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As a woman, you are limited by how many men want to approach you. Lol nope? A woman can approach as much as a man does. And i guarantee you that she'll have many times higher success chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:43 PM
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I assume that women genuinely do it to avoid bad men. But they are really bad at it. The problem is that women just like most mammal females actively select for size, strength and aggression. And these traits are inherently correlated to being dangerous. Too bad people can't really reason with what they find attractive. And the same is true for men. An older, more experienced and wealthier woman might be a better partner, but we're still attracted to the 20 yo silly bombshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:42 PM
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Average? ZERO
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:21 PM
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So why is this? Why do YOU think some men in the world are (becoming) attracted to women who are physically strong, dominant, or masculine in other ways? Because its easy. Thats why women who are sexual selectors are feminine and want masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:03 PM
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Its not about standards. I had stranger women stalk me, grind on my crotch or try to grope my genitals despite my objections. If that happend in a club and idbtell bouncers ablut it theyd laugh and say they wont do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:21 AM
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Well. TRP is a sexual strategy not some kind of moral theory of intersex relations. Men want to only date attractive women. So TRP is only interested in women who are 6+.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:03 AM
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There's some. Still 100x more than with a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:15 PM
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Because by 'sex' most men mean intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:04 PM
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How many women have you cold approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:55 AM
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Yes. If by 'acceptable' you mean accepted by every single woman in the world. In reality, most women are completely fine being approached everywhere you like. As long as you're not doing any weird/rude shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:55 PM
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You dont become a fitness influencer because you were born attractive. It requires a masive amout of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:45 PM
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There are no guaranteed results in anything in life. But obviously, pua gurus and coaches promise you'll bang models left and right because it sells their services lol. It's actually funny, I'm a marketing guy(but don't work in dating) and i heard a presentation by some guy selling his dating products. At first he tried to be genuine and give realistic expectations -which were still quite optimistic, but not as outlandish as what everyone else promises. He got zero clients that way. Only when he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:44 PM
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Actually that's very false. Learning Pua tactics requires lots of time, effort and balls. Require you to approach dozens of women each week to learn. Most guys won't approach that many over their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:12 PM
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The thing about Andrew Tate is that he's just a typical marketing guru selling his marketing products who just uses trp as his gimmick. He's just next Dan Lok or Tony Robbins.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:04 PM
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Yeah, thats why i said 95% instead of 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:17 AM
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People tend not to understand that the sexual revolution wasn't a revolution of thought but a technical one. It was made possible by access to easy-to-use birth control and parental testing. And before the sexual revolution extra-marital sex was indeed immoral -because it resulted in a bunch of kids who didn't know who they father was. And if that father didn't choose to accept them they were raised only by their mothers. Which wasn't very easy in times of low economic output -putting a heavy st…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:57 PM
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No, you literally said that nowadays more people have mental illnesses which is not the same thing. We can't really measure for that. But unless you have any convincing data, we should assume that the mental illness rate is pretty much constant. Just now we are much better at diagnosing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:30 PM
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Most women who are above a 6 work out Don't get me wrong- i really value fitness, yoga and cardio classes favored by 95% of women. I took them many times myself. But they are not in the same order of magnitude compared to lifting for strength or hypertrophy when it comes to effort and pain. Where's the difference? Two words: Progressive overload. Yeah some yoga classes can kick your butt extra hard the first dozen times you attend it but it's nowhere comparable to deadlifting 2x your body weight…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:24 PM
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people in failed relationships You're making a false assumption that the ultimate goal of a relationship is to last till death. And that it'll somehow add a meaning to your life. I'm currently single but i would never trade good memories i had with my ex girlfriends for stable but boring wifes of my friends. They all lead pretty mundane lives imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:06 PM
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some of the highest mental illness DIAGNOSIS rates here i fixed this for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:56 PM
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Absoulutely everyone can realistically be healthy weight. According to science the fastest metabolism is only 10% faster than the slowest one. It's our choices not our 'genes' that are responsible for being overweight. Somehow 100 years ago there were almost no overweight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:48 PM
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No you literally said: women who take care of themselves and present themselves well. Being fat means not taking care of yourself, no matter how amazing you're at drawing a fake face on the top of your real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:25 PM
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Most 3s are 3s because they're obese bums who neglected their looks not because they're natural 3s. Underneath is someone average, who could look good if he takes a great care of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:20 PM
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at the same time are only attracted to women who take care of themselves and present themselves well. BS. Most women in US are overweight and men are still attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:18 PM
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No, not ANYONE can be at least a 7 Yeah technically not everyone, but the remaining 98% still can. Most men just aren't that attractive, People underestimate how much of facial attractiveness (especially for males) comes from being fit. A 3 can turn into 8 easily. https://www.reddit.com/r/uglyduckling/comments/7v5tmw/lost_50kg_110lbs_in_18_months_after_a_rugby/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:13 PM
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how much effort the average woman puts into their appearance to be average, more or less if they’re attractive. Meh. A man who lifts puts much more effort into his appearance than the average woman. Applying makeup & grooming may take some time & skill but are ultimately super easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:09 PM
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Noone has ever said that women are too picky because they're waiting for someone who's good at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:02 PM
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Back then there were almost no relationships in the modern sense that included cohabitation and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:15 PM
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Most men here are low-value. And they will accept whatever is given to them. But it's not like it's the first choice of someone who's able to choose. Most high-value men date within their socioeconomic circles for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:27 PM
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There were no relationships outside of marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:24 PM
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“I also have a minimum wage job, no formal education, no interests beyond housekeeping and enthusiastic blow jobs, and no male friends, no male coworkers, and no male customers.” No man ever said that. Even when we like younger girls. We like ambitious young girls with a lot energy and a sense of humor. Not the lame-ass ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:35 PM
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I don't find most people have a lot to offer nowadays. Lol we live in time when the highest % is educated, has hobbies and other shit going on in their lives. Stop romanticizing the past lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:33 PM
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a relationship being a business transaction isn’t the norm and never will be. Don't you realize that the idea of romantic love is not older than a few hundred years? Relationships have been business transactions first and foremost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:26 PM
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Exactly. According to op, all people somehow become evil psychopaths as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:18 PM
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Yes lol. Women are rapey as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:32 AM
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Height and dick and agression.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:53 PM
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Just be taller bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:51 PM
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Lol no. Bit still much more pedophilia and abuse than in west.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/23 10:23 PM
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They also said they are billionaires lol. Especially when he was the most famous man on the planet for a good timeframe? Before the Greta Thunberg incident, most normal people had no idea who's that lol.
/r/seduction12/05/23 06:06 PM
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Nope. He's a con artist marketing his shitty courses.
/r/seduction12/05/23 06:06 PM
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Lol right...
/r/seduction12/05/23 06:04 PM
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Sure!
/r/seduction12/05/23 05:43 PM
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The biggest problem with Tate's advice is that he surrounds himself with hookers and we don't really know if he has any game lol. Dan Bilzerian 2.0. Actually, nope. Bilzerian had hotter hookers than Tate... Edit:Listen i tried. But i couldn't find a photo of Tate brothers with any woman who a genuine 8/10 or better. Edit2:Ok. Maybe if you're into a tranny look then this one could count https://imgur.com/a/TaP3K2G lol
/r/seduction12/05/23 05:41 PM
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Fuck. This is why I never agreed with multi-kulti people. Some cultures are just backward.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/23 09:43 AM
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Losing weight is hard. Making good money is hard. I mean we have tested methods on how to self-improve in both of these areas. Which are easy and reliable enough that hundreds of millions of people succeeded in using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:44 PM
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Im just not thirsty lol. Most guys would fuck a guy with a strong makeup and long hair lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:45 AM
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Do you live in some kind of a ghetto? Because i know tons of women and none of them date men that you describe. Sure I'm often critical of their choices etc. But I've never seen such a man with any girl I've known: 9/10 times these guys look like they just got out of prison and often have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:49 PM
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Well at some point it's a question of semantics. Who do we call 'the average'? Someone in the middle of the scale? Or someone in the middle of the distribution? Personally, i don't really care about the distribution. And I treat only like 5-10% of girls as above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:40 PM
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So what? There are 5 thousand women at the frontlines compared to hundreds of thousands men. Also the problem is that men are forced to fight and forbidden from fleeing the country while women can do whatever the fuck they want. The problem is systematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:19 PM
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Ok according to google 5k are fighting at the frontlines. That's still like 1 woman for a few hundred men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:09 PM
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while many women stayed and fight. How many? Less than 1% compared to millions of men. And there are mostly helping in the backlines, while men do the most dangerous tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:59 PM
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So what? How many of these women are fighting? Less than 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:57 PM
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Except that most women have different standards than men do. For instance each of my exes did different unnecessary chores like washing the windows every other week or ironing the bedsheets. I'm all for the baseline standard of cleanliness, i do the groceries and i cook. But if you like to do some extra shit it's 100% on you. This holds especially true when children come into picture. Lots of the work women do around them is totally unnecessary and yet they use it to chore-play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:54 PM
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Or there are female reproductive costs that cannot be compensated for by male effort during pregnancy. Many men don't give af about making babies. There are only later pressured by their women to conceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 01:51 PM
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I have a female fb account for trolling purposes (not dating related- just silly posts in local FB groups) I've chosen some potato looking girl as my profile picture. 3/10 at the best. I still get tons of invites from simps who want to call or meet me up. Both local and some thirsty ass Pakistani dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:40 PM
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Nah, there's no problem with giving your attention to attractive girls in real life. Attractive guys are showered with female attention in real life as well. The problem is with guys simping for average and ugly girls online. Also the biggest argument against your thinking is that now less men approaching than even before and at the same time the situation is worse than even before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:18 PM
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want to be heard and validated, not just given the solution. Except that this is exactly how women want to communicate. Men want to brainstorm solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:14 PM
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Nope, thats a common misconception. I love how whenever men signal that they have problems women immediately jump to the conclusion that 'communicating more like women' would solve anything. Somehow women have as much unsolved problems, if not even more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:04 PM
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Most of us jump into trying to solve the issue Actually men like that. If women want to be supportive to men they shoud be interested in helping them. That's why many men avoid feminized therapy. Too much talking and listening, not enough doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 11:07 PM
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Nah social circle advice is bs. I have many social circles and over the last 15 or so year I've met maybe like 2-3 gf material girls through them. And each time at least one of us was in a relationship. And once you get past the college age, most people get married and parties and get togethers become closed off and smaller and smaller. Night game is the answer. On the street like 7 out of 10 girls have a bf, but in a bar or a club the ratio skews a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:04 PM
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Overweight. I'm a 191cm 100 kg guy with some muscle and all of my gfs were about 170-175 cm 50-55 kgs with long slender legs. I don't like chubbies. But it's not like i feel the need to insult them. Women from the photo are clearly out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:42 PM
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Red pill is a realistic view on dating that lets you maximize your individual success. Aka 'enjoy the decline'. But these days the scene is getting appropriated by tradcons/incels and other weirdos who think they'll cure society by force-feeding women some bs trad values. This is obviously incompatible with trp which is an extremely individualistic movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 02:17 AM
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And we NEED this to be the case for the simple fact that the vast majority of women are simply not as capable of filling these roles as men are due to biological differences in physical capabilities, meaning if men abandoned this "role" then we'd have nobody to help during natural disasters or any other physical conflict, and we'd be fucked. Then maybe women should learn to appropriately value these traditionally male roles and figure out what they can provide in a fair exchange instead of shitt…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 08:48 PM
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they "click better". Maybe he just isn't insane enough to ask her about a relationship after just one date. but instead I just feel like I was used for sex by someone who didn't value who I am as a person. Lol dude. It's you who tried to use her, not the other way. She got fucked, you got fucked -it was a fair trade. It's you who tried to extort something more from an equal exchange. Stop being so thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:11 AM
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That study contained errors and was retracked by its authors. https://www.deseret.com/2015/8/4/20569426/study-that-found-husbands-prone-to-leave-sick-wives-was-flawed-researchers-say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:16 AM
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Hold on! Many of us men are proud liars too! Its closer to 100%!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:33 AM
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That's a common myth but in real life there are many more women who'd love to be a sahm than men who want one. Many men would love to be a sahf too. But they'll never be offered such option. Man losing his financial stability is no1 cause of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:52 PM
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Attractive people are just nicer on average. Both sexes. That's what happens when everyone wants to be your friend, you're invited to all the parties and are presented with many opportunities on every step of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:12 PM
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In this framework, men are said to "respond" to the demands of other people in society. If you ask me. The idea that men need to be useful in order to be masculine is almost as sexist as the 'toxic masculinity'. Somehow women can be feminine regardless of appeasing to any social norms.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/23 09:03 PM
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your stupid narrative that all women get approached hundreds of times isn’t true where did i say it? I just said that if your brother has a lot of success he's simply bound to be 10x more active than you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:34 PM
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You're just thirsty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:47 PM
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Frankly, the main problem with the male version is that he looks like 5 ft tall. Because her head looks abnormally big compared to the body. If we took his face and plastered it on someone with a bigger & more muscular frame he'd look well above the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:40 PM
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Even if you're much less attractive than him, you'd get 2x more action than he does if you only approached as much as he does. But yeah, it's easier to sit on your butt and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:37 PM
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She's average. But the average is still attractive to most guys. Dude's average as well, but the average is unattractive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:35 PM
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Education, career, making friendships, partying, travelling are all more meaningful than blindly following your drive for procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:50 PM
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It's sad that you think that your whole life should revolve around raising a kid. Sounds meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:45 PM
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Why are you even interacting with low smv people in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/23 05:20 PM
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We can say the same thing about capitalism. No system ever got close to getting implemented in a pure form. Yet, every implementation of capitalism -no matter how corrupted is still better and much more humane than every implementation of communism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:13 PM
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Why? The problem with current system is it's corruption, not the capitalism itself. I've been born in a commie nation. I guarantee that it was 10x more dehumanising than the capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:02 PM
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How is it possible that across so many cultures and countries, the same social deterioration is occurring? Capitalism. Wrong. It's just Tinder and social media. If they were available in North Korea they would have the same effect on society. Capitalism has literally nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:30 AM
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But virtually no dating gurus for males teach how to get into a relationship. Just how to get laid. And that's what guys want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:40 AM
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Exactly! Its why men are still atracted to teenage-like features even though we vastly improved the survival rate of infants born to older mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:21 PM
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Wtf incarceration rates have to do with being childish?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:49 PM
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It's one thin to be sad and complain online. It's other to trow a tantrum and starting to insult/grope/keep following the person who reject you. Like many women do when rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:25 AM
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desperation and neediness Women with their tantrums and insecurities are 10x more childlike than any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:27 PM
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Give me a concrete example how trp is decepteive. Because lifts aren't a single bit worse than high heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:21 PM
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It's on a similar or slightly higher level of deception as trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:52 PM
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How is trp deception and immoral? Because one could argue that using a makeup so strong that it changes your facial geometry and makes you look younger, slimmer and healthier is deceptive. Especially if you present it in front of men who are drunk and incapable of making a conscious decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:23 PM
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I don't think you understand. Do you expect to find dog-handling tips in the "How to care for your cat" book?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:22 PM
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And women know that self-improvement for men exist? 99% of actionable trp is self improvement + copy the stuff the women already use against men: ruthlessly estabilish your boundaries, have many options, have them work before you give them anything etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:22 PM
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Trp is a tool for guys to get laid. It's concerned about what's effective, not what's moral. Just like the makeup industry doesn't give a flying fuck if it's moral to deceive men with fake looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:28 PM
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They absolutely do. What's funny those guys are also least likely to actually implement trp in real life. Instead of focusing on self-improvement, they focus on shitting on women online lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:26 PM
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Nevertheless TRP also touts itself as providing the unbiased “truth”. Even if, it's only 'unbiased truth' about what works and what doesn't. Again it's a manual, not a bible. (But I agree that many redpillers- both gurus and common folks are wrong about that as well.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:16 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:02 PM
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Not in a black-and-white way. But it negate's OP's view that trp cares about being unbiased.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:29 PM
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I get the impression she's vying for dominance: she puts food to your mouth, and you open and eat it Huh? IDK I'd feel like a roman emperor hand-fed grapes by his female slaves. Unless she's obnoxious about that.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/23 01:13 PM
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Unless she does crazy shit We've already established that she does crazy shit: she also cuts herself
/r/TheRedPill19/04/23 01:11 PM
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She didn’t want to. Not sure why, but she got extremely sleepy all at once and basically told me to leave. Maybe she was exhausted and bored with you because you weren't making any moves. Next time you're with a girl in a bed start escalating hard. I cannot link it here but google "DiCarlo Escalation Ladder" for a step by step manual what to do. Also with her addictions and self harm history she isn't a gf material, but it's perfectly fine to have some fun with her.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/23 01:09 PM
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TRP gurus, coaches and personalities are just marketers selling trp as their product. Men make their prospects. It makes financial sense to be nice to your prospects. In a similar vein -the makeup industry straight-up tells women that they are goddesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:55 PM
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Trp is a tool for guys to get sex not a 'fair moral system' for everyone. And one of the biggest problems guys have is putting women on the pedestal. That's why trp's aim is to highlight that women absolutely can be shitty people. Since trp isn't about picking up men. We don't care about their morality and thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:40 AM
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The man you met at the bar two months ago The same man but after he proposed to you and promised in front of God and witnesses to love and cherish you until death ? I think that you're confusing a correlation with causation. Most likely the act of marriage does absolutely nothing here. Just that guys that are ready to provide for their children are also the ones that are more likely to agree to a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:35 AM
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But is any data that confims that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:32 AM
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it’s a security thing for us women You just wrote this above. Your security is at someone's cost. Thats trapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:31 AM
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You're still right though, odds are still much more in the married woman's favor. Do you have any data that confirms that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:29 AM
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Can you sue the mother to get each of your dollar invested in the kid back? Do you also get reimbused for the lost time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:40 PM
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Most of the ‚famous chads’ aren’t even chads. Dicaprio gets his girlfriends supplied by a model agency. They do it for publicity and sign an agreement and a NDA. Dan Bilzerian and Andrew Tate are surrounded mostly by hookers. Many ‚chaddiest’ actors like John Hamm date women way below their league. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:01 PM
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You might have undiagnosed ADHD.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/23 03:18 AM
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I've read multiple accounts by so-called hot guys in red pill spaces who claim that it's crazy easy to get most women to cheat on their boyfriends/husbands if the man is attractive enough. That they have fucked a LOT of men's wives and the men have no idea. Most of those dudes were marketers selling their courses/coaching. "If you buy my shit I'll make you irresistible to women!!!" In fact most of coaches/gurus are not the guys who are actually good with women but the ones that took a copywritin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:10 PM
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Rp doesn’t tell women anything. It’s a toolset for guys not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:08 PM
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Flirting is not a manipulation. It's a language. You want to communicate with a German? Then learn German. You want to communicate your attraction to a woman? Then learn game. It's a honest, natural way people interact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:12 PM
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It’s not pill that’s ineffective then. If 10% of parachuters died because they din’t actually opened it you wouln’t say that the parachute has only a 90% effectiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:20 PM
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Who says that. Still most people reduced their activity by like 90%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:47 PM
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So a guy was flirty and you wrote a post just to shit on him? Wow. You have some serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:22 AM
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Yup! If it works - IT WORKS!
/r/seduction16/04/23 12:33 AM
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Good but it’s even better to grab her hand and kiss because you’re attracted to her, not because you made some silly excuse.
/r/seduction15/04/23 02:32 PM
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If you use the pill perfectly it’s 99% Check out the methodoloy of bc tests. 99% effctiveness doesn’t mean that 1% of intecourses results in a pregnancy but: -after a year of using that type of bc as a main contraceptive 1% of couples got pregnant -it’s self reported, and i includes couples who used them wrong or sometimes skipped So effetively it’s much closer to 100% when used correctyl bcs a big portion of people can’t put on a condom in a proper way or forget to take the pill on a regular ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:22 PM
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You cannot defy biology. That’s why guys beat each other to death to impress a female. Just as any other mammalian specie. Right? I haven’t read anything more stupid. Onviousy we can. Half of the culture is defying our biology because we understand what’s right and what’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:59 AM
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birth control, condoms Huh? Bc and condoms are EXTREMELY effective at preventing pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:58 AM
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someone victimized someone else Having consensual sex with someone who enthusiastically agrees to is not a victimisation even if the sex was disapointing. Unless someone forces the other person to do some unwanted shit obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:13 PM
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Most mothers end up as the unfun or bad parent in these cases because they're the ones doing the unfun or outright painful stuff with the kids while dad is taking them for ice-cream and being a play-mate. Maybe because they’re unfun. Maybe if they told they hubby to cook a dinner while they’re going roller skaring with the kid they’d be happier. Instead they assume the position of a martyr. And then constantly use it to nag. Or just book a cleaning lady every other week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:11 PM
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Everyone is a hypocrite. I too want a virgin girl that lets me fuck her like a pornstar on the first date and takes it in the pooper by the 3rd one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:11 PM
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What if a meteor flies from the sky and kills you in your sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:07 PM
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Exactly! He might be still awkward and make a ton of mistakes, but he’s clearly making steps in a good direction and actually approaching. 95% guys shitting on him aren’t even doing that. They are the most alpha dudes in their mothers basement.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 03:04 PM
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It still doesnt make you used.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:56 PM
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You can’t make orgasm someone who doesn’t communicate his/her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:46 PM
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Idk. My social life was at the peak in late 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:01 PM
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to expose celebrities (who usually faced few real consequences for all that Well maybe because many of the accusations were half-assed (Louis Ck or Azis Ansari cses) or even false (Depp vs Amber Heard). Overall the movement hurt women. Maybe instead of going straight to media, women should push for rape-reporting procedures that protect the victim. And education what constitutes such crime, how to secure the evidence & how ro report such crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:07 AM
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I think it’s the lockdowns that killed social gatherings not me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:03 AM
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Or (C) those who actually understand that a small constant investment of time, saves them much much more work elsewhere. Less time wasted chasing girls. Less time & money wasted on doctors. Plus you get better treatment from people, status and job opportunities. If you hate dull just install tiktok! It’s the opposite of dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:29 AM
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Was the time wasted on social media counted as leaisure? If not that would explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:25 AM
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Most girls who are called skinny still have like 15%+ bf. Which is plenty for fertility. Frankly outside of hardcore fitness or eating disorders you won’t find a woman with less fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:22 AM
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Exactly, house chores are fucking easy compared to the pushing yourself to the limit when lifting. I do both. Lifting is 10x harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:20 AM
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I agree with this comment. But disagree with the one above. In the vast majority of cases noone uses anyone for sex - it’s a fair exchange. I had sex & you had sex. We both did our best to satisfy each other. It’s the person who only has sex with an expectation to get something more out of it like relationship, status or money thats manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:40 AM
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This is dumb. Sex is consensual. A guy had sex and a girl had sex. Noone used anyone here. Unless a girl only had sex hoping to get something more out of it. Money, relationship, status. In which case it’s just prostitution with a few extra steps. And she’s a manipulative person and should be shamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:34 AM
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Stop with these backward sex negative views. People are having consexual sex left and right. Women like and actively pursue sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:31 AM
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Execpt that consexual sex is mutual. I had sex and you had sex. We did our best to make sure the other person orgasms. Noone uses anyone. Both parties are satisfied. Unless your post suggest that you only have sex because you expect something more for it. Which is just prostitution with a few extra steps. And it’s manipulative af to use sex to get anything other for it. The society should shame women who act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:30 AM
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Don’t many women choose to live a trad life style like many religious women or SAHM? Exactly. Women make it seem like every man wants to chain them to the kitchen stove. But in reality there are much more women who want to be a SAHM than men who want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:21 AM
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Actually it’s mostly women that want traitionalism. the older women. Who usually were very liberal in their youth. They see a competition in the younger females and want to curb it. in europe most populist right parties are getting elected by senior women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:16 AM
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the red pill and a lot of traditionalism The pure TRP is literally the opposite of traditionalism. One is peak invididualism that tells you to enjoy the decline. The other is peak collectivism that tries to save the society from the corruption xD. Also trp is literally a tool for guys to get what they want. Why on hell should it care about wht women want? Is anyone getting outraged that the Make-Up doesn’t care what men want? It’s literally a similar tool for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:15 AM
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understand Red Pill ideology TRP isn’t an ideology. It isn’t a fair, moral code. It’s a toolbox that helps guys achieve beneficial results. It’s perfectly fine for it to be hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:08 AM
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I think it's similar in child-care. Most of the child-care I've ever seen men do was the fun stuff. Playing games, reading books, going for walks, sitting and watching tv with them. It's a lot more rare for that work to be the gross and irritating shit like giving baths, diaper changes, putting them to bed, going to doctors, talking to teachers, doing homework, I love how you assume that the ‚gross and irritating stuff’ is more important than leisure and sport. It’s 10x more beneficial for the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:05 PM
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Because generally men seem to overplay how much they do around the home and women underplay it because it’s ‘automatic’. Give me a research that confirms t because in my experiece it’s the oter way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:59 PM
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Lol guys, OP has writter a similar post in seddit called Seduction Killed My Game: What I wish I knew all these years This is marketing 101 -claim that the popular techniques don’t work and present yourself as a guru. Be prepared to read his content posted here simi-regularly followed by an offer of his coaching service really soon lol.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/23 09:32 PM
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The difference is that the preselection alone is a major turnon for women whereas it does nothing, or it’s a slight turnofffor men. A guy who’s invisible to his female friends will get a lot of attention after they see him with a few attractive girls. An opposite situation would result with a loss of attraction from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:54 PM
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“women will just run up to the Ferrari and make out with him!!! This still happens, but rarely. And mostly on a dancefloor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:14 PM
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> more a laid back kinda guy who chills at his table the evening and then goes home How do you expect a ferrari to win a race against a honda civic if it doesn’t leave the parking lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:58 PM
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Huh? Two posts above i wrote that ‚speaking from experience it’s true’. I’m a 35 yo man who has plenty of dating experience and who spend most of his time in ltrs. And from my experience the old saying: „Are you a guy with a problem? Share it with your wife! You’re gonna have 2 problems!” Is right. I never got any meaningful help from women in my relationships when i needed it. Even emotional. I’d only get nagged to fix the problem faster. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:45 PM
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No? Men would love to confide with women. But they are getting punished for it. It’s women who are toxic here not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:35 PM
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Don't tell me you advocate violence? I just literally wrote that men should be proud for being civilized.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:31 PM
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There’s nothing in trp that says that you need to ‚kill off your emotions”. Just that if you’re emotional in front of a woman she’ll see it as a weakness. And speaking from experience it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:25 PM
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Does anyone here even ask themselves where this thought process comes from? What though process? It’s literally a natural innate drive. Males of most of mammalian species literally fight to death in order to have sex. Humans should be quite proud of themselves for keeing things civilized. As the vast majority of males literally choose to be miserable against their nature instead of obtaining sex through violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:22 PM
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I agree, that being said in my experience other guys don’t need much to get horny. Same as in other mammalian species - a male will mate with every female it can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:18 PM
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He didn’t say anything about making stuff more affordable or interesting but about being a jester and an atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:53 PM
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Stop putting things i didn’t say into my mouth. Women don’t get approached that much these days. That being said they can get thousands of matches the day they install tinder. Or if thry decide to cold approach themselves, they’ll get a super high % chance compared to just any guy. An average woman has 100x more abundance than the average guy. If this wasn’t the case, there would be coaches teaching women to cold approach guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:17 AM
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I’ve always split everything 50-50 in my relationships. And i dated some cool, attractive girls. Who were entertaining me as much as i was entertaińing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:11 AM
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Being a jester as well as an atm Sounds like you’re dating trash-tier women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:55 AM
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If you’re dating a boring, low-value girl that requires a dancing-monkey guy. It’s kinda your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:54 AM
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I guarantee that there are hundreds of female tinder users for every guy that regularly cold approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:01 AM
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Compared to what? Women using tinder as a catalogue of available dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:12 PM
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Jokes on you! I just superglue my hole shut!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:11 PM
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that basically means the product/brand reputation has eroded due to pesky salespeople In a big city, it’s super unlikely you will ever met same person again. Even if you’re going to the same club every weekend, aside from a few regulars most people rotate. Also approaching is an attractive quality. Even if you’re rejected, the girl wil have a higher opinion of you. (Unless you’re soing something really bad).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:09 PM
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This sounds like something my friend Mike my would say before his wife cheated on him with her boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:54 PM
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And most people in the marriage records met their spouses in college. We’re talking about spouses chosen by men who are in their middle 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:40 PM
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Only because they met in highchool/college. Later in life it’s a small minority of men who date women their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:09 PM
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No? Most relationships formed past college have a healthy age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:08 PM
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That’s not the point. The point os that no matter how much you try and invest in your relationship, you can’t still cannot control what does your spouse do. No matter how educated, disciplined, trustworthy and plain good is the other person. You just can’t. And people change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:06 PM
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Evey single of my divorced friends preached such ‚knowledge’ while they were getting married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:41 PM
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That being said most women clearly starts to invest much more, after you have sex with them. Thats why trp and puas always reccomend to try have sex asap even if you’re interested with a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:12 PM
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Literally everysingle person who gets married believes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:07 AM
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No no no! We need to force feed bs tradcon values pretending that’ll somehow heroicly save the civilisation!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:06 AM
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Yup. People have a main character syndrom, thinking life will be a fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:39 AM
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Well despite the feminists myths, in real life 9 times of 10 it’s the woman than nags to have a baby in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:35 AM
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Most judges are men. Idk about other countries, but the family courts are dominated by women here where i live. Men make the majority of civil/criminal/administrative judges.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:18 PM
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TRP isn’t a moral theory how to create a fair society. But a tool for the guys to get more sex and achieve other life goals. It’s perfectly fine for TRP to be hypocritical. And female dating strategies are even more hypocritical. Most girls wouldn’t want their future sons to be treated the way they treat guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:49 PM
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I’d pay extra for a ladyboy that’s actually pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:18 AM
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Bacause we just want to empty our balls. I can be done without a second person. Hell, if id didn’t have porn i’d fap to some imaginary shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:51 PM
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Lolled hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:04 PM
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Everything https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KbCXcOn7P1A https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ob9bQb5oqbI
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:45 PM
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You’re just pulling theories out of your ass mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:44 PM
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Lol no. Why would a sane person would even talk to ai for companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:35 PM
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Marriage is a trap even when you can have sex. So this is an easy choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:51 PM
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most men don't talk with their hands I assume you’ve never been to italy. Also most leaders and politicians talk with their hands. It’s a manly feat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:21 PM
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I agree. The problem is that so many of ex-sluts become tradcon born-again christians who pretend they’re a second coming of mother Teresa and try to push some shitty trad values down everone elses throat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:30 PM
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Now I know she is .01% No. She’s not even in the top 10. And shes post-wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:25 PM
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You’d be surprised. I studied ona female dominated faculty thus most of my friends were girls. There was a substantial amount of them who’d say that this or that professor is hot. And even if it’s not the majority of girls who’s attracted to an older guy -an attractive older dude still has a favourable odds. Since most older guys are either married, out of shape, dress in dad clothes or simply don’t hang in places when they could meet with younger girls(like clubs). So if only 10% of girls is op…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:53 PM
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But who fucking says anything about approaching in a mall?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:52 PM
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You’re confusing things. It’s one thing to be able to approach people, it’s other to do it n a private space. Just like someone can’t ban you from driving a car, but can ban you on driving o his land. Still it’s in the property’s owner discrecionalty to tell you what you can do, not some chick’s who doesn’t want to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:45 PM
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You absolutely can open your mouth tho whomever you want. Find me a passage of law that says otherwise. A citizen in a free country can do anything that’s not explicitly banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:38 PM
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Ultimatedly yes. If a girl isn’t happy that you’ve approached her, then it’s her problem not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:31 PM
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Yup. But its a numbers game. Ill have a higher success chance but you'll still have some success chance. And if you're disciploned with your approaches you can outcompete me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:25 PM
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It doesn't change the fact that a woman that hasn't noticed you may still like you when you approach her. Women don't become attracted only once they show an ioi. Obviously approaching only the girls who give you an ioi will have a higher success chance. But if you're a quality over quantity guy just approach whoever you like the most. And the act of approach is attractive itself. If the girl was on the verge of liking you. This might tip the scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:23 PM
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I look good. But many girls don't scan the room obsessively.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:14 PM
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Untrue. I've succesfully approached many girls who haven't noticed me yet. Dated and had sex with a fair share of them. Also most women are super shitty at giving signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:05 PM
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Stop with this bullshit. All western countries have a freedom of speech and youre legally allowed to approach whoever fuck you want. Obv you shouldnt be pushy/agressive, but as long as youre not commiting a crime youre fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:44 PM
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The clear rule estabilished by the society is that we have a freedom of speech and you are legally allowed to open your mouth to anyone you want. As long as you're not pushy/agressive and commit any crime thats codified in separate acts. Just as you're allowed to drive a car as long as you're not breaching any specific rules like hitting pedestrians etc. Any tiktok chicks who claim you're not allowed to exert your rights are just power-tripping fascists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:39 PM
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But the fetus isn’t a person yet. Just like egg isn’t a chicken. To have advanced thoughts and emotions it would need advanced systems like hormonal, neurological and a developed brain. There’s no such thing as a hypothetical person. Either a being is sufficiently developed or not. If it’s fine to butcher an adult pig, then a fetus which is 100x less developed is a free game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:46 AM
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No it’s the same exact logic. A fetus isn’t a child or a person. It’s more immoral to butcher a highly sentient pig that’s capable of complex thought processes and emotions than a human fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:16 PM
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A fetus can feel pain long before viability. So can a mosquito Strictly speaking, that's sentient. So is a mosquito.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:04 PM
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Using this logic -scratching your butt is murdering a human because you destroy human cells as well. But both the fetus and butt cells don’t think, don’t have emotions and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:03 PM
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Main base conservative base are old women and their pussy whipped husbands. And usually these are the women who were the biggest sluts once they were young. I’m 35 and i’m already seeing the same shit happen to the biggest sluts my age. They’ve found some honest but simple dude, and theyre pretending they’re second coming of mother Teresa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:01 PM
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Nah. It’s usually just older women against the young ones. The previous generation has enjoyed their freedom in ther youth but now they’re pretending they’re good devoted christians. Idk about US but all most winger parties in EU try to cater mostly to old ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:51 PM
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Women never write essays about why they're dating rich/good looking guys or whatever, they just do. But the spend hours watching makeup videos and beauty routines. Why spend time reading about dating strategy when their best strategy is to look good and wait for the men who’ll come to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:06 PM
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I think you’re overvalueing the impact of those responsibilities. Children raised by single mothers do much worse than those raised by single fathers. Perhaps the free time spent on leisure and bonding are more important than the spotless apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:41 AM
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Yup. Each of women i’ve ever lived with did some unnecessary chores like ironing the bed linens or underwear or washing the windows every other week. If you want to do some unnecessary shit its on you. I’m gonna do the half of baseline house work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:40 AM
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Sounds like they’re trying to use those men for relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:42 PM
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Oh actually i just checked. Misandric is correct. https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/misandric Misandrist is a noun. And i think you’re projecting something. I just made a ‚grammar-nazi’ joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:33 PM
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ok Hitler
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:22 PM
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That sub still exist. But the point is that most posts there focus on trad/incel talking points instead actual trp. Trp ->enjoy the decline, improve your value to get sex Trad/incel ->shit on women, try to forcefeed everyone some bs conservative values that’ll only make everyone miserable under the guise of saving the society The main difference is that trp is super indvidualistic whereas trad/incel guys come with come collectivistic ideas. Enjoy being alpha vs „make it better for the betas”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:08 PM
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I often disagree with your posts. But not this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:03 PM
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Yup. Many women act predatory and rapey if they’re super interested. And if you reject them they’ll start insulting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:59 PM
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Telepathically find if she likes you and if she’s single. Women are notoriously bad at communicating those signalsand men are notoriously bad at reading them. But it’s obviously mens fault for not reading the situation. Just approach whenever you want. As long as you’re not cornerng the girl. And if she’ not comfortable just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:55 PM
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RP men do not do that Nope. Most guys who activelly follow trp don’t give fuck about that. I suspect that many actually prefer when the girl has some experience. The problem is that trp is full of incells and tradcons who came to sit n the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:26 PM
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Women are jelous too. If 100 guys told their girls they’re not as good in bed as their exes. Most would trow a tantrum. all remaining ones would use cold treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:25 PM
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just not when they have to scream "Bitch, slut, hoe, whore, I hate you, women shouldn't have rights, women are stupid, all women are whores who ride the cock carousel If you know real life men who do this, it’s time to upgrade your social circles and stop meeting with trashy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:22 PM
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BS. It’s just mammalian instinct to protect themselves from providing for a kid that isn’t yours. Many mammals like lions or bears actively kill any offspring that doesn’t belong to them. Since humans are largely monogamic, the instinct is to find a partner who is fertile but doesn’t have any kids. And the instinct doesn’t understand what birth control is. So promiscusity while being childless = being infertile. Notice how men who are slutty themselves and don’t care about a relationship don’t c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:16 PM
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Why won’t women ever check? I’ve never been asked for consent by a woman. Yet you demand i do it 100 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:31 PM
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Also who cares what they did or drank, you can go upstairs and change your mind at any point that’s kinda how consent works Exactly! Just make it known verbally. Unless you want to live in some dystopia where you have to go to jail because you kissed 100 times but asked for consent only 99 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:13 PM
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And what does willfully had sex mean? Was she enjoying it or laying there with tears in her eyes but not saying no?? Activelly participated in foreplay. Then didn’t inform the guy once she changed her mind. look, I’m not saying false accusations don’t happen I wasn’t even talking about false allegations. In some me too cases the women didn’t even claim rape. Like mentioned Louis CK case. He asked her if she wants to see him jerk off, she agreed and then she tried to ruin his career once he jerke…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:49 PM
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Many girls give sloppy kisses and energetic bjs just to lie on their back and starfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:44 PM
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Saying "no" has never stopped men. You again with your misandric bs. No. Most men aren’t rapists. But they arent’t telepaths as well. If the girl enthusiastically participated in foreplay. Removed her clothes, kissed and engaged in petting. She needs to let the guy know verbally when she changes her mind. Because right now at the same time women tell men that they need to take charge in bed. But that they should telepathically know what women want. When women report sexual assault by authority f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:38 PM
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Exactly! The bigger part of Me Too was the left and the media infantilizing women who weren’t able to use their mouths to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:28 AM
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I love how you’re calling the other fuy a racist but st the same time you say that he must be white because a half-black doesn’t fit your stereotype. And I personally have no opinion on OP’s post.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 09:31 PM
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The male zoomers are much more redpilled than the previous genrations. They’ve realised that the bluepill and woke left have nothing to offer to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:16 PM
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Who the fook is that guy? And why are you so obsessed with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:39 PM
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You skipped my postnand rewrote yours. Some boys had succesful male role models. Either in their family or among their peers. Usually it’s the fatherless boys who struggle the most. Dating as other social skills is a skill. You can learn what works by observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:45 PM
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Some men had succesful male models some didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:39 PM
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Its the culture that’s to blame. In virtually every romantic comedy with a male protagonist, the nerd earns the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:59 PM
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I also reject RP You can just reject the ‚hate on the women’ part which is a non-essential marketing gimmick and focus on self-development and keeping the boundaries part. Even women when asked what they’d do to help their struggling male family men, suggested shit trp tells all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:40 AM
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Almost all women have casual sex at some point. It's the 9% that were having it when the study was condicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:41 AM
4

