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Lol who cares. Meetups are for the rejects of society. Only losers go to that shit. If you want to meet girls then go meet girls. You dont need meetup.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 03:09 AM
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Excuses. IOIs are a buffer for rejection. It's mental gymnastic for men who can't handle rejections. Let's say there's a girl reading a book outside of a coffee shop. Completely gorgeous. Just your type. But she's reading her book. She doesn't even know you exist. Are you not gonna approach now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:52 PM
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If you only approach when there's IOIs, you'll miss 99% of opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:39 AM
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10% success rate is extremely fucking high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:19 AM
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Because you failed at dating in the USA?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:23 AM
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Competition is far more fierce in the West because of feminism. Women are equal to men. Women can make their own money these days which makes them less reliant on men which in turn gives them more freedom in their mating choices. So now if you want to compete in the West as a guy, you need to step your game up even more so than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:21 AM
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I don't consider anything. Women dictate who the high value men are just as men dictate who the high value women are. Women are drawn to money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:19 AM
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The passport bros fail to attract the same quality of women in America that's the reason. It's okay if you want to do that but quit trying to protect your ego thinking it's because there are no good women in the west. There are plenty of high quality, attractive, pleasant, agreeable women. You just can't attract them. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:16 AM
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No, it's just an easy example of a group of people with money and status that will never struggle with dating. Other examples are lawyers, doctors, engineers, sales leaders, consultants, investment banker, private equity, entrepreneurs. White collar jobs got the money aspect covered but not always the status. Status is important too. If you're a incel software engineer making 500k/year, you're still a loser. You're just a rich loser. Now if you're a software engineer who's fashionable, charismat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:41 AM
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There are PLENTY of high quality attractive women in the USA. They just only fuck with the top 10-20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:32 AM
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Name one A list celebrity, rapper, musician, artist, or athlete that has to go to a third world country to get women. The reason I'm using celebrities, rappers, and athletes as an example is because they have STATUS and MONEY. You can have money and still be a loser and then you'll end up going to thailand. Men with money and status don't need to go to a third world country to get women. Young, attractive, feminine, high quality women exist in the USA. Low value men just can't get these girls in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:30 AM
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Lmao high value men do not have to go to a third world country to attract women. The guys who do are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:28 AM
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If those are your only options then it really reflects more on you than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:32 AM
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Lol. Stop watching porn and get off instagram and you won’t have a problem. I’ve still very attracted to how girls actually are in person. I don’t watch porn and I removed all thirst traps from my IG. I barely go on IG actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:12 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:00 PM
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Eharmony is closer to 50/50 but who the fuck is using eharmony. That’s boomer as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:50 PM
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Hinge has 36% women. Bumble is 33% women. Tinder is 25% women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:49 PM
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I met them in real life. Clubs and bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:40 PM
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75% of OLD users are men. What does this mean? Majority of girls arent even on OLD. I have 3 FWBs and theyre all not on OLD. If you rely on OLD to meet women, youre missing out on a huge majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:49 AM
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Women want sugar daddies because they want MONEY. Plain and simple. Do you think a trust fund princess would ever want a sugar daddy? No. It’s sex work at the end of the day. No girl would do sex work if they had a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:38 PM
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It’s just prostitution with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:32 PM
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Stop using celebrities as an example
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 10:02 PM
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Bro youre literally name calling in every other post. You’re here using the word idiot like you just learned it. You sound like a child.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 09:59 PM
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Doctors have achieved success in life. Lawyers, Major partners at consulting firms and banking firms too. But you just so happened to mentioned the celebrities. Why? Oh it’s because they succeed with women because they have STATUS. Money and career does not guarantee status. The boss or the employee? That depends. The boss of a plumbing company or the doctor who’s an employee of the hospital. Being the boss doesn’t mean you make more money. There are plenty of employees who make more money than …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 09:27 PM
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Oh please do tell us about this advanced game you speak of. So far it just seems like “focus on money and career” and the girls will come. No that’s not how it works. If you want to focus on money and career that’s fine. But some men already have that in abundance so now they want to pursue cold approach because it’s a sport for them. I’ve met wings ranging from 300k/year income to 7-8figure net worth individuals. That’s great you don’t care you miss out. I have 3 FWBs and I still want more. Som…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 09:07 PM
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Alright I’ll respond to your post now that I’m settled in at work. The men you reference are literally all celebrities. So your solution is to just be a celebrity? No shit celebrities don’t have to cold approach. You can self improve and achieve all you want, but not everybody is gonna be a celebrity. A great product is useless if there’s nobody knows about it. For example, you can be a 2% body fat jacked doctor who makes 400k/year, owns multiple properties, cars, etc. None of this matters, if g…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:49 PM
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My man. Directly to the source.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:35 PM
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Cold approach isn’t always about pussy. It’s a sport for some people. It’s like hunting. Is hunting always about getting your next meal? No in modern times when you can go to the supermarket. I have 3 active FWBs that I met through cold approach and I still go out for the sake of the game. Some nights I don’t even want to pull and I just want to practice my game. It’s like people who practice the violin or basketball. If you only approach when given IOIs, then you’ll miss out on opportunities. P…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:33 PM
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You asked what high importance men or CEO is cold approaching and Im telling you that my clients all have been hyper successful men: business owners, CEOs, and co founders.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:42 PM
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You know you can do both right. If a girl gives you IOIs then approach. If not and you still want to meet her, you can still approach. These things arent mutually exclusive you know? The fact that youre making so many posts about this makes me think youre just insecure about cold approaching yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:37 PM
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Lol all my clients for cold approach have been hyper successful men including two CEOs and a cofounder.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:28 PM
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Meet more women. Stop worrying about “being confident” or “treat her like a human being” or “having an abundance mentality” or “being the prize”. So many guys worry about inner game concepts such as the ones listed above or theyre focused on what to say, what to talk about, how to act, etc. Theyre so wrapped up about step 20 when they havent even figured out step 1 which is meeting more women. My advice is to meet more women first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:46 PM
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Quickest… probably 20-30 minutes. Happens all the time. I pick up girls at clubs, bars, casinos. Refer to my field reports for more details.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:36 PM
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No lol. Guys who are desperate will wait. Guys who are able to get hella girls wont wait. Why would I spend 4-8 dates with a girl with the hope of her putting out? Thats a massive waste of time for me. I could spend that time with my FWBs who are DTF for sure or new girls who might be DTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:50 AM
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Your post doesn’t make sense. You claim there’s no incentive for men to date but then you don’t explain what the lack of incentives are. You just rant about what you think men have to do in order to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:09 AM
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Tons of traditional women exist in the West. These men who do mail order brides just can’t attract women in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:18 PM
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Look, if you’re a man and you truly don’t care to date and youre HAPPY with a life without romantic interest, then go for it. But don’t cope your way out of dating because MoDeRn WoMeN aInT wOrTh iT. If you want to date and you’re struggling then that’s a problem. Instead of just giving up because it’s hard, you should work towards a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:28 AM
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I failed at OLD which is overwhelmingly based on superficial qualities such as facial symmetry. However I find much more success IRL and with way hotter women. Looks matter but not as much as you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:27 PM
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It depends on the objective. If the objective is to date more people then women don’t need to put in much work. Just exist. If the purpose is to get married with a very high value man then yes women are lazy and ignorant on how to achieve that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:25 PM
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I dont think thats true at all. I would prefer an 8 over two 6s any day. Ive had a large quantity of girls by now, dozens in the last year. Nowadays, I go for quality. Just last night, I knew I could pull a 6 from the club but turned that down. I rather not pull than to pull girls who arent up to my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:19 AM
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Men aint more loyal. Most men just dont have options like modern women do. Men with options tend not to be loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:10 AM
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Most men who struggle with dating is because theyre lazy and take no actions to improve their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:07 AM
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Nah I push for sex asap because I want to have sex and not waste my time. If she aint down by date 2 then Im not interested anymore. I aint gonna potential waste even more time for additional dates when I can use that time to spend with other girls who are down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:05 AM
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The fact that youre deliberating on this tells me you aint confident in who you are as a person.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 04:00 PM
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Rsd tyler is top game. I met him IRL several months ago and he’s like 5 9 max maybe. Not even super tall.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/22 08:17 PM
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Women are down to meet either via social circle, OLD, or cold approach as long as it’s the right guy. If it’s Chris Hemsworth, do you think she cares how she met him? Yall focus is all wrong. You too focus on the avenue of meeting women. Focus on making yourself more attractive instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:12 PM
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IOIs will only severely limit your opportunities. Forget dating, think of this from a business perspective. Do you think successful profitable companies only wait for inbound leads (IOIs) before attempting to sell? No, they reach out to everybody via outbound leads as well (cold approach). Sure the majority of these outbound leads will go no where but nonetheless it is still a vital strategy to be successful for a company.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/22 06:02 AM
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Prime example of why social circle game is inefficient. OLD can be very efficient for traditional good looking guys otherwise it could be even more inefficient than social circle game. I prefer cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:29 AM
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You must be going to really shitty nighttime venues. All the places I go are usually 50% men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:24 AM
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How the media and pornography portrays each type of ethnicity and gender plays a huge role.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 08:40 AM
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No. The vast majority of men regardless of ethnicity struggle on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:44 PM
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If you need a buffer to rejection then just say so.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 09:23 PM
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Ill take $25,000,000 any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:19 AM
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I agree. The gym is only SIGNIFICANTLY helpful for men who have obese or morbidly obese BMIs. If you have a normal BMI, then getting extremely jacked is diminishing returns. You have the right mentality. If men want to attract women, then stop jumping through all these hoops or going to the gym or making hella money. Just go out and meet women and interact with them. Learn the skill attracting women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:20 PM
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Youre going to the wrong nightlife spots. During my peak, I was meeting 300-400 girls a month via night life such as clubs, bars, casinos, street game. I didnt find any luck via OLD so I went out and met girls IRL. It has worked wonderfully ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:13 PM
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They can, just more likely they want that citizenship and/or money compared to france. Gold diggers exist everywhere, but as an America in a third world country, youre more likely to encounter them. You think a guy who struggles to pull 4s in America is all of a sudden pulling 9s in SE asia? You dont think thats suspicious at all? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:48 AM
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No because France isnt a third world country. These passport dudes are aiming for third world countries like thailand, vietnam, PI, columbia, etc. Come on why we playing these games. We all know who I’m talking about. There’s a name for them: sexpats. It’s the guys who failed to get a girl in US and travel to SE asia for sex tourism. I find it pitiful. All that white privilege and they still fail in US lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:11 AM
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Because your leveraging your socioeconomic status? These girls are hoping that one day you might marry them or even support them via your US dollar? Maybe even bring them back to US for citizenship? Isn’t it obvious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:32 AM
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I don’t see what being well off has to do with this. Is your goal to use money to attract women? Do you believe that just because a man makes money, he should have a harem of women? I advocate for men to attract women using their game and personality, not money. I, too, support men enhancing their lives hence why I don’t think they should run away abroad to leverage their socioeconomic status. I encourage them to stay where they’re having adversity and figure out how to overcome such adversity i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:29 AM
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That’s funny you say that because neckbeards are the ones who advocate to go abroad to find a wife since they can’t attract women in their home country. Isn’t that what you advocate for?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:18 AM
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Im glad you took my advice. Thats a little bit better. Could still use some work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:50 PM
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You know you can speak normally right? This is the internet, not the ghetto. You don’t need to put up an act for anybody here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:31 PM
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Born and raised baby. But I see your perspective. Can I run game in Alaska? It would be alot more challenging but what makes it challenging isn’t because of demographics or culture, it’s because of volume. Vegas is good for game not because it’s easier. It’s because it has volume. I could do the same in any big city: LA, NYC, Miami, Chicago, San Diego. I don’t encourage men to go to SE Asia to find love because I think it’s fucking crazy. Men would rather uproot their lives and move to a FOREIGN…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:16 PM
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It’s crazy how men in the west would rationalize moving to a foreign country for pussy instead of just improving their game and ability to attract women. The former seems way more difficult to me but I guess if you can’t let go of your ego then being a betabux in thailand is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:11 PM
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Lol you will always leverage your socioeconomic status in a third world country. You will never truly know if she likes you for you or for the citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:12 PM
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I meet gorgeous women in the USA all the time. Youre doing it wrong if you arent meeting hot girls in USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:10 PM
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Or you can just learn how to attract women in your own country without leveraging money and being a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:26 PM
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A stanford educated SWE is not a reject. If you’re struggling with that title, then it’s YOU who’s the problem. You’re unattractive even with all that going on for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:20 PM
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Reject all you want. I dont have to move to a third world country to attract women. Women in the west can be feminine for the right guy. You are not the right guy it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:16 PM
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Are you guys really rationalizing your inability to attract women in the USA by “wanting a traditional family and legacy”? Strong, attractive, high value men can have a traditional family in the USA. Losers incels cant hence why they want to move to a third world country to leverage their socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:48 PM
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What brand is that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:38 PM
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Yeah…. But that would mean youre insecure for wearing makeup and pushup bras right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:37 PM
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Lol youre trying to do mental gymnastics to make yourself feel better about this. You really think some loser slob white dude who cant get girls in the USA would sudden become attractive just because he goes to thailand? Its all betabux. If you wanna BB, go ahead. But at least accept that its betabuxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:33 PM
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Lmao bro its so betabux. White guys arent going to developed first world countries like taiwan, korea, or japan when they do their sexpatting. They go to third world countries so they can leverage their socioeconomic status. Why would anybody leave their home country if they were able to attract the women they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:12 PM
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Dude… thats no way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:09 AM
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as you type that on your $1000 iphone?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:05 AM
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Gets way more results though. Higher quantity and quality of girls.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 07:24 AM
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Eh, wealth can be made in 1 generation and can be squander in 1 generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:19 AM
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Read my post history and find out yourself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:50 AM
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Yeah I would say being white gives you a slight advantage. But it’s not like being white is all it takes. There are tons of white incels out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:46 AM
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Lolll fuckkkk that. Why would I want to give future generations my money? I’ll put my kids through college and they’re on their own. I’m trying to spend MY money during MY lifetime. And not jsut that, I want to live life when Im YOUNG and vibrant. Fuck driving the new 2023 corvette when I’m 50. I rather do that shit when I’m 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:41 AM
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Youre right. This whole handy thing is negligible. Not a hill im willing to die on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:24 AM
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Hmm I wouldn’t say they want more. 100k/year for a single person is decently comfortable. Will a 100k girl be willing to go through all the bullshit to find a 1million dollar man? I doubt it. People get comfortable and they usually just chill. At 100k/year, the girl will have all her needs taken care of and now she can pursue who she really likes. If she’s that motivated by money, then yes she will want that 500k man but those are gold diggers. Is that the women you want to attract? And I agree,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:08 AM
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Educated, high income 250k/year, assets in 7 figures, white collar professions. And what you mean by frugal then? I dont see how frugal is a flex. Its ok to be a big spender, just make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:54 PM
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Absolutely women want men who make more. I believe in hypergamy. But in western society, money matters less to women because they have the ability to make their own money. For example: A woman who makes 100k/year wouldn’t be too impressed by a guy who makes 300k/year. However, a woman that makes 20k/year would be much more impressed by 300k/year man. Money matters alot for people who don’t have money. But when you cross a certain threshold of income, your bullshit tolerance goes way down. Girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:45 PM
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Most men are not handy. Most men live in urban environments where they don’t need to be handy. That’s the beauty of urban civilization, people become very specialized in their own craft and less jack of all trade. No science to support men are more patient than women. If anything, women go into careers that require more patience such as medicine and education. Problem solvers….? I don’t think theres any science to this one either. Frugal? Lol this is a perk? Fuck a frugal life. Who wants to live…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:40 PM
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Idk what you talking about. Majority of women work and provide for themselves. Also, let’s be real, majority of men aren’t making enough money to provide shit. I personally prefer the current dynamics. Women having their own financial security and not having to rely on men is a good thing for the dating market. It allows women to choose men they truly want to be with. The issue for men is that you just have to be the right guy. No more leveraging your socioeconomic status to attract women. Now, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:26 PM
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Why does this sub care about IOIs? Isn’t this sub about doing whatever the fuck you want. Do you need to ask for permission before speaking to a girl? Before escalating on a girl? Guys who rely on IOIs just need to let go of their ego. They’re relying on IOIs as a buffer for rejection. Take a risk instead. Get more comfortable with uncertainty.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 10:53 PM
3

I find it funny how such an “alpha” sub always talk about IOIs before approaching a girl or escalating. It seems very contradictory to TRP principles to wait for permission which is essentially what waiting for IOIs is. You want to talk to a girl? Just go talk to her. No need to wait for her to give you permission.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 11:42 AM
1

Who cares about IOIs. Why do you need someone to give you permission to do something? Do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 11:37 AM
14

Dude there are unemployed losers with crippling debt, no education, shit credit scores, drug/alcohol abuse that can get girls. The existence of these men disproves your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 11:01 AM
10

Bro trust me, these men who have it all are certainly not entertaining unattractive women with nothing going on in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:56 AM
15

Lol you probably just suck at this. You seem quite uncalibrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:28 AM
14

“to appear too interested” sounds like behaving in a needy way. Don’t be needy bro it’s really that simple. You don’t need acting skills. Quit being so dramatic over something so mundane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:40 AM
11

You can be interested in sex but not behave in a needy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:18 AM
14

Being too interested sounds like neediness or desperate. I mean you literally used the word desperate in your original post. I think women can be just as interested for the right guy. You just need to be the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:12 AM
31

Being interested in sex doesn’t mean you have to be creepy/needy/desperate. I’m very interested in sex with multiple different women but I’m not needy or desperate for any of them. If you have an abundant reality then you wouldn’t be desperate or needy. Imagine you have 3 active FWB, would you ever been needy or desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:06 AM
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Majority of men who struggle with dating is because theyre lazy and put in no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:28 AM
0

So dumb. Dont do anything that has risk and uncertainty is your advice. What a lame ass way to live life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:16 AM
1

Another person who doesnt do cold approach trying to give advice on cold approach lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:14 AM
1

This is such cope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:15 AM
19

Lol are you kidding me? Tons of dudes just settle for whatever girl that falls into their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:14 AM
-8

Read my field reports if you want to learn nightclub game.
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:18 AM
4

Imagine thinking you’re an “intellectual” but writing such a retarded post lmao. Such a poorly thought out argument. Easily debunked by many of the replies already. Legit cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:47 AM
1

Why do you expect women to approach you when youre too much of a pussy to approach women?
/r/seduction01/11/22 02:28 AM
2

That’s one of the downsides of social circle game. If you try to hit on every girl within the social circle, people will become aware of that. I see no point in social circle game. There’s far more effective and efficient methods for dating. By the time you meet one attractive available girl via social circle game, I would have met 20 via cold approach. And this is all without the risk of getting ostracized from a social circle. It’s harder to find good fitting social circle where you’re accepte…
/r/seduction01/11/22 12:49 AM
1

My FWB took me to a house party last night. I saw this gorgeous hispanic looking girl and I wanted to just go up to her and say “hey, youre cute. What’s your name?”. Unfortunately, I couldnt do it. Seemed too disrespectful to my girl.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:56 PM
5

RSD Tyler is bald, white, and a ginger. He's also way shorter than you. I think 5 8 at most. He's probably one of the best PUA in the world. The answer is not hard, you just have to go do it. As for how many? Idk. Nobody knows. There's 100 variables when it comes to game. Just go take action instead of pondering pointless questions.
/r/seduction31/10/22 10:21 AM
2

In the past year? Over 2000.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:51 AM
2

Then get a professional photo shoot with all that money you got lol wtf How you sell a successful business but can’t troubleshoot these basic dating problems
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:55 AM
1

Libraries 😂 These suggestions are so inefficient.
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:53 AM
2

Youre tackling this problem incorrectly. In order to meet the perfect girl for you, you first need to meet and interact with hundreds to even thousands of other girls. Nobody here can tell you where to meet your perfect girl. They dont congregate at any particularly place. Meet tons of women and youll find one that is the best fit for you. Then you gotta be able to attract her.
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:52 AM
3

I mean what makes you high value? Just because you got money? That seems to be the only perk youve mentioned. 5 7 isnt tall and reasonable fit isnt that impressive. OLD probably wont work well for you. I recommend you use your money for a personal trainer, professional photos, and a dating coach. Try meeting women IRL.
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:49 AM
2

