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Red Pill Theorymisls/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 03:16 AM
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misls/r/askTRP27/06/20 03:59 AM
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misls/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:30 AM
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misls/r/askTRP31/07/19 12:49 AM
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misls/r/askTRP19/04/19 11:07 PM
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misls/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:08 AM
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misls/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:58 PM
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misls/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:29 PM
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misls/r/askTRP21/07/19 05:00 AM
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misls/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:07 AM
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misls/r/askTRP07/04/19 06:48 PM
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misls/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:33 PM
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misls/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:40 AM
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misls/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:17 AM
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misls/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:09 AM
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misls/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:17 AM
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misls/r/askTRP21/08/19 04:49 AM
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misls/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:32 PM
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misls/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:21 AM
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misls/r/askTRP22/07/19 10:51 PM
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Red Pill Theorymisls/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 12:17 AM
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misls/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:27 AM
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misls/r/askTRP06/11/20 01:22 AM
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misls/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:50 AM
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misls/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 07:57 AM
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misls/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:17 AM
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misls/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:40 AM
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misls/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:30 AM
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The dude was definitely carving something up, just not pumpkins.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 02:21 AM
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Sounds like she's got a couple of loose screws in her head.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 08:00 PM
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And I notice how she gives me sex and oral whenever I want.. However, she fakes her orgasms. It was a performance. All for me. How did this chick act when you left her?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 07:51 PM
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Principle 3: A Woman Cannot Give Away Pussy, But Rather, Only Receive Dick Unless she's BPD. But we all know how that goes. *hopefully*
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 10:38 PM
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It's hard to drop a burden like that on someone, especially a female who isn't your girlfriend. She was overwhelmed by what you were speaking of. This is what close male friends are for, and what you need to have.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 05:55 AM
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I didn’t reply to your post in specific now did I? If you could read you would see the point I’ve made this whole time. In fact, you’re the one making strawmans making assumptions of what I’m speaking about. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:34 PM
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Okay, no one argued against the points you just made up. Go re-read what you replied to. Perhaps you should reread with some more care before replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:54 AM
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Because a dude’s dick is no longer hard. The OP you replied to is talking about the PIV perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:48 AM
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Because biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 11:37 AM
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Redpill != FDS. Since you need to be told that again. If that is your interpretation, I won't try to change your opinion. I'm not going to argue with someone who is actively promoting a negative stereotype, which is ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:45 AM
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What you just posted is incorrect lol. Once again, you're just proving you don't know what you're talking about. Do you think all that is talked about is what a woman can offer you in bed? That's the furthest thing from the truth. The quality of people in this world isn't binary. Men and Women are on a spectrum of desirable and undesirable based on stuff other than just sex. Finding a man or woman who would make a great spouse or partner to raise kids with. That is what is peddled from my time s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:40 AM
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That’s a great analysis backed up with examples and an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:14 AM
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You clearly don't know what you're talking about. People go to TRP to understand their shortcomings, and to work on their shortcomings. This is the case for many, there are those who go also there to revel in nihilism and to avoid working on their own issues. A lot of men do have the odds stacked against them, simply because of their own faults and in the manner they were raised. They seek out the knowledge to improve themselves, as a rational individual should do. Your position seems to be from…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:52 AM
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You kind of missed the point that OP is making. You're tied up on the definitions of what Beta and Alpha means.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 11:10 PM
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It's because the emotionally charged sex you're having has been easily made available, instead of developing through a healthy process. BPDs love to please their partner, and they move faster in all aspects of the relationship. When you're with a non-BPD, you might not experience that same level of sex right off the bat, but you can build it up to exactly what you had with your BPD ex(es).
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 11:10 PM
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What's your point? There's plenty of regular guys who are high-value (through hard work) that can pull off the same shit as the 6'7 millionaire.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 07:45 PM
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Now now, no need to get logical. OP didn't think of that last little bit, it's truly a revelation.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 07:44 PM
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I started putting more effort into school, being active and maintaining friendships. It sounds like nothing, but it does a lot. How's your social situation looking like? Do you have friends that you like and you enjoy spending time with or talking to? I feel like this was the biggest factor for me.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:19 AM
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This is my subjective experience: I was depressed until I wasn't. Inaction caused my depression. When I started taking action in my life and did the things I didn't want to do that I knew I should do, I snapped out of it. This isn't instantaneous. I'm sure that if I went back to just idealizing and daydreaming without putting any action into it (which I did to some extent during COVID), I'd get depressed again.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 12:41 PM
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This is some of the dumbest shit I've ever heard. Stop playing word games, if she's not your girlfriend, why do you give a shit?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:35 AM
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From what I know about Amazon FBA, the ship has pretty much sailed to make money off FBA unless you put out a perfect product that someone won't undercut you on. Why? It's highly competitive. Someone somewhere will see what you're selling, they'll undercut your price if you even sell any units and people start seeing you doing well selling these product(s). People do this as a full-time job and they look for any competitors they can undercut. Imagine some dude with 100k+ to blow on inventory buy…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:56 PM
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Put on some muscle. 180lb is too low for a 6'5 frame.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 02:28 AM
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A lot of incels have been washing up on the shores of TRP recently due to the subreddit bans.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:55 AM
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Whiteknight? Hitting on your girlfriend? This post bleeds insecurity, nothing you said suggests this dude was a whiteknight or hitting on your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 05:16 AM
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Are you actually negotiating with your thoughts or are you pushing them to the back of your head? Are you sitting there and actually facing these thoughts up front? Getting over "PTSD" or intrusive thoughts about a traumautic situation requires you to come up with answers to these thoughts by bringing them to the surface. Your brain: She cheated on you, you still miss her. You: Yeah she did, but I dodged a fucking bullet by finding out. Imagine I married this chick. The next guy probably will ha…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:53 PM
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Comcain did say she may be borderline, not that she is one. Anyone that's dealt with one would automatically provide that advice if they saw any signs of it based on your post. It's nothing more than a warning.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 01:25 AM
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Maybe, maybe not. If he's right, you're in for a wild fuckin' ride bro. Watch out for symptoms.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:24 AM
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Off-topic: Grow a beard and get a haircut with a mid-skin/high-fade.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 09:46 PM
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Then don’t get married if you’re paranoid that you’ll marry a chick that will divorce rape you.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:44 PM
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Block that shit from your admin control panel for your ISP if it's that big of a problem.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:52 AM
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That's fine. Keep playing the field until you find someone that you would wife up.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:51 AM
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Be more specific. I'm asking for a reason. ​ What does she do?
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:50 AM
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Then be careful if you decide to get married in your country. You can never truly trust anyone other than yourself.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:48 AM
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Nothing. You live and learn. You make wise decisions and try your best to do the right thing. If you listen to LARPers here, you will be unhappy. You need to be wise and make smart choices for yourself. That being said, always get a prenup.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:41 AM
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Block. There's a reason you broke up.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 09:40 AM
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Don't even respond lol.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:04 AM
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Tell her to get a fucking job.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:54 AM
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I respect her for not wanting to do it.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:53 AM
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If you can't get over it, break up. If it keeps popping up in your head and you feel disgusted, don't waste her time either. It's all about what is okay with you.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:02 AM
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Put both of your fists in there to widen it up for your dick.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:01 AM
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You won't get a good ending. You will need to be painted black in order for her to "move on". There is no exception.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 03:39 AM
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If you meet her up again, she will rope you back in. I guarantee it. Get out, coming from experience bro just get the fuck out. Change your number and make sure she can't contact you.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 03:38 AM
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Stay as a friend if you want. But don't continue the relationship out of pity.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:25 AM
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Be careful my friend, if she doesn't eventually drop these friends, put one foot out of the door. My ex's friends made up a whole lie about me cheating on this girl I'd met once. I got proof I did nothing but she was still losing her shit (BPD). I walked away because she didn't dump her lying toxic friend. A year later I still get emails saying she will dump her friend for me if we get together. You don't want to stay with someone who has shitty friends that try to sabotage your relationship. If…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:47 PM
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You don't.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:19 AM
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The simple answer is to check if they're there in 1-2 weeks. Go back and check the expiry date as well when you have the chance.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:25 AM
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Get a therapist who specializes in this type of shit. That kid is your blood, it is your responsibility to be a father. I can't say much other than that because I don't know how it feels to be in this situation.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 09:00 AM
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I bet your friends feel the same way about you travelling the world and being free of responsibilities. There's always a trade-off for choosing which path you want to go down.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:22 AM
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You don't even need to rationalize your position. It's rational and common sense.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 02:50 AM
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What would you define as forgiveness?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 11:48 PM
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Same bro. Same. This sounds like me. forgive everyone who wronged you if you can I want to forgive but I can't. I don't know why.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 07:40 AM
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Just read your post history. Stop saying shit that makes you weak. Stop shitting on yourself, this is coming from someone who is very very hard on themselves. Whatever you say about yourself, you start believing. Women usually don't communicate upfront with most guys. From personal experience, you have to usually initiate the contact yourself. Stop self-pitying yourself, it's doing you no favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:20 AM
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I'd look and see if this person is still the friend that I always knew. If nothing has changed, no need to abandon the friendship. At the end of the day, you already know what you want to do, no one here is going to change your mind.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:56 AM