Yep. Exactly.
/r/seduction01/04/23 07:37 PM
3

Get as close as possible then. I’m tall but i was skinny fat back then & wearing a batman tee, dirty tracksuit pants and flip flops. There were better looking guys around.
/r/seduction01/04/23 07:10 PM
3

Did op say anything about love? It takes months of dating to develop love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:18 AM
8

The lesson is to actually get off your butt and see what’s available in your area. Guys come here to ask where to meet girls instead of actually going out and seeing where the people are.
/r/seduction01/04/23 03:15 AM
13

Actually no. I wouln’t succeed if i didn’t lead her to my room and escalate on her like a motherfucker. But she was already receptive. Idk if I was just lucky, or she saw me made out with multiple girls a day before.
/r/seduction31/03/23 11:31 PM
46

At some point it’s a matter of finding a receptive girl who is already dtf. You don’t need much skill to succeed. You only need skill not to fuck it up. One day i landed in bed with girl who won Polish Top Model within 5 minutes of meeting her. I was just the right guy in the right place.
/r/seduction31/03/23 11:25 PM
15

Here in Poland dance classes became a sausage party full of guys looking to get a gf and not so many girls.
/r/seduction31/03/23 11:23 PM
21

Sure but seems like so much effort and time spent just to get some pussy. Unless you’re very into cosplay already. Edit: don’t get me wrong - this sounds like a really fun experience! Just not a sustainable way to meet girls.
/r/seduction31/03/23 11:21 PM
2

So women only have sex to bait men into relationship? Consexual sex with no follow up is being used? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:29 PM
3

No if she’s not a gf material i just won’t want to see her again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:43 AM
0

I mean the scale is super impressive to whatever other youtubers are doing. Which mainly is talking in front of the camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:47 AM
1

I wrote this after i checked the list of the top yt and tiktok channels.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:46 AM
-2

interact with. If you prefer the fellas, that’s what you’re going to see and assume popular. But if you watched women instead, you’d assume that women were the top social media influencers. Sure there are many female influencers but when it comes to quality shit it’s mostly male creators. Content for women focuses on gossip, drama and make-up. Even when it comes to straight up silly entertaintment i’ve yet to see something as impressive as what MrBeast does from a female creator.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:39 AM
6