These questions are so… pointless. Some girls are okay with x approach, some are okay with y approach, some don’t want to be approached at all. Who fucking knows. Just approach and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:29 AM
-2

No, that’s not the most successful way, that’s just what majority of people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:27 AM
1

This advice is bad because by the time you find one of these rare opportunities of “warm” approaching, you’ll come to the realization that you’ve had no practice and no idea what you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:26 AM
-1

Put her on ice for 2 weeks then booty call her at 1am only.
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:23 PM
5

Ooof youre about to learn a hard lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:15 AM
3

So you’re gonna import a GF/wife because you can’t find one in America? Hmm sounds like 90 day fiance…. can’t go tits up I’m sure lol. Like would you be really proud to present a filipina gf/wife who speaks english with a heavy accent to your family and friends?
/r/seduction27/10/22 01:37 AM
8

Yeah but what’s the point? Is that really the kind of women you want as an American? Or are you gonna live in Manilla? These “cheat codes” are pointless because it’s not practical.
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:23 PM
11

Sounds like a whole bunch of excuses. Refer to my field reports. Ive approached thousands of girls at bars, clubs, casinos, the street.
/r/seduction25/10/22 08:08 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 09:06 PM
13

Or just dont use OLD if it aint working for you. I stopped OLD and only do cold approach now. I sleep with more and hotter girls by meeting them IRL. Just tonight, I was dancing with this tall blonde girl (taller than me) who I would have never matched with via OLD. She kept saying how attractive she thought I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:43 PM
-1

Expect im not that socially retarded and can very clearly tell when women don't like me and it just brings down my mood even more
/r/seduction24/10/22 10:00 AM
2

No, dating apps are trash for the great majority of guys. Protecting your ego isnt the same as getting results. Most men dont get results because they value their egos more than their dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:14 AM
0

The inability to register certain emotions can be advantageous in game. Emotions such as shame, embarrassment, regret. You can approach a group of 10 girls and get blown out without being phased. Many PUAs, myself included, aspire to reach that level of zen/inner game.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:39 AM
4

Yeah because dudes are thirsty and that’s the path of least resistance. It’s so easy and convenient swiping behind a phone. It’s a huge buffer for rejection too which shelter dudes with fragile egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:19 AM
0

Not true at all. I’ve known mildly autistic guys who pull alot. Mild autism can be advantageous for game.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:18 AM
1

Then move. Doesn’t matter how tight your game is or if you look like chris hemsworth when theres no girls around.
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:29 PM
1

I started game in Vegas but any city with 1m population could do. Even 500k population. I’m more attractive now than before I started game because I put more effort into my looks but regardless, I’m still the same person. Same facial structure, same height, same body.
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:48 PM
1

Absolutely. Same here bro.
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:24 PM
1

I give girls a 2 date rule. If she aint fucking by date 2 then Im out. With that said, never needed to implement this rule since I started game. I always smash on first dates.
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:23 PM
2

OLD can be more effective and efficient but most guys never reach that point. It’s a very superficial game with OLD so you gotta follow rules 1 and 2 first. I found my greatest success via IRL cold approach as well.
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:53 PM
1

What’s the purpose of this question? Are you gonna approach if it’s an IOIs? If so then are you only gonna approach girls who give you IOIs? How about you just approach regadless of IOIs.
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:17 PM
28

Meh, college doesn’t have to be costly. If you’re smart enough to go to a top tier university, they tend to give you scholarships just based on merit. If not, you can also attend a no name school in state school that’s still decent. For example, ASU or UofA. ASU is 11.3k for in state in 2022. That’s pretty fucking cheap. With minor scholarships, you can lower that price even more. Probably graduate with less than 30k in debt. Basically, just go to an in state school, every state has one. Definit…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/22 08:48 PM
2

Wtf are you talking about. You asked “so youre ugly” and I answered. At the time I was struggling, I was down for casual sex or relationships because I had no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:17 AM
2

No. I used to think I was like a 5 or 6 but now Im more confident, likely due to my success with 100+ of women in the past year. Action leads to results and results feed ego. Ego will in turn feed results.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:06 AM
1

I personally make well over 200k and work 42 hours a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:57 AM
2

Lol you dont know the right people or the right career paths.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:56 AM
1

You cant find a partner for relationships or sex if you arent meeting girls. I wasnt able to meet women. OLD didnt work and all other methods werent working either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:21 AM
1

Lol you put too much emphasis on wealth. Youre just gonna attract gold diggers. You dont need money to attract women. Theyre fucking broke losers for free all the time. Youre just setting yourself up for simp nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:50 PM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:44 PM
1

You dont need money to attract women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:43 PM
2

Bro what careers are you talking about lol. I know tons of 200k+ careers that work 40 hours a week. The white collar careers that require 80 hours a week make like 600k+
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:41 PM
3

I was on bumble, tinder, hinge, going to hiphop dance classes, meetup groups. Bro I tried all the alternative methods. It didnt work. So I said fuck it, lets just go directly to the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:34 PM
4

15 girls minimum per night. 4-5 nights a week. You do the math. Go read my field reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:29 PM
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I met them at clubs, bars, casinos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:04 PM
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Quite the opposite of me. Im able to attract and sleep with way hotter girls via cold approach. I would never match with some of the girls Ive slept with via cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:54 PM
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Thats because you only pursue dating via OLD. I pursue dating IRL and have slept with dozens of girls in the last 13 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:53 PM
2

I was desperately trying to date and failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:50 PM
5

Lol no it means just go meet and interact with more girls. All the career, money, gym, education, rock climbing, yoga, salsa dancing aint gonna mean shit if you don’t meet more women. During my peak, I was meeting 300-400 girls a month. Guys always want these alternative methods of meeting women. They want to meet them through x y z because it’s “organic”. But the real reason they want to jump through all these hoops to meet women is because they want a buffer against rejection. You don’t need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:50 AM
8

Of course people should do whatever they want. It doesnt make it any less retarded. Just like not getting vaccinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:22 AM
1

This aint news. Look at vanilla OLD. Don’t even think about fetlife. Just basic ass OLD, women have a huge advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:50 AM
8

Everybody should enforce condoms. I’m a guy and I try to use condoms with my girls as consistently as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:46 AM
13

Always wear a condom you degenerates. Jesus christ what is with you kids these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:42 AM
13

Thats a retarded mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:42 AM
10

This isn’t true at all. I was making 40k per MONTH in NYC, fit with visible muscle, educated with masters degree, solid white collar professional career and I struggled with dating. My struggles weren’t because I wasn’t living a good life, it was because I didn’t take actions in improving my dating life. I do far better now with dating because I took immense action in improving my dating life. I make far less money than I did a year ago. I’m in worse shape because I rarely gym anymore. Most men …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:26 AM
5

LMAO You are the definition of down bad. Please quit being a loser simp. Men who pay for porn are on another level of pathetic.
/r/seduction20/10/22 04:03 PM
9

Battle of the Ads
/r/seduction20/10/22 04:28 AM
2

I pull girls from clubs all the time. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:20 PM
-1

Your focus is so wrong. Why do you care about IOIs? Who knows if it was an IOI or not. IOI is such a fucking retarded concept made up by losers who cant approach/handle rejection. Its a buffer to rejection. Thats it.
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:19 AM
3

The autism is strong with this post.
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:58 AM
1

No but it sure is nice to pull girls to your own place.
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:47 AM
4

Why bring a girl to the club? Thats like bringing sand to the beach.
/r/seduction15/10/22 12:12 AM
101

People will hate no matter what. You go to latin america to game on girls, they call you beta. You do it in vegas, they say it’s shooting fish in a barrel. Like will you fuckers be happy if we ran game in south Dakota?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 08:15 PM
2

Yo do you think it would be helpful to get some outside sales role or part time job where yI simply just interact with strangers? I think that would get the juices flowing for me. Then cold approaching might be 2nd nature
/r/seduction12/10/22 04:22 AM
2

Questions like this serve no purpose. You know the answer to this already. Some girls care, some care less, some don’t care at all. The only way to find out which kind of girl you’re dealing with is to go find out. Go talk to her and find out.
/r/seduction12/10/22 12:15 AM
2

I have sex toys that I always use on new girls. They never complain.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 12:20 PM
2

These are some low standard for a “1% man”.
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:17 PM
1

I tried that as a math tutor in college. I got fired eventually lmao.
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:51 AM
1

Why cant you cold approach when youre out at museums or drinking establishments?
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:49 AM
-5

Quality post. I saved this.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 12:17 AM
4

I dont think youve read any of my field reports lol.
/r/seduction08/10/22 09:26 AM
1

Just cold approach.
/r/seduction08/10/22 09:26 AM
1

I dont have theories. I have answers. I found success at age 28 because I went out 20-25 hours a week with the sole intention of picking up girls.
/r/seduction08/10/22 03:20 AM
3

If i relied on IOI, my lay count would be 0.
/r/seduction08/10/22 12:23 AM
2

Yeah I could make it work in seattle. Not my first choice but if you paid me $500k to work in seattle, I would probably take it.
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:36 AM
-4

What shitpost?
/r/seduction07/10/22 05:33 AM
2

I’ve pulled DOZENS of girls in the last 13 months from night clubs. I’m 5 7.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:21 AM
3

I could do the same in any big city.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:56 AM
1

I found the most success 6 years after college. Hooked up with way more girls at age 28 than I did in the previous 27 years.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:55 AM
2

Im none of those and I find success with cold approach.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:31 AM
0

Eh probably 200. Maybe less. Not as active these days.
/r/seduction07/10/22 01:30 AM
1

This guy has to be a troll. He posted about having a slutty gf a few days ago.
/r/seduction06/10/22 01:57 AM
19

Just say sorry I misinterpreted the situation.
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:58 AM
2

Clubs and bars is night game. Usually whenever alcohol is involved its called night game. But yes, night game is very congruent with cold approach. You are approaching girls in environments where they WANT to be at vs where they HAVE to be at. Girls at malls, grocery stores, gyms, university, might HAVE to be there.
/r/seduction04/10/22 06:32 PM
1

Then youre gonna find it more difficult to succeed. A key component of game is VOLUME. You need a high volume area. How many girls can you approach at the grocery store or the gym? Not as many as you can at the mall.
/r/seduction04/10/22 06:27 PM
0

1 date for 15 approaches lol. Ok chris hemsworth.
/r/seduction04/10/22 06:24 PM
12

So many bad suggestions in the comment section lol. No, the gym and grocery store arent good day game spots. Good places for day game: malls, outdoor malls, board walks, beaches, universities, tourist street such as las vegas strip.
/r/seduction04/10/22 07:48 AM
42

Dude this cant be real lmao. Bro your post history is hilarious. You went from incel to cuck in like 2 weeks 😂
/r/seduction04/10/22 03:44 AM
1

I know it works you 🤡
/r/seduction04/10/22 03:43 AM
1

Tap her shoulder, get her full attention, speak loud, say hi youre cute come dance with me. Or you can hand of god her.
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:23 AM
26

Oh its you. Werent you the one who told me cold approach is for weirdos? Look who found a gf via cold approach.
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:21 AM
65

She aint your girl. She’s our girl.
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:07 AM
2

I cant tell if youre serious or sarcastic
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:04 AM
-1

Frat parties
/r/seduction03/10/22 10:04 AM
3

Just approach regardless of IOIs. IOI is a made up concept by men who are afraid of rejection. It’s just a buffer to rejection. Who knows if she’s giving you IOIs or she’s just staring into space. Who knows if she’s smiling intentionally at you vs she just thought of something funny. If you only approach when you get IOIs then you’ll miss out on countless opportunities. This isn’t theory btw. This is field tested. Guess how many girls I would have hooked up with in the last year if i relied on I…
/r/seduction02/10/22 05:39 AM
2

There’s pros to cons for day game vs night game. It depends on your own personality and your environment. I’ve met wings who do much better with day game than night. I myself do the best with night game. I think night game is more congruent for cold approach just because you’re gaming in an environment where women WANT to be at vs where they have to be at. OLD is not a bad method however it doesn’t work well for the vast majority of guys. OLD is far more superficial than cold approach. With cold…
/r/seduction02/10/22 05:09 AM
1

I’ve slept with dozens of girls within the last 13 months without using OLD. Pure cold approach.
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:41 PM
27

Is sex necessary like water and food? Idk. Probably not. Monks live celibate lives just fine. Could I do it? Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 05:06 AM
96

Because paying for it will never be as fulfilling as a genuine attraction and desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:18 AM
27

Some would argue that the successful and socially calibrated man worked hard to achieve such success and social calibration. In that case, he didnt have it easy. He worked his ass off and now he’s reaping the rewards. Women are born with value. Men must work to create their own value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 12:25 AM
4

The “i have a bf” line isn’t the deciding factor for me. How receptive the girl is is the deciding factor. I’ve had receptive girls tell me they have a bf but they continue to be flirty and touchy with me. I’ve had unreceptive girls who tell me they have a bf and they are just that: unreceptive. Plowing is important when youre new. You should plow just because it’s like playing on veteran mode. It makes you better at verbals and gets you used to uncomfortable and awkward situations. In my experi…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/22 12:17 AM
32

Her dad died? She lost her dog? She had appendicitis? She’s dating justin bieber? Drake slid into her DMs? Idk. Who cares. Take the L and move on.
/r/seduction28/09/22 11:54 PM
1

Yeah, I was kind of depressed when I had no dating prospects.
/r/seduction28/09/22 11:53 PM
20

It’s been a week and she hasn’t texted you? It’s donezo fam. You can try to text her one last time but I doubt this will go anywhere.
/r/seduction28/09/22 11:35 PM
13

See people. Just approach. You never know what could happen. Approaching is the easiest step about pick up tbh.
/r/seduction28/09/22 11:33 PM
3

I go out and meet girls in real life. I don’t do OLD because it doesn’t work for me. OLD can work if you do it right though.
/r/seduction28/09/22 11:19 PM
5

Yes, just assume attraction. Because what’s the alternative? Assume no attraction? How would that benefit you at all? It wouldn’t. Fake it til you make it. You have much deeper issues. You have self limiting beliefs.
/r/seduction28/09/22 11:17 PM
5

So don’t get too caught up on intent vs premise. It’s better game to establish premise without showing high intent but it’s not the end of the world if you can’t do it. Your initial line is…. Average. I think it’s too wordy in my opinion. Less is more if my principle. I think a better alternative would be “Hey I saw you and thought you were cute so I wanted to meet you”. Like asking her if she’s single is kind of pointless. You’re just giving her an easy exit with that question. Your new line is…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 11:15 PM
11

You’ll never get anything in life if you can’t be comfortable with uncertainty. If you only do things because it’s a sure deal then it’ll never be rewarding.
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:09 PM
5

Ok so you’re unhappy with your dating life. What actions are you taking to improve your dating life then?
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:00 PM
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Why is pick up a bad idea? I’ve been doing it for over a year now. Works well for me.
/r/seduction28/09/22 09:59 PM
3

Because she went back to sweden already. The technical terms is just how people who practice game talks. Of course I’m disappointed that I didn’t get to hook up with the swedish girl. How often do I meet swedish girls? Like less than a handful of times during my entire year of game in the most popular tourist city in america.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 09:35 PM
9

Because calling my FRs fiction is easier than accepting the reality that they too can achieve this if they put in the work.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 09:29 PM
2

Oh I will but it’s good to understand the parameters of the game.
/r/seduction28/09/22 07:34 PM
36

Yep. OLD is quite a paradox. Theyre suppose to help you find love yet if they succeed, they lose 2 customers. At the end of the day, their goal is to make money, not help you find love.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:32 PM
29

Unlikely the matches are real. These OLD apps are predatory and only trying to get you to spend more money. You spent money on the travel perk and it gave you a dopamine hit.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:30 PM
1

Yes, youre right. Youre just an incel weirdo who approaches 0 girls your whole life. Thats sooo much better lmao. Let go of your ego man.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:37 AM
150

None of this matters if you don't approach her. She is not going to approach you. Also this is not being true to yourself. If you find her attractive and want to meet her, then approach her. You're just hiding your intentions at this point which can be viewed at mildly manipulative.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:29 AM
1

Said the guy who's never tried.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:24 AM
1

How many girls do you meet a week? There's your problem. I remember you. You think cold approaching women is beneath you, yet you cry about a lackluster sex life. You spend all this money on all these indirect methods of attracting women. You're willing to spend $5000 to buy a fake gf. But you aren't willing to put in the time and effort to do cold approach? You're better off paying a coach $5000 than giving it to some thot to fake her affections.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:23 AM
6

No that’s dumb. Paying for affection will never compared to earning affection. If your goal is to be wanted and desired, then spend that money to improving yourself as a person instead of paying someone to fake it. Why do you do OLD if it sucks? OLD is heavily skewed towards women. The ratio for tinder is 4:1 lol. Go meet girls IRL.
/r/seduction28/09/22 04:34 AM
9

Drunk girls are a liability. I don’t pull drunk girls.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 04:32 AM
1

Oh shit where in mexico? I got time off in Nov and was planning on going to mexico to run some game.
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:36 AM
2

I really gotta give it a shot again. I’ve just been so lazy lol. If I could pull hotter girls with way less effort via OLD, then I think it would really demotivate me to go out anymore lmao.
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:31 AM
3

Dude youre killing it with OLD. If i could murder the game with OLD, I probably wouldnt do cold approach. OLD can be so much more efficient and effective but I feel like it requires you to follow rules 1 and 2. I thought about getting professional photos and giving OLD another shot but I was talking to this asian guy who’s taller and buffer than me and he’s also a photographer. He tells me OLD still sucks even with professional photos. How much of your looks do you think contribute to you succes…
/r/seduction28/09/22 12:04 AM
2

This is why OLD is trash. It’s a 4:1 ratio. It absolutely makes no sense. If you’re trying to find a girl, would you go to venues/clubs/bars where the ratio is 4:1? Lol what a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 11:41 PM
7

I mix it up. I try to be situational whenever possible. So usually when girls appear boring or on their phones while at the club, I would say “you look like youre having the most fun in the club right now”. If theyre wearing glasses, I always use the sexy librarian cold read. If the look very professional and classy instead of slutty, i’ll say they look like the perfect mix of professional and party. Some push pulls would be “you guys look like trouble in the most adorable ways”. Location cold r…
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:35 PM
3

I was quite surprised myself lol. But i’m sure there are starfishes in every culture.
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:09 PM
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Another premise verbal I use is when they ask me about my age, I’ll give a really old age or really young depending on the girl. If she’s a younger girl, I’ll give an very old age like 45yo. Then she’ll be shocked and kinda freak out. Ill then ask her ok so if i was 45, would you not fuck with me? This establishes premise. If she appears older, I’ll give a very young age like 17yo. She will freak out. I will say “it’s ok, I can be your young stallion.” This sexualizes the conversation and essent…
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:10 PM
3

Oh man, it was good. Above avg compared to american girls. Pretty much just like porn lol.
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:07 PM
6

Lol the dude jerks off to onlyfan girls. King Simp shit right there.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 10:05 PM
10

Refer to my other FRs. I’ve pulled other types of girls.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/22 10:04 PM
2

Why cant you get out?
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:15 PM
5

I used to go out 20-25 hours a week with the sole intention of picking up girls. Have you ever tried practicing a skill 20 hours a week for a year?
/r/seduction27/09/22 07:20 AM
6

This is why you struggle with dating. You don't know what cold approach is and you reject it already. You're too closed minded. Go read my FRs. It's all free. Idc to sell anything. I make way more money from my day job.
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:30 AM
3

if onlin dating (OLD) isn't working then why don't you approach IRL? I'm same age as you and started cold approach 13 months ago. I've made out with 100+ girls and slept with dozens in these 13 months. Before cold approach, I also had no luck with OLD. Tried OLD for 8 years on and off with ZERO success. Never met a girl via OLD. This is how I got started: https://www.reddit.com/r/1PercentDating/comments/sagseq/what\_it\_took\_for\_me\_to\_finally\_start\_doing\_cold/
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:22 AM
3

More sad and depressing than always having to masturbate into tissue? More sad and depressing than getting what you truly want in life? You can virtue signal all you want, but at the end of the day, you're the one who's taking time out of your day to cry about how you can't get pussy. I would say your life is sad af. You even admitted yourself.
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:09 AM
1

