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| 128 | What are some mistakes you made in your younger years? | bytheninedivines | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 05:14 AM | |
| 42 | How many girls have you approached in the past month? | Lifestyle | bytheninedivines | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 12:04 AM |
| 18 | How did you beat approach anxiety? | Inner Game | bytheninedivines | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 12:42 AM |
| 10 | Are there any discords related to self-improvement & pick up? | bytheninedivines | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 12:10 AM | |
| 1 | Good workout routines? | Removed: Off-Topic | bytheninedivines | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Girls absolutely love being called baby girl | bytheninedivines | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 07:21 AM | |
| 0 | Anyone here in college? How's it going so far? | bytheninedivines | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 04:11 AM |
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| 8 | How long should you wait before texting her after getting her number?From the bar? Text her your name as soon as you get her number or she won't remember you the next day. From somewhere else? I usually wait a few hours. Girls know you're just playing games if you take any longer | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | 7 years of trying but achieved nothing, end of the roadRecord an approach and post it. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 06:43 AM |
| 0 | Chatting on dating appsYeah it creates a flirty vibe right from the start that's really easy to lead to a date | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 09:34 PM |
| -1 | Chatting on dating appsI just say something like "matched. Soulmates" or "I'm here. You can delete the app now." | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Chatting on dating appsGirls get hundreds of matches a day. If you don't stand out she won't give you attention, even if she's attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Chatting on dating appsEven with a good profile it's boring and doesn't stand out. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to female attention.This is so needy. Lmao | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Urgent: mutual interest between me (23M) and a girl (19) but idk what to doBro really equated short with being poor, creepy, or stupid | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Last day of semester college approach rampage.Right... | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Last day of semester college approach rampage.Tell me you've never approached without telling me you've never approached | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 03:13 PM |
| 30 | How many guys here actually approach?Of course. Everyone does. Obviously they feel bad, especially the first few, but then you realize that girls are a dime a dozen and if one girl doesn't like you, you'll just find another that's better anyways. My worst rejection was probably going up to a girl when she was with her friend and she said, "Can't you see we're in a conversation? Get the hell out of here." My funniest rejection is when I'd been dancing and making out with a girl on the dance floor, I went to bring her home after the … | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 10:30 PM |
| 3 | How many guys here actually approach?Honestly, I found some friends that approach and they pushed me to doing it. And ironically they're all foreigners that are 30+ years old. I don't have any American friends that approach, or any friends under 25 that approach. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 09:28 PM |
| 25 | How many guys here actually approach?It took me years to finally get the confidence to approach but I do it pretty consistently now. I still struggle at daygame, but nightgame I can usually spam out approaches. Just had my first lay this past weekend from nightgame actually. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | A message to anyone too anxious to make a moveWhat was the altercation over? | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up?This isn't a bad strategy. The goal is to find yes girls and move on from maybe girls/no girls asap. As soon as you meet them, try to lead them somewhere. Maybe to the bar, the dance floor, somewhere to sit, somewhere quieter. Then screen logistics. Flirt and then bring them home. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 03:51 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys handle a long series of rejections?One thing that makes me feel a little better when I have a bad streak is remembering times when things went smoothly. It reminds me that it IS possible and I can do it. I just need to find the right girl. This is SO hard as a beginner. I haven't had it go smooth yet and it's really discouraging. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 03:06 PM |
| -12 | What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriendI just say "take it as a compliment then, have a good day" or I'll say "well now you made it all awkward" in a sarcastic tone | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 02:55 AM |
| 1 | What to textYeah. If it's not a yes it means it's a no. | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Girls WILL put themselves in positions to let you make a moveDo you have a link to the video you're talking about? | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 03:24 PM |
| 28 | My thoughts on rejection after 1000+ daygame cold approachesThis was a great read and I agree 100% | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 12:56 AM |
| -10 | What do you do the next day after a one night stand?Ghost | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 04:54 PM |
| 12 | Is this a good text to ask out my crush?I'd be like "hey, are you free this weekend? I want to take you on a date." Be bold. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:22 AM |
