle down with a guy that is high value enough. If (insert your favorite male A list celebrity) wanted to lock her down, do you still think she wouldn't be open to a relationship? She likes you enough to F you, but not enough to take you seriously. Try to take your emotions out of it, and take that off the table in your mind. Wit this o…
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:21 PM
1

Never watch porn ever again.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:18 PM
3

"To me defo worth it cause I want to have a primary girl who is like that..." At this point in my life, I don't even consider a girl for relationship status unless she's super into threesomes, and is open to me seeing other girls. She knows she's my number one, but this won't happen unless she plays by my rules. Is it fair, who knows.. but I'm clear with these rules beforehand, she's either free to agree or she can just stay a rotation girl. You always have to set the tone from the beginning on …
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:15 PM
4

You ask. I deliver.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:09 PM
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Overall solid advice. I've definitely fallen into this trap a few times when I was new to Game and girls and suffered from oneitis and or lack of options. But don't give in, like OP said, once it's done. It's done. These girls all want their cake and eat it too. IE - she wants to break up with you, go F a bunch of other guys because you weren't good enough and still be able to use you for your attention, validation and emotional support. OP strategy is good, but I think if she texts you, you're …
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:09 PM
2

That's why I'm saying do it on day one, pillow talk right after sex. Not day 2, 3+. Come across on more of the Player frame may help too as you may be coming across as 'too nice' in person. Like I said, make it seem like it's what you expect from new girls if they want to keep seeing you. Like I said you'll lose girls, but it may be worth it to you.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:02 PM
9

Delete IG/Snap or wherever else you're looking for random girls online that you don't know, put on some clothes, walk out your front door and talk to some girls in real life where you'll actually have a chance.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:55 PM
2

Just looks can work too, but you better be at the top of the food chain for this sort of situation. There's plenty of 10s with good looking guys working at Applebees.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:54 PM
10

Funny, but sorta true.. This is why all you guys should delete IG/Snap and go out into the real world where you actually have a chance to land girls. Consistently.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:52 PM
4

Don't Snap her, stick to the number when communicating. Ask her on Tuesday in person in the most confident heck yes she'll say yes to me attitude. Do it like a man.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:50 PM
4

""I like you too much to share you" Try asking brand new girls, after the first time you have sex. They won't have as much of an emotional connection as rotation girls. You're probably doing to much of a good job of getting them to like you, and now they don't want to share them. You could also pull back attention and try make it seem like you're not really interested in meeting them again unless you can set up a threesome. You'll lose girls doing this, but maybe it's worth it to lose a few to t…
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:45 PM
1

They're not on Reddit. People I know in real life.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 12:13 PM
10

Yeah that's what I was thinking more along the lines.. 'traditional' that would go for even 'traditional' born in the USA. But also white girls generally prefer white. A lot of them will date other races, but a lot of them won't. Just like a lot of non-white in the USA won't date white.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 06:07 AM
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Actually there's a gazillion white guys all over the seduction/game/dating subs that all complain about women and dating is so hard, MGTOW/ForeverAlone etc etc While I do agree that an Asian or Indian guy in The USA/Western country probably has it harder than a white guy though. But that's no excuse as the Asians/Indians that put in the work, generally find success too.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 05:54 AM
3

Now my life is complete.
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:37 AM
8

How come it took you over a month to finally go out? She asked you to take her to dinner? Sounds like she's using you for a free meal.. How to keep her interested? Don't be a boring nice guy who doesn't go after what he wants.. Meaning.. flirt with her, look at her like you want to kiss or fuck her.. establish that you're a man, she's a women and you should have intercourse.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:38 AM
1

Do your homework, fam. I have that's why I said they were nowhere near 40-50K to buy. Yes I know they're not cheap.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:54 AM
2

You could do personal training online and travel. No college needed. Learn the personal training part of it and sales. If you can't sell your training, then you're out of business.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 03:52 AM
11

Talk to anyone and everyone, not just girls. The cool looking guys, the nerdy guys, hot and ugly girls. Hopefully this will make you feel a little more comfortable vs having all this pressure on your when it seems you don't seem all that comfortable going out alone. Then if you're feeling good, hit on some girls while you're at it.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:44 AM
1

Comment made me wonder if you opened with a neg how that would play out ha. But now idea how easy or hard it is to get banned off social media for that sort of thing.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:41 AM
4

See a guy on the street you like, go up and have a conversation. That's the easiest and best way for you to do it. Dog parks? Hobby groups? Meetup.com Facebook groups for your city. Couchsurfing.com meetups in your city.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:38 AM
1

I had success from social media What was your social media strategy?
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:30 AM
0

When exactly are you pausing right before sex? Like both naked and she's ready or? The reason why 99.9% of guys who try daygame fail is because they're learning all wrong. They're trying to run, before they can crawl.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:29 AM
2

I clearly said, buying the tiger had nothing to do with 'getting girls'. And they're nowhere near 40-50K.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:27 AM
1

Did you attempt to fix your profile like everyone was telling you? But yeah daygame is like fishing in a stocked pond that nobody else is fishing in.
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:24 AM
2

Happily unmarried.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:58 AM
1

I just laid it all out for you in the simplest terms possible. Print that out and follow it and you'll have a bunch of women in your life.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:58 AM
5

I'm thinking of buying a real tiger.. Not because of girls, just because.. Bet it'd be something lots of girls would like to see though and take selfies with etc.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:33 AM
1

Oh ok.. thought you were using only WhatsApp to find girls. You're just using WhatsApp like normal, for texting. Thought there was some special technique to find girls on WhatsApp somehow.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:46 AM
1

i don’t know the girls, they are strangers i asked their digits Where do you meet these strangers in the first place?
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:33 AM
1

Ha you don't understand what I'm saying.. Thought you had some technique where you use WhatsApp to find new girls right on the app.. Not add girls you already know.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:28 AM
0

How do you find girls on WhatsApp that you don't know?
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:22 AM
0

I meant.. are you talking about hitting on girls that you don't know? Or regular WhatsApp texting like normal?
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:00 AM
0

How do you pickup girls from WhatsApp?
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:52 AM
1

Everyone in the comments are all agreeing with me. OP is trying to make his narrative work that you can't ask a girl out you just met.. because he doesn't think it's possible.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:42 AM
2

Most girls don't like extremes.. Extreme skinny or super big bodybuilders.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:35 AM
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Because the other girls are jealous or they think you're not good enough for her, or they want her to hang out with them more, or go somewhere else in the club or another place, or the girl you're talking to gives a sign saying please save me and they take the girl away.. Tons of reasons..
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:34 AM
2

What I and everyone else is telling you.. you ask her out ASAP
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:28 AM
2

4,000,000,000 (billion) girls in the world, go talk to some, if you fail, no worries, there's an infinite supply.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:15 AM
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Of course height matters, but most guys, it's not the height that's holding them back, it's their mindset. If you think you can't, you can't. If you think no girl will date you because you're 5'6", no girls will date you because you're short. You tend to get back, what you put out into the world. Height matters, looks, matter, your look matters, what you wear matters, how you talk matters, there's a ton of things that matter. Maximize what you can, learn proper game, put in the work, reap the re…
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:12 AM
1

Sunday Brunches, Bed Bath and Beyond or other stores Milfs shop at. Happy Milf Hunting.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:07 AM
1

How about putting in 10x more effort into your post, then maybe you'll get some actual actionable advice.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:05 AM
3

By putting in the effort and fixing your situation like everyone else has.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:03 AM
4

This is why you NEVER exchange Snap or IG and you should ALWAYS get the number. Go back and get the number if you're worried. But don't make this mistake again.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:02 AM
1

So you're too afraid to say the one word of Hi to a random girl on the street?
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:59 PM
1

Try upscale wine and or piano bars. Even the bar at Whole Foods would probably work.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:50 PM
2

If that's something you want to do in real life the only person holding you back from this is you.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:49 PM
13

Girls have 100+ guys vying her attention every day, she can't date everyone. You just have to play the game better than everyone else. The good thing is, once you learn how to do it properly, you just repeat it with all the girls you talk with.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/21 11:32 PM
3

You're probably over texting. Texting is to set up dating logistics, not get to know a girl.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:30 PM
2

Doesn't matter if she's 21, 35 year olds text all day long too. You set up the date right away, the first day of talking.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:29 PM
2

the guy she used was some skinny guy who doesn’t look like he goes to the gym regularly. What's this have to do with anything? She may like his body than a 'competitive bodybuilder' type as most women don't like that body type..
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:28 PM
4

In the US it's much more common, but even then, i'd guess like 5%? Lol? What? 1 in 20 guys in the USA doing cold approaches to strangers on the street on at least a semi-regular basis? Not even close.. maybe 1 in 5,000+
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:24 PM
5

USA? .005% That's why learning proper Daygame is like a cheat code to an abundance of women in your life. Italy, Turkey and some other countries a little higher.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:22 PM
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I know a few short Asian guys who are both like 5'6"/5"7' with multiple hundred girl notch counts. Asians and Indians have to do exactly what white guys do to get girls. Don't dress like a normal Asian, Indian or white guy and learn Game.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/21 11:21 PM
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This has nothing to do with dating or seduction.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/21 11:17 PM
2

Because maybe she saw one guy on a date two weeks ago, that she kinda sorta likes, then if you ask her that she may think... Hmmm I don't know if I am or not.. I did see that guy two weeks ago, maybe we're seeing each other, maybe not.. Maybe I'll just tell this guy (YOU) that I'm seeing someone.. Then if you're new to women like it seems you are, it's game over. VS Not asking, if it's something serious with the other guy she'll tell you.
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:11 PM
1

DM Chat me and mention weight loss
/r/seduction13/10/21 08:31 PM
23

So all the guys you've ever had sex with asked you first? "Is it ok if I put my penis inside your vagina?" Or were they socially calibrated to the situation and they just put it in without asking?
/r/seduction13/10/21 08:28 PM
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For the guys that don't understand what I mean, this comment is especially for them. As they're the exact guys that struggle with women, and they'll never be moving too fast , they'll always be going too slow. And the guys that understand women like it seems you do, because you understand the comment, then they have at least a semi idea of if a girls ok with being kissed/sex etc.
/r/seduction13/10/21 08:18 PM
3

What's your weight now and what do you want to get it down to, may have a solution.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:59 PM
1

Exactly my point. Turn off your phone/computer, walk outside, go see a girl you like, go say Hi. That's how you get girls. Not worrying about if any girls in the whole wide world of 4,000,000,000 (billion) girls will like me if I have brown eyes.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:52 PM
2

How many girls have you talked to in the past 7 days? How many dates in the past 30 days? If you're not talking to too many girls that you can handle, then no.. You shouldn't be worrying about what color eyes you have.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:47 PM
0

The RSD/ex-RSD guys are definitely talented, but they are so detail and tactic oriented which really just isn't my style. Classic we really don't have a clue what we're doing but if we talk for 2 hours straight, halfway make sense, maybe guys will think we know what we're talking about. Tune in next week when we totally contradict what we said on the last video before. Don't worry keep watching because you'll be so confused that you'll need to buy one of our 30+ products on game and still have n…
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:25 PM
5

Way overthinking all these things that don't really matter. Get off Reddit and go talk to some girls. That's something that actually matters.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:21 PM
3

Depends on the situation. You could do that, or tell her how cute they look together, they're going to have suck cute babies, "you should definitely hook up with him he looks like a really nice presentable guy your mother would love" Walk away, go talk to other girls.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:20 PM
1

Nice added to my list of possibilities
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:17 PM
1

Thanks I'll think about it, please delete this comment so nobody takes it.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:16 PM
1

My username, game and or truth related, no bs given.
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:11 PM
2

Yeah I should change my name to something along those lines, any suggestions?
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:08 PM
5

100% legit strategy and would definitely work. You're getting lots of hate, but it'd work. Do you have any other outside the box strategies like this?
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:03 PM
2

One hour? Give the guy some space.. if he hasn't messaged you by 8pm, then text him. What do you mean by "a little early to go for a walk"?
/r/seduction13/10/21 06:56 PM
3

Actually saw an old school pimp looking Latin guy a few months back. He was dressed just like this, same shoes etc, with a feather in his cap: http://dallasvintageshop.com/wp-content/uploads/dsc01444.JPG He was in his 40's and the girl he was with looked 19. Who said pimpin' was dead?
/r/seduction13/10/21 06:44 PM
1

Regret is worse than rejection. This applies to almost everything in life, not just women.
/r/seduction13/10/21 06:28 PM
2

Meaning you're probably going for the home run, when you can't even bunt the ball inside the infield. You're trying to shoot half court shots when can't even make a layup. EI - you're doing beginner daygame all wrong.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:45 PM
3

The only reason why it's so hard for you to go out alone is because you're trying to run before you can walk.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:35 PM
1

He does clown game, yes it can work. 99.999% of the guys here aren't going to dress like a cholo and act like a gangster to get a few phone numbers.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:25 PM
1

If you talk to lots of girls, you'll get a lot of low interest girls like this. No biggie.. Instead of ignoring them hoping they'll come back, the better strategy is to reach out to all 10-20+ of them with the same message like once a week. Maybe she's bored, lonely, or horny, and over the course of the past month you've somewhat stayed on her radar, seem cool.. Until one day, she's like damn, I'm horny and want to fuck tonight, he seems like the best option, guess I'll go over to his place.. Sh…
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:22 PM
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Trying to do some freaky shit to a new girl could meet rejection or scare her off. Or it turns her on, because you're thinking is what every guy thinks.. too afraid to push things with new girls.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/21 04:31 PM
4

Just keep in mind, it's not what you say, but how you say it. If you talk to her like everyone else, you'll probably end up in the friendzone. You still need to show her with eye contact, the way you say things, body language, mannerism, physical touch, that you're a man, she's a woman, you like her and want to have sex with her. Otherwise, you're just another nice guy who she will feel no chemistry or connection with and you'll end up in the friend zone no fuck zone.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:20 PM
0

How successful were you with daygame before all this?
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:17 PM
25

You don't ever ask for consent, but yeah, being socially calibrated enough to know what she's probably ready for.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:03 PM
59

