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don’t hit her back, get other plates
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:37 PM
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Be busy. Don’t say anything but text back like every 12 hours or once a day. That way either you leave the convos for when you’re together or she sees it as pointless and does what you want anyway.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 02:35 PM
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Yes, break up. It’s not your obligation to carry her emotional baggage. Any girl that comes with extra baggage will only weigh you down on your way to the top. You’re young, go make some memories and get experience before it’s too late. Remember men hit their peak SMV at 30-35 years old
/r/askTRP06/01/21 10:34 AM
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Alpha is a mind set not a look. I know plenty of guys who show more alpha traits and they don’t look alpha at first glance. If you really want surgery to feel better about yourself, go for it. However if it’s just to get validation from women then you need to fix more than just your weak chin
/r/askTRP11/11/20 11:14 AM
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The ways I’ve got around it are Inviting over tinder girls with their friends or hitting up girls I knew from last year and asking them what they’re doing on x day. No body at uni really cares about restrictions so it’s much easier
/r/askTRP01/11/20 10:06 PM
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Whenever you wanna do it, who cares. There’s no magic red pill day todo it.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 08:13 PM
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No, gives her validation for something she hasn’t earned.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:18 PM
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She has to be a one of a kind unicorn of course!!
/r/askTRP21/10/20 02:16 PM
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Search up red pill on Spotify, good playlists already made
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:39 AM
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You want her? Hit her up then
/r/askTRP18/10/20 03:35 PM
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That guy probably had more social prove than you. It’s likely that the girls know that guy very well and he has a reputation. should’ve made a move when you could’ve.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:37 AM
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Yeah you can learn pull birds when drunk, but how about when sober?? That’s when it become real shit and you can’t mask your insecurities behind alcohol
/r/askTRP17/10/20 04:13 AM
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How are you plating this girl? Have you acc fucked her or are you her texting buddy? Wtf would you be mad, it’s her morals, her life. Get on with your own
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:43 PM
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You don’t wanna be a social robot. TRP is a guideline, not a strict way of living life. Read material, discard what is unnecessary, apply it, then learn from it and repeat the process
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:11 AM
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He means that women want an emotional rock, not an emotionless man
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:32 AM
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However much you want to, just don’t make her the centre of your life
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:27 AM
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Sometimes you pull a girl and sometimes you don’t. At the end of the day you can only fuck one at a time bc you’ve got one cock. It’s a numbers game at the end of the day. Women are inconsistent in what they want, that’s just nature.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:27 AM
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If you’re in an LTR then you’ll be doing stuff outside the bedroom. I wouldn’t text, I’d just go see them
/r/askTRP14/10/20 11:57 AM
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It should normally be fairly obvious if a girls not feeling coming back to your place so you’ve gotta act accordingly and keep adapting. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to fuck after the date. What’s wrong is showing her that you want to. Remember, girls don’t wanna be seen as a slut by someone they care about, without some plausible deniability she probably won’t come back to yours. In her eyes, you having sex needs to “just happen”.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 11:55 AM
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This is such a great take and stoicism and makes it so simple to understand. Great post!
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 09:45 PM
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I cringed when reading about you saying “if you’re not interested then tell me”. To me this gives off scarcity vibes. If she wasn’t ok with the touch at the bar then you dial it down a level in the escalation ladder until she’s comfortable, you do not stay at or increase the level. You pull back a bit, come back, create comfort and try again. At the end of the date from the way I’m reading it you sounded like you were desperately trying to fuck and she could sense it (shit test was given so she …
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:39 PM
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In certain places you can get away with talking to people on other tables from where I’m from. It’s a bit hit or miss. Still, yeah you did well considering. Just be careful with her in future
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:20 PM
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She was testing you here, to see how strong your frame really was outside of just you 2. Should’ve started talking to some other people. Play the room as much as you can type of thing until she sees enough social proof that she comes back dripping wet. She got an emotional reaction from you here (although I could be wrong, idk in what way you said the things after)
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:08 PM
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You didn’t make a move? Fair enough that’s your choice. Probably gonna have to build more comfort if she says yes bc of that, the momentum of sexual tension may have slowed down. Sure shoot your shot then and invite her over. If she does, great! Escalate. If she doesn’t, great! Time to find try out a new girl.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:11 PM
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This post summed up: Go read the sidebar dummy
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 02:08 PM
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I live in the uk aswell, using red pill here is the same as anywhere. You talk to a girl by opening your mouth and letting words come out. At first those words will probably be awkward, the more they are spoken and refined, the closer you get to being whatever you envision yourself being Be attractive, don’t be unattractive.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:02 PM
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I would look at it very very objectively, many women will disguise it as a carrot on a stick just to get you into orbiter stage. Don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do!! Act like you’re not bothered by it. If I was gonna take it slow then I’d atleast have another plate on the go and make sure I keep frame.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:00 PM
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It is all about practice. Start small and get bigger each time. Maybe say “how are you” to the person serving you coffee. Maybe in a weeks time start a convo with someone you sit near on a bench. In 2 weeks, cold approach a girl. These guys asking if you’re going to the club sound like they’d probably enjoy your company there, otherwise they wouldn’t ask. Say to the that you’ll tag along with them (or do pres/afters at theirs).
/r/askTRP12/10/20 11:53 PM
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You’d be surprised at how difficult it is for some people to not attach when they’re only fucking one girl, it’s natural at the end of the day. As for the other point, I meant it more in a way that there’s so many options out there that fit most of your needs unless you’re super picky and strict about it.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:16 PM
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I don’t want to so never, but there’s still some red pillers that want a family. They would do this whenever they fucking felt like it
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:27 AM
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What you want is not wrong. The way you’re going about it is. You havnt even fucked this random girl and you’re already thinking deep into it. Get some outcome independence and read the sidebar again
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:20 AM
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All sidebar stuff, should be driven home by now OP
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:18 AM
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An abundance mentality is much more than just having a bunch of girls you can fuck. The mentality is about having options and not emotionally connecting to just one option. Although spinning plates proves to yourself that you have physical options that is not all there is to abundance. The fact that no girl is a unicorn and that there are millions of girls out there who can satisfy your needs is abundance enough. Your whole mentality should base from “there’s always fish in the sea” and not from…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:17 AM
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Watch the sports game, don’t make a move. After sports game is done, start escalating.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 10:22 PM
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Sounds pretty fun, if you’ve found that she’s great company on the last 2 dates (I.e she’s good at conversation and you just get on really well) then why not go for it.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 01:37 PM
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Just play along with it and have fun, litrally doesn’t matter what sign you are when you’re in her pants
/r/askTRP08/10/20 02:40 PM
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Sounds like you’re killing it already my man, keep doing what you’re doing
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:55 PM
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I’m saying you didn’t make a move and escalate enough to get sex
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:54 PM
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Main thing todo in your 20s? Top answer should be to have fucking fun! This stage in your life you should be willing to make mistakes and should be having a great time. You have plenty of time to get your shit really sorted later on (still you should be setting to foundations now rather than later)
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:50 PM
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Escalating with a date doesn’t make you a sex fiend, it makes you socially competent enough that you can have sex if you want it. She probably stopped replying because she got bored of waiting for you to make a move on all those dates. Next her and start from square 1
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:47 PM
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you dont
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:08 PM
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The more you cry about having a small penis, the bigger a problem it becomes (excuse the pun). But in all seriousness, there’s a lot more to sex than just sticking your cock in. Foreplay has a huge role and can acc do more for you in the long run than the acc sex. You just have to find out how. If you had £100,000 and you lost £100, would you just throw away the other £90,900?? FUCK NO YOU WOULDNT. You’ve got loads of things going for you, stop focusing so much on what you don’t have and focus o…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:21 AM
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Don’t let a woman know why she wont fuck you, let her figure it out for herself.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:15 AM
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Assuming you’re right and she has a higher SMV than you then by working out you are shifting the balance. You are increasing your attractiveness and she can see it. She is dreading the fact that more women are going to find you attractive and notice you (this is dread game). Completely. Fucking. Ignore. Her. You’re in your own frame. Keep improving and she keep chasing
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:45 PM
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It’s not a death sentence if you hit her up first. However if you’re texting her straight away then this demonstrates scarcity and neediness
/r/askTRP01/10/20 05:07 PM
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You burn fat and gain muscle at the same time, it takes a while yeah I know. Once you’re happy you can just stay at around maintenance calories.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 04:34 PM
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You don’t have to be in a calorie surplus to gain muscle so you can eat a couple hundred calories under maintenance and still get bigger
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:50 PM
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Sometimes you do have to hit someone in order for them to stop bullying you. Don’t do it in front of anybody. If he continues to call you out wait till he’s alone and have it out with him alone. No matter if you get your arse beat or you win, you stood up for yourself and he will probably stop
/r/askTRP01/10/20 01:46 PM
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The red pill is a guideline, do what you want with the information
/r/askTRP30/09/20 03:49 PM
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Wait till she sets up a new day, don’t hit her up unless you wanna look desperate for it
/r/askTRP30/09/20 01:25 PM
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Bro if you like your hair don’t cut it then. Nothing shit testy about it
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:53 PM
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This is another instance of “it could be litrally anything, none of us have the proper context” It could be 1000 reasons about you but it could also be 1000 reasons about anything other than you. Move on and chase goals
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:52 PM
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Learn about kino, it’s one of the best starting points.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:22 PM
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This is where the whole “accept hypergamy and move on” mindset comes into play You wouldn’t date a fat bird would you?
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:04 AM