| 3 | The real deal. Does it exist?You better get to practicing then. There's no such thing as failure. You either succeed or learn. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Where the HOT ones areBro yes 100%. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Stupid question: how do i make better conversation after approaching?After thanks you ask for her name and then make a cold read. Easy | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 09:30 PM |
| 10 | How To Seduce Women When You Are on DateCan you explain how to escalate physically? Usually I'll touch their shoulder and stuff like that but I'm always worried it's awkward and out of place. | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Things I've learned over the past yearAs blackpill as it sounds, unless you're naturally attractive there's no self improvement you can make that will cause this to happen. Which means that you have to be the one shooting your shot and making shit happen or else you won't have any chances. I don't think I've had any girl show me any IOIs since college, every success I've had was just me shooting my shot. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsHow do you escalate when back at your place? I'm struggling at that part. I'm 100% on bringing them back and 0% on kissing them. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 08:57 PM |
| 7 | JUST BE YOURSELF is the most brilliant and simultaneously the STUPIDEST advice on the planet, if you don't have a clue what it means!Yeah I aint reading all that. Happy for u tho. Or sorry it happened. | /r/seduction | 06/06/23 12:04 AM |
| 9 | A simple strategy I stole from the Art of War.why are men going to the gym everyday? Bc they don't approach any women and think getting jacked is a magical solution to their problems | /r/seduction | 04/05/23 02:58 AM |
| -2 | The worst advice dating advice I've ever received.drug addicts and literal criminals are able to enter plenty of relationships, All the girls they're with are literally useless. Most of them are addicts as well and have no value other than being a body to fuck | /r/seduction | 30/04/23 10:58 PM |
| 9 | any advice to raise my self confidence and approach girlsIt had me worried it got archived | /r/seduction | 04/11/22 09:00 PM |
| 34 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfI have everything in my life but women. High paying job from a good education, fun hobbies, great friends and a close family. I'd argue that bettering yourself has a minimal effect on the women you attract. It's more about how often you put yourself out there. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Question about this girl I slept with and am intoYou from little rock? Ive been looking for people to sarge with | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Is anyone uncomfortable having sex too fast?Only reason I'm uncomfortable is bc I'm worried about STDs | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Never Run Out Of Things To Say To Women:Keep The Conversation Going Forever.I swear I've seen this post before | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with the feeling that I have nothing to talk aboutAnyone ever seen the malcolm in the middle episode where he turns off his mind and starts saying the dumbest shit, and gets a girlfriend as a result? Do that. Women don't care about what you say, only how you say it | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Closing at a club/bar timingGo home with them instead | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 02:30 AM |
| 3 | PSA: Ask Seddit Banned Without Notice to ModTeamIn preparation, does anyone know any other online forums for this? | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 04:56 PM |
| 4 | Closing at a club/bar timingGirls at clubs are looking to have a good time that night. Don't get the number, get a kiss and then bring them home. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 74 | Do we even need r/seduction?The best part about this sub is how it teaches men to be confident in themselves and improve their lives. Well, it used to be the best part, now it's just full of incels who have already given up on improving themselves | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Best pua resource available?Avery hayden on youtube | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | The Emotional Roller CoasterHer: texting you on a Friday Hey, what are you doing tonight? Lmao getting the girl to text first is the hard part | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 7 | Any tips for going out with the intention of day gaming?Wtf are the responses to this. This isn't the seddit I know. I wouldn't go to a grocery store necessarily but going out to cold approach (aka sarging) isn't bad at all. You should dedicate some time of your life to improving with women, it's a skill. Anyone that says not to cold approach is just the blind leading the deaf. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 04:44 PM |
| 3 | A very controversial, possibly triggering question: Is a big percentage of women in their early 20s today lazy?I'm an engineering student, and I've noticed that every girl I've dated has just tried to leech of my success. They've had no goals and no passions. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | If you are in Nashville and down to go out drop a dm.Will likely move around that area in the next year or so. I'm gonna save this | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Keep it simple. Being attractive boils down to having solid general people skills, maintaining your appearance, and having your shit together. The rest is fine-tuning.Please keep thinking this way, leave the attractive girls for the rest of us | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 12:47 AM |
