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| 4 | dancing with girls on the dance floor | Lifestyle | NastyMonkeyKing | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | responses to "you're funny aren't you" | NastyMonkeyKing | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 05:04 AM | |
| 1 | what books or video should I watch/read to get better at eating out | Resources | NastyMonkeyKing | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 08:14 AM |
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| 15 | How can I get hookups instead of dates?Make it it's just an in the moment thing and the night was so magical. | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Girls tell me I’m very attractive but don’t wanna go outDon't. Who cares. You probably get upset when girls pick the "asshole" too | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Did you get any Complements on your Body odour, if so What deodorant did you use?Dior sauvage Get complimented on it all the time | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | On the rise of lonely single menCuz you're being weird and defensive about it | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Liking every selfie i post on social media.... | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Liking every selfie i post on social media.He's at least given you signs he likes you. Have you given him any signs? I guarantee he's at least interested in a date with this behavior. If you want a date then just slide into conversation sometime you're going to.. whatever and then be like oh would you want to come? | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Idgaf that's not me | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Is intelligent conversation generally a turnoff?Bruh astrology girls and crystal girls. Fuck no miss me with that shit. And thing for religious girls. They all believe in made up bullshit and I can't relate at all lmao | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior?What the hell is the point of this thread if your going to disregard everything anyone says and double down on your bullshit | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Whenever you give in to approach anxiety, you reconfirm the idea that you’re not good enough!Yeah any modern buds should have this. Ik apple and galaxy buds do too | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Looks Max Guide 2022That's not enough time for anything to happen tbh. Especially at the start it takes a while for your body to adjust | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Looks Max Guide 2022How long you been doing it? I went from 37.5% body fat to 26 in 4 months. Super strict diet diet 2.5 months. Walk almost every day. Started lifting again towards the end of it. And I did IF as much as I could Roth a few fasts here and there | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 11:22 PM |
| 3 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsPurple is the one color I don't have in my wardrobe lol | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Looks Max Guide 2022Yeah. Managing it and keeping it low | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 05:27 AM |
| -1 | Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else?No. The men you've let be in your life aren't like that because if they are you don't like them and don't want to be friends or talk. But you'll put up with it to smash so to you more women are like that | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else?That's because you're not trying to date and fuck guys lmao. You'll keep talking to girls who do this, but if a guy acted like that you won't keep talking to him because you don't like that in a friend. But when a girl acts like this you'd still wanna fuck so you deal with it. It's not a man/woman thing it's a dating thing, you're just not very aware outside of your own experiences and anecdotal evidence | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 06:06 PM |
| 10 | Men of Reddit, what are some of the best places to meet and interact with women?Nah I did shrooms and molly together st bonnaroo. I've never felt the feeling of pure euphoria as I did rolling walking around with my refractory glasses | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsYou just got lucky she wanted to fuck. But that doesn't take away from things you did that got positive reception or from the experience at all. A lot of guys fuck it up and get in there own way and you didn't do that so👍 | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Looks Max Guide 2022Well I've gotten more compliments on my sauvage than anything else. "Wow one of you smells really good" Literally walked past me and stopped to say "you smell really nice btw" Talking to my buddy and some girls when a guy walks past. "LOL I had to stop and say someone smells really good" then one of the girls chimes in to say yeah okY honestly I was just about to say the same thing. Point is. Sauvage has been amazing for me and I'm trying to smell nice for girls and myself. Not some fuckin reddi… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Looks Max Guide 2022Hmm. Without thinking I'd say no. But then I'd ask if you've tried eau de cologne or eau fraiche. Parfum, what I suggested is the strongest and lasts the longest at 20-40% concentration. Cologne is 2-5% and fraiche is 1-3% So I'd suggest trying that or trying other colognes. But if you've already done all this and still nothing. Outside of asking a doctor I'd guess that would just be a no for you. A nice cologne isn't everything but smell is important to women. So just make sure you smell good a… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Looks Max Guide 2022I agree with pretty much all of this. At first it felt like he was suggesting to do the exact things he said under the bullet points, but now I realize they are just some examples. And I agree with every bullet point. I think having a style that includes accessories, and the body fat are two of the most important. But everyone already knows this. Cologne is the #1 thing I suggest to guys. I've had more comments on my cologne than everything else combined. As opposed to the travel bag though. I j… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 4 | Looks Max Guide 2022Smart watch on a guy at the bar looks awful imo. I love my Samsung 4 but I'd never wear it out for that. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?Put it this way Most people are saying to approach and find out when she smiles. If you do that and she says no then what have you lost? Besides maybe a little pride or ego. But if she says yes what do you gain. A date, a friend, a gf, a hookup? When you lay out the outcomes and possibilities for this, it looks like an easy answer to me | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Going to a rave next weekMy life would be a lot more boring. People like you... | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What can I do alone on a Friday night? Besides bars and clubI love that you had so many specific examples. But juggling? Had to giggle at that one | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:50 AM |
| 3 | Best hobbies/event types for meeting girls?When has the"player label" ever stopped a player lol. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Won't I bother a girl if I approach her without her saying if she actually wants to be approached beforehand?"That's why I only talk to people who talk to me first" Well everyone thought that way we'd have a problem | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone else noticed this?Gross lol | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 07:36 AM |
| 32 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.The grab your phone and putting in your number just to ghost it such a strange move to me. Women🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Do muscles make that much of a difference?Will it make everything automatic? No There is only upside and no downside besides the commitment, which doesn't have to be a downside. It's like money. If you have it, money isn't everything. But if you don't it absolutely is. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?It's called pretty privilege, at least what I call it. Your whole life gets different and everyone treats you differently. Even when I was mentally unstable after a rough experience. But I lost 40 pounds so far and life is already easier. Girls approach me, not all the time but it was never before. And girls will compliment our mention my style, which again never happened before. People like and treat attractive good looking people better. Consciously and sub consciously. It's kinda fucked up si… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid: Listen up you boring motherf*ckers!!!! .. Be an interesting person!Lmao as in I didn't believe you. Not walks. Hiking. Boating. Jet ski. Hammocking. Swimming. Road tripping. Photography. Like is hard to believe you don't like anything that involves you standing up and going outside or moving around inside. How do you stay in shape if you don't do anything? And you're being hostile, maybe i came off like that but it's not the intention. You're trying very hard to say you don't care and you know better. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:17 AM |