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Honestly I completely face palmed when reading “I dropped all my plates”. SERIOUSLY?! First of all if you’ve actually read the side bar properly you would’ve kept the condom on. She knew you was ducking other girls and so this was her play to make you exclusive to her. Well done, you just took a one way ticket to Cuck zone.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:01 AM
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You are litrally chasing your goals down. If what you say is true then you have a purpose of improving yourself at the gym among other things. This is respectable and admirable. You will feel the confidence grow as you improve over time (compitance)
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:57 AM
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Just because lockdown makes it harder to source more pussy doesn’t make oneitis an excuse. You can’t objectively explain this girl thru your post since you have a huge bias due to the oneitis. are you in this for her or just to get some pussy, if it’s the latter then sure, stay till you go off to college. If it’s the pussy option then she should’ve just been a plate
/r/askTRP29/09/20 07:55 AM
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If you want to get bigger you’d need to cancel out the calories burn from cardio by eating loads more. If you want Better cariodvascual system then do cardio. As long as you’re being healthy and have a fair bit of muscle you’re all good mate
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:48 PM
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I think you underestimate how much time you devote to an LTR. After reading the title and then the first couple sentences I instantly thought “don’t get an LTR” What you really want is a fuck buddy you can call up when you’re horny and blow off when you need to work. Also, showing off an LTR on insta for the sole purpose of gaining SMV is fucking stupid. You’re litrally saying to yourself “my validation comes from whether or not people think girls are into me” where as it should really come from…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:39 PM
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Being a man is a lot about taking responsibility, not a lot about risks
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:18 PM
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You apologised for something that has nothing todo with her. If you have girl mates, cool. You’re stuck in her frame by telling her where you’re gonna be and who with like a dog on a lead
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:56 PM
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Either call them out on it or leave. That’s it
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:54 PM
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Litrally set up a meet and go outside. What’re you gonna do? Be her little texting buddy like all the other orbiters She has? No you’re not
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:53 PM
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You probably just need to get her hamster wheel rolling a little bit and she’ll fuck you easy. If she’s willing to suck you off when she’s got a man at home then she’s down to fuck, she just needs that nudge
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:51 PM
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So you’re saying that just interacting consistently with a decent number of girls can be considered plate spinning in a way?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/20 02:49 PM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 09:11 AM
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Text for logistics only. Accept you are not the only guy she’s got and move on. Then proceed to lay the wood.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 09:08 AM
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After reading the long list of why girls are in the fuckbin I thought to myself that if you’re spinning plates why would you take that shit from a girl enough to have sex with her, wouldn’t you fuck the plate off and see your other (much better) plates?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 08:55 AM
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Read the bio, think of soemthing relating to it that’s witty or that stands out and proceed from there. Girls without bios I normally just idnore or say hey to. You could search up pick up lines to use but are you really gonna go that far?
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:47 AM
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Very well said. TRP is a heavily recommended guideline, but a guideline none the less. The main sub posts here are ideas and theories a lot of the time (not to discredit them) and should always be questioned and picked apart critically if we are ever going to move forward and learn. For the newcomers, do not take everything at face value, practice your critical thinking skills.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 08:44 AM
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Nah, stick to your frame. Don't give her the ID
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:20 AM
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You can either bitch and moan at your circumstances, never moving forward. or you can accept the hand you've been dealt and dominate life. ​ Your choice.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:18 AM
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"I'm going to go out and do 'X' exciting thing that I normally do, come along"
/r/askTRP23/09/20 10:13 AM
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Read the sidebar first, top to bottom. Do this multiple times throughout your journey Then go on to read the rational male. After that, I’d say just keep up to date with the main sub and keep applying it irl
/r/askTRP20/09/20 10:07 PM
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Good then. Just remember it’s not gonna be picture perfect every time
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:38 PM
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Once you get really good head, you figure out most girls have no idea how to give head. Sounds a lot like you want a BJ exactly like the pornos. That shit if filmed so it looks amazing and is not realistic. Watch less porn
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:36 PM
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Fuck it go, what else are you gonna do. Bring your mates too as to not entirely enter her frame
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:32 PM
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And this is the exact reason you get your pua “fuck as many as possible” days out of the way before anything serious. Otherwise you end up like this. You wait until she gets back to you. You’ve massively broke frame at the end of this story which makes it a bit worse. If what you’re saying about her wanting to be with you forever is true then she’ll text you back. If not, then cut your loses.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 10:27 PM
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No, you’re allowing an external factor to dictate your happiness levels. Not good
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:48 PM
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If she wants to hang out she can text you. Remember you’re the prize. She might have had signal problems, who knows, can’t really other think that part. Stop chasing her, she’ll see you’re desperate and will ghost you. Wait till she hits you up again. If not, her loss.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:43 PM
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You’ve met a girl who’s upfront about it. All the girls that don’t reply after matching are exactly the same as this, they just havnt told you. Cut loses, talk to other matches
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:38 PM
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You should be happy shes done this, it allows you to learn the red pill lesson of hypergamy. She sees you succeeding and now she wants you over everyone else. ​ Don't reply and keep doing you.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 09:13 AM
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You are a vision of something they wish to be. They hate themselves for not being at your level and will project that hate by bringing you down (crabs in a bucket mentality) instead of making use of self reflection. We want to be liked by everyone ideally, especially people close to us. However we must create a set of standards for ourselves that determine our self worth (there is a great piece about self worth in the sidebar). People would say to Arnold “we don’t want to be as big as you” He re…
/r/askTRP15/09/20 12:34 PM
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Start experiencing more new and exciting things, some may light a fire in you that directs you towards something you didn't even know you wanted. I never knew I wanted to become great at Muay Thai before that first training session.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:09 AM
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You have doubts about it enough to ask random guys on the internet. Nah this is NOT cool Have it out with this guy, pull him aside and ask him what's good.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:11 PM
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What's stopping her fucking her ex if you promote her to LTR? If you promote her to LTR you're playing with fire. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:08 PM
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shouldn't have contacted her after the breakup. but whatever, what's done is done. ​ Yeah, you're fine man, shouldn't give women like this the time of day.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:06 PM
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Give a fuck, this is your life, your domain. You're gonna let an ex LTR ruin a nice day for you? fuck no! Have fun and forget shes there.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:03 PM
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Learn to enjoy being alone. When you've mastered that there's less anxiety to be accepted. Just talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime. start small, maybe ask the barista how they're doing before ordering. ask a random person for directions to any place nearby, that sorta thing. realise a lot of people feel this way too and you're not alone in this. taking action is the best cure for your anxiety There are many great texts on this topic in the main sub: "how to handle approach anxiety" "how not to gi…
/r/askTRP02/09/20 09:01 PM
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Be straight up and confident. Always have something to say back (like witty comebacks) Enforce boundaries Just be cool and not weird
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:34 PM
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If you don’t like it don’t do it. “If the plate breaks, the plate breaks” -Ivan Drago.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:39 PM
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Focus on just getting through school really. Remember that high school litrally doesn’t matter the day it’s over so have fun too! Find a group of guy friends you vibe with so that you can build a solid, manly foundation for future years. Forget about girls rn as you’re still developing. Join social clubs you like too, I recommend learning a martial art at this age, wish I’d have learnt one when I was your age, if I did I’d be a beast rn. Good luck to you my friend!
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:36 PM
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Yeah just do both. Continue with night game till you’re confident enough to drop the alcohol and do day game.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 02:42 PM
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You’re indirectly showing her you have nothing better todo with your time. Girls don’t want to be the center of your life, they just wanna come along for the ride
/r/askTRP09/08/20 11:52 AM
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But do any of those things really make you happy and for filled? If not then you should continue to find your purpose. Don’t find a relationship until you’re comfortably on a key purpose of yours If you really want a relationship without platespinning the your vetting process better be impeccable otherwise you’re in for a long and unhappy ride.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:11 AM
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Really depends on the person. Some people are like 5'9 for their whole teenage years and then grow to 6'3 when they're 22. Others stay 5'9 forever. You'll have to wait and see. just bc your 5'10 now doesn't mean you'll always be, yet, that's not set in stone either.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:59 PM
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are you wanting to wear them bc a guy you perceived as alpha did it or do you actually want to do it? If its the first reason don't do it, find your own path in life and don't copy people for the sake of looking cool or whatever. If you really like the idea of contacts and really want to do it sincerely then fuck everyone else calling you gay. Are you gonna let people get in the way of you feeling good about yourself and happy? fuck no! wear it unapologetically. Anything people say about you say…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:54 PM
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See, Rollo says never to share this info with any women. Therefore the only people that would know is you and probably your close boys. I know for sure none of my boys really give a fuck how many girls each of us have fucked. ​ so, in conclusion, does it really matter?
/r/askTRP08/08/20 07:49 PM
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Only reason you’ll get cheated on is bc you’ve got a shit mindset from the get go. There’s so many 6ft + guys out there that are complete blue pill and tonnes of 5 ft 7 guys that are red pilled and alpha af (and vice versa) Stop giving a fuck about height. The reason you lift is to improve your base looks and build. So a 5 ft 7 guy who’s jacked still has as good of a chance as a 6ft 2 bean pole. Improve SMV more than you have to due to hieght. Yeah its harder than the taller people but that’s li…
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:58 PM
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Yes but only if your actual or perceived SMV is equal to or higher than there’s, otherwise there’s no point associating with you from their eyes.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 07:53 PM
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Doesn’t matter to her when you’re giving her the “feelz”. If you’re 6 ft + put it In the bio, if not leave it out.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 05:49 PM
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A lot of “men codes” are just having. Social Intelligence. You observe what other men do while growing up so most guys kinda just get it. However if that not the case with you the thing you can do is watch other men’s actions in a social setting. Works best with high value “chad” like men I’d say
/r/askTRP05/08/20 05:13 PM
1