Baby steps dude. First get your first bj.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:29 AM
2

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:26 AM
3

Where’s the controversy? Chads are much closer to the traditional male model than to whathever the left is promoting. I’m more shocked when the leftist women go after chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:58 AM
5

Most of them are use old/doctored photos that make them look much skinnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:25 PM
21

They absolutely can love men. But the definition of love varies between the sexes, and everyone is frustrated he’s not loved the way he/she loves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:10 PM
9

Overweight women have an easy time getting uncommitted casual sex from dating apps, but struggle greatly finding a relationship. Compared to skinny girls. They still have easier time than the bottom 80% of men. I agree with most of your other points tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:59 PM
2

It’s only picky if you can’t get what you want. I’m pretty succesful with girls i like. I know that obese people in the us make her look normal in the comparison. But here in Europe she’ll be among the 10% of the heaviest girls her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:21 PM
6

No 7 has a frame of a refridgerator. 8 is the closest to a healthy weight. Still, looks like she’s over the limit and I only date slimmer girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:12 PM
2

I did. They’re clearly overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:04 PM
7

1 No 2 No 3 No 4 No 5 No 6 No 7 No 8 No I don’t like overweight women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:52 PM
15

You wouln’ believe how my female work colleagues ridiculed me when i drew myself a mustache with a ball pen. Why the double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:05 PM
2

Isn't that obvious? I'm not complaining, just telling that guy that one rejection doesn't mean every other girl will reject him as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:27 AM
2

Actually, the main reason is that guys who don't want to put any effort just come to trp places to shit on the girls. But your answer is the second best one. Edit: actually the third one. Second is that tradcons think they'll be able to force their shitty values under the guise of trp. Too bad trad shit is totally incompatible with trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:53 AM
1

Agreed, but he seems like a clueless inexperienced dude.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/23 12:50 AM
39

Do you believe that more than 1% even started to implement trp in their real lives? Most of them just come here to shit on the women.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/23 11:02 PM
2

Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:56 PM
2

when your meeting someone fir the 2nd/3rd time start to make it clear your interested Strike when it's hot. Don't wait for a second/3d meeting because it might never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:49 PM
1

So there's only one girl in the whole world? I've approached hundreds of girls. Fucked and dated many of them. Some were celebrity-tier attractive. But some didn't like me at all. Even some of the less attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:45 PM
1

Don't ever buy people shit just to spend time with you. Use a situational opener or just introduce yourself to the girl. Don't bribe her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:43 PM
1

I mean people initiate foreplay to make the other person want sex. There's no way to tell i someone else wants it unless you either try or ask explicitly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:54 PM
1

Foreplay starts way before you enter the bedroom. I like to think it starts the moment you shake hands with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:44 PM
1

Do you seriously think PUA's have a way to hypnotize uninterested women to have sex with them? No, no such thing exists. It's basically -> keep approaching until you find a receptive girl, run some early foreplay on her and get her to your place. The only way to manipulate someone to have sex with you is to offer something external for that sex and not deliver it. Money, fame, love. But then if you only have sex with someone because you're interested with something else than sex, it's just prost…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:21 PM
23

People vastly overestimate the effect of hormones/genetics/metabolism. According to science the fastest metabolism consumes only 10% more calories than the slowest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:53 PM
30

Fat people have fat kids, and thats not because of gEneTicZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:52 PM
2

Because a 'fat personality' is even worse than a 'fat body'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:50 PM
1

It's the same logic the person above me used. According to her learning social skills and foreplay = manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:48 PM
9

I hate to break it to you but all‚dating coaches' are just marketers and you shouldn’t believe what they say. Especially having 3 ltrs at once sounds unreal. Not because it’s impossible but because it’s sounds stupid. If you can juggle multiple girls why even bother getting into ltrs with them? He’s just another Andrew Tate’s clone who rents fast cars and hires hookers for some fancy photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:43 PM
3

Men clearly have more drive to seek sex. And cum more often. And unless we have the technology to switch between male and female body we have no waynto tell who enjoys sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:12 PM
2

Noone claims women don’t like sex. They just like it less than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:14 PM
2

All throughout human history, every major religion has sought to control female sexuality. Well it’s because prior to the DNA testing it was the single mothers who were cumbersome on the community. Men participated in the deed, but good luck proving that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:42 PM
3

I hope you’re not using make-up. An art of paiting someone’s else face on a top of yours to deceive men. A woman who has sex in make up without disclosing it is literally a rapist!.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:51 PM
11

This is almost THE ISSUE with Tate. 98% of his audience will never even get remotely close to the status that Tate has. The best part is that even Tate doesn’t have this status. He’s only worth a tiny fraction of what he claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:48 AM
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definitive path to becoming those men Lol no. His main source of income is selling bs courses to gullible men. He isn’t a billionaire as he claims. His cars are rentals and his women are prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:46 AM
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Tate has sex with beautiful models - yes. Frankly i tried to look up women he surrounds himself with and for a tall, ripped, millionaire guy all of them looked subpar at the best. Most of them were cheap-hooker-tier with an occasional ‚instagram-model-not-a-real-model’ 7/10 one. None of them were really beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:43 AM
0

Read my further comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:11 AM
3

See my second sentence. It’s the attitudes displayed by women that make men see it as a chore. As most men would love to invest time and effort, but since most women actively select against it -it’s counter-productive. My observations are very similar to OP’s -if i really like the girl and i want to date her, i’ll have to move really fast. 80% of dates where i moved fast resulted in consecutive dates & sex. 80% of dates where i didn’t move fast enough resulted in getting ghosted. There might be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:32 AM
5

Except that men don’t view a second „date” as the prize but as a chore. And trust me it’s not because they want to view it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:05 AM
0

Most guys already have no bloody standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:29 PM
1

If you’re a man and so below average it makes you feel like it’s impossible to find a woman, why not give it up entirely and pursue something else that can bring you success and happiness Because you can’t control your innate need of sex and intimacy with reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:43 PM
9

It feels weird because these situations don’t happen often enought. Get more practice. Actively seek to spend more time with strangers. Social skills are skills. Duh! And they’re well-worth investing some time.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/23 05:36 PM
2

Show me those statistics. Because i keep hearing about them yet noone can link them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:08 PM
2

So you’re suggesting that men somehow become evil manipulators with age? Sounds misandric af.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:50 PM
6

Ok, but then also let’ stop women who whine that they’re used for sex. I had sex, she had sex -the exchange was fair. Why does she wants something more from an equal trade?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:49 PM
0

They are very busy on Grindr tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:16 PM
1

Gay guys and their frivoulus sex habbits are skewing this data.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:51 PM
1

What I got from this is that he mistook her friendliness for flirting. It's a mistake a lot of men make. She was never interested and he got it wrong from the beginning Yes? But the problem isn’t that he got rejected but that people shit on him like he’s some kind of asshole predator only because he tried. He did it in an awkward but respectful way.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/23 03:15 AM
1

It’s not your business tho. And it’s not like seniors with children/grandchildren aren’t getting abandoned by them left and right.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/23 04:43 PM
1

Think about it, do you honestly think the person who said this believes that obese people are just as attractive as fit people? No. But the obesity positivity has real measureable impact on people, especially kids. I’m all for body-positivity that celebrates people of different shapes as long as nobody tries to bs me that bmi over 40 is beautiful and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:27 PM
1

What? I just ended a relationship of 5 years, and I’ve always been very succesful with girls. What’s up with you women that whenever you can’t come up with an argument you immediately start assuming some sex-shaming shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:57 PM
2

TRP doesn't make the choice for you No, but gives you a realistic perspective instead of typical fairytale bullshit like: you’re already perfect as you are! Don’t change anything, someone out there is already waiting just for you! Just follow your dreams!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:52 PM
1

It’s totally is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:41 PM
1

Well no. It’s the person who’s approached who has all the power. Because s/he already knows the intentions of the other party, thus having an upper hand in negotiations. In the buyer’s market it’s the buyer who has all the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:28 PM
3

If anything within that logic it's men who are in control since they can approach whoever they want, and women have to choose from whoever approaches them Women can literally do the same thing and approach whoever they want. But they usually don’t need to because they have plenty of options already.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:23 PM
1

Do you think the average person doesn't know fit people are more attractive than obese people? And yet most people are overweight. It’s one thing to know something it’s another to get kicked in the butt and actually implement it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:48 PM
6

Guys, trp is a toolset to help guys get laid. Not a bible. If a dude just wants to have a chill, carefree life, let him be. Why are you demeaning him? You’re a pussy pleaser if you’re whole sense of worth revolves around being useful to women.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/23 11:34 AM
1

It sucks because these days most of the trp space is taken by tradcons/incels who spend days fantasizing how to forcefeed people some miserable trad lifestyle and daydreaming that it’ll somehow save the civilisation. Whereas trp and trad shit are completely uncompatible. One is 100% individualistic the other 100% collectivistic. As a trp dude it’s easier to agree on shit with (some) feminists than with tradcons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:22 AM
1

Wtf are you talking about. You keep making some dumb assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:35 PM
1

I dont get pissy about anyone unless he/she lies to my face. I’m very good with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:07 PM
8

Well the problem is that girls reguraly fuck hot sweaty, guys who reek of alcohol and drugs. Yeah hygiene is important. But it’s not the deciding factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:56 PM
20

What? Lifting and look maxxing are cornerstones of TRP. But it’s rare that bluepills tell you to stop being an obese pig and to get strong as fuck usually you’ll hear that you need more hygiene or shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:13 PM
28

You need to respect women more! You don't respect them enough! And get a better haircut! Your $100 haircut didn't get you laid? Try harder! Get a $200 haircut! There are hundreds of horny liberal women, just waiting for a guy who'll respect them! But he needs a good haircut!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:10 PM
12

TRP isn't even necessarily connected to right wing politics either. It USED to be primarily about picking up women. Yup. People start to treat TRP like it's some kind of bible of truth, whereas it's just a toolset that helps guys to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:09 PM
8

In purity culture Billy will court a virgin girl to be his wife, being her one and only sexual partner. In a sex positive culture Billy is still expected to court a woman except she'll have been ran through by several men. You beta tradcons seem to confuse getting a wife with getting sex & happiness. That’ so fucking wrong. Getting married to someone who hates your guts will make you 10x more miserable than being single. And who are we kidding, you’re not behind it because it’s smart. Cause it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:55 PM
1

Yes, because as a dude I only approach the more attractive friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:47 PM
1

I've called them out as hypocritical. We all are hypocrites. Women are allowed to cry, vent, nag and trow trantrums in a relationship all the time. But once their bf cries on his mother’s furneal it’s unmanly and it’s over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:44 PM
1

If those ‚betas’ fully control the battlefield. Then they’re alpha and you’re beta.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/23 02:41 PM
1

Just curious -what did he say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:00 AM
3

Yup. People confuse chemistry with compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:59 AM
1

Yup. Most of my friends and all of my exes are girls. I love how you tried incel-shaming me for not disagreeing with what i wrote lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:47 PM
13

As an older guy I might only find about 1/3rd of them attractive "picky" You are one horny motherfucker if you find 1/3 of women your age in US attrractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:18 PM
1

We all are hypocrites. If i ever had a daughter i’d prefer her to keep a very limited dating/sex life until marriage. But when I date a girl i want sex asap and we’re talkin about the kinkiest shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:27 PM
208

Why is it so hard to discuss men's issues in left spaces? Because most people who gravitate towards politics don’t give a fuck about equality, justice or ‚ideas’. It’s the power they’re interested in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 01:01 PM
1

Di Caprio I doubt he pulls anyone. All of his gfs are supplied to him by the same mdelling agency. It’s a deal, not a romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:40 PM
5

Hey guys listen! If you struggle with women this is all you gotta do! (Besides respecting woman even more duh). You’ll find a gf in no time!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:36 AM
14

They should not be frustrated bc a relationship or sex is not a magic cure that will make their life better and more meaningful. Sexual frustration is a not a choice controled by your reeason but a natural drive similar to hunger. And it’s much stronger in males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:02 PM
30

So basically redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:00 PM
76

Hey dude, i lost your phone number. Happy 39th birthday!
/r/TheRedPill19/03/23 01:02 AM
4

despite being the same man No. SMV isn’t absolute, it’s relative. In the west he’s average. In the east he’s rich, tall, exotic and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:23 AM
1

don't really like any of them in particular Chemistry isn’t everything. There’s also compatibility. And you need time to know if you’re compatible with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:12 PM
1

Ok but you didn’t provide a single argument why do you think its morally bad, only that you feel insecure while having to compete. As long as you’re not hiding that you date others you harm absolutely noone. Thus it’s morally neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:10 PM
3

How would you describe a good man? A man that is good. No matter how he decides to lead his life. He wants to chill, and play videogames? Why not! As long as he doesn’t hurt anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:18 AM
8

spend all their time playing video games and expect a lot of their life to be easy. They have no drive. They are less likely to want to go to college. Most of the girls are outperforming them in school and sports and even just socially. I love that according to you you these boys are not „good men”. Well maybe let’s stop with the dumb idea that a man is only worth something if he’s useful to others. Stop the sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:57 AM
19

heinous males that women dodged Except that that we have hard data that the criminals have more successful dating lives than normal guys. Women didn't dodge anything. They selected for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:55 PM
5

Everyone can’t be the top 15%. Let’s stop pretending that more than 5-10% of guys actually care enough to actually put the work to be at the top. Everyone knows that women love athletic-looking men. Yet whenever I go to a club or a concert, i’m in the top 3-5 when it comes to musculature. The best part? I only returned to lifting 4 months ago. I’m enjoying nice newbie gains but it’s nothing spectacular. 95% of guys don’t give a fuck about the athletic look. Another example: there are lots of job…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:52 PM
14

Well that’s because they’ve selected for a guy who has a financial upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:44 PM
7

Idk i know plenty of smart girls and they almost always date smart guys. If most of your female friends date stupid men then it’s a signal you should upgrade your social circles.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 05:43 PM
8

Ok so we either have guys who invest in themselves and get easy sex and ones who have to invest in the girl and don’t get much sex. Still sounds like AF/BB. Especially when we consider that TRP on contrary to PUA says that alphaness is earned, not assumed. Noone said that the only way to be alpha is to get born as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:26 PM
1

No i know some places that do that in Europe. I just don’t go there -they are sleazy tourist traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:02 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:17 PM
1

Doesn’t really happen in European clubs that I freqent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:57 PM
5

But you said that they can get equally abundant. And that’s impossible unless they approach hundreds of women. As it’s impossible to have a succes rate higher than a few %. Most attractive women already have a bf. Many are undatable/crazy/lesbian. Many are not in a flirty mood. So even before man’s attractivenes is taken into account, he’s left with like 10% of women. In reality most of those available women will still be unattracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:51 AM
10

Ok so during your whole life you only approached as many men as a guy should be approaching on a monthly basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:56 AM
6

In your previous posts you were concerned with women who have no choice who approaches them and now you’re saying a man should approach dozens of women xd. Actually I agree, but most men would not be able to do that. How many men have you approached in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:21 AM
21

For most men getting dates is super rare no matter if they’re cold approaching or using old. An average woman on tinder will get more matches in an evening that most men would get over the decade. In real life, unless a dude is approaching dozens of girls on a weekly basis, he wouldn’t be able to have a real choice as well. You could maybe make this argument for women, who are generally asked out rather than asking and there may well be only one who asks. They can ask out as well. And they’ll ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:01 AM
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Because accepting the date is usually a very close judgement call on something that could turn out good or bad Asking out some random chick on a date is usually a very close judgement call on something that could turn out good or bad. And all of your other points could be used for men as well. The point is that they’re false. If women had adequate dating options in their social circles, they would stop going to places like bars & clubs to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:09 AM
0

Unless it’s stated explicitly a date is not an invitation. It’s a suggestion to do something together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:05 AM
25

Usama Bin Laden had like 40 wives. Bad example. Osama was an university-educated son of a millionaire. He got offered his wives thanks to his wealth and status not because he ‚seduced’ them.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 05:50 AM
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I think it’s more like „dumb women” like „dumb men”. I still had a lot of good casual sex with intelligent women. While I agree with OP that dumb girls are much harder to seduce.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/23 05:46 AM
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The problem is that most of these men chose that women out of total of 1 available women. To have more abundance men would have to approach many women on a weekly basis. Which is something feminists say is absolutely horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:10 AM
10

They are very ugly! Like 7/10!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:10 PM
6

Just imagine a similar group for men, detailing if the girl fucked on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:27 AM
2

A good player would But the dude’s literally a virgin that tried to follow dating tips found commonly on reddit.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/23 05:43 PM
1

Except that in many places there are goverment funded grants and programs just for women. Especially in STEM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:23 PM
1

Ask the poster above who claimed the fact that some women are murdered makes it completely impossible for other, unrelated women to be priviledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:22 PM
0

I still agree that you shouldn’t shower her with compliments earlier. It’s still fine to go with something bold and sexual if yu can get away with it and hold your frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 11:14 AM
1

You only mention relatioship in your edit. There should be at least a coupleof months between 1st sex and entering a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:55 AM
3

Hard disagree. I find sexual compliments super helpful once you’re far enough with sexual escalation. E.g. When you’re sucking on her titties, but she still doesn’t let you remove her pants, compliment on those titties how amazing they taste. Guaranteed to make her even wetter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 10:37 AM
2

you're giving her too much power It’s the opposite way. If you have to come up with something to entertain her it’s you who’re giving her too much power. I’m just introducing myself because i like to screen them. Been succesful many, many times. With model tier girls. I’m not a dancing monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:54 AM
1

Now tell me, how do I handle this? I’d probably help her, but not for free. Just say that she owes you beer/homemade food/whatever. Befriending them can give you access to their whole social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:52 AM
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Exactly. And contrary to the higher tiers it’s preset in all animal species. And most animals are willing to sacrifice other needs like their safety just to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:14 AM
1

Agreed. But on the other hand it’s usually women who are nagging to procreate in a relatinship with an attractive man. Especially if their friends ave babies already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:12 AM
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The tell men to target this demographic of women of 18-23 for marriage, even when they are least likely to want the traditional lifestyle. Which is stupid. Because they interpret that study that says „the less partners a girl has the more faithful she’ll be” as: if i date her when she’s younger she’s gonna be more faithful Instead of some girls are born less faithful, and they’re more likely to cheat and change partners more often, resulting as a higher n-count A rookie mistake -correlation vs c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:40 AM
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I don’t know a woman who wouldn’t trow a tantrum if she heard her bf said his ex was hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:35 AM
6

„Sorry honey, i didn’t beat my ex but she was a 9/10 and you’re only a 6!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:34 AM
1

Well he’s an University proffesor in an area that’s not a hard science. You won’t find a single scholar in such disciplines that hasn’t been found false on some occasions. There are no tools that separate opinions from hard data in a sufficient manner. It’s just a nature of such disciplines.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 12:00 AM
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I’d also love to hear that. He’s a tradcon but there’s nothing radical about him.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 11:59 PM
2

People just need to expose themselves to the Conflicting oppinions to be able to formulate any coherent thought instead of staying confy in their echo chambers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 11:58 PM
1

Be very well maybe, but in my opinion, he's discredited himself as a reliable source by all the other stuff he's done, including claiming better understanding of the subjects that just aren't his expertise even when confronted by experts in those fields. Is there a single person in the pop-science field who doesn’t act like that when put in spotlight? For instance Stanford’s Andrew Huberman has the very same problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 11:56 PM
1

IDK about that. And even though I use my 'carnal instincts' to choose partners. I still like to believe that my companionship and sex enrich their lives and make them better in a long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:56 PM
7

This post doesn’t contain enough spicy methaphores to make it plausible it was written by GLO. We might be dealing with an impersonator! Still, it’s a good one.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/23 10:31 PM
6

You want me to tell my boss to F off instead of sucking up to him? First aquire skills/knowledge/whatever it takes to be move valuable and thus have an abundance of better options.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/23 10:28 PM
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I'm not sure if thasts an irony or not. But men make like 80% of homicide victims and are never offered a job the wouldn't qualify for otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:39 PM
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Yeah, but there’s absolutely nothing wrong with following your natural desiresas long as you’re not hurting anyone. World would be a better place if everyone had his/her sexual needs fullfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:37 PM
1

Carnal doesn’t mean immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:34 PM
1