Simple terms.. Be a confident man that always goes after what he wants. Lead in everything having to do with the male/female dynamic. You like a girl, you go up to her and talk to her. You want to take the girl out, you make the decision on where you two are going. You want to kiss her, you kiss her. You want to have sex with her, you have sex with her. Just be a man and not a wimp. TLDR: Don't be Mr. Beta Boring Nice Guy who's too afraid to ever go after what he wants.
/r/seduction13/10/21 03:46 PM
2

You're a good looking guy with at least a clue on how to look presentable. Nice smile, you should have no problems. What about daygame?
/r/seduction13/10/21 03:11 PM
1

People here rarely speak English enough to have a conversation. Exactly what I'm talking about. You don't need to know any of the same words. I do amazingly well when I don't know a single word of the local language when day gaming.
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:57 PM
1

Similarly,how did you take your game to another level? By learning proper game and taking massive action. Daygaming in foreign countries where you don't know the language can work immensely well, better than if you knew the local language if you know how to do it correctly.
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:38 PM
5

Charismatic - intoxicating charm. Smooth - does everything right, always says the right things. Unless you're sleeping with 100+ girls a year, this is way overthinking and there's way more other things that you need to improve on first before worrying about these sorts of things. Strong mindset, good body language, great eye contact, how you walk, how you talk are all way more important than what's the difference between these two when it comes to sexual tension.
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:32 PM
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Knowing what a man is and being one in the male/female dynamic. Confidence is key. Strong mindset, good body language, great eye contact, how you walk, how you talk. Everything helps, the more pieces you put together, the more success you'll have. If you don't have any or most of these now, no worries, lots of shy boys like me that were afraid to talk to girls, figure this stuff out, and end up having lots of success with women.
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:27 PM
3

Dating would be 100x better if no dating apps existed. 99% of guys would still be too afraid to approach and girls wouldn't be getting attention or validation from guys online. They'd be desperate for male attention on the streets.
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:02 PM
2

Three dates.. Did you have sex on all three dates? If none, there's your problem. You probably came across as too scared to make a move and go after what you want - HUGE TURN OFF TO WOMEN She got bored, she doesn't want to be with a non-confident guy that doesn't go after what he wants. OR She thinks you don't like her in 'that way' because you didn't make a move pushing towards sex.
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:01 PM
10

Set up the date within 24 hours of getting her Snap, don't just be another beta orbiter.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:54 PM
6

Every customer that comes in, she works on commision. But in all reality, good for OP.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:54 PM
1

Instagram and all these other apps will only hold you back. Stop watching other people doing the things you want, and start doing them yourself.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:53 PM
6

And still have no girls in your bed because you have no game.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:52 PM
1

and hold cards doing tricks This worked for him because he was a magician right, same with the over the top outfits.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:51 PM
1

Fortune favors the bold Some groups will get pissed off.. Some girls won't like it.. Some groups will like it.. Some girls will get turned on by it.. This is a better strategy than sitting in the corner just staring at all the girls wishing you had the balls to go approach a single women over the course of the 6 hours you've been there.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:50 PM
2

If you have experience, why are you looking for wings.. it'll only hold you back.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:42 PM
3

Exactly this, women deep down inside hate being complimented on her natural born looks. Plus that's what every single guy in her life is doing on a daily basis.. 25, 50, 100+ guys a day in he text, on her Snapchat, on her Instagram posts, stories, in her DMs, on her FB, TikTok... Congratulations you now just put yourself into the Mr. Beta Bux Nice Guy category. The exact opposite of what you should be doing.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:41 PM
1

That's fin,e, but don't be an open book about everything in your life. And this should be an in persona conversation, not over text.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:18 PM
2

Beta Game 101 and what most guys are doing including this sub and why most of these guys all fail at daygame. I thought you were cute/pretty.. no
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:13 PM
1

'I find myself weirdly attracted to mysterious guys' 100% normal female behavior. If you share too much, too quickly, she'll often times lose interest.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:48 AM
1

No gestures, no hair flicking, no touching your neck, no smiles, go up to him and have a conversation.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:46 AM
1

He wants you in his bed.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:46 AM
1

Don't ever ask a girl that unless you're only looking for a serious LTR. You'll lose a ton of girls you could've met if you didn't ask.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:45 AM
5

I know guys that are 5'6/5'7 that have slept with hundreds of women. So you have no excuses.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:36 AM
2

Will you ever see him again? No, right? Then why do you care what some random guy will think when all you had to do was ask for her number, and she could've been at your place right now snuggled in bed next to you. Instead you let fear get in the way of what you really want. Stop making excuses, be a man, and go after what you want. Regret is worse than rejection. Hopefully you'll learn that sooner rather than later when you're 80 and it's too late.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:32 AM
3

Get over your height insecurity.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:30 AM
1

Because what they're looking for, doesn't mean that's what they want with you. She may be looking to lock a man down, but with you, for whatever reason, you're not her type for that, maybe you're Mr. Pay for My Dinner on Tuesday, Or Spa Day Saturday, or a quick lay. Stop asking girls that.. meet them and see what happens.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:29 AM
3

The game has changed and if you want to win, you have to learn and play by the new rules. Walking down the street and see a girl you like and walking up to her and telling her she's pretty no longer works.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:28 AM
2

Regret is worse than rejection Remember that next time, put one foot in front of the other and go say Hi
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:25 AM
2

Already slept with one on the first day and haven't felt like and have been too busy to see any of the other girls. By the way, I've done 10,000+ cold approaches on the street and step t with well over 500+ girls just from daygame. What's your next excuse? Guess I got lucky 500+ times?
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:24 AM
3

Building a life and developing hobbies doesn't put girls into your bed. Game does.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:22 AM
5

Many surveys say that 80-90% of all single women ARE NOT on dating apps. While 99% of guys are. So 99% of the guys are fishing for only 10-20% of the fish. So unless you're online dating game is on point you'll fail. Do daygame. It's like a cheat code to having an abundance of women in your life.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:21 AM
2

Some girls have bald drug lord fetishes. Use that angle and prosper. Bald guys look good, stop overthinking all this.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:19 AM
1

Rejections from where exactly and how many?
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:18 AM
2

Really hope you don't want anything other than just sex with this girl for your sake..
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:17 AM
3

I went out last Saturday and got 15 phone numbers from cold approach, how'd that happen if "no woman wants to be annoyed by some guy on the street"?
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:16 AM
0

Because you're not showing yourself as high value enough for them to want to lock you down. Every girl will settle down with the right guy A guy with high enough value.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:14 AM
1

Good way to get her fired.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:11 AM
4

cold approaching is autistic It's the most natural way to meet women since the birth of human existence.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:11 AM
1

so I don't have much experience with initiating relationships. Normal, everyone starts where you're at.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:10 AM
5

I don't think they're weird at all... Most guys want girls shorter than him, just like most girls prefer taller than them. Tattoos.. yeah they look cool, but they're not feminine, most men prefer feminine women. The more tattoos I see, the less I think of them as LTR potential. Fat girls, nobody likes that except for a small percentage of the population.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:08 AM
1

I don't think that's asking too much at all. But one of those probably won't fall from the sky into your lap. How do you plan to get this girl? See one on the street and go talk to her? Christian dating site?
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:05 AM
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I've done 100 in a day, but that was more just to challenge myself, not a normal thing. I've also done 1,000+ in a month / 33 a day average many times, especially when I was brand new. 20-30-40+ is normal for me if it's what I call a "Daygame Day" I went out last Saturday and got exactly 15 numbers I believe. How many should one do in a week? Depends, if you're new like I think you are.. Do as many as humanly possible, so you can get good super fast and then reap those rewards for the rest of yo…
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:03 AM
2

Coffee. is the best of the three, you seem super young so maybe a walk in the park would be better.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:59 AM
1

Don't listen to this it's really bad advice, and telling a girl she is cute/pretty is just as bad.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:57 AM
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Start with a question. I always ask if they know where something is and go from there. This is a really, really bad opener. Just about as bad as it can get.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:57 AM
3

Then what in the world are you waiting for, ask her out next week IN PERSON
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:55 AM
3

Plan a date, because that's what you want. If she says no, who cares, there's another 4,000,000,000 (billion) women in the world, stop taking each one so seriously.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:53 AM
3

Take a pen and paper out, right down all your fears, then go back and see how many of them are really rational. Write this down, whether it's a real fear you should have, or made up. No idea if that helps, but think I've heard it somewhere before.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:52 AM
1

Game = building chemistry and attraction.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:47 AM
3

This is the mindset that will keep you struggling with women the rest of your life. Yes of course you're interested in something else besides studying. You're a man who sees what he wants and goes after it. That's what being a man is. Not being too scared to face rejection.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:46 AM
2

Do you see girls you find attractive in public walking down the street, at the coffee shop, at the grocery store? There you go.. women everywhere just waiting for you to swoop in. As far as the friends are all gone - so make new ones - it's incredibly easy.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:43 AM
3

Why not just invite her straight to your place? Drinks are cheaper. Otherwise if at the bar.. Step #1 "I'll get the first round".. implying she has to spend money on the second round. She won't like the idea, so that will help you accomplish step #2. Step #2 Talk about some fancy drink you make really well at home within the first 2-3 minutes, seed the pull maybe you'll make one for her. Seed the pull. Step #3 When the first drinks are almost done, tell her you want to bounce to another place cl…
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:40 AM
1

Online one of those are cold approaches, the middle one.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:33 AM
2

So you're afraid of asking her out, thinking it'll be creepy.. But you think that asking her friend for her number, isn't creepy? Where do you get this nonsense from? Be a man and get her number next week in person. "Lets hang out, give me your number" Why in the world would you ever think that would be creepy?
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:28 AM
0

The reason why dating apps don't work for you and 99% of the other guys in this sub is only because you don't know how to use them correctly If you don't know how to win, you lose.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:26 AM
1

Paintings that are personal like I mentioned or random cookie cutter paintings like everyone else?
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:22 AM
2

The girl should never think you're trying to impress them. If you want to turbo boost your approaches, yes you should be using DHVs. Night and day difference. Problem is, most guys who try to use them, use them incorrectly and it comes across as maybe showing off to the girl. That's the wrong way to use them.
/r/seduction12/10/21 08:56 PM
2

Approaching and going up to a woman that you like and having a conversation in a public setting. Trying to get a date, the number, or take her right back to your place for sex within 5+ minutes of meeting. On the street, coffee shop, grocery store, mall, gym, college campus etc.
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:30 PM
0

Less likely, probably, rarely, I don't agree.
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:42 PM
2

If you want what other people don't have, you need to be willing to do what others won't. This rule applies to everything. Business, life, dating.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:04 PM
1

Go out on the street and take massive action utilizing proper game.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:48 PM
12

That could definitely be the case, just like girls on sex surveys won't count some one night stands for whatever illogical reasons they come up with in their brain. But regardless.. if they're saying 80-90%, while it may not be that high, it's still has to be a significant percentage of women that aren't on dating apps.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:46 PM
1

Depends on the city, it's different everywhere. You can also treat club game like daygame.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:45 PM
2

You be settling a LOT bc 8s and 9s rarely do one night stands. Maybe not with you..
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:43 PM
1

Everything can work.. You go up to enough girls by saying "Hey wanna fuck?" and eventually one will take you up on the offer. Doesn't mean it's the most efficient.. What's the sample size of giving out your number? 5? 10? 50? 100? 1,000? How many numbers have you given out?
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:43 PM
1

Be more direct, ask her what day she can meet.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:41 PM
2

Online dating is a great sales funnel too if you know how to set it up correctly.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:40 PM
1

The problem is most guys take your advice and think they need to talk for weeks or months to get to know the girl and by that time, you're already way passed being a possible love interest and you're firmly planted into the friend zone. I ask 100% of girls out within the first 5 messages if at all possible.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:38 PM
1

I'm on the opposite extreme. I've been sleeping with 100+ girls a year on average for way over a decade. I don't remember any other way. This is coming from basically a virgin at 30 years old. I learned proper game at 30 years old, took massive action, and here I am.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:54 AM
2

You don't get to know women on apps/texting, you do that in person. The more you text, just to text, the more you bore her, the more she loses interest, the more you lean towards ending up in her friend zone no fuck zone never to be met in real life.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:39 AM
2

I have done some online dating but the text game is tough to keep them hooked. You don't try to keep them hooked, you try to meet them as fast as humanly possible. "It's like I don't know why I am repulsing women." What's your dating history before this dry spell?
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:33 AM
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You don't. That ship has sailed. The odds of it working out a second time are super low. Get over your oneitis and go talk to and date and fuck other girls.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:05 AM
1

Texting is for logistics, not to get to know a girl, you do that in person. If you haven't met her yet, you're probably deep into the friend zone no fuck zone.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:02 AM
7

99% of the guys in this sub will wake up one day, before they know it.. 70 years old.. With a whole bunch of regret that they just didn't do what it takes to learn proper game.. So they can go up and strike up a conversation with any girl on the street.. At any time... And by doing that have an abundance of women in their lives.. New girls in their lives every week.. New girls in their bed every week.. Every month.. Every year.. Every decade.. Agee, life's too short to be sitting at home scrolli…
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:57 AM
1

Mystery was a magician.. His whole peacocking outfits and magic tricks and weird routines fit his persona perfectly. The average guy, not so much. But I will say that dressing up and peacocking is amazingly fun, just to say F it and do it, just because, for self amusement. I rarely do it, and not really trying to use it as a Game method, but no doubt peacocking absolutely works.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:45 AM
1

Don't listen to that advice, it's terrible for a million reasons.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:37 AM
1

Terrible advice.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:36 AM
2

I'd say the odds go way down the second or third time you go in to get the number, but you never know, it's also possible the girl wouldn't have given you her number on day one because she's in a bad mood, but on day two she's in a great mood and she thinks why not. Shoot your shot. Regret is worse than rejection
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:36 AM
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I've lived in many USA cities.. while I agree with you, it seems most do use apps.. But I've seen a ton of surveys that all say otherwise, so who knows.. There's definitely a ton of girls who don't, you don't meet them on apps, you meet them doing daygame and I ask a lot of them if they use apps.. I think most girls use apps, get sick of them, delete them for a few months, then get bored, download them again, and repeat the process. Most women deep down inside would love for a confident guy to a…
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:31 AM
2

Sleeping with lots of girls consistently has the opposite effect. It'll keep it on fire.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:23 AM
6