| 0 | How to get laid: Listen up you boring motherf*ckers!!!! .. Be an interesting person!Lmao. You don't like any physical activity?? Also I genuinely love dancing singing raves festivals. I do them all alone and I did when I was in a LTR. That's what I like to do And I feel good about myself doing physical activities. You projected so hard by implying people only do this shit for pussy. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:34 AM |
| 15 | How to get laid: Listen up you boring motherf*ckers!!!! .. Be an interesting person!Dancing, singing, music, apparently trucking for some people???, boating, anything physical that shows your strong or have an athletic body, raves and stuff maybe for that kinda girl?? Traveling | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentI think you thought past the right answer. Idk what but this is off. If you're not confident it's because you don't think you're worth it or you don't live yourself. But you can do things your proud of and gain confidence. That's still you being genuine. But now you have confidence as well v When I wanted to learn new things and change I wondered will people think I'm fake? No. It's wildly different from what I did before but I want to my life to be wildly different. It's stil me. But what I am … | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Pick one: be yourself or be confidentDo something you would be proud of. Anything. That's how you gain real confidence. You can also fake it til you make it to an extent. This is what has worked for me | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!Oh Calm down. Like you said it's all hypothetical. Like i said it's a joke. And you're right it's effective and quick to the point | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Guys shit test you too!Cuz is a joke and if someone can't put away their masculinity for 20 seconds and answer a ridiculous hypothetical or make a joke back then they probably take every day interactions too seriously for me You ever been in BOH at a restaurant? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!These people have clearly never set foot in BOH restaurant | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!It's a kitchen so?? | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!Dude. If you wouldn't suck a dick for 1 million dollars I think you're clinically insane | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Do You Guys Take Shots Before a Date?Idk for me. It's a fine line. And during the summer after an LTR ending, yeah I'm gonna go drink. But yeah it quickly goes into alcoholism. You have to be really self aware to catch yourself before you slip. So it's a dangerous game to play where the end consequences are 100000x worse than beginning benefits. But I'll be honest I'm playing it right now. Until I broke my first bone while I was drinking So be careful. But it sounds like you've already decided what you're going to do | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:56 PM |
| 11 | Do You Guys Take Shots Before a Date?They were giving honest advice. You have at least two variables at play and are deciding one of them is what changes the outcome. This person suggested you should find out if it's the other obvious variable before you start drinking more, which you said yourself you don't even like | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Guy at work i likeAs long as he knows you put the napkin in yes. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:11 AM |
| 5 | Coping with rejectionFuck that. Dude make friends. You never know what's going to happen. Especially in my city of 50k. People know each other and the more people you know the more things you get to do | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?Amazing. I love this, and yeah I can totally see those situations now in retrospect. I like your advice and your way of doing things. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?And advice how to hone in my own radar for that? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 11:16 PM |
| 6 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Dude looks are not everything. Especially in a LTR. If my perfect match is a 6 so be it. You go based off looks/vibe for most hookups and personality for LTR. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Listen to this guy. He's trying to help. Typing this out gains nothing for him, so why else say it besides genuinely trying to help | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Is the PUA community basically dead?Practice. Training. Improvement. At one point you couldn't read either You have an attitude that you've already given up. That's what the other guy is trying get across as well | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | You are f***ed.Sounds like you're preparing for failure. And you'll manifest and find whatever you think about. Idk rejections get easier and easier for me. I still haven't pulled since I ended an LTR but I'm getting better and better and it gets easier and easier to do it without thinking. Then i assess later when I'm alone and tweak my process a bit for next time. You have to learn how to not internalize the rejection. That's another skill you build, handling the rejection and not seeing it as rejection like… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | You are f***ed.That's a cowardly mindset. Meaning you don't think you deserve a compliment. What kinda girl wants to be with a guy who doesn't think he worthy of a compliment | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:49 AM |
| 4 | Do people cuddle after the first time they have sex?I mean just ask do you wanna cuddle right? You already fucked what do you have to lose. If she doesn't wanna cuddle then you don't. If she does then you do. No point over thinking beyond this right? | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:41 AM |
| 15 | Do people cuddle after the first time they have sex?That sounds lame | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menWith God tier advice though. You're one of the best here. I was also surprised to know you're married lol | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Going on a night out alone?I've gone out alone 2-3x a week for last 5 weeks. I've made a lot of friends and people are excited to see me come out. I also take pictures with a lot of people | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Going on a night out alone?Don't be a victim. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Best affordable city for a guy in his early 20s trying to meet attractive women?I'll be trying out Chicago next year | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Best books for inner game?Subtle art of not giving a fuck seems like it would be in your alley. I've only read descriptions but it's specifically about that | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach is Not For EveryoneTrue. Didn't know he meant mostly day game. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | What's wrong with this sub recently? We are here for seduction strategies and self-improvement, aren't we? Instead, most guys here seems to hide behind a screen (OLD, Insta, ...) and talk sh*t about traditional approaching.Lmao I read 3 posts and left. There are so bad posts and thoughts here. But that shit was awful and the comments were pathetic. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:39 AM |
| 3 | What's wrong with this sub recently? We are here for seduction strategies and self-improvement, aren't we? Instead, most guys here seems to hide behind a screen (OLD, Insta, ...) and talk sh*t about traditional approaching.I'm so glad you took the time to dismantle that. It was spoken from a soap box of contradictions. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:38 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with this sub recently? We are here for seduction strategies and self-improvement, aren't we? Instead, most guys here seems to hide behind a screen (OLD, Insta, ...) and talk sh*t about traditional approaching.How did you overcome it? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”my best friend called me a frat bro now that I've started changing to adapt from LTR to single life. It was negative connotation. I go out a lot more, way more active in social media, went from only a watch to bracelet ring and chain, much more distinct style. And I try to talk to lots of girls. But like I want to be that confident guy who knows a bunch of people and is good with girls. This is how to get my goals the fastest. With experience and pushing myself out there. If they only see the ne… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”I started at 310 as well. I'm down to 260. Care to share how you lost the weight?? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Was told by a friend from HS I now emit “chad” energy and I’m a “chad”No idea why you got downloaded. What are the other resources you're mentioning though | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on how I can better my chances with black and latina girls?What's that in reference too? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 05:45 AM |