20 girls a night. 5 days a week. 400 girls a month easily. I have a full time job. Night game is my hobby.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:27 AM
1

Sorry I don't do OLD. You're better off asking someone else.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:16 AM
3

OLD works best if youre good looking and tall. Not everybody won the genetic lottery.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:13 AM
1

You don't. She's not interested. You should build rapport in less than 20 messages and then schedule a date. If she aint down then she aint interested.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:59 AM
1

Then you need to work on your game. And yes obviously move on.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:34 AM
-1

Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:30 AM
0

I do cold approach. During my peak, I was meeting 400 girls a month. I started cold approach 13 months ago and I've documented my journey since day 1. You can go read my field reports and see for yourself. You can see the growth throughout each month.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:29 AM
1

The other guys are able to build attraction. That's what theyre doing differently. Some guys attract women with looks, some with game, some with status, some with money. Different types of girls are into different things. What do you offer? Why should a girl be attracted to you?
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:24 AM
-1

touch her
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:08 AM
1

Not even close to equal chance. By the time you meet one attractive girl who's single via social circle game, I would have met 20 at the minimum via cold approach.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:07 AM
5

How does him lying to you benefit him in any fucking way? The only one who could benefit from his statement is you. God what is wrong with you
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:06 AM
4

Then quit bitching and put in the work to achieve what you want in life. I'm 5'7 and Asian. I tried OLD for 8 years on and off. ZERO results. Never met one girl from OLD. So I said fuck that and put in the work. Now my dating life is lit.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:05 AM
1

So you only pursue things in life that's a sure deal? That's like whats the point of trying to get rich if 99% of businesses fail. What's the point of applying to med school when 98% of applicants get rejected? What's the point of studying computer science when 80% fail out?
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:01 AM
3

You're unhappy about your sex life yet you don't want to put in the effort to improve it...? I don't get the point of this post. You reap what you sow. You're lazy. That's why you don't get laid. Talk about entitlement.
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:59 AM
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Lol they aren't cold and dismissive. They are just cold and dismissive to you because you're not the right guy. For the right guy, she's taking a $60 uber to suck his dick.
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:48 AM
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People are not playing hard to get. They are just not interested. You think she would be "playing hard to get" if it was Justin Bieber texting her? Or Chris Hemsworth? No. Stop the cope. Take the L. Move on.
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:47 AM
2

Nobody is going to volunteer to babysit you. People legit get paid for that shit. If you want to improve, go out solo and start learning from infield experiences. You'll find wings if you go out frequently enough.
/r/seduction27/09/22 12:33 AM
3

It depends on your target audience. Some girls care about looks more, some money/status, some game. If you want to attract women with money, that can work. If you want to be a famous influencer to attract women, that can work as well. Or if you want to attract women purely based on your personality/game, it's possible as well. I have no social media presence but I do well attracting women because of my game. I have somewhat of status/money but I never reveal that during my interactions with wome…
/r/seduction26/09/22 11:26 PM
1

I do solo vegas nightclub game. Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:08 AM
0

Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:06 AM
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Bro, if the clubs I went to were 80-20 men to girls… game over. Aint nobody getting laid. Those girls would be so sick of guys approaching them. Thats how girls on OLD feel. Overload of attention from men. Recently, this dating company held a bootcamp in vegas which caused an influx of 25 pickup guys to be at the clubs. Just an increase of 25 pick up guys made a huge difference in the environment. It wasnt even anywhere near 80/20 even with the extra 25 guys. But girls were getting approached pr…
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:53 PM
0

Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction25/09/22 01:03 PM
1

I think youre projecting.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:54 PM
5

Depends how autistic. Mildly autistic guys tend to excel in cold approach because they just act without registering shame, regret, rejection, embarrassment, etc. it comes off as bold, confident, and daring which are qualities women like.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:43 PM
5

Night game is same in any big city. I could be in vegas or NYC or LA. It wouldnt matter. Im up because I just dropped off a girl I met at the club tonight :) I didnt mention selling anything. That’s all on you bro. Well good thing I like younger girls. Why would I be pursuing girls older than me? Lol im 29. No, guys that are straight forward lose their leverage. The girl knows shes won him already. Why would she chase? Lmao.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:41 PM
5

Yeah, the dude sucks at game. Case closed.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:31 PM
-2

lol you should read my field reports. Maybe you'll learn something.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:27 PM
35

Here's a simpler method guys. optimize your looks: gym, fashion, hair, facial hair, skincare. get professional photos by a photographer who understands OLD build rapport in 20 messages or less schedule a date
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:26 PM
14

This is what you call a high risk opener. It's similar to going up to girls and saying "great tits". Sure, 1/10 girls will be into that line, but then you nuke the other 9/10. High risk opens aren't recommended because the 1/10 girl who's receptive would have still been receptive if you went with a lower risk opener. Basically, if you use these super high risk openers, you're gonna miss out on many opportunities unnecessarily.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:22 PM
4

Envy is not an attractive trait.
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:19 PM
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Your categories don't really make sense. The universe owes you nothing: Yes, you should look your best because dating apps are extremely superficial. I don't see how this relates to the universe owing you nothing though. People judge each other: Wtf are you talking about? Most men struggle with getting matches and dates, not with saying no to those who don't fit the bill. Guys on dating apps are not afraid to say yes to those who they find attractive. This just makes no sense. You're not attract…
/r/seduction25/09/22 12:18 PM
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You being "upfront" and "straight forward" could be a turn off for most women. Women don't want a guy who ask for permission. They want a guy who just knows what to do and when to do it. You can escalate on women without asking them if they want to be escalated on. I've made out with hundreds of girls in the past year without asking. Overall, I would say your method is not good.
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:45 AM
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Everything works to a percentage. If a method works 1% of the time, is that the method you want to pursue?
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:01 AM
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I read models twice and my life stayed the same. Models is a great book but your life wont change because you read a book. Actions is what changes your life.
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:09 PM
2

Put her on ice for 3 days.
/r/seduction24/09/22 09:57 PM
2

If youre gonna ask questions at least ask interesting questions.
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:00 PM
10

Then don't ask those boring questions.
/r/seduction24/09/22 11:51 AM
2

I pick up women at clubs in vegas all the time. Im also asian like you. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:22 AM
5

Your text game is bad. Why you texting everyday? Establish logistics and dont text until its the day of the date. Or a day before. Also, sounds like youre doing OLD. OLD is trash for majority of men. Try meeting women IRL instead.
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:53 AM
2

Being thirsty is far more effective than being manipulative by trying to be her friend when your true intentions are romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:16 PM
7

You should act with true intentions, not false intentions. If you approach a girl and you are interested romantically then your approach should reflect that. Dont try to hide your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:15 PM
3

why does being an pro athlete even matter at this point? You're factoring out the money, fame, and status. So you're left with.... a 5'8 fit dude. Just reframe the question as "Can a 5'8 fit guy find success in casual sex?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:53 PM
2

I'm 5'7 and I have a pretty vibrant casual sex life. I pick up girls from night clubs all the time. Refer to my field reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:52 PM
1

I'm just mentally tired. I'm pretty sure I'm an introvert because I prefer to spend time by myself.
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:13 PM
2

Um nope. I slept with 3 girls in the last 24 hours. If anything, Im getting tired. This lifestyle isnt as exciting as it once was.
/r/seduction22/09/22 12:20 PM
3

Yep. Not as good as weekends but still better than 99% of the world. Maybe even 100%. You can legit practice game 365 in Vegas. We have clubs open EVERYDAY.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:38 PM
2

Drinks are the same at all the clubs. You just gotta pregame. Or you can do reentry. Go in early and leave to go back to the car to drink and go back into the club.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:42 AM
1

Always park at the club youre gonna be gaming at. Its not worth the hassle and logistical nightmare of walking 30 minutes to get your car. If you gotta pay for parking then it is what it is. I have to pay at Cosmo everytime i go. Good thing marquee isnt a high priority club for me
/r/seduction21/09/22 03:25 AM
1

The party pass is worth it when its under $100. But only if youre going to like 4+ clubs that weekend. Caesars isnt feel with locals ID after 3 hours.
/r/seduction21/09/22 01:31 AM
1

Eh self improvement is overrated af for improving your dating life. Self improvement is cope advice used for mental masturbation. You dont need muscle, cool hobbies, or money to attract women. Men keep pursuing these indirect approaches to attracting women instead of going directly to the source. I have no hobbies except for pickup. Women dont know how much money I make. And i rarely go to the gym. Yet I get more girls than majority of these self improvement advocates. Why? Because I go directly…
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:10 PM
2

Cold approaches are happening. You just dont know what to look for. Its just two people talking to each other.
/r/seduction20/09/22 04:01 PM
3

Speak up. Thats how. Besides night game is all about physical escalation.
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:59 PM
1

Link it. Ill take a look.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:23 PM
0

The only way to prove it is with infield footage.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:20 PM
2

Does he have infield footage? Thats the only way to prove it if hes legit or not. Also who is indian PE?
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:52 PM
0

Good thing I wasnt talking to you then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:45 PM
4

There are 3 avenues to dating. OLD, cold approach, or social circle game. It seems you’ve ruled out OLD already. So youre left with social circle and cold approach. Based on what youre looking for, cold approach is most suited for you. Go do some googling on pickup/cold approach. I recommend todd v on youtube if you wanna learn pickup. You can also read my field reports. Through cold approach, ive slept with dozens of girls in the last 13 months. Currently have 2 active FWBs.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:40 PM
4

Thats what I do. I meet hundreds of girls a month at clubs. What youre talking about is day game which is viable as well. I do night game though.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:19 PM
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Im content with my results so far. You can read my field reports and see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:06 AM
0

Speak for yourself. I only go for pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:51 AM
3

So she has to be pretty… kind of hypocritical dont you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:05 AM
60

Another prime example of why OLD is trash. Go meet women IRL my guy.
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:00 AM
3

Fuckkkk that. Why the fuck would you want that for us men? I aint waiting 3 years for pussy. Thank god we live in a world where women can liberally have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:54 AM
13

Do you not go for the pretty girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:52 AM
3

Just say “hey i thought youre cute and wanted to meet you”
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:37 AM
5

Take the L fam. She aint interested.
/r/seduction20/09/22 02:36 AM
1

Yes theres billions of women on this planet but how many are you meeting? It doesnt matter if there are billions if you dont meet any of them. The first step is to meet women. It’s not improving your looks or going to the gym. A great product is worthless without proper marketing. I meet hundreds of girls every month. Thats how I have an amazing dating life.
/r/seduction20/09/22 01:24 AM
3

Yeah I would say this is accurate.
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:53 PM
2

I find it strange how you think shes so perfect after meeting her just once.
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:49 PM
4

Lol have some self respect and just ignore her. I wouldnt even bother responding to a girl like that. Create a lifestyle where you barely have time to respond to girls who wanna fuck you.
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:17 PM
6

Step one is encounter more women. Go meet more women first.
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:28 AM
2

Im confused. So you want to befriend them? For what purpose? What is your objective? Youre all over the place .
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:27 AM
1

Then learn game
/r/seduction19/09/22 08:45 AM
0

Run it.
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:15 AM
2

Why cant you get sex? Why does everybody give such complicated answers when the solution is so simple. Just go pursue what you want and fix your problem.
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:14 AM
7

Lol… if they dont ask explicitly, dont offer. You can be like “im a recovering addict but ill go with you to the bar”
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:52 PM
1

Nah they suck regardless. Doesnt matter if you want to get laid or be in relationship. Dinner and movie dates are lame and boring. Take her to axe throwing, bowling, drinks, VR games, arcade bar, top golf, mini golf, etc. Activity dates is what you want to start with.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:43 PM
3

Its like if a pool party and a night club had a baby
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:23 PM
9

Lol its so funny how day clubs only exist in vegas. Its a pool party essentially. Think of a night club and a pool party had a baby.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:22 PM
2

I started cold approach at around your age. Its not too late. Refer to my field reports. Ive documented my journey since day 1.
/r/seduction18/09/22 11:39 AM
1

Movie and dinner dates are terrible first dates.
/r/seduction18/09/22 11:27 AM
1

If you need to rely on movie genres to get laid then you got much bigger problems. Who the fuck watches a movie as a date anymore? What is this? 1999? Never do dinner or movie as a first date. I only watch movies with girls after i fuck them.
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:45 AM
7

I only do night game and day clubs. I dont do day game anymore. Not worth it imo. I get all my results from night clubs and day clubs.
/r/seduction18/09/22 09:21 AM
22

Same here bro. Dating apps were trash for me and I only matched with ugly or fat girls. So i said fuck that and started cold approach. Ive fucked dozens of girls in the last year from cold approach. All the girls are way hotter than girls i get matched with via OLD. From a pornstar to an actress to college girls. Cold approach is the way.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:50 AM
2

How you gonna fail with all that white privilege?
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:05 AM
3

Whats your ethnicity?
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:44 AM
12

This post is hilariously retarded. No genre can make a girl like you.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:03 AM
21

If you had good game then you would have results to show for it.
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:17 AM
13

Define not give you the time of day. Are you meeting enough girls? Are you approaching girls? Are you waiting for them to approach you?
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:50 AM
1

You dont need to look like chris hemsworth to do cold approach. Super good looking guys dont need to cold approach. They just do OLD. Im 5 7 and certainly not top tier in looks. My game is good but far from the best and I still get results. Pain is subjective. Some guys cant handle rejection so I can see why cold approach aint for them. Also, you dont pretend to be interested in their day lol. Thats not how you do pick up.
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:52 AM
3

My issue with social circle game is you have to invest all this time and energy to build rapport with a bunch of people and then hopefully get invited to their social events where there might be a hot single girl. That itself seems way more time consuming. Like where do you even meet these people where theyll invite you out to their events? Meetup groups? Dance classes? Been there done that. Didnt work. I just cant imagine how social circle game can yield one new lay per week or 52 a year. 52/ye…
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:40 AM
2

Just from a time perspective, you wont achieve the same results via social circle game. If you spent 100 hours doing cold approach vs social circle game, youll get way more results from cold approach. It seems like your issue with cold approach is rejections. I guess if you cant handle rejections then you shouldnt do cold approach but its really no big deal. After enough rejections it doesnt even phase you anymore. Ive done social circle game for 10 years before cold approach. I doubled my lay c…
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:24 AM
3

Youre under the assumption that your conversion rate would be much higher with social circle girls. I doubt that. If you lack the social skills to cold approach, then I doubt you can convert social circle girls either. Girls dont care if its a warm or cold approach. If they like the guy, then they like the guy period. Also, with cold approach you get way more practice, field experience, reference experience, etc. By the time you meet one potential girl via social circle game, youll realize you h…
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:19 AM
2

Social circle game is so ineffective. By the time you meet one pretty single girl via social circle game, I would have met probably 50 via cold approach.
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:04 AM
1

Ok so whats better than cold approach??
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:25 AM
1

Why is cold approach dumb?
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:56 AM
1

The answer is yes but I would say its not an effective method.
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:04 AM
3

If you want to have more hook ups and casual relationships then why dont you just pursue that directly? Why are you jumping through unnecessary hoops? Stop jumping through hoops. Just go directly to the source.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:57 AM
10

Youre not sick of dating, youre just sick of tinder and OLD. OLD sucked for me too. I found success via cold approach. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:55 AM
2

Not going out tonight unfortunately
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:46 AM
1

Latin hiphop? None. Most play EDM and some play hiphop.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:07 AM
1

There are just as many single women as there are single men. Just from a math standpoint, your argument doesnt make sense. The issue isnt so many women are taken. The issue is youre not meeting enough women. How many women have you met this week? I meet dozens of single women every week.
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:00 AM
3

Posts like this are so dumb.
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:23 PM
3

Best spots in vegas for game: Zouk, XS, EBC, Omnia, marquee, hakkasan. Basically any of the night clubs or day clubs would be suffice.
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:21 PM
5

Agreed. IOI is a made up concept to act as a buffer for men who fear rejection. Ive made out with hundreds of girls and fucked dozens within the past year all without IOIs.
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:13 AM
2

Neither did I 13 months ago. You learn and you practice. Everybody starts at 0 at some point. Go read my field reports.
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:24 AM
3

So youre lazy. You didnt do shit LOL. Bro grooming and buying nice fitting clothes is hardly effort. Same with working out. Anybody can work out that shit is socially acceptable and easy. Anybody can buy a $10 planet fitness membership (dam i need to cancel mine, thanks for reminding me). You went to a concert with friends and approached ZERO girls. LOL wtf. You get what you put in and its obvious you put in nothing. Like I dont get you. Your expect results for doing NOTHING? Lazy and entitled.
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:17 AM
1

Have an abundance mentality and reality.
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:07 AM
1

Ok tell me the concrete tangible actions youve taken to improve your dating life. Did you go out tonight solo for 4 hours and approached 20 girls?
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:07 AM
2

Omg you again. Mr. I am the victim. Bro we been over this. Your struggles with dating is due to you being lazy. You live in NYC, one of the best game/dating cities for men in the world. NYC diverse af that anybody can succeed. When you gonna take ownership for your own failures in life?
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:04 AM
18

No, you need to go solely for the objective of meeting women or else youll never get any results. This is a skill at the end of the day and if you want to improve this skill then you need to set aside dedicated time to practicing and refining this skill. It’s like if you want to get better at the drums but you only practice the drums for like 5 minutes whenever its convenient for you instead of dedicating 2 hours a day to practice. Men who operate with purpose and objective will always outperfor…
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:48 AM
2

Another 100k would just increase my risk tolerance on options lmao.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 05:07 AM
1

I dont day game. I tried it but I got better results via night game. With that said, day game is still viable. 2/800 is pretty bad so you might be doing it wrong. Night game is a different beast. But logically, night game is more congruent with cold approach because youre approaching people who are out because they WANT to be out vs have to be out. It’s also a social environment. I would say the problem is definitely with your game if youre struggling in NYC. It’s one of the best spots to game. …
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:01 AM
0

Tell that to all the E boys who wear eye liner and cross shaped earrings. Tell that to all the non celebrity kpop looking dudes.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 01:47 AM
0

The point is to stop thinking the only way for men to be attractive is to be “alpha”. Less masculine types of men murder the game every day.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 01:06 AM
3

You can carve out any niche you want. A prominent component about TRP is to be unapologetically yourself. If who you are is less masculine and more “;)” then so be it. Who gives a fuck what some wannabe alpha on reddit thinks. E boys, suicide boys, kpop, etc. tons of example of other ways to murder the game. My point is dont be so narrowed minded.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 01:03 AM
1

Your mental gymnastics is exhausting. First you blamed women, then blamed your environment, now you call my reality a fiction lmao. Bro, you have 168 hours in a week. 40 hours for work. 56 for sleep. That leaves you 72 hours per week of free time. You probably waste your time on your computer, video games, tiktok, and porn.
/r/seduction14/09/22 09:59 PM
1

See what I mean by lazy? Google it. I had to research vegas clubs when I first started.
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:05 PM
1

Go out for 4 hours tonight and meet 30 girls. Youre in NYC. Theres a party every night just like vegas. I went out last night and met 15 girls. What about you? What did you do?
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:41 PM
0

All these haters commenting probably cant approach a single girl if their life depended on it lmao. Thats the issue with TRP these days. So much fucking ego. All the high voted post are lame ass theory post, bitching about women, abstract self improvement post. Then when someone post infield experience, people hate. Most likely cause these same people cant approach. TRP had turned into mental masturbation for inadequate men to feel better about themselves.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 07:40 PM
-2

Lol get over yourself. Your version of masculine or attractive isnt absolute. Theres less masculine kpop dudes out there who murder the game by being “cute”.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 07:36 PM
3

Tinder is so trash. I recently got tinder again and its abysmal. Ive fucked way hotter girls via IRL
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 07:33 PM
19

Nah, I think learning how to attract women is just as important. Money is important up to a certain amount. Another 100k/year wouldnt make much difference in my life.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 07:32 PM
1

Same in Vegas. The clubs close at 4am. How you gonna complain about NYC. NYC is legit one of the BEST spots in america for men in regards to dating/cold approach. Like if you were in rural Alaska then maybe I'll give you a break but youre here bitching about NYC. Bro the problem isnt women or your environment. The problem is youre too god dam lazy to put in the work. Youre the only person holding yourself back.
/r/seduction14/09/22 10:45 AM
4