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Divorce or cheating isn't inevitable if you know what you're doing. You don't marry the first girl you come across. The problem in western-society is that people settle for what they can get. Think about how retarded people in the west are, they live in Disney fantasies believing that "being in love" and "communication" can fix incompatibilities. Do you think they know what they're getting themselves into? Being different requires courage. Going against what the herd is doing. If you fix your li…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:54 AM
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You're not hers, it's just her turn*
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:48 AM
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You have no self-respect. You brought up being exclusive with some chick who broke up with her boyfriend to be with you. I wouldn't be surprised if she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend. He's probably still fucking her. You THEN act surprised that she had a one-night stand. Do you think you're special? Newsflash, you're not special. She wants to ride the CC. God damn dude, have some self-respect for yourself.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:40 AM
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The friend told him to bring me as well but he casually decided not to tell me that. He's not your best friend. If I had a best friend, I wouldn't exclude him from hanging out with the boys. Don't even take this personally. Stay friends if you want, just put distance between him and you. Stop acting like he's your best bud. He probably doesn't respect you. I love being around some of my buddies and I would always invite them to hangouts, and they're not even my "best friends". Put yourself in hi…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:37 AM
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I'm not close with my brother. I keep isolated from most of my family, the dynamic works well for me.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:52 AM
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I cut mine off 3 years ago. Bittersweet because it's my own mother. But I went from being an insecure little kid to a man, in ways I never thought I'd turn out. In comparison to my older brother who she babies, I garnered a lot more respect from people within the family and acquaintances. Overprotective mothers mean well, but they're an anchor weighing you down in every single way possible. A cub that is dependant on its mother can never be a lion.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:14 AM
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No, it's not. You should be pleasing her, and she should be pleasing you. She's your girlfriend mate.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:47 AM
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Females have inherent value. Males do not. This applies across the spectrum for almost all species. Men must create their own value.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:31 AM
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fact
/r/askTRP13/03/21 09:22 PM
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She might go with the "he fucked and chucked me" route and try to ruin his life. From experience, it's best to just emotionally and physically check out and get the fuck out. The post-break-up mental gymnastics they do to ruin your reputation is not worth it.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 04:26 AM
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No, don't do shit with her. Walk away from her and your friend. Don't get yourself dragged into this retarded drama. Your mental health is a priority and this will fuck with you mentally.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:23 AM
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Depends on the context. I'm assuming that this happened to you, if it did, context would help. If you're being extremely narcissistic and/or trying to AMOG your friends, you'll make them despise you. Contrarily, success breeds contempt. The individual may see traits and attributes that you have and feel jealous. Insecurity eventually bleeds out to the point where they can't stand being around you. ​ I've stopped talking to a couple of individuals in the past years because they would try to AMOG …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 04:51 AM
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It's a joke, not a dick. Don't take it so hard.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:56 AM
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Every time I've gone on a "walk" with a girl, it leads to something. This is supposedly your girlfriend, she's going on a walk with a guy she used to fuck. She has an attraction for him and vice-versa. Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:44 AM
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Smokes, tattoo, smokes weed, alcohol, active in social media, kinda bi. I think you already have a gut feeling about how this chick is. I'm not going to tell you what to do, but take a hard and long look at this relationship and think if this is what you want..
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:42 AM
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Go on a walk, have fun and act aloof. If it leads to something, cool, don't take it seriously. You already ended the relationship once, going through the trash only ends in problems that aren't worth the headache.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:37 AM
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Change your number.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:34 AM
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How long has it been?
/r/askTRP23/02/21 06:35 AM
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Yeah, that's the plan, I'm whipping up some plans and putting them into action to move forward from this. I just have moments of letting go where I feel very overwhelmed by my emotions but that's just the trauma bond.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:15 PM
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If the chick seems unstable or lives an "exciting life" (does drugs or over-indulges in shit like partying and drinking), she's going to attract similar people. Best to steer away from chicks like that.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 03:39 PM
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If you didn't care, you wouldn't be commenting. Did OP take up a precious 0.07kb of text on your personal forum where you decide what he can talk about? If you don't like what he's talking about, don't read the damn article and move the fuck on lmfao.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 03:40 AM
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Basically. It's better to go through a shit period early in life than feel that way later in life.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:32 AM
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Mind giving a break-down of your workout programs since you began?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:21 PM
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This is a long-term plan. I in no way assume it'll be easy. All I need is a place to live, a gym membership, and $500 for groceries a month and I'm good to go. Though I do want to be kicking it and living the high life once I'm 40.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:39 AM
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I probably won't stay in the industry forever. I'll make enough money for investments and try to build a stream for lots of passive income. Once I'm financially independent, I'll start working on personal projects.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:03 AM
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Basically this. If she can't handle the distance, eject, please.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 12:47 AM
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People will get butthurt over this cause MUH SOCIAL MEDIA IS BAD. Yeah, social media is horrible for your mental health. It's also a way to get laid. Just delete the app and don't use it unless you're posting shit. TRP is a tool-box, take what works for you and discard the rest. I really don't understand the people who try so hard to oppose using Instagram as a means to get laid. If it works for people, it works.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 12:34 AM
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Where do you live? Hot chicks are where the shit goes down. Big cities - Downtown. If your finances aren't good and you don't look like a greek god, you have limited access. Living in a hub gives you community access whereas suburbs are a different story. If the only places you're going are the gym and grocery stores, again that is limiting your options. My priority is graduating and getting a software engineering job in the hub of the city. I'm blessed with looks but the body I want is still a …
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:49 PM
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What's wrong with you? This isn't fucking around, this is just being a shitty person. Degrading people in your circle or relationships does nothing good for you. What were you expecting? I don't apologize much, but if I did this I would apologize. This is just straight-up autistic behaviour.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 09:54 PM
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Your point would be valid if the person she replied to actually expressed that they weren't willing to wait with a virgin. But she didn't ask someone who expressed that point. You: I want to go on that rollercoaster. Me: Are you willing to wait in line? Will you promise not to cut the line? In the hypothetical above, did you at any point mention that you wouldn't wait in line? No. So why am I asking you that? Probably because I think you may have a habit of cutting lines at the amusement park. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 10:17 PM
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Are you willing to wait until she feels ready? Are you willing to support her if she's dealing with sexual trauma? "I never said a man has to wait if he doesn’t want to? I agree with you. By your own definition you are straw manning me... " " If you say that men should wait ... " This is a form of presenting an example or argument. I'm not explicitly stating that you are saying this. "If you were to say..." "If you say" "If you said" Didn't think I'd be going over vocabulary in this sub. There's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:24 AM
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" Are you willing to wait until she feels ready? Are you willing to support her if she's dealing with sexual trauma? " She's being combative. If you want someone to listen to you, maybe try not to be aggressive with your points. The person she's replying to said nothing that would make her ask those questions. Yet she is doing so because she is projecting her anger onto someone who happens to be a man and says he would date a virgin because he is also a virgin. Why should I listen to her based o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:19 AM
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Do you know what a strawman is? You: I sure do like oranges. Me: You don't like apples because you like oranges. I suggest you reread the posts. "Plenty of men are open to dating a virgin but are definitely not willing to wait more than a specific timeframe. " Did anyone dispute this? If they're not willing to wait more than a specific time-frame, then they can walk. No man or woman in a relationship is entitled to put out for sex, or wait for sex longer than they want. If you say that men shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 08:35 AM
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Not trying to be rude but I think you're just projecting your own insecurities right here. You're illogically responding with questions that are projections to answers that have nothing to do with your question/answer. "Virgin women are people" I don't think anyone here denies that Virgin women aren't people. But alright. If someone is in the talking stage with a woman who happens to be a virgin, they don't have to wait for anything if they don't want to, they can walk away at any point. Not eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:17 AM
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That wasn't even what I asked. You responded to u/Dramatic_Face_1396 with strawman questions that don't relate to his point. Now you just gave an answer to something I didn't even ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:14 AM
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Are you under the presumption that u/Dramatic_Face_1396 would force her to have sex? If she doesn't want to have sex, and he chooses that it's not a part of what he wants, then he would leave? Also, I hope by supporting you're not meaning "taking care" of them. I dated a girl with sexual trauma and she would make me feel like shit by using her sexual trauma as a reason to excuse any of her bad behaviours. Or using it as a shield for when I tried breaking up with her, and that by breaking up with…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:08 AM
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If I were to get to the root of what you’re saying (which whether you know it or not, is what you said) it would be to say, “life is impermanence”. I hadn't thought of it like this, but it makes a lot of sense. Thanks for pointing this out, I have something additional to reflect on now. Moment to moment (feelings, thoughts, actions) is impermanent, just as life itself is. It's tough to realize this, let alone adjusting to it. Motivation is fleeting, emotions are fleeting and life is fleeting. Do…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/20 06:45 AM
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Your father is golden.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:05 AM
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how he fucked a girl so good she was borderline crazy over him This is/was my situation. I did fuck her good but the chances are that she's BPD. Bitch broke my house door wide open trying to get inside 3 months post-breakup. What did the cops do? Nothing. But yeah, if she is crazy enough she will probably still entertain orbiters.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 03:01 AM
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You haven't experienced what you're shunning. You're not working on the aspects you're lacking. If you've gone around and been with girls, then you can make an informed decision that you don't want anything to do with girls. You have some "mommy issues" which are causing you to seek exclusively "love" and commitment from females. Are all girls sluts? No. This is where too much red pill comes into play. Guys come here for a reason, it's because they're butthurt because they got dicked around by a…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/20 11:51 PM
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Yeah, but how are you going to show or even tell her what you want in a 5-minute conversation? It's pointless to even think about this situation. It's like a girl being approached by a guy who she doesn't want to be approached by, and then wondering why he approached her when she didn't want him to approach her.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:16 AM
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What's your point? It doesn't matter what you want to hear. She's using previously-successful tactics on you. It doesn't matter whether or not you want to hear it.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:49 AM
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Emotional manipulation. How do you know what IOIs are? BPD has a spectrum. It's not binary.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:39 AM
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Then do it mate.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:10 AM
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What do you want to do as a result of this situation?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:11 AM
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Sometimes people can get great advice that helps them navigate situations even when they know what to do. It's not that deep, let the man ask the question..
/r/askTRP14/11/20 06:58 AM
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People who leave their snapchat location on for their exes know exactly what they're doing. Shit, I don't know why people don't turn it off altogether. Just stay out of the drama, she's not retarded she's obviously doing it on purpose.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/20 11:55 PM
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We’re midway thru when she gets off me and has a mental breakdown saying that I am just using her and I comfort her saying we should stop. Dude, you should've noped the fuck out of there after this. She is clearly on the extreme-side of BPD.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 09:33 AM
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"Cooks and cleans" gets me every time.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:07 AM
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Build a profile first, go out do cool shit and take pictures. Likes don't matter. Upload them over a span of 1-2 months maybe like 3-4 pictures and then start following people. (Highschool and co-workers) It's not that big of a deal. Every single situation is situational, there isn't some magic number that is going to work for you in terms of followers. Just build a profile and treat it like a memory log. If you're a cool looking dude and you're doing cool shit, people will follow you. It helps …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 08:07 AM
0

