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Talk to her in person.
/r/seduction29/11/21 10:36 PM
1

Dating apps use algorithms just like anything else. This is just from my experience: If I don’t use an app for a week or so the next time I open it I will have a match or two. That’s after weeks of getting nothing. They want to lure you back in. Paying for boosts and stuff gets you matches but often they are BS matches. Spam accounts. Not always but often. I feel like the more I swipe the less matches I get. Not at first but eventually. You can get banned for literally doing nothing wrong. They …
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:23 PM
1

Someone can’t sense sarcasm. Have you paid attention to his wife’s entanglement? Lol
/r/seduction15/11/21 01:43 PM
5

Ya, because Will Smith’s love life is awesome!
/r/seduction15/11/21 01:53 AM
5

Then you’re talking to the wrong women. Stop looking at attraction or women “scientifically”. Attraction doesn’t make sense the same way 1+1=2 does.
/r/seduction13/11/21 01:48 AM
2

Terrible article. Those sites definitely paid them to be in that article or something else fishy is going on. Top apps, in no order: Tinder Hinge Bumble Up and coming: Facebook Dating
/r/seduction12/11/21 03:21 PM
4

“Hey I’m not looking for anything serious, how about you?” “Im just looking for a friends with benefits situation” Many will shut it down. Walk away from those. Some will reciprocate. Women are just as horny, if not hornier, then men.
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:48 PM
1

Well I do
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:49 AM
2

I don’t think there’s any magic formula here. Just be good at your job. Be friendly. See what this opens up for you.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:45 AM
4

FarmersOnly bro
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:36 PM
3

Best way to learn is from experience. Just go out there and talk to women and you’ll progressively get better.
/r/seduction07/11/21 03:55 PM
1

This is the way.
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:10 PM
1

Was your goal to be nice and make friends? If so, congrats. If your goal was to get numbers and pick up women then being called nice is generally a kiss of death.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:17 PM
1

Your answers will vary person to person and why do you care what others think of your lack of experience dating? It doesn’t matter where you start, it’s where you finish.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:15 PM
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Focus on what you’re doing. Your comments seem negative and a little pessimistic. If you try new things and talk to new people, you will find attractive women to date. Don’t have expectations.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:04 PM
2

Sounds like a you problem.
/r/seduction07/11/21 11:58 AM
1

Or you keep learning new things and growing. Yoga, salsa dancing, HIIT classes, dog groups, etc etc. There’s plenty of ways to meet women.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:37 AM
41

Don’t take dating advice from women.
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:14 AM
1

So then date other women. Maybe doing that will make her jealous.
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:02 AM
2

Have a conversation with her about it.
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:48 PM
5

A general rule of life - don’t run from things that make you uncomfortable. That is how you grow in life. Rejection isn’t something to be feared. Start talking to more women and it will become easier and easier.
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:35 PM
1

I would say something along the lines of… “if you want to be exclusive, then I want to really be exclusive and date” She won’t reject you. She’s clearly into you so I think it’s a slam dunk. If she does reject you, then go talk to other women. I see this as a win win for you. Get some clarity on this FWB situation and do what you want to do.
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:23 PM
3

She’s insecure about you talking to other women because she doesn’t want to lose you. This is usually how FWB situations end, someone catching feelings. If you want to date, date her. If not, you’re gonna have to end things unless you enjoy drama (which some folks do but won’t admit it).
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:16 PM
72

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Humans are generally “figuring life out” as they go. Anyone who makes goals and goes after them is achieving happiness through progress. She IS valuable but so are YOU. This is the way.
/r/seduction06/11/21 10:13 PM
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Yes. Less is more. Cleverly open the convo (this can be hard but some thought into it. Be funny/unique. That is key. Don’t message as soon as you match. Give it some time. Once she initially replies, I make a funny comment about her profile or pictures. Keep the convo short. I always end with “do you want to hang out sometime?” If she says yes, then I ask for number. If she doesn’t answer then I move on.
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:20 PM
1

Tinder is one pond. Bumble, Hinge, Facebook dating are all other places you can fish. Expand your target and you’ll likely reap greater gains.
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:36 PM
1

Not sure what advice you’re looking for, but, here’s some life advice. Girls like Mary, who cheat on their boyfriends, are no bueno. It might feel good in the short term but long term, this will lead you to no where. Also, if she’s cheating on her bf now, don’t think she won’t do the same to you if you were dating. Not to mention an angry bf lurking around.
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:32 PM
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It is a stupid question I would comment something about her profile or her looks. Example, “your dog looks like needs a step Dad in his life”.
/r/seduction06/11/21 07:24 PM
32

Stop doing and learning things for women. Learn things that interest YOU. Do what YOU want to do. You’ll attract women naturally.
/r/seduction06/11/21 01:39 PM
2

Then you’re not locked in.
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:59 PM
1

Stop going into conversations with expectations. As far as texting girls, in the early stages, only do this to set up the date. Save the convo for in person. Texting too much when you meet a girl leads to the friendzone.
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:10 PM
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You don’t HAVE to do anything. All girls are different BUT I’ve found that getting to the point, being direct, and funny make you stand out. You’re on there to date, not make friends. Save the convo for In person vs texting for days.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:27 PM
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Being witty and funny works with 98% of women. Be funny and flirty back. Ask her what she’s looking for. She might just be in it for the D.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:32 PM
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An hour away would be a deal breaker for me personally. I don’t think you are exhibiting behavior of being too available. Nice job. You gotta respect her religious views. That’s who she is. If you don’t like that, maybe she isn’t the one for you.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:31 PM
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It’s not sad if that’s what he wants. If that’s what he wants, then he’s doing what 90% of people aren’t doing… WHAT THEY WANT! 😄
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:23 PM
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You need to stand out. Reality is you are one of atleast 10 dudes conversing with her. Best tip, be funny. You should also set up a date as soon as possible. Something like this: Funny ice breaker She replies Ask funny question about her profile She replies Ask her if she wants to hang out sometime She replies Get number to set up date. If at any point she does not reply, move on. Don’t double message. You’re devaluing yourself, King.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:21 PM
1

You commented on that because you have White Knight syndrome. You think some girl is going to read that and agree with you and fall in love. Your reality is broken. Also, I’m taking my morning shit. It’s 630am where I live. But since you asked, I don’t work Fridays 😎
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:29 PM
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You’ve been the aggressor in this conversation. I love my life. Hasn’t always been that way and THATS why I’m here. I actually offer real, actionable, thoughtful advice. Why would I get angry over you? This same thinking, assuming you matter in my life, is the same thinking you have when all you do is compliment women…and get no results. Thanks for the follow. Even though you’ve attacked me I would still give you advice. Feel free to DM.
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:23 PM
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90% of your comment history is about video games, anti Trump posts, and kissing female posters asses. You are the lost soul my friend. And you do care. Here you are.
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:14 PM
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It’s an analogy. A good one too. You listening to women for dating advice is exactly why you aren’t successful with women. Go ahead and keep pursuing women like life is a Disney movie. I’ll be here when you want real, actionable advice.
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:06 PM
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Personally, no. I’ve known guys who have been though. Escorts and prostitution should be legal. Prohibition doesn’t work but besides that imagine how many “incels” would no longer be that way if they could just pay a girl to fuck. Yay government.
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:58 PM
2

You don’t ask a fish how to fish.
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:51 PM
2

Stop listening to women for dating advice (if you’re male).
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:48 AM
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100%
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:44 PM
2

It depends on how it ended. If it ended awkwardly you have less of a chance at succeeding. If it just kind of fizzled out then you have a chance for sure. Schedule a hair cut and then go “run into her” afterwards at her art pop up.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:43 PM
4

Ask your sister.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:41 PM
3

Your profile needs to be strong. Keep swiping and use the other apps. It’s a numbers game. More swipes more chances at finding someone.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:39 PM
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You’ll have more success using dating apps. Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Facebook dating (yes it’s a thing). Real life works but you’ll talk to maybe 10 women? MAYBE 1 decides she’s down. That’s a big maybe. Dating apps - you’ll encounter over a 100 women in an hour and there’s at least 10 who might be DTF. Match with them, make a joke and break the ice, ask them what they are looking for, be honest about what you’re looking for.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:36 PM
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Don’t: just ask anyone for their number. Do: have engaging conversations with others. If they go well and you feel a connection, ask them if they want to hang out sometime. If they say yes, ask for their number.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:31 PM
1

If you want to give off stalker vibes, totally do this OP.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:30 PM
1

Always trust your inner self. Your conscious is what leads you through life. I’ve found ignoring it gives me more grief and anxiety than anything else. You’re 26, your internal clock is ticking, you may want to be alone the rest of your life, if that’s the case, more power to you, personally though, at 26 I would try to start building meaningful relationships.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:29 PM
-3

Someone’s bitter.
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:27 PM
6

Dating apps
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:24 PM
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Ok, you “lost opportunities” … what can you do about that now? NOTHING. Focus on the progress you’ve made now and keep growing. Forget about the past. It doesn’t matter. We all start somewhere.
/r/seduction03/11/21 10:30 PM
4

It could have been for anything. Who cares?
/r/seduction03/11/21 08:15 PM
3

Learn better English and practice.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:35 PM
1

Def agree with the others here. This seems over the top / a scene out of a Disney movie.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:34 PM
1

What is your plan?
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:45 PM
3

Woof. Sounds like she was just hammered and made out with you. Who forgets their number? If you want to know for sure though, DM her on IG. Get to the point though, don’t carry on a convo for days.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:42 PM
2

Abandon the idea that girls will always act uninterested.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:41 PM
1

No. Work on your confidence. Grow and learn from this experience. You sound young. Plenty of time.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:39 PM
1

I find it hard to believe you guys couldn’t find ONE HOUR over 2 weeks to get together. Coffee date is a perfect first date. Honestly, it is what it is with this one but learn from this for your next match. Set up dates quicker and sooner. Too much texting and back and forth leads to friendzone.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:36 PM
16

You don’t have to drink alcohol. Order a Diet Coke with a lime and you’ll blend right in. If your friends can attract women, copy them.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:32 PM
3

But it turns you on…..?
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:18 PM
2

Nothing. You need to back off and let things cool down. Wait for her to initiate any contact for at least the next 2 weeks. Next time you hang out, test the waters again.
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:51 AM
1

Sounds like something a friend would say.
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:24 AM
1

I’m confused why you chose to tell her you didn’t want to date her because she needed to move on from her ex bf. You cock blocked yourself. I would forget about anything with her. She sounds uninterested now.
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:20 AM
10

Honestly what does it matter? Quit complaining. If you don’t like the results you’re getting, sharpen your blade. Complaining ain’t gonna get you no where.
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:21 PM
286

Best approach: go no contact with her and date other women. Worst approach: text her, call her, or reaching out In any other way. All of this makes you look needy.
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:50 PM
1