| 25 | 3 hours. zero approachesWatch social animal on youtube. I've been there though. I spent all of last summer going out where I'd be too afraid to talk to anyone. Hell, it still happens to me. The one thing I've found to work is to not think about it. The 3 second rule is real! I've had my best interactions when I don't overthink beforehand. If you're worried about what to say, you've already lost. Why should you care what some random person thinks about you anyways? | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 12:21 AM |
| 30 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?Really, there's only two things you need to do: Become confident. The process is different for everyone and it is not easy nor short, but this may include: getting jacked at the gym, finding a well paying job, playing a sport, etc. Talk to girls. That's it. Talk to them if you find them attractive, be bold and ask them out. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 06:35 PM |
| -2 | When a girl is attracted to a guy in a group of guys she will look at everyone in the group besides himWhy are you here? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 05:15 AM |
| 12 | If you’re hung up on one person who is not invested in you, think of the regret you will eventually have over the precious time, opportunities, and emotional energy you wastedIt's called limerence | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have a sex bucket list?I want to fuck a girl of every race | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 07:10 AM |
| 9 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?As a senior aerospace engineering student, the biggest thing holding me back is my engineering friends. The majority of people I've met in class are complete weirdos that can barely hold a conversation, and I'm stuck with them for 90% of every day. When they're not around it's not too bad though. I can cold approach in peace. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Do women really hate when men approach? I’m referring to a purple pilled subreddit post that started a debateAt this point, I wouldn't even care if they did hate it. You have the right to talk to them. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 10:42 PM |
| 0 | Does peacocking still work?I'd argue it really only works in nightgame unless your type is they/them alt girls | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Did Models by Mark Manson actually help you?I love the basics of his philosophy, but there are a few things I disagree with. Overall though, I highly recommend it, especially for anyone who is insecure or lacks confidence. Imo it is the perfect first step to self improvement | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | my goal is to go out every weekend for 3 months periodDon't forget to protect your ears! My friends make fun of me for wearing earplugs at the club, but it feels so good being able to hear afterwards | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:06 AM |
| 143 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”Why would you even want a girl that would say that? Sounds like you dodged a bullet to me | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you roast your friends / tease & flirt with your partners?When teasing: don't ever joke about someone's beliefs. Everyone associates their beliefs with their personal identity and will be highly offended. Make fun of them for small stuff like putting pineapple on pizza, etc. And disregard the top comment about being someone you're not. The only way to improve is to change how you act until it becomes natural. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 204 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Women love being submissive | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Advice for starting out with zero experience 26 MI don't recommend this for beginners. It's not really a "guide", it's more about the lore of pick-up. (And if you use it as a guide it's also really outdated) | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Where do you guys go to cold approach?You do lose your time. I'd argue it's not losing time, it's time spent practicing. It's not waiting if you're actively putting yourself in situations to meet women. That's just cold approach with more steps. Which is why practicing is essential. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Where do you guys go to cold approach?If I used the same strategy and lost $100 every night playing blackjack You don't lose anything by cold approaching. You can only gain. And besides that, it's such a beta male mentality to wait for a girl to enter your life through social groups/hobbies. Most of the good ones will already be taken by guys that cold approach. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 11 | mixed feelings dating single mom'sCondom + pull out + dont cum at all | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:10 AM |
| 8 | Just read models by mark manson what should I read / watch next?Honestly, the best book is practice. If you still want to learn, watch Avery Hayden on YouTube and pick up his book called The Game Plan. However, do not get stuck in a loop of learning without ever applying anything you learn | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:18 PM |
| 8 | Starting to see a resurgence of “incel” posts/comments and I’d like to address them once and for allAnd I think this subreddit is about education and showing the proper attitude. It used to be, but now it's an echo chamber for incels. Anyone trying to show them the way gets downvoted hard | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Any Self-hypnosis Audio to Build Confidence to Approach 9s and 10s?Confidence is not an emotion. You can't wait around until you feel confident. You have to put in the work and build the foundation to be confident. (Such as working out, being successful at something, etc.) | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:58 AM |
| 1 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?I treat them, and all girls, the same as I would treat anyone else. But because of all the simps, girls think I'm being toxic when I don't put them on a pedestal. (Which ironically they love) | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 12:55 AM |
