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g-spot gay-spot
/r/seduction10/11/21 07:21 AM
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I'm in somewhat of a similar situation since I live in a city with just 100k people, but I go to a university that is in a city. More population helps. Good luck bro.
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:36 AM
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4 women? That's insane. I currently have 2 and I can barely handle it. That being said I'm talking to 7 other prospects. Always have some women in the pipeline. Maintain a low number of plates, but keep your pipeline full. Always approach new girls so you can keep your skills sharp.
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:25 AM
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Hooking up can be harmful and this coming from a dude who casually hooks up and came from a similar upbringing. If you plan on separating yourself from your family and friends who live that "godly" life then you should rethink about the hook up lifestyle. If you plan to be your own person and leave behind the christian lifestyle then hooking up should be no problem. A few things to keep in mind: Hooking up doesn't mean he has free access to you. Make sure to exercise your ability to say no to se…
/r/seduction10/11/21 06:22 AM
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I will be blunt so that you can actually get somewhere. Based on what I read I think your best bet is meeting people through a social circle. Participate in many communities, enjoy the, develop socially, and try to be an individual of high status within those communities. I don't think you are attractive enough to get anything through any other methods like Tinder or cold approach.
/r/seduction10/11/21 05:30 AM
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You forgot to mention your field reports.
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:32 AM
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Lmao I'm dead. This reply
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:31 AM
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Mind you, he somehow gave her access to a car for her to use for the ride. Damn, what a lucky girl she got a generous sugar dad.
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:05 AM
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You don't really get fwbs for good convo. You'll need to be able to compartmentalize if you want to live the lifestyle. That being said, I've had a lot of fwbs with really good banter, but it takes two to tango. If the conversations are uninteresting it's because both of you are kinda lame most likely.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:48 AM
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He seems clueless too lol
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:41 AM
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Just don't think about it. You got shit to do right? Think about that and do that correctly so you progress in life instead of obsessing over something you have no control over.
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:25 AM
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If you want to appeal to smarter women, improve your grammar.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:59 AM
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3/5 is high f-close ratio. I think your issue is your seem like they get bored or you say something that completely turns them off. Your problem is who you are as a person lol, but seduction-wise you are doing well either due do you being good-looking, you have natural game or you are going for girls that are way lower than your looks match.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:37 PM
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Double text once and continue where you left off. This always happens right after you sexualize through text and it's normal since their guard goes up once they feel like a slut. Re-engage as if nothing happened and go for the meet up but maintain the fun flirty vibe.
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:58 AM
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I have phases. There are times I'm all about model looking tall skinny blonde white chicks, then there are times I'm into really curvy women. I've had an asian girl phase, but now it seems I'm pretty much all over the map. I haven't been with a black girl though, but I am very open to dating one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:02 AM
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I'm in college. Sorry but about 80% of guys in college look like pudgy dough boys. The ones that look decent definitely get an edge, but I've seen some good looking guys get barred out of socialization because women have started to simply decided only socialize with other women especially the average looking ones. It's like they are self-rejecting themselves and taking themselves out of the dating pool because they know they just get played by any dude they find attractive. In any in-person clas…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:58 AM
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I don’t think she’s the type of girl to do stuff yet so I have to like inch up to it. Just escalate. Start fooling around. She could be bored of kissing and want you to move forward, hence why she doesn't seem satisfied by it.
/r/seduction05/11/21 06:15 AM
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I don't think we are on the same page at all. First, I don't think you understood what I wrote. Second, I am not asking for guidance. Third, if you think you can't sexualize outside of the lay you must be new to seduction. It is one of the most fundamental tenets of seduction. Fourth, whatever you can define "vibing" however you want. Finally, I have no idea what you are talking about in relation to anxiety.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:43 AM
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I think you are misconstruing vibe for personality. Knowing how to vibe with people is different from having a personalty because it more correlated with social awareness. I know so many guys with great personalities and would never get laid despite being such a likable person. The type of personality is correlated with getting laid, not the quality. You can be a dude with a high quality nerd personality and you won't get laid as much as someone who has a more sexual personality. Going from zero…
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:32 AM
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Looks still trumps game and in my case I actually have to hold back my personality and focus on being more sexual or it would usually hold back my capability to get the lay. You have to have a pretty shitty personality for it to really counteract your looks. I was a decent-looking kid who never talked and I had girls still making moves on me despite being an awkward teenager. Looks > Sexuality > Social Awareness > Personality
/r/seduction05/11/21 12:01 AM
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Bro I will definitely try. Btw I was hoping you can give some insight. How does the time and logistics work when you are working remotely? I am graduating and I'm about to go for a remote job. I'm not sure if building a business, a full-time remote job and maintaining a rotation of girls is realistic. I was thinking that I'll just do a part-time remote job instead of full-time. What do you think?
/r/seduction03/11/21 11:21 PM
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No wonder I couldn’t get a post up. These trolls caused the mods to set up a stricter filter.
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:07 PM
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I usually just talk about all the stuff I do with my multitude of female friends and I eventually talk about how I don’t do relationships which usually comes up when we start talking about our sex adventures. But I am planning on being somewhat of a nomad while building my business in different states since that seems like a fun fucking life. You conquer one area of the world, plant your flag and then move on to the next area with higher level pokemon or some shit like that lol.
/r/seduction03/11/21 06:58 PM
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I personally hate getting my balls played with in any way but I think one way to get the taste to soak in there would be to first apply flavored water-based lotion. Let it dry the apply some flavored oil-based serum. The water-based lotion will soak into the skin and the oil will seal in the flavor. Lol I don't know how I know this.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:29 AM
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Highest I’ve gone is 4 for a very short period. It gets really exhausting like you just go from one bed to another and you feel trapped. I was young and stupid and trying to prove something to myself. Nowadays most I do is 2 at once and care more about my enjoyment rather than “having a rotation.” Anymore than dating a new girl once every few weeks or every month is just stressful imo.
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:50 AM
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Yeah, you have no idea how to meet women.
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:50 AM
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Dress up as a sexy character that doesn't talk. Problem solved.
/r/seduction29/10/21 08:44 AM
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Did you change carriers or turned off iMessage?
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:59 AM
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I do, but I do it way ahead of their birthday since they get too many messages on their actual birthday.
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:28 AM
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No, they are mostly doing online classes so I can’t creep on them in person. That’s the problem. How do you meet women?
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:53 AM
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Damn i guess I’m in the presence of a true player.
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:26 AM
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Oh okay so you have close to 100% phone number success and if not you actually fuck them the same day with this method.
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:18 AM
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How well does this work for you. So in one trip to a coffee shop how many numbers do you usually get within, let’s say, 2 hours?
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:04 AM
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It’s not their fault they are not attracted to you. It’s like being upset someone doesn’t like eating salty stuff. To each their own. But you should stop investing into the relationship. You can respect her and respect yourself at the same time.
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:55 AM
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What’s the most successful location for you so far?
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:48 AM
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Lmao okay big shot. How do you pick up in coffee shops and hookah lounges?
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:46 AM
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My best advice is to seriously not worry about the science of seduction and just have fun. Take showers, dress nicely, and have fun. It works, but the main issue is people don't really know how to actually scientifically tackle systemic simple shit and it's even harder to tackle a nuanced field such as human psychology in relation to attraction. You also need to be smart enough to realize that you can't just use canned shit. It doesn't work. Additionally, you need to be social enough to be able …
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:15 AM
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Bro it fucking worked, just picked up this thick goth chick under a tree and it also blew her mind when I whipped out that QR code lmao. Ended up talking for an hour. This is the best tip I've gotten on this sub lol.
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:56 AM
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Oh yeah this is a good fall back method actually.
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:53 AM
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WTF this is fucking insane. I can be the McDonalds drivethrough of pick up lol.
/r/seduction27/10/21 10:54 PM
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I can't really find a place that's private enough on campus where I can actually get far. I'm starting to get tired of fooling around and want to seal the deal. I'll try to do a car or motel play to see if she'll let it happen there.
/r/seduction27/10/21 10:21 PM
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I can’t make guy friends for the life of me. Picking up women is easy though.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:02 PM
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"I don't do relationships." Most of them stay and even if they don't it's not worth the hassle tricking some chick into sleeping with you when she keys your car at 3AM in the morning.
/r/seduction19/10/21 06:41 AM
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How am I a chauvinist? Also loser in what way? Seems more like an opinion tbh lol.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:19 AM
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I mean I don't really get anything for making you feel whatever so you do you. I'm mostly just fascinated by how extra you are lol. It's like you really try hard to make it seem like we are in a life or death struggle in the reddit comment sections lmao. Also, I'm actually being nice to you so that you don't end up totally snapping and shooting up a school or something.
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:40 AM
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Lol I had an exact date like that. Showed up looking like shit to the date too. She asked me to walk her to her car. I said no lmao. Often women like that are too self-centered to be enjoyable company and not even worth it just to get laid.
/r/seduction14/10/21 10:12 PM
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So you are telling me... you talk with one dude then you talk to a new dude and continue the conversation as if the new dude should just be psychic and automatically know what you talked about with the previous dude. Lol, I'm not even mad. I'm just sad for you. Like what happened that you got to this point.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:55 PM
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Lmao you are the maddest person on reddit. Also I was talking about how you said "again" as if we've talked before. You must be having a bad life if you are this aggressive against some random reddit user.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:38 PM
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Again? Lady, I have no idea who you are lol.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:29 PM
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Lol no one here is qualified to answer your question. If you think it’s a clinical condition, I would ask an actual CBT or ABA therapists to see if they can help your or refer you to a relevant practitioner.
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:17 AM
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6’1 here. Lots of women I’ve dated liked my height. But then again I see lots of dudes who are shorter than me dating some bombshells. My opinion on height is it increases your overall pool of dating availability mathematically since lack of it usually eliminates women taller than you whereas if you are taller the majority of women are shorter than you hence, you have 100% access based on height. It’s not as people think where panties just drop because you are over 6 feet. The other component of…
/r/seduction14/10/21 08:12 AM
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On my campus I am probably the only guy that cold approaches. Never seen anyone actually do it, or they are way too smooth for me to detect. I've only been approached by some dude trying to get me to attend their church. In my entire life I think I've seen some dude try to use surveys to talk to girls as a cover, but he was just so bad and awkward. This is actually why I discourage people to cold approach. I wouldn't want it to catch on. Not that it can because it's not the easiest thing to get …
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:03 AM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction13/10/21 06:24 AM
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You mean that sub that was forced to go private because it's the female version of incel subs.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:01 AM
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The promise that if you ever get married, you will sign a prenup. I'm not joking. You won't consider it because 50%+ of the reason you are with him is for the money.
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:22 PM
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I don't feel horrible for the people who deal with you IRL because I know there are none.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:27 AM
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I'll definitely look at those. How much of a difference do you notice?
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:23 AM
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Some can use dexa but the most economical method is getting a caliper and doing a body caliper test. A lazy method of doing so is that if you have a visible 6-pack, you are usually sub 10%.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:08 AM
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Damn even your comebacks are canned.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:06 AM
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Thanks I appreciate the detailed answer, some of the answers are lacking in the intelligence department for sure. Being known as the guy that has a six-pack definitely is one way to be more memorable. Yeah definitely not planning to maintain 9% bf over the long term. I'm been at off season weight technically for most of the year and I only peak during special occasions, but if I an think of what to do during abs season will definitely make me more motivated to get more mass on during off season.
/r/seduction11/10/21 05:04 AM
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Thanks, yeah I’ve gone shirtless at pool parties only because it was expected. I never thought about going shirtless if you have an excuse, but that’s a good thing to keep in mind.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:49 AM
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At the fucking beach. Wtf is with all these retarded answers to a simple question.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:21 AM
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Damn that 2005 joke really did it for you.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:19 AM
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That’s a given.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:15 AM
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Of course. Only jersey shore has beaches no other place.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:14 AM
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Record yourself talking. I had people react negatively to me before until i recorded myself talking and I realize I tend to do a scowl that just made my face look really punchable. I’ve since corrected my facial expression and people tend to be more receptive. It’s not just about looks, it’s about your overall aura. If you are attractive but your overall looks trigger negative emotions such people thinking you are an asshole, it will still limit your success.
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:08 AM
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How do you usually search for the ones in your area?
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:40 PM
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Oooo damn. This is a great suggestion. I appreciate it.
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:15 PM
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What's gross?
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:13 PM
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Wouldn't cruises be mostly taken by richer older women?
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:11 PM
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Those dudes are taking shit just like everyone else. You bragging about your putting on probably mostly fat when you were in high school is just you having a growth spurt during puberty. None of that is done naturally. Feel free to believe that you can put on 30 pounds of muscle naturally though. I won't curse myself with the job of convincing you otherwise.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:51 AM
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Lmao putting 30 pounds when you are in high school is different to putting on muscle in your 20s and already past puberty. If you can put on 30 pounds easily why don't you just go and become an olympia champion.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:42 AM
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Put on 30 pounds of muscle over the winter and be amazed next spring. Naturally right? No biggie just put on 30 pounds of muscle in 6 months.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:28 AM
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Better to know the truth so you can actually improve on things you need to improve on.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:25 AM
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I have been told by many people, including beautiful women that I'm definitely winning in the looks department, A lot of insecure people give off that “give me a compliment vibe or I’ll throw a fit” so people usually give you a compliment just to calm you down. You definitely reek of that diva vibe based on this post. Real signs that you are attractive is if girls approach you first on certain occasions or you het spontaneous compliments from strangers.
/r/seduction09/10/21 11:25 PM
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Sounds like a shitty group of friends with a "I have mine so fuck you" mentality. You really need new friends from that variable alone. Add the fact that they are not there to enhance your life, they are closed off, and the fact that they just seem drain you then you have no reason not to find a new friend group. That being said, you don't need to cut them off, just see them less and less. This is what I personally do to friends are just useless. I start seeing them less and less, but I say hi o…
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:20 AM
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Masturbate until you are close but don't come. That shit will bring you to overdrive.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:16 AM
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My back and chest don't grow from high reps. There needs to be some intensity with maximum MMC for my muscle to respond.
/r/seduction08/10/21 05:14 AM
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I'm not really looking up to him. I'm always open to suggestions, so I see if they know what they are talking about by asking more questions mostly.
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:00 AM
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Interesting. I'm actually going one tomorrow and will meet up another girl in the same area. I'm mostly trying it out to see if it's my thing. The crowd seems to be older, however. What's some good tips on how to lay down roots? EDIT: What kind of female-based meet up groups do you suggest?
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:22 AM
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above all make it my business to BE SOCIAL and be an active and central figure in as many women based social groups as possible Female-based groups like what?
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:54 AM
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No. If it's not your scene, don't go. I can go, enjoy the environment and all without chasing women . I love the music and the people, women are just a bonus. Fuck it. I'll try it lol. I'm about to graduate. I need new locations to approach. And I have the hypothesis that the more exclusive the location the better, I never thought about hitting up EDM which is it's own culture aka there is some exclusivity in it. Just because it works sometimes doesn't mean it's a reliable thing. Out of how many…
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:50 PM
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I personally don't use direct. I have my own style of indirect that I've been refining for years. Works for me now. I think direct or indirect doesn't matter much since they kinda know you are approaching them because you are interested, but I prefer to communicate indirectly on the surface, but express my interest subtextually. It helps me approach anywhere without making much noise.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:45 PM
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Why did you only go to one sex party? Haha I know right. Lmao the dude who organizes it and his gf invited me to another one and I said I was busy that day. I think they took it as a rejection but I was actually just really busy. I've been trying to get back on his good side since then. No luck so far. I think these things have some sort of initiation that I didn't realize and kinda blacklisted myself from this one somehow. Some social circles work better for me than others though, and I know wh…
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:38 PM
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Oh so through social circles. You probably know a lot of people already which is why it would work for you. I can't because my social circles are not as big as I want them right now. That's why I'm cold approaching so I can get to the point where I can live off my social capital, so I can still get laid without having to do this all the time. Seems like good shit though, only been to one sex party and that shit is wild.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:26 PM
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How do you approach women at these places? Seems like it's still cold approach.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:21 PM
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No I mean where do you meet new attractive women on a regular basis.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:11 PM
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You are obviously better than me. So what do you suggest I do to get attractive women?
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:06 PM
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Maybe I’m just a pussy but when I deal with really heavy weights I know that I can injure myself when go 100% since I’ve have had several muscle tear already.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:05 PM
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Most stupidest? Lol
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:03 PM
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I guess I’m comparing it to the process of increasing going up in weight. I’m naturally very conservative in how I increase my weights. I keep form, but most of the strengths gains and muscle gains has been gained through putting on a weight I’m not familiar with and trying to test my current strength level and then getting a PR. It’s scary for me, but exciting at the same time.
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:02 PM
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Ok, so you basically incorporated the plow through method in the way you do business? I do plow for both actually (since I use cold calling for business which is very similar to cold approach). I am not really in a position where I can be picky. I am just like every other guy out there making the most out of what they have. Best I can do is keep pushing the button until it doesn't work. So far it's giving me returns so I'll keep doing it. Hopefully it gets me to a point where I can be a milliona…
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:37 AM
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The whole effort gain ratio is completely off, where you almost literally have to plow through women to find one that's says yes to your advances. It varies dramatically per person. I'm doing both since the two feed off each other for me. Some of the women I meet helped me get clients through their connections. This is a bit off-topic, but in my experience socio-economic status doesn't really increase from working hard. I've learned that the hard way, so put in more time into working won't get m…
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:26 AM
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I feel like they take the same amount of work to get on a date since they are all being courted by the same top guys. I even feel like sometimes hot girls can be easier since more guys are intimidated to talk to them so I have less AMOUNT of competition even if they are HARDER competition. I flip flop on this based on what my recent approach is like which is kinda stupid, but I’m actively trying to figure it out.
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:28 AM
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First few pumps yes since precum hasn't made it's way through your urethra. After a few minutes and the closer you get that's when it gets dangerous since precum will start oozing out.
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:52 AM
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There is definitely a component of being commanding that they seem respect. I think is due to them having too many options so if you tell them what to do they don't have to choose, they just obey and stop worrying.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:14 AM
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Thanks for this input I feel less like an imposter. I always feel like I should be some billionaire male model to really impress them.
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:08 AM
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Yes the girls that pretty much look like models or close to looking like models. They make me feel so average and they are so hard to impress. They'd go out with you and eventually sleep with you, but they'd act like they are doing you a favor the entire way through. I can't shake off that feeling and it doesn't feel right.
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:13 AM
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So your dick curves up? Is it possible you injured your dick when you were younger. Every guy has a slight curve to his dick left or right, but pointing straight up could be a sign that you have some scar tissue depending on just how extreme the curve is. If it's making her squirt that's good for missionary but wouldn't be too good for other positions.
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:48 AM
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A person with ASD won't make any dating progress trying to connect with neurotypical individuals without first increasing their social skillset to neurotypical levels. That's why I'm saying they need to get actual ASD therapy that is designed for ASD adults which is the closest they can get to social advise since they include social skills training. There is not existing dating program that will have the expertise to understand the nuance of dealing with ASD.
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:35 AM
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The main thing really is people who know how to do it don’t really get much out of giving you the blueprint on how to exactly do it. The most I’ll give someone asking for advice is letting them know it can be done if you are willing to put in the work and maybe some general pointers. The reason I go in here is if I’m trying to procrastinate on work and it’s a temporary distraction for me but giving some detailed advice won’t really give guys who actually know their shit actual rewards. So you’ll…
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:16 AM
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There is. It’s called CARD program which would have customized programs for training adults with ASD on how to build basic social skills as part of an overall individualized plan. Their dating issue are part of a deeper problem which needs to be fixed first before they can even think about dating.
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:09 AM
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It’s because “bad boys” have an aversion to being disrespected that attract women. I’m generally very nice until someone does something disrespectful then I let the ghetto out. If someone wants to be nice and cooperative, you should be nice. If they treat you like shit, you have to be willing to literally die for your principles. Letting go of a girl for disrespecting you is nothing. Telling her no and letting out some of that masculine energy is how you show people power and how you command res…
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:56 PM
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Just get used to approaching and talking to women you find attractive. Your comfort level will generalize.
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:50 PM
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Congrats on maintaining this many women in your circle. This is a good sign because it means you're social skills are up there. It's also good that one is dtf. I kind of skimmed all that so I might have missed a few things. That being said, if you have this many women on your rotation you gotta start being more strict with who you give attention to or you'll be old before you lay them. Best way is to start giving escalation ultimatums and back off the ones that don't move forward so you can focu…
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:06 AM
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95% this is blogspam
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:55 AM
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As a dude with a penis a little above average. I do agree that under a certain point a small penis just won't give as much pleasure. I think a bigger penis is a bigger tool that helps do the job better, but if a dude is skilled with a tool he can do better than someone with a better tool having zero skill. That being said, OP better look like a female model with perfect tits, no extra fat and the stature of a goddess if she can't tolerate other's imperfections.
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:39 AM
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Don't worry this post is getting brigaded. It's been removed from the seduction homepage (probably for that same reason) yet it's still getting post upvotes and comment upvotes. Even the comments are all overly ambiguous and overly positive which is not how seduction subscribs usually talk. This dude probably is one of OP's loyal whipping boys.
/r/seduction01/10/21 03:42 AM
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Sure, whatever.
/r/seduction01/10/21 02:08 AM
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Whatever dude.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:42 AM
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No, I simply didn't agree with you. You are gerrymandering opinions to invalidate anything that is not agreeing with you. Two people replied to you and you claim both are missing the context, c'mon now.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:39 AM
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I'm not missing the context. I'm not worrying about anything I simply commented on a public forum.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:34 AM
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That most people would agree with the person you replied to despite your claim that not everybody is like him/her.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:31 AM
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So suggestions for smiling at them or winking or twirling my hair or things that guys usually say are not gonna work for me either. If I try to smile it'd be one of those horrible fake smiles that scare people. Someone with a straight face twirling their hair does sound very creepy. On a serious note, try to make a quick disclaimer and mention this to everyone you talk to. Say something like "I have rbf and I'm bad at socializing, so if I look mad I'm not, I'm just awkward" before continuing to …
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:29 AM
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Most people won't wait two months.
/r/seduction01/10/21 01:25 AM
4