You can still act interested and ask questions about their experiences. It doesn’t have to revolve around you.
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:34 PM
9

I hear Craigslist is hiring
/r/seduction30/10/21 01:15 AM
1

Working on your body is never a bad idea. Male or female. If you just want to hook up with him, and you have told him this, and he still rejected you, then I take it as him not being interested. I think you should work on yourself regardless of this guy or another one. What happens if you comeback a smoke show and you land dudes even better than him? Betcha won’t want him then… (that’s a good thing).
/r/seduction30/10/21 12:15 AM
2

You should stop talking to her 3/4 hours daily. Don’t even talk to her daily. Continuation of this leads one place…friendzone. Introduce physical touch. Touch her arm, lower back, etc and see how she responds. If she touches you back, that’s a clear sign that she’s probably interested. If she reciprocates, escalate from there. I know she says she’s waiting 9 months or whatever but I think that’s mostly BS. It’s her way of giving herself certainty in uncertain times. Bottom line, if the right guy…
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:43 PM
3

It is VITAL to go into cold approaches with ZERO expectations. If she rejects you, you will care WAY less if you’re not expecting anything. The more you approach the more you become desensitized to your fear. The easier it becomes.
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:32 PM
11

There isn’t a need for more information. This isn’t a good idea and just leads to neediness. The move is to talk to more women, replace her with new women, and work on yourself. OP- Go the gym for a better body, read more books to improve mindset, find new hobbies, travel, etc. You will GROW and leave her in the dust.
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:26 PM
12

Now.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:11 PM
4

No, she’s not interested. If you reach out again, that’s a sign of neediness. Don’t slide into DMs. Guys fall for this trap because it takes away the uncomfortable feeling of doing it in person. You are 1 of probably 10-15 dudes sliding into her DMs. Why did she act the way she did? I don’t know. Frankly, it doesn’t matter. She could have just tried to be nice. Regardless, she isn’t interested. Time to learn and move on. Talk to women in person.
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:18 PM
3

I would have replied, “cool, 3 some?”
/r/seduction27/10/21 06:46 PM
60

Sounds like you’ve made up your mind. Why post here?
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:24 PM
60

Definitely do not do this. 2k?! It would be different if you had that kind of cash just laying around but you’re using a credit card. More debt. Bad. You can still fuck her when you are home. Plus, turning down her offer (you pay and she goes) shows her you don’t want to be a sugar daddy. Idk where you’re going, but you can find women there for free and fuck them. Also, if you pay for her and then she decides to ghost you after the trip, that’s gonna sting.
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:52 PM
12

Very Peaky Blinder.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:07 PM
20

Still lost. Go home to your wife.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:04 PM
127

According to Google, a sixpence is a British coin. According to Urban Dictionary sixpence is anal sex willfully given up usually by the oppressed or underclass.
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:50 PM
3

This is going to sound cliche but focus on your inner beauty. Love yourself and accept yourself for who you are. Like you said, you can’t change these things. Continue to hit the gym. Go harder.
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:25 PM
2

“Do you want to go back to my place?” I have a dog, he’s cute AF, I usually will bring him up before in convo. Then I’ll say, “let’s go see (dogs name)”.
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:38 AM
1

She might not be interested.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:39 AM
3

It happens bro. Shake it off. She gave you her number. 😎
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:12 PM
1

David Tian is the only “PUA” worth listening to.
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:42 PM
3

Can’t Hurt Me - David Goggins Awaken the Giant Within - Tony Robbins 12 Rules for Life - Jordan Peterson
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:15 PM
1

Lmao. Don’t fart.
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:00 PM
13

We want what we can’t have.
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:48 PM
19

Rejection is a good thing, ironically. The more you are rejected the more you are desensitized to it. This makes your confidence grow because you care less and less about the outcome.
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:36 PM
1

Ditch the “life is short” part and just introduce yourself and ask her if she’d like to grab a coffee after class.
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:14 PM
54

Fish for better fish
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:40 AM
0

Ask them out on a date. Make them comfortable. All women love to blab in the right situation.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:16 AM
2

Watch game. Kiss her.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:15 AM
31

If she says no, then smile and say ok. Then continue on about your night. If she’s making out with you soon after you are meeting her the likelihood of her acting the way you think she might is unlikely. You’ve been building up courage for the past 26 years. What are you waiting for? I get it’s scary but once you make yourself uncomfortable you will grow.
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:13 AM
92

If a woman approaches you and starts making out then ask her if she wants to go to your place. Go and approach women. The more you do it the better you will be. You will regret it if you wait until your 30 or until you have the balls to do it.
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:57 AM
2

Sha-la-la-la-la-la My, oh my Looks like the boy's too shy Ain't gonna kiss the girl Sha-la-la-la-la-la Ain't that sad It's such a shame, too bad You're gonna miss the girl Go on and kiss the girl (kiss the girl)
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:30 PM
2

It’s up to you. If you want to keep her as a friend and you’re able to stop the attraction you have, then keep her around. If you aren’t able to stop liking her as more than a friend, do yourself a favor and cut your losses. Next time, don’t text with a girl unless it’s to set up a date. I know your circumstances were tough but you live and you learn.
/r/seduction25/10/21 12:26 PM
1

What city are you from?
/r/seduction24/10/21 07:34 PM
3

I hear Compton, California is nice this time of year. Or East St. Louis.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:44 PM
1

I think you handled it like a pro. Nice job. It sounded like she just wanted a fuck buddy. The way it ended is definitely odd. I’d try to hook up with her again and see how she responds.
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:59 AM
1

Is someone saying to you, “your name, you can’t take part in this conversation anymore”. Could this all be in your head? Smile and engage in the conversation. Add your thoughts and opinions. They are good friends. You’re there for a reason.
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:27 AM
12

The first form of communication for a girl you like should never be in Ig, TikTok, or other social media. It should be in person. Next time don’t chicken out.
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:21 PM
1

It sounds like she is into you already. What you say probably won’t matter that much. Keep it fun and light. Make her laugh as much as possible. Ask her if she wants to hang out some time and get her number.
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:19 PM
2

If you’re second guessing listen to yourself Go talk to more women.
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:18 PM
5

Nothing is bullet proof. Try to be funny. It can be anything corky or stupid. Don’t take it seriously. Smile and laugh at yourself.
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:16 PM
1

If you wait a few weeks, odds are she will have moved on. I would act sooner. I would text her either Saturday and see if she could do a coffee date Sunday. Or you could wait until Sunday night and set up a date for during the week/weekend.
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:13 PM
5

We don’t know what you said for her to say this. What was your convo like?
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:07 PM
2

Let this current situation play out. When she texts you back about not being able to go this time reply with “No worries. Have fun with your family”. Text her after this weekend and see if she’s free to meet up. Suggest a date with a date, place, and time.
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:06 PM
2

OP can not go out with her, no doubt. He obviously is into her though since he posted this. I think there’s a way to go out with her and not break the bank on the first date. Get clever OP. That’s just me though.
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:03 PM
2

Foodie = they enjoy eating out and dinner dates. I also like nice restaurants. Why? Because they have better food. If you’re a pothead, you want good weed, not mids. If you like beer, you want good beer, not Coors Light. If you like vodka, you want Grey Goose or something higher quality, not Vladdy. If you’re a foodie, you want good food, not Applebee’s. In your case, I agree, I love coffee dates. That said, if the lady wants a restaurant, choose a decent one and go there. You can just get apps …
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:51 PM
3

Yes, learn from your mistakes. Next time, if you’re not feeling someone, be mature enough to tell them you don’t want to date them anymore. If they ask why, tell them. If those are the only reasons you broke up with her, you need to take a look at why you even dated her in the first place. It’s not like those things could have changed that much from when you met her.
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:42 PM
3

🦞🦞🦞
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:56 PM
9

Post nut clarity… ain’t it a bitch?
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:34 PM
1

Reach back out and see if she is free this weekend. Do not wait for her to reach out to you. “Hey (name), there’s a new coffee spot Ive been wanting to try. I hear they have amazing food and great coffee. Are you free Saturday at 10am?” just an example. Can be anything. But specify a day, time, and place.
/r/seduction22/10/21 12:07 PM
3

Awaken the Giant Within - Tony Robbins Can’t Hurt Me - David Goggins 12 Rules for Life - Jordan Peterson Spotify: Joe Rogan Experience - so many episodes. Google, best JRE episodes for self improvement and go from there. Some good ones - Tyson Fury, Kevin Hart, David Goggins, David Choe. The Strangest Secret - Ernest Nightendale. This is a 45 minute speech. It’s old. Listen to it a few times. There’s a lot to absorb. It’s fantastic advice and is 10000000% accurate. DM if you need more. P.s. I gi…
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:46 AM
5

Swing and a miss.
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:43 AM
11

Don’t compare yourself to others. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday. You seem young, this advice will probably not resonate with you. If you adopt this mindset your life will be much more gratifying.
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:40 AM
2

Go to the gym. Lift weights. Fix your chicken legs.
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:41 PM
11

Become famous.
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:24 PM
2

Not a great way to pick up women. You’re one of probably (at least) 10 other dudes sliding into her DMs. If you do this, be original and be funny. Also, have a strong profile.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:04 PM
1

If you don’t care then message her back and see where it goes.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:30 PM
1

Ooo wow burn 🥴
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:18 PM
1

Physical? Wtf are you even talking about, buddy. How are you going to hold someone accountable when you don’t know who they are? There are thousands of people who use this sub. You gonna remember every person that posts? Even if you did, they can easily make another user name. You’re a clown.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:14 PM
1

Hold people accountable? How you gonna do that? Do you know me? Lmao. FOH.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:03 PM
3

What did you do that made her cry? That sort of context is important.
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:46 PM
1

I read that but you could run into her again, you’re just choosing not to. Texting is the path of least resistance. It’s easy. Comfortable. You don’t understand yet that often what is uncomfortable makes us grow. Because why does that even matter? Don’t try and qualify yourself. If she asks, “why haven’t you ever made a move before” then you could say, “because I was in a relationship”. But you just leading with this is assuming she gives a fuck. Go ahead and down vote all of my advice. When thi…
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:43 PM
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It’s been 3 years since I last saw her What does that even mean? Sounds like you have potential to talk about A LOT. If you’re that into her, you will find a way to ask her out in person. Texting is the easy way out and often ends in rejection. Whatever you do, please don’t bring up anything about your past relationship and make excuses for not pursuing her sooner. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:59 PM
10

The White Knight has now entered the chat
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:43 PM
0

You don’t ask a fish how to fish. Don’t text her. Approach her in person and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime.
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:42 PM
4

