Yes, you can game for the attention of a woman who didn't originally think of you as worthy. A lot of game was invented for the express person of winning over chicks who were thought to be "out of our league". However, I think that view of game comes from a place of low self esteem. The only reason you should game in this way should be to show yourself you can get that kinda girl.

But, if there's one thing I've learned, it's that the number one sign a woman wants to fuck with you sexually, or be in service to you, is that she's compliant to whatever you're asking of her. You want to know if she wants to fuck you, make a move. If she's resistant you have an answer.

If you ask her to meet up but you can never pin her down, she's not being compliant. If you want more emotional investment from her but she keeps distant, she's not being compliant, and you have your answer. If a woman wants to fuck with you, her arousal will overcome her fear. Her desire will overcome "minor inconveniences". People do anything for the right price. What she won't for you she will for another. They all do.

When you do pursue chicks who aren't as excited as you, you disrespect yourself. If you succeed in fucking that chick. You've done it even moreso. Her lust doesn't come from a place of real genuine desire, but a series of backdoor negotiations in her mind. The way she fucks you or treats you in general will be a reflection of how much she really isn't feeling you.

When you finally fuck her, you've put in so much more energy and effort than her, that even though you got what you wanted, you're at a severe loss for what you gave, that you inevitably find yourself resorting to neediness. You need things to happen because you need the work you put out to be returned.

And she'll sense that. And because she was never sold she'll make excuses for why you shouldn't meet again, can't fuck you again, isn't in the mood. And now you're chasing even more. You've over committed. And she's fine through it all, plotting on some exit strategy.

When you seduce wishy washy women, you show them that their sex, their attention is far more important than the offering of yours. So no matter what happens, you're living in a state of lack. Trying to always convince her what you want is good for her, that it's an equal exchange. Seduction built on a bad foundation. Sex and attention will be a favor from her to you, even if you think that the sex and attention is good.

So, instead of thinking of seduction as getting girls out of your league (except for practice), think of seduction as the process of 1. Gradually turning on a woman who was already open and willing 2. Not fucking up the interaction (the essence of game) 3. Making saying yes sound fun, easy, and the best option she could ever make because it's a yes to you 4. Making her believe fucking with you is a gift and privilege. This way, she's always as down, if not more down, to give you what you want, because you framed it the right way off top. 5. Leading her into the promised land of cock and honey

That you are the one deciding if you like her, not the other way around. That she already wants to fuck you, you just have to figure out how to lead her there. That the only measure of a woman's lust for you is compliance.

Instead of using your skills to chase chicks who viewed you from a lower view point, use those skills to become a more high value man, then approach and run game. Not you feeling low value, viewing getting that chick as a lucky break or some great achievement.

Now of course no of this means much if you don't know what your doing. But the rules are the same. Seduction is:

  1. You displaying yourself as a giant trophy, just floating around all shiny and shit

  2. Letting the person recognize you as a trophy

  3. Letting her take you home after earning and working to get you (This is a win win scenario)

  4. Sitting on the shelf as she admires the good job she did.

  5. Setting the stage for her to always appreciate what she has.

Seduction shouldn't be work. It's the process of letting go.