Stats:
Age: 28
Race: Eastern Asian
Height: 5'7
Location: Las Vegas
Preface: It's been pretty busy with work and with my FWBs recently so I haven't been able to run game as much. Also, through the friends I've made via night game, I've developed a social circle where we just essentially just go out and party, especially when my friends have guest in town. Which is exactly what happened last weekend. My wing D had some friends visiting and it was just a rage fest for 3 days. I met up with them at a day club. This is my second time at a day club. My first time was 8 months ago when I first started game so I was looking forward to the change in environment.
My wing's friend had a table so my first priority was to bring girls to the table. The thing with tables is that it alters my game a bit. When I open sets, I'm essentially rushing the interaction to screen if I should bring them to the table. I have to be more selective with the girls too. They all gotta be hot and at the minimum somewhat receptive. I don't want to bring girls who's just looking for free liquor, not that the liquor matters, it's the time wasted on these girls. Inviting girls to a table is LIGHT WORK. I could do that in my sleep. What's difficult is screening for the right girls to bring back. I opened probably 15-20 sets with nothing really sticking. I still brought a few girls to the table and went back out to recruit more.
Set:
- I saw 4 white girls near the edge of the pool. I approached the one who was dancing. Let's call her Ashley. I opened with a cold read and it was an immediate hook. I spent probably 60 seconds establishing some rapport. Pretty much just location cold reads and guessing games. Turns out she's from Montana. I told her "Hey, tell your friends you're gonna go with me to the table". She thought about it for 2 seconds and said yes and informed her friends.
Now, I used very specific language here. I didn't say "hey, tell your friends let's all go to the table.". I said just her. This is because, there were too many girls there by this time and I wasn't trying to invite all 4 (yes too many girls is a bad thing as you'll read in my next FR).
After she told her friends, I did hand of god and just lead. Just grab her hand and GO. I lead her through the crowded ass day club and we finally arrived at the table. I introduced her to some friends to build social proof not that it really matters tbh. Offered her a drink. We started dancing and grinding together. I go in for the kiss and make out. Pretty routine stuff here. We continue to make out and dance for probably 15-20 minutes.
At this point, it's super obvious what the next step is. I knew it was time to pull but I also wanted to just keep partying. My friends were there. Tons of girls. We were at a table. The day club was lit as hell. But no, I knew what my objectives were and I must carry them out. So I told her let's grab drinks else where less loud. She agrees. I take her hand and just go.
We had quite a long walk to the garage. I had to park at a different garage because it was so packed. During the walk, we had a pretty genuine and authentic conversation. No game-y stuff. Just a real conversation about our lives, family, job, etc. This is what I think game should be like. Good game should be 80% genuine interaction and 20% of the game-y stuff. Anyways, we get back to my place and yall know how it goes ;)
Key Take Aways:
- You gotta persevere: I went through hella sets that didn't go away. If I gave up at set 15 then this would have never happened. Hell, some nights I go through 20 sets with nothing. Just gotta try again the next day.
- Go out ALOT, do it solo and you'll start to build a social circle: I started this journey solo 10 months ago. I went out 4-5 nights a week solo for like 2 months before meeting a wing. Now, I've met so many dope guys. My squad here is hella lit. Two weekends ago, my roommate had hella people in town visiting and it was another rage fest, just like this previous weekend. My point is, if you're like me and you love partying and meeting girls, and you want to build a social circle around those elements, then you gotta just go out ALOT and go solo until you start noticing guys and guys start noticing you.
- Table game: if you get a table, especially in vegas, don't just bring any girl to the table. Screen them first or you'll end up wasting a valuable resource: time.
- Let her be your champion: I didn't speak one word to Ashley's friends. I told her to tell her friends that she's coming with me. They are far more likely to be okay with her tell them than me telling them.
- Lead: always lead. It's attractive.
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