| 9 | Greatest colognes/perfumes in 2022?Sauvage by dior. Go for the parfum. The most expensive of all. The amount of compliments I have received on my smell. Unbelievable. And as I continue to gain muscle lose weight and gain better style. My smell is still the main compliment. Literally just 2 weeks ago. As a 265 pound man. I had a guy stop in thr street while I was talking to a buddy and 2 girls. To say someone smells good. I say it's it's definitely me or my buddy. And then both the guy and the 2 girls smell me. And all say it's de… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessThank you😁 some day I'll learn how to take advantage of it🤣 probably when I've lost the weight and she doesn't make me try lol. Until then imma keep getting better at dancing. But anyways yeah I appreciate it+ | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:59 AM |
| 2 | People in bars and clubs avoid meYou're getting this wrong. You need to love yourself. He's aaying try doing new things so you can start to love yourself. It's not get jewelry go to the gym do this so they like you. It's do that shit so you like you. It's very clear you don't like yourself right now. He's suggesting things you can try to like yourself. Like having style and being attractive. It makes you feel good when you see yourself like that. That when you feel good you'll have better interactions and you won't be giving of… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I be "seductive" with someone who's already seen me naked?You can lead the conversation to asking what he thought or saying you thought you saw him go red when he saw you naked. If he wants to see it again. Theres still a lot of mystery in what you feel like even if there isn't in what you look like. Plus men don't really think that way anyway. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessThat sounds like a great time. I'll definitely be looking into that. I've been going to the bars about 2 times a week for the past month to dance. I have a lot of fun with it. And don't get approached often. But it's always been when I'm dancing. And I'm still fat rn (50 down so far another 50) So I can only imagine how it could be at goal weight with actual practice in dance besides just feeling it (which honestly is most of dancing af the bars anyways I think). But I'm definitely going to find… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:49 AM |
| 19 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessAny suggestions on which class i should look into? I like dancing a lot. Have been told by enough girls I'm a good dancer. But I have no actual practice or discipline and I'd like to learn. Mostly for dancing at the bars. Or clubs in the future. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Advice on club game?Good for you man😁 keep it up I guess I was just curious | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 02:33 AM |
| 0 | Do you guys feel weird about social circle game?Sometimes friends fuck. Sometimes it ends poorly. Sometimes people move on as if nothing happened. Sometimes it's how people start to date. Think that's just life in your 20s. Maybe even beyond | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Advice on club game?No advice here. But just curious as to whether you think girls are shooting their shot with you because of your looks or because you're dancing? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Is going out alone even productive/worth it?I go out by myself every week. I also live in my high school town rn and it's summer so I see people I know. I also like dancing and laughing so I've met new people. And I keep meeting new people and old acquaintances. I keep the interactions short. Never let it go 30 seconds past silence and if they don't continue the conversation I move on. So I don't give off the needy vibe to anyone. And then next time those people see me. And I meet their friends. And now every time I go out alone I always … | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | No matches on Tinder in SwedenCap. I'll take better pictures on my s22 ultra than any iPhone. Including the 13max He's using like a 7 year old phone by the looks of it lol | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | responses to "you're funny aren't you"Yeah. I could see it that I'm good at not caring and just making jokes. Which gets them to say that. But then she validates me a little or gives me positive attention and my energy shifts a bit afterwards. I'm still new and coming off a 5 yr LTR. And I know abundance, but I just don't have all the experience I need. But I'm getting it. Anyways I'm not over thinking this. I didn't screw anything up. Just a pattern I noticed. Have literally heard it 4 times almost the same way every time in the la… | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | responses to "you're funny aren't you"Eh that hasn't worked great for me either. I'm thinking now it's just my body language hasn't been clear enough. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 02:01 AM |
| 3 | How to pick up confident girls?That's some incel shit | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | responses to "you're funny aren't you"I was just making another joke🤷♂️ It's like when someone talks about sir Patrick Stewart and I say oh yeah that guy from American dad, Avery. I love how ridiculous it is to only recognize him for that and only recognize the other scene from family guy | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 09:26 PM |
| 0 | responses to "you're funny aren't you"Shit did I make a joke about me being young while making fun of young people. Damnit my b | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 09:24 PM |
| 0 | responses to "you're funny aren't you"I love that family guy scene. Anyways I mostly talk to 21-24- year Olds who don't get that lol. But it is a funny response | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 11 | Social Proof (having friends about) is a night and day differenceLmao what | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:57 PM |
| 12 | What are some things you guys do on first dates to make sure the woman knows this is not about friendship?Why wait til the end | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Catching feelingsThat's fair. As someone who can't relate, at all. I just want you to keep in mind that you were that guy. Something is in the way of it now. And you'll have to find a way to go through that. But don't forget you were/are that guy. Just something is in the way right now. Seems like therapy is gonna be the best option. If you're chasing a girl you think is as hot as she was it's gonna be damn near impossible to get one. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Catching feelingsGah damn you must have some huge confidence and major Big dick energy to get a girl with an ex like that. And if you did it before. When you were younger and dumber. Why can't you do it again? | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 2 | She asked how big I amThis is my favorite response and I will be using it from now on | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for girls to talk about themselves constantly?Could you elaborate on the endorsement and validation? | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 11:30 PM |
| 3 | After a Loyal 8yr Relationship, I've Slept with ~40 women via OLD apps - AMAYeah I'm interested in how you changed your profile and if you can elaborate more. I'm just about start OLD because I'm getting pretty dry and thirsty after a breakup and I really don't want that to be a vibe I give off | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:32 AM |
| 4 | Can you actually say whatever you want to women?Seriously Jesus christ. I should not have listened to my ex nearly as much as I did. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Daygame on weekdaysCan you Move to a bigger city | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:30 AM |