You don't ever ask a women to be your FWB. You have sex with her on day, then have sex with her on another ay, and let FWB happen naturally. Otherwise if you bring it up especially before sex you'll most likely scare the girl away for a million and one reasons.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:22 AM
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Many surveys say that 80-90% of all single women ARE NOT on any dating apps. That means that 99% of guys are fishing for only 10-20% of all single girls. That's why I always say doing Daygame is like a cheat code to having an abundance of women if you learn the proper way to do it.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:14 AM
1

Do you think all these reasons are justified? Or do you believe that these are just fears you tell yourself so you can feel ok as far as not approaching and possibly getting rejected?
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:09 AM
3

All that building connection, building chemistry doesn't really work for me, it'll still bore me.. Now that rare instant chemistry is where it's at, problem is, that's super rare.. at least for me.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:05 AM
10

Beauty is only one light switch away.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:51 AM
1

Not sure how new accounts work and Chat messages.. If you're ok with what I asked I'll send you the other kind of message, non chat one. How many pics have you posted in the past year? To get an idea on how many you're posting? Do you post stories regularly too?
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:42 AM
2

There's nothing wrong with being introverted.. But if you'd like to be more extroverted then.. Use these parties as teaching and learning moments.. Try to mirror what you're friends are doing.. Watch what they do and try to do the same things.. Things they say, how they act, how they talk to guys, how they talk to girls.. Small baby steps to try to get to their live.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:36 AM
2

Sounds like a bad friend + you're firmly planted in the friend zone. You need to add more girls into your life and get over your oneitis.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:30 AM
1

I guess that happens too, then you can just mirror them and say the same thing to them and have a bonding moment
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:28 AM
1

"is you want to reveal as much of yourself as possible to try to generate interest." I disagree with this.. I posted this earlier today replying to this comment: "He said I needed to back off a little keep myself a mystery don't show the girls everything about you they get quickly bored of you and you won't have anything exciting left to share." This is a huge part of my game and why I do so well with girls. I'm this guy they may have known for weeks or months yet know almost nothing about.. I v…
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:26 AM
1

If convo goes to me I somehow put it back to them cause at the end of the night I always get "I feel like I know you so well" Is this one of your go-to lines later on in the conversation?
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:24 AM
1

Three viable options: Online dating Daygame Night game Have you done all three?
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:22 AM
1

The biggest problem of all, is most don't talk to women at all.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:20 AM
3

Ask her out.. Anything other than a YES is a NO and don't even respond back. If she comes back around a few days or weeks later.. Send a few texts back and forth and then ask her out again. Anything other than a YES is a NO and don't even respond back. Just keep repeating the cycle. No free attention and valuation. Either she's meeting you, or you're not interested. But the most important question is.. "she was clearly interested (in the way that she searches for interaction often" What exactly …
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:18 AM
3

Try to have all your dates straight to your dorm. Or worst case, 15-30 minutes, then back to your dorm. I would avoid trying to kiss girls in public as it'll only make it harder for you to pull back to your room, because all plausible deniability is gone. How are you getting these girls? Daygame, night game, online?
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:14 AM
4

Grocery stores are a key component for my daygame. They're great because there's lots of interesting and fun things you can do to make pickup a little more self amusing. There's an endless supply of props to add to your routine.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:11 AM
1

Maybe a language thing.. But regardless.. Rule #1 - the best way to secure a second date is to have sex on the first date. This will massively increase your 2nd date meetups. Otherwise, you never know. The ones you think, there's no way we won't see each other again, you won't see them ever again.. And the ones you think, it went all right, are the ones you will. That's why I preach you really need to push for sex on the first date if you want to see her a second time. No don't move on, still a …
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:04 AM
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In a land of curated heavily filtered and color corrected IG's pics, that's why daygame is so great. What you see is what you get. Well mostly, there's still layers of fake going on.. Fake hair, foundation, makeup, fake eye brows, fake lashes, fake boobs or push up bras, so fake boobs regardless etc etc. But at least you'll recognize the girl when you meet her for the first time vs online dating, you never know what you're going to get and she's almost always not as good looking as her dating pr…
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:01 AM
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6 dates.. How many of those did you have sex with? I'm going to guess none? The best way to secure a second date, is to have sex on the first. Today I went on my 6th date from Tinder. It went well. We talked about similar interests, laughed at each other's jokes, This doesn't mean anything. She probably has similar interests and laughs at all her other guy friends' jokes too. All this means is you're a normal guy. What really matters is if you're breaking the friend barrier and coming across as …
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:54 AM
1

That's a huge gigantic distinction.
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:17 PM
1

Updated my original comment
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:07 PM
1

Text the day of to confirm you are still on for later. I don't like this strategy at all. I know why you do it, but you'll lose way more girls by going days without texting them until the day of the date. If you sent the right text the night before, you'll cut your flakes down by a substantial margin.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:59 PM
2

A couple huge key mistakes you're making and how to fix them Stop getting the IG, always get the number You set the date in person, before you even get the number. This obviously does't always work, but this should be your focus. Makes things 10x easier than starting from scratch on text. As far as your situation now, ask her out on DAY ONE. Waiting will only hurt your chances and the odds of you meeting her again, go down day by day.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:57 PM
3

He said I needed to back off a little keep myself a mystery don't show the girls everything about you they get quickly bored of you and you won't have anything exciting left to share. This is a huge part of my game and why I do so well with girls. I'm this guy they may have known for weeks or months yet know almost nothing about.. I very s-l-o-w-l-y drip out tidbits of information.. Keep them guessing, keep them thinking about you, keep that hamster wheel of theirs always spinning. One of the qu…
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:53 PM
1

Whenever you're finished making your text, before you hit send, go back and delete half of it. And make a new rule for yourself, no double texting to make more points about your previous text. Send it and forget it.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:48 PM
2

The UK is one of the most visited places on Earth, no reason to make it up. Stop being mad that just because you struggle with daygame in the UK doesn't mean that everyone else struggles too.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:29 PM
2

That's a dick move I'm not going to deny that, but that is the solution to your problem. Sure some girls will get mad and or fall of the radar, but lots of women never get cancelled on, so it'll boost your value in her eyes, and then you just see her another day.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:24 PM
3

Game is simple. Lots of leads + Great texting + Great closing = too many girls to handle
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:22 PM
1

Love it, well not really but ya know.. Curious question? How many total number of guys message you on your text, IG, Snap, FB etc every day? Bonus Question - what percentage of them would you actually go meet face to face?
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:21 PM
6

That was a big picture comment.. Age appropriate, single. . you're still looking at hundreds of millions Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:10 PM
-1

Up to you.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:26 PM
30

Who knows, go out in the world and find out.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:25 PM
6

There's 3,904,727,342 women in the world. Just about one man for every women. Not rare at all. Fix your mindset.
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:07 PM
2

Double stack your dates. Problem sovled. Thank me now or later, up to you.
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:01 PM
2

Stop talking about hooking up over text. The girl may be 100% DTF - but most girls don't want to feel like they're a slut. "Come over and lets fuck" - makes her feel like a slut, and she'll just ghost you and you won't meet. "Come over for X" - she'll come over to do X, while deep down inside she knows she wants sex. "Come over and lets fuck" - no "Come over and lets cuddle" - yes They're both the same - just not so in your face implied to scare the girl away.
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:00 PM
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It has been justification that they're not the problem... it's these damn women. You can either be the man that adapts, learns game and prospers. OR Make excuses and put all the blame on women, stay right where you're at. You can't have what other men don't, if you're not willing to do what other men won't
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 03:48 PM
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1 a day for 365 days possible? Absolutely. But you would need to have your whole Game funnel locked in and super efficient. You're not just going to wing it and sleep with a new girl every day. You'd have to live in a large enough city to make it work as you'd need lots of leads coming into your funnel. You'd have to have a consistent 10 leads a day coming into your pipeline. Have a great texting sequence. Invite all the girls straight to your place. No public dates, although if you had a place …
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:23 PM
2

Nobody here knows.. If you feel comfortable considering it's a work environment make a move and ask him out.. Or try to give the most over the top obvious hints that you like him. Remember 99% of guys don't pick up on women trying to flirt with them even if you think you're being obvious.. guys are oblivious. That's why I say be way over the top if you go with that approach.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:57 PM
3

Dating, having casual sex and a girlfriend Almost meaningless. I could be homeless living under a bridge in NYC and still pull multiple girls a week if I wanted. Finding a wife, having 2.5 kids, and a white picket fence in the suburbs It matters to some women, not to others.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:56 PM
4

You could always do the Wine and Dine: Home Edition. Make him dinner and bust out a $4 bottle of wine from Walmart.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:53 PM
1

Horny, bored, lonely, confused, nobody here knows.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:52 PM
1

Don't DM her, that's the super beta approach.. Wait until you see her again in person, on a high note in the conversation ask her out, set the date, get the phone number, don't message her on IG now or after the dates been set up.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:50 PM
2

If you were dancing and she was dancing.. You should've just danced for a while.. Without saying a word.. Let your body language do all the talking.. This will probably intrigue her more than just talking like every other guy would do.. I don't care if it's 10+ minutes and you haven't said a word.. Because you've been talking with your body language the whole time.. Communication is 93% non-verbal.. In this situation, no need for words.. Just make your intentions clear with eye contact and body …
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:43 PM
2

She gave you a ton of chances to show that you were interested her and were man enough to go after what you wanted and make a move. You repeatedly dropped the ball.. Her interest waned over time.. And you got yourself more and more into the friend zone each and every time you met.. Two options.. Try one last time.. next time you see her, make serious bold moves and have sex with her. Or Just her friend.. But since it's clear you're pretty new with women, I'd stay drop her as she'll probably only…
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:40 PM
5

These are normal self limiting beliefs that every guy in the world has when going out to bars. Same as daygame street approaches. She's with her friends.. She looks busy.. She has a resting bitch face.. Maybe it'll look weird if I go up to her and her group of friends and talk to her and them.. These and and a bunch of other reasons are why most guys won't do what they really want.. As in go up to that pretty girl you can't keep your eyes off all night.. Ego is what gets in people's way.. What w…
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:33 PM
142

There's 3,904,727,342 women in the world. One rejects you, one ghosts you, one makes excuses not to meet, cool, no worries, there's an abundance of women everywhere in the world.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:18 PM
4

Remove the limiting self belief that maybe it's wrong to approach random people in Seattle.. To me I'd view that as a positive.. Nobody else is confident enough to go up to random girls and talk to them? Good, more girls for me.. I posted this earlier today.. Don't get a male wing, get a female. 99.9% of other gurus or guys on here say to get a guy wingman.. That doesn't make the most logical sense. Get a woman. One you meet at the venue. You get preselection and social proof. That's way better …
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:15 PM
1

Find his favorite picture of anything in life.. his car, his favorite team, his favorite etc. Have someone do a custom painting of that picture. They'll usually print it out on paper, then hand paint over it. Either water color or oil, your choice. Frame it, gift it. It's thoughtful, it's unique, he probably won't put it in a drawer and forget about it as it'll always be visible on the wall of his choice.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:12 PM
2

"Because it's not common, and mostly considered creepy to approach someone and ask for a number... I'm almost forced to use these apps." Get off social media as it's only polluting your mind if this is what you think. Women love to get cold approached in the street.. It's a breath of fresh air vs hiding behind a phone screen as you swipe on Tinder. You're not forced to use apps.. You as you don't feel comfortable getting out of your comfort zone and going up to a girl you see walking down the st…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 02:06 PM
1

Daygame Don't use a wing as it'll only hold you back. Night game 99.9% of other gurus or guys on here say to get a guy wingman.. That doesn't make the most logical sense. Get a woman. One you meet at the venue. You get preselection and social proof. That's way better than trying to find a guy you align with that's around your level, wants the same things, doesn't drag you down.. that's like trying to find a needle in a haystack, plus it's less effective. Use women as wings. Easiest and most effe…
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:53 PM
1

"Whatever works for you man but reading the comment threads it’s obvious you’re not starting from scratch here." I've been doing daygame for the past 13+ years, 500+ lays, just from daygame. 100+ girls a year on average and well over 1,000+ total from daygame, night game, online game. This isn't theory. I never said looks didn't matter, they help. But real* game over **just looks all day long. There's posts in this sub daily from guys who are very good looking, hit the gym, yet struggle with gir…
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:36 PM
2

Everyone has bad sets, everyone gets blown out, anyone who says otherwise is lying. That I have no problem with. But the thing is, all these guys are cherry picking their best sets, they'll film 100 sets and show the best ones. Yet with all of these posted to the public sets, almost all of them have serious fundamental flaws in them. Todd is a super smart guy, but I think that's his problem he over games everything, and it confuses people, so they don't take action. Maybe it's on purpose to keep…
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:28 PM
2

Since she's kind of cold, and if you see her in person all the time, have a normal conversation with her in person, at a high point in the interaction, with hopefully good flow, this is when you ask her out. Ask her out, but in a confident way, like you assume she's going to say yes, because lets face it, you're The Coolest Guy in the World - why wouldn't she love to go out with you again. Just make sure to have a plan ahead of time, actually make firm plans right then and there if you can, exac…
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:21 PM
2

I've slept with 100+ girls a year on average the past 10+ years.. I never said 'be yourself', it was a general comment to not overwhelm a clear newbie.
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:13 PM
1

You don't get to know someone over text, you do that in person. By 'getting to know someone' over text, you'll just land yourself into the friend zone never going to meet you zone. The mystery is gone, you bored her, conversation goes dry, you're just a 'friendly guy' etc.
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:09 PM
1

Anything can work, doesn't mean it's the most efficient. Anyone that's been around Game a long time will agree Mysteries methods are super outdated at this point. Weird routines, philosophies that haven't made sense for 15 years.
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:08 PM
2

The game has changed because of everything. Women get 100+ notifications a day from guys. If you don't strike fast and efficient, you're already down the list and forgotten. Especially with the MAYBE girls, which is most of the girls if you're playing the game correctly.
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:43 AM
5

Did you ask her out right away on day #1? If not, that's probably where you went wrong.. You need to strike and show your intentions right away.. Otherwise you risk over texting, she gets bored and you get friend zoned and she'll never agree to see you. Don't ever confront her, you'll come off as super beta and turn her off. Where do you go from here? Ask her out asap.. Anything other than a YES is a NO and I'd pull back all attention.. Don't be just another one of her beta orbiters giving her f…
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:51 AM
7