To answer your questions: 1. People making posts on askTRP havnt fully mastered red pill yet, therefore they may come across try hard bc they are TRYING (most of the time) and still making mistakes Worshipped bc it works, read it Terms were created back in PUA days don’t blame us. Plus, makes it easier for us to communicate about topics. No, LTRs are not discouraged. There’s a reason why we get a plate rotation and have different ranks for those said plates, so that we don’t get fuck over like b…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:27 AM
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TBH theyve probably got 15 other guys blowing up thier dms. gotta set yourself apart.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:51 PM
2

Do you shoot these girls a text? 9 times out of 10 the girl never makes the first move. If not hit them up and propose a date and place to go out.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 05:33 PM
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Nah she was interested after bc she texted you about the hangover. A good IOI of texting you about litrally nothing. No you didn’t fuck it up. If she doesn’t hit you up there’s 100,00+ reasons why she lost intrest and most of those reasons are out of your control.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 02:13 PM
3

I recommend you check out the real world and apply your theory reading to real life situations.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 12:22 PM
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Fuck me, if you didn't trust her why did you get in a relationship? Your trust issues are what really destroyed your chance at making that relationship work. your vetting process for relationships seems very poor. You seem to have trust issues. You seem to act very emotional and have a glass frame. Work on these things
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:25 AM
3

Rational male is all about theory, it will teach you the female nature. This is fucking KEY
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:12 AM
2

If you feel like you have low SMV or are not “the prize” work on yourself until you feel like that. Workout like a savage, pick up and get good at a hobbie (any martial art I recommend) and just keep approaching women and getting better my friend
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:10 AM
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Stop complaining. Yes you can find high value good looking friends if you really want to, you just have to go find it and put in the effort. There’s people older than you fucking crushing pussy without even touching social media. Play to your strengths. Find hobbies todo where you’re likely to meet high value men to become friends with. Just cold approach as usual, social media shouldn’t even come into it that much.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:09 AM
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I’ve had this too many times in life my friend. Most of the time they’re threatened or jealous of you. Probably trying to knock you down a peg with the crabs in a bucket mentality. The way I handle it is just being chill and not reacting but just coming back with witty comebacks that have them shut up. The more emotional you feel about the way he’s treating you the less effective you can be verbally as you’ll come across like a burr hurt baby. Cut this guy off. He’ll only drag you down as you ex…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:06 AM
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I’m the beginning I don’t think there’s anything wrong with opening girls below your SMV just so that you can improve your social skills. But, only if you keep in mind what your SMV really is and you don’t start thinking you’re on the same level as the girls with lower SMV. Once you get some good skills move on to the attractive girls only. Don’t ever settle for anything bc then you get exactly what you settled for.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:00 AM
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No, she was being an entitled bitch. In a way, there was frame control. See the guy lifting completely crumbled and started apologising and looking uncomfortable. However, I don't really see this as a frame test, just her being well annoyed.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:12 PM
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Your friends are getting with shitty women. Think about that for a second, think about what that says about the people you hang with. ​ Who gives a fuck what they think? like you said they hardly know you sometimes. Find some ways of not letting validation come from whether your friends GFs like you. Love yourself brother. Use agree and amplify to dodge the disrespect coming your way.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:43 AM
1

You ok getting left on the back burner and being demoted to orbiter? Nah that ain't it chief. ​ You're better than that. Wish her the best, move on and improve yourself as you'll have more time without her for yourself. ​ If she was really that into you then she wouldn't be wanting to take a break. shes been planning this for a while, unfortunately, women always do.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:35 AM
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Did you expect her todo that forever? Yeah she moved on bc you wouldn’t let up. Many IOIs we’re giving.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:39 PM
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Yes and no. Yes as many girls are bored and turn to tinder for fun, more traffic = more exposure of your profile therefore higher % potential matches. However, many of these girls are on tinder for validation and probably will not be high intrest. Tinder is only really great for top 20% of men
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:37 PM
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Dragon ball fan what can I say haha. Yeah man nothing bad with giving a follow, just don’t get caught up in it. Shoot a dm, if she’s low intrest then you’ve got other things going on, no biggie
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:35 PM
1

Yeah a weeks a bit too short. Compare yourself now to yourself in a months time. No results means you gotta change soemthing
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:33 PM
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Don’t fix what ain’t broke, keep doing what you’re doing. But! Never drop your guard. You lift? Don’t get lazy with it. You got good game? Still game people. Don’t drop the ball and you’re golden bro!
/r/askTRP01/08/20 04:32 PM
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Nah it’s all good, sounds like water weight to me, a nice easy cut would see you lose 0.5 kg per week if you’ve got the time for it
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:37 PM
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Quite a lot of things, I won’t list them all but for example: working out, my university course, friends, family. Most importantly, my own happiness You know what they say: women, they come and they go.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:35 PM
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Understandable but you can’t live your life worrying about ifs and maybes. Yeah she could accuse you of rape sure, but what’s the actual chance she’s going to? Women do this to men in much higher positions (their boss for example after rejecting thier advances) She’s not going to get obsessed with you. If you feel that way learn how to get red flags before fucking and you’ll feel a lot better about the women you’re fucking
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:32 PM
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Tbh I see it as a parallel to LJBF rejections. You’re a stranger no matter what way you look at it, she’s probably not comfortable giving out her number to strangers and that’s ok can’t blame them. By giving you her insta she gains a follower (a parallel to you agreeing to be friends, therefore she gets you as an orbiter and feeding her attention craving) and therefore that makes her feel great about her social following. Social media these days is a huge contest so gaining an extra follower giv…
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:28 PM
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This is not a potential plate until you already fucked bro. She gave you a shit test straight off the bat, yeah it’s good bc that means she’s still interested Reply with soemthing like “no only the ones I’m interested in taking out sometime. Friday at 8. See you at x place”
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:45 AM
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Haha yeah I’ve had the exact same thing happen. If she doesn’t wanna fuck then fine, you’re a busy man fulfill yourself with achieving your goals until one of your houses is free. If she’s really really horny she fuck you again in a car dw, just tease her tonnes.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:41 AM
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You could litrally be anyone, meeting at your place would sound sketchy coming from any strangers mouth. No this isn’t a shit test. Go somewhere public first. Escalate and make her comfortable, if she’s comfortable enough and your reasoning for plausible deniability is good enough she’ll come over
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:39 AM
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It’s not a good strategy and I’ll tell you why. By going for women of “lower class” than you then sure maybe you’ll have better luck if youre perceived as high value. However there’s a catch. You’re training you brain to take the easy route, to settle bc it’s easier. Don’t ever settle, bc then you get exactly what you settled for
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:36 AM
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Beta mindset would be the umbrella term. Low testosterone, scarcity. All in all being too much of a pussy to tell his wife that he doesnt want Tyrone inside her every Saturday night while he’s trying to grind out a few warzone wins with his equally beta friends because he’s too scared that he’ll lose his “perfect unicorn soul mate”
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:31 AM
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“You can’t red pill your friends”. Look I understand all too well it’s fucking tough seeing people you care about fall victim to blue pill conditioning, but at the end of the day how do we learn? By making mistakes. Let nature run it’s course. If she leaves him shattered walk behind and pick up the pieces.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:20 AM
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Girls get bi polar like that all the time. This was a shit test that you did pass imo. She tried to test your frame and see if you would crumble, begging and pleading for her to bestow upon you the beauty that is her phone number. She’s just trying to get a little frame on you it’s all good. If she wants to hit you up again she will. May be tomorrow may be in a month.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 08:16 AM
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You didn’t make her cum so she’s finishing herself off instead.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:57 AM
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There’s a difference between being kind and then being a nice guy. The man who has a strong mental frame, is confident in himself and gets validation from himself can choose to be a real arsehole and nice. The “nice guy” has no other option, his default mode is doormat. So, he the man that has the option to choose. There’s nothing wrong with kindness and compassion. Just don’t be weak.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:55 AM
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Fuck women’s views. What do you want? I what makes you confident? Building muscle is a key fundamental in building a good mental frame. Build the muscle and cut the fat at the same time.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:52 AM
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If you’re insecure you will have weak frame and will likely enter another’s frame because you cannot hold your own (you will find out about frame through the sidebar). Women want to come into your frame and will shittest you to figure out if it’s strong enough. Therefore having low self esteem will mean no woman will want to enter your frame bc it’s so weak
/r/askTRP28/07/20 09:26 AM
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It’s a beta move to worry if things are beta or not. If you’re doing a good job at being alpha then you’ll know when things are beta. Do you like tits? If yes then lay on them till they fucking fall off bro.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:36 AM
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Ironic, love it
/r/askTRP28/07/20 08:34 AM
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Unless you're going to meet her and fuck in the next couple days, next her
/r/askTRP27/07/20 10:33 PM
3

And so is the way of life, my friend. Happens to the best of us. ​ Just Workout away the pain brother. you've taken another step in the red pill journey today.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 10:31 PM
1

