Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing Yourself

Your Dick Is A Gift To Women, Stop Devaluing Yourself

This is something that has been weighing on my heart as of the past year or so. It is also a realization that has forever cemented my sense of “inner game” and given me a certain level of both pride and peace not experienced prior. That is, that dick is a gift — Dick is not something to be freely given to women. It is a luxury item.

And, it is not something you simply give out when you are horny for your FWB, your wife, girlfriend, or casual random. Dick is a prized possession and valued resource, especially and more importantly good dick to be exact. But that is neither nor there and is not the focus of this piece. I only wish to provide factual information that will edify and uplift my brothers.

To make a quick distinction, this is not about the virtues of having good dick. Good dick keeping girls around is obvious. What I am on about, is the virtues of not giving away your good dick for free. I want to start by breaking this up into several descriptive principles that detail the nature of our gift to women. Let us begin by listing out said principles, and then, a brief explanation of each:

Principle 1: There Is Permanent Scarcity For Quality Dick

Principle 2: Men Are The Ones Who Make Sex Good, Not Women

Principle 3: A Woman Cannot Give Away Pussy, But Rather, Only Receive Dick

Principle 4: Good Pussy Is Most Often A Result Of Men’s Low Standards

Principle 5: Her Orgasm Is A Gift To Be Given, Not Something She Wills Into Existence

Principle 6: Dick Is To Be Rationed, Not Timely or Convenient

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Principle 1: There Is Permanent Scarcity For Quality Dick

I’ve been with more than my fair share of women, and once you get them comfortable, provide them freedom from judgment, they will pretty much tell you whatever you want to know on day one, no later than day 2, trauma, skeletons, and all. That said, I always conduct pre-sex and post-sex interviews with women. I want to know how they want to take my dick and how, if at all, they want anything different.

I do not do this for any sort of validation, but because I value a mutually fun experience (and avoiding cases by crazy women). You get more emotion, vulnerability, and control out of them this way. And of course, do you know what all of them tell me? They say that guys suck in bed. They say that men don’t give a shit about their pleasure.

They say that when they try to tell a guy about what feels good to them, the guy throws a bitch-fit, gets defensive, and tries to waffle his way into talking her into “just letting the sex flow”. They say that if they’ve had an orgasm or cum, it was only by one or two of the 30 guys they were with. They say men try to fuck them with a “one size fits all” style.

I could go on and on and I don’t want to drag this out. They say that the guy was awkward. They say that they never feel comfortable enough to say no or stop the guy mid-act if things aren’t going well. This is all to say that most women are sexually traumatized, either from what they call assault, to trash dick, to bad listeners. I also hear a lot that most guys are too afraid to indulge in whatever kinky act the woman wants. I found this strange, however, I discovered this to be tied in with the same idea of men being afraid of correction and “losing their dominance”.

If it did not come from his mind, it’s just a woman trying to control him. Now this is not me saying to only focus on women’s pleasure during sex. Truthfully, I don’t give a shit about their pleasure per se, only that they had a fun time. Caring about their pleasure too much leads to both dominance and sexual anxiety issues. What I am saying is that if you can do, or currently do, a few key things in the right way, then she will be, or is already, scared of losing your dick.

That then begs the question, if a man can learn to be good at sex, then how could there be a permanent scarcity? One, most men aren’t getting pussy and will stay this way because they will never be lucky enough to stumble upon helpful material like game, pickup, or the redpill. Two, the ones that do get pussy either aren’t good at it, or aren’t fucking often enough to get good at it. Three, they don’t know the right questions to ask a woman and don’t have the skills to get her talking (game). Four, most men will always let their ego and pride rule them.

To wrap this up, yes, women like to be told what to do. They like to be used for their bodies. However, in the grand scheme of what a woman needs to truly feel mentally dominated in a sexual capacity, and turn her into a crazy person that relies on your dick as her sole purpose in life, it isn’t enough. They need more. It’s not hard though. So if you can or do currently do this, you should not be fucking without some sort of payment from the woman for your gift. This is leverage and power.