Not exactly true. You just need to put yourself out there. Having a couple of solid pictures is more than enough to actually get some hits.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 07:02 AM
10

Despite what people say on here about social media, a lot of the younger generation uses Instagram like Tinder. I'm 21 years old. I had no fucking clue that dating is all literally through Instagram nowadays until I found out that most of my friends meet and start talking to girls over Instagram while I was only meeting girls IRL. You need to have a solid profile with a couple of pictures for your value to actually be on display for IG in order to treat it as something like Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 07:01 AM
34

Treat the date as a social encounter. Have some conversation about stuff you like talking about and end the date short. Better to end the date short instead of saying something that might affect the other person's confidence.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 09:43 PM
2

Not yet, unfortunately, I haven't fought yet.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:07 AM
33

Being driven by something that lights a fire in your heart. For me, it was/is martial arts. Putting your drive into action is how to become OBSESSED. Being obsessed with something that drives you is animalistic at its core, it makes you feel alive.. It's easier to push a car that's moving than it is to push one that is static. Build off of momentum, don't let yourself regress too much if you're going to fall off.. I fucked up by letting myself fall off during quarantine and not picking myself up…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 01:01 AM
1

Chick seems a little BPD Run.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:56 AM
8

or cause it to self-destruct. straight fact.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 05:55 PM
1

Elisha Long is pretty good.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:20 AM
9

Yup. This is where IOIs come in to play OP. Better to approach girls that are interested in you rather than trying to make them interested in you.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:55 PM
1

And we should reject that system. Gives us zero excuses to better ourselves at that point.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:40 PM
1

No one gives a fuck about men. It's the truth. Men need to be their own protector and nurturer, the government isn't going to help you neither is anyone else more than likely. A woman can go get a restraining order with the most minuscule excuse. I tried getting one multiple times against a crazy BPD ex and was denied multiple times. I stopped expecting anyone to give a shit and had to take it a step further to look out for myself.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 06:14 PM
1

That's true, but it doesn't have to be a reality for us. We can either lay on the train tracks or decide to get up out of the way. It's why TRP draws so many of us here and why we adopt all the information that's useful to us.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 01:25 AM
5

Because women manipulate these guys Manipulation is a primordial function. It's your fault if you fall into the trap of being manipulated by some chick.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:42 PM
2

Yup. Race does not matter.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:24 AM
4

We used to have a Snapchat/WhatsApp group, I left during quarantine. I'll see if I can get a link for you.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 01:24 AM
10

Probably a drunk retard. You handled it well imo.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 07:43 PM
3

Not worth it.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 06:25 PM
15

I'm very attracted to them, but they're off-limits for me now. They're ticking time bombs. Every now and then one of them will be a nuke. They'll fucking flatten your life, reputation, and anything else that has graced any atom you've come into contact within your life. I'm currently dealing with a smear campaign against me that has had my family flip against me because I couldn't keep my dick out of crazy. Just read my latest post.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 05:20 AM
1

I would say that if I expected any voice of reason from her. I've been NC for 2 years because she's BPD and is incapable of logic, always making every issue black and white. Having a relationship with my mother did more damage to me than if I had no mother.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 09:01 PM
3

I've about 2 years of text message conversations. I refused to let myself get sucked into the drama and had my brother share the text-messages with my family. Examples are of her telling me she hopes she ruined my life and that I should go die etc.. Unfortunately, it made no difference as women support women. I've always known this but it was quite surprising seeing a mother turn on her own son for a girl she just met 3-4 days prior.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:51 PM
1

I didn't say it was one?
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:58 PM
1

Played sports and made women their priority. You can go do the same, no one is stopping you. I think people forget that TRP is beyond women, not just about sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:53 PM
2

Good luck then.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:32 AM
8

I thought the same until crazy interjected herself into my life in a way no one would believe to be true if I explained it. I just got rid of that crazy after 1 year of absolute torture 5 days ago by changing my number, my apartment and removing myself from social media. Basically had to wipe my existence from the map. It's like putting your hand in a snake pit and saying you didn't get bit. Keep doing it and the snake will eventually bite.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:22 AM
5

Yep, this isn't just a woman thing. It's human-nature.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:27 AM
49

Right. Intelligence isn't a one-shot quality. There are extremely rich tech pundits who are extremely shit with women and have to go marry some Filipino chick from overseas. I would call those same tech pundits stupid in terms of women. Your point doesn't make much sense here. ​ You can be smart in some factions of your life and then be absolutely stupid with dealing with relationships with women.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 01:43 AM
3

Yeah well, we never know how someone else is doing mentally. Everyone has their own mental point of origin. You nor I can share OP's pain or understand what goes on in his head. I'd rather help someone out than judge their situation. I don't think that OP is just bitching about nothing, seems like he's had it pretty tough and he's worked for where he's at. Even rich and "happy" people suffer from depression and other mental illnesses that plague society. I could list my life story too, but nobod…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:31 AM
62

Not really. The signs are usually there. Pretty much in your face. Some people just are stupid.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 01:16 AM
2

Yeah okay. I've seen plenty of chads who lift and have a purpose that are assholes.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:14 AM
5

Be more self-aware. Scan the situation before talking or reacting. Look at shit from other people's perspectives. Put your self in other people's shoes and conclude how you would react to your own responses or speech. Assholes usually tend to not be self-aware, so that's the biggest thing.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:09 AM
8

Probably.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:01 AM
4

He's going through a tough time. He's asking older men on this sub who've experienced this shit to give him some advice on how to get over this hump. The post is self-explanatory.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 12:55 AM
6

AWALT. Women side with women. Whatever happened, I'm sure OP's sister sides with his ex.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 04:07 AM
6

Good thing OP didn't ask for your guide.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 05:48 PM
1

So she's using you as a free living space and you're getting no pussy. You're also getting giving her a "stipend".. Lol..
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:00 PM
5

u/TRPcops
/r/askTRP19/08/20 09:45 AM
2

Stfu.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 06:39 PM
1

Jesus, you’d get your ass handed to you. Imagine trying to be such a tough guy.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 10:04 PM
13

Make fun of him for having a little squirt gun in his pocket. Who the fuck does that shit at that age? If anything, he's making himself look stupid as fuck.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 09:20 AM
1

Thanks man, real constructive advice.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 04:37 AM
0

Why would you opt for a chin implant? You're fine.. Getting muscular, growing a stache and getting a proper haircut will do wonders for you.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 09:46 PM
18

Hahaha wow, yeah she’s definitely crazy bro. A good morning text is a redflag.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:06 PM
14

Hahaha wow bro, you’ll end up with breakfast in bed. Better not fuck her bro your smv is too high she’ll get instantly attached. You should never fuck a girl who wants to fuck you that much.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:03 PM
1

No, bitches have loud mouths. Rather not cause unnecessary drama in my life for pussy.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:01 PM
1

OP will be seen as a legend for the years to come for this party.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 05:57 AM
5

I want to meet like minded dudes who don’t think that women should be empowered and all that bs. And that isn't a BP mindset? Do you want to focus on not empowering women instead of improving yourself? Come on..
/r/askTRP03/08/20 03:37 AM
15

If you’re ripped, then yes.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 02:49 AM
0

It does relate to red pill. You mad that someone isn’t posting about bitches and now you want to snitch to daddy?
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:45 PM
2

Water training is the answer. MMA legend GSP’s approach to training to avoid injury was to use water weights. Look into it.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:55 PM
2

A man doesn't yearn for water until he's dying of thirst.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 05:37 AM
2

Stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 07:48 PM
3

I got really pissed off at this point and asked her why does he care he care so much when he's no longer with you and why has she been talking to her ex? Why do you give a shit? If a girl really wants a guy out of her life, she'll do literally anything to get him to fuck off. Chances are she's got him on a hook and she's keeping him around. Sounds like she's about to add you to her list of Billy Betas for acting like a bitch. She told you her ex came there, if she really didn't want something to…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 06:11 PM
20

Retail workers/Food service workers probably get guys coming up to them multiple times a day, most of which are creeps and they're forced to be nice to the creeps. Their job is to be nice to you. If you're approaching simply to practise, then it's fine, otherwise don't expect them to reciprocate.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 05:56 PM
75

My hb11 step sister cooks for me, cleans for me and we fuck sometimes 3-4 times a day. Other day she got stuck in the washing machine and instead of helping her out, I took her panties off and we fucked. She was mad at first but now she wants to do it again. It’s been 2 days and she’s still stuck in the washing machine. How do I successfully apply kino and increase my smv from this situation? I’m 5’10 if it helps and I lift.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 05:17 PM
2

I'd only be really worried if she wants to go somewhere and doesn't invite you in the future.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:16 PM
11

Let her go and don’t say anything. If she cares about you, she’ll be messaging you throughout the night and spill all the details if you truly STFU till she talks about it.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:11 PM
2

She sucked off chad but you’re her billy beta who she recoils from at the first mention of sex? Yeah, what you’re feeling is a scarcity mindset. Hard to overcome but you’re getting nothing in return from her other than being her emotional tampon. Work on yourself, despite what you think, there’s a lot of better high quality girls out there.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:09 PM
1

Come on bro, what is this question? Everyone reacts differently, one person may freak out and another may not?
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:50 PM
4

You sound like me at 18. I initially wanted to join the airforce and become a pilot right out of highschool but getting a degree through the airforce is not something I wanted to do. I’d passed all the aptitude tests just didn’t do the selection tests. I’m now doing a computing science degree and it gives me more options. If I want in the future, I can join the airforce and become a pilot as I need a degree to do that anyways, or I can just get a high paying programming job with my degree. Hones…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 03:52 AM
2

Why are you acting as if she’s your girlfriend if she’s not? Who gives a shit what she’s doing unless you want her to be your ltr. In that case, I’m sure you know what the answer is to whether or not you should ever get into a LTR with her.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:11 AM
0

Plate her.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:02 AM
1

Pretty accurate on that take.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:15 AM
2

