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| 4 | How To physically Escalate With Women On Dates: A Beginners Guide to Kino EscalationI'm gonna fucking scream. God this shit is dated. But I'm too tired to retort. Carry on. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/24 09:59 PM |
| -6 | A "pookie" online profile, someone make sense of this.I mean it could be 2. 2 establishes the possibility of a bias. 3 establishes a pattern. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/24 02:34 AM |
| 11 | A "pookie" online profile, someone make sense of this.I don't know if you intended for this to be a serious post, but it's about archetypes and imprints. Every woman is imprinted by the image of the first 3 men she's slept with. Even if they upgrade in life, unless they've had a serious come to jesus moment and learn to despise mediocrity they'll always be drawn to the origin of that "feel good". For men it's the first alpha female "most beautiful and submissive " woman that accepts him. If that happens to be an obese goofy chick then that's the im… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/24 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?A true smile looks meditative and is done with the eyes. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/24 11:44 PM |
| 19 | Where Does One Find Quality Women?I'm almost angry I've spent the time reading this value sucking post. You meet high quality women by being a high quality man. As in you've developed yourself to such a degree that you only respond well that those that mimic within 95% certainty, the traits that you desire. You can spot these women by having actual experience. And from experience you can tell what you're going to get just by looking. Her aesthetic. Her walk. Her body language. Her hair. The light in her eyes. How she stands. How… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/24 02:18 PM |
| 13 | Surviving the soy corporate world.I'm of the mind that unless your goal is to get into either management or a leadership position, your only goal should be to shut the fuck up and keep your head down. Do only what is asked of you, but nothing more. Do it with excellence. If you want to get promoted or a raise, I think it's more about making friends in other departments and becoming more cross functional and useful to the company as a whole. Your boss will notice and will naturally want to promote you from what I've seen as they … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/24 02:09 PM |
| 13 | When she’s into you, she makes everything super easy like ABCclass The Recipe: def init(self): self.body_game = False self.fashion_game = False self.killer_confidence = False self.flirtatious_spirit = False def activate_body_game(self): self.body_game = True def activate_fashion_game(self): self.fashion_game = True def activate_killer_confidence(self): self.killer_confidence = True def activate_flirtatious_spirit(self): self.flirtatious_spirit = True def check_outputs(self): if self.body_game and self.fashion_game and self.killer_confidence and self.flirt… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/24 09:00 PM |
| 20 | The Red Pill showing itself in real lifeYou sound hurt as fuck my guy. Has it occurred to you that 10 years ago you actually weren't attractive. No body game. No mouthpiece. No confidence. Nothing about you that made her pussy wet. You say she wouldnt have given you the time of day but never ask why. And if you're talking about 10 years ago, y'all were late teens. So at the ripe age of 18, do you think it's hard or impressive for any guy to fuck a woman that young? It's not. So that really speaks to how whack your game was back then. … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted after the first dateUnderstood | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/24 06:05 PM |
| 18 | Ghosted after the first dateYou really don't see it do you. One, you showed her she was in charge by submitting to her by what it sounds like, letting her pick the time instead of just giving instructions. Two, you had a date at a fucking mall. A mall is not romantic. You can't escalate too hard. There's too much stimulus and distractions. Malls are where women go to shop and be entertained. Not be sexy. Third, from how it sounds she kept teasing you and qualifying you the entire time. Contrary to old teachings and beliefs… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/24 01:11 PM |
| 4 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.External love isn't poison, it's simply something we need to balance like everything else. Wanting validation isn't masculine or feminine. It's something we're born for. No amount of success is gonna replace the fact of having no friends, love life, family, tribe that actually fucks with you. Even starting a business is seeking validation, because you want customers to like your product, to buy into whatever you're selling. Unless you're doing what you're doing in total secret and no one ever kn… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/24 03:03 AM |
| 13 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.Where did I say that there was a "one"? I did not. Mentioning 4 billion women like they're all equally accessible to you is disingenuous, and that's not even factoring in how many of them would actually want to talk to you and deal with you. After all, 99% of the time the man will be the one approaching. I'm talking about from an individual man's perspective, you can run into multiple woman who are meant to be your wife, or something long term, but that doesn't make them replaceable. Because aga… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/24 06:33 PM |
| 14 | You aren't attached to her. You're attached to how she made you feel.I think there's a bigger point to be made here, and it's not that you're so much attached to how she made you feel, but rather, to specify more, the validation she provided. Both men and women are hooked on validation. Validation: feelings of acceptance and worthiness, feeling valued through acceptance by a valuable person, feeling heard and seen and listened to. While validation addiction isn't healthy, validation is the primary means people connect with one another. How could you have a tribe … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/24 05:01 PM |
| 3 | That deafening silence you hear when men are accused of rape? That's the problem.Something you wanna talk about brother? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How to Let a Girl Know It's Okay to Have Sex With You, And How To Make It Easy For Her.I'd venture to say that besides religious women, who messing with sexually is almost always a pain in the ass, LMR doesn't even have a use case. The overwhelming majority of women today are so in tune with their body and desires that it isn't even a question of them feeling like a "slut", but whether or not they like you. Most women today don't feel shame or guilt like thst. So if the overwhelming majority don't even worry about their invisible slut status, why mess the handful that do care abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/24 03:35 PM |
| 4 | How to Let a Girl Know It's Okay to Have Sex With You, And How To Make It Easy For Her.Well, I developed myself to the point I only attracted women who view me how I view myself (God's gift to women). It's a hard truth, but aside from vetting out women who just aren't a good fit (which will be most women, even one's that are high compliance and attracted to you), if you're only dealing with a certain kind of woman, there's some fuckery in you that likes you approaching that, dealing with that, and accepting that. Your mind likes it but it knows it isn't good for you. You need to f… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/24 04:11 PM |
| 13 | How to Let a Girl Know It's Okay to Have Sex With You, And How To Make It Easy For Her.Great story. It will serve as an example to guys who are learning so they don't fuck up their lives with lack of social nuances. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/24 09:38 PM |
| 23 | How to Let a Girl Know It's Okay to Have Sex With You, And How To Make It Easy For Her.Brother I see what you're saying about last minute resistance. What I'm saying is that LMR types aren't as attracted to you as you really want them to be. Their fear has in large part overcome their attraction, leaving you to do a bunch of bullshit legwork that is unprofitable, and in recent years, irresponsible to teach. I had a woman once interpret the sex we had as being borderline coerced because I employed LMR tactics, i.e. i teased her physically into fucking me. She called it psychologica… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/24 08:01 PM |
| 136 | How to Let a Girl Know It's Okay to Have Sex With You, And How To Make It Easy For Her.Respectfully, I have to call this level of advice outdated. The only thing that matters with women is compliance, i.e. her doing what you want, and taking everything else as an indicator of disinterest. If you have to use tactics and wordplay she's not that interested. If she's scared you're a "fuck boy" and because of that, won't fuck you, it means that she's not attracted enough to you for the attraction she has, to overcome her fear and give you compliance. If you're truly direct with women a… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/24 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Careers worth getting into.As far as tech is concerned, I heard cyber security is where all the new real money is. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/24 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Girls will be... girlsJust a guy that's infinitely more experienced than you trying to provide perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/24 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Girls will be... girlsWhat a weird take on this story. You didn't kiss, didn't smash, nothing, and you're acting like you're hip to what this situation really is. You have no clue what her and her man got going on. You're likely just the entertainment and a girlfriend to her. I'm not sure what you were expecting us to take from this story. It doesn't seem like a genuine question about human nature. It's barely a field report because you didnt learn anything or make anything happen. It's not a humble brag? So tf is th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/24 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you spin plates on a budget?What ideas are they suggesting that you just don't want to do? And what are you doing compared to them? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you spin plates on a budget?Do you like going out? Do you like the idea of going out on the town with a beautiful fun woman on your arm? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/24 03:47 AM |
| 15 | How do you spin plates on a budget?Are you frugal or just broke? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/24 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Your Girl Does Not Want You to Be VulnerableBingo. Once you truly develop your masculine identity, your capacity to love others, and develop spiritually at a high level, you attract a totally different class of women that all act in a way you desire. You won't even want to approach 90% of women because you'll sense they don't have much to offer you. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/24 08:37 PM |
| -3 | Your Girl Does Not Want You to Be VulnerableI've been extremely vulnerable, spilling my soul and weaknesses without the "heroes" journey to WAY MORE than a handful of women, and never had it blow back in my face. Still got as much sex and respect as I wanted. It isn't about being vulnerable, its about how she views you as a man. The problem you're having is the women you pick are undeveloped and can't acknowledge a man's humanity. That said, if you stay there and sulk she'll never wanna stay. In the same way that if my bitch sulks all day… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/24 06:47 PM |
| 10 | Get Off dating Apps and Approach WomenHold on Loser McLoser. I have zero approach anxiety. And 99% of men that are true players and run the field don't either. I fuck with evo psych as much as the next guy, but the root of approach anxiety isn't the fear of being murdered or getting kicked out of the tribe. It's the deep internal assertion that you're inherently a loser. That you aren't "that guy". That you've arrived. It's because you dont have confidence in how you choose who you want to approach, how to walk up, what to say, how … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/24 04:47 PM |
| -10 | Your Girl Does Not Want You to Be VulnerableMan you're a fucking idiot for sure with this post. This information is so outdated it's almost depressing. Sigh . | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/24 04:26 PM |
| 5 | To understand Narcissists is to understand women.I mean look man, I agree. The average dude who is not me isn't gonna have a chance in hell of being able to vet effectively enough to avoid the bullshit your describing. Sometimes I forget how low level the average dude. Im describing what should be aspired to. I've never met a woman who could hide her crazy from me for more than a month or two. I encourage them to be crazy because i have them convinced crazy is normal and the world just doesn't understand them like i do. You wanna expose crazy?… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/24 05:43 PM |
| 4 | To understand Narcissists is to understand women.I found this post kind of confusing in what you were attempting to communicate. Kinda rambly. But this is once again the importance of a long slow vetting process. No making her your girlfriend for 10 months to a year and a half. Digging through her childhood trauma. Testing her consistency everyday. Testing if she can consistently follow your program to the letter. Analyzing her sense of spirituality and what love is. Find out what it means to her. Having a goal for the relationship and see if … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/24 03:40 PM |
| 28 | Women cannot go back in lifestyleLuxuries once tasted, become necessities. That's just human nature, for men and women. That's why it's important to date within your class, or slightly lower than your socioeconomic class. Even then, there are plenty of women who will finance your lifestyle and level you up. Not indefinitely, but just because they love you and think your gods gift to earth. You're still gonna eventually have to produce something that at the very least says you can match on par. However 99% of women don't have un… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/24 03:35 PM |
| 2 | What are the top 5 things (in order of importance) that you would recommend for people to focus on?True wealth is just not gonna happen for most men, generational or otherwise. Because it takes so much time and effort that it has to be a life mission, one that most likely won't pay off. Besides health, acquiring skills and resources is the most important thing you can do for yourself. In demand skills = resources. Economy stability and empowerment is damn near all that matters. If you don't gotta bag to do what you want, you don't have anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Plate asks why going on a weekend trip with a bunch of guys is a red flagYour line of thinking hits as very jaded and defeatist: people don't change. That's what it amounts to. If you don't have the skill or life experience to vet if someone has truly changed then yes, one would easily assume AWALT. But there are ways to tell if someone has truly changed. And maybe I should have added the caveat that vetting questions only work when a woman legitimately believes she can trust you with her soul. As in she can feel authenticity and vulnerability dripping off of you. An… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/24 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Plate asks why going on a weekend trip with a bunch of guys is a red flagWhat I said was that taking a woman on is cosigning her past. Meaning whatever she did before you, good or bad, you will overlook it. And again, all that caring about the past stuff is the point of the vetting process. I don't care what she did, I care about: Why did you do what you did? What steps have you taken to remediate such behavior? Any kind of therapy? Introspection? Did you suddenly understand psychology at a deep level? Have you healed from that stuff completely? As in you no longer a… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/24 01:53 AM |
| 10 | Plate asks why going on a weekend trip with a bunch of guys is a red flagThis is the point of a vetting process. You observe her for a period of 10 months to 1.5 years to see her consistency and thought processes before making her your girl and becoming responsible for her. But the bigger picture here, is why do you care who she fucks? She fucked men before you, will want to fuck other men while with you, and will fuck men after you. As long as she's complying with what you want (and no i dont count rules based on insecurities) then why do you care? The point of havi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR 10] I overcame many shit tests and got my first plate. This is where I'll really be tested as a red pilled man.Doing that shit you did during the first visit is how you niggas catch cases and end up in prison. This is why we tell you it it's not a hell yes it's a hell no. You're writing about game like it's 2005. Common man. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/24 07:35 AM |
| 2 | 💊 Therapists are Modern-day Religious Leaders 💊 A Girl's Friends are now her Family 💊I mean real talk though, most men are so emotionally unstable internally, so traumatized by life and emotionally deprived by their brothers and their women that they do need therapy. The average man's thought process and mental ecosystem is fucked. That said, I concur that the only way to break a woman's dependence on her friends is through dick. I think it's bigger than that. If a woman isn't getting consistent good dick from the man of her choosing, the disrespect will fly, she'll turn into a … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/24 06:43 PM |
| 18 | How do you actually guage your level of attraction as a man?You gauge your attractiveness by: Your ability to exercise options, meaning women that you find genuinely attractive Landing those options consistently. This largely depends on how often you go out hunting and what your style of hunting is. Online dating will make any man feel insecure. Did it for what 6.5 years? Got hella results and only did it because "cold approach", a.k.a conversing with women like a normal fucking human being was too complicated and scary. At least to do it more than twice… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/23 09:49 PM |
| 10 | What do you do before making a woman your girlfriend?You think too hard about shit that has nothing to do with you. Is she following your lead? Do you have a grand vision for how she will assist you in your mission in life (women need purpose in your life beyond sex)? Is she doing what you want her to do? Did you give her instructions to follow and is she following them consistently over the course of 10 months to a year? If the answer to all of these is yes, then make her your girlfriend. Vetting is about training her for the things you want long… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/23 11:16 PM |
| 13 | Should I end the relationship?One thing I learned is that she'll inevitably leave you for playing games. She has a structure for the future. You don't. If you don't provide leadership skills and tell her what's going to happen and when or at least ballpark it, she'll stray and get pissed. But that's her fault for dating a man who is not intentional about his life. Also your excuse for wanting to leave her is shitty and full of massive projection brother. "(Due to her cheating or any other reason)". No my guy, you want to che… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Dread game causing my girlfriend’s mental health to spiral… Too far?Understandable. I can't act high and mighty when I use to do worse, leaving lasting emotional damage on others. So here's what I'll leave you with. If what you do doesn't feel good to you, odds are you shouldn't be doing it. If it feels like forcing or trying to make it happen, it's probably not a vibe. Everything you do should feel easy, light, carefree, natural, and righteous. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/23 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Dread game causing my girlfriend’s mental health to spiral… Too far?You sound painfully unaware of how ridiculous you're acting. If you have to be this cold and manipulative to keep a woman, you only demonstrate how much power she actually has over you and how miserable you really are. In any social interaction there is a buyer-seller dynamic, someone who is always more in reaction. You're in reaction. Everything you do is fueled by power and jealousy because you don't naturally have the value, the self validation, the leverage to just be that guy who inspires d… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | From Average to Above Average.... Just Why?You keep resisting your reason for being. Your early body, every perogative you have was created to make you strive through hard times. That is the core of human nature. We strive. We conquer. We rest. Repeat. Sometimes we strive in the trenches where the suffering becomes meaningless and full of senseless mental, physical, social violence. Then we crawl out and find and appreciate a new peace we never thought possible. Learn to become one with striving. Learn to love the fight. It only sucks wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/23 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Gratitude is for LosersEveryone here has pretty much hit the nail on the head. From your perspective in relating gratitude with going to get it, absolutely gratitude is useless. However, from a therapeutic perspective, them getting you on the gratitude train is about getting you on the path to emotional wholeness. It's about keeping you out of depression and pushing you into joy, motivation and thriving. If you don't have gratitude for anything in your life, you will inevitably become hopeless, clinically depressed, s… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/23 07:23 PM |
| 59 | [FR 9] 10/21/23 Got my first same night lay from cold approach and couldn't get hard.You know why your dick didn't work? Because you weren't actually turned on. You did all these dumbass pickup artist tricks, getting you both stuck in your head and putting massive pressure on yourself by planning everything so callously. Your dick didn't work because you were focused on getting good responses from her, rather than feeling good in your own body and letting go, surrendering to her and the universe. Probably thinking about impressing her, keeping her, not fucking things up, feeling… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouYou're getting stuck in the outdated paradigms of performative masculinity. If it's a man's job to lead why wouldn't you wait? A leader puts out a message and then waits for followers. A follower should always be more in love with the vision and message than the leader is with the follower. A leader loves his message. A follower loves the leader. Again, think of an employer. They hold all the value. They put out the job application. The applicants then send in. The way I carry myself is the same… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/23 02:20 PM |
| 20 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouThe real game is not to even try to find that one girl. It's to be so on point in your presentation that women approach you on a regular basis. I've recently finally achieved this to where my style and body is so on point, women walk up to me directly complimenting my body, or some combination of my shoes, beard, outfit, etc. And I don't do it for them, I do it for me. Every part of me is so naturally authentic and unique that it looks efforless. I've been asked out 4 times in the last 2 weeks. … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/23 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Don’t be me.What I'm talking about isn't redpill, it's post red pill, no ideology. Just the wisdom of life. As a former redpill dude, I simply find that the guys on this sub are the ones most likely to receive the message. Once you've learned everything you can from the redpill, you move on to higher, truth, higher learning, spirituality, etc. This is honestly what the redpill should've always been but to get certain perspectives takes "too much time and too much suffering", so guys get stuck in what worked… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/23 08:15 PM |
| 8 | Don’t be me.No. But the way you behave when you "ditch her for better", or by putting off I don't like it here or with you vibes, is a punishment, even if not meant to hurt. And she can indeed feel them | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 12:04 PM |
| 252 | Don’t be me.I almost feel kinda, barely sorry for you. I had a situation where my landlord wanted to move back into her condo, I didn't have the money saved to get a new place as I was too new at my job, still on probation. My girlfriend, one who I felt leveraged and ultimatum'd me into an LTR, let me stay with her so I wouldn't be out on the street. 2 weeks into staying with her my boss said he didn't care for my performance thus letting me go. So I was fucked. I spent two years living in hell, broke becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/23 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Age Doesn’t MatterI find that at age 27, getting women of all ages is easier than ever. At age 20, 24, women in their 30's knew I was that guy but ultimately because of your age they see you as a baby and never take you serious, sexually or for ltr stuff. Now women up to 40 consistently give me attention. Women who have tight bodies. I also find that 18 to 20 years, 99% of the time look like children. They want me still but my style, my personality, how I talk, is too elegant and mature for them to really want it… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 05:22 PM |
| 7 | Age Doesn’t MatterTalk about pushing the boundary. I'm never gonna hate on a man for getting what is tight, right, legal, and of soundmind. But I hope you don't just spill this kind of information to your friends or anyone else. Could be a shit show. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it Hypocritical to Sleep with Other Girls - But Want a Monogamous Girlfriend?All mate guarding, slut shaming, and the like never has never had anything to do with keeping nuclear families together. Nothing to do with a woman's mental wellbeing and her likeliness to cheat. Nope. It's all insecurity and the fear of losing sexual access. That's all it is and ever will be. Will she stop fucking me and thinking im an all star if she fucks Darren from the coffee shop? Or Tyler with the gorilla chest and giant glutes made for giving out savage anal and oral poundings? Or smooth… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 01:18 AM |
| 6 | Am I over reacting?I don't believe men are truly protective when it comes to other men. Men are simply easily jealous and label it under the guise of being protective and territorial. They're afraid of losing out on their investment since men tend to over invest on the front end. And when men think the worst of other men, they're really speaking for the things they themselves would do but would never admit to. Every man likes to claim innocence and superiority yet somehow they understand other men. You can't reall… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/23 12:08 PM |
| 26 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.You're an idiot for trying to meet a woman on an 8 a.m. date. She isn't thinking about sex. She isn't thinking oh I wanna look good for him. You know what she's thinking about? What she's doing for the rest of the day. She's thinking oh this must be platonic. She's subconsciously thinking about work because that's what most people do around that time. Drinks or the park by your place or straight to your place. Always around 7 to 7:30. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | TrustBut being forreal . . . I'm just telling you not only what red pill.says, but life experience says. You don't know this woman and you're already trying to move in with her. You haven't known her long enough to know the faults and tradeoffs you think you know. You're letting this woman you don't even know like that be a second mother to your kid even though you from what I'm reading have made no mention of intent to marry imminently. Let me tell you why she's filling a void. Your ex hurt you. You… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/23 09:24 PM |
| -1 | TrustBro, just put the gun down bro. I got kids bro. Im a family man. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/23 09:12 PM |
| 0 | TrustTriggered alert. Don't shoot me bro! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/23 09:09 PM |
| 6 | TrustGoddamn this is a dumpster fire. Whatever you do, do not move in with that bitch. If you move in with her it will inevitably end in her saying, "Get the fuck out of my shit." Ask me how I know. Even if you have your own job and money. If you move her in with you, you can't kick her out if she gets crazy. Why do you want to live under another woman's program where she calls the shots? She should be coming into your shit. The only way you should be moving in with a woman is if you both get a new p… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/23 08:09 PM |
| 9 | You’re not Obligated to Have Sex with a GirlI resound with this entirely. Even when I know a woman I'm on a date with is breathtaking, I never go on that date for the express purpose of sex. I can't do it anymore. My tastes are too evolved. Pure physicality just doesn't do it for me but it will get me in the door. That said, I need to good vibes, conversation, femininity and true desire. So my dick starts out at like 10% wanting to fuck and if she's good for me now I start peppering in more touching and flirting and the percentage raises.… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/23 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Women and the trap of "oPeN cOmMuNiCaTiOn"All of these problems can be solved by an effective vetting and coaching process. Whether she's a permanent plate or otherwise, you need to indoctrinate her with game every chance you have. She needs to learn what a healthy relationship looks like, step by step. How to introspect. How to look to past relationship trauma and resolve it. How to respect you as the head, the leader in whatever your dealings are. How to talk to you in a way you can receive what she's saying. These are all skillsets t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 3 | she wants the "what are we" talk all the timeYou are refusing to be an honest man. You know from the first few meetups whether or not she's a permanent fuck buddy or a girl you can train up. You are failing to provide leadership. Tell her what it is. "For now, all im interested in is keeping things casual. I can't say when and if that woult stop, so I need you to know that." If she sticks along enough for you to say I think I can make her a girlfriend one day, give her instructions and start seeing how she handles doing basic girlfriend th… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/23 04:15 PM |
| 12 | After date everything changedYour problem is obvious. You gave her boyfriend vibes that she didn't deserve. Texting her everyday, trying to get her emotionally invested, acting like you want more than sex, all things that boyfriends do. Your focus should've been on just smashing and being consistent with that, but you moved too quickly. You offered her dick and boyfriend energy and she chose the boyfriend energy, energy she wasn't ready for. Why would she trust you and stick around if you're trying to act like and be someth… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with toxic in lawsI dealt with this sort of thing from my ex. Her mother was garbage, and so was her father and grandmother. The stories she'd tell me about the childhood trauma they caused would make your head spin. Yet she couldn't bring herself to cut them off due to wanting access to her siblings and you know people suck at cutting off parents. Anyway. I'd offer solution after solution on how to deal with them. To cut them off. Whole lotta no contact promises. But no. Every week more trauma dumping, more shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreAll you have to do is only hit her up when you want sex to happen. Don't be havin no casual conversation, don't cuddle, don't take her out on dates, no pillow talkin, no seeing her more than once a week. She tries to do anything else than that, ignore her. If she keeps pressing the issue then make it abundantly clear you only want to remain casual. But nothing you do should ever give her the impression you want more than a fuck buddy. That's it. You have to lead by example. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/23 03:12 PM |
| 1 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreAll you have to do is only hit her up when you want sex to happen. Don't be havin no casual conversation, don't cuddle, don't take her out on dates, no pillow talkin, no seeing her more than once a week. She tries to do anything else than that, ignore her. If she keeps pressing the issue then make it abundantly clear you only want to remain casual. But nothing you do should ever give her the impression you want more than a fuck buddy. That's it. You have to lead by example. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/23 03:10 PM |
| 4 | How to establish frame with a plate? So she knows and enjoys being a FWB and no moreAll you have to do is only hit her up when you want sex to happen. Don't be havin no casual conversation, don't cuddle, don't take her out on dates, no pillow talkin, no seeing her more than once a week. She tries to do anything else than that, ignore her. If she keeps pressing the issue then make it abundantly clear you only want to remain casual. But nothing you do should ever give her the impression you want more than a fuck buddy. That's it. You have to lead by example. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/23 03:10 PM |
| 25 | My Ex Created an OnlyFans - Confirmed everything I’ve learned on here and in lifeI totally agree. But one thing I learned is that manhood is a skillset. You CAN get really far by just copying dad and mentors but until you have principles and standards and mindsets you can verbalize, it will be extremely difficult to replicate them as needed in students and suns. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/23 01:55 AM |
| 123 | My Ex Created an OnlyFans - Confirmed everything I’ve learned on here and in lifeMan . . . It's lookin like I'm gonna need to make a post about healing from trauma as this is what half the guys here really need. Fine, I'll do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/23 09:18 PM |
| 7 | Never fucking show your weaknesses.You're issue is that you weren't healed and putting your best foot forward/going into it in good faith with this new woman. I don't think it was your "weakness" that got you hurt. I think it was that you were simply weak. All of my exes know my vulnerabilities and traumas intimately and they've never hurt me because of it or taken advantage of me. Why? Because I talked about it from a position of healing and strength and accountability. Not sobbing to the woman about how the last girl hurt me. H… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/23 06:53 PM |
| 5 | When did cockblocking become a beta move?Relationships are a business where the man is the employer and the woman is the employee. The employee is needed but everyone knows that it is not the employer but the employee who is easily replaced. The employee knows homelessness abounds if they stay unemployed too long or if they fuck up. The employer is the primary source of value in the transaction. They provide the money, the plans, tasks, lesdership, etc. When you take a woman on to be yours you essentially offer her full time employment… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/23 01:40 PM |
| 10 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?I'm hearing two different things here. On one hand you feel deeply fulfilled by a woman mothering you. But on the other hand you say that you don't like to be lead and it makes you feel less manly. These two ideas cannot coexist. By you being in a motherly dynamic you are by default the submissive. A woman submits to her man. And the child submits to mother through the authority of the father. You do like being submissive, but you don't like the results that it gives you. It sounds like not only… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?Need more information. Serious questions Would you classify yourself as a sexually submissive man? If so, do you enjoy that? Are these women happy with the dynamic of leading and fervently nurturing you? Do they respect you? Does a woman leading you make you feel safe and secure? What feelings are triggered by letting a woman do her thing? Do you instinctually feel anything wrong with what you're doing with these women? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/23 08:42 PM |
| 58 | How do I get over her? When does it stop?It seems that no one here has a handle on basic psychology. And I find this happening too often for a sub halfway based in psychology. Your problem is that your ego feels robbed. A broken heart is nothing but an ego, a desire that has not been satisfied. Imagine if you worked for your employer for 3 months and never got paid. They kept promising you the money, letting you know they're fixing payroll, but it never comes. You got rent piling up, bills, obligations to friends, all that. Now imagine… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/23 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Field Report - Went to a rave for the first timeThere's so much wrong with this story. You mention your physique several times and went out of your way to tell us your outfit. That tells me that you're obsessed with your looks and how people perceive you. You made the game about women's approval, instead of making about you and what you want for yourself. You rely on appearances instead of the man in the mirror. All you've done is place your confidence in the hands of something that changes with age and circumstance. And let's say that you re… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/23 12:38 AM |
| 69 | Experience with girls and friends who are chads redpilled me more than any content creatorYou don't have to be fit. You just need to look strong and capable. As men we aren't bound to the female standard of being curvy and delicate looking. We can protect physical power in many ways. I see skinny guys everyday with "bad bitches". Just as much as I see fat ones. Game is all encompassing. Second, stoo coping on height. I'm only 5'7, and I've fucked well over 50 women, that most other guys would want to smash. Your problem is that your angry because you're making it about women. The gam… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/23 05:46 AM |
| -2 | What escorts taught me.You ever have sex where you were tapped into to your deep rooted emotional needs? Shit that you weren't aware of or barely knew about? Having sex where a woman purposefully taps into your emotional needs will fuck you up clean. Most dudes couldn't handle that. They can barely handle the validation of fucking a hot woman they really like. Let her get in his mind. Unless you are a supremely disciplined master of the game, she'll make slight work of you and you better pray she never tries to hurt y… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/23 05:22 PM |
| 5 | FR: I Slept with an Exes MomThat's a very shortsighted view. Any man that ages should always side eye his past. If you look at your past and think everything is sweet, then you've not grown at all and are caught in arrested development. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/23 03:04 AM |
| 16 | FR: I Slept with an Exes MomThis reads like you've been reading the pickup teachings of Todd V. He's the only guy I've ever heard talk about narrative. That said, you need to get some therapy. Whether or not this story is true, it speaks volumes about your bitterness, brokeness, insecurity, vengefulness of spirit, and the like. This is not a success story but a massive failure of the ego. You will not look favorably upon this stort 5 years from now. Good luck brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/23 04:52 PM |
| 7 | My red pill bros, how do I stop being a whiny bitch and start problem-solving whenever I am hit with adversity or difficulty in life? We men are meant to be problem solvers, but a lot of us are sure forgetting how to go on about our problem solving tendencies, anyways, tips and strategies?20 minutes to an hour of consistent six count burpees will make a man out of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/23 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Interpreting strange signals from weird girlGirls who are this needy and emotional and mentally ill are some of the best sex you'll ever have. The burning desire to please, no boundaries, no rules. You can do whatever you want to them like an animal and feel like god at the end of it. But is that worth risking your future over? Someone that emotionally unstable, could falsely accuse you of anything, they often do. She could kill or hurt herself and have it blamed on you. She could drag you into an emotionally abusive relationship filled w… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/23 04:39 PM |
| 20 | Why being in a relationship or accidentally impregnating a black women is a terrible ideaYou suck at picking women. I'm met more than my fair share of submissive pretty black women who want nothing more than to serve you and fit into your life. A submissive woman is feminine in her bones. She can't turn it off. A big hint is if she still lives with her parents. Shows they want protection. Or their walk, graceful and flowing. Feminine women also gravitate towards loose clothing. They look vulnerable and peaceful. They have soft voices. I think you have issues knowing how to spot femi… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/23 08:42 PM |
| 20 | Speak her languageJust realise that your hate is both temporary and nonnsustainable. If you hate something it shows that something that you value has power over you and you can't get what you want out of it. Learn to forgive and accept and grow in order to receive more in life. This too will pass. All anger is, is desire that has not been satisfied. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/23 02:02 AM |
| -1 | Intelligence and attractivenessThis post is fucking meaningless. Who exactly gets served with this information? It doesn't even address its own glaring plotholes. That is that intelligence is subjective and context driven. Men who fight in boxing and the ufc have high fight IQ. Men with mouthpieces have high seduction IQ. Men who are good at talking and connecting with others have high social IQ. Every man has their own IQ specialization that makes them attractive to women. You just have to hone it and make it yours. Intellig… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 05:59 AM |
| 23 | Stop Jacking Offu/dmsama I use a large number of techniques and psychological tricks to check myself. Meditation is one of the best. Once you get good at witnessing your thoughts and accepting them as neither good nor bad, you can move onto trauma release meditation, which you can find a thousand videos about. The key there is mainly identify those triggers that make you irrationally angry, vengeful, make you want to hurt and kill and humiliate. Those things that perplex you, make you want to be petty, make you… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/23 04:08 AM |
| 5 | Stop Jacking OffI wouldn't even call this redpill. I simply consider it to be "the game". And there's game in everything. That said, if most guys understood their sexual motivation and what truly fulfilled them emotionally, their sex lives would change dramatically. Most men have never considered that they have emotional needs they would like fulfilled. If they're ready to look in the mirror and go down that route and be truly vulnerable with themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/23 03:17 PM |
| 220 | Stop Jacking OffI'm gonna give a high level take on this. First, to acknowledge the post, yes, it's extremely easy to force yourself to approach by abstaining from masterbation. You go long enough without that feel good and appetite to hunt and conquer to get that meal makes things come to fruition. But this is only a short term solution. And in a way because my ideas only really work once you experienced a true spiritual/mental breakthrough, they could still be useful at lower levels of consciousness. That is,… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/23 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Women want angels to provide and take care of them and they want devils to fuck them, so balance your Jungian shadow and apply it to all aspects of your life.You're seeing things from a purely biological level, and the level of the ego. Once you start seeing things from the perspective of the spiritual, higher purpose, then you might get it. There's a difference between say feeling warm fuzzies, which I can get with any woman who I feel validates me and is feminine, and a woman who can speak life into existence, who can speak to you on a level no one else can. It makes you feel good yes, but it's about why it made you feel good. Certain levels of ple… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/23 01:20 AM |
| 5 | Women want angels to provide and take care of them and they want devils to fuck them, so balance your Jungian shadow and apply it to all aspects of your life.It's not about relying. It's about trust and the gift of what they give. Women can provide for themselves, but ultimately they know they cannot replace the emotional fulfillment from receiving the protection and provision of a man. It's the gift of protection. Vice versa, there is nothing that can replace the gift of the warmth of a feminine woman, a woman who speaks words of healing and soothes the soul. Some things you can only artificially create and it's never the same | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/23 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Women want angels to provide and take care of them and they want devils to fuck them, so balance your Jungian shadow and apply it to all aspects of your life.Exactly. As much danger as there is in marriage, breaking endless hearts and racking up a massive body count is dangerous as well. Always looking over your shoulder waiting for false accusations or other drama from other men. Risk of catching disease increases. No one to take care of you when you're sick. No one to bear your soul to and have it nurtured. Vulnerability with other men is far different than a woman. There's a healing energy that your bros just don't have. Never evolving into learni… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/23 06:27 AM |
| 14 | Women want angels to provide and take care of them and they want devils to fuck them, so balance your Jungian shadow and apply it to all aspects of your life.Or how about this . . How about not living in fear and just accept that life has its ups and downs? I promise you that if you found a woman that validated you in every way your heart desired, you'd never wanna give her up. For every problem we have they have to. And for all of these problems there are solutions. Don't want to get robbed? Put her in a position in your life to where she's adding so much value you don't care if she takes half. Don't want to get fucked over socially? Actually vet he… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 07:56 PM |
| 18 | Women want angels to provide and take care of them and they want devils to fuck them, so balance your Jungian shadow and apply it to all aspects of your life.The reward is being forced into becoming the best version of yourself as a man everyday. A man can never be his best self if he isn't a steward over the life of another person. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/23 04:54 PM |
| 11 | Struggling to truly be at peace with TRP teachings.I used to feel guilty about running game in the form of techniques. On and off. I'd confuse it for control and manipulation and if I had the right to do that to women, especially when it benefitted them, when in reality, they must be seen as transient tools. If you do the techniques for the woman's sake then you could feel bad if that's your means to an end. But if you treat the techniques as training wheels in your endeavor to better yourself as a man, then that guilt goes away. I remember all … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/23 06:04 PM |
| 11 | The Only Option Is StrengthResponsibility = This is my task and it is my job to do it. Accountability = This is my task and my job, AND when things go wrong, it is my fault and mine alone for it going wrong, AND it is my within my power to affect change in it Ownership = Taking full initiative in everything you do, and accountability for every step taken, whether you are directly responsible or not. Ownership transcends accountability as it demands that you insert yourself into the lives of others that have nothing to do … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/23 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Let them have their fantasyIt's our duty to spread this game to those who are lost. Life is impossibly hard without guidance, and for a lot of dudes this is the only shit they'll ever listen to. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/23 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Let them have their fantasyI do understand from that standpoint. Thanks for your contribution brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/23 04:53 PM |
| 22 | Let them have their fantasyI'm going to have to provide pushback and disagreement on most of this. I've found that telling women about the struggle, the journey, the how and why is an excellent opportunity to put her up on game and provide knowledge and leadership. Most women are mentally bankrupt and they love nothing more than a man who has already been through it all and knows how to navigate said emotion or situation. They want to be taught. Something to model themselves after. If you're both her mentor and lover she'… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/23 04:30 PM |
| 4 | How to Become a Digital Performer Specializing in Remote Work ReenactmentIt's company by company and then project by project man. You have to vet during the interview process to see what kinda work they have and what the people are like. And then you have to be competent and good enough in your field to fuck off your time. You can't suck and pull it off. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/22 06:12 PM |
| 33 | How to Become a Digital Performer Specializing in Remote Work ReenactmentI'm not mad at this. I'm a data analyst and I know for a fact that my coworkers are not getting raped with work. During our standup meetings my boss always wants to make sure we have enough work and projects and to make sure we're properly stimulated. But the truth is I don't work more than about an hour a day. If it gets busy I'll work at most three hours during that day. The other analysts on my team, besides the team lead, only work about 3 hours a day if that. The rest of the time they're in… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I think I lost an attractive girl because of my PIED.That is oversimplified summary of years of suffering. If you want to read my official work on the matter, I can add you to a pickup group that has it. It'd get your mind right. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I think I lost an attractive girl because of my PIED.I have a few perspectives on this as a man who suffered his dick failing him for 6 years straight in my teens and had to single handedly crawl out of the pit of sexual mediocrity, discovering the secrets of the mind of man and our sexual motivations. You haven't suffered enough yet in my opinion. You put in 7 to 8 years of mediocrity into your body and you think it's just going to obey you? You haven't learned your lesson until it breaks your soul. You're soul is not broken yet. Will you fully e… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/22 11:59 PM |
| 3 | LTR admits to lies and secretsAccountability and leadership go hand in hand. Accountability says, "This is my fault and I am to blame, therefore I have the power to change it." The spirit of accountability is the opposite of victim status and exudes power, agency, and the ability to change. Only once you take accountability can you lead. I believe everyone should be held accountable but that's not reality. Accountability is painful and a long process, making it a one way street for the benefit of yourself and those around yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | LTR admits to lies and secretsBecause it's not a woman's role to take accountability, it's the mans. As long as you hand accountability to others you take the sting of fucking up off of yourself and learn to take comfort that it's not all on you. It is. Men lead. Leadership is a lonely road. You cannot lead if you blame your followers when it's convenient. That's what they have you for. Who wants to follow someone who just turns things on them whenever? What do you think leadership is? You lead because you're superior or els… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | LTR admits to lies and secretsYou act high and mighty, but not once did I hear you say anything about whether or not you had a program for her, whether or not you were a good leader and she a good follower, whether or not you had a plan for the future regarding her for her to even be your gf, what the purpose of your relationship was and what you both wanted to get out of it, nothing. Just . . . Bitch lied about what she knew you'd get angry about because you're the type of dude who deserves lying to. Then, then you lie abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/22 09:03 PM |
| 4 | Is it cheating if she says it's a situationship?Guilt is a product of the inability to adhere to your survival instincts and preserve self. Guilt is incongruence, self doubt, and unconfidence. Guilt is an inability to own making hard decisions in life. Once you come to accept that right and wrong are rarely if ever black and white, are relative, and that life is about creating and owning GOOD decisions with the information you have at your disposal at the time, that you can be proud of, then you'll have peace. But in order to do that, you hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/22 09:50 AM |
| 5 | Cold ApproachBruh what??? First of all, I'm not redpill. I just practice game. If I can preach game to redpill cats then I do. Second, I'm assuming your balding because you asked. Rsd made a living with their leader being a literal balding ginger as to say anyone can do it and pickup women. You gotta chill brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/22 03:12 PM |
| 7 | Cold ApproachRsd was built on people just like you. RSD tyler/owen in his pickup prime got off on showing infields of him picking up women as a balding ginger. Although such gold mine videos no longer exist, it did happen. Pickup artistry was built off of RSD's back. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/22 02:56 PM |
| 27 | Why You Need Instagram in the Modern Sexual MarketPlaceHonestly I'm over anything having to do with online dating. I've done it for so many years and smashed many a woman from it. I've been very successful with it. And I've come to the conclusion that I'm too valuable to let women prescreen me from a handheld computer. Because that's what online dating in any form is: Instagram, Facebook, Tinder, it's all prescreening. In her mind, "Based on how I think you live your life and how hot you are, even though I don't know you and haven't experienced you,… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/22 06:49 AM |
| -8 | Why her body count mattersWhat the fuck is the point of this post? Once a woman has had dick all you've done is open her up to eventually want to experience more men. In fact, every girl that was once a virgin is no longer a virgin proving my point. You either start with your dream girl (a virgin) and wait for her to get tossed back to the game by you or herself, or take a girl already thrown back to the game. And honestly, if you're worried about a girl cheating your game fucking sucks. Loyalty comes from emotional inve… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 07:12 PM |
| 5 | I think I am a beta male and I am happy with it.Then there's nothing for us to say. You naturally align with feminine energy and it can't be helped. More power to you. It'd be different if you were just repressed and lost in your manhood. But clearly you're not. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/22 05:24 PM |
| 10 | I think I am a beta male and I am happy with it.You have low testosterone and low self esteem. You're only happy with yourself because life has been easy for you and you've never felt the consequences of being weak. Once you've had life kick your ass as man, once you see how much of a burden you feel like and a leech you can come off as, how much your preferred woman doesn't want to fuck you ( and if she does she'll leave you heartbroken quickly), you will know the truth, and you will see that you were just depressed and trippin. Evolution mu… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/22 05:12 PM |