| 2 | How can I get approached by men first?Or you can immediately qualify men who aren't afraid to approach a woman who dresses really well. If you're just trying to fuck someone. I'd listen to that advice. But if you are trying to be a little choosy then I wouldn't worry about that. Those girls intimidate some guys. And make other guys go, damn I gotta meet her. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?Lmao. You're a victim. You chose to respond to that shit. Instead of acknowledging my good fucking advice. Whatever you think is happening to you your doing to yourself. And your response sets that shit in stone. I don't have time for people like you honestly. Take some control | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Still approaching with questions? Do this instead..Nope. I'll never use an indirect approach. If I'm specifically approaching. I will always be direct. I may just talk to a girl and realize oh okay I might like her maybe I should start hitting on her. But I'll never purposely use an indirect approach. Ever. That's not the kinda guy I am | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?I'm not assuming. I'm telling you the observations I made reading your comments. It's not pathetic. It's literally all about mindsets And this topic is a myth. That's why no one cares to talk about it. You're so focused something that doesn't even exist in real life. Which is why no one wants to waste time talking about it. And why everyone is talking about mindsets. Best advice i have. Think of the person you've always wanted to be. What would that person do day to day. Then go do it | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you do/say in this situation?You got something on your mind? | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Still approaching with questions? Do this instead..I'll never use an indirect approach in my life | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you fake that you care about someone.Dude you need a therapist to answer those questions. What you're describing is putting on a mask. Well thr mask always slips, that's why they notice. And it will ALWAYS slip eventually. Sounds like you're on the spectrum somewhere. And Sounds like you don't do a lot of self reflection and meditation. There's nothing wrong with any of that. But this way over reddit pay grade lol. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | How to let my coworker know i basically want to fxck himMen like women who are direct just as much as women like men who are direct | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Is there a point to bother when you are going to be someone's 2nd+ choice at best?You're a victim OP. Take some charge in your life. Everyone here is telling you how to do it and you just respond with excuses and weak mindsets. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:38 PM |
| 3 | I did social freedom excerciseWell you're joking about something that made this dude happy. So excuse me if I nitpick it lol. You added nothing and gave no actionable advice. Only added negative energy ✋️ | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 11:47 PM |
| 4 | I did it!!!Only one way to find out | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What if you were okay the way you were? What if you were attractive despite some of your insecurities, your flaws, your shyness, and your past experiences?Yeah I've dropped from 310 to 265 in little under 2 months. Started doing social media like crazy taking lots of pictures and going out dancing and being social as fuck. Now people are saying "I'm not photogenic like you are" which is crazy because I always hated myself in pictures. But then I took 1000 pictures and 150 videos over 6 weeks and lost weight. Now I'm "photogenic" lol. Definitely go do the things that you think the man you want to be would do. And then adjust and keep doing it. Best… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 10:22 PM |
| 2 | No more replies after cool convo?That's some incel shit | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 10:04 PM |
| 3 | I did social freedom excercisePepper spray from a high five?? What world do you live in?? | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | I did it!!!not with that attitude. You've defeated yourself before you even started playing | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | I just stopped talking to a girl out of anxiety, is it donezo ?Let me rephrase. I'm doing it because it's the man I want to be. I can explain myself if people specifically ask me too. I'm saying I almost never offer up explanations anymore. And basically by that I meant If they think I'm just how I act on the outside, not noticing any nuance of what im doing, or if they misjudge me so poorly. than they are a poor judge of character with low social skills. And as (ill be honest rn) medium value male i don't have time to deal with people who are still that im… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | I just stopped talking to a girl out of anxiety, is it donezo ?There's a large gap between being a dick and not explaining yourself. I never said to be a dick. And I never said to be disrespectful. And I'm not. But I used to explain myself all the time, and for what. Now im more intriguing because they want to know. Also I literally don't understand why you brought the value hypothetical up. I don't disagree with it, but what does it have to do here. Far assumption to say I'm being disrespectful and have no value so I must be missing your point. And of cour… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Tinder makes me depressed!It's how I got out of depression. When I'm pushed against a rock I push back. And I forced myself to do the things that would make me a man I can be proud of. By putting myself out there completely. So. No just because it didn't work for you. Or it might not work for him. Doesn't mean I don't understand it. And it doesnt mean it doesn't work for everyone. Sometimes some people just need the blunt answer. Maybe he n3eds what you have to say. Maybe he needs what I have to say. You don't know him a… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Tinder makes me depressed!Honestly Grow some balls. Whatever you don't like leave it behind. Stop doing it. Doing anything because you think you have to is dumb as hell | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:28 PM |
| 0 | I just stopped talking to a girl out of anxiety, is it donezo ?Nope. Fuck all that. Women are attracted to men. Not men who want to have girls like what they say. I used to think like that. It's stupid. You don't need to explain yourself. As an adult. Not just as a male. But as an adult. If you have confidence and you know you're not just being a dick you never have to explain yourself. Except to your close friends who sometimes deserve an explanation. Beyond that, no. You and I are adults. You don't have to explain yourself. I don't have to explain myself.… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | dancing with girls on the dance floorAlright. I've lost 30 pounds in 45 days. Fuck right the shit off bro lol. What was the point of your comment? Do you feel better about yourself now?? Cuz I feel the same I did before. I hope you find a way to feel good about yourself big guy😉 Also I hope you find a way to get better at reading comprehension. Because it seems you didn't get past the first sentence. Maybe you grew up pretty, but it doesn't really give you an excuse to be an ignorant prick now does it? | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | How essential is a short conversation before asking for her number? I don't want to interrupt what she's doing.Every time I choose to insert myself into a conversation or an encounter. I know that I am adding value. It's like, they are lucky I am coming here, but a little less cocky. Also do you think your friends spend a second thinking about how much pussy you get? It's part of the reason they do get pussy regularly. Also idgaf about any couple. Odds are someone is lying or settling. I wanna be single. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | How essential is a short conversation before asking for her number? I don't want to interrupt what she's doing.I got dumped of 5 years. Posted it. Fee people reached out. Then I started posting all thr time. But mkstly positivity after the initial dump posts. And he saw what I was going through. We went to high school together. So I've known him for over a decade. He respects me. I respect him. I saw him dt and we just started talking about girls. He told me the number one thing is to believe that every interaction you go into you're an addition. You're a plus. And I told him how fucking smart and health… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | How essential is a short conversation before asking for her number? I don't want to interrupt what she's doing.Yeah some people just can't widen their worldview I guess. Idk I don't understand it. I'm glad I have someone in real life that is a high fucking value male and still respects and slays women to help me out. There is a lot of smart things said here but there is also a lot of bullshit and lot of victims who can't accept hard facts. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How should I have approached this girl at brunch with her friends?Fair enough. You've said a lot of smart shit and I believe you've either done it or experienced it. And that it really can just be that simple. You have to truly believe and act your a high value individual that has a lot to offer to pull this off though. No faking it at all. My old mind couldn't accept that you could just walk up like that. But I know nothing about what is acceptable, because I've never had the balls to find out. Now I've got the balls, just not the experience. Yet. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Spoke to a girl for 2 hours at a bar but she left with another guy!!!Yeah you did good. No hesitation next time. Fuck it | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | How should I have approached this girl at brunch with her friends?Also wondering. Not like you can just stand by the table for 5 minutes | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | FrustratedMake them prove to you they deserve to be in a relationship | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:07 PM |