| 12 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeThis is true. I didn't get the social skills I needed when I was younger and had crippling social anxiety. The only way out is through practice. You will make a fool of yourself, but at the end of the day, no one cares. My life changed when I found a friend that literally said whatever was on his mind. Everyone was annoyed by him, but I realized how boring things were without him. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:56 PM |
| 6 | You are f***ed.Do you really want to live your life relying on your social circle, or do you want to grab life by the balls and meet the women you actually want? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:56 AM |
| 3 | If a date with a girl is not for another week, should I text to keep attraction?The real problem is scheduling a date so far away. Try to take her on a date asap, preferably as soon as you meet her | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is Not For EveryoneYou are 100% right. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 08:08 AM |
| -1 | The fatal flaw with Mark Manson's ModelsRead "The Game Plan" by Avery Hayden. It came out less than a week ago and I've found it's much more practical than Models | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Not feeling how I wantConfidence isn't an emotion, you can't wait around until you feel confident. You must build the foundation to be confident, be it changing your state of mind, working out, etc. And some days you have bad days, it happens. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Getting Over SomeoneThe best way to get over a girl is to get under another | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Here's an experiment: search "cold approach" here, and search for it on r/dating_advice, and you will see which sub is glass half empty and glass half fullYes they do? If you can see they are put off by you being there, you just leave. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Here's an experiment: search "cold approach" here, and search for it on r/dating_advice, and you will see which sub is glass half empty and glass half fullIt's crazy to me because who doesn't like being cold approached in a friendly way? Most every friend I have in college one of us came up to the other and just started talking. As long as you don't do it in an actual creepy way you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsI thought it was an excellent post tbh, thanks for sharing | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsWhy you delete the post? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:48 AM |
| 5 | What is the #1 reason why dating is at an all-time low in your opinion?Social media. Girls get 1000 dms a day from random guys. And as a guy, it's easy to fall in the trap of texting a girl instead of risking rejection in person | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:19 AM |
| 0 | Is a 29 year old asking out an 18 year old waitress creepy?Honestly, girls under 20 just aren't mature. I'd fuck an 18 year old but I wouldn't date one. (And I'm 21) | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 04:14 AM |
| 23 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themThis sub seriously sucks now. It's just guys throwing a pity party because "they're not attractive." I can't complain though, it just leaves more girls for us. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needKeep believing that, I'll keep getting girls | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:12 AM |
| -16 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needWe both know he meant that as "I'm not attractive so why should I even try" | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:05 AM |
| -36 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needYou're saying it from a guy's perspective. Girls don't care about looks nearly as much. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:08 AM |
| -19 | Good eye contact, a smile and a sociable personality is all you really needr/incel | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Pulling back - not watching IG stories?Unless she specifically has a crush on you, she does not care. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] First time pulling from a day clubHow often do you go out? I'm going into my senior year of college, this is my last free summer I'll have. I want to go out more but I don't want to drink every time. So far I aim for about 1-2x a week | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Stepping Outside my Comfort ZoneAwesome bro! I did the same thing last night, went to a bar by myself for the first time and just tried to meet people. It definitely wasn't as scary as I thought it'd be | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Man I’m so tired of wimping out on approaches…Think about the most embarrassing moment in your life. Who else remembers that? | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 07:08 AM |
| 2 | How do i try kissing the girl and how do i know she’s ready?Just go for it. I read that if you think she wants you to kiss her, she probably wanted to to kiss her 20 minutes ago. If she doesn't want to she'll just reject you, then you can stop worrying about her. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 05:10 AM |
| 4 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?This is why guys are really only great friends with other guys. Girls only act like they care, they don't really care. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Celebrate the small wins!Nice! Any tips? | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:26 PM |