| 6 | The breakup gambitMan honestly I don't even feel qualified to do any of that. I'm still a work in progess anf until I have a philosophy that I 100% stand behind, I don't want to lead men astray by pumping out content. Anything I post is the truth and nothing more. But when I do believe I have it all figured out, I'll definitely write about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/22 02:06 PM |
| 9 | The breakup gambitTime means nothing if you haven't dealt with the man in the mirror. You see where time got you. Nowhere. You have to deal with your pain, the truth, and time simultaneously. You have to stop needing to feel like you're bouncing back and let life happen as it does. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/22 03:57 AM |
| 23 | The breakup gambitWhile he gave good advice, he oversimplified the sensations you're feeling. That sick, gross, dead feeling you get is trauma energy you never dealt with. You never took the time to deal with the pain you have in your heart, to accept it, to grieve, yell, cry, feel like a raving lunatic. You can workout to keep your mind sharp but until you look at the man in the mirror and get right with him, you'll always feel like that: unbalanced. You can only combat trauma energy by accepting and embracing i… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/22 03:47 AM |
| 10 | An early shoulder bump with the red pillThis is a weird story. In hindsight it is funny, but it's written like you got the best of her, when in reality, she got the best of you. You would've been food for her if she actually thought you were worth the time. Classic lesson nonetheless. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartTwo girls that friendzoned me for like 7 to 10 years (raging simp --hate that word--back then). Both et me fuck once. Was the most trash sex ever. All the one's that got past date two ended in ghosting. 95% of my lays are same day, online and in person, as in once we had the date it went down that night. But frfe stop trying to validate your bad decisions. You can't say you're not looking to build life with her if you have pre planned vetting for a relationship. You're sprung and she's hit on yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 11:52 PM |
| 12 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartSounds like you view her as "the one". Either she's the hottest girl you've ever been with, best vibe you ever had, or more likely the case, the most feminine, and subconsciously you want to treat her like a lady. She's probably so perfect to you that you imagine building a life with this bitch. She's probably so perfect that she's rewritten or is currently rewriting your sexual imprint as we speak. Either way, if you delay sex long enough and then finally try the girl 90% of the time won't be d… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 11:00 PM |
| 12 | Struggling through breakupThat's the importance of stepping in your masculinity, knowing how to lead, and having your shit together. Inability to maintain a healthy relationship is based on fear, lack of knowledge, and lack of leadership skills. Relationships, whether friend, family, or with women are a skill set. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 121 | Struggling through breakupLet me tell you something real. You need to heal brother. You may not see your situation as traumatic, but any event that triggers intense negative emotional reactions is a form of trauma. This sort of phrasing is not feminine and is not to call you weak or broken. It's simply real life and being human. While you should be doing things like eating well, working out, reading to keep your mind and body sharp through this difficult time, you actually need to stay away from women for a time. You're … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Sleep Toolkit from Prof. Andrew HubermanI have to disagree. Sleep apnea can indeed be fatal. Not just indirectly in the form of increased risk of heart attacks, cardiovascular diseases, severe lack of sleep and the like after the fact, but because, there are many documented cases where people just simply don't wake up. Their oxygen gets too low while they are in too deep of a state of slumber and they die. Or maybe their body is incapable of properly evaluating oxygen levels in that state and you die peacefully but from the same thing… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/22 02:33 PM |
| 11 | Leave the Cage Door OpenFlaking is not a test 99% of the time. I say this because for that same 99%, no matter if you play it cool, get mad, play it smooth, whatever, they flake the next time as well. Flaking is simply a sign that they were either too busy, or there attraction was not great enough to overcome their fears, insecurities, and doubts about you. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Missionary position is the best for married sexMan . . I gotta stop readin this shit before I go on my daily Starbucks runs befoes work. I'm out. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/22 01:06 PM |
| 28 | CorporateLand: Don’t Kill the Job v. Quiet Quitting.I concur with all of these points. Work just hard enough, at just the right intensity, at just the right salary, to be able to fund your life's passions . The true quiet quitting is leaving your job with no notice to enjoy these passions . . Sorta like how pretty much every company fires you without notice. . . Quiet firing. P.S.: Fuck a promotion or recognition. Leave your job for another that will pay an extra $20,000 to $30,000. Your job will never give you a big enough raise, bonus or whatev… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/22 01:38 AM |
| 21 | Why Tate’s Claim of giving to women’s charities showcases his betrayal of his audienceBruh you're an idiot. It's called playing the fucking game. Fake like you give a shit about certain causes so when someone comes for your title you can simply say that you were "misunderstood". It's called preparing for the future. If you don't have contingencies for negative events then whatever you build in life will disappear. His giving to charities says nothing about his message. What he's doing is the basics of machiavellianism. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/22 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Asexuality is key to a prosperous lifeAt first I was gonna comment to try to help this young man. But then I thought, with all the internet resources at his disposal, and this sub's sidebar, do we really want this man in our ranks? No. No one here shares your opinion OP. Your thoughts are the thoughts of a man who is suffering and has never tasted success. The thoughts of a man who has zero self discipline. You have a discipline issue. Go get laid. Go do something difficult that will build character and perspective. Go read a book. … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/22 02:57 PM |
| 6 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withGlad to have you back in the fight brother. Stay frosty. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 10:07 PM |
| 46 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withShe likely knew she was too much of a fuckup to keep you. If a woman thinks she'll never be able to meet the standard they will jump ship. Otherwise, it'll be a slow mental burn for them and they'll come to hate you because no amount of validation will be enough for them. Why? Again, they know they aren't worthy on the inside. It's imposter syndome on a relationship level. Your excellence showcases her dysfunction. I've seen it all before. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/22 09:45 PM |
| 66 | [Success Story/Field Report] FINALLY fucked a hot girl! Thank you so much TRP!!!Because you needed the validation of a hot woman to get you started, to give you confidence, to make you feel like the man, to feel desired, I won't come for you for you the way I would a guy who is experienced. In a perfect world, men would have the self discipline to resist low value behaviors, but it's not reality. When you've never had a hot girl, never gotten what you've wanted out of them, never believed you could be worthy, and most importantly never had a positive reference experience, y… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/22 04:48 PM |
| 50 | I lost it all. When you lose it all - you have nothing left to loseI resonate with the spirit of this post. I really do. However, I think what you're overlooking, as most people do when it comes to their own personal success, is positioning. You were in position to do all these things because you had a skillset that allowed you that freedom (your job). With proper positioning financially, you can get away with most things. In reality however, most people are not primed to come to the intersection of prime position road and warrior mindset way. If you lost your … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/22 02:08 PM |
| 4 | High value now but my mind still freezes when opening girls" Hey, Excuse Me (If she doesn't see you coming up or looks likes she's busy or waiting for something to happen), I thought you were cute and I wanted to meet you real quick. My name's Xyz." This is as simple as it gets. It tells her why you're there. Offers a false time constraint. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/22 08:51 PM |
| 63 | Scarcity Does Create ValueThe best sex you will ever have is always the sex based 1. The woman being extremely hot and more importantly, your type 2. Your ego satisfied in its desperate lust for power, control, and getting what it feels entitled to. Good shit brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/22 05:56 PM |
| 3 | News From The FrontThis does not sound like a win. You got the pussy, but at what cost? All pussy that feels good is not good for you. You let her openly disrespect you, and you try to reframe it as a shit test. Sure, you can use word magic, but at the end of the day, you still tolerated blatant disrespect for ass. Second, this date went on for 8 hours. Sounds like you were in her frame the entire time. Even for "sheltered girls", they do not require 8 hours of game, 3 to 4 at most. And by that point, by the third… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The Dark Truth : Teenager Peak Female Biological SMVThis post isn't going to age well at all. Go hit the gym brother, and train until you're strong enough to hold this massive, girthy and veiny L. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on scheduleI don't see why we can't both be right. I acknowledge your point. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on scheduleYou gotta understand the reasoning. When I approach women, I'm very straight forward, very dominant, very sexual. She knows that I value my time and what I want out of it. After that we text. I prime her with leadership telling her what to expect from me. I then hit her up directly and ask if we're still on. Because I'm dominant she knows what it means. If you've ever been job hunting, recruiters will confirm interviews if its been a while or its an important interview, or if it was hard to get … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/22 11:13 AM |
| 8 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on scheduleIt is weird game for no reason. As a man you value two things, those being your time, and being direct. By asking her outright you force her to make a decision. Trying to wiggle around what you really want to know allows her to be indirect and play games with your time and perception. Don't try to soften the blow of rejection by trying to control her perception. When a chick knows that you are direct, and that you value your time, she will know by how she interacted with you before, exactly what… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on scheduleI use it all the time and get good results. There's a difference between asking if something is still happening in an inquisitive nature, and sounding scared. I know my logic and what I do works. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/22 10:44 AM |
| -12 | My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on scheduleStep 1: Tell her you'll hit her up xyz time on the day of the date and let you know if anything comes up "I'll text you tomorrow around 3 to make sure we're still on. Let me know if anything comes up." Step 2 (day of date: Text her something that assumes you're still on without sounding needy on the day of Do - "Are we still on for tonight?" Do Not - "Are you still interested in meeting me out tonight?" Most Important Step Step 3: If she doesn't respond, text her this . . "Let me know by xyz tim… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | "Deserves" is a childish word"Deserve" does not merely imply entitlement or fairness. Deserving implies that a party has been robbed or disadvantaged in some way, in comparison with the rest of the group. A man born into poverty, the streets, doomed to live a thug life of mediocrity — does he "deserve" more? I would argue yes. He had his life robbed from him by his parents, and the society around him that encouraged mediocrity. Is him thieving and robbing fair payment? I'd argue no. It is not his. But his payment I would th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/22 05:19 PM |
| 7 | Excerpts relating her body count to divorce: why her history matters now more than everThis shit manages to get reposted like 3 times a month with slight differences in each iteration. And it's the only type of post that has a gigantic list of studies attached to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/22 06:35 PM |
| 11 | It's your Responsibility even if it's not your fault.Responsibility, ultimately is empowerment. Once you assume responsibility for something, you are saying to everyone that you have the ability to actively control, n manipulate, and generate outcomes as you see fit. It also means that you have to learn how to vet, how to lead, how to discipline, when to abandon a failed venture, and so on and so forth. Treat your women like employees under the general manager, which is you, and you'll immediately see results. You vet. You give them an offer lette… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/22 02:56 AM |
| 6 | Losing myself due to performance anxietyDepending on her coming back for a confidence boost is an issue. You're dependent on her validation to feel good. Soon as you have one off session which happens to everybody, then you'll start questioning yourself If sex gets stale you can't automatically blame that on yourself. There is such a thing as getting too comfortable, and, them not validating you. What i mean is, if you eat anything long enough then you'll get tired of it. Don't mean the food is bad, but it doesn't bring excitement. Pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/22 10:19 PM |
| 7 | Losing myself due to performance anxietyNothing but the pain and sorrow of lived experience. Gotta save anyone I can | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 136 | Losing myself due to performance anxietyI see a few glaring issues here: You've lost the sexual power that you have in the relationship. You've allowed her to set that frame that sex happens on her time. Which means that instead of you being relaxed and having fun, running the show as a man should because he controls the show, you're operating on her time, meaning you have to be ready when SHE wants you to be ready. Here's the secret boss, sex operates on your time. Good sex comes from the man, not the woman. And that can't happen i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/22 04:15 PM |
| -6 | Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment."If you don't have anything to say, don't . . . " Brother, why did you feel the need to post this low effort, valueless post here like this sub wasn't founded on this princinple? Even then, the discussion on the topic has since evolved. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/22 02:19 PM |
| 28 | On The "Buyer vs. Seller" FrameThere's a trick called "borrowing value from the future". Basically it's imagining the potential inside you and who that can drive you to be in the future. Doctor. Lawyer. Gangster rapper. You take your trusted life trajectory as the basis for your confidence. Because if you know you have it in you to be that, why would you not treat yourself the way you would in the future. It's the same guy. That's some old school rsd for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/22 02:20 AM |
| 4 | How To Get Into State When You Socialize (Actionable Advice)There is no shame in admitting another man has a point. Too many guys make posts that don't receive favorable attention and then try to deflect and hold frame in the comments. It might be "cool and witty" but it's not masculine. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Invisible Wars - Part 11 - Social Stealth - How to deal with people keeping you down.This seems like a long way of saying learn how to add value to those who control your fate, and learn to speak their language so they'll feel comfortable with you. Use their mannerisms, their buzz words, have proper boundaries, and avoid needing them for anything as much as possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/22 11:36 PM |
| -1 | Society Has Programmed You To Be A Beta Buxx From A Young Age.And didn't read not a goddamn thing. Like who tf is his audience?????? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/22 06:56 PM |
| 35 | Society Has Programmed You To Be A Beta Buxx From A Young Age.Did . . . Did you read the sidebar before posting this shit????? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 7 | The red pill of job hunting, a recruiter's perspectiveIf you're not lying to get a job, then you're SOL, especially in a pandemic/post pandemic If you're getting work easy, you already have years of experience or have a lot of nepotism in your favor. Lying as an entry level is essential. Lie or be hungry and broke. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]Your questions are getting beyond the scope of the ask so I will end with this. You yourself define what a strong man is. If you're kissing ass it depends on why. Is it a tactic to get sex? Is it based in scarcity? Are you a submissive man? A man can be strong in one area and weak in another. He could be strong in emotional centeredness and weak in decision making. He could have good boundary setting but weak leadership. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]Simps are also extremely emotional, impulsive, reactive and dangerous to be around for men and women alike. They have no code. They are congruent in their chaos and emotional behavior. But they have no foundation. They are grounded in nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]A strong man is grounded, free in all his way, on his purpose, and congruent. Most importantly, a strong man does what HE wants to do, and what he says he's going to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 07:27 AM |
| 5 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]You can only lose frame if you were in frame. If you were always weak man then arguing with bitches is just something you do. Part of your thoughts in congruence is your belief systems. If you believe you should never get pissed or reactive and then you do, then you lost frame. You can only enter a woman's frame when: You don't have your own And/Or You concede to doing things her way. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Frame as I understand it [Discussion]You are overcomplicating this. Frame is the strength of your reality. Frame is the same as congruence. Congruence is total alignment in your thoughts, words, actions, and emotions. Frame then, can be thought of as the authenticity of your reality. If you are not aligned in your thoughts, words, actions, and emotions, you come across as fake or a liar. When you think of it like this, frame can further be distilled down to the refusal to be fake or inauthentic. The question is, how authentic is th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/22 06:42 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Damn, it really sucks that you went through the effort of writing an aimless post like this. You would have been better writing a fourth of the content centered around what good communication from a man is, from the standpoint of manhood, and why as a man it only matters what you want in the communication and happiness. Most times in my experience when a woman wanted me to open up, it was because they couldn't believe someone like me would want them. They wanted to humanize me so they didn't fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/22 11:38 PM |
| 45 | /r/AskMen asks "Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you?" and gets the wrong answer...You initiate casual conversations about what her values are. Get her comfortable and project a non judgemental vibe. After that, get her talking about exes or guys that pissed at. Try to act like like you empathize with her wanting to air them out. Tell her small things about you that could be true or untrue and see how she reacts. Get her angry and see how she behaves. You should never be with anybody or consider them for anything serious until you've seen them angry, seriously. You don't know … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 83 | /r/AskMen asks "Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you?" and gets the wrong answer...You know how you avoid getting hurt when opening up? Have an actual vetting process. Stop opening up to women who haven't earned it. Test them thoroughly with little things to trust them with, rather than just giving up your ass to them bent over a kitchen island. Next, open up because YOU want to, not because you felt bullied into it. This shit isn't complicated. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/22 08:24 PM |
| 8 | Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelityAt least you get it. I love the game but we men are so disingenuous when it comes to our own psychology. The truth is we love the feeling of dominance, newly found confidence, and potential status that comes with fucking a new chick and breaking her in. The ego high of new pussy, and especially good new pussy is deadly and ancient. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/22 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelityIt's not nihilistic. It's an observation. Sex is sex. And if people don't want to get hurt, they should stop hinging their relationship on betting against the core of their nature, which is to fuck more than one person. It's madness. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/22 02:44 AM |
| -23 | Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelityMean cheat because for one, monogamy is not natural and is a lie. Two, men have a need to dominate and control their environment. We do this by fucking other women. The hotter the women you cheat with, the more powerful and dominant you feel. Sex is never just fun for us men. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/22 12:04 AM |
| -11 | Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelityAs a generalization, I believe it to be true. Everyone has a friend that's been cheated on. And if they haven't, their partner probably didn't have the game or access to cheat. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/22 11:12 PM |
| -32 | Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelityWhat was your point in posting this? Everyone cheats at some point or another. And if you haven't been cheated on, at least one of your partner's didn't get caught. They were good at cheating. Just because women get married and sell themselves on the lie of monogamy doesn't mean they won't still do it. Men and women are pretty much equal opportunists in this regard. If they think they can get some side action, which literally everyone wants when they're honest about it, they will do it. It doesn… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/22 10:56 PM |
| 7 | First approach - Mixed messages, left confusedBrother, Stop trying to shit where you eat. Hooking up with girls you live with/work with is low vibration energy. You get a hit of validation and joy on the front end, but on the backend you fuck yourself by giving her the emotional leverage to control your life. You want it out of convenience, comfort, and scarcity. You clearly don't understand game talking like you do. You didn't do anything to indicate you wanted to hookup. You didn't flirt, didn't touch her, didn't sexualize, didn't get her… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Learning to run through HellJust because someone says it doesn't make it true. Hoes can become housewives. Most hoes are hoes because most modern men suck at leading. Now is it worth it to make them housewives? Most times no. But they can. Pair bonding in this sphere is based on how many men a woman has fucked. So no, I'm not moving the goal post. Guys in this sphere believe that if a woman fucks a lot of guys that she burns out her ability to "pair bond". I'm not sure what you thought pair bonding meant. But over here, it… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/22 02:13 AM |
| -2 | Learning to run through HellBrother, wives still have to be made. It doesn't matter if she was a hoe or a regular woman. You still have to teach them how to be with you for the long term. "Pair bonding" has nothing to do with that. I don't know why guys keep perpetuating this concept. So because a woman fucked a bunch of guys she can't feel an emotional connection to you? Why the fuck are we relying on our dick to make a woman stay with us forever. Relationships take a lot of fucking work and there are a thousand things mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Learning to run through HellWives are made. You as a man have to train a woman to fit your program. You just have to determine the baseline of woman you accept. For example, if she isn't naturally feminine and submissive, then it's a no go. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 24 | Learning to run through HellI personally believe that all of the lessons that you’ve managed to learn are all based on fear and the pain that being a weak man caused, though I respect the truth nonetheless. Sure, no marriage, cohabitation, kids, are all staples in the redpill. But the way you came to this conclusion is less than stellar and built on shaky ground. You were never a dominant man with women. You’ve never truly had it your way with women. You’ve never laid down an ironclad program where your word was law. You’v… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/22 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Why Men Should Stop Complaining About Women Who Are SlutsMarriage was always a failed institution because human nature is involved. Men will always desire to dominate more women by fucking them, and weak men, "beta males", will always seek to kill the dominant men for not being fair and not sharing sexual access. Marriage exists to protect weak men first, then women who need "security". Frankly, having to pass a woman's big ass laundry list just to fuck makes the sex not worth it. What is the point of getting short term pleasure when you have to do th… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/22 12:37 AM |
| 17 | Your Time vs. Her Pussy: Getting laid is a ScaleAnother thing I'd like to add, the pussy vs time model is dated. Think of it instead as a "Compliance Model". Women are only looking for your time if they're attention whores. Otherwise they love dick as much as we love pussy. Women on the other hand who are not attention whores only swallow up your time if they were never feeling you like that to begin with. They'll use time spent as a gauge of your value. 3 dates is enough . . Guess I'll give him some ass. Next, guys who look at getting ass as… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/22 08:41 PM |
| 28 | Your Time vs. Her Pussy: Getting laid is a ScaleWhy does it feel like you ripped off Patrice O'Neal's classic rant on pussy vs. time, added some anger, and shoved it in theredpill. This is lazy writing and a mutilated dead horse of a topic. Next. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/22 08:12 PM |
| 3 | A Woman's Beauty and The Desire To Fuck Should Be Stronger Than RejectionThis is a classic example of missing the poing as it was presented. Predators don't care about anxiety rejection. They want food. They look for food. The eat the food. We as men want food. We look for it. We eat it (fuck). Your only concern like the lion, or whatever predator, should be on eating. Why is that their onlu concern? Because they are in touch with their instincts. We as men are not. Society has neutered our sexual energy. It has neutered our natural desire to go for what we want. We … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/22 12:53 AM |
| 9 | A Woman's Beauty and The Desire To Fuck Should Be Stronger Than RejectionI understand what you are saying . . . So in case any men here are socially retarded . . . Fuck i hate caveats . . Always respect a woman's no. Always exercise good social cues and back off if she needs you too. But I'm really hoping no guy needs to hear this . . Do we really have to tell men that they shouldn't sexually harass women? Do we really? I would like to be able to discuss high level concepts without 1000 fucking consent caveats. I find it insulting to men . . But I guess you never kno… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/22 07:43 PM |
| 13 | A Woman's Beauty and The Desire To Fuck Should Be Stronger Than RejectionI agree with most of what you said in this post. However, I have a few points of contention, the first of which being the narrative that the only way to get over fear of rejection is too approach more. I think this is harmful to guys trying to learn, as all you are trying to do is desensitize them to pain and perceived failure. So, if they ever go a week without approaching, then they will revert back into being weak men. The next point of contention I have is with your solution, which I actuall… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Game For Young Men (Ages 18-30s)--Simple Strategy To Sleep With Nothing But Attractive Women Over A 20-Year PeriodYou missed my entire point. Focusing on women's orgasm is not masculine. It is needy and validation seeking. Their orgasm is their responsibility and should be a result of her liking the way you fuck, not you trying to accomplish a goal, which adds anxiety and pressure. And, you never feel more of a man for accomplishing a validation seeking behavior. That is my point. Everyone here already knows about the virtues of laying down good pipe. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/22 01:10 AM |
| 16 | Game For Young Men (Ages 18-30s)--Simple Strategy To Sleep With Nothing But Attractive Women Over A 20-Year PeriodBrother, please try to receive this knowledge. Yes, it's "good" to make women cum, but sex is about you first and foremost. If you make the sex about the women then that leads to feeling pressure, anxiety, validation seeking behaviors in and outside of bed, etc. No good comes of focusing on a woman's orgasm. It is their responsibility, not ours. Focusing on the needs of women is feminine and counter productive to a woman's natural make up, which is to please us. I make women cum fairly easily, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 12 | If The Sex Is Bad, And You're In The Room, It's Your FaultThis nice refresher post can be summed up in: Bad sex is a lack of sexual dominance. If you are dominant, that means that you direct, coach, teach, lead, with playful confidence and dead serious authority. Dick is a gift to women. Men make the sex good and women under good instruction make it great. Give her the gift of instruction and she will 9/10 times make it worth your while. If you want better sex don't just work on dominance in bed, but throughout your daily life. You can't half step and … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Wrapping Your Mind Around The Idea That Women Like Sex As Much Or More Than Men--The Body Count, Easy Sexual Access, Multiple Orgasms, etc.I agree. Clarifying. It's only work if you care. And it's only work if she's not trying her damndest to get you off. A man is already in the role of that which makes sex good. A woman's job is then to make that man's physical investment worth it. I'm not gonna pound away and break her back if she not throwing it back like she hates me. Even fucking for myself. I demand payment. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/22 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Wrapping Your Mind Around The Idea That Women Like Sex As Much Or More Than Men--The Body Count, Easy Sexual Access, Multiple Orgasms, etc.What I've learned is that sexually pleasing a woman is the most overrated and time wasting shit you can do. Most men are not naturally turned on at the thought of how good the woman is going to feel. It's work. Hence the phrase, "putting in work". Fuck for yourself first, and if she's lucky, she likes the way you want to fuck her. Then it stops being work. While I am wildly successful in making women cum, I never felt better after the fact. I felt a weird sigh of relief like "Yea I got that out … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm this close to being done with womenAfter performing an extremely complicated analysis of this post using multiple regression with seasonality, some fancy KPIs, and an interactive dashboard, I have come to the following solution. Hopefully they are not to complicated for the average laymen: Go out and get your dick sucked Bust in her throat and have her look you deep in the eyes as she swallows After you calm down and realize that you were tripping, reflect on how garbage the post you made was . . Then Realize a woman can only hur… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 39 | Shit testI could rip the theory in this post line by line and write 10 pages on it, but that is not constructive. So I will leave you with some constructive game: There is no such thing as a shit test if you are a masculine man grounded in your own reality and way of doing things. How can a woman test you when are already consistent? How can she test you when you are solid and unchanging and standing on principle? How can she test you when you have solid boundaries and enforce punishment for going agains… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | The Value Of Having A GirlfriendThis must be a troll post. There is no inherent value in having a girlfriend. You might get more sex but you will have no inherent way to determine quality of the sex as if you are monogamous, you lose touch with the variety and fun of other women. Sex with one girl gets boring. You gotta do more long term to get her turned on for it. She might start telling you no for any reason and you gotta start problem solving. Finally, if having a girlfriend gets you more sex, then your relationship was li… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 50 | Women are biologically programed to orbit an alpha. Cold approach is not necessary.I have to disagree with all of this as this is not the game: A woman smiling or looking at you it is not orbiting. It is her acknowledging your existence and that she MIGHT be interested. She could just like attention. What you are referring to is not orbiting, but proximity. It is an old school game concept mostly in reference to clubs and dance engagements. They are simply putting themselves in a position to be approached, not approach you. Stop trying to get away from the framework of approac… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/21 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you look like a child or a man in clothing?Stop dodging the fucking point. Rather than acknowledge the nature of your non value ad post, you shift the burden to an honest commenter. The fact of the matter is, this is a repetitive non value ad post. It's what it is brother. No hate. Just observation. No more. No less. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Reviving the concept of TranscendenceSomething that I think should be hammered home. Meditation is not an exercise for the brain. It is a spiritual practice that connects you with your Higher Self, the Holy Spirit, reasoning and thoughts you would not otherwise be privy to. Observation of realities you would not otherwise be privy to. So while it is a great "exercise", it is much better for spiritual fitness than mental. Just my nitpick. I am completely unrecognizable as a person after an hour of deep meditation. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | The Girlfriend Experience is for sale - The Boyfriend Experience is not.I said it before . . Dick is a gift, in all capacities. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfI'm having trouble understanding your point. You keep shifting the argument. First it was that about women getting off from women. Now it's how women don't cum often from penetration. Women like what they like, and if they love dick, dick has power. Your attempts to downplay the value of masculine men is laughable. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfBut here's the thing right . . Women who love dick and masculinity . . . Wait for it . . Aren't going to compromise with pussy. They know live dick cannot be replaced. They crave a masculine man giving it to them good. There's nothing you could say that would change that fact. The way in which you cum supercedes everything. If I was bisexual, sure a man could make me cum. But I'm hardwired to love the pussy of feminine women. No one will ever make me cum harder than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How to manage craving other girls in an LTR?You're only betraying trust if they find out. They are only hurt if they find out. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | My formula for setting up dates from dating appsSexual vetting is a simple concept. It is based almost entirely on compliance and non-compliance. If she is not receptive to your touch, your sexual advances verbally or otherwise, then she is being non-compliant, and doesn't want you. We use compliance as a measure because in a masculine-feminine dynamic, speaking in sexual polarity here, women want to get on the program of whatever dominant man they are messing around with. If she isn't complying, she doesn't see you as that guy. You are not s… | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 7 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfI agree with essentially all of this. We as men, hold unfathomable value. And this is not to discount femininity. A truly feminine woman that is all about you is a gift that cannot be easily replaced. They will drive you as crazy as they themselves become without an orgasm. What I will say, is that our gifts as men are quantifiable and measurable. Protection, provision, leadership, wisdom and groundedness, stability and structure, a purpose in life worth living out, literally freedom etc. Would … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfThis post isn't about women. It is about men and their edification, their uplifting. Men also have to buy things and develop themselves. That's just a part of becoming more attractive. Women just happen lean towards the vanity of makeup and jewelry because the ones that do either love attention or look like ass without it. You contribute to your own unrealistic standard of beauty and burn through money and stress doing it. I, like most men don't give a fuck about makeup, or jewelry. We workout t… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | The Danger of Reaping the Fruits of Your Labor Too EarlyCapitalism demands exploitation and the creation of redundant, meaningless gigs, or else how can anyone afford anything. Need more money? Create a job that either already exists, but with a "new insight", or create a new job that will require someone to work under you for substandard pay, thus encouraging them to also create unneeded jobs. The beautiful cycle of exploitation. I don't hate capitalism. This is just a natural conclusion in a free market governed by FAANG companies, bureaucracies, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/21 06:09 PM |
| 12 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfI've had a few plates threaten me for not coming over immediately. It's a dirty little snaky tactic. I get pussy but the cost is emasculating myself in the process. I'm not getting my dick hard for that! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfI believe most men's natural state to be extremely dominant. I also believe that it is actively suppressed and resisted due to social conditioning, badly ingrained behavior, scarcity. Ultimately how you want to fuck is how you want to fuck. This sub is exclusively catered towards a dominant mindset. Do I want to dominate all the time? No. In practice I'm a switch. But I still treat the value of my dick the same way. A woman needs to submit to me the man before she could even think about trying t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfI was trying to avoid that. Sex isn't hard work. But when you begin to quantify masculinity and investment, you understand how all the simple things you do are blessings to her. And that they took effort to get there. Fucking a woman ain't hard. But the first time you "came to quick" sucked. The first time you "failed" to satisfy a woman sucked. Every time you lusted after a woman just to not get pussy, and jacked off furiously and angrily in response sucked. And what did you do? You learned the… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 04:09 AM |
| -2 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfNo one said being dominant was easy. It's a series of difficult decisions that benefit not only you, but ultimately everyone around you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 13 | Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing YourselfMy filler is just my attempt at personal anecdotes and story telling. Not mad at that. However, my experiences in women turning into psychopaths from not cumming is 100% genuine. This is really mindset porn if we're really getting down to it. Other than that, yes, I can most certainly be wordy when trying to get my point across. I think it helps to visualize the spirit of a message. Good pussy is indeed subjective as you say. I just want guys to expect more out of these women. As I said, what mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 4 | How do I know they want to be approachedIt is my right to approach. It is her right to tell me to fuck off. Approach, guage her response, back off/proceed. It's called social acuity and calibration. No matter what, in order for me to 100% know she doesn't want to be talked to, by me specifically, I have to go up to her. If you don't like that then you dont like life. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 01:41 PM |
| 9 | How do I know they want to be approachedWe're talking about technical pickup up. I'd say something like this if the woman was walking or looked busy. Also, "real quick" is a false time constraint. It's too get her to lower her guard so she doesn't think she'll be there forever. Finally. If you aren't speaking in a masculine rapport breaking tonality, nothing I say means anything. Context is everything. If she were standing still or didn't look busy, I'd say, "Hey, I wanted to meet you real quick" Saying you wanted to meet her helps es… | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 05:53 AM |
| 3 | How do you find the sweet spot between being direct enough but not too direct?There is no such thing as being too direct. Being direct will never hurt women who are attracted to you sexually. It will however, put off time wasters and women who want to waffle. Being direct means you get less women. Sure there are some maybe chicks. But why try to seduce them? They don't genuinely lust you like a yes chick. Your issue is likely you not knowing how to be direct. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 03:39 AM |
| 86 | How do I know they want to be approachedIt doesn't matter what they want. It matters what YOU want. Too many guys in game, especially beginners, are obsessed with damage control or delaying rejection. You as a man have to lead and make things happen. You have to actually take a risk and go up to her. Approach, say your opening line, "Hey, can I meet you really quick, you're cute. I'm Dan." Socially calibrate to see if she's receptive. If she is, keep talking. If not. Wish her a great day and leave. This isn't rocket science. Your inne… | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | The hardest redpill truth no one ever talks about and how to defeat it. Part 1If she knows you're sleeping with other women, then the goodness of the sex comes from it being a gift to her. Dick IS a gift in case you didnt know. If you're fucking other chicks and she knows, she knows she has to wait in line. She has to anticipate it. She has to keep your attention. She also will crave it due to its value coming from it's scarcity. I don't think any man should fuck their chick too often. They forget that it's a valued resource. I ration dick to my girl. Not because I don't … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The hardest redpill truth no one ever talks about and how to defeat it. Part 1I believe we are simply arguing over meaning. I cannot disprove that women's bodies might interpret you as a relative. However, I am of the thought that familiarity breeds contempt, and variety and emotional chaos are inherently needed for sex to continue. I also think the best sex you can have is your girl trying to prove herself to you after you cheat on her. At least that's my experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | The hardest redpill truth no one ever talks about and how to defeat it. Part 1You seem to be misunderstood. Women don't cheat or leave because they see you as their relative. Men don't cheat because they were bored. They cheat because monogamy is a lie and neither side was meant to just fuck that one person. Women were meant to take as much random, and hopefully quality dna as possible in hopes of getting an "alpha" kid raised by either a beta male or an alpha with beta traits. Men are purpose driven to spread their seed as far as possible in hopes of surviving women's re… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | How to I tell if a girl is interestedThat's because I've been doing this for years, teach pick up, and date often. But being genuine for a moment: compliance is whether or not a woman is receptive or cooperative to what you want to do. So if you try to flirt with a woman but she seems cold, all calibration factors taken into account, if she is not receptive then 9/10 times she is not interested. And if she is but does not show it, then it is likely an indicator of game playing, and she should still be avoided. When I'm talking abou… | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How to I tell if a girl is interestedDon't let them get you down bro. OP sounds pretty young and has bigger problems on his hands. He likely only likes this woman because he sees her often, thus creating an exaggerated sense of familiarity, sort of like how coworkers tend to end up fucking do to comfort, not necessarily attraction. He likely also likely gets into relationships purely by chance and not because he directs and wills it to be so. Answering his question is pointless until he understands the mechanisms of attraction and … | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Pick Up Coaches are BastardsIf you are not getting the results you want, you pay a professional. However, the vetting process is solely on you. Part of it is paying for new information. Part of it is paying them to make sure you put your money where you're mouth is. That's also why they usually put out free content so that you can test whether or not any of what they say works before you commit. Due your diligence before payment, in all aspects of life. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Women on Tinder who call themselves foodie lovers: are those foodie callers?You're first mistake was not vetting her for sexual interest. Two, if a woman online isn't immediately complying with what you want, she doesn't want you. If she was sexually interested in you, it wouldn't matter what you wanted to do. She's displaying masculine energy already by trying to lead the interaction, and you're disrespecting her by allowing her to lead you and make you guess where she thinks she deserves to be taken. Also, never ask a woman where she wants to go. As a man it's your jo… | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | The most attractive, feminine women are drawn to status. It is required to hold the attention of a beautiful woman long termWho told you that? I've attracted a lot of chicks who looked "better' than me and i 100% wasn't their type they would date or show around friends. By me not being her type i was able to beat the stereotype. Just because a bunch of bitches don't want you doesn't mean that there are outliers who fuck with you. Get it? It's not about the majority wanting you but 1. Getting who you specifically want 2. Her wanting you. I'm a turn off to a fuck ton of hood black women, and that's how they'd judge my … | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 12:43 AM |
| 11 | The most attractive, feminine women are drawn to status. It is required to hold the attention of a beautiful woman long termBrother, I think you're headed in the wrong direction regarding this topic. What you have essentially done is tried to reinvent the wheel. All you've managed to do is try to recreate the the ever so popular dynamic of Alpha/Beta and Low vs High Status Behaviors. Furthermore, if we are to correctly drive the point home, I would start by saying that feminine women, first and foremost, are attracted to masculine men, not necessarily a sense of status. They like masculine behaviors. In all of your e… | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 09:33 PM |
| 0 | How do you draw the line between being lustful and being respectful?It sounds like your sense of masculinity has been neutered by society. Before I can help you, in your own words, why exactly do you view sexual behavior as slimy? | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 07:29 PM |
| 43 | I think people here have been forgetting what the purpose of this subreddit isMan, you're gonna get kidnapped by " them people" for preaching too much truth. This sub has gone to hell and been replaced by men with zero game and zero solutions. Half of the field reports I see get laughed it. Seduction is the process of getting a woman excited enough to drop her guard, then her pannies. It's not "how do i tell if she likes me?". It's not "is it wrong to want to dominate women in bed?". Rather, it's "I went out into the field solo and almost pulled to my house but got some L… | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 09:02 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It's less important that you have perfect wording and more that you fullly commit and leave. Don't over explain yourself. And don't allow her to change your mind. Your decision must be final. Don't let her make you think you must explain yourself. You're a man. You say what you say. If they want clarification on your absence give it if you desire. Then that's it. You're a ghost now. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Studies Show That Women Can Have 20 Orgasms In A RowThe real problem in this comment section, is that there are too many guys who associate the ability to make a woman orgasm while fucking her for hours with manhood. Giving a woman pleasure doesn't make you a man. Wearing her ass out doesn't make you a man. It makes you feel dominant for the 15 minutes to couple of hours you're doing it, but that's it, an emotional ego high. Onto my next point, while giving her orgasms can help to solidify sexual dominance, it still puts you in a subservient posi… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresNot everything is a shit test. Most times a woman goes cold, she isn't interested or you were moving too slowly. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:57 AM |
| -2 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresWhere did I once say that if she doesn't respond immediately to drop her? You cherry pick one example, and badly at that, out of my entire comment on the nature of masculinity, and that's what you took from it? Okay man. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 01:35 AM |
| -2 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresI don't understand how I was unclear. In game, in masculinity, you set the tone and the pace for how you want the interaction to go. You lead. As a man, and in game, you look for women who are cooperative and submissive towards what you want to do. So for instance, if you text her and she texts you back, and she drops off, she is not being cooperative and submissive. You drop her. If you mirror her behavior, you're in chasing and reactivity which is a feminine role. Men do not chase because we k… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresI have to disagree. This is extremely feminine behavior. Men are independent and do things for themselves. They set the tone, the pace, for a woman to follow. If a woman isn't cooperating with your program then she has to go. Mirroring her shows that you are following HER lead. This can all be summed up in terms of compliance. If she is complying with what you want as a man, then good. If she's not she's gone. Not because you're being vengeful or vindictive, or trying to be perceived as valuable… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | I am fucking tired of talking myself out of getting laidWhile I will say that you probably were a little needy in the physical department, you likely have a closing issue. At some point you should have seeded the idea in her mind of going back to your place to do some kind of fun activity. This is to take the pressure off of sex. But she should still have a firm understanding that sex is on the table through the vibe. You can kiss on dates and touch. But only do it so much as needed to be able to tell that she's 85% down to fuck you If you do kiss he… | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How to manage craving other girls in an LTR?But if they don't know, what is the problem? I see no issue with having your cake and eating it too. That's why we have cake, to eat it. As a permanent solution in a relationship I agree it's wack. But short term, done smart? I got no issues. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | A Meaningful connection is much better than chasing random sex.What the fuck does this have to do with seduction? This is just more of the same generic and feel good bullshit advice with zero technical aspect that ruined this sub. | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 04:36 AM |
| 3 | The real epidemic is social media. Rotting our minds and creating a future of dummies.You've probably never paid attention. Good game lookd like nothing is happening. Guys walk up to chicks all the time and approach. If you can tell a cold approach is happening, it's probably being done badly. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/21 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Corey Wayne vs. Todd V on TextingLook up john Anthony lifestyle when it comes to texting. His strategy got me the most lays of my life. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 06:42 PM |
| -5 | I just lost my virginity at 21 years old. Wanted to share my experience and thank you allBecause, while I am happy for his success, you still need dudes with real game to teach. Though I will admit my initial comment was not constructive in the least. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/21 07:34 PM |
| 4 | I just lost my virginity at 21 years old. Wanted to share my experience and thank you allSex appeal is about how you carry yourself. It's how you walk, how you talk, the energy you put out, your confidence, your vibe, etc. It's energetic in nature. You have to feel the confidence and sexual energy oozing off of you. You have to also be congruent | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to this shit testThis ain't no goddamn field report. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 04:01 AM |
| 0 | I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text.I'm good bro. But thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 09:26 PM |
| -2 | I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text.I have infinitely more experience than you. Your opinion means jack shit player. 👍 | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 09:18 PM |
| -1 | I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text.How far off are you scheduling your dates? | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 07:38 PM |
| -4 | I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text.They likely ghosted you because they didn't like you and because you didn't run good enough game. | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 07:26 PM |