Principle 2: Men Are The Ones Who Make Sex Good, Not Women

This point especially has been on my mind for probably the last two years. After slaying girl after girl online, I’ve had a few who I would truly consider to be good pussy. But even in obtaining good pussy, which we will define later, there came a point, rather multiple points, where I would burn out from it all. I came to dread my next hookup coming to my place because I didn’t have the mental energy to fuck them like I knew I could. I didn’t have any more cum to give. I couldn’t muster the mental energy to seduce, to learn her, to do foreplay, etc.

And what I came to discover after a long internal audit, was that I was giving away a valued service too often for free. It wasn’t due to a lack of break time. It also wasn’t just being tired or unfilled or them not being hot enough. It was because, although they would return twice to three times a week every week for the dick I was laying down, and would enthusiastically fuck me back, the work they put in could never really compare to the effort and value of mine. Being sexually dominant does take its toll on a man. Decision fatigue. Physical fatigue. Persona fatigue.

Let’s break it down and really analyze it for a second. By virtue of being sexually dominant, you exert action. And by doing an action, you exert energy. And among energetic actions, deciding what to do next is a primary killer, absent being in a present mind state. Decision-making, not work, are what really burns people out from completing various goals, stopping them from winning in life. It is also what saps willpower. The tension of not knowing how to answer for the next moment.

Next, we have the physical component. Out of all the sexual positions, all the variations, what do women really like the most? You ask any of them, it’s always doggy style, followed by standing variations. Then it’s some rough and aggressive version of missionary. After that, it’s anyone’s guess. I’ve never talked to a girl who said that riding dick was their one true calling. There are those who have a true talent, but in my observation, it’s few and far between.

I’ve had many a woman ride my dick for a prolonged period only for them to tap out from the exhaustion of their hips and I’m guessing their ass muscles. And I say to myself, “Nah, I know there’s more in you.” What does all of this mean? It means that you are doing the bulk of the work. Every stroke you take in missionary’s variations requires all of your body: ass, shoulders, quads, abs, triceps, etc.

It’s a full-body workout. Doggy is pretty much the same, but easier. And no, I’m not calling sex difficult. I am merely explaining physical investment. If you gas out and your heart’s gonna explode from doing basic positions, you need to get your cardio up and/or see a doctor, seriously. But back to my point, I think this physical investment is partially why besides being multiorgasmic and lacking a refractory period, women are able to go so many rounds. Have them put in actual real work, and they go to sleep a hell of a lot quicker.

All of this to say, most of the good sex that women claim to want, dominant and otherwise, is gonna involve a majority of the work done by you. Tell me how doggy style is gonna work without a man moving his hips? Sure, she can throw it back, but that’s not where a good pounding comes from. That is merely a highlight of a good thrashing.

Tell me how missionary and side positions really work without the man? Tell me how her favorite roleplay or BDSM scene works without hard direction from you. Sex, good or mediocre, cannot work without the man as the captain.

Let’s not forget that if a man's dick isn’t hard, nothing of value can happen, whereas a woman, if she needed to, can use lube. A woman can force herself to be wet, whereas a man, clouded in mindset, cannot even with a cockring or viagra. It can happen but is exceedingly difficult with screwy inner game. Men’s leadership skills, physical investment, and masculine aura, an act of action and not reception, are what make sex good.

And finally, the magical inverse relationship of a man withholding his ejaculate until a certain time, and a woman trying to go towards her own. Good dick is a disciplined dick, and she cannot live without it. It’s funny how a woman getting anywhere sexually, or in life, really depends on a man’s self-control. Dominance in all aspects. Dominate yourself to dominate others.