On the other hand wanting your kids to inherit good genes and have easier life is not hedonistic. Still you should not attach moral value to dating, unless you’re not actively hurting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:20 PM
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Sexually desiring “height” and “money” is hedonistic as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:22 PM
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Sorry mate i’m just being realistic. But obv I meant ‚aren’t attractive because of their height’. They stil can have other attractive features.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:45 AM
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Not really, tall girls can be very attractive to tall guys. As a 6.3 guy I actually prefer girls that are on the taller side. Whereas short guys aren’t attractive to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:40 AM
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Also the female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of looking physically atractive. It’s easier to groom and use makeup than actually sweat your ass off in order to get musclar and ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:38 PM
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1 Be attractive 2 Don’t be unatractive
/r/TheRedPill12/03/23 12:15 PM
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Exactly!Thats the problem with creep-shaming. They don't shame you for your objective actions. So even if you do everything as respectfully as possible youre gonna get shamed for not being attractive enough.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/23 05:10 AM
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No no no! Men shouldn’t be scared to talk about their feelings or to ask for help. That’s toxic masculinity! And patriarchy! Patriarchy is bad!
/r/TheRedPill11/03/23 05:02 PM
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That’s what makes it funny: he did it exactly as bluepillers and women say it should be done. I agree it was naive and awkward af. But still absolutely harmless. And there is a world of difference between inexperienced-awkward-creepy and serial-rapist-creepy. Guy is obviously inexperienced and they’re shitting on him like he’s some kind of predator. Also creep shaming is just a form of misandry. A weapon for women to shame men not for what they do but for how attractive they’re. We should shame …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/23 04:21 PM
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A neet doesn’t have much needs, even if they cut him from benefits, he could easily survive. A family with a single breadwinner doesn’t have that luxury if he loses a job. Therefore Neets are much harder to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:34 AM
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Can you even read? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:18 AM
2

No I don’t enjoy dating women. I enjoy dating fun, good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:18 AM
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So if they cut your shit then you can start actually working. Someone with a family will have it much harder to support 3 people from some low-end job than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:38 PM
1

They are! By gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:21 AM
1

How did it feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:47 PM
1

Sure! Keep improving mate! My point was just not to wait for some magic change before you start making moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:39 PM
1

What a predator! And a fashist! He must be a fashist!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:21 AM
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healthy eating and hygiene habits He was a model because of his genetics. Healthy eating and hygiene are important but they won’t change that much for you. So stop hoping for a miraculous change and start pursuing hot girls now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:05 AM
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Not everyone is so desperate that he HAS to find a lifelong partner. Many people don’t want to. A 30 yo+ man doesn’t need a partner to take ha mortage with. Or to make babies within the next few years. He want’s to chill and have fun. So ething he can’t do with women his age, who are desperate to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:16 AM
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So it’s fine when you call the OP insecure but it’s not when I call you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:56 AM
1

Ok but it’s likely because you can’t find someone your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:55 AM
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I love how you started to personally insult the dude when you couldn’t find any good argument lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:54 AM
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Am 18yo may technically be an adult but all the 30+ women here are telling you that we've lived it and it is predatory behavior to want to date someone with so little experience. Except that there’s nothing predatory in it. They’re having sex and fun on the dates. The very exact thing she’d be doing with any guy her age. And frankly most of the times my female friends were hurt by a guy they’re dating it was someone their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:49 AM
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Not even as friends. And this is where you look dumb. I’ve been friends with people aged 18-70 and all of them speak the same language and are fun & interesting based on their personal merit not their age. They may have less experience than you? So what? You’re older and you still say stupid things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:46 AM
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It’s you who are insecure if you perceive every date as something that will lead to a relationship. And that’s predatory af. He’s just enjoying life. Also it might be why he prefers yonger women than you -they don’t have such stupid prejudices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:41 AM
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she will expect a traditional husband. The financial burden will be entirely on you. This is bs. Many trad women work and I’d say they’re on average more succesful than their liberal peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:47 PM
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Sometimes you’re an otlier and sometimesyou’re not. Noone is black and white, me included.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:11 PM
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Even if not it’s a typical case of „i’M nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLs!!!’
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:10 PM
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I understand I'm an outlier. Not at all. Every woman in this thread gave the same exact conscious answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:20 PM
1

But keep in mind that most of those women are pure garbage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:19 PM
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The assumption here is that women inherently trust the judgment of other women. How does that make logical sense? Truly? No man starts with such assumption. We kinda learn it in the process tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:15 PM
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I like your paragraph about making friends with high value guys. Most dudes when see a guy like that get intimidated and start to scheme how to compete with him. When I see a dude like that I’m happy because i suspect he’ll make a valueable friend. Obviously there can be some competetive moments, but nothing that could ever hurt me. And frankly even if on paper you ‚don’t have much to offer’ just being chill and positive with them can be valuable to them when everyone else freaks out either posi…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/23 02:05 PM
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Good job, you align with feminist thought. Thought? Maybe. But not with feminist voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:50 AM
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Frankly i don’t think we should even judge people from the value perspective. Some people bring value and some don’t and that’s just fine we shouln’t lie about that. Just as not every woman is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:13 AM
5

Exacty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:15 PM
7

Or maybe lets also celebrate all those good chill men out there who have no special achievements or contributions. Lets stop with the social expectaton that a man has to devote himself to others to be worth anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:14 PM
1

They don't even do that. Well if we're giving women the right to have an abortion without the father's consent then it's absolutely fair to give men a way out as well. Because right now it's men who get baby trapped. But frankly, I see no perfect solution to the paper abortion problem. My hope lies in new bc options for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:24 PM
1

Except that in most legal systems you only share the stuff that's earned through the marriage, not the stuff you had before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:21 PM
1

Yes. But they're far less common than people think. 1-5% at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:10 PM
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The problem with paper abortions is that while they make things fair and square between men and women they still suck from the baby's perspective and deny it it's rights. I agree that when a guy does a paper abortion it's the woman's fault for still giving the birth. But when you're a baby who was denied half of it's parents resources, you don't really care which of your parents is to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:56 PM
1

Many incels are helathy and look decently. And I agree that it’s not women’s fault for not wanting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:57 AM
1

Both are unappealing to straight men who want a healthy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:40 AM
1

Dumb argument. You could say the same thing about having sex with gay men. But that wouln’t help incel men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:14 AM
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Do you expect a woman to materialise out of thin air after you hit a certain threshold of money? Do you keep meeting new women on a weekly basis? Do you keep making moves? How far do you get?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:42 AM
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Trashy women like trashy men. Simple. You don’t want to date such trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:39 AM
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It's like saying that the porn directors are also so brilliant because of the very same reasons. Women don't buy those books because of good prose but because it's cheap emotional porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:32 PM
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I think youre confising female protagonists from the action genre with ones found in romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:32 PM
1

I was with my dentist friend, we met some of his doctor friends and they spend like 3 hours talking about medical shit i have no bloody idea about. I was just chilling sipping a drink and smiling. I didn’t need to force the conversation my way. I’m not sure if I even said one whole sentence over that time. Had at least 2 different girls tell me how cool I’m.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah my ex was like that. I used to do like 80% of grocery shopping while i was riding my bike around. And then most of cooking. Still i’d hear endless arguments why only do like 40% of cleaning... At some point i was like ‚Bitch! We’re making an excel sheet!” That shut her up. The best part? Once we met to exchange our stuff after we broke up she told me she has a problem because she has no time to cook.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/23 05:06 PM
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The word ‚almost’ is the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:05 PM
1

No. I like girls younger than me. I’m not interested in cougars at all. I’m an attractive guy I’m able to get what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:04 PM
1

That’s actually a plus. I don’t want to date her forever. And I don’t want kids. Still prefer younger ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:46 PM
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tells me that there is something deeply broken in our culture BS it’s just how almost all mammals are. Males do all the legwork which often means fighting to death. Females just chill and choose who to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:26 PM
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Google „ DiCarlo Escalation Ladder: Concise and Emphasized” I can’t link it here.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 06:39 PM
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I’d say it depends whether we’re talking about public vs private spaces. I have no problems with a private female-only space. But there’s a problem the goverment gives funding for something for only one sex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/23 11:39 AM
3

But I started to be aware of game by the age of 20, Dude you’re ages ahead of the average guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 02:54 AM
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If you’re getting a decent amount of dates but not getting laid, then your problem isn’t money but logistics and escalation. That being said money obviously can help you with logistics. Eg. -renting an apartament near some nice date spot.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 02:51 AM
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, I feel that most people who come forward are genuine Well, too many metoo cases showed us that's not true and that the false or unfounded accusations make a sizable portion of all. With Amber Heart vs Depp case being the jewel in the crown of misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/23 02:21 PM
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and dumping all of your insecurities on them, The problem is that all women do it themselves all the time, expecting their men to be supportive. But when a guy does it it’s a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:37 AM
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eXACtlY It’S ClEaLrY a MeN’s FaUlT!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:33 AM
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Lol. A misandrist complains that men aren’t nice online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:41 PM
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Find me a highly upvoted post/comment that demands women unequally stripped of their rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:17 PM
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Men just say that women shouldn't have rights Where have you seen sich claim? Some muslim forum? I’ve read some of the worst shit redpill has to offer, but i’ve to see such claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:14 AM
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Men who visit feminist or make-up subreddits are more vary of the women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:11 AM
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I think it’s such a strange idea that only healthy, wealthy, and already “happy” people are able to get married Lol, we’re talking about statitstics not absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 05:30 AM
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I think most studies on the topic have shown that generally married people are more content, healthier and wealthier than single people, both men and women. The problem is that we don’t know which causes which. Most people immediately assume that it’s the marriage that improves everything else, while i’d probably say that it’s the opposite way. It’s the healthiest, wealthiest and happiest people that are able to attract a lifelong partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:59 PM
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The whole pop-science and self-help book industries are built on this premise. Find something people want to hear and already believe and add an unique marketting gimmick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 04:56 PM
1

Ok but you might not be a catch either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:20 PM
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BS. As a guy who was raised without a father and who thought that he’ll be a forever alone, i was taught most of my dating and social skills at r/seduction. Since then I had a rich dating life full of great gilrls and amazing friends. I used to return to that subreddit trying to help the newbies & to return the favour. But it got soft-banned thanks to some dumb feminsts and blue-pills. Currently I’m a member of a super positive r/leftwingmaleadvocates but I already see the signs of hate and bigo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:11 AM
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Sure. But many people like to use Dicaprio as an example of womanizers whereas all his gfs are sent straight to him because of some deal he has with a model agency. They get publicity he gets his reputation. Somehow noone notices that the guy who dates girls half his age has never had any public drama with them. NDA's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 09:25 PM
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I'm talking about unnecessary shit, not the basic standard of cleaniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:43 PM
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Most women would love a husband who outearns them though. Close to none date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:50 PM
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Ones who date Dicaprio absolutely are. They even sign a comtract and NDA’s to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:41 PM
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How many women would accept a stay-at-home husband they’d provide for? Close to none. Lol. They want a man who earns at least more than them. It’s very traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:38 PM
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half the domestic work The problem with this that women have higher standards of cleaniness. If you want to do lots of unnecessary shit like washing the windows on a weekly basis, then it’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:35 PM
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Good that this is not CMV because I actually agree. Most tradcons are just betas who think they’d be handed their girl if everything returned to the old good times lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:33 PM
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Yes it sounds especially stupid when you look at real life people and usually it’s women who nag their bfs/husbands to have a baby, not the other way. And it’s women who babytrap men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 08:32 AM
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Yes obviously. You can have a relationship with a doll or ai, but it won’t help you shit if you get sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:58 AM
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No. Shes perfectly fine to state her preference, but instead she started to insult others by calling them failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:30 PM
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OP asked about MEANINGFUL relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:27 AM
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If you can have a meaningful romance with someone who is catfishing you No you can’t. Perhaps you’re confusing ‚meaningful’ with ‚one that you’re invested in’.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:26 AM
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No it’s just masturbation. That being said sometimes just masturbation is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:25 AM
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A brokie with a six pack, especially over 30, is a failed man. Lol i love how casually misandric your post is. No. Men should focus on being happy instead of being useful to you. Not wanting to appease to women’s demands is not a failure. And I hate to break it to you most 30 yo men would be much happier with a great body that gets them younger girls who want to fuck, than being a betabuxx that wants to appeal to a 41 yo woman who wants a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:22 AM
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I just agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:50 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:48 PM
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Lol that's why you should never pay. And that’s why you should never go to restaurant for the first date. Do you seriously think that it’s more awkward for the guy not to be chilvarious than for the girl that want’s nit to pay for stuff she devoured xD? No it’s not. And it’s her who should be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:26 PM
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Who cares? I’d burst with laugh if some bimbo I barely know demanded me to pay for stuff she ordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:25 PM
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This is why vetting is so important. If the guy isn't traditional and he wants a woman who is cool with going Dutch, and doesn't see it as bad manners to split the bill, then that's who he should specifically look for. No. The adults pay for themselves. If a woman wants to be bought shit then it’s on her to make her demands known before the date even happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:47 AM
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The money part applies especially more to men since most women expect men to pay on dates. And even if a woman doesn't expect a guy to pay Stop being so obsessed what some chick expects you to do. She isn’t your master don’t let her pussy-whip you. I’ve dated lots of beautiful girls and never bought them anything unless we were already a bf/gf. The only thing they got from me were some mean breakfasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:44 AM
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A few years ago that was one of the feminist talking points here where I live. To stop using words like pussy and cunt as derogatory because it’s body shaming xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 11:19 AM
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Well she obviously thinks that it’s a small dick that makes men act insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:37 AM
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Lol go virtue signal somewhere else. For every guy fat-shaming chicks online you can find 3 girls dick- erection- and height- shaming guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 10:10 AM
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I mean men are the ones who make fun of the women's body positivity movement and harass and ridicule women who are plus size and comfortable in their own O You sound especially ridiculous after Greta Thunberg’s dickshaming tweets. Every single feminist outlet and millions of women were paising her for that. But yes! Women are the emphatetic sex and men are the cruel one!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:55 AM
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I think you're confusing being bf/gf with dating. Dating is just spending time together with someone from the other sex as long as some intimacy is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:09 AM
2

Well most guys in the trp spaces aren’t even redpilled but tradcons and incels. For any normal guy it’s probably one of the least important variables. Or even a slight potential bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:26 PM
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Dude stop overthinking. You’re young & you’re already on a good track and self aware of your strengths and weaknesses. You’re ahead of 98% of your competition. Enjoy the relationship with her, but it’s very unlikely it’s the last woman you’re gonna ever date. And if you’re self improving fast then most of all her successors are gonna be even better. And to get more exciting, collect more experiences. Try a few new hobbies. Travel. Visit some cool events. Network with friends of your current frie…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/23 04:13 PM
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We’re looking at a practical capability from their employer perspective not at a theoretical one. And if women can’t work for 3 days a month because of period, then they’re less capable to work and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:09 PM
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Somehow every 30+ single dude I know dates chicks you ger than himself. And 30+ women have to date men much older than them. And a typical 30+ man has better skin than a corresponding woman same age even without skincare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:05 PM
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Makes no sense. It’s women who age faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:36 PM
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If your friends aren’t impressed with hard work maybe it’s time to change your social circles. Just saying.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/23 12:58 PM
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I don't think you realize how debilitating (some) menstrual cycles can be. Ok, but that just means that women are less capable as workers than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:33 AM
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Then just spin plates instead of commiting and cheating. Also don’t worry, your new jaw won’t give you as much pussy as you hope for. You won’t get overwhelmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:53 AM
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It’s him who’s a friend with benefits for her. She’s just a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:33 AM
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On one hand you seem like a voice of a reason, but on the other you’re saying ‚i’m not afraid of being assaulted because I always carry a machete’. Even if this isn’t your problem it doesn’t mean that we shouln’t protect falsely accused guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:55 PM
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Any single guy over 6-foot is excluded too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:04 AM
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I don’t think you interact with many women. I don’t really know a single good example of such practice, even among my betabuxx friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:34 PM
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In reality many refugees will have nothing to return to, and they’ll be no work. And I suspect that once the war ends many Ukrainian men will travel west to join their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:38 PM
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Exactly. Literally every woman here treats AWALT as ‚every woman is a whore’ whereas it just means ‚She’s not special. No matter how many times she tells you she loves you. She may still hurt you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:32 AM
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Idk ask them. There is a substantial amount of girls who do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:04 PM
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Most 38 yo men who are dating 22 yolds are doing that explicitly because they’re against marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:03 PM
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Lol, how being pictured as a loving father is misandric? Even if it’s implied he’s the weak one in this relationship. There’s nothing wrong in being the weaker party. There’s so much real misandry in the world and you focus on this?
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/23 04:24 PM
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If you'd seen enough 'attractive' women without makeup in the morning, you'd know how false is that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:46 AM
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My take: among young adults women are equally attractive as men. BUT they do magic with makeup, hair and style. But the baseline human underneath it all is equally attractive. Then after 30-35 women tend to age worse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:45 AM
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Outside of tradcons, noone says its inmiral, but its just undesirable for a ltr material girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:21 AM
7

How do people justify using a car if it depletes the value of a car?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:05 PM
1

Lol this sounds absolutely terrible. The only people it’d benefit are low quality guys who want a low quality girl. Guys who’d become incels in the west. Otherwise you’re just at the mercy of the randomness of your social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:43 AM
1

Well, in times when the mainstream will call you an entitled misogynist for ever daring to want a hot, slim woman, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:48 PM
1

Nice! You could just do MMA for fun and some short & sweet kettlebell workout for strenght &conditioning.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 08:48 PM
3

Personally I always prefered the epicurean, chill approach to the hedonist debauchery. It’s just not my problem to fix the world & why not enjoy the options the life gives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:18 PM
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I’d suggest starting eith some athletic activity as well, if you’re not already working out. Lifting & martial arts are both good options. Lifting gives you fastest results & least injuries, but martial arts come with a community of high value men.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 08:14 PM
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Yes. And there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s arrogant to think that we can stop these processes by force feeding the tradcon values like half of people here like to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:31 PM
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Your post is titled „struggles with TRP”. Yet you keep talking about your EX not TRP. Here’s an immediate TRP plan for you: Sit on your butt and make an actionable plan how to improve in each of these areas: Career, education, physique, diet, skincare, sleep/rest, grooming, fashion, friends, social skills, hobbies, events and travel. Pick 3-4 most-glaring ones and start progress this very week. Stick with these areas, and keep adding more over the following weeks. Noticed how i didn’t mention yo…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 02:10 PM
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Wow this makes a lot of sense. I guess it’s time to demand anal from the very first date from the girls I’m dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:17 PM
1

Toxic peopke just like to date other toxic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:12 PM
0

You’d too prefer to be Adriana Lima’s sideguy than to be exclusive with the girl from your own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:37 PM
2

Dude, fuck looking for signs. Just approach the best looking girl and try to lead it towards the desired outcome. There is a fuckton of girls who give signs just for attention, and there is a fuckton of interested girls who qre to shy to signal anything. Instead for looking for signs approach the most beautiful girl, and if it fails then approach the second- and third-best ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:43 PM
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I’m 35 and i’m at my best shape ever. On saturday I was in the club and there were at least a couple of girls literally standing on their heads just to gain my attention. At the same time, most girls from my hs class look like old lizards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:13 PM
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You people need to stop treating ‚marriage lasting till death’ as the most important thing in life. It’s the personal happiness that counts. And if you’re unhapp you should end your relationship rn. You won’t be awarded some ‚cosmic moral points’ for staying with your toxic spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:10 PM
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Idk, often the people who party the hardest are still in the best shape later i life. It’s the couch potatoes who look much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:39 AM
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So what? He doesn’t. I set orphanages on fire in my dreams. Come arrest me though-policeman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:37 AM
1

When i was a zygote i dated this 7yo chick!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:36 AM
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Consenting adults - consenting adults. Everything else is just faschism with a few extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:33 AM
1

