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that wasn’t the argument being made.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 10:06 PM
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there isn't a strong correlation between infidelity and promiscuity with men as it it seems to be particularly strong with women. seen this in the navy with a lot of guys. same dudes we'd go out and they'd be hitting up whore houses and all kinds of strange pussy. then they come home and marry and commit to a woman and don't stray. it's actually very impressive to see
/r/TheRedPill22/03/22 01:33 PM
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I wouldn't say they're down to fuck all the time. Could be on the rag, could not have shaven recently. Plenty of reasons. But the gist is she'll send cues when she is down
/r/TheRedPill22/02/22 05:43 PM
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he's saying be upfront with your non exclusivity. plenty of posts about it in the manosphere. rollo tomassi talks about it a lot too. I'm on the fence about it because a lot of women attempt to use their pussy as a bargaining chip for exclusivity and you're forced to either lie or call the bluff. if her ego is big, and most likely is, then she'll take L but call it a win. but there really was no point in giving up a good fuck for the both of you over some power play. I think bringing up exclusiv…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 04:05 AM
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I just googled it because I had no idea what happened. the chicks claiming to be 'victims' of it aren't exactly dimes. I think if you set your standards low enough you'd be slaying too
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 03:44 AM
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when I enlisted you were required to have a "back up" job or MOS or whatever you wanna call it. since BUD/S had an 80% attrition rate you HAD to pick a job in the likely event you'd wash out. then you had to go thru training on that job BEFORE going to BUD/S. somewhere during my time in the requirement changed to just letting people go straight into the specwar pipeline without a backup. then all the guys washed out were "undesignated" and sent to random commands with whatever job that specific …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 02:06 PM
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He married young though. I didn't know any better at that age either. It's not his fault for being conditioned. Maybe the first and only pussy he got. Does weird things to a young boy.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 12:59 AM
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You could invest in companies that are prioritizing VR. Meta(Facebook) is one.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 12:08 AM
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It honestly is tough to read that stuff man. You really got to turn your life around. Most of us have been through the same kind of stuff. And we can attest that it is possible to change. Just cut her off completely. Delete all means of communication. Focus on yourself. I know you won’t believe me but if you take the steps now I promise you that you will not care at all about this bitch in enough time. In fact you will be thankful for the experience because you’re now fucking more women than you…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 12:20 PM
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You deserved it in the sense that you were asking to be taken advantage of. You set yourself up for that. It’s human nature, especially feminine nature, to hoard attention and resources from a willing provider. She was acting on instinct. I mean who wouldn’t enjoy having a committed servant at their beck and call. And I hate to sound harsh, that money she jacked could’ve been for Chad. I just know whenever I would be seeing a girl and she’d have orbiters she would tell me about how they would of…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 10:56 PM
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that was just your hamster spinning in your brain rationalizing your REALLY strong desire to fuck her. so chill out. if she was ugly you'd never once have a fleeting fuck to give about this bitch
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 02:24 AM
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But please note that you can only reward a woman AFTER she contributes I used to fall in to the trap of listening and believing in promises women would make to me. Then hamster my way in to justifying any rewards I'd give them preemptively. The above quote is very important to your self respect. I think it's similar to the phrase "Don't listen, watch." Similarly you just reward after she actually does something, not what she says she's going to do for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/21 03:49 PM
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I thought it was flawed because his advice was “just have another girl on standby if you breakup.” Yet his reasoning for having a girlfriend was because most dudes don’t have women on standby. So his logic of not spinning plates kinda defeated itself
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 11:53 PM
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you think an inexperienced guy is gonna have another potential girlfriend on standby when things go south with his current girl? that's why it's encouraged to spin plates. to not just learn how to keep women on standby but to actually have women on standby. you don't get that cuffing some girl in hopes of easy access to pussy.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 01:36 AM
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The problem with that is when they start getting jealous of the attention you start giving to other women. You can be “friends” with women. But keep them at arms length. Once they start catching feelings you end up dealing with all the crap that comes with an insecure relationship with none of the benefits.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/21 04:20 AM
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If it smells like shit everywhere you go, check the bottom of your shoe.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/21 12:19 PM
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Some plates break due to rationing. Threatening you if you don’t come over and fuck them right then and there despite your busy schedule. They wanna throw a bluff out like “well then this isn’t working.” Let em. Call their bluff, don’t even reply, and delete the number. You don’t freely give out dick to any and every little tantrum they have.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 06:23 PM
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I personally wouldn’t waste my time dealing with that level of immaturity in a woman I just met. Especially in a business setting. To each their own. I wouldn’t throw a coworker under the bus either, unless they really dropped the ball. But I work with a lot of people who genuinely do their best. Just my 0.02, not to say I haven’t deescalated a foul mood in a client just to make them tolerable for the hour I’m with them
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 11:34 AM
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Your goals can be whatever you want them to be. If you do want to settle down, there’s nothing wrong with that. I just would not do that with this particular caliber of woman. And I’m just trying to get you to see that. So if/when you do, fine, just have better standards for yourself. Because the risk is incredibly high. There’s also nothing wrong with being old and bald and still fucking around either. It’s whatever you want it to be
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 11:53 AM
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You’re still rationalizing here though. What has she done to warrant a future with you other than ride your dick? And you’re thinking about settling down. When age has run it’s course on her depreciating looks. Does that logically make sense? Do you see what you’re doing here? The hamstering? That’s why I have to be blunt with you. It makes no difference what she says. Stop listening to her and watch her. What do her actions say? Go back to fucking your other girls and forget about her. Maybe sh…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 11:34 AM
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Attempting to use red pill strategy for blue pill goals. You need to cut the bullshit. You’re rationalizing your behavior and it’s obviously not working out for you. Why on earth would you entertain the idea of commitment with a woman who is explicitly wanting to have fun?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 11:07 AM
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Every person I’ve met from Monterrey has been pretty chill
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 11:54 PM
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5 dates a week sounds exhausting
/r/TheRedPill09/10/21 10:52 PM
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Once you start experiencing abundance you essentially become the one with expectations. The script flips. The only difference is your list can be something as simple as: 1) pretty 2) not fat 3) has a personality 4) is pleasant to be around 5) has a decent body That washes out a good portion of the pool there. And that’s just to get fucked. For consistent dating material she needs to upgrade to be able to at least: 1) boil water 2) have some sort of skill that compliments yours or better That’s u…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/21 10:32 AM
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Lemme know if you end up finding a link to that post. Sounds like a great analogy
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 12:37 PM
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I had to deal with some issues after rejecting a girl. Luckily she didn’t go to the school or anything. But she ostracized me from my social group. I don’t have problems making new friends but literally everyone, including my “bros” fell off. A few of her friends did hit me up but this bitch was mad looney and I just wanted as much distance as possible. You can’t even tell a girl no without her trying to ruin you. I was nice about it and everything
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 07:28 PM
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Not him but he made a point about reputation. Being a guy who can and will get around if he feels like it has vastly helped me far more than it ever has hurt me. Blue pill conditioning (and bitter women) would tell you that women find that unattractive, which is not the case in my experience. They may say one thing, but their actions are always the opposite. You don’t have to relationship your way in to kinky stuff either. That can be done the first night if the vibe and chemistry is on point. A…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 01:22 AM
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One of the most hurtful things you can do to a woman is to be completely fine without her. Their ego is heavily invested in their ability to obtain and maintain a following of simps/orbiters so she has options depending on whatever mood she may be in. A man who showed interest and it wasn’t reciprocated? Well in the past they’d turn in to friendzoned orbiters she can keep around for validation. Hoping they’d win her over eventually. But not this one guy. Nope. He had options himself and realized…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 09:37 PM
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The thing with women categorizing men is that it’s very fluid. You can start out in creep category and, if you have the social intelligence, pick up on that and leave her alone. But all she needs is to witness other women who lust after you to change her opinion.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 11:36 AM
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small percentage of women orgasm through sex What’s your source of this? Common myth I see floating around is women don’t like sex. Women love sex just as much, if not more, as men do.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 03:54 PM
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In example 3: giving gifts on your schedule, what to do if your attention is demanded more? To the point of ultimatums. I’ve been simply letting the plates break. Some of them reach out a month later or so, rinse and repeat. But if it’s a common occurrence with the majority of women I see intimately, is this a Me problem? Am I too elusive? I get the impression some of the more insecure ones simply want to monopolize my time and attention to ensure I’m not fucking other women. But even the more c…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 02:22 PM
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For what it’s worth, I enjoyed your posts and reading different perspectives. Don’t abandon TRP due to debate. That’s what makes this place what it is. Sharing different ideas
/r/TheRedPill22/08/21 09:14 PM
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Men participate in relationships and marriage because it’s “guaranteed” pussy. They play the game they think they need to play to secure a consistent supply of sex. This however hardly plays out how they believed it would. Men have a funny way of convincing themselves they are “in love” with a woman who simply turns them on. There’s a lot of posts in this sub related to hypergamy. You can see examples of it in everyday media. It’s promoted in pop culture. They don’t flat out call it hypergamy. B…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 12:12 AM
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You just got tired of dealing with it your whole life. Now that you can afford living without it, why would you willingly bring it back in to your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:41 AM
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Think he’s referring to AF/BB. That men can be that guy who meets a “need” without having to commit. It’s an argument for red pill when you can protect your most valuable asset (time, attention, commitment) as a man and still be able to get a woman’s most valuable asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 11:05 PM
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Women can not handle rejection. Yes it will upset her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:44 PM
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treat them like NPCs who don’t have a shop This was fucking hilarious. And actually spot on once I thought about how I treat women who I don’t find interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 10:18 PM
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I’m legit curious if she’ll ever run out of scenarios. Keep this updated. I wanna see how creative she gets
/r/TheRedPill06/07/21 12:48 AM
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You gotta think that’s kinda what becoming a man is gonna be. Managing that risk without any help. Because imagine providing for a wife and kids. Now not only is your life fucked, so are your kids, if you fuck up. When all my grandparents died, I see the change in both my mom and dad. They know they are truly alone now. So they find purpose in something.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:28 PM
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I’ve instinctively just always stared at the lips. Ever since I was a kid. Felt like I could read lips better than eyes. I’m a little hard of hearing too I guess. But no one has ever noticed. In fact, now when I do try to look in the eyes just to try it, people ask me why I’m staring at their hair. Guess they so used to me watching the mouth it looks off when I actually do make eye contact.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:22 PM
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What makes one girl cum might not work at all for another girl. Just keep getting experience so you have an arsenal to pull from to make sure she gets hers.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 12:59 PM
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She wanted you to chase and be all broken up about it. She’s mad you were chill. I’d remove her from all social media. The way you win with women is not caring. She’s trying to make you care so she feels like she wins the breakup. It boosts her ego if she’d have you begging for her back. Her plan didn’t work and now she’s taking her frustration out on you. Again just remove from all social media so she can’t see you and she has no way of trying to make you jealous. Because it won’t stop. Bitches…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 12:29 PM
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You sound young. Honestly would not worry about that shit right now. Shouldn’t even be on your radar. Just have fun with women don’t think about cuffing them
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:25 AM
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The point I was trying to make is to stop worrying about it. You come off as if you’re trying to screen for LTR with random strangers you’re meeting. And you claim you stay off social media yet you obsess over snap score? You too invested
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:10 AM
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What part are you having trouble with?
/r/askTRP22/06/21 01:04 AM
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Some dude on the main sub like a year ago brought up just sending a funny gif or emoji or some shit. Super low investment and it seems to keep shit spinning a bit longer for me. But eventually a chick doesn’t wanna feel like a booty call. Well most I guess. So even if you are fucking her good she will bounce if she doesn’t feel like any commitment from you is realistic. Or maybe you’re not fucking her good enough. I don’t know I just don’t really care. They were a plate for a reason, not LTR mat…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:23 AM
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Don’t go digging in the trash
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:18 AM
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The shit you worry about. Why are you even having these “who you talking to” talks with girls you’re just meeting? Stop that.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:17 AM
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You’re obviously still putting her on a pedestal. Oh cool she likes to weld. And? Is that what it takes now to be a 10/10? You will never truly have abundance until you learn that no ONE woman is special.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 02:14 AM
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Every day there’s posts for people looking for motivation porn. It’s tiring. Either do it or don’t. Reddit is one giant echo chamber. Has you convinced you have a mental health problem and thus you self limit. Do whatever you want. If you think you can continue this path as you age.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 11:31 AM
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It’s meant to be polarizing. One of the reasons being so the same stuff doesn’t consistently get brought up. It does anyways. But no one is telling you to take it as gospel, the narrative is it is simply a toolset. You use it how you see fit. You seem to have used it to be paranoid and insecure in a relationship. A man with a different idea would have used the same scenario you presented and not given two shits because he knows he has options. The two of you just happened to apply the tools diff…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 11:14 PM
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What always worked for me is to fix this situation yourself. If she can’t decide if she’s cool with you or not, make it easier for both of you and just not be cool. You don’t have time to be figuring out where you stand with someone every day. Don’t play the “are we friends or not” game. Take ownership of the situation and just don’t be friends with her. Watch that hamster reach overdrive.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 11:38 AM
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You letting dumb shit get to you. Just be (one of) the dude(s) fucking them. You don’t plan to wife this bitch up so why does it matter
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:47 PM
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Right. And if there’s a term I see here that irritates me the most it has to be “potential LTR.” Just go out and HAVE FUN. Stop with all this relationship stuff for now. You’d be surprised how much better for your mental health you’ll feel when you stop expecting women to be relationship material. Do you REALLY lack options? Or are you just “disqualifying” chicks way too easily?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:20 PM
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You all up in your feelings. This is why people preach about not having these long convos. She got you where she wants you. You thinking about cuffing her and she hasn’t even fucked you. Had you take her for two free meals. “LTR oriented” is just you hamstering your lack of game. The fact is you don’t need to be doing all this shit to fuck her. And you’re putting relationship before something casual. Why award a woman who hasn’t proved herself to you? Her job is to prove she’s LTR material. Your…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:29 PM
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I’ve competed both naturally and on gear. My personal opinion is that if you’re not competing and making a living off it, it’s kinda pointless to do the big stacked cycles. If you have the funds sure but it really does seem like a waste of money. I think if you wanna just take a little test and call it a day then great. It does help with mood and energy levels, recovery and gym intensity. And of course physique. But you need to stay on top of bloodwork, checking your lipids, monitoring your bloo…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:19 PM
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You mean maternal?
/r/askTRP18/06/21 01:02 PM
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That’s good man but you said yourself you were just focused on the number. So now you have the numbers of different women who live in different parts of the world. Good, but the logistics suck on that. Next exercises should be focused on women who will be down to hang that night. Or women closer to your home base. But good job. It’s not so hard if you just do it eh?
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:22 PM
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Something similar happened to me. Hindsight is 20/20 but now you know even party girls need to be vetted. Better to not let alcohol be an excuse. Have plenty of witnesses who can vouch she wasn’t drunk. Hoes with boyfriends can and will lie to save face before “others find out.” So she can’t have any reason to think you’d blab about fucking her. And it’s best not to make it obvious you two are going to fuck when it’s happening (like a party). She’s doing damage control. Let her. Don’t confront h…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:06 AM
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You gonna have to sample the goods and decide for yourself
/r/askTRP16/06/21 04:38 PM
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Yeah fuck that. She wants orbiters
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:52 PM
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I can only assume you are financially compensated fairly for your education. So you know how much your time is worth. So outside of work you know your value. And you know any girl that wants to waste it gets the can. Does that offer a different mindset?
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:01 PM
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Wait a minute. “Met on tinder.” Then why the fuck is she on there if she’s not looking to meet? I’d personally say drop it. Not putting in work for a tinder thot
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:59 PM
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“Yeah we trade Pokémon cards” But imma tell you right now usually these types of bitches are the most boring lays. If you jump through all these hoops and play your cards right you’re gonna be legitimately mad at her for putting up with her stupid shit for some trash pussy. Just saying. I could be wrong. But now I don’t have time to convince a bitch so I just move on to the next. I prefer the dynamic where we’re both feeling each other and having fun. Not chasing
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:57 PM
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And another thing… people in the hospital are at the lowest they’ve ever been. Dealing with life changing shit. It’s fine to show some empathy so they can start to trust you. You gotta juggle a lot of patients, a little investment in each one so they don’t become another number will do wonders for you and the patient
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:43 PM
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What I’ve found is that you need to be realistic. That is if you give a shit about your patients. You can be “dominant” and give orders but once the patient goes home they’re not going to do anything you told them. You need to build rapport with the patients so they’re comfortable being honest with you. Figure out what they’ll realistically be doing once they leave the hospital, and then come up with a game plan to keep them at their highest level at home. As you’ll see, many of them come right …
/r/askTRP16/06/21 02:40 PM
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There it is thank you brother
/r/askTRP16/06/21 01:05 AM
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He told you to go for it. You didn’t. He did. Cut him off if you want he still gonna be fucking and you’re not. Or. You could actually listen to him. Hang with him and see how he is with women. Try to learn a few things.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:43 PM
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You think just being attractive makes them a “good one?” You think just because they have a boyfriend they’re a “good one?”
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:31 PM
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Things ain’t looking good for your boy joe. Not much you can do but still be a friend as you watch him waste his time. Because he most likely ain’t gonna listen. Happened to a lot of my friends too. And we stopped hanging out. Come to find out later they were, of course, fucked over by their girl. But by that point we weren’t really close anymore. Part of maturing is letting people make mistakes. Sure you can warn them but you always seem to come off wrong and build some animosity. Once I had a …
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:24 PM
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Escalate and you’ll have your answer
/r/askTRP15/06/21 08:13 PM
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Just let her go. You’ve already posted about this right? Looks familiar. You need to move on. Don’t worry about her, she is not your problem anymore. And don’t be surprised when she does exactly what she claims she didn’t want to do with you with the next guy who gives her the tingles.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 11:24 AM
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I’ve done it with both success and failure. Either way I don’t give a flying fuck. I’ll still go to the same spot and put in my work.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:25 AM
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Not gonna lie it’s annoying when someone just sits on a machine not doing anything when I’d like to use it. Granted I wouldn’t be rude bout it. Usually these situations are best handled by letting the other person stay angry, completely dismissing them and moving on like they never existed. He comes huffing up all bent about it. You casually reply “nah” barely even acknowledging him and then move on continuing your convo with your bro. You hold frame. He’s the only one upset in the situation. An…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:18 AM
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How are you spinning plates yet still believing a unicorn is frolicking out in the wild somewhere?
/r/askTRP15/06/21 12:02 AM
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Muscle, money, and status. The body simply can’t run forever. You’ll come to terms with that your own way. Staying fit will keep you active long into old age. But you’re not gonna be lifting heavy weights forever. You find what the body can handle and stick to it. For some old people it’s a nice walk in the park. Money is great. I say it’s great to chase it. But don’t lose sight of the most valuable. That’s your time. You can make all the money but if you don’t enjoy your (limited) time doing it…
/r/askTRP14/06/21 11:59 PM
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What do you mean treat you like a doormat? You both are allowed to fuck and hang with whoever you want. If you can’t separate your emotions from it then you’re not ready to be FWB with her. It’s that simple
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:56 PM
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Just not my type. Preferences ya know
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:02 AM
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I like the anonymity of this right now I don’t wanna say too much. I’ll just say I’m in the medical field. So plenty of work for me
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:00 AM
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I’d say Fort Worth then. Texas is really flat and there’s not so much to do. But texas is also big as shit and if you’re willing to drive a little there’s a lot of great camping. And hunting all around. I’m personally fond of latinas and found a plethora of them down with white guys. As for traditional girls… I’m afraid just in general those odds are decreasing. But still I’d say texas. Florida has hispanic/Latina (always get the diff between those two fucked up) but it’s like Cuban chicks. I pr…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:17 PM
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I’ve actually lived in both surprisingly. Think it boils down to your personality. I for one loved Florida. I moved around a ton and Florida I felt I could just plop right down and make friends left and right. I also love being by the water. Fort Worth is nice as it’s a city but still maintains a small town vibe. It’s like living in a city but not having to deal with the shit that comes with a city. It’s growing though. I found it harder than Florida to make as many friends but could’ve just bee…
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:54 PM
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Nothing. Do nothing. On to the next one!
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:49 PM
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Envy and apathy are two different things though. I just wouldn’t take it personally. But I don’t know the full situation, just going off some words here. I’m just imagining an old friend hitting me up and asking to promote his Herbalife stuff. Or an old friend “checking in” on me only to find out he just wants me to follow his account to bump his numbers up. Social media in general just creates problems where none would ever exist prior. As a man, I wouldn’t get emotionally invested in it. Just …
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:24 PM
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I don’t think the crabs in a bucket mentality applies here. That’s when people actively try to bring you down. Them not wanting to follow you is 100% their decision. You come off as entitled when you can’t accept that people simply don’t want to. And cutting people off over not validating your social media presence is, for lack of a better term, bitch behavior. I personally don’t want to feel obligated to like everyone’s pictures and follow and all that shit because I frankly don’t have the time…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:02 PM
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You’re gonna get two types of replies here. One camp is gonna say breakup and communicate that with her. The other is gonna say quietly demote to plate, let her think she’s in the LTR, but you go about fucking other women. Regardless of which avenue you take, the fact you’re here and asking this question is telling. She did not meet the standards you have made for an LTR.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:58 PM
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tbh it sounds like you are. That’s why I said you should own your mood. You’re so worried you’re gonna “lose” her with your behavior. Typical TRP stuff to work on… operating from a scarcity mindset, being afraid to lose her, being in her frame, not solidifying your frame, not thinking you’re the prize. As an exercise, if you’re having an off day (or week), just embrace it. That’s your frame. Do not worry about hers. Do not be afraid to lose her because in reality, if she can’t tolerate not being…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:20 PM
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Sounds like a mushroom trip I was on once. I was afraid I was gonna get “stuck” like that and go insane. The beauty of those challenging trips is it teaches you acceptance and that everything is temporary. You sound logical. You know deep down that is an illogical thought. Who you are at your base will always come through. Just having an off day
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:10 PM
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You’re human. You’re allowed to have different emotions or be in certain moods. Just chill out and let go of trying to be “on” 24/7. You ever been around someone who just HAS to be “on” all the time? Yeah, they’re fucking annoying. Just relax dude, and embrace each mood for what it is.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 12:25 PM
1