She’s not interested. Nice job on approaching a stranger and getting her number. That said, time to cut your losses and move on. This is why I recommend against texting a girl when you first meet other than setting up a date. Over texting leads to the friendzone. It’s too easy for guys to over text. Next time, approach in person and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. If she says yes, get her number. If she says no, say, “ok, take it as a compliment” and move on. If she says yes, you get …
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:38 PM
1

It’s not that those could put you in the friendzone, they will. Never pay for girls unless it’s a date or you are in a relationship. You need to initiate some forms of physical touch. See if she reciprocates. I’m talking light touching. Plenty of YouTube videos on this. For example, try holding her hand while going on a walk. If she pulls away, friendzone. If she grips your hand back, there might be hope.
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:24 PM
9

If you want to be in a relationship with her, then find a way to make things work. I would tell her how you truly feel and your worries. Communication is key in a relationship. If you don’t want to be in a relationship with her, then I think you should end it. What’s the point of continuing on if her instability and uncertainty aren’t what you’re looking for. Doesn’t sound like that’ll change. In general, I think the “sweet guy” vibe burns you more than it helps. It’s a shame bc that’s what most…
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:19 PM
1

Fair. 🤝
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:11 AM
1

It happens. We all have nights where we drink too much and do something stupid or make a fool of ourselves. It will happen to you again most likely. Stop ignoring this chick and her friends. Act like you are the prize. Put yourself on a pedestal and not these girls.
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:11 AM
12

Keep the momentum going.
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:04 AM
5

Flirt with her and see if she reciprocates.
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:48 AM
1

And you’re a servant to deez nuts
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:31 AM
2

This kid fucks!
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:19 AM
1

So you sent her a meme and she didn’t answer?
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:14 AM
1

Usually when you enroll in college students get free legal advice. I used this once when I was in college. My buddy got in a fight and it turned into a big brawl. I didn’t hit anyone but I was there so I was lumped in with the offenders. Anyway, talked to this lawyer through free student legal services and he took care of everything. I would 1000% see if you can do this or talk to a lawyer to see what your options might be. If you’re being a creep, cut that shit out. If you really have changed t…
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:11 AM
1

Dave Chapelle had a great bit on feminism in his latest stand up special.
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:07 AM
1

I always ask what are you looking for. You can tell almost immediately if the girl just wants to fuck. “Nothing serious” “Someone to chill and hang out with” “I’m open to anything” Or the dreaded… “Something serious” “Relationship” The last two I know it’s not on par with what I want. I usually end it soon after that.
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:04 AM
1

Can you summarize your post in 5 bullet points or less?
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:00 AM
1

If you don’t like this sub why are you here? I think myself and others often give great advice. Stop trying to be a hero. No one asked for it.
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:00 AM
3

You shouldn’t want or be allowed to cancel people. The best way to combat bad speech is good speech. But I agree with everything else. OP is virtue signaling to the extreme.
/r/seduction21/10/21 12:58 AM
1

Nah man, I won’t ask her a bunch of questions. Keep it light, funny, and straight to the point. Btw the Joe line works. I’ve used it over a dozen times when women say “I don’t even know you” or say shit like, “you could be a serial killer”.
/r/seduction21/10/21 12:48 AM
3

In life, if you want something, go for it. You could die at any moment in time. Make the most of it.
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:06 PM
0

Yup you’ve got it. Get straight to the point. If she says, “but I don’t even know you” you say: “I’m a lot like that guy Joe from You (Netflix show)” and smile. She will laugh and then you smile and say how about you give me your number and we can hang out sometime.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:58 PM
1

If you find her attractive and don’t want a relationship with her, then say, “Ooo I like the sound of that. What turns you on in bed?” Take it from there. Focus on hooking up with her in the next 2-3 days. Don’t let it sit and wait.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:43 PM
2

Change my mind.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:15 PM
2

If she replied with that and then blocked you, what makes you think she wasn’t fishing for money? FFS move on man.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:30 PM
1

One night ain’t gonna ruin your gains but you do you.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:41 PM
1

Stay up and fuck her. You can sleep when you’re dead.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:36 PM
6

Yes, we do know. Spoil = pay her money to hang out. Stop thinking about this or you’ll make the same mistake.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:21 PM
5

Well you are wrong my friend. Live and learn.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:17 PM
1

I know nothing about the UK but “small town” makes me think of small minded people. Meaning, they might hold skin color against you. Solutions: move to a bigger city. Move to the US.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:16 PM
2

Doesn’t matter what you said. She’s a working girl. You pay her for her time. Is that really what you want? No judgement. Be safe.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:11 PM
1

What city do you live?
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:10 PM
1

How close are you with this girl? If she’s someone you’re in a relationship with, I’d open up to her about your insecurities. She might give you what you need to over come them. I would also seek therapy. Ya it’s embarrassing to talk about sex issues with a stranger but you’ll get over that. Figure out the root issue and that could fix your issue as well.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:09 PM
1

Don’t comment about her ass. She’s looking for attention and you are giving it to her. JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER GUY ON THE APP. Ignore the ass comment and come at her a different way. The key to apps is being unique. Stand out.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:07 PM
5

His mother.
/r/seduction20/10/21 05:05 PM
2

Dancing is good. There is no step by step guide for interacting with women. There are suggestions and lines to say but every person and every interaction can be different. If you’re actually good at dancing I would just focus on that. Dance with a girl next time you’re at a club. If she’s grinding on your cock, that’s a good sign. Escalate from there.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:59 PM
3

Also used as slang for escorts/prostitutes. If you get that sort of message again, cut your loss and block her.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:56 PM
0

“Hey I’ve caught you eye fucking the shit out of me the past few days. I’m (name). Whats your name?”
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:35 PM
1

Please… you contribute nothing to this sub. You are irrelevant.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:42 PM
7

Next time, say nothing, make eye contact, sniff the seat, smile, continue on with your day.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:17 PM
7

You aren’t exclusive. Treat it that way. Chances are BOTH girls are also talking to other guys. Don’t put all your eggs into one basket.
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:51 PM
3

Chalk it up to the game bro.
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:08 PM
0

Find something you’re good at. Get better at it consistently. Go to the gym. Lift weights. Progressively overload. Get jacked. Lift heavier weights. Repeat. Learn how to dance. Come up with a few jokes that will make anyone laugh (not just women).
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:07 PM
29

Tell her you’re a fatty at heart too. Switch subjects though and get things moving towards going out. “I’m a fatty at heart too. Which do you like more coffee or donuts?” She replies, “donuts” (because she’s a fatty) “You’re in luck, I have the best spot for both. Do you want to check it out with me on Saturday at 10am?” She could be trolling you. Could be a catfish if she’s a babe and then claims to be fat (like a dude fucking with you).
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:05 PM
13

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That said, generally, no, this is not attractive. Are there women who find this “hot” for one reason or another? I’m sure they are out there.
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:00 PM
1

You’re over thinking this. Talk to her, get to know her, make her laugh, attract her. Take it from there. You should also be talking to more women, not just her. Doing this will make you catch feelings much slower.
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:28 AM
2

Have you touched her where she pees? I see you have kissed but have you played with her vageen??
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:23 AM
1

Go virtue signal somewhere else snowflake
/r/seduction20/10/21 10:26 AM
2

What did you say? Probably not interested. I’d move on.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:01 AM
1

Coming from a guy who comments on incel subs. FOH.
/r/seduction19/10/21 11:01 PM
2

Do you ask a fish how to fish?
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:59 PM
1

I dont mean age differences like OPs. I mean more so within 4 or 5 years. This is pointed out in many psychology books. Google it.
/r/seduction19/10/21 07:20 PM
9

If she says you are too young, reply with, “yeah, I won’t want to wear you out…”
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:26 PM
1

If you aren’t growing you’re dying.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:44 PM
7

Then you should work on yourself and grow as a human being.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:17 PM
2

Netflix and chill and then see how it goes.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:12 PM
1

Coffee. Ice cream. Walk in park.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:03 PM
1

Oh I clearly won. All you have to do is Google “white Knight syndrome” and it will show you how much you are out of your league here. Focus on losing your virginity. Oh and stay out of my DMs. I don’t want to help you.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:46 PM
1

It’s about recusing others. Go play halo, slob.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:29 PM
1

That’s not true at all. Use google you simpleton.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:24 PM
1

He’s trying to “save the day” when no one asked him to. Textbook white Knight syndrome.
/r/seduction19/10/21 03:54 PM
4

Is this OP’s burner account? I see it’s 19 mins old. Kind of like the women he goes after.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:15 PM
0

You being 32 and wanting to date 19 year olds says a lot about you.
/r/seduction19/10/21 11:33 AM
-1

(Most girls want guys their own age or within 2 years) This isn’t true. Most women like men that are older than them because women mature faster than men.
/r/seduction19/10/21 11:12 AM
0

Texting SHOULD only be used to set up a date. If a girl says “text me” do that but do it so you’re setting up a date.
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:22 AM
4

Drink less. I think that’ll help.
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:17 AM
1

If you aren’t happy with your body then you should be working on it. It probably contributes to your self esteem issues too. Get into the gym and start lifting weights. Check out Jeff Nippard on YouTube for routines. The more you practice the better you’ll be. Talk to as many women as you can. Also, don’t take dating advice from women.
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:43 AM
4

Sounds like your problem started when you involved alcohol. Ever go out and NOT drink? Do you experience the same results?
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:36 AM
1

Go to the courier tomorrow or the next day she works. Get her number. Tell her you’ll text her about getting together with your dogs. Go on a hike or take the dogs to a fenced in area like a dog park. Also, don’t sleep on extending your date by suggesting ice cream or coffee. Both of these are dog friendly where the dog can eat something too.
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:20 PM
-4

Ya we call this White Knight syndrome. You should look it up.
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:17 PM
-12

You can’t call it a scam if he’s not ripping people off. For example, if he sells coaching and then doesn’t help someone after he gets paid, you can say that’s a scam. In reality, you’re just upset because he has the answers (certainty) that you’re craving (uncertainty). Additionally, you just look like a GIANT Karen.
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:14 PM
-5

Lol, why would I have read your post history? You’re a random commenter trolling for cheap jokes. You don’t seem that clever. Respectfully 😌🤝
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:09 PM
-6

I’m about anyone and everyone posting whatever the fuck they want. If you don’t like something someone says, come up with something better to say. It’s that simple.
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:03 PM
1

I get your point. Was mostly impressed with $5-10. Most of the stuff you named is more expensive where I live.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:59 PM
-10

Why does that bother you? I’m not saying I agree with that BUT you can say no and go on with your life. For you and anyone else to post/comment about this just SCREAMS “I’m a beta”.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:57 PM
-8

You and anyone else who bash other people who contribute to this subreddit can fuck off. I don’t agree with everything that guy says BUT he gives way better advice (generally) than 98% of the people on here. Sounds like you’re butt hurt because he hit you with some honesty.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:49 PM
3