Principle 3: A Woman Cannot Give Away Pussy, But Rather, Only Receive Dick

In game, we all know that a woman’s role is not to create or build, but to receive and multiply. Basics. Right. So then, we must apply this same logic to a woman’s sexual habits. If a woman is out hoeing on the streets, she cannot give away pussy. She can position herself to be penetrated, but she still has to receive it. She cannot give away what you think to be yours, what you never owned. For one, if dick is a gift, you therefore cannot own the pussy. If dick was transactional, making pussy transactional, then you might be able to claim entitlement to it like so many weak men do.

You cannot give a gift and still own the actions of the recipient. How then is it a gift? It’s like how beta male buy women gifts in hopes of secretly coercing them to stay and fuck them. Consequently you cannot hold a gift hostage. Then it is not a gift. It’s a manipulation tool. A gift is earned through an individual providing value or showing they have the potential for value. Gift giving is an inspired act.

Two, good pussy comes from voluntary interactions with it where she wants to come out and play willingly. She knows she could fuck a bunch of other dudes but chooses to stay and fuck with you. Moreover, women receive dick. It may wear them out, but if you press them and they aren’t too sore from the thrashing you give them, they will almost always be able to take as much dick as you can throw at them. They are like bottomless pits when it comes to getting fucked.

Dick on the other hand, is something that must be given. It then, by a woman, must be received (like a gift). Giving, again, is an action. It is something that you hand down. A woman taking dick is passive. It requires no effort, no real intention or forethought, or planning. Even if she starts out on top, she has to take not only your dick, but hard dick. And let’s say you for some reason stupidly decide to nut in this chick.

Now she is pregnant with a kid she likely will always love more than you. And, broadly, generally speaking, will almost always be able to make money from through the government, friends, gofundme, and other internet campaigns. Absent the state, and the kid has a good dad, she is tied to that man for life. And what is a man? A man produces. He creates. He builds an empire.

And all she has to do is play her role properly and profit. Giving a woman dick is giving her access to the potential of a lifetime of prosperity and peace. To give a woman dick is to give her a taste of the kingdom she never had. I look at any woman who has my dick as one experiencing a fucking come up.

Dick is a woman's pathway to happiness. Dick is a gift because it requires her to take from you something of value.

Principle 4: Good Pussy Is Most Often A Result Of Men’s Low Standards

I’m going to go out on a limb and speak on another topic that is near and dear to my heart. The good pussy you think you’ve been getting is likely because you have zero standards for the women you have sex with. Okay, she sucked your dick. Okay, she did everything you wanted to in bed: hit her, spit on her, pee on her, choke her til you left marks, etc. And okay, you came harder than you ever have in your entire life and you’re on a dominance high.

That doesn’t mean you got good pussy. I will now attempt to define what good pussy truly is:

1. Good pussy is pussy that comes not from her being her horny, but from her seeking your validation and purpose within that. You will never get better pussy than a woman who needs the validation of your dick. And when I say I need it, I mean they would become depressed, suicidal, mentally ill, without it. It would ruin their week if they didn’t have it.
2. Good pussy is that which comes from true sexual effort. It’s not just her being talented at what she does or being enthusiastic about it. It is her saying to herself, “I am prepared to be sore for the next week and a half to give him the very best of me.” It comes not only from seeking validation from you, but trying to impress you with her efforts.
3. Good pussy, and this one involves you, is a result of being inspired, and not necessarily horny for a woman. What do I mean by this? I think we as men let our dicks lie to us too much. Have you ever asked yourself why you were horny? Most likely it’s because you either haven’t had your daily fix, you thought she looked good, you’re in scarcity, you want your ego boosted. It had absolutely nothing with her having to produce any real skills to get what she wanted.

I am essentially saying here that you guys get hard too easily. You let her looking tight and right be enough for you. You let her teasing you be enough for you. You let her wearing a tight dress and high heels be enough. You let her merely cooperating with what you want be enough for you. It should not be. When was the last time you were horny not because she pulled out a bunch of “tricks” or “favors” to present to you, or because you were naturally horny, but because she went out of her own way to tap into the depths of her feminine essence and seduce you.