I've been on this forum for a year now and what I've noticed is that men who struggle with dating are just fucking lazy. They're too lazy to put in any work, effort, time, or sacrifice. And then they wonder why they get no results. Legit surprise pikachu face.
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:46 AM
1

NYC is just as good if not better. It's a 24 hour party city with 100x more clubs and bars. Population 10x bigger with a higher percentage of women than men. I have wings in NYC and I can say with 100% certainty that I would murder the game in NYC as well. Stop the cope man. Your victim mentality is your issue. You blame everything but yourself. Why don't you tell me why women should be attracted to you since youre obviously perfect and it's the everybody else who's the problem.
/r/seduction14/09/22 05:44 AM
1

It’s really not that hard to remember memorable events that happened within 24 hours lol. People who are determined to improve their dating lives. Your dating life sucks because you put in no effort. You rather bitch on reddit. Tell me, how many girls have you met this week? Ill meet 20 tonight.
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:46 AM
1

Dont use dating apps then? Ive been doing cold approach for 13 months. Ive made out with hundreds of girls, fucked dozens. Cold approach has allowed me to sleep with way hotter girls than I ever did before. It’s the most effective avenue of dating in my case. This isnt even an argument its an opinion. Everybody had to start from 0 at some point so idk whats the purpose of this statement. Ive been rejected thousands of times. Its really not that draining. Like not even a little bit lmao. Quit bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:19 AM
1

Tell me, why should women be attracted to you? What attractive qualities do you even possess? Because based on this post, it sounds very incelly and misogynistic.
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:04 AM
1

Imagine how delusional you have to be to think it’s 50% of the population thats the problem instead of yourself lol. News flash: Girls arent attracted to you because you suck, not them. Youre the common denominator.
/r/seduction14/09/22 03:39 AM
1

You dont need to buy drinks. Just say hi, youre cute. I wanted to meet you.
/r/seduction13/09/22 09:22 AM
2

Don't open girls by offering to buy them drinks. That's terrible game.
/r/seduction13/09/22 09:14 AM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:01 AM
6

I think youll soon realize how ineffective your plans are. Bachata might be good but it still can be very hit or miss. If your goal is to sleep with more women then quit pursuing such indirect avenues. Just go to the source. I wrote about that topic in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/usby4s/how_to_improve_your_dating_life_stop_jumping/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:34 AM
4

He means that it’s gonna take a fuckton of work, effort, time, and sacrifice to achieve a “hoe” phase for men. How do you plan to achieve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:11 AM
1

Thats the easy part. A quick google search would have answered all your questions.
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:29 AM
5

Your scarcity mentality is evident.
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:23 AM
2

To each their own. Quit being such a judgmental prick. Some would say youre just a loser cuck
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:12 AM
1

Look how judgmental you are. Just because girls want to have sex doesnt mean theyre sluts and weak minded. Youre such a dumb bitch lol
/r/seduction13/09/22 05:10 AM
4

Why do you deserve a hot girl?
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:51 AM
5

Why do you expect a hot girl when youre not a hot/high value guy? Why dont you try to get at ugly and fat girls for now?
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:42 AM
4

Nah I would just cancel the flight and get store credit. Im familiar with the airline.
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:09 PM
2

It's not throwing money at strangers, it's overcoming logistical issues. If she told me to venmo her $250 and she would stay with me, I would have said no. I wont directly give money to women but I don't mind spending money on improving logistics.
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:08 AM
2

No, I wasn't testing her. By that point of the interaction, I knew she was DTF, I just had to overcome her logistical objections. Some guys are super against spending any money on girls and I think that's very narrow minded. You spend all this time and effort trying to court her and then you blow it all away over what? A $50 dinner? A $25 drink? A $40 uber? Or even a $250 flight.
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:06 AM
-16

Like I said, spending money on women who are worthwhile isnt beneath me.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/22 06:22 PM
-8

Buying drinks and food would be considered paying for ass too then?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/22 06:09 PM
-1

Yes I have a full time job. Sometimes, I would work 12 hours and then go to the club.
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:37 PM
2

You need to meet more women first. If you dont want to do OLD then you need to meet women IRL. Its called cold approach. Cold approach girls on campus. Go to parties. Join a frat. College is legit the easiest environment to meet hot girls. If youre struggling now, wait til you enter your professional life where your coworkers are all 10-20 years older with kids.
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:03 AM
3

Your lines are boring and overused. Nothing creative or innovative. You need someone whos good at text game/OLD to develop lines for you.
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:58 AM
-1

Nah IOIs are dumb and a made up concept for men who are afraid of rejection
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:52 AM
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You struggle with women because you take no actions in improving your dating life. Watching youtube vids and making a bumble profile is hardly action. How many women do you meet a week? During my peak, I met 100 girls a week. Tomorrow Ill meet 15-20 girls. What about you?
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:49 AM
3

You dont need to eye contact or interact at a distance. Youre referring to IOIs/choosing signals which is irrelevant. If you want to meet a girl, go up to her and say hi. It’s that simple. 100% of my lays were without IOIs. Why do you need to find a good opportunity? How about about you just approach when you decided that you want to meet her? The opener itself of offering her a sip of your drink/hit of your vape is… not my style but I never criticize the content of the approach. Anything can wo…
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:16 AM
3

Fortune favors the bold.
/r/seduction08/09/22 01:35 AM
34

I was in a similar situation to you over a year ago. The approach is honestly the easy part. Building attraction is far more difficult. The simple answer: walk up to her and say hi. The complex answer depends on whats holding you back. Some guys worry about not knowing what to say. Some have crippling anxiety that literally prevents them from doing it. Some are afraid of rejection. The best places for cold approach is night game. Bars, clubs, night events. Why? Because people go there to sociali…
/r/seduction07/09/22 12:05 AM
2

Yes ive met tons
/r/seduction06/09/22 11:46 PM
5

Nah it aint dead. Go out frequently enough and youll meet other PUAs.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:46 AM
3

Usually I would say sounds good, less competition for me, but lets be honest, youre not competition to begin with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:32 AM
2

Worry about improving yourself instead of trolling the internet lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:24 AM
9

Desire you by leveraging your american dollar and citizenship? Lol. Stds are gross but you wanna fuck girls from a third world country? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:23 AM
3

Nah youre just lazy. You havent even actually tried to make it work in USA. You just want to take the easy way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:11 AM
3

Copeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:09 AM
4

Imagine having all that white privilege and still failing in USA 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:09 AM
4

Lol if sex is all that matters then just escort/sugarbaby in the states. Thats why this “go overseas” nonsense makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:08 AM
8

Tons of gorgeous skinny feminine women in the USA. They just dont want you. Again, level up instead of blaming millions of people for your inability to attract them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:06 AM
4

Theyll sleep with you because they want money/citizenship. Its prostitution with extra steps. Quit deluding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:05 AM
3

Yeah theyre gold diggers and citizenship diggers. Wtf are you retarded. They dont want you. They want a chance at the land of opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:04 AM
10

If youre a loser in the states, youre still gonna be a loser overseas. All youll do is attract gold digger or citizenship diggers. You might as well just stay in the states and do sugar babying or escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:02 AM
14

The problem isnt western women. The problem is you. Youre low value and unattractive. Thats why you cant compete in the western world. Level up instead of complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:56 AM
1

Youre shocked that a nerdy anime cosplay girl is dating a nerdy anime cosplay boy? If you have to ask such a silly question, then just dont put in the effort in self improvement. Just live a complacent and mediocre life.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:45 AM
609

Bro dont wear 4 inch inserts wtf. Just do 1-2 inch lifts.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:12 AM
9

Thats not simple at all. A simple way would be: See pretty girl Approach immediately Talk to her You dont need to memorize openers to approach a girl. A simple glance? Dude, girls arent scanning the room thirsting for dudes. Most of the time theyre doing their own thing in their own world with their friends. Ive been doing hard core night game for a year and if I relied on IOIs prior to approaching, then my lay count would be 0 and my approach count would be like 20 probably. IOI is a bullshit c…
/r/seduction04/09/22 02:58 AM
-4

I do solo night game in vegas. Refer to my field reports. Ive documented my journey since day 1.
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:22 PM
9

The most important thing is just approaching someone if you want to meet them. You dont need IOIs or choosing signals. Thats just a buffer for rejection. And waiting til shes alone to approach is lame. Youre just gonna creepily watch her until shes alone? Just go up to her the moment you decided you want to meet her instead of stalking her for the perfect opportunity.
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:20 PM
6

Hahaha this reminds me of what propelled me into cold approach. My friend set me up with this girl and she was NOT attractive at all. I was like what the fuck. Pissed me off. I was legit offended.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 12:06 AM
5

Wanting women as a straight man is a very normal instinct. Why dont you go meet women instead of trying to change your inherent nature?
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:50 AM
7

I find it funny you think its ineffective when you havent even tried it. You talk about a subject you know nothing about. Cold approach has exponentially improved my dating life. I started a year ago exactly. During the past year, Ive met thousands of women, slept with dozens, made out with hundreds, and currently have 3 active FWB who I met via cold approach. Refer to my field reports. Ive documented my journey since day 1. OLD has always been trash for me. 8 years of OLD intermittently with ze…
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:45 AM
0

Refer to my other field reports
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:31 PM
39

My wing told a girl she looked like michael jackson. That shit had me deceased LOL…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 06:05 AM
3

Definitely a better analogy. Completely agree.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 08:13 AM
17

No, I'm not telling you what to do. Lmao what is with the ego here? I swear TRP has some egomaniacs. I'm sharing my opinion on what I think works. Yes, I disagree with you and it's okay to disagree. You don't need to throw a temper tantrum every time someone disagrees with your opinion. You can have discourse like an adult you know? I will keep doing what I'm doing because I'm finding huge success with it. You can refer to my other field reports throughout the past year.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 11:10 PM
19

That's not the right approach if you're trying to develop and refine the skill of cold approaching. If you don't take time out to dedicate to a skill, you will never get good at it. That's kind of like, don't go to the gym that's too try hard, instead just do some home exercises intermittently throughout your day. The people who get insane bodybuilding results/physiques are the ones who dedicated a fuckton of time at the gym. If I'm only approaching when I'm "living my life" then I would never g…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 10:53 PM
1

How have you tried?
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:16 AM
1

You can approach her.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:06 AM
12

Nope. I read that book twice in a 2 year period. Did not change my dating life at all. My dating life improved significantly after I started taking massive action.
/r/seduction16/08/22 06:02 AM
1

Why dont you go meet more women then? I had no luck with women until I made my own luck. The harder I worked, the luckier I got. Refer to my field reports. Ive documented my journey since day 1.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:55 AM
1

This is an intent vs premise question. Go youtube it.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:18 PM
1

no i'm just going to sell one of your kidneys
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:15 PM
2

If you had 100million dollars, would you still work a normal job? If not then youre lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:01 AM
3

This is your issue. You interpret my response as hate instead of a wake up call.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:40 PM
2

All those things you mention are terrible ROI for the amount of time invested. I dont watch porn.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:24 PM
0

Lol bro he just told you. Youre lazy. How many girls have you approached this month?
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:48 AM
3

Girls fall in 3 categories: unreceptive, neutral, and receptive. Game is for neutral girls. The better your game, the more neutral girls youll get hence improving your odds/success rate.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:50 AM
2

Then everybody would have the same success rate right? The better your game is, the better your odds will be with each set.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:13 AM
0

Limiting beliefs like that will hinder you in all aspects of your life.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:09 AM
6

You should excel in all aspects of life to be an attractive high value man. I just think its silly to pursue indirect avenues of attracting women. Get buff and rich for yourself and 100 other reasons. Dont do it for women. Your mentality is what true abundance mentality is. Its not how many girls are on your roster or how manys you fucked this week, it’s knowing with absolute confidence that you can attract women any day of the week.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:08 AM
7

How do you expect to improve odds without volume? How do you become great at basketball if you dont play 10000 matches? To master a skill, you need to practice it. Your odds with individual girls will improve when you interact with more girls. I dont understand the negative connotation associated with volume in this sub. Volume is crucial to success, results, and improvement.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:02 AM
0

Still retarded. Just be a night club promotor instead.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:41 AM
17

I made a post about this months ago. Men these days are so focused of the wrong aspects of dating. Theyre all caught up with these indirect approaches to improving their dating lives. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/usby4s/how_to_improve_your_dating_life_stop_jumping/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf If your goal is to attract more women, then just learn the skill of seduction. I started cold approach 1 year ago and Ive slept with dozens of women in the past year, …
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:36 AM
2

Yes move to a third world country to get pussy. Thats pathetic.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:27 AM
2

Lmao you people think of the dumbest ways to meet women.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:26 AM
8

Lol cope. Tons of dudes getting laid in early 20. And the vast majority of girls do not want a guy significantly older. If you cant get girls its because you fail to attract them. Dont make it seem like its a systemic problem. Also, going to a third world country to get girls is just prostitution with extra steps.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:24 AM
2

30-50k pop is hard. You can try day game at the nearest large mall or university.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:22 AM
1

Bro how about you just approach girls instead of listening to this dumb ass advice of “do your thing and hoped to get approached”. Why are you relying on women to approach you if you cant approach them in the first place.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:21 AM
2

3x a month lmao. Those are abysmal numbers.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:19 AM
2

Do your thing and hope to be approached lol. Terrible advice.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:18 AM
0

This is a retarded way to meet more girls. What a waste of time.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:00 AM
5

Would you put in work if you didnt have to? I doubt it. Its the path of least resistance. If you had as many options as pretty girls, you would be just like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:52 AM
3

Its fair. Just evolution doing its thing. If youre not capable of passing on your genes then you dont. Whats unfair about it? If you had as many options as pretty girls do, wouldnt you be more selective as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:51 AM
9

What the fuck…. Get off ready and get your shit together man.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 09:55 AM
4

You need to interact with her and build a bit of rapport. Nothing extensive. Just so y’all acknowledge each other’s existence. Could be as simple as grabbing her hand and twirling her once. Then lead her to dance. Dance front to front first and get closer. Twirl her around if you want to start grinding.
/r/seduction07/08/22 01:06 PM
4

You need to be more selfish. You care more about how other peoples feel/think than yourself.
/r/seduction07/08/22 12:21 PM
50

I only match with unattractive and fat girls via OLD. Never ever met up with a girl from OLD. The hottest girls ive slept with are from cold approach. I have 3 FWBs atm via cold approach.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:48 AM
10

I feel the exact same way as you. Most men who struggle with modern dating is due to them being lazy and putting in no effort. Whenever someone make a post about how much they struggle with their dating lives, I ask them something along the lines of “how many girls are you meeting a month?” Or “what concrete actions have you taken to improve your dating life” and the answer is always lackluster. So many men think that creating multiple shitty OLD profiles and swiping is called taking action. Or …
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:40 PM
1

That’s fine. We all got different priorities in life. You would get a reputation of being a fucking pimp. And yes you could run out of girls if you live in rural kansas. If so, then move to a major city. Look, my point is, if you want it, you gotta work for it. It wont come without sacrifice. For my personally, Im the best Ive ever been. Probably the happiest too. Ive been with so many girls and now have 3 girls I have an active relationship with. Ive met so many dope guys. Expanded my social ci…
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:14 AM
1

True. So live in a major city if improving your dating life is important to you.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:05 AM
1

Well if you cant make time for women then that’s on you. If working out, rock climbing, doing hobbies is more important to you then you have your answer. Youre kind of like the poor man who wants to be rich but not willing to put in the effort, time, or work. You want abundance of women in your life? Well this is what it takes. If it’s not worth it to you then make peace with it and know you get what you put in. Thats like me wanting to be a body builder but only goes to the gym 10 minutes a wee…
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:39 AM
6

Well if there arent any straight girls then it wouldnt work lol
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:12 AM
-2

Bro thats 4 girls a month. Thats why you youre failing. During my peak months, I was hitting on 400 girls a month. At your rate, you meet/hit on 52 girls a year. Those numbers just aint gonna cut it. Go meet 400 girls a month and youll start getting an abundance mentality/reality.
/r/seduction04/08/22 03:34 AM
0

Define trying. How many girls do you approach a month?
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:59 AM
12

It's... misinterpreted advice. The point isn't to not pursue women. The point is to be OUTCOME INDEPENDENT. It means, you don't let the results affect you. If you want more women in your life then you'll have to meet even more women. So yes, you'll have to initiate with them because women just aren't going to initiate on you. I found the most success with women when I took massive action in pursuing women. Just prior to a month ago, I would go out 20 hours a week with the sole objective of picki…
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:55 AM
2

try night game. It's very congruent with cold approach. Bars, clubs, concerts, festivals
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:47 AM
5

I don't think anybody goes out to approach women while purposely looking like shit lol.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:46 AM
8

College is so easy for pick up. God I wished I was into pick up back then. Just go up to her and say hi, how's it goes. I'm x. You dont need anything flashy for college game cause it's so congruent with meeting people.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:44 AM
12

Lol this isn't a new strategy. I've been doing this for months. Here are some of my FRs from the gay clubs. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vmnmau/field_report_pulled_a_blonde_girl_from_a_gay_club/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/sh3sn4/field_report_3_girls_wanted_to_run_a_train_on_me/
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:36 AM
2

I'm telling you how to get better with women. Go meet 300 women this month.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:31 AM
1

My abundance mentality stems from the fact that I know I can go out any day of the week, meet new girls, and generate attraction. My mentality would be the same regardless if I had 0 FWBs or 7 FWBs. It's not necessarily defined by the active girls in my life. It's defined by the ability to attract women which is something I spent the last 12 months learning and am still learning to this day. Refer to my field reports for further details. I've documented my journey since day 1.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:29 AM
1

Lol alright, here's a concrete actionable advice. Go approach 20 girls today. Do that 5 days a week and in 3 months you'll see some drastic changes.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:26 AM
4

No, women won't approach you lol. Not unless youre extremely high status like youtube famous. I wouldn't listen to that guy. The "focus on yourself and just have fun" advice is retarded. If you want to have alot of women in your life then you need to take concrete and practical actions in achieving that goal. That was what I wanted so I went out and met hundreds of girls a month.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:25 AM
-1

Ok then go have alot of women. You seem to know the path to abundance but you dont execute on it. Why? How many girls did you meet last month? I met 200-300.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:20 AM
2

Your mentality is reflective of who you are as a person, which includes your life experiences, failures, successes, past relationships, ambitions, goals, and most importantly, your actions. You say you've been trying. How have you been trying? Let's just start at step 1. In order to date many women, you need to meet even more. I meet HUNDREDS of women a month. How many are you meeting per month?
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:18 AM
-2

It is. Mine stems from knowing that I can go out any day of the week and generate attraction with women.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:16 PM
6

The simplest way to achieve an abundant mentality is to have an abundant reality. My current abundance mentality stems from my numerous successes with women within the past year. Now, I have 3 FWBs which further contributes to this abundance mentality/reality. However, I would not say that it’s because I have women in my life that results in my current abundance mentality. All my FWBs can exit my life tomorrow and I would still have the same mentality. Why? Because I’ve spent the last 12 months …
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:57 PM
15

Abundance mentality is the most effective trait.
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:22 PM
2

I was skeptical entering this post but it’s actually solid content.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:36 AM
5

Girls dont make the move. Quit the cope.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:24 AM
1

Start doing cold approach. I started 12 months ago and have been hooking up with new girls regularly. Now I have 3 FWBs that I see regularly. Refer to my field reports for more details on how I got started. Ive documented my journey since day one.
/r/seduction03/08/22 04:43 AM
5

The issue is people misinterpreted “be yourself”, hence why it’s perceived as poor advice. How does one be themselves? Who is “yourself”. Yourself is defined by your environment, experiences, relationships, successes, failures, achievements, education, childhood, goals, aspirations, etc. If youre some unemployed obese basement dweller then being yourself wont work. However, if that same person decided that tomorrow he’s going to start training to climb mount everest and achieves such a feat in 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:00 AM
14

High end clubs aint gonna let you bring in that shit lmao.
/r/seduction02/08/22 07:28 AM
3

Beaches, boardwalks, malls, food festivals, concerts.
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:00 AM
5