| 0 | I just stopped talking to a girl out of anxiety, is it donezo ?I wouldn't explain If you're a confident man who does things with good intentions then it's fine. You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. It shows strength and confidence. And constantly explaining yourself shows the opposite. Just try again. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:06 PM |
| -1 | How essential is a short conversation before asking for her number? I don't want to interrupt what she's doing.Imagine downvoting this 🤣 | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I unlearn game?I just came to stop taking myself so seriously. I was afraid people would never take me seriously or be willing to see the value I have. But now idc, if they can't see it then they aren't attentive and not someone I really care to get to learn anyways. Which kind of feels like this in the sense that I finally stopped judging myself. And now I'm subconsciously judging others less too | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedI could never hold a conversation with a girl who is like that. So if she reacts strongly to me approaching than I'll just move on. She saved me a lot of time anyways. She literally qualifies herself to you when she says shit like that. Take it as her telling you who she is (at least who she is tn) | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How can I (21 m) attract women that are older than me?Just start. If it's what you really want next time you see one say something. Literally just hi. You might get ignored. But is that any different than if you did nothing. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 08:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you become self assured, self confident and charismatic?Do something you've always wanted to do. Not about the money. But fucking put yourself full fucking force out there. Don't give a fuck what people think of you. Do the thing you've always wanted to do and be the image of the person you've always wanted to be. Use your depression and sadness of what you don't have as motivation. To get everything you've ever wanted. And tell yourself everyday. I'm a man who gets what I want cuz I fucking work hard and nothing will stop me. I'm a man who gets what… | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | I think I might not be able to approach without lowering my inhibitions. Any way to do this without intoxication?I'm in the same boat right now OP. I'm pretty sure we just have to keep talking to more people, more girls. No shortcut. That's why we can't get attached to anyone especially now because we're gonna fuck it up lol. But it doesn't matter. There will be another girl. Another conversation. And then one of the girls will want to go home with us. And then the next time we talk to a girl it gets a little easier. I'm pretty sure that's the only route forward. Hope someone confirms or corrects me | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What’s the closest thing you’ve found to a “cheat code”?What is frame control | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you break a "polite rapport" bad habit?Damnit ahh. Yup I can even see myself saying that to another guy. But she was a cute blonde, my weakness. And I go stupid sometimes still. Thanks though. This taught me a lot about qualifying and shit test dynamic. End of the day though I just still get too excited when I get positive feedback or interest showed back at me. Just need more experience. It's just a cute new coworker I'm casually flirting with anyways. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you break a "polite rapport" bad habit?I'm really glad you brought up the shit test and how to respond to that. I was talking to this girl the other day and it was going well. She was laughing and good eye contact. Nothing crazy but it was going well. Then I go talking about how dudes at bars are so lame and boring. And she said all guys ain't shit. And I'm pretty damn sure now that was a shit test. And I should've just agreed and even raised it. But instead I said we'll not all guys are shit you're gonna make me feel bad. Joking and… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | how to tell someone to not wait 2 hours before every text?Why | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 03:01 AM |
| 4 | [FIELD REPORT] First time pulling from a day clubWell I would lmao. But im 25 in a college town | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 01:47 AM |
| 5 | [FIELD REPORT] First time pulling from a day clubDrugs help. I'm basically doing the same thing but I just started. And yeah I would've never made it without drugs that keep you awake. But I can already tell it's working. And then when you can you gotta nap. Idk it's not great. But in being super healthy for everything else so I don't trip about it too much. I've been functioning off of 4-6 hours sleep pretty much my whole life so it's not really new to me. Just the amount of interactions and drinking. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?I mean. I'll use a cheesy pickup line as the base of whatever I'm saying though. Which was very much my point. Just don't have anything preloaded. It's still helpful to know the lines sometimes. Idk | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 3 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?Alright. Just curious how that would be labeled but whatever | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 08:03 AM |
| 13 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?This is the first time I've heard it in years. I was honestly surprised. I'm not trying to be a dick | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:23 AM |
| 6 | What's an instant turn off for you guys from a girl?I feel the exact opposite. Had to cross the street to tell a girl her green hair looked astonishing. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:21 AM |
| 1 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?I mean Guys who are new would not be noticing girls looking at them. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:18 AM |
| 3 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?That's how you get all thr goth girls for sure | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:17 AM |
| 2 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?Also curious. I understand the point is to not focus on specific things and treat each situation differently and be fluid and be yourself. But it's nice to have examples when you're brand new. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:16 AM |
| 3 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?Lmao okay but bitches loved Disney Channel that would probably make them laugh. Imma start dropping SpongeBob lines fuck it 🤣 | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:10 AM |
| 8 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?I think delivering lines just shows that you like being funny and can make witty remarks in a timely manner based off her or the environment. If it's just a line that could be said to anyone anywhere then yeah for sure they'll pick up on that. And you could say the funniest thing in the world or just say hi and 98% will be based on how you hold yourself and your demeanor. But being able to say a line that you clearly just came up with and not something you've been storing away. It shows wittines… | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:09 AM |
| 6 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?Is this a neg or a push pull or a tease? | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:01 AM |
| 23 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?Do people still say swag? | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 07:00 AM |
| 13 | What are your smoothest lines/openers you've used with girls?Talk about a rainforest am I right | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 06:59 AM |
| 3 | I got rejected today and I’m proud as fI applaud that | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 06:59 AM |