| 12 | 10 tips for cold approach and freeing yourself from approach anxietyEvery other subreddit and everyone I've talked to irl has said women despise being approached or talked to by strange men. If a girl walked up to you and said she loved your style and asked if you wanted to go on a date, how would you feel? Even if you weren't attracted to her, it would probably make your day. Girls are the same. As long as you take the rejection like a man and don't throw a fit, you can only make her day better. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:16 PM |
| 3 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionDo you have any beginner guides? Usually I go to the gym 3-4 times a week and just alternate arm/leg/back, but I don't really have a plan besides that. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 05:04 AM |
| 4 | How To Be An Attractive ManI knew I recognized this, I read it in the snippet you released a few weeks ago. I'm looking forward to the rest! | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:51 PM |
| 7 | A surgeon once said: When I improve someone’s face they get more woman, it’s not because of his looks but because he believes he looks good.He's not confident because he's prince charming, he's prince charming because he's confident | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Formerly overweight men, how much of an impact did toning your body have on seducing women in real life and on online dating?Also 5'6, I'm trying to get down to 140 as well. Let's do it! | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Tips on quitting porn ?Keep yourself busy. I masturbate most when I'm bored and have nothing to do. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 05:00 PM |
| 4 | PSA: Don't waste time on girls who don't like you"Sour cream?" | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?Music, homebrewing, video game making. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | She already knows you like her.Treat them like dirt and they stick like mud | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:35 AM |
| -1 | Why does dating models get a bad rap?Majority of them have mental issues | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Spring Break 22I used to worry about that, then I realized I'm the only one of my friends with the balls to cold approach | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Whats your biggest fear about talking to women?This is the correct way to look at it. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?She can never uneat your ass | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 06:48 PM |
| 15 | Public Service Announcement: Talk to everybodyI saw growth in myself the other day when I was walking with a friend and saw some other guy walking alone and got him involved in our conversation. My friend thought it was really weird and commented on it after the guy left. Usually I'd feel insecure about it for the rest of the day, but I'm confident enough in myself now to not care what other people think. When I moved 500+ miles away from home, I wished people walking by would talk to me and include me in conversations. It felt like I was a… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 11:16 PM |
| 2 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.Your entire mindset is based on hoping you're good enough for her. You need to start worrying if she's good enough for you. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 0 | If you’re new to cold approaching read this.r/incel might be better suited for you | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How to get a cute girl in 2022 (quick and easy)Really this is it: be at the right place at the right time and have confidence. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 07:10 PM |
| 3 | What's your favorite music to play before a date?I prefer Beethoven but Brahms is alright | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.I'm a 22 year old man who has never had a girlfriend or sex. Zero intimacy. Then why should I take your advice | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Did you break up on bad terms with your ex? | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 04:59 AM |
| 0 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?That is just you. If you don't go out and meet people, you will never find more friends or a girlfriend. Life becomes a lot more fun when you open your mouth | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I was just thinking about this earlier today. The way seduction has changed my life is comparable to religion. It's completely changed my worldview. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Best books?Models, 3% male, book of pook, the game, conversation Casanova | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 01:02 PM |
| 5 | [Question] What to say when someone asks "Is she your girlfriend?""Actually we're married" | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | [Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits.Can you give some examples of fun dates? | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Which type of girls are easy to approach?Ugly ones | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you don't cold approach at all you will never meet a girl you like. Even in book of pook, he says that you shouldn't over think it, just see a pretty girl and if you want to talk to her, go talk to her. If your success rate in daygame is less than 1/5 you are likely doing something wrong. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | I hate dating apps because I never feel a connection to themModels respond to you on instagram? | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Is Neil Strauss The Game actually worth reading?I agree. I think the biggest advice everyone on this sub (including me) needs is: stop being shy and go talk to them | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Is Neil Strauss The Game actually worth reading?He said he was 6'3 in the book | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 03:14 AM |