You ain’t the super alpha Chad you’re trying to perceive yourself to be on the internet. (It’s all good, I’m just a dog that’s learned to type myself) I'm not claiming to be a "super alpha Chad", I actually don't even like to use those incel terms. It paints the world as too black and white when the facts are much more gray. You don't need to be a "super chad" to be blunt and direct with women. But, let’s give you the benefit of the doubt and ‘believe’ you’re this super alpha Chad that says thos…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/22 12:31 AM
3

"oh so this is what we're doing now?" Sounds pretty passive aggressive to me.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/22 12:08 AM
3

Yes it does. You need to be willing to walk away. If it doesnt work then you bounce. Is that really the type of girl you want to be with? A girl that requires you to be passive aggressive?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 06:18 PM
2

Yep. This is exactly what I was thinking. The whole passive aggressive shit just seems dramatic and immature. Is that really what RP is about? Being passive aggressive? Doesnt sound RP to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 09:55 AM
11

Im pretty sure majority of straight men prefer traditional relationships where their SO isnt thotting around. Calling her out on inappropriate behavior isnt the petty/dramatic part. Its the way he does it. Is “oh this is what we do now” really the best way to communicate? Seems very passive aggressive and caty, you know something more suited for women. I think men should be direct and blunt when calling out inappropriate behavior. Thats what I thought was immature and dramatic of OP. If I were i…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 05:08 AM
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You seem pretty petty/dramatic tbh. The whole “oh is this what we doing now” and “aight then” is what I imagine to be the catch phrase of a ratchet black girl. This post just seems kind of immature overall.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 02:33 AM
1

Its not about imaginary reddit points. Its that this community is full of crabs in a bucket type of people.
/r/seduction29/07/22 01:52 AM
1

I write FRs all the time detailing my approaches and they wont get upvoted. Meanwhile low effort approaches like this get 200+ upvotes lol.
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:47 PM
0

Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction28/07/22 08:36 AM
0

Its crazy how post like this one are the top voted ones 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:59 AM
3

Making up shit to talk to women is lame. Shows that youre insecure and not confident in yourself.
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:57 AM
3

This is retarded
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:19 AM
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Lmao if I listened to your advice, then my dating life would still be nonexistent. Going out with the sole purpose of meeting women and generating attraction works. The results dont lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:00 AM
2

Idk why you mad. Sounds like you didnt try to escalate on either of them. Did you ask them on a date or made a move on them?
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:53 AM
1

I do solo nightclub game in vegas. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:39 AM
17

Try “hey there, you seem cool and I wanted to meet you”
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:20 AM
0

I get laid quite often via night game.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:44 PM
1

How is it not fair? Its legit an elo system. Whats not fair about an elo system?
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:23 PM
0

Modern dating apps are fair. They use an elo system decided by the people who use the app. If your profile sucks it wont be shown as much as someone with a good profile. Also tinder is not the only dating method. I find all my success via cold approach. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:50 PM
2

Really? I thought that shit was painfully obvious lol. That shit is logistics 101 lol.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/22 04:51 AM
6

Lol. No not text them cold reads. Look at their picture and say a cold read to them. Pretend to talk to them as if theyre in front of you. Its a way of practicing speech patterns, tonality, rate of speech, on the spot thinking, cold reading, etc. Swipe, make a cold read, repeat.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:23 AM
-1

Go on tinder and make cold reads to the girls you see. Thats a legit drill for cold approach.
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:53 AM
1

If you want to pay for pussy then sure go ahead. Idk why you posted on a seduction sub. Theres no seduction here bro, youre just paying for pussy lmao
/r/seduction22/07/22 11:18 PM
3

Then start cold approaching.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:17 PM
39

Cold approach is all I do.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:03 PM
3

Just ask her out you dweeb.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:02 PM
1

You should try night game more. Its very congruent with cold approach.
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:48 AM
-1

OLD or cold approach?
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:34 AM
18

Not in my experience. Not even close.
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:16 AM
16

You know you can do both right?
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:32 AM
8

Make money for yourself, not for women. Trust me, using money to attract women wont end well.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/22 11:59 PM
8

Club > bar. I do solo night club game in Vegas. Refer to my field reports. As for loud music, it's really not that big of a deal. I talk with girls all the time at clubs. Stop using that as an excuse.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:35 AM
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Because you come from a scarcity mentality which breeds this needy behavior. This is because when a girl doesn't text you back for hours or days, you start to think she's not interested or whatever. So you force the same concept on yourself: if you don't text a girl back soon, she's gonna think you're not interested and you might lose her. This all stems from scarcity. I used to be like that too until I started doing night game. Now, I'm so busy with my FWBs and with night game that sometimes I …
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:32 AM
15

Hmm hard to say. I did solve the logistics of weed. Regardless, usually I say “lets grab drinks elsewhere” for my pull. The drink/weed is just plausible deniability for the girls. Your success rate would be much lower if you do direct pulls like “lets go back to my place and FUCK” lol. Girls dont want to explicitly feel like a slut. They want a narrative of one thing led to another and it just happened.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 10:06 PM
3

You have no idea what youre talking about. You would look like a total clown if you tried to run night game here lmao.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 10:03 PM
14

Lol I think FRs polarize TRP so much these days because the guys here have too much ego. This sub is starting to give MGTOW vibes. The men here think theyre too good for women or something. Very strange, definitely not what it used to be.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 10:00 PM
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Wings are guys who goes out for the sole purpose of running game. Sets are girls. A set can be 1 or multiple girls. For example, sometimes, Ill tell a wing “yo 3 set over here” which means 3 girls.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 09:55 PM
9

i really doubt that lol
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:57 AM
18

Dont worry he'll still get more pussy than you.
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:15 AM
7

lmao bro we get it. You cant approach a girl if you life depended on it. Jesus christ. Drop the ego man.
/r/seduction17/07/22 11:14 AM
1

I live in vegas so I took her back to my place. I dont understand your second question. I kissed her and then we started making out. Then escalate more physically.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:15 AM
4

Hmm… she said something like “omgg i wasnt expecting to have sex tonight”. I responded with thats fine, whatever youre comfortable with. Then i went to the restroom. I think the key is to not be pushy and to make the girls feel safe and comfortable. I think the guys who cant take no for an answer or are too pushy/aggressive is because they dont have true abundance in their lives. I really didn’t care if she was dtf or not because I have true abundance in my life. I was gonna see my fwb the next …
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:44 AM
6

yes i go solo. works great. I do my best work solo.
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:54 AM
1

duh lol
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:54 AM
1

self taught mostly but I did watch alot of todd v and pickupalpha in the beginning.
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:54 AM
5

The harder I work, the luckier I get.
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:53 AM
1

Refer to my field reports. I do solo nightclub game in vegas.
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:39 PM
1

Thats a tv show my dude… There’s literally infield footage of how game is supposed to look like.
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:37 PM
3

My plan is approach women, introduce myself, build rapport, escalate verbally and physically, solve logistics, seed the pull, and go for the pull. The issue with the "just go out and have fun" advice is that guys interpret it the wrong way. Men will interpret this advice as in go out, have fun, focus on yourself, and somehow magically you'll end up with a girl in your bed. My advice is to act with objectives and goals. It does not mean to not have fun. I still have a fuck ton of fun doing night …
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:48 AM
4

Why would you try to go on a date when she didnt even reply to your text lol
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:39 AM
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These questions are so lazy
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:57 AM
3

IOIs are so overrated. You dont need IOIs. If you want to meet her then approach. It’s that simple. IOI is a made up concept by dudes who are afraid of rejection. All it is is a buffer for rejection. Drop your ego and you wont need IOIs.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:14 AM
2

I do help people. All the time. Refer to my numerous field reports. Dude, your guide is just not good. Heres a better guide. You see a girl you want to meet? Walk up to her and introduce yourself. Wtf is this eye contact, walk up to her but dont approach yet, just creep around near her to “feel the vibe”. Like what? You put all these extra steps and theyre all just buffers for rejection. Youre just trying to protect your ego with these extra steps.
/r/seduction14/07/22 06:28 AM
10

This is prime scarcity mentality. Dont be like OP.
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:22 AM
0

Are you kidding me. John anthony is a loser who pays escorts. I could out perform JA.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:43 AM
1

Lol go read the comments in my field reports
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:05 PM
1

Yeah you can. Just open the whole group. Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:17 PM
4

Thats because eye contact and IOIs are retarded. Why dont you just approach regardless like you do with day game. It’s the same concept but even easier.
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:14 PM
4

This is not how you approach… Waiting for IOIs is retarded. Youll miss 99% of your opportunities if you only approach if theres eye contact. So youre supposed to creepily stare at women until they make eye contact with you? And then you go to her “personal space” and stalk her while “checking the vibe” whatever the fuck that means. How about you just approach her and say hi instead of all these unnecessary creepy steps? You can definitely talk in a night club. I do it all the time. Legit last ni…
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:12 PM
3

you really need to take a class on statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:29 AM
8

This is fucking retarded.
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:54 AM
1

Youre not cursed. Youre just lazy. If you want to meet women then go to places where attractive women are at. Why are you going to some shitty bar in the back of a restaurant?
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:21 AM
1

Focus on having a good attractive profile. That matters way more than your opener.
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:09 AM
1

Youre too focused on comparing yourself to your friend. Do you compare yourself to chris hemmsworth? Or captain america? No. Just because he’s your best friend doesnt mean you gotta compare yourself to him. This isnt a competition. There are plenty of girls out there. Youre coming from the mentality of girls either choosing him or you. It doesnt have to be that way. Go out and meet girls. Meet so many of them that you have an abundance mentality and reality. Im same height as you and go out to p…
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:31 AM
0

I wouldnt cross off IG game aka social media game so quickly. Social media game and OLD are scalable. Cold approach aint. If you can create amazing content via social media, you can use that to attract women. Look up coachpatrickred and justinmarc. They do it pretty well imo. Pretty much try to copy dan bilzerian.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:25 AM
2

Not really, I do the best when Im solo. Almost all my results are from solo night game. Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:22 AM
2

If you’re attractive and you go out with focus and objectives, you would do even better. The method is better period.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:19 AM
5

Exaxtly. Unless you social circle consist of a bunch of club promotors, rich playboys, or dan bilzerians, idk how you can beat cold approach.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:18 AM
14

Social circle game is so trash. By the time you meet one single attractive girl via social circle game, I would have met 100 via night game. It’s terrible ROI for the time you invest.
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:50 AM
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Oh i see what you mean. The first advice is bad. Going out and just dancing is not how you consistently get laid. Men who operate with focus and objectives will always outperform those who just go out for “fun”.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:19 AM
2

Only rejects use r4r
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:15 AM
21

You say dont go up to random girls and talk to them. Then you say talk to a lot of women.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:14 AM
1

I go solo vegas clubbing all the time. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:43 AM
2

Because you severely diminish the volume of approaches if you do warm approaches. Like where are you gonna find that many warm approaches? By the time youve met one girl via warm approach, I would have met 100 via cold approach.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:09 PM
3

This sounds like a troll post.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:05 PM
2

This is prime scarcity mentality. If the girl Im seeing isnt putting out then I would see my other girl. Or pick up a girl at the clubs.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:22 AM
1

You probably could hire an independent professional photographer for less and get similar results. With that said, I browsed their site and looks good. I would consider in purchasing their services if they were in vegas. How much do they charge? They dont have pricing on their site.
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:27 AM
3

No you need to looksmax and have professional photos.
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:57 AM
1

🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:56 AM
1

Ok. Tell me what have you done to improve your dating life. Give me the concrete actions youve taken.
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:06 AM
3

Vegas is one of the best cities for pickup. Refer to my field reports. Been doing it for almost a year.
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:26 AM
1

You struggle with dating because youre lazy and put in no effort. Downloading every dating app and swiping is not effort.
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:22 AM
3

Being introduced isnt bad, it’s inefficient. By the time youve met 1 attractive single girl, I would have met 100 times as many and gotta laid 10 times more. As for manipulative, because if your sole goal is to meet/date more women, then youre just pretending to be friends with people to gain access to the women in their lives. Expand your social circle because you want to make friends, not because you want to date their women.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:44 PM
2

Your focus is all wrong. If you want to attract women then learn the skill of attraction. Stop jumping through all the hoops. I wrote a post about this: https://www.reddit.com/r/1PercentDating/comments/usashb/how_to_improve_your_dating_life_stop_jumping/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:52 PM
1

Its just funny how dudes like you talk about shit you know nothing about.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:37 PM
28

That’s one of the biggest cope advice on this sub. The FoCuS oN yOuRsElF cope. This advice gets upvoted so much because it’s a feel good nonsense. It just tells men to ignore women and do their own thing and wait for the universe to drop a girl on your lap. Such cope. Dont get me wrong, self improvement is important but self improvement by itself isnt enough. You need to take concrete specific actions to improve your dating life. It doesnt matter how rich or buff you are if you dont constantly m…
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:13 PM
6

Introduced by friends of friends is legit retarded. By the time you meet one single attractive girl via social circle game, I would have met 100. God I hate people who advise social circle game. So inefficient and ineffective. Not to mention borderline manipulative.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:33 AM
3

Spoken like a guy who doesnt have a dam clue on how to cold approach lmao. You actually advised him to ask her “what are you drinking?” LOL Men, if you want to succeed, especially at bars/clubs, do not listen to this clown.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:30 AM
6

Choosing signals/IOIs are for losers who need a buffer against rejection because theyre too insecure and unconfident to approach. Youll miss 99% of opportunities by waiting for choosing signals. And when you finally get one, youll freeze up because youll realize that you have had no practice on cold approaching and dont know wtf to do.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:15 AM
5

Best cities for pickup are Vegas, NYC, LA, Miami.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:47 AM
2

It wont do shit if you got no game. Girls still wont approach you if thats your goal.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:49 AM
1

What an amazing example of why social circle game is trash. You spent 3-4 hours at this hangout and met ZERO girls. How many more hours do you think it will take to build rapport to these new folks for them to invite you out? By the time you met one single attractive girl via social circle game, I would have met 100+
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:10 PM
1

You dont need a support group to meet women. Idk why youre complicating such a simple mundane task.
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:30 AM
10

Its not gonna work. Shes not interested. Period. If she was she would make time or reschedule. You think she wouldnt make time or reschedule if you it was chris hemsworth texting her?
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:49 AM
38

Lmao the best message is ignoring her and moving the fuck on with your life. You only want to send a final message because you think theres some hope left, as if your hail mary would work. Thats very needy and unattractive behavior. Move on bro. You could meet 20 girls tonight if you really wanted to.
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:27 AM
1

What do you want from us? A pity party? I dont get the purpose of this post.
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:24 AM
13

Dude youre 25. Get a grip. 25 is prime age to start. I wished I started when I was 25.
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:42 AM
2

Men who go out with goals and objectives will always outperform those who go out for “fun”. When I go out with close friends, I dont do well in regards to picking up girls. When I go out solo or with wings, I do far better. Focus matters.
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:39 AM
1

This is a seduction sub. The majority of men here arent trying to make friends. Their goal is to meet/date more women. Using social circle game to meet and date more women is borderline manipulative. These men just want more women, theyre not looking for more friendships. Hence why I dont bother. Im not trying to put up a fake persona to make friends with the sole intention of hooking up with more women. It’s disingenuous and inefficient. I just go to the source.
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:52 PM
2

So con your way into the friend group via false intentions when your real intention is to date/meet more girls? Thats such a lame strategy. First of all, it’s manipulative. If your goal is to meet/date more girls then go directly to the source. Quit these indirect avenues.
/r/seduction04/07/22 11:16 PM
23

I would start the definition of sugar daddy with an allowance, not just paying for dates. Tons of simpy losers pay for dates all the time but at least youre getting sex. I see no problem paying for dates and even experiences. Thats just a high value trait. However, make sure youre getting what you want out of the relationship or else youre just simping. Now when if you start giving her an allowance, thats questionable territory.
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:15 PM
1

I thought the same when I read that part too. What kind of lame ass girl is down to “pizza and anime” as a date LOL This dude probably scores 3-4s his whole life and now got a 5 and thinks hes the reincarnation of Casanova.
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:34 PM
3

Do you want school shooters? Because this is how you get school shooters. Lmao
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:26 PM
7

See pretty girl you want to meet. Walk up to pretty girl you want to meet. Meet pretty girl.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:54 PM
8

I agree which is why social circle game is retarded and inefficient if your goal is to date/sleep with more women. If your intention is to fuck more girls then go directly to the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:52 PM
3

True, listing your height as 5 6 will come with disadvantages. Look, I never got results from OLD. 8 years of OLD on and off, never met a girl. I found huge success in cold approach. Refer to my field reports. As for sleazy? Why? You need to drop your ego. You dont like it because you cant do it. Quit trying to masquerading your fear with morale. Or dont take my advice and continue living your lame sexless life. Doesnt matter to me.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:25 PM
3

Being friendzoned is fine but if youre friendzoned and you stay with the hopes of her hooking you up with one of her girlfriend, then thats just desperate. Be friends with people because you want to be friends with them. I dont use my friends to expand my potential hookups. I dont need to do that and risk jeopardizing my friendships. I can just meet random girls.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:20 PM
7

Social circle game is legit retarded. You spend all all this time and effort to cultivate new friendships in the hopes of meeting a girl or two? By the time you meet one new girl via social circle game, I would have met 100. Ive tried social circle game. Its not worth the risk of ruining my actual friendships to try to get at some girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:12 PM
2

Its bad advice because youre just encouraging men to continue to take no action. You literally said “just chill instead”. Chilling does not get results. Actions do.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:04 PM
2

Lol dont worry about the coaching service. Nobody is trying to sell you on it. Tbh I wouldnt take you as a client. You got some deep mental issues that is far beyond me. Theyre not interested because your game sucks, you have no confidence, youre insecure, you dont know how to talk to girls, flirt, tease, escalate, build attraction, build comfort, solve logistics, lead, etc.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:51 AM
3

The only one who mentioned coaching is you. I never advertise. I get hundreds of DMs asking for help, thats why I offer coaching. I make way more money from my day job and it’s way less effort/work than coaching. My life would be the exact same if I never get another client again. Believe whatever you want man. It doesnt affect my life. Youre only limiting your own.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:37 AM
23

Im 5’6 and a half and pull girls from night clubs all the time. If you think your height is the issue, youre wrong. Im not saying being taller doesnt help, im just saying its not a death sentence. As for being fat. Lose weight then. Height isnt a choice. Being fat is. But honestly, you struggle with dating because youre lazy and take no actions. Your OLD profile is likely trash with trash pictures. You dont cold approach because youre fucking scared. It’s easy to blame height, race, money, weigh…
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:57 AM
2

Dude, not even true. I only matched with unattractive and fat girls via OLD. Via cold approach I was able to fuck girls that I would have never matched with. Go read my field reports. Also how are you calling those rejections? You never even made a move. Youre not playing to win. Youre playing to not lose. Thats a losers mentality. Thats why you struggle with dating. Not cause of your superficial appearance.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:19 AM
1

I got no matches via OLD too then I started cold approach and found huge success. OLD results don’t correlate with cold approach results.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:17 AM
2

Girls know explicitly that im trying to fuck them. I make my intentions clear as day. Thats how I pull them from the clubs.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:20 AM
3

Lol going to a seduction sub to tell men to not try to fuck more hot women.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:18 AM
3

This is terrible advice. Guys who operate with objectives and goals will always outperform guys who follows your advice. If your goal is to fuck more hotter women then go directly to the source. Quit all these indirect avenues such as building OrGaNiC rElAtIoNsHiPs. Waste of time.
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:55 AM
3

Youre proposing problems that high schoolers have solved for decades now. Youre right. Seduction is the least of your concerns if you cant solve this easy logistical problem.
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:49 PM
1

Lol youre kidding right
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:40 PM
1

400+ approaches isnt that much… I easily did over 400 approaches in 2 months.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:39 AM
8

No. Having my own place or not does not make a difference. If you aren’t approaching now, then getting your own place wont make a difference. The reason you aren’t approaching isnt because you dont have your own place, I promise you that.
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:27 AM
2

If you really are as good looking as you say you are and these other guys are as ugly, then it’s simple. Their game is way better than yours. So much better that it overcompensates their looks department. Meanwhile you have height and looks yet you are failing which leads me to believe your game is bad.
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:20 AM
1

Go read my field reports
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:44 PM
1