Only text to set up a date.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:47 PM
1

Damn, I don’t disagree with this but where you going for $5-10 my guy??
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:44 PM
5

“Not looking for anything serious” “Looking for a FWB” See what she says
/r/seduction18/10/21 04:09 PM
2

Depends where you are at. If you’re at a nightclub, and her friends are at a table, ask her to dance. If they are on the dance floor, wait till they are done, then take her to meet your friends or something. Really depends on the environment. Create as many experiences as possible.
/r/seduction18/10/21 04:02 PM
7

She’s not interested. On to the next one. Be happy she said no instead of collecting drinks all night from you. That’s a horrible way to pick up girls.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:55 PM
2

Keep swiping. Not much you can do other than switch your profile up, get new photos, try and make a funny/clever bio, etc. You can offset your lack of success on dating apps by talking to women in person.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:46 PM
6

Nah I’d move on for now. Keep her around but don’t give much attention to her. Work on yourself and talk to more women.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:28 AM
5

If you want to sell something, find out what the other person needs. Seduction is def not needed.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:45 PM
4

You want to seduce women, not to hook up with them, but to turn them down? That’s validation.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:41 PM
2

Why are you craving this sort of validation? That is what I’d be asking.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:13 PM
0

Wow clearly this forum is full of people like OPs friend. If you don’t like something, then change it. If his friend isn’t happy with his results with women, then he needs to work on it OR it will never get better. You can’t live your life trying to please others. There is no bro code violation - they have no history. He just thinks she cute. BFD.
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:54 AM
1

She was checking you out.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:21 AM
1

I think your suspicions are valid, that could lead to the friendzone. Since you aren’t going to see her soon after Sunday I would proceed with your plan.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:00 AM
1

Wait you already messaged her yesterday? Did she answer?
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:53 AM
1

Yes!
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:42 AM
1

A wise man once said, “All I want for my birthday is a big booty hoe”.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:40 AM
1

Pull up a map of the area on your phone. Find a coffee shop or something near by. Don’t make excuses. Find a way.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:39 AM
1

Next time you see her at volleyball, ask her then. If you don’t want to wait, go tomorrow and ask her out after you’re done with tennis. Seize the moment my friend.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:22 AM
5

If you want more, have the conversation with her. If you don’t want more, then keep an eye on it. If it gets worse, you need it break it off.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:20 AM
1

You can’t fix height. You can fix him being bigger. Get into the gym and become a monster. If he’s your friend he will help you. If he’s not into game though he may not have great advice.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:14 AM
2

100% do it in person. Ask her out to get a coffee, drink, apps, or anything else you find fun or interesting near where you live.
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:12 AM
3

Don’t get so excited about talking to one girl. I know that’s easier said than done but if you change your expectations you won’t be disappointed or as disappointed. Go into knowing she could ghost you and if she does then on to the next one.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:34 PM
5

If you give good head, you will be remembered.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:31 PM
5

To clarify, you guys are hooking up, right? I feel with her saying that and her lack of communication (texting/calling) it sounds like she wants you on her time. This all makes me think she’s just in it for FWB.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:27 PM
-2

His friend will get over it.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:18 PM
1

He’s a whiny little bitch. If he doesn’t like it then he should step it up. I say go for it. Your friend needs to get over it. They aren’t dating and have no history.
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:31 PM
1

But it doesn’t matter… She’s one person and she has her opinion. So do billions of other people. He can’t please them all. He probably knows deep down what he did wrong. Over text, go out of his way for her, etc. Self reflect and improve.
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:49 PM
6

Do NOT take this advice. She’s dead to you. Treat her that way. Harsh? Nah, reality.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:25 PM
10

You’re setting yourself up for failure. Everything you outlined is for her. So when it doesn’t work or she shows she’s moved on too, it’s going to eat away at you and you’ll do something needy. I agree, re-attraction is possible BUT what you’ve outlined is very unlikely to get you there. It’s oneitis. Go after more women and you’ll get over her and land something even better.
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:13 PM
11

Everything you suggested is about her. You may not portray it that way but subconsciously you’re doing it for her. You’ve put her on a pedestal and you’re trying to trick her into thinking you don’t care anymore when in reality literally everything you laid out is for her.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:36 PM
20

Disagree. If you are dating someone and they break up with you then you need to move on with your life. It should be about what YOU want.. not her. If she wants to be friends, ok great, but do YOU want to be friends? If the answer is yes, you are devaluing yourself. Her breaking up with you is a sign she doesn’t think you’re good enough. How is that OK with you? If you get friendzoned, move on. Talk to other women. As many as you can. Go out on dates. Go out on more dates. Forget her. Priority 1…
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:04 PM
1

Your primary form of communication should ALWAYS be in person.
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:35 PM
40

On to the next one
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:05 AM
2

Not all body builders look like Jay Cutler and Ronnie Coleman.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:45 AM
2

This is 100% accurate and I don’t understand why it’s being down voted. OP you will talk her head off and get friendzoned. Text to set up the date and save convo for in person.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:40 AM
22

It doesn’t matter what they think. You got her number and she sounds interested. Fuck em.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:36 AM
2

People who go to the gym regularly have higher value than those who don’t. Sorry, that’s the truth. No one wants chicken legs.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:33 AM
1

Use the apps. Facebook dating has a ton of older women.
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:30 AM
0

Sounds like you might benefit from therapy.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:27 PM
5

You are interrupting all of this as her being interested in you. It could be that she’s just being nice to you. You are very needy and it’s good you see this. Make a plan to STOP. I would go no contact with her outside of work. At work, I would just say hello when passing or when she comes to you. If she asks why she hasn’t heard from you just say you’ve been busy.
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:15 PM
2

If I saw that I would say, “now there’s a guy who goes after what he wants”. How can you not respect that? It takes balls. Reality is, you’ll never see most of those people again. Even if you do, they aren’t going to remember you.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:34 AM
1

Keep hammering. Shoot your shot. Never give up.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:12 AM
1

Don’t talk about it. I would test the water with some light touching / flirting and see if she is reciprocating.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:11 AM
1

Self reflect. Are you the best version of yourself?
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:09 AM
0

What do you think is going to happen? Why are you afraid?
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:06 AM
2

Practice. I get you are anxious in the moment but being uncomfortable like that will make you grow. If you do this over and over you will become less and less anxious. The more often you do this, the easier and easier it will become. Just remember, we are all fucked up in one way or another. Some people are just better at hiding it than others.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:05 AM
2

She was nervous about being in your apartment. You said she was shy. Next time, make fun of yourself, “would a serial killer have this awesome Pokémon card collection?” And then show her the collection. Could be anything that is unique to you and interesting/corky. She will laugh and it’ll be nothing. Nice ending 🤝
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:00 AM
4

No, this is the first time you are hanging out outside of school (I’m assuming anyway). What you suggested sounds like a Disney movie. If it ever sounds like a Disney movie do the opposite. Since it’s going to be cold, you could suggest getting a coffee or something warm. You pay.
/r/seduction13/10/21 12:56 AM
3

Grab the first round.
/r/seduction13/10/21 12:53 AM
2

Never go to women for advice on game. You don’t ask a fish how to fish. If you are insecure about something, work on it. It’s not just going to go away one day, if you want it badly enough, you will work at improving it. Ex. Don’t look good naked? Go to the gym.
/r/seduction13/10/21 12:40 AM
2

Perfectly said.
/r/seduction13/10/21 12:36 AM
10

Well she can lose her job so there’s that. Actually her career. Odds are you suck at sex so she prob won’t risk it. Not trying to be a dick, but, you’re what, 18?
/r/seduction12/10/21 09:29 PM
7

I’ve found it best to approach women when they are done with their workout, not while they are doing them. I would focus on being a little more creative with what you’re saying. Most of this sounds generic (i.e. “come here often?”) and almost like you’re asking her for permission to talk (“mind giving me your number?”). 90% of the battle is getting the courage to talk to attractive women. You’re doing that. Just keep sharpening your blade.
/r/seduction12/10/21 06:17 PM
12

Then you’re not compatible. Don’t settle.
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:22 PM
5

Watch porn with him. Let him see what you like. Hint at trying that stuff in bed.
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:17 PM
8

You’ll never see him again so who cares. If you felt a connection and thought there might be interest go for it next time.
/r/seduction12/10/21 05:16 PM
3

Post your last convo with one of this girls.
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:57 PM
6

It’s a piece of the process and it is working for OP. My advice wasn’t to change his current approach on how he gets it but what he does after he gets it. Do you have any advice to give or are you just looking to make random/irrelevant comments?
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:50 PM
1

Hmm, message him again in a day or two about his injury. Try to spark something out of that. If you’re still getting the same type of responses then it might be best to move on.
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:02 PM
5

What do you want? A relationship, doesn’t sound like that’s likely. Might be best to move on if that’s the case. A FWB, start being sexual in the convo. A sexy selfie might spark interest. Not sure if you have snap but that might be a good place to do it.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:52 PM
7

If you’re getting their number I won’t change how you get it. You’re getting results. Maybe look at what you’re texting them after you get the number.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:50 PM
7

She doesn’t sound interested in anything romantic. Next time, ask HER for her number. Next time, hang out exclusively with her instead of having other friends there. And by next time I mean with a different girl. I would ignore this chick and maybe that will reveal her true intentions. For example, if you ignore her and she keeps hitting you up, there may be interest there. Not likely though. Sorry just being honest bud.
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:47 PM
54

He’s doing it in person and not over text. This is why I always say only use texting as a way to set up the date and save convo for in person. At least at first. Russell has charisma and charm. The accent helps a lot. He’s witty and super smart. All those things increase his appeal to women. He’s also famous.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:17 PM
6

Let the roast begin 😂
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:33 AM
4

50% of marriage ends in failure (it’s an old stat, prob higher now). You really wanna work with your ex wife? Fine let’s say you get promoted to manager. You now manage your girlfriend. You not gonna give her that raise when performance reviews come along? It can be very messy.
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:26 AM
4

Do you not value your time? Why waste it on her anymore than you already have? Time to move on.
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:01 PM
1

If you knew the date failed, why do you care if you come off as polite or not?
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:57 PM
2

It creates a potential source of drama. If I work at a company where I want to grow and move up, that kind of attention ain’t good - whether you’re in the US, Canada, the UK, or elsewhere. Not to mention the world we live in where so many things can be called harassment.
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:56 PM
2

That line is very white knightish. Definitely burn that line and never use it again. Next time, walk her to her dorm if you’re actually concerned about her safety. How do you compete with 20 dudes? Ever play sports? How did you make the team? How did you start? Be better than the rest man.
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:39 PM
1

Honestly dude, I’ve not had many flakes.
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:18 PM
1

