Been seeing this girl for about 2 months, I'm not sure anymore whether she's LTR material as I've found out she still in contact with her ex. For some background, we've met up 3 times and fucked on the first 2 occasions. The last time we met I was in her car, she was sitting on top of me fully dressed, had me really hard from grinding and her tits in my face. Her eyes kept telling me "undress me and fuck me right now". I decided I was not going to fuck her that day, I could see the frustration build up in her as she started to question why I wasn't escalating. Soon after I told her that something from work came up and I needed to go home. I thought it would keep things interesting between us by letting the tension build up.

On Saturday I took her out for dinner. She seemed more talkative than usual but it was also the first time we were drinking together. Later in the evening we were making out in my car, her shyness disappeared. Seemed like her slut mode was activated. She started giving me a lot of tongue while kissing. She commanded me to hold her hair then went down to give me the sloppiest bj I've ever had. I couldn't stop myself and ended up cumming in her mouth. Her pussy was really wet and she wanted me to fuck her but after cumming I couldn't stay hard enough so I just finger fucked her.

So then as I'm driving her home, it's 3am I noticed that she's messaging someone on snapchat from the corner of my eye. This is where it fucks up. I drop her outside her place and at EXACTLY the same time a dude arrives in his car and parks up. I didn't think anything of it as it could just be anyone. As I drive off she calls me immediately to tell me her ex is there. Feeling confused, I ask why? She said he messaged her earlier and because of the the timing of her response he knew she was out with someone else. So he waited for her until she got back so he could confront her. I got really pissed off at this point and asked her why does he care he care so much when he's no longer with you and why has she been talking to her ex? She kept telling me "Don't say anything to him please" and then abruptly tells me she needs to go then hangs up.

At this point I decided to turn the car around and go back to hers. When I arrive I see that she's in her car and her ex is sitting in the passenger seat. I felt so much rage overcome me that I knew if got out the car it was going to be a shit show if I got out of the car. I looked right at her as she sat with him and decided I'm not going to do anything because no pussy is worth getting a criminal record for and go home. It feels like she shit test me to see if I would fight her ex for her? She texts me at 6am saying she's sorry! I ignore her messages. After a few hours I calmed myself down enough to call her. I asked what time did he get home, she said when she messaged me. Feeling even more pissed off.. Like what the fuck were you doing for 3 hours with him in the car? She said they were arguing with each other but my gut feeling is telling me something else.

At this point I don't know whether to hard ghost her for disrespecting me like that or plate her. Do you think I'm overreacting, maybe her ex is a psycho who won't leave her alone? Or she done this deliberately as a shit test?