If you want to meet women then go straight to the source. Quit all this nonsense about clubs and hobbies to meet women. Its inefficient as hell.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:39 PM
0

I was in a similar position as you. My dating life was near nonexistent. I read models and thought it was the greatest thing ever. Still nothing changed. Read it again hoping I would make a break through. Nope. If you want results, you need to take practical action. Models is like 90% inner game concepts. I took massive action 10 months ago and now I hook up with new girls regularly and have 2 FWBs. Here’s my “origin” story if youre interested: https://www.reddit.com/r/1PercentDating/comments/sa…
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:37 PM
4

She for da streetz fam
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:26 PM
8

Not really. The way I approach and present my intention is very heterosexual. Ive been asked why im at a gay club or what am I doing here before. I just say cause its fucking lit here. Cause it is. That club is lit af. One time a girl asked me “are you gay” and I responded with “yeah im gay……. Gay for that PUSSY”. I got that from the harold and kumar movie.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/22 06:44 AM
3

I think you gotta work on your reading comprehension lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 11:54 PM
3

We can let the mods decide that.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 11:48 PM
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Not true lol. They just leave you on read.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:35 PM
14

Hahaha if not then she has got one hell of a plastic surgeon.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 10:34 PM
5

Precisely. Guys who go out with objectives and goals will always outperform those who go out for “fun”.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:20 PM
4

Doubting me has no affect on my life. Only limits your own.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:19 PM
1

You still verify the same way. Infield footage and free content. I bought todd v verbal game academy. Why did I do that? Because through his hours of free youtube vids, Ive grown to trust him.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:10 PM
1

Lol. Ive heard all the same dissenting opinions. He’s legit. You can just tell by his hundreds of free video. Its all free so you really got nothing to lose.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:04 PM
4

I post on many subs. Whats the issue? I personally started my cold approach journey because of youtube infield footage and REDDIT field reports. However I quickly ran out of FRs to read on reddit. Im giving back to the community that inspired me to do what I do. And over the last 10 months of posting, Ive inspired hundreds of men to take action.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 10:02 PM
9

Ive told girls i want to make them a single mom of 3. Ive told them Im just trying to ruin their lives. This past weekend, I was making out with a girl at that same gay club and told her the raunchiest shit and she was cool with it. You get slapped or come of as a creep if youre i calibrated. Calibration is what differs cool guys and creeps.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 09:57 PM
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I just call that calibration. My issue with IOIs is that that’s the advice guys with no idea what theyre doing give. Go over to r seduction and even here, dudes will tell you only approach if given IOIs. Fuck that. All my wings approach without IOIs.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 09:54 PM
1

Do you have proof of that or youre just making up shit?
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:43 PM
2

just watch todd v on youtube it's all free
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:44 AM
6

Here’s two lines for beginners: Hey, I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you. Hey, you guys seem cool and I wanted to meet you. For location, it’s best to approach women at places they want to be vs have to be. So girls at mall could want to be there or they have to be there due to errands and such. Girls at bars/clubs/parties/festivals tend to always want to be there. That’s why night game is very congruent with cold approach.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:17 AM
3

Do you have a brain? Are you incapable of solving problems? Have you heard of this magical website call google? How you gonna seduce anybody when you expect to be spoon fed? Like I said. Lazy as fuck.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:15 AM
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Some of you dudes be really fucking lazy.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:48 AM
2

Attraction is subjective and it differs for everybody. I think your issue is that you dont escalate with women. If you only interact with women platonically then of course it will go no where. You need to take risk and escalate.
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:37 PM
3

If you think your location is a problem, then move. If you cant move then work with what you got and just go out to the venues you can and approach. Girls are always just in groups with each other. It never stopped me. I run solo night club game in vegas. Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:32 AM
1

Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:42 AM
1

Dont do it lmao.
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:44 PM
0

Why dont you do the approach? Wtf lol Why do you place the burden of approaching on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:36 PM
3

Stop relying on IOIs or signals. If you want to meet a girl, approach her and start a conversation. I run solo vegas night club game and Ive never relied on IOIs. All the girls Ive grabbed numbers with, made out with, and hooked up with were all without IOIs. Refer to my field reports. IOIs are a buffer of rejection for dudes who are insecure and unconfident. Is that the guy you want to be?
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:54 AM
1

It’s better to pull for same night lay. Dont aim for numbers/IG. Aim to sleep with her that same night. Numbers should be a backup.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:49 AM
1

Yeah go approach hot women and introduce yourself. Hot girls arent gonna approach you. You need to take an active approach to get the results you desire.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:38 AM
5

Of course social status is good however it’s not practical or efficient. If you need to rely on social proof in order to run game then youll never have enough practice. Solo might not be as optimal but I assure you I get more practice in than guys who only go out with friends.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:41 AM
1

“Oh no its too difficult so I rather give up” This is the difference between winners and losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:06 AM
3

Dating advice is full of loser chodes who think they can get girls because they had 5 gfs before. In reality they dont know shit.
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:01 PM
5

Running game with women is impractical and ineffective as demonstrated in your field report. Nothing happened. Congrats you talked to a girl platonically?
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:22 PM
5

Ill be 30 soon and I currently still hook up with younger girls.
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:16 PM
1

Sounds like a loser’s mentality you got there buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:42 PM
2

Youre right. I dont get noticed. Thats why I took an active approach to getting results and it’s working.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:29 PM
1

Refer to my field reports
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:28 PM
2

I have never met a girl from OLD. Within 10 months of night club game, Ive hooked up with dozens of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:24 PM
2

Tell me you have approach anxiety without telling me you have approach anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:24 PM
1

Men who go out with objectives and game plans will always out perform those who “go out for fun”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:22 PM
3

Lmao you have no idea what youre talking about. I had 0 success with OLD for 8 years intermittently. Then I start night club game. Now I hook up with girls regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:21 PM
2

Why is it lame? Cause you cant pull it off?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:19 PM
1

I do night game at vegas clubs all the time. Refer to my field reports for how I pick up girls at clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:11 PM
1

OLD, parties, and hobbies arent bad suggestions. At least youll be in situations where you can meet new women. A crucial step in finding success is to meet and interact with many new women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:18 AM
1

Lmao what… thats so dumb. OLD isnt the only way you know? You can meet people IRL even if youre not in college anymore. I meet hundreds of girls every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:09 AM
6

Im same height as you and got into game 10 months ago. Before getting into cold approach, my dating life was abysmal. It made me borderline depressed. Now, Im pretty happy with my life. Ive hooked up with many girls since starting game and now I have two FWB who I met via pickup. Ive documented my journey since day 1 so you can refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:29 AM
2

Lol what does this have to do with seduction. Youre asking the wrong sub.
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:33 AM
34

This is terrible advice and in general it’s just cope. Lifting weights, grooming yourself, and hobbies arent gonna get you girls. Meeting, interacting, and pursuing women is how you get results. All the gyming and hobbying doesnt mean shit if you dont meet, interact, and escalate with girls. Dont get me wrong, Gyming, grooming, and hobbies are important. Im not advocating for men to not self improve. Im just saying, if you think youll just teleport into pussy by doing those things, then youre in…
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:41 AM
0

This is a very narrowed way of looking at modern dating. Im sure it’s true for some women but to say all women are like this is just retarded.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:03 AM
10

Not true for all girls. Stop grouping people into monolithic groups, it doesnt benefit anybody. Some girls are hoes. Some arent.
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:50 PM
0

No books.
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:36 AM
1

When you say you changed your profile quite a bit, define that. My understanding of modern OLD is that you need amazing photos, professional photos if possible. Would you say great photos is how you get matches?
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:49 AM
2

Not in my experience. White girls tend to be more receptive while asian and black girls are least.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:44 AM
5

Stop putting white girls or any girls on a pedestal. Its so lame.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:42 AM
8

Lol white girls are the most receptive and easiest to approach. Asian girls on the other hand are starting to annoy the shit out of me.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:39 AM
4

Im asian and the great majority of my successes have been with white girls. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:38 AM
0

I like it.
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:59 AM
2

All the time. Go read my field reports.
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:45 AM
2

I wouldnt know. I dont OLD. I get far better results from cold approach.
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:36 AM
1

Self improve is good however modern dating advice, especially on reddit, has turned that shit into a meme. You know why guys like hearing advice like “focus on yourself, make money, go to the gym”? Because it’s easy. It’s easier to “focus on yourself” whatever the fuck that means. It’s easier to just work more hours at your job. It’s easy to just go to the gym. It’s harder to take concrete actions to improve your dating life, for example, learning to approach women IRL. Im not advocating for men…
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:26 AM
5

Youre coping. Girls arent cutting off age at 25.
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:56 AM
0

Lmao this is such cope advice. Advice like this just encourages men to stay in their comfort zones and essentially do nothing and hope the universe gives them a gf. Bad advice.
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:37 AM
2

You obviously struggle with dating and you think you know what the issues are: not buying tinder plus and not having social media. Yet youre too god dam lazy to solve these problems. If tinder plus is the issue then buy it (i know tinder plus isnt the issue but you think thats whats holding you back, I personally dont use OLD). You also attribute your struggles with not having social media when the solution is obvious and simple. The real reason why youre struggling is because you put in no effo…
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:07 AM
2

You have 0 luck because youre lazy and put in no effort. Youre so lazy that you cant even set up a instagram or snapchat account. Youre so lazy that you wont even spend $15 on tinder, not that I advocate to spend money on dating apps. Youre unwilling to do the difficult things. You just want the universe to give you a gf for doing absolutely nothing. Talk about entitlement.
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:46 PM
1

Run it fam
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:09 AM
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Post like this are so…. impractical. Like does it matter? Even you said these situations are extremely rare. So what if shes into you? You wouldnt know what to do next because you have no reference experience or practice interacting with hot girls. Pondering about these situations makes no sense to me. You wanna know if hot girls find you attractive? Go out there and interact with them. Interact with so many of them that you will never ponder about any one girl during an uber ride again. I meet …
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:02 AM
3

Just showing whats possible.
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:54 PM
3

Money and luxury apartments dont get girls. You need to work on your ability of attract women. If OLD isnt working for you, and it doesnt for majority of men, then find a different avenue.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:53 PM
1

Lmao. This is such god awful advice. So inefficient and overall a waste of time. Also makes you seem desperate af trying to meet her friends and beg her to set you up with a girl.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:45 PM
2

What a negative mindset you have. No wonder you fail at the clubs. Youre describing the worst possible situation. I go solo to the best nightclubs in vegas all the time. It’s a great time and I hook up with girls I would never match via OLD.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:44 PM
1

Yes, I had 0 success with OLD for 8 years intermittently. Then i started cold approach and found huge success. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:35 PM
3

I do
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:07 PM
1

300 hours
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:13 AM
5

I rarely approach asian girls anymore. The ROI is way higher with white girls.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:07 AM
13

Dude you post about the same shit every week. Just crying about your height. Shorter dudes get girls all the time. You have no fucking excuse.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:50 AM
2

Very true. If you cant approach then nothing matters. Just go up to the girls and say hey you seem cool. I wanted to meet you.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:48 AM
1

Youre gonna creep her out and lose her if you just confess your love out of no where.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:00 PM
3

I really hope this is fake because this is some next level delusional simp behavior. Even you said it yourself, she doesnt even remember you. Youre not even memorable and you think you have a shot after 20 years. This is some sad ass shit if its true.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:05 AM
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Definitely not true at all. Both my FWBs arent chasing money or materialistic. You dont need to be lucky. You need to not be lazy. Which you are. Taking easy is just another way to say “i give up so imma do nothing and just hope the universe gives me a girl”
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:52 AM
1

If you aint a troll, youre an embarrassment.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:19 AM
1

You dont think a 5 7 asian guy can pick up women? That belief will only hinder you. It has no affect on me.
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:37 PM
4

You think I paid her? Lol where did I say that?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 08:22 AM
2

Clubs I like are OMNIA ZOUK EBC XS
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:42 PM
3

Hmm… not necessarily. Pulling girls to a table is easy. Its light work. The difficulties is still the same. Can you pull her outside of the club to your place? Table game has a different set of rules. You should really screen girls well before pulling them or else you risk wasting time on girls who just want free alcohol and the VIP experience. In this FR, I didnt screen well because they were hella dudes at the table so I just pulled anybody to create a more popping environment for the people w…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 09:33 PM
6

Thanks man. Appreciate it. Yeah it’s weird how many haters are on TRP. Push pull is just a neg and pos within the same statement. “You look like trouble in the most adorable way” Hand of god is you just extend your hand with your palm facing upward towards the girl. They usually grab it. Then you pull them in.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 09:19 PM
1

XS EBC ZOUK OMNIA
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:14 PM
7

Oh no. He gave a huge fuck. He was sending her some wild text messages the morning after. Some next level simp shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 09:12 PM
2

I pull without tables majority of the time. Also I didnt pay for the table.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 09:11 PM
2

I dont think this was shocking at all.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:12 AM
17

Lol 20 hours a week. Typo. Wtf 20 hours a day. Thats madness.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:51 AM
13

There are tons of dudes on dry spells and all that retention still aint getting them pussy. If you asked me to make a list of why men struggle with dating, retention legit be on the bottom on that list. I dont watch porn or masturbate anymore. I just have sex. I used to jerk off alot but that was before i started cold approach. I do agree that porn is toxic for men. You put too much value on retention. Men arent suddenly going to not struggle with dating just because they dont nut for 2 weeks. T…
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:50 AM
8

Wtf lol. Retention is not gonna make you a king. Girls wont smell shit. What kind of cope is this? Work on yourself for yourself. Dont do it for women. If you want women then go directly to the source.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:10 AM
1

Not really. I dont wear dress shoes ever. I wear jeans and a T shirt to the best vegas night clubs all the time. I would say limit group size because it can hinder your game. Group size isnt really an issue for entrance even in vegas clubs. True I would say just be respectful, patient, and polite. The really doubt the bouncer gives a shit about how fun you are. Eh i dont think i believe this one. True Somewhat true. Althrough I usually enter at 1130-12am Very true.
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:41 PM
1

I meet women at clubs and bars. I pull all the time from these venues. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:25 PM
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I disagree. Men should not just wait for the universe to give them a girl. Thats bad advice. The harder you work, the luckier you get. If OP spends 20 hours a day cold approaching, he will get more results than any guy whos just twindling their thumbs waiting for fate to give them a girl. Edit: 20 hours a week.
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:22 PM
3

You dont need expensive/materialistic stuff to attract women. Dont bother with that stuff. I dont even wear a watch anymore and I still pull. When I go out to pickup women, I drive a 20k honda and my fit probably cost $150-200 total. Btw, being a doctor and making money wont improve your dating life incase you think it was going to.
/r/seduction13/06/22 11:00 AM
1

Meet up is trash for meeting women. Been there done that. Waste of time. People who go to meetups tend to be rejects of society.
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:55 AM
3

Why are you even here. It’s clear you’ve completely given up already. This is a sub for those who want to get better at attracting women.
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:52 AM
7

Because people prefer feel good post instead of actionable post. This post tells dudes to go out there and get rejected. Thats a hard pill to swallow. It’s easier to read a post about focusing on yourself and a girl will magically appear in your life.
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:48 AM
1

Then live a boring, mediocre life. Idk what you want us to do? Talk you out of these mental blocks? Excuses upon excuses upon excuses. It's getting old.
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:27 AM
1

Spoken like someone who doesn’t run game.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:18 PM
2

Lol I dont do nothing. I take massive action and get results.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:17 PM
5

Nah bro. Keep going solo. Thats how I cultivate this lit ass life im living right now. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:14 AM
5

Going with wings is only good if your wings have game. If they got approach anxiety like OP then nobodys getting laid.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:13 AM
12

These are some retarded questions.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:11 AM
1

Im shorter than you and get girls all the time. Your height isnt the reason why you struggle.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:11 AM
3

Ok so you do well IRL and struggle with OLD. So why dont you just approach girls IRL?
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:09 AM
8

Lmao “just do nothing and wait”
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:08 AM
3

Start with night game. Go to clubs and bars solo and just approach. “Hey, you seem cool, I wanted to meet you”
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:51 AM
1

Hire a coach if you got money.
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:48 AM
9

You get no results because you take no actions. I was similar to you 10 months ago. My dating life was nonexistent. Then I took massive action and now it’s pretty crazy. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:41 AM
1

Im same height and asian as well. I do quite well nowadays but this only started 10 months ago. Before that I was struggling with dating after I started my professional career. OLD was complete garbage for me. 0 meetups from 8 years of OLD intermittently. Then I started cold approach 10 months ago and Ive almost doubled my lay count since. You can refer to my field reports for more details. Here’s my “origin” story: https://www.reddit.com/r/1PercentDating/comments/sagseq/what_it_took_for_me_to_f…
/r/seduction11/06/22 08:35 PM
11

Then go to those places? Go to bars and clubs. Go to malls. Go to music events. Go to food festivals. Go to concerts. You obviously want to meet and date women but I guess you just dont want it bad enough.
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:43 AM
5

Girls fall in 3 categories: receptive, neutral, and unreceptive. Game can be used on all 3 types. It gives the highest ROI on neutral girls. For receptive girls, you still need a bit of game because even receptive girls arent gonna be into you if youre a total weirdo. Unreceptive girls have lowest ROI for game. It’s unlikely you can convince her to be attracted to you no matter how good your game is. You might be too short, too skinny, too poor, too buff, whatever. Some girls just arent gonna be…
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:37 AM
20

You sounded nervous and uncomfortable lol. But good job on the attempt. When you ask a girl out, dont ask. Tell her. Youre here like “oh so i was wondering if umm you think it would be um cool if i got your number and maybe we can um hang out later and maybe grab a drink…?” A better attempt would be “hey you seem cool, lets hang out sometime this week when youre not at work.” Less is more. Stop trying to fit so many words in. Get to the point. Dont ask a question. Make a statement. Overall this …
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:17 AM
1

This is how I know you dont have game. Youre here talking about signals lmao. I dont rely on IOIs to approach, I just do it regardless because Im not a pussy. You likely dont like cold approach because youre afraid and youre uncalibrated as hell.
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:07 AM
2

I know you dont approach. Its very obvious.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:58 AM
1

Lol dont you just hate that. These posers pretend to know it all but cant provide specific actionable advice. All vague platitudes
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:57 AM
0

If girls are uncomfortable with you approaching them it’s because your game sucks and youre uncalibrated.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:55 AM
0

You definitely dont know how to approach girls.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:52 AM
3

Online is not approaching. And yes, those numbers are nonexistent.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:35 PM
2

Lol you hella fumbled that set.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:18 AM
1

I do coaching for night game. Read some of my field reports to see if im someone you want coaching from.
/r/seduction04/06/22 11:02 PM
2

Instead of complaining, why dont you learn from your mistakes and improve.
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:03 AM
5

I think i got comfortable at after 4 months. But I went out alot. Like 20-25 hours a week.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:07 AM
2

Your fears are greater than your wants because you dont want it bad enough. You say you do but you really dont. You rather be comfortable than great.
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:36 AM
6

Youre failing because youre lazy. You take no action and put in no effort.
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:45 PM
17

Nope, my last 10 month has been very fulfilling in terms of girls. Ive almost doubled my lay count in the last year. I dont do OLD though. OLD has been trash for me my whole life. 0 results from OLD for 8 years. Then I start night game and found huge success. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:41 PM
1

How are you putting yourself out there? How are you meeting new women?
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:43 AM
3

I dont use discotech but this is true.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 09:32 PM
3

Im only doing well dating wise because I take massive action. Just 10 months ago, i was borderline depressed with how my dating life was going.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 09:30 PM
3

Way more confident. Happier. Developed a skill and now seeing improvement through results. Feeling a sense of accomplishment and achievement. Through game ive developed an extremely positive mindset where anything is possible. Also met some great people and have a new social circle. Overall Im the best Ive ever been. Probably could gym more though.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 09:27 PM
3

Its not marketing if theyre on a date already. Dating apps are marketing but majority of men do a shit job with their OLD profiles. Sure most men probably dont know how to close a sale either but thats a different problem. Closing the sale is what this sub is really about.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:22 PM
3

You answered your own question. Your problem is that you dont put yourself out there.
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:53 PM
35

Majority of guys who follow that advice will still end up struggling with women. Most men have a marketing problem, not a product problem.
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:37 AM
0