What I mean is that with time I'm growing to be a man, each month a bit closer to being a reliable, strong, charismatic yada yada man. I obviously have many years ahead of me until I'm even close to being like my heros. Lol you don't need to be Obama to get laid. Improve your looks and improve your social sense. Then increase your interaction with women. That usually is done through approaching. You can meet them anywhere, but approaching/clubbing is the way way to meet attractive women consiste…
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:45 AM
3

It can vary. I've had days like yours and even worse. Then I have days like Monday this week where all 5 women I approached gave me their numbers and all of them responded and 2 ended up going on dates this week, while two are still in the process for next week. 1 ended up being a huge fucking tease so I'm dropping that b**. But overall daygame is hard as fuck in the beginning. You get lucky occasionally. And if you are good enough and smart enough to know how to adjust and progress as a person …
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:16 AM
2

Succinctly put, very nice.
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:34 PM
1

Talking to other girls is good and just don't text her back. The other dude talking about 3-5 days is fine, but I feel like you need to really check your neediness vibe before doing so. You seem to really reek of neediness from this post. I would personally wake myself up and realize how much this girl is not worth this much emotional investment from me and then move forward with an objective mindset.
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:29 PM
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I plan to send 1 more text (and then drop it), but not sure if I should write back tomorrow (it would have been 2 days), or in like 2 weeks (next week I'm busy so wouldn't be able to meet up anyway) with a final, "all good, let me know if you are open to hanging" or something to that affect. Don't.
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:19 PM
1

I mean it's pretty freaking obvious once she gives you the fuck me eyes. But the truth is that most guys have no idea what the fuck me eyes are. The picture examples guys give range from a girl just trying to look pretty to a picture of a girl literally about to fuck. There is really no consensus on this and it doesn't much use outside of online circlejerks.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:47 PM
2

Her ghosting you is the most normal thing she's done so far. If she didn't I would think there's something wrong with her after that experience.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:26 PM
9

I personally never had this problem unless I am either actively trying to push away a girl or we don't have much rapport other than sexual attraction. You probably are not listening enough to what she's saying. You think it's some game, no just listen to her and respond like a human. Past a certain point, it's not a seduction game anymore it's actual relationship management.
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:49 AM
3

You are deep in the friend zone. The harder you flail the deeper you get. Either move on and find another girl or just actually try to be her friend. That's it. You are just at a state of denial at this point.
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:44 AM
3

Play with indirect more and create your own framework. That will serve you better than some borrowed line. I personally have my own multi-layered opener that I use to open and gauge interest at the same time and I can easily customize it for any situation. This helped me pick up women literally anywhere. I've picked up women waiting in line at the DMV, just strolling through the library, and even picked up a girl who was crying due to some home drama. Direct is useful and can be powerful in the …
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:39 AM
5

Be a vaccine and make your dick the needle.
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:52 AM
3

Use the money to build a great life, have a great lifestyle and improve yourself. That will help your game several folds more than casually mentioning it.
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:48 AM
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Most of daygame is designed for western society. It would be stupid for anyone without direct experience on doing daygame in a very conservative society such as middle east to treat it just the same as approaching in the US or Europe. Don't take advice that is not designed for your unique situation because that will get you in trouble. I do a lot of daygame and approach a lot, but most of the advice I've seen on here are crap. You need to develop a style that is meant for you and your situation.…
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:04 AM
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Address both and keep both engaged. I've done it and got laid from a group of two women. There's some luck involved. Since oftentimes you lose engagement with one of them in the process and if the girl you like then you end up getting the number of the one you don't like. That's why you have to keep both engaged. That way you can control the number exchange in the end. You always ask for "someone's contact" you don't specifically ask for the number of the one you like because it will make the ot…
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:54 AM
76

Okay so you think you are a virgin because you are too smart.
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:47 AM
2

People who hate mind games just don’t know how to operate in the real world where kind games are a necessity. 90% of the women you’ll meet will play mind games. It’s part of human genes to play mind games. In fact this is the reason we evolved bigger brains so we can understand socializing much better and deal with mind games.
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:11 AM
32

I want to sneak into dance classes pretending to hit on women, but I'd actually be there to learn how to dance.
/r/seduction25/09/21 08:13 PM
2

The last point makes this a tragedy.
/r/seduction25/09/21 08:11 PM
2

Sounds like what a dark triad person would do, hmmmmm.....
/r/seduction25/09/21 08:10 PM
6

Lol just downloaded it. Well it's basically NPD, BPD, PPD, and ASPD laid out in layman terms. Dark Triad is actually still better at pinpointing really dangerous people since the most dangerous among those he described are NPD and ASPD which have at least one of the traits i.e. Machiavellian-ism, narcissism, and psychopathy.
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:53 AM
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It’s called Dark Triad. It’s pretty easy to spot women with DT traits since they tend to exploit all dudes they meet for everything they can get using sex as a bait.
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:52 AM
1

Ask her out now or tomorrow. Her temp may change soon. Strike while the iron’s hot. If you delay, you wasted an opening. If she doesn’t say yes, it was just a tease and she wasn’t serious.
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:50 AM
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Never act like you got it in the bag. Always act like it’s never a sure thing. It keeps the intrigue and reduces anxiety/pressure on the girl. Most likely even she doesn’t understand why she is feeling this way due to cognitive dissonance. I’ve dealt with this many times and it’s a combination of the fun disappearing due to the mystery being gone and the added pressure of her having to do things, hence why she doesn’t know why but women usually refer to it as “going too fast.” It repels women. D…
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:48 AM
0

Whatever you are evaluating in your overall value as a man, it should be based on some experience on that field otherwise you are literally basing all this on nothing but feelings and impressions which are not that reliable. Go out, try to get laid and then see where your sticking points are. Dating is always something that you need to bootstrap unless you are really young. You could wait 2 years to work on one thing you think is important only to realize you should have been focusing on somethi…
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:58 PM
1

All dating apps are trash but Bumble is the queen of all trash dating apps. I remember getting so many matches but none of them would initiate and if they do, reply once every week. It’s bad design to pander to feminism.
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:45 PM
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As someone who does a lot of approaching, absolutely yes. This is why women are more receptive when you are approaching in more exclusive areas where not just anyone can be there. Because it's usually great people, women associated being approached with good things. If a place is known for having a lot of weird guys approaching women then by just approaching you've been categorized into a bad crowd. Women associate approaching with bad experiencing. This is why when you are approaching, you need…
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:16 AM
1

You misread. She wanted to have sex. She was allowing you to escalate all the way but sex. Sex is bound to happen unless you both have amazing self control. C'mon. I've had an ex play hard to get once she was already in the process of dating someone and I was literally able to strip away at her self-control by just physical teasing and just asking for "just a little, or let me just bla bla." Before she knows it, she's too fucking wet and the taboo part of it in her head will only make it more ir…
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:01 AM
2

Well it's good that you know what you want since it means you have good frame. A profound part of deep confidence is sticking to your principle and what you want out of life despite what other's say or despite not getting what you want right now. Additionally, it is a huge part of holding frame. You are who you are. Some girl's I've met and slept with who are more "hood" than me tried to bring me down to their level and want me to get into their lifestyle. It's not me, and I won't change myself …
/r/seduction23/09/21 09:55 AM
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Tell me you are attractive with boring personality without telling me you are attractive with a boring personality.
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:17 AM
5

I recently hooked up with a relatively younger girl recently who was a cheerleader in high school and based on the pictures/vids she showed me on her past flings, some of the women in your age range are into some hoodass dudes. A lot of drugs and a lot of clubbing and a lot of drama. It actually just seems tiring thinking about trying to get laid in that environment. You are right about everything going on in the club or whatever. You will need an “in” and you’ll need to do a lot of social circl…
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:39 AM
1

This is why I don’t count approaches. I count the numbers. I’ve had so many shitty warm up conversation that I didn’t intend on going anywhere.
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:05 PM
2

If she’s 80 years old then call. Otherwise, just text her again in a few days.
/r/seduction22/09/21 06:56 PM
2

Lol you are the one taking this seriously. You are probably trying to be one too based on how you are trying to spam all dating related subreddits lmaoooo.
/r/seduction21/09/21 07:12 AM
2

Yeah fuck you too buddy.
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:11 AM
4

Yeah you obviously are from RSD pretending to ask about other places to go yet you are 100% simping for them in this comment thread. Scams.
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:38 PM
2

They are all scams.
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:31 PM
2

Absolutely. It depends on the guy, however. Muscles have a multiplicative effect. If your face looks like shit, it won’t do much. Better to work on both your body and your face in that case. Imagine muscles a skinny attractive dude and it just makes them more attractive. Skinny average who gets buff dude gets some benefit. Skinny ugly dude who gets buff almost makes no difference, he should just try to stay lean and focus on improving his facial aesthetics.
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:26 PM
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A lot of tall dudes are into really small chicks including me lol.
/r/seduction20/09/21 09:22 PM
1

This sounds fun actually. If I were to visit a new city for a few days. I should give this a try on the first day to see if I can work off the numbers I get on the first day. I would have to adjust my conversation, however, since I'm used to talking for more than 20 minutes per girl.
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:43 AM
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Probably your are high status, but not that attractive. India seems to be highly dependent on caste so maybe that is part of the equation. Tinder is all about looks.
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:40 AM
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Lmao I'm getting downvoted too which makes it funnier
/r/seduction20/09/21 04:45 AM
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Maybe start by not calling it “online texting.” That’s like saying ground walking or food eating lmaooo I can’t stop laughing lololol.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:23 AM
4

Lol gayyyy
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:21 AM
1

I always text the morning of to confirm a date something “Hey there just confirming we are still good for 5PM at blank?” No answer means no date. If she can’t respect your time and schedule, she doesn’t respect you. You’ll be begging for crumbs.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:16 AM
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Seriously though, everyone’s trying to overly interpret this whole thing. Just dance better scrub. He probably looked like he was having a seizure and she had to say it. He redefined his entire life because of that one comment and completely missed the most obvious meaning.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:09 AM
2

It’s due to a lot of things. Also you tend to mature if you have a human dependent on you for its survival. Not even mentioning how traumatizing the experience of giving birth is. When you go through pain, you either improve as a human being or you let it destroy you.
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:34 PM
1

Lol, I mean…
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:48 PM
1

Oh shit that's a good cover.
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:46 PM
2

You reply to the vibe, not the contextual reply. If she was grinding on you as she said this, obviously you reply with something witty. If she said this after you've shown interest and her face is absolutely serious then it means she wants you to leave her alone.
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:32 PM
34

Ghosting on a dating app is not as bad as ghosting someone after you've set up a date.
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:29 PM
189

I think she just meant you sucked at dancing.
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:26 PM
1

example; i knew a weedy and geeky guy who knew loads of hotties through "Frisbee club" - blew my mind at the time Lmao this such a fratbro statement.
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:09 PM
1

I've done cold approaching as a fatass and as a well put together muscular dude and yes, it's a huge difference in their initial energy. It's like their eyes light up when they approached by someone who is well put together. But after that it kinda feels like once you have the basics of holding a conversation and escalating smoothly, looks becomes a secondary factor. But right now all I know is that I love approaching because I am usually rewarded by it since people tend to be pretty friendly wh…
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:06 PM
1

What do you mean by run campus? Also what do you say you are there for?
/r/seduction19/09/21 12:55 PM
36

It's almost winter, you better get some of that thickness on your side.
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:20 AM
0

Have you not heard of apps like Tinder, bumble, hinger, etc? Those applications are heavily weighted to your advantage as a woman. You will have a pick of the litter on dating apps.
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:05 AM
39

Sorry but I think this is a you problem. Try taking either more or better quality showers. Also you might have a fungal issue around that area if it smells. That is not normal.
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:29 AM
5

I feel like if I accidentally sleep with some redneck’s wife then I’ll find myself in a ditch somewhere.
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:54 AM
4

It all depends. I personally like San Diego. The broad walk is pretty dope and the vibe is laid back af.
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:11 AM
3

Hah nice one. Gym buns do be looking good though.
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:03 AM
2

You tell me I've been trying to find some rich old ladies so I can be set for life and all I find are broke young hotties who just want to get pounded in their dingy ass apartments.
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:20 AM
1

She's giving me cheater vibes lol. I have several female friends that cheat and they sound just like that. It always some doubt on the relationship, the let's see what happens mentality and willingness to go out and try new things are the biggest signs I've seen.
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:17 AM
1

How are you in HS and you sound 80? It seems like she's into you. Just try to relax and enjoy your time. You'll make mistakes but it will be a useful learning experience.
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:13 AM
2

Direct is so fucking boring.
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:59 AM
2

I only do week ahead schedules for women with a track record of being reliable. You can't expect new girls to not flake if they barely know you. For girls that i just met I either schedule it the next day or two or I just do a spontaneous thing. What you can do is set a tentative schedule, but let her know that it could change and you'll confirm the day before to check her temperature which is essentially a next day schedule. You sound like a busy guy with a life. You can only try to work with s…
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:56 AM
5

It's not really easier I just consider it default, which is face to face. OLD is too slow and has too many steps.
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:42 AM
2

I mean that's what 90% of people do at the gym that's why they look like hotdogs.
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:37 AM
7

I absolutely agree with you, but you also sound absolutely unpleasant.
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:45 PM
4

Tiktok model 👀
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:38 PM
10

I do a lot of daygame. People here don’t is my point. It’s not as easier to bag a girl that hot even if you do talk to her. Daygame is just a different channel to meet women that requires less bullshitting around.
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:31 PM
3

You can really tell who really bought the overdone mark manson philosophy.
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:20 PM
13

I can see the value of approaching at the gym, but for me the gym is where only one thing matters, how much physical pain I can inflict on myself. It’s almost like a religion for me. It’s a huge source my happiness. During the pandemic when everything was locked up and I could approach at all, working out alone in my room was what allowed me to stay sane. Now that gyms are open, it’s a dream come true. I won’t waste my time fiddling around at a place I should be getting stuff done. I have this o…
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:10 PM
12

And I can tell that less 1% of people on this sub actually do daygame consistently. They’ll agree about the fact that it can be amazing, but barely anyone actually does it.
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:57 PM
2

“Excuse me, I just have to tell you that you are gorgeous, and it made my day seeing you out and about here” Who talks like this?
/r/seduction17/09/21 10:51 PM
1

Lol so you are ravishingly attractive that you can make women wet on sight yet you are attracting women one at a time and having some bullshit convo with some dude on reddit. Why not do this at scale and get paid to make women wet by being a model on GQ magazine. If you are this attractive then this makes your opinion even more invalid since you are not dealing with the same shit everyone else is. I mean shit, i wish I was as lucky as you that I don’t need to work with numbers and get to sleep w…
/r/seduction17/09/21 08:19 AM
1

Seduction is my hobby so it’s my priority. Talking to women in any place you go, coming up with clever shit to be funny and interesting and then potentially getting laid is the best hobby out there. The majority of men just freak the fuck out at the thought of talking to a random girl when it literally means nothing in the grand scheme of things. Additionally, real skills are built and improve in the long term. All the women I meet feed into my social circle and my business contacts. It brings m…
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:49 AM
1

You don’t need to kiss. Also, you just look for a reason for you both to go to your place or room. She already knows and will come up with some reason not to if she’s not in the mood. You have plausible deniability and you can check the temp again next time. Your job is just not be awkward about it.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:44 AM
1

In the last two and half months, I've had my dick in 22 different girls and I don't categorise them in anyway because each interaction is genuine whether it's for one night or longer. Lol so you sleep with a new girl every three days but you make it genuine. Sure thing. I’m sure kids on here will believe that number with zero context.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:32 AM
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Three things. Being more attractive, being more naturally social and approaching more. It’s a positive feedback loop. If you are attractive you will just enjoy being around people more since it’s more rewarding. This makes you more social. When you are more social you approach more and you just have more opportunities to initiate. If you put gas to all three, you just consistently get more results. That’s when you worry more about logistics since you are working with longer term and bigger scale…
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:26 AM
1

That’s one thing I love about vegas is they have stand up pools everywhere and if you are jacked, you have lots of reasons to show off. That being said, i tried picking up girls when I was there and I nearly died of heat stroke just walking around during the day. I feel like night approaching is the vibe in vegas.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:15 AM
1

Your feedback made no sense. It’s like saying organizing your school folders will make you do worse in school. This is organizing women’s numbers in better folders yet your feedback is, “you will get laid less.” No connection, but you do you.
/r/seduction17/09/21 07:03 AM
1

Nothing really beats a number for me. IG is supplementary which you’d want to leverage for a number. I just go straight for the number.
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:02 PM
0

Sure sure, go ramble on someone else’s thread.
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:00 PM
1

That’s why it’s under logistics. Logistics helps you figure out how to fuck more women through efficiency. It’s the same reason people get a flat right next to the club. This is more of a quality of life tip for those who handle multiple numbers all the time. Not sure why that’s putting your panties in a bunch. If you don’t want it, don’t use it.
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:24 PM
1

Use a principle I call, assuming the best scenario. Instead of manufacturing the worst case scenario in your head, "I'll go up to her and shell reject me, everyone will see and it will be so embarrasing". For beginners yes since they tend to think the worst. Your aim as you progress, however, is to not assume anything and read what is happening real time and stop obsessing over negative things you have no control over. What tends to happen as you approach more women is you become overly positive…
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:41 AM
2

The reason it didn't work was not due to the absence of a DHV since you didn't even go past the opener. The problem was you misread the room.
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:27 AM
1

Just tell her, "wym." You and her literally haven't done anything at all so her asking this question is way premature. Try to have this convo in a fun environment so you can mostly brush it off, play dumb, get her mind off of it and then go back to having fun.
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:46 AM
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That's not really a DHV. You mostly cracked a joke and it fell flat. Also you can't joke with people as if you know them like that if you are a stranger. It's going to seem awkward. Maybe you mean that you need to open them as in get to know them first and get comfortable before trying to joke with them that way.
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:36 AM
2

You only need to read books on dating if you are trying to be a writer. If you are trying to get laid just keep approaching you will learn things that no book will ever teach you. It's like trying to explain the color purple to a blind person. You won't know what's right until you are there to experience it.
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:21 AM
1

You can't really bulk delete (unless you know of a way to do so). Also in order to determine who I actually should delete I'll have to remember who and when I met someone before I delete them otherwise I risk deleting a business contact that I have notes on. Only option would be to manually go and delete every single person after you'd diving through your messages trying to remember who the person is. With this system I can just keep accepting new numbers and working with active numbers while sp…
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:52 AM
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It's useful to be with a high status group if you are going for social circle oriented women. Some women I've seen care a lot about social status, highly involved in community and prefer to be with someone in the context of a subculture. These women like being part of a something. And some don't care as much and care more about you as an overall package these are the types that just like to hangout, fuck, play games all day and do whatever. These types of girls wouldn't care about your circle at…
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:28 AM
2

Okay being very honest. Based on your pic, I can see you have some degree of RBF (like droopy eye bags and droopy cantal folds) despite being relatively attractive. I would also guess that you are awkward and probably introverted so you don't know how to really vibe with people in person. I dated this very attractive girl who was awkward af and couldn't make friends even if her life depended on it. Her attractiveness almost acted like a repellent in conjunction with her rigid personality since a…
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:19 AM
1

I do but I get 5-10 numbers when I got out for the day and I get quite a lot when I’m just focusing on meeting women, so even if I talk to them for an hour, I just forget and it’s hard to find their number on the contacts since you can’t sort by recently added. I’ve lost several girl i just picked up since I couldnt remember their name and I forgot where they were on my contacts list. I also have a ton platonic female friends and names/stories just start blurring together. Filing is the most imp…
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:11 AM
2

Except what he did is he told him he sold a sandwich for a million dollars but hems not going to tell you. The more likely scenario is he’s scamming you so you will buy whatever he is selling.
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:04 AM
1

You are welcome. It’s the player way ya know.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:59 AM
1

“How to make barely minimum wage as a blog spammer.”
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:42 PM
9

Just throw something at their general direction and you’ll hit them because they encompass a pretty good sized area.
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:38 PM
2

Head injuries that make you unwell? Memory-wuse? Judgement-wise? That are many types of mental issues that can make or break this situation.
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:37 PM
16