Night before / day of - tomato toemato imo 🤝
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:14 PM
0

Someone’s jealous.
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:08 PM
1

He looks like his dad
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:06 PM
2

Implement some light touching. I don’t mean grab her ass or pussy but there are plenty of easy ways to touch her and get the ball moving on sexual energy. Look up Kino on YouTube. Once you do this and if she responds positively ask her to hang out at your place after work.
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:02 PM
2

Go to the gym.
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:00 PM
1

She could be shy. Be interesting. Be funny. Don’t be afraid to disagree with her. Start a playful argument.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:59 PM
6

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. - Wayne Gretzky” -Michael Scott There I fixed it for you.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:56 PM
18

If it’s a serious career, then yes, don’t do it. If you are young and have a job just to make some money, it’s not that big of a deal. That job is a stepping stone.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:54 PM
1

Keep it simple. You don’t have to tell your life story after some asks “how are you?”. In your example, just say, I’m here doing research for x company or x University. There is a fine balance to texting. If you do it too much it can be a huge turn off. You also want to keep some level of mystery in the early stages or the person will think you are needy or worse - crazy.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:52 PM
1

A good rule of thumb in the early stages: only use a # or Ig handle to set up the date* I cut right to the chase. Have a good date already planned. Text the day of to confirm you are still on for later. Ex. Hi Stephanie, this is Joe from the train ride earlier. It was great meeting you. Would you like to grab a drink on Friday at 8pm? I know a great spot with awesome margaritas and Queso. *if the girl texts me I will reply but I usually keep it short and like to poke fun at her in a cute way. Do…
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:47 PM
1

Key to dancing if you don’t do it often, keep it simple. There are plenty of videos on YouTube that can show you moves that will work perfectly for your situation.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:41 PM
1

If you want to get sarcasm across, emojis or gifs are great for this. A simple wink or smerk face will help. Talking too much - just stay focused and on point. You could also save the convo for in person instead of texting someone all day/night.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:39 PM
2

99% of the time no. 1% of the time maybe. Stop wondering. If you like her ask her out.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:24 PM
1

Seize the opportunity when it presents itself.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:16 PM
1

Hey do you want to grab coffee after class?
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:42 PM
1

Ask her to grab a coffee after class. Don’t DM.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:27 PM
1

When will you see her in person again?
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:21 PM
6

You got friendzoned brother. It’s a terrible place. Learn from your mistakes. You failed to escalate/make a move. Remember the shitty feeling you have now and promise yourself to never feel that way again. I would go no contact on her for awhile. Check out YouTube for details on this.
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:47 AM
2

Not sure what that means but don’t become a texting buddy. Text her only to set up a date. You can talk to her in person and then save your questions/convo for your date.
/r/seduction10/10/21 04:38 PM
6

Unbutton his pants and start blowing him.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:39 PM
2

Club = dance Parties = be fun, have interesting things to say, flirt.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:38 PM
5

Ask her to do something after you guys are done with work. Go grab a drink or a coffee (idk your age or hours you work), grab food at a different restaurant/bar, etc. Stop analyzing how she is around you at work and just go for it. If she shuts you down, just say “ok, take it as a compliment” and act like it doesn’t bother you. It’s not awkward unless you make it awkward.
/r/seduction10/10/21 02:37 PM
14

It’s a stupid video. The information in it isn’t great, isn’t good, it’s below average. “This isn’t about appearance” and then proceeds to name #1 which is about appearance.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:57 PM
39

Stop listening to women for dating advice. You don’t ask a fish how to fish. This is also subjective. It’s her opinion.
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:45 PM
0

Pot calling the kettle black, no?
/r/seduction10/10/21 01:13 PM
1

A wise man once said, charge it to the game.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:51 PM
0

Never take advice from women regarding how to date women. You don’t ask a fish how to fish, do you?
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:50 PM
1

DM her about getting together. Grab a coffee, get a drink, see if there’s attraction and go from there.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:49 PM
0

Says the guy with no avatar/pic and a history of 1 comment. I bet you look like a troll IRL too.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:45 PM
2

Shoot your shot bro. If it’s over it’s over at least you live life with no regrets.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:21 PM
2

Absolutely not. Make a move on your next date.
/r/seduction10/10/21 12:07 PM
2

You’re sharp. The point was to give an unobtainable example.
/r/seduction09/10/21 04:11 PM
2

Your goals should be realistic. Always. Or you’ll set yourself up for failure. Not a pick up artist, but, Wilt Chamberlain claimed to have slept with 20k women.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:25 PM
2

Bad dates happen. Learn from it. Always keep improving yourself and your game. First, don’t let a cashier bother you. It’s a random stranger. Fuck what they have to say or think about you. If that bothers you, you need to figure out why and handle it. Second, your preparation stunk. Next time, make a plan. Third, you can’t let your emotions show in situations where things don’t go your way. Again, never reveal your hand. If she doesn’t want you in her apartment then you’re not going in. Get over…
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:48 AM
5

In da club
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:34 AM
6

Do NOT say that. That shows her reply got to you. Never reveal your hand. I would not reply at all. Either she will reply back to you or she won’t. If she does, then she’s interested. If she doesn’t, then you have your answer.
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:32 AM
2

Ya, 100% agree. She’s sending you nudes. Set up a time to see it in person.
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:03 PM
2

Nah, people just like to make up excuses to make themselves feel better. They like being comfortable. Moving is uncomfortable. What is so hard about moving? 1)Find a city you want to move to 2)Find a job in said city 3)Land job in said city 4)Find a place to live in said city 5)Move to said city
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:44 PM
3

I can’t tell you what your goals should be, only you can do that. A good place to start is, what don’t you like about yourself? Make a list. Write it out. Come up with a plan to change those things. You have plenty of money to move btw. I get it, you’re scared of making that change, trust me, you will look back and be so happy when you do (if you truly don’t like where you are living).
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:34 PM
1

When I graduated HS I had over 5k in savings. I cut grass and shoveled driveways my junior and senior years. College was paid for all by loans. We are here to talk about you though, not me. You are facing a problem. You are miserable (I can tell from your post and your responses). How do you achieve happiness? I’ll tell you. You need to make goals for yourself. Happiness is found in progress. As long as you are actively working on your goals you will be happy. When you achieve them, make more go…
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:25 PM
5

Well you’re an adult. Move yourself. No one is coming to help you. If you want change YOU have to do it. You can make all the excuses in the world to make yourself feel better, but, the cold reality is, you’ve got to be uncomfortable to grow. If not, you’ll be stuck in that little town of yours the rest of your life.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:11 PM
5

What is stopping you from changing your current situation? For example, why not move to a new city?
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:07 PM
11

“Yo, why is your picture face down” Is literally all you have to say.
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:10 PM
14

Why don’t you ask her instead of speculating/worrying about it?
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:32 PM
2

The Capitol. Look for the angry one named AOC. Tell her you love taxes.
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:30 PM
1

What do you say to this girl in person?
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:12 AM
1

Do this in person not over the phone.
/r/seduction07/10/21 10:43 PM
1

Maybe 🤷🏻‍♂️ agree to disagree. If it works for you then fantastic. I still think it’s a mistake.
/r/seduction07/10/21 10:28 PM
4

I disagree. It’s a mans place to court a woman and that’s a huge part of attraction and seduction. How many girls go up to guys and ask them out? Not many. It happens but it’s the exception more than the rule. I think a lot of guys want a girl to ask them out or want a girl to text/ call them first bc it takes the pressure off of them. They just don’t want to be uncomfortable and are afraid of risk.
/r/seduction07/10/21 10:14 PM
3

Ask for her number. Take control of the situation.
/r/seduction07/10/21 10:04 PM
2

Flirt.
/r/seduction07/10/21 04:38 PM
402

They are shy. They fear rejection just like men.
/r/seduction07/10/21 02:28 PM
3

Shoot your shot, playa.
/r/seduction07/10/21 02:22 PM
3

Work on yourself. Why are you too shy to have a conversation with classmates? (Rhetorical question) Build your confidence. Set goals for yourself and work on them. All of this will pay off in the long run way more than wasting your time with a girl who isn’t giving you the time of day.
/r/seduction07/10/21 02:21 PM
1

Go up to her in class or at lunch and introduce yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:31 PM
6

Be yourself and see what results you get. There are women who just want to fuck too. You’ll definitely get turned down a lot but just be straight up with what you want. “I’m not looking for anything serious” “I’m just looking for FWB” Etc.
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:26 PM
2

I think you’ve got a good approach. I like to save convo for the date. Too much texting sets the wrong tone. Random texts like you suggested are too much at this stage in the game (imo).
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:06 AM
2

After kino look up push/ pull.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:47 PM
1

You’ve gotta be more clever than “how’s your day going”.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:41 PM
2

Do it more often until you’ve mastered it.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:39 PM
1

Wait for her to get stuck under her bed or, even better, wait for her to get stuck in the kitchen sink. The rest should come naturally. That’s how they do it in the “movies” anyway.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:39 PM
1

Yes, you come off as extremely needy and someone who has put her on a pedestal. You haven’t even seen her. She turned down your video chat without even acknowledging it. Move on. Talk to women in real life. Put the Xbox controller down.
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:26 PM
3

You’re wasting your time. She literally lives on the other side of the country.
/r/seduction06/10/21 08:46 PM
17

Lmao. I really do hope it works out for you. Time to man up.
/r/seduction06/10/21 07:14 PM
56

You don’t ask a fish how to fish, right? Don’t listen to females for advice on how to pick up women. I bet you end up DMing her on IG because you don’t have the balls to do it in person. Prove me wrong.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:24 PM
74

You are putting way too much thought into this and honestly it just sounds like you’re making up excuses because asking her out is going to make you uncomfortable.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:07 PM
66

Wait afterwards and ask her out. She either says yes or no. If it’s no, who gives a fuck. You shot your shot and are living life with no regrets. That’s attractive.
/r/seduction06/10/21 03:59 PM
224

Ask her in person.
/r/seduction06/10/21 03:04 PM
1

I don’t think that way. I’ll take the loss when I’m dead.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:01 PM
3

If you haven’t talked to one another about being exclusive then you should date more women.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:00 PM
1

Go to therapy. Work on your insecurities.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:40 AM
1

In her defense, you aren’t exclusive. Tell her you want to be more serious. If she rejects you then at least you know you haven’t found what you’re looking for and can move on.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:39 AM
1

Work on yourself man.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:32 AM
2

That is 100% a limiting belief. Hard truth: you’re making excuses for yourself to make yourself feel better about not getting results.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:28 AM
2

She’s good but wants to know why you’re letting some fat old dude catfish you. You even know it yourself. She blatantly ignored your offer at a snap call. Which local news should we watch to catch the rest of this story or should we just wait for the Netflix doc?
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:25 AM
4