How many girls do you meet per week?
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:45 AM
1

Ok then step one would be start interacting with women… you already know the answers to these questions. You just dont want to take action or put in the work.
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:45 AM
1

Personal reasons completely unrelated to game. I would be in vegas regardless of game.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 04:23 AM
1

No, I run game without tables 99% of the time. Refer to my other field reports.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 03:51 AM
18

I drink and sober up. I dont drink alot to begin with. Pretty much 1 drink an hour and i chug water constantly.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 03:50 AM
8

How are you an engineer and asking these questions. Thats like asking: Will being a code monkey fuck up my physique? No. Being a software engineer doesnt stop you from being fit/jacked. Not going to the gym prevents you from being jacked. Being an engineer wont fuck up your social skills. Your lack of practice of social skills will do that.
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:17 AM
7

Lol I do my best work without bottle service. 99.9% of the time I dont have a table and I still pull. Refer to my field reports. Also the host brings you girls? Lol why. Thats just dumb. Bring girls that are receptive towards you or youll just be wasting time.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 01:11 AM
6

Not true at all. You get more girls but the competition is higher too. You have guys who are more daring in vegas. There’s way more pickup bros here as well. Also youre competing with money. Guys who come once a year and blow $15000 on a DJ table. Ive heard how people say vegas is easier but I bet if these same folks come through they wouldnt be able to pull for multiple nights.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 01:02 AM
27

Fri and sat. Unless youre in vegas, then its every night. I can go out solo 7 nights a week if I wanted to.
/r/seduction01/06/22 11:47 PM
3

I dont work a day job. I have a job and usually start work in the afternoon.
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:22 PM
5

I dont recommend drugs. Alcohol is fine but no drugs.
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:12 PM
1

If you want to be good at this at least 12 hours a week.
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:10 PM
3

Also, I get into clubs for free 99% of the time. I think Ive paid once out of 150+ clubbing nights.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 10:04 PM
1

Nope, I barely spend money on girls. I usually spend $30 on two beers for myself though.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 10:03 PM
7

Lol what? A set cost $0. I cant tell it youre joking or not.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 08:38 PM
1

Yeah but you arent fucking them lol.
/r/seduction30/05/22 07:58 PM
3

I dont see whats the point of talking to girls who are from other countries. Waste of time. You cant fuck them.
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:51 AM
3

Make statements 70% of the time, 30% questions. In the beginning just do cold reads and make statements until the set hooks. I define hook as in she ask you a question. If youre new it’s not a bad idea to have canned lines or a routine. You just need to socially calibrate the jump off points from your routine so you can enter into a more genuine interaction. As for your convos, if they aint going anywhere it’s likely because youre not taking any risk aka verbal escalation. Escalate verbally by t…
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:03 AM
3

Lol shes just not interested. Move on to the next one. Your text game is fine.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:31 PM
2

I did OLD for 8 years with 0 successes. I started cold approach 9 months ago and significantly increased my lay count. Just pulled a girl from a day club a few hours ago.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:10 AM
1

I am 5'7 and definitely not extremely attractive. I won't say I'm ugly though. I know I'm not model tier looks because my 27 years of life has told me that. Women have never approached me and they still don't. 8 years of OLD resulted in 0 success. I started cold approach for 8 months and increased my lay count by 90% while sleeping with way hotter girls. Girls that I would have never matched via OLD or "social circle game". With that said, I don't have to imagine how life is as an average lookin…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/22 11:02 AM
2

Every other week just send her a quick text on hows shes doing, hope youre good, etc. its better to under text than over text. Less is more gents.
/r/seduction26/05/22 10:21 PM
2

How you gonna talk about morality and then refer to night clubs as meat markets just cause there is a ton of girls there? You dont need eye contact or IOIs regardless of the venue/location. Youll miss 99% of opportunities if you rely on IOIs. Ive pulled over dozens of girls doing cold approach and have never once used IOIs. I just approach and let the chips fall. Go read my field reports. All same night pulls and no IOIs. Girls dont even know I exist until I approach them. Dude, I strike out all…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/22 08:49 PM
2

Idk what street youre talking about but Im talking about like a board walk on a popular beach, or a popular outdoor mall in santa monica. Or the las vegas strip. Tbh idk why theres even such a focus on the streets. Better places are malls, campuses, clubs, bars, etc. Justify however you want but IOIs are just a buffer for your ego. You see a girl you want to meet but you dont approach her because she didnt look at you? Come on. How is that good inner game. Real confident men would just do the ap…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/22 08:50 AM
1

Mark manson is not a pick up artist. I doubt he can even manage 5%.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/22 01:20 AM
1

All the people hating on you probably have never done a cold approach in their life. Hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/22 12:14 AM
1

5% is fucking master level. Thats 1/20 girls. I can approach 20 girls in 2 hours.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/22 11:58 PM
1

Unless you’re approaching in the hood, I dont think you gotta worry about criminals. Most people are just normal folks. You dont need eye contact. IOI is just a buffer against rejection. Dont be afraid of rejection and let go of your ego. OLD is not cold approach. Completely different.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/22 11:56 PM
4

Lol. Social circle game is so inefficient if your goal is to meet women. So you propose guys go to hobby activities with the hopes that they get invited to a hang out where they will be tons of single women? Thats sounds utterly exhausting and inefficient. Your examples are also wildly inaccurate and unrealistic. 3 female friends arent gonna be converted to 27 female encounter, not without an extremely substantial amount of time work and effort. By the time youve met those 27 options, I would ha…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/22 11:51 PM
1

I go out solo all the time. Its not weird at all. Refer to my field reports
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:14 PM
1

Why dont you stop using online dating and approach women in real life?
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:09 PM
1

She for the streets
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:02 AM
2

Thats why its so highly upvoted. Its a useless feel good post. It encourages men to continue doing nothing to attract women. It encourages men to just keep living their lame ass lives and the stars will somehow align. This is the issue with modern dating advice.
/r/seduction20/05/22 10:12 PM
6

Post like this get so heavily upvoted because it encourages men to not learn the skill of attracting women. It encourages men to just “do you” and the stars will align. Ultimately this is poor advice in my opinion. If you want to be successful with women then you need to actively learn this skill and put effort into it. There are so many successful guys who have their lives together who gets no girls because they dont know how to market themselves or attract women.
/r/seduction20/05/22 10:10 PM
1

If you want to meet women then go directly to the source. Stop jumping through hoops. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/usby4s/how_to_improve_your_dating_life_stop_jumping/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:18 PM
3

Scarcity mentality.
/r/seduction20/05/22 02:23 AM
1

No. I approach all the time without eye contact. IOIs is just a buffer against rejections. Its to protect your ego. Let go of your ego man.
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:23 AM
5

Yep, only guys who go out as much as we do could understand this perspective. The amount of time, effort, and sacrifice it takes to refine a skill and the reap the rewards is unmatched.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:10 AM
10

I dont need business. I do this cause I love the game. I have a professional career that makes magnitudes more money. I offer coaching because I get hundreds of DMs asking for help. If I didnt charge, I would legit have an endless list of clients. Also, Im not here to help everybody. I want to help those who are serious about taking action and improving their dating lives.
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:35 PM
8

That’s why all the “feel good” post are always the top voted ones. This isnt a feel good post. This is a post that tells men that this “seduction” skill requires time, effort, work, patience, and sacrifice. Nobody wants to hear that. Everybody just wants a magic pill that fixes all their problems.
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:30 PM
5

25 dates. 3-4 hours a date. 75-100 hours. Plus money. 1 lay… I would say thats bad.
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:10 PM
3

You go out solo 20 hours a week. Thats how I found them. I have 5 wings now. But that’s the irony, I dont need wings to game. I can do it solo. I do my best work when Im solo.
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:23 AM
-1

Your photos suck. Google las vegas tinder photography for examples of good photos.
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:09 AM
2

My advice is dont do indirect until you’re experienced. Go for direct if youre new and get comfortable being in set. Run 1000 direct approach sets and youll soon see how easy it is to transition. Personally I never use indirect like the examples youve given because it’s a bit manipulative. It shows youre not true with your intentions and your actions. Youre either ashamed or insecure or unconfident, all are unattractive qualities. The most indirect I do is “hey yall seem cool, I wanted to meet y…
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:08 AM
1

I do solo night club game in Vegas. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:03 AM
7

Meetup is retarded for meeting women. Been there tried that. Abysmal. Meetup is for social rejects, lets not kid ourselves. Ive been to tons of meetup drinking events. 80-90% dudes who are all trying to do the same shit: meet girls. The girls? Unattractive. Dont do meetup. Its a waste of time.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:04 AM
2

Lol im the same as you. Asian and same height. Actually half an inch shorter. OLD was abysmal for me. 8 years of OLD intermittent with ZERO success. Then I started cold approach. Night game in particular. I found massive results from cold approach. Ive pulled girls that I would never match with via OLD and I definitely would never meet via social circles. Like when am I ever gonna meet a pornstar or actress? Refer to my field reports for more details. Anyways, Im not against OLD. I dont do it an…
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:00 AM
10

I am so tired of hearing you dudes wanting results but not willing to put in the effort, time, or work. You want to meet more women but you dont want to pursue the most obvious path: cold approach. Like you get what you work for man. You can do all these lame ass social circle game, join hobbies, go to meet up groups. Ive done that. Its fucking abysmal. I assure you, i would legit meet at minimum TEN times more girls than you via cold approach in the same amount of time you spend trying any othe…
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:54 AM
1

Send her the i volunteer as tribute gif
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:29 AM
6

I would not recommend this method at all. The majority of times this does not work and is very unattractive. Especially toward hotter girls.
/r/seduction14/05/22 10:31 PM
-3

I do solo night game all the time at clubs in Vegas. I pick up girls on a regular basis now. Refer to my field reports for details. Ive documented my journey since day 1.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:14 AM
8

I go solo and pick up women all the time. You dont need a wing to pickup women.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:13 AM
7

Yeah I got some great advice: go meet and date other women.
/r/seduction14/05/22 03:04 AM
7

I go solo all the time.
/r/seduction14/05/22 02:42 AM
8

I must say it’s rare for me to find a useful post on this sub. This is one of them. Good post.
/r/seduction14/05/22 02:39 AM
1

Why are malls off limits? Malls are great places. So what if you dont go to college? You can still be on campus. So what if you dont drink? Not every drinks when they go to a bar or club. Stop the excuses.
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:02 PM
4

Whenever you approach women who are at work, you run the risk of holding her hostage. I prefer to approach women at places where they WANT to be instead of HAVE to be. Does this mean never approach women at work? No. Do whatever you want. Its just way harder. If you can approach a girl at work then why cant you approach a girl on the street or mall or club?
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:15 PM
2

Great that youre taking action. You should try doing night game too. It’s far more congruent with cold approach and your ROI is always better with night game in terms of results. Refer to my field reports for a night game perspective.
/r/seduction13/05/22 09:10 PM
1

I seriously dont get why men keep trying to play this game on hard mode. Why approach women who are working? Im not against it, it just doesnt make sense in terms of time and effort. There are thousands of girls at malls, univerities, clubs, bars, beaches, whatever. And you want to potentially hold a girl hostage by approaching her at work lol.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:57 PM
1

Because you take no actions to market yourself.
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:10 PM
8

Lmao this is a classic example of holding someone hostage. When you approach girls at places they HAVE to be at, you risk holding them hostage. Up to you if you wanna keep doing that but idk why you want to run game on hard mode. Just approach girls at places they want to be instead.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:59 PM
6

She’s not interested. Move on.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:24 PM
2

Majority of dudes are lazy af.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:12 PM
-1

No… not really. Not even close tbh.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:40 AM
2

Oh yes. Be yourself. How innovative.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:38 AM
2

I go out with the sole objective of picking up girls. I can assure you I would outperform anybody who just goes out to “have fun”. I see dudes who just go out and “have fun” all the time. They do not pull.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:37 AM
5

This is such bad advice. Focusing on yourself and “inner game” isnt gonna work for the majority of guys. Most men need to take action with goals and objectives. Not just do nothing and hope a girl falls into your life.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:34 AM
0

🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:12 AM
1

Why you trying to be captain save a hoe? Get a grip fam.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:08 AM
3

Ive heard this joke every time I make a comment like this. Its getting old.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:36 PM
2

It is 100% better. Idk why men jump through all these hoops. If your goal is to meet women and sleep with women then just approach women. Another huge fallacy I see is men want to get rich to get women. Thats so dumb. Get rich for any other reason. You can get women without being rich.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:34 PM
25

Yep. I tried OLD for 8 years intermittently and had 0 success. I started cold approach 9 months ago and Ive almost doubled my lay count.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:08 AM
11

Dude if you want to meet women then just go meet women. Why are you trying to jump through all these hoops? You can go to a volunteer event and maybe meet 1-2 attractive girls which will likely take 3-4 hours. Or you can spend 3-4 hours doing cold approach and meet 20-30 girls.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:46 AM
1

Tons of people do their hobbies 20 hours a week. MMA, fitness, gym, music, dance, instruments, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:00 AM
1

I agree. Gaming does not apply to women. Women dont game. All sorts of people go to clubs. Dont be so closed minded. Im sure youve drank or done drugs right? That’s like a mormon guy saying “quality girls dont drink or do drugs”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:53 PM
3

When you love what you do, you find a way. I work full time hours. I often work 10-12 hours and go straight to the club. The nights out dont take a toll unless you work 8am. I dont work a 8-5. Alcohol does but you dont have to drink. All my current wings dont drink. You do sacrifice alot of your other hobbies. Luckily I have no other hobbies :D I work, go game, and have dates with FWBs that I met from cold approach. I run game in Vegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:46 PM
3

LOL once a week. Bro if you want to get good at this, you need to go out at least 3 nights a week. I go out 4 at the minimum depending on my job. Last month, I hooked up with 5 girls. Girls that I would have never matched via OLD or met via social circle. In what world would I meet a 21yo netflix actress or a pornstar? Or that 21yo canadian girl. Cold approach has changed my life. Fucking love this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:26 PM
2

I mean… Ive done social circle game from 15-27 High school, college, frat life, grad school, first job. 12 years of it. And within 9 months of cold approach, Ive nearly doubled my lay count. By 12 months of cold approach, I would have slept with more girls than I did from 12 years of social circle game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:23 PM
2

I dont keep track of approaches. I track it by nights I go out. I can pull 20-25% of the nights I go out. So 1/5 to 1/4. Some nights, I approach 20 sets, some I approach 5. If sets are going well then I approach less. As for my success. You can read my field reports. Ive documented my journey since day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:11 PM
1

I love doing night game. It’s so fun meeting different girls and just talking to them. Escalating on them. Doing crazy ass shit. Having wild nights. Unbelievable nights happen when you do it so often. Ive pulled an actress and pornstar recently. If you love interacting with women then idk how you can dislike cold approach. That’s legit all I do when Im doing night game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:08 PM
3

Lmao, no that’s probably what you do since you dont know how to night game. What you described is called choding around. I dont chode around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:04 PM
3

That’s because most men are lazy and take no actions to improve their dating lives. Men without an abundance reality will always just settle for whatever girl that falls into their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:57 PM
2

I know real coaches in vegas, I wouldnt call myself a coach. Im an enthusiastic hobbyist whos willing to teach during my spare time. Im only 9 months in. Though, Ive achieved alot, I still have alot to learn and improve on. I only shit on social circle game cause Ive done it and it’s not effective. I actually advocate for OLD. You just need to optimize it strategically. I agree. Not everybody is as lustful as I am and that’s fine. Like youve been saying, to each their own. No need to throw insul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:51 PM
2

It’s disappointing if you dont have game. I used to hate night clubs and would never advocate to go to a night club. It was because I had no game. Now, I love that shit. I go solo on a weekly basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:43 PM
1

Lmao your comment is so dumb it actually made me laugh. Wtf hahhahah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:39 PM
1

Definitely not true from my cold approach experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:37 PM
2

Ive done both and cold approach has been the more effective. Hiphop dance cases and meetup groups did not lead to any results. 9 months of cold approach and I nearly doubled my lay count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:37 PM
4

Lmao cause reddit is full of guys who cant cold approach. This is a honest and genuine answer people. This is how cold approach can be if you get good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:30 PM
2

Sure it depends on your priorities. If you really want to have an abundance reality with women, then do cold approach. If youre content but just want a little bit more exposure then do social circle game. My hobby is pickup. I love this shit. I go out 20 hours a week solo because it’s that enjoyable for me. Ive also always been a very lustful person so I have a very high prioritization in sleeping with alot of different girls. It’s the perfect hobby for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:15 PM
2

It is absolutely a fear of rejection. The majority of people in the world have a fear of failure. That’s why so many people live complacent lives mediocre lives. If you knew you could not fail, what would you do? I would wager that you waste far more energy/time/whatever by trying to do social circle game. You go through all these hoops to meet x amount of girls. I can promise you, with the same effort/money/time, I can meet 10x more girls via cold approach. You say youre looking for a LTR but v…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:10 PM
0

I do coaching if that’s what youre asking about. But no I am not advertising. Everything I said was the truth and what I truly believe in. I have a professional job that makes way more money. Coaching is just a hobby for me. I charge because if I didnt then I would have an endless amount of clients. Also why would I not charge? If youre good at something, dont do it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:31 PM
4

So inefficient. Youre going through all these hoops to maybe meet one cute girl lmao. I can go out to a night club tonight and meet 20 cute girls. Stop jumping through hoops. Just go directly to the source. The men who prefer social circle game is because they want to buffer against rejection. Theyre afraid of rejection. Dont be afraid of rejection. Rejection can be your ally. I welcome women to reject quickly. It saves me time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:07 PM
3

Cold approach will always give you more options than any other form of game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:03 PM
2

Ive done all 3: OLD, social network game, and cold approach. Cold approach is without a doubt the most effective form of game. Before cold approach, I tried OLD intermittently for 8 years with ZERO success. Ive never met a girl from OLD. I got nearly all of my relationships and hook ups via social circle game during college and grad school. I started cold approach 9 months ago and I increased my lay count by 85-90%. I almost doubled my 13 year lay count in 9 months. Ill for sure double it by 12 …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:02 PM
4

Nice post. I completely agree. A great product is worthless without proper marketing.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:18 AM
2

Models isnt the reason why Im finding success lmao. Not even close. A book does not change your inner game. Your reality is what changes your inner game. When you start seeing progress and results based on your hard work and effort, that’s what changes your inner game. I used to be a models fanboy and I think I still like it but at the end of the day, what I do is pickup and mark isnt a PUA. Hes a writer. He doesnt do what I do. If anything he is anti PUA.
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:11 PM
1

And what actions are you taking to directly improve your dating life?
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:41 AM
1

Good hygiene isnt anything special. Thats a pretty low bar. Well fitting clothes is a step up but still not that special. Requires a little bit of effort and action. As for your other examples, that’s too vague and abstract. What is the man doing to achieve “excellent body language”, good attitude, confidence, high self esteem? I agree those are attractive qualities but what do men do in the practical sense to achieve that?
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:40 AM
4

Define everything right.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:43 PM
2

Not practical. Read it twice and my life stayed the same. I started doing cold approach and my life changed.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:31 PM
8

Read models twice. My life didnt change. Started going out solo doing cold approach. Life is lit now. New girls all the time. FWBs, etc. Models wont do jack shit. Actions will.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:30 PM
9

The scarcity mentality is strong with you.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:01 PM
9

Dating is difficult for men who struggle because they are lazy and take no action. Change my mind.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:59 PM
2

Just take the L fam
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:49 PM
1

Girls shapes like that definitely exist IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:34 PM
2

As a guy who hooks up with alot of girls, I think setting a time period, 30-60 days, is an excellent way to filter men like me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:03 AM
4

As a guy who hooks up with alot of girls, you can avoid guys like me by not having sex with them for 30 days at the minimum. Also, only have sex when youre in a committed relationship, after 30 days of course. Guys that get girls regular wont bother with girls who require to be in a relationship along with a 30 say rule. It just aint worth my time or effort unless I really like you and actually want to date you long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:00 AM
5

Lmao he didnt mock girls like that. Girls like that fine af. He was talking about the balloon shaped women. Yall tripping.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:20 AM
4

She rejected you cause shes not attracted to you.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:02 AM
6