Sounds like he found out how to hire prostitutes online.
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:35 PM
1

It's a subconscious evolutionary drive. It doesn't mean much in the traditional sense. Just like dudes have the desire to go to war and we blow off that urge through sports. The desire to dominate and be dominant is simulated in sex and is part of a healthy bedroom dynamic otherwise trying to hold yourself back due to political correctness will just severely keep you from enjoying your sexual experiences.
/r/seduction15/09/21 01:11 AM
5

I've seen some legit big short dudes with attractive women. They are always jacked and has some domineering aura.
/r/seduction14/09/21 11:57 AM
15

If you can't be tall, be wide. Get buff and big af. Women just want that primal feeling of being overpowered, protected and they desire to be with dominant men from a physical standpoint.
/r/seduction14/09/21 02:12 AM
2

I head NYC is good just due to the ratio.
/r/seduction14/09/21 02:10 AM
4

Quick and simple: First part full body workouts light to medium intensity for first 2-5 months Intermediate workout programs (Upper/Lower, PPL, 5x5, etc) 6 months to 1 year Start looking at 2 to 4-day splits or maybe create your own workout program 1 year + The key is starting with a regular routine and changing it accordinglying/switching depending on how you like your progress. Determine whether you need to increase workout intensity once your results start to plateau.
/r/seduction13/09/21 09:43 PM
15

Some women are weird af. Move on.
/r/seduction13/09/21 09:37 PM
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Yup this is the realization for you. I had this realization several years ago when I was something in a similarly trivial situation. This made me realize the potential of just being able to meet women anywhere. I personally have my own strategy so that I can comfortably talk to new girls anywhere without feeling weird. No "dating coach" can teach you that. It's something you that work on yourself as a man to help you achieve dating abundance, it's just like working out and saving money. It's som…
/r/seduction13/09/21 09:03 PM
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Numbers game and game of probability literally mean the same thing.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:58 AM
1

If I was trolling I'd say I slept with 1,500 women.
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:30 PM
1

Lol you really claim to have slept with 1,500 women. When you make big claims, you back it up. You can't even provide the city or your job. So many extraordinary situations: Bought condo in a big city with cash but not a millionaire Bought a condo in a city that happens to be "really cheap." Slept with 1,500 women but can't provide details Can't provide his job Can't provide any other details other than math equations Okay bud. Enjoy your imaginary girlfriends.
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:51 AM
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I don't really don't care about sex that much, I would rather date someone that I am attracted to and is a good partner generally So date a lot of people without having sex with them. Simple. If you have no attraction towards sex then it won't happen you'll probably have 3-5 dates to get to know them before they lose interest so you can use that to determine whether they are your type of mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 06:17 AM
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Two things: get info: is she what you want, what’s her temperature, what’s her expectations, test her physicality, etc. make it playful and sexual: don’t start talking about boring shit, talk about stupid shit and get her laughing. Communicate that you are a sexual person so make sure to make some funny sex comments or jokes. Sneak in a few question to collect the needed logistical info as mentioned above. Don’t set up the next date unless she asks you. You want to show relative interest but kee…
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:28 AM
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You always need to go through it as a guy imp. It’s more of a spectrum, however. Some guys are done after 3 girls and some need to spin plates til they are 40. At what point it’s considered worth it is up to the individual.
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:16 AM
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Do you realize how expensive condos are in a major metropolitan city? Saying you are a not millionaire while claiming you paid cash for a property in a BIG city is an oxymoron. What’s your job?
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:20 AM
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I’ve done it. Just ask about a random class question on canvas or whatever online tool your school uses. I’ve met several girls just through this and then meet on campus later for a study session or work on a homework.
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:16 AM
1

Condos have mortgages, you need a job to pay for your condo. Are now gonna say you are secretly a millionaire who doesn’t need to work?
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:49 AM
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Yes you get deminisging returns. I have friends who frequented london and they need to switch times so they don’t run into the same women. You can’t just stay in the same area. You’ll also get reported if you are way too aggressive.
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:46 AM
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Escalation. It's like poker. They can bluff all the wan't but if they go through the typical escalation points such as stay to talk, get the number, text, set up a date, go on a date then everything else is just fluff. If they don't escalate then they are not interested or they played their hand wrong, and they will usually try to reconnect.
/r/seduction11/09/21 07:56 PM
2

From my experience there are women who are out of your league because they value things that you don't have. For example, you can be the most attractive guy in the world, but if the girl only likes billionaires then you are out of her league. The trick is to know your niche and maximize towards that. If you seem to get girls who likes beards then grow the best fucking beard out there. Some girls will always be outside your league.
/r/seduction11/09/21 07:51 PM
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Yea, I definitely intend on getting plastic surgery because it's really the only thing holding me back in my experience. Just don't be cheap and make sure to plan it for a long time. A bad operation can make it look worse. The whole platitudes of people telling people to just work on their personality or confidence are almost always coming from people who are already significantly above average and have never had any trouble dating. It's actually very complex. Looks seem to help through several …
/r/seduction11/09/21 07:36 PM
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I'm not remotely overweight and am actually in GREAT shape, plan on competing in classic physique bodybuilding competitions once I graduate from University. Damn bro major respect. I'm heavily into bodybuilding but I don't have the genetics to compete and I don't plan on taking anything. Facial appearance is really everything. For most guys, if you fall around average, sure, you can make up for it with personality and other variables like your body or sense of humor, but for someone like myself …
/r/seduction11/09/21 07:22 PM
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I've been overweight and I get your point, but having some energy in your aura always helps. Never just look disinterested in everything around you because it makes you look bad. Also it would suck to be the kind of person who just lacks any kind of passion.
/r/seduction11/09/21 07:12 PM
2

So how did you pay for your place that you brought them to, that you mentioned is in a major city? Those things aren't cheap.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:59 PM
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Balancing several women is torturous. People think it's fun, but you start going from one bedroom to another and you feel like you are in an episode of twilight zone. 1,500 has so impossible on so many levels.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:57 PM
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That's 10 numbers per day. The number of girls you talk to doesn't matter. You also get diminishing returns in one area, so you'll need to change to places you haven't been in. You should have considered this before you came up with that ridiculous 1,500 lay count. How did you file your numbers? Do you take notes after going on a date? How do you maintain your workload when you have to on several dates on a row?
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:52 PM
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Could be anything. Just ask her out and find out.
/r/seduction11/09/21 07:14 AM
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Lol I've done 10 numbers a day and my body couldn't hold up after doing that for a weeks. I also lost a lot of weight from so much walking. You'd die from stress or dehydration if you actually tried to do this. You won't even be able to actually have sex because you are so tired. This is only doable is you are a robot. I'm gonna have to call bs on this.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:45 AM
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I could cry, for the first time i felt boobs on my chest, im typing all this to say Lmao this is golden.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:09 AM
1

So how many women did you approach, also what city do you live in?
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:06 AM
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This is more of an r/relationship_advice question than r/seduction. Maybe you can seduce him so much he just takes off his shirt and gives himself a purple nurple.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:04 AM
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It depends on the situation. For example, I approach a lot and I personally won't just stop a girl who's going the opposite direction just to say "hi how are you doing." Maybe if you are all in a room and it's a little bit laid back vibe then it will be appropriate. What you say should fit the situation.
/r/seduction11/09/21 06:01 AM
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You approach them just like any other girl. It should be the same assuming your fundamentals are solid. That being said, some of the really popular ones require some work since they wouldn't just risk their reputation for a total rando.
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:28 AM
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Damn bruh hit the gym. You might have slayer potential.
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:25 AM
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I'm not sure since I've always started with casual sex with all the women I've dated. It requires aggressive flirting and rapid escalation from the beginning. No cheesy word exchanges and no talk of commitment. Just talk about random fun stuff and escalate when you can see that she is really turned on aka strike while the iron is hot.
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:23 AM
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Nice cap
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:20 AM
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It's really a hit or miss. Some of the girls I've met that are both hot and high quality I just met out of luck. Like this one chick I met on the first day of her junior year after taking a a few years break and turns out there were already 5 guys who approached her and trying to date her before and it was just the second day of the semester. She ended up becoming one of my long term relationships and she looked like some fashion model, only been with 2 guys, and was not yet jaded. So in reality…
/r/seduction10/09/21 07:16 AM
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she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc. Eeek. I hate women who are all about love. You always somehow end up in 3-hour long arguments about why you didn't hug her at the mall when she winked at you at a 45 degree angle and also you didn't notice that she wore the dress that she wore when you first held hands in the sunlight.
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:27 PM
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Oh I found it. Twice already lol.
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:19 PM
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My life is doing fine without acting like some member of a cult, so I'm good.
/r/seduction09/09/21 10:14 PM
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You'll find out the hard way if she's new to anal.
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:37 PM
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From my experience it's a little more nuanced that that. When I show no interest at all to women, it's almost like they get offended or get turned off. I think it needs to be balanced. You need to show mild interest in them by default so there is some excitement in the interaction. I think there should never be the point that you are just completely losing control of yourself. People who look like slobs, have bad posture, don't make eye contact and try to overplay the "disinterested" body langua…
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:33 PM
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Yeah it's weird. I get low key offended when a girl looks bored when I'm talking to her because that means I do nothing for her. The best feeling is when you look their way and they start doing a quick series of blinks out of surprise and nervousness.
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:18 PM
1

This is a long winded way of saying 1% of the time I win 100% of the time.
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:09 PM
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Body language. I was talking to a girl I met on campus yesterday and I could tell she was so excited she was having trouble breathing while wearing a mask and talking. She couldn't help giggle at almost everything I say. She kept telling stories, and kept asking questions. You can tell if they find you attractive based many different factors. Based on the energy in their eyes. How they talk. How fast they return your texts. How giddy they are when you meet. If she's showing signs of disinterest …
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:20 AM
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It's the literal quote... "She wants you to be that man. She's secretly rooting for you. She doesn't want to reject you. Every time a new man walks up to her, she's secretly saying to herself "Please, please, please be the man. Be the attractive man that I can't say no to. And then he nervously stutters around buying her a drink and makes uncomfortable jokes about the weather and she's back to that horribly uncomfortable position of having to reject him again"
/r/seduction09/09/21 07:01 AM
1

Same. Feel free to walk around thinking the world is rainbows and butterflies. “Omg all girls are cheering me on yay!” Lmao
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:58 AM
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So essentially the book itself is not applicable to the real world since it’s only applicable to a niche set of situations. It’s like driving with only a right turn.
/r/seduction08/09/21 04:24 AM
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Assumptions associated with “all women are rooting for you” mentality: All women are looking for a mate at all times - false All women are into men - false All men need someone to be rooting for them to validate an approach - false
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:25 AM
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As someone who is currently 12% bf and use caffeine as preworkout, I disagree. The issue is caffeine tends to be presented with sugar which is the biggest cause of people’s weight gain since it’s in everything and it increases the caloric density of whatever you are eating. Caffeine by itself is the best imo.
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:16 AM
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I said August and September are likely the best months to mingle and try to smash the girls on campus. Fuck this make me feel like I'm not approaching enough. I've only met a few so far and I still got major FOMO since I don't think there will be a time like this again.
/r/seduction07/09/21 05:58 AM
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Also women tend to be more open at the start of the semester, so take advantage of this since it will die off once girls get paired up. In addition, women have been stuck indoors during the pandemic. All of these in conjunction with your improved social skills, it created the perfect storm for you.
/r/seduction07/09/21 05:07 AM
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Just like a pic and comment. He’ll usually get the message unless he’s really thick headed.
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:14 AM
2

Yup. I feel like most guys get one attractive girl regardless of whether they are psycho or not and think they’ve already won life.
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:10 AM
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It's 100% a numbers game because women require a lot more than just looks to hit it off with a guy. There is also the headache/persistence factor. I see a lot of attractive women with ugly ass dudes because they are willing to put up with their attitude. Dating an attractive woman who is also not an idiot is what you should be aiming for. It's very easy to get an attractive girl if you are willing to lose your pride and your entire life catering to that one girl. But to live a life where you act…
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:31 PM
2

Decrease in face. You can always get plastic surgery relatively pain free. You can't increase your height without literally chopping your legs in half and then extending them.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:28 AM
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Taller, bigger frame, more muscle and better posture which improves all of the perception of the previous three.
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:23 AM
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A HVM will find ways to enjoy life aside from getting women as he gets older. That age is usually older than what most women would prefer, however. Usually 45+.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 11:00 AM
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28 years old with 200k in INVESTED net worth. Are you serious?
/r/seduction28/07/21 05:36 AM
0

Joseph Gordon Levit is higher than a 6 and Timothy Chalamet is definitely higher than a 6.5
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:17 AM
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So what are using as the basis of comparison to consider women are “awful at communicating?” To evaluate something there is always a benchmark.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:07 AM
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Hmmm technically yes. Half of the population are men so that’s about 4 billion women. Less than half are single women 2 billion single women are technically waiting to be banged. I have a feeling the actual bangable ones are just under a billion.
/r/seduction27/07/21 05:04 AM
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Unless you are bi, you won’t really know whether men or women are better at communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:57 AM
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It’s not about height it’s about your ape index bro/s
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:59 PM
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People like different things /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:42 PM
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Lmao I’m a dude and strength, intelligence, humor, above-average attractiveness, extroversion, good in bed and mind reading powers do not exist in a typical marriage. I’ve always wondered why women would put up with all these retarded men and even marry them. It’s just a time that women can actually afford to avoid losers as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:38 PM
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Nice, thanks! You’re the real MVP
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 06:04 AM
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The most important factor driving the decline among young men is the decrease in drinking, which alone explains more than 33 percent of the drop. The increase in computer video gaming explains about 25 percent of the change in sexual behavior among young men, while the increase in living with parents explains a little more than 10 percent. No other factor explained a significant portion of the decline. Source. Trust me bro. What a shit article.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:54 AM
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Again, you are all over the place. First you say you don't need to do this you do it because you want to do this and now you are saying you are doing this out of tangible benefit such an internship that most likely is not a paid position. A business line with actual cashflow and balance sheet behind with actual branding variables tied to her image is different from you happening to get something nice one in a while for being attractive. But sure, whatever you think you get from your looks is you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:20 PM
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Maybe it is not typical but the whole point of this doscussion is that if a men wants to have a woman who looks good, he Has to accept it will cost. The bigger the standards the higher the cost. Considering most dating happens in an individual's 20s, and how dating becomes less about looks as people get older, the higher cost is not really justified. Efforts of maintaining your looks most likely has a parabolic pattern where the effort-to-benefit ratio peaks and past a certain point where the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:16 AM
1

but only by investing in my looks from a young age am I able to be mistaken for being closer to my 20s than 40s. Your standards for yourself are extremely high. And that's not the typical person's goal. Looking like you are in are 10 years younger is absolutely great, 20 years younger is not typical. It's a great goal, but again, not a typical thing. The majority of facial products do not have scientific backing. There are only a few that have been proven to actual show longer term results which…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:55 AM
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Dude I do cook my own meals and still need to supplement, as I can't eat some things (per doctor recommendation). You are not the average person if you are talking about your unique allergies. You need to separate anecdotal evidence from the average person's median expenditure. You don't even need a gym. I've lasted the entire pandemic just using one set of dumbbells which cost me less than $200 dollars and I've used them for YEARS. A good face cream costs 2 days of work for an average salary Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:42 AM
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Kim K is a multimillionaire who's brand is tied to her image so her over-spending on her looks is justified. Unless you have a clothing or make up line then your hobby is a waste of cash, and as you mentioned it's your hobby so you are doing it for you. However, I'm don't care about your hobby because I commented in context of dating. In the context of dating, what you choose to overspend on your looks is not your prospective partner's duty to maintain or reciprocate. You also titled the post as…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:35 AM
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It doesn't cost more money to maintain your health/beauty, it just requires discipline. I never said it cost money everything costs money. That would be a stupid position. I said it doesn't cost more than living unhealthy. And as an effect of living healthy, a person will stay attractive longer. I spend money on personalized skincare and it's not that expensive. Gym memberships are cheaper than ever, you can get one for just $10/month. Razors are cheap unless you fall for all the false marketing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:27 AM
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It doesn't cost more money to maintain your health/beauty, it just requires discipline. Skincare is not expensive, gym membership is not that expensive either. Supplements are not needed and they arguably do not make that big of a difference. You can just buy a razor instead of waxing, dumbbells are not that expensive, and healthy food is not expensive. This is coming from a guy who life an extremely healthy lifestyle. A healthy lifestyle is expensive if you've been unhealthy your whole life and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:07 AM
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From lashes($100-120), hair($120-200), nails($100-150) clothes, contacts, skincare($90) waxing and vagacials ($115) Literally the only necessary thing there is skincare and clothes. If you need more than that you are not a naturally attractive girl, which is fine. But the majority of attractive women don’t need all that and a high value guy can easily find one who is not high maintenance. I will never date and have never dated a girl who wanted me to pay for all her personal shit. That’s retarde…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:08 AM
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Don’t overcomplicate things. It doesn’t matter what her personality is. If she allow you to escalate then you’ll be able to gauge her interest based on that. Don’t be an orbiter who never pulls the trigger. For example, she flirty with everyone but would she go out with you alone. If she’s flirty but never let’s you be close to her than it’s obviously just fake interest.
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:44 AM
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Source, trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:58 AM
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His toes definitely look like someone stored them in a treasure chest for hundreds of years.
/r/seduction21/07/21 08:52 AM
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I swear everyone on here seems to only post after watching a david goggins video. Socialization, especially courting, has a lot of nuance that need to be considered. Simplifying the concept in your head can have some value such as when you are just out and trying to meet people, but oversimplifying EVERYTHING it won’t help you learn and you’ll only ever learn the surface level basics.
/r/seduction21/07/21 06:28 AM
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All sources I’ve seen always state women’s brain develop faster than men. If you have one that says 25, feel free to send a link. Just to be clear this source you just sent does not support your 25 year claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:03 AM
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Did you read your source? COX: Is there a difference between males and females with regard to their brain development, particularly in this age category? AAMODT: Females' brains develop about on average two years earlier than male brains, so you're more likely to have a late developing male brain than female.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:16 AM
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Incorrect. Women’s brains develop much faster than male brain and was studied to fully mature by age 21 while men’s brains fully mature by age 25. Emotionally, women mature at age 32 while men reach emotional maturity at age 43. source Regardless, agree that age is nuanced and once needs to consider at what stage of life someone is i.e. 80 and 90 year old are peers and can date no problem but a 25 yo and a 15 yo are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:05 AM
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Regardless of the implications, the summary of the story just sounds so boring. I thought it was going to be some wild sex tv show, but nope it’s about some 30 year old chick’s feelings and an ex. Resident sleeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:34 PM
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Hence it's a shitty study. It's as good as a study who uses self-report to determine how faithful people are to their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:30 PM
1

Lol I’m over 6 feet and I still buy the thickest insoles I can find for that extra boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:39 AM
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They make themselves available and they tend to stay fairly close to you. My first few gfs were the ones who approached me first. Before they approached me, they would keep mysteriously end where I’m at. It’s their way of maximizing the chance of you talking to them or something happening that would lead to you talking. It’s also evolutionary. That’s why single women like wearing flashy/bright objects and doing eye-catchy movements like hair flipping. They want attention from a specific guy. So …
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:12 AM
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She knows you wanted to give it to her. She just didn’t want to go through the awkwardness of having to reject you. Move on.
/r/seduction19/07/21 06:04 AM
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Yeah, but you can tell from body language who has something to lose. I’ve worked with CEOs and there is a certain vibe you emanate. Women can sense that more than men.
/r/seduction19/07/21 05:54 AM
1

Lol sure you do, buddy.
/r/seduction18/07/21 10:03 PM
1

Nah look at his previous post. He makes 100k per month. Women seek guys out like him even if he is the least bit decent looking.
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:51 PM
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Your body language was probably awkward. Pacing was probably too fast. Also, you considering forcing yourself on her makes me question your mental “rightness.”
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:08 AM
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You need to stop watching david goggins.
/r/seduction17/07/21 03:12 PM
2

Things have to align. For example, i had a ons during a business trip mostly because I met a girl at a coffee shop who was also from the same event. She was on vacation away from home, the event had so many after party events that it pretty did all the work for me. At the end of the night she wanted me to drive her to her hotel because according to her “she got too drunk.” Had to ditch my friend though lol and he was pissed. If you want to do a ONS make sure the logistic align such as a place to…
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:59 PM
2

Just turn her into fwb. See other girls while keeping her in the back burner.
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:37 PM
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I’ve had a situation where I built a reputation as a player and it does have some sort of self-full-filing prophecy where women start seeking you out, out of curiosity. I’m naturally quite indifferent to everyone when I don’t try, so I also know what it’s like to be the quiet guy. The reality is that you need a bit of both. Being a “player” is tiring since you start feeling like you have to uphold your reputation and you can’t just chill with your friends anymore.
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:34 PM
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Not every girl like mystery and not every guy needs to build mystery. If OP can pull the girls he finds attractive being himself, there is no reason for him to create some fake mystery.
/r/seduction17/07/21 06:44 AM
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It's weird to be so impressed by an attractive person and it's weird to be an attractive person who thinks they are all that. That's it. You can literally find another girl as attractive or more attractive than her if you walk to the nearest coffee shop. Class and status has more weight than attractiveness in terms of actual social importance. If you are both middle class people working a 9-5 job one of you can pretend all you want to be important, but you are literally in the exact same shit.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:09 PM
0