I just did a heavy set of deadlifts and I’m beat. Also I’m an introvert and don’t want to sociallize every fucking second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:33 PM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:24 PM
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hurts both of them and shames their families. Lol. If you were my son or daughter or whatever you are, I would shave you bald in your sleep for this Satanic heathen talk. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:16 PM
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You could use the same dumb argument to say that the giant waterslide in the aquapark isn’t innocent because the kids arent’ allowed. Sex between 2 consenting adults which hurts noone is innocent. Kids can’t give their consent for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:08 PM
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innocent fun having of young adults I can’t comprehend how do you attach moral value to this xd. Stop with this tradcon shit. A time in a relationship isn’t wasted only because it didn’t last till death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:38 PM
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My advice to you: waste no time trying to figure out what an ugly girl is thinking and go date the most beautiful girl you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:51 AM
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most of the world is out of shape Lol no outside of US most people are within healthy BMI range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:39 PM
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Because it benefits women. It implies that they had to invest more, thus they should to be able to extract more from this transaction. Notice how every time a girl has sex with a dude and he wants nothing more than it ‚he uses her’. Whereas in reality he had sex and she had sex and it was perfectly equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:02 AM
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It wasn’t an insult. As a man you’d never be able to think as a woman.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 10:59 AM
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You’re thinking like a gay man not like a woman.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/23 10:53 AM
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Women are never single. They always have orbiters at very least If you define a woman with orbiters as not single, then those orbiters shouln’t be defined as single either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:36 AM
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Men 18-29 are actually having a rough time because their dating pool is far smaller than women's their age. But they can date younger girls. A 18 yo can date girls who are 16 etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:28 AM
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I've always said that's it's misandric af to even suggest that somehow all men become evil manipulators and abusers with age.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 08:03 PM
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Hey, i’m saying how it is. You’re not immune to this yourself. You don’t value people for ‚free’. It’s our nature. Do you complain that we need to eat food to survive? We should be able to survive ‚for who we are’!!!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 01:52 PM
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Agreed. That being said I absolutely love telling some obvious bullshit. Especially when she’s being nosy. Like when a girl points at my chest scar from my heart surgery, i’d tell her something like: „I got it after they separated me from my cojoined twin Paul”. Or you can tell her some obviously contradictory information for shits and giggles. Remember the Joker in the Dark Knight movie? Whenever he was asked about his scar he’d tell a different story. That’s the energy! When a girl notices thi…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 01:33 AM
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unfortunately that's the transactional world that we live in What’s unfortunate about it? This is amazing! The more work you put in the better results you get. And the path to improvement has been precisely mapped out for you. No guesswork involved! Weak physique? Start lifting, here’s a proven program by someone knowledgeable. Need more money? Here’s a subreddit dedicated to well paying online skills. Lacking social skills -here’s a book on this exact matter. Etc. And who are you kidding -you t…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/23 01:19 AM
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How do you even know who’s in danger? The internet is full of videos of women who assaulted a man, and when he starts to fight back he’a attacked by white knights. Fuck i witnesses such event myself. A crazy woman attacked a guy and his 12 yo daughter. Once he started to defend himself, he got attacked by the people around him. Only when i intervened verbally, they stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:10 PM
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Good job mate! We need to show posts like this to bluepillers and feminists that claim that the whole TRP revolves around hating women.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 02:00 PM
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Nope. The ‚always’ part makes it incompatible with being a man. It’s a naive, childish way of seeing things. White knighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:13 PM
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I keep constantly hearing about how Leonardo DiCaprio is a predator and how he’s he creep even though the relationships seem to be consenting. Why do you even listen to dumb people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:07 PM
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Found an inexperienced guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:59 AM
2

Ok but these things are positive. Helping people enjoy sex more with less boudaries. Being toxic is not positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:58 AM
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All because I was faking my personality the entire time. You were just using the correct tools/skills to tackle a problem you encountered. They have nothing to do with your personality. Imagine someone refusing to learn math because his personality is 'being shitty at it'. You sound guilty like you've stabbed the poor woman. Whereas she just had some fun with you and wanted to have even more.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 06:54 PM
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I'm struggling to get over her. Dude, it's only 2 fucking weeks. You don't feel like that because she was any special. You're just thirsty for a pussy. Meet more girls, find more abundance. I'm struggling to see where it is exactly I fucked up. You only got a surface-level knowledge of trp, you didn't internalize anything. We almost immediately enter into a relationship, although, it was never exclusive. This was the biggest fuckup. You don't enter a relationship with a girl before she does ever…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/23 03:10 PM
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One of the guys was all sad that this girl wasn't into him after he was the shoulder to cry on,he did things for her, yet was rejected. And of course he was all sad over it. It’s 2023 and guys are still trying to weasel their way in pretending they’re friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:04 AM
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This is the most retarded thing i ever heard. The most important reason for abortion is that forcing people to have a baby they didn’t want is a recipe for a disaster and a life full of misery for that poor kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:38 AM
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In the next breath, I'll hear them say that women are entitled and insufferable for so much as looking at a man who is OBVIOUSLY too good for her according to you. But has anyone ever insulted you or rudely rejected? I suspect not. We just laugh at girls vastly overestimating themselves. But if you can keep up your consistency you’ll likely succeed and all power to you. I wish you well. The problem is that you need dozens or even hundreds of approaches to succeed using this strategy. Whereas mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:58 PM
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Exactly. It's pretty obvious that all his 'relationships' are arraranged and guarded by legal agreements and NDA's. He constantly dumps these 25 yo stunners and we hear absolutely no drama about him? Not a single one Amber Heard among them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:04 AM
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You sound like an incel commie. Whinning why everyone else gets money and sex instead of sweating your ass off to benefit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:46 AM
1

They can. I had the same probelem as op. Even I escalated as a motherfucker. The horniness is contagious, if I wasn’t horny enough there was no chance making them. Even when I initiated foreplay etc. Yet when i gon on TRT for a couple of months everything started to click effortlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:53 PM
1

Sure. But even without kids, hardly noone wants sex as often as during the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:44 PM
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Frankly, most men in marriages and LTRS are too less interested in sex than they were during the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:05 AM
6

I always label myself as a ‚radical feminist’. When the ask me about it i just tell that i stand not only for the equal rights but also equal responsibilities.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 01:11 AM
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what keeps life in the West from becoming, on balance, slightly in women's favor? Aging. I’m 34 and I look better than ever. Getting approached by 20o chicks in the clubs. Whereas many girls my age start to look like old harpies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:51 PM
1

Those are low quality dudes who make these posts. That have no experience dating actual women. It’s just a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:26 AM
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I’m talking about hi-quality men who can afford supoorting a Sahm, not about reddit incels lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:36 AM
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There are still much many women who’d love to be a Sahm than high-quality men who want one. Most high quality guys want either a younger ‚lover’ or someone equally capable as them. Not a lame housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:00 AM
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And western women publicly state that they want a dominant man. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:13 PM
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The lesson is don't get married because of economical reasons. The only good reason to get married is because you want to be married to that person. Just as the only good reason to have sex is because you want to fuck. Everything else is just a prostitution with a few extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:11 PM
1

fecal occult blood test
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:55 PM
2

Is there anynstudy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:39 PM
1

It’s just virtue signalling. By the end of the day conservative people cheat as much or even more than liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:38 PM
1

I find it important to make no compromises. I look for a better girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:29 AM
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Ok your upbringing explains your situation. But it doesn’t excuse it. At this point the only one responsible for your lack of succes is you. Start owning your shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/23 06:05 AM
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But why give us a false choice? According to studies the more attractive the woman is the fewer sexual partners she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:52 AM
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Actually thats kinda false men can survive with a lower body fat percentage And women can survive with blood dripping everywhere. But we’re talking about the civilised standard,of well-being.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 08:39 PM
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"I'm a woman who likes free value from a high-quality man, but there are simply not a lot guys who are interested in such exchange with me."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:35 AM
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Why even focus on OKupid data from 10 years ago? The situation has shifted drastically since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:56 AM
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And that is why you should always go 50/50 on dates No. Ideally get HER to buy you shit!
/r/PussyPass27/01/23 10:39 AM
2

Having unprotected sex with a junkie?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:17 AM
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No you’re now adding some weird variable. Op made a dichotomy of respectful and asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:35 AM
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Sure. In the majority of relationships noone exploits anyone. Still in age-gap relationships its women who benefit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:31 PM
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If he wants something simple and casual then it’s the best choice for him. Unless he forces to start a family with her, noone gets hurt. Actually the biggest dangers of relationships like starting a family when you’re not ready, taking a mortage, getting a std, violence etc happen mostly with less-experienced same age partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:43 PM
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it’s just unhonorable What’s unhonorable there? You want it, she wants it. Noone gets hurt. most of these relationships be one sided anyway Idk. Unless he forces her to forfeit education and turns her into SAHM, I don’t think it’s gonna be one sided. And it’s not like men aren’t pussy whipped in the vast majority of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 06:39 PM
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Yes. But that’s because it’s hot and brings them more pleasure, not because they want a kid 9 months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:45 AM
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This is the biologcal rean not the conscious reason. The conscious reason is the pleasure ad bonding with yor partner. And most people use the birh control 99% they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:42 AM
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What? No i’m talking about legally adult people. Also nobody says anything about making children. Why do you treat every relationship as a way to make children? Most people don’t even want them these days. Especially the men who go after younger girls. If a family was their main goal they’d have one already. Stop with your tradcon bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:35 AM
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I love how you give young women no agency and treat them as little clueless babies and at the same time treat men like fully conscious evil manipulators. You’re a fucking bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:30 AM
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Exactly. I know hundreds of people who have this ‚fully developed brain’ and yet are making dumb decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:27 AM
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Older guys going for younger women are usually selfish pricks and sexists 99.9% of the time. I guess the you only ‚know’ that because of your relationships with much older guys, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:26 AM
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But at the same time older doesn’t automatically mean a predator. Notion that all men somehow become evil manipulators as their age is misandric af.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:24 AM
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Lol someone has been skipping the biology classes. It’s the girls who mature much sooner lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:22 AM
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Actually it’s the young women who are exploiting the other partyin such relationships, not the other way. Men get a pussy. The same stuff they’d get in a relationship with a woman their age. Whereas the girl gets access to his resources and lifestyle. So it’s her who benefits the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:17 AM
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Because most so called redpillers are just tradcons in disguise and they pretend they want to save the society from the collapse. True redpillers don’t give a fuck and wish childless women and everyone else well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:47 PM
1

Yes but the relationship is a bonus when it clicks. It shouln’t be a baseline expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:25 AM
1

This is a hookup app, not the get-a-husband app. A guy who doesn't get any matches won't find a wife either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:05 AM
2

So what? Are we supposed to ditch our happiness just not to appear shallow? Fuck that. Stop being such a people pleaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:25 AM
2

Ok. It’s still bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:28 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:46 AM
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But still he’s the best among the suckers. He was welcome to date other women in their prime, he didn’t. It’s not women’s fault he’s beta buxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:43 AM
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Well I totally get why people take i personally. But if you take a reasonable care of how you look it’s not a failure on your part but a physical reality influenced by your genes and the other person’s taste. The only real failure is cchickening out and not approaching at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:34 PM
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She says no to you, but to someone else maybe she goes home with him tonight. No, it’s not personal. It’s just her taste. Has nothing to do with who am I as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:12 PM
1

Oh ok, but that doesn't really change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:56 PM
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doesn’t want you back. It’s more embarrassment I think. Stop taking this personally as it’s not personal. If she has a bf she’ll reject you even if she’s attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 09:22 PM
1

But rejection still sucks Not really. Most attractive girls have a bf. Some are lesbian/crazy/undatable. Some are on a period or have to take a shit badly. By the end of the day, before your attractiveness/approach tactics even come to play, you’re left with like only 10-15% of girls. Probably much more in clubs/bars because many girls go the with an intention of meeting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:59 PM
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She told me to go away. I said bye and went away. Guys make up some horrible rejection scenarios in their heads, whereas I’ve approached hundreds if not thousands of attractive (8-9/10) girls and 99% of time she’s either positive or neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:40 PM
1

Dreadgame is just using women’s own weapon against them. Almost every girl out there keeps some orbiters and messages and sees different guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:19 PM
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It’s literally what yo do. You discredit the data and call it the victim olympics and complain that you have it worse because you feel that you have it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:06 PM
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„I can complain all i want but when men complain and show research it’s victim olympics”. Lol you’re such a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:50 PM
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Shower thought: maybe this is being Chad in his ultimate form, being able to shit in a woman’s bed and she still wants you. No. These are just nastyass chicks from a ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:14 AM
1

Finding a relationship is way easier than making friends as an adult. Only when you don’t have much to offer other than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:01 AM
1

And the TRP sub is full tradcon/incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:48 PM
0

Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:05 PM
1

What’s the alternative? Forcing women to marry a man they don’t want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:05 PM
1

Idk, i'm a 6.3 dude not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:59 AM
1

Idk I know them from parties. And we became friends because we were attending the same parties. Lawyers and doctors know how to party hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:58 AM
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Exactly. The reality is that only thr most competetive short guys can have successful dating lives. What did you expect? A fairy tale? And yes, the reality is that black guys have to put in more effort to outcompete whites. Is this shocking?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:53 AM
1

Once you start seeing the beter results you’ll thank yourself for being persistent. All the great masters at any discipline only got great because they were dissatisfied with their previous results. And this is your natural drive, the only way to prevent it would be to neuter yourself. Or keep going until you find an attractive fuck buddy or two. That should keep your drive in check.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:01 PM
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Outcompete the tall guys everywhere else. My short friends who are somewhat succesful with women are all lawyers, dentists and surgeons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:41 PM
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Men have so much more flexibility than women when it comes to what you can do to become more attractive Lol, most women literally paint a face of someone else on the top of their own to be attractive. Also you spent half of your post talking about fat people, when the path to being in hape is actually super straightforward and can be achieved by anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:23 PM
1

The marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:41 PM
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I'm just looking for sex which is just sad. It’s an innate human need, there’s nothing sad about seeking it. Your time isn’t wasted. You’re building valuable skills that will last you a lifetime. And they translate super well to making friends or even a career in sales. Also you will remember many of these adventures for your whole life. You can’t say the same thing about days spent playing video games or watching netflix.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 04:07 AM
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There are no magic tricks, eventually you'll have to force yourself to do it. But yeah, you can start with a warmup and just approach some random people, you're not interested in just to get some positive reactions.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 07:19 PM
1

Is fun, intelligent and has: A career, education, cool friends, hobbies, sports and visits events & travels. And obviously she’s well kempt and willing to do things for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:20 PM
2

Idk. I mean men with completely different philosophies can use this toolset and still get successful. There are chauvinists and psychos who treat women like shit like Andrew Tate. And they're successful. And there's me who treats women completely the same way I treat men. In fact, some of my favorite people are female. Just nobody will get special treatment just because she has a pussy. I see both sexes as equally flawed but also as equally great. And I'm successful. Fuck, you could see women as…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 01:39 PM
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No. The redpill isn’t some anti-feminism, a philosophy or a moral system. It’s just a tool that helps an average guy get laid by self improvement and tools that women themselves use subconsciously against men. Tools like strict enforcement of ones boundaries, not commiting before the other party and keeping your options open. It’s only later when the movement has been penetrated by tradcons & incels when the community started to focus on the autistic hate instead of self improvement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 01:17 PM
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women are biologically forced to be unloving As a pretty redpilled guy -that’s not true. They just have a different way of showing love. And to a some degree all love is conditional. You might think that you’re virtuous and that doesn’t apply to you. BS it does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 01:14 PM
1

Let’s make a group called ‚does she fuck on a first date’ see how fast it’s banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:30 PM
1

We just do that to jack off. It’s more interesting why do women follow them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:39 AM
3

5th paragraph: In today's day and age, what's the best philosophy or mindset to use? But i agree that the op should start with learning how to write articulately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:47 AM
1

The point is that blue or any other pill wouln’t prevent you from this emptiness and you’d likely be miserable this whole time.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/23 01:31 AM
3

Full link https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJ9FdRaTGEo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:19 PM
3

Thats a common myth. But it’s been busted. Some leftist org even did an actor inscenisation of Trump vs Clinton debate with sexes reversed to prove that Clinton as a woman wouln’t get away if she said the same shit Donald did. The results? Totally the opposite from their hypothesis. Female Trump got 10x more sympathy than the agressive male Clinton.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:44 PM
-1

When did they start a fight at a corporate office when the boss was rude? Except that these behaviors are learned in your child/teenage years. And trust me, acting like an asshole when you’re a boy more often than not ends up in a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:41 PM
0

Idk girls won’t really call anyone creepy in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:03 PM
2

Or just go out with your female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:05 PM
7

It's somewhere in the middle. It's much, much easier when you're attractive but it's still a numbers game and everyone lose much more often than they win.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:28 PM
0

So what? You won't die because of being called creepy. And being confident, unattractive but WITH FRIENDS won't get you called creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:27 PM
1

The problem is that women are even worse with facing adversity yet they can get a dick within 10 mins of installing tinder. There's about 30% of men who are not having sex rn. I agree that most of them could get sex if they tried hard enough and outcompete all of the sexless guys and some of ones that are having it today. But if each and every one of them tried at once, would all of them get lucky? I don't think so. It would just raise the bottomline and still like 25% of them would be sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:12 PM
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I think it's the result of reddit banning most of the manosphere's subreddits. Men just come here to vent off. Lol even r/seduction was soft banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:56 PM
2

The point is that most sex toys aren’t a substitute to penetration sex but to eating pussy. Fuck her, orgasm then use a wand vibrator to finish her off while you’re chilling sucking on her tittty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:38 AM
0

I get more attention from men now that I'm in my 30s. Yes, most men don’t approach a girl they like the most but the one they perceive as the ‚easy’ one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:14 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:51 PM
1

For hookups, maybe. For longterm monogamous relationships, no. Why would a manwhore want a longterm monogamous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:08 PM
1

you'd be hard-pressed to find a woman who actively wants a manwhore Too bad that in practice they want a man whos able to be a manwhore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:05 PM
2

A normal well-socialized girl meets dozens of people on a monthly basis. She is able to exercise self control not to grimace when she sees someone unattractive. Most people are unattractive, and even the hottest girls have ugly friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:55 PM
3

Yes. Actually I'd say that men, even when the sex is off the table like women more than other women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:28 PM
7

Girls don't cringe when they see ugly people. They cringe because they feel social pressure and lack the social skills to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:19 PM
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Even if that's the case, it's super rare that a girl would be as rude as that, especially in front of her mum and neighbors. That comment reeks of unfounded social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:53 PM
24

Did it actually happen or are you projecting your fears? Because in scenario you describe it’s the girl who’s rude af.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:46 AM
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I didn't want to treat women like shit Good. Enforcing your boundaries doesn’t equal to treating women like shit. Agreeing and aplifying to her shit test is enforcing your boundaries because she is nosy. Not letting her get late to your dates is enforcing your boundaries. Not making her your gf before she proves to be worthy. Not letting her make arguments in public. Etc. Nobody in TRP ever teaches you to treat women bad preemptively.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:45 AM
1

between loner girls or girls with 5000 instagram followers? Both of these extremes are toxic and lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:52 AM
4

Lies! I’m otherwise a perfect man and the only reason i don’t get laid is because my feet are too small!
/r/TheRedPill17/01/23 02:06 AM
2

Did anyone recommend you negging since 2009?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:58 PM
6

Many trp users who focused on self-development instead of autistic hate are getting hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:38 PM
4

No. RPM want hot women. Hot women don’t need to study some dumb subreddit to be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:11 PM
2

Redpill men don’t wan’t redpill women either. Maybe tradcons do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:09 PM
1

Just approach by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:06 AM
7

Lol judging from your photo you posted a while ago you look like a church boy who loves his momma. There’s nothing intimidating about your face unless idk someone’s a racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:05 AM
3

In theory yes. In practice every women displays more jealousy and insecurity than she'd tolerate from a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:52 AM
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When i was 14 i was attracted to 18-22yo girls. When i was 20 i was attracted to 18-22yo girls. Now when I'm 34 I'm attracted to 18-22yo girls. Stop with your mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:56 AM
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Relax. It seems that you just need to calibrate and thats it. When I decided to stop being shy and quiet i had a phase very similar to what you describe. It happens that i went overboard. When I lowered my energy/agression lewels a little bit, it all went smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:43 PM
1

But you described being obnoxious in your post. onfidence, being loud, and not giving a fuck caused people to think I was an asshole sperg, and I had absolutely zero friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:34 PM
1

It’s true for most western nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:33 PM
0

I didn’t say anything about being loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:16 PM
3

Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:04 PM
7

I don't think you understand what low-inhibition means when it comes to getting chicks. It means making a move and escalating without giving a fuck. Not being obnoxious to your current friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:53 PM
-1

Who? Who forces you to die? „Obowiązkowa kwalifikacja wojskowa, Kat A.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:30 AM
2

Because they crave what they couln’t get during the highshool.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 09:36 AM
-1

And who votes for Czarnek and Kaczyński? Old demented church ladies. Since women in Poland live on average 8 years longer than men, they make the vast majority of seniors and PiS voters. And lets stop pretending that the law doesn’t favorize women in PL. told to get pregnant and go back to the kitchen Yet noone forces you to do anything yet men are forced to be a meat and die in trenches if the war happens. And an average woman get a hundred thousand + from men, because they can retire earlier a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:21 AM
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She killed herself like 20 years later. So i don't think this was related.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 02:44 AM
1

This only happens when they have nothing else to offer. I know lots and lots of hot girls who are also fun & smart. And I absolutely prefer them to lame-ass basic bitches even if my initial intention is only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:32 AM
1

beans, chickpeas and lentils They are healthy and shit, but despite being advertised as vegan's top protein source they still have 2x less protein than pasta per 100g. Obviously, pasta may be problematic when cutting, but whatever fits your macros. And I've seen some lentil noodles with 30g of protein per 100g.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 11:44 PM
1

How much longer will it take for a tall physique to get a muscular look? I’m 6’2” but only about 150 lb so I don’t get many looks due to how freaking skinny I am 😂 If you want to look good your whole life then it's gonna take your whole life of effort.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 11:42 PM
1