Thanks mate, totally didn't think of this!! /s
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:33 PM
8

celibate for three months because she self-harmed with sex she had bad previous experiences Run.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:17 PM
2

Talk to an university advisor.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:10 PM
3

Is it worth breaking up over?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:08 AM
38

Father, how do you get away from a suicidal BPD ltr you've been trying to ditch for 8 months?
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:21 AM
13

Is 5'10 considered short to you? Then my second biggest love rejected me but I heard that she was always obsessed with 6'6 guys and how much she valued it and she was just 5'5. You have other things you need to worry about if your "second biggest love" rejected you over height. You should start off by growing some confidence and learn to accept yourself. I'm 5'10 myself and I've never had a girl reject me because of my height. I've seen 5'5 dudes with great personalities rarely get rejected. You…
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:27 PM
9

Dude, idk who told you that but unless the gym you're going to is in the middle of a shit neighbourhood, everyone in the gym is usually cool and chill.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 12:50 AM
2

I'm lucky that I don't live with her. I just try avoiding as much contact as I can. Rarely pick up calls/text or even meet up. I've tried so much shit but I guess what keeps me from not being able to just call the cops and get a restraining order is the fact I think she's going to kill herself. That stems from the shit that happened to my dad.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:46 AM
2

Thank god you got away bro. I haven't gotten away yet. Been months of me trying, multiple "suicide attempts" on her end. It's just a fucked up situation for me because I've dealt with my dad's suicide before and it's just being thrown in my face right now. I've talked to her friend's and family to get away gracefully but nothing seems to work. I only pray I can get out of this shit alive.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:16 AM
2

How'd you get away from her?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:55 AM
4

Please stop, don't interact with her anymore. If by any chance you start dating and you want to break up, she'll probably end up threatening to commit suicide. Source: Personal experience.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:37 AM
29

Piggybacking on this, take her back and I'll also shit in your ears daily OP until either you or 7reYZVmn die.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 06:56 PM
5

He's not going to do shit but if by chance he's stupid enough to get up in your face over an ex... Three words... Martial arts training. If you don't talk, you don't owe him shit, you can pipe down whoever the fuck you want to. Let him talk shit, people can sense insecurity and female-like tendencies from aggressive/passive-aggressive wanna be tough guys who have a mountain full of ego built on a heap of trash. I'm not telling you to never stand up for yourself, but as long as he isn't saying sh…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 03:37 AM
2

Dont listen to your bro, he definitely doesn't know anything. It's very easy to dig through the garbage, just try to have a relationship with your kids and move on from her.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:02 AM
2

If you're even asking this question, you've lost. You'll probably just end up getting back with her regardless of what anyone says. You'll regret it maybe after the first day or a couple years down the line when she pulls the same shit.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:45 AM
19

Common human decency. You don't show nudes meant for you to others. If one of your buddies is a loud-mouth it might get back to her, there goes your reputation.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:42 AM
1

I think it’s because you want to feel like everything in life is controllable, when in truth, someone things are out of control for some people Kevin hart is 5'4. Bugsy Mogues is 5'3. Dave Franco is 5'7. Al Pacino is 5'7. Tom Cruise is 5'7. Elijah Wood is 5'6. Bruno Mars is 5'5. Prince was 5'2. Do you know how many women prince fucked in his lifetime? Yeah.. You can sit here and keep feeling sorry for yourself because you're short, but another short dude out there is slaying mad pussy because he…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:19 PM
1

But I do find it weird when you try to make another stranger copy your world view of having compassion to random strangers, even though Connor won’t see this. So you shouldn't be compassionate for others if they can't see you're being compassionate. Who's trying to make who copy their world view again? No you didn’t want him to lay off due to him being butthurt, you wanted him to: Bud, what you said in reference to quoting what I said makes ZERO sense. Please re-read what you wrote. You personal…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:27 PM
1

Jesus, how hard is it for you to comprehend the fact that being good looking does not automatically make you happy. Life isn't just about how good looking you are or your success with women. Your mentality is indefinitely blue pill, when people talk about TRP going to shit, it's the mentality you're carrying that they're talking about. Go read the sidebar. If you think being good-looking automatically makes you happy, you're basing your happiness on the amount of pussy you get. Girls have never …
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:05 PM
1

No, it's not true. Having been blessed with genetics doesn't make up for other aspects of life. If you think being good looking automatically makes you happy or your life better than someone else's, you have a lot of learning to do. You are definitely an incel.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 08:10 PM
1

Sensing some incel vibes.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:14 PM
1

Put yourself in a position where you're losing your shit and going insane. Common sense and logic do not prevail in the decisions you make. Is posting multiple videos of yourself doing crazy shit while actively going crazy somehow out of the bounds of possibility?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:10 PM
1

Why does one ask me why I feel compassion? Is it so incomprehensible to you that a human feels emotion in regards to a human they have never met? I never asked OP to feel compassionate for a stranger. Just telling him to lay off because he comes across as severely butthurt. Don't know what point you're trying to make here.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:07 PM
0

Is that somehow illogical?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:30 AM
2

He took Psychedelics and it seems to have opened a door he cannot close, I highly doubt he's doing it for attention. I went through something similar recently but nowhere close to the level this guy is at right now. Look at his most recent videos.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:05 AM
2

It's not moralizing, it's compassion.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:02 AM
2

You don't have to cry to be losing your shit full-on. Seems like he's going through some massive depersonalization, it can feel like the whole world is ending paired with extreme anxiety.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:36 AM
19

Makes you wonder how weak the spoiled boys with premium genetics who basically got it all actually are because of their highly privileged position. This man clearly doesn’t know how to handle pain, and it shows.... Nasty. You sound butthurt as fuck. Leave the dude alone, shows your character kicking a man while he's down.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 01:41 AM
4

LOL
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:50 PM
10

Stop wasting her time. She seems like a nice girl who is invested in you. You want to leave her in better shape than when you got with her. Breakup as gracefully as possible and go on your own way.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:03 AM
0

Bro stop talking so cringe lol.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 09:55 AM
3

This^ Most people tell you not to get physical, those same people don't know how to fight and would rather get their asses beat than get in a fight. Learn to fight. You can't do much in a lot of situations unless you're prepared for them. You can't walk away from a situation if the other guy really wants to fight and will come at you regardless of what you do.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:28 PM
19

some random comes up to her and starts grabbing her ass and she gets fully infuriated and it completely kills the vibe. Jesus. Some dudes literally need to get their asses beat.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 11:27 PM
2

Not a good idea, can lead to hair-loss and other side-effects.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 10:24 AM
2

lmao
/r/askTRP22/12/19 04:10 AM
2

You're an idiot if you'd take advice of how to become a professional basketball player from someone who's only played one game of basketball in their life. Gregg Popovich never played a game in the NBA, yet he's regarded as the best coach in the league.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:48 AM
3

The sidebar has valuable information, yes. Jordan peterson also puts out a lot of valuable information. You pick and you choose the information that helps you, the rest of it is garbage. I don't think the point of TRP was to ever create zombies who follow a very strict guideline like everyone else that comes here.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:46 AM
7

This. Listen to this OP.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:44 AM
5

You're not ready for a relationship, let alone marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 12:46 PM
1

The sexy muthafucka from the gym https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PcR_wdAMkOs
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:02 AM
2

What's so funny?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 04:24 AM
1

ahahaha, take my upvote
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:14 AM
-1

You're autistic. Why the fuck would you go up to a girl with a boyfriend and ask her to come by tonight at 11? You're asking to get your ass beat.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:26 PM
1

It’s not that most people don’t like their current friends, it’s that they think they’ve outgrown them and they want to move onto greener pastures. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to move on, but you can’t expect all other males involved in your life to be Alpha. You can look for more friendships, but dropping someone because they’re just not alpha even though they may be enjoyable to be around is a dick move. It’s different if your beta friends are actively being a negative influence on your…
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:24 PM
4

I still haven’t found the answer to this question. You’re looking for “Alphas” who’re exactly like you, thing is, you probably won’t find someone like that. Learn to be content with your current friends and keep meeting people, you’ll meet potential buds like that.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:29 AM
3

Compare yourself to a year ago in context to interaction with girls. It’s hard to see yourself in the moment but if you look into the past, you’ve got a clear cut image of your standing.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:32 PM
9

It depends on how you handle the fact you may have low self worth among others. I was always told I’m really good looking and cute in highschool, had no problems with girls. The issue was that I actually didn’t believe anyone and would ignore girls who were making moves first. Unknowingly, I was displaying high SMV by disregarding all these girls that had an interest in me, even though the reason why I didn’t reciprocate interest was because I was insecure and had self-worth issues. Had I been m…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:29 PM
19

Not true, some guys with self-identity issues may be absolute units in terms of SMV if only they figured out a way to deal with low-self worth.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:08 PM
12

Uhh, it's 50/50. If she pays for the bill once, you pick it up the other time. We all give females shit for leeching off men like that, but when you're not footing the bill, you're exactly like one of those leeches that you so despise.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 09:03 PM
0

I don’t need her to do anything. Virtue signalling does’t work. How about propositions of actual solutions rather than saying “you’re not doing enough”. This girl hasn’t even completed highschool and she somehow knows whats best?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 07:47 PM
9

Poverty stricken india and china are the biggest polluters in the world. They give 0 fucks about pollution because their quality of life is already pretty bad. Give them a reason to care about the environment and they’ll straighten themselves out. If their governments don’t want to change, you can’t change them. If you consider that being brainwashed, you indulge in too much corporate media.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 06:01 PM
3

And incels.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:59 AM
30

Brainwashed. Her parents are Antifa, poor girl knows nothing about how the world works. She's a symbol for world-wide ignorance. Without getting into the politics of how the solution to global warming is to pull others out of poverty, she and her supporters have no solution. Make your bed, says Jordan Peterson. If you haven't taken care of your own mess, don't go around telling people that they're dirty.. You'd be a fucking hypocrite. TRP's stance is to be personally accountable. You want to do …
/r/askTRP01/10/19 09:55 AM
7