Do you only ask this when out on public dates or meeting a girl in public?
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:48 AM
9

It's totally ok to shoot your shot.. But for 99% of the guys posting this this type of thread, it's usually from a severe lack of women in their life, and they're suffering from severe oneitis.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:23 AM
6

You still need to know game.. no matter how great your six pack is.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:07 AM
2

Todd v is so cringe it’s insane. Agree. But these newbies love him.. and then wonder why after 2 years, they're still at 0 lays.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:05 AM
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Snapchat
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:44 AM
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The quickest way to get over one girl it to put another one, or five, or ten in your bed. Go back out there and start doing daygame again.. Make a plan. Start tomorrow.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:21 AM
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Who knows.. sounds like if this is going to happen, you need to make your move.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:07 AM
1

Yes. Weird routines. Not ever taking the girls number.
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:06 AM
1

Just ask him to hang out after work.. if he has a bit of experience with women hopefully he picks up on it..
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:55 AM
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Things happened, move on, go set up another date with her.. or something you should've already done.
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:53 AM
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If you're getting lots of signals from women.. Then your acne isn't holding you back. You're the one who's holding yourself back. Tips? See a girl you like, and go talk to her, ask her out, get the number, set up the date, meet, talk, hang out, flirt, have sex if you want.
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:17 AM
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Probably because you asked her to split the bills.. she was either looking for a free meal like I said. Or you just turned her off.. as a lot of women get turned off by guys who say that. Those are some of the reasons on why you shouldn't ever take a girl out to a fancy dinner before you've had her naked in your bed.
/r/seduction11/10/21 01:13 AM
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Common misconception #82: Guys think attractive guys must have it so easy to get laid. Looks get you in the door easier, but they don't get you into the bedroom. I'd say, cut out all the problem areas, or places for you to stall. Stop doing public dates. Have all the girls come straight to your place on date #1. This improves your odds immensely. Do you have a hard time talking to guys or girls that are old and unattractive? If you're fine with that, stop having a filter just when you're around …
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:51 AM
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Maybe you get lucky and it's your first.. Maybe you have no clue what you're doing and you don't get laid after 100.. Maybe you get good advice and approach correctly and you get laid in your first 20.. There's so many variables.. How many approaches have you done in the last 30 days?
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:48 AM
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The guys are probable shy if they can't make decent conversation after that.. and most guys aren't good at seeing signs or picking up girls at bars/clubs. Be forward.. "How do you feel about us making out?" "How do you feel about us going back to my/your place after this?" If they're not open or interested, go try the next guy.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:43 AM
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Agree with the.. it's better to approach any girl vs none or very few. You can up your standards later, not on day one as it'll only hold you back and he'll probably end up quitting.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:41 AM
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Because no girl has ever lied about being on birth control. Hope you read my comment.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:36 AM
1

Yes in a good way.. no more risk.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:35 AM
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Agree. For the first like 5 years I sent in a sample yearly just to make sure. I think it's 1/5000 failure rate.. but haven't Googled in a while..
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:35 AM
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1/5000
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:33 AM
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"I know I can't find because i have high standards" Huh?
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:27 AM
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How many dates have you gone on with her in person? If none, sounds like your firmly planted yourself inside the friend no meet no fuck zone.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:26 AM
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"I tell that she looks stunning and I couldn't take my eyes off her when I saw her at the cafe." Stop saying this.. stop giving compliments like this.. it's almost as if you're telling the girl you worship her and the ground she walks on. This is what every guy is telling her 100x a day on the street, on her text, on her IG posts, on her IG stories, in her DMs, on her Facebook, on her TikTok. My guess you came across as too much of a Mr. Beta Nice Guy. Fix that and you'll have more success.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:19 AM
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So recently I have had good results going clubbing, usually making out with one girl at least. This is hurting your chance to pull back to your place on the same night, or a day in the future. Stop with the in club make outs. Figure out her logistics within the first 2 minutes, if there's still a good chance of making it happen, seed the pull, try to pull her from the club within the first 5 minutes. Same night pulls aren't easy for most guys new to game.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:16 AM
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Yes, I was asking if there were many virgins in this sub because I get virgins DM me every day on here asking for advice. What's your point? Did you even read the post..
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:08 AM
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Strong eye contact like you desire her and want to fuck her the whole night, flirt, break the touch barrier, sexually escalate, have sex.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:40 PM
0

I know female nature. I'd rather be paranoid then have a kid with some random girl that lied to me just to get pregnant. Go look on eBay or any other online classified site.. fake pregnancy tests you buy so you can show your boyfriend.. Oh look, I'm pregnant (when she's not) so you stop using condoms, then she really does get pregnant.. and then it's GAME OVER https://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_from=R40&_nkw=pregnancy+test+positive&_sacat=0&_dmd=2&rt=nc&LH_Sold=1&LH_Complete=1
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:38 PM
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She suggested it and you accepted it. Is she paying or not? If not, she sounds like a user.. Same with the Dave and Busters, let me bring my kid with.. Maybe she sees you as an easy source of $$ to do things she doesn't or can't pay for herself. Like I said, if she suggested the fancy dinner place, I'd be assuming she's paying for it. And I'd let her. I'll stick to my guns on this one.. $5-10 max on first dates. No fancy dinners over $50 unless she's your locked in LTR, girlfriend etc. Even then…
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:35 PM
1

I invite 100% of my dates straight to my place. That's what I recommend for everyone.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:28 PM
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This is actually the only time I agreed on the date because the Sun Dial Restaurant is a unique restaurant that I’ve heard highly of. This is a place you take your serious girlfriend, not some random girl you've never even went on date one with, not a random girl who you haven't even had sex with. I already answered that question.. coffee or drinks at your place. $5-10 max
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:24 PM
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Tough love is better than sugar coating things.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:23 PM
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Have you had sex with her the other two dates? If yes, you're probably fine. If no, maybe you bored her, didn't feel any chemistry and doesn't want to meet again but is to shy to let you down, and or wants to keep you around as source of free attention and validation. Either way.. Try to reschedule as watch what a girl does, not what she says.. If she meets, you're good to go.. If she never meets you again and it's just a bunch of excuses, then you know you probably didn't do well enough on the …
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:22 PM
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I always go with the.. You can't chose 7/10 so you have to either go with 6/10 or 8/10... So I go with 6/10. But in reality I'd say I'm closer to a 7/10. But the thing with daygame is.. Say you're a 5/10.. The whole fact of you being confident enough to go approach in public boosts you up to a 6/10 or a 7/10. You deleted your other comment.. but I'm in the USA but have done daygame all over the world.. it's great everywhere I've been, just have to figure out how to adapt to the local city/countr…
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:19 PM
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Can you at least give me a country?
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:08 PM
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Learn to flirt and physically and sexually escalate.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:07 PM
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Far from broke. I haven't worked in 20+ years, traveled to 100+ countries, slept with 1,000+ women. I'm just not stupid. You're the typical pushover provider Beta Bux guy is all, but you just don't see it. I already answered your question about cheap dates.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:07 PM
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I'm not worried what they think. Yes, you are, or you wouldn't have mentioned it three times in your post.. about how weird it must be to do daytime approaches in public. Wasting your time? Ok.. so what's your current dating strategy and how many dates have you gone on in the past 30 days? I went out and did daygame yesterday and got 15 numbers and already slept with one of the girls, 3-4 of the others wanted to meet today, but it's NFL Sunday so not interested in meeting girls today.. Coming ac…
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:03 PM
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First of all for the record, I’m not an advocate for fancy dinners on the dating side of things. She was the one who insisted on it the first time Yes, she asked and you said yes. Sounds like the girl is trying to use you.. or is the girl offering to take you out and pay? If a girl suggested that to me, I'd assume she was paying.. But you don't make it seem that way, and if you're the one paying.. Yes, you're being a pushover. Yes it is also a bad date choice, because of all of my reasons in my …
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:56 PM
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Truth bombs.
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:54 PM
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Yeah this is common.. You're basically coming across as a Mr. Boring Nice Guy.. coming across as friendly, but not getting anywhere, and you'll keep ending up in the friend zone and not getting second dates.
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:51 PM
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We met twice and i think it went great So you had sex every time you've met?
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:27 PM
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Interesting.. Making all these assumptions.. Why are you for worried about what some random strangers think? Fix your ego.. nobody really cares.. It's called being a man and going after what you want. You're a confident man who goes after what he wants, you see a girl you like and you go have a human to human conversation.. You know, something humans have been having for millions of years. Sounds like you're dealing with a whole lot of self limiting beliefs here. So you don't think it's normal a…
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:26 PM
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Jeez.. Stop taking girls to fancy dinners, as this is only going to hold you back. Dave and Busters on first date? No.. just no. It's like your only value is to pay your way into a hang out with a girl. Keep it simple, $5-10 or less. Otherwise you're setting the tone as Mr. Provider Beta Bux. You should've told her NO the date is with her.. not her and her daughter. Stop being a pushover.
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:20 PM
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cruises.com Travelocity.com
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:45 PM
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Set up all the first dates straight to your place and your close rate will multiply.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:30 PM
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Why? That's what you want right? Stop being a puss.. Be a man, and go after what you want. Are you purposely trying to come across as a nice guy who just wants to be her friend and not go out with her only to get put into the friend zone? Or do you want to take her on a date/sex whatever? Then you need to come across as that's what you want. YES - ask her out.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:16 PM
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Depends on the cruise line, the length of the cruise, and how many nights the cruise, what time of year you go.. The cheaper the cruise line, the shorter the length (7 nights or less) are the most important for a younger crowd. There's always a bunch of horny DTF girls 20-40 on any cruise, 15 nights or less..
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:14 PM
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ASK HER OUT that's the only way to know for sure.. anything other than a YES is a NO.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:11 PM
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She wants to keep you around to keep giving her attention and validation. I always had an issue with texting,it would go ok-ish,but at some point she just likes a message and be done with it. Sounds like you're over-texting.. You should always be asking out girls on DAY ONE. Otherwise you just end up in the friend zone, beta orbiting zone, just a source of attention and validation.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:11 PM
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and while there ask her if she’s seeing someone at the moment, No don't do this, don't bring it up. If she's seeing someone that she's serious about, she'll tell you.. Just ask her out like a normal human being.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:09 PM
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All girls.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:05 PM
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Yeah that works, but what are you expecting? If your goal is to get laid once, then no need to go, just stay home and get girls.. But if your game sucks at home, then your game probably won't be much better at one of these events.. Cruises would qualify as one of the easiest places to hookup as well.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:04 PM
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While I understand what you're saying.. But I still believe this day and age, you need to strike while the iron is hot, especially with girls on dating apps for various reason, and this magnifies if it's girls from daygame or night game. You should never wait with those girls.
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:42 PM
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I call it a loophole because if you can identify these women you don't need to run game to get them naked. Most of the time you won't know if they're dating others.. or they'll lie or downplay it.. Sure you may find out later on, but how long are you taking to get these girls naked in your bed? Weeks? Months? This is kind of harder to define but I'll use an example Vin used. If out at a bar with her bff and she meets a guy, goes home with him and sleeps with him...when she talks with her bff aga…
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:39 PM
1

Yeah good chance, up to you on if you're maybe ok with that or not . . but who knows.
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:12 PM
1

Well why didn't you do all those things? Did you try? Did you flirt? Did you physically and sexually try to escalate? Did you try to kiss her etc?
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:05 PM
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I sleep with a lot of 20-25 year olds as that's what I usually go for.. Yes they all have Snap and Instagram.. But the problem with exchanging Instagram and why it's way worse than Snap is that now you just threw yourself in with another group of sharks, more and better sharks. Now your competition has IG profiles and stories.. and if you're not in the top 95-99% of this, good chance you'll lose out. If you don't have professional pics, living a baller life, always doing cool things, then it's t…
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:05 PM
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What exactly do you mean by watched the skies together? In person? Did you flirt with her, sexually escalate, kiss and have sex? If none of those, you probably came across as more of a nice guy and ending yourself into the friend zone never to be seen again.
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:01 PM
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And I somewhat disagree with you. This day in age she's getting 100s of notifications and distractions a day, you need to strike while the iron is hot. After you slept with her, then you can pull back attention and make her chase.
/r/seduction10/10/21 07:55 PM
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In Western countries this no longer works and that's why you need "Game" Girls get complimented on their looks 100+ a day.. On the street, on their text messages, on they Snap, on their Instagram posts, on their Instagram stories, in their DMs Girls get compliments ALL DAY LONG Plus girls hate getting complimented on their born looks.. These are the reasons on why you shouldn't be giving these types of compliments.
/r/seduction10/10/21 07:53 PM
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Nice shoes, wanna fuck?
/r/seduction10/10/21 07:49 PM
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don’t give her a lot of attention, shit will prolly go your way. This can backfire too.. you really shouldn't do too much of this until after you've already slept with the girl.
/r/seduction10/10/21 07:48 PM
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Because she gives everyone her Snap.. Now instead of being one of the few people with her actual phone number, now you've just put yourself in the same bucket as 1000+ other thirsty dudes messaging her everyday, sending her dick pics etc. You've just thrown yourself into the pool of sharks.. Now instead of competing with just the guys on her text, now you're competing with even more guys on her Snap. Instagram is even worse.. for many other reasons.
/r/seduction10/10/21 07:17 PM
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they turn me down. Unless its common for girls to lead you on... While yeah it happens, I think it's the lack of being a little more socially calibrated and don't really know how to flirt and sexually escalate. Or you've talked to 2 girls.. you need a larger sample size to really know for sure.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:55 PM
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4,000,0000,000 (billion) women in the world.. They're everywhere.. Walk out your front door.. look right.. look left.. See a girl you wouldn't mind naked in your bed and go talk to her.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:47 PM
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Next time don't eat her out and go for the quick bang if you worried about others ruining things like this. Yes you can probably recover.. ask her out ASAP Have her come over.. meet, talk, flirt, sexually escalate, have sex. Tell your roomies ahead of time so they don't cockblock you again.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:36 PM
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Car sex
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:34 PM
4

I could talk to a random girl about painting the wall in my kitchen and turn her on and make her wet. It's not what you say, but how you say it. Communication is 93% non-verbal, sexual eye contact, mannerisms, body language, breaking the touch barrier, sexual escalation etc.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:34 PM
2