| -12 | I already scheduled a date for the weekend but the girl still initiates conversations on text.Stop talking to her. The reason you don't have full blown conversations before the date is because: It leads to higher chances of you saying something stupid that will turn her off. Happens all the time. It creates too much comfort and kills the mystery It creates too much emotional investment on your end. Think . . If she flakes and you've been talking to her every day, you're gonna be the one feeling shitty, not her. You put in all that time and effort just for a flake. Keep your investment lo… | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 0 | The Importance Of Learning A Woman's BodyThe writings of a man who thought he knew more than the type of men who comment and frequent this sub . . . "Icarus who flew too close to the sun . ." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Pulling back on prospect after she tells me her body count.Everyone here is correct. You made her in your mind way more than she shoulda been. But I'll add something different: Whatever a woman has to for a man in the past, she needs to do 10x that for you. A woman's compliance is her submission. Sure she could do the same for you. But if she does it with every guy it's not true submission, it's a submissive tendency, and her version of normal. Only once a woman has done for you what she has done for no other can you really call it submission. So if she… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexYou get it. The best sex you will ever have is with women who are either easily stimulated or cum easily. Even if they're in shape, the cardio of it wears them out and they're satisfied. It makes it easy to pound away at them for hours because there's no expectation of it being your job to make them cum. You truly feel like the man. And there's nothing wrong about putting in work. But women who require legitimate work to orgasm, it can, at a certain point, be a pain in the ass because seldom are… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:30 PM |
| -1 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexWait until he realizes that on the higher levels of the game, that focusing on a woman's pleasure is a hindrance more often than not. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Masculinity and gunsTheir masculinity comes from their rigid belief in Allah and what Allah tells them about how to conduct themselves as men. It doesn't come from guns. Guns simply give them an easy way to exercise the violent side of masculinity. Contrary to mainstream thinking, our society is ruled by the gun. Our society requires violence as all do. Break this law and men with rifles and pistols will lock you up. No one thinks of cops inherently as masculine. That said, every man who calls himself masculine and… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/21 08:43 PM |
| 0 | Already maximized your attractiveness and want to get into online dating? These are the apps you should be using and why.What in the lazy, "well no shit" non-value ad post is this? | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | She doesn't like you because you're weak.You assume that everything starts and begins with a woman. But guess what, plenty of women try to fuck me, try to make me their boyfriend, try to get dates and time from me. And do you think they get it all of the time? No. That's because I have the power to say no. I choose who passes and fails my vetting process. You're assuming men can't have a vetting process and that women don't chase, which they do. Because I can say no to a woman, I have power. Because she can't easily leave me because I'… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Invisible Wars Pt.9 - Respecting the Jab: How to Draw and Enforce Boundaries.Society only tells you that your reaction was severe. If he hit it purposely out of your hand, then you have every moral right to hit him back to let him know that he can't do that again. No such thing as a fair fight or equal force. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | She doesn't like you because you're weak.Briffault's law depends on women running the scene. If you are the prize, then she does not run the scene. Or else, that's like saying men aren't allowed to have standards. Only the women. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/21 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Domestic Abuse Act 2021, turning your loved one, into the biggest threat to you. By Design.People in America are too crazy for certain laws. You think the men of this country would take a vague law like that without a bunch of shootings arising from it? Or something like the cops coming to your house over a negative Twitter post without the same happening. Nothing is impossible, but we are much more likely to defend our rights with violence over here. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/21 02:19 PM |
| 18 | She doesn't like you because you're weak.Briffault's Law has nothing to do with men with game. As a man, you set the pace, the lead, the tone. As men, set the conditions and it's her job to follow it. If she isn't following it and is trying to set her own conditions up, she'd gone. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | A friend fucked my ex, how should I respond?There are two parts to this. One, he's an idiot for fucking her, simply because of how sensitive and messy the situation is. On the other hand, if you're a true player then you should be over her and it shouldn't matter. You should be far more concerned that your friend assumed it was cool rather than asking you first. It's the thoughtfulness of the situation. Even if he knew it was cool, he still should've asked you before putting at risk what he considers a valuable relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | I keep falling for single mothersThere is no stigma against single moms. If you entertain a single mom, the relationship will progress, and like any other relationship, she will want you to move in eventually. You know what that means? You see that kid everyday and they see you 10x more than they do dad. They see how you and mommy get along. You become daddy. They will want you to be daddy. Mommy will want you to be daddy. What? You don't have to live with them. 99% of women will not wait 10 to 15 years for the kid to grow up a… | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 10:52 PM |
| 7 | "Just forget about getting laid and eventually you WILL get laid"It's assuming a high value behavior with no context and no action plan. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Seeing people dieThank you for posting this brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/21 06:34 PM |
| 37 | “What’s your body count”Let's be honest here brother. You're not looking for ways to pass the "shit test" or give a good answer, you're trying to avoid losing the girl. You're scared of losing the girl. Be honest and you'll be fine. No womans pussy should come before your integrity. The only reason you probably even get this question is because you're putting off boyfriend vibes instead of player vibes, or she's super inexperienced. Be consistent in your vibe and you'll stop getting stupid questions. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 05:37 AM |
| 2 | American Women are Wack !!!Ummm . . Where the fuck did you see me say that I can't get it up? Nigga . . You literally made a post saying that your dick doesn't work. Making a post to actually help men who are struggling is far different than announcing that as a pickup god . . . Pushing 50 +. . That your dick doesn't work. I'm done with you man. Good luck. Addressing your broken dick and broken blood vessels. . Quoting you: "Hi guys. I'm 50 and have ED. For some time now I've been losing sexual sensation in my penis. I th… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | American Women are Wack !!!You gotta be a troll bro. You're pushing past 50 and your dick doesn't even work according to your post history. The last thing you ever posted was of a girl dissing you and you acting like a dumbass because you can't figure out why she didn't want to fuck with you. If your game was so good you wouldn't post entry level beginner questions like that. You'd self diagnose. Where's the field reports of your success at broke dick danny. I don't know why you're attacking me when you're the reason your… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:33 AM |
| 2 | American Women are Wack !!!Bro. You're on a seduction subreddit complaining about women and I'm the loser? I actually live in the states and have great success in pickup and have for years. You're a loser and your games sucks. Your words poison the minds of men who need genuine help. Go get some training bitch. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | American Women are Wack !!!Loser | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 4 | How to tell a girl you could see a relationshipStop posting your non seduction related content in this sub. This is not inner game or seduction. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | How do I answer her to this text?Man you talk like you're no older than 17/18. Also, this has nothing to do with seduction. Go to r/relationshipadvice. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Out of my league hookup/fwb potential. Need pointersDon't care. More experienced than you. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Out of my league hookup/fwb potential. Need pointersYou're out of your depth with this one and you need to learn the fundamentals of pickup and seduction. Nothing you learn in a week will change you enough to be able to fuck her casually and keep it going. You need coaching: You don't know whether or not she's FWB material. You haven't smashed yet so how could you know? How is this a hit it and quit it? You haven't vetted her enough to know if she has any value or would want to stay in her life. You let her lead you around (telling you to pull up… | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Men Have The Sex Drive Of A Spear Hunter, Women Have The Sex Drive Of A FisherWhat kind of value and call to action were you hoping to provide from positing this? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Should I text a girl after a hookup(no sex)?This sub has been in hell for a long time. If you did not have sex then you did not hookup. If you want to fuck her then text her asking to meet up. If she gives excuses or says no, move on. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Seduction vs Escorts?You come from the standpoint of a guy who has no game. As of right now, I have a 100% lay rate from dates (which I'm not saying is permanent) and I rarely if ever get flaked on. Once I understood how to do this, game became simple. Because you do not understand the game, you think you have to do 101 things. Maybe it's just because my self esteem is way up there. But there is no reality in which i find paying for pussy satisfying. When a man pays for se, he's not paying for a bunch of physical ac… | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Seduction vs Escorts?Let's get the record straight. True 9s and 10s are exceedingly rare to come across. Most players and pimps are not out here fucking 9s and 10s consistently. That includes me. Are we fucking ugly girls? No. But girls who are generally sexy. 7.5s to 8.5s. Girls who are adjustable. You do not need a massive amount of time to get good at game. Game is about the truth. Game is about manhood. To get better at game means to become better at the skills of manhood. It is not a huge mental and time commit… | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 04:28 AM |
| 14 | Seduction vs Escorts?If you want to pay for pussy no one can stop you man. But I guarantee you that one day, you will come to care about how you get pussy. It matters. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 03:52 AM |
| 17 | Seduction vs Escorts?No one counts escorts as a notch count. And no one respects that. There is no lesson or skill in that. Because your game is weak, you assume that you have to chase tail. Game is a hobby, not a life goal. There's no reason you can't chase money and get ass by willing participants on the side. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 03:38 AM |
| 60 | Seduction vs Escorts?The goal is seduction is not to fuck a bunch of women. Seduction is an end to whatever you want it to be. To get a girlfriend, a harem, a side piece, casual sex, serial monogamy. You can use it for whatever you want. However not all sex is created equal. There is a world's difference between some fucking you because they are contractually obligated to, and one fucking you because they thought you were the shit. The sex women give you when they genuinely desire you is the most ego lifting shit yo… | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | First ever got approached. Think I handed it well, got her snap but what do I do now?Go on YouTube and look up John Anthony lifestyle | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | First ever got approached. Think I handed it well, got her snap but what do I do now?OP has deep rooted issues in the game that cannot be solved by any advice in the comment section. He needs coaching or to follow a plan that walks him step by step through what to do from mindset, to outergame, to style, to social cues. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | The Shy Girl and the Sex Date.Metoo is about rich and powerful men, not us common folk. However, those rich and powerful men were not always so. I think in general, women's assault claims are a combination of buyers remorse, them not knowing how to say no, unsocial calibrated men who can't read signals, the ocassional douchebag who does with intent commit sexual assault, revenge against former lovers who hurt them, lies because they didn't get what they wanted out of the deal, because they didn't understand their personal li… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/21 05:41 PM |
| 7 | The Shy Girl and the Sex Date.In my experience, most shy girls are sexually unconfident and don't know how to say what they want or even what they want. Everything sexual is weird to them and some kind of debate in their mind. If you do manage to get it poppin sexually with them, then there's a good chance they weren't 100% comfortable and committed. I've heard a lot of, "I wanted to but wasn't sure/I felt pressured but enjoyed" type speeches told to other guys and a few myself in the past. Even them telling you what they wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/21 06:07 PM |
| 7 | TRP analysis of: a girlfriend calling the bouncers on her boyfriend saying he was a creep harassing herYou are severely over complicating this. This woman risked her boyfriend's freedom by making up clear fabrications. Any man worth his salt should have a few simple rules: If you risk my freedom, you're gone. She almost got the cops called. She's charged. Anything a woman does that gets cops called, she's dead to me. Do not embarrass me in public. She embarrassed him. She's charged. You break up with her and move out. This is simple dude. No power plays involved here. You don't fuck around trying… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 08:45 PM |
| 15 | Sex with multiple girls and STDsHere's the thing man, you can't be be 100% safe, just safe enough. You can get chlamydia and gonnahrea from head. You can get HSV2 (Genital Herpes) just from skin to skin contact. They don't even have to be having an outbreak and you can still get it. All that would have to happen is rapid contact between their genitals and their hand, and your dick. Something like 70% of the population has HSV1 (Oral Herpes). Most don't know they have it. And because doctors literally discourage testing for gen… | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | 33yo male virgin had sex with an escortYou need coaching by a guy experienced in the game my brother. Nothing any comments here is going to help you. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 05:52 PM |
| 14 | My formula for setting up dates from dating appsI've been on about 6 times that. Allow my to clarify. You don't need to make hard sexual advances. You just need to see what her energy is when you start flirting sexually. I'm not trying to make out. I'm tryna snap her spine in half. You'd be surprised how many girls had zero intention of doing anything. I've noticed that a good portion of the time. The girls who were most resistant to me trying to take them home, touch them, whatever, no matter how smooth and non pressured I'd come off, they w… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:42 AM |
| 6 | My formula for setting up dates from dating appsNo problem man. Dominance is exactly what it is. I'm vetting for beautiful, feminine, submissive, compliant women who are very much so into me, that I can smash quickly and proceed to vet for fwb and girlfriend material. So my game is tailored to the kind of woman I want. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 09:58 PM |
| 22 | My formula for setting up dates from dating appsI don't want to wait for dates because that creates too much emotional dependency and investment on a girl that doesn't know you or give a fuck about you. The rapport that i create doesn't come from conversation. It comes from the vibe I put off. It comes from congruence. Women don't necessarily need comfort so much as they do attraction. I also don't use IG. Just text and a single phone call that I offer them if they feel nervous. They usually call. It's not about rapport but them confirming I'… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | [ Removed by Reddit ]So she's below the age of consent in your state and you're trying to fuck her, and you post about it online? You're an idiot and the police will have a field day interrogating you after she gets emotional because she didn't get her way. Girls that young are ticking time bombs for emotional drama. Find someone who is legal to fuck. The only reason you like this girl is because she's easy. You spent a lot of time with her at work and now you're attracted via familiarity. Move on bro and avoid thes… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:44 PM |
| 42 | My formula for setting up dates from dating appsGod, all these defeatist posts. But anyway, I used a very similar method and created a 100% lay rate from every girl who actually went on a date with me from online. I'll just add a few points in contrast to those still learning: You do not need to maintain attraction before a date. Either she is curious about you or not. Getting to the date as quickly as humanly fucking possible is far more important. You do not need to maintain or create rapport. Rapport comes naturally as a result of you bein… | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Guys I'm nervous as shit...I might have my first hook-up this WednesdayNo, brother, it's not a hook up. Let me tell you why. It doesn't matter what a woman promises, insinuates, leads you to believe. She can always say no and change her mind at any time, even mid stroke. You're too excited about what ifs. So, until her pants are off and your penis is in there, she's just talking shit until she puts her money where her mouth this. Players never get over excited because they know women are fickle. I could you a 30 point list on what to do, but for now I'll give you a… | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Lessons from 15 years of learning seduction: How to be attractive.A distinction between being fit and being hot. Being fit doesn't necessarily make you hot, but oftentimes, it is a quality of being hot. For example, a ton of women will get wet at the sight of a man not because he is jacked or big, but because of what it communicates. That being, that he can dominate her sexually in a way most other men cannot. And even if they can, they don't look the part. That communication of physical dominance is what makes him hot. I think what you should really be talkin… | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 08:40 PM |
| 8 | Why you need to keep the textsYou assume that knowing a woman will save you. No. Plenty of "simps" and gameless men wait weeks or months, even years to get it in and get jammed up. Have a bettet vetting phase. Keep text receipts. Video record if possible. Get verbal admissions before and during sex through the form of dirty talk. It's a lot harder to lie when they have to directly remember saying, "Beat this pussy up and take my soul daddy". | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 3 | How to Handle “What are We?” / “Where are We Going?”Guys tend to underestimate how many women are down to get casually fucked for a few months before they leave. Most will. I use to lie to women and finesse them, but lying just lowers your emotional energy and you feel less masculine having not stood on your truth. Plus, if you have game, finding another woman to replace her isn't difficult. It really just depends on 1. The kind of mess you want to leave for yourself in the future if you run into her again. 2. How much you value pussy that you wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What are you? 16? | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Why does almost every girl i meet feel as if they have seen me before or feel as if I'm familiar to them even though they're complete strangers to me and I've never met them before. What does this mean?It means that either your game is extremely good or bad. I've had women say this when I reminded them of shitty exes, cousins, brothers, fathers, and on the flip side, say this when I've reminded them of a player they used to fuck, a movie star, or someone they were generally close to. In order to actually ascertain which end you sit on, you have to actually flirt and escalate sexually. You cannot get around this. It's the only reliable indicator of her interest. If she's receptive, you're likel… | /r/seduction | 15/08/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | RE: Why n count matters in women and the marriage analogySo because women love dick and orgasms and finally have access to it without a man telling them no, means that they're trying to be men? So you claim to know with 100% certainty that without the influence of society, social norms, and men slut shaming that they're these dumb, naive people without desires? You gotta give women more credit. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/21 07:56 PM |
| 0 | RE: Why n count matters in women and the marriage analogyMan I can't be going back and forth all day. I've run into countless women, 5s, 7s, 9s, the rare 10, that demand good dick and orgasms. If you don't satisfy them sexually, they are very vocal about it and they will leave you in a heartbeat. And it is precisely why all of those women who don't have orgasms either cheat or fantasise about cheating. They see porn and whats possible. They masterbate and cum but have never had a man make them cum. They desperately desire sexual release. If a woman st… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | RE: Why n count matters in women and the marriage analogyI agree in that women do want babies, a bond, and security. But if you've been out here for any length of time, you know that women's sexual appetite is insatiable. Women may want babies but that doesn't mean she's not human, as in able to control her base instincts. Most people are not actively having sex to bring about children. They love the emotional stimulation of dick. They love submitting to it. They love feeling physically dominated. They love exploring different men's energy because dif… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | RE: Why n count matters in women and the marriage analogyWomen may train themselves through media, but women, like men, are often times not about it when it's time to get down. They claim to like everything until they actually do something in real life. It doesn't matter how good a leader you are, women will eventually get bored. In our current society, curiosity and the need to venture is inevitable. It's part of human nature. If the option, the value proposition is on the table, you consider it for your survival. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/21 05:00 AM |
| 20 | RE: Why n count matters in women and the marriage analogyThis is basically a retelling of the Madonna-Whore complex. Men can say all day that they want a low N count woman but at the end of that very said say, those men will inevitably cheat on her, get bored with her, get tired of training her sexually (sexually training new girls is a bitch most times), etc. Inversely, the more you awaken a woman's sexual talents and energy, the more she will become curious. And although she may not cheat, she will always resent you for limiting her options and hold… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Just lost a plate to erectile dysfunctionI went through the pain you're going through right now from the time I was 13 to 19. I was a loser overall in behavior and status but for some reason girls found me charming. I had multiple women, maybe around 40+ who were more than willing to let me fuck them, but whenever I would try to go inside them raw or with a condom, my penis would refuse to cooperate and would die as I would enter. Time, after time, after time, my dick shut down. Why? Because I was too eager to lose my v card, I wanted … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/21 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Women with boyfriendsIt's fun to do it, believe me, but the aftermath can get sticky. Boyfriend threatening you when she finds out, her accusing of sexual assault if he finds out to avoid guilt, etc. Most men out there are simps and have no game. They will try to hurt you if they find out, or she will trash you and next thing you know you have a case on your hands. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Eye Contact While Walking By, I seem to always break contact first?!Don't care dude. Just get to approaching. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Eye Contact While Walking By, I seem to always break contact first?!You understand. But this guy is focused on the wrong things for the wrong reasons. If you can hold eye contact than you're golden. He wants to hold it with no real benefit in mind. Trying to approach someone at a later time based on eye contact is silly. When you boil down what he's saying, it's about delaying the approach as long as possible. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Eye Contact While Walking By, I seem to always break contact first?!This is a ridiculous sticking point to get hung up on. What you're doing is focusing on playing games instead of vetting for interest and making a move. If someone is staring you down, they either like you, find you intriguing, or find something about you distasteful. So that brings me to this: Why are you trying to keep the eye contact? It doesn't serve the interaction in any way. If you're walking past them trying to prolong eye contact then you never intended on approaching anyway, therefore … | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 06:06 AM |
| 3 | I'm going to meet a girl i was needy with in the past tomorrow. How do i deal with this ?You can't fix a bad first impression with women. They have to, on their own, observe a new you. Women biologically are programmed to think men don't change, no matter how long it's been. This is because they have a deep fear of men tricking them into having their baby. It's safer in their minds to only fuck a guy who they saw as "alpha" on day one, than a dude who was weak and now "appears" to be strong. All you can do is unapologetically, with full masculine pride, present the new you to her wi… | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | I'm going to meet a girl i was needy with in the past tomorrow. How do i deal with this ?Um . . What do you want to happen. Sex? Peace of mind? What? | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Planning a date collaboratively versus telling them what you’re doing?That's the problem. You're falling into scarcity. Because you only like so few women, any women who does tick the boxes , your brain perceives them as extremely valuable and stand out. Because you invest so much emotion into this process and the payoff gives you an emotional high, you can't let go. What I'd tell you to do is change your mindset. Right now you're goal oriented instead of process oriented. Focusing on goals means focusing on winning and losing, opportunity and the lack thereof. Lo… | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Planning a date collaboratively versus telling them what you’re doing?You need to structure your dates better. One hour date one day to get to know her. One hour another to smash. Your dates can be as little or long as you want. Remember, the game is about what you want. Not her. She not able or down. Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/06/21 05:38 AM |
| 7 | Planning a date collaboratively versus telling them what you’re doing?It's about how you phrase it more than anything else. For one, after I confirm the date and time, and that she's down to go out, I use my secret word, "Let's". Let's grab a bite/drinks at (xyz). Second, you need to hype up the place you're meeting at. "Let's grab drinks at (xyz). I heard they had the greatest live music in (xyz). I've been there before and it's insane." The goal is to get her out of the house for something simple. Stop giving women the impression that you're going out for food a… | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 07:02 PM |
| 6 | LTR is submissive and feminine but has quite a few bodies for her age.This is bitch behavior. Basically what you're telling us is, "I met a girl who I had no reason to assume had a low body count, just as much as I could not assume a high body count. And even though she does everything I want her to do, and compliments my brand of masculinity, I allow her to make me feel sexually insecure in bed because I don't trust the fact that she's fucking with me for a damn good reason. I'm scared that I can't compare to other men. I'm upset that I can't get the temporary eg… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Something most men mess up inWhat's even more interesting and more effective, the more masculine you behave the more you don't have to play any of these games. Women just assume by the way you behave that you aren't going to tolerate foolishness. They can sense your shit or get off the pot mentality. I can't remember the last time I was shit tested . . Because I'm consistent and I'm going to do and say whatever I'm going to say or do. I don't think about any response or what to do. I have hard rules and boundaries. They can… | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Girl [20] wants me [23] to drive almost 4 hours to hangout with her.Damn man you sound silly. The only true guage of a woman's interest is her compliance to your requests. Has she fucked you yet? No. Is she driving out to see you at your request? No. Is she submitting to you? No. Until a woman complies, you have nothing. Just a smooth talker. A girl with a fantasy she may or may not want to fulfill once it's in her face. If her interest is really "that high" tell her to come over your place for dinner and drinks, or some fun activity. She'll either be eager to c… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approach AnxietySo, what is it you're afraid of? Sexual rejection? Social rejection? Having your authentic self beat down? | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 11:13 PM |
| 2 | I have never seen this type of during sex shit test beforeI had to reread this multiple times. So, what it sounds like, is a combination of things. You're not at all used to a woman guiding you to the finish line. Sex God Method is amazing, but every woman is different. You gotta be able to check your ego during sex and be willing to learn. A lot of chicks just don't say anything. Albeit, fucking is easier because it's let demands on you making sex seem like work. She said she can't cum when she isn't relaxed and that she had a work function. If she ha… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | She'll give blowjobs and let me finger her, but wants to be in a committed relationship before she lets me fuck.You would be . . Absolutely correct. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 21 | She'll give blowjobs and let me finger her, but wants to be in a committed relationship before she lets me fuck.Women like this are a headache to deal with as I've run into them many times. If and when you do have sex with them, you'll never live it down. Even if you were to be with her before smashing, the act of giving it up to you would cause such a mental stir for her that she'd freak out and question you and herself everyday for weeks. Because women like her, "virgins" or 1/2 count types, their identity revolves around not giving it up and their life is attached to it. They give it up, to them it's l… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 04:17 AM |
| -1 | My LTR just invited our neighbour to hang out with me and her girlfriends… should I be worries?Same principle. She's bringing another man in. She needed to check with you first. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 0 | My LTR just invited our neighbour to hang out with me and her girlfriends… should I be worries?Worried? About what? She's shown you what she's wanted. It's human nature. Her nature. Why be upset over something she naturally wants. Your real issue is that she lives with you. If she was truly trying to cheat, you're now stuck living with her. This is a failure of your vetting face. You didn't vet hard enough. That, and you probably project insecurity and she senses that. If you were the player type, she'd know that you don't take women or pussy seriously. My girl knows that she could screw … | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Meet girl at bar, boyfriend pulled upThe legal implications are relatively straight forward. While carrying in bars in most states is illegal, where you carry doesn't negate claims of self defense. If you are in fear for your life you have the right to shoot. Now will you still get pinned for carrying while drunk? Yes. In a bar? Yes. But three guys trying to beat you is 100% authorized use of deadly force. That's a death sentence. The court would likely try to argue against your perception of the threat in lieu of you being intoxic… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Meet girl at bar, boyfriend pulled upWhy does it feel like you're just thinking with your dick here? Why are you asking us this question with an ever so obvious answer Stop getting drunk when picking up women Stop having dates that are primarily at bars Get a gun as well as a concealed carry license Get training for that gun Delete her number | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | A female employee at a store went ape shit on me. Was I truly in the wrong here or was she just being overdramatic?If you're a repeat customer they flirt with you just to pass the time. But they know as well as you do, that if things went wrong, you know where she works and she'd be stuck awkwardly seeing you everyday. And yes, you were wrong. Not wrong, but moreso, socially unintelligent. One of the golden rules of game is two steps forward, one back. In this case, if she shows disdain for a response, you back off, apologize in the most cool and masculine way possible, feel things out and try again later in… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever a good idea to verbally bring up the topic of sex with a date?She's too used to telling you no. Even if she wanted to fuck you, the fact she's told you no three times means it'll pop up in her subconscious. I bring up sex on every first date in some form. That's the only way to vet for sexual compliance. Get sexual in conversation. Sexual compliments, misinterpretation to something sexual, touching her, laser focused eye contact, having a player vibe and being non judgemental. The first date sets the tone for everything. If you didn't make it known that yo… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I have a tinder date on monday, and have a few questionsDrinks or ice cream by the house. Fliitt, vet for sexual compliance, take her back to your house. You're too old to be taking anything a 19 year old says seriously. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck are guys kneeling?Kneeling to propose is not begging. Nor is the act of proposing, begging. Proposing is a total act of masculine leadership. I'm taking the initiative and inviting you into my situation, the world I envision, my way of doing things for the rest of our lives. If she gets half it'd be because she had already brought so much value by the end, passing the vetting phase so well, that she deserved it for playing a support role well. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Failed body count shit testNo, in the grand scheme of the game, no it's not high. But I've never had a girl not be shocked or puzzled by it. If it was 500 I still wouldn't care. They know a player when they see one. A player is a player is a player. It's not a negative question if you're congruent. Don't act like a complete gentlemen with a 200+ body count. It's not congruent. It's weird. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Failed body count shit testI have never lost a lay from revealing body count. I use it as a talking point to transition to conversation about her experiences with men both good and bad, her sexual preferences, what she likes, views on sex and relationships. They ask, which they rarely do because they assume I'm a player, I say, "Hmm about 60 or 65. Why, what's up?" As casual as can be. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 02:45 AM |
| 3 | I feel like a soft personYou're doing it again. Part of manhood is seeing the big picture of the message without getting triggered by the finer points, nitpicking them. Good luck man. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | I feel like a soft personYou're talking like a woman now. I just gave you a heap of good advice and you're harping on my first sentence. Take the advice and wisdom and run | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | I feel like a soft personA recognizable level of vulnerability and desperation I see often in angsty teenage boys. Not to insult you. Just an observation. If you want to become a man you must first accept accountability for everything that happens to you. Nothing that happens to you is anyone's fault but your own. Second, you have to do hard things that you do or don't wanna do, that take work and mental toughness. It could be cold approach, public speaking, dealing with difficult conversations, facing past traumas thro… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I feel like a soft personThe way you talk you sound like you can't be older than 17/18. How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | "I don't like talking on the phone"Phone calls become easily difficult to schedule, result in phone tag, and most importantly, requires women to commit. Women hate being put into positions where they have to give definite answers. They love maybes, weighing their options, and they hate pressures. They would rather be able to think about it comfortably over text than compulsively say yes to you and then flake, or say no to you and deal with a man potentially begging, getting angry, threatening them, etc. Just text . . | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 03:18 AM |
| 5 | What is the consensus these days on Calling vs. Texting?Texting. Calling requires too much scheduling and the possibility of playing phone tag which dries women up. Text for logistics only until you decide to take her seriously. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Revolutionary Tactic to Deal with Long Awkward Pauses with GirlsThis is not revolutionary. It's common PUA knowledge to just accept the moment and feel your way through it with positive emotions. Feel the "awkwardness" and take advantage of it as sexual tension. Silence is really one of the best ways to convey sexual tension. Ability to thrive under pressure while needing not speak is powerful. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | If a girl in a relationship is hot enough and she makes sexual comments to you, and she might want to cheat on her boyfriend with you, should you?No one can tell you what you should be doing. It only matters why you are doing it and your own personal justification for it as a man. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | How have girls you’ve met reacted to your guns?They don't care as long as you seem like a calm, relaxed, professional guy. I've had the majority of my plates and one nighters see my gun in some form from hugging me, seeing me take it off before sex, leaving it lying around on the counter. They never tell me they're uncomfortable, feel threatened, I never have cops showing up at my door. They're really just full of questions. Why do you own one? How does it work? How do I get one? How do you justify having one? How do I know when I can shoot … | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl wants a male friend to join us while we "hang out".Something you did made her unsure of whether or not she saw you sexually. This is basics. Always reject that. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 11:29 PM |
| 7 | How to rise in the dominance hierarchyConcerning yourself with the dominance hierarchy will only hinder your growth. Focus first and foremost on becoming more masculine, improving your mindset, your social circle, and your finances, and you'll be golden as time goes on. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 10:14 AM |
| 7 | GF Letting Herself Go: What Should I Do...You need to apply dread. Let her see you talking to cute girls, tease her by squeezing her tummy or cheeks and treating her like a baby. Ask her to workout with you so you can be on "one accord". Mention nothing about her weight, only that you need someone with the same values as her. Talk a lot about health and fitness. Make her being around you without the thought of health unbearable while at the same time getting her on your program. Truthfully she's only getting fat because you refuse to le… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Fellow trp experts, in todays generation i cant find a woman which i would consider high value, should i lower my bar? Or wait for my "unicorn"?Your standards are actually quite low. That said, they're all over the place. Churches, office environments. You gotta game more dude. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | how to score on team leader interview?You sound vastly underprepared for this interview. There are thousands of free interview resources on YouTube. Start there | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Newly RPd and want clarity: If we encourage women to put out on the first date (because the alternative means we fall into beta bucks category), but then we also acknowledge that a notch count above 3/4 is not conducive for pair bonding, what are they meant to do? Sleep with us or not, and why?Don't believe the hype around the joy of low body count women. In my experience they are extremely judgey, sexually insecure, immature, socially awkward (this is a big one), and have problems just like every other girl. They really aren't any better than regular women. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women use text game (e.g. fake availability)?It doesn't matter whether they do or they don't. It's your job as a man to lead. You tell her your availability and your plans for her. And if she doesn't fit that, she has to go. Don't try again. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Just had a whore come over and she dipped. How to make sure she doesn’t accuse a brotha of rape?Really. Dude . . I haven't posted on seduction in a year. The sub is trash. I comment on there occasionally but comment here more. Giving out a fake name is not hypocritical, it's a safety measure. Same as women giving out your location without telling you when they're at your place for the first time. Your middle name is not your real name. What are you going to search based on that. If i had a unique name like Lavitallipe then I wouldn't want to give that out. There's a difference between lyin… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Just had a whore come over and she dipped. How to make sure she doesn’t accuse a brotha of rape?Um no dude. I'm not some virgin off the street who doesn't know what he's doing, trust me on that. How is lying to a woman and then blocking her with no notice or reason " man to woman"? Lying to women is not masculine. It makes it look like you were scared to get down to the problem. Lying is how you lose your self respect. That's not cool. That's some shit a woman would do. Not a masculine man. On the second point, if you actually did cold approach or online, you'd know that women give out fak… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:18 PM |
| -1 | Just had a whore come over and she dipped. How to make sure she doesn’t accuse a brotha of rape?Before I advise you (not legal advice) I have to chastise you. How you fucked up: You kept messing with a girl who had a clear strong history of not trying to fuck you. Why? You kept pushing for sex with a woman who obviously wasn't into it You tried acting like everything was cool instead of having a man to woman conversation. "Are you not sexually attracted? Do you feel like I'm pressuring you? How can we make this more fun? Why do you always see me and back out last minute?" You don't need a … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | girl sent nudes then blocked me.If you didn't facetime her on snap, it's not real | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 11:12 PM |
| 3 | At this point should i just move out or just stick through the bullshit ?Trust me man. Speaking from past experience, your mom does not and can not understand masculinity. Sje will always see you as her baby boy that needs her and can be controlled. She will also stifle your masculine energy. Watch yourself self improve becoming more direct, assertive, confident, leadership oriented, and see how she responds. She will not respect you until you leave. And judging by the way you talk, she's already affecting you. You sound scared and permission seeking. Save up any mon… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 07:33 PM |
| 2 | How do I get over pregnancy fearYou haven't had enough time and experience to accept the nature of the game. Acceptance is key. Stop fighting the FEELING of fear and anxiety and let it run through you until you're numb to it and understand it. Acceptance means not that you're prepared, but that you acknowledge any and all consequences good or bad. That you submit to that. It means acknowledging manhood, which is accepting that everything is your fault. Do I want to get random bitches pregnant? No. But if I do what will fear so… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | If you go in to kiss a girl and she tells you "I don't kiss on the first date" then pats you on the shoulder, does this mean she's already put you into the beta provider category instead of the alpha?You're not a beta provider, you're not even on her level if she shoulder pats you like that. That's straight disrespect. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 04:03 PM |
| 2 | How much of body count is too much.I would strongly advise against leading her on. Although you get your rocks off, you create the damaged women so many guys complain about. Be honest with her and find a woman down for your program. If you got one, you can get a second. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Getting pussy is starting to feel like a chore it's not even fun anymoreWelcome to the player's club. Now the fun part is figuring out how to make it fun again. Higher quality women, crazier positions, etc. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 6 | How much of body count is too much.You're asking all this based on what ifs. You haven't even smashed. From a purely game based perspective, stop worrying about her body count and the insecurities it's likely causing you, and focus on how she's treating you. Is she feminine, fun, friendly, submissive, yielding, cooperative, sexual submissive, coachable and teachable. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Pandemic shit-test, low-interest, or the girl is just an idiot?This was not a shit test. This was purely a fairly on your part to both display standard masculine behavior, as well as drive the conversation forward. When texting, never talk about anything that doesn't drive the conversation forward. It's strictly an A to B to C sort of affair. Where you fucked up: You started arguing with a woman. Never argue, never debate. If she has a difference of idea, ignore it. Nothing turns a woman off like trying to engage them logically. It dries their pussy up and … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | She's not available for me but is for her other guy.Hey man, look . . . Clearly you have scarcity issues. So stop asking us for thoughts and do what you know you should. Approaching and getting more leads online. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Is a woman canceling but then offering “a rain check” count as her trying to reschedule?Women always know their schedule. You need to learn to force their hand to eliminate game playing and know how to move. Her: Rain check? You: When were you thinking? I'm free Wednesday - Friday at around 7:30 p.m. (Never wait for her. Tell her what time you want) Her: None of those work for me You: Would any day within the next week work for you? Her: My schedule is hectic with work and friends. Maybe Saturday? You: Saturday is good. You owe me a drink though. First one's on you Her: (no respons… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 02:37 AM |
| 12 | How DO you flirt?I'll simplify it for an absolute beginner with no knowledge of game. Whatever you feel, the girl feels. If you feel nervous, she will too. If you feel seductive and smooth, she'll also fall into this feeling. So how to flirt? Put yourself in the mood you want her to be in. Let that feeling flow through you with convictions. Now, just talk. It could be about weather, work, candy, traveling. She just needs to feel your sexual intent and fun energy behind it. Couple this with eye contact that match… | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 03:13 AM |
| 3 | I’m a dumb fuck. Raw dogged and nutted in a stripper raw .Delete your account, close the account ties to it. She's gonna abort anyway. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Why do I get matched with so many single moms on online dating sites?Why are you matching them? One, probability. Two, YOU keep swiping on them. Alsp, I'm not reslly understanding the issue you're having. In the demographic of women around your age a good percentage will have kids. If you want women without kids, look for women who are professional types with low social lives. They're looking to be swept up and molded. If you want young women then pursue them. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | They suggest we have a coffee, I say let's meet in the evening instead, then they ghostYou need to put false time constraints on your time. "I'm really busy but have some free time tonight/tomorrow around 8 pm." Leave no wiggle room for your time to be fucked with. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Basic escalation questionNot only is your question extremely vague and wildly unspecific, but it's value leeching at its finest. Don't try to take from the well without offering a few minerals. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 03:17 PM |
| 4 | This girl wants to reschedule. Should I bother?I wouldn't reschedule. She knew that she had a commitment to meeting up with you yet purposely put herself in a situation where she couldn't. If she was really about she'd have offered a day and time to meet as well as a way to make it up to you. You're getting disrespected. Hard pass. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls leave when you imply that you are pleased by her?My dad used to do shit like that. He'd tell me what to do and then say thank you with this big ass smile. Made me want to punch the shit out of him. If I had to guess, your smile is probably coming across as extremely condescending and "I'm superior to you haha" just like my father would. Plus smiling too hard even if you don't mean it that way, comes off as a contradiction to your supposed masculine frame. Masculine men do smile, but then you appear too friendly after establishing a commanding … | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls leave when you imply that you are pleased by her?Not enough context. Cold approach, plate, online? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend playings little petty games when we’ve been fucking for a month straight.One more thing, stop cumming. I as well as many guys find that the frustration from not cumming serves as plenty motivation to want to keep going rounds with the girl. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:03 PM |
| 19 | Girlfriend playings little petty games when we’ve been fucking for a month straight.Women with high sex drives who are really in tune with their orgasm are never satasfied. They never truly understand how much physical effort it takes to fuck and give head unlike what they have to do. It's not a sex drive problem, it's a time management issue, an energy management issue. How to solve? Make it her fault. Become more busy so she can't always come to you. Give her toys to play with. Only see her when you're ready to put a few rounds in. Structure your relationship around you doing… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 9 | What’s considered an overdose of the redpill and how do I avoid it ?Besides succumbing to initial rage, overdosing has mainly to do with failing to see the nuance in the game of life and seeing things only in black and white. Like Alpha - Beta, Rich - Poor, Slut - Wife. There are thousands of miles in between each category. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 02:01 AM |
| 8 | Is girlfriend not wanting to discuss details of past a red flag? It feels like such a red flag her not wanting to open up about certain things...Why is she your girlfriend and you don't know her relationship history? This is a total failure as far as the vetting process goes. Yes, it's a red flag. If I'm making a woman my girlfriend I want to know everything beforehand. Pet peeves, triggers, mental health status, std status, all her ex's and how they ended, body count, views on traditionalism, family history and how it went down, all of her friends, a deep dive into her views on relationships and masculinity, sexual hang ups, past trauma… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Loose pussy, sex positions, kegels, and asian girlsInstead of asking other men, find a girl and try it for yourself. Build your own references. But as everyone says, I've been with girls that are so wet I can't feel any friction. Girls who are so turned on I can't feel any grip. Any girl can be tight. I've found that the smaller and more petite a woman is, the tighter her vagina is. Medium and big girls still feel really good, but they aren't usually as tight. Might have to do with petite girls having tighter lower abs holding everything togethe… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 08:34 PM |
| 13 | Why does being direct with a woman with about what you want almost never work?Um. It does work, just not for you. Your question assumes itself to be true. I'm direct with women 98% of the time and have great results with dates, sex, getting numbers. But because you haven't told us anything about your game, we can't help you. Online? Cold approach? Is your appearance on point? Are you masculine in your tone, words, and presence? Are you seductice? Flirty? Sexual? Do you know how to lead a woman? Do you know how to run a compliance ladder? Who are the girls you're dealing w… | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Does this make me pussy? (Confronted by angry idiot)Typically when any man is caught off guard they are extremely hostile. I myself get hostile when I've been "ambushed". It's a natural reaction. Now as for you being "pussy". One, it seems like you were purposefully trying to be antagonistic. Two, de-escalation is almost always the answer. It hurts sometimes, but you gotta think about long term consequences. You injured. Him injured. Revenge. Police. Jail. Court costs. A truly bruised ego. Losing a friend. Losing a girl you could potentially smas… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Why exactly do so many women refuse to take accountability?Because biologically it's supposed to be our fault. Men are supposed to control and lead, making everything our fault. Since we have less power, women can do whatever they want while we are still stuck with the same role. Basically they've taken mens power without accepting responsibility. Best of both worlds. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 08:34 PM |
| 10 | Plate wants me to stop hooking up with other girlsNo. As a man it is your job to tell women specifically what to expect from you. You didn't set a proper tone by being role, so now hear you are my friend. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 08:10 PM |
| 12 | Plate wants me to stop hooking up with other girlsYour plate should nevee assume she's the only one. Next due to you ruining the interaction | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 07:47 PM |
| 39 | Gf denies sex, what do?You shouldn't convince a woman of anything. Anything you bargain for will make you feel shitty after the fact. If she's your girl, ask her why. That's it. Depending on the answer, you break up with her. Either she's on her period or she don't want you anymore. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Why omegle is a great place to practice seduction: lessons I've learned.So basically, a dude with no experience, trying to tell people with even less experienc, how to run game and seduce, without offering any concrete advice on the process of seduction, and also offering up generic advice he's clearly gotten from guys with 10x for game than him, without the lived experience to really mean what he says. Typical. | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | What is your body count?There is no such thing. It's a man's biological duty to sling it to as many women as possible, literally. The only real downside is that it can be easy for him to become extremely picky when it comes which woman he wants. As well, him ever being relationship minded in the future might prove to be difficult as he's used to tagging too often with nothing attached. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 33 | Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier?Depends on what you mean by date down. Locking down a 10 is oftentimes a fools' errand due to options. Unless you're open to open relationships (which i love) and are a sort of status symbol, dating long term with them are unwise. If we're talking about drilling them, yeah that's my standard, 9s and 10s. But I will say that a truly feminine, submissive, and fun personality go a hell of a long way for a woman who is a 6 or 7. I'd rather have a fun and submissive 7 that drives my emotions crazy th… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 02:01 AM |
