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The number one, and really only tip I can give about cold approaching is: She shouldn't know it's a cold approach. If she can tell "oh this guy wants to fuck me" as soon as the interaction starts then it takes the intrigue and the fun out of it. Just act like it's some incidental interaction, get her to laugh during the conversation and end it with getting their number or social media handle so you can talk later.
By nature, cold approaches have like a 1% success rate. It's purely a numbers game, you must know you're likely going to strike out going into it. You have to be willing to eat rejection like it's breakfast if you want it to be effective.
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