Fuck your mind. I can tell you now, a woman that is both feminine and a truly skilled seducer, as in a seducer with intention is a rare, rare thing. And if you came across it, it would really screw your head up and you wouldn’t be able to function correctly.

You’d probably become depressed and suicidal (at a lower beta level) because you were terrified at the thought of losing it. Why do I bring these points up? I bring these points up because they should be the bare minimum, the ideal, for a woman to have access to your dick. They are an offering

Good pussy is a woman doing things sexually for you that you didn’t ask for or expect. Not only this, but doing things that she has done for no other men.

Good pussy is a woman that has a burning desire to be used by you

What does all of this mean in full context? Again, yes it is an offering to you but is much more than that. Good pussy is a woman acknowledging that the man is the head of the relationship/interaction/hookup and showing that with all of her being. A woman who recognizes this also recognizes that good dick is inherently more valuable than good pussy. Why is that?

While good pussy is a powerful, powerful force to be reckoned with, good dick comes from the nature in which it arises. It comes from sacrifice, embarrassment, humiliation, trial and error, deep study, years of work, experimenting, an array of technical skills, a profound shift in identity, confidence based in identity and action, leadership, self-control and more. Good dick comes from pressure and reproach. In other words, it comes from the profound journey that is masculinity. It is quantifiable.

Whereas, good pussy comes from that childlike carefree essence that is femininity. There is no force involved. It only requires them to tap into and submit to the deepest parts of that feminine essence and be willing to learn. On a final note, good pussy, if enacted in the way I describe above, really implies that if she is to put that much effort into fucking you, then she really can’t afford to fuck other men than you, or if she does, not often. It would take too much out of her.

I’ve had women I’m about to hook up with literally tell me that they can’t fuck me because they are too sore and emotionally drained from getting pounded by a dude she saw 6 days ago.

Principle 5: Her Orgasm Is A Gift To Be Given, Not Something She Wills Into Existence

A common talking point I hear from women is that men get to cum all the time, and it’s not fair that women don’t get to. This is also a ridiculous talking point they use to guilt you when they don’t get their way. But if you don’t see why, I will break it down. Here is the basic difference. Women are always trying to find a way to cum, whereas, 97% of men are breaking their back and their mind’s focus, trying to use every mental trick in the book not to cum. Cumming for a man is almost involuntary, especially when you first start out.

It takes a fair bit of skill for most men not to cum, in fact. But you all know this already. I’m not going to lecture you all on what we all fucking know.

Let’s break it down further by discussing the power of a woman’s orgasm. Have you ever seen a woman orgasm, squirt, or cum in general? How their legs shake violently? How they make that stupid scrunched-up face like they’re both pissed off and about to be murdered? How afterwards, they often lay on the bed like they’re dead? How they can literally black out and even pass out after? How loud they yell when they’re being genuine? How you ever seen how pissed off a woman will get at you if they don’t cum?

I have. And let me tell you, when a woman doesn’t get to cum, she turns into a total psychobitch. Their orgasm and capacity for pleasure is leagues beyond what us men can muster without skill. They will literally cry after, yes, literally cry after, and dramatically sulk about how close they were to cumming. They will start arguments about how selfish you are for not giving them what they deserve.

They’ll rush to another room, or hell, even stay in the room, pull out a lipstick vibrator, and go to town on themselves, finishing themselves off. They will in some extreme cases, try to forcefully grab your dick and get it back hard if needed, just to forcefully take it from you and try to cum. It doesn’t matter if you say no. They do not care. I’ve had this happen to me more than a few times.