I just created a tribe for any and all users living in Vancouver, hopefully there's other people in the same area and we can get an IRL tribe going. " https://trp.red/tribe/vancouver
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 07:44 AM
1

Runned asshole game Someone teach me what this new game is.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:01 AM
4

It won't work for you because you've already decided it won't. You're foreshadowing what the future is and using it as a precursor for your decisions. It is the most absurdly stupid fucking thing you can do, it's a self-destructive trait that you need to fucking ditch.. Otherwise good-luck man.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:36 AM
1

He looks like a creep. Dressed retarded and trying to use PUA tactics to make up for his low SMV. Kept chasing the girls like a creep even though they weren't interested and started walking alongside them (once again, it's creepy) When cold approaching in non club/party settings, don't use tactics you'd use in a club or at a party. Had he approached the girls wearing decent clothes, wasn't annoying and creepy perhaps he'd at least get a friendly conversation out of this awkward exchange.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:34 AM
1

Okay there buddy, Mr. Unicorn Man.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 06:56 PM
1

Without boundaries, you’re looking for a unicorn. Good luck finding a girl who doesn’t talk to other males in 2019, unless you set a boundary of course.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 08:16 PM
3

Vetting and boundaries go hand in hand, op did neither. You cannot simply have a desirable relationship with a woman by just vetting, unless you find a unicorn and we already know how many “unicorns” there are out there. You vet, set boundaries and move forward in the relationship. You let your expectations be known, if she breaks those expectations, you leave her behind.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:59 AM
6

or is it possible that everything is strictly platonic There may be some underlying attraction on her part. The only thing as humans we can do is make assumptions. None of us are god, thus we cannot play god. Only you're the one here that knows if she's strictly platonic or not. If she flirts with you, gives you fuck me eyes and doesn't treat you like an emotional tampon, she probably does want something more. There are a lot of factors to intake on what she feels. (Past relationships, N-count, …
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:41 AM
1

Yeah, 3v1. Didn't want to take me on a 1v1 since I do martial arts, I ended up breaking my nose but they didn't get away without injury either.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 02:34 AM
2

She can’t do that it he sets boundaries, unless of course she breaks them.. Then you know what to do.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 08:57 PM
9

https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/17/boundaries/
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:32 PM
23

she wouldn’t have if she cared or respected me Good thing you did was end things. Just don't let her weasel her way back in. If she wants to meet up, don't. If she tries to call/text, block her number. You're walking away with some dignity right now, let her back in again and she'll be disgusted by you. Next time, if you don't want a LTR to be hanging out with other guys, set boundaries.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:26 PM
2

"i will legit cut his tongue" Nice way to get your ass beat/get locked up.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:22 PM
9

- Physically/Mentally tough - Charismatic and confident - Self-dependent - Strong sense of self - Has a plan (sidebar) ​ The sidebar basically defines what an alpha is and how to become one.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:20 PM
3

She tells me fucking everything, everything in her life. You're her emotional tampon. I just developed crush on this girl and fuck You're young. You've never had sex before. Make your move, just don't get roped into your feelings or you'll have a tough time. What's your question though?
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:18 PM
87

4 months LTR met a guy, went out to movies and to eat with him alone. You fucked up long before even that happened, question isn't whether you over-reacted by breaking up with your LTR. She's not a LTR, she's a hoe. She already sees you as a little beta bitch for staying with her despite her going on a "Date" with a guy to the movies who she probably blew later. You should read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:15 PM
2

Anyone been through this situation? Yup, got jumped by them as a result. Crabs in a bucket analogy, only realized it when I dropped them.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:41 AM
0

Look. A lot of people on Asktrp will tell you to ignore and be calm against aggressive and violent men, and they're partially right. You need to know how to fight, period. Ignoring/being calm will work to your benefit if you know that you'll be able to fuck the guy up. If the guy calls your bluff, and decides to hit you and you don't know how to fight, you'll get your ass beat. We live in a society driven by primal interactions, aggressive beta-males exist in a lot of species at the top of the f…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:33 AM
3

Even better.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:21 AM
3

DEER. "Requirements to ride me." instead of "It's about my standards" comes off as less defensive.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:19 AM
9

Just don't explain or be defensive about it. "but babe I wasn’t doing that I only have eyes for you" falls into the DEER category, yes. I told her she was fucking stupid because it happened at a kid’s birthday party Too aggressive. Her: Why're you staring at that bitch? You: She reminds me of you. Her: *Hamster activated* How? In a good way or a bad way??? TELL ME. You: Smirk and let her know to not worry about it.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:14 AM
3

Why would he just end the relationship for no reason? Jesus.. If you're going to contribute, don't contribute with autistic answers.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 03:51 AM
1

And what is the correct way to act when she’s all angry and butthurt? Ignore it.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 09:44 PM
1

Not sure who down-voted you, but yes you're right. Vetting plays some role, but only to an extent. Vetting can give you an indicator of the future but it won't set the terms for your future.. You can only set the terms with setting boundaries.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:16 AM
3

Clearly, you failed in the vetting process. She's never done anything like this before. Vetting doesn't work, setting boundaries does. OP failed at setting his boundaries, she should've knew what the consequences would have been if she went ahead with it.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 11:40 PM
5

I'd recommend Muay Thai, but boxing is good too.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 02:48 AM
50

Pick up a martial art then, you can still lift to maintain whilst doing so. Who knows, you might just love it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 12:15 AM
4

I'd get a good male therapist Sad thing is, it's extremely expensive to get a therapist and not break the bank. I don't even think that any insurance/MSP plans would cover something like that.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:03 PM
1

Sorry about your mother. any type of advice on just how to bounce back and how to better myself in anyway and to increase overall confidence from this and SMV Building your own tribe, a group of friends who you can rely on and treat like family. Also, I'd recommend Muay Thai/Jiu Jitsu as a conduit to channel frustration or anger. Religion has it's flaws, but places like churches have great support systems for people who need them. Simply being involved in a community where you have support can b…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:02 PM
1

I feel very lonely so finding a woman in my life at least for a moment could be a nice thing Go with the escort to lose your own label of being a virgin. Once you've done that, focus on changing your situation. Get a gym membership, learn basic lifting (Starting Strength - Mark Rippetoe) *torrents are available*, learn healthy eating. A lion isn't a lion without it's mane. Your body is your mane. Tend to your body and you'll get results, as long as you aren't totally socially inept.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:23 AM
16

What's your question?
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:18 PM
2

I don't believe a woman can unconditionally love. I would say it's almost impossible for man but for woman it's just impossible. Right, that's known here if you've taken the RP. Point is, your average joe doesn't know that.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:53 PM
7

Majority? I'm not sure about that... Not everyone has a TRP mindset. The amount of "natural" Red Pillers out there are a very small percentage of the population. He may be that naive? She was loving other guys too. She is a lovely thing haha. I may believe Chris being naive and loves her but it's really hard to believe her love. You, me and most of the people in this sub were "naive" before we found TRP. I don't really know what answer you want, but yes, he's with her because he "loves" her. Cel…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:09 PM
60

I swallowed the red pill. I've been holding my shit in for almost a year now to make sure the red pill doesn't slip out of my asshole. Do you know how alpha you have to be to not take a shit for a whole year? Exactly.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:02 PM
8

Chris really believe in love Yes, a majority of the world does. He's with her because he loves her I guess.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 09:00 PM
10

You think that your a special case. That your the one and only special snowflake. No where here do I mention anything about myself. Trying to answer legitimate questions with "Alpha Bro" responses makes you look retarded. Calling me a snowflake does nothing. Your just lazy and want us to do the searching for you. ASKTRP Community Details: Red Pill Discussion for personalized questions about specific situations. Tell me how I'm asking for specifically YOU to do any searching? I'm asking for indiv…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:21 AM
4

READING THE FUCKING SIDEBAR Why is my ass itchy? u/nogatcord: READING THE FUCKING SIDEBAR My dude, where does the sidebar have experiences of users' depression phases? This sub is getting filled with autists.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 05:05 AM
6

Nice contribution.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 04:55 AM
17

So I’m looking for the angle to come at it so to skip all this. Her: “I do got plenty of free time but i dunno if it's worth it wasting it with you😁🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️” You: "Meet me up at so and so time and come find out for yourself" Either she says, yes, or she says no. Similarly, either she wants to fuck you, or she doesn't.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:36 AM
13

You would probably have to change your phone number for a starter.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:34 AM
1

Display abundance. Direct abundance with whatever words you find suitable. Don't conform or validate yourself to her. It’s her being playful In that same playfulness she's testing your frame. Recognize that and pass her shit tests accordingly.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:32 AM
9

I do got plenty of free time but i dunno if it's worth it wasting it with you Unless she's a 9 or a 10, and you want to pursue her still, laugh your way out of the door. Responding to this shit-test if she's an ugly land-whale or average thot at best is what gives average-girls their ego boosts on dating apps.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:25 AM
5

Try to act 100% alpha in a relationship and see how it works out for you. It definitely is autistic advice for a LTR, and these types of comments are exactly what the sidebar warns you of. If you really wanted to convey "dgaf" and "abundance", your response would be disinterest and dread. If she's talking about some other dude, you display your disinterest in a non-autistic way. You remove yourself from her attention, and dread her even harder by mirroring her actions until she realizes she can …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:18 AM
1

At least you didn't learn it at 60. You learn through-out your life. lots of people are going to put you down, be jealous etc. In relationship same thing Oh yeah, indefinitely, it happens as you work on yourself. I've seen it cemented in my mind after I discovered the main sub.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:07 AM
2

But since none of that happened fuck it learn from your mistakes and focus better on reading peoples intentions You're right. I let it go the first time around, perhaps that's a judgemental call.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:04 AM
4

It sounds like pussy excuses to me Well I'm sorry I can't be as macho as you man. I can't confront someone who's face I've never even seen. You should be happy that youre not so fucked that you insisted on staying in the relationship. Why would I do that? girlfriend mentions another man you say “then go fuck him and see how happy it makes you” That's a pretty autistic response in correlation to this situation. This isn't a plate I was dealing with.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:02 AM
3