So step it up to 20 the next day, and 30 the next. And add some more words and lines each day.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:09 PM
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I don’t know if it’s worth pursuing. Sounds like it is, you just badly planned everything is all. Plan another date - not food unless you go to her or your place to make food together. Learn from your mistakes and plan better.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:59 PM
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There's a better way to do everything.. Health, business, sports, game, daygame, texting, dates, escalation etc. Taking consistent massive action is the key to getting over approach anxiety. But if you do it in an inefficient way and fail, it's only going to hold you back.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:56 PM
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Sounds like you made it a big deal that she was a model, stop putting girls on a pedestal, you're just acting like every other guy she meets. You should've acted indifferent like it's normal, you've dated models in the past. Stop exchanging Instagrams, this will only hurt your chances. Not trying to bash, good job on getting out there, just giving you a few things that are big mistakes and will only hold you back and decrease your odds of actually getting that date.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:53 PM
1

You can kill approach anxiety in around 30 days if you have the right game plan. And then it's easy street for the rest of your life.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:47 PM
1

20 numbers/dates out of 20 approaches. You're either a natural or very good looking or both. Good for you, seriously keep up the momentum and strive to improve every day.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:43 PM
0

Daygame - bad strategy and coming off as too much of a Mr. Boring Beta Nice Friend Zone Guy. Parties - coming off as too much of a Mr. Boring Beta Nice Friend Zone Guy. Because this is literally what the girl is telling you.. "Not interesting in dating right now", "your a good guy, I just dont see you that way".
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:41 PM
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My own I've developed over 10,000+ approaches and 500+ lays just from daygame alone. I don't recommend any of those guys.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:28 PM
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YOu need to listen to someone who actually has infield otherwise everyone is an expert Only a fool trusts infields.. Lots of them are with paid models.. and you could go film 100 infields, suck with 99 because your game sucks, get lucky with a SUPER YES GIRL and post that online. Of all the YouTubers I've seen none of them are really good at daygame.. They all have serious flaws which are easy to spot.. or follow a bad formula and framework. Most of these top guys that everyone brings up all mak…
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:18 PM
4

0 to 100s. Same as everyone else. In person and or online.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:10 PM
3

I know plenty of wealthy guys, I'm talking 10-20-50 million cash net worth.. Yet most of these guys are like normal guys when it comes to women, and they struggle like everyone else. Mr. Boring Beta working at McDonalds - struggles with women. Mr. Boring Beta rich dude who does't work - struggles with women. Most rich guys are still making the same mistakes.. Tinder profile sucks, their clothes and style suck, afraid to talk to women. The only thing that will put an abundance of girls into your …
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:52 PM
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You can either let approach anxiety hold you back, now.. forever. OR Get over it and have an abundance of women in your life and don't have time to see them all. The difference between both is literally only around 30 days in total.
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:40 PM
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Dating - Hundreds of rejections, not a single success. Hundreds of rejection how? Online, Daygame, night game? Age?
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:38 PM
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Corey says to make a date, get all the details down, and to make sure she'll show up without needing to hear from you again In theory this sounds great, but in reality.. It's stupid and you'll miss out on a METRIC TON OF GIRLS because you don't know how to text properly leading up to the date. Follow this guys advice and I guarantee you that up to 25% of the girls who would've came straight to your place for dates and end up naked in your bed now won't.. because of a BAD texting strategy. I don'…
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:36 PM
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Yeah it all applies.. This is what many women say right before sex. Maybe she's telling the truth.. maybe she slept with another guy earlier in the day the day you had sex with her. Who knows.. As far as the pill thing yeah.. I'll tell you a story.. I dated this girl many years ago.. We were exclusive.. We dated for 4.5 months.. She said she was on the pill the whole time.. I was new to game and believed her.. When we broke up.. She admitted shew as lying the whole time trying to get pregnant be…
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:32 PM
1

like dressing with good fashion Good fashion doesn't cost a lot though.. yeah a $300 t-shirt will look better, but it's a small improvement over a $20 one. Same with shoes, jeans, watches etc. Yeah it's not a bad thing, but it's not even in the Top 10 of most important things when it comes to Game. Interesting dates, yeah if that's what you're into, I don't really do public dates, as I invite 100% of the girls straight to my place on date #1. Professional pics doesn't cost a lot of money either.…
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:22 PM
2

Seems super boring and beta to me.. There's nothing more boring that talking about 'occupations' and normal interview questions like that.. The are questions you're typical Mr. Boring Beta asks when first meeting a girl.
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:12 PM
0

Wealth is one of the least important things when it comes to game and dating and or sleeping with lots of women. Wealth 'can' sometimes help with girls who are ready to settle down.. but those 'settle down' type girls have random sex with random guys anyways, so yet again, wealth doesn't really matter unless you're going for marriage etc, and even then, it often doesn't matter at all.
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:11 PM
1

Maybe go after 7s, as it's just slightly outside of your normal comfort zone. Baby steps. What does your 'normal bold game' look like?
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:09 PM
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I never said that.. The first part of your sales funnel.. and yes, this, Tinder and all Game is a sale. It's sales process. If your profile sucks you get less matches, and if your profile sucks your messages won't be as effective if you had a better profile.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 04:03 PM
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Just giving him options, as far as the age thing, yeah, that's a serious mental block for him it seems. He's prime age for those girls he's going after.
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:00 PM
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Stop telling girls what you do.. you can either outright lie or be super vague, or treat it like a shit test, and say the craziest thing imaginable. 27 isn't that much older, you're totally fine on this.. but if you're style is Mr. Boring Cubicle Nerd Beta that's definitely not helping. I don't think it's logistics at all.. you have plenty of girls that you should be able to game.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:37 PM
1

STDs, wear a condom.. or worst case most can be cleared up in a week or so. You know what else is bad, eating McDonalds, processed foods, and alcohol, yet most of the people probably do most if not all three of those.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:29 PM
3

5% of 35 year olds are virgins according to many surveys.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 03:27 PM
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Doesn't matter if it was a date or not.. if you wanted to see her again, you should have made solid firm plans for the next meet, on the first one. So you want to see this girl, but haven't even brought it up? Then you can't complain about not seeing her.. You haven't even brought it up. The longer you wait, the less chance you'll ever see her again.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:13 PM
0

Someone struggles with reading and comprehension.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:12 PM
0

I'm giving an alternative that lots of other girls and guys do in this world. And 18 years old isn't being a minor in lots of the world. This is why you see so many girls that the age says one age, but they say in their profile it's younger, because they started their account under 18. What OP does, is up to him.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:07 PM
1

Did you ask her out and set up firm plans on date one? If not, what about after?
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:02 PM
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Stop asking for Snap.. always get the number.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:47 PM
1

Driving in the car.. Give him head while driving.. Tell him to pull over but don't tell him why.. pull his pants down, get on top of him.. As he's driving, pull down your pants and start touching yourself.. Walking in a park.. Find a secluded spot and have sex.. At the mall.. Changing rooms, public bathrooms.. Public.. Bathrooms, dark alleys, parking garages.. get creative. You could have sex in the movie theatre while watching a movie.. but this is more risky. Get creative.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:44 PM
5

A guy you've already had sex with, cool, keep doing it, keeps things fun and interesting. Or surprise sex works too.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:31 PM
6

Most guys who are good at game don't have blogs or YouTube channels. Just like most millionaires and billionaires don't have blogs and YouTube channels. There are after all, 20 million, millionaires in the world.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:30 PM
1

You again.. Mr Complainer. The guy who complains after doing daygame for 4 years and is still a virgin. I've done 10,000+ cold approaches and slept with 500+ women just from daygame. What about you? Why do you qualify to give daygame advice? You're the guy who claims he's been doing daygame for 4 years and is still a virgin. You're a virgin, you don't qualify to give dating advice.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:27 PM
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If girls are getting jealous of you, you're doing something right. You should view this as a good thing. The easiest way to have lots of threesomes is to find a girl who really likes girls, and won't get jealous.. And have her always ready to meet you and one of your new girls. Or have her wing for you. It also sounds like you may not know how to ask new girls about threesomes.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:12 PM
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"I don't usually do this" Said every girl right before she has sex with the 3rd guy that week. She doesn't want you to think she does this with other guys, so you don't think she's a slut. Many girls say this.. As far as her saying she's on the pill. DO NOT listen to her.. Many girls say this to try and get pregnant or lock a guy down. Most guys know at least one guy who got lied to and now has a kid. Don't be another statistic.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:07 PM
2

Ah the grass is always greener.. yet every guy in America complained how bad it is in America and wishes they were in your country.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:02 PM
1

OP and everyone can always improve by optimizing their whole sales funnel.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:01 PM
2

Improve your dating profile and text game, and date setup, follow ups, and pre-date reach outs.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:01 PM
1

Seems your one on one flirting/sexual escalation is what you need to work on to get your dates into your bed.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:59 PM
2

Depends on if you want to learn slow/most likely never or super fast.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:57 PM
-4

I can’t use tinder I’m not 18 yet. You can do what a lot of girls do, just set your age to 18 even if you're not. Approaching them in public just seems weird. I’m not sure what to. Fix your mindset.. Humans have been having human to human conversation out in public for millions of years. It's normal
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:56 PM
1

She's going to most likely fuck someone in the next 24-48 hours after a breakup, might as well be you. DM her ASAP and ask her out.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:54 PM
3

Fix your dating profile Ask the girl out within 5 text messages. Have the girl come straight to your place. Try to have sex within 30-60 minutes. This cuts down on all of the places most guys like you would mess up on.. Bad texting.. Bad public dates because of inexperience.. Minimal talking at your place, again more places to mess up because of your lack of experience. Try to get as many of these girls as possible.. The more girls you meet up with and have sex with, the more confident you'll ge…
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:53 PM
1

I chat with a group of girls at a table outside and offer to buy a round. Why though? I always felt it was you the man paying for privilege to talk to women.. because that's what most guys do, and the women are conditioned to think this way. Set yourself apart, don't buy girls drinks, or at least until they buy you one first. Why do you need to know who you added first? You could take screenshots, that'll keep them in order if you want to remember the next day.. Just put in notes after their nam…
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:50 PM
2

Daygame = hitting on girls in the day I'd also qualify hitting on girls at night on the street or in stores etc as daygame too though. As it's basically the same as during the day. VS Night game, which is bars and clubs.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:42 PM
2

I've slept with well over 500+ girls just from daygame.. After basically being a 30 year old virgin. I learned daygame at 30 years old and have since done 10,000+ approaches. You don't ned any money, status, social circle, or even one single friend in the world to get more girls than you can handle from daygame alone. Can it be done? Of course, daygame is like a dating hack that almost no guys utilize correctly. The secret? Learn the proper daygame formula and famework, make lots of approaches, …
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:40 PM
2

By dating and sleeping with women. What's your dating/sex history up until this point?
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:36 PM
8

Mr. Beta Nice Guy? And he bores you? This is normal for many Western women, if you're in the West.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:27 PM
2

I never said 20 matches a day.. most guys get zero or 1-2 and it never goes anywhere. Yes you need to know how to sell yourself, after all it is a sale at the end of the day. Men are the sellers, women are the buyers on apps.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 01:18 PM
1

But why even ask that in the first place? You're only going to kill your shot with high percentage of women you could've had a chance with..
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:13 PM
4

Wrong. I've day gamed all over the UK. It's like any other city. It works. You're the guy who one day says is good at daygame. Then gets called out for you talking about how you're a virgin. " If you've been day gaming for 4+ years and are still a virgin as you say in your previous posts then you are doing something very wrong " Your Mr. Excuse Guy - always have an excuse on why daygame doesn't work for you. Instead of taking the advice and going out and implementing you'd rather just cry all ov…
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:11 PM
2

More excuses. I do understand how it works in smaller towns, it's called being socially calibrated to adjust to the situation.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:08 PM
3

More excuses. Infields don't mean anything, a guy could do 100 and cherry pick the best one.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:07 PM
1

I've day gamed in London and other cities. Come up with more excuses, because that's all you do in every comment. Look at your comment history.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:07 PM
1

It's by far the quickest easiest way to do it. Why overcomplicate things when you don't have to?
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:04 PM
4

You can keep being afraid, keep missing out on all these girls, or just go for it. Regret is worse than rejection.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:03 PM
3

Fix your profile. Opening lines don't matter as much.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 01:01 PM
9

Dates? Lays? Or do you only care about kissing girls? Also I wouldn't ever ask girls if they have boyfriends as you'll kill your chances with a ton of girls who wouldn't slept with you.. but now that she told you, she feels guilty, and it's game over.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:30 AM
0

How is it treating it like trash?
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:29 AM
12

Have your sister wing for you
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:27 AM
5

You don't need to drink to meet people.. where'd you come up with that nonsense? Meetup.com, Facebook groups, go up to people on the street you think you'd get along with and have a conversation.. if they seem cool, swap numbers, and set up plans within the next 2-3 days. Do that with 10 people, boom, 10 new friends. If you have your own place.. Mass collect new friends, invite all 10-50 over and throw a barbecue or something. It's really that simple.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:11 AM
2

My advice, stop relying on others. At some point you need to tackle daygame alone.
/r/seduction10/10/21 03:09 AM
1

Read my comment to them..
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:20 AM
6

Stop making excuses not to approach at the gym or wherever else you think it's taboo. Go out more, see a girl you like, go up and have a human to human conversation.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:19 AM
1

That Was Epic? You gotta be kidding me? He's a dancing monkey.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:02 AM
1

Stop wasting your time cold DM girls in IG.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:01 AM
7

1 to 1 ratio Nobody in the world can accomplish that.. not even A list Hollywood celebrities. Do this and miss out on most of the girls that could be in your bed every week.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:00 AM
2

"and had realizsed that it's about 80-90 approaches per lay for the average guys" The only reason why it would be that low is if they're saying all the wrong things and clueless on how to do daygame.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:59 AM
1

Stop talking about.. There's not point in even bringing it up, just let it happen naturally.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:57 AM
2

I keep seeing advice on here that you need to focus on yourself and wait for women to come to you, that women who like you will try to touch you or stay physically near you, etc. - This is horrendous advice, this is the type of advice on why most men struggle with women their entire lives. Sounds like you don't know how to flirt and sexually escalate. If you don't fix this, you'll continue to get friend zoned.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:57 AM
-3