| 17 | I got rejected today and I’m proud as fI agree female friends are great. But if it's not what you're looking for it's not what you're looking for. No need to feel bad about that. It's one thing to hang out with a single girl and see if you actually like her like that and then be ehh I think I'd rather us just be friends. But I wouldn't be inviting a girl with a boyfriend right now either. I'm trying to be flirty and playful no matter what so I can get better at it. Whether she's lying or not if she says I have a boyfriend it's not a … | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Looks Aren’t My Issue. Texting Is.Have to try this out. Definitely don't want to waste any time being text buddies on OLD | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | How to proceed at a bar?Try again | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 12:51 PM |
| 3 | How to proceed at a bar?You were excited by the pretty girl and then when she left you came out of your "pinkout" and your blood went back to your brain lol Happens to me every time right now since I just started being single after 5 years. I'll be so good at curating my vibe and being like she's lucky I'm coming up to talk. But then they show some interest and my brain just shuts off for a little. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Dissection after my first 100 approachesThank you | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Any regular weed smokers here?Big stoner and reputation as someone who can get what you need. If you like smoking find a girl who likes smoking too. That simple. I wouldn't quit smoking weed just for some girl fuck that. I quit Nicotine completely but weed is different. Stoner girls are fucking hit and miss lemme tell you lol. Some have the most personality and some have fucking zero and just like to smoke be weird and fuck. Not even funny weird. Just weird weird. But I mean. That's just girls lol. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I not be boring?"Girls are boring" What | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the world and society would be a much better place if social-skills were taught in school, part of the education system in our teenage years, adolescent years?I think your view on girls are a little misguided. Yes communication should've been actually taught. What they did was throw you in and sew what happens. Some kinds made the most of it. Some kids were too busy being victims. Just matters what you do now | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | How to handle girls approaching you?So this was something I decided to do and I'm glad I did. But like I used to think the word vibe was silly and that only crystal girls thought like that. But I've realized that girls are super in tune (some more than others) with vibe and energy. And I've started focusing on that completely too. It's a lot of fun to hold the vibe first and foremost. And when someone doesn't match my vibe, I get to leave. Cuz my vibe is a fucking delight and a privilege and I allow others to join me if I want. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:49 AM |
| 2 | How do I get more “drip”?Yeah this comment section was hard to read lol. Like... are your bars just all white people dancing to country music🤣 In a pickup sub reddit. For this many people to be like, I've never heard of "drip" so no. You've never heard of it??? How And then someone said I'm 23 so I have no idea who lil yachty is. Bro I'm 25 I know who the fuck he is. Acting like your better because someone you're older and know less than them. Amazing. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I get more “drip”?Lmao fuckin love the Naruto reference | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:30 AM |
| 2 | How do I get more “drip”?Chinos are life. Petty much the only thing I like wearing out when it's not jeans season | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I get more “drip”?I didn't really like any of the answers here for once. To start don't call it drip or icy or clean. The way you talk that shit does not come off naturally. It's just accessories and you finding your style. I have a nice gold watch with diamonds around the face. A matching gold bracelet. And I've got a rope chain. It shows that I think more about my style than just heres my shirt and pants. And shows that I have money to spend on things I enjoy. But I legitimately enjoy those things. I feel good … | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys prevent exhaustion from going out at night?Coke | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | FIELD REPORT: 5'7 Black guy in Northern California night game. Critique and help outWho is this for? | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | How Do Y'all Seduce older Women (Milfs)Yes, its screening if youre high value male thats worth the time. Otherwise you broke and needy. Do you like broke needy girls | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 10:31 AM |
| 3 | How to handle girls approaching you?I didn't even realize I got approached until the next day and I'm like bro what the fuck I just danced for a little and then I danced away. Like I wasn't even thinking about girls at all. Which is definitely why one of them approached me aha. Definitely gotta stay dancing and start flirting with her next time. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 10:12 AM |
| 3 | How to handle girls approaching you?I was approached every night I went out this weekend. Im 270 and been single for all of 3 weeks after 5 years. Every time it was cuz I was the best (or the most expressive??) Dancer she could see nearby and wanted to dance. And I have no game right now. Just heavy main character energy. If I can get approached like that anyone can. But who approached a guy just sitting on his phone looking up and smiling every now and then. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 10:10 AM |
| 3 | This is how I got her to say the famous “I don’t usually do this…” at the end of our dateBro flow for me baby. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text you back. If she doesn't, take the sign.How would you advise doing it | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not that kind of guy"Yeah. I like looking at it as I'm the main character of my life and i have main character energy. Every situation and every encounter I decide to join is better because I am part of it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | This girl is playing games with me.NEED ADVICE.Then you don't vibe right??? I think they're fun. Girls just wanna have fun | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 12:00 PM |
| 0 | Self deception worksSame for you. Christ You can change most of the things you complained about. You wanna be more interesting?? Go do more interesting things You wanna be more social. Go talk to more people. You're holding yourself back because you're afraid you can't do it | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Instagram gameI mean. That's an opinion. Me and my ex didn't use text message for years. It was annoying and we'd rather use messenger and snapchat. So I have a hard time believing that what you are saying is a 100% universal thing. Like isntagram or Facebook or Twitter I get. But your snap chat is directly for messaging. Plus literally I would rather have them watch my stories than never look at my number again. If we dont talk or stop talking for whatever reason. I'm funny in my stories. And people are hitt… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Instagram gameTrue. How old are you I'm 25. And I would say most people use snapchat and insta to post stuff. And then doom scroll through Twitter/tik tok. Buy everyone who has any social media has snap as well Idk all my friends use snapchat and a lot of times in my area I ask for a number they go for snap. I know people here say never do that go for her number. But like if she sees I'm constantly having fun on snapchat she will want to hit me up for sure. She isn't see that through her phone number. I'm pre… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | How forward/direct/sexual should you be?Love this | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:51 AM |