I feel its a lack of respect for the person that is getting into the relationship with her. Definitely. I know that because I've gotten rid of people permanently in my life, and if you really want to get rid of someone, you'll do everything in your power to do so.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:53 AM
1

And it was beta of you not to confront the ex I don't know him. I've tried to track him down with the limited info I had. The whole reason I ended it though was literally because she wouldn't give me his information, and she bull-shitted about how she would. I don't really care about Beta/Alpha labels but I'm not sure how that constitutes as being beta.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:44 AM
2

how many times do you think she cheated on you during that time with him Not that I could never know if that even happened. But a lot of the people I know mutually with her reinforce how she's actively been trying to get rid of him. She doesn't do anything other than go to school or stay at home studying, which is a quality trait in my opinion which is one of the reasons I made her my LTR who doesn't need much external validation. At the end of the day, I could never know. Any woman is capable o…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:43 AM
4

mah ma's cah.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:34 PM
2

Over-saturated market and you're probably 10 years too late to the game. Do some more research and find a money-maker or business that is untapped.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:16 AM
-10

You choose to keep yourself in that bubble, it's why there's a disparity between the top 20% and the bottom 80%.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 11:35 AM
1

One would assume that after seeing this on a TRP page. That’s why we work on our SMV.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 11:07 AM
5

Cognitive Dissonance. Seems like you under-estimate yourself, inaction can do that. You've never been clubbing before, and you've had insecurities regarding the risk of failure.. In your head you thought you could never pull a girl at the club because you convinced yourself of so. This is the result of INACTION. When you decided to act, you got rewarded mate. Take this lesson on action and inaction and apply it to other areas of your life.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 03:10 AM
1

If she was fucking another man while you guys were married, why are you still married? Not trying to shit on you, you're your own person.. But why?
/r/askTRP09/08/19 07:23 AM
1

You're immature as fuck.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:25 PM
1

I was working plumbing while doing Muay thai/working out. One thing I can tell you is to have a proper diet with lots of protein. I used to have excess fat but having a shit diet where I wasn't eating a lot of calories helped me lose a lot of fat, though I lost hair due to protein deficiency. If I could do it with a shitty diet feeling tired all the time, you can do it as well.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:23 PM
2

They're not great numbers, though. Compared to 95%+ of the population, I'd say they're great numbers.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:43 PM
1

I do have a little bit of extra body fat, nothing too much.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:26 PM
1

How is fitness not related to TRP? Lol.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:25 PM
-1

Yeah, I’d say this is mental masturbation of sorts. Does nothing for anyone, any person who’s been on this sub for even a little while knows cuckery to the even the least extent.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 07:27 AM
1

These are obvious situations where the guy is beta. Question is, why are we doing “field report” type reviews for obviously stupid beta shit? It’s no different than (choosing beggars, bridezilla etc..). How is this benefiting anyone here? I think even some really blue pill men would define this situation as absolute cuckery.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 12:11 PM
1

Yeah, along with T levels. Came out good.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 06:39 AM
3

Kid might be OPs, she might be getting ready to drop a nuke on him.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 03:41 AM
1

How the fuck did you came to theese 'conclusions'? I mean you did elude to that saying that he has 2 plates from work. Also if he's not fucking them, they're not his plates.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 09:14 AM
2

Go for it then, I was under the assumption that he was fucking them considering you listed them as plates.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 01:05 AM
18

He could have 10, it doesn't matter. It's all about your principles, if OP is okay with his co-worker not being okay with him banging his plate and causing disruption at work, more power to him. Why risk drama at your job over pussy?
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:25 PM
32

Is pussy worth souring a relationship with a co-worker? Answer that and you've got your answer.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:12 PM
1

It just gives you an awareness of reality and the deeper mechanisms for understanding Which in return helps you control yourself. Look at people or yourself, pre-TRP and post-TRP, I know I'm way much more in control of the way I act because of unplugging. You can never 100% be in control because there's just some shit (ex. flight or fight response) that isn't controllable.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:22 AM
1

You have your consciousness and your sub-consciousness. Your sub-consciousness is your lizard brain, your consciousness is based off of your upbringing and experiences which factor into who you are. TRP is basically unplugging from the matrix and having control over your consciousness and perception as you put it. Everyone's perception is going to be different, though I'm not sure what you mean by singling out women's perceptions.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:16 AM
1

we look at humans as animals We are animals (both men and women), lust and greed are primitive behaviours. Every want or need to have sex, money and power is a primordial function which has been programmed into living organisms for hundreds of millions of years through evolution.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:10 AM
2

Take a back seat. You already said there's people who are hard workers and don't have that toxic mentality, now you know who to mainly socialize with at work. Talk to the others on a minimal but don't try to build a connection with autistic hyperactive retards unless it benefits you.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 12:08 AM
1

Snapchat - okay Reddit - okay in moderation Twitter - nope YouTube - okay for educational content ​ Stick to a certain amount of hours you can be on either of those, you can check screentimes if you have a newer iPhone.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 11:34 PM
9

Bonfires (Give her that primitive feelgood feels, usually ends up with her up against a tree getting her brains fucked out), Stargazing, beach/lake if you have access to one. I enjoy doing shit where I can have peace and solace like the above. The look on their faces when you're getting that fire going or chopping off wood with an Axe makes their juices flowing.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 11:32 PM
24

Go up to her and treat her like a person, bet she has a bunch of dudes trying to mack on her if she's hot. Tbh I'd build more of a connection by speaking to her multiple times if you see her around, see how she responds. If she's cold and seems annoyed when you approach her at the gym after the first 2-3 times, abort! Otherwise, you'll know what to do.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 11:26 PM
1

No one made you kiss two guys, seems like you were into them. That comment wasn't even meant to be for you, lmfao.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:47 AM
1

You have some serious mental issues dude.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:23 AM
1

Okay haha good for u.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:59 AM
1

Okay good for you bro, u made out with 2 guys with dicks. Congratulations no one gives a fuck. Stop wallowing in pity.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:47 AM
1

Yeah, this post is a pity party. No one gives a shit you made out with 2 trans chicks other than you. No one would know it, yet here you are doing exactly what you're afraid of doing.. Telling people you made out with 2 trans chicks.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 02:44 AM
0

How do you plan on achieving that?
/r/askTRP04/07/19 01:02 AM
1

What really matters to you?
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:58 AM
8

Would you get with an ugly chick that's a bum? No. Why would you expect a hot girl to get with a bottom 50% man who's ugly as fuck and works at Walmart?
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:57 AM
2

Okay. So you're going to throw yourself a pity party? I'm sorry, but not everyone is going to make it.. If you can't respect yourself cause you can't get over the fact you kissed 2 trans chicks then I'm not really sure what you want me or anyone else to say.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 12:56 AM
1

Slippery slope bro, if you're okay with losing your homie if something happens, then go for it.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 11:34 PM
2

Yeah just gotta be wary though, can't ever bee too careful. ​ Also, definitely, always gotta be on the lookout and ready to go.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:35 PM
2

Nice, I do muay thai too. Post an update if some shit happens with that retard btw.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:21 PM
2

Yeah I feel you on that, I get major anxiety knowing that if I got in such a situation I'd do something I regret. But for your situation, the person you're describing is a carbon copy of one of my "friends" that did this. You can go nuclear and do what I did or you can just use the "I'm busy" excuse until he leaves you alone.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 09:04 PM
2

Physically jumped. 3 v 1, broke my nose and almost ended up doing something that would've fucked my life up if I let my anger get to me. People will hate on you when you do good for yourself or move on from their shit.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:59 PM
1

Men hate ugly women. Women hate ugly men. That's just how it goes.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:49 PM
1

I've cut people off and they've jumped me for it. You just ignore them all together if they're extremely toxic.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:49 PM
28

Sounds like you're her beta bux, if she's hitting the wall then she wants to finally settle down and start a family.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:48 PM
1

OP
/r/askTRP28/06/19 09:57 PM
3

Because a feminine man is controllable. Feminists are trying to adopt masculinity as you can insinuate based off of what feminist demands are in the present day. It's why feminists are trying to get rid of "gender roles".
/r/askTRP28/06/19 04:06 AM
1

How do I handle this in the future? Lose the thirsty zombie look whenever you see a hot chick. If you notice yourself slipping, imagine her taking a fat shit (unless you're into that of course).
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:30 PM
6

I would say she's a hoe.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:27 PM
1

I'm in the same boat. I don't know if I'm BP or not, but I can say I experience the same shit. Do you think that perhaps you sometimes get too comfortable with where you are? I know that there are times when I'm doing good in life I think everything's going right and I don't need to do more shit, but once I come across something that makes me feel weak I breakdown. I can't give you a clear cut answer for this as I'm also battling my own demons, but I think meditation is something you need to try…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:19 AM
1

Why not, it seems like a very big deal now that you've said I love you.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:15 AM
3

You know the answer to this, no one here can give you an answer for as to how you feel. If you feel like it's disrespectful, you know what to do. If you don't give a shit, then shit man.. You know what to do. Be assertive with yourself, do what YOU think is right. You'll get mixed responses on here which'll only confuse you more.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:14 AM
5

Put in a TLDR bro..
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:10 AM
34

Don't dislike your old-self, use it as a stepping stone. Do you despise how you were when you were a child? No. Life is an experience, just because you weren't taught something or given experiences at a certain age it doesn't mean you should hate your old self. Be thankful you're learning what you're learning now and use your old-self as a reference point to better yourself. Also, never bring up your old-past to others and mention how you've changed.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:10 AM
1

Breakdown how being bipolar affects you. Be more wary and controlling of letting your bipolarness affect you in those ways in which you consider yourself weak. Seeing a medical professional will help, but don't hop on medication unless you know there's no other option to treating it.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:08 AM
3

Propose and get her an engagement ring, pre-plan your wedding right now. Figure out how many kids you want and start buying some baby clothes asap.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 12:04 AM
2

What you're doing is textbook validation seeking according to TRP. Look at the title of your post and then look at the answer /u/vandaalen gave you. You saying "wrong" is like going to the dentist, asking him if you have any cavities.. The dentist tells you that you have cavities, but you tell him that he's wrong. See how fucking stupid you sound?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 12:41 AM
3