Call it whatever you want, the fact is she’s looking to find better and I don’t blame her. You’re too clingy and possessive because you lack options. And she sniffs that out in you and is repulsed by it. How would you feel if a chick whose not even fucking you tells you that you’re not allowed to fuck other women? That’s the same going on here. Except instead of sex, she’s looking for commitment. She’s not going to get it from you so why the fuck should she listen to you? Stop making up terms to…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:27 PM
2

There are some type of women who are down to be seen like once a month. They usually have a pretty unique personality. And the plates are a little more fragile (they feel like a booty call, they get a boyfriend, etc) so they may not spin as long but it’s possible. I’d just leverage your time how YOU see fit and the plates that break because of it, so be it. You just let the ones that still spin do their thing.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:01 PM
2

If she’s not an LTR why are you trying to control her? You are controlling. She was right. Why you trying to do some distance relationship? Those don’t work. Ever.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:52 AM
1

Do you not see her in person? If not then I’d just hit her up like nothing happened. Just “what you up to?” See where it goes.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:24 PM
1

Ah ok. Cuz that was sounding like gf stuff. Which changes the dynamic a bit. I wouldn’t worry about any game she tries to play. It’s really up to you. If she’s disrespectful you need to decide if you’re gonna tolerate that or just how much of it you will to walk the line of still fucking her. But this kind of behavior is pretty much inevitable with a girl you’ve been seeing so long. She’s frustrated she’s not getting commitment. Eventually she’ll probably look for it elsewhere and plates do brea…
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:19 PM
1

You have other plates but you were seeing her and fucking her every day?
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:11 PM
3

Just keep trying. Experience will teach best. I don’t recommend dance approaching. If you dance well enough the girls will approach you. Or they’ll start to post up near you. Dance by you. Bump into you. Etc. But running up and grinding on a bitch may be too much for right now. If you wanna dance I recommend some country places. Tons of chicks looking for a two step dancing partner. Two step is easy as shit to pick up too. All that shit aside... try just going out to have fun. Not hyper focused …
/r/askTRP06/06/21 10:00 PM
3

Never read it but I see a lot of people recommend “sex god method.” And as the other guy said: experience. It seems like every girl has their own way of reaching orgasm so your best bet is to be versatile in helping her get there.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:48 PM
6

I feel like that will never truly go away. But we know that our ability of obtaining that validation won’t last forever. What you can do is develop hobbies and passions that do last. So you begin to see the value your time has and think twice about wasting it on trying to prove you can attract women. I’m not going to lie I feel the same. I’m at the recognition phase of dealing with it. I don’t know whether I should fight to end it or accept it and live with it but in a healthier way. And I’m cur…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:54 PM
1

If you’re not getting the vibe that a chick doesn’t wanna hang. Like you’re doing the dancing monkey routine trying to convince her. Then maybe you should just take the no. Plenty of other women you can vibe with better. Also I’d avoid any sort of social media trading. That’s putting yourself in orbiter territory. Once they get that follow they don’t need you. Imagine had you just said “alright you don’t wanna hang no prob have a good night” then continued on and ran into some girls who you just…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 05:56 PM
1

Glad to hear man. Don’t stress about awkward kisses or setting the date out too far. If that’s the only time you two can swing it then it is what it is. Remember this is about her impressing you, not you being the dancing monkey for her. If her attention span falls short in just a week I’d say you dodged some low hanging fruit.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 11:25 AM
2

I don’t really buy in to that kind of reasoning. The point is you can choose to do whatever you want and handle any situation as strategically as you prefer. My masculinity isn’t in question of an arbitrary honor code
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:14 AM
3

No problem man good luck to you. Remember just set the frame and vibe with her. She’ll follow along or not. Either way have a good time
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:45 PM
5

I mean there’s always a chance. But it’s unlikely. Soft nexting, to me, is p much saying “look bitch you’re not good enough for me to tolerate you wasting my time, I can and will fuck someone else, if you still want my dick then you hit me up, if not no hurt feelings bye now.” Thats my logical approach to this, and I obviously don’t logically explain that, I just show it. Bc women only understand your actions. Sure in magical dream world if you’re crazy high SMV and an actor or rockstar she MAY …
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:42 PM
2

You need time away from each other. Don’t ruin this shit
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:34 PM
5

You talking about iceberg slim?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:29 PM
11

Sure. Keep in mind it’s all about mood. And the vibe. Whatever flows in the moment. So my particular examples may not apply or may come off weird given the situation. They just happened to work in my particular situation. Starting with a hug is great. I definitely agree with that. First example is a girl I met doing OLD and when we sat down we started talking. And she had mentioned she got really done up for the date. Saying she even got a manicure. And all I did was say “oh lemme see” and grabb…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:26 PM
12