| 4 | How to stop jacking off so much?Approach women online and in person. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating older womanThis post is ridiculous. No matter what woman you date, they will all have some sort of red flag or minor hang up. The word for women who have 0 are called unicorns and they are already taken. If she wants kids someday what is your problem? A woman needs a provider to have kids. If you have a problem with her wanting kids then break up with her because most women don't get into relationships to not have kids someday. It's in their biology. Make your intentions known honestly and let the chips fa… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 04:25 AM |
| 4 | Any slick tricks to figure out if a girl is fat?Favorite ways to tell. If it's a straight on face shot with at least a foot of room, if she's fat, there won't be much of shadow under her chin from the light. Skinny chicks have less chin fat, so more room for a dark shadow Fat chicks had very distinguished and thick smile lines (Almost always the biggest tell) Noses tend to look small in proportion to their face Fat chicks always have too much cleavage in the face shot. It looks like half face, half cleavage Fat chicks like sticking their tong… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 2 | I did a little test with a plate I'm vetting. Did she pass? Need your opinionYou should have been vetting her from the beginning. And you need to understand, she's only really seen you as a fwb even if she has pushed for more. Meaning, she's been conditioned for the past year to only act like a fwb, not a girl working her way through the ranks. Until you've seen her, for a period of no less than 6 months at your point, since you've been seeing her for a year, consistently complying and submitting to actions that you would require of a girlfriend, as in doing them day in … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | I got ghosted by a virgin and I honestly have no idea whyShe could've been on her period or just coming off. You could have been too big and caused scarring. If you fingered her you could've scratched her. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 09:26 PM |
| 2 | I got ghosted by a virgin and I honestly have no idea whyThis isn't just an alpha-beta issue. That's too black and white. You have to consider what virginity means to an older girl. You also assume that she was "bonded". I don't know what that means, but sex doesn't just bond a girl to you. It's the emotional investment. And if she fucked you that quick she wasn't that emotionally invested in you. There was no journey or fight on her behalf to come to her decision that you could see, no vetting process. It was a pre planned decision most likely. A gir… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 2 | I got ghosted by a virgin and I honestly have no idea whyThis story sounds weird. In my experience, women who are in their 20s and iup (I'm assuming she is), who are still virgins are notoriously difficult to break down, especially on the same night. Their entire identity is usually wrapped around their virginity and keeping it to falsely maintain value. Them losing their virginity usually signals a huge mental shift and life change because it defined them. "This one thing makes me different from other girls so I'll stay that way". It's their sole sou… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | BJ but no sex is it worth to keep her around?I'm trying to help, not insult you. If you're running good game, absent girls who are easily triggered, you should never get a hard no or I don't want to. It indicates lack of flow and compliance ladder. You need to sexually vet every woman before you start trying to go hard | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | BJ but no sex is it worth to keep her around?You need more data. This is why it's important to vet a woman's sexual history in a non judgemental environment. Ask her playfully, questions like: How many men and women have you been with? Craziest thing you've ever done in bed? What's the fastest you've ever slept with somebody? What turns on make you lose control? What are the average guys you date like? What usually happens. (Somehow bringing up in conversation) Have you ever had any sexual trauma? In all these, it helps if you give your an… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | I understand that if a woman asks if you’re fucking other girls (or something similar) you say yes, but what do you say if she asks whether that means she can fuck other guys?It's not about me being open minded. It's being brutally honest about human nature, what people want and how to work with it. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I understand that if a woman asks if you’re fucking other girls (or something similar) you say yes, but what do you say if she asks whether that means she can fuck other guys?As far as I know, she hasn't. She's ready to fuck me more than I do her a lot of the time. She's always trying to jump me. I know how she moves day to day because of how often we talk and spend time together. If she did cheat she'd be a fucking idiot because I told her she could screw other dudes as long as i don't know who and it doesn't interfere with us. So, we have an open relationship clause she can cash in on at anytime. I truly don't care. I know women love variety. I know women like new … | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 06:45 AM |
| 3 | I understand that if a woman asks if you’re fucking other girls (or something similar) you say yes, but what do you say if she asks whether that means she can fuck other guys?A girlfriend is a women who you're sexually involved with, as well as the both of you having an established role and commitment of value exchange in each others life, often based on a sense of duty and obligation. A Fwb is not a potential gf. A fwb is a plate. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 10:08 PM |
| 8 | I understand that if a woman asks if you’re fucking other girls (or something similar) you say yes, but what do you say if she asks whether that means she can fuck other guys?Tell her she can do whatever she wants. It communicates abundance and non neediness. I tell my gf she can go fuck other guys all the time. It makes her want me more knowing I'm that secure. Plates and gfs alike love it. Although a gf will get more insecure knowing your so willing to let another dude pound her, which i dont care about. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | General rule with counter offers when given a counter offer - Accept or deny?Go with the sooner date, always. More time = Less interest. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to this shit text before closing a date?You have two choices. One, you block her due to disrespect. She knew the whole time how busy she was and still gave you her number. Or two, you ask her when exams will be done, and once she tells you, you hit her up around then. Really you're main problem her is you gave her too much attention without escalating. Girls know right away online if they want to meet or are willing to. They make it easy. Girls who don't intend to meet will be a headache and are impossible to nail down for a time. The… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 02:05 PM |
| 12 | Reported my senior rep to HRKeep your points concise. Don't tell them about your feelings, what you care about, how scared you were of being fired. Only talk about your love for following policy and that was your only goal, and he got in the way of that. Don't answer any specifics about your emotional state. Be vague, leaning towards joyful. Don't even point blame on him. Talk about the situation as if it were two people you didn't know talking. For example, instead of, "i sent the message", you say, "when that message was… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 05:28 AM |
| 31 | Reported my senior rep to HRHR is plotting how to not handle him, but you. HRs only true job is to protect the company from getting sued. So what you want to do is stay quiet, look happy, and perform better than you ever have. If they try to talk to you, only talk about how you wanted to follow policy to avoid both him and yourself getting the place you work for sued. They want to know that you're an innocent party, won't be a problem, and won't sue, and most importantly, love the company, what you do, and want to SAVE THE… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Is this machiavellian behavior?Yes, it's Machiavellian a.k.a highly tactical or manipulative. However, every girl treats every man different depending on attraction, comfort, sexual imprint, life experiences, triggers, turnoffs. Only way to really know is to do it yourself. Your method is too . . It's too much work and it lacks belief in self. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What makes up Scarcity and Abundance Mindset?Yes, abundance assumes that you have value. And that your value is potentially limitless. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 04:09 PM |
| 7 | What makes up Scarcity and Abundance Mindset?I'm going to 100% simplify it for you. Scarcity is living with the fear of loss in the back or front of your head. You live everyday asking, "How do I keep this person/thing/opportunity, because I'm scared to lose it." Abundance is living with the knowledge that there will always be more people, things, and opportunities. You feel that if you lose something, it's only natural for you to get more because life moves in cycles of highs and lows. Because you deserve it, in a healthy entitlement way. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Girl tells me she almost got raped. Then hangs out with same guy??Almost every girl I've ever dated has told me she's been raped by somebody, and that she usually saw and hung with that person again. Now of course, all womem aren't lying. But, about half of them were women who loved to play sexual games, mental games, and were overall either indirect or just unstable emotionally. You can still have sex with these girls, although I'd take extra care to make sure she's consenting to everything you two do. And no not seeking consent as a permission boy. But as a,… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever get sick of every reasonably attractive chick being taken?If you're referring to online dating, I never get stupid lines about having a boyfriend. You must be doing something to really turn them off, online or cold approach. If you're getting them line a lot, it's a you issue bro. You're game isn't as good as you think it is. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Do you use the same phone number everywhere?Agreed, random women get my google voice. Easier to tune them out if they act crazy or give up the number if they try to expose or harasa you online. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Met a cute girl on Friday and we hooked up. She wanted to meet again on Sunday which we did but she cried during sex and hasn’t messaged me back?I'd press her to give me a reason through text so that way she can't comeback later and accuse me of anything. Always leave off on a positive note with women whenever possible, and get text receipts if possible. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 6 | What is the most NUCLEAR SHIT you have heard/said from/to a girl.I have too many to count, and a lot I don't care to mention online. But notably, I went out with a BLM representative chick from out of town, who was actually good looking. Tight body, nice clothes, high heels on, average face. Nice accessories. We had dinner together where she was being difficult the whole time and acting like she didn't know what to use me for to the point I wasn't even sure why I was there if she was going to act so wishy washy. Anyway, the long and short of it, when the bill… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 6 | I'm (16) bringing a girl (15) over, how should I escalate?I'm seriously hoping none of the grown ass players on here are thinking about giving this dude sexual advice. I'd help you but you're too young bro. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | If we men are all "the prize" but are competing with EACHOTHER for women, then the REALITY is your positive self image means nothingThe funny thing is, competition implies that there is something to win or lose, that there is scarcity involved. Women are in infinite supply, so there's no scarcity. When multiple men approach one girl there is no competing, there's only presentation of a brand. Mindset is everything. And I'm not going to get started on looks, which are a small part of game. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How many times should i make her orgasm?As much as you can without getting bored or losing interest | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.Face it and challenge her head on with accountability. Start by saying that you were wrong for going through her bag. Then follow it up by presenting your evidence to her and seeing how she reacts. You don't need to lie or hide or ghost, which is feminine in nature if you really do claim to be in an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad I didn’t escalate on first dateYes, when you wait to long to escalate women begin to make assumptions. Maybe he's gay, maybe he's scared, maybe he doesn't like me, maybe he's not confident enough. They'll think all these things and get turned off. In addition, if you didn't make any moves she might start to see you as boyfriend material. "He didn't make a move cuz he's conservative and because i like him now I don't want him to think I'm a hoe, so I'll hold out even when he does make an attempt". Last, you assume you'll see h… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 09:45 PM |
| 6 | When do you text girls after dates?Usually an hour or two after. Something like, "Had a good time. Hope you had a good night. Should do this again'. I do this for two reasons. If we had sex, it helps prove consent if she goes crazy later on. It shows you really quickly if she's fucking with you or not. Any other than an enthusiastic "same" usually means she gives zero fucks. I'm all about a quick answer and not wasting time. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:04 AM |
| 16 | Invisible Wars Pt. 8 - How To Pick Your Battles: Assumed Escalation of ForceLove the last example. A classic example of DARE never DEER. Repeat your point and the rest will fall in place. Don't leave room for them to trample over your boundary or the commonly shared goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 4 | friend's ex wants me to bang her, TODAY. should I?What a mess of a post. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | How accurate is Rollo in saying that "if a girl truly wants to bang you, she will make it happen/make it easy"?You're making it too complicated bro. Certain men inherently match her sexual blueprint for who a suitable man is to procreate with. Once you hit all those bells and whistles it's pretty much over. Women love sex. They love dick. And they just wanna take it from a worthy guy on a primal level. And given how lame the average dude is it don't take a lot to demonstrate superiority. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 08:25 PM |
| 30 | How accurate is Rollo in saying that "if a girl truly wants to bang you, she will make it happen/make it easy"?Girls have very low self control when they really wanna fuck you. All of them. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How to stop thinking about ass?My man, your goal should not be to stop thinking of ass while talking to girls. Your goal should be to use that sexual energy to flirt and project your vibe onto her. Stop trying to hide it, that's what makes you lose composure, being inauthentic, fake. Show them your true sexual self without being thirsty, desperate, disrespectful, or butthurt, and they'll eventually get sucked into your frame. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Escalation Techniques Which Could Save One Years.Because most of it reads like regurgitated and recycled Red Pill articles. That, and shouldn't take advice from people who just lost their v card. Reading this sounds like it's not genuine wisdom from hard work, but stuff he's heard. Oh, and none of these are escalation techniques. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | High tier girl wants a second date after 1 week since she said 'we have nothing in common'So . . . What happened on this first date? Where? Who asked who? Did you make it sexual? Did you flirt? Try to get her back to your place? Vibe of any kind? How did you meet? Did you spend money on her? | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 42 | Things FemaleDatingStrategy gets right:Frankly, it doesn't matter what FDS gets right. What men are supposed to be able to offer, and what women are supposed to be able to offer, are two totally different leagues. One requires you to die for her in battle if need be, and be a workhorse provider. The other league is being pretty, feminine, and having babies, which women oftentimes over hype the dangers of. Most women will have healthy babies nowadays, and thanks to modern medicine, the process isn't nearly as risky. Plus, they like ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel sleazy whenever I attempt to sexualise things...even when I know they want me to?Not fake it til you make it. Act real until you remember. You need to recognize your value, what you have to offer from a financial, social, sexual, physical, and game standpoint. If you've done it before you can do it again. Write down what makes you valuable and what makes girls come to you. Then, imagine the future you and what track you're on, and know that that's who women will end up with | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you’ll watch the TV show Ginny and Georgia?What a value stealing question. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Why do I feel sleazy whenever I attempt to sexualise things...even when I know they want me to?You need to learn to live as a legend in your own mind. You need to assume attraction and assume things will go right in your favor. This involves positive reference experiences, which you already have, i.e., seducing without negative consequences. It also involves believing in the wisdom of men who also do what you do. Confidence comes just as much from observation than as it does competence. Your internal dialogue needs to run over everything right that happens and has happened. You also need … | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Girls I date won't have sex with me.It sounds like you just lack seduction skills. If a woman is telling you she's not ready, and you're both naked, one you're dating a goofy attention whore, and two, you're not being direct, and at some point you give them the impression that you want more than sex. The more dates you go on without sex, the more you establish a, "I'm trying to win you over" frame. You establish an, "us going without sex is normal" frame. An, "i don't care when we have sex" frame. An, "ill follow your lead and do … | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend (17) showed me (18) a picture of cum on her back, from when she was dating her exFirst off brother, you're too young in the game to be dating any woman seriously. Two, 4 months is not long enough to make a woman your girlfriend. You don't even know what you want out of a relationship to be in one. Focus on learning the game and becoming a man. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | What makes someone seductive or unseductive?What makes someone seductive is first, the ability to feel good in your own body and sexuality. Second, it's the ability to project those good feelings, vibe, sexual, or otherwise onto the other person until they gradually ease themselves in. For example, if you're a peaceful person and you never move from that position no matter what, an angry person will have nothing to feed on to fuel their anger but peace, and they'll eventually get like you. This is as simple as it gets. | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 4 | How to pass the "do you have a condom" shit test?I've been with about 60 women and most of them never bring it up. When they do, I just eat them out until they beg for my dick. Or I finger them while telling them all the dirty things I'd do to them, and then they beg me. I also preemptively ask them if they've been tested with a serious, "you better be clean" look. They'll say yes. Then let me in raw. Most girls really don't care. And I know you won't listen when we say wear a condom. So, instead, vet for higher quality girls and have a good h… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 05:11 AM |
| 0 | A girl that I was close to having sex with last told me she didn’t because she doesn’t want me to leave after ? You think this is bs or is there some truth to how she feelsOh you're a woman. That's why you're being so combative, on FDS no less. Well as a man who actually has to pull women, and listen to men who fail, women routinely turn sex down with boyfriend vibe/material men, while giving it quickly to men they either don't take seriously or they're so high value they can't afford to say no. When I say alpha i mean a sexual alpha. A guy who commands pussy. When I'm talking about a lot of sex i don't mean relationships. You gain few skills from that because you… | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:31 AM |
| 4 | A girl that I was close to having sex with last told me she didn’t because she doesn’t want me to leave after ? You think this is bs or is there some truth to how she feelsBecause I'm giving game based off of years experience. That and, you didn't read. Women who see men as boyfriend material are scared of sexual judgement. If he was giving off player vibes, she would feel his sexual energy off rip, accept the situation, and view him as the type of guy that gets girls easily. Evolutionary, a superior man. An alpha type. Women fuck alpha types quickly because they see their value in the short term. Men who are long term oriented are usually tradional types, don't h… | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 11:00 PM |
| 36 | A girl that I was close to having sex with last told me she didn’t because she doesn’t want me to leave after ? You think this is bs or is there some truth to how she feelsYou gave her too many boyfriend vibes. Meaning, you gave her the impression that you were a long term, commitment oriented kind of guy. And in the mind of women, guys who act like that typically act like that, get turned off by women who have sex quickly. Or, they might slut shame them. When you want sex quickly, you need to project a fun, steamy, carefree player vibe. Move on. She isn't worth it. Learn your lesson. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 8 | Women and online datingYou should've started this long ago. But an honest answer, they don't care enough to unmatch you. They're not emotionally invested enough to unmatch you. If they get spammed with 500 guys trying to talk to them constantly, they've already forgetten you. Only girls who were emotionally affected by you negatively or are on there for something very, very specific will unmatch. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Would I be classified as a rapist?Here's a secret. It doesn't matter if you felt like you were pushy. To yourself you were. What matters is, did you learn from it? Is she okay and communicating like things are okay? Every woman responds differently even though you perceive yourself differently. Their opinion is what matters. She's cool. You learned that you need better seduction ane vetting skills. Take the L and stop trying to appease your guilt. You'll only hurt yourself. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Would I be classified as a rapist?Take numerous screenshots of all your text exchanges. Always screenshot texts directly before and after a lay. It's your best defense besides video Unless you were pushy and aggressive to the point she was scared to say no or "worn down", you didn't do anything. If everything you said is how it happened, you just had a shitty nite with a girl who was a "maybe girl" instead of a "hell yes". This is why we teach you to only mess with women who are 100% down to suck your soul out your dick. You can… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 06:30 AM |
| 1 | What is a high value woman like?let me be more clear. long term, high value women require you having your shit together, if you wanna deal with anything more than just sex. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 04:32 AM |
| 34 | Holding frame and saying what you want is attractiveForcing a frame in which a group of people are not in is the quickest way to get labeled as "that guy" who can't vibe. People will want to avoid you. Learn to gradually shift the conversation and read the room and energy while you are at it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | What is a high value woman like?Fun. Fit. Feminine. Submissive. Sexy. Cooperative. Socially Intelligent. Useful. Carefree. Sexually Skilled. High value women are not unicorns. Unicorns are perfection, which no woman is. High value women just take lots of game and you having your shit together. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | LTR texting a guyHow long have you been in this LTR? What was your vetting process for her and how long did it take? Why are you going through her phone and how did you get in there? Every player knows that ain't shit you want to see in a girls phone. You're a fool for expecting exclusivity. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Found out my gf had a threesome with two dudes and it's making me sickYour ego is getting in the way because you want to see her as a unicorn that only thinks you're special. That's it. Sexual insecurity. Get rid of your illusions about you being special, owning a woman, your dick being magic, her being special. Sex is just sex. And the only true indicator of a woman's feelings towards you are continued submission and cooperative behavior. Anything besides that it just your vetting process. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Getting Nervous In Conflicts And How To Stop ItThat's called a light adrenaline dump. It's your bodies evolutionary response to being in dangerous situations. Getting your blood pumping so you can move faster from cold positions. Faster breathing to gain more oxygen for energy. Feeling fear like that sucks. It can make you feel weak and emasculated. But no my friend. This is not bad. It means your body recognizes a threat your mind does not. Embrace it and work with it. Meaning, embrace the dominant side of you your body is calling to. If yo… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Should I F a girl whom I'm not at all interested in given that I'm a virgin?You're not qualified to be picky. You need to get positive references and experiences under your belt in order to build up your sexual confidence and build a good foundation. Right now, if you were sexually active you wouldn't be asking this. You'd be going after the girls you really wanted and fucking them. But you're not, because it scares you. Just focus on running good game, going for the lay, having good sex, and gaining bed room skills when it doesn't matter. That's what practice girls are… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Major disrespect. Help me handle this correctly.Bro, did you confirm she was on her way? Did she talk to her on the phone first as a vetting process? Women are disrespectful, but this is your personal failure. Game is about accountability. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it beta to want to please my girlfriend?You're falsely equivocating the two. You can want to please without performance anxiety. Your issue is that you let your desire to please make you anxious because you're worried that you'll fail. Rather than this, focus on wanting to please because it makes you feel good and you're good at it. Subtle difference. Operate from a position of strength and power. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Losing erection when wanting to put it inNot enough information | /r/askTRP | 14/03/21 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyBecause sir, there are things that create, as well as destroy attraction. No bitch likes a dude for no reason. You had to come with some qualifications. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Felt hold back because of my employees to ask for numberA party designed to meet hot women. Usually host it at your house as a casual way to meet people. Can be for business or pleasure. You could say, so and so company is throwing a party to unite the community. Do it at your house or by the store. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many Pre wall Women seeking commitment for a future relationshipThis is a very easy bypass. What you have to do with women who are trying to portray themselves as "relationship minded" is have an open conversation about your relationship values. But don't talk about it as if you're looking for it from them. Because how could you? You don't know them. Talk about qualities you like in a woman, your past relationships (never frame yourself negatively), relationship qualities, etc. Also, what I like to do is tell them why I'm single (they usually ask why). I tel… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Felt hold back because of my employees to ask for numberHost a container event. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 09:25 PM |
| 8 | Why do all a lot of women with high body counts or just promiscuous in general always want kids?There is no verifiable data to support another man's sperm affecting your kid in the womb. This is false and I used to eat it up. Microchimerism has to do with a mother retaining her babies DNA long after it's birth. Not the man's, but the babies. Soul ties are also falsw. Soul ties are just emotional addiction to finally feeling worthy, validated, and cared for. Long term emotional codependence usually triggered by immature people having decent sex. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyThis. A good portion have zero intention of meeting. You can weed them out by being direct and only giving them one chance with few exceptions. And when I say exception I mean like, you called to explain or you're pushing it back by an hour | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 10:08 AM |
| 24 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyFlirting over text is pretty useless. Women you meet online or in person have already determined how they view you before you push for a meet up over text. All that extra texting is a greater chance of: Accidentally turning her off with some kind of miscommunication Boring her Ruining the mystery Giving her too much attention Becoming a text buddy Her missing your text and subconsciously writing you off because if you were valuable, she'd respond. Women who are down to meet will 94% always have … | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Can someone explain my fiances reaction to my investments?She's stressed out you're going to lose that money She's terrified you're going to dump her My advice? You need to break up with her. Your value just skyrocketed and you overplayed your hand by revealing it. If I were you, because money reveals a lot about yourself, I'd break up with her so I could sort out what I want with my life, with her, and if fucking around with her while I have this much money is a good thing or not. Usually it's not. This is the time to be selfish, to re evaluate your l… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Made a date with a 9. After a few days, she cancels and let’s me downDon't hit her up again, the interaction is dead. A woman's initial highest point of attraction is only about two to three days after they meet you. And it's important that you see them in this window. Second, don't focus on rapport, connection and comfort don't mean much. If a woman is to see you again, they need sexual attraction. Focus on getting her excited and turned on in the conversation, not comfortable or connected. Judging by her response about you and her dating, you were giving off to… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 7 | What the fuck happened here?Brother, technically you did things by the book, which I applaud you for. You held frame, asserted your value, gave her an ultimatum. But, look at the long term consequences of what you're doing. You're setting up a dynamic where if she doesn't fuck you right then, you pressure her and shame her into submission rather than her genuine desire. In many circles what you're doing would be called emotional abuse. So, be careful. Looking at a girl saying no because she's mad as withholding is an emoti… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Where did I mess up? Texting is going to be the death of me...Time is your enemy. Last time you met was last summer. The attraction is dead. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it fucked to have a goal to fuck every nationality in central America.What do you want to do? Why do you feel the need to justify your sexual preferences to us? | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | [27M] Wondering why she [23F] flaked on our date - Thoughts?These people are giving you no real advice. So here's the deal. What likely happened is she began to view you as sexually unconfident and unsure of yourself. If a woman doesn't want something from you physically, her body will tell you before her mouth does 98% of the time. Second, your internal beliefs are off. Brother, women have no problem meeting up with guys they just met. Countless women will come straight to your house having never heard your voice. I do it all the time. Women will also m… | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 1 | GF won’t do analThe way you're wording this sounds like sexual coercion. Be careful what you post online. That said, you don't get a woman's sexual best through pushing or pressure, you do it by providing them the space ro like enjoy and let go. Now that you've acted salty about it, you've created a giant wall to climb. I suggest you read the sex god method. It has a whole section in there about seducing women into new sexual acts. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?The human body has many flaws that "evolution should've taken care of". We're weak physically. Fragile. We can't stand extreme changes in weather. We lack claws. We can't see well at night. Our sense of smell is lacking. Hell disease is natural but our bodies sure as hell have a hard time not getting the cold, flu, cancer. All natural.. This isn't about studies bro. I'm talking about real life here. I said before, monogamy is a natural train of thought, but not practical. Being promiscuous doesn… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?Monogamy is not an evolutionary advantage. Sexual exclusivity and good parenting are too different things. Plenty of parents fuck a bunch of people but still raise their kids effectively. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?No offense, but I don't need analysis. I have life experience. Women like to fuck. Married women, single moms, they all get around just the same. There will always be a man before and after you. It doesn't concern me. Although I will say, I have a solid foundation in evolutionary psychology. Last, before i get off this thread, it would do you well to start living rather than trying to get data. Living will always tell you the truth. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?I'm saying The society you live in greatly influences your sexual choices. Ask, "Was this my idea or was it given to me?" Multiple partners is our biological baseline. When humans were first formed there was no such thing as a relationship. Just fucking and fighting The disconnect is because society tells you to do differently than what your body wants. Hence sex before marriage. Cheating. Homosexuality. BDSM. People get hurt from cheating because they were lied to. And because sex is so persona… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?You're mistaking cultural norms (single parenting) for biological truth. If monogamy was natural people wouldn't feel the need to cheat. Men wouldn't have infinite sperm and women wouldn't try to have men compete over who gets her womb, in the process, confusing these men about who the true father is. So let me clarify. The desire to be monogamous is natural in that it's a natural train of that. But in reality, biologically, our bodies crave diversity. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 11 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?This is bitch made thinking in my opinion. Your girl has friends, and a life. It doesn't matter how easy you make it for her to cheat. Monogamy is not natural. So if you're worried, be in an open relationship. Otherwise, just except that there's some randomness to life and that women will do what they do. You gave her the opportunity to cheat, but does she have a reason? Does the thought of losing you terrify her? You gotta consider all these things. Bottomline. The best form of dominance is to … | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | online dating adviseEvery single time I've had a woke, overtly spiritual type in my inbox whose profile led with that shit, they hit me with the, I gotta talk to you more before meeting up. My theory is that they are only spiritual because they recently went through some sort of trauma. Therefore, they perceive being more spiritual with being high value and "feminine". All this resulting in: I'm still healing and I'm scared to get hurt My spirituality makes me more feminine and thus high value (they're overvaluing … | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | How is the NYC Dating/Hookup Scene?The hookup scene hasn't changed. Women are just more discrete with it. They will still come straight to your place and give it up like always. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Should you rub one off before a first date?Every time I've jacked it before a date, the sex either wasn't as fun because I personally had too much self control, or I couldn't keep it up because I was actually masterbating from a position of fear and not strength. Whether or not you are creepy is entirely up to your level of game and personality. Generally, if you're mindset is, "I like fun, nothing has to happen, and I know she thinks I'm a cool dude", you won't put out thirsty energy. If masterbating makes you feel sluggish before the d… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Should you rub one off before a first date?I don't understand the context of your question. What problem are you trying to solve by dumping/holding your seed? | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 07:20 PM |
| 4 | Girl flaked on me because i didnt keep the conversation live until the date.Never plan dates a week out, they rarely work. As her interest "grows" so does her anxiety and flakiness due to life and other men. Most interest is from initial lust and curiosity Plan dates no more than 2 - 3 days out. If she says she can't do it, use a false time constraint of, "We'll only hang for an hour or so". If that doesn't work, either kill the lead or ghost until she's almost free. It's not solely your job to keep things alive. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | She's PregnantOnly if you pee throughly beforehk the session and after any masterbation episodes. Even then. If you're edging inside of her and you keep getting close, you're just pushing sperm closer to the tip. It's really a gamble. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/21 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone noticed plates from dating apps throwing more shit tests than those you get from social circle or activities?When you set the frame as the buyer and not the seller, and you only deal with cooperative, high value women, you don't have these issues. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 03:43 AM |
| 5 | Where should I go with this?Your first mistake was accepting that she wouldn't be free for a week. Golden Rule #46 of game: Only set dates that are no more than two to three days after the ask. Too much shit happens in the meantime if you wait a week. How do I know? I've been testing it for years. Two to three days out max. If not you run the risk of her meeting too many new guys, getting fucked by her ex, for her friends to try to make plans, for her work to stress her out. Mistake two, was not driving the conversation fo… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Triggered her panic attack whilst making her cumgirls who are that pissed are prone to texting you walls f messages explaining themselves. they dont have to say they had a good time. they just need to vindicate you. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 03:16 AM |
| 23 | Triggered her panic attack whilst making her cumSolicit an, "I had a good time text" from her, followed by her explaining thoroughly through text why she got upset at you after sex. Once you have the proper evidence to save yourself from any legal trouble, never text her again. Don't block her though. You want to see anything she could text that might help build your case if you ever needed. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 04:11 AM |
| 2 | What should the timeline from meeting to going out look like?Approach, Small talk and light conversation, most importantly, flirt and display sexual intent. She needs to feel fun, sexual energy coming off of you. From there you just gauge whether or not she's receptive. I personally only look for high interest women so as not to waste my time. The more selling you have to do, the worse it'll be long term. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | What should the timeline from meeting to going out look like?I send the picture so she knows exactly that i am who i say. "Wear something sexy" is a compliance test and also something i personally desire. I want to see her at her near best, and it shows that she's actually interested or sex or sees you sexually. If she says something like Haha no or similar, 97% of the time she's going to ghost you. There's a direct correlation between compliance and ghosting. If she has to tell you no to damn near anything she loses attraction 9/10 times. Everytime a wom… | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 2 | What should the timeline from meeting to going out look like?If you're trying to date or fuck, you should be trying to have your date in the next two to three days, really no more than two. Anymore and she severely loses interest, meets too many guys, gets fucked by her ex, fucked by a new guy, gets too caught in drama. Too much time passing by is always bad. After meeting, if it was at night, I'll text them the next day in the afternoon. If it's in the morning, I'll text them around 6 p.m. where I know they're most likely to answer. Do not back and forth… | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | How to get past the initial job interview?Here's a few good sources when it comes to interview skills and resume writing (it is a skill to be mastered) Joshua Fluke Andrew Lacivita Darnell Clarke Deniz Sasal Don Georgovich All on YouTube. The studying is tedious but the results will put you ahead if you put the time in | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | I tried to push through LMR on a tinder date & she held it against me. Is the best play here to remain silent until she comes back around?6's try to avoid fucking you specifically because they know they're not hot. They know they're easy pickings and practice girls to men, so they purposely try to hold out more as a bargaining chip. The hardest lays I've had have been with 5s and 6s. Hotter girls are easier once alone in comparison. That said, you were too thirsty and like I said, thought she was easy pickings so you were "overly aggressive" and tried to plow through. Because you were so thirsty, if she does see you again, she kno… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend tells me she decided to go on a one month trip to a tropical place by herselfEvery bitch I've ran into likes going on random trips. They truly do hate their current life situations and truly do want a break. If the roles were reversed, would you want to bring her with you if she thought the same way you do? Full of insecurity and mental unrest? She'd probably ruin the trip. Have an honest conversation with her and stop bullshitting. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Failing at love life, lay down some brutal truths on me.You haven't told us anything. Why did she leave you? What were the symptoms before the break up? What is your type? Do you know how to access them? What is your game like? Do you have a system for getting quality women? Are you seductive? Charming? Dominant? What's your selling point? Are you trying to get something long term, short term? Do you have a solid vetting process for women? What do you think women place their value on when determining who to fuck? (if they don't want to fuck you, noth… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 04:21 AM |
| -2 | Confront thot gf about her lies or just silently move on?Hey bro, I know you think you're being righteous but you're not. Violating someone's property because you don't trust them is not righteous or masculine. It's feminine behavior. You know why? You let fear and doubt overcome you instead of taking a hard stance with your instincts and trusting them. Even the way you talk is feminine. You have that "Haha dumb bitch (insert I'm superior emojis"). You know what's in someone's phone? Their credit card info. Their contacts. Their private thoughts. Thei… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 09:48 PM |
| 0 | How could I get my girlfriend to move out but not necessarily break up with her?Depending on how many nights she's spent there in a row and how much stuff she has, by law she could be considered a sub tenant. That means that now you can't kick her out and she has tenant rights, and would need to be formally evicted. You need to get her out. Make up some lie about the landlord emailing you and catching on her living her. Make up a story with your roommate about it being too crowded and he needs more space. Tell her you're not comfortable living together with another man ther… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 40 | How to last just a few minutes longer when going from behindYou have a sexual dominance issue. If you believe you cum too fast it's because you also believe that you are supposed to "last". Lasting implies that you're at war with or fighting something. If you're fucking a girl and you're the man, you should believe you don't have to do a goddamn thing. You should believe that it's her job to submit to and pleasure you. You should believe that it doesn't matter if she cums or not because you have enough value to find another girl if need be. So first, cha… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 12:57 AM |
| 2 | The cruel irony of being 2 times as good looking at 24 with half the sex drive of age 18Take some Panax Giseng, Ashwagandha, and Maca Root Powder. They're herbal supplements that will shoot your sex drive through the roof. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | A 9/9.5 MILF flaked on me with "Oh damn… I’m so sorry something came up… Maybe some other time have a great day❤️" How do I respond?Permanent charge to the game. Notice how she said some other time, and immeditately shut down the conversation? It's the equivalent of saying, "omg thank you. Love you. K thanks. Bye." | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | What is the ideal date location for a online dating match?You actually bought that she was coming down with something. You do realize women often say this to cancel without looking like a dick? Why are you the one rescheduling when in reality she cancelled on you? She's making you look low value | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: You need to be texting the girl you are dating in between datesMore or less yes. The way you text or behave in an initial interaction can increase her attraction, but ultimately women do what they do. So why over invest your energy texting hoping for a response or trying to gauge her interest level at different times? | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 03:12 AM |
| 24 | New plate won’t give me head until we are “dating”Read the sidebar, brother. Women hold out on sexual activities to force you to emotionally invest in pursuing them. That's how relationships become transactional. And even after you give her what "she wants", her attraction is so lowered by your display of low value that she won't make good on her promise. An arbitrary, unmeasurable promise. She promised head. What kind of head? With genuine desire? Spitefully? Lazy? Unskilled. How often? You see how silly waiting is? It does nothing but lower y… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 01:36 AM |
| 12 | Why do I get ED with girls I enjoy hanging with?Anxiety and nervousness is associated with the fight, flight, or freeze reflex. When you feel that fear, it triggers it, telling your body that you need to escape a predator or fight it. Either way, the last place your body needs blood is your penis while you're fighting. It's needs that blood for the muscles. Plus a hard dick would make fighting or running troublesome. So that's what your fear is doing to you. The cause? You care about the girl too much. Value her too much. You get scared of lo… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Chilling in Bedroom 1st Time You Bring a Girl Home on Date...No, it doesn't matter the location. All that matters is that you know how to properly escalate, seduce, push pull, tease, and establish a proper buyer-seller dynamic. Don't complicate this. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Plate wants "a proper date" - how to respond to shit test?A 6 isn't worth the work of finessing. That's my point. I'm not deluded. I just have standards. And a lot issues guys have in the red pill are due to loweres standards. There's a reason most guys who are up on game don't care to bring their plate out in public. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 06:15 PM |
| -2 | Plate wants "a proper date" - how to respond to shit test?You have bigger problems on your hands, brother. You're fucking a 6. You know you'd rather be fucking a 7 or higher. You're dishonoring and disrespecting your body by fucking lower quality than standard on a consistent basis. Furthermore, low quality woman will always go for the proper date angle. High value women know men will want to stick around for more than sex. She's used to being used as a training dummy, and she wants to know if she actually is worth more than ass. You can only drag thes… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 05:46 AM |
| 3 | can you be too high value for a girlWhat you are describing is not a value conundrum. She's simply acting submissive around you. Meaning, she's in her feminine state. Allowing your dominance to shine, showing you that she's willing to let go and submit to your masculine frame. If a woman acts really suhmissive around you, this is her biology at work telling her that you're high value and she should possibly give herself to you. Now, that being said, if you're not acting sexual or flirty around her you can never be sure. The cleare… | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 01:55 AM |
| -3 | Sexual Desire and ObjectificationNo this topic is not relevant to this sub. If you wanted to be truly effective, you could teach men how to objectify women in a way that it turns them on, the different contexts in which you may view a woman "only in a sexual context", the varying degrees of objectification needed to run good game. The entirety of game and seductiom is based around objectification. Seduction, meaning, putting someone in a position where they can let their inner and outer walls down and take some good dick/pussy.… | /r/seduction | 19/08/20 07:27 PM |
| -21 | An old but relevant article highlighting the dangers girls have to face when rejecting a guy. It's important to be considerate. This is one reason why 1) You're given a wrong number by them and 2) Ignored over text on the follow up from a receptive Cold Approach.Who the fuck allowed this post on a seduction subreddit. I can't | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Does being short and proportionally strong give women the same sense of protection and masculinity as being tall?That's what I'm saying. I have girld who are 5'11 and up. You need to act like it doesn't matter. If you take women seriously then you already lost brother. If you care then she cares. If it's a funny joke it will be to her. This is pickup 101, passing shit tests. You totally ignore it. Agree and amplify (exaggerate). You reframe. You misinterpret. You make it sexual. You can use any of these or all in combination | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Does being short and proportionally strong give women the same sense of protection and masculinity as being tall?In pick up artistry, in game, height only matters if you let her see it bothers you. Women are far more concerned with your ability to exude masculinity and general sex appeal than they are your height. The few women who have brought up, the 1%, they ask something like, "Hw tall are you again?". And I'll give them this cheeky confused look and tell them my exact height like they're slow or something. Or if they make it a point to mention being taller than me, I'll say something like, "We're all … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What would you guys consider for a LTR in terms of body count?It doesn't matter. Wanting a low body count is just ego. Women love dick. They're gonna wanna step out or go somewhere else eventually. Just like every man will. Your focus should be way more on getting her to consistently serve you. Her emotions lie where her submission and service are. And having good sex doesn't generate nearly enough emotional bonding, not compared to service. If a chick is willing to buy me a $5,000 watch her body is mine irregardless. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Does being short and proportionally strong give women the same sense of protection and masculinity as being tall?I look thick and muscular, but not jacked. I look like i have a good portion of muscle under me but you can't tell.how it's distributed. The few women out of hundreds that ask about my height in person i just make some joke about how they love shorter guys or my friend made my profile for me. If you make it a big deal it is a big deal. No matter your height, women live to enter your frame as a man. If nothing is serious, then it's not serious. My secret? Not really one. I'm just talented at sett… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Does being short and proportionally strong give women the same sense of protection and masculinity as being tall?I lie on my Hinge profile and say im 6 ft when im only 5'7. Bitches never bring it up when we go out. Literally. Never. I just say it to open the door to them getting good dick. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 9 | If every other guy is giving a girl attention and you don't does that make you look more valuable?Ignoring or distancing only primarily works when the girl already sees you as some kind of valuable. It's context driven. If a thousand dudes hit her up and they're all thirsty, and you come up all cool and in your sexy masculine frame, then ignore, it'll heighten in her mind how valuable you were compared to them because she on some level knows what she's missing out on. Wolves have to eat, you just don't want to look like you NEED her. This is one of the many foundations to pickup, freedom of … | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 10:50 PM |
| 30 | Girl thinks she's getting to invested and wants to leave, did I reply correctly?Dude. You did everything right. She's just in the female version of a scarcity mindset. You're a unique high value guy who she's scared to lose. The last thing high value dudes do is chase. Had you begged her to stay she would've pulled back and left you high and dry. You're in a dominant position right now, which lets her relax into her feminine energy, which is chasing, and emotional, and full of scarcity. Don't change a thing. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Date with hood girl? Went terribly wrong, how to move on?Sounds like from the very beginning your frame was weak and fragile and she kept on punishing and testing you until she was confident in her decision to write you off as an unsuitable sexual partner. I've met plenty of girls that I'd consider bitchy, or crazy, but because I held frame long enough, they calmed down and acted normal and vulnerable because they could feel secure in me. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | What do you say to a girl when she’ll let you do everything except sexDenying sex early on shows the opposite because of how you frame it. Like it's a big deal to every girl because they just want you for dick. The essence of buyer seller is to flip everything a girl normally says that assumes she's the prize, flip it and make you the assumed prize. It's only a big deal if you're the one who needs it and is chasing, not the one denying. Girls always love to pull the "can we wait" card. Whether they fuck or not. It assumes that you're the one chasing and that she n… | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you say to a girl when she’ll let you do everything except sexThe point of pulling back first is to create sexual tension. When you keep someone from being fully satisfied they get antsy and go crazy. The feeling of almost being at the finish line, but someone moving the tape 20 feet further away. That's what sexual tension is. Pleasure. Giving. Pulling it back right as they've almost had their fill, or enough. By pulling back first, you open the door for them to want to genuinely go way further than initially desired. The point isn't if she agrees. Most t… | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | What do you say to a girl when she’ll let you do everything except sexMy friend, you mistake manipulation as evil or wrong. If you want to fuck a girl right, don't you stroke it a certain way to get a result? Or when you're charming. Humans are not, nor will they ever be 100% of outcome. The real question is, "Does the way I influence this person benefit them just as much as me?" Get it? | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 10:24 PM |