It's a crutch. Name dropping can work but it's tacky af.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:03 PM
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Yes it worked because it’s real not because it’s a “quick trick” like you are mentioning.
/r/seduction16/07/21 07:11 AM
2

You can give advise on anything as long as you realize your bias and mention from what perspective an advise is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:09 AM
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Yes if you actually need to go to the bathroom. Otherwise, it’s just telling yourself you need to make up some stupid backstory to be worth talking to. You don’t need to. Just talk and deal with the reply.
/r/seduction16/07/21 06:07 AM
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This is mostly silly. Just start by asking her a normal question than having to go to the bathroom when you don't need to. It will have exactly the same effect.
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:33 PM
5

Being a nerd is different from looking like a nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 09:36 PM
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You have a shitty format then. You put that shit in the notes section not in the actual name.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:26 PM
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I think OP zeroed in on neckbeards too much. Women don't want to date a guy who belongs to any group that is associated with negative traits i.e. neckbeards, weirdoes, creeps, losers, dorks, nerds, incels, etc. Often these types of dudes are ugly, but it's not just about them being ugly. It's about being ugly plus the connotation of belonging to a negative group. However, if you are an "ugly" guy but you look like you belong to a cool group associated with positive traits, i.e. ugly professional…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 08:23 PM
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Just go to Thailand if you want something like that. It often be because of money unless you are attractive and managed to retain your youth.
/r/seduction14/07/21 11:42 AM
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I suppose some people are okay with this thought-process but from someone who is more group A, I don't personally understand how anyone is really supposed to take the others seriously at all. I can and probably should expect anyone that I'm dating to be "seeing other people" at the same time (especially as a man), but if I specifically >found out that my date was sleeping around while dating me, that would be an instant ejection. I can't take someone seriously who is dating and also casually sle…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:12 AM
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Group A gets in a relationship too quickly and hates it. Group B never gets in a relationship because they have commitment issues. Group C knows that you can't be too lax or too conservative when dating or you end with a weirdo or you let go of a keeper. What's the problem? If you are Group A then just go meet other people who are obviously Group A. Join church groups, conservative groups, or join a christian dating site. It's not hard, you are just blaming your lack of communications skills on …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 04:25 AM
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Bitch if you look at the actual course there is no section for voice deepening. It's not part of the treatment. I never fucking talked about what a "normal deep masculine voice" is I said you can't deepen your speaking voice. You keep tacking on shit so you can dance around the fact that you actually can't deepen your voice you dumb fuck. Masculine voice is ambiguous. Deepening your voice means you lower your entire set of voice octaves lower. What the actual fuck you must be retarded if you don…
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:33 PM
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That's "how to make you voice more masculine." Even the fucking voice coach has an average voice depth. What the actual fuck.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:23 PM
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You kinda alleged that. The OP has only talked about going commando, not about taking out his cock. And then I fucking replied that this could lead to something and that something could get him arrested. Are you fucking dumb? I never said he will get arrested to having a cock outline. I'd rather be obtuse than start hallucinating about things that'd never happen... Neither you and I can predict the fucking future. I know what I said. So stfu or stop saying shit I never said you dumb fuck.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:21 PM
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I never said the cock outline will get him arrested. I'm saying "he can get into exhibitionism and eventually get arrested for public indecency." The expected progression of this activity will predictably be him eventually just going full nude. Don't be purposely obtuse.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:11 PM
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Yes you do, it's officially called misdemeanor indecent exposure. It can be a felony depending on where and who sees it.
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:06 PM
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You really are committed to your strawman argument I never mentioned anything that you just mentioned. I said you can't make your speaking voice deeper. I never said anything about all the bullshit you just mentioned. Again link to a reputable voice choice who claims he can make your speaking voice deeper, you talk big, but you can't even back your shit up.
/r/seduction13/07/21 01:03 PM
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So you linked to some random voice source. Improving the quality of your voice does not change how deep your voice is. Most of the training to increase voice range is optimization. People have naturally occurring voice ranges. You can improve the utilization of lower range vocal folds which is useful for singing, not for speaking. The majority of people who will benefit from voice coaches in terms of speaking are people who have obvious speaking pathology or impediment. Okay give me one voice co…
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:11 AM
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If you did it when you were in puberty, that's just puberty naturally working. You can't deepen your voice. What you are doing is limiting your speaking voice to fewer lower tone vocal chords, so you sound like an idiot with no vocal intonation. Your comparisons don't make sense at all. Ice skating trains your motor skills which can obviously change, and deadlifting is not even hard to learn. It's more comparable to a guy who think his left side is his best looking side so he just talks to every…
/r/seduction13/07/21 12:32 AM
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You just found the word that perfectly describes those type of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:24 AM
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Why can’t you just link it here?
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:28 AM
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Sounds like how you get into exhibitionism and eventually getting arrested for public indecency and even get added as a sexual predator. Control yourself.
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:26 AM
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Okay where’s the link.
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:11 AM
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Except this shit is not even correlated. The patterns are sporadic and there aren’t even legends on the map. You can’t extrapolate any insights from this. Anyone who took statistics will export the data and display it in a better visualization map.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 11:00 AM
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The men who frequent this subreddit are disillusioned af. This coming from a dude, so don’t base any assumptions off of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 10:55 AM
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Building muscle and staying lean is good. Adding a bit of height is good. Growing a beard is overrated but sure looks good on some people. Deepening your voice doesn’t work how you think it works. You’ll just sound like a monotone bassoon trying too hard to be manly. Getting a nose job is such an odd advise. There is more nuance to plastic surgery especially since it’s not something you just take lightly with long terms life altering effect if it goes wrong. Game and genetics both matter. But pe…
/r/seduction12/07/21 09:09 AM
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Found a seat for us at the bar. My date asked for a mojito and the bartender joked that there was no such thing when you're at this place. My date settled on just some water. The bartender said she couldn't have water if she wasn't ordering alcohol. I gave her mine. The bartender then said that bar patrons who aren't ordering anything aren't allowed to sit at the bar. What the actual fuck is the bartender’s problem? Seems like he just hated her from the start.
/r/seduction12/07/21 09:00 AM
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It’s almost like a normal distribution. You’ll see that the uglier a girl is the less friendlier they are and it gets the easiest when you are approaching attractive women since they have the most positive experience, but if you look too weird or look like a social reject they are more likely to just brush you off or be scared since attractive women often have bad experiences getting assaulted by social outcasts with no self-control.
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:48 PM
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I’ll make this easy with steps and explanation. Kiss, tease, and flirt: this sets the mood and helps him forget about what you will do instead of having performance anxiety which can keep him from enjoying it. Accidental touch: What a lot of experienced girls do is they “accidentally” brush your boner with their hand or leg. Sometimes they just hang out and keep it there as if it’s nothing. This helps guys get excited. Deliberate stimulation with clothes on: You want to build it up as much as po…
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:37 PM
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Keep ham sandwich out of this. That shit is bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:17 PM
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You'll be blocked because she wouldn't want her ex to know she fucked around during their break. Move on.
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:04 AM
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Just be straight with her, don't bs. Female police officers get a lot of crap like this because they always deal with weirdoes in public situations. The more you can act like a normal respectful person, the better off you will be.
/r/seduction11/07/21 10:57 AM
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Lovey dovey sex is cringe af. To each his own.
/r/seduction11/07/21 10:52 AM
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Go to different club. Problem solved.
/r/seduction11/07/21 10:50 AM
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Haha again, I'm mostly just messing with you because you take it seriously and it makes it so much better. Peace. P.S. Go easy on the foundation, years of debris might ruin your houses' resale value. I suggest BB cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:30 AM
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Lol geez go easy on the essay I was mostly kidding. Also house, humblebrag much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:24 AM
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Dang, so wild weekend night out in the reddit comments huh? Party girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:16 AM
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See much better. Now you can probably go out and hold your own in an actual live banter situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:11 AM
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See that wasn't even the least relevant to qualify as a legitimate comeback. It's like you have a comeback roulette and you just pick what comes out. C'mon breh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:05 AM
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Damn some really low effort comebacks. You gotta add some oomph to those, they don't even sting a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:02 AM
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Lol done correctly...sure thing hon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 02:00 AM
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Lol quote one thing and say sure thing hon. That was an easy way to reply. I've been using my brain all this time, this will make talking way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:58 AM
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Lol so go to a place where they'll tell you anything to make you buy over-priced make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 01:56 AM
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Wrong. I'll be able to tell even if they are just wearing bb cream. Also all make up is "visible," that's the point of make up. I think what you mean to say is that typical guys see make up when it's improperly applied and that's what they associate with "make up." I can tell a girl is the type to define her entire life around make up even if she is not wearing one at the moment just based on her personality. That's how transparent this shit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:51 PM
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Show me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:46 PM
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Thats what I mean. More make up does diminishing returns for overweight women because they can't benefit from heavy make up. Its like having a bloated canvas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:09 PM
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word
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:02 AM
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For me make up becomes stupid once it takes you more than 30 minutes to get ready on a daily basis. If you need more than that to look good, that is not really you anymore. You are literally painting on a new face. A bit of concealer, fill in the brows, some highlight & contours and a dab of lipstick should be fine. If need to contour your face to reshape the shape of your cheeks, or fool people into thinking you have a pointier nose than you actually do, that's when you are literally just lying…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:46 AM
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Make up does wonder for skinny women that's why they can do the goth, girly, or whatever look. It doesn't do shit for overweight women since they can't contour without making it look obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:37 AM
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Based on your response to advice in the comments. You don't want advice, you just want confirmation to do what you will do anyways.
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:25 AM
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I listened to a lot of his interviews and was a fan at first. But the more you listen to him, the more you realize he just panders his message to frustrated single men. How he handles his life is even more disappointing. How his fans act like he is some infallible Jesus is annoying af. He is part of the sudden infusion of thought leaders who champion one group’s narrow-minded point of view so the people subscribed to that ideology can masturbate to his short clips of “owning” feminists when real…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:41 AM
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You sound like you should sign up to a paid dating service if you are that specific. Specific is good since it helps you target a niche type of women with a very specific taste that you can tailor your approach to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:33 AM
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Doesn't really matter how you greet her as long as you consider the context and the vibe. Also depends on the girl since they have different comfort levels, some girls I know do fist bumps, head nods and some won't settle for anything but a hug. Certain girls I know, a unique greeting can spontaneously be a thing which can be pretty cool like "you want to fight?" and I've had one where we literally just look at each other all suspicious, or give each other the evil eye.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:29 AM
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Just say hi to her next time you see her around and don't be weird or too clingy. A quick witty callback joke relating to the elevator fiasco before you wish her a good workout. You can feel it out, have random spontaneous convos here & there, and escalate depending on whether you see interest.
/r/seduction07/07/21 10:21 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:50 AM
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doesnt matter, if you are trying, you gotta try it all The reason you try it all is so that you can narrow down your search with the most effective methods. You don't keep trying all forever or you won't get any results because time is a premium. OLD is not an effective method. Meeting women in person is the best way to meet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:44 AM
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The majority of available women are good. They usually end up in stable relationships. The bad ones are the vocal ones who end up as activists, the most active in your local feminist subreddit, and the ones who are always in dating apps because their dark triad traits keep them from finding a man and they are too narcissistic to think that it's their fault so they remain in limbo as the only ones who give them the time of day are other dark traid men or desperate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:40 AM
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Assertiveness, for example, is important whether your kid is a male or female. Perspective-taking is important in order to foster critical thinking in developing minds and avoid a child simply succumbing to peer pressure or mindlessly obeying authority figures. Communication skills to help them be more articulate which is essential in developing personality and identity. Self-direction to help the child create their own goals. Reward-seeking behavior to make the child look for positive reinforce…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 09:21 AM
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There are tried and true ways to combat addition not some weird experimental treatment. Also I love the random insult to people working minimum wage job since I guess you are assuming I work minimum wage, which even if I am is completely irrelevant and not an issue whatsoever. I guess this is the type of argument you have learned from him. Proof is in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:43 AM
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In my family, you clean up after yourself. That's seems more like bad parenting using gender an excuse to uphold stupid rules. If you just focus on gender, you are missing the other bunch of other non-gender issues just because it's not the cool thing to pay attention to. There are so many more stupid traditions that need to be revamped that focusing on gender only is one way to miss 99% of the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:40 AM
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Lmao your hero nearly killed himself after putting himself in a medically induced coma. He’s so high his own farts that he goes and puts himself and people who respect his opinion in danger. His arguments online simply sound smart but are rooted in narrowmindedness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:50 AM
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No family teaches gender roles. It’s implied and picked up automatically. It’s better to teach kids actual useful skills like knowing how to be respectful, assertiveness skills, social skills, scripts, etc. than be some PC bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 02:47 AM
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What you teach kids is education, self-management skills and upbringing not masculinity. You are just being ambiguous on purpose so you can attach a negative connotation to a terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:16 AM
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Jordan Peterson is a dumbass who knows how to stroke the ego of his target audience using smart sounding sentenced. Masculinity being good or bad is some made up concept. Men are just humans with biological tendencies rooted in different anatomy, there is nothing inherently good or bad about masculinity and it’s effects are highly nuances and context-specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:23 PM
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Yup had the same realization when I found myself alone with no friends despite sleeping with a new girl every month. Sex is nice, but it’s pretty much means nothing if you don’t grow from it as a person. That’s when I aimed to build a great lifestyle that has a “side effect” of getting laid, but I make friends, make money and improve my life. I still have the pick up chops that I can turn on and off whenever I need, but it’s not my main method of getting laid anymore.
/r/seduction06/07/21 10:49 PM
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Well you not considering the power dynamics in a relationship. If the guy is the dominant person in the relationship, he can't show weakness because it would make the less dominant person feel insecure. If it's the girl that is the dominant person in the relationship, her showing weakness will equally shake the stability of the relationship. It just so happens that most men tend to be the dominant person in the relationship due to the multitude of variables that make men more dominant, but it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:12 AM
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Once worked with a girl. Never knew she was a feminist except whenever there was a problem she blamed it on something else. Whenever the manager checked on her, she always had some excuse as to why she couldn't finish the project. And it's never her fault. I was sitting next to her, she was lazy af. Whenever there was discussions on what to do she always had the first say. Very annoying person. Could never get hold on to a guy if her life dependent on it. Found out she's a feminist activist thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 11:00 AM
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That's about average for the typical single woman. Shouldn't be a problem if your social skills are workable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:09 AM
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So you are Ive league and never realized to target your audience. Different women value different men. I know some girls who would get wet at the idea of dating anyone from an ivy league school. Maybe your type doesn’t like your type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:55 AM
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High school being the best years of your life is a lie propagate by people who peaked in high school. There is no best year. The best year is now anyone who can’t let go of their past success are living in an imaginary world. That’s how you become the annoying guy wearing a sideward hat and oversized clothes because that’s what was cool when he was in high school and the dude never learned to progress in the next stage of his life
/r/seduction06/07/21 04:49 AM
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111 males vs 127 female neutorics that’s barely a difference if you compare that to the FDS and mental health sub correlations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:44 AM
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I think this depends heavily on the type of church.
/r/seduction05/07/21 10:32 PM
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It's easier to find a new girl than fix your relationship with an existing one. Often times problems with existing girls can be fixed (if it has any actual potential to be fixed) by leaving them alone. If it's a girl that you just met for a short while, it's not worth the effort.
/r/seduction05/07/21 10:31 PM
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As a man who gets annoyed by entitled feminists, there is still a lot of annoying men out. Before it was okay to literally just make weird sexist comment at women and it always bothered me how normal it was. It's not really toxic masculinity, but it's rooted on a lot of men being socially inept and entitlemed. Nowadays, there is a demand for men be less socially idiotic which I am all for and also people feeling less entitled is a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:28 PM
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All men want a slut who is just a slut for him and women want a bad boy who is a bad boy just for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:50 PM
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Not a single source was seen that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:46 PM
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Women tend toward neuroticism more than men Source. Trust me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:43 PM
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Yes. I don't want to be emotionally involved with people who have mental illness. Psychological tendencies are a thing, but mental illness means there is an impairment in normal functioning and I would prefer to be involved with people who are mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:42 PM
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Highly unlikely for a girl to open a younger guy at a bar. Let alone a local bar where the mom probably knows all the patrons. Not only that, she approached him and went super direct. How many women are this direct? Not only that, her shy daughter all of a sudden was so direct with him and wanted to fuck him right then and there because he is so irresistibly attractive. The likeliness of these improbably things happening in a row is low and the likeliness of a redditor making shit up is high.
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:29 PM
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Lol nice cap
/r/seduction04/07/21 10:00 PM
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I've had female friends like that. They are attractive but that's it. Unless she's high maintenance, it's probably not that big of a deal. Maybe she can introduce you to some high value dudes who can get you business connections or other people of value. It's not always about getting laid.
/r/seduction04/07/21 02:32 AM
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I personally don't pay attention to what people say just what they do. If you are trying to find a girl, it's best to cast a wide net and then filter based on who responds and who you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:03 PM
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Yes they do through referrals. They introduce you to their other attractive friends mainly. Your friend being able to become your wingwoman is highly dependent on her social skills. Your attractive friend probably is not the type who want to share the attention so she almost acts like a repellent.
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:59 PM
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You mentioned it's not western culture in general and that it's mostly women's culture which is connected to vanity as you mentioned. Just state your point, this is like pulling teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:45 AM
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I've only dated one girl on the thicker side and she was the most difficult girl to lay. Anyone who thinks fat women are easier to late because they are fat is most likely capping. They have so many emotional issues due to rejection that their shield are up at every single point during the escalation. Skinny attractive girls tend to be easier since they associate socializing to positive things so IF they like you, the road to getting laid is much smoother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:43 AM
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Vanity is not exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:25 AM
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Can you clarify what is western women's culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 09:16 AM
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Western culture glorifies getting a tan, puts alcoholics/druggies on a pedestal and worship people who go clubbing til daybreak, so yes you won't find too many men who take good care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:55 AM
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If you just want someone to rescue you from your horrible life, you'll have a lot of trouble whether it's finding a gf or a guy friend. It's mostly a mindset issue. Build a great life, share it with people. Along the way you find someone. That will be more effective than waiting until you find a girl and then trying to fake being a person who has a fun life.
/r/seduction03/07/21 08:51 AM
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The dude commenting doesn't seem the type to imply that. It's fine, you can get off your high horse now, you don't want to get rug burn on your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:48 AM
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Simple answer is that people don’t talk to each other in person as much as they used to. Here comes everyones wild theories as to why that is with no source whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 07:57 PM
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Don’t reverse game. You already have their number and they are regularly responding so don’t go and get yourself trapped back in the insta game. You usually get their insta to go get their number.
/r/seduction02/07/21 07:47 PM
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Running club seems like a recipe for skin cancer. I'd totally join an indoor running club though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:38 AM
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I've been in a relationships where the woman was a high earner and it's not as good as you think. I had no drive and was unhappy. She would just buy me shit I don't even want. We ate daily at nice restaurants and gained so much weight. We kept traveling to places I don't even remember. They also always tend to have some emotional issues. It was dark time in my life. I'd rather be poor and have my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:44 AM
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Your issue is literally just logistics and execution. You need to have a realistic place for sex to happen at any time. I've had sex in the back of my car, at the girls place, or even at a relative/friends place. It doesn't matter if you live with you parents, but you need to have a plan as to how you will make it happen it in a certain area. For example, when I had sex in my car, it was on the second date and I decided to park in the secluded area of the park. Additionally, I enticed her to han…
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:35 AM
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This is actually true. Trying to get a hug or touching a girl’s hands too early in your relationship are needy af. Through my experiences touching too early is actually counter intuitive and feels very gamey. Every dude tries to do this when it’s best to maintain some level of intrigue and anticipation.
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:25 PM
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Wait wtf you're right it's freaking right under 70%. What the hell. That's insane and it will only keep going up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:01 AM
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I'm amazed no one questioned the 70% obesity in the U.S. statistic. That is in no way accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 07:37 AM
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Best way is to be physically attractive. Second best way is to be socially well-adjusted. Being both is optimal.
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:35 AM
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This is more of an r/sex question
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:24 AM
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You got something better than a number. You got a good memory with your buddies.
/r/seduction29/06/21 09:04 PM
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It’s because this sub is starting to get brigaded by bitter feminist types. EDIT: Lmao as you can see by the downvotes.
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:51 PM
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Mind games are always part of socializing. If you think the world should just be "do you want x or not" and you should get the straight answer then you are just being needlessly simplistic. There are time to be straightforward and there times to be ambiguous, neither approach is applicable to all scenarios.
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:16 PM
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The most annoying thing about onlyfans simps is how insecure they are. Anyone who criticizes how stupid of a purchase it is will get brigaded by an army of them. They keep comparing it to buying porn. It’s not buying porn it’s a subscription to simulate an emotional connection with a real human.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:19 PM
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You really need to work on your generalization skills. I am not talking about the character of pretty women, I'm talking about how they are treated. If you compare a population of pretty women and a population of less attractive women, which population do you think would get treated better by their partners? I don't hate women, I hate bitter women. Bitter women tend to be damaged and had a bad straw in life and they just keep progressing towards a downward spiral. I personally want nothing to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:48 AM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:43 AM
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99% of women on FDS are not pretty girls they tend always be bitter women who are either old, unattractive, or have some weird mental issue. If you compare a population of pretty women and a population of less attractive women, which population do you think would get treated better by their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:54 AM
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Lol thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 04:42 AM
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This is a bad question which will get shitty answers on this sub. How to get any guy? Just be available. How to get a decent man? Be somewhat attractive. How to get high value men? Be attractive, be socially adjusted, have your shit together, actually care for him, and grow your intellect along with the other important tenets of life. This can also be highly niche. Trying to get a HVM business person or a HVM athlete would have different preferences in women.
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:43 AM
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I think it's a huge part preference and motivation. If I was old and single. I would be more motivation to invest time into a younger girl who is young rather than an older woman who also tends to be more annoying to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:30 PM
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It filters women based on interest level. Usually the rule is to never give out your number since women will never initiate. You text a girl and you work your way to getting her on a date. I'd imagine this style is to reduce the work in the backend once she contacts him since she will almost definitely be down for a date. The issue with this is you will have way less actual women contacting you as opposed to just getting their number and you initiating contact. This is way better for advanced pe…
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:57 AM
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These are usually pretty shitty. Among those who commit only fraction will actually go and among those go, only a fraction will be women and those who are women won't be that attractive or in your age range.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:51 AM
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This is actually a very important skill to develop if you want to be able to flirt in the open in places where being too aggressive can get you in trouble i.e. at work, in exclusive clubs and in tight-knit groups of friends. It's a highly naunced skill and there is really no rule-book on this. I am the only person I know who likes flirting and mind games because it's exciting and typically what you want to do is talk in subtext and use a lot of positional, gestural and voice tonality variations …
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:49 AM
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Yes, that's why I tend to gravitate towards slippery assholes like you. Yes I'm on gay more right now because you can't handle straight mode. Yeah, I mean you are a dude right? Wait, are you a girl??? Like the other guy said, just have fun with hit. It's usually girl trying to get you to "prove" your manliness since dudes tend to overreact.
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:49 PM
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This is why you keep notes. I have a personal set of rules and tactics I use for daygame that I continually change and improve. This helps you become more objective and keep you from losing crucial breakthroughs.
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:43 PM
0