With OLD you need to streamline shit otherwise you’re just gonna waste your time. And if you have any self respect for your time, then you need to set standards to get what you want out of OLD. Back when you initially messaged and she said she was busy it should’ve stopped then. It’s a dating app. You use it for dates. She swiped on a guy who was looking to date. You see what I’m getting at? Do not let her waste your time. For that scenario you could’ve just soft nexted, left the ball in her cou…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:08 PM
12

In my experience you don’t talk. You touch. Don’t think about “sexual questions.” Keep the convo fun and flirty and just touch her when it flows. One of my favorite things women do is when I touch her in a flirty way and I get those quick wide eyes then the sudden transition to a relaxed subtle smirk. Know I’m in from there on. Then getting her back to mines is something as simple as going home to watch a movie. Girls wanna fuck just as much as you. If not more. You just gotta make her FEEL like…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:52 PM
1

These are questions you shouldn’t worry about right now. I get the vibe you’re jumping ahead trying to search for a unicorn. Just focus on having fun and fucking a few hoes right now. But nah I think that’s a myth. I could be wrong tho. Just don’t give a fuck bout it
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:42 PM
2

Mid 30’s. Having kids would be nice. But I haven’t met a single woman yet who could mother my children. It is what it is. The way I see it, getting old without kids is a real possibility. So I’m planning for it. Setting my nest egg so when I’m senile I’ll at least have the funds for decent care. I think a dog would be enough for me though. I’m a simple dude.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:34 PM
15

There’s MARRIED women who fuck around with a dude then get mad at that dude for fucking around with other chicks. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:22 PM
1

It is yeah. I think regardless communicating with her or not, she WILL get emotional and spiteful.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:33 PM
5

Maybe communicating with her that the LTR isn’t gonna work is the right thing to do. But in my experience, and I’m only claiming anecdotally, she’s gonna be spiteful regardless. And there’s always that awkward phase where she’s dead set on trying to make you jealous afterwords. And then you gotta deal and navigate that new dynamic with a bitch you’re not even fucking. So when I already gave a bitch a chance to honor my word and she disrespected it, then I don’t see the point in giving her any mo…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:27 PM
77

You didn’t vet properly. Stop offering commitment so easily. This is behavior you should’ve sussed out beforehand. I personally wouldn’t bring it up. Just quietly demote back to plate and keep fucking other bitches. That’s me tho. I’m not the jealous type
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:55 PM
5

You just do. “Fake it til you make it.” Never drove a manual in my life. Wanted to learn. Went into the dealership and my first car I bought was stick shift. Forced myself to learn. People so afraid to fail. To leave their comfort zone. You’re not gonna grow doing the same shit and being “safe” all the time. It’s all about action. Spend all your days reading and analyzing but you gotta eventually apply some shit. Yes you will fail a few times. Maybe a lot. But a failure teaches you so much. If y…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:57 PM
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I think all it takes is one. If you can manage to fuck just one of them you’ll change your mindset about the situation. And it will become a self fulfilling process because then you’ll carry yourself better. When I was younger I had the same thoughts about latinas. I was convinced I was simply invisible to them. But I fucked one and suddenly I’m drowning in em. So set a goal of just one. Surely there’s at least ONE out there you can seduce. After that one I think your outlook will become much mo…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:23 AM
10

Some women are simply not interesting past their pussy. It’s a post nutt clarity thing. You realize the only thing they had going for them is sex. I suggest having relations with women who are at least somewhat interesting or fun to be around. Then you don’t feel like you’re wasting your time when you’re hanging out with them past fucking.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 03:30 PM
7

Sounds like your friend doesn’t have many options and is hung up entertaining a particularly unsavory woman. Tell your friend to stop being a pussy and escalate. If she doesn’t reciprocate then he was the emotional tampon while she’s with the other dude. Why he is even validating this kind of behavior in a girl is just stupid to me but whatever. If he’s thinking of getting into a relationship with this chick then punch him in the face for being an idiot. Or better yet let him and then when he ge…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 01:26 PM
1

Unfortunately no. His son has been alive longer without a father than with now.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:29 PM
9

Just think of it in binary. Would you or wouldn’t you? That simple. Sometimes all it takes is a fat ass and I’m good to go. Could be with a bad bitch and I’ll STILL want some homely looking girl with the right attitude and a good body.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 10:01 PM
77

Same thing happened to me around 24. He left behind two kids. Went through a ton of emotions processing it. But eventually I refused to let it be a negative experience. Not telling you how to handle it, or how to feel. Just sharing my coping strategy. I didn’t let him die in my mind. I took all that I admired about him and made it a part of me. So he lived on in me. Like your buddy, he was always a positive energy to be around. And had incredible work ethic. I was a lazy bum. So like a light swi…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:43 PM
1

Logistics off on this one. Why not pick a spot closer?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 10:01 PM
1

I’m gonna go out on a limb and say those people who claim “find your passion and you’ll never work a day in your life” are full of it. Took me about a decade of figuring out what I DIDNT want to do in life. Then finally finding my passion, pursued it, and now living it. I love my job. But it is fucking work. I love my off days too. I can put in the hours, feel immensely rewarded, but it will always be a job. Not my life. Those two will always be separate for me. And as I’ve matured I’m firm in t…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:43 AM
19

The problem with this is it’s usually dudes with not much to lose. Whereas if you’re even remotely successful, an assault charge just fucks everything up. You almost have to convince the guy to attack you first before you lay into him. Words aren’t enough.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:35 AM
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Same thing with me. I used to be scrawny and no one fucked with me. Got into bodybuilding, did a few competitions, and without fail there’s always some dude just trying to start shit out of nowhere. I think dudes are just becoming more feminine. Getting really insecure when around someone they feel inferior to so they act like women. But instead of female covert fighting, they’re more overt about it. I’d consider it a compliment man. Just think the power your presence holds that is enough to wor…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 02:32 AM
9

Do your time, serve honorably, then get out and move on
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:25 PM
7

“The one that got away” Stop with that. You gonna be sorely disappointed when you find out your unicorn has been fucking round this whole time you’ve been pining for her. Cut the oneitis crap out. Just go on a damn date. Escalate. If it doesn’t work then move on to another one.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:24 PM
2

You gotta steer the relationship in that direction. She’s either on board or not. There are women who can be in a relationship with you and respect your space if you set that boundary
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:19 PM
2

All this over a cyber gf? Chill dude it’s not that serious. Just like turn the computer off or something
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:02 AM
6

In my experience it only helps. If by dislike you mean they shit test you more then think of that as a positive.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:28 PM
3

I’ve had a few friends like this. Comes off as cringe and try hard more than it benefits the dude. Plus if the goal is to get more girls from this action, they’re less likely to get involved with you because you can’t keep shit private. Bitches don’t want everyone knowing they’re slutting around. If you’re desperate to prove you can get a girl to other girls it’s best when it comes off organically. Let them see you talk with other girls, let them witness how other girls look at you, let them see…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:24 PM
2

I did it and didn’t learn my lesson the first time two times I came close to some me too shit from bitter bitches when I fucked other women. Do not risk your future. Plenty of other women at school
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:40 PM
5

Yes plausible deniability and anti slut defense. Meaning yes go for a walk. You can’t just show up ready to fuck, you gotta have fun with her the first time. No bitch wanna tell her fellow bitches her “date” with a dude was in a car talking. Just go have a good time then take her home.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:38 AM
1

My point is she is in your head. Where she knows she is. Stop giving her attention. Like for real this time
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:31 AM
1

They need love too regardless if you’re just starting out or a seasoned vet.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:26 AM
0

She wants to be “more than a fuck.” You can make her feel that while still fucking her. Just play the game. But keep playing the field until she stops playing this particular game with you
/r/askTRP23/05/21 12:18 AM
1

You don’t give her any attention yet you know who she follows and all that shit?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:44 PM
2

I tend to lean in this camp. But you’re talking to dudes brand new to this kind of mentality. Dudes who didn’t vet properly, or LTR’d the first girl who didn’t reject them. Guys real emotional about it. Getting attached too quick. So you gonna get some blowback. There’s power in not caring. Tremendous power. That said if this dude vetted properly and she qualified herself and this shit came out the blue (unlikely) then yeah I’d ghost
/r/askTRP22/05/21 09:06 PM
1

I wouldn’t call it fake. I’m sure she likes to do it. I’m sure she means it. It simply isn’t JUST for you. You can still have fun with her. You can still fuck her. But I personally would not give her commitment. That should be reserved for better prospects.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:24 AM
1

The point of a red flag is that it negates all the perceived positives you can hamster up. Yes attention whores are not LTR material. YOU decide what YOU want to do with her. But anything over a plate is too much in my opinion and experience. All that love bombing she does with you she will do with another guy. And that poster was right. She will cheat because she’s insecure and needs validation 24/7.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 11:15 AM
3

Regardless of what form, women can’t handle rejection. I’ve found that eventually if you keep her in limbo she will eventually attempt to make you jealous to try and build her attraction up. If you act like you’re a little disgusted by her action and distance yourself it helps. In her mind she thinks she’s “won” by making you jealous but you get to leave the situation. Chances are she’ll cling to whatever guy she can bc she thinks it’s affecting you. Viola you’re free from her.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:26 AM
13

Overthinking. Her decision, her thought process, her issues... any of that is not your concern. After that text you should just reply with “k no worries” and delete her number and forget about her. Go pursue other women. You gave this one a chance, she didn’t take it, and she wasted your time in the process. That was time you could’ve spent meeting a new better girl who actually wants to hang.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:13 AM
3

You’re obviously upset your bro got a gf. But be happy for him. Leave him alone and go find cool shit to do without him.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:15 PM
1

Either you do or you don’t. Decide and commit to your decision
/r/askTRP20/05/21 11:06 PM
1

You have your standards. She’s not meeting them.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:30 PM
8

She sounds like she’s interested but wants some support from her friend bc she may be nervous. So she wants you to bring a buddy so her friend can feel like she has a date too. If you wanna see her one in one I’m sure there will be plenty of opportunities when you guys do go out. Just find the right moment and isolate, escalate, you know the drill.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:24 PM
21

Marriage already isn’t a particularly beneficial deal for men. And you’re thinking about doubling up on that?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 10:21 PM
43

You answered your own questions. All of the stuff you mentioned is something you must provide for yourself. Part of becoming a man is realizing you’re the only one responsible for your life. May feel lonely at first but if you look at it through the lens of freedom it’s incredibly powerful. Women are simply the icing on the cake. Fickle pretty things that are good for a moment. Invite them in to your world so they can experience the life you have created for yourself. And keep them there as long…
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:25 PM
1

The fact she was a gf is gonna make handling this FWB situation different. You need to be okay with her fucking other guys. It helps to fuck other women. Whatever you need to do to get your mindset right in that she is only there to drain your balls and occasionally hang out a little with. But don’t invest any emotion into her. My guess is she’s branch swinging as we speak. Or has already been starting the process. So you gotta be okay with that. As long as you’re making her cum, she will most l…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 01:14 PM
2

Ok so what’s your other option? Cancel your plans to move and grow and experience life. Fully commit to her. Give her everything she needs. Bend over backwards for her. Maybe even marry her. Then later find out she’s been cheating on you, divorces you, and you get to pay her every month afterwards. Then you get a great opportunity looking back at life with tremendous regret for settling with a disrespectful woman and never experiencing life on your terms, but hers. You’re too available to her. Y…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:31 PM
2

You’ll never regret doing what’s best for YOU. You will always regret compromising your aspirations and experiences for a woman. Those kind of situations seem to always end up unfortunate for the man. If she’s being weird and you don’t like it, withdraw attention. She’ll either work to get it back by being sweet again, or she’ll get vindictive and play games in which case it will make dumping her all the more easier.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 12:04 PM
2

Personal accountability and self respect. If you honor your word to yourself and knock out goals you have made then you’ll never let anyone define you. You’ve put in the work, experienced the results firsthand, and they’re booing from the bleachers.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:45 PM
11

Stop putting them on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:28 PM
4

I just think outlets for masculinity are disappearing at an alarming rate. Soon there will be no place to go for young boys who have a sense that shit just ain’t adding up for them. Take in account of all the broken homes and boys being raised by single mothers who essentially use them to receive resources from daddy government. For anyone interested take a look at Tracey Richter. This bitch got away with murder of an innocent boy for a decade, ruined the lives of several men, and was praised as…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 10:16 PM
4

Doesn’t even have to be more attractive. Could just have a better ass/ nicer body/ funner personality. Doesn’t take much to move on. Why it’s always preached to GFTOW. You see that your preferences are varied
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:17 PM
4

You do what you think is best but how I’d personally handle it (and I’m speaking from experience) is to just stop being her friend. Keep it at acquaintance level at most. But stop hanging with her, stop texting back and forth, stop giving her time and attention. I wouldn’t even invite her out and drop the hookup line. That’s just me. And from my personal past with bitches who tried to lead me on. And the only thing that ultimately lead to me “winning” in the end. But I only say that bc your stor…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:32 AM
9

Look at all this hamstering you’re doing. Seriously man, take a step back and examine the situation. She was the one who initially said no to the solo invite. That was her friend zoning you. Just because you replied (and lied) doesn’t mean you did it to her. You’re making the mistake of thinking women have egos comparable to men. We value different things. Her ego is definitely not hurt, it’s at an all time high. What is this talk with morality and “right thing to do?” Says who? Your dick? If sh…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:41 AM
1