| 2 | This girl is playing games with me.NEED ADVICE.Okay people who don't want to be friends with girls unless they are fucking are weird. Girls are fun. To fuck and hang out with. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Just did my first ever cold approach!I have very little experience but that seems like a lot | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Instagram gameI like snapchat. But I make hilarious for both social and creative proof | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Dating Apps vs. Real Life EncountersI mean OLD is just an enhancer to what you're already doing right. Let's be honest. If you can't talk to girls in real life. And you need to talk to them through an app. You're going to do poorly anyways. To put it in simpler terms. If you're batting .300 in real life. You'll bat at best .100 on OLD. So focus on the right thing. Which is honestly believing you are an enhancement to any social interaction you decide to join | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | For someone looking to get back in the game, what are some top flirting tips/techniques (both in bars and clubs)My favorite is whenever you're at the bar and there's is a pretty girl next to you. Turn to her and say Hey would you wanna take a shot with me? I was about to order one solo but I'd always rather have a shot with a pretty girl. Super easy. Requires like no effort. If you were vibing before. Deliver it in a fun genuine way. They usually say yes. If not just go back to vibing until it'd time for your next drink or shot and so it again | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:46 AM |
| 3 | For someone looking to get back in the game, what are some top flirting tips/techniques (both in bars and clubs)I used to think "vibe" and "energy" and all that were just silly when I was a kid. And It sucks to realize how much time i wasted lol. Cuz as far as person to person connection everything is about the vibe and that girls really care about the vibe. Especially the initial one. At least I know now | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | For someone looking to get back in the game, what are some top flirting tips/techniques (both in bars and clubs)Yeah. Only way is to try. Otherwise nothing will change and you keep blaming something else that will never try for you the way you could for yourself. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateThanks for all that. What clicks with me really is how you purposely left it just at the kiss to create a lasting desire in her, that you already had. Honestly i think push pull will be natural for me. I like joking and being a bit of an ass. So I already did it a little I just never heard the terminology. And it was never with the specific intention of creating sexual desire, so it's certainly different than what I've been doing just anyways. But. Right now I'm leaving a 5 year relationship at … | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | This Exercise Makes You IrresistibleWow... whe. This started I was ready to move on with am eye roll. But that is therapy level advice. And even then it's doubtful they would explain the phenomenon in as short a period as you did. If anyone here does this and connects with it. Please look into therapy as well. Connecting with your inner child is "common" in therapy so if that helps they probably would be able to help with much more. Anyways. I little long winded intro. But amazing post OP | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Need a texting adviceThanks for explaining. And Not that you care or asked. But I got my first number tn after being dumped of 5 yrs last week and it was a cold approach at the bar. Just said nah ill buy your drink as long you have a shot with me after. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with failure?Making mistakes once is fine and natural. Making the same mistake multiple times is bad. As much as it sucks you gotta realize this is a new game you're learning and you gonna fuck up at the beginning. I also just got dumped and have had 4 soft rejections (not get go away, but moved passed exchanging contacts) and that's it since so no success since I've been trying to learn lol. Just the mind frame I'm trying to have | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Need a texting adviceWhat's a set? From context I know it has something to do with cold approaches | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Can someone give me actual legit advices that really work?Sleeping with as much as possible. Time to hoe around | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateCan you explain further? And also seems like q bit of catch 22 if you need experience. Only one way to get it | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I sleep with girls on the first dateReally liked this answer. Thank you. Especially being specific how you were. And it seems like push pull is one of the fundamental basics of seduction then? A long with cold approaching and calibrating your social interactions. Right? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?Yes women are other people just like men are. They are not all the same. They don't have a hive mind. Some are angels and some are cunts Some do do most things right and some make mostly mistakes. Some girls date up. Meaning some guys date down. Some guys Date up. Meaning some girls date down. If you can't see this simple fact that you cant overgeneralize women like that then you are willingly blinding yourself because you are too afraid or stupid too look at the real world. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | How to shoot your shot?Thanks for putting it out there. As someone who hasn't thought about game like this it was good to see. And have the specific examples. Even though obviously the point is the tone and mood not the examples buts it's helpful to actually see. A lot of responses in this sub are too metaphorical and not very helpful for either new comers or vets lol. So thanks | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?You're stupid. Life is not this black and white | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:33 PM |
| 6 | How do you take initiative with a girl who already get hit often by tons of men?That hurt my brain... it amazes me when girls give advice here and guys act like this... Like they know girls are people and you're gonna have to talk to them. If this is how you do then no wonder you're not having a good time | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Well put. You really will manifest your will into life one way or another so you better find a way for it to be positive | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Fat boi game? Overweight fellas get in hereAll of the talk about gut biome flies over my head. Where can I get started learning?? I've gone from 315-285 so far last 6 weeks so it's going well. I cut bread pasta soda candy fried food processed food and less cheese. Then more water and walking/jogging and some ab stuff. And going to gym soon | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | There are thousands of guys that make a beautiful woman feel special any given day but has any beautiful woman ever made you feel special?Yes. I'm nothing special with one ex so far. But she and friends and strangers have all made me feel special Life would be pretty crazy if it never did. I don't think it's a very deep person except for people that have much deeper issues. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateCan you define a push aggression? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:53 AM |
| 0 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateSad | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateBoo. Being friends with mire hot girls is almost always good | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Is Money Worth the Wait?I'm at yoke right now 18k. I also just got dumped last week. But I'll be moving out soon. You don't meet nearly as many women living at home and it's a tougher sell. Having said all that I got dumped from 5 years before I was 21 so I have no idea how this is gonna go for me. I just have to assume not living with your parents is easier. And you got 100k. You're fine unless you lose all sense of financial education. Move out. Keep grinding. Start talking to girls next week | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Is Money Worth the Wait?He has 100k lol | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Is Money Worth the Wait?Then move out of it | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Is Money Worth the Wait?What do you now? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:25 AM |
| 18 | How to find one night stands while travelingOP is so whiny and actively fighting anyone trying to help him in comments Don't ask for advice and then tell people they gave you the wrong advice | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | What are some good conversations starters? (M19)What is dhv? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach "rejections" can actually be a win-win for both partiesNope. A guy in a relationship that sees girls as humans not just moving targets to stick your dick in | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach "rejections" can actually be a win-win for both partiesOf course this is highly upvoted | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Cold Approach is BrutalThanks for sharing this side of it | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 07:09 PM |