I could hit on a bunch of 3s and brag about it on the internet like you. With that attitude, no wonder why you always fail with women.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:52 AM
3

She's not spending the night .. "she's just hanging out for a bit".. Depends on the country though, some don't care, some won't let you, others will try to cockblock you, others will make you pay a fee or an upcharge.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:47 AM
1

What are the chances of matching on Hinge? You can wait a while.. few weeks.. if you don't see her again, you could.. but it's kinda creepy, but weirder things have happened and have worked out.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:46 AM
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Sure there is, I rarely get less than 10 numbers, and it's usually 15-20 in a night. I treat night game like day game. It's not stupid advice, I've done this hundreds of times. Go to a larger venue if you're too insecure about other girls seeing you talk to other girls.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:40 AM
5

Sounds like you don't know how to physically escalate.. You need to fix this.. the girls not going to do it for you. You're the man, that's your job.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:38 AM
7

Rule #1 of Game - don't take dating advice from women.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:09 AM
3

Fix your ego.. stop thinking and feeling awkward and uncomfortable. What do you do if you get rejected? Be a man and stay right there, no need to go put your head in the sand out of embarrassment. Keep it moving and go back to what you were doing.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:07 AM
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Stop just getting numbers, set up the date at the bar. And only 2 numbers doesn't really prove anything. Next time you go out get 10-20 numbers.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:03 AM
1

Nobody knows, only one way to find out. Flirt and try to sexually escalate.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:02 AM
1

Don't listen to this, it's really bad advice.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:01 AM
2

Disagree, this is like saying, there's no correct way to hit a golf ball, just go up and take a swing.. There's definitely right and wrong way to do things. Things that help, and things that don't.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:01 AM
10

Traveling people in other countries that aren't their own, are always easier to talk to.. that's normal. That doesn't mean anything.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:58 AM
2

No I don't work. How many times a week do I go out and daygame? Depends on my mood, some years a lot, some years not so much. These days I'll go out one day a week.. Sometimes 2-3. Years past I'd go out 4-5 days a week.. But now I've got my daygame formula super locked in.. So I'll go out for 5-6+ hours on one day.. Hit up 4-10+ stores.. Collect 10-20+ numbers (many with dates already set up) That'll give me 2-5+ lays over the next 7 days or so. That's how you sleep with 100+ girls a year from j…
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:54 AM
5

I've done daygame in the UK, London and other cities and did really well. So tell me, how many hundreds of thousands of cold approaches have you done in the UK to formulate this opinion?
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:47 AM
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Have you actually day gamed in the USA to form this opinion? If so, how many hundreds of approaches in the USA? What cities? Because I've done daygame in both countries, I've done really well in the UK. Everyone thinks the grass is greener on the other side if they haven't been there..
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:46 AM
5

1,000+ lays, I have.. Depends on how many years.. 100 lays over 10 years is a 1,000. That's somewhat obtainable for many in this sub if they learned proper game and took serious action.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:40 AM
0

I have, but not all day game, that was daygame, night game and online.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:38 AM
1

302
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:38 AM
6

Who cares if some random calls you a creep. Get a backbone and fix your ego problems. Nobody really cares if you talk to some random girl in the street and have a human to human conversation, something us humans have been doing for millions of years. But like I said.. Feel free to just make excuses, never improve with women, and struggle with girls the rest of your life, because making excuses is easier than pushing your comfort zone and make things happen.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:36 AM
3

You should've set up the second date on the first. Within the next 7 days at the most. Do not push it any further than that.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:33 AM
4

I sleep with 2-3-4-5 girls a week regularly. I sleep with 100+ girls a year pretty easily. But, why does it matter what anyone else is doing. if you're happy with 2, then go for 2. If you want to go for 10, go for 10. If you want to sleep with 20 girls a month, that's possible too.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:31 AM
2

Nope.. Most guys, even top 1% suck with women. Just because you look good, doesn't mean you have an endless supply of women in your bed. I used to have a friend, a 1% women gave him IOIs everywhere.. But he sucked at game and struggled with women. He barely ever went on dates, and was a virgin until he was like 25+ Even if you have the looks, you still need to learn game if you want to get anywhere near the 100+ lay count number. Most 1% aren't even close to 100. Not even close.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:29 AM
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I just can’t and don’t know how to put myself out there in this culture where you need to have friends who are extroverted you get you to meet their friends and the cycle moves on. Stop making excuses. You don't need to know a single person in the entire world and you don't need to have any social circle to absolutely crush it in game. Stop making excuses. And if you want to make friends, that's easy to. See a guy or girl on the street you think you'd get along with, go up and have a conversatio…
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:23 AM
6

Probably illegal where you live right? If so, do you want to be labeled as a sex offender for the rest of your life?
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:20 AM
3

Girls on Tinder are definitely fucking guys, just not you. (generalization) And they get attention and validation from the other beta orbiters they're not fucking.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/21 12:09 AM
1

It just takes effort, doing more than the average guy, and taking action. But the right strategy is super important if you want to have an abundance of women in your life.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:05 AM
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I've slept with way over 1,000+ women in the past 10+ years, so yeah I know what I'm talking about. You're making rookie mistakes. But don't take my advice, just don't come back crying when you keep making the same mistakes and keep failing.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:03 AM
0

Correct. He’s a neckbeard who pretends he‘s Casanova online. Nope, I just speak the truth. Anyone with halfway decent game can see that. You're advising doing what every other beta does, giving bad advice.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:02 AM
4

Never believe what a girl says, let her actions speak.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 11:56 PM
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No, it's not. It's only going to hurt you as a man for 95%+ of the guys here. Always get the number.
/r/seduction09/10/21 11:55 PM
1

It's not an easy time to be single I guess Excuses, there's 4,000,000,000+ (billion) women in the world, women everywhere.
/r/seduction09/10/21 11:54 PM
3

No idea what you're talking about, men have been talking to women face to face for the past million+ years.. Except for the past 10+ years. Daygame is a normal way to talk to girls.. Chads have nothing to do with anything.. But feel free to just make excuses. It's easier than putting in the effort. Just don't complain you don't have an abundance of girls in your life.. Because that's 100% YOUR OWN FAULT if that happens.
/r/seduction09/10/21 11:52 PM
3

You can tell a girl you're a virgin if you're game is good, because everything about you says.. This guys a player, this guy fucks, I bet this guy gets lots of women And she knows by the way you act that there's no way you're a virgin. I do this when I'm bored with new girls sometimes. Self amusement.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:56 PM
4

I'd rather have a girl in my bed than scroll Instagram or watch Netflix like 99% of guys here.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:50 PM
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True, but most guys profiles suck, no effort.. this is what I'm saying. Know how to play the game to win. Same with daygame, night game, texting, planning and having dates. Most guys are clueless in all facets of game, which is why the average guy struggles his entire life with women.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 01:34 PM
2

I'm not a guy who has had sex with lots and lots of girls Why even say this at all? Because it'll often times just shoot you in the foot, like it seemed happened here. She can think you're the biggest player in the world.. but I wouldn't have completely confirmed nor denied it.. Your actions could show you've slept with hundreds of girls, but if you don't tell her directly she doesn't know for sure, only assumes, and makes her hamster wheel. There's no good than can come out of saying not many g…
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:31 PM
3

That's because you're SMV isn't high enough, if it was.. they'd be trying to lock you down as fast as possible.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:28 PM
6

Known or unknown PUAs? Because most of the guys you see on YouTube aren't really that good at Game. Most of them haven't even slept with 500 women. You shouldn't be even giving dating advice if you haven't at least broken that barrier.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:27 PM
2

So do daygame - problem solved.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:23 PM
1

No, otherwise you'll just end up in the friend no fuck zone. Ask her out ASAP Disagree with the other person, waiting for the second meet, because a second meet is not guaranteed. Or she could get back with her ex, meet a new guy, and you lost your chance. Always strike immediately on day one, on the first interaction.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:14 PM
3

First mistake - exchanging Instagram isn't of the number. Second mistake - going to a bar for the first date, instead of your place. Third mistake - going to a bar for the second date, instead of your place. You said you want to fuck her right? Then why are you going on public dates? What would I do? Invite her straight to my place for the third date or I wouldn't meet. Something I would've done on the first and second date.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:13 PM
3

Club game, you never know what's going to happen. You should be trying to pull the girl home or setting dates within the first 10 minutes of meeting. So things like this don't happen.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:10 PM
5

How could you possibly know something is a scam without trying it? Because it's 1000x easier to blame others than look deep inside yourself and realize the problem isn't others, it's you. Excuses and blame are easier than making wholesale changes. History of the world Business, money, dating, fitness.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:08 PM
3

So you're a 30 year old virgin and claiming the dating industry is a scam? What programs have you done? How many hundreds or thousands of cold approaches have you done doing daygame? How many hundreds of night game approaches? Lets get some substance here.. Let me guess, you've never paid for any dating programs and haven't even done 200+ approaches? "It's a scam" .. Business coaches are a scam.. dating gurus are a scam.. fitness guys are a scam.. How about you take some ownership here instead o…
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:06 PM
5

I'm nowhere near 8/10 yet I sleep with with sometimes 100+ girls a year from dating apps. Fix your presentation and offer.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 12:59 PM
7

Not all girls are on their for validation though. Most of them are meeting people off apps. Most of them are having sex with guys off apps. To not be a source of validation you just need to know how to message correctly to get the girls on dates or move on to the next girl.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 12:17 PM
3

That's exactly what I'm talking about. There's plenty of ways to maximise your "Offer" on dating apps.. But 99.9% of guys aren't willing to put in the work. They'd rather just complain.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 12:15 PM
6

Correct. Did you even read my comment? Because the average guy doesn't know how to use dating apps correctly and aren't willing to put in a little bit of effort to reap the rewards.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 12:13 PM
5

Watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:11 PM
2

Low 40s. Didn't learn game until I was 30.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:11 PM
1

Solely from daygame?
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:10 PM
7

I'm nowhere near the top 10% in looks.. Not even close The reason why I'm successful at all facets of game is because I know how to play the game correctly.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 12:04 PM
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Bad advice. Dating apps are a great avenue to go on lots of dates and sleep with lots of women. Just like daygame and night game. Girls on Tinder are definitely fucking guys off their, just not you. And they get attention and validation from the other beta orbiters they're not fucking. The only people who complain that "dating apps don't work" are those that don't know how to use them correctly. But then again, for the most part, these are the same guys that complain nothing works and the world …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 05:11 AM
6

First date.. and you should be trying to have sex on the first date as well. As that's the best way to secure a second date.
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:08 AM
2

but why these youtubers say you gotta do atleast 1000 approach to get 1 girl? Whoever says this you need to never watch another one of their videos again.. Most YouTubers are clueless.. or at best are halfway decent.. Most of the guys that guys here like all have serious flaws to their daygame. They all make beginner mistakes.
/r/seduction09/10/21 04:29 AM
1

Meet them in the outdoors.. while doing your hobbies.. Meetups groups, maybe Facebook groups, sporting stores or events. Or take new girls with you.. and introduce your hobby to them.
/r/seduction09/10/21 04:22 AM
3

Bro just wanted to ask if you have any success in daygame and nightmare Yes lots of success. I've done 10,000+ approaches over the past 13+ years, slept with over 500+ women from daygame and hundreds of others from night game. 80-90% of all single women aren't on dating apps according to many surveys. 99% of guys are too scared to approach girls during the day. Daygame will boost your # by at least a point or two. If you were a 5, now you're a 6 or 7/10 in the girls eyes. These are all the reaso…
/r/seduction09/10/21 04:05 AM
2

Fix your profile. Supplement with daygame and or night game. If you're not getting 2-3 dates a week (if this is something you desire) than you're doing something wrong.
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:50 AM
1

Goal: Accomplished
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:34 AM
1

The way you said it, when you said it, yes that's correct. That's the type of text that will make a girl never want to see you again.
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:31 AM
4

You ideally should ask them out on within the first 5 messages on DAY ONE
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:26 AM
4

Get stronger on the number close. Make it seem that IG/Snap isn't an option.. or tell them you don't use it.
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:20 AM
1

Daygame - talking to girls during the day or inside of stores, malls etc at any time of day or night. Night game - bars and club at night If you're getting lots of matches and numbers but not many dates.. Then you're texting is bad, fix this or it'll keep happening.
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:19 AM
1

Yes the text "Ah this isnt working out" wasn't ideally timed for game purposes. That's not gamey.. that's a super beta but hurt type of response..
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:18 AM
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Girls like this are low probability, but still worth sending feeler texts out to every few weeks.. lots of them are super flaky as you're not a priority to her.. but lots of them will meet up if you hit them up at the right time.. You've already met her and hung out so she'll probably meet again.. Especially if you had sex with her already.. If you didn't already, you need to fix that.. The best way to secure a second meet is to have sex on the first meet.
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:15 AM
1

It's easy to find wings at clubs if you know the right method..
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:10 AM
9

Stop with all the negative thinking as it'll only hold you back. And stop with all the communism stuff.. that has nothing to do with girls or game. Stop getting socials.. always get the number..
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:06 AM
10

How can I improve my dating life when I have such an anti social lifestyle. Great news is, you don't have to have a single friend in the world to have an amazing dating life. Daygame, night game, online dating.. Those are all things you can do solo. You want to make new friends.. Easy.. Go out in public, to the store, to the club on a Saturday night.. Walk around.. See a guy or girl you think you'd probably get along with if you knew each other.. Walk up and introduce yourself.. If you click, ex…
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:03 AM
11

Club, more girls, more dates, more numbers, more lays per night out.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:13 AM
1

I clearly said get your teeth fixed and stop overthinking all this nonsene and go approach. Fix your mindset.
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:55 PM
1

Then you're not serous enough about improving your game to read more of my comments.
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:29 PM
1

Go through my comments, lots of gold.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:57 PM
2

Go approach and talk to girls, set dates, get numbers, go on dates, get laid. Stop overthinking all this.. I did answer your question.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:55 PM
1

Always shoot your shot, maybe she forgot, maybe she was busy.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:54 PM
2

That's why daygame is so effective.. because nobody else is really doing it. Keep it simple and stop overthinking. Stop thinking which girls might be open.. just go approach ALL the girls you wouldn't mind dating or putting in your bed.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:53 PM
1

