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TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-05T23:40:20+00:00

Who the F cares if it looks like you're going out of your way..

You need to get over all these insecurities.

You like this girl, go talk to her..

Or not.. and just regret it for the rest of your life.

spicy_simba · 2021-10-06T11:29:12+00:00

Contrary to what assumptions might be going in your head, What things may seem like to you is not really important.

Ultimately the other person will decide and you can not control that.

Step 1 : unplug your critical brain, that is critisizing your actions and aborting them before they happen, this is a safe defense mechanism, but you are safe, this mechanism will be calibrated through experience, just like through experiencing touching warm things but they are not burning hot.

Step 2 "Hi, my name is ... and I think you cute and mysterious, I am curious to know each other you and see what comes out of it, would you like to join me for a short walk during recess ?"

do not let your brain do calculations predicting if it's gonna work or not, this is like playing slot machine, you do not calculate all combinations in slot machines, you simply put a coin and press,

Just communicate your meaning politely, and allow space and time for a person to answer, accept the answer whatever it is.

There is no use living in fantasy land if a person is not interested in making new connections for whatever reason.

There is a lot of reasons for you to move on on the other hand.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2021-10-06T20:25:02+00:00

You have 2 choices , approach her and do your best , or be non needy across the room and wait for her to go off with another guy then regret it for ages .

Just approach and JOKE around , have FUN and do your best

TheRiverOfDyx · 2021-10-06T06:52:20+00:00

You have to go out of your way anyway. But guess what? You never went out of your way, you went where you decided to go, Tiger. March on

ChevalierNord · 2021-10-06T01:47:53+00:00

If it doesn't make sense why you'd talk to her you can't lie about your intentions. Be direct;)

gbizzle2 · 2021-10-06T05:34:44+00:00

Haha thats what the cuties do. They do weird shit like that when you're young. Thats why I left them alone in my youth. Now that i understand women they cant even hide no more

dobbs1997 · 2021-10-06T13:26:01+00:00

yeah man you gotta stop tip toeing around and just go straight for her, no hesitation, just go sit next to her with the energy like you own the place and start talking. simple as that, you trying to find out ways to do it without going out of your way will just prolong this and you might just end up never doing it, so embrace the fear you’ll probably feel cause it’s normal and go talk to her anyway.

FlatDistance5 · 2021-10-06T14:55:09+00:00

Doesn’t matter, I tell women all the time I saw you from all the way over there and had to come meet you.

Stop over analyzing

Estspain1991 · 2021-10-06T21:37:45+00:00

I did this once, got a test back and approached her as I was leaving and asked how she did on the test, we talked for like 20 minutes and I got her number

2021-10-08T20:39:20+00:00

Make eye contact with her, walk towards her, don’t break eye contact. Once you’re close, whip your dick out.

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Date	October 5, 2021 11:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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