| 2 | What do you say to a girl when she’ll let you do everything except sexFew things here. When closing a girl, you want her more turned on than you are. You want her more hot and bothered than you. This helps because one, they'll be less likely to brake last minute since it was there idea, and two, because women love a dominant, superior man, it makes you look high value. I have many methods of achieving this buyer-seller dynamic. But some basic, less advanced but equally effective ways of getting this across, getting her to chase are: Always be the one to pull back … | /r/seduction | 29/06/20 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Lost quite a bit of attraction to oneitis after receiving basic affectionYour attitude is trash the way write. You don't deserve a legitimate answer. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP doesn't advocate or loudly promote use of gun?Someone watches active self protection. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Comfort RoutineYou don't need routines to build comfort. To explain, attraction and comfort happen simultaneously. She should be getting more hot for you over time while getting more comfortable. Comfort is an element of time spent with a person, being congruent with your thoughts, words, and actions, social calibration, and being non judgemental in the interaction. How much "comfort" do women really need to fuck you within an hour and a half or less after meeting? Not much. They only need comfort so much as t… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Are you guys not afraid of being falsely accuse of sexual assault?No. Because you can't control who does what. You're afraid of being accused. Women are afraid of being raped, beaten, killed, impregnated by a beta male. You know how they avoid that? Same way you do. A vetting process. You probe her for past stories of being asssulted. You tightly gauge her interest level. Only mess with women who give in to you easy and submit. Have mostly stable backgrounds. Have some kind of guiding principle or value system. Take screenshots of the first text they send afte… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 11:43 PM |
| 11 | I only fuck on the 4th dateThis is the importance of disqualifying sex. It's how I get a lot of girls over my house. I'll throw out lines like, "Hey, if we go back to my house is it cool if we don't have sex?" Or something like, "I was thinking of making us some smoothies on my side of town. Don't worry we won't have sex. I'm trying to be seen as more than a sexual object as of late. Nothing personal." Etc. Etc. These lines imply that you are the one to be chased, to be sought after, and most important, it takes the press… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Dad bods vs Good fit bodyLTRs are comfort based propositions. Security is the name of the game. Although unattractive for sexual purposes, comfort and security. You having a dad bod gives her security. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for meDon't answer directly. Be mysterious. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for meI was giving an alternative. I don't ask if she has a man. | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for meLooking for a woman to agree with you on a game subreddit. But I will say, most lines sound cringy when written. You gotta hit them with the right energy. | /r/seduction | 20/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 13 | A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for meGame is stressful if your inner game isn't tight. It's a lot of guesswork if you're not socially calibrated and don't know how to test for compliance. You game maybe girls and yes girls differently. Yes girls who are already attracted to you, based on your initial presentation of game, your main focus should be not fucking it up. Maybe girls, your focus is more tactical and technique driven. Not fucking it up is an artform just like increasing value. Using the boyfriend line is a good way to fuc… | /r/seduction | 20/06/20 09:20 PM |
| 45 | A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for meI'm sorry but this is terrible game. When you first start learning game and pickup one of the first things you learn is that girls get asked, "So do you have a boyfriend?", all the time by average frustrated chump types. They know, they are socialized to think that when a guy asks that question, it means that he wants to fuck or have a relationship. But wait, there's more. Women already know at the very least you're approaching her because you want sex. They all know this. They aren't stupid. An… | /r/seduction | 20/06/20 08:38 PM |
| 6 | I thought we both were inexperienced virgins..Has it ever occured to you that your desire for a virgin is simply your desire to not feel like men are better than you? You're chasing a temporary and fleeting dominance high. You fuck her once and then what? All you've done is open up and initiate her sexual energy for different men. Every girl I fucked was once a virgin. And the more experienced, the more thankful I was I didn't waste time trying to train a girl who had false beliefs about the nature of sexuality, how to fuck, free her mind, … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you get into a ltr with no sex?If my woman isn't experienced sexually I probably don't want her long term. The time it takes to get them emotionally and mentally open, to train them how to fuck and be great at it, it's so time consuming. The best sex I've had is with women who have body counts of 25+. They know their body, what they like, how to give and receive with pride, no weird excuses. I wouldn't mind a virgin, but I VALUE MY TIME AND EXPERIENCES MORE. Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 07:26 PM |
| 4 | I only want to fuck girls who treat me like shitYou can fuck these girls, but recognize what that's training your subconscious to do. It's training it to view a girl not submitting, not complying, as the standard. It's training you to come from a position of weakness, not being worthy, not a position of power. It's training you to seek out more validation. You don't believe you're naturally worthy, so you accepting shit treatment is a way of overcompensating. A temporary high of feeling superior, all the while you sit there and play yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you preselect freaky, sluty, kinky women to save dates opportunities?Best way to train a woman is to let her fuck a bunch of other men and then let her bring you the talents other men taught her. Value your time investment above all. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Bounced date to two locations, k-close then ghosted me?You can get a girl to your house in an hour and a half or less. You don't need to do all that old school pulling to different locations. Kissing isn't a bad thing. That didn't ruin. It tends to ruin it if you're alone about to have sex, then you never do. When she leaves all she'll think about is the possible negative sides to fucking you whether she was turned on or not. Anyway, don't do bars with chicks. I take them for coffee and ice cream all the time and get them to my house just the same. … | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 11:58 PM |
| 18 | What do you guys do to fill in the time between rounds during sex?What do you mean. You enjoy her presence, her energy, her conversation. You let it refill you, recharge you, validate you because she's a reflection of your value. When you feel INSPIRED, not pressured or validation seekinf, but INSPIRED to be in her guts again, you go for it. Go with what feels good. Stay in the present moment. If you wsnt to sleep. Sleep. Eat. Then eat. Pley boardgames, then do that. Draw pictures on her body, do it.. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Plate didn’t want to give me blowjob, but still sex?Having a girl fuck you while she doesn't want to is even worse than being rejected. Because now she's forcing you to not only know, but feel and experience how sexually unworthy of her you really are. All that negative energy from her flooding into you killing your vibe and life energy. God forbid you cum in her mouth or her box. That's basically an insult to your evolutionary programming. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you always physically escalate (touch) unless you receive clear signs that they're not comfortable with it?It doesn't matter what the girl thinks. They always assume things just happen, but we men know that effort had to be made that isn't in their best interest to know. If a girl is resisting flirtation I dial it back, establish more rapport, commonalities, do more push pull. If she's resisting you don't keep hammering on. You need to reset the emotional waves she felt for you, then qualify and try from different angles. | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Plate didn’t want to give me blowjob, but still sex?I understand. I used to push through LMR type things. I still do if the girl is close to my sexual imprint. But being told no, even temporarily turns me off and makes me wanna dip and ghost her. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 06:59 PM |
| 20 | Plate didn’t want to give me blowjob, but still sex?Pretty fucking much. Head for women is a clear sign of their submission and respect for you. If they're not doing that when you tell them to, not ask, but tell them to, or they only give head in exchange for something, even sexual favors, you got issues player. That means you need to reset the dynamic. And ususlly that means becoming more cold, more masculine, more abundant, more flirtatious with other women so she covertly knows. A woman telling you no to anything sexual that's reasonable is a … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Plate Denied Sex and shit tested me, did I dread/handle it correctly?You save dread for more long term situations, girls you actually care about. Girls to where the dynamic of the relationship is falling apart. A girl telling you no once isn't the dynamic falling apart. That shit just happens. Now it's what accompanies that, that matters. I've noticed whenever girls tell me no, I start to get less overall respect from them. They start making more demands. They tell me no more in general. That's them getting more masculine, testing me subconsciously, or just losin… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Do you always physically escalate (touch) unless you receive clear signs that they're not comfortable with it?You don't have to do all that complicated stuff. It works. But there's a simpler way. There's no problem talking about sex. However, I never specifically mention the specific scenario of us two having sex. I'll ask her about the craziest places she's done it. Favorite positions. What kinda lingerie she's into. Talk about us doing light sexual things in a vague way, push pull. "Your lips are almost cute enough to kiss, but I'm not sure I can trust you not to stalk me after." Stuff like that. I do… | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Plate Denied Sex and shit tested me, did I dread/handle it correctly?You typed way too much for such a basic scenario. If a bitch specifically brings up not feeling fresh, they usually mean it most of the time. Bitches get really finicky when it comes to that sort of stuff. My question is . . Why are you so comfortable with the idea of fucking a bitch who can't give you her sexual best? If she not 100% clean, I'm out. You didn't need to do any sort of dread. Especially for a plate. You should've straight up dominated her and told her to suck your dick real quick.… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Do you always physically escalate (touch) unless you receive clear signs that they're not comfortable with it?The first date should always end in at least a kiss. Ideally, they should be lead to sex. Most women will make out with, and fuck you, if they're attracted to you. It's not hard. Though, I find it harder to get them back to the house for sex if we makeout first. Then they subconsciously feel like sex has to happen. So on the date, outside, I'll do everything but. Kiss the back of her hand, her forehead, hold hands. All the while planting ideas of us possibly fucking or being together without giv… | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 06:41 AM |
| 1 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?If she says, I have ways of figuring out why she said no, and turn her on. And give her good dick. It doesn't stop when she says no. It stops once you run out of smooth subtle, fun ways to get her to genuinely give you the yes in her head or body language. If its a true no, I'll go fuck someone else. Or I'll do more research and see if it's a me issue that's turning her off. If things don't change, I'll just leave her. I'm not gonna let some girl make me feel unworthy as a man by telling me no r… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?Genuine happiness is not effortless. Relationships, dynamics, they take work. It's just that most people are unaware of them, so things just "happen". Sex just "stops". People just "grow apart". Interests didn't "line up". These are all words for, "I didn't know the driving factors behind what keeps women interested, the unknowing destructive behaviors that turn them off and away, and how to fix it. This is the basis of game. Why is this going wrong? How do I fix it? How do I and other men repli… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Field Report: How to Pull to Your House During COVID-19, Open to Close from OnlineHonestly, after further research, I've found that it is still far easier to get them straight to the house through text, than getting them to schedule a phone call. They all claim that they're socially awkward or can never find the time. Crazy how woman can be in the game. And even on the phone, something can come up and they're magically busy even though the conversation was fire. But when I just do the soft invite through a compliance ladder, things go easier. I think you should now, reserve t… | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 07:00 AM |
| 4 | Are most girls okay with guys not using protection?Most girls will never ask you to use a condom. Even if they do, which is rare, they'll go back on it once turned on enough. | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman have sex appeal from your perspective?Before I stop responding to this thread, because I do like to challenge and refresh my beliefs, how did Christianity and Islam understand sexual psychology? All I've ever seen it lead to was demonization of natural desires, sexual repression, self hate, etc. They had zero understanding of why people wanted what they do. They were successful because they ruled over people's sexual energy. When you shame someone, you shame their identity. When you shame identity, the core of you, it's the same as … | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman have sex appeal from your perspective?I love sex that's filled with love, deep connections, all that other stuff. But I'm also an honest man with a bottom line. To each individual person there is such a thing as good sex. And if she isn't fucking me right. If I'm not feeling what I need to from her, she's wasting my time. Women know this too. They can have the perfect guy, but if they can't get the pleasure they want, symbolized through dominance, groundedness, control, etc. then they won't stick around. Love and all that are just d… | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 09:37 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman have sex appeal from your perspective?Not contradicting. More like balanced. I can promise you. Men who are sexually experienced loathe inexperienced women. It's a fucking pain in the ass. We all have masculine and feminine. Training women who know nothing. All the guys i know who are good at game, it's a headache. And they never do it as well as someone who has training. I'd rather have a hoe who can fuck her soul away than a virgin anyday. Been there. Done that. | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What makes a woman have sex appeal from your perspective?How is sexual confidence masculine? Men don't want to fuck a chick who makes things difficult in bed and doesn't know her body. How is laser eye contact masculine? You know that goes both ways right? You ever had a woman who was seriously into you stare into your soul? It's a beautiful thing. Since women pride themselves on beauty, soft, glowing skin is a key indicator of reproductive health. Masculine how? | /r/seduction | 16/05/20 08:10 AM |
| 1 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?Assuming she doesn't catch on, the sex gets way better, she gets more attached, respects you more, and she no longer wants to leave. If people catch on to the manipulation, then they can no longer feel.genuine happiness. It's a win win. You're so mad at the method that you haven't stopped to question if it works and how does it leave her. Happy. No better sex than her trying to suck your soul away over jealousy. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?Actually, yes | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 12:33 AM |
| -4 | What makes a woman have sex appeal from your perspective?A shit ton of sexual confidence. It has to ooze from her soul, her aura. Loose. Hot. Sticky. Sweet. Sensual. A lack of insecurity Having a fun, goofy, vibrant vibe Appearing vulnerable and helpless Soft, glowing skin A nice dress and heels Strong, laser eye contact A feminine, nurturing, recharging touch. A submissive, yielding nature | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?Truthfully, it doesn't matter why she's saying no. If you stop getting met, you punish them until they comply and if they don't you get it. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 11:35 PM |
| 0 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?It's not about the disagreement. It's about trolling and overrunning a conversation that's beneficial to others, especially without adding value. I don't want to see this sub ruined by stupid people. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?It's not about the sex. It's about the dynamic. When a woman starts saying no to your, her respectful level and sexual arousal simultaneously diminishes. Women psychologically want to serve a man. If she's saying no, no matter the reason, subconsciously she gets turned off. And because sex to a woman is related to her view of that man's character, his brand of masculinity, she'll start finding faults with that too. It's all connected. The people on this sub know this and have experienced it. Tha… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?You don't understand the dynamics of what happens when a chick starts refusing sex too much. It goes down hill from there man. I, as well as many men, have seen it too many times. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 02:47 AM |
| 27 | When LTR Turns Down Sex How to Respond?Rule number one. Never, ever, ever, fucking. ever. let her know that her turning you down for sex annoyed you. That'll create an impossible dynamic where she always feels pressured to have sex with a beta male. No matter how much she asks, pokes, prods, lie your ass off. This is one of the only things you should ever lie to a chick about. Once they know that no sex angers you, shit turns south. Next, you chill. And you try again later. But if she says no again, which she will again because now y… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 06:12 AM |
| 5 | What are some great ways to lie about being a virgin until I get that handled?Girls never ask me if I'm a virgin. One. Because I'm far from that. But two, my confident, mischievous nature gives it away. I can lie and tell them I'm a virgin and they'd never believe me. They never do. Your energy, your aura has to be right and they'll never ask. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Your sexual past is none of her business. Her sexual past is none of yours.Just remember. If you slut shame a check you better fuck her soul out her body first. Lest she shut down that nasty, glorious part of herself that you want to actually enjoy. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/20 04:09 AM |
| 14 | Tinder girls invites me over to her place at 10:30 for drinks and hanging out, acts all weird when I get there and doesn't let me lay on any movesNo talk of flirting. No talk of creating sexual tension. No talk of teasing. No talk of smooth escalation. No talk of buyer-seller dynamics. No talk of making her chase. No talk of push-pull. No talk of creating deep emotional connections or getting her in an emotionally vulnerable state. Her being a pothead has nothing to do with her not putting out. You just failed to run good game. You can get her alone. But now you have to work on all the other stuff. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 11:16 PM |
| 7 | The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you.This the equivalent of saying, get on your purpose and women will come to you. This is not so. You still have to know how to run game, how to seduce, how to get her back to your place, how to get to sex, how to converse. This sounds like a crutch. The way you become less emotionally invested in women is to value your time and set up standards, rules, and boundaries. You have important things to do might get them interested, if you manage to become emotionally relevant to them, but you still have… | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 07:12 PM |
| 7 | Had my first date in 3 months. Accidentally blew my load in a minute - Can this be salvaged?The one and only true way to overcome what you perceive as premature ejaculation, which doesn't exist because in the eyes of nature, cumming inside of something is always the right time, is to take 100% of the validation out of sex. You can't care at all what she might think. You can't care about her pleasure. You can't care about whether you're going to see her again. You can't care what she's gonna tell other people. The secret to 100% control over your dick is to have sex simply for the sake … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Why would a girl block you after almost fuckingIt's done bro. Been there. Done that. There's always another girl. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Why would a girl block you after almost fuckingBuyer's Remorse. It's a weird concept in game where basically, getting close to sex but never actually doing it, triggers more of anti slut defense, regrets, over thinking, because it's all based on the fear of the unknown. Whereas if she'd already fucked you, she'd rationalize the experience a lot more even if it was against her self interest. "Well the dick was good. Well I had fun. Well what's done is done." Almost there, triggers a bunch of rational and irrational fears. You never want a chi… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Is it ok to ask girls on tips to get other girls?No they don't. The question is not if it's okay. It's, is it a good idea. No it's not. It's against a woman's biological self interest to teach men game. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 04:30 AM |
| 13 | Girl I’m seeing got really drunk with her roommates and one of them expressed his feelings for her.You sound ridiculous. You don't own her. He has the right as a human, a man, to make moves. And your girl has the right to say fuck off. Also, it's not disrespect to try to fuck a drunk chick. If she's blacking out and can't handle herself, fine. That's disrespect to her then, not you. But had she fucked him, the accountability falls 100% on her. Last, if she's telling you about him it likely means she's tempted. Women complain when they're emotionally stimulated. Anger, joy, it's all the same i… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 03:10 AM |
| 0 | What’s the point of video chat dating?You don't. During this quarantine, I use it as a way to get them over my house easier. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How Assholes Get Women And You Eventually Lose Your Women By Trying To Be An AssholeThere's a lot to be said and added to the greater context of asshole game. What I would like to say, is that a large part of the reason dudes lose chicks trying to run asshole game is because it's too random. It doesn't take long for a chick to get used to a dynamic. Maybe one or two times. So if you've been seeing a girl for two dates and haven't smashed, and date three you switch it up, it could turn her off. Simply for the fact that while the nature of the change is attractive, it is also an … | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 02:07 AM |
| 6 | 6 Rules To Get The DateCan we please stop upvoting these non value adding posts that have zero effort? | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Are women meeting men from Swipe Apps during COVID19 lockdown?Oh no, chicks are definitely meeting up. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:14 PM |
| 1 | My LTR does everything sexually BUT swallow my load, she says she always found it demeaning. Any ideas?Clearly she's not fully submitted to you yet. If you're fucking a woman and she's super "submissive" in one area, but then dips out on the reasonable second part, then she's not as submissive as you think she is. In reality, she's probably just fucking you the way she fucks any other dude. She likes being in submissive positions, not actually being submissive. To submit means to surrender, to yield. She's not yielding. She's conveniently doing some shit with you she would've already been doing. … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 06:29 PM |
| 3 | How Are You Getting Dates During This Pandemic?See my guide on quarantine game | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 11:38 PM |
| 6 | Trying to spin a “Unicorn” but catching feelings?Whatever you did for the 5s and 6s you do for the 10s. Same shit. Only thing you might change is more abundance. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 06:08 AM |
| 12 | Trying to spin a “Unicorn” but catching feelings?You're catching feelings because she's your new sexual imprint. Meaning she's the alpha female (most submissive and attractive) you've ever gotten, and you've been accepted by her. These are the two qualifications, Submission/Feminine and Acceptance. For men. For women, it's the first three men they have sex with and/or the first father. Anyway, this is now your brains new standard for who to go after and keep. Consequently, because this is your first new sexual imprint, your brain is on fire an… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 05:15 AM |
| 9 | Make Him Wait: Quarantine EditionBest way to get any girl out quarantine or not, is to keep contact to an absolute bare minimum, and schedule the date for the same day or the next. Don't invest, don't accept counterproposals. Good stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/20 09:46 PM |
| 10 | I don’t want to hang or or be excessively cool with any girl I’m not fucking. AITA for this? What is this called that I’m experiencing?That's called valuing your time and knowing what you want. Otherwise known as "Standards and Boundaries". Another word for this is "Value Proposition". The value exchange doesn't make sense unless she's compliant to your needs. A woman's natural place is to be submissive and compliant, regardless of if her needs are being met yet. It's more important for a woman to play her role than a man in terms of survival since she is the dependent. Anyway . . No you're not a dick. You just want compliance … | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 04:12 AM |
| 1 | A conditional threesomeAbsolutely. The emotional investment you put into getting the sex, and the actual quality of the sex are often too different. This will leave you in fact, in a more needy state than you were before, because her pussy will never satisfy you. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 02:39 AM |
| 6 | A conditional threesomeYou never travel anywhere for the sake of the possibility of sex. That's how you get over invested and disappointed. A woman coming to you shows she knows what you want, likely isn't gonna waste your time, and has a general level of compliance, submission, and/or interest. You never want to leave your house for sex disappointed. Better they come to you, and if they start acting weird, you didn't have to leave or spend money. Only travel for first dates, established relationships, and set sex arr… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 06:14 PM |
| 0 | FWB can’t cum during sex, how should I proceedThis is a failure to vet in the first two interactions. When you first meet a woman the first and second time, but normally the first, that's probably the only chance you'll get to have her completely honest with you. This is because this is where you have no set frames and her view of you can still be conditioned. After that they'll only more and more tempted to lie for fear of losing you or their investment in you. Depending on how consistent your vibe is. First two meetings you need to see he… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Blue balls alert! Did I do anything wrong?The key to handling sexual objections, is to pressure flip and take on the role of the buyer. Meaning, beat her to it. You be the one saying, "We can't have sex tonight." Phrases of that nature. What this does is two things. It puts you in the dominant position of the one who can turn down sex, and two, when sexually escalating, because of the dynamic you've created, she'll view sex or escalation to sex as a gift, or a favor to her, since you were the first to bring it up. Other tactics I use su… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Car day dateLow effort dates are female terms. There is no such thing as a low effort date if you two don't have anything substantially invested in each other. The woman you're with should be in love with the experience of you, your vibe, your aura, your conversation, your mssculine essence, not the activity. I've fucked many chicks in cars on only car dates. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Discovered LTR was Hooking up when we were just DatingIf you're upset over this then clearly you don't know the game, or need to be with this girl. You don't own women. You can't control what they do. Know that the jealousy you're eluding to is purely biological. If she chose you she chose you. If she's compliant and submissive to you then she was compliant and submissive towards you. Get over yourself. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 07:30 PM |
| 18 | There‘s sonething I never understood about seductionLet me make it clear for you brother. What they are saying is you need to let her know you're sexually interested, that you're investigating her worthiness, without giving your power away. Everything you say and do comes with a "but" to it. "I feel like you'd be a good kisser, but I don't want you becoming addicted to me. That wouldn't be fair to you." Get it? You wouldn't bring up kissing her if you weren't thinking about it. She also knows that. But you put a barrier to entry for her. Her havi… | /r/seduction | 27/04/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | What do we think about first date Dog walks in the park?You only need an hour and a half or less to get a girl back to your place. Comfort generally doesn't require a bunch of dates unless she's new and naive to the game, or she's not feeling you like that. Comfort comes from consistent, congruent, attractive, grounded behavior that doesn't change. As far as time goes, the longer she spends around that congruent behavior, and hour and a half or so, it's more than enough. You just need to calibrate and escalate physically verbally. You can really spee… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Impotence with HB10 1999 (I am 2001)Bro, I would love to help you, as fixing dick issues is my area of expertise. But you gotta put in some paragraph breaks my man. You're hurting my eyes. | /r/seduction | 27/04/20 12:33 AM |
| -2 | What does it mean when a girl changes plans at the last minute? Asks if you want to go work out instead?Whenever a woman tries to comply more than you originally asked, like her countering your idea to go to her house, or a chick randomly saying they want to fuck, don't hop on it immediately. It'll make you look to easy. As a general rule you give them a little shit but let them know you're highly interested. So like this, I'd saying something like, "Yea we could definitely do lunch at yours tomorrow at (insert time you know she'll be free]. Just don't poison me. I'm too pretty to die." You get th… | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl changes plans at the last minute? Asks if you want to go work out instead?One of the iron rules of game. Never let a woman dictate the conversation of the date, or the date itself. When a woman tries to reschedule or change locations, indirectly it reveals her feelings towards you. In this case and most others, it means low interest and low compliance. Higher interest woman, woman who are more submissive in general will just go with your plan without pushback. The more you comply with their changes the more they get turned off. My problem here is you haven't made it c… | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Whenever i do have sex I always get extremely worried about getting the girl pregnant. Is there a way to stop that? I just always worry the condom wont be enoughIt's not bad. It doesn't hurt. But you shouldn't do it too much. It's draining. It's a last ditch. As the technique at least for me kills my erection. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Girl is into me, but how do I keep my distance and not communicate as much to "keep the spark" without her thinking I'm not interested?I was trying to help you. My guide will teach you step by step how to get girls out and back to your house during quarantine. But you got it man. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 03:53 AM |
| 8 | Whenever i do have sex I always get extremely worried about getting the girl pregnant. Is there a way to stop that? I just always worry the condom wont be enoughHave a preparedness plan: You can get Plan B's on Amazon for $11 a piece. I have five at any given time. Pull out even using a condom. Utilize the injaculation. There's a soft pot between your penis and your asshole, the gooch. If you flex you can feel when you clench. If you press it moderately when your about to cum, literally nothing will come out. It'll literally reset your orgasm. It's scary how well it works. Practice through jacking off first. Have off brand abortion methods like Dong Qua… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl is into me, but how do I keep my distance and not communicate as much to "keep the spark" without her thinking I'm not interested?Check my guide on quarantine. | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Why is mystery’s 3M, attract:comfort:seduce considered an outdated approach?To put it simply, it's not that it's outdated, it's more that our understanding of it has changed. Basically, you should be inspiring attraction, inspiring comfort, and seducing her all at the same time. Comfort is an element of time (a few hours or less) and trustworthy, congruent behavior. Attraction is an element of attractive, congruent behavior. Seduction is an element of getting more physical over time and inspiring her to let go of her outer walls so you can penetrate her inner walls. Her… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl is into me, but how do I keep my distance and not communicate as much to "keep the spark" without her thinking I'm not interested?Where do you live? | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | hot girl on insta followed me back...how do I ask for snap without being creepyDoes she live near you? | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 12:13 AM |
| 0 | Is this a shit test?No she isn't different. Every girl has good conversation if you give them something they actually care. Furthermore, the better the conversation is with them, the more you need to keep it short. You don't want to invest a whole lot of time, emotion, and energy talking to a woman you haven't met. They can leave anytime for any reason. I've had seven hour conversations that were deep and meaningful, passionate, sexy, and they ghost. Leave the highlights of the conversation for in person. Next. Do … | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | What the hell does this even mean??It means she's down for you to fuck her or whatever you want to do as long as you don't pressure her. | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | What the hell does this even mean??Troll | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | A girl told me: “Honestly if you want a happy life just obey us lol“Stop being lazy and think for yourself. What the fuck do you want us to tell you? What do YOU think? How do YOU want to make yourself happy? If you reply I won't answer. Stop being lazy dude. Seriously. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 09:46 PM |
| 30 | LTR says I treat her like she's replaceable. How to handle this comfort test?I tell all my girls the same thing. The same thing you want to say. Its the truth. Your truth as a man is far more important than her feelings. Women need truth from a man to function. But, if you really want to add the comfort, use something like what I say, a slight variation on what I usually say and what you want to say, "Everyone is replaceable, the experiences you have and share with them are not." Works for me if they keep pressing issues. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Field Report: How to Pull to Your House During COVID-19, Open to Close from OnlineThe decision for two consenting adults to get together under optimum living conditions is theirs alone. Also, it's not great lengths. This is standard pickup artistry catered to the pandemic. You could drag and drop my tips to any other situation and get the same result.. | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 07:33 PM |
| 23 | 5 Powerful Texting Tips to Keep Things Warm With Your Girls or Get Girls During QuarantineMy issue isn't that these tips can't work. They can. My issue is that it's over investing in women you can't readily see. While you're hitting her up playing the game she's got ten other men doing the same thing. It's my firm belief that you could get her number, drop off, come back a few weeks later, get her on the phone and get her over your place after a ten minute conversation. You as well as I know that texting women for prolonged periods of time (texting in general, not over texting in vol… | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce a girl who is much higher in position but of same age as me?Don't shit where you eat dude. Just don't. If it's something like a low level fast food gig sure. But you. No. You know why they say don't shit where you eat. That's cross contamination. All those nasty particles mixing in with your food. Your food smells like waste. Everyone around you gets sick. You get sick. There is no upside to this unless you truly don't need this job, references, etc. | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | Field Report: How to Pull to Your House During COVID-19, Open to Close from OnlineI understand why you'd be upset. But again, there is no trick. The women who want to come out, will come out. Those who don't. Don't. Everyone must acknowledge the risks, just like sex, just like driving, like starting a business. | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Staying calm for a hook upRead my first post on reddit. Not comment. Post. That will answer all your questions. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Field Report: How to Pull to Your House During COVID-19, Open to Close from OnlineWithout going on a tangent, I'll use certain dynamics, buyer seller, as well as some others that I can't name for the sake of brevity. I do lots of qualifying. Lots of teasing. Lots of getting her to be vulnerable and open up through mutual story telling. Communitcating key traits like a non judgemental attitude. Seeding the pull. Certain physical escalation techniques depending on the attitude of the girl. Handling objections before they come up. Vetting her sexual history and sexual imprint . … | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Water fasting - your experiencesYou have a shit ton of energy and mental clarity since your body isn't wasting resources. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Water fasting - your experiencesI did a couple of 3 day water fast. The two most important rules. Ease your way into it like you're penetrating a virgin. Eat less and less food, preferably carbs and sugar for at least a week. Gradually turn it into a more holistic diet. Do not work out or do a bunch of activities that requires tons of energy. The shock of having no food can drive you crazy. You don't want to make it worse. You won't die but you will feel weakened Yes it works. While you'll be weakened, your immune system will … | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 06:56 AM |
| 6 | Field Report: How to Pull to Your House During COVID-19, Open to Close from OnlineI live in the US. You can do whatever you want but if you gather in groups of 10 or more they will crack down on you. Also . . . See the disclaimer. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 05:00 AM |
| 7 | How does it make a girl feel knowing so many guys want to f#uk her?You don't need to stand out. You just need better game than whatever guys are in her face for the next week. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Podcast Recomendations for Pickup?Jin and juice show | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Hi guys I joined twoxchromosomes to get a woman's perspective..Everyone pretty much answered your questions. However, there is one final answer. That is, we are self aware, and it is being self aware, being able to identify with our thoughts and feelings, that cause our issues. Animals are purely driven by instinct. There is no skill. There is no strategy that they are aware of. They just do things and hope they get lucky. Even then, they can't hope. Animals brains are like little limited algorithms. There's the initial program running in the background. Th… | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 11:54 PM |
| 10 | Field Report: How to Pull to Your House During COVID-19, Open to Close from OnlineYou don't need lines. You need a formula. Trying to be too unique like I said, blows up in your face. I send every girl one of two messages and change small details. Most of them respond the same way. What's more important is driving the conversation forward. You're going to have to spend some time figuring it out. | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Is there any special way of eye contact?Yes. I know. That's where I got it from. That's how I trained. | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 04:25 AM |
| 54 | Is there any special way of eye contact?In everything in game, besides holding frame, even in which in rare times it must be broken for comfort reasons, you must utilize it as push pull. Eye contact is to create tension, to project energy, mindset, focus. In pick up we use what we call laser eye contact. Forehead relaxed Eyes low like someone shined a light in it, or you just woke up Barely able to tell that your eyes are open, but enough to know you definitely are alive Focused on a singular point. A point within that point. Like sta… | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | (Serious Question). Y’all think it’s too submissive to have a girl sit on your face?Her pleasure comes from you. You are in control of how she gets off in that moment. Instant reframe. Oh, and do whatever the fuck you want to. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 11:34 PM |
| 10 | I refuse to fuck anymore girls that I don't consider attractive, but I'm having way less sex now. Is this the wrong approach?The price of standards is less ease of access. Then you do the self improvement to be able to exceed what you wanted originally. Then keep doing that. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Why you must tell the girl you like that you like herThis is bad game. Sure, you're telling her the truth, but what do you expect her to do with that information? "I like you and you're pretty." And? What do you want her to do? You still have to lead and make things happen. You still need to socially calibrate and present accordingly. You still have to seduce and qualify. Why tell a girl you like her when you haven't even vetted her as the type of girl you would want to fuck? Which I don't decide for at least 30 minutes. Because I view myself as t… | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Is just texting "hey" really a bad thing ?Hey, is putting the ball in someone else's court. You texted them for a reason. Let them know. Stop trying to keep your power and mystery and be straight forward. If someone texts me hey. I immediately ask them in some form what they want. Why? You're not gonna catch me getting baited into chasing someone and why they're here. Girls love sending hey or hi, and watching guys scramble to text thousand mile paragraphs. Then lose interest once they see the investment. In the context of you starting … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 04:48 PM |
| -1 | Facetime? Are you kidding me?I'm working on a master level field report on how to get girls out during covid 19. It'll clear up all this mess. | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 04:42 PM |
| 3 | What has this sub turned into during this pandemicHow is that not a texting problem? The dynamic of texting alone means that people can pick and choose when to talk to you, become easily distracted and forget, easily misinterpret, there's no conversational flow. You can't feel someone energetically over text. You eliminate most of that through facetime or just meeting up. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 07:58 PM |
| 3 | What has this sub turned into during this pandemicIf you knew why we said texting is just for logistics, you wouldn't be saying that. Any new girl you meet, too much can be misinterpreted over text, leaving you ghosted or blocked. You text her too much, you lose the mystery and tension, giving too much comfort. Nothing to wonder about from you. You emotionally invest too much. Things go south, you're left frustrated you didn't get what you want. You can't build attraction over text. You can in rare instances where you have both a magical mouthp… | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 07:49 PM |
| 3 | This movie will get you LAIDOnce again, this sub is going to hell | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 01:58 PM |
| -1 | I believe facetime is an amazing alternative in these times of social distancing. Utilize it.The WHO and CDC have been fudging numbers to make it look worse than it is. I've seen evidence and this isn't the sub for that. I don't trust any authority figure, especially in times of crisis. It's their job to convince me not the other way around. You keep saying I don't know I can be asymptomatic and spread. I've acknowledged this 50 times brother. I'm saying we all have shared risk. You talk about forcing my will as if I know I'm HIV positive and choose to fuck someone raw without telling t… | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 04:46 PM |
| -1 | I believe facetime is an amazing alternative in these times of social distancing. Utilize it.Their health is not my responsibility, just like my health is not theirs. Whether I catch it, survive it, or die, is of no consequence to them. Because those are just the risk you take in life. I'm a freedom lover. As long as someone does not force their will upon me or vice versa, they should be able to do whatever they want. I do wear a mask and gloves when I'm casually traveling. It's more important to wear a mask than it is to wear gloves. I don't want to die or hurt other, but I won't succu… | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 04:02 PM |
| 0 | I believe facetime is an amazing alternative in these times of social distancing. Utilize it.No. I do get it. It doesn't matter if you're asymptomatic. If you leave your house, you risk catching the disease. You either accept that or you don't. It's not about being selfish. Because if that girl or guy leaves their house to visit someone, they acknowledge there's a small chance they could catch it. And the person being visited knows this too. That's why I compare it to sex. The only way to 100% avoid it is not go out. Order food online. Have friends do it for you. Don't touch your face. … | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I believe facetime is an amazing alternative in these times of social distancing. Utilize it.The reason why I think it's the same, is because no one can force you to leave the house. Just like how the onlu way to avoid stds and pregnancy 100% is to not have sex, if you want to 100% avoid covid19, stay in the house. You leaving the house is your risk and yours alone. You acknowledge the risk when you go outside and get near people. The only person who can really get you sick is yourself. | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 03:46 PM |
| -5 | I believe facetime is an amazing alternative in these times of social distancing. Utilize it.First of all, this isn't a field report. It's more a technical advice. Second, you can still go on dates. If you're willing to risk HIV, Chlamydia, murder, robbery, on a regular date or casual sex, you can risk it on a virus you don't know if someone else has. There's no difference in my eyes. Third, I will agree. Facetiming can be a good thing. However, if you don't have a smooth mouthpiece, you're hurting yourself. Furthermore, investing hours talking to a woman you haven't met is dangerous. B… | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Sexual Being vs Sexual ObjectThen i would advice you to go on YouTube and look up female dating coaches. I don't agree with them, but they can teach you how to get what you want from men. Asha C is pretty good. | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 01:27 AM |
| 6 | Sexual Being vs Sexual ObjectIf a guy wants to fuck you and that's it, he won't invest in real tangible time or resources besides sex, and the occasional message to see if you're still alive and interested in having sex. He will invest the bare minimum to keep in contact with you. Only enough to smash. Then leave. Next, guys know you're a sexual being. But the way you project that is through loose, seductive tonality. Having a carefree nonjudgenental attitude in conversation. Having flowing, genuine words. Piercing, laser l… | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Best response to "you really want my number don't you!? Lol"One, she's already being highly noncompliant. She's probably wasting your time. Even if you did pass the test, it's only an indicator of the kind of girl you're dealing with. Two that's not a pressure flip. That's you getting frustrated. A pressure flip sounds like, "You're the one who keeps bringing it up. Fine I'll take it." Three, it sounds like you're trying to have a whole conversation. No. Don't. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Sexual Being vs Sexual ObjectWhat are you asking? Whether someones wants to actually fuck you and that's it? Or just how they respond to your energy in general when your giving off sexual energy? | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Girl who said she’s interesting in me just unfollowed and blocked me on InstagramI see a lot of rookie mistakes in here regarding game and pickup, but they can be fixed. You got her IG instead of her number. IG can be really good of your page is super crazy but most times, it makes it too easy for them to ignore you. You were lucky here. Next time, number. Women purposely point you to their social media to create distance and have as little strings attached to you as possible. You lacked standards and boundaries regarding setting a date. Truth is, women are not as ditsy and … | /r/seduction | 09/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 3 | I live in RI, met a girl from MA on tinder who wants to bang. We've video-chatted and she appears completely healthy. Is it too risky because of Corona? I've been dying to fuck, especially with all this down time...With sex you risk HIV, HPV, Herpes, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphillis, Trichomoniasis, etc. With random strangers you risk getting robbed, murdeded, etc. All of thesw things can in some way be life threatening. And even with these factors people have one night stands, without getting tested, everyday, like most people. They meet strangers, every day from the internet, or in person and go out. The point. Know the risks. Accept responsibility for what happens to you. Make sure that person knows the … | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Tips for date on FaceTime?Everyone who goes outside takes responsibility for their own health. If you don't want to get sick, stay inside 95% of the time. If you're not scared and still want to live your life, find people who are on the same page as you, with safe enough living situations and meet up. | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Masculine v. Effeminate menGod this sub has gone to hell. | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How to initiate sex with a virgin?If you're saying to calibrate sexually, okay. However, virgins don't deserve anything particularly special. Almost all women who are virgins bring in their preconceived notions about how sex works, how to do it, when, what other people think of them. They think it's some kind of special event like driving a car for the first time. Which it isn't. Because everyone drives a car. As a man you need to tell her what she wants. I've stopped buying into their requests because at the end of the day I'm … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 04:25 PM |
| -2 | Tips for date on FaceTime?Stop doing facetime dates. You can still meet in person. Just take responsibility and be cautious. It doesn't help that you haven't told us how you met this girl or what your relationship is to her. | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Comfort vs. Attraction: Avoid Time Wasters, Escalate, and Get Laid Now? | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How're y'all doing first dates right now?Car dates, parks, your place. | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Am I the only one that can't love these hoes?It sounds like you're humble bragging in the most negative way possible. Are you even asking a serious question. Look, the fact that you think you have to lie to a woman shows how little you value what you bring to the table, what you represent, your own truth. Lieing is a form of self hatred. Telling the universe and women that you are unworthy. You know why they're asking you these things? Because you're giving off the impression that you could be more than dick. Maybe it's your conversation. … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 08:59 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with a girl flaking on you(Flaking 101)I'm slightly torn on this advice. So, first off 95% of your points were legit. However, we need to start coming down harder on women, and by doing that display more value. Meaning, flaking is in its purest form, disrespect. Women often know days ahead of time they were gonna flake. They know during that day they had zero intention of seeing you. Most women are never going to be honest about flaking. Again, flaking is disrespectful. Why? Because it's almost if not always based on a lie or being i… | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 05:45 AM |
| 5 | How to answer the “what are you looking for” question?I actually get consistent results with my answer. But first, you need to understand what she's really saying. She's saying she's scared of being used and hurt. She's also trying to screen out thirsty men. She's horny. And, she wants not a guarantee, but to know that there is potential for things to become more than just sex. She's also looking for you to tell her how to view you. And this is the tricky part. I'll tell them something similar to, "Someone to bond with energetically and build genui… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 03:29 AM |
| 47 | Three Months of Building AttractionI would like to first congratulate you on getting what you wanted out of the game. But I saw a few misconceptions: This was pretty solid. Phones really should only be used to set up dates every so often. I feel there was a lot of time wasted here. You don't have to use 12 weeks to guage sexual interest. She was gonna fuck you regardless. Instead of running a bunch of small touch tests over time. You could just do it so that you're calibrating using her body language. If she wasn't down her body … | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 10:46 AM |