“I don’t usually do this but here’s my number” This could work both ways.. you could come off high value or you could come off as beta and aren't used to talking to girls. I guy that's supremely confident with women can pull this off.. most guys on here, this would be a negative thing to say and only hurt them. "I don’t have to play the odds because it’s working" Then my question is, why hold yourself back when you don't have to?
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:21 PM
1

Lost Redditor. This is the r/seduction sub.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:16 PM
0

The fact you think there is a one size fits all approach proves you don’t know how much you think you do. Never said that, but there's always a better way.. My advice puts the odds in your favor, and puts more girls into your bed. Those are YES girls.. Most girls are MAYBE girls.. With your strategy you're missing out on most of the MAYBE girls.. Because most MAYBE girls won't text you, because they're MAYBE girls. And now you just lost out on most of the girls. Like I said, your way is only hur…
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:15 PM
0

It's not, it's common sense when it comes to the male/female dynamic. Men lead, women follow. Women hate making decisions. Women want men to do everything (lead) when it comes to dating. Everything works, it's about putting the odds in your favor. Getting the girls number puts more girls in your bed than giving it out.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:06 PM
-1

How many approaches total have you done? I've done well over 10,000+ over the past 13+ years.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:31 PM
2

You're the one posting about being sexually frustrated. While I on the other hand have sex with 2-5+ girls a week, almost every week, for the past 10+ years. In which I've also done 10,000+ cold approaches. Feel free to disagree with me to fit your narrative only because you.. You alone are too insecure to ask for the number.. And would rather go the beta easy route of giving a girl yours.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:30 PM
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The problem with this approach is these are MAYBE girls.. Most of the girls you'll run into if you're talking to lots of girls. These are most of the girls you'll sleep with. By giving her your number you're only killing your chances. As a lot of these girls just weren't in the mood, busy, whatever else.. And now by giving her your number, you've just killed your %. This is bad advice.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:27 PM
3

Most of the time I know it's a woman's comment just by reading them before even checking out the username. I'm right like 100% of the time when there's blatent wrong advice given.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:22 PM
0

Nope. Never. Men lead. Period end of story.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:21 PM
2

But there is. Go ask 10 guys who have slept with a minimum of 200 girls solely from daygame and see what they say. I've personally slept with well over 500+ girls solely from daygame. Case in point. What about you specifically? How many girls in total have you slept with directly from daygame using your.. "Give her my number" and wait for her to message me approach?
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:20 PM
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Sure of course you can always get some stragglers who will approach you. Girls who will make the first move. But that's not normal. Passive game like this is why most guys struggle with women their entire lives.. And if you take away the top 10% of men as far as notch count, the other 90% of men. The average man sleeps with 1.5 women in his entire life. Women like men. Men who are confident. Men who are leaders. Men who go after what they want. Men who see what they like and go for it. Men who s…
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:22 PM
2

100 after how long? All 100 are making the first move? Almost all girls I meet want to see me a second time. Almost all girls try to lock me down. I know how to play the whole game. It's my choice not to settle down and have super high standards on who I'd ever get exclusive with.. as in girls that are bi and cool with me seeing lots of other girls etc.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:45 PM
1

50K people is plenty. These are all false limiting beliefs and what everyone thinks about their country or area. How many times have you gone up to random strangers and tried to befriend them? Who cares what a few people may think? For every person that thinks you're weird, there's another 10 who think it's cool you have the confidence to do it alone. Plus if you know how to night game correctly, you can make dozens of friends in a night while out. All these excuses are going to keep you from ev…
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:02 PM
3

Yes everything matters Either it helps you or it doesn't. The difference between getting a number or Snap/IG is huge. You've just thrown yourself in with all the sharks.. Instead of you competing with the guys on her number, now you're competing against everyone else in whatever app you give her.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:57 PM
0

Women get distracted and forgot and then it's game over
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:14 PM
3

You don't need to be a dancing monkey go get girls to go out with you. You could probably go up to 20-30 girls with your phone out on the contact screen and just walk up to girls in a confident This Guy Fucks eye contact and body language hand them your phone and get at least one phobe number.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:13 PM
3

Game is the easy part? That's why 99% of the guys in this sub are virgins or very little experience with women. Learning game is the part most guys don't have a clue about and why they all struggle with women.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:11 PM
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No it wouldn't. Getting Snaps and IG is just hurting your chances, in dating. Now you're just another one of the 1000+ guys giving her all sorts of attention validation and sending dick pics. You need to separate yourself.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:08 PM
2

Doesn't matter what date it is.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:06 PM
0

That's not leading, that's pussing out and being passive.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:05 PM
1

Sorry, you're wrong and you're going to miss out on most of the girls. Your strategy will get you less dates and less girls into your bed. Period, end of story.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:04 PM
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No it doesn't. Completely different. And no lots of girls wouldn't call this so called nodelling agent. You're trying to will your way into being right on this. But you won't ever be.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:01 PM
12

Nobody knows. Yes exactly why you don't ever get the Snap. Get the number.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:35 AM
34

This is one of the reasons why you never get a girls Snap. Always get the phone number.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:32 AM
1

Don't make the same mistake again. Bring your own condoms. Stop bringing the poor performance up. Next time just own it like a man, not a puss puss, this will only turn the girl off, which is what seems happened. Try to meet her again within the next couple days.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:31 AM
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The blind leading the blind.. Chasing excellence doesn't put a single girl in your bed. Talking to women does. Your advice is a pipe dream. If I work on my social circle, I'll have tons of girls. If I just become a millionaire, I'll have tons of girls. If I just buy a Lamborghini, I'll have tons of girls. If I just hit the gym for 5+ years, I'll have tons of girls. NOPE, sorry, it doesn't work that way. These are all I'm getting ready, to get ready excuses.. and avoiding the one thing you have t…
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:38 AM
3

Agree.. You want to sleep with a girl TODAY? Simple. Just go approach women until you set up a date, she comes over, you flirt and sexually escalate and have sex.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:36 AM
3

Limiting false belief.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:34 AM
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Agree.. this is a pipe dream. If I just become a millionaire, I'll have tons of girls. If I just buy a Lamborghini, I'll have tons of girls. If I just hit the gym for 5+ years, I'll have tons of girls. NOPE, sorry, it doesn't work that way. These are all I'm getting ready, to get ready excuses.. and avoiding the one thing you have to do to have an abundance of girls in your life. Just learn proper game. Simple.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:31 AM
1

Women will notice that and will do the approaching for you. And how often is this happening on a weekly basis? Because I could go out and sleep with 5+ women in the next 7 days if I really wanted to, all from cold approaches. All that time your increasing your socio economic status is time.. Time you could be doing cold approaches. Socio economic status to get girls seems like the super long way, and you're still not guaranteed a single girl in your bed. Which is why I always say that social cir…
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:30 AM
4

Talk to your SSRI perscribing doctor.. Stop watching ALL porn if you do currently.
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:17 AM
1

I don't understand.. there's girls everywhere..
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:54 AM
1

What exactly does that mean?
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:46 AM
3

Learn better text game and date game. What steps? Depends on how serious you are about women.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:43 AM
2

Follow the initial advice, take it as far as you want.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:20 AM
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Some girls will get turned on.. Lots of other girls will never see you again or they'll think way less of you than before. This isn't some dating hack.. If anything this will probably be more of a negative overall to your rotation.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:09 AM
1

You realize the whole point of indirect approach is not showing intent at all yes? This is only because you don't understand how to show intent without being direct. You can talk about paint drying to random girl on the street (indirectly) Yet be super direct with eye contact, body language, vocal tonality, touching.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:51 AM
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Eye contact, body language, vocal tonality, touching.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:49 AM
1

How can you test the waters? ASK HER OUT
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:48 AM
1

So be super direct with women.. invite straight to your place, have sex within the first 30 minutes. You'll miss out on most of the girls by being super direct though.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:47 AM
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Text again. Don't be needy, don't bring up the other text.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:43 AM
1

Move on. We don’t double text This is the type of advice that will kill the chances of 50% of the girls that you could've had in your bed. I've double texted thousands of girls, and many many many hundreds of them ended up in my bed that same day or week..
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:42 AM
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Lifting and going to the gym don't equal girls in your bed. There's posts on here almost daily of good looking gym guys who have no experience with women or are still virgins. The gym is great.. But if you want women.. Talking to women is the best thing. Gym is like #10 on the list.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:39 AM
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Lifting and going to the gym don't equal girls in your bed. There's posts on here almost daily of good looking gym guys who have no experience with women or are still virgins. The gym is great.. But if you want women.. Talking to women is the best thing. Gym is like #10 on the list.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:37 AM
2

Instead of rando cold approaches I am trying to go to social events and see who shows up. May be much easier for you to do the same starting out. This is a copout only because of your own insecurities. You can do daygame anywhere in the world, 7 days a week.. Stop waiting for 'your' ideal situations.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:34 AM
1

Do all three.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:32 AM
1

Message her again asap.. most girls fuck a new guy within 1-48 hours of a breakup.. Why have it be someone else, when it can just be you?
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:32 AM
2

Stop worrying about things that haven't happened yet. Go approach and talk to girls, set dates, get numbers, go on dates, get laid. Stop overthinking all this.. And stop working towards getting your teeth fixed, go get it done.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:27 AM
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So go meet new friends.. walk up to guys/girls that you think you'd maybe get along with.. and have a conversation.. exchange numbers, set up a meet. Simple. I go into any city in the entire world and get a dozen new friends in a week if I wanted.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:24 AM
2

Stop being a worm and cold DM girls online.. be a man and go after what you want.. go out and have human to human conversations.. YES talk to her in person asap. DO NOT even mention the online stuff as it'll make you look even worse..
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:20 AM
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Social circle game is the slowest form of game.. Also it's the least reliable and can die at any moment if something negative happens or if you move etc.. Stop wasting your time.. Stop overthinking all this.. See a girl you like, anywhere in the world that you like, go up to her and have a human to human conversation.. And stop saying that other groups are closed off.. Says who? Have you gone up to these people individually and tried to make friends with them?
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:15 AM
1

So try to back it up..
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:09 AM
2

Bad advice it absolutely does matter.. Everything matters.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:03 AM
2

i always give girls my number. its important to make a woman feel safe. Bad advice as you're just missing out on most of the girls.. because most won't message you, even if they like you.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:02 AM
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Bad advice, by giving out the number, OP is missing out on most of the girls, because most won't text, even if they like him.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:01 AM
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There isn't, you'll just miss out on 90% of the girls, because this is a bad strategy.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:01 AM
3

Don’t see why he has to text first all the time. Because that's what men do, they take the lead.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:00 AM
2

But giving them your number and letting them decide if they want to take things further is reasonable. Wrong.. you're just killing the amount of girls you go out with, sleep with etc.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:00 AM
3

No.. it looks like you're too much of a puss puss to get her number at the end.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:58 AM
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This is exactly why Rule #1 of Game is to never take dating advice from women.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:58 AM
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You're 100% wrong on this. Most girls even if she likes you won't text you.. She's shy.. She's nervous.. She's afraid of being rejected if you don't message her back.. They forget.. They get busy.. They lose your number.. They remember you three days later and think, maybe it's too late.. and they never message you. Keep it simple. Women like confident men who go after what they want in an unapologetic way.. Be a man and get her number.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:57 AM
1

Most girls don't know English their or anywhere else in Latin America.. So if you know Spanish it's 100x easier for the approach, texting and dates. Daygame in non-English speaking countries is easy though if you know how to do it.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:55 AM
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Why do you need a wing to approach? Logistics and a whole of inconveniences to meet up with a wing to do approaches.. You'll never be good at Daygame having to rely on others to do it with..
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:50 AM
3

Disagree. You just need to know how to operate in a work environment.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:47 AM
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Only one thing.. Did you ask her out and did she say yes? Did you set up the date and get the number when you asked or not? That's it, nothing else.. stop looking for signs. Either you're meeting.. or you're not.. Either you're fucking.. or you're not.. Nothing else matters. Period. End. Of. Story.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:47 AM
2

No idea, but if you're getting all of these IOI's, why even rely on online dating when you can just talk to girls in real life?
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:31 AM
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No, you don't wait for her. You need to know how to frame the idea of going back to her place, adding in some good plausible deniability.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:30 AM
3

100% normal.. Girls are shy.. Girls are afraid of rejection.. Girls are oblivious to the world.. and their surroundings.. This is why you NEVER wait for IOIs before approaching a girl you like.. Some guys think because a girl touches her hair it must be an IOI.. Maybe it was, maybe she just wanted to touch your hair.. Or if a girl finds you attractive she may purposely avoid eye contact at all costs.. It's a waste of time and you're missing out on 90%+ of women who you have a shot with by only t…
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:04 PM
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Met the guy in person.. a system I've developed mostly on my own over the past 13+ years.
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:54 PM
2

Yes definitely.. first few months were slow than it just took off. You can achieve all that with daygame if you live in a decent enough city.. Go talk to talk a bunch of girls per day.. Grab 5-10 numbers with half of those already confirmed dates.. There's your one girl a day in your bed... 1 girl a day x 365 days, that's 350+ girls in a year. That's a serious commitment but definitely doable with the right mindset, time, and system.
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:46 AM
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What's your definition of great? I basically went from virgin to 80 lays in my first year of Game.. But I still wasn't anywhere near great.. I just followed the basics from the right people.. Now I can do 80 girls in 3-4 months if I really pushed it and made game my life for that period of time. Most guys on this forum if they learned proper game can learn 90% of it in 30 days.. And take that knowledge and sleep with 100 girls in the next 365 days, starting from today. That's only 2 new girls a …
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:21 AM
1

You know what to do, what's possible at any height.. so go approach 1,000 girls in the next 30 days and come back with your results.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:43 PM
1

So you're saying a 5' tall guy couldn't do 1,000 approaches in 30 days? Get over yourself man.. Fix your mindset, fix your ego of being too afraid to go talk to other human beings, or you'll never have any success with women. I know guys who are 5'6"-5-7" who have slept with hundreds and hundreds of women.. The difference is they didn't use their height as an excuse to not approach women. And no they weren't Chads.. and I'm far from a Chad otherwise I'd be at a 2,000-3,000 lay count, especially …
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:39 PM
1