Firstly don’t text to have a conversation text for logistics only. You’re getting worked up over what this girl wants when you havnt even met her before.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:58 PM
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Red flag with meeting the ex. Like if she didnt wanna talk to him she wouldn’t be in the car with him. You broke frame by getting pissed off and driving over there. My man chill for a sec. no pussy worth getting a criminal record over? Bro no pussy is even worth getting pissed off and wasting petrol going to her house. She’s failed getting to LTR status and should be condemned back to plate status and no higher.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:47 PM
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Stopped reading at the first point. Too much baggage to deal with mate. Think about it, if the LTR is a success and you keep her around for say 2 years you really wanna deal with her trauma for that long? Bet you’re guy is telling you to fuck it off. Good, listen to it. Hard next pal
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:42 PM
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Shelf life is however long you want it to be provided that she doesn’t find someone better than you
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:26 PM
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Just because you’re being chill doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing. Just don’t let yourself become so lazy that you become uninteresting.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:02 PM
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Become the best version of yourself and improve your frame. Give a fuck about your height, use agree and amplify when someone gives you a shit test about it. But yes you can become “chad” or “alpha”
/r/askTRP26/07/20 08:00 PM
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How many times have you heard about high value guys getting the girl with the boyfriend. It’s hypergamy my friend (sidebar material). Why does she need to “hang out” with another guy when she’s with you? Probably scouting different options. You better have other girls on the back burner.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:57 PM
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At the end of the day girls at your age are always gonna act really immature (that doesn’t change but you find it a bit less when you’re older and out of puberty). My advice, just start going to the gym build a good foundation for later years and have fun. Personally I wouldn’t even touch on LTRs until you’re nearing 30 (if that’s what you wanna do) but you’re call my man.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:28 PM
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Sometimes I see people just chilling with hickies, not bothering to cover them up. My first judgement is to label them an AMOG or arsehole but then I realise they don’t give a fuck and then I also realise I no longer give a fuck either. I’ve done it myself, seems more of an ego inflation to me “yeah yeah I fuck, everybody”. Do what you like tbh, just accept people will judge you for it. The girls will. They may see you as the other girls “property” now or they may think it’s really hot and want …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:20 PM
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So she got grounded and was in a bad mood, she then gives you a comfort test probably so that your response would lighten her mood. So she got pissed at your response. Strong frame here would be you just saying calmly “yeah I’ll call you back when you’re in a better mood” and then go about your business. She’d of come around in the end. You broke frame by trying to explain yourself. You stayed calm yes, but not in your own frame.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:14 PM
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This is a whole post about mental masturbating. You think you’re getting in there with girls you’ve met online and have had no contact with other than over a screen. You’ve over invested massively over texts these girls are sending you. Here what’s happening is that the girls you’re talking to are getting validation and you’re getting nothing. Get off the computer and meet some women in the flesh or do something else worthwhile. These girls sound immature anyway and are really worth the time to …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:07 PM
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Some people just win on the genetic lottery, don’t worry about if you’re fucked or not. Worry about whether you’re doing the best with what you’ve got
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:48 AM
1

Yeah, doesn't appear on my discord either. Fucking gutted boys...
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:40 PM
1

There is a main discord, joe Dee from red pill university set it up
/r/askTRP11/07/20 07:37 AM
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This question gets thrown around a lot, I say, do what the fuck you want. As long as it’s not getting in the way of life enjoy that shit
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:56 AM
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Hit her up and ask her to hang out. If she's as into you as you say she'll say yes and then take it from there
/r/askTRP06/07/20 10:17 AM
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ah right, after I told her to stop and she did, I just started another conversation as if nothing happened and it was fine after that. definitely should've made her jump through a hoop after. thanks for the comment.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:39 PM
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I could feel it sure, but it left no mark. It was hard enough for me to not like it but not hard enough where it actually hurt.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 08:37 PM
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so when a woman shows behaviour I don't like I just ignore her, until what point?
/r/askTRP05/07/20 07:09 PM
2

This also depends on how big the annoying things are. If they're big things, why would you stick around when you have abundance? shouldn't we be striving for the best
/r/askTRP05/07/20 06:29 PM
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This is common behaviour from someone that's new, I get that, we've all been there. You want to fuck her sure, you find her attractive. I think the only way you're going to learn is to do. you can read as much red pill shit as you want, none of that's gonna make you alpha. If you hang out with her again shes gonna sense that you want to fuck her and shell probably pull away from you. My advice to you as someone that's been down this road in the blue pill days is to let go and move on, but it's h…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 02:47 PM
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It’s beta to keep thinking about it like this. Looking at how much this has got into your head, I think hitting her up would be a bad idea, looks like a recipe for oneitis to me. Make sure you read the sidebar and internalise that shit bruv, will save you a lot of hassle with women in the future.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:14 AM
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Tbh bro, I feel like you’re thinking about this too much. Hit her up, don’t, it doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things. Just get on your mission, you shouldn’t be losing sleep over shit like this
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:38 PM
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On the main sub, on the left side (in the “about section” if you’re on mobile) there’s a list of many lists with titles like “handling shit tests” or “Briffaults law”. This is a list of reading you should do before asking questions mostly.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:36 PM
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There is no plausible deniability if you do this
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:55 AM
1

Hit her up
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:53 AM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Meet her again, fix your short coming by escalating more and if it doesn’t work out fuck her, all you was trying to do was not be selfish by sharing your awesomeness. Her loss
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:43 AM
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She trying to make you beeeeeeeeetaaaaaaaaa
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:06 AM
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It’s not gonna work out with every girl, even the most red pilled of us make mistakes sometimes. You probably should’ve of just kept escalating subtly, listen to her actions not her words you know. Theres plenty more girls out there that’ll be happy to suck you. Head up champ
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:04 AM
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You are overthinking like a bitch yes, take some time out to chill. Then hit her up, she’s high interest so no harm really done
/r/askTRP29/06/20 11:50 AM
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This was after a second date. I thought comfort tests only occur in LTRs You killed the mystery behind what you was doing during those 3 hours. The reply makes it sound like you would’ve replied straight away of you could have. Seem like the start of oneitis to me, start spinning more plates bro.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:34 AM
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Women choose the best men she can attract through hypergamy. If she’s fit, she’ll likely have a larger pool of men to choose from. If you’re ugly or of low SMV then you are not in the pool that she’ll want to choose from. Therefore she won’t chase you because you are not worth having around in her eyes
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:16 AM
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You’re already halfway there by knowing. You’ve just gotta keep reminding yourself and one day it will become internalised
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:14 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with showing emotion, it’s losing frame you need worry about
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:57 PM
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No worries. Try to practice some stoic principles. This way of life teaches you how to recognise your emotions, but instead of acting on them naturally you train yourself to choose how to react. This will allow you to feel and recognise how you’re actually feeling
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:40 PM
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Be natural, become in touch with emotions
/r/askTRP28/06/20 03:38 PM
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If you’re a man of high value women will know, you don’t need to flex it so hard A rich man doesn’t need to tell you he’s rich
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:27 AM
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You have a need for validation
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:24 AM
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You did what you thought was right, no one can blame you for that. There’s many other women out there why would you need to take her shit. Seems a little over the top to leave straight up. Maybe if she did soemthing really bad but then again if you don’t wanna deal with her fuck it, leave that place.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:37 AM
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Yeah I agree, some people don’t sit there for very long and try to figure out problems for themselves so they come here. Still this is a good place for if you’re still unsure about a red pill answer after trying to figure it out yourself I come on here a lot to help those who are new, yeah I guess I get dopamine for that, is that a bad thing?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:32 AM
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I have a plate that did this and it annoyed me too. I told her to just stop telling her friends about me personally but she could still chat shit about the sex and stuff. If it’s worked yet idk but havnt heard her friends say anything about me since
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:29 AM
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I think what you’re talking about here is called sexual imprints
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:23 PM
1

IF itself doesn’t do anything really. All it does it make it easier to be in a calorie deficit if you’re cutting. Personally I don’t like it that much as I’m always thinking about food and it makes me moody somewhat
/r/askTRP25/06/20 05:31 PM
1

No she hasn’t seen my place yet
/r/askTRP25/06/20 04:47 PM
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You don’t need to build muscle for your abs to show, you just need to be a low enough bf % Still having good looking abs does require you to work them out Some people hold more fat in there abdomen area and therefore don’t start to have their abs visible at lower bf % than 14%. So if you want abs keep cutting
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:24 PM
2

Have you not read the sidebar? It’s all on there
/r/askTRP25/06/20 03:22 PM
1

As long as she doesn’t complain about it, size doesn’t matter that much
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:55 PM
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If we as men spend time with one woman our human nature is to start developing feelings if we vibe and she’s fit. However, by spinning plates these feelings are spread out between women so much that they become minimal and we develop an abundance mentality. You do not have an abundance mentality, nor do I suspect that you are spinning plates.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:53 AM
2

Yeah probably a little, it’s normal for people (women especially) to go on about themselves only
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:48 AM
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A solid answer, thank you. I did ask her at the time and her response was it would be much better to fuck in her double bed rather than the back of my car (since we both live with our parents outside of uni). Thought there might be some more red pill truths to this answer tho below the surface.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:48 AM
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I call this human psychology. Everyone loves talking about themselves. You’ll actually find that people will think you’re a great conversationalist if you don’t talk about you and only ask about them. Many women I know do this a lot. Whenever “pillow talk” happens I don’t normally say anything, the woman talks on and on while I don’t reveal hardly anything about myself
/r/askTRP25/06/20 11:16 AM
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Own that shit. It’s an old video, so what! I’d just laugh it off, make it look like it doesn’t affect me until it really doesn’t
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:46 AM
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If she says this to you then she wants to gauge your emotions towards her. “How into me actually is he?” Based on your response she will get her answer. If a plate says this, why would you care? Plates are baseline commodities for your life and shouldn’t be given emotional attachment. If an LTR says this to you, I’d let her suck the cock. But she can be sure as fuck that I won’t be around when she returns, it’s fully over. If an LTR is saying this to you, then you didn’t vet her properly
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:36 AM
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She’s probably trying to make you an orbiter, stay far away. Yeah you did good
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:50 AM
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Very sorry to hear that my man. Atleast you have red pill
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 05:33 PM
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Man up and leave, she’s gonna cry no matter what. You have a problem, you want sex. She’s not giving it to you. You go elsewhere to find it. Personally the first thing I thought when I heard this was that she’s fucking some other “alpha” while getting commitment from you (good genes vs dad genes). Leave... don’t look back.... just look at the sidebar
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:39 PM
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Those who find that the red pill has decreased their love for women have not yet fully digested the pill. ​ A KEY part of TRP is accepting female nature for what it is. Learning about female nature and accepting it allows us to become fully free from the blue pill and black pill beliefs and live happy knowing the full truth of life. ​ So to answer your question, no it hasn't, its maximised it! Now I'm able to counter hypergamy by using game properly. I'm not bitter about the way life is because …
/r/askTRP23/06/20 11:02 AM
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Do you think its ok? do you think a man worth half a shit has time to talk to girls every day? You need to get on some type of mission, like fitness for example so that you become busier and your time (and the way you spend it) becomes more valuable Get to the sidebar my friend
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:45 AM
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It’s never worth it fellas, keep it wrapped or you’ll get trapped.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:28 AM
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fuck it why not? see something you like? go grab it
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:24 PM
5

