I'm a big fan of both Corey Wayne and Todd V.
Corey says to make a date, get all the details down, and to make sure she'll show up without needing to hear from you again. Arguments for this would be that if a woman is interested enough and isn't going to flake, she'll agree to it. It also doesn't get her used to texting regularly so she can wonder about you. It seems a little bit unnatural though, and I think it could come across as insecure.
Todd (especially via Sergio) has a few good videos about the four types of texts, and soft-closing via text. It seems a lot more natural, less needy, and more practical. Todd has a more optimistic attitude towards texting in general, which should be more practical, but let's face it: texting in general is shitty, and always being there will make you too available and less interesting.
Both very valid perspectives though. I agree with both of them, but I guess there could be a Venn diagram showing which approach works, depending on the woman or the situation.
Has this been discussed? Where do you guys stand on this issue?
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