It's not an obsession, it's our healthy, natural drive. offer men a fraction of what they used to in the past. Lol, you have no idea what these gen-z thots have learned from porn.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 11:40 PM
1

Cardio at the gym sucks. But riding a real bike is pretty awesome.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 11:35 PM
1

Yup, when I was younger I'd just binge-watch tv shows while riding a stationary bike. Today I just prefer to commute on a real one.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 11:34 PM
1

Oh actually i though you're replying to my other comment xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:27 PM
1

Nope. I agree that you should be loyal as long as you want to stay together. But staying together for the sake of staying together? Even though you're miserable? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:12 PM
1

So what? Are you suggesting a brutal beta uprising against women and chads? Lol. Learn trp, pickup, lookmax and enjoy the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:32 PM
1

That's what I'm talking about. No. There's absolutely no virtue in staying with someone who's a bad match for you. If you want to be miserable with a lame-ass girl then be. Just don't claim you do it because of moral reasons. Unless you have kids, there's only one valid reason to stay in a relationship which is because you want to stay in that relationship. You don't marry a woman and reward her loyalty and love by smacking her in the face! So you should lead her on? Even though you're starting …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:59 PM
6

Maybe do some improv classes. They're fun, but teach you to think about your body language when in spotlight. In addition to many other beneficial social skills like active listening, removing negativity and being fearless when approaching people. Still I wouldn't overthink fidgeting. People with ADHD fidget all the time and on average they have more sex.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 04:32 PM
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Yup I agree. While i generally hold ‚Models’ by Mark Manson in high regard, I always found his sections about ‚being vurneable’ to get a chick as a fat BS. And no I never over-shared or tried to use chicks as my emotional tampons. Giving them little or even conflicting information always did much better. Especially when she starts shit testing ‚hey you said x before but now you say y. Did you lie to me?’ ‚Maybe? What if my name is not Peter but Paul? You can’t be sure anything about me hahah’. T…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 03:18 PM
0

Yes, you can gather a mob and outvote me that from now on black is white. But that's just semantics and not the essence of the problem. TRP and tradcon shit aren't compatible. Like not at all. TRP is about personal happiness. Tradcon is about a group's survival. Individualism is like the polar opposite of collectivism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:38 PM
2

Yup the whole TRP subreddit has been infested by tradcons. There was a post by a guy who had a lameass, boring gf with no friends or hobbies who would get jealous at him for having a life of his own. He asked whether he should ditch her and enjoy other women. And I kid you not: most answers were shitting on him for wanting to leave a 'wonderful wife material for sluts'.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:30 PM
7

most couples are looks-matched Only when the guys are much better in other areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:26 PM
2

Ok but op talks about healthy reasonable corse of action. If you’re an idealist, it’s on you. And don’t pretend it’s a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:22 PM
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It's quite the opposite. Poland is the most pussy-whipped country out there. The primary voting base are old religious women who like to pretend they were prude when they were young. They were not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:57 AM
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All of your examples are based on the assumption that she is a person who likes to socialise though. Where would you randomly meet new friends or a boyfriend, if you aren’t looking for one? Ok. Let's don't compare a girl who doesn't like to socialize to a guy who's asocial butterfly but to one who doesn't like to socialize either. In this case she would still be treated much much better than a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:53 AM
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Even though she on average lives much longer, she retires at the same age men do. Thus getting much more pension money. She isn't forced to sacrifice her life in a case of war. She get's much shorter sentence for the same crime. And won't be sentenced most of the time. Nowadays, there are so many job and education opportunities like grants etc just for women. In a case of a divorce she gets the kids most of the time. She's less likely to fall victim to crime. Especially the violent one. Gets muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:51 AM
4

She's a stripper. If she was a charming psychopath she'd do better.
/r/AllPillDebate11/01/23 09:13 PM
2

I wouldn't call the treatment those guys got an alternative to 'being lonely and unsuccessful'. A self-respecting guy with a plethora of dating options wouldn't date a stripper.
/r/AllPillDebate11/01/23 09:12 PM
0

Yes, that sounds amazing. As long as she isn’t a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:12 PM
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r/menkampf
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/23 10:47 AM
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Cold approach is there to kinda keep you in your alpha flow or whatever. When you’re 30+ it’s hard to have a fresh stream of hot college aged chicks. If you have high quality friends they tend to get poached from the dating market fast. And most parties become couples/family get-togethers. At 35 i have lots of friends who are 10 ys younger but it’s very hit and miss when it comes to hot girls. Thats why cold approach is more important than you think imo.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/23 10:22 PM
4

Bs. Most men can gain at least 2-3 points out of 10 with look maxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:10 PM
1

Yeah, it's your video Nick. All your posts on dating, since you started your yt channel link to it or to your website.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:41 PM
1

I don’t think you talk with many girls.
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 07:03 PM
1

No. I don’t know any janitors. And the only indian I met recently was almost 2m tall freak of nature.
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 06:47 PM
1

Whats the point of measuring xd? They are the same size as most girls half my weight. I dated some with bigger than mine.
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 06:32 PM
1

redditors always tell me to listen to women about what women want, not men. I haven’t read anything this stupid in a while xd.
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 06:28 PM
1

Wtf. Find a better insecurity mate. I have tiny hands, but slept with many 8 and 9/10 girls, including a Top Model’s winner. They don’t give a fuck about your fucking hands.
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 06:09 PM
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Dude those were likely some chicks from a ghetto. You wouln’t waste more than a second on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:51 AM
1

Yup! The vast majority of women are either ugly or average. They can do wonders with makeup, hair & filters but the person underneath doesn’t look any better than a corresponding man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:50 AM
1

Likely his friends are just breaking his balls. Normal shittests like friends do all the time. They don’t care if you look different, just want to see your reaction to their teases. Just treat this as your normal shit test and agree and escalate E.g. ‚Hey dude why are you using a facecream, are you a girl?’ ‚I just want to look pretty enough so you’ll finally introduce me to your mum as your bf, after i fuck your ass’ And grab his hips from behind and start to hump etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:54 AM
2

What good days? If you paid any attention to the history classes you'd know that 99% of people were miserable af in the historical times. War, hunger, disease. No hobbies, dating or entertaintment. You'd be born as a pisspoor peasant married to his ugly fat neighbour and die of tuberculosis, never seeing anything further than the next town. Your only past times would be getting drunk and beating up on your family. Our times as fucked up as they are, are still 100x better than anything else. Seco…
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 11:16 AM
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I have no bloody idea what's an Arbys restaurant. The point is that sex with inexperienced girls just suck. Just as a relationship with them. World isn't black and white. Its not either a virgin or a whore. Your best bet are girls who already had a bf or two.
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 10:50 AM
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Lol I found a virgin here. Its both more sexually gratifying to have sex with a woman who's not inherently sexua Lol.
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 09:36 AM
1

IDK, she's well kempt but isn't a beauty either. Guy just needs some muscle mass and would look totally ok otherwise.
/r/AllPillDebate08/01/23 09:17 PM
2

Just like being racist/sexist you are judging someone solely based on their outwards appearance. No, it’s not comparable at all. I’m not saying you should be fat phobic or that it’s justifiable but in one case you’re judging something prople have 0 control over, and in the other you’re judging a lifestyle that’s almost 100% controllable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:55 AM
1

It's obviously bad behavior No. There’s absolutely no moral value attached to it as long as you’re not promising exclusivity to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:55 PM
1

Nope. It sounds super typical and almost every woman acts like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:48 PM
1

And ugly men don't want ugly women. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 04:40 AM
1

Like half of the looks is effort-based.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:41 PM
1

No. It’s not aroma. It’s the lack of skills and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:01 AM
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I just laughed along and didnt dare actually ask my GF about it, but I've got to say I'm concerned about this now Haha actually I asked her and you shouldn't be concerned mate. But for your own sake please don't ask her about A2M-n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:40 PM
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As a decent-looking, tall guy who knows how to be visible in a club, I can confirm this. The only time when I got approached by a 9/10 girl, she was so drunk and went straight for a sneaky kiss, trying to tongue rape my mouth. I on the other hand was pretty sober and kinda disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:29 PM
21

Not as an adult but still Can confirm. You were the cutest kindergarten boy I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:25 PM
0

Good. But it was her decision to make those babies. Don’t ask me to thank her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:38 AM
0

Good. But don’t ask me to thank them. It was their decision to make a baby. And it isn’t a secret that’s demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:50 AM
2

Could you imagine the progress mankind would’ve made had men not spent so much time worrying about pleasing/wooing women? Imagine if every man was like Isaac Newton focused on his purpose, but not to the extent that he forgoes reproducing. It would be the exact opposite. They'd just chill and drink beer all day long.
/r/AllPillDebate04/01/23 02:38 AM
3

Except that it's not their rational though that wants women, but one of the strongest drives shared among all living beings.
/r/AllPillDebate04/01/23 02:38 AM
1

Have you ever talked with one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:04 PM
2

I'd hate to be your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:56 PM
2

Men like women who look hot and fertile. You migh be projecting if you think its about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:16 PM
1

Hey i found a misandrist here! I love how you assume that men become gross, bad people just because of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:14 PM
2

No. They go after then because theyre hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:10 PM
2

Ok but there are many guys who are open to having children, but never actively seek making them unless their partner starts to pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:11 PM
3

Agreed. Perhaps women shouldn't mindlessly pressure their partners to have the baby that much. Because despite feminists' crying that it's the 'patriarchy that wants to turn every female incubator' most of the time, it's the female idea to have the baby and the guy agrees out of love to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:10 PM
1

If 40% of people were leaving marriages due to domestic violence, Ok but now we're talking about crime, not failed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:02 PM
1

Wasting another hour or 2 just to get a 10c off something only makes sense if you or your spouse make crap money. In that case you're much better living on 2 separate incomes. Looking after children IS active work. How do you passively feed or change the nappy of a child? You do also realise that children wake up all through the night (especially babies) meaning you're up every 45 minutes feeding them or soothing them back to sleep. Then don't make babies. Luckily there are not many man who push…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:33 PM
1

Ok, it might be interesting from a sociological point of view. But there's no point blaming anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:12 PM
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We live shorter lives when married Still much longer than men. We have less leisure time when married usually it's women who push for babies. Stop doing that. We spend more time doing domestic labour Just hire a cleaning lady. Or hold your husband accountable. Women get little/no benefits from marriage. So why it's women who keep pushing for it? Maybe it's because of the one little part that you forgot about? That women almost exclusively mary men who are richer and more powerful than them? And …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:10 PM
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Meal planning takes like 5 mins daily? And you have to do it even if you're single and have no kids. spending hours on the phone organising the household, WTF? It isn't easy though, to get a private nanny to do the same job would cost a fortune. An unqualified teenager can do it. Wow I didn't know children only need to be looked after for 2-3 hours a day! Guess the woman should just ignore them the rest of the time. I'm talking about the active work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:57 AM
2

Most likely they are just teenage themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:35 AM
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. If a woman has a child, she needs to take nine months off from work, which impacts on her ability to earn money. Motherhood tends to make women financially dependent on men. Why the fuck any sane man would want that aspect of having a baby? Thats a pure downside. Men get into relationships and create offspring because they want intimacy and family, not because of some weird control-fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:32 AM
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A housewife provides round the clock care for children and a household with no set breaks and no paid leave. Being a housewife IS a paid leave lol. You do the same easy shit working people do. Just don't have to work. It requires no skill. And takes 2-3 hours a day of active work at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:02 AM
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But don't put yourself in a position where you become reliant on a man or any other human for that matter. They're inherently unreliable Yup. The only people who will unconditionally love you are your parents (if you're lucky). Everyone else can disappear from your life as soon as you become inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:13 AM
2

But if you find a reliable statistic for what "caused the relationship to fall apart" Idk it seems pretty redundant to try to look for anyone's fault here. Either both people want to stay together or they should move on and that's it. What's the point of being the 'moral victor' if your partner simply doesn't want to stay with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:06 AM
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Practically it doesn't make sense to risk everything and be a housewife Women on this subreddit keep making this claim. But do men even actually want a housewife? I've only have one friend who wanted one, and she found a girl who absolutely wanted to be a housewife. But i suspect that there're much more women who want to be a SAHM that men who want them. Because lets face it - it's fucking easier that having to work. And as a man the mere idea of a housewife seems fucking lame. If your partner e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:01 AM
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I believe that women are more likely than men to take decisions after emotions and tastes rather than taking desicions based on logical reasoning and analysis. Mabey. But men are even easier to manipulate, when there are boobies and pussy involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:27 AM
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Idk, it seems fair when every place in the manosphere advises men to agree and amplify whenever they”re shit tested. Fuck nosy people. If you want sincere answers about my intimate stuff then stick around and prove your worth. It took my friends years to earn this, why does a random bimbo wants to know my private stuff on a first date? And the same logic should be valid for women.
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 01:46 AM
2

Show me these stats where apparently older parrtners are abusing more. Because i keep hearing about them but i”ve never seen them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:15 PM
3

I love how you assume that all men become gross with age. Misandric af. And that if a girl likes someone older then there must be something wrong with her. You’re a sad misantrope who hates people only because they’re different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:09 PM
2

Show me the data. I keep seeing such claims all the time but never the data behind it. Anegdotally all abusive relationships that I knew were same-age. I don’t see how a man who’s a good person magically will become a manipulative asshole with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:07 PM
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Yeah. I love how according to bpillers and feminists all men apparently become manipulative assholes as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:05 PM
2

Dumb statement from a dumb guy. In practice women get much more benefits from marriage than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:02 PM
13

I assume that's because there are much less obese Asians. It could be very much possible that if we took only normal-weight women the white ones would be the most popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:49 PM
18

Well, the statistics about crime & race are also banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:44 PM
1

Men don’t have sex with objects but with other living, breathing humans. Wanting to have sex with someone is not objectification. And its perfectly allright not to want to do anything else with that person, especialky when s/he is lame/boring/bad. Lots of women are. Want to see objectification? Go to Ukraine where about 2 million men (total on both sides) have been forcibly drafted to a war and are being used as a cannon fodder. 200k+ KIA probably 5xmuch more wounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:17 PM
6

Everyone understood what she meant tho.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/22 11:12 AM
-2

He’s an anomaly, because he belongs to like 0.01%. There are 100x gold diggers than guys this rich. You won’t be able to recreate his success. Focus on stuff that can be replicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:48 AM
-1

Exactly! Dudes obsess whats work for celebrities like Andrew Tate or Russel Brand. Yet they won’t ever be able to recreate it. They should instead study their hs buddy who sleeps with a new girl every other week. He has much better game than any celebrity who relies on fame and power. It’s like wannabe entrepreneurs who ‚study’ Steve Jobs instead of their neighbour Bob who managed to start a 7-figure ecom business.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:41 AM
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real and straight-forward he was when it comes to life, success, business Dude is an obvious scammer, engineered to appeal to lost lonely men and tyou think he’s ‚real’?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:36 AM
4

Bumble is overflowing with traditional, conservative, and religious women But that’s because they’re looking for someone to take care of them and their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:27 AM
-1

Finally a voice of reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:01 PM
3

I bet if they'd train for a few years they would look so much more muscular than me. Actually, it's much harder to gain a noticeable amount of muscle when you're this tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:00 PM
1

Move. You're wasting your life living in a such miserable place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:59 PM
1

If society crashes, the dating market is gonna get even worse. Society functions because of highly functional beta guys who hope to start a family. If it crashes it's gonna become chads windfall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:57 PM
6

Traveling as a single person or childfree couple is not as expensive as one might imagine, as long as you budget. Exactly. When I travelled to neighboring European countries I'd usually spent just 1,5x more money daily that I'd at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:23 PM
3

Perhaps you should get off your phone and interact with people within your physical world to see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:18 PM
3

Some people don't initiate divorce until they know they can afford for themselves and their kids not to be homeless in the process. So why men won't initiate more divorces than women, in relationships when it's them who earn more?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:15 PM
3

This doesn’t match the data that shows thatmen who are criminals actually get much more women that upstandIng citizens. Stop with the notion that attraction can be somehow influenced by reasonable thoughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:46 AM
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Men notice and they're more than happy to weaponize your defects, they just won't if they think there's a snowballs chance in hell you'll fuck them. Looking at your post history, you love weaponizing shit against men, so i don’t really feel for you. It seems like it’s the only thing you can post about. Go enjoy real life and forget about your little battles for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:39 AM
0

Yeah. But in my experience usually it's the girl that wants to move in together. I believe that unless you want to have babies or are broke, it's always better to live separately. It helps with romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:54 AM
1

Pesnê Xwedê! ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:25 AM
1

Lol. I'm a grown-up dude who can clean myself, and I'd never demand anyone clean up after me. It's women who initiate 99% of chore play lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:18 AM
1

it also creates a very inefficient dating and sexual market that is making many people deeply unhappy Stop with the idealization of the past. No matter how flawed the present is, it's still infinitely better than whatever was before. No education, no money, no antibiotics, no entertainment, no romance, wars every fucking generation. You'd die kicked by a horse in the same shithole village you've been born in, and be married to some ugly, fat girl next door. You'd sweat your ass working in the fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:06 AM
1

Do you do that crap just to piss off dudes right? Exactly. It's not about the chore. It's about power dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:52 AM
1

Namely the way labor is divided in the household, how we’ve bought into myths about men and women’s capacities and abilities to handle household tasks and childcare, how women’s time is not valued compared to men’s The problem is that no one forces women to do anything. And if they have a much higher standard of house cleanliness than men it's on them to do everything above the 'shared baseline stuff they both agree on'. If you insist on unnecessary stuff like cleaning the windows weekly or iron…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:46 AM
3

Idk i though that the definition of manosphere is like ‚a safe space where men can discuss their problems and seek self-help’. Tate doesn’t help anyone, he’s just after your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:47 PM
2

Yes, thats why a man same size should have about 10% higher caloric intake. Which means that women need to eat less to satisfy their hunger. But as long as both of them stay within their reccomended calories it’s gonna be equally easy/hard for them. Also if you want to lose wieght then diet is like 95% of work. Excercise doesn’t burn that much. Also your article uses the average men and women as examples -when an average man is at least 25%+ heavier than the average women. If they used a man and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:25 PM
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Yes, women are smaller and therefore they need a smaller amount of calories to feel full. I'm a 6.3 moderately active man. I need about 3k kcal a day to feel full & keep a constant weight. If a 5.2 woman will need about half of that to feel equally full. If she eats as much as I do, then she's a gluttonous pig. Idk where did you get your idea that people all shapes and sizes should consume an equal amount of calories each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:51 PM
1

Psychopaths who kill/rape/harm only because they like to inflict pain make only a very small % of all such crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:33 PM
3

There is zero reason to believe that strangers would be less likely to assault you if you gave them the same amount of opportunity. Actually there's a good reason. A man who's not afraid to approach women will have 100x as much abundance. And if his advances are not reciprocated he'll just move on. Whereas a dude who for the last 3 years has been in love with a girl who sees him just as a friend will likely obsess about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:31 PM
1

Just make a fucking move instead of this overthinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:27 PM
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Only when they eat over their daily caloric limit. Staying within it should be equally easy/hard for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:17 PM
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Women are smaller with lower muscle mass on average and need fewer calories even with all other things being equal; so in the calorie-rich environment that we’re in today it’s easier for women to become obese. Doesn’t matter. It all accounts to eating more than you need. So it’s equally easy/hard to become obese for everyone. Also we’re talking about being obese, not overweight so you’d require to stuff yourself with food like a fucking pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:34 AM
1

Stupid analogy. A condom fits 99% of couples and needs to be applied just before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:24 AM
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Cooking and cleaning for YOU is serving you. How many such men under 50 who want that do you know? I know only one and he was very open about that and found a girl who always wanted to do exactly that. There are much much more women who want to be SAHMs than men who want them. Personally, I always thought that being in a relationship with SAHM is offputting. If we are prosperous enough that one of us doesn't have to work, then do something with your life that doesn't revolve around house chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:49 PM
0

as a woman, I think it's utter BS all responsibility falls on us. WTF are you talking about? I've never seen a woman to bring condoms to a date. If men had an easy-to-take hormonal anticonception they'd use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:48 PM
2

Who says that married men can't be lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:56 PM
1

Would you play a game at a casino with a 3% chance of success? - NO So why do you do it with women? Because unlike a casino game, a failed cold approach costs you nothing but 1-3 minutes of your time.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 09:35 AM
1

Great!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:36 PM
-1

Wtf? Most relationships still happen through the conventional channels -social circles & bars. Especially the ones with attractive girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:25 AM
1

Dem traps. Bitches love solid traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:21 AM
1

This doesn’t contradict trp. In fact the most guys who are naturally succesful are already redpilled to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:21 AM
2

Only if you’re only using OLD. Social skills are huge in social circle/cold approahc games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:18 AM
1

It’s not that i disagree with redpill. I just see it as a tool, and disagree that you should apply this tool religiously like many people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:15 AM
1