Lol sure. Stay bitter sister.
/r/seduction21/06/21 02:52 PM
0

You are bitter because your assumptions are based on your view that anyone who disagrees with you belong to this monolithic group of men that you hate. You are literally telling me not to generalize women while generalizing yourself. You have negative self-awareness. Only thing I said, that triggered you, was that the best move in dating are thing that require the least pressure, has the least friction and the most excitement. That is not a generalization that is a set of conditions that make fo…
/r/seduction21/06/21 07:47 AM
2

Ive seen guys do this and it’s too cheesy for me. It would work if you were a teenage kid it would work.
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:16 AM
1

You probably text them back with too much latency between the interaction and your first message. 1 hour is a bit of an overkill for a number imo, if you spend that long of a time with a girl, you should aim for an instadate.
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:13 AM
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So many assumptions, so little useful information. I think you are trying to generalize your own interaction with one guy you like to variable types of men who may or may not be attractive to the person they are trying to date. That being said, your bitterness is revealing.
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:11 AM
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The best move in dating is often the ones that are the most frictionless and put the least pressure on the girl while making it seem as exciting as possible. The first one seems to work in a imaginary scenario but doesn’t work for most guys.
/r/seduction20/06/21 11:47 PM
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My take on asking for a date: "Would you go out with me on a date?" - Kind of weak and unexciting "I know this awesome place with lots of fluffy cats and people puking in bathrooms after they eat disgusting amount of ice cream and vodka. We should totally go!" - Better with more initiative "You are going with me to (blank)" - It can work but it really depends on the delivery. Can also come off as too try hard which is what OP has come off as.
/r/seduction20/06/21 07:57 AM
1

Lmao the dude just used you as motivation for a PR attempt
/r/seduction18/06/21 03:19 PM
1

No. Looking like a coward is just annoying to look at. Being masculine or have a neutral stance is fine because it makes you less annoying to look at. It doesn't do the work for you. This is an oversimplified take on the whole subject. Now some dumbass redditor will read this and take up two fucking seats thinking it will get him laid trying to look like a north american condor. Just stop being fucking idiots on this sub dear god.
/r/seduction14/06/21 09:46 AM
2

Okay college campuses are usually prime locations for this. One tip I can give you is try to do more approaching during the start of the semester because towards the end more girls are hooked up already. Bookstore tend to be a hit or miss depending on the location. If it's a bookstore near dorms, that would be better versus a bookstore near milf suburbs.
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:24 PM
2

Statistically they will just be a different population. An extreme, example would be trying to generalize your experience talking to women who study in a mime campus to the general population of women. Actresses are trained to be presentable, and have different motivations than a typical woman. Also the variables in a talk show are totally different than when you are just trying to have a conversation with a girl. It's been documented as well that simply having a camera rolling makes people more…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:16 PM
7

His style works because he owns a talk show, the camera is on and the women who get on his show are trying to promote something. It's not applicable to 99.99% of men. Also, female entertainers are not exactly the normal kind of woman you'll meet on a typical day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:07 PM
1

You are most likely fishing in the wrong pond. You need to ask girls out in places with single women.
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:02 PM
11

That actually seems more work than fun. Some of these dudes have deep seated insecurities and just wanted to have sex to see their numbers go up. Most I got was 1 new girl every month and even that was kinda hectic. A typical guy will never want to sleep with 300 women unless he's got some emotional issues he's trying to drown out.
/r/seduction10/06/21 04:20 PM
2

What?
/r/seduction08/06/21 07:21 AM
1

Hypersocial people learn to always say yes to opportunities and reject later due to whatever reason because it's just socially more advantageous to not reject people in outright. It's possible she never intended to go through in the first place. It's why rejection doesn't matter it could be any of the million possible reasons that have nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:25 AM
2

Most women nowadays never call, rarely text and usually message through some app because they are more interactive and less committed to the conversation. I personally make calling as a "let's get this shit sorted out" button if communicating through text or sm is ineffective.
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:17 AM
1

Your frame is just inferior and you think too much. I've done this. I go out to meet women, not one woman. I go out to meet women. Just as how you go to events and meet connections. You don't set out to meet one woman. That is not needy, you are just aware that you are inferior yourself so it's so easy to break your frame with something so simple as going out. Attractive men are out in the world doing their own thing, and don’t need to seek out women. Yeah you are have no idea what you are talki…
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:47 AM
2

Most people who comment on here are the rejects of the dating world and prefer to think that the system is broken rather than admit there is something wrong with them that they need to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 11:32 AM
0

Lol I call out bullshit on the regular, I don't need to amp myself up just to call out an obvious scammer. It's very common for scammers to hide behind the guise of "being mature" so that people can't call out their bullshit. To a non-virgin, non-desperate person you are obviously lying, and know nothing about you are claiming to be an expert in. Also, if I was angry I would downvote every one of your replies like you are doing to mine lmao.
/r/seduction03/06/21 05:11 AM
1

Damn, so not only are you porn star you are also a philanthropist? Wow, it's almost like this shit is all made up.
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:12 PM
0

Your target demographic are teenage kids on reddit or lonely desperate men who want to think having a way to shield themselves from rejection is an actually a thing. Also “I’m not buying your shit,” is an expression. You can’t even decode basic conversation and claim to be a master at seduction. I feel bad for those who actually pay for whatever you are selling.
/r/seduction02/06/21 08:57 PM
0

Lmao life is basically porn. Sorry dude, maybe look for more virgin 15 and under kids to scam. I’m not buying your shit.
/r/seduction02/06/21 08:47 PM
0

I think you have zero experience approaching women in public. EDIT: Lmao the downvotes show this sub is filled with people who have no actual knowledge of approaching. By the time you've determined someone is "not trying to be approached" you are already too close and have been watching her for too long like a creep. Just approach and move on if they are busy. It's pretty obvious when someone's advice is theoretical.
/r/seduction02/06/21 02:53 PM
1

Most likely made up and if he is getting head, it's between him and the girl. You think because someone else is getting head that you should too, what?
/r/seduction02/06/21 01:45 PM
2

Bring it up. Tell her that you like her, but you are starting to think you are just trying to force it. Don't just leave like a little bitch, confront. If you don't like her answer then leave. That's how you take command. I swear some of you have no backbones.
/r/seduction02/06/21 01:40 PM
5

Lowering or increasing standards is actually a false way to look at it. People value different things, so their standards tend to focus on different topographies of a person's value i.e. some guys value looks over personality, some personality over looks. It's quite pointless to worry about someone's "level of standard" since it's not a really on a measurable scale. It also depends on who is evaluating their standard. For example you may consider a guy going for a hotter girl with an attitude as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:28 AM
2

Seems like a waste of effort. If I did this I would have 1/10 of my success. You'd probably get more success if you just ask for the number and just text. It's easier than writing on a note.
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:17 AM
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Almost all of my lays from daygame were from women who seemed like they are "trying to be left alone." People are busy and they don't "expect" to be approached, but that doesn't mean they are not open to be approached by a "cool guy." One of my easiest lay at the mall when a chick was busy shopping with her friend, but I approached anyways and she pretty much did all the work after I initiated. Most attractive women will put on an unapproachable face otherwise they will be constantly approached …
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:13 AM
4

You're not bald your hair is just chin-centric
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:05 AM
1

I don't think we are even talking about the same thing. I was talking about what the OP brought up, which was sprucing up a guy's place so that their date is more likely to sleep with them. It's already implied you have rapport and some attraction if a girl is coming over. My point is that she already knows if she will sleep with you whether you play jazz music with new york strip dinner or not.
/r/seduction01/06/21 10:56 AM
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Makes sense, doesn't work. Women will come over if they like you. The moment you try to "convince" them to come over using logic is when you lose. I agree that guys should make the experience better just out of principle, but don't look at it as a way to convince her, but enhancing your own experience and getting better as a person. Honestly, this is the type of shit lame dudes that don't get laid spend their time and effort on.
/r/seduction30/05/21 10:04 PM
10

It's in the freaking meme. The women who dresses modestly is shown as Becky or whatever they call that girl and Stacy is dressed in revealing clothing and supposed to be seen as the more desirable girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 11:32 PM
1

?
/r/seduction19/05/21 11:45 AM
1

Lay count as in 60 different girls or you had sex 60 times?
/r/seduction19/05/21 11:43 AM
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I have anecdotal experience backing this. Was slightly built growing up and thought women were just naturally nice and easy to talk to, then I gained a lot of weight and I became invisible. Got back into shape and everyone is nice again. That being said, I think a good physique works as a multiplying effect. If you have zero social skills, ugly face and don't know how to carry yourself, muscles can help a little. If you are socially adept, have a decent face and know how to confidently carry you…
/r/seduction19/05/21 11:41 AM
5

You just have a crush.
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:19 AM
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Then you are living in the best time in world history. Fatties are everywhere, obesity is at an all time high almost half of American adults are overweight right around 40+%
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:14 AM
1

Caffeine, which increases levels of the stress hormone Cortisol, can significantly affect who are susceptible to social anxiety, particularly if consumed first thing in the morning. Source? I'm very healthy and I actually go out of my way to add caffeine (With no sugar) to my diet as it's tied to decrease in all cause mortality. The only problem with caffeine is that it's usually consumed with sugar.
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:02 AM
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Yeah bad thing is that they usually don't actually mean to be friends, it's just a soft rejection and would probably be a shitty friend.
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:01 AM
1

Haha damn lol. I might as well ask for medical advice from an essential oils salesman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:06 AM
1

It's definitely relative. Tinder is hard mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:03 AM
1

Ayyy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:02 AM
1

Yeah but you won't be competing with 10/10 chad that is 1000 miles away like on tinder. Tinder is hard mode because you are competing against the world. I've personally fucked some hot girls that I would never have laid if I met them on tinder. If you cast your net wide enough, you will catch women when you are essentially not competing with anyone. This is the real-world dating model - a sporadic multi-nodal hierarchical model rather than tower of photogenic chads you need to take down like on …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:02 AM
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That 20/80 experiment is based on Tinder statistics and not on real-world population. In real life, it's more of a supply of high quality men a girl has access to that determines who gets who which has a lot more lee way in terms of a guy's "status."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:02 AM
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It's a self-report. If anything it just indicates women are just more open about cheating because they are less dependent on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:55 AM
1

My famously attractive star quarterback buddy was having similarly bad luck at this bar tonight as well, while our short, frumpy, boyish, poorly put together friend with braces was having girls come up to him. Really baffling shit. It's one data point so I wouldn't think too much of it, but still pretty interesting that the tall jock gets nothing while the short kid gets showered with attention. Also as someone who has things planned, most of my meetings are all pretty much some kind of "reunion…
/r/seduction15/05/21 08:51 AM
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Your prime age is the age where the below are maximized: Your looks Your social reach Your social skills Your money and status Your masculinity Some guys have this in their 20s, some in the 30s and some in their 40s. It can even be in your 50s. Different men will have different primes. Don't expect it to magically happen at a particular age. It's more of a function of multiple relevant dating variables all peaking at the same time rather than shit suddenly appearing at a certain age. For example…
/r/seduction15/05/21 08:44 AM
1

Depends on how you previously split ways. The more of a one-night stand it is, the less she's likely to re-engage because you are more of a mistake and there is less rapport between the two of you so re-engaging with you is more aversive for her. The more rapport you had prior to having sex, the more likely she is to re-engage. That's the pattern I've seen.
/r/seduction15/05/21 08:41 AM
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She's just a flirt. She flirts with whoever she feels like flirting with in the moment. It means nothing and is nothing, move on.
/r/seduction15/05/21 08:38 AM
4

If you are a white dude it's 30. If you are asian it's 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:22 AM
1

That's every hot girl nowadays. Still most attractive girls I've picked up mostly have around under 5k followers. That ones around 20k are either pretty hot or they actually are trying to market themselves. 20k is not that common.
/r/seduction12/05/21 10:08 PM
1

27k is not bad. She must be pretty hot.
/r/seduction12/05/21 10:03 PM
1

So you know all this and you decide to go on Omegle? That's like a dude who claims he knows how to get rich off the stock market, but he chooses to sell $10 courses.
/r/seduction09/05/21 09:33 PM
5

Dude has average face and above average height. He is one of those dudes who could either be a 3 or an 8 depending on how he plays his cards. Imagine a tall confident dude commanding attention, and then imagine a big lumbering awkward idiot. This is the most interesting thing about male SMV, it can swing wildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:22 AM
2

The reason why women hate needy men is the same reason men like boobs. It's primal and each person has different cognitive and visceral justification of it, but all women equally don't like it. You don't need to decode it.
/r/seduction08/05/21 05:18 AM
1

Oh hey look a blog spammer
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:05 AM
8

Women getting approached by weird men, homeless guys, creeps, etc. is very frequent. Women getting approached properly by proper men, highly infrequent especially out in the wild. Women getting engaged in conversation by proper men in niche situations like the office as an excuse to talk, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:06 AM
1

I call it the loser dilemma. Anyone who is cool enough to care about you did already forgot about what you did because they are hyper social and anyone who remembers what you did doesn't have much going for them. So you don't really need to care.
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:26 PM
1

Whenever I do lose them, I lose them completely, however, I never really contact them again. Maybe I should simply try maintaining contact with FWBs even after we have "made a decision."
/r/seduction03/05/21 09:30 PM
2

Best habit to practice is to not care whether she did or did not. Just forget about her and start working on the next girl.
/r/seduction02/05/21 05:53 PM
2

Go ahead
/r/seduction02/05/21 01:04 AM
1

That's pretty identical to my MO. Damn I still can't find a difference.
/r/seduction02/05/21 01:04 AM
2

What did you talk about though? I feel like I ask too much "what is the meaning of life" type of questions which gets them too emotionally invested. Did you mostly bs around?
/r/seduction01/05/21 08:42 AM
2

We talk on the phone once every 2 months even though we are in different countries. We share details that we don't share with our other friends. What do you usually talk about when you speak on the phone? Also what sort of details do you keep among yourself? I apologize in advance, I will be asking lots of questions so feel free to not answer if I'm over-stepping. We have know each other for 5 years. How long before you ended up sleeping with her? Also do you think you are at the a point where y…
/r/seduction01/05/21 12:56 AM
4

Ohh it's fine. Now show me what you got playa.
/r/seduction01/05/21 12:52 AM
3

Interesting. Is the reason you haven't fucked since because you didn't want, you couldn't find an opportunity or because she develop feelings? Btw this is great info, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction01/05/21 12:51 AM
2

Anyone? Does anyone know a guy or a sub who would have an answer to this?
/r/seduction01/05/21 12:40 AM
2

I'm amazed how blogspammers get upvoted on this sub and get through with some low effort headline.
/r/seduction27/04/21 09:25 PM
2

I mostly come here to see blogspammers pretend to make 6 figures while spamming links to their shitty videos that get 10 views.
/r/seduction27/04/21 09:18 PM
2

You are all over-romanticizing this. Approaching a girl just helps you get in front of her so you can determine if she likes you or not. If you don't do that you will never know. Her liking a guys courage is just cognitive dissonance from the fact that the guy is her type.
/r/seduction26/04/21 07:25 PM
0

zzzzzz
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:01 AM
0

What? Hot pockets aren't even relevant nor was it referenced in any way. This is the type of comeback an AI would type out.
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:14 AM
1

So now you are just a shittier grammarly. Wtf are you.
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:06 AM
1

Lol your comebacks are so preschooler level. Is this what happens when you just focus on creating cringe content all your life?
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:00 AM
0

You know someone has no point when they try to distract from the main argument. Dude has barely any youtube subs, and barely has any website traffic. I'm pretty sure you don't even know how conversion funnels work so you think you can bullshit your way into saying an obviously low performance landing page is doing more than it actually is.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:58 AM
0

Damn your comebacks are so basic. You must be really upset lol. I bet you're in the same social circle and you are just as broke as he is lmao.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:56 AM
1

Lol you won't make 3,000 per week on that shitty website with barely any traffic. You are making so much money yet you buy the cheapest wordpress template with the shittest landing page. You can't even hire your own social media poster. Why are you doing your own posting if you are so rich? Your event calendar has two 2 spots per event and it's barely reserved. I bet you just adjust it yourself to save face.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:55 AM
0

100k view and 10 sub average means your content is shit because no one comes back. A kid playing fortnite can get more views with better conversion rates lmao.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:47 AM
0

Lol you are talking about overall video views. Damn you are dumber than I think. one quarter of that are google bot crawlers because he release so many videos that nobody watches. The rest of those views are sub 10 second views he got from spamming. Non-targetted spam views cost as little as 0.5 cents it means nothing today. You are stuck in 2005 lmao.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:45 AM
0

Lmao learn how to use socialblade. Dude averages 10 new subscribers per week lol.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:41 AM
0

Millions of views where? Delusional much.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:38 AM
1

Lol turns out you are another blogspammer defending another blogspammer.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:35 AM
1

The majority of downvotes on this post disagree with you.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:33 AM
2

Lol so you are make $6,000 at most per month before tax. That's $72,000 per year. What happened to your 6 figure income? Your website is down 66% engagement according to alexa. Again you should restrategize instead of using a phased out method such as blogspamming a dead subreddit. You just learned the term learned helplessness without knowing it's actual operational definition so you think you it applies to anyone. Everything else you mentioned is just unprovoked insecurity. You sound like an o…
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:31 AM
2

3k view per day at 0.50 CPM gives $1 dollar of income per day. Your bootcamps don't earn you shit. 6 figure? Keep lying to yourself. Anything gets upvoted on this sub because it's a bunch of 13 year old who can benefit from someone just saying the most basic dating advice. Most of the guys who need legitimate help need to be helped by an actual therapist not some wannabe guru with no actual qualification or training.
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:03 AM
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The fact that you only have 10k youtube subscribers despite constantly spamming your youtube links here means it's not working to get you any traffic and it's not useful to people.
/r/seduction20/04/21 03:54 AM
1

Blogspam
/r/seduction20/04/21 03:47 AM
2

This is true. In anything you do, you have to "know your rap." You can literally rap your way to getting a job, selling a product, getting into a girl's pants and pretty much anything. It's not what you say, it's how you say it and how dope you look doing so.
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:20 AM
1

99% of the time guys are just happy to participate lol
/r/seduction19/04/21 03:46 PM
1

I actually had one guy tell me I made him feel like a piece of meat Lol I know what he saw. I felt that once. I was not in the mood at all the girl I was dating was just showing hints after hints that she wants something to happen, but I was not reciprocating it. Finally, she couldn't help it and literally just jumped on top of me. She was literally just using me (which she asked me if it's okay and I said it's fine). I felt somewhat emasculated because she was so aggressive. I think that trick …
/r/seduction19/04/21 02:06 PM
3