| 6 | Is Neil Strauss The Game actually worth reading?Book of pook has some good advice but the dude is like a 6'4 6'3 lunk, he definitely has it easier than the majority of us. I recommend Models and 3% male the most | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]It's just a girl lol | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Once you reach an abundance of sex you will realize that a lot of what you read here is overcompensation by guys who have't had that success yet.Being ugly is literal hell. There is nothing in the world WORSE than being an ugly male in 2021. Girls dont even care that much about looks. If you keep yourself clean and maintained, all you need to do is talk to them. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 04:41 AM |
| 5 | I’m feeling so embarrassedJust explain it to her lol. I find it more funny that your bank saw you at a fancy restaurant and thought "no way this fucker is on a date" | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 05:04 AM |
| 3 | How do I bring back that A-gameThis is all you comment, please shut up | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You're thinking of it like a guy. Girls want to be desired, they want guys to come and talk to them. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Talking to girls sucks with masksThe worst is when they take the mask off and drop to a 4/10 | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when girls ask “why are you so quiet?”"I think before I talk" | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 02:21 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You can't be too confident. But there's a fine line between being confident and being narcissistic. | /r/seduction | 20/09/21 09:24 PM |
| 34 | Are some dating double standards acceptable?I knew a girl that cheated on literally every boyfriend she had. She finally found one that cheated first and she was destroyed, she's still pissed at that man. She thinks what he did is worse. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just hold eye contact until they break it. When they break it, you should break it too. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Models or the game?That will get a 100% rejection rate if you use it on girls who aren't attracted for example You would be rejected anyways, why wait? | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Just a small piece of advice for the dayYou got a workout routine you recommend? | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?Stop!! Dude, get yourself some freinds!!! Lemme go do that real quick | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Top 12 guides I’ve found from Reddit to improve quickly & get more girls instantlyTinyurl.com/sedbible | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 12:18 AM |
| 6 | How to meet girls in 2020?Hell yeah bro! Self improvement should always come first | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Creating the ultimate 'Netflix and Chill' playlistIt's bruno on netflix is perfect | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Thought this belonged hereHell yeah. We got pablo escobar, el chapo, napoleon bonaparte, alexander the great, isaac newton, 6ix9ine, bruno mars, and alfred Hitchcock on our side | /r/PussyPassDenied | 20/05/20 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Whenever you’re wondering what you should text, ask yourself whether she’s wondering the same thing. If not, her value is higher than yoursI agree. Is it even still "seduction" if you're just getting random girls that you're barely attracted to? | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 5 | What are some of your tips to get nudes?You gotta get them horny first. They're not gonna send if they're not horny too. | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 07:30 PM |
| -8 | Girls absolutely love being called baby girlThey're all different, but the strong majority of girls I've talked to fall in love the second you say it | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 07:24 AM |
| 2 | How to Snapchat flirtFilters, half/quarter of your face, duck lips, dumb faces, pictures of pets | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Women Are Insanely Attracted To Sexually Disciplined MenNah, it's more like if 90% of fast food chains gave you free food. Sure the other 10% may be a lot better, but free food is hard to pass up when you're hungry | /r/seduction | 19/04/20 04:48 PM |
| 47 | Women Are Insanely Attracted To Sexually Disciplined MenMan simps ruin everything, it's why 90% of girls wont even give you the time of day unless you're confident | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | What's more important: Having a beautiful partner or a beautiful relationship?I don't care if they're boring, I can entertain myself. And if things stopped working out I'd just move on to the next girl. And by bitch I mean asshole, as long as she doesn't treat me and other people like dogshit I don't really care about her personality | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What's more important: Having a beautiful partner or a beautiful relationship?I gotta be honest, looks are all that matter to me in a girl. As long as she's not a complete bitch she'll be fine for me. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 07:18 PM |
| 37 | Conversations with an average man with an above average sex lifeI'd argue that anyone can be a 6/10 if they focus on dressing themselves and proper hygiene Edit: and fitness! | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 17 | True Story. . .SadlyMe too bruh. I was flirting with a girl all semester, but never managed to get her snap or number. Now I'll never see her again. But I guess this teaches us all a lesson that rejection is better than regret | /r/seduction | 21/03/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | A downward spiral is coming.I agree. Watch and take care of your mental health, I see a lot of us getting depressed over the Coronacation | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Men, which one do you like most, thick woman or thin woman?There's a big difference between thick and thicc | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 03:30 PM |