The prize does whatever the prize wants stop with silly analogies.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 08:03 AM
1

I see myself as the prize and thus only give my efforts and time away to women who let me know through IOI. You’re contradicting yourself. If you were the prize then you’d be going after the girl you like the most ;). I value my time to much to try and convince a female to like me. Cold approach isn’t about convincing anyone. It’s about introducting yourself, and seeing if she likes you and your energy.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 07:05 AM
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LIMITING BELIEFS: THE POST. Sorry, as a dude who dated & fucked lots of attractive girls through cold approach in my 30’s, your post is just ignorant. Using this method of ONLY approaching women who send you these choosing signals you will have a much higher success rate and a much greater experience with women as they are the ones who like you. Many hot girls, don’t scan the room the way we guys do. Just approach the girl you like the most, instead of looking for a bargain. This raises her Anti…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 06:52 AM
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There’s absolutely nothing moral in ‚wating till you meet her family’ before sex and nothing immoral in having the sax ASAP. You’re disconnected from the reality lol. And judging from your post history it’s not your first post like that. Are you even active on the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:19 AM
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That’s super ignorant, actually the sex drive is one of the most powerful forces governing the living beings. Most mammal males literally fight to death just to be able to procreate. On the other hand I could say that nobody is forcing women to have sex with men. If you don’t want to make any effort, maybe don’t have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:11 AM
3

Please no fake moans. Or that manga cross-eye shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:05 AM
1

You don’t sound like a human person who has sex with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:02 AM
-1

So anything but the missionary under a blanket with no lights?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:14 PM
-1

Because half of the time they should be doing the stuff she likes and the other half stuff that he likes. Stop treating sex like it’s sole purpose is tomplease the woman. And if she likes it slower then she can initiate it herself instead of demanding that guy leads all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:13 PM
4

No these studies are about neolithic culture. Not about the situation 'until now'.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:58 PM
1

You pulled the 'until now' phrase out of your ass. Even if it ever happened it was millennia ago pre-monogamhy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:57 PM
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That's not consent. That means that makeup invalidates consent as well. You lied how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:25 PM
1

Yes. Least attractive race visually. And according to what i see online also the worst, loudest, most obnoxious personalities.
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 12:43 PM
4

It’s very interesting you didn’t notice she literally replied to the title of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:57 AM
3

Nope. Stop wih this misandry. Men don’t magically become evil manipulators with age. If you think that men enter a relatonship to ‚exploit’ someone, then perhaps you’re projecting something. Frankly it’s in the same-age relationships where women are pressured to make all sorts of bad decisions. Unprotected sex, unplanned pregnancies, mortages, stds etc. An older partner usually wants to have some chill time and keep his peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:23 AM
2

Nope? Why? We aren’t taking a mortage together but having even, consexal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:20 AM
1

Sure. I was talking about the context of relationships. If you want just casual sex then go for it, why not.
/r/AllPillDebate21/12/22 10:11 PM
1

Sure. When you're starving, even the shittiest, dirtiest fast food will seem like a feast. But, i guarantee you'd not be able to eat that crap for extended periods of time. Also, I just meant that those women will treat you like a beta in no time. Which means much more misery than when you're lonely.
/r/AllPillDebate21/12/22 09:59 PM
1

No you won’t be a chad. You’d be an uber-beta. And those women who obviously chose you for your race and wealth, are literally the worst material for a relationship. You want to be with someone who has other qualtiy options and chooses you because she likes you because she likes you for who you are.
/r/AllPillDebate21/12/22 08:36 PM
0

Except that being happy is a subjective, unmeasurable thing, and actually making effort and interacting with people absolutely can be measured. I suffer from a shitton of SA. You know what I do? I force myself to interact with a ton of people. And while telling a depressed person to 'just be happy' may not be the smartest move I see nothing wrong with giving actually actionable advice like 'start working out', 'improve your diet', 'stop smoking weed'. And telling you to 'kick yourself in the but…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:16 PM
1

You obviously can. Social anxiety isn't a personality trait, it's just a lack of skills. Kick yourself in your lazy butt and start approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:58 PM
5

Getting married is like the polar opposite of ‚slaying’.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 08:15 PM
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extremely successful with attractive women The problem is that according to reddit simps like 95% women are attractive. If you’re a bottom 30% man, you still can be succesful with bottom 10% girls.
/r/AllPillDebate20/12/22 08:08 PM
2

Money grants you entrance to the room with hotter women. Also if you have that ‚true wealth’, those women would already known who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:28 AM
15

... Are not usually the same women. They often are. There are just 10 or so years in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:51 AM
1

Reread my post. Being attacked by warriors of another tribe is a huge threat, women can’t deal with alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:58 PM
2

Prtected from what? Predator animals won’t attack ahuman settlement head-on. And women wouln’t do shit against a male raid from other tribe. Also there are almost no historical records of female warrior depictions. No female weapons &armor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:48 PM
1

Most if not all rape commited by women is also commited by women that you know. I’ve been graped by stranger women without my consent many many times tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:42 PM
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Actually, the majority of rape and other similar shit is done by men who are your acquaintances. Stop with fear mongering thats not grounded in data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 07:08 PM
2

1&2 are actually beneficial for men. Because if you can approach you set yourself apart from 90% of the competition. Then you can choose a date that is actually fun for you. 3 doesn't really count. Because they cannot force you to do anything. 4 Nope, you just have to be better than your competition. And most of your competition sucks. And there are infinite girls that can be aplroached. Approach 3 girls daily. By the end of the month you'll have 100 interactions done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 01:09 PM
1

That explains some things. Pay more attention in your biology classes. Perhaps try being in a sexless marriage for a couple of years before you start telling that sex is not a human need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:40 AM
1

Maybe you’re asexual if you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:41 AM
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Bacteria has conscious brains? The reproductive drive preceeds multicelullear life by millions of years. Most animals only have sex to reproduce No they don’t. Most of life forms but humans and maybe some primates don’t know that. They do it because they feel the physiological need, and are rewarded by pleasure. Sorry but you lack basic biological knowledge. it's about this woman's husband wanting to have sex only for his pleasure. Again, sex is a need not a want. Understanding her condition doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:05 AM
5

No. Social awkwardness is just the lack of skill. And unless you’re heavy on the spectrum, you can 100% learn that skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:05 AM
1

Lol nope thats ignorant. Every living being has a need of sex. And it’s not controlled by a consciouss brain. As most of those living being have ńo conscious brain. And all academics agree -just google Maslov’s hierarchy of needs. Sex is counted as a baseline physiological need.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:01 AM
1

Is her mouth healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:12 PM
1

Because wanting sex is normal and healthy? It’s a baseline need of every living creature. sex drive is the last thing on my mind Sex drive can’t be controlled by a reasonable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:09 PM
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believe women are biologically program to cheat and that they hate relationships at and only marry because of patriarchal conditioning. Even assuming that's true. (I don't think so). You basically admitted you hate them it's because they don't want to give you something that you want. Do you hate Bill Gates because he won't wire you half of his fortune? Do you hate David Letterman for not inviting you to be a guest on his show? Do you hate Joe Biden for not making you his secretary of state? You…
/r/AllPillDebate14/12/22 12:41 PM
1

So you provide baseline stuff like ‚sex’ lol, while wanting a premium package.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:04 PM
10

Lol nope. You just have a shitty taste an no boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:42 AM
0

Men who push hard for immediate sex are like old time salesmen trying to sell you a vacuum cleaner, or aluminum siding or a freezer with monthly meat delivery. They know that if you take time to think about it, you will do the math or check references and realize it’s a bad deal so they push to close the deal on the first encounter. If you don’t bite, they move on because they know you’ll never be a buyer for what they’re selling once you have the facts. They do it because they know it's a succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:58 PM
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Beside the guys who are fucking those hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:56 PM
2

What do you provide in exchange for all that free shit you'd like to get from a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:55 PM
9

You're speaking in buzzwords. If you're treating someone you've just met, equally well as you'd treat your longtime friends, then it's disrespectful for your friends. Don't be easy. It's unattractive. When someone is nosy on a first date, you can just refuse to answer in a respectful way or turn it into a joke. 'sorry i don't feel comfortable discussing this with someone i barely know'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:48 PM
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Lol, no. You just met someone and want to share your secrets with that person? Trust needs to get earned. Life isn't binary, there's a fucking huge spectrum between 'lying and manipulating' and 'being 100% transparent'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:46 PM
0

Empirical evidence literally means anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:17 PM
3

I don't fuck things. I don't fuck meat. I only fuck people. Fucking those women is 'getting to know them as people'. And I'm always absolutely delighted when a girl has more to offer than sex. Too sad that often they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:23 AM
1

Ok but do you get any high quality girls this way? Im a picky dude. During the night out i'm gonna approach only 1-2 best looking girls. I'm tall, assertive and pretty handsome. But i doubt i'd had any chance with girls of this caliber online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:43 AM
1

Ok but you already have a girl. I was talking about being single.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 04:40 AM
1

Actually people starving in Africa are much closer to the 99,99% of human existence than the life in the priviledged west is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:10 PM
2

If you’re a 40 yo virgin then it was your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:09 PM
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At least you have porn, computer games, tons of entertaintment, hobbies, travel. You can choose a career and do million fun things with your life. For the majority of the human existence you’d be a potato farmer who has never traveled to another village and died becaus of war or plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:08 PM
2

I hate to say it but most women will still expect you to pay Who cares? I've dated many beautiful girls and never bought them anything other than a breakfast (unless they were already my gf etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:40 PM
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Lol no. You're delusional. It's quite the opposite. Frankly 'dating' didn't really exist until the 19 century lol. You lived in some piss-poor village with a microscopic-low pool of potential partners. And had to marry to be even able to to have sex. And once you started having sex you'd knock her up within months as the modern contraception didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:38 PM
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I agree with the premise. Also it's almost impossible to turn on a girl when you're not horny yourself. A few years ago my testosterone levels had some kind of malfunction. And even though I was really active with the girls. Relentlessly approaching, getting dates left and right it still felt like I'm hitting a wall constantly during the escalation. This was weird af. All those moves worked for me many many times before, but suddenly I wasn't able to turn the girl on. And I looked better than ev…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/22 11:16 AM
2

Most European girls are not attractive. Some are cute, a few are hot. But most are plain, an there are a lot of uggies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:49 AM
2

It’s not their fault really. The lockdowns took their pressious years when people usually develop social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:58 AM
6

So even if the OLD hit rate is 1/10th (your 9-to1 ratio), OLD is better. You can meet more women but the success rate will be many times worse. So your math doesn’t really add up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:54 AM
6

Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:16 PM
1

It’s the lizard brain that chooses the dominant partner not the rational one. If you asked them if they’d like an arrogant parner all of them would deny. But in reality most of them would get aroused by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:53 AM
3

I wasn’t even talking about American women. I live in Europe and most girls are normal sized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:05 AM
3

No. They don’t mean a meaningful protection just a visceral feeling of being with a man who has physical characteristic of a big strong warrior.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:54 AM
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Lol. Men don't want to have sex with object or 'a piece of meat'. But with a living breathing person. Do you actually know any men or are you still living in your moms basement? Edit: ok you basically admitted this in your previous post lol. I am almost 30 years old and I am still living with my parents. How do I recover from this? I make very little money. I am basically a NEET / hermit. " Stop making statements about stuff you have no idea about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:58 PM
1

That's just an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:39 PM
2

Ok, you mention neurodivergency but what your words decribe is just the lack of skills. Unless you are a super difficult case, you’re able to learn social skills even if you suffer from depression/introvertism/neurodivergency. It’s just gonna be harder. Source : considered myself to be a super introvert. Never holded a girl’s hand until like 22. Was unable to make any new friends for 4 years after high school. Then something snapped. Discovered self help subreddits like r/seduction and r/socials…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:31 PM
3

I’m prettyw handsome and tall and heard multiple times that i give ‚assholish vibes’ (i’m a total sweetheart tho!) yet i do much better when i act aloof. Whenever I invest slighlty more than the girl does I get ghosted :p. But I usually go after smart/confident girls with good education/career.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:43 PM
0

Yes commitment without actually trying if you enjoy having fun with the other person is an inferior option. And it sounds like you who are not interested in commiting to THAT ONE WOMAN. Because you don’t even know her. That’s why you need a lot of time to get to know each other. I’ve been in a couple of ltrs and compability issues have never become apparent during the first 2 years. Literally I had 0 major arguments in my 2 last relationships during the first two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:37 PM
0

Why would I do that if i don’t know if I enjoy spending the time with the other person? Sounds like a recipe for the disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:35 PM
0

Sure, but why choose the inferior option?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:20 PM
6

On paper. In practice someone who’s serious about a relationship should want to take things slower, and stay casual first. Because he/she actually cares about a good match. The aim of a relationship is to find someone great for you, not to get into a relationship ASAP just for the sake of being in one. If you’re rushing this it means that you’re needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:21 PM
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Do women inherently perceive this as somebody who doesn’t have the ability to explore options, In my experience thats correct. And I always frown when I hear someone speculates about some womanizer who supposedly sleeps with women thanks to lying how much he loves them. But maybe I just don’t go after girls this needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:19 PM
1

Maybe, but only statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:23 PM
2

Thats a false dichotomy tho. The amount of work/education/skill that made you upper-middle-class in Hungary would be sufficient to make you even more succesful in the USA. Not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:23 PM
2

Yeah, i always laugh at priviledged americans complying how terrible is to live in US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:21 PM
1

Why would it even be a status symbol? „My wife is with me because I give her money!” Does this sound like a bragging of a high status guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:19 PM
3

No rationale. Its a softban. Noone can post because of ‚spam filters’ xd. Ialked with their mod an he cant do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:47 PM
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Lol it's especially funny considering that trp sub is basically dead/banned right now. Other manosphere subs are also getting hit. R/askseddit hardbanned, r/seduction softbanned etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:50 PM
1

Literally it’s the sexual dysmorphism thats popular among both of the sexes. Men like youth, feminity and being petite. Women like large, strong and manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:33 PM
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Also keep in mind that such studies lso include the previous generation still active on the job market -where men generally earn much more. So if we compared only 20-30 olds, women would likely outearn men by a lot.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/22 10:15 AM
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Yup. Also for women the appearance of youthfulness is one of the biggest attributes contributing to their beauty. For men it's not. Yeah they suffer from age-related issues like hair loss, or skin aging that make them look worse with age, but no adult man wants to look like a teenager again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:27 AM
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women are naturally more attractive than men Disagree. It’s just men who are naturally more thirsty. The average woman isn’t really attractive. They can do a lot with makeup/haircare etc but the person underneath on average isn’t better looking than a corresponding man. And I’m talking about women during their prime. Because later they start to unfavourably age compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:55 AM
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Sure! Just some of them think this is a physique of someone who never works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 05:15 PM
3

Finally a voice of reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:13 PM
3

The first one is a guy who clearly has been lifting for years. Top 5% physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:11 PM
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Both look average, he's unkempt shes well kempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:07 AM
3

Not everyone is a power-thirsty manipulator. Maybe you’re projecting something. Also being the dominant person in a relationship doesn’t equal to being a bad person. Also there are plenty of same-age relationships, when one person is completely dominated. Should they break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:38 PM
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Men don’t become evil manipulators just because they age. Stop with your misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:03 PM
1

Men from other countries. I’d say that among my female friends 1/4th to 1/3th dated one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:02 PM
0

But men don’t complain about age-gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:52 PM
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I could fuck an 18yo legally. Morally is a different matter Well maybe. But on the other hand -whats the biggest harm a 40yo (i mean normal 40yo, not a psycho) could do to a youngster? A broken heart? That would likely happen anyway, many times, just with younger partners. Thats nothing compared to the traps of relationships with other young & unexperienced people -unwanted babies, stds, marrying too young, mortages and all sorts of stupid decisions. I’m not saying that you should date barely le…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:14 PM
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I abosolutely love their argument: ‚You need someone with a matching life experience!’ And yet they had absolutely no problem dating foreign men, whose lifes are even more different, their entire lifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:04 PM
2

You sound like some marketer who has zero understanding on this subject but just want cash from thirsty guys.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 08:17 PM
1

Yup, everyone agrees mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:59 PM
1

Nope ‚passive quiet person’ sounds like fucking low value girl.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 12:54 PM
1

But TRP isn’t about ‚accurately representing everyone’. TRP is TRP, not feminism/bluepill/tradcon shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 12:53 PM
1

Exactly. Seems like the sub has been raided by feminists and tradcons.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 12:52 PM
4

Maybe he doesn’t want a wife? Stop treating being married like some virtue. It’s not. She sounds lame af.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 12:46 PM
2

Or you’re just overrating yourself. Even the ugliest women get a ton of compliments from simps and their fake friends. Most likely you’re looksmatched with your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:40 PM
2

Or you’re just overrating yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:40 PM
2

The problem is that women actively do the same shit creeps do. And they’re not shamed for it. People say it’s cute or that they’re confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:34 PM
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When in reality, it is women who control sexual access and signal that the man should approach. Well attractiveness is the only trait that's apparent from a distance. To get to know someone's personality you'd need to approach first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:52 AM
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When in reality, it is women who control sexual access and signal that the man should approach. Idk, I've always approached the hottest girl present, no matter if she noticed me or not. And super hot girls don't send too many signals, often they wouldn't scan the room at all since they're afraid of creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:50 AM
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Approaching someone in person takes a lot of guts/confidence, and it's my theory that the majority of men (who will still approach) will only do it if they think the woman is "worth the risk" - aka stunning. No, the stunning women don't get approached that much. And when they do, the guy is too drunk to be succesful already. Most guys go after the cute-but-not-beautiful girls. Which ironically are much rude and pickier than hotties.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:48 AM
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If redpill communities really felt that men should find purpose outside women, they would recommend leaving redpill and never returning, instead telling men to immerse themselves in business, fitness, and sports communities. Do you realise that's not binary? You can participate both in trp and business/fitness/sports communities at once. In fact if someone is serious about improvement and didn't come to trp just to shit on women, it's likely he does it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:45 AM
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whereas women will just ignore someone who is unattractive. What? Women height-shame, creep-shame and sex-shame men all the fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:41 AM
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Except that there's like a 3-league variation between what women can get for casual sex and for marriage. An ugly fatty can easily get pumped and dumped by a ripped 6.3 dude. It doesn't mean that she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:35 PM
1

But i don’t have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:44 PM
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No. The main reason is that she either prioritizes the kid over you or you over the kid and both of these options suck equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:30 AM
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Did i fucking ever use AWALT acronym? Also afaik it doesn't mean that literally 'all women are like that' but that as a man you have no capacity to judge which women are good and which are bad so you should not pedestalize anyone. Your precious, pure princess who loves you so much can happen to be a backstabbing whore. And frankly this holds true if we swap the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:25 PM
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Idk anything about that. I'm anti-marriage but obviously, some girls are much better candidates for ltr than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:13 PM
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The big difference is that men actually treat gf material women better, not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:30 PM
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„If you complain about Stalin it’s stupid to also complain about Hitler” World isn’t black and white kiddo. Usually the best, healthies option is the one in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:28 PM
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The man has to go throughout his day flirting with his woman, giving her flowers and catering to her before she is in the mood enough to want to have sex. Have you actually ever interacted with a real life woman? Because your post is fucking weird mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:15 PM
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Bs ive seen many average guys succeed this way.
/r/AllPillDebate26/11/22 10:50 AM
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Well, consider that before the sexual revolution single mothers were a significant burden on society. Unable to support themselves and their children had to rely on their familiesand neighbours. Thats whymen's sexual strategy -to spread their genes as much as possible which resulted in lots and lots of bastard kids was immoral. Only when: -we developed technology - contraception, paternity testing, pregnancy testing & access to abortion -we turned into a service-based economy which makes it easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:45 PM
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Idk i don’t like weak, shitty women. If you give them a pass it’s kinda on you.
/r/AllPillDebate25/11/22 04:05 PM
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in my culture is common for men to have multiple wives . My cousins father had 3 wives and almost 20 kids and he hardly takes care of any of them Lol but your post isn’t about masculinity it’s about your retarderd culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:46 AM
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Some men pay for cuddling subscriptions or pay prostitutes for intimacy. I don’t think you understand what intimacy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:22 AM
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Still, men can get their sexual needs fulfilled easily if they have money, and for some of them even just porn is enough, so it all goes back to the social status... the implication of having someone specially for you only, who certificates you as safe and socially adept for a relationship, friendship and love. No wonder why women often feel attracted to married or taken guys. Except that you can't buy intimacy. Beta buxx can't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:11 PM
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Because women don't care about confidence. They care about assertiveness when it comes to securing resources. And don't give a flying fuck if you've been born this way or just learnt this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:06 PM
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Because blue pill is just simping in disguise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:04 PM
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Redpill women crack me up. Redpill is a tool -a strategy to get laid not a moral theory of whats right and whats wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:47 PM
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It was never alive. It was always the narrative to let women choose the men they like instead of being forced the arranged marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:45 PM
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M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady M'lady How am I doing mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:44 PM
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Won't happen until we neuter them. Men are fine with being single from a philosophical point of view. It's our physical nature that puts us under the pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:31 PM
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Love is like a guitar but the lust is like an oyster.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/22 07:23 PM
1

