It seems like an odd question, but recently I’ve noticed I don’t have a drive to pursue girls. Maybe a confidence/anxiety issue, but I am also on an SSRI which has decreased my libido. I also have ADHD, and this can cause me to obsess on a girl that doesn’t like me. (I’ve realized that I need to have an abundance of girls.)

I don’t think I’m unattractive, but definitely have things to improve upon. I’ve been working out for a while and have built a solid foundation. I keep up with my hygiene. I’m still trying to improve aspects of my appearance and life too.

As I mentioned, I am on SSRI which has definitely inhibited my libido. I want to increase it, but I’m not sure how honestly.

Whenever I’m out and about doing my day to day shit, I don’t think about girls/sex. It’s only when I’m bored when I start thinking about it and sort of hyper-fixate on it, and it gets to me.

I guess I should make meeting/cold approaching girls a priority and ingrain that while I’m out and about.

Any thoughts regarding libido and feedback would be appreciated.