So you come here asking for advice, when someone gives you advice you tell them they're wrong? Why the fuck are you asking for advice here then? Go on your merry way and keep fucking doing what you're doing then lol.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 09:54 PM
1

Post a picture here.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 09:46 PM
1

*scared to deadlift & I don’t see it to be that ideal for my goals That's an excuse. You can't pick and choose what workouts you want to do from a program. Deadlifts are a very important workout. Start fucking doing them bro.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 10:09 PM
5

Drop him, ghost the fucker from your life and avoid him at all costs. If he keeps trying to sabotage you, beat the fucker up.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 09:03 PM
3

If this is normal behaviour on their part, cut them out.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:29 PM
2

Don't feel bad. I just did this, fought 3 of them alone just this past weekend. Guys that pick on their own friends aren't your friends, they're insecure little bitches. When I started following TRP and changed my ways, my attitude changed. I don't take shit from anyone, I dropped my "friends". They started talking shit behind my back and I ignored it, last weekend they showed up to my house and talked shit to my mom. I've had issues with anger management so I went to one of the dude's houses to…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 07:25 PM
5

Rarely ever see anyone who has good parenting skills, kudos to you brother.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:22 AM
2

She left her ex for me. While she was with her ex she dumped him multiple times and during these breakups would hook-up with other guys. Why're you asking questions here when you clearly haven't read any TRP material?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:16 AM
42

I’d really appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation. If you really need advice on this, no one can help you.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:13 AM
3

Dont worry we can use your dog as surrogate mama lmao
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:17 PM
2

Yet, women would rather go for my friend that doesn’t have a job. You have no confidence. This is why people on TRP tell you to lift, meditate, start a martial art or to work a tough job.. It builds confidence and character. Looks like you need to set out on your journey to build your confidence and character.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:09 PM
1

Sounds like me 6 months ago. Get into a trade, plumbing if you can. Trades have no ceiling, you can end up creating your business successfully if you put your mind to it. DM me if you want to talk.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 05:06 PM
4

Not all men in relationships are betas. I wouldn't be surprised if the majority are though.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 04:30 AM
3

You're going to have good times and bad times, your reaction during the bad times will build your character. Take down time whenever those bad times come, but never linger too long or you risk being consumed by doom.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 04:29 AM
14

Her frame is stronger than yours. Get back in your fucking frame.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:43 AM
3

Women want a leader. If she asks you, tell her what you want her to do.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:37 AM
2

Get your blood pumping.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:37 AM
8

This is fucking gold.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:31 PM
4

Beat the fuck out of him if losing your job won't affect you seriously. You're letting this man disrespect you into oblivion.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 02:28 AM
5

Plate them.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 11:46 PM
7

No it's not beta or needy. If a girl says some shit like that you or uses dread game, you withdraw attention and fuck off. These are red flags, you decide whether or not they are going to be enough of an issue and make decisions accordingly.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:38 PM
1

I'm going to say that's bullshit first of all. Secondly, I look through your post history and it seems like you're more worried about finding out how much weight you can lose by a certain time period than actually losing weight. What are you doing right now to improve your situation? Seems like to me you're using this as a platform for mental masturbation.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:31 PM
5

Some stuff has cropped up recently. Apparently he's talked to her about sex parties he goes to, encouraging her to try with me as he knows she 'wants to explore herself sexually'. You should've dealt with that on the spot. She's using Dread game on you brother, NEVER let a girl use dread game on you.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:28 PM
0

So what would be a good example of a balanced use of "Not giving a fuck" and "Giving a fuck".
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 12:58 AM
1

It makes it seem like you don’t have other options, in turn subjectively some at your company may view you as a pussy. Not to mention management would probably have an upper-hand on you considering you’re coming back as you just left not too long ago, which in turn comes back to the “lack of abundance”. Honestly, do what’s best for you. There definitely are some cons to returning but if you were genuinely happy there and don’t mind a 25k pay cut, do what you gotta do. If there’s a way that you c…
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:45 AM
2

Scarcity mindset. You obviously don't value yourself and are still considering going back to being paid the shit amount you were getting before. This company gave you a 25k raise, either stay or find another company that fits your salary expectations and survey the work environment before you take the job.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:54 PM
2

anything anyone here says will not matter unless you have an extremely high smv
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:35 AM
1

Watch her actions and not her words, don't listen to what she says and keep escalating until she explicitly says no or tells you to fuck off ---> once that happens, hard next.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:33 AM
1

You're not giving much information here on what happened so idk what answer you're expecting.. I answered your question based off of the information you gave me.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:29 AM
2

How is she your plate when you've only just fucked her last week? Move on.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:27 AM
3

And let the man be born..
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 11:47 PM
2

It usually takes me like 40 minutes to get home, sometimes more due to traffic. What I do is eat an apple and some grapes on the drive back home and it gives me a small energy boost before I hit the gym.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:03 PM
2

Since November I'm down from 205 lbs to 186 lbs as of yesterday (5'10). My success is a byproduct of me working high volume low intensity for 8 hours a day and then doing low volume high intensity compound lifting three days a week (including HIIT) which burns fat off of me like crazy.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:02 PM
2

I myself am a plumbing apprentice as well, I hit the gym right after work. I go home right after work, change my clothes and hit the gym. I come back and have a massive meal and then do whatever the fuck I want.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:55 PM
1

If you read the sidebar, you'll get the answer to your question.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:56 PM
3

You expect too much from people. Next time you're in a situation where you can do something selfish like that amongst your friends, do it. If they call you out on it, call them out for their hypocrisy.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 01:05 AM
0

That's some incel shit bruh. He's not trying to leave the girl in a mess, he's trying to convert her to his plate. I doubt OP hates his girlfriend that much that he'd do something to fuck her up like that.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:28 PM
1

1) Stop feeling sorry for yourself and learn to accept responsibility for your situation. 2) Read the sidebar and other TRP material and you'll get all the advice you need.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:43 AM
3

Nah, fuck that. I'm making myself happy first, being a man in the armed forces is in no way, shape or form similar to some video game addict lol..
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 04:40 AM
1

Here's the thing, you need balance.. Anger can be really good motivation/fuel for your drive. If you don't get angry, either your life is extremely chill and nobody fucks with you or pisses you off, or you're used to accepting shit and not getting angry. Being stoic can be a really good skill to have, though you should be getting angry as it is inevitable and it's a primordial emotion that exists within us all. Think about some shit that annoys you/triggers negative emotions, get angry and chann…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 09:46 PM
2

Your insecurities are bleeding through my screen right now. A quick suggestion for you, get off the internet and figure out your insecurities instead of boasting on an internet forum trying to get some sort of validation.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:31 AM
1

You must be getting passed around like a blunt in the locker-room then.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:27 AM
2

I guarantee i have more bodies than u even though your probably twice my age. Damn, you must be getting dicked down by all the jocks at your school then.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:24 AM
9

You're obviously childish as fuck and don't know anything about TRP. I can't blame you though because you're still in highschool and still a kid.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:18 AM
2

Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:13 AM
1

Yeah I’ve been hovering TRP for a while. It’s about time I made a reading list.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 12:45 AM
2

Any good posts on "understanding the matrix"?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 12:49 AM
6

I dropped out of Uni (computing science) and started working as a plumber. I needed a change of scenery and working a hard labour job worked magic for me. I’m usually tired as fuck and I get home, I’ll hit the gym if it’s workout day and I’ll go home shower and chill out with my buddies. At the moment I’m not really doing anything else but that’ll change, I’m pretty early in my journey right now. I haven’t touched my PC for like 2 weeks now, once you start living in reality, you get this sense o…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:04 AM
29

I haven't touched games for more than 30 minutes a week collectively for about 6 months now. I have no need or desire to play them either, I have much more free time to go and do what I want.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 08:57 PM
6

Oneitis/fwb friend-zoned me, I accepted the friendship because I told myself I didn’t care but lowkey my intentions were to somehow get the fwb back. 3 weeks later after noticing flaking I told her to message me if she changes her mind as I’m not interested in being friends. Still hurts because I’d known this girl for a long time but you have to do shit that makes you feel like shit. Ignore her and move on.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:43 AM
4

I have gone "bold" but fell off after shit negative-feedback loops. I do feel it did really benefit me though and I am better than what I was 2 months ago even though my life is significantly more depressing and unhappier.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:33 AM
1

I was in an accident a couple of months ago, that could also be it I assume. But thanks, I'll look into a chiropractor near me. ​ 19, sounds like you can work in construction. Lots of men out there you just need to start looking around. Best to get paid while you are learning about being a man. Yeah I recently dropped out of school (software developer) and told myself I'd teach myself how to code. I plan on doing plumbing and have been applying to places already.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 03:31 AM
1

So essentially you shouldn't be bummed out if you're not getting results you'd "fantasized about" during self-improvement? <-- Essentially what I'm going through now.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 03:30 AM
2

I'm only 19 so yeah I am still young. The only girl I did fuck was the one oneitis I'm talking about and she basically friend-zoned me after a while cause I was acting beta as fuck. The other girls were in highschool, I didn't fuck any of them though I didn't do anything other than use them for hooking up and making out the usual highschool shit and dropped them after weeks or a couple of months max.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:30 PM
2

Not OP, but how do you get past your ego being hurt? OP basically has the same story as me, yet I feel like the reason I have oneitis for this chick is because she hurt my ego as I was always the one that ended up friendzoning girls.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:18 PM
6

Since when does OP at any point mention insecurities for the reason as to why he doesn't want to dance?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:40 AM
30

Lol at everyone shitting at OP. If he doesn't want to fucking dance, why the fuck should he? I for one wouldn't want to be paraded around like a little bitch to satisfy the crowd. If he genuinely wants to dance then he should, the couple are fuckwits for trying to put the blame on OP. They should've declared this shit beforehand, not after he accepted to be a groomsmen. I say you tell them that you're not down for it and they can replace you with someone else.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:39 AM
2

There's no actual answer to this man, that's why it's so fucked up. I found TRP like 2-3 months ago, I'm still working to get over the oneitis even though I've been applying a lot of the shit. Time is your enemy, time + applying TRP is what is going to stop you from thinking about your oneitis.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:36 AM
0