Now imagine what would happen if a man were to act like this in 2021 or any time within the past 30 years given our climate today. He would be accused of being emotionally abusive. He’d be accused of sexual assault or rape depending on the facts of the case. He’d be told that a woman’s body is not his and that he should respect her. He’d be told that his blue balls are fake and not her responsibility. He should just learn self control. They’d call him creepy. He’d probably lose his job. He might be killed by her brothers or some vigilante - no exaggeration.

This is the power of a woman’s orgasm. And if they don’t do any of the abovementioned, they will at the very least, walk around all day sulking and depressed like they were robbed for their purse — I have never spoken to a woman who could orgasm that has not described her lack of orgasm as being robbed.

This is the power of a woman’s orgasm. And if they don’t do any of the abovementioned, they will at the very least, walk around all day sulking and depressed like they were robbed for their purse — I have never spoken to a woman who could orgasm that has not described her lack of orgasm as being robbed.

Isn’t that some shit? It is. This is why I say it is a gift. Not only is their orgasm more powerful than ours, but it comes in a greater variety, and has greater negative effects attached to its absence. Dick then is like medicine. It is what literally keeps them sane and in working order. It keeps them from becoming wild savages. And if we have this much power to affect them, why are we not treating our dick like a gift to be earned through good behavior?

To orgasm, a woman must be led through the work of a man. Usually teaching her how to let go, how to overcome her trauma (depending on how heavy it is), hitting it a specific way for a prolonged period of time or eating her out for a prolonged period with laser focus. Isn’t it funny how women have to be taught how to orgasm? And whose job is it to teach? Us men.

The greatest sexual pleasure they could ever receive will almost always, undoubtedly, come from the instruction, patience, discipline, and guidance of a man.

Principle 6: Dick Is To Be Rationed, Not Timely or Convenient

This brings me to our final point. You cannot treat something as a gift if you give it away often or with expectation of frequency. Dick then should be rationed. I’ve had ex girlfriends and hookups call me selfish for not just giving them my dick. They would become insecure and feel rejected sexually. They would take that feeling of rejection and come at me with serious school shooter energy. They would question my sexuality and if I was gay or not. They would question if I was cheating. All sorts of shit. I broke not.

And to reiterate, this isn’t about how to develop this level of discipline, but why you should. My approach to this is simply to watch whatever girl I’m with over the course of a week through text or when I hang out with them. I analyze their behavior, and everytime they fail to act submissively, combatively, or non-cooperative, I ding a little checkmark on the tally sheet of my mind. I say to myself, “That’s another day she isn’t getting dick/She isn’t going to get xyz from me acting like that.”

When they try to make a move on me sexually, I look at them like they’re crazy and vibe them out. I don’t tell them why I’m not giving it to them. If you tell them that gives them room to debate you and call you petty. However, women are not stupid. They eventually, rather quickly at that, figure out that their behavior has a direct correlation with how often I put out. It’s not malicious. It’s not because I hate them. It’s not because I’m on a power trip.

It’s because my dick is a gift and I know that it has the power to change their mind and their life. How can I give a woman that much power and peace, and she can’t be responsible with it? Many people would love to have a house or car just given to them, but they never manage to ask about how they will maintain it.

Basic budgeting and forecasting of expenses, risk management, contingencies, redundancies etc. I cannot give you this powerful gift if you cannot do the work to maintain it. That would not be fair to them. I cannot allow them to repeatedly frustrate themselves into psychobitch behavior that I am responsible for because they can’t get their fucking act together.

That is why I ration dick to them. Rationing serves three purposes:

1. It reinforces that dick is a gift
2. It forces them to check their bad behavior
3. It forces her to respect the power of masculine principle. She can’t just get to the finish line and fuck the winner. She has to look at the journey and respect it

And the beautiful part of all of this is that if she doesn’t respect your rationing process, then she can go away. You should only be dealing with women that submit to your program anyway. If she doesn’t recognize the gift of your penis in her mouth, the gift of being given purpose by a man, something which femininity craves, which they all want in some way or another subconsciously, then she can suffer out on the street with a dude who will give her what she wants.