Not all from cold approaches.. total.. Plus I said over 10,000.. it couldn't been a million.. But all this really doesn't matter.. The only thing that matters is I know EXACTLY what I'm talking about and giving you REAL advice here.. And all you're worrying about are the small details.. The insignificant details that don't matter.. What you should be saying, if he can do it, so can I. If he can do 1,000 approaches in 30 days, so can I.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:32 PM
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Massive action = massive success. But hey what do I know? I've only done 10,000+ approaches and only slept with way over 1,000+ women in the past 10+ years. But hey.. I'm sure with your 13 approaches, you know way better than me..
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:28 PM
1

100% serious.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:25 PM
1

Why get good super slow? When you can get good super fast? You should do 1,000 approaches in the next 30 days. 33 a day x 30 days = 1,000.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:24 PM
1

Why waste two of your greatest years in life, while you're still in college to get this done. You said you've already approached 600 women? How many dates? How many lays?
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:56 PM
2

Like I said, giving up is fine, just don't make excuses on why you didn't have an abundance of girls in your life. That's the choice you alone made.
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:53 PM
2

So approach anyone and everyone.. Men, women, young, old, from 18-100. Now stop making excuses on why you can't approach 20+ people a day, every day, 7 days a week. That's 600 in 30 days. You need to get used to talking to people.. build up your confidence which you're clearly lacking. Height and face don't stop anyone from approaching.. stop making excuses. We both know you're the Mr Excuse Guy.. Not the.. Mr Make It Happen No Matter What Guy
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:48 PM
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Yes I have, hundreds of times.. and so can you. So then approach off campus. Problem solved. What's your next excuse? Too short? Don't have 10,000+ followers on Instagram? Not a model? You have two choices.. Keep making excuses and nothing changes for the rest of your life and you die a virgin or have very little women in your life.. Or.. Stop making excuses, start making changes, and don't take no for an answer.
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:42 PM
1

You can pull doing anything.. doesn't mean it's the optimal way to do it. Anyone can walk into a gym and shoot a basketball too.. doesn't mean it's the optimal way to do it.
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:29 PM
1

Not most of my time but yeah it's one of my favorite hobbies.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 01:16 PM
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Yes 20 girls in one day. Delete Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, Netflix, and YouTube from your phone and stop watching TV and porn.. Now you have time. Or just make more excuses, up to you. Just don't ever make the excuse you don't have enough time. And the rest of this nonsene is just garbage in your brain holding you back. Fix you mindset or nothing changes.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:15 PM
1

I don't understand.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:10 PM
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Nobody knows what her real intentions are.. only one way to find out.. The answer is always the same: If you want to fuck her, ask her out
/r/seduction06/10/21 07:35 AM
2

Women love high highs, and low lows of emotions.. Not steady, boring, nothing ever exciting or outside the norm happens Beta boys.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:03 AM
4

Eye contact. Learn how to invade her space. Break the physical touching barrier. If you were the best looking most wealthy man in the world that has sex with a new girl every day... How do you think you'd act? He'd be pretty confident right? Think about how he'd act and talk to women.. Do more of that.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:52 AM
5

93 percent of all communication is nonverbal.. Eye contact and body language are more important than words.. You can turn a woman on and soak her panties by talking about paint drying. BONUS TIP - Stop telling girls they're cute.. they hate it and it'll only hold you back..
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:36 AM
2

Most guys don't know what they're doing.. the blind leading the blind.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:09 AM
1

Studies all what from whom..
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:59 AM
1

The proper way to talk to, flirt, and seduce women into your bed. How to talk to them, how to text them, how to properly ask them out on dates, how to act on dates, how to sexually escalate to sex. Sounds like you're just winging it..
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:43 AM
1

If you have the looks things will be easier, but you still need to learn Game.
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:33 AM
1

Who knows.. One or two girls is nothing..
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:28 AM
1

All of this is friend zone stuff.. How many girls have you asked out?
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:18 AM
6

Same as always .. guys thinking that looks = girls.. News flash.. It doesn't.. Game = girls
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:11 AM
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All I see here is a whole lot of excuses.. I've been approaching all throughout Covid.. The first 6 months a lot of girls were weird about it, but there were tons that it didn't matter at all.. The past year, no difference, most people are back to normal, mask or no mask.. Most are still going out with their friends, dates, fucking.. it can either be you.. or someone else.. You're way overthinking this because of your own insecurities.. Keep it simple If you see a girl you like, go approach her …
/r/seduction06/10/21 03:32 AM
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Daygame night game, Tinder They're all the same, yet different.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 03:21 AM
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I'm not really a rotation guy.. It's kinda boring to me.. I mean sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.. I go through phases where I'll stack 5-10+ girls who I'll see every 7-14 days.. But in general.. I don't really like to have many rotation girls.. As it's way more fun for me to bang a brand new girl than meet with an old, but that's just me. I guess rotation girls are backups to brand new girls for me.. Like if I'm horny today and can't get a new girl to meet.. I'll start messaging repeats.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 03:00 AM
1

"Magic formula to make any women crave you sexually" Worded like that.. No.. Run for the hills.. If they said if you put in the work, hard work, and you'll see results.. Maybe.. And $50? Run for the hills.. Nothing that cheap is ever good. Cheap small bandaids don't fix big problems.
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:49 AM
0

She's on the fence about meeting you. These are the girls that most guys miss out on.. Most of the girls are MAYBE girls.. Often the hottest girls are MAYBE girls.. Because they have more options of high SMV men.. The ones who won't have time, too busy, not reply to messages, flake on a date etc. These are the girls where knowing proper Game really shines.. You know exactly what to say, what to text, when to text, how to frame and set up dates properly etc. The two easiest parts are getting the …
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:42 AM
18

I never take plates out on dates... They're just plates.. Easily and always on the way to being replaced. But that's me.. I don't really care, as I've already got tons of other girls wanting to be their replacement.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/21 02:38 AM
2

I don't like any of them.. Most of the ones recommend all have huge basic holes in their game. How many girls have you approached in real life? If it's less than 100 you shouldn't be watching endless YouTube videos..
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:29 AM
1

No you're not trying .. you're complaining.. Oh poor poor me.. Instead of sitting on your ass complaining, get dressed, walk outside the house, and go up to an approach 20 girls right now.. Or.. Keep complaining and never get anywhere..
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:27 AM
3

Exactly this.. Follow my advice and in 30-60 days.. You'll have a solid rotation of girls on your roster.. You could have one girl for each day of the week if you wanted.. It's easier to complain than make change.
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:25 AM
1

Yes, the latter is called being a man, what woman want and find attractive..
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:12 AM
3

Yes 100% She's a women.. most of them already have tons of guys she's thinking of jumping to at anytime.. And most girls fuck a new guy after breakup within 24-48 hours.. If it's not you, it's somebody else..
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:12 AM
-1

I know plenty of 5'6" - 5'8" guys who sleep with hundreds of women.. But feel free to stay in excuse land, with have no women ever in your life.
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:10 AM
2

Yes way better than acting beta.. It's a sale.. In sales you always assume the sale.. I'm a high value man, what woman wouldn't be thrilled to give me her number and on my bed within the next 24-48 hours.. That's my mindset and why I do great with women.. Nope not going to forget about alpha beta bullshit as it makes perfect sense to use it, as everyone has a basic understanding of what it means..
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:09 AM
2

Why do most guys over complicate everything.. The answer is always the same.. ASK HER OUT ASAP
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:04 AM
1

Exactly my point. You're 21 and too naive to know any better.. And would rather just give up than just get shit done. I was basically a 30 year old virgin,l learned game.. And now consistently sleep with 2-3+ women a week, every week, every month, every year, for the past 10+ years.. Because yeah.. Game is real and it's way more important than height and looks..
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:02 AM
1

Giving up is there option.. but then don't complain about having no women in your life.. it's their choice to give up vs learn proper game.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:47 AM
1

You got the number which is 100x better than Insta..
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:39 AM
1

Not important at all..
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:38 AM
1

And for 90% of guys giving it to girls will only hurt their game.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:37 AM
0

Nope.. I have zero social media.. No FB, IG, Snap, TikTok.. yet I sleep with multiple girls every single week.. If anything it'll hold you back..
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:37 AM
1

You don't want to take control meaning what exactly? If you're not willing to be a man and go after what you want you'll never have much success with women..
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:27 AM
1

And your understanding of female behavior screams virgin.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:09 AM
-1

Exactly my point.. your naive and lack much real world experience. Anyone who's had an abundance of women in their life all know this is pretty normal and typical female behavior.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:05 AM
-1

How does one verify birth control? You going to watch her take her pills every day? Going to watch the doctor give her the shot? Most guys won't do this.. so no.. you can't verify. You're naive.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:58 AM
-8

Exactly my point.. guess your reading and comprehension skills are quite lacking.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:54 AM
1

That's fine and your call.. You're just missing out on MOST of the girls that could end up in your bed with a little more effort..
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:51 AM
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Yes.. I did.. go back and reread it again.. OP said he's had unprotected sex with other girls..
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:47 AM
1

No.. you're wrong. They're coming across as funny friendly guys .. that will end them up in the friendzone. Their body language sucks.. No sexual tention.. Most YouTube PUAs are clueless.. these guys aren't any better.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:46 AM
1

Learn proper game, implement, lose your virginity quickly. Simple.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:41 AM
1

None of that matters.. taking dating advice from women is what keeps guys bad with women. Be nice, just be yourself, buy her flowers, take her out for a nice dinner, texted her good morning and good night, blah blah blah.. This is the type of advice women give, just like yours and why most men fail with women.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:39 AM
1

Yeah after how many out-takes of failures? No sexual tension.. just comedians.. making girls laugh.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:37 AM
1

Try this: "would it be against company policy if I asked for your number?" This is incredibly beta.. you're making it seem what your doing as wrong.. Stop being a puss puss and be a man..
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:29 AM
1

Just don't get the numbers of these people you don't wanna be that awkward or creepy customer The only time you'd come across as creepy is because you have a bad strategy..
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:27 AM
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This is a puss puss way.. be a man and go after what you want unapologetically.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:26 AM
1

Horrible advice.. Rule #1 of Game - don't take dating advice from women.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:26 AM
1

I don't like strip clubs as they bore the sh*% out of me.. but the only reason you say this is because you don't know how to game strippers.. As there's definitely a few strategies that absolutely work.. a high percentage of the time.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:25 AM
1

100% yes .. I do it all the time..
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:24 AM
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there's really no secrets lol. She either likes you (is attracted) or she's not. So incredibly wrong.. There's a wrong way and right way to do everything.. Spots, business, everything... Same rule.. Right way to talk to a girl on the street.. and the wrong way.. Right way to text a girl.. and the wrong way.. Right way to flirt and sexually escalate.. and the wrong way..
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:23 AM
1

ThatWasEpic The angry picnic guy, Cody? These guys aren't pickup artists and don't have a clue.. they just do "Flash game" to get as many views on YouTube as possible..
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:20 AM
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As soon as your done with work, go out into the real world and talk to all the girls you see in real life. Problem solved.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:19 AM
1

Yes of course there is.. women want to be safe, protected and overpowered in the bedroom. Tall checks all those boxes..
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:14 AM
1

Not so fast.. she may be a MAYBE girl.. and take more work.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:12 AM
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Then what are you worried about? 50-80% of Americans have HSV-1 You're actually more normal for having it.. than not.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:01 AM
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Whoah.. so you don't have a vasectomy and you said you don't want kids right now and you're having unprotected sex? That's just stupid.. you know how many girls I've saw, dated or girls I knew that lie about being on the pill/shot or whatever? This is so incredibly common for girls to not be on anything, lie to their guy, girl gets pregnant and it's GAME OVER. What are you thinking? Are you trying to get a girl pregnant right now? Because this is exactly how it happens.. ALL THE TIME How would w…
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:58 PM
25

What type of herpes do you have? Also.. regardless on what one you have, lots of people do.. Stop with all this limiting belief nonsense.. Plenty of girls out there for you.. or just give up if that's your choice.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:49 PM
24

Exactly this.. You miss out on this girl.. Then the next.. Then the next 10 after that.. One year of not taking action.. Then 2 years.. Then 5 years.. Then 10 years.. Then you'll 50 wondering WTF is wrong with me, all I had to do was go say hi to girls I liked and could've had an abundance of women for the last 30 years..
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:46 PM
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Easy.. Talk to 20+ new girls every week.. You'll have too many girls to deal with, and you won't have time to see them all.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:44 PM
8

You need some hobbies in your life.. https://bucketlistjourney.net/hobbies-list/ Here's a 100.. go try a couple dozen and good chance you find something you like.. Try a few dozen more, and you'll probably find a few more..
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:43 PM
1

You're 21 and there's 4,000,000.000 (billion) women in the world.. There's an abundance of women out there waiting for you.. Fix your mindset.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:41 PM
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Who the F cares if it looks like you're going out of your way.. You need to get over all these insecurities. You like this girl, go talk to her.. Or not.. and just regret it for the rest of your life.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:40 PM
1

21 years is still super young.. You have two choices.. Keep doing what you've been doing and have very little or maybe no girls in your life.. for the rest of your life.. OR Make a choice of .. I'm sick of this and I'm going to do whatever it takes to get my dating and love life 'handled' starting today.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:37 PM
2

Going to the gym doesn't build confidence with women... Talking, meeting and having sex women gives you confidence with women.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:32 PM
1

The point still stands.. Either you're meeting and fucking or your just orbiting..
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:31 PM
1

Rule #1 of Game:. Don't take dating advice from women.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:28 PM
1

OP said movie at his house.. and my comment I also said movie at home.. Movie at home = free.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:18 PM
11

Normal.. lots of good looking guys who make 6/7+ figures and still suck with women or who are virgins.. Shame 22 years old? You're still a baby.. You have two options.. Keep doing what you're doing, keep getting the same results.. OR.. Learn proper game and have an abundance of women in your life. Make no mistake about it, this is your choice.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:17 PM
2

None of this has to do with your original comment..
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:14 PM
4

Don't bring it up.. business as usual.. If she brings it up.. "She's a friend".. keep it moving, on to the next topic.. Don't ever act defensive.. or beta, or you'll lose value.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:13 PM
1

Either you're meeting and fucking.. Or You're just another one of her beta orbiters giving her endless attention and validation..
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:10 PM
1

Like normal.. shy women also like confident men who go after what they want.
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:08 PM
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