| 2 | She attempted suicide and now im stuck....Hard break in contact. Hard. Violent. Next. Do not admit fault for anything. Do not express guilt or remorse. Do not respond to any texts or phone calls. Do not visit. You don't want any potential lawsuits at your door or police knocking at your door. Nor do you want someone that damaged attached to you. You'll be their one true source of validation and become crazy. They'll never leave you alone. Nor do you want her family trying to beat your ass if you visit. Super next. With conviction and ex… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Should I next this girl? Approached me, she's "Damaged", 3rd date still nothing, knows about "trp"Everyone pretty much covered all the talking points, but a few extra: Stop letting women who aren't gonna comply with your desires spend the night. Yes that means 4 a.m. Stop rewarding bad behavior. You knew she was on games, but you stuck around. You didn't read in between the lines in terms of how she manipulated you into staying while avoiding sex. Artificial Barriers. Her telling you she was hurt and damaged was in fact, her way of keeping you from sex. As long as she can claim she's hurt an… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 03:28 PM |
| 3 | If you get mad when other guys look at or hit on your girl are you being weak or is it the right thing to do?The only real reason you're even thinking about this is because some part of you, on the primal side, still believes that you can own a woman, and that they can be earned through hard work. That's why when you see other men you get threatened. You and most men aren't actually concerned for her safety. You're concerned he'll make you look bad, be more charming than you, take her from you and she'll just say, "Well, should've tried harder." It's the ego talking. Most of your thoughts come down to … | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | During quarantine, exchange emails instead of messaging through WhatsApp/Facebook/other messaging appNo it's about relationship dynamics and maintaining peace of mind. But i don't have the patience the explain the thought process of a guy in the game or how one comes to that conclusion. | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 02:51 PM |
| 3 | During quarantine, exchange emails instead of messaging through WhatsApp/Facebook/other messaging appIt doesn't matter if a woman is different. You need to treat every woman as the same until they prove that they're different. It doesn't mean that he won't get lucky and have this girl stick around. But what it does mean is that he's building up bad habits. Because if she did decide to pull back for any reason he'll be thinking, "What's wrong with me? Why did she disappear? Am I not good enough? Oh no, I'm so lonely. What do I have to do to get her to respond?" All women are the same but a littl… | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | During quarantine, exchange emails instead of messaging through WhatsApp/Facebook/other messaging appIn the game it's not just about what you think you want. It's about getting consistent results and doing what works. I can talk about girls the way I do because I've fucked multitudes of them, I talk to them often, all different kinds. I get in their heads. If you're really out here you know way more than the average dude ever will. And that's not to be condescending. Those are the facts. I'm trying to help this dude. Stop him from making sucker decisions. Also, I didn't say she had cocks runnin… | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 05:15 PM |
| 4 | During quarantine, exchange emails instead of messaging through WhatsApp/Facebook/other messaging appWhere did you see him make it known he had an abundance mindset? He made no mention of his dating history. You can tell by the way he talks he doesn't fuck a whole lot. He's hyper focused on figuring out how to impress a girl over text for hundreds of miles away during a quarantine. That's not scarcity to you? Women perceive attention differently than men. Women like attention just for the sake of. It reminds them of the kind of guys they might be able to get and builds their confidence. Too muc… | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | During quarantine, exchange emails instead of messaging through WhatsApp/Facebook/other messaging appWhy not try to sleep with her,m Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, HIV, Herpes, HPV, Trichomoniasis, Syphilis, etc. Same argument. Yet people meet up all the time and fuck anyone and a lot of those ailments stick with you for life. | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 12 | During quarantine, exchange emails instead of messaging through WhatsApp/Facebook/other messaging appThis is a sub about seduction, not old school romance. In living with reality, what he's describing is over investment. He's doing too much for a girl he hasn't fucked, doesn't see, doesn't know, doesn't know when he's gonna see again, through outdated means. Plenty of women will take their time texting you days apart with equal investment. Women will text you for a thousand reasons, attention, validation, warm tingles. Been there. Done that. But unless the interactions are moving forward, he's … | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I make my boyfriend stop jerking off to other girls?How should we know? You haven't told us anything. How often does he jerk off? How often do you two fuck? Does he get what needs out of the sex? Does he even know what he wants out of sex? What fantasies is he indulging? Now, what is the underlying theme of these fantasies? Do you feel like you're doing all you can to give him your soul during sex? Are you doing your part? Why are messing with a guy who masturbates to photos? Do you meet his criteria for physical attractiveness? Not just good eno… | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 04:02 PM |
| 11 | During quarantine, exchange emails instead of messaging through WhatsApp/Facebook/other messaging appNo. This is how guys fall into oneitis. You get too emotionally invested in a girl you don't know like that. Haven't fucked. You probably don't know her sexual history and how she gets down. Don't know who she's nailing back home. Scarcity in this "crisis" has convinced you that this girl is somehow special when she's not. You don't know a girl by text or email or even talking over the phone. If she's not experiencing you in person there's always a mental barrier where things with you were never… | /r/seduction | 31/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Why are 4's to 6's the biggest teases?Short answer, because they know they have little else to offer in the way of man's primal desires, they hold out in hopes that you'll become emotionally invested enough from the chase to want to stick around after hitting it. These types tend to have boring personalities as well. Been there, done that. Basically, if I make him runaround long enough, he'll magically see that I'm more than ass an tits that are in his mind, already subpar and not willing to show off. I never have this problem with … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Post-facetime "date" advice?Brother, this is silly. There is no such thing as a facetime date. That's just something we say to get women on the phone so we can either get them out of the house to meet for a physical date, or get them straight to the house. You know why it's not a real date? She didn't leave the house. She didn't experience your physical presence and the sexual aura in person she needs to make a decision about you. She had no risk of judgement, humiliation, getting rejected. Facetimining is just a phone cal… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 02:16 PM |
| 7 | Do women actually enjoy giving oral? Do they really want to do it?The fact you have to add the caveat that women shouldn't be forced is the same reason you're confused. You're not in your dominant energy. Anyways, yes women love giving head. The women who "don't like it" are either masculine or have power issues. They know giving head requires them to please and submit, i.e. them being on their knees praying to their lord and savior Penis Christ. If she's super masculine, most likely she won't like freely serving, a woman's nature. If she has power issues, it … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 02:27 AM |
| 2 | "I just didn't feel that spark"I didn't feel the spark = you're poor at seducing. Get better at seduction. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 04:48 PM |
| 4 | Going on a weekend getaway with a girl I haven’t even kissedDude, stop listening to women and all this bad advice on a seduction sub. Listen man, three things: Women are always looking to follow a man's lead. Women are passive. Some may jump your bones, but most want to be led into physical contact. It shows a man's dominant side, his confidence, social saviness, clarity of intent. You want to kiss her, fuck her, all that, but you're being dishonest by hiding your intentions. Women love to fuck, more than men. You're giving her too much emotional investm… | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 04:21 AM |
| 12 | Quarantine Dating - How I rapidly got a girl’s number from a dating appGetting a number is low level on dating apps. It's getting them not to flake. | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Most girls only want your attentionThis post is quite oddly written. Guys, if you want to check for women who are wasting your time and only want your attention, realize you need to know and do a few things: Know - Women don't need a lot of comfort, only to the point they can generally feel you won't rape or kill them. Women need attraction. You don't comfort your way into sex, or eating good food, or applying for a job. You desire into it. Women decide how they feel about you very quickly. Like 5 minutes or less. Online they kno… | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Any good voice coaching for a deeper voice/vocal tonality?Instantly. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Any good voice coaching for a deeper voice/vocal tonality?There's a video by RSD Tyler on developing the perfect voice. He's in the video with a vocal coach breaking down step by step what to do. It's called "Roger love teaches RSD on how to develop the perfect voice". Helped me a hell of a lot. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Reminder to keep your phone calls SHORTHey dude, listen, I know you're trying to make a point, but you don't have one here. You don't even have an opinion. This was a question by a man to other men. Anything I discuss is based on hard experience in the dating game, in pickup artistry. Trial and error. Until you deal with a woman as a man, and are perceived as a man by that woman, you can't say anything. You're just another chick. So instead of arguing, I will teach you. Women can disappear for any reason. It doesn't matter if you had… | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Reminder to keep your phone calls SHORTInvite her to your place for dinner, drinks, games, music. It's virus season, you either hang outside or in your house. Never talk too long on the phone. It can build investment and make her show but more often than not women will flake because they got all the attention they needed. The mystery is gone. You have no leverage to makr requests. Unless you're truly fucking amazing. Even then, bitches are fickle as shit. That's why no matter how much I love the conversation I keep it at 15 minutes t… | /r/seduction | 19/03/20 07:46 AM |
| 4 | How far do you guys pull back after the first fuck?I think you're asking the wrong question. It's not about pulling back, but if and when you want to see her again. As a rule, one date per week set up through text. If she has fire conversation, I might text her more than once, but no more than three times. You want to start at a manageable pace where you don't ruin the mystery or tension. If I like her, I set up another date two to three days later. If I don't, and she keeps hitting me up, I'll just be honest and tell her I wasn't feeling it. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Someone explain this?She just wanted attention and probably had buyer's remorse. Nothing was wrong with your response. You saying, "What else would I be here for", was perfectly congruent and in line with the conversation. It was you agreeing. A girl that's truly high interest and wants to fuck you now, wouldn't get offended. Only time wasters and girls who like to pretend to be about it do disappear. You effectively challenged her by holding her feet to the fire and exposed her game playing. You know what happens w… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | "Daygame" seems weird to me, explain what I am getting wrong as someone trying to learn it.I'm not reading any of this. Listen. Good game looks like nothing is going on. It looks casual, like you've known the person forever. You can use direct or indirect. I choose to use a mix of both. I use an indirect opener just to gauge how receptive she is. If she's neutral or above, I turn up the heat as quickly as possible and create sexual tension with my eye contact, tonality, body language, my mouthpiece, my suggestive language. I portray a seductive vibe. Day game is about getting to the p… | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 10:20 PM |
| 7 | Make sure to read "The Game". Not a summary of the book. Actually read it, from front to back. My mind is being blown right now.The Game is outdated. Pickup has since then, been raised by leaps and bounds and become modern. The Game is full of old paradigms. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | sex with hot girls is overrated, the media and society has LIED to youFucking hot girls is overrated only if you overblow it. I know exactly why I want hot girls, why I fuck hot girls, what I get out of it, what my brain gets out of it. If you do what you do from a place of joy and relaxation, not dependency, you will be fine. You treat each moment as what fulfills you, but you don't treat it as the end goal or your purpose. If I fuck a low value, ugly, masculine chick, the sex is wack and I'm likely to feel shitty afterward. If I fuck a hot girl, it refreshes me,… | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenNo, it's because women are the limiting factor in reproduction. If you had 100 women and one man left on earth. Through odds, we could likely repopulate because there's enough semen to go around. If there were 100 men and one woman, we'd likely be fucked. And that women better pray that whoever she let's inside is of superior genetics. Also, women do not take risk. Women love getting and being pregnant. With modern medicine theyre fine. They were designed to have babies, and not die from it. Us … | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenThis post comes from a defeatist point of view. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI have no disagreements. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 02:04 AM |
| 8 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenI'll say this. When I first started learning pickup, I ran into a shit ton of girls who weren't cooperative, weren't feminine, weren't that into me. But because I was running strict textbook game, and I had a lack of standards for the women I wanted, I got to fuck a whole lot of them. Was the sex good and memorable? No. It was me putting in a whole lot of effort slaving away, breaking my back to please them. There's a reason concepts like Last Minute Resistance were invented and used. They work.… | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:56 AM |
| 8 | Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing womenBrother, I'm sure you had good intentions with the post, but the way you're coming across with your tone of writing, is as a condescending asshole trying to sell what no one was trying to buy. And if they don't, they're just a stupid customer. Why would any of us want to listen to you when you're not open to discussion or explaining your talking points. Truthfully, what you believe in can be debated all day by successful men in game, but I'm quite sure you don't want to hear any of that. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Why are fds so sensitive to basic and constructive criticism?FDS preaches against men having opinions because we're too logical and will mansplain to them. This is their own talking point. It's just odd to me, that the bulk of FDS posts are about vetting men, not attracting them. One would think it'd be more time efficient to work on attracting certain men in certain environments, using certain valued behaviors, then just vet. There are ways to go on the prowl while still being feminine. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | I’m unsure about this East Asian woman.You're jumping the gun brother. You're giving her too much mental energy because you don't recognize your worth or power as a man; you're in scarcity. She hasn't fucked you, cooked for you, served you, or been consistent. Why are you giving her mental energy? You can't plate a bitch you haven't fucked. You haven't vetted her enough to consider plating let alone fucking. Women replying late means you weren't a priority and she has low interest. They do it when they get bored. They do it when they… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Whats your most despised LMR excuse?My true height is to be felt, not seen. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 10:45 PM |
| 14 | What do you do when a girl is withholding sex to secure commitment?Brother, think about that terminology, "Wait until she's more comfortable." Does any of that sound like you'll know? No. It's an arbitrary time stamp she can change at anytime. And they use it to get you to invest so much emotionally chasing after their box, that by the time you get it, you're hooked emotionally from all the work you put in. It's a crazy mental game they play. You end up falling for them from the work you put in and perceived value of her pussy. Your time investment will be your… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 07:08 PM |
| 23 | What do you do when a girl is withholding sex to secure commitment?Aside from the regular talking points about oneitis, consider this: Sex and commitment have nothing to do with each other. Sex is based on genuine desire due to a person's looks and behavior. Commitment inspires comfort, but comfort does not turn women on. It only gives them space to do what they already want. And in the case of commitment, this is a large barrier to entry. Women only need a few hours to a few days to commit to wanting to fuck you. Women needing commitment is essentially a barga… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | My girl got Catcalled/wolf whistled while I was with her.The reasons you're emotional over this have nothing to do with your woman or her safety, and everything to do with your ego. You're scared another man will make a pass and make you look inferior in front of her. Scared they might make you look like a bitch and beat you up, taking what you subconsciously view as your property. Even if you did feel like they were a threat, engaging is always a bad idea, as deescalation will more often than not get you home. You wait for them to make an aggressive … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Ltr pulling back to match my investmentDo you know what long term means dude? Long term is at least two consistent years, starting. Honestly by the way you think, you're not prepared for this girl, so just take it as a lesson for when she cuts you off. No point in listing off how to keep her attracted. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | If you treat her like she’s out of your league, then she will act as you wish. If you treat her like you always interact and have sex with people like her, she will also act as you wish.This all can be summed up with, "Assume that you are as valuable as she is. Assume familiarity. And assume that it's on until it's not." | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Absolutely shaken, house got broken into, need advice on how to protect my household.Get an alarm system. Get an AR-15 Get basic rifle training for a credible instructor Develop a fighter mindset. It is always better to turn to anger and rage than fear Develop plans with your family so they're all on the level when it comes to emergencies This all comes down to a lack of planning my friend. You're hurt and scared realizing how weak and vulnerable you were to someone's advances. It hurts, I know. And now that you know. Train. Pray for peace, but prepare for war. Use your weakness… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 08:06 PM |
| 3 | What does magnetic eye contact mean?First off, you're obsessing over this girl. She knows it. You know it. You're giving too much mental energy to someone you don't fuck, live with, or have kids with. Just by the way you write I can tell you don't get women often if at all. And whenever girls give you attention it fucks you up because someone finally validates your existence. Stop. Go fuck ten other girls. Second, you're referring to what we call in pickup artistry as laser eye contact. Women love it because it displays confidence… | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else get turned off by shit tests and feel bored?Mouthpiece is your verbal seduction skills. Never running out of things to say. Tonality. Perfect answers to shit tests. What you teach. The stories you tell. How you explain things. The energy of your words. That's all your mouthpiece. Women fall in love with the energy of your words. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else get turned off by shit tests and feel bored?Generally the more valuable you become as a man, the easier it is to display that value. That being said, with all the obvious self improvement I've put in regarding my body, my mouthpiece, my sex game, my ability to lead and protect, provide guidance, shit tests turn me off. Shit tests by their very nature imply that she is in a position of strength when you as the man are supposed to come with the tangibles that can be quantified. Women are dependent on men for security and provision, while al… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys handle logistics with condoms and not having your dick go softSuper serious. Nothing worse than having a woman with a perfect athletic body begging you to fuck her and your condom issue makes her so upset and impatient she wants to leave. Been there. Done that. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 05:40 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys handle logistics with condoms and not having your dick go softTrain yourself to love condoms. What I did was start to exclusively masterbate with condoms, hold the condom in one hand while I rock it with the other. Cum only in the condom. Fantasize about fucking whatever girl I'm into with a condom, fantasize about her dirty talking to me about using a condom. Tell myself while I'm jacking it, "Goddamn this condom feels so fucking good" repeatedly til I believe it. Basically, you brainwash yourself into loving condoms by conditioning yourself to respond to… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | ToddV's Coaching Mini Review - My First ImpressionsYou still have to cultivate attractive behaviors. If you're awkward and uncalibrated less women will want you. If you're smooth and intuitive those same women who weren't down could want to arch their back for you. Skills do matter. | /r/seduction | 04/03/20 12:15 PM |
| -1 | These tips aren’t for people you care about.The art of seduction, when broken down, are techniques that isolate and magnify certain parts of what it means to be masculine. Push-pull magnifies your ability to be polarizing and say what you want without question. Teasing magnifies your vetting process, letting a woman know you like her without giving your power away. You're a dominant male. Being yourself is trash. That's why people come to these subs to learn. If they were good enough to get the kind of person they've always wanted without… | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Any of you come across women you’d fuck but wouldn’t want to be seen in public with?As men, we instinctively want to be shown around women that magnify and reflect our own value. And physically, that unfortunately means both face and body. We are shallow, and we shouldn't care. When people see who we hang around that is how they treat and judge us. So when we show off butter faces we subconsciously fear society crashing down in our faces. And while this is all true, it is your job to upgrade and train a chick. We lead as men. If her body is truly right, and her face and fashion… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Group hang outs are okay to meet a girl?Don't text her. You want her first impression of you to be where she can observe the full range range of your personality, your sex appeal, your charm, your seductive, fun persona. Texting kills mystery, anxiety, and most often times works against you and turns her off if you're not truly talented. Too much room for misinterpretation. In online dating or blind dates. The less they know about you after you establish initial interest, the better. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel like more girls react to cold approaching in bars as if you approached on the street/bus/whatever nowadays?The subtle nuance is that their guard isn't up for guys who want to get laid. It's up for predators, weird guys doing weird shit, guys trying to conceal that they're as horny as she is, and are outcome dependent. What reason does she have to let her guard down around you? | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 01:14 PM |
| 2 | LTR of 8 years 'Accidentally' kissed another dudeWhy is it low ego to demamd sacrifice and investment before you let someone back in. A person wanting to change isn't enough. They need to show it. And one of the best ways to do that is sacrifice and service. They need to show their loyalty somehow. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 8 years 'Accidentally' kissed another dudeWhile I agree that she is no longer LTR material, I believe the more cold and pragmatic move would be a hard demotion. Get her to serve you, and buy you things relentlessly until she has nothing left. Make her sacrifice all of her time and energy worshipping the ground you walk on until your ego is fully satisfied. Whatever she put into making your mission in life happen, make her do 50x more. Take her soul. And maybe then, just maybe can she be redeemed. Endless money. Endless errands. Endless … | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do chicks always say: "i'll let you know when i am free"? Is it a strategy to make them appear more valuable? Women are so good at saying things that make them look like the price.It usually means no. Just like maybe means no. It also means, "Let me weigh out my options and if nothing better comes up, I might hit you back, but don't count on it." Either way, it's an indicator she's not that into you. You usually get this when you haven't seeded date ideas the right way, aren't leading, and aren't asking the right questions to avoid getting that answer. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Todd V is absolutely cringe. Please for the love of god DO NOT do this type of shitIt was a bad set, yes. But if you look through Todd V's content on YouTube, he is one of the very best there is. And he has been for years. While it hurts to watch one of my personal heroes over extend himself, you need to take into account the nature of what he was trying to teach in that particular infield. How to turn conversations around? Keep them going? Resist social pressure even when it hurts (a big theme in game)? Try to win both friends over? There's always a lesson, and without the or… | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Are shit tests conscious or do they come from the subconsciousAgreed. Most time bitches are just acting as goofy and immature as they always have been in their lives, or are actually just disrespectful people. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Questions for guys who have used the 'go get coffee at my place' reason for bringing the girl to your roomThis isn't really a question of coffee, it's a question of pulling to your place in general. In essence, you want to think like this: asking her back to your place is essentially asking her, "Are you very comfortable with the high probability of us having sex? Are you comfortable enough with me to allow space for that to happen? Are you attracted to me enough where you wouldn't mind being seduced?" So it doesn't matter what you say. Personally I'll seed three different things like, "I'll make us… | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Been on three dates, two were of me bringing the girl home. Nothing has happened.The problem seems very clear. Not once did I hear any mention of the kind of vibe you were putting off, no mention of you proactively creating sexual tension, being mysterious, teasing her, qualifying her, using buyer seller dynamics. You're trying to make moves without turning on her mind first. That's why it's weird for you. You're not making physical steps that make sense to her. How can she give you a clear sign to seduce her if you don't have a seductive spirit? How can she if you don't eve… | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 12:20 PM |
| 2 | "Reformed sluts" are probably among the worst types to date.Let me boil down the argument of OP in a way that everyone, especially women, can understand. Basically, we men want sex as quickly as possible. What men value in women is sexual submission, compliance, a submissive spirit, someone who validates their worth, etc. So when a woman makes a man wait for sex when she didn't apply that to other men, his mind will naturally ask certain questions and draw certain conclusions. This is especially heightened when men discover women love to fuck and will ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Telling LTR and plates the truth about late-in-life virginityDon't lie. Telling lies to women lowers your vibration. Instead make the truth work for you. So instead of just saying you were diagnosed autistic, downplay it like Owen/Tylet from RSD and say you have low level autism and it grants you social superpowers. Talk only about its benefits. If she asks about your virginity, tell her you're very protective over your seed and your energy because whoever you sleep with, as a man, that woman needs to be a good representative for the amount of value you o… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 14 | “... I had a great time too and you’re a very attractive guy but it didn’t really click for me”"It didn't click/I just didn't feel that spark/I'm not really feeling it/", is all code for I didn't feel any sexual tension or any reason to feel compelled to fuck you. They don't need to know a damn thing about you. They don't need to know you're story. What they do need are mainly two things, minus a shit ton of tiny nuances: To feel the full range of your personality and take them on an emotional rollercoaster. For you to carry a seductive player vibe they can get sucked in, for you to know … | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | I [20M]Virgin trying to put [22F]feminist/manipulative girl on a plate, is it worth it?You're deeply confused my friend. One, you can't plate a girl if you're a virgin. Two, you really can't quote anything legitimate she's doing that is truly manipulative. Three, by what you describe, she's not being manipulative at all. You have no experience, don't know how to lead, don't know how to set a program for a woman, and you're scared of her reactions so you interpret them as tests. If you didn't care about what she thought or said, if you were grounded, masculine, you wouldn't interpr… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 05:49 PM |
| 2 | After the deed is done, how do you get a plate out of the houseYou can do it ethically or unethically. The unethical way is to play her like she's stupid and make up convenient excuses to leave the house. The ethical way is to just tel l her what the situation is up front so she has no false expectations. What I personally do, is I estimate how long it will take for me to escalate and fuck her to satisfaction. Then I will measure out how many other things I have to do that day and put it on a strict schedule so she'll know when to leave. So, if I know it'll… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 3 | She told me I’m not needy and that she WANTS needy?She's telling you she wants power over you because you're too cool in your masculine frame and it makes her feel vulnerable and exposed (she likes you more than normal and she hates that feel of weakness). You chasing after her would allow her anxiety to calm down. But once you start chasing, she will eventually make more demands of you and distance herself as you begin to overvalue her and give her leverage over you b/c you're just so "needy" over her. So, she doesn't want to be chased, she's s… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Can fighting ASD be seen as being in a scarcity mindset?The word fighting is antithetical to seduction. Fighting is by nature, a sort of war. Rather than fight, the way you draw her further into you is by never appearing, frustrsted, overly eager to jump back on, always pulling away first, never getting told no (back off before that thought may cross her mind/a lack of no or you being stopped keeps the sexual tension), never hitting the same spot twice in a row you can feel she's sketchy about, being romantic and vulnerable without boyfriend vibes to… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | How long in general would you wait for sex until throwing the towel in?Most Tinder dates will have sex with you if you're running decent game. It's not hard to do, especially if you set good logistics for pulling back to your place. More importantly, once you understand how women view sexually attractive men, and you get used to women who are highly cooperative fucking you quickly, you won't ever wait until 3-4 dates. Here's what you need to understand: Women decide in the first 30 seconds or less to 10 minutes if they consider you sexually worthy. They decide very… | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 05:46 PM |
| 10 | Fun little trick I've been usingThis is doing too much my guy. If you're going to open, just say what feels good. If what you say has to have a certain response that you rely on, then that tells me you're not socially calibrated and can't flow in the moment. Women want to feel you, in the moment, not get lines thrown at them. They want the contents of your energy. Also, by asking if they have a boyfriend you force them to make a snap decision right then and there about how to view you. Do I like him or not, without seeing the … | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Is she inexperienced or I just didn't escalate properly?It doesn't matter what you rank your SMV as. Guys need to get out of their heads on this. What does matter is, based on the kind of woman she is, and the kind of man I am, how do I get her to respond favorably to me. Assuming your ranked higher will do nothing for you in terms of game you apply. Women experience you through their subjective view of reality. Not the list you have in your head for what makes you attractive. Anyway, it sounds like you were trying way too hard. Running tactic after … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 10:22 PM |
| 6 | Plate tells me "I want to fuck you, just not at 3pm" after I arrange a meetup and she doesn't put out. I feel disrespected. Is this behavior I shouldn't tolerate, or am I being unreasonable?She could have been on her period. She could have just got done fucking another guy. She might have a yeast infection or a herpes outbreak. She could have been tired. She could have been waiting for her ex to get back in the picture and give herself fully to him. She could have masturbated earlier and is sexually drained. She could have a lot going on mentally to the point she can't get turned on. Fact is you'll never know. But the fact you're so emotional over this shows me you're not the prize… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Out of town trip, should I make a move for sex?If you're sexually escalating smoothly and you're watching her responses, calibrating, putting pressure on and off, teasing, always pulling back first, going through her body in the "correct way", things will never be awkward, because you're reading her mind and body so she never feels pressured or like she's in control. Things become awkward when you act sorry and permission seeking, you draw attention to things, and you don't have a plan. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Out of town trip, should I make a move for sex?You should have had sex with her on the first date. There is no such thing as a woman being ready for sex. If you turn her on enough, get in her mind the right way, escalate and tease her properly, she should be the one jumping you. Women that make you wait or imply they want to wait generally aren't attracted to you like that, or have a secret agenda to control your behavior. They're no different than girls who say, "I've never slept with someone this fast before." They imply they would make th… | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I think I should have just left it alonePeople like what they like. Get over it. That mindset won't help you in game. Just game your best and chicks will take you as you are | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 01:51 AM |
| 2 | I think I should have just left it aloneNo. The double standard didn't hit. You drew attention to things that didn't matter. I'm 5'7 and most chicks I've dated are three inches taller than me. A lot more in heels. And the girls i meet online, my profile says 6 ft. When we meet up, I've never once been questioned about my height. We have fun and fuck. Your problem is You drew attention to a topic that isn't your wheelhouse and has a high chance of not benefiting you. Something you can't control She told you what she found attractive an… | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 12:20 AM |
| 17 | What do you think of the intensely negative attitude towards "PUAs", cold approach, and seduction?You know why women are confused? Because they never had to question the guy they were fucking. They simply assume it's natural. They were naturally attracted. They assume the alpha type guys they fuck are always alpha. Why? Because the notion of studying alpha is foreign and wasn't a thing until now. Women were a total "mystery". The notion that a guy would develop himself to get a specific outcome flies in the face of women's sexual clarity. It makes it harder for them to tell the difference be… | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 12:07 AM |
| 15 | Just found my now ex-gf has been fucking 50+ sugar daddies in the last 9 months. I'm sick to my stomach.This is the importance of acting like a total fun player in the beginning. I don't worry about womem lieing to me because i don't give off sweet boyfriend vibes. When you give off the player vibe, and through conversation she knows you're up on game, she'll tell you whatever you want to know. Body count. No matter how high. Who she's fucking. When. How rich. Craziest experiences. All of that. I don't give her any leverage for wanting to be dishonest. And once I fuck her good a few times, I slowl… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 13 | “You look like a cocky douchebag, but you’re actually a cool guy”They're angry that you have conviction, disciplinez and a square to stand on. Your mere presence holds a mirror up to their inferiority and reveals it to them repeatedly. What they're not doing. How they're settling. What they wish they could do. How self assured they wish they could be. The work scares them. Their scarcity scares them. Don't change anything. Don't bring yourself down so they can feel comfortable in their mediocrity. As far as the girls, all you have to do is show themz every so… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Great Date Ended Bad "Why don't you open up"She wasn't asking you for the facts of your life, although some would be good. She wants to feel your masculine expression. She wants to feel your words. Feel the kind of man you are. Women don't need to know a damn thing about your life besides your passions and your purpose. Other than that, they know you by your energy. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Great Date Ended Bad "Why don't you open up"You're leaving out vital information. Wnat exactly did she mean by facade? Is this in direct reference to you not wanting to say anything personal about you? Did you two have sex? These are important to greater context. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | what do you think of couples who share passwords and go through each other’s phones?You don't go through a phone unless it's yours, or you're curious. Like an officer stopping you, requesting your ID, wanting to conduct a search. They do all these things with suspicion it might lead to something. They don't do it just for fun. It's based on scarcity and fear. It's not about trust. It's about keeping paranoia down enough that you can focus. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | what do you think of couples who share passwords and go through each other’s phones?You don't go through a phone unless it's yours, or you're curious. Like an officer stopping you, requesting your ID, wanting to conduct a search. They do all these things with suspicion it might lead to something. They don't do it just for fun. It's based on scarcity and fear. It's not about trust. It's about keeping paranoia down enough that you can focus. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 1 | New to pick up, trouble escalating with girls. PLEASE HELPA great place to start would be looking up Todd V - flirting | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I’m often baffled by the “Gym all day” and “Pick Up studying guys”. Do guys not know that the most attractive thing they can do and be at any age is “Be Stable”? Dare I say financial stable....Money does not turn women on to want to fuck. It only appeals to their need for stability and nesting. It also makes them want to use you for everything but sex, meaning they can use their body as leverage. You'll basically end up trading money for lust free sex. Ultimately your behavior still has to be most important to make her both legitimately comfortable and horny. There are plenty of men who are affluent and you see them getting arrested for sexually assaulting broads. Or guys who are affl… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Girl I’ve been trying to set a date with cancels last minute. Is it worth setting a second date?Damn player. She really disrespected you like that. Women are always getting sick last minute. Have to get to work last minute. Have a family emergency last minute. All famous excuses. She's not that interested for one reason or another. All you should be worried about is, "Am I running good enough game to where I know it's not because of me doing some weird shit?" Rarely if ever does a woman genuinely have any of those three issues going on when you want to meet. Ask yourself, how often do you … | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Dates - always running into "it's getting late", "I have to get up early", "I'm tired" buzzsawWell I think we need no more to diagnose from? What exactly are you saying before you try to pull? Like what's your general script for pulling to your house? Also, you don't need 4 hours. Most girl will end up at your house in 45 minutes to an hour and a half. Women will also fuck you on weeknights equally as much on the weekends. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Response to girl canceling date?They send you those long messages so they don't feel guilty about ghosting. Like saying . . Hey I've already shown you what's up . . So don't be surprised if I disappear. Just know dude . . The more time passes the lower her interest is. She's getting hit up by more and more guys that have more relevance. You really should be focusing on other girls. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Response to girl canceling date?You should have already have her phone number. You want direct access to her. 4 Days is too long. You want dates either that same night or in the next two days. Urgency and Initial Point of Interest are the main factors in a woman complying with you. She's trying to cancel on you permanently and you're not reading properly. She's flaked once. Now her behavior is expectant of flaking. It's in her spirit now. A girl saying I'll let you know is saying my interest is too low and I'm kinda over it. T… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 06:22 PM |
| 13 | How do you tell a girl to stop spending all her time on her phone without looking needy?First, you need to ask yourself if you are engaging. If you objectively know that women think you're fun, are engaged by you, love to fuck you and hear you talk. Second, if you know they enjoy you, then it's a social retardation and respect issue. And blatant disrespect you call it. Women interpret anger as them having won. Dumb, yes. So instead you check her by guiding her to the truth. You gently nudge her towards self awareness. So on a date I might say, "Hey girl, that phone isn't as fun to … | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls I date always care less than I do even though my SMV is higher?They will forever and always be living in a higher level of abundance than you. For relationships and sexually. Quality? No. But generally. Yes. You need to get good at investment game i.e. making them feel invested in you enough to behave and be apart of your life. If you can't get her invested in you emotionally, she can't fully respect you or want to serve you, or stick around. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | The Real Purpose of PickupGood shit player. | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Date turned off by how many cold approaches I've doneYou answer it like a shit test. Ignore it. Pressure flip and put it back on here. Don't take it seriously and don't answer seriously. "Hmm gotta be at least 2 billion women." "I've approached enough to find this hot girl in front of me". "I don't know how many, I just know whoever I approach it's always magical". "You sound jealous, how many guys have you been talking to?" It's not hard dude. | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Date turned off by how many cold approaches I've doneI'm not a proponent of never disclosing your body count (yes off topic). If anything it's led to girls feeling more comfortable fucking me and being sexually adventurous. But let's contrast here. The difference between exposing your approach count and your body count is that your approach count also assumes you've had a lot of failures with women. That she's probably making a mistake dating you if they all said no. She knows not all of them wanted you for one reason or another. This destroys pre… | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Clarify push/pull for me, I don't think I'm getting it.Again my friend, push-pull does four things. Creates emotional relevancy and makes her feel things for you. Relevancy = value = sex worthiness Creates validation seeking behavior. As in she wants your approval through push, and you reward her through pull. Creates an emotional addiction. As in, she becomes addicted to the highs and lows of talking to you. You become emotional crack. Creates an Avenue for her to see different sides of you, both the asshole and the sweet heart. She wants both. How… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 12:27 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a stutterMy body count is just over 50 and I've been stuttering since I was 6 and I'm nearing my mid twenties now. Girls think it's cute. I found that the cure for my stuttering (when I care enough to stop) was proper breathing techniques. Too much tension in the throat and release of air (not letting the air be pulled from me like it's going over a water fall), not vibrating resonantly off the hard palate, as well as assuming I'm going to stutter instead of assuming I'm "normal" and going to express mys… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Should you confirm a date? If so, how?Yes, confirm the date. The night before ask her a question about the nature of the place you're meeting at. Something like, "I might get there a little early, you like xyz lattes right?" If she answers your still on typically. What you really need to do. Is the day of, text her something to the effect of, "Let me know when you're getting ready, okay?" A clever way of confirming you're still on. For day of I follow two rules to know if she's flaking or not. Whatever text I send in the morning (ar… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Went on a couple of dates with girl, hooked up on the last date, she ghosted meShe was only there for some dick. You gave it to her. She got what she wanted and dipped. Girls do it to. It doesn't necessarily mean your dick was bad. But only you know that. Girls get post nut clarity too. Girls mean what they say in the moment but once they calm down off the emotions they want to move differently. The point is, it doesn't matter. She's still gone and it likely had nothing to do with you. If anything this should tell you that you could've fucked on date one and nothing would'… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Am I insecure for breaking up with my 5mo LTR cause of her sexual past ?That's insecurity and a huge sign you're not cut out for this game. I can't even lecture you your behavior is so poor. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Talking about previous sexual experiences to LTR?Let's think about it like this. The same woman to fuck you like her life depends on it on day one, is not likely the same chick to randomly cheat out of jealousy. The same chick who has fucked 30 guys is not likely the same type. Nor the chick whose had 3 trains ran on her. This is about profiling. Either way you make it sound like a damned if you do damned if you don't. I for one have higher standards for my women. They act right or they're gone. Their issues and feelings are their own. But I'm… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Talking about previous sexual experiences to LTR?What you're basically saying is the equivalent of a person not worrying about having an STD because they never got tested. Well I've never had any symptoms and neither has my partner so everything is sweet and must be fine. "I'd rather not know that the awful truth about my or their situation instead of taking responsibility." You would rather demand the truth from a bitch you would never take seriously than a woman you invest multitudes of time, energy, emotion, money, and the possibility of ki… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Talking about previous sexual experiences to LTR?I've never understood this. You should have all of this handled from the vetting phase. When you first talk to a chick she should be viewing you as the fun player who's slayed thousands of chicks. In that frame you guys can exchange countless sexual stories and it's never a big deal. Because she was born into that fun, nonjudgemental frame. As you get closer she naturally knows how you are with women and your relation to them. And how other women are in relation to her. So you don't end up getti… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 05:20 PM |
| 4 | How do you prevent them from losing interest when there's a long wait before a date?As a general rule of pickup, you should be scheduling dates no more than two to three days in advance. Even if she says she's busy I just tell her it'll be somewhere quick and not much of her time will be used. Anything after two to three days goes down by 70%. Video chat with them before fully setting the date. As soon as you get a number, set up a video chat from text. Now she has something to attach her desire to. If she tries to give you an alternate date, tell her xyz is the only day your f… | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Starfishin'Have you tried . . I don't know . . Leading in the bedroom? Telling her to throw that ass back. Telling her to put her hips into it while riding you like she's doing a body roll. Telling her wrap your legs around your back and neck? Honestly this could be so many issues. Top 3. What is her attraction to you based in? Is it lust or you being the comfort guy? Is she feminine and submissive? Does she yield? Is the sex reluctant. Does she suck your dick Did you vet her sexual history to see how she … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | What are some of the common mistakes men make that leave women on the fence about having sex with them?I already know where you fucked up at. You're not showing enough sexual intent with your touch, body language, tonality. You don't project that fun, player vibe that makes chicks want to jump you on day 1. You're letting her lead the dating and fucking process. You're probably taking her on dates in hopes of getting pussy. Therefore you're making sex transactional instead of lust filled. You're probably projecting a provider, safe guy, boyfriend. You don't know to to escalate. You're not actuall… | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Is push/pull necessary when she's showing interest?Push-pull in terms of emotional relevancy just means she feels a lot of things from and more importantly for you. A wide range of emotions. Extreme joy, happiness, sadness, somber, seriousness, confusion, tension, etc. If she feels things for you you're on the sex radar. What you're mind focuses on is assumed to be valuable. Push-pull in validation seeking behavior is just her trying to qualify herself. This could be through trying to spend more time with you, trying to talk and fill in the gaps… | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 03:50 PM |
| 16 | Is push/pull necessary when she's showing interest?Push-pull is context driven, and you need to know what it's for. If she's already interested in you, all you have to do is maintain that attractive behavior and not fuck it up. Doing push pull on girls already super into it can often come across to them as punishing their compliance. Now, if you're trying to generate validation seeking behavior and emotional addiction/relevancy, push-pull is good. Both of these things raise her interest in you. If you're emotionally relevant or a source of valid… | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Pros and cons of just lying there after ejaculating or going down on her/doing something for her after sex? Some say that it is better to just lie there (without sleeping) and wait for her to come to you to get some investment from herI'll never be with the mindset that sex is purely about the woman, simply for the fact that what a man has to offer during sex is 100% required. A prolonged erection, most of the physical work, leading and directing. Men make the sex good. Women should make men want the sex to be good. Besides this, women will forever be lost on why men just stop after sex. As soon as we cum it isn't that we don't desire them anymore, it's that our brain does a hard reset on wanting to feel or desire anything. T… | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Anyone got laid more after college?The only factors that are important in getting laid is your ability to take action, participating in the numbers game, and your ability to generate and become the spirit of sex appeal. You need to know your target audience, what makes them tick, what possible objections they may have, and you move from there. Every female demographic has learning curves. | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 12:40 AM |
| 6 | How could she just cut me off like that?Do you even hear yourself and how you talk? You lack zero self awareness or genuine care. Of course she cut you off. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 08:02 PM |
| 7 | Kept escalating but but didn't get a reaction?Some girls are that passive and want to be taken. But if you're not experienced enough and really are that unsure in reading the totality of the vibe, the best thing to do as to avoid sounding permission seeking is to give her small compliance tests in line with your escalation. "Come closer so I can feel your ass on me/Move your arm so I can feel how soft your breasts are." You want to me mildly explicit. Her compliance is your answer. If you're still that unsure, you can ask her a question lik… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Whats your protocol after an argument?That would entirely depend on if someone actually did something wrong. If it was a matter of disrespect, violated dynamics, cheating, then whoever is wrong initiates contact first to apologize or cut contact. If it's something trivial over curtains or food, or where to go for vacation, then you take responsibility for setting things straight and telling her how things are going to go down from here on out. The key is to lead by initiating, acknowledging any miscommunication, clarify, and most im… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Is texting to confirm on the day of a date a beta move or good logistics?I never ask if we're still on. Because then in her mind she might be like . . Are we? Do I still want to see him now? I don't want that. So what i do is make a comment about something I'm wearing or looking forward to. Or something that I need her to do, to wear she has to agree. "I'm thinking of wearing blue button up. Make sure you match me so we look fashionable together, okay?" Or some variatio.n All I'm looking for is a positive response that has to be an agreeance to the assumption we are … | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of ThumbThe same way you get a girl long term is how you get her short term. The women who fuck you quickly genuinely desire you and are more likely to stick around. The best way to retain them is to sweet talk them and show a very minor, very minor relationship side of you after the sex so she doesn't think your totally unattainable. Depends on the girl. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of ThumbI'd say I'm advanced but I wouldn't call myself an expert quite yet. I'm speaking from a good game perspective. Facts are getting women to come out is hard enough. Getting them out twice, especially if you haven't had sex is even harder. You keep taking them out without doing anything you could be setting a bad precedent. The best way to get a girl to want to see you again is to fuck her good day one. And the applebees bit. Your words, your vibe, should all be turning her on over time, more and … | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of ThumbDude I have no clue what you're talking about. Your number one priority on date #1 should be to escalate as much as possible and create as much sexual tension as possible. Holding back your escalation could possibly indicate abundance, but it's way more important to convey that with your aura and vibe. Your words and how you carry yourself. She could also assume you're just scared to make a move. A first date is not for a female to analyze you. A first date is a high value man giving her the opp… | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 08:22 PM |