Sometimes it’s a control thing. They know they have that security while they still try to see if anyone can else can “steal” her. Insecurity plays in as well. She may be deathly afraid of being rejected so picks a guy she really feels nothing for but knows he’d never have an opportunity to cheat on her
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:46 AM
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You can still bond with women just stop thinking they’re magical unicorns that will fix all of life’s problems. Fix your shit yourself. Women can tack along. And don’t kid yourself. A woman is not gonna just love you for being you. Just like you’re not gonna love some haggard whale for being herself. You both have to bring something the other wants to the table.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:39 AM
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You didn’t friendzone her, she friendzoned you. That letter specifically says she’s thankful for FRIENDS. It’s by no means a love letter. You bent over backwards for some chick getting her a job trying to convince yourself she’s a good friend. Women make horrible friends, don’t kid yourself. On top of all this she got you to break up with your girl. You got played. And you’re still getting played. You invested way too much into this. Look at everything you’ve done in hopes to get in her pants. W…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:26 AM
21

You beat this by doing some of the nastiest most vile shit with other girls. So no matter what kinda kinky stuff she does to you/for you... you’ll always know you’ve done worse
/r/askTRP10/05/21 10:29 PM
8

Her telling you she used to be a hoe is p much saying “in the past I’d be riding your dick rn but I’m a new woman and you must court me properly now.” Fucking was prob in the back of her mind. But she wanted you to work and dance like a monkey for her. Again, best to avoid this kind of situation in the future by making it “just happen.”
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:55 PM
15

ASD. Might’ve been a bit much inviting her over to yours for drinks. Girls wanna fuck but don’t wanna seem like a hoe bout it. A good medium is to do something outside or in public and THEN head back to yours after the flirting. Sex is supposed to “just happen” for her. Not a “I’m going over to fuck him” thing. Some good things to give her plausible deniability once you wanna take things back to yours: let’s watch that movie back at mines. I’m craving some cookies let’s go home and bake some. Co…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:22 PM
2

Anecdotally, since you asked, I don’t think I’m terms of push/pull. I use my attention as my currency. She behaves in ways I like? She gets rewarded with my attention. She behaves in ways I don’t? I remove my attention. I’m still friendly and cordial regardless. But I don’t validate. Always good to have options so you can truly not give a fuck if she fucks it up or not
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:24 AM
3

Stop worrying about what or why she’s doing something. You need to worry about whether you’re going to tolerate her behavior or not.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:17 AM
3

Do things alone. The bar, club, concert, traveling, etc.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 11:06 AM
3

My point was that you’re searching red pill solutions for a purple pill mindset. Any advice given is going to be filtered through that lens. There’s a fundamental issue with the relationship when shit like this is pulled. That fundamental issue would never had reared its head had you approached the relationship and established it with TRP principles. So asking now, once the damage has been done, doesn’t seem like it will benefit you if you continue to maintain your current mindset. That’s what g…
/r/askTRP09/05/21 01:14 AM
16

And yet here you are are struggling to get one girl you spend all your time and attention on to want to fuck you
/r/askTRP08/05/21 11:29 PM
3

Devils advocate here; she could just be superrr socially retarded.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 07:36 PM
1

I was thinking bout giving my dad a copy of the book too. He’s just too stubborn I don’t think he would be open minded to seeing a different viewpoint. We have convos about him and his wife but she hasn’t fucked him in 5 years. And he thinks doing all of these chores she assigns him daily will get him “rewarded” eventually. Fucking frustrating because telling your dad he’s essentially a simp is not a comfortable convo. So you gotta lead him to the conclusion on his own
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:37 PM
1

You’ll be fine. It’s a year. Suck it up, serve honorably, and move on.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:19 PM
3

Gotta drop this victim mentality first and foremost.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:30 PM
1

Depends on what you mean by “lean on for support.” I don’t think you should feel you gotta be on your fun guy game 24/7 when vetting a woman for LTR material. At that point you should see she has a base level of comprehension that people can have bad days. It’s how YOU handle the bad days. If you handle them in a healthy manner then you gauge her response. If she blows up and threatens to “break up” because you are mentally exhausted and don’t feel like hanging then she’s not LTR material. This …
/r/askTRP04/05/21 01:18 PM
2

Maybe she thinks she has an ugly O face. Maybe she squirts and is insecure about the mess she makes, or she thinks it smells or something.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 01:36 PM
1

Well it obviously didn’t work now did it? Stop awarding attention so easily
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:40 PM
11

Just say “alright no worries” and move on with other girls. You spend too much time being pen pals with her. Close the date as soon as possible. Don’t waste your time texting endlessly back and forth and sharing tiktoks.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:30 PM
2

There’s a difference between shit tests and a straight up toxic cunt
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:09 PM
4

This is honestly a great position to be in with a plate. She’s there when you need it and not blowing your phone up in between. She’s more than likely got some other guy(s) she’s fucking too so you guys are on the same page with expectations from each other
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:03 PM
3

You just don’t know how to flirt. Practice
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:48 PM
1

You ever see someone unapologetic about who they are? Notice how you can’t help but have respect for them? There is nothing wrong with wanting to flirt. Have no shame. If she creates drama, remove attention and flirt with other girls.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 11:04 AM
3

Ideally you don’t wanna be the “feelings” guy, or the pen pal, or one or her “options.” Be the guy she’s fucking and then complaining about to the other guys who aren’t fucking her. I think once a bitch views you as plan B or C or Z she just naturally loses some genuine attraction for you. Like don’t be sitting on the bench for a hoe. She shouldn’t be getting this familiar with you if she hasn’t fucked you. These “feelings” talks are reserved for women who have earned those kind of convos with y…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:50 AM
6

These are boring. They invoke zero emotion. Women are attracted to FEELINGS. You need pics where if someone sees it they FEEL something. Go do stuff and get pics taken of you.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:10 PM
15

Go alone. Vastly improved my game
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:06 PM
1

Before you knew she existed, if someone were to come up to you and tell you that you are not allowed to disqualify a woman if she was a prostitute. That you are obligated to hear her personal story and sympathize with it. Imagine an adamant feminist telling you this. Saying “her past doesn’t matter!” You’d call her a fucking lunatic. That you’re allowed to have standards for any woman you consider worth of your commitment. Now present day you sit here and rationalize her history. Sacrificing you…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:53 PM
1

I guess it depends on the details of the relationship they had/have. But I’d reserve communication until she comes around to prove she can handle other women in a healthy manner. Many times the attention whore of the group becomes toxic and actively seeks to ruin opportunities for a guy she feels is supposed to only want her. Especially if there is a history there like in this case. I’d personally avoid communicating anything initially. I’d start with the “hi-bye” dynamic you stated and go from …
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:10 PM
1

You are compromising your standards to accept hers. What’s the difference between fucking one guy for 5k or 10 guys for 500 each? This is what she willingly tells you. Think of the things she won’t tell you. Instead of “I needed the money” it will be “I needed the attention” once in an LTR. Let’s be real, I don’t care how hot the bitch is, even if I had the money and I was desperate I would never pay 5k. The story doesn’t hold up. Especially when their are bad bitches available on escort sites f…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 03:58 PM
1

If she’s as an attention whore like OP suggests she might try to cock block out of spite that he’s giving his attention to another female.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:38 PM
2

She keeps doing it because it’s working. You’re thinking too logically about it. There isn’t a set number of days or list of steps to follow for every situation. It’s something you have to feel out and flow with. This is why we say it’s important to internalize many aspects. Being the prize is important here. Not just saying you are but knowing for a fact you are. When an LTR shows qualities that are not LTR material you internally begin demoting her. I repeat this isn’t a step by step process. …
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:27 PM
3

“The way she says it did” It didn’t.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:53 PM
3

I didn’t offer any advice. Just stated I wasn’t for it. Also you need to logically explain WHY it’s bad advice instead of getting emotional.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:50 PM
3

Nope. You can believe it or not. Doesn’t affect me at all. Trying to create a good debate. Getting angry about it doesn’t change my view.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:33 PM
0

Mine is relatively high. Not to boast or anything. But I’ve had social media and my numbers didn’t change at all. I still fucked women I met in person. In fact I think social media limited me in some capacity. Women I knew in person would see me as “follower” territory, knowing they got validation already. Whereas once I got rid of social media, women who wanted my attention would have to reach out to me personally and make effort to obtain it
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:20 PM
5

The point of a red flag is it disqualifies her from your commitment. No matter what other perceived qualities she possesses. Trust your judgment. Keep spinning. If you want an LTR, vet for one that meets the standard. You’re hamstering your oneitis here.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:16 PM
4

This. Very doubtful OP is spinning plates. Reeks of scarcity. To the point you commit to a prostitute. And believing she’s been exclusive to him. You don’t “practice” LTR. You spin until a female comes along that meets LTR standards. OP, actually start spinning plates.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:40 PM
5

And what are your perceived benefits of networking with social media vs real life interactions? My argument would be real life interactions are genuine. You stand out much more if you can illicit a range of positive emotions. Social media limits you to a handful of emotions they could feel, none being particularly helpful. And as another poster pointed out, it’s mainly used a validation generator. Instead of a genuine social connection, you’re just another “like.” Less time networking on social …
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:33 PM
4

Unfortunately the incompetent husband trope is what’s popular on screen. I can’t think of any good current examples. However a lot of books still seem to remain free from that narrative
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:58 PM
5

Curious on your argument for social media being a necessity. I’m personally not for it
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:50 PM
15

Not so much violence but power. Power can come in a lot of different forms. You should be a fucking detective with how you pick out every little detail in a brief encounter
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:47 PM
14

You sound like a fucking dick
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:35 PM
1

Just respond with “lol”
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:29 PM
80

Don’t overthink it. Just spend your money however the fuck you want. Let her make of it what she will. If she wants to be prude about it you know you have options. She can play those games with someone else. Remember it’s your world. She’s just allowed in it as long as her behavior is good. And she’s competing against others. Frame over everything.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:48 PM
4

Check out Rollo’s “myth of the lonely old man.” Also you can talk your way into pussy. Luckily for you women are attracted to a lot of other shit than just looks. Learn what works best for you. Listen to Patrice O’Neil recordings to learn how an overweight dude still smashed. Also you could be the old dude who finds out his wife was a ho for 30 years and get financially ruined. All about perspective my man.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:35 PM
1

This pill you’ve swallowed is the black type. I’m not knocking it. If that’s how you’re personally gonna deal with it I can respect that. Are you really so autistic you can’t operate a motor vehicle?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:26 PM
1

Not control. But get better at those things. Meaning stop only focusing on things IN your control and learn to try new things that scare you and see if you get better at them. Experience is a great teacher.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:55 PM
2

Yeah so that was HER frame. She should be guessing YOUR interest level. She should be fighting for YOUR attention. You enter relationships in YOUR frame. Then lead from there. Maybe you’re not used to leading and it feels uncomfortable for you. Or maybe you’re still holding on to this idea that it’s an equal role type mindset. It’s not. You have your masculine role and she has her feminine role. Appreciate the differences.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/21 10:50 PM
1

Yeah don’t compare. That’s always wise. Don’t judge either. If that’s what makes THEM happy then cool let them be happy. You know what makes YOU happy. “Improve myself in areas under my control” Why can’t you improve in areas NOT under control? Learn to handle a curveball or two. Life isn’t going to come at you like that.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:35 PM
1

Right. Are you still holding on to the idea of “the one?” Why were you holding her responsible for your emotional state? If I read that right... I got the vibe you weren’t getting your “emotional” needs met. How so?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/21 10:31 PM
2

“And be okay with it” Are you? That’s the only thing that matters. And I get it, autism and all that. But you’re using that as a crutch to not better yourself in areas you simply fear because you’re uncomfortable in those areas.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:16 PM
2

Ah ok so you saw the actions and didn’t listen to her words. Good on you. But why did you yourself say you wanted to be exclusive when you clearly knew she was not exclusive material?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/21 10:13 PM
2

You agreed to be exclusive when she communicated she wanted it to be casual?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/21 09:56 PM
2

If you’re happy then ok be happy. You don’t need a female to be happy. But you didn’t make this post bc you are. Reads like you’re trying to convince yourself you are. There’s hints of anger, jealousy, rationalizations and excuses.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:48 PM
1

And if she switches to your WiFi out of pity all she’s gonna do is think about that other WiFi that’s so much better and end up despising your WiFi. Then she’ll keep your WiFi around because well it’s free, always available, and easy but she’ll long for that glorious high speed buffering and be looking to upgrade when most convenient for her.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:32 PM
2

exactly. consider you could've been her boyfriend had it not been you stumbled across TRP. imagine committing to a girl for years and supporting her just to find out she is a ho. then on top of that you spend the next 18 years financing her lifestyle and give half of ALL your savings and investments to her. ​ fate has smiled on you. don't be sad, be happy you took off the rose colored lenses. smile back at fate. divorce rape happens to SO many dudes. you are now much wiser
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:49 AM
1

Is she really the “one” if she doesn’t want you? You think you can force her to be attracted to you?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:51 PM
2

You have oneitis and your mindset is to live for oneitis and you want advice on how to not have oneitis?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:48 PM
12

Eh. You were there. It’s college. It is what it is. Just don’t take her too seriously.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 05:47 PM
11

You haven’t even kissed a girl and you’re planning on fucking 25 of them ASAP? Set more realistic and obtainable goals first. If you’re still struggling sure get an escort
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:28 AM
13

Sounds like you need to throw a little dread in. Doesn’t have to be anything big. Are you an ass guy? Tit guy? Whatever she knows you as. Flirt lightly with a chick with a better ass or rack than your girl. Or just let the eyes wander a bit more freely. Shit even a girl that’s younger/prettier/skinnier will work. She has plenty of insecurities you can use to your advantage. Just even getting the attention of another girl will work. Just don’t be overt about it. You should be doing that anyways. …
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:25 AM
8

