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ConversationProfessionalAffect90/r/seduction18/10/21 09:49 PM
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Field ReportProfessionalAffect90/r/seduction24/08/21 10:30 PM
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Check your DMs
/r/seduction18/07/24 12:51 PM
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Comment on something she’s wearing. She’ll respond cut that thread and move on to the next thing. Do not over complicate it.
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:41 AM
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Any bar on north Henderson. Message me privately and I can invite you to the private Dallas chat on telegram.
/r/seduction12/01/22 02:48 PM
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It’s your approach then. I was just in Dallas for New Years and we killed it many college girls we pulled 3 out of 4 nights we were there.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:24 AM
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I was just in Dallas with my friend who lives there we pulled girls almost every night. There are plenty of attractive college girls there.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:23 AM
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A coffee then and you can still have a drink in the afternoon it’s not a big deal
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:36 AM
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Absolutely find out logistics. Not on the opener but within the first few minutes. If it’s impossible for you to pull this girl a quick number is often a much better idea. From my experience night game numbers can be really flakey even if you spend an hour with the girl and make out etc. if you want to sleep with a lot of girls a lot of quick 5 minute numbers setup for dates during the week will get you there. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:32 PM
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I’m assuming you are taking the girl for drinks as you should be. Let’s say drinks are at 7 I always shoot this text around 11.30-12 Is it time for a drink yet… They laugh and agree and you then know it’s still on. I haven’t found a less needy text
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:36 AM
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Just look for Alex from the YouTube channel playing with fire that’s all you need
/r/seduction25/10/21 01:05 AM
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What? A hobby? Just no. This is not what social circle game is. For example if you have a friend who works in a corporation let’s say and he brings some cute co workers out for drinks and invites you that is social circle game. It is a great way to meet warm leads and to get longer time to run your game with girls.
/r/seduction22/10/21 11:45 AM
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Don’t hold your breath for her to ever reach back out when she is ready. She’s on the fence about you. Basically at the point where she said she wants to make sure 100% sure she’s interested is time to start solving that objection she gave you. Could have wrote . I agree I can’t think of a better way than to get a coffee and see how we get along. You seem a little more invested than she does at this point. That whole second to last paragraph comes off a little needy to me. Less is more in these …
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:13 PM
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What point did it mess up. Did she not respond somewhere?
/r/seduction21/10/21 04:57 PM
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I mean not everything can be broken down into numbers. I’m not new to this. For example interactions matter you can grab 5 crappy 30 second numbers or you can grab 5 numbers where you put 30 minutes into each girl and they are more likely to respond to you it’s still 5 numbers but they aren’t equal. So trying to compare my numbers to yours does not really make sense even if I had it logged I would say. Our interaction styles are most likely very different thus our responses via text message will…
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:08 AM
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I don’t have exact statistics but it’s something like that. I grab a lot of quick numbers as well. Like off of a 2 minute convo. One of my rules is always grabbing the number. I’ve had girls I can’t believe show up to a date off a 30 second number close. But in general I’d say those numbers are more flakey. Also like to add that I’m a 6ft 3 muscular white dude not gunna lie like it doesn’t vastly help
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:11 AM
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Just a word of advice I don’t like to spend a lot of time texting numbers I get from girls. This is my sequence As soon as I get her number maybe 10 minutes after I text for example Anthony from Tony’s bar Leave it at that. Next day I write a text like this Are you always as much fun as you were last night 😉 Girls always respond well to this text no girl wants to say no she’s not fun. Then I immediately go to setting up plans. Example. So when are you free for those cocktails we talked about. Th…
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:50 AM
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I don’t care what you believe honestly. Just telling you what I’ve seen. Sounds like your in Vegas you should be able to see these guys regularly as they are at every big night club. I’m there quite often and when you wonder who those guys are killing it come say hello. Btw you should be pulling a minimum of 2 days a week in Vegas as it’s literally the easiest place to game in the USA. Hope your killing it good luck.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:22 PM
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Can someone be a total piece of shit liar and still be good at game? Sure they can and I’ve seen it before I’m not here to critique life choices
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:07 PM
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Yeah sure cause you make up your whole opinion based on YouTube videos. I’m not advocating anyone I’m just saying I’ve seen him pull multiple times do you want me to say I didn’t see him do those things? No that’s right your more impressed watching Todd talk to a set of twins for the wow factor that’s how I know you don’t have good game.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:05 PM
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Don’t put to much emphasis on the opener. If at a bar one of my favorites is “what did you get”pertaining to her drink. Don’t sit on that topic and just start talking about other things. You need a girl with good logistics. For example if she’s out alone the chances you will take her home are much better than if she’s designated driver for 5 of her friends. I screen for her plans and who’s she’s there with within the first 2 minutes of convo. Light touching, for example when emphasizing a point …
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:04 PM
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Actually no I don’t think he does. Maybe total notch count yes but I’m closing a minimum of 1 new girl a week. Without doing game as a full time job. I think you should go watch the video and see for yourself why his game is not good.