Don’t limit yourself to one girl unless you are seeing one another exclusively.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:20 AM
1

What does this even mean? You said you saw “ONE” couple but then proceeded to say it could have been a close friend?? You literally proved my point. Limiting belief. It’s all in your head.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:17 AM
1

Ya man for sure. You’ll have to let us know how Larrys basement is!
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:12 AM
1

If you want to be serious with her, tell her that (sober). If not, what’s the big deal? Talk to other women.
/r/seduction06/10/21 11:00 AM
1

What is better than to be called King?
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:57 AM
1

Exactly. If you want something, go for it. What the fuck do you need a cheerleader for? LFG.
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:56 AM
0

Stopped reading after you said “met a girl on Xbox”
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:54 AM
1

Laughing is a good thing and it’s a foot in the door. Plenty of time to escalate once you go on an actual date. I’d take them over your avg PUA any day.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:43 AM
1

They aren’t pick up artists. They are funny / charismatic guys who consistently land girls numbers. Why make things harder on yourself when you can copy their approach and get results?
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:34 AM
1

You just need to ask her out on a date. Too much texting back and forth usually leads to the friendzone if you fail to escalate (which you’re doing by not asking her out). Idk where you live but ask her to do something this week after school/work and be direct and have a plan. Don’t just ask her to hang out.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:32 AM
1

Don’t use that first one as your main pic. Use the Walgreens one for that. It’s fun and interesting. Def use #5 Don’t use 7-9 Go with 2B Go with 3A Skip 3B
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:25 AM
5

I doubt it man. Find someone that shares the same problem (herpes) and see how you feel with them.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:12 AM
5

I feel like there’s gotta be a dating app tailored for similar people no?
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:51 PM
24

…And fall into a pattern of doing this same thing every time. She won’t be the last. Go for it.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:41 PM
9

Take me homeeee, to the placeeee, I belongggg West Virginiaaaa
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:39 PM
2

Get into therapy man. It’s super beneficial and it sounds like you need an outlet. I’ve been going for 2 years. Best decision ive made.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:38 PM
5

Therapy is what I would recommend. Seems you keep getting kicked out of things or end up in arguments. A therapist is a professional. What did you do to get kicked out of the armed forces?
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:35 PM
22

So wait, do you have herpes or no?
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:33 PM
3

Talk to more women. If you’re texting / dating 3-5 girls at once you will see. This is easier than ever with dating apps.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:32 PM
9

That’s non sense
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:29 PM
20

One Shady dude
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:15 PM
74

A wise man once said “Hit that shit raw dog and then bail.”
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:43 PM
3

You don’t know that. So don’t think it.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:33 PM
2

Don’t put them all in the same bucket. I’m sure there’s a few cool ones.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:32 PM
8

It happens bro. Another chance will come along. At the end of the convo, just say “would you want to hang out sometime?” She says yes, you get her number. She says no, you say “take it as a compliment” and you go on with your life.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:26 PM
0

Greek Life: paying for friends. Nah Jk I get it. It’s an easy way to meet people. Try clubs or girls in your classes instead.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:17 PM
7

The guys who do it for fun. ThatWasEpic The angry picnic guy, Cody? Steven Schapiro
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:06 PM
3

Think of online dating as window shopping. That’s really what it is. I think most people have better success in person (if they actually try and talk to women).
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:02 PM
4

I think this is mostly a limiting belief. Sure, women want a taller guy but have you seen anyone who is as tall as you or even shorter with a partner? If the answer is yes, then it is possible.
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:56 PM
2

Charisma and charm are easy ways to get someone’s attention.
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:05 PM
2

Stop doing that. Next text you send her should be something like this: “Hey are you free Tuesday at 6? I know a great spot for Tacos and it has the best view”. ^ dont over think this either. It can be anything. Make it appealing. If she replies yes then say “ok sounds great!” Text her again the day of and confirm you are still on. That’s all the texting you need to do at this stage everything else save for in person.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:47 PM
7

Do not have 3hour convos with her over text. That should be done in person where you can build attraction. Texting over the phone for 3 hours builds the friendzone.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:19 PM
24

If it’s that big of a deal, which I get, just go bang an escort. She’s probably better in bed than 80% of the women you’ll encounter in your entire life. I’ll prob get down votes for this but fat chicks are usually way easier to seduce. Try that.
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:03 PM
317

Shoot your shot more often. Make your appearance the best it possibly can be (clothing, haircut, smile, etc). Go to the gym and lift weights. Keep trying and never give up. It’s a numbers game.
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:19 AM
5

No, fuck him. You’re doing something he doesn’t have the balls to do so he’s projecting and telling you to stop. You can not be creepy and cold approach women.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:26 AM
1

I personally only use the phone to set up the date. If she texts me afterwards I’ll engage but save the convo for in person.
/r/seduction03/10/21 06:06 PM
8

It’s over. Move on.
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:19 PM
9

In her defense you said something stupid first. I won’t respond at this point.
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:20 PM
1

Start small, walk up to the next stranger you see and ask if they have the time. “Hey I left my phone in the car, do you have the time?” Start small. Build confidence.
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:13 PM
3

I don’t think you should approach a girl at the gym but if you insist do it while she’s on her way out.
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:28 AM
12

Hi (her name) this is (your name) from (bar name). Are you free on Tuesday? I know a great spot for tacos and margaritas. Don’t overthink it. Shoot your shot.
/r/seduction03/10/21 04:03 AM
12

Reach out to her tomorrow (Sunday) and set up a date for next week.
/r/seduction03/10/21 03:40 AM
1

The only thing you can do is work on it. There are plenty of YouTube videos that can help with approaching women. Focus on improving yourself while mastering the craft. Join the gym, get in shape, work on the things you can control.
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:31 AM
3

Just do it.
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:12 PM
1

Google, “ego death”.
/r/seduction02/10/21 09:48 PM
13

Every woman is different. Be yourself, see if there’s a connection, if there is use what you know to get you where you want to be.
/r/seduction02/10/21 09:48 PM
1

Magic mushrooms has entered the chat
/r/seduction02/10/21 09:38 PM
16

Rejection is a good thing. The more you are exposed to it the less you will fear it. That goes for most things in life too. Example: public speaking
/r/seduction02/10/21 09:37 PM
71

Treat her like any other woman. You’re not THAT much younger than her.
/r/seduction02/10/21 09:36 PM
28

Wow, you’re a douche.
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:52 PM
6

This! You’re just making an excuse to Make yourself feel better about not trying hard enough.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:57 PM
2

Do you bro, I like to get to the point and not waste time. Especially if there’s a chance she isn’t interested. She either is or isn’t.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:29 PM
7

What do you have to lose? Hit her back but with a clear and concise plan to hang out. If she doesn’t reply then move on.
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:57 PM
76

Try and escalate and see how things go. If she’s receptive to physical touch then you might be ok. If she shuts it down then you’re friendzoned.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:16 PM
1

Slow down amigo. First, make sure she’s into you. Ask her out on a date. Introduce some subtle physical touch and see how she reacts. If she reacts well, then you can probably try and kiss her. If she doesn’t react well, then do not kiss her. Plenty of YouTube videos that will Go over physical touch.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:03 AM
6

Ask her out on a date.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:00 AM
0

Older women are the best FWB.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:59 AM
10

Remove yourself from the situation and swap in your best friend. What would you advise him to do about a chick who has a BF of 3 years and is sending “sexy pics” to other guys? You know the answer bro. Think with your big head not the little one.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:54 AM
2

Maybe Reena knew Tisha liked you and didn’t want to upset her friend. As to why she’s reaching out now, maybe she doesn’t care anymore or thinks Tisha is on to someone new.
/r/seduction30/09/21 09:56 PM
1

Explain
/r/seduction30/09/21 09:24 PM
2

Thats gonna be a no from me dawg
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:42 PM
1

I take it you aren’t interested in being friends? If that’s the case, tell her you’re not interested in being friends. She might get mad but just say sorry and move on with your life.
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:42 PM
253

Learn from it and move on. It happens bro. Congrats on losing your v card.
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:26 PM
1

Indeed my friend. It’s a land of misfits but you will find the occasional diamond in the rough. Loads of older women too.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:41 PM
1

USA
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:35 PM
1

If you want something that specific I suggest Tinder or Facebook dating. That is where I’ve found the most DTF women. Bumble/Hinge you can find a random here and there but mostly relationships.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:43 AM
7

You need more hobbies. You aren’t busy enough.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:14 AM
3

Go talk to her. Now.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:11 AM
3

Stop texting her. Talk to her in person. Go from there. She’s prob shy.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:10 AM
16

Personality. How do you achieve a better personality? Have more life experiences. Travel. Be spontaneous. Talk to older people and learn from their mistakes and successes. Make your own mistakes. Grow from them.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:09 AM
2

Just ask her out bro. Don’t over think it.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:04 AM
2

Sounds toxic AF. Leave her in the dust and move on brother.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:13 AM
8

Yes, women are attracted to men.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:11 AM
8

Tell your man friend to hit the gym and work on his chicken legs so one day he can lift you up and have his way with you.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:09 AM
3

Don’t say that. Use texting as a way to set up a date. When’s the next time you work with her? Suggest a drink or bite to eat after.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:48 AM
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I personally won’t see her again if you don’t want to be friends.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:03 AM
3

You’re young. Hit the gym. Fall in love with the weight room. That’ll pay off for you down the road. Especially for attraction.
/r/seduction30/09/21 01:00 AM
2

You’re literally…here.
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:55 AM
1

Don’t discuss game with her. Next time she DMs you based off your story, find a way to ask her out again. She will either say yes or she will say no or not reply. Either way you can get your answer and move on.
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:38 AM
1

Who cares about losing frame or whatever that means. This boils down to your emotions and being able to control them. Next time that happens, instead of saying, “yo you good man?” Say something funny like “ooo daddy” look at your friends or girl you are with, smile, and keep walking. If people are always picking fights with you it’s because you make them insecure. Not your fault. That said, I hope you know how to fight. Maybe take up a boxing class or BJJ. BJJ is what I would recommend. It will …
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:29 AM
2

DMs are thirst traps. They rarely work out. Better odds via text or phone call.
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:12 PM
27

Reading too much into it.
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:45 PM
1

He’s great too!
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:25 PM
3

Go to YouTube, search “ThatWasEpic” and you can see plenty of examples of how to cold approach women. There are other channels too. The truth of it is, it doesn’t matter what you say. It’s how you say it. Your vibe or energy is what matters. Be fun, casual, and not so serious. Sure, you’ll have girls who don’t reciprocate… on to the next one.
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:53 PM
3

Just be yourself. I’ve talked to plenty of black women before and you’d be surprised at how easy it is. Be interesting, funny, and don’t be afraid to address the elephant in the room.
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:46 PM
2