No, unless you're retarded.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 10:26 PM
1

Yup, OP seems like a pathetic little girl who's on here trying to get some validation. Let him go be a little pussy beta male, don't try to persuade people that are inherently retarded.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:03 AM
3

You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves. People like that learn through experience and adversity.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 06:01 AM
4

If you live in Alabama, there's some in your house.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 12:45 AM
3

It's a beginners mistake, which was what I did. You don't learn this shit without making mistakes, the fuck up is not learning from your mistakes. You decide what path you want to take now, and it'll be the real definition of who you are to your sub-conscious mind. Don't invest in open-"relationships" ever. Keep reading TRP material and you'll find a way out of this.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:30 PM
6

Dawg it doesn't matter. I was in a similar situation except it was just a FWB thing and I got oneitis for her. She dropped me and I'm assuming it was for another dude, go look at the post I made yesterday. It's so fucking easy to fall back into that blue pill mindset, my hamster was spinning yesterday and my brain rationalized whether or not I should contact her again after I went no contact because she changed the terms of the relationship. Why would you want to be a backup? Do you view yoursel…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:24 PM
6

She told me she loves me still and maybe one day things will get back to normal again. If you have any self-respect, don't let her back into your life ever again.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:13 PM
1

Yeah probably, but I'm not going to dwell on the past. You can only learn from making mistakes.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 07:02 AM
3

Man I love getting slapped with some real fucking TRP truth whenever I get back in the BP mindset.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:54 AM
7

You're right mate, I guess a apart of me is still being a little bitch. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:51 AM
-1

Dude you keep repeating "I don't care" "I don't mind", it seems like you are just lying to yourself. It's because 95% of the people on this sub-reddit including me just reply with "you still have oneitis dude". Trust me, if I had any little bit of that craziness left in me I wouldn't be asking this question, I'd know not to even talk about her. ​ I'm just simply trying to get an answer from the more experienced TRP members. Just because I'm asking a question in regards to her doesn't mean I stil…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:38 AM
1

I'm already on my purpose and I'm busy with other shit, I could care less of a fuck about her in terms of feelings. She was solid in bed so I wouldn't mind fucking her considering she was still fishing for my attention.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:21 AM
4

That’s just experience, speaking of maturity in a broad sense is difficult because one can see maturity as experience. In essence, almost all women react the same way, the ones that don’t are red-pilled.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:20 PM
12

Females stop maturing when they turn 18, men keep maturing well into their 30s. That should explain enough.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 09:52 PM
3

READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR UNTIL YOU HAVE IT DRILLED THROUGH YOUR HEAD.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:41 AM
3

"Don't shit where you eat." Ignore what she says and start looking for a new place ASAP. Once you have a place lined up, let her know that if you changing is a problem that you can move out, and move out then regardless because she'll probably tell you to fuck off or cause drama regardless.. Might as well run when you have the chance. Side note: I think you should have the answer to this, you said you've been red-pilled, if you're red-pilled you know how to respond to situations like this. Not t…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:40 AM
2

Have you read any TRP material or are you just asking questions? We could tell you the answer to one thing but you'll get burned regardless if you don't know the material. If she's flaking you or not initiating responses, 100% pull back and let her come to you. Don't be a pussy and just don't initiate anything with her, if she doesn't initiate any contact at all then assume she's fucking someone else and hard next.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:33 AM
1

TRP shows you how to overcome your height. If you feel like you'll never move past your height being a factor then perhaps you should get surgery to increase your height (warning: It's expensive and hurts like a motherfucker).
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:32 AM
2

No problem man, I was only in your spot 2 months ago. Imagine the dudes who've been following TRP for years. You'll read some fucking interesting shit that'll motivate you on here. Also, I suggest you switch to a lifting program that doesn't require you to be in the gym everyday. Compound lifts and strength training, while doing intermittent fasting/HIIT twice a week will keep you in amazing shape. I don't know how experienced of a lifter you are so I would take what I said with a grain of salt …
/r/askTRP30/01/19 01:15 AM
2

Who cares if she sees pictures, you're inviting her over for one night, if she says anything just ignore it.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:39 PM
4

it doesn't help that I can also tell she still has serious feelings for me It should be easier to move on then. Use dread/increase your SMV by lifting and getting busy as fuck with life. If she finds out you're fine without her, she's gonna come running back. If she does come back, you don't accept her as anything more than a plate because she made the mistake of fucking dropping you. If she doesn't come back, bro trust me there's fucking amazing girls out there, I myself have had to drill that …
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:35 PM
1

I'd say straight up invite to your house, make plans for making food/having wine/watching netflix and then escalate. It'll leave her with a pretty unique experience IMO, maybe if she ever comes back you could turn her into a plate.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 11:28 PM
2

OP is a retarded troll, ignore em.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 06:31 PM
2

If you’re looking for a yellow car with closed eyes, are you going to see the yellow car? In the same sense, if you don’t put in the work to be financially free, are you going to be financially free?
/r/seduction29/01/19 04:36 PM
2

You daft cunt.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:33 AM
9

Yeah, neither you or the girl are matured yet or begun to mature. Just go with the flow, stick with trp and experiment techniques now.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:31 AM
15

Dude why the fuck are you smoking? Literally, before even asking a question like this, throw your fucking smokes away.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 07:30 AM
2

Youtube. Coach Corey Wayne AMS Strategies ​
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:19 PM
8

Damn, this is some god level analogy.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:17 PM
1

LMAO
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:16 PM
16

Then no, don’t give her your non-sexual attention.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:39 AM
24

No, if she’s just a plate you keep it at that. We can’t really answer this because I’m not sure if you’re ever thinking of escalating this beyond just hooking up.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:26 AM
11

Niggas without any emotional intelligence downvoted him.
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:13 AM
2

Nah man, just tell her you're an Ultimate ironman and it'll make her panties wet.
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:12 AM
18

Tinder helps "raise" SMV for less attractive girls. This was outputted in other ways prior to the age of the internet, but this is where the 20% of men get 80% of the women rule comes into play. They won't settle for less because they increase their SMV through this.
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:11 AM
7

Dawg you’re tripping, reread the post.. The plate has nothing to do with the whole situation with the video.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:06 AM
6

You fuckin tell em new dawn
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:20 AM
-1

Why? You don't need to prove shit to her, she's obviously stringing OP along and she's in control. Joke around and get her to come to his place or she can fuck off lmao unless OP is trying to get her into a LTR? Even then, you don't go in with the assumption of getting into a LTR.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:21 PM
5

Fuck her and that's about it, don't give her anything more than that.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 06:37 PM
-16

"Obviously not, I'm gay, couldn't you tell? Come over on so and so day and we'll watch so and so movie, give me a call and tell me when you're free." ​ ​
/r/askTRP21/01/19 06:22 PM
1

It’s possible the cunt is threatened by OP as well.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:18 AM
7

Nah you did the right thing. ​ Focus on yourself and date other chicks.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:16 AM
1

You'll want to retain muscle while cutting, I wouldn't expect muscle gains if any at all as you'll be in calorie deficit. Go into calorie deficit, do HIIT 2-3 times a week, make sure you get optimal rest in between these workouts. Eat clean protein and start drinking Green tea to lower insulin levels, it'll make it much easier for you to burn fat. AVOID sugar as much as you can.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:14 AM
5

well, he's not a bad guy, but I don't think he's athletic enough TRP is all about holding frame and not letting external situations change the way you think and perceive your own reality. It's pretty self-explanatory, fuck what the cunt has to say, if he adds you now just leave the group.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 11:04 PM
11

These years are supposed to be your best years Wrong, these are supposed to be your learning years. You'll need to go through hell to become a man. Men are made, not born. Lifting isn't the only thing that matters, you'll just need to find a way to overcome adversity. Once you realize that adversity is a blessing in disguise, you'll learn from hardships and mistakes which in return will make you into who you want to be. ​ I was raised by a single mother as well, you have the potential to be much…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 11:02 PM
1

Seems like you're looking for us to validate your excuses, sorry bud ain't gonna happen. If you really wanted to get in the gym you would.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:32 PM
16

As someone who grew up without a father, this man is fucking doing god’s work. Someone give this man the attention he deserves.
/r/MGTOW18/01/19 03:22 AM
6

Some men come to the realization of this fact and they go MGTOW, and you can’t even blame them for it.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:16 AM
1

She's no different than any other woman, be a man and display dominance. Make sure your frame is stronger than hers and act as if she's just another person.
/r/seduction17/01/19 06:45 PM
3

Could be a cultural thing, might just be learned traits from their fathers.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:16 PM
2

You're making excuses, if you really wanted to be muscular you'd be doing everything possible to get it done. Can't expect something when you're not willing to put in the work...
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:21 AM
1

I self-shamed myself to stop playing games, realized how pathetic it was that I was spending my time playing a virtual game while people out there were wilding out and having a fun time lol.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:48 PM
1

Do you mind elaborating on your experiences with LSD/Psilocybins? I believe every situation is unique and it's something I've been interested in, anything you'd like to share?
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:43 PM
5

Most important thing is to maintain frame, if you can't maintain frame then no matter what you do, you're fucked. I just recently realized this and was in the same situation, I basically told my oneitis (after being her male tampon and fuck buddy for a month and eventually being friendzoned) that I don't want a platonic relationship and that she can call me if she changes her mind, and if I'm not seeing anyone then we'll see what happens. ​ In reality, I was being a little bitch the past week an…
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:34 PM
2

Are you in calorie deficit? Focus on 5x5 stronglifts/HIIT to lose fat and build muscle, fill up your calories with protein rich foods and vegetables. Giving up means you've failed. You haven't failed yet because you're still in the gym, if you want to be a failure and want to quit, by all means go for it because no one other than you makes that decision.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:30 PM
1

https://gyazo.com/1e714b28b357c8de0fa23ca89b5e48fe
/r/MGTOW21/09/18 08:00 AM
2

Fuck her up in court, don't let her use your kids against you. Do something with the recording before she turns on you.
/r/MGTOW08/03/18 12:04 AM
2

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