RIP
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:09 PM
3

Women dont do game.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:09 PM
2

Read my field reports. I go out solo all the time.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:56 PM
16

No, women are clueless on the amount of work and effort it takes for men to have good game.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:56 PM
1

Go out 20 hours a week solo.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:06 PM
2

A moment of silence for the fallen brother. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:06 PM
2

Useless. Find guys who are just as passionate and have 1 on 1 conversations with them instead.
/r/seduction06/05/22 09:44 AM
19

Holy shit he’s dead?! Wow how unfortunate. Samuels did alot of good work for men out there. He was a little too obsessed with money but nonetheless. Dam that fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:25 AM
7

You sleeping on these young white girls. They wild.
/r/seduction06/05/22 05:21 AM
2

Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:44 AM
2

100k is hardly high earning
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:42 AM
1

Kevin samuels is too obsessed with money. Also 6 figures isn’t impressive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:41 AM
1

Go out solo. I have like 7 wings now. I met them all by going out solo.
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:38 PM
-1

JA is a fraud and loser lol. There are actual legit coaches you can learn from. JA is not one of them.
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:36 PM
2

This doesnt teach you how to date or fuck IG models. This just teach how to get them to respond to your initial message. Getting them to respond is easy. Getting them to meet up for a date is far more difficult.
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:58 AM
7

Ew lol. You enjoy being fetishized
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:33 AM
2

IG is not my CV. I don't have an IG and pull all the time.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:28 AM
1

Night game is bad for numbers. If you want numbers then do day game. Night game is best for same night pulls. My opinion is that the best way to get a girl to text you back is to sleep with her.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:48 PM
150

Yeah that didnt make any sense to me. Pretty sure he was never broke. He graduated from harvard law…. Lmao how the hell was he broke
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:43 PM
1

Clubs are the best.
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:37 PM
12

Being good at sex doesnt mean youll be able to get the girl into bed with you. You still need game. This post is kind of dumb.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:04 PM
5

Im 5 6 and a half. I rounded it up to 5 7 for my user name. Through cold approach, Ive increased my lay count by 90% in 8 months. Refer to my field reports for more details.
/r/seduction04/05/22 07:01 AM
2

Go to the bars that are frequented by women youre attracted to. Packed and loud music is just an excuse you use to not take action. You think legit nobody in those bars are having conversations? Go inside the bar and approach. I approach at loud and packed night clubs and take women home all the time.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:59 AM
0

Where you been Hayden? Havnt seen you in a while at the clubs.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:31 AM
1

Pretty sure jerking off to league hentai is the definition of pathetic loser lmaooo. You literally a meme bro. You the poster child of dweebs LOL
/r/TheRedPill04/05/22 02:53 AM
5

Quit being a pussy and just approach.
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:19 AM
0

Yes wtf. It is a VERY bad idea. 5 minutes away bro.
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:17 AM
0

Hahaha you’re delusional if you think roe v wade plays a part in women deciding their sex lives
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:12 AM
1

Yall need to quit simping. If she aint dtf after date 2 then it’s a wrap for me. Expectation should be to fuck on date 1.
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:11 AM
0

Yall real special
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:09 AM
6

Because it feels 1000% better when you earn it. It’s like paying to win vs earning the victory. Also, the genuine attraction of a girl who wants to fuck you for who you are is completely different than an escort who we both know is fucking you because you paid her to. Trust me bro, Ive tried escorts. The dopamine high doesnt even come close. And I really dont spend that much money on drinks. Refer to my previous field reports of the actress and the pornstar. I spent $0 on both of them. As for th…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 10:05 AM
5

I mean…. Shes freshly 21 so… not that far from HS
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 06:39 AM
3

Black girls dont like me :/ I approach all pretty girls. I don’t discriminate. Theres gorgeous girls in every race
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 04:36 AM
5

My proof are my FRs. Believe them or not, it doesnt matter to me. Im not hustling for clients. I do coaching because I get hundreds of DMs asking for advice. I have a professional career that makes way more money.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 02:49 AM
5

Some people would think TRP is cringe and that youre cringe for browsing TRP. Dont be so closed minded.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 01:00 AM
9

Very true. Reputation matters for girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 12:58 AM
17

People who do pickup tend to like the details.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 12:58 AM
17

I dont put white girls on a pedestal. Theyre just most receptive to me and easier to pull in general. White and hispanic girls in particular. While black and asian girls tend to be harder for me.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:28 PM
20

I dont worship white people. Asian girls are just harder to pull.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:27 PM
7

LOL how you out here calling other people pathetic. You legit jerk off to league of legends hentai. Youre a fucking clown 🤡
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:26 PM
3

Why dont you go back to playing league of legends lmao
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:17 PM
1

I drank like 40% of the drinks. I avg about 1 beer an hour. I dont get drunk. It’s bad for game.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:16 PM
1

Hmm I dont really calculate it based on sets open. Sets are so variable. I think a better method is to calculate it based on nights out because it’s more constant. I can open 5 or 20 sets a night. But I almost always go out 4-5 nights a week and spend 3-4 hours at the club. My chill to pull is likely 20% as in 1/5 nights I pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:14 PM
6

Watching mike’s vids (cassanova) is what pushed me into doing cold approach. Now I see him every so often at the clubs.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 09:12 PM
4

Ohh thats why theyre called snow bunnies lmao
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 07:30 PM
1

Tell them youre an online entertainer
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:53 AM
3

Skinny jeans, plain T shirt, bomber jacket
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:50 AM
2

Just call them bad bitches
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:49 AM
3

Tourist cause I run club game but I know locals spots, they just dont have the volume as clubs.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:49 AM
2

You sound like a pleasant person.
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:06 AM
1

I mean it’s technically a numbers game for both genders. However the more you improve your fitness, game, style, fashion, hairstyle, etc, the higher your conversion can be. 5% conversion is amazing. Thats 1/20 girls. I can easily approach 20 girls a night without breaking a sweat. As for rejections, you think the more rejections you get, the lower your self esteem goes but that’s not the case. Youll get so used to rejections that they dont phase you anymore. And thats an attractive quality that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 11:52 PM
7

Can confirm. I pick up girls all the time without using money. It’s 2022. Women can make their own money. Majority of women I meet aren’t gold diggers and really dont give a shit. They have their own jobs and lives.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:08 PM
1

Get off tinder then
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:40 PM
1

Ive increased my lay count by 90% via cold approach in 8 months.
/r/seduction01/05/22 06:04 AM
2

I never wear a suit to the clubs. Maybe I should give it a shot.
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:50 AM
1

You need to improve your game. I used have difficulties sleeping with multiple different girls. Then I learned cold approach and now Im having more sex than I could keep up with sometimes.
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:49 AM
2

Thats weird, Ive pulled 6 girls back to my spot this month and have had sex with 5 of them. Met them all the same night I pulled them. No dates. Might have bought a some of them a drink at the club at the most.
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:47 AM
1

Las Vegas. There’s no tricks. Get on the guestlist or have a nevada ID.
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:19 AM
1

You should take responsibility for every aspect of your life. Doesnt mean it’s your fault. It means its your responsibility. Take complete accountability for every aspect of your life.
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:29 AM
2

Another post to show that height isn’t everything.
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:27 AM
2

I think youll be fine as long as you dont look like a bum.
/r/seduction01/05/22 12:26 AM
1

I spend $0 to get into clubs 99% of the time.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:50 PM
-1

I go out to night clubs and pick up girls. I do this 4 nights a week at the minimum.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:53 AM
10

Pulling a girl =/= seeing her on TV lol. I didn't spend a dime on these girls. Being able to hook up with a girl using only your game is what makes it so rewarding. Men who think having money will solve their dating troubles are just coping. At best you'll become a sugar daddy.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:07 AM
4

I was 10 times happier after pulling the actress and pornstar than I was when I made 42k/month.
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:00 AM
3

Lol nope. I used to make 42k/month and was extremely discontent with my life. I am far happier now that I have way more success with women at the cost of making less money.
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:47 AM
3

Uhh… no. Women arent going to approach you lol.
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:42 AM
2

Im pretty sure i pull so often because I optimize my looks as much as possible. Especially my hair.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:24 PM
2

Indeed this is very silly. Why do you guys focus on such silly situations. How about you spend 4 hours going out to bars and clubs and meet women, where it’s logistically possible. Its baffling how men spend so much time pondering on these silly situations. If you spent that same effort and energy in learning how to approach girls, you wouldnt even care about some random girl at a red light.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:22 PM
1

You know what your problem is? You complain about how poor your dating life is yet you take no action. I can already tell that you dont put effort into improving your dating life. It’s not just you though. The vast majority of men dont put in the work. Yall reap what you sow.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:52 AM
0

Its likely because you take no action. Im shorter than you and Ive slept with 5 hot girls this month all via cold approach. No OLD at all.
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:49 AM
5

Lmao huge cope
/r/seduction29/04/22 11:46 AM
-2

Watch some todd v
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:44 PM
4

Of course the goal is to same day pull but that shit is way harder with day game usually incredibly difficult because of logistics. So you settle for the next best thing which is instadate and number close. A girl is far more likely to text you back if you instadate them vs 2 minute hit and run. OP clearly showed that with his stats. His 2 minute hit and run sets arent producing any results.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:43 PM
1

/u/squattincassanova He’s a dating coach in Vegas and does photography geared towards OLD. Google las vegas tinder photography.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:28 PM
2

This is how I changed my situation: https://www.reddit.com/r/1PercentDating/comments/sagseq/what_it_took_for_me_to_finally_start_doing_cold/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Basically I go out 20 hours a week with the sole purpose of picking up girls. Last night I just hooked up with a hot 21yo white girl. Ill write a FR about it later.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:17 PM
6

Not necessary building a connection. With game in general you want to build attraction and comfort. If youre day gaming like how OP is then youll get poor results. Girls arent gonna be down to text back/go on a date with a guy who spoke to them for 2 minutes. If you want higher retention, especially with day game you need to spend more time with her. That’s why it’s advised to do an instadate. Shes far more likely to text you backs/go on a date if you spent an hour with her over jamba juice vs w…
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:13 PM
1

Go out and approach girls. Refer to my field reports for details.
/r/seduction28/04/22 11:06 PM
6

That's fine. But then they shouldn't complain about their poor dating life/prospects. You see those posts all the time. Men complaining about x y z regarding dating but they take no action and put in no effort.
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:03 PM
-1

You'll just keep getting poor results then.
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:01 PM
4

I dont think I'm super attractive. I only match with unattractive girls on OLD and throughout my whole life girls have never once approached me first. I always have to be the one chasing.
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:01 PM
7

Most men are lazy as fuck and put in no effort or actions in improving their dating prospects. I put in a massive action and I've slept with 5 hot girls this month so far.
/r/seduction28/04/22 09:18 PM
1

First of all, good job on taking action and approaching. Thats more than probably 95% of guys. Day game can be effective. Youre just not doing it right. Your goal shouldnt be to get numbers, it should be an instadate as in you ask her “hey what are you up to right now? Wanna grab jamba juice?”. If you cant get the instadate then you shoot for numbers. Your success is low because youre in set for like 2 minutes it sounds like. You want to stay in set as long as possible. You know whats the best w…
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:59 PM
1

Going to a third world country to game is some weak shit fam.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:14 PM
1

30 women a day is ALOT. If you can do it props to you.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:10 PM
4

Different lmao
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:07 PM
6

There a far more efficient ways to date than dating events
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:06 PM
39

Any dating event is for rejects. if you want desirable women then put in some work
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:29 PM
22

Field experience is the best teacher.
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:10 AM
1

Youre too focus on making yourself a great product. It’s definitely important but if you think once youre a finished product, girls will just come, youre in for a rude awakening. Most men are decent products. Their issue is they dont know how to market themselves. You dont need to be a finished product to start getting girls. You can do it tonight if you wanted to.
/r/seduction28/04/22 03:06 AM
5

Put her on ice for 3 more days. You need more women in your life. Youre so wrapped up about this one because you have no one else.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:36 AM
13

Majority of men have tons of problems when it comes to dating. Not taking action is one of them.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:32 AM
1

Do NOT text her back. Just fucking chill bro. You seem needy af and seems like you got no other options. Women want men with options. You clearly don't have other options but she doesn't know that YET. If you keep being so needy, she will know. Trust me man, I used to be like you but I've gotten alot better since. /u/fastlife15 thought me alot about text game. Maybe if he's feeling generous he'll teach you a thing a two.
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:05 AM
1

I do coaching. Check out my profile to see if im someone you want coaching from.
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:00 AM
2

The greatest PUA of all time still strikes out probably 90% of the time. Theres no absolute way to attract ANY girl.
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:58 AM
23

Having an abundance mentality isn’t a new or innovative concept. This advice is all over the internet. Majority of guys who struggle with dating have heard of this. The problem majority of men have is how do you achieve abundance.
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:55 AM
2

Because men are desperate and swipe on anybody. Girls get swipes on by everybody so they have more options hence they can afford to be more picky. There are far more dudes on OLD than girls. It’s simple supply and demand. Your profile is garbage. I just know it because the vast vast majority of men’s OLD profiles are garbage, including mine. Your bio isnt why youre not getting matches. Nobody reads your bio. They look at the first picture and swipe 90% of the time.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:20 PM
-1

You know why you struggle with dating? Because you have such a victim mentality. You blame the system because you cant compete? No, dude. The problem isnt with modern dating. The problem is youre fucking lazy. Tell me what youve done to improve your dating prospects.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:14 PM
2

Todd v is who i follow
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:42 PM
2

Take action. The vast majority of men struggle with dating because theyre lazy. Setting up a 5 minute tinder profile and swiping isnt taking action.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:41 PM
3

You need to offer value. I get so many guys who DM men asking to run game with me. I see no reason to do so. I have wings already and Im perfectly fine running solo.
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:39 PM
1

Im same height as you and find success all the time from cold approach. Refer to my field reports.
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:33 PM
1

Lol those photos arent good. Hes 6 3 and jacked. He could do even better with actual good photos.
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:55 AM
3

Bro it aint a contest. Both day and night game are important. Even the best PUA/coaches do night game. And there’s so many dumb assumptions with your statement. You dont have to drink to do night game. I have 3 wings who dont drink and do night club game. And sluts? Just cause theyre at clubs theyre sluts? You think the day game girls dont go to clubs? What kind of moronic generalization is this? It’s quite surprising to see someone who does game be so closed minded. Usually game makes men more …
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:38 AM
5

Not my style but I respect it. Any opener can work. You can say great tits.
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:25 AM
2

Nope. 8 months in and im loving every bit of it
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:52 PM
2

I probably do 60-80 approaches a week.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:59 PM
3

I bought into that lie too. Go read my “origin” story. I went to school, got educated, got a career, made top 1% money for my age and guess what? Nothing. No girls. No dates. No OLD matches. I did everything society told me to do. So i said fuck this Im just gonna go straight to the source of women. And now my life’s lit af.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:50 AM
0

I never once mentioned my coaching services. Thats all been you buddy.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:42 AM
4

Dont take girls you arent fucking to expensive dates. Thats retarded.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:38 AM
1

Why would you get cancelled. Nobody knows or gives a shit about you doing pick up.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:35 AM
1

No. I have plenty of wings who go sober.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:33 AM
2

Lol you’re referring to the bts concert. No. I didnt get to game that much during bts weekend. A missed opportunity.
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:44 AM
3

I started 8 months ago and this month Ive slept with 4 very attractive girls that I would never have gotten the chance to if it wasnt for cold approach.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:49 AM
5

I pull from night game on a weekly basis via cold approach. Ive slept with 4 girls this month. Pickup is life changing bro.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:48 AM
3

Solid post. This is the quality post that this sub needs.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:47 AM
-2

Thanks bro I love fanboys.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:27 AM
2

It's hard for people to process events that are just so far from their realm of possibility that it's easier to just call it fiction.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:24 AM
0

Night club game. I'm so good at reading body language and calibrating physicality now.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:22 AM
4

This is the problem with majority of men. Yall got these deep ass mental blocks about dating. You're here theorizing about shit you know nothing about. I actually go OUT and DO this shit on a weekly basis. How about you go field test your theory and then come back with a field report because right now all you got is speculations. I tried OLD intermittently for 8 years. ZERO success. I never once met a girl from OLD. Never had a ONS before doing pickup. The only girls I match with via OLD were un…
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:20 AM
10

Just make statements and cold reads until she ask you a question. Don't go into interview mode. If you want to ask her a question, guess the answer instead.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:10 AM
2

Legit the only people who bring up my coaching services are the haters lol. So thanks bro.
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:15 AM
14

LOL. Look at the subtle racism there. You mad cause a 5 7 asian guy got more game than you. Bro youre the only one whos talking about paying for pussy. Projecting much? Typical boomer.
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:16 AM
4

Lol. Such out of touch advice.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:58 AM
15

Ok boomer lmao. You cant imagine how this could possibly happen because for you it’s an impossibility. You legit cant phantom it because it’s so out of the realm of possibilities in your world. Idc if people believe me or not. Doesnt affect my life. But these reports can and have affected others in a positive way.
/r/seduction26/04/22 04:57 AM
2

Yep this is why I spend 20-25 hours a week at night clubs. Game is only half the battle. You also need access.
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:29 AM
3

There was no asian girl or white guy involved in this FR. You must have misread.
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:26 AM
3

I woke up with her next to me ;)
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:25 AM
14

Very true. Latinas are very receptive towards asians. My roommate is dating a hispanic girl he met at the club.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:38 AM
3

Lol
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:37 AM
3

I spent $0.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:37 AM
1

I doubt that. Adult entertainers are humans too. They want regular connections just like anybody else.
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:36 AM
9

You sound mad af lol. Seems like envy.
/r/seduction26/04/22 12:00 AM
-32

Lmao alot of petty assumptions. Bro I would run circles around you with night game.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:58 PM
6

Exactly. Idc if people believe me or not. Doubting me only limits their own lives. My life gonna keep getting more adventurous and exciting.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:48 PM
2

Lmao idc if you believe me or not. Doubting me only limits your own life. My life is only gonna get more lit. Impossibilities to you is just another night for me.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:46 PM
13

Thanks man. I completely agree.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:44 PM
7

Lmao yikes. Youre definitely fun at parties.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:25 PM
9

I would have said the same thing 9 months ago. When you go to clubs 20 hours a week with the sole purpose of pickup, youll start encountering wild opportunities.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:23 PM
13

Youre in the wrong sub if you dont like field reports. It’s legit a flair within this sub. Go to dating advice if you want lame ass mainstream advice that doesnt work.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:21 PM
5

Exactly
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:06 PM
8

Porn industry is safer than you when it comes to STDs. And thats what condoms are for dumb ass.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:05 PM
16

It was a great thing.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:03 PM
13

She looked like a normal girl. She wasnt dressed up but she looked good. I didnt even think she was a pornstar until she told me. But it all makes sense. Her body is definitely fit for porn.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:22 PM
16

Cant man. I dont expose women.
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:21 PM
5

Lol
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:20 PM
4

I wish
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:37 PM
6

You know.. kinda looks like her but no.
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:25 PM
6

You got it wrong. The concept is called outcome independence. It does not mean to not have an agenda. You should definitely have an agenda. The girl should know that you are in fact hitting on her. Hiding your agenda is borderline manipulative and very needy/unattractive. As men, you should act on your desires without any shame. If you are afraid to go for what you want then it only shows that you are insecure and not confident as a man. Girls want a guy that does whatever he wants without givin…
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:35 AM
4

I dont….. hate it.
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:32 PM
95

Every girl is a slut for the right guy. Dont kid yourself. The sweet innocent girl reading a book at a coffee shop has done ONS or fucked on a first date or she would for the right guy. Stop the cope.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:59 AM
2

Thats exactly how you should be daygaming.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:19 AM
1

No lol
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:16 AM
3

Lmao you have a better chance letting her see how much of a player you are than building trust. Girls want a man that other girls want. What youre trying to do is play the simp card. This wont end well.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:16 AM
2

Hard to tell you exactly what your problem is. Need way more information. If you want to learn club game, read some of my field reports. I go out solo to vegas night clubs. I pulled a pornstar two nights ago within 15 minutes of meeting her.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:02 AM
13

Use this one golden line: “hi whats your name?”
/r/seduction24/04/22 04:56 AM
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