Try to look into transition. You can use cold-reads, stories, comments, and even just vibe to hook a girl into a free-flowing conversation.
/r/seduction19/04/21 01:01 PM
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RSD has an annoying try-hard style. I would do the same if I was a girl and some dude puts on some fake over the top personality based on an imaginary character in a movie.
/r/seduction19/04/21 12:59 PM
3

Easiest solution is to just go out and meet people in real life. Most of these weird people are online and primarily look for partners online because they are too afraid to go out into the real world since the real world is not friendly to alternate realities and delusions. It also test your personal delusions. You think you are attractive? Go out and meet people where you can't pick out the best angle for your photos or carefully construct your posts. I've met tried to meet women online and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:26 AM
0

Go be an incel somewhere else.
/r/seduction19/04/21 09:59 AM
1

You don't know how to argue chronologically, you keep jumping from one thread to the next regardless of the points I made. You are a waste of time, no thanks. Goodbye.
/r/seduction18/04/21 08:33 PM
1

It filters people who are open-minded enough to actually have a reasonable exchange of ideas or here to be a bitch. You are the latter. Also pick one thread to reply to me or send me a direct message.
/r/seduction18/04/21 08:08 PM
1

Lol I disagree.
/r/seduction18/04/21 06:47 PM
-1

It's called equal rights, equal fights.
/r/seduction18/04/21 06:42 PM
2

I asked you what your definition of femininity is, which to this point you still haven't answer. You chose to assume that I am some Neo-liberal believer who believe gender is a social construct. So I answer in equal bullshit where I argue like a bitch instead of just answering a question properly and having a proper argument.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:59 PM
0

Like I said bullshit with bullshit. I tried to ask a valid question which he answered with bullshit so I answered with equal bullshit as well.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:57 PM
3

Different people consider different sets of traits as feminine. For example, 100 years ago making direct eye contact was considered unfeminine. So if your definition of femininity was based on some phased out definition that is not really practical for modern women, I can be more sure that your opinion is not that based on reality, but based on nostalgia/tradition or some other variable.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:44 PM
3

You assumed that I thought gender is a social contract rather than just being straight up about what your definition of femininity is so I assumed your emotional state based on that. Bullshit for bullshit. That's how the world works.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:35 PM
10

the fact you even need to ask this questions indicates where we are at in society. You are way too emotional which could be considered a feminine trait for example. If I was to argue femininity on that, you would be considered feminine. If you were to argue the traditionalist perspective on what is masculine/feminine you wouldn't make the cut.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:21 PM
9

Define what you would consider as feminine.
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:04 PM
23

The most powerful tool for seduction is escalation. You don't know her? Escalate by approaching. Boom you just turned a stranger into a prospect. Don't know her that much? Escalate by engaging her in conversation. You just turned a stranger into an acquaintance. Don't have much rapport? Escalate by hooking her into a conversation that helps her know you and get her to express her experiences to you as well. Essentially that and you keep escalating until you can't.
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:54 PM
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A good amount of women are upfront. A good amount of the girls I've been with were the ones who brought up sex and initiated sex. It's just that most women don't find most men worth being upfront with.
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:45 PM
-2

Lol if you are talking about specifics and made some headway already you'd want to iron out mistakes so you can improve. Aimlessly using this platitude for every situation is like a 5th grader celebrating the fact that he's going to school whenever he fails a test. Just look at the freaking test and remember what to do correctly next time.
/r/seduction17/04/21 09:15 AM
2

What's the point?
/r/seduction17/04/21 02:54 AM
2

Biggest tip to have interesting chats is to stay away from cliche questions i.e. How are you, what do you do for a living, what are your hobbies, covid amirite, etc. One way to do that is ask cliche questions in non-traditional ways turn "how are you" into "On a scale of 1 to 10 how close are you to punching someone in the face?" and turn What, where and whens into how and why questions.
/r/seduction16/04/21 09:21 PM
13

If she didn't re-engage you in conversation after writing her number, it's fake.
/r/seduction16/04/21 09:13 PM
2

Yup natural interest makes you think of the "Why's" and the "How's" of a subject. The What, where, when, and who often are just the dependent variables that don't mean much in the larger scheme of things yet that's what most guys seem to focus on because it's how we are built to think. We are taught to get things done and be over with it. You should aim to understand and enjoy the process of things and it will make you naturally a better conversationalist.
/r/seduction15/04/21 08:40 PM
11

Withdrawing attention is a great way to analyze if your attention is rewarding for a girl in the first place. If she doesn't notice, she wasn't interested in the first place. If she tries to re-engage, it just confirms that she finds your attention desirable and feel some sort of loss when she doesn't get it.
/r/seduction14/04/21 05:27 AM
2

I'm pretty sure we're saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 09:48 PM
1

Can atest for #2. The fact that I am way nicer and more polite works for me. I never really try to push women to sex. But as people say, you need to be within their league somehow. The fact that you are in their league and you are not trying to sleep with them is seen as high value.
/r/seduction13/04/21 08:19 AM
8

Chad would be someone like Ryan Gosling, or Jason Momoa who just have charisma. I mean, even if they were virgins, it wouldn’t really matter, people will still like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:54 AM
31

Chad is not really about what you actually do. It’s about what people perceive you to do. You can sleep with 1000s of women but have no charisma and it won’t make a difference. Meanwhile if someone was a virgin but looks and acts like a Chad people will just assume he already gets it. This is a very common insecurity among men when in reality, it doesn’t matter who you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:05 AM
3

“Loving relationship” is a loaded term. Women have access to quantity of potential relationships, but a huge portion of that are just bad relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:01 AM
2

The only one's against people doing this are religious people. Everyone else pretty much minds their own business. Every girl I date is judged on a case-by-case basis and based on my choices at the time. There is no absolute standard by which people are judged in the dating, it's all relative. If I were pick a gf, the party girls who rode the cock carousel or the one who had 3 boyfriends, I will pick the latter. Otherwise, I wouldn't really know what I'm missing if I don't have much choice anywa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 09:35 AM
3

OP gives me strong duck dynasty vibes.
/r/seduction07/04/21 11:04 AM
1

There are a lot of men’s issues. Lacking social skills is not one of them because it a personal choice to improve them. If you just blame everything on society, your social skills will stay shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 10:40 PM
2

I cannot fathom why people give a shit so much about this specific topic. If you don’t like someone for whatever reason move on. What’s the point of shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:29 AM
1

Lol I’m not a girl but every girl I’ve dated that is relatively attractive she has a nightmare scenario of some dude who has no social skills creeping the shit out of her. The social skill floor has simply been raised because it was pitiful to begin with. A crime doesn’t need to be committed for an interaction to be aversive. Here you are bawling your eyes out because you can get matches online how do you think a weaker girls feels encounter some unknown stranger who has zero social sense and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 11:24 AM
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Lol it’s always funny when they go for the “rest is history” when they are not quite sure how to complete the story.
/r/seduction04/04/21 10:34 PM
1

Imagine being you. Now that's depressing.
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:18 PM
1

Nah the way he expressed his point is just annoying.
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:17 PM
1

Hmmm. Makes sense. I don't care that much.
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:00 PM
0

Meh fair enough. It might just be my interpretation.
/r/seduction01/04/21 03:48 AM
0

Its implied in the wording
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:12 AM
-4

All girls do this sometimes still refers to all girls. I didnt say it implied all girls do this all the time. Implying all people kill sometimes is different from implying all people kill all the time
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:06 AM
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You just summed up that girls do stupid shit and there is nothing you can do about it. The “all” is implied based on the wording. You are generalizing sets of trait to women other than the ones you met based on a niche set of circumstances. The only common variable was you.
/r/seduction01/04/21 01:43 AM
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2 girls did something. OMG ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS.
/r/seduction01/04/21 01:31 AM
3

I mean its somewhat special, but if you don’t remember what it is before being born, it won’t matter once you are dead either. Just enjoy your life and don’t do stupid shit.
/r/seduction31/03/21 06:30 AM
1

You sound desperate af, thats why I know you'll do great. Just make sure to keep dem baby makers from reaching her egg or you'll be worrying about quarterpolar kids.
/r/seduction30/03/21 04:41 AM
1

Lol she sounds bipolar as fuck, but hey just show up on the good days. Half the effort, all the fun.
/r/seduction30/03/21 04:22 AM
3

First off, if the girl wants to leave, lay down a red carpet so she can leave faster. Do not ever frame it in your head as preventing her to leave. If she wants to leave let her. As for commenting, there are several categories of it: cold reads (assumptions about her) e.g., "You are wearing a backpack and a beanie, did you just rob a bank?" observation with reference e.g., "You are wearing a backpack, I like how it makes you look like a ninja turtle about to fight crime. So where's master splint…
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:31 AM
2

That's not technically a cold approach since you are in the same class. This is more social circle game if anything.
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:19 AM
5

If you are asking this in regard to what women find attractive, just being lean and somewhat muscular is all that's needed. Most women are not as picky when it comes to muscle genetics (i.e. insertions, v-taper, muscle balance) as bodybuilders. As for creating V-taper what body builders do is build their lats, lateral delts, and traps to accentuate the narrow hips. Having big thighs will actually help in creating not just the V-taper, which is the anterior part of the looks, but the X-frame as w…
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:17 AM
2

No, it's easier in cities with a skewed female to male ratio e.g., New York.
/r/seduction29/03/21 08:39 AM
1

Yes and if you ever get lost, you can survive if your phone battery is dead.
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:13 AM
1

150 at 6'2 is not that bad. But you can definitely get on a mass gaining program that tracks your weekly weight gain and strength gain. You will be able to put on a relatively good amount of mass in a short time with some fat gain. 165-180 is a good weight range for that height. I would emphasize that you do not rush it.
/r/seduction27/03/21 08:55 AM
1

Night club game is pretty much trying to socialize at a house party. You make quick low investment interactions with as many people early on in the night and then you eventually try to expand the rapport and determine which girls are open to connect the longer the night goes.
/r/seduction27/03/21 08:45 AM
10

A woman immediately sucking another cock because they have better abs is not normal. This is when red flags such as extremely high n count or history of lack of self-control becomes relevant. A typical girl who has under 15 partners by the time she's in her mid twenties don't act like that. What's more likely to happen is there will be an emotional falling out and she feels unfulfilled and starts entertaining attention from other men. This is why you don't gf fuck buddies with tendencies for pol…
/r/seduction26/03/21 07:17 AM
1

... also, I’m funny☺️ Lmao. Bro you are barking up the wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:49 AM
11

True, though longer you become fuck buddies with someone, the more you'll see what they are really like. This is also why you want to be seeing other women during your bachelor phase so your decision is not clouded by rapport and emotional attachment.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:47 AM
60

This is why my fuck standard filters women a bit, but my gf standard is pretty high.
/r/seduction25/03/21 12:49 AM
2

The only technique you really need to know is the false time constraint. Everything else comes naturally and will come from you approaching or learning from guys who approach. Most books on this just try to blow your mind, but when you actually apply it none of it works. It's a huge waste of time.
/r/seduction24/03/21 04:42 AM
7

The Game is just entertainment. It doesn't offer any actual benefit to your social skills.
/r/seduction24/03/21 03:20 AM
7

TLDR: Do it my way or you are an idiot, plus all other cliche advice. Shit like this gets upvoted on this sub smh.
/r/seduction22/03/21 04:57 AM
3

YOU want to be what the WOMAN wants to be. But the woman has more clout in the dating market so she's gonna get to play the leading role whether you like it or not. The woman wants you to shower HER with attention, compliments, adoration, offerings. Not the other way around. She doesn't want to give to you. She wants to receive. If she senses you want to RECEIVE too much, she will see you as "wanting to be the girl" in the relationship. So make peace with the idea that she wants to see you wanti…
/r/seduction21/03/21 02:45 PM
1

Just watch "Wanted" for some motivation.
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:31 AM
12

There are two reason for someone not moving forward for a behavior. There is an aversive response that they don't want. Aversive experiences create emotional imprints in our psychology whether we like it or not. The second reason is that you don't see the effort as being worth the pay off. You can solve that by either getting a bigger pay off or using less effort. Since texting and online dating are literally zero effort, but you still don't want to do it, the only possible way for you to not mo…
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:20 AM
13

It's because you probably have PTSD from past experiences. You should contact an ABA analyst or cognitive behavior therapist to basically rework your behavior contingencies since they could be all fucked up.
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:11 AM
3

Done lots of this in the past and it can be a huge waste of time. Make sure to pick an area with lots of single population like a college down or you’ll be getting mostly moms. Campuses or vacation spots are always better for daygame.
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:53 PM
2

Lots of people are living in their realities nowadays who often times have altered senses of entitlement despite not having the faintest idea how to get what they feel entitled to. Incels are entitled to sex but don't know how to get it, anti-vaxxers are entitled to health but don't know how the human body works, voter fraud supporters are entitled to the election despite having no proof to back up their claims, and there are so many more. The most you can do is stay safe, protect yourself and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 11:59 AM
0

The only n-count that matters are the ones outside of a relationship. From my experience 3-10 is the sweet spot since they had enough experience to appreciate a committed relationship. Above 10 is when it's somewhat physically impossible to have dated that many people in a relationship, so the likeliness of the girl just having emotional issues or inhibition issues that prevent them from staying in a relationship (which keeps their n-count static for a period of time) increases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 08:12 AM
3

I always brushed off pet store as potential places to pick up girls, but now that you think about it lots of single women own cats. That being said, isn't it mostly boomer women who actually visit physical pet stores?
/r/seduction13/03/21 10:45 AM
1

I've admitted to doing this plenty of times in terms of just knowing how to pick up women. The girls you've slept with don't give a shit what you did to get into their pants. They actually want you to treat them like shit, it's a weird fetish among submissive women. Obviously you don't literally treat them shit, but they like the thought of being powerless against a strong man. It's primal.
/r/seduction11/03/21 02:24 AM
1

I'd keep in contact with her once every few months. In case either of your situation changes.
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:53 PM
2

Phone number helps with closing the sale, IG helps with branding. Number is higher priority.
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:51 PM
4

Yep this is why I am mostly concerned about a girl's body count outside of a relationship. Sex within a relationship is normal behavior, so those shouldn't really count. High number of sex to attain a relationship could show signs of low self-esteem. High number of sex to just have sex is the most concerning body count since that shows lack of self-control. You can even make the assumption that body towards the higher end of the scale tend to have more sex due to lack of self-control since you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 07:26 PM
3

What’s with incels posting on this sub and forgetting to switch to their burner account before simping their own post.
/r/seduction07/03/21 06:50 PM
2

I would explain over text and just be open. Doing a switcharoo last minute because you are afraid she'll say no if you tell the truth is a slippery slope. It's a creepy thing to do, so don't do it.
/r/seduction07/03/21 03:38 PM
10

Oh look the blog spammer
/r/seduction07/03/21 03:34 PM
1

Seems more like wishful thinking on your part.
/r/seduction07/03/21 01:48 AM
3

She doesn't like you. Move on. It's a waste of time to do anything else. You won't learn anything from chasing her either.
/r/seduction07/03/21 01:15 AM
0

While looking up at her * “Now I know how Frodo felt.” “I’m Tyrion but better.”
/r/seduction06/03/21 06:59 PM
78

You fingered her throat?
/r/seduction06/03/21 10:52 AM
3

Just realize that hotter girls tend to be nicer to approach, but harder to actually lay.
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:39 AM
1

3 numbers for 20 approaches is pretty bad, but the fact that you get 1 date a week from your weekly number means you have good natural game. 2 lays from 12 dates needs some work. I have a feeling anxiety issues that holding back your smooth initial approach and holding you back when trying to seal the deal.
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:36 AM
1

This is the saddest post I've seen on reddit lmao
/r/seduction06/03/21 07:29 AM
2

Most those guys are chads since physical capability and male attractiveness is tied with testosterone production and muscle mass which is what "Chads" usually have.
/r/seduction05/03/21 10:50 PM
3

People, not just women, do this. It seems that most women look at looks for a man as merely his facial aesthetics rather than the full package as men tend to do. Men will factor in a woman's body into the overall looks rating, generally speaking. Huge over-generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 03:03 AM
1

At a certain point it’s pretty obvious you are getting laid, but there are things you need to put up with/sacrifice to get it. Asked a girl about getting an std test and turned out she had some hpv anomaly that I could pass on to my other fwb at the time. This chick was literally trying to fuck me in the back of my car, but I can’t bring myself to fuck someone with a potential std. So many were read to fuck but they simply were just too unattractive. Some women give you a standing invitation to …
/r/seduction27/02/21 08:37 PM
7

Pretty much the same. Turned down a lot of opportunities to have sex because I was turned off at some point, simply wasn’t that into the girl who was dtf or I didn’t want to risk getting an std. The funny thing about lay count is you can easily make it up, so the people who are insecure about their lay count tend to be the ones who care about it the most. Also at a certain point your lay count makes you look bad if your number is too high.
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:23 PM
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You are forgetting that dating websites like this usually have a lot of fake female profiles. Ashley Madison was exposed for this where 95% of profiles were revealed to be male. The real women in dating sites also are often camgirls trying to maximize their reach online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:13 AM
6

No success is necessary in order to build confidence, but you can't be successful in something without having some tolerance for failure. If you are failing without learning from it and moving towards success, it's a waste.
/r/seduction25/02/21 01:27 PM
1

Oh god surface alpha? First, Sigma, then Zeta and now there's surface alpha. This shit's turning into astrology.
/r/seduction25/02/21 03:18 AM
1

I don't have qualities I look for. I only have qualities I don't tolerate which is incapability to thinking rationally, emotional toxicity and lack of accountability towards her actions. If a girl does irrational things and can't analyze her actions I will end up fixing her fuck ups. If she is emotionally toxic, I will be the primary receiver of that toxicity and it just makes anything you do in life that much worse. Lack of accountability is the worse when women blame everything they do on some…
/r/seduction24/02/21 12:59 PM
1

Lol I mean it's the very design of internal sexual reproduction. Millions of sperm to one egg per month. Mother nature would waste that much resource if we weren't biologically polygamous and there's a lot more morphological evidence that support we are biologically non-monogamous. I'm not even condoning it since I said we are socially monogamous and they just freak out like I just killed a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:26 AM
1

Casual sex is totally overrated. You end up in some girls apartment, in your apartment, in your car or some unfamiliar place. You are both nervous so your dick sometimes doesn't work or the girl is just so easy to read that the excitement is gone. After a while you'll see the exact same pattern. Like for example you show on a date and the vibe is totally different and you can pretty much tell you are getting laid. Also contrary to popular belief women don't really take it slow. Since they've dec…
/r/seduction22/02/21 08:17 PM
1

Oh man you guys are hopeless. Humans are biologically polygamous, that's it. If you want to complain, complain to your DNA. Not me. I'm not the manager of human evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:33 PM
1

I don't think it's about men vs women than it's people with disabilities getting special favors. Young boys also get pressured the same way when it comes to treating people with ID. This is too specific of a situation to generalize towards your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:43 PM
1

Except why the hell do you keep replying to me then? I made one parent comment and you all just descended on me like an army of triggered karens just because someone had the nerve state the fact that humans are not biologically monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:10 PM
1

This started because you naively assumed everyone was hard-wired the same way you were. I tried (apparently in vain) to educate you that your myopic understanding of sexual behavior is actually indexed, and that there's a wide spectrum of people who don't behave like you do. We are all hard-wired that same way. That's how biology freaking works. You obviously seem to get triggered hard by the term biology which I assume you have some sort of emotional investment in this, which again, I don't car…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 11:29 AM
1

You just keep arguing about tangential crap that is not relevant to my original points. You are stating brainless "duh" non-consequential differences between terminologies as if they were actually important to the center point of the argument which they are not. Neither sociosexuality nor narcissism has not nothing to do with biological monogamy, yet you fixate on it. It doesn't matter if it uses the same framework either. That's what you don't get. So you don't even understand what sociosexuali…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:56 AM
1

So you ignore that fact that NPD and Psychpathology are in fact NOT social constructs which you said they were. You just keep arguing about random shit. They are not a social construct. DSM-5. Sociosexuality is similarly measured on a 9-point scale referred to as the Sociosexual Orientation Index, SOI-R. SOCIOSEXUALITY IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT. It measures of sexuality, commitment and desire for a relationship which are all social aspects which is says in the goddamn inventory. I don't know what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 10:14 AM
1

Correlative data. Doesn't mean causality is established. Also this was a very old study.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:34 AM
1

Narcissism is a popularized term for NPD which has a diagnostic criteria in the DMS-5 and so is psychopathy which is measured using inventory scales. You can have NPD and Psychopathology outside of social situations which makes your social construct theory fall apart. Congrats, you just played yourself. You seem like the kid who learned one new word and tries to use it for everything he sees. Don't try too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:28 AM
0

99% of guys think like you and that's why it works.
/r/seduction22/02/21 08:09 AM
2

This 100 percent. I've approached hundreds of girls and have gotten laid regularly and you literally come to a point where you see the matrix. There is no point in obsessing over one girl who has minimal investment if you can just go for the next one who will like you for who you are. Theoretically you can score a 10 while being a 1, but the probability of that is very low which is why improving yourself all the time is the best thing you can do as a guy while maintaining your approach volume.
/r/seduction22/02/21 07:58 AM
1