6 years of absolutely no experience socially navigating a woman or learning ways to flirt and escalate... you could get as buff as you want but you’re still not going to have any idea how to talk to women. Tinder may not be around in 6 years for all we know. At least in its current form. You have no idea what the market will look like. I don’t think you realize the logistics in fucking a different woman for every day of the month. Some dudes struggle spinning just two different women in the same…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:38 PM
1

I had a group of “friends” that did this to me. Turns out they didn’t like when I was around because I took female attention away from them. There were two girls in particular in our social group that they had crushes on. Well they weren’t feeling them and whenever we were out it would always be me and one of the other girls fucking around while they sat in the corner and pouted. Long story short I ghosted them and am better off now. The girls got jealous I was fucking other women and the guys f…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:02 PM
3

It does no harm or good in my experience.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:44 PM
1

Strong suspicion she just leading you on. Also a branch swing is from one relationship to the other. You tryna cuff a ho? If by chance she isn’t leading you on just fuck her and put her in rotation. Don’t get in an LTR with a slut
/r/askTRP25/03/21 08:36 PM
36

Wear a fucking condom dude
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:41 AM
5

Damn for a 16 year old with no knowledge of TRP you handled that great. Keep it up king. I’d have a shit eating grin with every sob story she texts. All she wants now is some sort of attention or validation. Don’t give it to her. The second you do the script flips. Start pursuing other girls like she never existed. Not out of spite, but out of a new sense of freedom. Also don’t do LTRs at 16. Spin plates and understand the power of your commitment. Read the rational male by Rollo. You’re on a gr…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:32 AM
3

This. You moved quickly and figured out your answer. Now you can spend your time on other prospects. Also don’t make out with a bitch RIGHT after you smoke. Had a few females do that to me and I wanted to punch them with their stank ass breath
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:15 AM
4

It’s a lack of competition anxiety on her part. Once she figured out she was the sole source of intimacy you have, she got the power. Sounds like you bounce around too much between being a Chad and a chump. Doesn’t sound like you’re ready to enter a relationship on your terms or what you even want in an LTR. Frame is something you should’ve established and maintained throughout. You should prob go back to spinning plates until your mentality is solid and then enter an LTR with YOUR frame. You ca…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:11 AM
2

Get rid of this “quality” girl myth. What you mean to say is “girls I want to fuck more than other girls.” Stop putting them on a pedestal. It is a numbers game. What you need to focus on is closing fast. Not the goal of getting a number. But a goal of fucking her. Do your gaming in person not over the phone.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:02 PM
4

She’s flirting you dipshit. Flip her off back.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 01:51 PM
1

It’s just who they are. You’re not gonna change them. As you get older and start integrating your own life experiences you start to see where you disagree with your parents. It’s about becoming your own man. Not talking about a rebellious phase but a genuine coming to independence. You may start to see things in your dad that you’re not proud of. Things you’d never do. And that’s fine, you’re just different people. But it’s still your dad. If his behaviors are becoming toxic to you then once you…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 10:00 AM
3

Why don’t you just talk to them? You can play out whatever scenario in your head all day but truth is you have no idea wtf is going through other peoples head. A lot of dudes just have a resting bitch face. They may not be sizing you up but just lost in thought and happen to be looking your way. Stop making snap judgments of everyone around you without even talking to them.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:45 AM
1

If you have so many options why are you obsessing over one girl across the country? In what way would this affect your scholarship? Snap doesn’t save messages. If you block her then any saved messages are deleted.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:37 AM
4

It’s hard to really give advice on it because convo is supposed to flow. So you find ways to make it flow. Not by having a list of topics already thought up. With that said if the convo isn’t flowing and you’ve done your part you can just let it be silent and frame it like you’re waiting on her. Just put a little pressure on her. And the other aspect is some girls are simply just so incredibly boring and have no personality. So if you find that no matter what, it’s just a dull experience, don’t …
/r/askTRP21/03/21 02:13 PM
2

Stop approaching through social media. You are one of countless others. They get everything they want out of you from the jump. They have no reason to want anything more from you. Think of how much you want to fuck them. Now flip that with validation from women. So for you to slide in to their DMs is like pussy being thrown at you. You’ve got it made you don’t have to invest in to the girl. That’s what they are feeling. Tl;dr stop hamstering yourself to approach through social media and actually…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:53 PM
1

I didn’t read past the second paragraph. You set the date up ASAP. That is the point. It’s a dating app. You date on a dating app. If she’s not down, unmatch her and move on to other matches. You writing a novel over a solution you’ve already figured out. Stop worrying about coming on “too strong.” Be efficient but make it fun for her. If she’s not feeling it when your game is on then she’s not going to magically feel it after 50 texts back and forth. Stop wasting your time
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:18 PM
1

I don’t think it works like that. If she can’t get off on your dick that’s telling me she’s not getting off on you. In other words you want her more than she wants you. I’m gonna give you some advice and you can choose to say fuck you or take it. It doesn’t matter but it may not be what is “alpha” but if I was theoretically in your position I would do one or two things. Usually I don’t advise porn or beating your dick too much bc that’s energy that could be spent on a girl. But in this case I sa…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:33 AM
8

Make. Your. Intentions. Known. You need to touch her so you can gauge her level of attraction. Whatever it is just flow with it in the moment. It can be something small. The point is to see where she’s at with physicality. You can determine if she’s DTF or not quickly. Always assume attraction. You both came out to have a few drinks and hopefully meet a good looking stranger. It’s in the back of everyone’s mind. Your goal is to play on that and be that guy that she was subconsciously thinking co…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:26 AM
4

There’s so much to pick apart you’re fucking up on. Just answer me this: does she cum when you guys do fuck?
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:11 AM
33

Women think what works on them will work on guys. You getting annoyed is emotion. Women need some emotion to become attracted to a dude. So they think if they get you emotional enough you’ll want them. Like the chicks dating assholes trope. You can be a fat asshole and pull chicks. A fat bitch might think it works vice versa
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:03 AM
1

Telling a woman you can get other women comes off desperate to impress. However if she witnesses other women flirting with you, other women staring, other women dropping IOI’s, other woman dating you... then yes they are fully aware. But you should not be worried about a chick that is wishy washy about how attractive she finds you. You waste time that could be spent on experiences with other women who are down.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 03:00 AM
2

I have learned to just not get invested in any conversation over pussy. The only thing I know for certain is what I’m doing. And that’s all that matters. Don’t compare yourself to people based on what they WANT you to believe. Like women, just watch what happens instead of listening. It’s like all these rappers and rockstars singing about fucking countless women then marrying some chick and simping hard for them. Their words aren’t matching their actions. Just focus on yourself and achieving/mai…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:12 PM
3

Sometimes I will take a week or two off just to crave it again. I’ll do it if I’m feeling burned out and my workouts are shit
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:14 PM
4

You’re fine. You have standards. You decide who rides along or doesn’t. But I fear if the “right” type of girl comes by she can easily play you. Because you’re holding on to this BP idea of love
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:13 PM
7

By letting her pull away. The fact you’re trying to pull her back is lack of frame. More so you are in HER frame. Always be ready to walk away
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:07 PM
11

I don’t give a fuck what they feel
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:17 AM
6

Nah I feel sorry for all the bitches that used to flop on me
/r/askTRP15/03/21 11:41 PM
2

Butthurt or not it doesn’t matter. You’re in her frame worrying about her opinion. You tried. She declined. You move on. Your most valuable asset is your time. Don’t waste another second of it on a dead fish. Her opinion of you is of absolutely zero concern. You called several times. Multiple days. And then texted a week later. She knows you want it. She wins. She got what she wanted out of you. Now she was just stringing you along for another orbiter to add to her fan base. Make your intentions…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:22 PM
1

Your best bet would’ve been to just not respond at all. Leave it on read. And move on. It was off from the jump. You showed her your attention was cheap from the get go. So she didn’t value it. Next time don’t rely on getting a number and trying to game thru text. Try to close the night you meet her. If it doesn’t happen great you saved some time and can focus on a new girl
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:12 PM
1

yes that's one way. or you can just make it a tit for tat deal. she doesn't get your attention unless she earns it with behaviors you approve of
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:50 AM
2

Her motivator is attention. She got yours. You can use your attention to your advantage yes. And yes you understand. To put it simply it’s the same as you fucking a plate you’re not emotionally invested in knowing damn well you’ll never give her commitment. You were her attention plate. Or as Patrice put it: her “Time Ho”
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:14 AM
3

You’re an alcoholic. Go to the alcoholic sub
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:05 AM
13

Blah blah blah you’re 21 why aren’t you working on moving the fuck out?
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:04 AM
3

Stop comparing yourself to females. We think differently. Your logic does not apply. Girls use attention like we use pussies. They hold the same value
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:57 AM
1

You just gotta find YOUR game plan. The one that works specifically to you. No advice here is gonna beat more and more experience on your part. Don’t change the whole game just bc it isn’t perfected. Tweak it. You got no prob having bitches agree to a date with you. That’s a start. Just gotta tweak it until you get closer. Just from outsider looking in the “introduce touching” line came off kinda weird to me. When you touch her it’s best it flows with whatever the fuck is going on in the moment.…
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:35 AM
8

You shouldn’t care no. The whole idea of a plate is you KNOW it will eventually break.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:03 AM
12

“Potential LTR” No. Read the sidebar. You’re approaching this all wrong. To save you some time she’s not interested. Move on and use your time to read up on some basic stuff with TRP
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:55 PM
2

So if she did that while single why did you get into a LTR with her? Wasn’t that a red flag? She can be great in every other area but that’s the point of a red flag. It’s non negotiable to get your commitment. That’s why you vet. You set a standard for yourself and if she doesn’t measure up she doesn’t move past plate
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:45 PM
8

So you knew she was doing it and now want to change your mind about it through some semantics. Switching things up now because you’re getting insecure is the wrong move. You’re coming off as possessive and needy if you do that. If she checks all the other marks then keep things how they are. Just be ready to bounce. Which you claim you are.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:16 PM
11

“Newly promoted LTR” How long did you vet? How did she earn a relationship with you? You didn’t know she did this the entire time you were vetting?
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:00 PM
1

Meet a girl in the gym. She always in there doing legs. Get to talking. Say “we should train legs together.” Date is “set” before the number. Then grab post workout food. Just one example
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:09 AM
2

Abundance fixes that. You move forward by moving on to new women. And you enjoy your time with them knowing not everything is gonna last. Have you fun and when it’s over let it be over and replace her
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:18 AM
5

“Could’ve had something good” You’re still in her frame. She’s not a good person. You wanna be in a LTR with a crazy hoe like that? Some chick that pulls that kind of behavior? And on top of it you’re hamstering “if only I did this differently.” Fam she is trash. See the elephant in the room here. You are operating on extreme scarcity trying to justify her toxic behavior. You need more women in your life
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:15 AM
9

Fuck her. He’s not getting it through his thick head. He needs to know what he’s doing is not working. Might need to be a painful lesson for him
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:06 AM
7

Mmhmm she in your head where she wanna be. Women do that. They try to trap your emotions and hold them hostage. Don’t slip like that again if you do another LTR. You can’t be vulnerable to her hurting you. That’s frame. Next time you gotta just treat them like children. You hurt her feels by ghosting. She wanted to hurt back. When you see her as a child, you see her attempt as petty and laughable. And a little cute in a way that she cares THAT much she made another dude have an argument with you…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:46 PM
2

You love her? Confess it to her in song and dance. Then come back and read the sidebar for the next step
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:36 PM
37

Lmao a single mom what did you expect? You ghosted her, she was probably already fucking that other dude, and she wanted some drama so let him have the phone. You fucked up arguing with the dude. Now that bitch dancing doing cartwheels because she feeling all wanted and validated. You hurt bitches by not caring. Stop caring. She wants you to care. And she wins when you do. Don’t lose frame like that again. ALWAYS be ready to leave a bitch at the drop of a hat
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:34 PM
2

My man. Lol. It’s v cute. But imma suggest dabbling in the sidebar before asking this question. Already you breaking rules... “there’s this one girl”
/r/askTRP07/03/21 11:28 PM
15

Contrary to a lot of the stuff here sometimes a bitch just needs security. And if the dude she’s with is doing everything right except failing the comfort tests, it’s just another thing to sway her. You had it right. A LTR is a 24/7 job and you need all aspects polished to keep things smooth. Be the chadiest of chads and she’ll love your dick but her insecurity will eventually cause her to find security elsewhere. Quite the line to be balancing as a dude
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:24 PM
2

Hey man that’s all you need. Chalk it up as just another lesson learned. You’ll find your groove the more you experiment around. Countless women out there to fine tune your technique. On the plus side you don’t sound autistic and can actually read body language. So that puts you ahead of a lot of dudes
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:20 PM
3

What do you need help with? Motivation porn? 3 girls good job. Keep it up. To get fluid at it it could take 300. Just learn what works and what doesn’t. Don’t worry about being stalker like unless you get those vibes. When I started I’d literally run up to a chick to catch up to her and start talking if I liked what I saw. You sound like you’re not coming off as creepy. Don’t overthink just do
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:58 PM
7

I use all that love energy I was building up for my unicorn and give it to myself. Funny how shit just starts to work out much better for me
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:43 PM
2

“To keep the attraction up” Dude gtfo. If I can smell the desperation on you then you best believe a female, who is naturally in tune to sniffing out scarcity like that, is gonna be repulsed. What do you think is gonna happen jumping through hoops and being the dancing monkey for her? Better yet why the fuck aren’t you focusing on women you can fuck RIGHT NOW?
/r/askTRP06/03/21 04:16 PM
9