| 8 | Girl ive been casually fucking for 3 months hits me with this...Of course there is a chance. There are no guarantees in game. I'm just giving you the best general game advice because in light of her telling you, "I'm thinking of another man too much to fuck you/I can't submit to you because my emotions are still in submission to another man." Yes she very well may be in pain, but the nature of what she is in pain about is not your fucking concern. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Girl ive been casually fucking for 3 months hits me with this...My post history and comment history speaks for itself . . . I'm only on here to help guys. Nothing more or less. Cancel the date and see her on your terms when her emotions are in line. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal that I am extremely turned on by the fact I am my gf's first?That's just your ego trying to make you feel like the man for fulfilling your biological role in optimal conditions. The book sperm wars talks about how men and women sniff and taste each other's genital to test if anyone else has been there, so they know how hard they have to fuck to compete with either giving sperm or receiving sperm (having thin cervical mucus in the vagina). Virgins however don't turn me on. They can't fuck. Too much work training them. They have all these weird sex beliefs.… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Girl ive been casually fucking for 3 months hits me with this...Plenty of girls go to therapy for trauma. What I am saying is that whenever a woman specifically says, "Can we hang out but no sex?", she's either got another man on her mind she feels she belongs to and wants to save it for him, or she's trying to feel more valuable by getting your time for free. But that's a catch 22. Once you show her she can get your time for free she'll expect it more and more. Valuable enough to leave or valuable enough to be your girl. To a woman, attention and validation… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:32 PM |
| 9 | Girl ive been casually fucking for 3 months hits me with this...You just found out what a sexual/emotional imprint looked like. He still has her soul, and you're a placeholder until he got his shit together. Also . . . She's trying to subtly push you into the relationship stage to feel more valuable. If she can get your time and attention without doing anything it boosts her self esteem and ego. In this context, she's trying to build up enough value to comfortably leave you and pursue her ex without feeling like shit. Once you validate her enough, you're don… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Girl forgot number of dates we’ve been onDude . . The number doesn't matter matter. If she was giving you no play it would matter as it would be a sign of game playing. It doesn't matter if she says you're going to fuck. Women are emotions driven and can always say no and change their mind. That's why you need to lead and run proper seduction. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Girl forgot number of dates we’ve been onThere could be many reasons she hasn't fucked you yet. She's getting consistent dick from elsewhere, you're giving her all the attention and validation she needs from dates so she doesn't need anything else to be happy, she has a secret STD down there, she's insecure about herself and her body, she thinks fucking you too soon will make you think less of her, she wants to use you as boyfriend material, and giving you sex would ruin her leverage. These are all possibilities. But the actual reason … | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Girl forgot number of dates we’ve been onWait, so did you have sex with her or no. I had a giant lecture on game to give you but I'm confused. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 02:43 AM |
| 16 | Please read it all before just telling me “NEXT HER”NEXT HER | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Are girls with nipple piercings damaged goods?As long as you think of girls in terms of damaged goods you'll never have success. Ultimately you still have to train them to be the kind of girl you find acceptable for whatever you see them as. Find a baseline of quality behavior. Work from there. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Got a title 9 please help ASAP what do I do.I don't understand your question. Why would she file something if she agrees you both did nothing wrong? Will who go through with what? Your panic makes it hard to help. . . Anyway, they won't automatically find you "responsible" depending on your school's grading system for guilt and not guilt in sexual assault until they hear your side of the story. Someone from title IX will want to hear your side. Do not talk to them. The police will want to talk to you. Do not talk to them. They cannot comp… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 2 | IYO Does giving women money make them disrespect you?That would depend entirely on why you're getting her these things. Most men give women money or gifts in hopes of getting sex in return. Most women pick up on this, causing them to disrespect the man. Women hate feeling obligated to men, especially sexually. They want men to give up their hard earned valuable earnings with zero expectations. Which is fair. No one can force men to give. Now . . If you're giving it to her as a reward for good behavior, or because you think she actually deserves it… | /r/seduction | 30/01/20 12:10 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone else fallen more in love with game than actual women?I'm fine bro. I actually love and adore women. I'm just trying to get the point across that no women is uniquely different. And when you realise that, game is easy. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 06:22 PM |
| 17 | Has anyone else fallen more in love with game than actual women?There is no such thing as a woman surrendering to you too easily. A woman's place is in submission to a high value man. So if she's doing that then she's doing what she's supposed to, and you're actually punishing women's compliance, leading to more game playing on their end. No such thing as a higher value woman because to me a bitch is a bitch. A hoe is a hoe. She's still emotional, she still bleeds every month, she still needs protection and leadership. Their beauty is just an offering, a don… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How sexual are you when cold approaching?That depends entirely on the girl. But at the essence of every approach your focus should be on creating sexual tension. Depending on how she is receiving you, you can tone it up or down. Non verbally you're looking at intense laser eye contact, smooth, silky, resonant, rapport breaking tonality, and playful touches. These are a given no matter what. Verbally as far as being sexual that depends on how congruent you are as a man and how strong your frame is. You can't look feminine and unsure and… | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 3 | "I don't have sex on the first date""I don't have sex on the first date" is a woman trying to convince a man they don't like sex, they don't like them, they don't like sex with them, or they have an agenda for you that relies on them not fucking you quickly (for lots of chicks their only power is sex so they have to convince themselves it's special, a self respect issue, a love issue). So to add on to OP, if you present yourself as a man who 1. Doesn't fit into her agenda (I can't use him for money or boyfriend material) 2. Is tot… | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Whats the actual difference between paying someone to fuck you, and just picking a girl up?All these guys pretty much said it. If your personal brand of masculinity isn't being validated, then she only sees you as an object. When she's fucking for validation the sex is personal, and she'll use every ounce of energy she has to submit herself to you. The sex is not even close to the same. The energy, the meaning, the aura, the purpose, the later implications for the relationship are far different. Don't be a trick. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many dudes on here setting a date limit before they get sex?It's not a verbal exchange. Really it's not even a social contract any longer. It's a boundary. Women decide whether or not they want to fuck you on day 1. They will however, make certain guys wait depending on certain factors. Whether they want to feel special and invested in. If they're repressed. Social conditioning. Comfort. You set a limit because we have the knowledge that most women, like 95% will fuck you on the first few dates if they're feeling true lust. The longer they wait, the more… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | How can I convince my plate to take it raw ?Most women don't give a fuck about condoms. It's all a front. I've only been asked to wear a condom for vaginal sex maybe like . . Three times out of almost 50 chicks. No matter what career and social standing. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 11 | How can I convince my plate to take it raw ?You don't convince women to do anything sexually. Convincing adds pressure and what some may call coercion. What you want is to present a fun opportunity they don't want to say no to. Sex is not a logical decision. Just like kissing, fingering. Condoms however are a logical decision. So logically, you make raw sex an emotional one. If you would've read the sex god method you'd see. Few ways. 1. Start talking about how cute your kids would look. Only do this right after you kiss her. Or after sex… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Thought I was adding a body last night until....It sounds like you tried running classic pickup. Pull to different venues then to your house. However, you're supposed to gradually get closer to your house if you're going to do that. Your also supposed to change atmospheres. Mistake one was waiting a month to talk to her. All her initial interest was in the initial matching phase. You wasted it. Mistake two, you're not thinking of her as a human being bro, just a bitch to be gamed. "She knows I'm higher value than her so why didn't she want to… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 11:01 PM |
| 3 | How to escalate after 5 months?The reason you like her is because you keep investing time and energy into her. Your brain's selective focus determines what is and is not valuable. Second, like the other dude said. You need to slowly crank up the heat. Flirt a little. Begin to be sexually suggestive. Playful touches. Gauge her responses. If she's as submissive as you say she is, she'll go along with it and make it easier to do what you want to with her. That's what submission is. To acquiesce, to yield, to allow. Gauge her res… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What is the one thing you learned from PUA's that got you the most "bang" for your buck.I do understand that. I use to think I had to lie or play games to get with women, then I realized I didn't. It was just social conditioning and false expectations on both sides. Now I just commit to being 100% honest. However, women need to stop being upset that men want them for sex. If you both benefit, there should be no issue. And at the same time, if men recognized that women are worth much more than sex, dudes would stop pumping and dumping. Why would you want to go through the effort of … | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 02:36 AM |
| 6 | Ex gf of 4 years is now having a slut phase. I had waited 1 year before she wanted to have sex and lose her virginity. How to cope?You're upset that you over invested in a woman and now you're void of a return. What you paid a hefty price for, other dudes got for free. What you're really feeling, is that you got robbed. You cope by fucking other girls and recognizing that your feelings are just manifestations of the time, energy, and emotion you put into her. That's the illusion of love. It's not love. Sex is not special. Just investments. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 12:48 AM |
| 3 | How would you escalate with a girl that doesn't like kissing?Every girl who let me fuck but not kiss her has had emotional issues. They usually refuse to give head, are starfish types during sex, and have masculine energy. They'll fuck you, but it's not worth it. Frankly I find it too hard to be turned on by a girl who can't and won't kiss me. Stop letting your ego tell you what to do. Why do you want to conquer it? Just to say you can? Fine. But the amount of investment you put it far outweighs what you get it. She'll never truly respect or submit to you… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 03:09 PM |
| 3 | What if she starts asking about my views on relationshipsYou're trying to be a chameleon and compromise what you believe for the sake of a woman. Your only focus should be on being fun, free, and sexy with your vibe. If your energy is right you can say anything. You can occasionally go into more substantial topics . . . But your baseline of behavior is what's most important. | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 10:45 AM |
| 9 | How many dates with no sex until you stop taking them on dates?Two outings unless they're a virgin. I consider a date me taking them out on my own dime. We go for coffee. I pull to my place and we get it. If that doesn't work. Next date is dinner at my place. If they deny dinner I know it's over and they're truly not sexually interested. First outing has to at least end in a kiss. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 5 | "I dont feel a romantic click, I'm sorry.."I don't feel like ranting. They're telling you I don't want to fuck you. If you want answers on how to stop being platonic look through my post history or DM me. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Girl seemed down to hangout I said let’s hangout tmrw night (today now) she responded by saying “I mean I could butttt I’m super hungover” how would you reply? I imagine it’s a test to see how desperate I am too hangout so I just said “yeah me too”Most things that are called shit tests are actually passive rejection and low interest. Shit tests are a form of disrespect to gauge your brand of masculinity. This . . Was a curve. You need to get your self esteem up and start fucking with women who see your value. Stop investing in chicks who haven't put anything in player. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Would a girl lose out on high quality guys if she makes him wait three months for sex?My point was that men are not approaching women to be their friends. It's because they want something from you. The basis of attraction. You have something I want. I'm coming to go get it. The way I get it is by hopefully in reason, giving you what you want. Next, biology is not an excuse. It's a great indicator for why people do what they do. Nature isn't always fun. Last, I have no problem with high body counts. Women love sex. If anything the more she's had the less I have to train her and de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Would a girl lose out on high quality guys if she makes him wait three months for sex?You seem to be confused, and that's not to insult you. You as a woman have an agenda coming into a situation. So does that man. The ideal would be to see if both of those agendas align. The problem is that you seem to think men should want or be okay with the same things you want. No one wants to be used or forgotten I get that, but the entire basis of men's relationship to women is sex. That's the baseline. Our desire for sex is what draws us to you all in the first place. It's in our DNA and c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | If i had sex with a girl and i wore a condom so literally no part of my dick couldve actually been touching her vagina. Plus if i checked the condom after and nothing got out im pretty much scott free right?? if not is it a bad a idea to ask this girl to take a plan b pill?. . . You wore a condom. You water tested it. She's on birth control. You're fine man. Asking her to take a plan b could be bad for her body, and is likely to piss her off and make her not want to fuck you again. Sounds like you're not ready to be havin sex . . | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 29 | What is the one thing you learned from PUA's that got you the most "bang" for your buck.That women are extremely sexually duplicitous and actually love to fuck and hookup just as much as we do, if not more, no dates required. They're re just held back by social conditioning and the fear that too many men will see how easy they actually are and the man they want won't invest in them. | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | All this Sub is doing is making things more complicated!Too bad all my escalation fuckery is in that pickup group. I really think it's too long to pick up steam and hang out in the seduction sub | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Why is the Red Pill only directed to man?Because a woman running red pill based game would only inspire weakness in a man. A woman's only game should ever be to vet to see if she's dealing with a quality man. Anything else and she'll get in her masculine energy from seeing she can control a man. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 06:14 AM |
| 2 | What I did and what I should have done [FR]Nice. But I see some room for improvement if I can offer. A. In club like settings never wait for girls to come back to you. This contributes to outcome dependence and can be perceived as needy by a lot of girls in that setting. Next time, just talk to different girls and let the magic bring you guys together again. B. Your issue wasn't being too friendly. Your issue was inviting people into your conversation. I mean it's obvious that one guy was trying to tool you. Whilr disrespectful, the best… | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 06:13 AM |
| 78 | What does genuine desire from a women look like?Genuine desire from a woman looks like this: She makes things easy for you, she's not difficult, she complies, she's submissive, she lusts for you and has little to no sexual reservation regarding you, fucks you passionately, she goes along with whatever you want to do, she fucks you like her life depends on it, you don't have to negotiate to get what you want from her, she actively looks to be apart of your life, responds quickly. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Holding frame/sexThink about your language first of all. Performance. That subconsciously implies that you're putting on a show to entertain the chick. That she's just a spectator in the crowd judging you. Your language and thought patterns determine how you will be in bed. You want to prolong sex you need the attitude if a cool, dominant man that isn't overwhelmed by pleasurable feelings. There's nothing to play off . . Because you shouldn't be embarrassed. . Again, language. Instead of viewing it as you failin… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What do girls want most on the first date!?Take them for coffee/lattes and then back to my place so we can get it poppin'. They love it and most of them come back. Girls want to fuck. That's what they want. Getting them to smile and be at ease is just 3% of that process. Most of the process is creating that nice fun, carefree vibe, being non judgemental, and creating massive sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Is there a modern version of 'The Game' or a seduction book/guide worth reading to improve my dating game?Anything by Todd v and john Anthony lifestyle | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 01:58 PM |
| 65 | Wild pickup line actually workedInteresting, but the line had nothing to do with it. It was just a bridge to what was already available between the two of you. A woman has to already have the desire and openness. How you choose to lead and close is up to you. Since you guys already had a clear vibe established, flirting, man to woman, you could've said most anything and gotten the same result. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 01:58 PM |
| 6 | Should I tell her i'm a virginDo not tell her you're a virgin. Women don't want to feel like they'll be responsible for your emotions or that you have the potential to get clingy. The only reason you want to tell is because you're scared and think it will bring less judgement and pressure to be good. I understand brother. But . . . Don't. All you need to do for your first time is surrender to the moment and go with what feels good. Don't worry about sexual dominance or positions. Just focus on being selfish in having fun, fe… | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of being straightforward with girls?The point of having direct style game is so that way a woman can open herself to be turned on by you. When you walk up to a woman she doesn't know what you want per se, so although you can be mysterious to a point, if you're not making it a man to woman interaction, she doesn't know how to vet you. And until she knows how to vet you, her wanting to fuck you becomes 100x more difficult. Does he want to fuck me? Does he want to sell me something? Does he want to be my friend? Is this just casual c… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Maintain hard erection, need help for tnGinseng is scientifically proven to boost testosterone. Take ginseng capsules. Take l citrulline powder as well. Take 4 grams of that and you'll turn into a super saiyan. You can take as much as you want really. But you dont need more than 4 or 5 grams mixed in some juice | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 01:45 AM |
| 5 | How RSDTYLER Got Me LAID A Lot !Tyler is daddy. My life would be in shambles if it weren't for his teachings. | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Recommend pls a good material on flirtingTodd v | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Girl denied sex and said next timeWhich goes to show me, you still don't understand the nature of sexual tension or seduction. Further, his question was about fucking, not getting a girlfriend. Women who make men wait typically aren't that attracted to them or they see them as boyfriend material. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Girl denied sex and said next timeIt's not about being negged. It's about sexual tension. Sexual tension is about the chase, punishment/reward, being unsure. That's the . . tension part. No, sex is not a logical decision. It's something you feel your way into. You can't just say, "Look at me. I'm stable. Have a good job. I look okay. I treat you right. It only makes sense that you fuck me." That doesn't turn women on. It only turns you off because you know the process. When you're the participant it's different. Sort of how expl… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How am i supposed to get a gf if im just trying to get her in bedWhether you want a girlfriend, a wife, fwb, fuck buddy, the process is still the same. They still have to initially lust for you. You have sex. Over time they fall more and more in love with your personality. Through your consistency in behavior they begin to trust you. Over time you both invest more and more into each other emotionally, financially, mentally. You vet her. She vets you. Slowly you integrate her into your lifestyle and have her work to serve in your lifestyle. Once enough time pa… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 11:18 AM |
| 24 | Girl denied sex and said next timeThe issue. You made sex a logical decision instead of an emotional one. You asked her pretty much verbatim from what you wrote, "Do you wanna have sex? Is sex okay now?" You don't do this. It makes you look permission seeking and confused. She was already turned on, but the minute you make a woman have to actually think about it, now they're stuck in their heads weighing the pros and cons of fucking you, how the night went, how they're feeling, what they have to do, instead of just enjoying the … | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 09:21 AM |
| 11 | * 3 DATE RULE "You should see those chicks on a certain sub which shall not be named that fully, with conviction implement the 90 day rule. And not only do they not want you to spin plates/fuck other girls, but at the end of the 90 days it's not even a guarantee. Guys are waiting for the possibility. That's a crazy power dynamic. But on some real shit, if a girl doesn't fuck me on date 1 I've usually written her off in my mind unless she's a virgin/is on her period/or she's genuinely sleepy. Getting tired bitc… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Is a broken plate redeemable after a long enough "soft next", a girl got crazy drunk and hit me but she was otherwise a "unicorn" and now she's trying to come backJust off of principle she'd be gone. I don't need police at my door when I try to leave and she says "He's been beating me for months". If she's gonna come back into my life she's going to have to pay me for my time to show me it's real. $50/h. A pre set time arrangement with a 50% deposit. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 08:27 PM |
| 8 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamFirst of all player, most of the chicks I've fucked have been from online. And from there I've gotten endless dates. I'm only 5'8, barely. I never cut my hair but once in a blue moon. I'm not white. I stutter. Most of the chicks I fuck are adjustable 7's and 8's. And my body count is nearing 50. I'm not some jaw line "chad" or whatever the fuck you call it. I'm just really charismatic, I look decent depending on the day and I know how to turn women on with my vibe and escalating skills. My count… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 07:43 PM |
| 12 | Online Dating & Social Media is a ScamSounds to me like you lack serious game. You don't know how to acquire leads, set up dates, a funnel. You have no structure and that is why you fail online dating. It doesn't have to be hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Why not just come up and say "I want to fuck you"?You sound like you'd be a strong fan of Alan Roger Currie's "Mode One". He literally goes up to chicks and says that. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 07:28 PM |
| -3 | CheatingRecognize that your guilt is only the subconscious fear of you getting caught and losing her. It's feminine thinking, you fearing the loss of what you think is stability. Women crave stability. We don't. We crave freedom. Recognize that she's just another girl and that as a man you are her superior. It's your god given role Recognize that telling her what you did can never help you, only hurt you. Recognize that your biological imperative dictates that you slay hoes. Recognize that it is your du… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How would you guys reply to this?Buying a cute little island to party on and vibe out. Sounds like you're kinda gig 😌 | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | What's the missing link in f-close?If fucking her is the problem but you can kiss, your sexual escalation is the problem. You need to walk us through what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I reply to this shit test? Need help ASAPI've had women tell me that wanted to meet up as soon as possible because they know how interest dies down with someone you haven't met yet. I think she might know the game. That, and a week is a hella long time for a girl you met online. Way too long. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Tips on how to do "caring" hard fucking?We're talking about formal BDSM. What you guys are talking about is just rough sex. There's no established power dynamic of the superior and the inferior. The rules of BDSM are designed so people don't become physically and emotionally damaged beyond repair. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to do "caring" hard fucking?This is why if you're going to engage in BDSM related acts. You outline on paper the rules and boundaries you consent to. Hard limits. When a scene begins and when the scene ends. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 03:12 PM |
| 18 | Tips on how to do "caring" hard fucking?You're seeing it logically, not emotionally in the moment. Someone's breath softly on your skin can feel good and give you goosebumps. It isn't some creepy thing from some awkward dude. Really I'm describing a small part of tantra . . But whatever. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | What are some signs of bluepill behavior?Value draining questions like this. Youtube/Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 02:37 AM |
| 56 | Tips on how to do "caring" hard fucking?Hard Hand/Soft Hand: You have one hand abusing them, pulling hair, choking, spanking, and the other hand providing a mixed sensation. So running your nails gently up her spine, scratching lightly the back of her neck, caressing her ears, the pressure point behind her ears, rubbing the front of her foot, depending on the position. You want to aim for fleshy muscle areas. Varied Breath Attacks: While fucking her ridiculous, breathe on her skin really softly. Behind her neck. Sides. It could be let… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 02:32 AM |
| 2 | PSA. Women/guys who are nice to you whilst they are working aren’t being nice to you because they are being paid. They are probably into you.The average chick working those jobs gets hit on by literally every dude they have to talk to. They get tired of it. They flirt for entertainment. Because they're bored. Because it's a job requirement. Because it brings tips. I too get tons of free food from these people without asking, but there's still a difference. If you're not socially attuned to whether a girl is on autopilot mode like most are, you could really fuck up a good situation. Most guys aren't attuned to read the subtle nuances.… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Lots and lot of matches. Very few numbers. Red pill meWhat is your text formula like? What is your structure? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever just get pissed that you have this deep biological desire for women?The problem is where you place your focus. You're used to giving your power away to women. Chasing them. Needing them. Having to be validating. Here's some things you can do to boost your confidence. Write a long list of any and everything that makes you valuable to women and society. Big. Medium. Minor. When you know what you offer, chasing and being fulfilled by others seems silly because you recognize you're the prize. Whatever your purpose is in life, make that your focus. If you don't know … | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever just get pissed that you have this deep biological desire for women?Refute what I say instead of trying to insult me my guy. I can promise you I'm not an incel and I can promise I most definitely have fucked more women than you. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 05:44 AM |
| 7 | [Text Report] girl flaked on me 1.5 hours prior to the date, i managed to turn it around over text, now we're back onThis all sounds interesting but who was the one really running game on who? You're spending all of this energy thinking, plotting, planning, getting yourself even more invested in a girl who isn't compliant to begin with. Sure you turned it around but at what cost? Is this chick even worth it? All that energy and she still hasn't served you. . Tell me young player, did you guys meet up and did you fuck her? | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 12:51 AM |
| 23 | Do you ever just get pissed that you have this deep biological desire for women?If you didn't have a sex drive you wouldn't have the hunger the build, conquer, workout, none of that. Our sex drive is fuel not only for bitches, but for life. Furthermore, you view your desire with women as a win lose scenario, of endless investment with no return. This is hurting you. Getting women is the process of self improvement. How they respond to you and what you do to make them respond that way is a direct indicator of your internal state and how you come off. Builds character. Teache… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 12:12 AM |
| -5 | Comfortable condoms?Thick foreskin is the greatest condom there is. Soon as you cum, trap it in the folds of your foreskin and gently pull out. It takes time to master, but it's worth it bro. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 10:08 PM |
| 4 | Shit test after 3 yrs of LTRThe secret to demotion and being non reactive is . . . to actually mean it. If her behavior genuinely turns you off, and you truly believe in why you're doing what you do and feel how you feel, then she'll sense that. You have to believe in your reality and what you want for it. I want things this way, and if you won't comply, I won't be upset or angry, or pissed, because I have options, I worship my purpose, not you, and because I'm grounded. You will never get me so invested that I'm upset ove… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | 7 SECRETS Women DON'T Want Men To Know!Stop taking seduction advice from women. It puts you in the frame of women being superior to you, better than you. As opposed to a brotherhood of men teaching each other how to hunt. It's condescending. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Shit test after 3 yrs of LTRYour job is not to restrict her freedom or shame her. Your job is to be high value, with principles and boundaries, and to show her the price of doing whatever you deem to be stupid. We all know why she wants to go clubbing. She wants to feel like she still got it. Like she's still powerful. Let her do that. But never give her enough to where she feels like she can leave. Be indifferent. Cold. Keep it player. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 9 | girls thinking escalation is desparationNo wonder, your game was fucked up. You need to imply sex with flirting and the way you act. Your vibe and the way you talk should be beyond chill. Non needy. Non judgemental. And hot. Sticky. Sweet. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 20 | girls thinking escalation is desparationI've never been told that. Sounds like you're escalating way to hard and fast. Sexual tension isn't about talking about sex. It's about emotional tension and mystery. You show her sexy things like intense laser eye contact, touching her playfully, pleasantly, being mysterious, being icy and cold, resonant tonality. Then you pull back. Get quiet. Take away the touching. The eye contact. Let them miss it. And when you miss something you want more than you had last time. Your minds way of getting s… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Does the friend zone ever pay off? (Long)Make her pay for your time player. Think of some things you can't afford, things you don't want to pay for yourself, things that are an inconvenience, errands you don't feel like running, food you don't feel like cooking. Make her put in work. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Does the friend zone ever pay off? (Long)First off, you're not in the friendzone. You started off fucking her. Then she stopped. Your an on again, off again fling. As long as a woman is providing value to you in the way of money, food, networking, you keep her as part of your team as a valuable asset in the rotation. Two, stop moralizing. Helping her isn't morally right or wrong. It's your own choice. If you understand a woman's mind and how she behaves then you know why she's doing it. It ceases to be a right or wrong issue. Three. Th… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 07:39 PM |
| 6 | No sex so left abruptlySigh . . . You never ask a girl if she's a virgin dude. If they are let them reveal that. It can create too much mental pressure if they have to tell you. You should be finding out her sexual history, preferences by asking fun, wild questions that turn her on. "Something tells me that the way your back is arched you give crazy back shots. Prove me wrong." Or if you wanna go more mild. "I bet you're an amazing kisser. With lips that look like cotton candy I know what you've been up to." Or in the… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | No sex so left abruptlyIf she's selling you on being a virgin and you're 100% sure from your vetting process that she isn't then you're already playing yourself heavily. If you were a real player she would know she couldn't lie to you. She's not your fwb if you're not in her guts. I mean you gotta at least be doing anal bro and getting head. Anything else and you're just . . Experimenting. If she's told you no the last two times, that's a pattern you've now let her establish. In her mind telling you no is expected and… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 01:59 PM |
| 4 | After the first date leading to sex - patience or push it?Set up second dates at your place. Her response to this is the biggest indicator of how she views you. Dinner or drinks Just because you kiss a woman before being alone doesn't mean you killed the sexual tension. You keep the tension by acting aloof, non needy, unimpressed, and by constantly qualifying her and looking unsure of how you feel about what she says to you. It's nothing more than push pull. If you were in bed and you kissed. Did that kill the sexual tension? No. Sexual tension is buil… | /r/seduction | 12/01/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.You know what high performance is? Not succumbing to an adrenaline dump like most people do in a fight. They have a good thirty seconds and they're done. High performance is maintaining your composure and fine motor skills. High performance is having a plan and letting your body execute on that subconsciously. High performance is not getting tunnel vision. Our bodies are anything but high performance when it comes to stress. Our bodies our infinitely inefficient when it comes down to it. That's … | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Can We STOP Using the Term Approach Anxiety? It's outdated and FALSE.This sounds like mental gymnastics. Fear is still fear. Fight, flight, freeze, aren't signals telling to you run into something. They're preparing you to do your best in hoping you don't die. When men are thinking of approaching, they're thinking of the bad that could happen because biologically, and historically, a lot of bad things can happen. Most of them being an alpha male type coming up to kill you. Fear is your body trying to keep you safe. When your heart is pounding a thousand miles a m… | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How does the ‘sexual preferences’ come up before the act?In my experiences asking girls about turn ons over text before you've either had sex with her or have fully established that she not only sees you sexually, but are going to see her again, is a bad idea. Why? Because if you haven't established anything like sex or consistency, she'll likely feel like next time you see her, sex has to happen, and then she'll be to scared to meet you out again. Having that conversation in person is far better. Because you can gauge how she really feels about what … | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 03:39 PM |
| 3 | The guy doesnt have a car, but the girl does..You're looking at things from a provider perspective. As long as your vibe is fun, chill, sexy, non judgement, seductive, and you can lead and plan properly, they will do whatever you want. | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 09:43 PM |
| 4 | It seems most dudes are lifting nowadays, and I fear it will become harder for us that dont look like Brad Pitt?You guys put way to much stock in looks. A good body build and looks is only a foot in the door. And if she fucks you solely on your looks, that means it wasn't your looks, it was her sexual imprint. Women fuck you way more based on behavior and unequivocally leave for the same reason. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 07:00 PM |
| 3 | RP response to being raped as a guyI'm responding to the fact that he essentially threw Male victims under the bus. I could give a fuck if my girl stayed with me if I was raped by another man. That's on her. And if she leaves, she wasn't shit to begin with. That's a low quality chick. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | RP response to being raped as a guyYou've clearly overdosed on red pills and need to have your stomach pumped. If you reasonably forsee danger, and everything passes your vetting process to the best of your ability, then certain bad things that happen to you are beyond your control. Like a force of nature. Do we take responsibility for nature's unpredictability? No. Yet we interact with it and influence parts of it every day. Ultimately, nature does what it will do. Like a mass shooter will do what they do. So no man, you can't b… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | How can you love a girl and abstain from being needy?Love, meaning become emotionally compromised over her. More attached to her than she is you. Basing how you treat her on feelings instead of what she earned and deserves. A man cannot have his feelings wrapped up over a woman. They can. You. Cannot | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 07:07 AM |
| 2 | I'm 35, age of consent here is 16...If you keep evidence like texts and video you don't have to worry about fake claims. But you know what will bring about constant testing and possible false claims? Doing what you are now. By not being cool with what you want, you make it weird. And that weirdness, they'll feel that and feel unsafe around you. Become grounded in your desires. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 07:04 AM |
| 2 | How can you love a girl and abstain from being needy?A man's place is not to love a girl. But to like her enough to keep her around. Once you recognize and are in tune with your role as a man, to be grounded, stoic, on your purpose, and you live that, being needy becomes less of a problem. You're not needy because you fulfill yourself. Your purpose fulfills you. You validate yourself and other people can't determine your worth. You do. Recognize that she doesn't give you value. She's just a reflection of your value. Neediness comes from a place of… | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Should I expect sex when a girl asks me if she can come over to cuddle while watching a move together on my bed?Expect that the sex will happen naturally. But don't be entitled to it. Rather be healthily entitled to it. Just make sure you still sexually escalate and move things forward. Once you're spooning with her. Make small moves incrementally. | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl Pulling Back/Setting a Definite DateShe probably isn't invested in you enough. The more invested in you she is time wise, and more importantly, emotionally, the less flaky she'll often be. She's pulling back not as a shit test but because she likely found a new guy, a new shiny object, or some fun event with her friends, but likely a guy, and wants to be totally sure the plans are going to fail before she gives you an answer. If things fail, because she didn't give you a definite answer, she can just hop back on because she didn't… | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Do women even enjoy sex? LTR has never initiates sex. Is this normal?Sounds like a court case waiting to happen. You've spent so much time with lackluster women that you believe they don't enjoy sex. To really help you we would need more information. What's your body count? How old are you? Have you ever had good sex before with her or other women? Have you ever fucked a woman who was crazy for your dick? These all need to be answered. Never tell a woman your sexual grievances in order to get them to respond. They will resent you and feel like you're not "that fu… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 07:24 PM |
| -2 | PUA youtube channel recommendations?John Anthony lifestyle | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 10:24 AM |
| 4 | LTR being corrupted by TED talkI personally wouldn't tolerate a chick saying any of that to me. Why do you want to be with her? What is she doing for you? What is your relationship based on? How long did you guys talk before getting together? Have you two been fucking frequently? How long did you vet her? Could you replace her with someone new, if not better than her? Sidenote: She's been thinking of ditching you for quite sometime but couldn't quite put her finger on it. She's torn between new prospects and the security of b… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Plates are concerned about my number of partners because of sexual health?I've never had a chick get concerned about the number of women I've slept with. No matter how inexperienced they were. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. If they want my body count I tell them real chill. Never fucked up a lay. Never had a girl ask for test results either. Experienced or inexperienced. Your issues are a result, likely, of being indirect and dodgy. You're not congruent. I want every girl to think I'm a player who talks to a lot of chicks and fucks a lot of chicks. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 02:24 AM |
| -1 | The best way to duck the n count questionI've never had a chick not fuck me because of my notch count. If she asks I give her an exact number. And we still go to bed after. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Why is it 10x Easier for Women than Men ?Most men are beta males, not in the derogatory sense, but they are simply unknowledgable. They are desperate and flock to any women possible because they do not recognize their worth as men and what they contribute. Because we as men were made to create and make things happen, it gives the illusion of things being peachy for women. We have the burden of initiation and creating the initial stages of relationships. Women get sex easy. Very. But high value men who are willing to commit to them and … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Is seducing someone a bad thing?I remember having this issues some years ago. Seduction is amoral. It only feels wrong because it's one of the few things you do 100% deliberately and you aren't 100% congruent in thoughts, words, actions. And because you're doing it from a girl's perspective rather than your own. As in, you don't believe in your desires and getting what you want. You think you're being dishonest. Here's what helped me. Recognizing that in order to get high quality jobs, people, opportunities, friends, money, yo… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | What do you call a group of girls you’re about to approach at a bar?Full course meal/Food for the next year | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 06:00 AM |
| 1 | [TRY THIS] don't escalate on first dates to avoid blowing them outI get what you're getting at. I don't care to build huge rotations and filter out. I don't have to do that. Because I'm a very picky man, if a woman's conversation, her behavior aren't up to par, I don't even try to pull her to my house or have sex. It doesn't get that far. The way I structure my game, by the time we get to my house, she already knows what's good. It's like pre qualifying . . Like a soft inquiry into someone's credit history. Or lurking on someone's online presence before meetin… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 01:18 AM |
| 1 | [TRY THIS] don't escalate on first dates to avoid blowing them outI see what you're saying, but when I'm personally talking to a chick, it's because I want to see certain criteria met. If a chick is truly lusting after you, you don't have to go on a whole bunch of dates to get them to rock with your program. You really don't. Because they're honest with themselves and you about the nature of what's good. All the girls who have been most consistent have been girls who fuck me on the first night. The ones who want to wait or claim to need dates for "comfort" usu… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Not horny / nervousnessYea man, sounds like you need to discover what you need. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 3 | [TRY THIS] don't escalate on first dates to avoid blowing them outIf things don't get physical on the first date, that sets a standard. There's a certain window of time where girls can see you a certain way. In my experience of piling up an okay body count, if there was no kiss on day one nothing really happened after. Truth is girls can drop off for any reason. Finally, the date should feel low risk because you give her the vibe of 100% freedom of outcome. If she doesn't feel like anything has to happen, she's fine. I agree with imperator. You're playing a ga… | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Not horny / nervousnessNot enough information bro. Were you actually nervous in real time? Were you feeling confident? Do you have erectile issues? Were you horny before you two met up? Was your mind running a thousand miles a minute when she sat on your lap? Does a girl sitting on your lap turn you on? For me it doesn't. Certain foreplay and submissive behavior does. But you still need to be inspired. Do you know what turns you on? If so and you know you're gonna have sex, you need to lead and set up a dynamic where … | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | She invited me to her place for dinner this weekend, any tips?I can't tell if this is a troll post or not. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 06:30 PM |
| 5 | When dating coaches completely contradict themselves ?Game is a paradox. You pick your belief system based on what you need to achieve at the time. So the two different ideas are always true, because they are contextually driven. Nuanced. You can say to yourself to cold approach while every so often you sit back and let women choose you. There are hard rules and soft rules and you mix them together. All of it depending on your desires, skills, and experience. | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Since starting TRT my sex drive has gone up beyond that of my partners and I’m finding it incredibly frustratingI almost forgot what sub we were in . . This is a pretty common answer, but running dread game is a great way to get more sex. If she sees you flirting with other attractive women, just talking to them happily. If you start acting simultaneously distant and more happy. She will get anxiety that you are about to leave and or fuck another woman more valuable than her. And let me tell you. I've never had a woman fuck me better and harder than when their anxious about competition. Like . . . They gi… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Since starting TRT my sex drive has gone up beyond that of my partners and I’m finding it incredibly frustratingSounds like you built your LTR on a bad foundation. It likely should've been set up so that as a man she knows you can go out and get some strange whenever you want and have her not take it personally. I do understand the feeling quite well of wanting to a avoid a girl you're sexually attracted to because being close to them is a reminder. But, a rejection is a rejection. Don't let anyone downplay the importance of your desire. Consistent sex is one of the main ways we as men feel validated. Spr… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | How can I be calm under pressure and in any situation?No problem. If you need any more help dm me | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Does she actually like me?Make no mistake. Women are turned on by men who sleep around. They want to know you have options, but no throw it in their face. What they say and what they respond to are very different things. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Does she actually like me?She's just being nice to you my guy. If you want to know if a girl likes you, you have to actually, flirt and sexually escalate. If she's not compliant to that or reciprocating, that's a 90% show that she's wasting your time and leading you on. If you turned her on, she'd let you know. She's asking you boyfriend questions, meaning, she doesn't see you as the typical guy she would sleep with quickly or turns her on. When I say boyfriend questions, I mean the questions to vet how safe, reliable, d… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Is kissing on a first date important?Yes. Every time I haven't kissed on the first date, I find sex with the girl increasingly more difficult to get to. It's a direct gauge of her interest and how much she lusts after you. Don't let women convince you they need time. No they don't. If she's feeling you enough her attraction will overcome her fear. They don't need more time. Or to wait. If something is DESIRABLE they go for it. You want a woman that lusts for you, not wants you for just attention or boyfriend material. | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | How to ask for second date?Never ask a girl out for a second date at the end of the first. It puts too much pressure on them to decide how they might feel about you in the future. Chicks need time to reflect, evaluate. It looks needy as well. Plus, they can say yes in the moment out of being put on the spot, or because they believed it was a yes, but later change their mind as they often do. All of this depends on what your goal is. If you were running modern pickup the goal of the first two dates is sex. You need to make… | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 02:26 PM |
| 9 | How can I be calm under pressure and in any situation?You need To enhance your core beliefs about yourself, men, and women. This is fucking key. What you truly believe subconsciously determines how you act Experience. You need to get fucked up a bunch, and win a bunch, and be subjected to the pressure a lot to get used to it. A solid plan for your interactions. When you go by a plan. It takes the pressure off you. Yet again. This involves general self trust. However, if it's someone else's plan, you can put the "accountability" on them Stop investi… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Girl has questionNo | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 11:00 PM |
| 9 | Read the body language before going in for the first kissHm. I have to disagree. Going for a kiss at the end of a date usually signifies she wasn't interested. Also, if you wait til the end, it could add a lot of pressure for her to make up her mind about whether or not she sees you sexually. Kissing should be going on during the date. And if there is no kiss on date one, odds are she's totally inexperienced or she isn't into to. Now I will say this. Kissing her hand is a great way to get her mind running and thinking about how soft your lips are. I u… | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Girl told me she didn’t want me to be her “rebound” because she liked me. How should I interpret this?She saying that she's starting to like you too much because of the sex, probably because it's frequent and in line with what her ex was giving her. That or he wasn't putting it down like you. Either way, your dick and the frequency of is putting her in her feelings. However, she doesn't want to feel needy, so she's trying to pressure flip things onto you by making it seem like you're the one who might be wanting more. Keep fucking her. Stop cuddling so much. Stop holding hands so much. Stop lett… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | She cancelled 2 dates in a rowYou're too available and she knows you'll always be there at her back and call. If something is always available it loses value because it is too familiar to the person who has access to it. One would think it you always had access to something desirable that would increase its value but that's not how human psych works, especially women. If there is an abundance of it, it screams safe, boring, non valuable. If you have a fridge stocked with food and no particular taste, no food you have is any … | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I think a guy I’ve been hooking up with has PEMore foreplay equals more time for him to relax. Key here being time is on your side. Give a stressed out person enough time and that negative thought energy dissipates. So if you have a horny guy with enough foreplay, he will, if you're doing it right, be sucked into the present moment, which is what sex is all about | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 04:32 AM |