I have no point unlike everyone on this freaking sub I don't have a freaking hidden agenda I'm just stating a fact. So you arguing against me about the morality of monogamy is absolutely irrelevant. I'm the dude who works at mcdonalds and gives you your chicken nuggets and you complain to me why chicken nugget are expensive. I don't set the freaking price. Humans are biologically monogamous, I don't care what the implications of those are, we just are biologically monogamous smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:50 AM
1

Women claim that their husbands do not equally split labor. I've been in relationships where women were very open about how she thought our split of labor were equal. There are also relationships that claim what you say. You can't use either to generalize to all women. It's a case by case issue and the solution is to find someone who will, not all men and women have the same opinion on labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:44 AM
3

That's why I mean, the majority of women don't see the benefit of talking like that in public. What they think about could be a million other things and is really none of our concern.
/r/seduction22/02/21 07:42 AM
1

Sociosexuality is A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT which you don't get that's why it's under socially monogamous and biologically monogamous is not made up. You are too dumb to understand this and too much of a trigger lord to be open to understanding it. I'm done with this. I'll just get banned getting annoyed by your stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 07:40 AM
1

Yes, that's what biologically polygamous means. The fact that there is sexual dimorphism (looking different) between male and women is a huge sign of biological polygamy since otherwise would be no need for males to outcompete each other by being bigger and stronger or more than other males. You'll see that the monogamous species the male and females looks exactly the same as for prairie voles, swans and sea horses. There would so be no reason for mate guarding behavior such as jealousy, or the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 02:30 PM
50

I have approached a ton of women and I haven't talked to anyone remotely that mean. She's one in a million type of weird so there is no point in obsessing over it without becoming her male version.
/r/seduction21/02/21 01:14 PM
1

You sound like a flatearther saying physics is a hoax.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:10 PM
1

If your girlfriend doesn't treat you correctly then tell her what you think. See if she is open to a compromise. If she can't be reasoned with then leave. Don't try to make up some complicated way to enact revenge on her. Just leave.
/r/seduction21/02/21 01:03 PM
6

If the only benefit a girl can get from her relationship with you is looks, status and resources then yes she is mostly going to leave if a better guy comes along. But in reality most relationships include emotional connection, trust, and mutual respect that in addition to looks, resources and status. It's hard to find people you can trust and hard to find people with mutual respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 01:00 PM
1

Assuming they are both contributing equal to the rent/mortgage, it only makes sense to have equal labor divided between people that are using the house. Your other points don't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:57 PM
0

Wtf does making friends have to do with the fact that men are biologically polygamous? You want me to go make some friends because I don't believe the earth is flat next? Are you fucking dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:38 PM
-1

I am not talking about orientation at all. The very fact that you get a boner from seeing a naked woman that is not your partner is biology saying you are not biologically monogamous. kindly fuck off attempting to explain my own preference for monogamy away. Bitch stfu with your passive aggressive bs. I don't give a fuck what your orientation or preference is I'm talking about biology. Go argue with scientists if you think humans are biologically monogamous. Your belief won't change millions of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:36 PM
2

Yes my point is that the lizard brain is telling us we are not monogamous, but we choose not to because of societal norms/ethical choices, hence socially monogamous but biologically polygamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:57 AM
2

Lol I'm literally just talking about the biology of humans not the meaning of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:28 AM
0

Well there's a cultural, economical and cognitive disparity which is to the guys advantage. They are easier to impress than women in their 20s. When I dated an 18 year old who turned 18 just a week prior and I definitely felt kinda weird doing so.
/r/seduction21/02/21 06:16 AM
2

I'm saying a lot of men make the rational decision that polygamy is bad. Yes that's cultural/social monogamy. The fact that you need to have that rational decision means we are biologically polygamous otherwise all men will automatically be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:05 AM
3

Lol calm down I'm not saying you should do it. I'm just saying cultural monogamy is different from biological monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 06:01 AM
1

You are confusing cultural monogamy with biological monogamy. What choir? It's literally a scientific fact lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:52 AM
3

I mean it's a scientific fact. You can go ahead and ask your biology professor. There are only a few mammalian species that are biologically wired to be monogamous and humans are not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:42 AM
1

You can react to insta stories?
/r/seduction21/02/21 05:31 AM
2

Men are biologically wired to want to have sex with as many women as possible. It's why we have millions of sperm to rapid fire into the abyss while the woman creates one egg per month and is the horniest when they are the most fertile. Men get boners every morning as a signal from the body to keep procreating. Culturally sure, we are discouraged from it, but if you strip away this societal norms you'll be fucking every attractive girl you come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:24 AM
3

I'm definitely for people entertaining the perspectives of each pill, but I am against declaring you are Bluepill or you are redpill. I personally would never purposely put myself in a box, as for the reasons I stated earlier. People would keep an open mind if the stimuli they experience changes and they find success with a new methodology. Unfortunately that's not how the human psyche works. It resists change once you have allowed yourself to get comfortable with a particular reality. This is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:14 AM
1

Wait I thought we're talking about my mom. Are you implying my mom is a 9-10? If that's the case wouldn't that imply those superior genetics will be passed on to me, so your theory that I'm a 4 foot 700 lbs gaming incel may not be accurate after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:09 AM
1

They did not promise and do not owe any kind of fidelity to a stranger regarding a relationship commitment. Interesting standpoint. I'm usually pretty open-minded but I never saw cheating from that angle. You should really look into philosophy. It requires a great deal of being able to see things from many different perspectives. Redditors won't be able to help you lol. This is too nuanced of a topic for people here to handle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 05:07 AM
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Yeah personally I have no issue with being the guy who leads the interaction since they open up later. The key is the need to open up at some point. If they don't open up at all, then there is something that needs to be fix in the ice-breaking process. Humor really helps me and then that gives me an opening to invite them to hang out somewhere. Some of it are your issues, but people nowadays are bad at socializing in general.
/r/seduction21/02/21 04:59 AM
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Online dating is a cluster fuck unless you are a 9-10 model looking dude.
/r/seduction20/02/21 07:02 PM
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The problem mainly comes from narrow thinking. It's also called the Reductive Mindset whereas a mathematician will see a math problem, a physician will see a physics problem and an engineer will see an engineering problem. Based on how they view the issue at hand their solutions will also be limited to their reductive point of view. If you ascribe to one pill, you effectively have voluntarily limited yourself to solving your problem in one way rather than being more open to the many possible exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:39 PM
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It's morally/not morally wrong depending on the philosophical standpoint you are evaluating it from. From a utilitarian standpoint if all single people cheated with those committed relationships, do you think it will be better for society? Most people ascribe to virtue and social contract theory of ethical theory whereas you are supposed to be honest and your promises with the people you love irregardless of how harmful or helpful it is to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:54 PM
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When you say work for so many guys. Define what you mean by "work." They highlight issues, but they are always based on a lot anecdotal experience. That's where the nuance comes in. They are using anecdotal experience and telling people that this applies to everything when in reality it works for their specific case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:43 PM
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My issues with the pills is they have an overly reductive view of dating. For something that is highly varied and nuanced, a person actually needs a certain degree of all the pills. The bigger issue is that the subreddit structure enables bubble think where only posts that ascribe to the general idea of a sub are allowed to be show. So what happens is the people stop considering opposing views and just get deeper and deeper into the pseudo-cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:26 PM
5

Keyword comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:13 PM
5

Damn, I already got my bags packed and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:08 PM
5

So in your area you can pay rent, and live a comfortable life on minimum wage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:01 PM
5

Doesn't matter where it is either, could be with colleagues at work, acquaintances at uni, mutual friends at a party, it's all consistently similar. The only common variable in all those settings is you. So you are definitely issue, most likely your energy/vibe since colleagues and classmates have a lot of benefit from treating your nicely yet they don't. Some of my classmates are honestly straight up socially retarded so the burden is usually on me to be the "guide/leader" of the group otherwis…
/r/seduction20/02/21 04:44 PM
1

5 feet needs to be 100lbs. Each inch taller gives you 6 lbs to work with so that means you need to be right around 142, so you are actually right on the money weight-wise. "hes creepy looking, look at him, hes creepy looking" lol i literally burst out laughing, cause it just shows how the world is. Yeah I get it. As someone who felt it from both spectrum. It's night and day. My "deformity" was temporary aka weight induced since it just made my body and face look off. I think I was still just sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:29 PM
1

Filter them. Find common traits of men who don't want anything serious and use those to select against when you are doing your initial search.
/r/seduction20/02/21 04:19 PM
1

I only pick her up when she's stuck in the laundry room along with my step sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:16 PM
12

You got soft rejected. Highly likely the second date won't happen. Focus on someone else.
/r/seduction20/02/21 04:13 PM
1

How would you honestly rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10? Also whats your height and weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:11 PM
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Simulate yourself talking to women. Then video tape it. It will become more obvious. The biggest issue with body language is we don't see how it looks from the outside and it can be a very weird experience feeling like everyone just automatically hates you just for existing. That's what happened to me when I gained weight and didn't take care of myself. What woke me up was when someone took a photo of me and I saw how horrible I looked, however dressing nicely and adapting high status posture an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:06 PM
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Women want attractive men. Attractive men usually have more than one prospect. The feeling of disappointing a person you like and want to keep trigger fear of loss. The advice of making him "work for it" is horrible since your relationship just becomes about sex 100%. Just say you don't want to talk about sex and that you will not have sex with him. Don't put an if in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:52 PM
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I mean that's why you only do a few approaches per day in one location. I was mostly approaching on campus and only did a few per day and was respectful of people's time. Body language is important. One friend of a girl I approached actually saw me approach her and assumed i already knew her. It's only when you buy into the youtube pick up guru bs that you run into trouble. There is not magic line you can say. It's literally just talking to people and seeing if you connect. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:46 PM
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They are the minority. Most women have too much going on with their life to obsess over some guy who uneventfully tried to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:37 PM
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You can't really achieve anything until you have some degree of freedom. You in some sort of indentured servitude to your family for one reason or another. I personally would not dedicate my entire life in helping my family, especially if they are grown adults or you can find ways to downgrade their quality of life a bit so that you can increase yours.
/r/seduction20/02/21 01:33 PM
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Somewhat above average, but I also picked up women when I was overweight and didn't pay attention to grooming. It was harder, for sure, but it was still doable. Attractiveness is important, but on average it's not as much of a barrier since you mostly approach women that are within your attractiveness level anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:29 PM
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The biggest issue is each person has their own definition for love. Some people thinking loving is just saying nice cheesy shit to someone while to some people it involves some degree of commitment and beneficence. My suggestion would be to communicate/clarify your partners definition of love before you both start investing into the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:26 PM
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Two reasons demand and manipulations. First is that some guys will do anything to be with an attractive girl. This is exacerbated by the fact that there is just way more demand for women than men in the dating market. Second is manipulation. Most people with Dark Triad personalities tend to be very manipulative and know how to convince people to do what they want them to do. So there are a lot of desperate men who are in a state that they can easily be manipulated by criminals. It's a match made…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:24 PM
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As someone who picked up strangers and got laid regularly with this method, I'd sincerely disagree. I'm curious as to what you do exactly since I've never actually been called creepy. The majority just say they have to go or politely end the conversation. I have a feeling you are taking this way too simplistically. There is a lot of nuance in social interaction that you can't just read and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:20 PM
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Biologically men like submissive women. But the issue is that men are also biologically wired to be polygamous. Women who are somewhat a challenge and unpredictable helps to keep monogamy interesting. But just like the misnomer that women like "bad guys," men aren't attracted to "bad girls" per se but more to certain elements of a bad girl such as unpredictability, rebelliousness, and passion. People in general are not attracted to overly generalized personality labels like "bad girl" or "bad gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:12 PM
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That's actually a pretty good post, though I would still consider that post a rare one. It's not the typical post on here, but sure consider my original point refuted, gj.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:35 PM
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That's a year ago and that's a cream of the crop type of post, you'll only see once in a blue moon. I did say "right now." 9 out of 10 times you'll encounter anecdotal based opinions on this sub. If you can find recent ones then show me those.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:35 PM
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Takes time to get used to it. I take a few approaches before I'm even fully articulate. Usually the first few people I talk to my brain kinda just freezes up for now reason especially if I spent a long time isolated.
/r/seduction19/02/21 06:23 PM
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No because you can actually verify that. Look at any post on this sub right now and give me even one that is not based on anecdotal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 06:21 PM
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Any "strategy" that spends the majority of their time hating rather than improvement themselves is inherently flawed. Just as how misogynists blame women for their failure and unhappiness. Misandrists blame men for their lack of success in dating, when it's usually them that's the problem. It's easier for people at the bottom of the barrel to think it's other people's fault so they hold on to fulfill their overinflated ego than it is to temper their expectations and go through the painful realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:47 PM
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Men used to. There is a phenomena of learned helplessness that is propagated by social media. The whole “I’m lonely and depressed” joke has made it acceptable and in-fashion to be pathetic. Additionally cringe culture has made it so that the least amount of social discomfort is “CRINGE.” Well okay just home and feel bad for yourself, that’s your only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:01 AM
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This entire sub is just using anecdotal experience and generalizing it to the entire population of whichever population they want to criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 10:58 AM
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Was the same when I was around that age in terms of getting female attention, but a lot of it is rapport and does not necessarily mean you are REALLY good looking. It’s mostly an indication that you are least not ugly. Lots of things could change. Did lots of flirting around with some slutty chicks but never fucked and mostly hung around the smarter kids and more conservative chick. Best move I made, since I was able to develop my judgement before doing risky behavior. I would have been married …
/r/seduction19/02/21 10:53 AM
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Well the biggest change really is the awkward and weird part. People talk in person less, so people are less socially skilled. Online socializing is no substitute since online interactions are rarely locally-based, so zoomers get really good at making meme jokes, comment section one-liners and texting. All of which don’t really help with escalation in real-life interactions which is how most relationships are made currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:07 AM
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Don’t overcomplicate it. People respect power. “Masculinity” is physical power. If you show signs you are powerful, a weaker person will effectively feel inferior. Women are built to fear because they are the weaker sex. You are just triggering that fear complex which some women are into. Not all women are like that and some actually react to this energy negatively. Be careful taking up ideological bs like this that is so far removed from making practical sense, you end up believing magical bs l…
/r/seduction19/02/21 07:48 AM
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Doesn’t really matter. I personally prefer to wait before replying because I don’t like getting trapped in a text convo where you are live texting each other, i got other shit to do. The delay also set the pace by which you are willing to reply. If I reply every 6 hours that means, you can expect a few replies from me in a day. If I reply once every 24 hours that means Ill take my sweet time replying to you.
/r/seduction18/02/21 12:59 PM
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It really doesn’t matter. Each has it’s own advantages and disadvantages that make no significant difference. If you were ever in a date where sitting to the side or to the front was the deal breaker, you already fucked up.
/r/seduction18/02/21 12:53 PM
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Adam Driver is conventionally attractive in terms of just being attractive. He is not the conventional attractive male in Hollywood. It’s just people being confused about what they mean and other misinterpreting it and thinking too much about it or that they watch too much digital media and have a skewed viewed of the world. It’s like a kid who only watch kpop and think guys who don’t have 10 pounds of make up are average. We all have our own realities, the skew of our opinion often betray us in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 12:45 PM
2

Meh guy 2 is tacky. It’s like a kid who hasn’t gone beyond bragging about his lego collection. I get it. I dated a good amount women, but 5 years into that lifestyle and it gets boring and I’m not even that picky. Again you meet a girl, you get to know them, you bring them to meet your friends and they all cheer you on for bagging such a hot girl. You get bored and you repeat. Meanwhile you are not building anything. All the women you dated before will never contact you again. The only thing you…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:59 AM
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The term Alpha mostly denotes ethological hierarchy in a group structure usually among animals. This has become some new-wave astrology where people designated their own meaning to the terms to fit whatever narrative suits their reality. Alpha is leader of the group. Beta is any non-alpha male. Omega is some scapegoat type that everyone in a group shits on. Sigma, zeta are mostly made up. Only use alphas to describe groups. One person can he alpha in one and beta in another one and even be an om…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:47 AM
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There are no Alpha males in humans. There are actually. The reason we evolved larger prefrontal cortex is because it was needed in maintaining complicated social relationships. That includes understanding social hierarchy in a group. If you didn’t know whether to act carefully around a higher status person you will get killed or shoved out of your group and die. We evolved from primates and you’ll have a good glimpse into how it will naturally go if you look at chimp heirarchy. This social const…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:22 AM
2

Such a hot boomer take
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:06 AM
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You just encountered a group of #bossbabes. Though your post is pretty articulate, you are generalizing the entire population of working women based on this one data point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:03 AM
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Here the thing. It’s your first date. It will suck. You will suck. She might not see you again and that’s fine. Just be honest and say you are nervous since it’s the first time you’ve been out in a date “in a while.” You can tell her the entire truth later, but just chill out, be honest, and most important is to take risks. The biggest mistake of any guy is they don’t take any risk and try to maintain this unrealistically cool persona. It’s your first date, you won’t be smooth so just be yoursel…
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:57 AM
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Editor: How many emojis should I put on the thumbnail? OP: Yes
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:53 AM
3

it shouldn't be obvious but it should tease him/her inside Sounds like you need a textured butt plug.
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:50 AM
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It honestly doesn’t seem like you are at a point where you are dating either of them. Just calm down and enjoy the process. This reminds me of a dude who goes to the gym, picks up a dumbbell once and starts thinking about his Mr. Olympia career.
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:44 AM
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Give her space bro stop being a clingy little kid it’s actually freaking midterm season and since professors think online is too easy they are giving students a TON of homework and projects. I just got done staying awake for 3 days straight trying to catch up myself. That’s not to indicate she’s not bullshitting you. People who want you, make time for you.
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:35 AM
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First, you are going way too serious too fast. No wonder she’s bored. Women don’t want a bf. Women want a wild dude who will fuck them up side ways til monday, but be nice enough to commit to a relationship. Second, if she is not enthusiastic just cancel the date. It’s way more annoying to go on with a date that might just be a wasted 2 hours. You got other girls so just work on them. This chick is not being clear. You should have asked if okay means yes or no. I just read the last sentence. Bro…
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:26 AM
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Yeah I’ve been self taught and like to dance in night clubs where it doesn’t really make sense to go try-hard, but I really have been thinking about joining a legit class. Just not sure which one to join since finding a choreographer/teacher that is my taste seems like it’s own thing.
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:18 AM
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"Works 100% of the time 5% of the time."
/r/seduction17/02/21 06:29 PM
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Jokes on you I'm into that shit. I actually like dancing even if were to keep me from getting laid. It's literally a better way to listen to music.
/r/seduction17/02/21 01:16 PM
1

"The Wall" is different for many women. Women who don't know how to maintain their looks, had a very unhealthy lifestyle in their younger years, make bad financial decision and don't have foresight, the wall will hit them very hard mostly due to the amalgamation and interaction between all these factors. For example, if you are unhealthy and have a bad job, you will not really have time to work out so your health will continue to get worse. For women who have their life together and take good ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:13 PM
1

If it's a genuine friendship, I'm 100% for it. I personally spend a lot of effort trying to maintain friendships with both men and women because I don't have shortage of dating partners. As a male, my female friends are extremely socially active and they give me a lot of perks. Friends are harder to find and I have very high bar for who I would consider a friend worth investing into since the majority of the friends we meet we don't really keep around for more than a year. That being said, havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 01:07 PM
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You'll need to be an influencer type on instagram. I did instagram game for a while and first few girls that got wind of my work actually dmed me for a collab. The first few were the LA type fake tits, lip filler sort. There are tone of them with varying qualities. If you ever wonder there are so many wannabe "producers" on instagram, they are just trying to use this as front to get with insta models.
/r/seduction16/02/21 02:18 PM
1

Damn. Amazing analysis. How did you come up with this explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:53 PM
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Number one sign is you cannot think of them possibly doing anything remotely wrong. In psychological research it's called splitting, whereas someone fails to bring together the dichotomy of negative and positive traits that usually embody an individual. If your relationships have been a huge high and a huge low, it could mean that you have the tendency to do that. This gets less with more maturity since it takes time to realize that people are people and not objects of sheer admiration/hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:46 PM
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Keep in mind this statistic compacts the mean weight of women in all ages, so young women (usually the ones looking to mingle) whose mean weight is likely lighter are pulled towards the heavier side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 01:43 PM
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You can't know what your problem is without doing a workflow analysis. You need to determine where there is a bottle neck. Do you fail to meet, fail to escalate, fail to go on a date, get a second date. Once you find the trend, you'll be able to pin point the problem. Just lazily attributing it to one trait is bound to have you changing things about yourself that aren't even a problem in the first place.
/r/seduction13/02/21 03:37 AM
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It’s always harder to break into a culture. It’s always easier to pick women with same culture/subculture as you. This is why lots of gurus always pick up foreigners so they can leverage the fact that they girls feels like she needs to work her way into the native culture. For example I have no trouble picking up hot college chicks as a laid back attractive guy, but that didn’t pass when I tried picking up professional women on a business trip who cared more about my business status and connecti…
/r/seduction12/02/21 01:15 PM
1