Stop trying to game through social media. Just block her if it’s annoying.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 04:01 PM
2

I’d throw caution to the wind. I’d grab her by the hand, look her in the eyes, and tell her I’ll be her everything for all of eternity. I would then unsheath my sword and ride valiantly towards any force that may impose harm upon her, preferably a dragon. I would slay said force and then come back to her for her to dress my wounds and nurture me. May perhaps some fellatio
/r/askTRP05/03/21 10:54 PM
24

You’re her girlfriend. Why are you doing boyfriend like shit by texting and FaceTiming nonstop when you’re not even fucking her?
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:24 PM
3

You fucked up by orbiting her on social media from the start. Just stop watching her stories. Have you read the sidebar? Punish unwanted behavior by removing attention. Don’t have to be salty about it, just stop validating her and start pursuing other women.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:20 PM
3

Don’t stress it man. Friends come and go. You’ll meet all kinds of new friends in your life. Sounds like she just wanted to create some drama. This is how you learn. I’m sure it feels awkward af but now you know for the future
/r/askTRP02/03/21 08:38 PM
2

Ah I didn’t know the whole situation. She sounds like a ho so not sure why you feeling bad when a ho does ho activities
/r/askTRP02/03/21 07:52 PM
1

You got friendzoned by a girl and you continued to hang out with her. On top of this your buddy fucked her. This is what happens when you try to friend your way into pussy. Your buddy had every right to fuck her. And she has every right to want to fuck him and not you. There was no “backstabbing” going on. Next time don’t beat around the bush. Make your intentions known with a girl. If it’s not reciprocated you leave her alone. No hanging out. No attention. Find other friends.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 07:14 PM
1

Out of those matches a good portion will fizzle out or flake as they match with more dudes. Set up dates so that if one goes cold you have another lined up. Don’t be their pen pal. Set the date up ASAP and follow thru. Don’t waste days texting them for them to just want another social media follower or something
/r/askTRP02/03/21 06:53 PM
6

Your boss sounds like he’s clueless. Just don’t intend to work there forever. Start thinking about other places to work when this shit eventually hits the fan and be ready to move on. As for the flirt. Let her flirt, she likes the attention. Just be friendly and don’t reciprocate physically. Act completely clueless she’s flirting with you. She’ll eventually get tired and try other targets. Continue acting clueless if she gets weird and tries to make you jealous or something. She sounds like she …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:06 PM
6

You can look at it differently but you’re gonna get taken advantage of. You’re seeing things for how they are. On the plus side you can just enjoy the moment fully for what it is. A moment. That’s how women operate. Whatever they feel in the moment is truth. Don’t hold on to it any longer than that moment. I mean shit if we wanna get philosophical then life is just a moment. Enjoy it or don’t. Either way it is what it is.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 05:00 PM
2

Don’t even try to understand it. Just find what works for you, do what’s best for you, and focus on that. How is it in Colombia btw? I’m a white dude who has a preference for latinas. I’m satisfied with the Hispanic population where I’m at in the states but wouldn’t mind increasing the pool.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:48 PM
3

You’re fine. If anything it was a comfort test. But don’t fall into the trap of oneitis. She’s wanting relationship stuff from you to not feel like a FWB. Keep it real with yourself in that her feelings are highly subject to change, especially if she starts thinking she’s the best you can get. Don’t slack off with yourself, she’s gotta KNOW you can get another woman easily. Preferably better than her. If she continues to be sweet natured then reward her with comfort. Don’t go all in with comfort…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 02:35 PM
18

Sometimes simps can get pussy. If they jump through all the hoops and do everything she wants and keeps her happy. And only if she has realized Chad is not going to notice her or commit to her. Then yes a simp can get a crumb of pity pussy. Just make sure you dedicate your entire existence to serve her. Your best bet is to play the security card. And the sex will be very lackluster in passion I assume. And she will likely cheat on you. But as long as you tolerate it and support her and give her …
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:05 PM
8

Low interest. Wanted another orbiter. Next time just say you don’t have an IG. If you got your shit together and are fucking other women why do you care so much about some random you met for 5 minutes? Even if she was “playing hard to get” why would you even entertain the idea? She should be competing for your attention over the other women you’re seeing. Not vice versa. Your best shot was probably that night you met her. If she was even interested at all. But her dodging the number to go for so…
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:57 PM
7

Another thing to add: it might be common for your dad to give you advice on what to do in order to live the life he figured out how to live. But like the post stated, times have changed, those opportunities could have changed along with the times. And you have to take a long hard look at your fathers life and decide if that’s what you want for your future. I think with some self reflection we can determine that a lot of our fathers still cling to blue pill ideals even after divorces and frustrat…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 09:57 AM
3

1) you are not at your genetic limit at 150 pounds 2) you are most not likely 8% body fat 3) it’s ok to be honest with yourself. Living with your parents at 25 is sad. You have the right mind to fix it 4) stop working dead end jobs. You need to make an investment in yourself for the long term. Whether that’s a trade school or whatever you suck it up and do it. Military is always an option If your biggest problem is money why are you thinking about buying steroids that does not make you money? It…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 12:06 AM
2

Stop hanging with her you autist
/r/askTRP25/02/21 06:39 PM
2

Step 1) see other girl Step 2) talk to girl
/r/askTRP25/02/21 06:38 PM
5

Lol no don’t have a talk about your feelings with her. Just next time a loon does this simply respond with “ok sounds good” and leave it. Don’t bother her again and focus on other woman. If she comes back with better behavior keep more of a distance between you and her. Fuck her but she’s now at the bottom of your rotation.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 06:33 PM
1

If she genuinely gets off on the dom aspect of it you don’t have to commit an entire day to it. Or go all in. Do stuff you like doing but put her in a more dom position. Do you like eating her? Have her straddle your face next time you do it. You enjoy some muffin and she feels like a dom over you. Take some swipes at her ass while you’re down there. You can make her cum in that position. Then fuck her good and make her cum again. From what I’ve found with these types is they like the foreplay a…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:17 PM
1

I personally don’t give out social media. I just say I don’t have one. If they somehow find it I’ll just say I never use it for friends it’s just for interests and I don’t wanna flood my feed with junk. Everything set to private. Unless it’s music and I’m trying to give artists more exposure I’ll share stuff. But I never put anything personal up, or share any opinions or politics or whatever. It’s just straight up used for interests and nothing else. Nothing on it could lead back to my personal …
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:04 PM
2

You’ve made posts about her before and didn’t heed the warnings. How much longer are you gonna be walked all over in this “relationship?”
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:15 PM
2

You seem to think there’s manipulation and tricking going on in order to get laid. That’s not the case. It’s about becoming a man of value, understanding your worth, and streamlining your success. Avoiding common pitfalls along the way. TRP is just a toolbox, you use it as you see fit. You can apply it to life too. Abundance can apply to your job in keeping your options open, having the ability and flexibility to go where the money is. Not to be locked down with some blue pill Disney fantasy bas…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:31 PM
2

Why are you walking on eggshells? Don’t reward her immature response to a simple lapse in thought
/r/askTRP23/02/21 10:19 PM
4

The pill can be tough to swallow. And this dude puts it in perspective. OP missed an opportunity on his own accord and needs to take responsibility so he doesn’t make the same mistakes in the future. The comment wasn’t meant to break him but whip some sense into him because he was clouded with extremely poor judgment based on blue pill ideals
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:57 PM
1

Because the higher SMV guy doesn’t make her feel. He might develop oneitis which inevitably makes her think she’s above him. It could be any number of things. The fact is men can look good but only a handful can really embrace their masculinity, keep solid frame, and lead. It’s rare.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:52 PM
6

why would women tolerate less than perfect
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:38 PM
7

Imagine having everything you ever wanted just handed to you. Never having to work for anything. What does that do to your desire? Your passion? Your purpose? Sense of fulfillment? You get the point. Women are emotional. They want to feel. Just be the guy who makes them feel. Don’t be another orbiting option for them that they’ve been numbed to their entire lives.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:30 PM
10

What is the true alpha response? To not give a shit and focus on yourself. Bonus points for fucking a chick in your apartment while they have their dinner night
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:11 PM
6

By reading through redpill material to understand why you became unattractive to her in the first place. Female psychology is discussed in detail. It also sounds like you’re trying to use redpill tactics for a blue pill fantasy. You want it too much. You see her above you. You’re too needy. She’s the only one on your radar (oneitis). All things that keep you in her frame.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 12:08 PM
3

Yuh just ghost. Closure is on them. Keep in mind I’m not ghosting out of spite. I’m not hoping they’ll magically see their error and change. I’m not holding on to the fantasy they’ll ask for forgiveness and everything will be hunky dory. I’m ghosting out of efficiency. They do not serve any positive purpose in my life and actively seek to create tension. They are removed and stay gone. People don’t change. Don’t hold on to hope they will. If you’re thinking of cutting them off and holding on to …
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:53 AM
11

If someone is upset when you’re happy, that is not your friend. I’ve cut off toxic relationships plenty of times in my life. It’s freeing and forces you to be independent, not having to need anyone. Embrace your success and anyone who doesn’t like it you can remove from your circle
/r/askTRP21/02/21 11:47 PM
4

You got oneitis
/r/askTRP21/02/21 11:42 PM
18

If you’re gonna use your time in college to do LTRs then it’s gonna come with this kind of baggage. The dude probably wants to fuck her yeah. She probably enjoys the validation of knowing other guys are trying. It’s going to happen. Other dudes are gonna want to make moves on your gf. You need to accept that. What you have control over is your reaction when it inevitably happens. Give no shits. No amount of worrying is gonna stop her from cheating. Trust you’ve done everything right for the rela…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 07:49 AM
15

Judging by your comments you’ve got some scarcity going on. You’re trying to hang on to her as much as possible despite the obvious signs. It’s what she does, not what she says. Of course you’re not going to listen to advice here because you feel you can’t get another girl. The best thing to do is to quietly demote her. No more relationship stuff. You just fuck her and that’s the extent of the “relationship.” No talk, no argument, no discussing feelings. You then start approaching other women an…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:20 PM
2

Why are you so emotionally invested in this plate? Snuff that oneitis shit out now
/r/askTRP18/02/21 12:58 AM
1

Shouldn’t have had that convo with her after the party. Don’t display your most valuable asset (commitment) that cheaply ever again. And yeah maybe she got mad you didn’t fuck her. Maybe she just wanted to show her friends she has older men on her. Who knows. The point is don’t concern yourself with her so much that you’re walking on eggshells. She either is down to fuck around with you or not. And as always, if you’re fucking with multiple women this wouldn’t be a problem. Abundance fixes just …
/r/askTRP17/02/21 11:27 AM
2

Spin more plates. Stop adding them on social media. As long as she’s still fucking you it does not matter. Enjoy your time. They eventually break. But it won’t matter bc you’re spinning multiple plates.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:50 AM
14

Yea. Just stop leave her on read
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:41 AM
2

She’s already cheated on you and you think she’s “The One” Sure man, go ahead and ADD problems to your life when you’re about to go through one of the more stressful times these next few years with school.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 12:26 PM
21

It can get old. But I think at that age, and if you’ve sampled a fair amount of women by then, you realize there isn’t a single thing they can offer you that you’d be better off doing yourself. Especially present day. You know how rare it is to find a woman who can cook a decent meal today? So if I’m a better cook, if I can keep shit organized... if all those “traditional” roles that women slacked on are being handled by me, and done more efficiently... then objectively speaking, there is nothin…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 11:24 AM
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Don’t plan to marry that’s a corrupt system. It’s all risk no reward. If I have kids my guess is when I’m around 50 but I don’t really know. I’d be fine with or without em. I don’t intend to live the “party” life but I do enjoy being a bachelor and spending my money on whatever I want with all the time to do what I want. Partying gets old. Do I feel like taking some time to see the Grand Canyon? The Philippines? Absolutely nothing stopping me from doing those things. And that’s the freedom you c…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 10:02 AM
2

You keep writing about the same girl. If you were entertaining other women this wouldn’t even be on your radar. “Okay sure no monopoly.” Write whatever it literally doesn’t matter just ignore it and keep doing your thing until she stops actually fucking you. Then you can worry about it. But right now you’re fine stop overthinking
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:44 PM
2

Honestly i think we all get a little tired of fucking the same girl over and over again. What helped me was fucking other women. Felt like I recharged
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:44 PM
2

Don’t add plates to social media. Shouldn’t have kept texting her if you had no intention of fucking her again. I would handle it by how you suggest (without even replying though) or by forcing her to find you less attractive.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 03:21 PM
6

Could be wrong but it sounds like she just wants to be taken. Are you not fucking her as passionately? You said once you ate her she was good to go. Well sounds like she wants to get fucked but she needs to be revved up. And apparently you’re just not doing it for her. Again I could be wrong. But have you stopped being attractive to her?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 03:19 PM
3

I know man but you’re just asking the wrong question. Women are all about the feelings right NOW. Can you work it into a naturally flowing convo that doesn’t come off as compensating and give you an edge on her other candidates? Maybe. But you see all the variables at play there? It’s best you concern yourself with what attracts her IN THE MOMENT. You’re thinking showing your LTR potential is gonna get you some ONS action
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:39 PM
18

Yea whenever I’m on a date I mention my 401k and by the time we get up to leave there’s a puddle in her seat
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:28 PM
28