| 5 | I got a hot girlfriend, and you can too!Hell yeah good for you. Pickup lifestyle can seem kind of gross sometimes anyways. It's better that you made it your own and stayed true to yourself | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?Dude you already chose but want someone on reddit to agree with you so you can ignore the guilt you know you feel | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | After years of dating I am convinced that women are the most attracted to men who are so full of themselves, arrogant & rude who can show them their place.This is anecdotal evidence based on who you go after. Says a lot more about you then it does women, especially as a whole gender. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 09:46 AM |
| 7 | 10 Months of Successful Dating in New York City: A Summary and AnalysisYeah it felt gross when it got to that point. This sub always kinda gets to that point. Where its morr about getting your dick wet then getting a relationship. And the advice always ends uo skewing to treating it like a business class and you just need to use the proper theories for maximum profit. Seemingly forgetting that they are talking about trying to get with other humans, not just a drop off for your cum | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Any regular weed smokers here?Yeah. Im more chill when im high. She smokes too though | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes?Yeah i have sauvage by christian dior and my girlfriend absolutely loves it. And ive gotten compliments from literally all my close friends and its not like its common/cheap garbo. Reddit gonna reddit i suppose | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:45 AM |
| -1 | Do girls really notice when guys are wearing colognes?Christian dior, versace, dolce gabana, gucci | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Bruh.. you brought up the movie. Now when i compare it to other movies it has to be about real life. You're changing the goal posts to everything i say. Acting as if all women are the same. And acting like you've talkes to all of them. You think its easy for everyone but you? Im getting pissed because in real life there are women who got raped as a child and are traumatized for life and can never have a real relationship and meanwhile you're sitting here complaining and acting like women have it… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.So i agree that those traits are basically universally ideal in every world view. However, what you said now still leads me to the same conclusion and this is why. So at the most basic level, what you described, seems like your world view is in line with real world. So ill proceed assuming that is true. So if you still struggle that means there is a disconnect somehwere. But its not at that basic level, so that means it must be at the next level. As in stuff/qualities/tendencies that might be mo… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.40 year old virgin: movie where a dude never changes, and is single and then he changes and gets the girl. Youve never seen a movie about a girl who who is busy working and can never find love until the end of the movie where she changes her worldview and then ends up in a relationship? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Yes they do.. you cant tell you've never heard the term cat lady? Like we made a phrase, and a very common one seeing as it is a trait archetype in soooo many tv shows/movies, that i have heard or seen since a child in the 2000s. And the phrase literally describes a woman who has no friends, no relationship, and instead bought a bunch of cats to have some form of connection with something alive. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.What he said absolutely doesn't cover your situation, or other people with a similar situation. It doesn't mean its impossible, but you'll definitely have to find your own way to proceed which is no easy task, obviously. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Dude.. your personality is annoying. Instead of listening to what i said and responding with what i presented. You just said the same thing you said the first time, except this time you put it more eloquently and then felt the need to bold it because i know damn well in youre head you think "these idiots don't know what this means obviously" Maybe work on communication skills because you're a crap listener. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.So basically you'll need to expand your view of the world/life. You see the world in a certain way right now, based on your upbringing and experiences. So you could be doing everything right according to the "rules" of your world view, and still fail in the real world. Which means your view of the world, or at least this aspect of it, isnt close enough to the real world. How do you do that? Well ive almost exclusicely changed my own worldview 2 ways. From researching, and from talking to people.… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Victim. Thats not true at all. If they all react the same way its you. Until you accept that things will never change | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.This is victim personality right here. Do you honestly believe women have life made out for them just for being a girl? | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Also if you're passionate about stuff, it shows. And as a general rule for all humans, when you see someone is passionate about something it is at the very least interesting. "How much do theh know? How long have they been doing it? Why are they so passionate?" The interest might stop there, but it does immediately make you more interesting and there is an opening to talk to some girls. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.This is why right here. Its this "oh woe is me" victim attitude and that women are nothing more than a conquest/their body. The way you talk its like women are a different species. What kind of girl wants to be with a guy that thinks all women are valued only by their body and they're worthless besides that. Ffs dude. These kind of comments are disgusting and show how some guys have never had a female connection in their life and have disassociated so far from women that they act like girls aren… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:55 AM |
| 9 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Lmao this is like reading a sitcom script. "Guy asks for womens feedback" Gets it "She's just projecting her issues onto others" Come on now, what in the world would she be bitter about here. You're lying to yourself making mental gymnastics to fit it into your world view | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Dude.. you have a seriously messed up view of what girls are. Are you saying any of that implying men don't do all the same shit and worse? You view girls as a different species and then say they all do the same stuff, and make the same choices, and all of their choices are wrong. "If you wake up and only meet one person who acts like an asshole the whole day, that guy was probably an asshole. If you wake up and everybody you met was an asshole, you're probably the asshole" | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:47 AM |
| 8 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.You're literally the victim this post is describing. Work on yourself | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:36 AM |
| 8 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Hey look. Excuses | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:34 AM |
| 11 | Danced with a girl last night in the club, and then she ended up running awayJesus dude you have so many pre conceived notions that are all anecdote and not personal experience and then trying to fit every girl you see into that box. Start thinking of women as people. Not a conquest | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 09:57 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Yes women sit at home all day waiting for a big confident macho man to save them from their boredom and allow them to find a hobby like a real man. /s Gross The conclusion of women being humans is right, but whats the point of saying women sit at home bored all day as if men dont do the same thing possibly even more | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This. This is why | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]They dont. You're biased and using a small sample size and will probably struggle as long as you hold onto the notion all girls do anything. If you're consistently running into the same problem with multiple people its you. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 09:35 PM |
| 4 | 26 yo virgin. I’ve made progress but still don’t feel like women are attracted to me. What should I focus on improving?Ah yes way to have to confidence | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 09:07 PM |
| 22 | So I approached this girl...I usually fall in love with any cute girl that tickles my boxers | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 03:11 AM |
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