"I was a total beta" and then you say "she doesn't have look to have many friends so she might be in my league". To me, this shows some large insecurity about yourself. ​ I see that you're new to TRP and currently reading the sidebar. Still, I have to say, there's no point chasing some poon before even finishing the sidebar. Youll slip right back into blue pill habits and thought patterns and before you know it you'll have onitis before you know it. ​ still, if you really wanna hit her up still,…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:22 PM
3

Maybe take your fitness down some different avenues? I know since this corona thing hit I’ve been honning in on the Muay Thai and have been working on some agility workouts too. I’m deffo in much better shape than I was at the beginning of lockdown
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:59 PM
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At the end of the day fella, a simple date doesn’t mean anything when she’s got a high value athlete dicking her down. The only thing that’s happened her is that you’ve given her validation that the athlete guy probably didn’t bc he’s got huge abundance.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:56 PM
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Let’s get straight to the point then. You’ve listed everything that’s wrong with you in the first paragraph, if you know this then why havnt you changed it?! This is a key part of whats holding you back from reaching your potential my man! Regarding the LTR. Nah bro she sounds like too much of a hassle bruv, dump the gal, find a new one. Abundance mentality!! Fix your problems then you can start worrying about which bitch you trying to fuck next not the other way round, that’s how you’re gonna e…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:54 PM
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Bro have you even fucked? You can’t be thinking about turning her into a plate if you ain’t even made it into her pants yet damn. Stop getting dizzy over this girl and make some real headway in the game of life Where do I start??? The sidebar my man
/r/askTRP22/06/20 06:44 PM
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Men have it harder than women, yeah.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 06:31 PM
1

Nah man don’t go for this, not because she’s taller but because you’ve got the wrong mindset. Get it out the way so you can be focussing on other things??? Brooo! Why aren’t you focusing on these things right now! No relationships gonna make you anymore focused it’s just gonna distract you. Work on yourself, relationships are second to that.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 04:51 PM
3

Step up and try to bring harmony to your group, become the leader, try to get your group of men out doing things and working together, an escape room perhaps. Men work best when working towards something together, not sitting around talking. If it’s too much drama for you, leave. That’s it
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:06 AM
23

If you’re getting put to the side people don’t care what you have to say, you are not showing social value to them so why would they listen? Once the social hierarchy in a group is established it’s quite hard to have it change drastically which you’d need in your situation. Take some time to improve yourself, get bigger at the gym, work on speaking from the diaphragm, build your confidence and frame. If your “friends” aren’t paying attention to you then they’re not your friends at all. Find a gr…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 09:00 AM
1

Have you shown any value through your insta stories as of late? If so maybe she picked up on that and is looking for a way to start a convo. If not then looks more like an attention grab it test of frame to see if she can get free oil change off you
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:42 AM
3

Accept the emotion, feel it, recognise it. Then, choose how you react to it, react in a good way. Use the energy of the pain to achieve something more. The pain will still be there but at least you did something with it. It will fade with time my friend.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:33 AM
11

Having the fit body before the LTR attracts the girl. Then through the LTR your girl will say things like “no you’re big enough” or “no don’t go to the gym today stay in bed an cuddle”. The weak minded men will follow this frame and slack off, causing them to get fatter. Then she leaves you for another fit body guy through hypergamy and the cycle repeats. They want to bring your SMV down so they feel more secure and this is one way of doing it. I can’t remember what the post is called but it’s s…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:03 AM
3

He seems very beta so hypergamy for him is not likely. You showed her you don’t care and that you have your emotions in order. Bruv honestly even for some reason she did cheat on you with this “simp” you know then her motives and it’s absolutely her loss!
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:17 PM
1

I’m not comfortable cumming in a girl, I make sure she’s on the pill and I’m wrapped up, especially if she’s just ONS material. Do what you like but if she gets pregnant you gonna man up and deal with that shit. Probably would regret that 2 seconds of gratification after cream pie-Ing with a baby screaming in your ear. The choice is yours
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:10 PM
1

The best way to help someone is to help yourself, make sure you’re fully red pilled before even attempting to sprinkle some red pill wisdom into his life. He’s 11, right now all he’s fussed about is the new Xbox and what version minecraft is currently on. Don’t waste time teaching him now, continue to better yourself while he grows. The biggest reason I see for a lot of men waking up from the matrix is bad breakups, like ones were they get completely fucked over. That’s stokes the fire for a man…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:08 PM
3

Either live with this distrust or accept it. No other way around it, the blue pill illusion of “unconditional love” has never been true. Women use hypergamy to obtain the best male THEY can physically attract. So, after reading that you should be getting to the top of the tree. There you will likely have a much smaller competition size to compete with and so women are more likely to become devoted to you. Still there are higher trees which you can’t access (celebrities for example) which would m…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 07:00 PM
2

This is an ethical question. If you didn’t give a fuck you wouldn’t be asking. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. Just ask yourself whether you’re ok with cucking another man
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:35 PM
1

Ask yourself truly, why does this matter? Imagine the girl getting pissy with you if the tables were flipped. I know I’d be standing there like “damn bruv this girls crazy. After one fuck session aswell? Nah imma move on”
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:27 PM
8

If you have to ask to go in for a kiss you don’t deserve to be kissing anyone. It ruins the moment. Read signals, if she doesn’t want to kiss she’ll pull back and give an excuse.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 07:23 PM
1

There’s a great post called “lifting 101” or soemthing like that from the main sub. Idk if it’s on the sidebar tho. I normally take around 1 hour to 1 hour 30
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:09 AM
15

Eye contact projects confidence. When with women here’s the best thing I’ve found. Be aloof and scarce as to when you give eye contact. Make it when she makes a point you’re interested in or like. Give eye contact when you’re making points that you want to stand out as important. Don’t sit there and look down as a way of being aloof this just makes you look awkward and shy. Huge turn offs. Just make her compete for your attention.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 10:08 AM
2

She’s gonna do what she’s gonna do bro, accept that. She’s not you’re it’s just your turn, you’re not her it’s just her turn. If you’re allowed to get more plates why’s she not allowed? You both have to be on the same page here, otherwise you Ain’t ready for this.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:25 AM
1

This is a very good mindset to have, just don’t let it get in the way of very good things. If you truly want to change things for the better do it! Don’t change things just because.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:28 PM
6

Whenever you want to, just accept there’s consequences if she’s actually corona positive
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:27 PM
5

I’ve tried so many times to subtly teach one of my beat mates trp but it makes no difference. You don’t truly understand how deep rooted BP mindsets are until this point. If he doesn’t accept then leave it. Treat it the same way as you treat women’s nature, acceptance
/r/askTRP18/06/20 08:22 AM
2

Sidebar: “handling the talk”
/r/askTRP18/06/20 07:02 AM
8

Nooo, she’s a perfect unicorn. She “slipped up”. Cmon man “it just happened”
/r/askTRP17/06/20 12:39 PM
5

So you’re basically saying would I give up sex? No I wouldn’t
/r/askTRP17/06/20 10:20 AM
13

“Enough” that’s what my parents always told me to say when asked about anything todo with money
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:12 PM
1

People are unintentionally going monk mode because lockdown is basically forcing them to have limited human reaction.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 05:11 PM
2

She doesn’t sound like she wants to hang out, you asked her if she wants to come and she completely deflected your advance. Nah pass on this one fam
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:23 PM
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Your mindset here is all wrong. You’re chasing pussy, not your purpose. Why tf would any bird want a thirsty guy who’s not ambitious even tho he does cardio and works out daily. TRP is PARTLY about picking up women. The self Improvement part is not! Create a life you want and women will come I’ll repeat a great quote I saw on the main sub yesterday: “women don’t build, they move in” Hope this helps, hit the sidebar again I think you need a refresher
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:43 PM
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Nah, I feel like it cuts you off too much and you don’t really take action too much while doing it. Self improvement can be done just as well without it
/r/askTRP16/06/20 01:35 PM
2

Ah great reply, i understand this now, cheers.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 05:25 PM
1

Isnt it a bad thing to crave validation tho?
/r/askTRP15/06/20 05:20 PM
5

Firstly, do not double text or follow up with a call, here's why. If you follow up with a call it shows this girl that you've been sitting there thinking about how long it's taken her to reply. This implies neediness as it says "I really can't function when you don't text me back quickly because I have nothing better to be doing". Get on your purpose bro, whatever you can think of, just busy yourself and start creating a life you're proud of. Become comfortable on your own, and I mean really on …
/r/askTRP15/06/20 04:42 PM
3

Well... maybe it’s time to cut your losses. Most people find TRP after a serious wake up call caused by the harsh actions of other people. Just my thoughts anyway.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:06 PM
2

Litrally about to comment the same thing
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:05 PM
2

Have you tried teaching him red pill principles?
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:15 PM
3