Karen has entered the chat
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:45 PM
2

Yes.
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:42 PM
19

Nice job approaching. That’s a big first step. I would advise to stop getting IG handles. Focus on numbers. The intention behind getting a number should be to set up the date. Do not text her for conversation. Save that for the date. After you get a number, wait a day, text her and see if she wants to go on a date. Some will ghost you and some will reply. That’s the game of getting numbers from strangers. If you want more ideas on how to cold approach girls, ThatWasEpic is a good channel to watc…
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:41 PM
3

💪🏼💪🏼
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:55 AM
1

And there is your problem. You have the mindset that this is all taking place over the phone. It should be in person where you can best build attraction.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:54 AM
2

Like any conversation, it’s what you make it. If you ask her, “what do you like to do for fun?” And she says, “I like to hike and do yoga” you can say, “oh I like to hike as well. Where’s your favorite place to go around here?” That convo could go on for as long as you want. Then you can transition to yoga. “You like yoga you said? I’ve never done it, isn’t that for like free spirited hippies?” And you say that last part sarcastically. This is called sarcasm. And before you reply with “I don’t h…
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:42 AM
1

Of course they do. They go on a date to learn about you. To see if you are a potential partner. If you share things of interest, that’s a good thing. Maybe you’re just not that interesting? 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:31 AM
46

Kiss her. Lead her to the bed. Lift her up if you have to. If you can’t lift her up, go to the gym chicken legs.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:28 AM
4

So why don’t you talk about your hobbies with this girl you struggle maintaining a conversation with?
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:25 AM
1

Go spend $20 on a costume at the store. Get something playful and funny. Doesn’t have to be elaborate. It’ll be easier and make you stress less.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:18 AM
5

If you have nothing to talk about (other than sex) it sounds like you need some new hobbies, some new life experiences, and should probably lay off PornHub for a bit.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:12 AM
2

“Charge it to the game” … this guy fucks!
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:26 AM
1

Well we know what’s in your search history 🤣
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:04 AM
1

Can you wear contacts?
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:02 AM
5

Don’t message her again unless she messages you. If she wants to go out she will text you again. If not, then your suspicions are right (she’s not interested). Don’t super like girls on those apps.
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:59 AM
4

If that happens again, shake her hand but tickle her palm with your finger while shaking. It’s a hail mary but might make her laugh and get you closer to attraction. Long shot for sure though. Might be best to move on.
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:22 PM
1

Couldn’t disagree more. Coaches give you fluff that you throw at a girl. Eventually you’ll run dry of things to say. You want to feel confident? Work on yourself. Figure out your emotions. Work on being a better you and working toward your goals. That type of change attracts people of the same wave length. Therapy is a much cheaper and smarter option than some PUA who is going to tell you stupid one liners or tricks. The gym will transform your body and make you more attractive. Also make you fe…
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:13 PM
4

This guy nailed it. Coaches are a waste.
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:58 PM
1

Once you go black, you don’t go back.
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:57 PM
1

YouTube search: ThatWasEpic
/r/seduction28/09/21 05:47 PM
2

Be funny. That’s it.
/r/seduction28/09/21 05:35 PM
5

Why are you in a hurry? Asking for a # in the first line is not going to work out in most cases. You’re a stranger. At least chat her up a bit. Plenty of goofy YouTube videos that you can steal lines from. Check out “ThatWasEpic”.
/r/seduction28/09/21 03:46 PM
0

Post pics from your profile. You can put emojis over your face or color it out. We can critique.
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:36 PM
12

Nice job man. Whether you realize it or not, you put yourself in an extremely uncomfortable situation. You will grow from this experience and none of these people you will A) see again or B) if you do they won’t remember. I see this as a win. The more you grow the better and more confident you will be.
/r/seduction26/09/21 12:22 AM
9

Yes, been watching MILF porn since Stifler’s mom.
/r/seduction25/09/21 10:11 PM
2

I don’t think it matters boss. If it does, maybe check out farmersonly for your match.
/r/seduction25/09/21 10:10 PM
1

Your situation is not ideal so I understand you texting her. I feel like she friendzoned you. It was either the communication you had while apart or the vibe in person. Next time escalate. For what it’s worth, it’s pretty impossible to build attraction in this situation. You got further than most guys here would. Gotta figure she sees dudes all day (in and out of the cafe) and she could have simply moved on / is not interested any longer. You’re better off. Long distance sucks and you’ll find so…
/r/seduction25/09/21 01:49 AM
2

Over the two months when you were apart, did you guys talk or text?
/r/seduction25/09/21 01:42 AM
11

“I’m not looking for anything serious right now”. See how she reacts. If she is cool with that, mission accomplished. If she freaks out, time to end it.
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:41 PM
7

Apparently you’ve got all the answers and have already made up your mind.. Ive also wasted enough time during my morning shit. God bless.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:29 AM
6

What goes around comes around my friend.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:20 AM
4

Are you really bragging about touching “above boob area” (so her shoulders??) and touching her legs? Bro, you got it bad. Your sanity is what you have to lose. Any friendship you’ve established with her, will be ruined. Do you man.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:13 AM
5

Let’s look at the facts - she’s been with her BF for SEVEN years. All these “flirty” interactions are mostly your interpretation of the encounter, nothing has happened physically to make you think she’s into you, it’s just your mind which knows you like her (extreme bias). If you want to see if she actually is into you, you need to do one thing. Make her wonder. Stop being available when she texts you, bring around other girls and flirt heavy in her presence with them, ignore her, etc. You are m…
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:06 AM
26

You are over thinking this WAY too much.
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:03 PM
5

These games are so stupid and a waste of time. Do what you want to do. If she doesn’t like it then kick her to the curb. Develop an abundance mentality. YouTube that.
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:42 PM
3

Does the pope shit in the woods?
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:13 PM
2

You need to do what YOU want to do. If you’re okay with just being friends then meet her again. If you’re not okay with that, which it sounds like it is the case, then do not meet her again! If you do and she continues to friendzone you it’s just going to get worse and worse. If you choose to not meet her again, think about your interaction and ask yourself what might have gone wrong. Reflect and grow. There are tons of other women who WANT you, just gotta find them champ.
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:06 PM
1

Enhance your image - make sure you wear a good outfit, smell good, and have a few jokes in your back pocket to break the ice or for awkward moments.
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:57 PM
1

Touch them where they pee
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:41 PM
1

Ya bro post it here, we are all masters of seduction. It’s a requirement for this group.
/r/seduction19/09/21 10:09 PM
2

She’s cheating on her Bf with you. What makes you think she won’t cheat on you? Ask yourself, is this really the best I can do? If the answer is no then move on.
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:33 PM
3

Well, sorry, there is no magical answer. The simple fact of the matter is the more you put yourself in situations that are uncomfortable the more comfortable you will be. You gain confidence. So… fake it till ya make it.
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:26 PM
4

If that’s her response to you asking her out she’s either A) in a relationship or B) not interested. Say, “take it as a compliment” smile and move on.
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:46 PM
1

Fake it till ya make it.
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:51 PM
20

I’d punk them. Order a beer or whatever for yourself and then ask the bartender for 3 shots of water. Give them the shots and walk away.
/r/seduction17/09/21 05:23 PM
1

Terrible advice from the last two people. Comment on something about her profile, make a joke, like the first guy said, you need to stand out. She’s gonna have at least 10 other dudes she found attractive (cuz they did match after all).
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:56 AM
1

Imma say it again, don’t bring up that DM!
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:48 AM
1

Don’t DM her. Get her number. Set up date.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:44 AM
1

So gain weight bro
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:40 AM
2

Yep, mindset is everything.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:37 AM
8

And they say people in this forum don’t get laid! Atta boy!!! 💪🏼🤘🏼🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:31 AM
1

Seduction! It’s a must.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:29 AM
1

If you want to use pick up lines, go for it. I’m not saying it will never work I just think you’ll struggle. Rejection isn’t always bad though. If you want good pick up lines check out “ThatWasEpic” or other social media people like him. He’s got some funny ones. The key is to keep it light and funny.
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:19 PM
9

Does nothing for you. Better yourself and move on. Maybe they come back to see the new and improved you.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:42 PM
1

9/10 dudes who get friendzoned aren’t good with women. Stop lying to yourself.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:32 PM
3

I would advertise it as “I’m looking for something casual” or “I’m looking for a friends with benefits situation”.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:31 PM
7

You are going to have a hard time picking up girls like that. You need to establish some sort of connection with them first. If you do find girls who will let you eat their pussy based off your scenario then I can only imagine what else is being done to that pussy by others.
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:03 PM
1

If you’re getting friendzoned you’re probably not that great with women. Thus, her friends with friendzone you too bc you’ll repeat the same pattern.
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:50 AM
1

Ick. Cringe. Don’t do this lol.
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:08 AM
1

Try hooking up with a less attractive female. Get your v card outta the way and your confidence will go up.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:41 AM
2

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Stop playing games and trying to act a certain way. Be yourself.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:37 AM
2

Ya so there’s a chance she didn’t see it yet but she also could have saw it as a notification on her phone and just ignored it or forgot. I would Re approach in person and see where that gets you. It’s unknown right now. Much more can be told In person (body language is a huge indicator).
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:27 AM
1

Go to the gym
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:22 AM
3

She’s not on your dick. You do care and that’s ok. When you see her in person ask again.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:22 AM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:20 AM
6

You’re a man. Act like one. Ask her for her number and then ask her out.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:16 AM
18

I don’t think it’s great info to share if you want to date. Her either.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:14 AM
1

The friendzone is NOT a place you want to be. Be clear early on that you ain’t there to grab pina colada’s and eat bon bons. Ways to do this: flirt with her, subtle physical touch (like her arm), ask her out at the end of the interaction. Plenty of videos on YouTube about friendzone and how to avoid. Invest time and watch those.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:04 AM
1

Because it doesn’t work. If one girl “friendzones” you her friends will not see your worth, at least as a partner. They will just friendzone you too.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:03 AM
13

Ask her to spot you. Purposely fail your lift so she has to help you. Take it from there.
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:35 AM
1

If you want to pursue her do it. Nothing weird. Be fun but distance will prob be tough. Any cool spots in the middle? She’s young. I don’t know this chick but most young people are immature and green. They haven’t had the life experiences they need to be molded into who they will become. The distance and age would be a pass for me.
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:25 AM
1

Just go for it man. Don’t wait. Take her mini golfing.
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:57 PM
2

Look up push pull techniques on YouTube. Obvi can’t be too harsh.
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:11 PM
2

Send location.
/r/seduction14/09/21 07:47 PM
18

The OPs question is how to boost his confidence. If you are dubbed the king of eating pussy no cock will out duel you. That’s a badddddd man right there.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:21 PM
65