You don’t move backwards. Exes are exes for a reason. She decided the relationship was over. She can catch some dick from you every now and then but she can never be more than a plate from here on. She already proved to you that she is not mature enough for your commitment and will use anything as a bargaining chip. Keep fucking her until you aren’t anymore. Continue pursuing other prospects. Remove any idea of getting back together.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 09:44 PM
3

Making a 28k profit is not a mistake. Be happy about that. You can’t predict the future, you decided to leave the market with a decent profit. Be proud of yourself. There are people who got into the market at ATH and lost it on shit coins. The great thing about men is we self analyze. We see regret and we don’t stew on it. We think objectively how to better navigate similar situations in the future. Then plan accordingly. I would say a car paid off was a wise investment. The rest you probably co…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 12:11 PM
2

Man if I had a nickel every time a female who was bitter with me tried turning friends against me I’d be rich. In a way it’s like a wash for your social circle. Most men are weak and will side with the woman regardless of the evidence to the contrary. Just how it is. Let them go, they are not your friends and will only hold you back. There are some inherently good men out there that recognize bullshit when they catch a whiff of it. You don’t need to explain yourself, they’ll know. Because they’v…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 12:02 PM
1

Stay out of their business. If a woman resorts to telling a man how to be dominant then it’s too late. It’s not genuine. They want a dude who is naturally like that if that’s what they’re looking for. Edit: I read that wrong. You’re the woman? Or you’re trying to tell a woman?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:46 AM
1

You gotta ask yourself if you’d wanna be in those growth positions. A lot of them inevitably come with salary and managerial roles. And with salary you’ll inevitably be working more for less money. I like hourly so my time counts and they can’t take advantage of me. And I don’t like managing other people. It just depends on what you prefer. You may live managing people
/r/askTRP08/02/21 01:03 PM
1

Either way you shouldn’t worry about it. If she’s a fucking idiot it’s not on you to dance around her dumbass-ness. If she’s looking for an orbiter it’s not on you to be one. Toss this one out and focus on another
/r/askTRP07/02/21 06:53 PM
1

You have to mold your future. Meaning pick a versatile career path that offers freedom from the: wake, work, gym, sleep, repeat cycle. Are there different setting you could work? Different shifts? Different days? Different positions? These are things you need to think about before you end up in that cycle.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 06:47 PM
1

Report the fraternity for assault.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 01:07 PM
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I work with a lot of the geriatric population. Had a dude tell me about how his son had to come live with him being 45 because a divorce completely ruined him financially. Gave me a huge sob story about the dude. Felt bad for him. Then not even 10 minutes later he asks if I’m married and I say no. And he just looked at me so surprised and said “oh my gosh what a shame, why not?!” And I just stood there and was like “because of what you just told me about your son. I’ve seen it happen way too muc…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:12 PM
1

It’s physics. Lack of mobility to get in proper position, weak core, weak glutes. Guess what takes the force when the muscles can’t?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 06:38 PM
4

While you are correct I think the argument he was making is that fat people tend to be fighting a constant uphill battle once fat. Their entire body is sending relentless signals to eat, eat, eat once they start dieting. The body enjoys homeostasis, and fat people in particular get to deal with the body practically screaming at them to conserve energy and eat more once they try to make a change. It's a tough battle. I don't think the conclusion he made was right (it's not their fault), but more …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/21 12:38 PM
1

Roids aren't magic They indeed are. I hear this argument so many times. As someone who has competed in physique shows both naturally and then enhanced, I can say without a shadow of doubt that being on gear made the prep vastly easier. Yes you still have to put in work, steroids just make the work pay off in larger amounts. There are even studies comparing groups of people who 1) worked out and ate well versus 2) people who did absolutely nothing but were on steroids. The second group ended up w…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/21 12:30 PM
1

That's the joke with Chinese food.... you eat it and then you're hungry an hour later. It's from all the rice and noodles spiking the blood sugar, the subsequent crash after insulin has shuttled all the nutrients into muscle and adipose tissue, leaving the blood stream low in glucose again. The body tells the brain it needs more glucose in the blood. ​ The brain is very good at utilizing energy though. It can run on glucose and ketones. If you do keto, after about the third day, you may even not…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/21 12:20 PM
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There’s so many other subs that can help you out with this. But since mobility is something I know a thing or two about I’ll try to help. You have to find out where you’re stiff at. Pinpoint the joint. All the joints involved in a squat is the: ankle, knee, hip. Once you figure out which joint is preventing the squat, you determine all the muscles that cross that joint and see which one(s) is/are tight. For ankle a common one is the calves or soleus. If they’re tight they’ll prevent dorsiflexion…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:51 PM
7

Their way of “approaching” is something as small as eye contact. A smile. Or even just placing themself near you. That’s it. It’s up to the dude to interpret that as “hey come talk to me.” Or if they’re drunk enough to start bumping their ass into you on the dance floor. Only a handful of times in my life have I been flat out approached. To rely on that would be disastrous. I’d only fuck every blue moon.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/21 12:28 AM
2

Sure thing man
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:33 PM
4

I was a fairly attractive dude so I would get women initially interested and able to fuck a few, but it was a very rare occurrence. So many times I'd have a promising prospect only for it to fizzle out. I was fucking vastly less women than many of my bros were despite them being chubby, shorter, and not as attractive. And not just that, the women were HOOKED on them. Whereas they didn't seem to give a shit if things fell off with me. They had women coming back for more all the time. The few I di…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 04:25 PM
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Women can’t STAND rejection. They’re brought up in a world that teaches them they choose and men would be lucky to have them. What you’re seeing now is just hamster in overdrive from being rejected. Think about it, the most valuable thing you have and it’s not good enough. It hurts them. I remember back in the day when I was more blue I would force myself to fuck an LTR because she would cry and get emotional if I didn’t feel like fucking her. In hindsight it’s like I was raped. But instead of b…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:12 PM
6

Celebrate by buying AirPods
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:00 PM
2

Nah I wouldn’t break up with her I’d keep fucking her like nothing was wrong and just start fucking other women on the side. Yeah you guys will eventually break up but keep it going for a bit. Just personally demote her in your mind. Remove time and attention and apply it to better yourself and for other women. Just throttle it a bit to keep her spinning
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:12 PM
2

I wouldn’t argue over something like this. When she says something like that, respond by casually saying “yeah, I can see that.” Watch her hamster spin. Also this one isn’t LTR material. Keep her around to fuck but start progressing things with other women and once you’re fucking at least one other girl you’ll be in a MUCH better headspace
/r/askTRP30/01/21 12:44 PM
0

Ask yourself if you’re willing to put up with this behavior in an LTR. Then if not, it’s time to break things off. It really boils down to what YOU want.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 03:16 PM
2

It sounds like it tho. Or you got oneitis
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:47 AM
2

1: aw sorry been busy 2: p good
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:28 AM
2

Your name is fucking hilarious
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:03 PM
10

If you’re getting IG instead of numbers you are in orbiter territory. And you’re hamstering why it’s a good thing now. Which it isn’t. And to answer your question: no. You’re asking for drama. But you’re not even dating these girls so it doesn’t matter. I swear every social media post can be answered with: don’t use it, or focus on real life women.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 10:55 PM
24

If the date goes well just get a hotel that night rather than reserve now
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:52 AM
15

The thing with the military is, if you choose to take advantage of it, everything is paid for. You will be given clothes, food, and a place to sleep. You can choose not to spend any money. You do start off small. But with time and rank it adds up. You could retire at 20 years. Don’t expect to do much of any side hustle. You will be getting deployed and will stay busy. If you choose to get out, tuition is paid for. You could go to school or pick up a trade debt free.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 11:51 AM
2

Never be afraid to lose her. It helps to be fucking other women so you don’t really care. Just hit her up when the time comes. If she’s not responsive so be it. Keep fucking other women. But thinking you can dance for her for 4 months not only sounds unlikely but a HUGE waste of time
/r/askTRP26/01/21 11:05 PM
3

Fuck other women. Logistics are bad on this one. If she’s down to hang when back then great. But don’t waste your time trying to pen pal your way into her pants
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:04 PM
1

“Good source of pussy I’m missing out on” If you’re not getting pussy in real life, you’re not getting pussy on social media either.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 02:21 AM
7

Reads like you want it to be true. Like a revenge fantasy. Sit and ask yourself why do you care?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:30 PM
2

It’s a DATING app not a chit chat on the phone app. You’re becoming their girlfriend. If they’re not down to meet get rid of them.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 12:19 AM
7

What exactly do you want? People give you programs in the comments and you say not enough info, or that you need to learn how a muscle works first? If that’s the case then just watch some fucking anatomy vids. Otherwise stop giving excuses as why you shouldn’t work out and just fucking lift
/r/askTRP24/01/21 12:13 AM
1

Then be someone worth loving. She don’t love no simps that’s for sure
/r/askTRP24/01/21 12:02 AM
7

Love yourself and you won’t have to worry bout it. Sounds cliche but it’s legit. Don’t ever give someone power over you like that. You wanna be dependent on another person to feel satisfied?
/r/askTRP23/01/21 06:41 PM
2

You’re fine dude it’s just a fetish. I have the same thing. I could be dating a 10/10 and still want to do degenerate things with 6/10 girls. You can’t control what turns you on so just roll with it. As long as you don’t ACT like a simp you’re good. You already said you don’t. I don’t see any problem here
/r/askTRP23/01/21 12:23 PM
6

You’re not getting anywhere by telling her she’s a big ole meanie and your feelings were hurt. If it was a genuinely disrespectful thing then you remove attention. You don’t explain. you keep doing your thing. You giving her emotional responses is what she gets off on. You need to take advantage of being a dude and not being as emotional as her. Don’t be afraid to drop her. A chick playing hot and cold games with you? Make it easy for both of you and just be cold. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:44 AM
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Don’t read too much in to it. After all it’s just words. You’re doing fine when things are like this. What I’d be concerned with is the level of insecurity she is showing and how that will play out in the future
/r/askTRP22/01/21 06:41 PM
65

This is why I’m a fan of putting her on top. If she can’t work it to open up and get herself off on your dick then she’s gonna be a passionless lay
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:07 PM
4

By not having social media. Or if you do, keep it private and don’t add the bitch on it
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:02 PM
3

It’s comfort tests. They keep getting bigger and bigger until it can’t be passed without lying to her. You knew it wasn’t going to last forever. It may just be that time the plate breaks. Y’all can leave on good terms
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:57 PM
1

🥀🕊
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:53 PM
4

Hiking. Or pretty much any national park or preserve with trails. Just going out for the day with some water, a few snacks, and taking in everything.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 01:24 PM
2

They’re not asking for your handle because they’re interested. They’re asking for your handle so they can gain another follower. Just don’t have one. Stop playing into their game
/r/askTRP17/01/21 04:15 PM
11

These questions always get the inevitable “drop him as a friend” comments. Don’t. You have no say in who fucks who. I had a buddy that was weird like that. We’d be out at the bars and talk to a group of girls. I’d be vibing with one and he’d come up and say “I call her.” No motherfucker it doesn’t work like that. She’s gonna fuck who she wants to fuck, may the best man win. You cant put women, especially ones YOURE NOT EVEN FUCKING on reserve and cutoff anyone else. That’s weird controlling need…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 01:28 PM
9

She’s not interested and is just using you for attention/validation Agreeing to go to the beach “someday.” Yeah sure she’ll go as long as it’s always “someday” and never today. Could be any number of reasons. But it’s a daring app, not a meet a pen pal app. Unmatch her and delete her number and convo and try again with the next one
/r/askTRP16/01/21 01:15 PM
1

As for 1 I’ve seen it too. But it’s usually women that are very insecure or controlling. They want a supple turd she can mold into her commitment machine. She’s still a whore but she KNOWS the guy won’t leave her. So she can still have fun on the side and get all the provisioning at home. It’s their primary mating strategy. Once they start to hit the wall and they’re not able to get the attention of the guys anymore is when you see them start to take it out on the provider though. Either way the…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 02:53 PM
19

What exactly are you upset about? That she wants to go? Or that she’s playing with you? If you’re worried she’s gonna cheat then why did you LTR her? You think forcing her to stay is suddenly gonna fix her nature? If you’re mad she’s playing with you well that’s just what they do. If you’re legitimately turned off by it then you’re just not compatible with her. This reads as you being clingy. And for what? Reads as if you don’t even like her. In which I repeat why tf are you in a LTR with her? A…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 01:37 PM
9

To be legit fun to hang with
/r/askTRP14/01/21 03:28 AM
1

You’re not turning her on you doofus. It’s not enjoyable for her bc you put no effort into making it so. That’s not anti-slut defense. That’s ONS stuff. What you’re talking about is a chick who is basically saying “you can’t fuck me right”
/r/askTRP14/01/21 12:40 AM
4

Mmhmm and what is this “high interest?”
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:51 PM
2

You mean you’re not asking in person? Have you ever met her?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:40 PM
6

Blah blah blah. Don’t listen to what she says. Pay attention to what she does. She’s a hoe. Just not your hoe. Move on
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:26 PM
6

Try buying some AirPods for her and see what happens
/r/askTRP11/01/21 11:56 AM
2

Okay yeah your original post had me thinking EVERYONE was rude. Now that you have listed some accolades I can see you're just bothered by a certain subset of individuals. In that case, I can relate. I'm not a likable person just by sheer first impressions. I'm not warm and inviting, I don't kiss ass, I don't try to impress. I keep my head down and do my job. If someone wants to talk to me I'm more than happy to shoot the shit and have a good convo. I just don't LOOK like I'd be that type until y…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 12:51 AM
1