Nah keep it for the memories, build a collection. Hit the sidebar bro, sounds like you need it
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:40 AM
2

Tbh mate, there’s so many reasons it could be. Maybe you weren’t bold enough, maybe she felt sick, maybe you creeped her out, maybe she just shit herself. From reading the question tho, might have been a bit of asd, maybe she knew the date was coming to the end and knew you was gonna invite her over or something and she didn’t wanna look like a slut for fuckign on the 1st date. Hit her up again, if she pulls the same shit next it
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:14 AM
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To get a better idea of dread game go to the rational male part of the sidebar Dread is basically making your LTR dread you leaving her through doing certain things. So say you’re at a club and loads of girls hit on you, theoretically you could go home with anyone of them, yet you still choose to stay with your LTR. However your LTR sees all this and it shows to her that you’re a valued and desired man
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:10 AM
2

Yeah she’s playing the game, making herself seem too important or busy for you in some ways. Deffo get on some other plates in the mean time and push her back in the rotation, see if she shows more effort then
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:06 AM
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Wtf does “been talking for 3 months and serious talking for 1 month” even mean? Idk 3 weeks after this and you locked it down? Maybe it’s just me but I’d take a way longer screening period of underlying red flags before I considered LTR promotion With the whole chasing thing... why would she need to chase? She’s got you know. You’ve verbally agreed that you’d be exclusive so now you need to build dread (social proof at social events, getting in killer shape)
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:04 AM
3

She could genuinely be busy, I know that I can only make plans with people the day before since my schedule gets unpredictable. She could also be trying to gain frame and test how busy of a man you are
/r/askTRP13/06/20 09:58 AM
2

Haha yeah you already know how to do it boss! Go out there and get what you want
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:34 PM
2

Why ask them to do push ups? You already knew they were keen and a little submissive when you asked them the get a lighter and they did. Should’ve asked if they wanted to join then escalate from there. I’m not gonna blast you for this, many people make even more stupid mistakes but I’m sure you know that this was a wrong move. Still should’ve played it off and asked them to join anyway.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:07 PM
3

Sounds like they can probably sense that you’re unsure of yourself somewhat. I mean, so what if people aren’t receptive to you. I don’t tell jokes or say funny things to make people around me laugh, I say them because it makes me laugh and I find it funny. Fuck everyone else bruv
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:23 AM
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Good chance that the hot girl knows she’s hot, therefore she’ll use your attention to boost her own self esteem. I always find that really hot girls have dead chat and boring personalities where as the 7-8 HBs are much more exciting. Yeah they’re not top tier lookers but I’d rather have fun with someone who’s decent than not have fun with a girl whos really hot. Go for the average girl. And if the hot one hits you up, best of both worlds.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 11:21 AM
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wag 1 bruv. I'm in uni now and they definitely are in the slut phase tbh. Id say that with the age if you didn't tell them how old you are you'd have a pretty easy time gaming girl on a night out since age is a good advantage. gaming girls are uni is fairly easy since they're always drunk and looking for a shag most nights. just don't expect the girls of proper value to be as easy tho.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:30 PM
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No, if you said exactly that then you didn’t lie you just didn’t tell the whole truth. Why was it her business if your mates were there or not? Feel like you might be a little bit invested too much in her. Maybe take a step back and shift her further back in the rotation
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:08 PM
3

So firstly, you broke the first rule of living with people: NEVER shit where you eat. Shouldn’t have fucked her in the first place. I’m sure you know that is a bad decision now but just some advice for the future. Secondly. NEVER move into a flat with women. So much unnecessary hassle because you know what happens when boys and girls are in the same place. Just move in with a group of guys only Lastly, bro don’t go anywhere near this girl. After reading his post I can tell you still havnt intern…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:06 PM
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Just say it’s both, your old job was a shitty one bc of the wage and you had options with approaching a new one. Just so happens your mates work at a place you like so that won over the other Prospects.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:59 PM
2

No worries boss. Keep the grind up!
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:57 PM
6

Take a longer trip at night and tell her it’s dangerous to drive while tired, then get the hotel. That’s all the plausible deniability you need. The rest is on you pal
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:01 PM
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Since I’ve got time away from uni life, I’m trying to burn all the fat I have to reveal a good athletic physic. Aswell I bought a punch bag to practice and sharpen up the Muay Thai skills I learnt at uni. I’m reading and trying to internalise the side bar and other great red pill post as best I can while in lockdown. Also learning many manual labour skills like painting walls and demolishing spaces (just because my dad needs help) Hope this helps in any way
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:00 PM
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Start going to the gym and improving your body This helps with confidence and self discipline, lifting in the gym has a bleeding affect to a lot of other areas in life Find different environments and social circles to hang around in Cut your toxic ties, they’ll do nothing but harm your mental health and mind. Find hobbies you enjoy by just doing loads of shit, you’ll find tonnes of people who like the same things as you Find purpose This ones not as easy. Finding purpose can take some time and i…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:56 PM
1

So what, let her be moody. You’re a man who’s well sought after. If she breaks she breaks. Look to the other plates, that’s what they’re there for.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:47 PM
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Let’s both look at this from a third person perspective, imagining this is some other guy and not you. Let’s say The guy in question is red pilled. He’s internalised the whole pill. He’s on his grind, women are secondary to him. Everyday he’s got something todo because he’s on his purpose. A girl asks him to grab her and her friend coffee. You know what he thinks to himself? Nothing. He didn’t even look at the text till that evening, hours after the question was asked, why? Because he was busy a…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 01:44 PM
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cold approach when you desire to, not because you have to
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:04 AM
1

Gotta realise that your mum comes from a different generation where it was a social pressure to get married by 30 and have a medium sized family. This is the red pill where shit doesn’t work like in the “real world” To answer your question, no, I don’t feel pressured to get married, I have no desire to even though I’m young. Many say I’ll change my mind but we’ll see. There is no pressure because at the end of the day I’m in my own frame and I’m gonna live my life how I see fit. If that means ma…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:41 PM
1

It’s hard to say if it’s an IOI over just text, there would need to be added body language to properly say. But since she hit you up I’d take it as a good sign. Just don’t drop your guard though, might just be trying to make you an orbiter. If you’re busy, you’re busy. However no ones too busy to make it an excuse not to approach girls or have plates If you’re moving class, whatever, gives you a chance to ask her to meet earlier rather than waiting for your next class if it were to happen.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:36 PM
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I understand the frustration. We humans strive for control over our lives and when it’s suddenly taken away from us we feel like we’ve lost frame. You reacted as any sane person would, if you had money you would’ve likely have it to him. Just because you’re huge and he’s 5’5 doesn’t make you knife proof and invincible. Honestly if you had tried to make a move you’d be an idiot. Who cares if youre even a “pussy” for not doing anything, you’re still alive. Better to be a pussy than to be dead
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:51 PM
4

The only reason I used to pmo a lot was because I had nothing better todo, then I started reading TRP and found some hobbies which I loved. I did so much stuff that I had no time for stupid girls on screens
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:11 PM
1

Two in the pinker, one in the stinker
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:05 PM
4

Plausible deniability, if one of them was actually her boyfriend then you can act like you was sincerely asking
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 08:45 AM
8

From a goals orientated pov video games are bad because whatever you achieve in them, you don’t actually achieve in real life. I personally don’t see them as bad as long as they’re not getting in the way of anything. Couple hours a night to unwind is cool. Staying up till 5am trying to get a warzone dub on the night before an important job interview, not cool.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:37 AM
2

Nah never go on my phone when I meet up with anyone to text someone else. very good tip still
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:16 PM
1

You think so? I'm normally busy with work so I take 2-3 hours to re[ply but still feel like we text a lot. She normally sends really long messages just chatting shit while my responses are smaller.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:16 PM
1

I do, she'll send a huge paragraph while ill send a smaller piece of text. I just let her go on about herself mostly.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:14 PM
1

Yeah, I'm always busy with work so normally take 2-3 hours to reply. Still feels like I text a lot compared to other people.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:13 PM
3

What do you mean by “1000 pound strength club”?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:14 PM
3

It makes a much better difference, it’s attractive. It looks good and it shows a dedicated and hard working individual. Sure it’s not the only thing that matter to women but it sure helps with confidence and how other perceive you
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:39 PM
1

Exactly what I was thinking, cheers.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:31 PM
1

That's what I was thinking, thanks.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:31 PM
1

No chance, bagged by shit up man.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:30 PM
2

You just need to figure out how to feel whole while you’re by yourself. Then these feelings will not feel so strong.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:33 PM
3

Forget about her for the most part, spin other plates. Hit her up from time to time but if you’re the only one doing it cut her off. Don’t turn into an orbiter If she comes back to visit then sure, fuck her if you want. Just don’t over invest
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:32 PM
2

It’s likely you miss the memories with a girl and not the girl herself. Why are you not doing these fun things by yourself and with friends? Why does there NEED to be a woman in your life you HAVE todo these things with. Sometimes having a girl around can feel nice, and this is what leads us guys promoting a girl to an LTR with proper vetting. You miss the feeling. Find that feeling elsewhere. Be it with friends, family or even within yourself.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:51 AM
2

There is no need to feel stressed. No one is forcing you to become better, either you improve or you don't. Take a step back and find what is making you so burnt out, adding learning a language on top of this is going to be detrimental as you're not likely to keep it as a habit for long.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:41 PM
6

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:42 AM
1

Oh it’s a good rule to follow. Any girl who doesn’t fuck you for that long is either keeping you around as an orbiter or making you wait for sex, which in the end is never worth it.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:04 AM
1