| 0 | I think a guy I’ve been hooking up with has PEThe truth. There's nothing as a woman you can say to help him. This is a personal man's issue that needs to be dealt with through counsel of other men. As a woman, the only thing I can tell you is to give off the most care free, judgement free vibe you can. You need to give him the impression that he can do no wrong. Make him think it's all about him and only him. That no matter what you're not going anywhere. That you just love to take his dick and that's all you live for. Tons of foreplay help… | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Trying to tell if someone likes me or not, Im lost AsfIt gets harder and harder for me to take posts like these seriously. Brother, if a girl is asking about you that means you're somewhat emotionally relevant in her mind. But the fact that you've spent months thinking about this one girl who you haven't taken action on is killing you. You need to approach or do nothing. Nothing you ask any of us will ever help because you refuse to take the minor fucking risk of approaching. But here you are trying to lurk on a girl. Just make a move dude. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 01:36 AM |
| 8 | How do I convince virgin GF to fuckMan . . . My brother, she truly has you whipped, dazed, and confused. How in the fuck can you know she's worthy of an LTR in only two months? That's not nearly enough time to vet bad habits, consistency, past experiences, the like. You need at least a year before you make a woman your girl and I can bet you did it way sooner than that the way you talk. Now for the real game. I've never met a virgin I couldn't break into begging me for dick. The ultra religious types. You have two problems and tw… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Is sex the ultimate value that makes a girl cling on to a guy? Or is it game/LMS?Whatever causes her the most emotional investment is what wins. Good dick is rare and powerful. So to her that is very much so emotionally relevant. Having someone, i.e. you, that can make her feel extremely weak and vulnerable is extremely emotionally relevant. Having her play critical roles in your life, serving a purpose is emotionally relevant. They all keep her feelings tied to you. Depending on her stage of life, what she wants, what you're offering, play a factor. It also depends on what … | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 7 | Second date rescheduledYou're overthinking man. Just reschedule and if she Flakes you next her | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 02:37 PM |
| 1 | If everything is a shit test, how are you supposed to even show human emotions?Let me rephrase for you brother. If you are a man, grounded in his own standards, principles, way of being, lifestyle, belief systems, program, and you know yourself, a woman cannot test you. The way you choose to operate your mind, your reactions to things, your life, and how you have people interact with you and your life, is your own personal version of reality. A woman cannot test a man grounded in his own reality. Why? Because nothing she does phases him. He gonna do what he gonna do regard… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 09:40 PM |
| 2 | If everything is a shit test, how are you supposed to even show human emotions?A woman cannot test you if you are a man grounded in his own reality. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some insight over this situation?Just make sure you know how to properly vet women with that fun, free, non judgemental vibe that gets them to tell you everything. Getting their full history through casual conversation can tell you so much. How open to sex she is. If she's repressed. The kind of man she responds to. Who she likes to submit to. Who she breaks the rules for. How comfortable she is with sex. How fast she likes to. Whether or not she might stay consistent. If she's wishy washy. If she's crazy. I get all the answers… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Can I get some insight over this situation?You need to stop looking to people to justify your emotions. Emotions are neither right nor wrong. They merely belong to whatever mental paradigm you're in at the moment. Just like thoughts. It's what you do with them that matters. Is cheating wrong? Yes. Because you go back on your word. Now the reason why you cheat can in your mind nullify in your mind that guilt because in YOUR mind, it's more important than the original wrong. That being said, you fucked up in your vetting process. This is t… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 0 | I want your opinion - Lay/Body count - what’s your max number of guys a potential girlfriend can have slept with?Exactly. I only ask about her body count and experience to 1. To gauge if she thinks I'm cool enough to be honest with 2. To see how fast she usually gives it up and compare it to me 3. Gauge how to treat her in bed. You don't want to mess with a girl who fucked everyone on night one and makes you wait. That's a clear sign she'll never give you her best | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 3 | I want your opinion - Lay/Body count - what’s your max number of guys a potential girlfriend can have slept with?You're letting your ego get in the way player. The only questions you should be asking are, if she's emotionally healthy, and if you two get along. I don't care how many guys a girl has slept with, only that she's fucking me with the same, if not more intensity than she did the other guys. I won't settle for less than she previously gave out. Men only care about body count because a lot of them have a Madonna/Whore complex. They want a hoe that can do it all and a good girl to raise children wit… | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | ConsentIt's a really long post so take your time. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | ConsentYea sure. Just gotta add you to the group | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Tips for Penetrating VirginI can promise you that we wouldn't be having a debate but rather an exchange of ideas. And I wouldn't straw man or "shit toss" you There is absolutely nothing you could say to change my mind about what I believe. Which is why it wouldn't be a debate but an exchange. Everything I talk about I live it. I understand women on a profound level. I know what they want. What they respond to. When they want it. How they want it. And why they claim to want what they want. I'm promising you, they don't wan… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Tips for Penetrating VirginI wrote everything you read. And your points make sense in a certain context. But there is a difference between texting and having conversational flow. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Tips for Penetrating VirginMan this is way to much to respond to. If you care for a bit of discourse over some sort of video chatting platform I welcome you. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Younger girl doesn't want intimate contactSounds like you didn't do a good job at all of probing her relationship and sexual history. As far as this I would tell you to, next time, approach whatever new girl as the cool guy with that fun non judgemental attitude and casually ask as many questions as possible. Because you've waited so long you've established certain dynamics that might cause her to never be real with you. As far as respect goes, if she's complying less over time, being more passive aggressive over time, saying no more, e… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Tips for Penetrating VirginI feel like you discounted everything I said without thinking it through my friend. Sexual shame was at an all time high in the old days. Everyone scared to be open. The only place that was accepted was marriage. Sexual repression was the name of the game because you couldn't let that part out without a marriage. Marriages were based on co dependency. As in the man and woman had assigned roles and couldn't deviate. And they had to depend on each other for certain things or they would be negative… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Tips for Penetrating VirginWithout getting too deep here's something to chew on my brother. Every girl loses her virginity to someone. A woman being a virgin is no indicator on how she'll treat you. Her being good to you. Her serving or submitting to you. Why? You don't know her yet. Marriages in the past were socially forced not because it was healthier but because it was what society said was healthier. If society is cohesive your mind tricks you into believing whatever ideas the society is invested in are already true.… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 11:25 PM |
| -1 | Tips for Penetrating VirginYou trolling? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Tips for Penetrating VirginYou keep going soft because your dick isn't doing what it's supposed to be doing, meaning, going deep inside some walls. So your dick sees it as a rejection and shuts off. Best advice, move onto a chick that's always warmed up and knows what she's doing. Better pay off in the end. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 6 | Tips for Penetrating VirginFeel the same way. Messing with virgins is an annoyance. The ones who are completely down take too much work to penetrate and too much foreplay. Makes any possible pay off not feel worth it. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 09:14 PM |
| 5 | ConsentNormally I would direct you to my post about consent and escalation Mastery. But for now all I'm going to say is you can be as mindful as you want. Just don't be permission seeking. Never be permission seeking. Read the vibe and take what you want decisively. | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Younger girl doesn't want intimate contactYou haven't really told us anything. What are your escalation skills like? How is your physical progression? How do you go about turning her on enough to be kissed and grabbed on? Why are you trying to convince us this isn't oneitis when you've been trying this bullshit for a year now? How do you react when she provides resistance? What kind of settings are you guys in? Who is initiating contact? Is she inexperienced? What's her body count? If it's more than zero then it's a you issue unless she… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | do i need to respond? homies an inside joke. she has been talking about being sick for a few days so i THINK i believe herNo you don't need to respond. Wait a three or four days. Plenty of time to get over a cold for the average person. Also, don't cancel on other girls for what you perceive as a better option. Be a man of your word. Generally it's always a good idea to as a rule to, if you're gonna juggle time frames, keep the date with the highest interest girl who is most likely to not flake. | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach VS choosing signals?Why are you even asking a question if you're mind is already made up about cold approach being cringe? If a girl is throwing out choosing signals it's still up to you as a man to go in the set and make shit happen. And guess what, the choosing signals she's giving could be for a variety of reasons. Maybe she just likes to flirt. Wants attention. Just wants a date from you and nothing else. She was bored. She chose you! But for what? To find that out you still gotta escalate, get a number, get he… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 09:58 PM |
| -1 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionBitch logic is still bitch logic. No matter how you say it, if you want to defile your masculinity and pay for some ass go ahead. Just keep that sort of loser energy far away from me. You hang around a trick you become a trick. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 06:29 PM |
| 2 | PUA is nonsenseI guarantee you most of the people commenting on field reports are using routines. They're probably just theory nuts who don't go out or don't take action. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 2 | PUA is nonsenseDude. . . . Modern pickup has nothing to do with routines or pickup lines. I don't know what you've been studying. Second, layering your text messages in certain orders does have a certain effect. It's not w guarantee but it gets you from point a to point b. Plenty of men have their shit together but don't know how to talk to women, which is why game exists. Subs like thir exist. To learn things like how to pull to your place, create sexual tension, have sex appeal, having a good mouth piece, et… | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 8 | Went over to a girls dorm, watched Netflix no hookupAlways be the first to back off and pull away. This keeps the sexual tension, as it forces her, not you, to keep the mental excitement as unresolved. You can go straight to home, but that doesn't turn most girls on. You gotta tease them mentally and physically, getting them to want to jump you. Keep HER unresolved and HER wanting more. Give less than you take. There's a difference between never and not now. You got a not now and took it as a never. You stop for a few minutes and then try again, … | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Girl (18) told me she’s pregnantIf you feel like she'd forcefully pull the condom off you shouldn't be having sex with her anyway. Insist on the condom. If she won't have sex with it, you walk away. Always maintain your self respect and health as a man. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl (18) told me she’s pregnantSir . . You do realize that girls will falsely tell you that they're pregnant in hopes that you will have sex with them raw and actually get them pregnant. Don't fall for the game player. She's probably ovulating right now. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Had a nice noon walk until she undone her jackets. Had to get a pic of it.Dude get thr fuck out of here. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if my date went well? (Short story)No excuses pimpin. What you can't do physically you make up for with your vibe and energy. I've pulled many girls from coffee dates to sex in around 2 to 3 hours. Also . . You shouldn't be going on dates that early, makes getting things done harder. I'd say wait a few days, hit her up and gauge her interest. Then set something up for the evening, more intimate | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I know if my date went well? (Short story)This is too adorable. Now it's time for some game. Never ask permission to touch a woman. Women like things to flow organically like it "just happened". You feel the vibe, the good energy in both your and her body, go for whatever physical connection you desire and based on her responses (getting more relaxed, tensing up, stuttery breathing, reciprocating touch, etc. ) you continue or pull back. Read her moment to moment. Lead physically and calibrate You're there to fuck her not be her friend. … | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 03:03 AM |
| -1 | What do these multiple instances mean?You're not her friend my guy. You want to fuck her. You're hiding it. Therefore you're not her genuine friend. You just want plausible deniability so if your plan to fuck her fails you can try again later. Grow up homie. And stop lying to yourself | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl stopped me when i tried to escalateDon't let her sexually condition you. Make her fuck you on your terms. Meaning, your not getting action only on the conditions she sets. If she's not fucking you based on the rules and timeframes you've set up, it's just a matter of time | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 10:25 PM |
| 2 | What do these multiple instances mean?Jesus this sub . . Sexually escalate so you can get your answer my guy. That will confirm or deny any beliefs you have about this chick and you can get a reference experience from it. | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | I made it out of the friendzone!You haven't made it out of the friendzone until you know for sure she sees you sexually. That means you two doing something together physically. By what I'm reading it just sounds like she's just using you or rather the opportunity as a source of entertainment. | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Stop Getting So Hyped Up! NO Girl is EVER a For Sure Thing.Don't let her derail the conversation. The fact is that we men have a lot more flaking to deal with as well as the burden of having an icy mindset. Things do happen on both sides, doesn't mean one doesn't deserve special attention | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Should I wait to ask for her snapchat in real life or should I just follow her out of the blue on Instagram?Yes, and I'm telling you that your issues run deep. I could give you a free 30 minute consultation and enlighten you on some good game so you don't have to ask questions like this. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Should I wait to ask for her snapchat in real life or should I just follow her out of the blue on Instagram?You need a consultation. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | My opener was just a joke but she ran with it...Not even that, we can't even see enough of the conversation to gauge what's actually going on | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone had this happen before? Random girl added me on snap and sent me nudes without wanting money or me to sign up for anything.Facetime or it's nothing. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:33 AM |
| 13 | Achieved DEV (sex god method), but Immersion is holding me backYour mindset is not right. There is no such thing as performing during sex. It is not a show. There is no crowd. You are not paid. There is no score card. She can't fire you. Only stop fucking you. There is no end goal. No baskets. I'm not sure you read the sex god method. I read it three times. One does not stop thinking. You're not trying to stop thinking. You need to change your focus. Meditative focus. Like you FOCUS on how good things feel. You FOCUS on the texture of her skin. You FOCUS on… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask why she won't give me her number?No. Do not ask her. Making her think logically about why she doesn't want to fuck you will turn her off even more and solidify the reason she said no in the first place. You never want a woman totally congruent in why she doesn't fuck with you. Furthermore, you cannot logically convince a woman to desire you. You gotta make her feel it. Inspire it out of her. | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I took a muslim girl's virginity but experiencing aloofness from her sideIf she's being enthusiastically compliant to everything you ask her to do then there's no problem. That literally means she's following your program, in your frame. You've established a dynamic that works so don't fuck it up. Teach her whatever you have to, but don't force her to be masculine. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | I just Found this Sub Yesterday. Today a 9/10 approached ME on Tinder and SHE Wants to Meet :-)Anytime a dude posts too many smiling emojis and says things like, "What can I say?", like he's already won the universal tournament, you can tell his mind isn't close to being right, there's nothing you can say to him and he's only here make himself feel good. It's like this weird patting yourself on the back mixed with "confusion" over your "success" and then telling everyone how much of a guarantee your plan is . . Ehhh | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | MGTOWS are incels in denialWrong sub | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl’s vagina is too small?Hmm . . . Try telling her to push out with her muscles, like trying to relax them, the same way you would the anus. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How is meditation related to all of this?Gives you crazy intense eye contact (if doing with eyes open). Allows you to feel your way into situations. Peace of mind so you just flow | /r/seduction | 21/12/19 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Women suck at 'The game'This was confusing to read. A lot of different points intertwining.. My problem with a three strikes rule is that it doesn't take self respect, dignity, and patterns into account. I 've built myself up too much as a man to be out here settling for chicks who tell me no more than 0 times. Frankly I find it to be a total turn off, a woman who gives a no, or a no with no alternative. Women will surely reschedule with you if they think you're interesting enough. If they don't, it's because they don'… | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Wont let me penetrateNo. You're being misleading with your post and not giving the full story. I can tell your leaving out vital details that would appear damaging to people's perception of you. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Wont let me penetrateThis is your fourth time posting this. . . With slightly different wording I see . . .Something ain't right if you gotta keep changing what you say | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Pursue potential mates within your SMV to increase romantic successCelebrities date other celebrities not because they match their SMV, but because it cuts down on liability and the odds of getting fucked over by people with nothing to lose. Celebrities can relate to other celebrities, so it's not much of a sexual market value issue. It's almost always a pragmatic decision, coupled with them probably making more money from each other. Second, seeing things in terms of sexual market value leads to low value and self esteem behaviors. Self limiting beliefs. Movin… | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 03:19 AM |
| 3 | How can you feel good enough for women if you struggle to talk to them while other guys don't?Not, "feel good enough". Just good enough comes from a paradigm involving a spirit of lack. You need to come from a frame of the cup runneth over in value, overflowing and cannot be contained. Everyone drowns in it. When they breathe in the air around them, they can't help but to breathe in your presence! Entitlement is the word. Deserving and more than worthy. You? Yes you. You are. Why? Because you have the ability to create whatever you desire. Because you know what makes you valuable as a ma… | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Girls who say "this is my girlfriend" as a cockblock?I don't know man. The better I get with women and develop higher value, I'm not trying to hookup with chicks who aren't being 100% off top. I can seduce and run good game. But it's so much extra energy your using. | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 05:04 PM |
| 4 | Found out my ex-gf of four years is now a prostitute🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Wont let me penetrateJesus . . Where the fuck are the mods. Hurry up and delete this shit before you end up with a felony conviction my guy. And while you're at it. Hit my inbox for a free consultation so I can teach you how not to do what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Girls have a hierarchy of guys, you’re somewhere on that list, maybe at the top or on the back burnerWhy does it matter . . Though I thought this was standard knowledge in this circle. As a man all that matters is that set up your program the way you want. Be at the cause not the effect | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 5 | What do redpills think of male genital piercings?What do YOU think about male genital piercings? What do YOU want? How are YOU going to get it? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 05:56 PM |
| 25 | "I don't give out my number. You can have my snapchat?"That's their way of friend zoning you or gaining attention. Either way, conversations with women tend to take sour turns when they tell you no or pressure flip with a no like answer. Next. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Looks are the most important thing about seduction, please change my mind.It isn't our job to change your mind. You gotta see the truth for yourself. Don't steal value. Present what you think you know and ask for clarity | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 09:28 PM |
| 52 | Matt Damon's Insight On Why You Should Not Fear RejectionAnd it you play her games then you're in her frame. Women who are truly highly interested and submissive make things easy for you. Consequently. Getting along with them is easy. No amount of reframing makes what she's doing less of a game or you more of a hero. It's still validation seeking behavior. If you were just worthy you're worthy. Either you're the end of the story or your the hero in the process of winning and chasing. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | How you are guys not scared to escalateLow self esteem title. Low self esteem post. Low self esteem answer to your own question. You didn't ask a legitimate question so much as you are venting. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | how picky should I be as a 28 y/o virgin?You can't afford to be picky. You don't have the game experience, the frame, the mental fortitude needed for the highest quality chicks. Not saying you shouldn't want them. But there are levels. Just lose it to a 5 or 6 that you never have to see again. And move up from there. Take all the pressure off. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 03:46 PM |
| 2 | She told me before date she won’t have too much time tonightJust to clarify . . . When you say she spent the night over . . It means you spent time inside of her guts right? | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 03:36 PM |
| 10 | Women are attracted to.....Women are attracted to high value men whose feelings are unclear. But not so unclear that she has no hope. Women love emotional chaos and the chase more than men. High value men don't chase and really don't need to pursue. In reality, because high value men, the kind that get them wet, are so rare, they have to chase. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 01:54 AM |
| 5 | 3 types of men seducers, providers and undesirablesBreaking things up into paragraphs can make things so simple | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Me and LTR have been fighting a lot lately because she knows Ive hooked up with other women and she has been very upset. She came over and I initiated sex. She declined because of how things have been lately but she proceeded to give me a blowjob. Should I be alarmed or was that a good sign?That what happens. You're invested. What you give a lot of time, energy, and resources, your mind tells you it must have value. Therefore of course you believe you like her. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeNo. Because only so many men are going to take action. Pickup and seduction will always be a niche community. Small and independent. Even then, good game looks like nothing weird is going on. Also, I'm 5'8. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeThis is all based on the pickup artist concept of boyfriend vs. player vibe, who women choose to fuck, and the idea that a well rounded man who is both is sort of a rarity. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeBe a well rounded man and the universe will open up to you. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeRead first two paragraphs | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeI'm saying, There's an expiration date on her considering you sexually viable. An instant to a few weeks depending on how often you two are in contact If her options change she may very well fuck you, but it's not because she lusts after you, but because she no longer can get what she originally wanted. Sex based on the need to feel secure and valuable, not alone. I.e. now that the guys I wanted will no longer commit to me or entertain me, I choose you. That's sucker shit. Women want a guy with … | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeIt means to have a dynamic multi faceted personality that causes people to go through a range of emotions. Happy, sad, angry, joyful, peaceful, confused, irritated, loving, depressed, high on life. Women love an emotional adventure. Someone who's really polarizing will often leave your mind scrambled and a hot mess after talking to them. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeThat would depend on why she's asking. A lot of women ask because they don't know what else to ask you to get to know. But if it's like . . A man to woman interaction it's likely a screening question. Typically you would give a fun playful answer like oh you know I sell drugs. Or I'm a trillionaire in the making. Or you could just say I work in xyz field. The point is not to let her profile you, but experience you. Once you've responded just ask her whatever you want. Ask her things you actually… | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeYou my friend are correct in everything you said. You can be a masculine boyfriend. When I say boyfriend vibes, I'm referencing what the average guy does to get a girl, and where it eventually leads him. I'm also referencing the pickup artist concept of boyfriend vs player and how women will fuck one guy and leave another to put himself in the friendzone or get "chosen" for every other reason than genuine desire. How guys are either a boyfriend or a player, never being well rounded enough as a m… | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeTalk to yourself in the mirror using what I listed and talk until the words out of your mouth, and your mannerisms feel good to you. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeWhen I say comfortable I mean feeling so familiar with someone to the point you lack boundaries and expectations. Comfort as in, you don't feel the need to prove yourself or validate yourself anymore. Comfort as in you feel like you already have someone and you don't have to do anymore work. Sex is in large about ego and validation. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 02:23 PM |
| 14 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeWhat I'm describing has nothing to do with manipulation. It's a way of being. Having the vibe of a player is about projecting a certain side of you, projecting what you're about and what you want, in the way of masculinity and sexuality. The art of seduction is inherently "manipulative". Just like trying to be liked or make friends is. Just like working out to get fit is. You're giving women what they respond to while becoming what you wanted to through self Improvement. No lieing, no using, not… | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 02:19 PM |
| 10 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeTypically that would involve showing her more vulnerability regarding your life events and feelings. Also, incorporate her into your own life. Make her feel like she's apart of it playing an important role. On top of that you could also, do things like take her out to dinner, talk about your plans for the future, things you guys could be doing together in the future, allow yourself to look like you're . . Hmm Weak over her. Sprinkle these things in. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 02:15 PM |
| 10 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeWhat I mean by this is don't let her ask you questions that require ten minute answers, while she's just sitting there analyzing you, evaluating, soaking it all in. Don't let her barrage you with endless questions that drain you of value while she isn't contributing. Don't answer questions that are designed to vet you or screen you for boyfriend material like, "Where do you work? Were you raised by both parents or just one? Which one?" You have to lead the conversation where you want it to go. I… | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you define chemistry?Chemistry means that things just "felt right" in the conversation. It's not a logical feeling. It's a mix of sexual attraction, masculine/feminine polarity, commonalities, and flow of the conversation. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 05:36 AM |
| 20 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeI understand how you would feel that way. However, if you have a specific goal or person that was unattainable due to the kind of person you are, you don't change the goal or the person, you self improve to earn what it is you want. That's with jobs, finances, high value people, fitness, etc. It takes work. And having the vibe of a player is a lot of work and takes a lot of painful work. You can work on being different and integrating it with your personality | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 04:48 AM |
| 13 | Essentials of Seduction & Pickup: Boyfriend Vibe vs. The Player VibeI made a post called Essentials of Natural Game: The 4 pillars of a sexworthy vibe It's part of the fundamental of pickup | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 03:44 AM |
| 2 | How can you rationalize sleeping around with women when you have a daughter, mother, or sister?Oh I see what you're saying. What I'm saying is that I couldn't give less of a fuck if hookup culture I'd destabilizing society. It is not my job to fix society. You assume that things are wrong. I tend to disagree. This will keep going on. And once this new paradigm settles down we will have stability. I don't care whether people are in monogamous relationships or not. Not everyone wants kids. Not everyone wants to be with the same person. We live in an individualistic society not one of collec… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How can you rationalize sleeping around with women when you have a daughter, mother, or sister?Women like to get fucked. This is just human nature. No one likes to imagine their family having sex, mom, sister, or my future daughter. It's just a protective instinct. Women love sex. Women love getting plowed. The problem isn't getting fucked. It's fucking indiscriminately. I don't believe in pair bonding or a "successful marriage". Pair bonding as I observe is an emotional addiction, usually based on scarcity and lack of experiences or options. If all you know is one thing, then you have to… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 14 | Cant cum from new girls?It sounds like your "issue" is comfort related. A long term girl you easily gave yourself to and now you have new girls on the scene and you can't. I would tell you to practice, learn to be emotionally vulnerable, picturing sex as giving yourself away. It could be that. And the fact that because these girls are new, in a weird way you don't seek validation from them since you were fulfilled for so long. And you cumming is giving them worthiness. And subconsciously you don't find them worthy yet. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Girl refused to make out on second date. What should I do?Next. She's trying to turn you into the attention, safe guy. If a woman who was previously sexually enthusiastic is now sexually difficult and inconsistent, it means she doesn't see you how she used to. And you responding to it by trying to meet up again is setting the expectation that her doing that is okay. Her pulling back like that is causing you to chase her validation. She gave you good feelings, and she took them away. Don't reward bad behavior. Go fuck ten other women and once you're don… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 02:04 AM |
| 2 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?Most girls will indeed tell you if you're non judgemental. That's how one night stands happen. Being non judgemental. Average number women tell me is 20 - 25. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Donovan Sharpe - thoughts?Donovan used to be more chill and focused on game. But now he's got this weird, fake MGTOW/trac con with doses of game thing going on. He doesn't tell lies necessarily but he is a very aggressive, controlling figure. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/19 12:41 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce a girl.Fuck outta here | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 01:38 AM |
| 2 | How to know if you and the girl are syncedIf you have to ask a girl to escalate, you're not reading her enough, the situation, or how you both feel. Although you two talked again, it's always better if you ask for her number. Even if she is interested she could forget and she has a lot of other options. You're being confusing. Is she happily complying to your touch or not? It sounds like you have this permission seeking, I'm so thankful vibe. That and enough time hasn't passed for you to be ghosted. Some women don't like to return escal… | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Urgency and the Importance of Fucking a Girl As Soon As Humanly PossibleThank you for your comment. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | why are churches (protestants in particular) filled with low smv men?To put it simply, Modern church is full of emotionalism from the music to the preaching. Women love to be led. Pastors lead the congregation. Masculine men are out crushing things in life, making it happen. Their principles are already instilled. Feminine men are left behind to follow the lead of the master pimp, the pastor. Therefore (Forgive the complex math), (Master Pimp x Women in Congregation) ÷ Masculine Men Heading Out + Feminine Men = Pastor fucking your girl while you pray fervently to… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Random Game Thought #5.7x28: The Only Responses You Give to Women Who Flake On YouThe point is that now you know. And knowing is half the battle. It really comes down to whether you value your time and self respect more, or the prospect of sex. I can always go out and game more bitches, but my self respect isn't up for discussion. I might put in more effort if it's a fun game to me. But the principles still apply | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Approaching without objectifyingYou're letting PC culture affect you. You need to recognize that women are horny and just as sexual as us men. They know we aren't approaching to be their friends, but because we ultimately want to get inside of them. They know that if they don't look the part they don't get approached. Stop filtering your masculinity. If you think she's sexy get your vibe right and say that. If you want to fuck her get your vibe right and make it clear. You don't even have to say it directly. You're only goal w… | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Best reply to flakeTell her to go fuck herself and hope she finds what she's looking for. No need to be nice and leave the door open to someone who openly disrespects you. You can tell someone to go fuck themselves without having your emotions in it. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 02:18 AM |
| 5 | Women of reddit what gives you pleasure during sex? What should guys do to make it more pleasurable for you? What type of sex/sex positions do you enjoy most?Wrong sub dude. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How do i get out of " she's out of my league" (not looks)Changing isn't saying they're out of your league. A woman can never be out of your league. Change is the process of realizing what you deserve, what you truly are, what you're truly worth. Acting real until you remember | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 03:14 PM |
| 7 | How do i get out of " she's out of my league" (not looks)I'm not reading all this. So what I will tell you. You need to write a list of all the ways you provide value to yourself, to others, to the world. As a man what you have to give. Make it long and detailed. Write down what you know you have to offer and know you're good at that people like. And things you think you don't yet have. Write out how you're currently progressing and are going to do more. Take pride in all you offer and soon you realise you're the shit and more valuable than any chick.… | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 03:30 AM |
| 4 | So to people who say "RP is hard" no, being BP is harder if you have an ounce of self respect left.It's all fun and games being unaware until you get so completely and totally fucked by life beyond all recognition that you commit suicide because it's too much. Nah son. I'll take the pain of self improvement. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/19 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Guy who flirted with GF now wants to hang???Girls will often tell you about other guys because they're warning you they might be interested covertly You shouldn't have to make it known you two are together. Out of respect she should just play her role and let guys know. Not you. Ever. Ever sir. Odds are he remembers you. And odds are that he just wants to gauge your relationship status and see where he can get it. I mean you'd have to hang. But if you do. Don't let him near your chick. Of course it doesn't matter if you feel truly secure.… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Trained vs Natural and Routines vs Natural Approach. The TRUTH.I'm not disagreeing my friend. More adding on | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Trained vs Natural and Routines vs Natural Approach. The TRUTH.Well this was an intense sales pitch. Only thing I would say, is not that practice makes permanent. I'd say that practice makes competence, as skills can deteriorate over time. What we want is to get those techniques and personas to become identity level change. The true definition of natural. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 12:24 AM |
| 3 | How would you handle a drunken ex LTRs sister hurling damaging accusations+comments at you while at a bar?You know how you treat a stupid bitch? Like a dangerous animal. Keep away. Don't fuck with it. Don't look at it. You warn people about it. Don't underestimate it, but have a devastating plan to put it down permanently in case if tries to bite and chew on you. You know what you do with stupid dumb animals? You get an even bigger dumb animal to fuck with it. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 07:00 PM |
| 9 | Two girls come to my apartment and I blew itNo thr real lesson here is that as a man, you must always have rock solid confidence, conviction, and mental freedom. Your penis is an indication of your mind. Those girls didn't give a fuck about your place. They wanted to get down. When a woman really wants you, nothing they see will fuck it up unless you're some kind of weirdo. They just need dick. The lesson. Train your mind. Always be ready. Always have a back up plan. Dick pills. Ginseng. Maca root. L citrulline. Always have a way to get w… | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | How do we protect ourselves from women in the workplace, in the MeToo era? Just lost my job - fired.Learn your lesson. Take that vengeful spirit your feeling and make life hell for anyone involved in the fuckery they put you through. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend shits me by comparing me to one of her guy friends and making sexual jokes about him. And I failedNo amount of commenting on this post will help a hard case like this dude. Read the fucking side bar and leave that bitch. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 09:42 PM |
| 9 | Instead of gaming, why not talk to her as you would to any human being?The essence of natural game, mastery of natural game, is to have no difference between your seduction and your personality. You simply are. Everything that makes you a seducer, player like being smooth, icy, fun, free of outcome. You just are. Everything is integrated. There is no work. You might start off by faking and then come to know you were just acting real until you could recall and remember | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Women of reddit, how often and when do you get horny? Does something cause you to get horny?Wrong sub bro. This sub is for giving out game and strategy, not asking women questions | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Got soft while having sexThe most important thing you need to do is rewrite your association to pleasure. I'm serious. Create vivid mental movies of you fucking a girl. A real girl. You need to see it, feel it, become possessed by it. Get back to your primal state as a man. If your mind isn't there your dick won't be there. You gotta start looking at women differently. Practice finding the smallest things about them sexy. A good lover can make the pettiest thing make their dick hard. If you can't see movies. Start with … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Got soft while having sexI know I don't have to lecture you brother . . But . . Stop. Watching. Fucking. Porn. Stop jerking off for two to three days at a time. If you can't stop jerking it, jerk off to a realistic image of a girl you know to rewrite your minds connection and associate her with pleasure. Also. Take ginseng, maca root, and l citrulline. Good for you body. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | As a guy how do you build up sexual tension with a girl?Sexual tension is ego frustration. You present or imply something desirable, give it, take it away. Give more, take away more. If having your hair rubbed feels good and someone stops doing it. You get antsy and not only want it back, but want more for the emotional security and extra validation. Sexual tension is about validation, emotionally, physically, mentally. Give good emotions. Take away. Give good touch. Take away. Be straight forward verbally. Then be unsure or vague about how you feel … | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Got soft while having sexYou got soft ten minutes in. That's quite a while for something masterbation induced. Are you sure your headspace wasn't the problem? That sounds more like the issue. I don't care how tired or drained I am; I have a thousand mental reframes to keep me running. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How to laugh HARD and enter stateThe best way to get into state is to be vulnerable and congruent. Congruent means you are aligned in thoughts, words, actions, feelings, and beliefs. Vulnerable means, you don't fight whatever congruent moment you have. State isn't about forcing things to happen. It's about being so free that things just happen. Congruence and vulnerability lead you there. Mix that with a little bit of desire and/or pressure. And you're on the right path. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I failed to escalate with a woman, now she seems rather irritated at me, bad sign? good?Your failure to escalate caused her to become angry because she thought you were, "that cool guy". You made her look bad by not making things happen as a man. Any girl I'm talking to. At minimum we should have fucked in the first week, made out or given each other head. If not by then then in the first two weeks. You gotta move fast with these chicks. If you don't strike while it's hot you're missing out. Women's taste changes often. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Is every seducer/player also a predator?No such thing as a predator except those that seek to force, coerce, or pray on the naive. As a seducer you know that women aren't stupid and they know you want from them. We simply aid in the decision making process by sucking them into a fun, sexy reality. | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | If you're 100% sticking to a hard next, what is wrong with a final "fuck you, and this is why" sort of text?Yell it from the fucking rooftops! Mans isn't thinking long term. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Stop living a lie: seduction is all about looks.Seduction is a social skill. If you can influence how you come off to others, influence how you are viewed. Then you can do more than get lucky. Looks is a small part. And if you're in game long enough you realise there are thousands of reasons a woman will or won't fuck you. A thousand ways to keep them, lose them, fuck them. Too many fucking factors besides looks that make her react a certain way. I will agree in that most advice here isn't even close to related about seduction. Just a guy get… | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Why Tinder doesn't work for youI mostly agree. I'm trying to get them off the app in 5 messages or less. Opening message hints at us having fun together. From there some baby stepping fluff that shows how fun it'd be, and then off the app. Nothing fancy. Just leading the conversation | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | She just had a breakup but still wants to hang outHow in the fuck would you know you want a relationship with her? You haven't fucked her. Don't know her habits. What she is at her core. How she really acts. There's so much. Focus on fucking her. But even then she already friendzoned you. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 3 | What's the deal with guys who have gone to jail for a year or so, and then come out as seduction savants.Well when you're in jail. You don't have a choice but to be an alpha male personality lest you get fucked up. You live and die in there by your ability to read people and anticipate their actions. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | RSD from start to finishYou shouldn't be running through programs. You should pick a good one and TAKE ACTION. Julien's PIMP (old but good for foundational work) if you can find it. Max's the natural is good. The system by todd v is good (no longer in RSD) | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | What is holding frame in online game vs irl? (Side note is this an example of holding frame?)No compliance testing over text. Just close. You can but there's not enough value a lot of times. If she's helping move the interaction forward let her. Save compliance for talking over the phone or in person | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 08:56 PM |
| 1 | What is holding frame in online game vs irl? (Side note is this an example of holding frame?)I'd be much more curious as to what happened for you giving her your snap. What was she trying to talk on? The phone, Skype, the app . . | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Date is in 2 weeks but do I ask her if she's still down for it ?No dude. Chicks flaking rarely have to do with real grievances or emergencies. Top reasons are 1. She's scared 2. She found a guy she wanted more (this is really the top one) 3. She doesn't actually want you. She just wanted attention 4. She never had any intention of meeting. Saying yes just felt good in that moment 5. She likes to play games because that's all she knows. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Date is in 2 weeks but do I ask her if she's still down for it ?It's true sometimes. There are rarely any guarantees in game if at all. A woman can and will flake on you at any time for any reason. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Date is in 2 weeks but do I ask her if she's still down for it ?Because that's what happens. Chicks aren't just waiting around for one guy they don't know. They're meeting other cool guys and she's gonna let at least one slide inside her guts. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | My experience at RSD Freetour in Montreal.If you have a strategy to influence what you want, that's manipulation. If you're ever anything but 100% free of outcome, you're a manipulator. Pick up is the art of being conscious of social dynamics. So I don't see a problem with "manipulation" as long as you're honest, personality integrated, and want a win win. You can do crazy push pull without being a dick or fake. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Condom broke and came inside, nervous as fuck. Advice is neededPro Tip: Always make sure you watch her take the pill. Trust me dude. These bitches will get emotional about the prospect of having a baby and "forget". Claim they don't wanna get sick. Try to have a baby so they can keep you or have a baby love them unconditionally. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Date is in 2 weeks but do I ask her if she's still down for it ?Jesus man . . Schedule dates no more than 2-3 days ahead. Girls lose so much interest if they haven't met you yet. And the more time passes the less she's excited, the more excuses she'll make, the more cool guys she's gonna meet, the more she's probably getting fucked by someone else, the more life events happen that could complicate you meeting up or her being emotionally up for it. . Also, how do you see serious potential in her. You haven't fucked her, vetted her, you don't know her habits, … | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 04:09 PM |
| 8 | I stopped contacting her, 3 weeks passed she still doesn't contact meLeave her alone and work on yourself | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Gf not comfortable with sex after we got really highStop incriminating yourself. Leave her. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 01:33 AM |
| 20 | My experience at RSD Freetour in Montreal.RSD is different than it used to be. They used to teach hardcore pickup. Like real shit that works. But now they've switched over to self help as of the last year and are no longer teaching proper pickup. Also . . That's like a rule. . When you ask an unrelated question they clap back and say to read the room. Don't steal value. Keep it on topic so everyone can learn. Etc. I'm sorry you got the short end of what used to be great. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Second wave of red pill rage after self improving , changing my game and getting women now ???Women responding to the new you is a painful confirmation of how inferior and bitch made the previous you was. Thus the second red pill rage. It hurts to have your identity exposed like that. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Is 12 days too long to wait after a first date to text someone about a meeting again?Great way of saying leave everything important in life to chance. Ooookay my guy. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 04:28 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Confusing fail at her placeNo. That's called disrespect. You don't just screw with someone's sexual identity while they're trying to please you. If a girl ever said that to me, even though none ever have for . . reasons, I'd kick her out. You're not gonna project your shitty insecurity and negative opinions onto me. So could you pass this test? Of course you can. Do you want to? No. That's why you went soft. She chose the moment when you were most vulnerable and emotionally open to talk shit. You really want your dick in … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Have some self respect as menA woman cannot friendzone a man. A man chooses to stay where he does not want to be. Men compromise and friendzone themselves. A woman curving you is an insult only if you take it as a stab at your self worth. Rather you should take it as she's just a chick I don't know about who could have a million reasons why she's not down. But it has nothing to do with how amazing I am. Vice versa . . A man turning a chick down because she's not his type isn't an insult. It's a preference based on current m… | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 09:12 PM |
| 14 | How quick do you bring up meeting a girl in person after you match on a dating app?From the very beginning I mention something about meeting up. My online text game is set up to close in 5 messages or less with me getting their number under the premise that we hang out sometime and get to know each other. After i text only for logistics. It helps to facetime or talk on the phone for about 10 minutes. Gives them a face and voice and a chance to fall for you before meeting. Decreases flake rate a bunch too. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Help me find this seduction related YouTube channel?John Anthony lifestyle claims a 1000+ laycount. Might be him | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 06:56 AM |
| 3 | After meeting a girl do you get her number or Instagram?Number is better access. Instagram or apps she could be off days at a time. She can get easily distracted over an app. Text. You know she's gonna read it. More personal. | /r/seduction | 30/11/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | So.. What Makes A Woman a "HOE"?You're not the first to speak on this. Sinful the p is an expert on the topic. That and, saying things like modeling, and things of the like are prostitution, and selling sex is the same as saying if you take women out, support them financially in any way, spend money on them, you're a trick. If she directly exchanges her body for direct physical access, then she's a hoe. Everything else is selling a fantasy, the idea of being genuinely desired. Whereas selling as is also a fantasy for men to be… | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 6 | How do you distinguish girls who like you from attention whores, without wasting time?Sounds like low self esteem. You shouldn't even be thinking about other men. You need to believe you're the best. You're the only option. All there is and ever can be and any chick who doesn't see that is goofy. 2. The only true indicator of interest is compliance. Is she doing what you reasonably request in a timely manner? Or is she difficult, flaky, always questioning. If she has high interest she will be highly compliant. Personally I only need to see something once to know where a girls min… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Foreplay Alternative to oral sexEat her ass bro. | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 03:37 AM |
| 1 | The Long Game, finally got a first dateSounds like somehow you caught feelings for her keeping her in the back of your mind all this time. The only question is, do you want to fuck her? And if so how quickly do you want to do it? | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 11:35 PM |
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