WTF is even this question? Have you actually tried talking to a girl, because you sound like some dumb wannabe guru that has never left his basement.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/22 07:21 PM
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Disagree. I was best friends with my ex, but we had a totally different vision of the future. We both tried making concessions etc but this became a total clusterfuck which made us both miserable. (But don't get me wrong -it's super important to like who you're dating, just not the only factor behind a success)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:19 PM
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Idk, every young woman I've dated started to discuss marriage pretty soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:09 PM
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its not wasting our youth on bad men or men who are going to waste our youth Did you kinda admit that good memories, love and romance are less important than finding a prospective provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:59 PM
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But this way you're only getting girls 2 leagues below you.
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 05:26 PM
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Why not? I've dated dozens of attractivenwomen this way.
/r/AllPillDebate22/11/22 04:33 PM
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Lol I saw this question and I legit though this is r/bjj subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:24 PM
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This is false. My urologist called the cops once I tried to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 04:02 PM
1

Perhaps they're just looking for women who like their disgusting messages, not you. Just block them and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:31 PM
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This is a hookup app for adults. Sex is normal and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 06:03 PM
1

Ok, I assume there are guys like this, but what does it have to do with my argument? You had sex with a guy with a guy that doesn't care about your pleasure? Just move on and find someone who does. Most girls are terrible at sex (and communication) as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:40 PM
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If a woman LIKES anal sex, she will want to have anal sex with whoever she's having sex with. Yes but this isn’t exclusive with the statement that : Women have lower inhibitions the more turned on they get You can do that by getting a better technique or by becoming hotter. It’s also plausible that some women consciously agree to acts they don’t enjoy, only because they anticipate the reward i.e. -trapping a better man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:53 PM
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That’s shocking! People on hookup apps want to hookup!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:49 PM
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But would a woman who didn't previously have numerous ONS's even think of putting that in her bio?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:41 PM
1

You didn’t add a proof to your point either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:42 PM
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Most women who have these orbiters. So i’d say about 50% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:39 PM
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You're 100 right. Yet most women won't acknowledge this and happily use that man while claiming hes a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:42 PM
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Commitment doesnt equal treating right. It's one sided investment into a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:17 AM
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Disagreed. Unless you’re dating your twin sister and you magically agree on everything.Every relationship will have some ‚fighting dynamic’. In good ones it’s flirting and playfighting. In bad ones it’s real fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:49 AM
1

Yes. And they also juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:33 PM
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The big problem is that because of wokeness there is literally no new generation of beautiful women in hollywood/showbusiness. The last really beautiful female stars are already 30+ yo -Margot Robbie is 32, Keira Knightley is 37, Gal Gadot is 37 and Natalie Portman is 41. It’s evident when they make some ‚worlds sexiest woman ranking’ like this one: https://www.fashionbeans.com/article/hottest-women-in-the-world And most of the women there have already been famous for 15+ years. (And such rankin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:11 AM
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I don’t think that many men were lusting for her 20myears ago either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:01 AM
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Huh? Literally nothing has changed in porn. Girls got even skinnier than 20 years ago. But sure theres a demographic who like fat asses, but I guess those are mostly black guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:59 AM
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99% those playing superheroes are juicing. And getting super dehydrated before the shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:53 AM
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I love that you pointed to another super jacked up guy who clearly uses a personal trainer, diet and is unrealistically athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:52 AM
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Kim Kardashian. Kylie Jenner. Etc Etc. These are the most popular women for a reason. Huh? I doubt I’ve ever heard a real life man saying these are attractive women. But I’ve never been to a ghetto so idk what people like over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:46 AM
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Lol no. Fat literally covers all feminity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:26 AM
1

Nope, i prefer to be discreet. Plus I don't want to give police any clue where I've been burying them.
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/22 11:06 AM
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Except that sane people don't 'start a relationship' during the first months of dating someone. This is just the screening time to see if we fit. You've been seing each other and having sex for a while, then maybe it's time you owe the other person some answers about the intimate details of your life. But within the first dozen dates -certaiy not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:49 AM
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What should an inexperienced man do? Gain experience you dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:52 PM
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Yes, but I seriously doubt that any of these constantly depressed guys vents 1/3 as much as occasionally venting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:26 PM
3

Less pressure on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 12:50 AM
1

Three.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:29 PM
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No. PUAs are masters of manipulating men into buying their pickup programs. I doubt your average Pua is actually good with women. Looking at their wives and gfs confirms this. Most PUA's out there became who they are not because they were getting laid, but because they took a copywriting course and decided to pick this niche. Source: I'm a copywriter myself, heard many case studies about the pickup market.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:16 PM
1

Tyler Durden or Neil Strauss, they have actually become much more blue pill than red pill. They've seen a disaster resulting from Julien Blanc's misogynistic content.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:14 PM
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This means that, on average, she must have met 500-600 men to find the 5-6 boyfriends. So through the last decade she had to meet on average 1 new man a week, and thats excluding the fact that while in a relationship any guy who "qualifies" would be rejected. What? I'd say most people with some social circles and active lifestyles meet that many people. Also, keep in mind that guys met this way -who also participate in social circles and have active lifestyles are on average more attractive than…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:44 PM
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Actually according to studies there's a strong correlation between female looks and the number of her sex partners. The more attractive she is the fewer partners she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:39 PM
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But real-world data confirms this as well. There are more sexless men than women, so the conclusion is that there are men who are having multiple partners at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:26 PM
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Most women also don't want to be in "harems" with high value men, either. But when you pay attention to their actions and not their words they kinda do want. Just find any study of Tinder matches distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:53 PM
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Realistically everyone settles for their partner. It’s impossible to be the most attractive person in the world for your partner for extended amounts of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:48 PM
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As a dude my experience was exactly like this when I had no libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:44 PM
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I'm talking about single men, though. I know it is convenient to put all men in the same bag but again, I'm not talking about most men either. What? You literally wrote about most men, not most single men: That is not a reality for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:42 PM
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That is not a reality for most men Nope? About half of the men are married. Many others are in a relationship. Even most singles are in a relationship at some point of their life. Low libido can only affect men that have a loving partner or a rich sexual life Nope, it especially affects men who are still looking for a romantic partner. As it’s almost impossible to find someone when you have no drive. If we want to help them, we should increase their libidos, not lower it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:33 PM
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Should there be a pharmaceutical option for men who want to lower their libido? Sure! But should the society actively push men to actively do it? (Or even suggest it) Hard disagree! First, I disagree that lack of libido somehow would make men happy. I had no libido for about 6 months because of medical problems. It was the most miserable period of my life. Second, it’s absolutely preposterous that you suggest that men should basically neuter themselves, because they’re an inconvenience to someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:17 PM
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Actually I agree. I just don’t like the delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:07 AM
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There are good reasons why Riley Reid is a star. But the bauty isn’t one of them. She’s a butterface.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:05 AM
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No? It’s not comparable at all? Sex is mutual. I have sex with you and you have sex with me. We both try to satisfy each other. Using the resources of your partner is a single-way exploitation. Unless you only have sex to gain the access to someone’s credit card. Then it’s fine. I won’t shame a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:01 AM
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Ok but thats because you’re priviledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:56 AM
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Well, but the average woman isn’t a catch either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:55 AM
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where are these good men? Probably all taken This is a silly fallacy, perpetuated by both men and women. There’s a neverending supply of good, non-toxic partners. Idk, perhaps you’re looking in a wrong place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:45 AM
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r/menkampf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:21 AM
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Ok but there are about 5x more men than dogs on earth. Yet more women get bitten by a dog than get physically hurt by a man. Yet the dogs are adorable and men are scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:17 AM
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guys that have red pill mentality, (...) they are the most likely to use force than anyone else I love how you know absolutely nothing about trp and use it as some kind of boogeyman. Literally every trp source I’ve ever seen says to just dump the girl when she bahaves out of order and that it’s she’s not worth the drama and your time. Frankly if the problem keeps repeating fo you, it’s not the problem with men as a whole or with the redpill, but it’s the problem with your dating preferences. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:13 AM
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Do you understand what you posted? It only affects women worse because they aim at men who earn more than them. And once they divorce they’ll have to support themselves..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 08:37 PM
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If you were a man who can choose between many women, you’d be disqualifying them as well. It happens that people, both men and women, have their own agency and can just decide what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:42 PM
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well-adjusted children who will go on to have families of their own in a safe, prosperous and stable environment. Who will in turn have more generations of offspring Bs, it’s the well-adjusted people who have the least offspring. Sorry, Redpillers, but your idea of a man spreading his seed I haven’t heard about a single redpiller that advises to spread your seed. Just to fuck around.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 11:35 AM
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Lol you didn’t provide a single piece of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:17 AM
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Do they? Don’t men routinely dismiss hard data on what women actually find physically attractive in terms of age? But noone claims that all women prefer the older men. Just that when you’re older and still attractive the distribution is somewhat favourable for you. For example: Lets say that 90% of 20yo women prefer men their age. Only 10% like men who are 40. But then those 90% dates 100% of 20%yo men. But when you’re an attractive older man your competition dramatically decrease. Among 20yo gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:16 AM
0

But if they were any good at emphatizing they’d ephatize with the male struggle. But they don’t. Frankly the few women who somehow understand the male issues do it because of the rational arguments and data, not because they epathised with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:01 AM
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absolutely don't care about you Wtf? Maybe let’s rephrase it: Stop giving the women who are rated 8 and 10s any attention only because of their looks Just treat them like normal prople. Give them shit when they’re assholes. Don’t be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:25 AM
0

So what? Men who did it are a totally different subset than me who have commited it (there might be a slight overlap, and thats it)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:22 AM
1

because people in their lives lied to them It weren’t necessarily lies, a lot has changed over the last 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:21 AM
1

Oh ok. Then it’s fine. The rule is to show and not tell. The escalation ladder is your friend: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/seduction02/11/22 03:22 PM
1

This is a dumb argument anyway. How is it fine for a woman to initiate flirting. But when a man initiates it by a mistake (because he thinks he’s flirting back) there’s this outrage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:20 PM
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Yup. And they always compliment under the derpiest photos, never under the favourable ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:17 PM
2

Nice cock bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:15 PM
7

women’s bodies simply have more to offer visually and sexually Lol no. Actually, it's men who on average have better bodies. The fact that thirsty men simp for ugly women doesn't make those women objectively attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:57 PM
2

The cheesier the better.
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:27 PM
3

Obviously give her a contextual nickname. If she has a Halloween photo in a Vampire Costume then this is fine.
/r/seduction01/11/22 07:12 PM
1

. I’ve found it’s easier when you met in person and she already knows what you’re like. OLD I usually set plans for same day or next day. Sure.
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:38 PM
2

when I asked her that is she interested Why did you ask her instead of making a move? Anyway, move on. Maybe try again with her in a couple of weeks.
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:36 PM
1

To answer and put the phone away. Or not to answer right now.
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:32 PM
9

Even when she wants to text, don't send such meek shit. The general idea is to be less invested than she is. Write shorter messages, take a while to respond etc. You want to become her lover not a chatting buddy. Women get attracted by aloof, mysterious men. Tellling her too much outside of real-world dates can ruin your mystery.
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:21 PM
1

Because it looks as if you were bored and initiating contact without a value to offer.
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:15 PM
7

What should I do? Go meet some other girls. And next time use text just to set up a date. I also asked what is she up to today And don’t write such needy shit.
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:32 AM
1

"Hey, what's up, I think you're cute, can I give you my number?" No just go there, introduce yourself and initiate a conversation. „Hey i’m ... i keep seeing you all the time, what’s your name?’ Then ask her some general question, listen to her answers and ask more questions/make statements about those answers. Rinse n repeat. Then get her number when you have to leave. Also break the touch barrier by shaking hands.
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:54 AM
3

„Hey guy, where do you see our relationship going?” But do it in person.
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:29 AM
40

Just use text for logistics. Nothing more. Use the formula: ‚Indide joke/a nickname you gave here/something ekse that reminds her your interaction’. + ‚hey let’s do activity x on day y’. E.g. ‚Hey Little Vampire, let’s grab a beer on thursday’
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:24 AM
3

Its mostly a matter of practice. And finding a receptive girl. Most of them aren't. They have a bf, are lesbians/crazies/undatables, not in a mood, etc.
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:12 AM
3

The thing is I do crave somethin more serious than a hookup at the moment. Or maybe you just crave sex with a hotter girl.
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:08 AM
1

Do you think any woman who is willing to continuously go back to college (when she has other alternatives) and be in a long distance relationship with a man is not truly in love with him? Who knows but it sounds like a total clusterfuck of a situation. I'd run away from that asap.
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:07 AM
13

I can’t find confidence to approach girls first myself Approaching is like parachute jumping -there are no magic tricks. At some point, you just have to say 'fuck it' and force yourself to do it.
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:02 AM
17

Not only high schoolers! there's a hot FBI agent monitoring your web traffic right now!
/r/seduction01/11/22 03:00 AM
2

Well since the big majority of attractive girls already have a bf, it's quite logical.
/r/seduction01/11/22 12:02 AM
2

No. you slide in her DM and she leaves on read. Get her number instead. "Hey, you're fun! Give me your number and let's grab a beer sometime next week" Then that other friend doesn’t invite you out anymore probably because her friend is uncomfortable and things got awkward or whatever reason . Now you might have been interested in other women within that same social circle too but now that you got rejected and the others will find out, you essentially ruined your chances with the others. This so…
/r/seduction31/10/22 11:55 PM
18

Make a conscious plan and stick to it. e.g. 'the next time I meet a girl I like, I'm gonna escalate until I seal the deal or I'm rejected'
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:21 PM
22

I just don’t have the confidence to flirt or be more bold. How do I work on this? By flirting and being more bold. You know what you need to do, start implementing it. There are no magic tricks.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:20 PM
9

Just introduce yourself to everyone you're bound to make some friends.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:19 PM
1

Hi, I'm Contreras-5"" and stick your hand out. If the music is too loud to talk, just extend your hand for her to grab, and don't say anything.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:05 PM
2

Literally, do whatever you want to.
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:37 PM
1

Well, sugar is almost the sole cause of obesity. I doubt there are many obse people living on a keto diet.
/r/seduction31/10/22 06:55 PM
3

Is this OK? Who the fuck knows? Make a move and observe her reactions. There are girls that would jump if you touched their hand on your 10th date, and there are ones that take it in the pooper on your first date. That being said, it's socially acceptable to head for a makeout or even sex, during your 1st date.
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:30 PM
17

I’m realizing that I shouldn’t be to anxious Except that anxiety isn't rational. I approached hundreds of girls in the nightclubs. From the very beginning I knew that I shouln't be anxious. But I was, till the very last that I've ever approached. Doesn't matter. We can't fully control our emotions, but we 100% control if we make a move or not.
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:29 PM
19

Do her doggystyle.
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:26 PM
-1

There's a healthy compromise (provided that you're both tested) anal
/r/seduction31/10/22 05:24 PM
18

Do you seriously think there's a future for you in that place? Leave.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:13 PM
27

It means that she doesn’t wan’t to have sex but wants to make out. But since the making out works as a foreplay she might want to have sex soon. Still. nothing is guaranteed and you should respect her boundaries.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:27 PM
7

But it is. Annually it’s sugar that kills more people. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/192032 https://drugabusestatistics.org/alcohol-related-deaths/ 3 to 1 Sure probably studies were done using a different methodology, but still you won’t find a source where alcohol kills more.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:51 AM
15

Step 1: Only approach attractive women. No more fatties or uglies. Girls won’t respect someone who clearly cannot respect himself. Actually attractive girls are easier to approach because they have solid social skills and are on average much nicer. How many women do you think I will have to approach? Who the fuck knows. Probably hundreds if you choose to daygame. Only 10% of girls are single/straight/not crazy/not on their period/etc and are ‚approachable’.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:15 AM
3

how hard is it to get attractive women back to my place? How many women do you think I will have to approach? With this attitude. Many.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:09 AM
27

No shit! Just as if people came to concerts to enjoy the show instead of wanting to meet new people. Crazy! What I’d do is to is to dance and have great fun in proximity of an attractive girl, and only approach her after the show is over. (Or in between sets) Also if you choose small local bands, there will be much more people who came to socialise.
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:06 AM
0

https://www.euronews.com/next/2022/05/04/europe-s-obesity-epidemic-is-killing-over-1-2-million-people-a-year-a-new-who-report-says https://www.livescience.com/51385-sugary-drinks-global-deaths.html https://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/17/opinion/sunday/how-beer-gave-us-civilization.html https://fee.org/articles/civilization-was-built-on-coffee-and-alcohol/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAPG18zNtXk
/r/seduction31/10/22 08:00 AM
8

Sugar contributes to millions of deaths?
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:55 AM
-6

Lol alcohol and caffeine were one of the biggest contributors to the growth of our society. And the reason the Western economy and culture are so dominant. Stop with your virtue-signaling, tradcon BS. Fucking sugar does more harm to our society than these 3 combined. Lol.
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:39 AM
1

Idk, I know a few true 9s and most of them have a very limited social media presence. Usually, it's the photogenic 7s that are thirsty for likes.
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:00 AM
4

I'm not sure. Most of the real 9s and 10s get super hot only for a very short amount of time, often after an awkward teenage phase. Some of them don't even realize their value. Usually, it's 6s and 7s with heavily doctored Instagrams that think they're hot shit.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:44 AM
2

What should I do? I don’t have the guts to approach which sucks. Develop those guts.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:41 AM
3

Yup this sounds like some meaningless word soup.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:39 AM
2

False. Girls are also turned on by male replication value. They get very attracted to womanizers, good dancers, men with attractive offspring etc.
/r/seduction31/10/22 01:37 AM
0

whether direct or indirect approach, what makes the approach successful is what is said Lol no. When you’re confident and high energy ou can say anything. I had success using lines like ‚hey can i pull out your tooth?” „You look like a fucking rum ball” or „yo who the fuck are you?!”. (Those were rare occasions, when i was silly-drunk. Normally i’d just approach and say ‚hi i’m Peter’) Also got tons of succes approaching without saying anything and just extending my hand, letting the girl grab i…
/r/seduction30/10/22 05:56 PM
-4

She either likes what she sees or she doesn't The full saying should be: „When she’s single, straight, isn’t on her PMS, isn’t with her judgemental friends, and doesn’t need to take a shit - She either likes what she sees or she doesn't”. We’re left with like 10% girls. Others are taken, lesbian, crazy, not in the mood on a given day etc. Obviously in places like bars and clubs this percentage rises a lot. But the thig is 1 in 26 isn’t as bad as you think. very hard for me to find a woman I thin…
/r/seduction30/10/22 05:39 PM
4

Make a list of 12 social hobbies available in your area. Pick 3 and go there this very week. Keep doing that for two months and switch 1-2 you didn’t like for something else. When you arrive to a new place immediately start introducing yourself to everyone in the group and shaking their hands. Within your 3-4 ‚classes’ stand in front of your group and say ‚Hey guys i’m new here but i’d love to get to know you better. Why don’t we grab a beer/food/etc after the class next week?”.
/r/seduction30/10/22 05:33 PM
56

Frankly when you remove the autistic hate from TRP. It basically becomes ‚female tactics’ turned against them: Increase your SMV, ruthlessly enforce boundaries, invest less than the other person and use some passive dread. One could argue that even the autistic hate is true for women, because most of them are misandric af.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:20 PM
9

Lol no. Escaltion is a direct manifestation of your power. But the girl has her own power too and can refuse your advances. Also escalation aka foreplay is a real part of human courship/sex, ‚giving away power’ is a theoretical concept made up by coaches. Focus on the real stuff.
/r/seduction30/10/22 10:23 AM
0

You know, it's not important whether or not you'll move on right now. It's keeping your options open that is. If she's leaving town she likely has other shit on her mind, even if she's really into you. Sending another text in a while won't cost you anything.
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:53 AM
1

Do I keep making out with her, trying to progress further, or should I say something vague that we should try to see what happens between us further, or outright say that we should be a couple? You went to 1 date with her and want to discuss a relationship? Are you getting insane from your thirst? Escale, refuse the couple talk until you've been fucking for some months. Frankly, I think she's playing you. Wants you to commit to her without investing herself. If you want a girl to respect you, yo…
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:25 AM
11

Not enough data to tell anything. Just go meet some other girls while she's out of town. And try again with her later once she's back home. Also since I assume that'd be your first date with her, probably choose another, simpler date. Coffe/Ice-cream/beer + a walk in a park
/r/seduction30/10/22 03:22 AM
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