Firstly, if you care so much about your LTR then find the problem with why she won’t fuck you. The resurgence in the sex life reminds me of when I read tomassi and he said LTRs will fuck you like an animal if you play dread on them in certain ways (like when you suddenly hit the gym and become swolzilla). Maybe she knew she there would be other girls after you when you asked to break up. Thats how I read it anyway. As for the options. If you’re looking at fucking other girls then why are you sti…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 04:02 PM
1

Girls love coming along for the ride
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:52 PM
4

Some people look good clean shaven, find what works for you. There’s many beard styles out there
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:46 PM
5

Did you mention a meet up to her? Might’ve thought you weren’t gonna schedule it . Also could be that she’s found a better prospect unfortunately and she’s called things off with you. These are just the most likely reason I can think of without knowing the proper story
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:31 PM
6

Makes you look older and mature, it’s a no brainier really
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:54 PM
3

Stop the texting, set a meet up. Get to know her in person
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:45 PM
9

Yeah I feel the same. When a girl is overtly dtf it kinda ruins that whole experience of it being a game. Still I’m not gonna pass up some free pussy. Most girls aren’t like that tho. Anything worth having doesn’t come easy
/r/askTRP31/05/20 11:22 AM
2

She’s crazy, avoid unnecessary drama and drop her please. She’s a FWB and is acting like a psycho GF.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:51 AM
0

Ah I see. Should’ve set up a social distancing walk then? Unless your country was one where you couldn’t leave the house
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:49 AM
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It’s a natural thing. It’s programmed in males bc once we nut and Impregnate a woman, our brain is really telling us to not commit as it’s much more of an evolutionary advantage to go impregnate another woman and not get attached too much to the first so that our genes can be passed on more effectively. Honestly it’s just something you’ve gotta deal with. Just get away from the person if it’s too much for you
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:40 AM
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Shouldn’t of been texting back and forth, should’ve set up the meet ASAP. Seemed like she was down to meet anyway. Ask her if she wants to hang out again. If not then onto the next one bruv.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:37 AM
5

I read the post recently and have been trying the same thing. What I found was that I started to fuck to make me feel good not her. I stopped focusing on what I could do that make her cum and just did the things I liked. By doing this I got better results. Moral of the story? Fuck for your benefit not hers. If she doesn’t like it, onto the next bro
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:02 AM
1

What’s the point of setting up a date for a plate. Dates require effort which should only be given if your plate has done something to deserve it first. Don’t do dates with plates until you promote her further. If she’s getting you to do stuff with her outside the bedroom this is a sign that she is putting in the effort and unlocks the ability for you to decide if you want to promote her or not.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:59 AM
5

Any exercise is better than none, so do what you can really. Search up calestenics on YouTube. You’ll gain muscle easy since you’re a beginner. Ask your aunt if she can bye more lean meats like chicken or beef or whatever just more lean protein shit. Up to you if you wanna go monk mode, I know a lot of people on here say to delete social media. I for one still have it but hardly go on it since there’s nothing of interest on there really
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:39 AM
1

It’s beta to spin a plate for 6 months? What? No it’s not “beta”. Spinning a plate for 6 months shows you have enough game and value to keep it from smashing for that long. You don’t have to go on dates at all no ones forcing you.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:03 AM
1

Bro she isn’t really a plate if you’ve only fucked once. You shouldn’t even be caring about what she does. Should just be focusing on your craft then hit her up when you want sex. Easy When I read about asking for nudes it seemed to me like you broke frame. Should have just stayed strong and said “yeah I’m asking for nudes and what” or something along those lines. This post shows too much and over investment, back off a little
/r/askTRP31/05/20 07:00 AM
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Don’t listen to what girls say, watch what they do. She SAID she’d suck you off Her ACTIONS were to make excuses about meeting up Next this one bruv
/r/askTRP31/05/20 06:55 AM
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You don’t drink alcohol, then don’t drink alcohol on a date. Fuck whatever the bitch In front of you is saying, do what you want.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 05:09 PM
6

When people find out you have money they treat you differently. People can tell you have money by observing you so don’t worry about conveying it overtly.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:51 PM
2

I re did my year 12 and found that age didn’t really factor into it seen as there was only a years difference (in some cases less). I found that I had some mystery from being sort of new to my classmates. However, I also found that all these people already had tight bonds through growing up in school together and I was coming into the class without knowing anyone. However this occurred during my blue pill days. My tips from this experience are: Make friends with the people with the biggest socia…
/r/askTRP29/05/20 10:26 PM
3

Nah man, some girls like certain things. If you didn’t pick up on massive red flags through the whole time you was gaming her then you’d know if there were any major ones. Just keep wrapped up, just in case
/r/askTRP29/05/20 10:16 PM
1

Good play, I set this boundary with all my plates.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:33 PM
1

Normally he’d go run his mouth and if shut him down. Made him look like a mug in front of our friends. I’d also put up boundaries and tell him that slapping my neck and that was not on
/r/askTRP28/05/20 08:24 AM
1

Ah I used to have this same thing happen to me, but it was from someone new to a group I was already well established in. He’d jab me and slap my neck when greeting me. The way I dealt with it was taking him down a peg thru out witting him in verbal communication
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:31 PM
1

You shouldn’t be texting all night. This conveys to a girl that you have nothing better todo, showing you have no mission. You ever fuck this girl? If not sounds like a huge waste of time to be texting this girl otherwise. And she’s talking about getting her guts dug out by some other geeza, like it’s nothing? Nah man next this gal honestly not worth the hassle
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:40 PM
2

Honestly, that something only you can answer. But, I’d say when she shows a great amount of effort (consistently) towards doing good things for you (outside of being sexual..... mostly)
/r/askTRP27/05/20 05:34 PM
1

If you feel like she’s been good enough to you for you to promote her then do it. But be fully aware of the consequences
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:52 PM
2

You’re thinking too much on it mate, humblebragging is nothing but a woman’s way to gain some frame and control.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:58 AM
3

I understand that, similar to not shitting where you eat. Just try to brush it off next time maybe say “oh really that’s strange” as you’re walking off
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:44 AM
16

It’s a thing called “humblebragging”. Basically where a woman makes a good thing in her life sound bad “OMG I’ve been hit on like 15 guys tonight, why won’t they leave me alone” for example Just ignore it, she’s just trying to show some value to you.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 11:38 AM
13

Definitely next her (hard/ soft you choose depending on how severe it is) If she hasn’t got time and energy for you at your best you ain’t got time for her at all
/r/askTRP26/05/20 10:30 AM
1

Maybe just a hello to the people in the break room would've been enough. Find out what they're on about and if it's not to your liking read your articles. fuck the guy telling you to say something, probably just trying to AMOG you.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:57 PM
17

never in order to gain sex as a supposed "reward". That's simp shit
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:53 PM
1

First, get a good friends group. Best way in uni todo this is to join societies you like so you can meet like minded people. You need to work on yourself before you start worrying about women. If you do it right people will be attracted to you and finding women will be easy Do you not go out to the clubs? Swear those places are drowning in drunk pussy
/r/askTRP25/05/20 05:30 PM
1

Seems like a more personal thing. If you have fame and understand red pill principles, frame would naturally come easy I would think.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 01:00 PM
1

Fame is just a public way that your social status is shown. If you’re famous, mass amounts of people know you. Women think “oh ok, this guy sounds like a big deal. Let me get in on what he’s doing” and then they’ll try to get with you. Probably also because the frame of famous people is very strong too.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:54 PM
1

Gotta get the vocal chords doing some work too, I’ve heard that helps
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:31 PM
1

My brother told me to read “the game” while we were on holiday as I was starting to get involved with some girls around our area. From that I found trp by myself.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 07:23 AM
2

hahaha I'm 100% stealing this one
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:20 PM
2

So, if you just go to the main page of this subreddit, scroll down and the sidebar is on the right-hand side. Looks like a load of links with titles like "shit tests and how to handle them" or "men in love" stuff like that. Hopefully, you find it well
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 09:17 PM
1

Oh 100% that’s the best way to go, nothing like making a girl feel comfortable around you using cocky funny but still having her guessing about other things, keeping the mystery. Familiarity breeds contempt
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:41 PM
2

I think what it’s trying to get across is that you shouldn’t just grab a girls arse from the get go and call it sexual intent. What it’s probably saying is, open a girl and say whatever (bc realistic is doesn’t matter too much what you say) and then start to kino escalate as soon as possible and keep up the momentum
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:39 PM
8

Firstly, don’t go over with the number goal to fuck. Go to just have a good time and push towards it using kino and that. I’m sure you know the drill by now. Have an abundance mentality, if it doesn’t work out or you mess it up there’s other girls. Plus you should have backups (if possible during these times)
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:26 PM
4

Had a long distance relationship back in my blue pill days, only way I dealt with that was thru text and FaceTimes. Nothing you can really do unless you wanna break social distancing rules. Just gotta stick it out. If it isn’t enough for her then that’s a decision she’ll have to make and you’ll have to deal with unfortunately.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:21 PM
3

Sounds like you had a carry over effect from your fuck session. Only thing that stops me having a wank is becoming very busy. Maybe after a plate leaves next time jump straight into a task
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:18 PM
1

Bro, you’re thinking of this kid as numbers on a page. Kids are a huge huge commitment with a girl you haven’t even promoted to LTR yet. Don’t have kids until you’re sure, wouldn’t be asking on here if you was entirely sure
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:11 PM
1

Busy yourself with exciting things that fulfil you until you forget who she even is.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:45 PM
2

If she really wanted to move things forward she’d give you her number. Giving the insta is kinda like using the “I have a bf” card
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:43 PM
1

Work on taking her off the pedestal by learning about the biological nature of women, that helped me
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:41 PM
10

I feel that. A while ago I thought I knew everything about the red pill and had internalised it after skimming over the side bar. My frame was glass and my beta ways were creeping back in. For anyone new reading this, stop. go read the sidebar. PROPERLY. And then do it again.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 02:39 PM
3