I personally think this is something I need to work on. I've never paid attention to how I smell, but one of the most memorable interactions I have with women are when they get closer and I smell them.
/r/seduction09/02/21 06:40 AM
2

But we are in willy wetting sub. Lmao this reply is fucking gold.
/r/seduction08/02/21 08:44 AM
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When I was dating a lot I had: Zero approach anxiety Approached everyone everywhere Zero shame Always went for the rejection for every girl I approached Texted and followed up every number I got within a few hours Would drop anything to go out with a girl who is down to hang It's nice, but dating too many girls is a bit overrated. You can't have a sense of schedule. Your health kinda goes downhill. Your reputation takes a hit since you'll be seen as a player. All that jizzing dehydrated me and I…
/r/seduction08/02/21 02:40 AM
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Night clubs will always survive while there are horny people out there. There will be less, but there were always be night clubs since it has pretty low barrier to entry and anyone with some capital can easily furnish a location to become a night club.
/r/seduction08/02/21 02:07 AM
1

You'll have better interpersonal relationships which often leads to some form of success, but a lot of people find success by treating people like tools. There is a reason why the majority of CEOs are narcissists.
/r/seduction08/02/21 02:03 AM
1

Yeah it's fine. You just need to set your foot down sometimes or you won't get shit done or she'll just lose respect if she can just walk all over you. I suggest being a bit more commanding.
/r/seduction07/02/21 01:07 AM
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She likes you, but is playing games. Just ask her out again. Expect her to play more games though. It's fine.
/r/seduction07/02/21 12:44 AM
1

You are doing good. Keep it up. Don't overthink. You seem to authentically like her and that is good since women can feel it if you are just trying to play them. The problem arises when a guy is too head over heels and don't do enough "gaming" where they just suspend their logical process. The other is the visa versa where they try to be a try-hard fuckboy who treats the girl like some fuck toy. You seem to be in the middle, which is good. You will either succeed or learn from this. On her side,…
/r/seduction07/02/21 12:38 AM
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You are not overthinking. People don't consider it, but logistics is a huge part of getting laid regularly. You need to pick one that plays on your strengths. Do you do rich guy game? Then pick the luxury studio. Is your style spontaneous and playful? Then pick the one with the most places to go to. Picking a place within walking distance is always a huge advantage. You also need to consider hang out spots near your place and day time places to pick up women. You can't just depend on night game …
/r/seduction07/02/21 12:31 AM
1

People seriously upvoting the blogspam bait? This sub's gone downhill.
/r/seduction07/02/21 12:24 AM
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Yes. There's no money in pick up anymore because either due to low conversion of clients or the market has shrunk so they are trying to expand horizontally to different correlated markets so that their business survives.
/r/seduction06/02/21 07:38 AM
3

You already lost her. Interested women put in effort. If she is not willing to put in effort, she's not interested or you are her back up. Next.
/r/seduction05/02/21 07:55 AM
3

Oh this blogspammer again
/r/seduction20/01/21 08:45 PM
0

You can't shape someone to be a long term partners they either reveal themselves to be one or they don't. Stop forcing people to be someone they are not.
/r/seduction20/01/21 06:36 PM
1

I joined instagram as a legitimate artist and built a legitimate following. I naturally talked with other artists in my field and meeting people was natural from that point. This is actually the best way to meet women online and not on tinder or dating apps. At a certain point I built enough clout that I had women dming me to collab. TLDR don't join instagram exclusively to creep on women. Join a community, contribute and meet people. You will more successful in meeting women and happier in gene…
/r/seduction17/01/21 03:50 PM
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I always push women to cancel instead of flake. That way my schedule doesn't get affected. I never reschedule myself. If they cancel and don't reschedule that's just them trying to graciously exit out of the agreement. Cancelling ahead of time is the best case scenario next to showing up. Flaking the last minute is very bad for them, so one flake for me is more than enough. I still talk to them as social friends, but I will not initiate any plans or any plans they invite me too will be met with …
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:56 AM
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Bros before hoes in this situation since he brought the girls and he probably likes the girl. Also don't be a tryhard. Just enjoy your time and don't overthink things. Just have a general idea of what you guys can do for fun, but have enough flexibility for spontaneous ideas.
/r/seduction15/01/21 01:31 PM
1

Weirdly enough I get pissed off when I learn that her ex is not some stud. Women tend to pick same types of dudes, so if he is a catch you most likely are a catch as well.
/r/seduction12/01/21 11:04 AM
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It literally does nothing to help you connect with girls. It's just a tool for stress/anxiety relief. I personally only meditate when I can feel my stress levels get too high, but you can only do this if you have a sense as to when you start getting stressed. For most people it's a good idea to have a scheduled daily meditation as a catch-all strategy to keep your stress levels low.
/r/seduction09/01/21 09:06 PM
1

This is not an equation to make a girl fall in love, it's an equation on how to respect one's self.
/r/seduction09/01/21 09:01 PM
1

Therapy is always great actually, if you have the funds for it. They can oftentimes pinpoint problems that apparently root all the way back from your childhood. Once you realize that you can start attacking your cognitive issues from the source.
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:56 PM
1

It was mainly from daygame and some introduced to me through friends.
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:54 PM
2

I think for me it was the fact that I was all bought in into the "playboy lifestyle." At one time I had 3 fwbs at the same time and it just wasn't enjoyable. Just like you were are I was stressed and I couldn't even enjoy my time with them. Deep inside I was also afraid to be alone. The more girls I had on my lineup, the less alone I'll be. I was always on the prowl for newer girls so I can keep my lineup full and feel satisfied. I eventually realized that it's just much better dating one girl e…
/r/seduction06/01/21 10:52 PM
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I can only speak for my experience. I never had any reason to be in a relationship before so I mostly had fwbs. Most of them did their best to convince me to commit. Most of them stress about it whenever I hooked up with them like we'd have sex and they'd start asking questions like "What are we, what is our label." Some girls even try to do incentives like "I only give blowjobs in a relationships" or they only do anal because they are saving their pussy for marriage or whatever. None of them wo…
/r/seduction05/01/21 10:10 PM
1

That's why I said talk on the phone. A girl who is interested will want to move the relationship forward in one form or another. Women are not as passive as people assume, they are more forward than you think.
/r/seduction05/01/21 08:05 PM
2

Escalate. Ask her to talk on the phone or meet with you. If she says no, she's not interested.
/r/seduction05/01/21 07:40 PM
1

First off, did you ask them to go on a second date? How did they respond. You need more information to understand what's causing this.
/r/seduction05/01/21 01:22 PM
1

Meet other girls. It's the most effective way to get another girl out of your head. This is exactly why right after I break up I approach a ton of women. Never had any obsession problem and when I did break up i was already dating a new girl within a week or more. This works by hacking our availability bias. Everything in your head was about her. All you need to do is simply replace with someone else.
/r/seduction04/01/21 01:11 PM
1

In short, yes. You don't really want the girl to feel like they 100% secured you.
/r/seduction04/01/21 11:48 AM
2

I think instead of fixating on drinking you should focus on not feeling like doing what you want is somehow wrong. If you don't want to drink, don't. If your friends can't respect that, you friends are either douchebags or you are way too low in the totem pole for them to let you have your own free will.
/r/seduction04/01/21 11:46 AM
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In general attractive people attract more people, but sometimes if the people feel unattractive compared to the person, they can self-reject themselves. But in general across many different settings, attractive people have way more fun because people react positively to them.
/r/seduction04/01/21 05:43 AM
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Any thing she says is material for you to make a clever funny comeback or bullshit around. If they bullshit around, it's just means you get to bullshit too. You can go weird GIRL: "He's attractive." ME: "Yeah he's definitely attractive, but does he take in the butt?" You can be mean GIRL: "He's attractive." ME: "Oh shit you're right, he's like the wish version of Ryan Reynolds. Still hot though." You can be just a fucking douchebag to her all together GIRL: "He's attractive." ME: "Really? What a…
/r/seduction04/01/21 05:30 AM
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Most advice for women are looks-oriented Are you overweight? Lose weight Are you wearing make up? Learn how to properly apply make up and do your hair. Do you know how to wear clothes that complement your body type? Learn how to dress sexy/cute/hot in whatever way you want to attract me. You'd want to show some skin, but not to the point that you look trashy. Do you have good posture? Learn how to properly carry yourself. Are socially involved? Socialize with people and men will come.
/r/seduction04/01/21 05:21 AM
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Being yourself is the best advice unless you are socially retarded, otherwise, be anyone other than yourself until you get enough social experience to not be retarded when you are being yourself.
/r/seduction04/01/21 05:17 AM
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Ask her out. If she's says no or change topic, she's bullshitting you for one reason or another. It's a waste of time. Keep her as a friend or a connection (could help you get a job in the future), so just stop texting her but don't fight her. There are women like this who just want attention in the form of people texting them so they feel less alone.
/r/seduction04/01/21 05:11 AM
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It means you already talk like church people.
/r/seduction03/01/21 11:10 AM
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My dude you already got the lingo. You will destroy at bible study no joke. Be a youth leader or a band member, you’ll get so much religious pussy, you won’t know which key goes into which chastity belt.
/r/seduction03/01/21 11:03 AM
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The “league” dating theory is somewhat true but the competition pool is way smaller than most people think. I.e. a girl could have 10 guys who are after her and if you don’t match up well against them she wouldn’t even entertain you. There are plenty of attractive women who are too intimidating and not that sociable so they don’t have too many guys going after them. Basically you’ll never know whether you have a chance until you try.
/r/seduction03/01/21 10:59 AM
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Women with BPD yes because it’s due to abandonment trauma. They associate emotional intimacy to painful experience therefore they avoid getting close to people. There a quite a few of women with this and they are honestly quite fun, but be prepared to be stressed the fuck out.
/r/seduction03/01/21 10:52 AM
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Sounds like need to need to find jesus. Like literally, your requirements mean you need to join a church.
/r/seduction03/01/21 10:46 AM
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Honestly I picked up my hottest girl when I was a tub or lard, but there is a caveat. It was the worst string of luck with women I’ve ever experienced. Being less attractive made me work harder because I had no other choice. But damn, after getting fit again, it’s a world of difference. Women actually seem to like the fact that you exist as opposed to seeing you as a nuisance. This is why I always say being attractive is not everything, but it helps.... A WHOLE FUCKING LOT.
/r/seduction03/01/21 10:30 AM
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It’s an interesting psychological phenomena. An example would be imagine there is something behind your door. Start counting from 10 and on the count of 1, open the door. It makes you way more emotionally invested in that door than you normally would because you invested thought into. Most of the time you just open it, and it means nothing. Thinking of a girl without taking action is one way to really torture yourself. The best move is to just talk to her and see if she will reciprocate just as …
/r/seduction03/01/21 10:25 AM
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and remember there could be 50 reasons she says no and 50 of them could have nothing to do with you/your looks Absolutely this. There is really no point in trying to guess why someone rejected you.
/r/seduction03/01/21 10:22 AM
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I wouldn't even go that far. The more non-reciprocated thought you invest into a girl, the worse off you are. Just taking action keeps your interest from developing into an obsession. If you like a girl, talk to her. If she doesn't reciprocate move on to the next. There won't be a need to think of her fucking another guy since you are just concerned about whether they want to talk to you. Other people may be different but simply compartmentalizing my interactions with women really keeps me from …
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:38 PM
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Yes, I don't believe there's any other way. I've built up this stupid wall of belief that "If I get Fit, then my confidence will skyrocket and my life will be awesome". Don't get me wrong, getting fit fixes a lot of things, but you need to do it the right way or you'll make your SD worse. Making that your goal is very good imo. But the fact that you can't spend $14k to regain your function means your financial situation also needs work, which is something that you should be focusing on. Building…
/r/seduction02/01/21 03:25 PM
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Yeah I sensed you have deeper problems and I don't think getting laid will solve it. Deep seated issues really stunt personal development. As you can see, you are doubting your very abilities to fix your biggest life problems. You probably don't see what we see from the outside in, but your attitude is very "lame" which is why some commenters think you are just being a "pussy." But to be honest I think you will benefit more from simply developing your social circle in order to have a foundation …
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:36 PM
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I think you have an attitude issue, but it may not be entirely your fault. You may be in a downward spiral, but you are slowing down your descent. My suggestion would be to fix your health and get a spinal fusion. Everything else will fall into place once you get momentum. You are in a different state of mind right now, which is why you don't think it's possible to fix your problems. Just start making small steps towards your goals. Tiny steps. That's all you need. 12 kg lost is exactly what you…
/r/seduction02/01/21 01:03 PM
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I live in an equally low population area. Just visit a college campus, or go to a more population nearby city and approach women there in store, malls, shopping centers, etc. Is your slipped disc diagnosed by a doctor or you are just assuming you have a slipped disc due to the symptoms you are experiencing? If it's legit slipped disc just get a spinal fusion while you are covered by insurance. Once you are over 25 it will cost more. Your problems seem to go beyond seduction. You need to take cha…
/r/seduction02/01/21 12:42 PM
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First meeting, yes you avoid trying to be pushy or needy. First date no you need to escalate and have some kind of physical touch or you run the risk of going too slow and boring her. Just like with everything there is an exception. Shy/antisocial girls tend to not need as much touch since they are hypersensitive to social interaction for example.
/r/seduction02/01/21 12:23 PM
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Going to the gym is not hard work? You must have no pain receptors or you don't actually know what it means to train hard.
/r/seduction01/01/21 02:19 AM
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It's anxiety and over-stimulation. Too much blowjob/handjob will numb your dick and make you less likely feel pleasure from stimulation. Make sure to do a lot of foreplay and to not over stimulate your penis before penetration. If you are using, oil-based lube, switch to water-based or try thicker lubes. Anxiety constricts your blood vessels and gets in the way of the blood getting to your dick. This is one is trickier. Just don't expect anything and stop thinking. Instead, feel the flow of the …
/r/seduction31/12/20 11:07 AM
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Sounds like you found your niche.
/r/seduction31/12/20 10:55 AM
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Yes to daygame, but making above $85,000 is an unnecessary requirement. They just have to have something unique about them that makes them standout. It just so happens your money is what makes you stand out and you found a way to find women who like that.
/r/seduction31/12/20 09:14 AM
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I think there are two types of provocative. Visually and charismatically. Being visually provocative is when people see you, they feel something. They feel excitement of some sort, whether it's because you are attractive or just unique in your own way, it triggers that "woah, who is that guy," response. For me, being visually provocative is more of a personal choice. When I look in the mirror I want to see something that excites me, so I work very hard to be have an aesthetic, lean body and dres…
/r/seduction30/12/20 06:44 PM
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This place is not really for learning, it's for bs-ing around and talking shit about picking up girls. Most of the information is crap because of all the blogspam and shitty advice.
/r/seduction30/12/20 06:13 PM
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You're failure is not realizing that women will not understand you as a male. You don't reveal potentially weird information about you unless you trust the person with that information especially in today's me too culture. The fact that they are shocked means, they are not open minded enough to see things from your perspective. The only time I've told girls that I've gone out specifically to look for girl was after I've fucked them or they have shown themselves worthy of the actual truth.
/r/seduction30/12/20 06:11 PM
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Most likely she just works there and is stocking the selves. That being said, the most common way women show interest is by being available such as being closer to the guy they like, but they rarely approach a stranger. The only way to find out is to approach.
/r/seduction07/12/20 06:10 PM
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I've had lays after a night out, but I honestly felt dirty and anxious after. One chick flirted with everyone but went home with me while getting dirty looks from my friends. Another one I made out with and took her to a coffee date the day after and it was one of the worst dates I've had. One time I was on the way to a girl's house after clubbing in some lone nightclub in this suburban town and this chick was screaming into my ear the entire drive back then asked me to pull over so she could fl…
/r/seduction07/12/20 05:45 PM
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That's actually something I find more practical instead of having to invest so much money on alcohol and cover fees.
/r/seduction07/12/20 05:33 PM
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Okay you are just being really pretentious now and this argument is starting to go off-topic, you have proven to be pointless to try and reason with so think what you want, I don't feel the need to prove myself since it's not relevant to my point. Sure sure social proof is a magic pill, or whatever make-believe thing you want to believe. As far as I'm concerned, it's a tool and it requires a lot of effort to do with a lot of costs associated with it. My point. Daygame is easier. You approach, yo…
/r/seduction07/12/20 05:21 PM
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Usually a grocery store is a bad place to talk to girls because most of the women there are not single. You'll be wasting too much time. Best place would be something like a college campus where you can just go from one girl to another. But when I do talk to someone I just ask them something like, "do you know if there is a clothing store nearby." They'll answer it and you can use that opportunity to look for a chance to move the conversation to an open exchange. You can really say anything beca…
/r/seduction07/12/20 04:11 PM
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It's interesting you keep accusing me of having not experienced something as typical as social proof. Lol like really? This really feels like when I was in 10th grade and some kid is so proud that he got to talk to a girl. Not to be mean, but that's what it really feels like. Dude it's social proof. It's basically people realizing you know someone they like or know. That's not that big of a deal. If you talk to people and you want to be respectful, you will have to bullshit. A great example woul…
/r/seduction07/12/20 03:43 PM
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Any hobby is worth it because it's your hobby. To get laid, I don't think it's the most practical or the easiest way. As you get old, your options will dwindle no matter what you do. It's just reality.
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:14 PM
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Lol you don't need to "establish social proof." You are who you are. You are acting like working a room is some sort of magic formula. You just bullshit with people and jump groups. That doesn't mean you are "high value." They just know you and kinda recognize you because you talked to them recently. That's it. Yes I've been invited to exclusive parties, and I've even met celebrities through this "social proof," but it means nothing. You are a mosquito on top of an elephant thinking you are some…
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:07 PM
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Honestly if I were to dedicate that much time into night clubs I'll just be a bartender and get a place nearby. It's the easier way to do it. I agree that if you find a way to figure it out, it's a good steady source of lays. I had bartender friends who tell stories of how easy it is to get laid especially since they had a place near the bar the worked at. It's instant social proof and good logistics. That being said, I think daygame is way easier and practical because you can get a girl's numbe…
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:05 PM
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You need to break rapport or you will seem desperate. When someone is too easy to get, you start questioning if you actually want them. I'm the same way for women that show too much interest too quickly. I start thinking maybe there is something wrong with them or that I can start taking them for granted. This is the mental process that goes through women's heads when you are too needy and too easy to get. Think of dating as a poker game. Once they know 100% that you like them, the fun is over. …
/r/seduction07/12/20 12:51 PM
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I don't like bars because having to get to know the DJs, the bartender, I'd have to work the entire room and work with the girl's friends just to get a number. It is a lot of effort just to a few prospects who will most likely forget you the day after. All the numbers I got from bars were crap. On top of having to get ready, pay drinks and pay for the cover fee, it's not worth it. This is the reason I only go to bars to have fun with friends. It's not a dependable place to get new girls. Meanwhi…
/r/seduction07/12/20 12:35 PM
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The truth is that for 90% of your approaches, assuming your body languages is good, people will just assume you know the girl you are approaching. Even the girls I approach sometimes tell me they feel like they've known me all their life.
/r/seduction06/12/20 08:03 PM
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You can't stop it. What I do is I encourage them to cancel ahead of time, so that it doesn't mess up my schedule. I also schedule dates, in the afternoon and send them a morning text to confirm. if they don't text back I consider that a cancellation. That's it.
/r/seduction21/11/20 02:13 AM
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You are all treating porn like it's an all or nothing. When I'm single I date a different girl every month until I find a girl I want to gf and then I usually stay with her for a year or so, then rinse repeat. Porn hasn't affected anything. You need to be able to self-regulated these things just like how you self-regulate drinking alcohol. If you are don't have self-control then you'll end up living like a monk. When I had tiny asian gf with big tits, I masturbated to skinny white girls. Now tha…
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:54 AM
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Being your own person and not depending on other people before you approach is not alpha, it's call independence. Never had to depend on a man or a women to approach. Imagine just giving yourself that excuse when you are getting groceries and you see this attractive girl you want to approach. That's a loser mindset. Everything that happens to you is your responsibility, it's not your wingman's fault.
/r/seduction16/11/20 08:04 PM
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It's a crutch. I had that and you become dependent on other people for confidence. I approach whenever I feel like it whether I get rejected or not. That's how you should think. You should always internalize the fact that you are alone are good enough for anyone not this bullshit.
/r/seduction16/11/20 07:45 PM
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You don't build confidence by talking or thinking. You build confidence by doing. It's experience that tells yourself you are worth something. Yes you can "talk to yourself" about being confidence, but you can only work with whatever you have. Imaging trying to build a skyscraper. The skyscraper is your confidence, the concrete is your experience and your mind is the molder. You can build your skyscraper as high as you can, but if you are using too little concrete, it will just break down. Now i…
/r/seduction13/11/20 04:31 PM
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I can give less shits if people think being funny is lame. I like hanging out with people and cracking clever jokes. It makes interaction with people so much more satisfying. If you think being funny is regurgitating jokes then you don't know what being funny is. Being funny is essentially having an unpredictable response to people. It's also calling people out on their bullshit. Making an interesting observation. It's about towing that line between being offensive and not being offensive. It's …
/r/seduction12/11/20 05:29 PM
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