/r/seduction18/10/21 11:35 PM
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Believe it or not I know him personally and can attest that he actually has good game in person I’ve seen it. not saying that some of those videos aren’t bad and I’ve seen videos debunking the hooker theme. Also his coaches who run his boot camps on the US are all legit I know them personally as well. He is in a different league then Todd I can promise you that.
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:49 PM
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Bud your making a lot of excuses why you can’t make this happen. Owning a Buisness means I regularly work 70 hour weeks and 7 days a week sometimes. Your on call 24/7. I’m saying I work much more than the average person with just a full time job.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:51 PM
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And? That happens to me every single day that’s why I book 2 dates a night when I have to go out cause I’m sure 1 will flake. When you have 20 numbers going at once it will change your game. You’ll be less needy and more attractive just by virtue of not having enough time for all of them.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:33 PM
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Also I own 2 Buisness so don’t wanna hear how is there time. this is so easy if your a 40 hour a week worker. I go out Friday and Saturday nights 10-2. approach a cute girl if I see her in the day. Swipe 30 minutes a day while I’m in the bathroom pooping.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:29 PM
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I also disagree with this. You don’t know how many interactions where I’ve grabbed a quick number from a girl ( 1 minute interaction) that didn’t seem interested and I thought to myself that’s not going anywhere. Guess what many times I slept with that girl the next night or a few days later. And on the other end I’ve had many interactions that were incredible with girls telling me they better call them! They want me to take them out for drinks we were making out and talking about sex on the dan…
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:25 PM
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That’s why you need many numbers. I didn’t say you will take out all of them. If you get 20 and you take out 5 of them that’s pretty good.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:19 PM
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I was to platonic. When I learned how to be more physical with good eye contact sexualizing conversations I became a lot more successful. I don’t let any rejection weigh on me either I know My self worth and if a girl doesn’t want to get to know me then her loss honestly. I like jmulvs stuff and Alex from PWF on YouTube .
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:39 PM
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You need to be getting a lot of Leads with women. Guys swipe once a week on tinder and do 2 approaches and wonder why they don’t get laid Between dating apps, day game, night game. You need to maximize your leads. If you can get around 20+ numbers a week between those three you will have an abundant sex life with more than you’d know what to do with even if your text game is sub par. Only use texting to setup a date as soon as possible after getting the number Example night game 2 times a week y…
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:34 PM
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I’m a 6,4 white man with blue eyes, muscular and I have an Italian sports car and make north of 350k a year. I was not successful till I learned game. So believe what you want but I would consider myself intermediate/advanced now and I have a rotation of 5 girls constantly always replacing and adding.
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:26 AM
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This is a fallacy. Game does not have to be something learned and sounds like your friend has some. I can bet you he is doing something inherently correct with his interactions. For example I had a friend who was very good with girls. Until I also got very good at cold approach I didn’t understand how he got women. Now it’s clear as day to me. He isn’t nervous in his interaction, makes good eye contact and body language. He can stay in set for long periods of time ( big mistake I see with newbs)…
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:21 AM
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Happens a bunch to me. My favorite opener is you can’t look at me like that and not come say hello. They usually blush and giggle
/r/seduction16/10/21 11:26 AM
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True but if you have those things it makes it a hell of a lot easier. I had all those things and wasn’t successful till I learned a little bit of game. Then I was going on so many dates from cold approach I couldn’t even find time. I’m curious what OPs conversations are like I bet he does not sexualize at all, poor eye contact maybe. Not showing some intent. If your this good looking dude with good dress skills and muscular physique think about how incongruent that can be with your behaviors and…
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:15 AM
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Couldn’t agree more. Exactly what you said it blows my mind that He cherry picked his best interactions and to chose the one he did for the system blows my mind. If he thinks that’s good what does a bad one look like haha. And your right I think all the best guys in the world are most likely not on YouTube or teaching. My one friend who is a salesman and 31 with a 500+ lay count is better than any Pua I’ve watched or seen in person. And I’ve seen a bunch. It’s sad but guys equate YouTube subscri…
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:23 PM
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What are you talking about can you read what I wrote? You need game and the ability to talk to women no matter your clothes. I never said about bf material or getting married read again dude. Shitty clothes. Smelling horrible yellow teeth depressed state of mind is girl repellent wake up. The conversation can’t even start if you have these problems you are disqualified on the initial approach. I’ve literally had guys come to me with horrible haircuts long 80s metal band hair. When we got that ha…
/r/seduction11/10/21 11:04 AM
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There’s a private group on fb called Chen city. Ran by someone I respect in game named ciel. He broke down one of Todd’s more recent approaches in the system and it’s absolutely eye opening to say the least. The over gaminess takes cringe to new extremes.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:46 AM
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Where did I say that’s the answer to all? From the sounds of it I’d bet my left testicle this guy dresses horribly and disqualifies himself from most women just based on looks alone.