Look at heartistes 16 commandments of poon. Ignore her beauty, she might have a phat arse but so do 100,000 other girls bro, you just gotta find em
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:01 PM
1

You sound like you're in a great position right now when it comes to TRP. Since learning TRP principles and game I look back on my blue pilled self and find it all too funny. It's funny because I know how stupid it is but, more importantly, because mistakes are funny and I know I'll never go back to that blue pilled state. And neither will you.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:37 AM
2

If you’re looking for red pill stuff then the rational male is at the top of the list.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:16 AM
1

Anyone commuting suicide is bad. Tf?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:13 AM
18

And THIS is why you properly vet someone before promoting them to LTR
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 05:17 PM
1

Probably trying to test your frame to see if you’ll give in to her demands, so yes seems like a shit test You already know not to give in and keep frame Let her text you when she’s done with whatever’s going on
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:34 PM
7

You're both guys, just be direct, ask why he hasn't invited you. If he isn't a pussy he'll be direct back.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:44 AM
14

Then get doing some shit that's worth a shit. Do you get what I'm trying to say? ​ Shit.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:26 AM
16

sounds like you're trying to put kids in your plate rotation
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:43 PM
4

Working all good man, nice work.
/r/becomeaman22/05/20 09:33 AM
2

So with all the medical/anatomical stuff, go to the doctor and explain exactly what you’ve wrote here. If nothings wrong then not much more you can do. With the whole loss of sex drive and erections, you still masturbating excessively? Cut if down if you are
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:57 PM
0

Had this same thing, more of the girl having a joke really but she still wasn’t too sure Ended up FaceTiming in the end, sorted it all out
/r/askTRP21/05/20 09:53 PM
2

This bitch Crazy! Nah onto the next one bro Don’t stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:46 PM
1

Try soft nexting her, see if that changes her mind, other wise, onto the next gal
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:30 PM
3

if you're thinking about saying shit that'll get you put in jail then you need to see someone. other than that, just relax and say whatever you want, if you're really stressing and focusing on being witty you never will be.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:07 PM
1

The answer is you don't matter, nothing does! if you say or don't say that thing, it has no effect on the world as a whole, people still do what they do, the world just keeps on spinning This sorta shits on the sidebar, you just have to go looking.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 03:16 PM
24

Bruv, she has literally 0 respect for you. abundance mindset. So what this bitch is fucking some other geeza, that's her business. You wouldn't care if you were getting laid by some other bitches in the rotation. If you do have a rotation and you're still thinking about her then you're way too overly invested. too emotional. put this wasted energy into something productive: getting huge, improving your rotation/ your game. you know the drill. You might've thought she was the one but she ain't, h…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 02:58 PM
2

Then id says that if you game her when you meet up she'll fuck.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 10:23 PM
1

Depends how big of a pill it is for you to swallow. As long as you're not throwing it back up you're on the right track, really just does depend on where you started just before you found out about TRP. I can't really say how long it takes, only you'll know when it's fully digested.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 10:22 PM
1

did you go and catch up?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 10:13 PM
25

You’ve got a gut feeling bruv, shitty situation still but gotta trust it either way. You know the way these stories go.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:24 PM
1

yeah, hit me up with that my guy. cheers
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:35 PM
1

Great reads, thanks for showing me what to compare every other field report to now. whats the easiest way to find more, just search field report in the main subreddit?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:22 PM
1

Nah I get that, some women are better for you than others. Just remember deep down, they all cut from the same cloth.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:58 PM
2

it's ok what you said, you didn't tell her the exact number. Still, remember Tomassi's iron rules bruv
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:54 PM
1

really all you're doing is working out twice a day, I recommend saturating your muscles with creatine over a certain period of time (you choose, research it) and maybe taking bcaa as well. keep the diet clean as I know from experience that building work employees can become unhealthy just because its easy to step out for a bacon sandwich on your lunch break, don't follow the crowd. it'll be hard the first couple of weeks but your muscles will get used to it
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:50 PM
1

ditch the ex as a "friend" bruv, not the best thing to do as for the Russian girl, eh leave her to chase you, if she doesn't reply fuck that off, don't need it. sounds like you don't have problems getting other girls anyway, there are tons of girls like her if that's what you're into. abundance mindset bruv.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:42 PM
2

seems like a reasonable excuse but still, she should have given you some prior warning. sounds like you're overreacting a little bit. If this is the first time it's happening then tell her it's annoyed you that it was a last-minute cancellation and if it happens again you can hard next her. However, right now it's not a huge issue, she wants to reschedule so make her go out of her way to meet you at a time you find convenient.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:38 PM
12

Get that paternity test asap, you said it yourself, shes into polyamory. Might not even be yours.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:30 PM
5

I get that, sounds too good to be true. Go for the meetup but just keep your wits about you. I'm sure you've heard all the horror stories of girls using the cum from discarded condoms to get pregnant and shit. just keep an eye out for red flags but still have fun.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 04:21 PM
1

she deserves the apple for sure. But think, if you get aggressive with her, shes a girl every white knight beta orbiter is gonna come to her rescue and it'll be 10 against 1. Doesn't matter if they laughed, who are they to you? nobody. You shouldn't be involved with people like that, next time keep a calm frame and either ignore it or say something witty if you can.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:03 PM
5

if she was so "attached" to you she wouldn't have been texting other guys probably saying she was down to fuck. you were in her frame giving her everything she wanted and needed. What was she doing for you?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:00 PM
1

it's just the same with a girl who has a bf, just bc they're together doesn't mean you can't fuck her. there are ways around it. Sounds to me like you're emotionally over-invested with a woman you've not had any sexual contact with. find a new girl and fuck her instead, shows you how they're all the same anyway.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:51 PM
2

set stops?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:41 PM
1

when I started reading the theory I let myself have a couple of days to digest what I read, then for the next couple of days I would try in incorporate it into my life before I moved on
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:40 PM
3

Being cocky with a girl is a great advantage man can have in their arsenal because it can open doors to more humorous conversation and inside jokes. Treating her like actual shit sounds like more of a character flaw to me, why treat her that way if you're happy about who you are. If you've got good enough game and you don't over-invest emotionally then there's no need to be an actual arsehole, just be a lovable one.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 10:14 AM
5

Yeah this one really helped, cheers for the advice bruv
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:09 PM
1

him, I didn't see it like that, what do you suggest I do next?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:44 PM
1

So what's your opinion on the next move? I pull away a bit or just cut it off completely?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:43 PM
1

What do you suggest, I just leave and find some new girl?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:42 PM
4

Haha, this really gave me a smile thanks!
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:51 PM
1

does this mean to any girl you've slept with, no matter if its a ONS or a significant other?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:50 PM
1

Yeah I've got a date set, just playing by ear due to the virus and that.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:48 PM
2

I meant it more as if lockdown wasn't a thing I would have at least fucked her already.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:47 PM
2

4
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:48 PM
2

Yeah i get ads on snap about Lumin all the time, all the adds are all the same
/r/askTRP18/05/20 12:39 PM
1

I loved the way of men, it inspires men who read it to go out into the world and try to build a “tribe” of like minded men. I especially liked the part about how Rome was founded.
/r/MGTOW222/10/19 01:11 PM
4

Brooooooo, I didn’t want to believe it but after reading how serious the comments were I’m feeling sick
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 10:05 AM
2

Yeah true, if some woman doesn’t want to have all those qualities go for it. In doing so you’re cutting of 99% of your available options so blaze away
/r/MGTOW18/04/19 07:45 AM
1

I’m currently reading the book, it’s a massive eye opener
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 10:45 AM
2

The rational male was a big red pill for me, the stuff in that book is truly fascinating.
/r/MGTOW14/04/19 10:08 AM
37

“You good son? Yeah? fist bumps you the MAN let’s go!”
/r/MGTOW13/04/19 04:50 PM
1

Bro this happened for me and I was so ego invested that I wouldn’t let go of the relationship. So much happier I’m now single!
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 05:02 PM
1

People out there really act like this? Unironically?
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 05:01 PM
1

I’m learning from the book “the rational male” while trying to pass my HNC course and become a better “me” alongside that.
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 04:50 PM
1

If I’m supposed to sit there and listen to a girl talk about her period then she can sit there and listen to the absolute colossal nut I had watching porn the other night
/r/MGTOW11/04/19 04:49 PM
1

Once a cheater always a cheater tbh, made a slippery slope by letting it slide the first time. But I wouldn’t be too worried, anyone who asks for a “virtual hug” won’t be stealing your woman anytime soon.
/r/MGTOW09/04/19 08:56 PM
2

Big up post nut clarity!
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 10:11 PM
8

delete it
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 03:01 PM
1

Ultimately, only you can decide whether you were right or not. in my opinion you did a good thing by standing your ground and declining the offer. it very easy to get peer pressured into sex these days and having sex with someone you think is special and cares for you entirely is the best way to go if you are going to have sex at all.
/r/MGTOW08/04/19 02:47 PM
2

Wow, is this just because AWALT or the fact online dating isn’t what it sets out to be?
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 03:05 PM
1

Hope it’s all good out there, Australia’s definitely on the bucket list, enjoy it boss
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 02:45 PM
2

Here’s taps the motherfuckin taps tea.
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 10:10 AM
2

You're in her bubble now fella. you better find a way to pop it and get the hell out of there.
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 09:03 AM
1

Does this involve not wanking as well? I've heard that it raises your testosterone and allows it to stabilise at higher levels.
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 08:58 AM
2

wow, the things you can accomplish GYOW. looks like an awesome room, more power to you my friend!
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 06:58 PM
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