Learn to eat pussy.
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:43 PM
1

Game doesn’t lead to lasting relationships. His approach does. He uses psychology to explain and help men rather than some fake image. But hey, if you want to wear a scarf in the summer and a cowboy hate like mystery go for it.
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:35 AM
2

If you want to be friends with them, then do it. If you’re asking is there some sort of advantage? No.
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:55 AM
1

Put up a Craigslist ad. What could go wrong?
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:46 AM
5

Most major cities in the US.
/r/seduction14/09/21 01:31 AM
1

Well she’s not attracted to you so what do you have to lose?
/r/seduction14/09/21 12:23 AM
0

“That’s ok I don’t date 6s anyway”.
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:59 PM
0

Carrying a on a convo or flow or whatever you mean doesn’t offer a lot in this situation. That’s not “sexy”. Your skills are interesting. I would try to come up with an ice breaker about phones since you can fix them. Make her laugh. Stop looking at your height as a disqualifier. You’re speaking/thinking that into existence. It’s a limiting belief. Look up “Tony Robbins, limiting beliefs” for more.
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:51 PM
2

I have not but sounds simple
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:39 PM
2

Go to YouTube, search Jeff Nippard. Watch all the videos you are interested in. He’s one of the best and offers his PPL routine for free. The comment section lists it out too. Also, Athlean-X is great too. Search on YouTube. I like Nippard more though.
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:36 PM
1

First of all, she’s already super interested in you. She approached you and then hit on you and then asked you for your number…and then text you! Keep that in mind when you’re worrying about what to talk about. Or worrying about anything in general. You literally did nothing and her labias were flapping like an Eagles wings.
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:34 PM
4

It was probably a dude who chickened out and didn’t want to call you.
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:31 PM
1

What value do you bring to others?
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:27 PM
3

How do you wing for one another? Can you explain your approach?
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:21 PM
1

Game is bullshit. Check out “David Tian” on YouTube. He’s a former pick up artist turned men’s coach. He got some great content and calls out “game” and how stupid it is.
/r/seduction13/09/21 12:20 AM
15

Your friend is insecure. Don’t let his limiting beliefs affect you. Go after women you want, if they don’t like you because or something you can’t change then that’s on them. There’s plenty of short guys with taller girls. Come up with a few jokes about your height.
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:16 PM
0

Meeting a Nigerian online…has she asked about your car warranty yet?
/r/seduction11/09/21 08:06 PM
5

Check it out bro. There are some absolute land mines but some decent woman too.
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:11 AM
11

“Grab her by the pussy” - 45th President of the USA
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:16 PM
1

Exactly. Why waste time? Learn both.
/r/seduction09/09/21 06:31 PM
29

Facebook dating
/r/seduction09/09/21 06:00 PM
3

Just do it. If you do, you’ll prove to yourself that you can. This will make your confidence grow. Then, keep doing it.
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:54 PM
3

You slept with active duty military wives? Tell me you’re a scumbag without telling me you’re a scumbag.
/r/seduction09/09/21 04:38 PM
5

Sounds like your views are highly subjective. If you want to make anyone feel comfortable, make jokes and keep it light.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:03 PM
1

Outstanding comparison.
/r/seduction09/09/21 01:17 PM
6

Do you know of any girls that like Indian guys? If so, there’s your answer. You are limiting your beliefs due to a factor you can’t control. Stop yourself from thinking this way. What do you have to offer?
/r/seduction09/09/21 12:41 PM
33

Think of yourself when you were 18. Now look at yourself now. I hope you’ve grown somewhat. I look at myself when I was 18 vs now (31) and couldn’t imagine dating an 18 year old. The shit they don’t know about life is such a turn off. It’s not their fault but they lack those experiences that mold mature human beings. The lowest id probably date is 25.
/r/seduction09/09/21 12:03 PM
26

Diaper sniper
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:35 AM
2

Stop sending them. It could be a dude, a friend trying to punk you, or worse, Chris Hansen.
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:23 PM
3

Love your Reddit name. Two things to say: 1) I know girls who match with dudes they know just to be nice. Not saying this is the case but keep that in the back of your mind. 2) treat her like any other girl you match with. You could make a small joke like, “well, well, well, look who it is 😏” Use tinder to set up date and get phone number. Save “catching up” convo for the date.
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:20 PM
2

Yeah it can be nerve wracking BUT feels amazing when it goes well!
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:39 AM
2

Take a yoga class
/r/seduction08/09/21 01:02 AM
7

Talk to more women, ask more women out, your social skills with women will improve over time and so will your confidence. The more uncomfortable you make yourself the more you will grow.
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:55 AM
2

In the PUA world this is called “screening”.
/r/seduction08/09/21 12:54 AM
1

Yeah that’s a limiting belief, man. Just because “it’s hard for you” and because it makes you uncomfortable, doesn’t mean it’s bad. The more you put yourself into uncomfortable situations the more you will grow.
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:23 PM
1

These are limiting beliefs. You’re assuming your friends don’t get anxious. They do. They might not tell you for one reason or another but I can almost guarantee they are nervous before an interview. You thinking therapy might not help is dumb. Psychotherapy is talking about your emotions and feelings. That is literally what you are doing right now on Reddit. Don’t knock these things till you try them.
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:38 PM
1

Anxiety before a job interview or speech is normal. 9/10 people get anxious before those things. Be careful with medication. Xanax, klonopin, etc are a VERY dangerous drug class. Super addictive and a bitch to get off if you become dependent. Everyone is different but I got off all my anti anxiety meds and depression meds before covid. I started working out and changing myself. Therapy is also a must and SUPER underrated. The more you expose yourself to anxious situations the better you will bec…
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:22 PM
1

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:55 PM
1

Rejection is fuel. Invest that into something to better yourself. Sounds corny AF but it works. Try going to the gym or finding a new hobby that helps you grow.
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:51 PM
1

And develop a nasty habit of going to the gym! Heart break is better than any preworkout.
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:48 PM
2

Her knowing you are interested is not always good my friend. Talk to other women and your feelings will soon fade or she will come back into the picture.
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:46 PM
12

Master the skill of eating Oysters. This will get you laid.
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:42 PM
3

Do not un add, block, or delete her. That shows neediness. You’re acting emotionally. Big turn off for women. Treat it as if it doesn’t bother you. Stop messaging her and wait for her to reach out to you. Chances are she will but if she doesn’t, who cares. Once you interact with more women you will forget her. You are the prize.
/r/seduction06/09/21 04:28 PM
6

If you just want to lose your virginity just fuck a fat chick or a chick below your standards.
/r/seduction05/09/21 03:32 PM
2

The convo was ending and it felt dead. Maybe that’s why she ghosted you? Not trying to be mean bro, just calling a spade a spade. Use this to better yourself. Next chick you land, don’t text so much. Only use texting as a way to set up a date. Save all your convo for the first date.
/r/seduction05/09/21 03:31 PM
2

“I left her on read” and now you’re wondering why she ghosted you. She took your check and hit ya with check mate. Learn from that and just be honest and upfront with what you want. Be more assertive when texting. “Hey I know this great spot for happy hour. How’s Thursday at 5:30 work for you?”
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:36 PM
1

Stop playing games. Say what you want and if she doesn’t like it then move on.
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:29 PM
2

I count intermittent fasting as part of the “diet” convo. Diet is everything my man. Idc how much you run or lift you can’t out work a bad diet.
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:16 AM
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It’s so crazy it just might work 🤞🏼💪🏼
/r/seduction19/07/21 10:16 PM
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That’s fair. Don’t want to be labeled as the creepy guy though, yanno?
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:56 PM
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I don’t see this as meaningless and I don’t think the avg person would. You put yourself out there and then get rejected. Why won’t you care, can you explain?
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:30 PM
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I think it’s human nature to care what others think. We want to be socially accepted. Maybe it would be more helpful if you explained why you don’t care and how you got there….
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:26 PM
1

Oh I thought you meant she was an 8-9 or 10.
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:19 PM
2

No woman is a 10.
/r/seduction19/07/21 02:14 PM
1

Intermittent fasting and cardio and/or weight training
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:43 AM
8

Ice in his veins!!!!
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:20 AM
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I think it really depends on what you’re saying. They are prob curious and the convo isn’t making flip the switch.
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:19 AM
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Wait until fall and then ask her how her fall is going
/r/seduction19/07/21 01:16 AM
1

learn sarcasm
/r/seduction23/06/21 06:07 PM
2

Start wearing a MAGA hat and talk about Ben Shapiro. That should do the trick.
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:27 PM
11

No, women love fat guys. Eat more pizza bro.
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:24 AM
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How to get rid of your ego: Mushrooms.
/r/seduction09/03/21 02:57 AM
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Quick life lesson my friend, search for situation that make you uncomfortable. Your ex makes you feel comfortable or safe. That’s why you went back to her. Put yourself out there and get a little uncomfortable. That’s when you grow. Set some goals for yourself and chase them religiously. Learn new hobbies.
/r/seduction01/02/21 01:18 AM
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No More Mr. Nice Guy by Alice Cooper is better! 🤘🏼
/r/seduction01/02/21 01:15 AM
1

Do you set goals? If so what are they. That should be your focus. Stay busy and work on yourself.
/r/seduction01/02/21 01:12 AM
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I’m going to tell you something that I wish I knew at your age. Being uncomfortable makes you grow in life. You should run toward things that make you suffer.
/r/seduction04/12/19 03:03 AM
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Do this: Shave your head. Go bald. Embrace it dude. Plenty of bad mother fukas are bald and get laid. Do this: Hit the gym. Find a good routine and stick to it. Put on muscle and become buffer and girls will follow. Do this: Invest in yourself. I can tell from the brief post above that you need to figure out your emotions. Get into counseling or therapy. It will make this all happen and click for you much faster. Read self help books. Rewire your brain and change your negative mindset. Mindset i…
/r/seduction04/12/19 01:18 AM
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"Never stop. Never settle." - Nas Do not change who you approach. The problem is not them. If there is a problem, it is you. My suggestion would be to lose the lines. You are performing when all you have to do is say how you feel. "Hi, I saw you from across the campus and wanted to let you know Jeffery Epstein didn't kill himself".
/r/seduction04/12/19 01:08 AM
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I congratulate you on having the balls to tell her you are a virgin. I know several people that would probably lie about their experience. That said, I would avoid doing this again. You come off as needy in this convo - you just want to get laid. There is nothing wrong with wanting that but I think you need to think of more clever ways to introduce this AND, again, avoid telling her you are a virgin.
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:49 AM
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I have to agree with some of the others. Stay away from girls at work. If this ends poorly for you, which it is more likely to, you could lose your job for some BS sexual harassment. Don't ever let a girl get in the way of your cash flow (there's definitely a rap song for this).
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:39 AM
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