| 5 | What makes a man mysterious and what do girls feel about them?it is what it is | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | 3 basic things that skyrocketed my gameWhat about in class | /r/seduction | 14/03/20 05:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain oneitis to a 13 year old?He needs to learn that girls are expendable. The girl he's obsessing over likely isnt the first and is most definitely not the last, and he's likely assuming that she's amazing just because she's pretty. I remember before I hit puberty I only liked one girl at a time, after puberty I appreciated the beauty of all girls and it allowed me to stop holding myself to one girl at a time. As a side note, I was using reddit as a 13 year old and used to browse /r/seduction at times | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Questions for people who used to get exhausted socializing/partying in college chasing girls. How did you get over your (social) stamina issues? Aside from settling down with a GF (an obvious answer)Even the most social people you see on social media need time to recharge | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you comment on girls Instagram pics without being creepy?Don't comment on it lol, but don't be scared to like it. The other guy got the right idea but the wrong solution. Everyone loves getting likes on their posts, and if they see you liking their stuff they'll naturally like you better. (As long as you don't go overboard.) Your best bet is to slide up on a story, although that is completely inferior to talking to them in person | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Preferred Methods Of ClosingI use snapchat almost exclusively | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Preferred Methods Of ClosingYea I know, I'm 19. I've found instagram girls usually just accept your follow request and never follow back. After all, each girl I meet has simps constantly dming them and following them, they just assume you're another thirsty guy. | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 09:21 PM |
| 134 | Preferred Methods Of ClosingI highly, highly doubt instagram is that high. I'd expect phone number to be around 60%, snapchat around 30%, instagram 9% and Facebook 1%. Who the hell texts over instagram? | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 0 | I got rejected after approaching someone in person but that’s okay.If that happens you are definitely doing something wrong | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Texting my crush even though we're not friends, how do I make it not obvious that I want to seduce her ?If you become friends she'll want to keep you as a friend. Show her what you want. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 03:10 PM |
| 0 | I don’t know if she actually likes me back... (M19)Just go for it. You'll regret not doing it much more than being rejected. (It sounds like she likes you btw) | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 06:56 AM |
| 21 | Most Effective Texts if a Girl Stops RespondingJust forget about her until she texts you back | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girlMaybe a little, but I feel it's mainly to spice up the conversation so it's not the same old repetitive question and answer | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girlI mix up questions with observations and cold-reads. "What's your favorite food?" "Shrimp" "Oh so you must be a big sea food person" | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 10:52 PM |
| 7 | Honestly, seduction is only two steps."Hi" "Hey" ...sits in silence | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 06:07 AM |
| 0 | Is she interested?Nah | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson effectIs there a ebook or audiobook anywhere? I can't find it | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 10:23 PM |
| 14 | First kiss at club (18M)Do you dance? I'm not much of a dancer, I'm worried that if I dance at a club or bar or anywhere I'll make a fool of myself | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 04:09 AM |
| 3 | I've gone from being a loner to getting a lot of girls in just a few months; some of my tipsDo you have friends at college that you go to the parties with? Right now im struggling because I went 9 hours away for college and I still dont have any friends. I have a lot of people that I hang out with in class but we never make plans out of class. As a result I've only gone to a few parties, and the ones I did go to I was kind of outcast because no one knew me. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 06:18 AM |
| 3 | I Hooked Up With the Hottest Girl I Have Ever Had...But I Need AdviceFuck I really went through the struggle of reading it to scroll down and see this | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 04:25 AM |
| 2 | My 2 new cold approach techniquesDenies ever meeting you before lol | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | My 2 new cold approach techniquesWhat do you say after she denies it | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 08:14 PM |
| 37 | The single biggest sign to look for to find out if a girl is attracted to you.Yeah that was me back in my shy guy prepubescent days | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 04:38 AM |
| 176 | The single biggest sign to look for to find out if a girl is attracted to you.What about shy girls tho | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 40 | First cold approach!!He's thinking that long term investment | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Why am I too fucking scared?!You have nothing to lose just do it | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | 30 First Date Conversation Starters That Will Kick Awkwardness In The ButtI dont think "what's your biggest fear" would work too well on a first date lmao. Maybe a second | /r/seduction | 26/01/20 06:28 PM |
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