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:42 AM
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You will for sure recover and you need to change that damn mindset. Lay out to me what happened and I will tell you what you could have done better
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:11 AM
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Once in a lifetime opportunity to pay for 2 hookers. What are you even saying listen to yourself. You can buy that any day of the week. I think it’s time for you to man up rip off that bandaid realize that you’ll be dead in 70 years and no one will give a f*ck about you. Get over your approach anxiety, get some nice clothes, Go to the gym and strike up conversations with girls at bars or in the day.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:18 PM
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Todd v is so cringe it’s insane. I’ve met a lot of famous pick up guy jmulv is good. Alex with playing with fire on YouTube has the best texting in my opinion
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:13 PM
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I just turned 30 but I have friend who are 21 who are extremely successful doing day game
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:01 PM
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To be honest I compliment girls all the time. ( I am 6,4 muscular white dude so I get away with a lot)I notice most men I’ve seen have a problem showing sexual intent. Something as simple as you look cute I wanted to meet you is a compliment and you can display some intent. Now I think it all depends the frame you say it from. If your a needy creepy dude with bad eye contact it will be horrible. If the interaction is going well I compliment about her to her friends. I say things like where did y…
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:58 PM
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I don’t have time. But type in on YouTube beginners guide to daygame. Posted by black sheep bandit. That will give you the basics. Also Tom is in London so you can see that it works in the UK.
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:36 PM
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Sorry but your wrong cause I’ve picked up women in the street and nightclubs in London. Day approach literally started in the Uk
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:27 PM
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NYC
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:24 PM
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I do all those things. Mentally ill? For talking to someone you find attractive? I would say most people don’t ever have the balls to go up to a person and tell them they like them etc. it’s up to you to decide what’s right and wrong to walk home with your tail between your legs or to go after that girl who could end up being your Gf or wife. I’ve dated girls I met in the day and told me it was the most exciting way they ever met someone. In a world where we are growing further apart from social…
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:20 PM
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I would not use the word beautiful. I think the smart thing to do would be to have normal conversation ask her how she’s been etc. then just say I’d like to take you for coffee, drinks or food sometime etc
/r/seduction10/10/21 10:12 PM
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Not trying to strawman. Sounds like you wanted it to work out with the girl. But Not at the cost of her playing hard to get or being hot and cold etc. which is perfectly reasonable. My advice I believe would have gave you a better chance to at least meet up with her. But it sounds like you have to make a choice between whether your okay entertaining not so interested women or not.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:20 AM
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You didn’t care…. But you cared enough/ more than her even to send a text message that said this isn’t working out sorry cause she wasn’t responding and playing hard to get. You say she’s taking up mental space in your head also. You need to ask yourself why a random girl you met at a casino is taking up mental space in your brain. The rabbit hole goes deep my friend. I’ve been through all this before. Take my word. Bingo! she didn’t want this result. You hit it on the head with that one. You kn…
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:48 AM
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I would have left it at …? And waited a few days I bet she would have responded. If not I would have sent a funny meme about waiting for a response. Send this message now and see what happens I’ve seen it work from digging people back out of worse holes. It would have worked better to text this like an hour after she wrote that but you have nothing to lose anymore. still love you though… Could re ignite a convo let me know how it goes. If it does , vibe a little then go right back to making plan…
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:28 AM
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Just want to preface I have been doing this a long time I’ve seen every text message sequence from here to the moon. My whole life is around seduction and game. All my friends are in the industry and some of the best coaches out. I’ve helped coach camps all kinds of things. It’s not about blowing her off. It’s about your sub communication of being butt hurt thus coming off as needy. She responded so quickly cause she’s thinking to herself yep dodged a bullet with this guy. Which is fine I’ve mad…
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:10 AM
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I’ll give you the truth not trying to be mean. Being outcome independent sends a much stronger message than this isn’t working out. Silence says a lot more then being upset about her not responding to your message in a timely fashion. It says I have other stuff going on in my life it’s doesn’t matter to me if we hang out or not. Really you didn’t want to see her? If she responded and said hey yes let go to xyz bar can you honestly say you wouldn’t have gone… Don’t hold your breath. Even average …
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:33 PM
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Ahh that’s an important detail. So you know the girl already likes you. Entertain her friends a little make them like you as well. Put them at ease that your not creepy or needy. You can isolate as easy as let’s go get a drink and take her hand and walk her away from her friends to another part of the bar. I’d try to get a little more sexual and test the water for her going home with you again. If not hit on other girls at the bar lol.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:49 PM
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We’ll to be honest it will not be easy to isolate with her friends there. They can block you which is very likely. Did she invite you out the next night or did she just say she’ll be back at the bar and your inviting yourself? Haha Why not just set up a date with you two alone? And maximize your chances.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:37 PM
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You for sure could have seen this girl. Next time I would make definitive plans a few days before the actual supposed weekend you’d hang. Example time place etc. you can confirm the date a day before with a funny text like don’t forget to wear something cute tomorrow ;) works well for me. Secondly your texting ( ah this isn’t working out) minutes after ….? comes off as very needy and butt hurt. She is not totally sold on hanging out with you at that point. She’s weighing her options. Now if that…
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:22 PM
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