There are so many variables I couldn’t possibly know. Maybe it is ego and they’re trying to cut you down. That would be my guess. But I don’t know. You sound like a woman I once knew. We were classmates in grad school so she obviously had the intelligence. However she was raised extremely sheltered and had a massive victim complex. She assumed everyone thought the way she did. She projected her same biases and prejudices on everyone else. She also couldn’t ever admit to being wrong about anythin…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:40 PM
1

You realize you sound like the male equivalent of a hyper offended feminist who thinks anything literally any male does is a personal attack on her? You’re holding people to standards of behavior that frankly they don’t have to abide by. You say it happens all the time. If it smells like shit everywhere you go, check the bottom of your shoe. Maybe this ego is a defense mechanism to being sensitive. Maybe a little humility would take you to better places mentally. You sound vindictive. Idk if it’…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:00 PM
14

You say you’re an alpha but your behaviors say different. You’re easily offended. You are overly sensitive to any perceived slight that might come to your way. That’s caring. Caring too much in fact You walk around with a chip on your shoulder just waiting for someone to knock it off. I think you’re too worried about being an alpha than to actually just be one
/r/askTRP10/01/21 04:25 PM
6

Do the hookers accept AirPods as payment?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:46 PM
1

DONT
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:35 PM
2

I think the question here is why in the fuck do you give the slightest of shits about what anyone on tik tok thinks
/r/askTRP07/01/21 06:32 PM
3

Branch swinging is for women. You spin plates. If you don’t like your LTR, you demote her and start spinning more plates. I think here in lies your problem. You want another gf. So you’re not properly vetting. You just want another lined up as fast as possible. Stop doing that
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:05 PM
4

That’s a lot of words. And it does sound like a threat. The words here have no meaning to her. She’s getting attention, she’s getting drama, she doesn’t care about what you say. What you’re doing is everything she wants. If you have a problem with this you “explain” that to her through your actions. Not just that but you even rewarded her behavior by switching things up to be available for her despite her behavior. Do you see what I’m getting at? You talk a lot... but you don’t back shit up. And…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:53 AM
38

Yes. It sounds like you’re expecting them to suddenly realize the error of their ways. Cut toxic people out for yourself, not as a lesson to them.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:45 AM
18

Make posts about it every 5 minutes on this sub. That’s honestly the best way
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:08 AM
4

Ask her out. If she tries to give you a run around then delete her. Also stop fucking “gaming” on Instagram. That is there strictly for women to get validation. You’re not gonna have the success you would in person
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:56 AM
3

You’ll know. Especially at places like work. If you’re not entertaining any of the bitches at work because you know not to fuck around when it comes to what brings in money, you’ll be bombarded with questions about if you have a gf or whatever. Girls instinctively know. They get some tingles and they tell themselves “this dude GOT to be getting some pussy, but who?” Let em stew in that. Don’t fuck coworkers. And it goes to show you an attractive dude who doesn’t kiss their ass is desirable
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:41 AM
3

You’re in orbit. Have fun
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:31 AM
1

Where to cop said fuzzy feeling hormone?
/r/askTRP06/01/21 10:36 PM
8

☝️ this OP go ahead and buy your ex and her mans a pair too
/r/askTRP06/01/21 10:31 PM
5

tis cuffin season my boy
/r/askTRP06/01/21 10:23 PM
27

Never married but older. It made me value my own self care more than anybody else’s. Less tolerance for any people who thought their problems should be my problems. Basically I get to decide what to do with my life. Like you mentioned. You don’t need to explain yourself to anyone you just do it. You know what works for you and you stick to it. For your own benefit
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:24 PM
1

Just be on top of your game. May the best man win. Another user made a good point about them already deciding. They have a good feel of both of your demeanors already. It may simply be a matter of whose the best “fit.” Not just a skills standpoint. If it ends up being you then keep doing your thing. If not, don’t get salty and make things weird between you and the other dude. Just keep doing your thing and maybe another opportunity will present itself
/r/askTRP06/01/21 02:37 PM
5

They break. It happens. Don’t worry about it. Spin some new ones
/r/askTRP06/01/21 12:58 PM
1

You knock this bitch up and she’ll change alright. You just gotta be comfortable and happy with yourself making that decision. I think you already know. You seem happy being that kinda guy. And if that’s your thing by all means be that guy. But don’t go around justifying behavior you’re not comfortable with because other boxes are checked. Have some standards and self respect. I would recommend fucking other women BEFORE you decide to commit
/r/askTRP06/01/21 03:52 AM
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Try studying for the exam maybe
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:47 PM
4

Stop using women for validation. Yea I’ve experienced this several times in my life. Sometimes you’re just on a roll due to environment and circumstance. And when the moment is up you’re wondering if you “lost” it. No you haven’t. It’s just the current situation. You constantly scanning for IOI in women is making it worse. Tell yourself. “Let’s say I actually DID lose my mojo, what can I do about it?” Not a damn thing. You focus on yourself and if the mojo doesn’t come back so be it, this is the…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 12:02 PM
1

You need other women in rotation
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:54 AM
1

Don’t use social media as a crutch for approaching women
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:47 AM
1

So your question is if this is healthy for you? No. It’s not. You have oneitis. And you’re hamstering away trying to convince yourself it’s love. You’re going against the general consensus of the smart thing to do. Do whatever you want. But if you’ve read the sidebar you already know the answer to your question
/r/askTRP04/01/21 11:45 AM
1

You are their time hoe. For one, this is the exact same scenario Patrice educated a chump on. For two, you’ve known them FOR YEARS and they haven’t given it to you. You’re more their girlfriend than they’d consider fucking. Stop letting them play you
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:55 PM
4

You love her after 5 weeks?
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:31 PM
2

her You haven’t gotten over oneitis. You need to let her go fully. No chance of it happening. You have to tell yourself that. YOU say no. There was a reason it didn’t work out, YOU decide she’s not worthy. Reads like you’re still clinging onto hope. You need to make the decision it’s not happening
/r/askTRP03/01/21 06:26 PM
1

Forgot to add... there’s a name to that: Briffaults Law
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:10 AM
3

Hell no. Not possible. Women live in the now. They have no concept of “honor” or shit. It doesn’t matter if you raised them up from being a homeless crackwhore to living in a mansion. The second she doesn’t see she is benefiting from the relationship PRESENTLY she ditches it. That kinda stuff you’re talking bout is stuff men do. We remember stuff we do and what others do. Women don’t. Or if they do, it means jack shit the second it stops
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:06 AM
1

You can be thirsty just don’t express it so outwardly
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:43 AM
1

Could be a big reason she’s losing attraction. She’s supporting you. A woman being your mom does not get them wet
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:42 AM
4

I lived with a girl on several occasions in my life. Sex has never died off for me. And I think a big part of that is I was ALWAYS willing to walk away. You can’t walk on eggshells in your own house. That’s no way to live. You can continue being a yes man and live in a sexless, frustrated household. Or you can give her a little fire back and let her know you got options if she keeps creating problems. One girl had serious abandonment issues. So when she copped an attitude I’d straight up leave. …
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:47 PM
2

It doesn’t sound like a shit test it sounds like you’re being overtly thirsty and ppl are calling you out for it bc you’re coming off creepy or desperate
/r/askTRP02/01/21 08:39 PM
1

Yes. I distinctly remember eyeing a girl I thought was exactly my type. Played all kinds of games and felt like I was jumping thru hoops. Finally get her in bed and she’s boring as hell. Absolutely zero passion, zero personality, just lay there like a CPR dummy. I was actually kinda mad. Like I felt like I spent a lot of energy to finally get it and THIS is what I get. I ended up ghosting her for being a disappointment Ever since then when I saw her I was like “what the fuck did I see in her?”
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:44 PM
2

You think you in the matrix on a blue pill Read the sidebar for some frame
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:01 PM
2

We’re not that close tbh. And growing up with her I got used to how she was. Fact is she serves a purpose for my life and I do for hers. That’s all it is. She is the type to disappear. But so am I. So we kinda both know this about each other. As long as we both benefit from the relationship I don’t see any point in damaging it. Went years without knowing where one another was and it was fine, but for right now we are aquatinted again and it’s running smoothly. In a weird way I apply this logic w…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:06 AM
3

Nah we cool and I do my thing she does hers. She got my back if need be and vice versa. It’s kinda like we both know we got our ways and respect that about each other. We don’t pry into each other’s lives. She knows I know tho. Just don’t bring it up
/r/askTRP30/12/20 09:17 PM
3

Well while other “alphas” were being sent to juvenile detention I was given social workers and therapy. There is scientific evidence and studies conducted that confirm attractive people are perceived more favorably. I’m not sure what else to tell you. You seem to have made up your mind with a pretty strong emotional investment in your decision. Hope it works out for you
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:59 PM
2

Yup that’s exactly what I dug in to. Some serious issues there
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:54 PM
2

Not in my experience. Purely anecdotal but even when I was a punk kid getting kicked out of school I was given more chances by women in authority positions. They saw “potential” because I looked the part. I did not deserve the leeway I was given that was not afforded to other troublesome kids. It’s not a one way street. Success and attraction go both ways. It can only help. Why would you want to handicap yourself?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:43 PM
3

Being successful with women tends to have a carryover effect of being successful elsewhere in life. There is shit I can get away with simply because I’m more attractive to women that another man can’t. It’s not just about women. It’s a litmus test of how you’re perceived in general. And like any higher thinking mammal we tend to steer towards what brings us success and disregard things that don’t benefit us.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:34 PM
7

He’s been stalking her and harassing her and her new mans. Not just that but her friends as well. Then he comes to asktrp to enforce his delusions that she and him deserve it. Fact is she barely dated the dude, upgraded, and now he’s seething about it. He’s going to end up killing them I swear. Dude lives in an alternate reality. He ignores any advice to seek treatment. Does not stop even with police involvement. And only takes advice from people who don’t know any better that justify his behavi…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:28 PM
1

Yeah this. You’re overthinking it OP. “Mmhmm so you’re different than the Kardashian types?” Keep the dynamic of her qualifying herself to you.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:21 PM
6

All about symmetry. Your chin is a little recessed so the kratos beard fits perfectly making it appear elongated. A full beard kinda makes your face bottom heavy due to the shaved head and the fact you have a more round face. Go with the kratos beard. I would think twice about getting in a fight with you rocking that look
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:16 PM
1

Say yes then hand her a bowl of grapes.
/r/MGTOW230/12/20 03:01 PM
4

It’s not a conversation you have. I made that mistake. You just have to live it. You let her know through your actions. You reward her with your time, you reserve the romance for her. Any other girl you’re fucking you don’t take out to dinner, you don’t buy them gifts, you don’t let her post pics of you. The goal is to get to the point where she either accepts the relationship on your terms or there is no relationship. If she gets upset because you want a night to yourself, you remove affection.…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:56 PM
7

Yes. But a genuinely good woman could keep me faithful. That is not a lie. The desire to spread your seed doesn’t go away. But if you land a woman who you vibe with and you have mutual respect for one another or you just click then I have no problem keeping my dick in my pants just to ravage her when I see her. Problem is those types of women are few and far between. And they may be sweet and feminine but have one or two issues that ends up costing her the relationship.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:48 PM
5

You want to be that guy who if he cheats, people wonder what the girl did to make him. You’re generalizing too much. Fact is some guys get away with it and no reputation is ruined because he is respected
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:43 PM
2

☝️ this You’re doing fine landing the date. Somewhere along the way you fall off. Make your intentions known subtly. You should be getting physical before the talk of going over to either house is brought up. This could be anything like sitting close enough to where your arms are touching. Or giving her a light tickle on her arm if she says something you find endearing. She gets it in her head what the situation is leading to without overtly doing anything. When the date is coming to an end then…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:38 PM
13

Hey bud I found out some similar shit with my mom. I had to get a security clearance in the military and they did an extensive background check. Found out my mom had quite the history. This included a son she had who was older than me and she completely abandoned. The difference between me and you is I HAD to contact him for information. I genuinely felt like shit. There was no right way to go about that relationship. Imagine hitting your half sibling up like “hey there I’m the one our mom didn’…
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:22 PM
4

I did some digging. This dude has serious issues. I genuinely don’t think we should have him on the forums. Next thing you know he goes on a murderous rampage and they blame TRP. I know it sounds like hyperbole but I’m serious. The advice he gets is only feeding his delusion and he continues to harass this girl over it. Dude can not be saved
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:02 PM
3

This sounds like sour grapes or delusion. Let people fuck who they wanna fuck. If it’s not you then write about it in your diary not here
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:51 AM
1

Then let her see on your Snapchat stories or whatever. You’re hamstering a way to validate yourself to her. That’s a losing position.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:48 AM
7

Surprise she already knows that. You think you gonna “friend” your way into this pussy?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:45 AM
1

I like to meet somewhere. That way they show some initiative and confirm interest
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:44 AM
5

Tomassi’s iron rules Stop digging through the trash
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:38 AM
7

Take a day trip to a park and go hiking. Bring a dog
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:25 AM
6

The just be friends. Don’t flirt. Don’t validate her. Don’t waste your time texting her. You’ll know soon enough if she wants to fuck.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:24 AM
18

You go make your money. She is a plate. Not a wife. Is she lining your pockets? No. Then she doesn’t get to make financial decisions for you
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:19 AM
2

Set up a date Saturday and if she flakes fuck the clingy bitch Set the date. Ping her the day of like “bring a sweater” or some shit. If she doesn’t respond then delete her number and move on
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:17 AM
8

Man you are in dangerous orbit territory. I can see you did not take the advice given in the last thread you made.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:08 AM
3

How has it fucked you? Stop making these fucking excuses and APPROACH. I promise you not having an Instagram isn’t the reason you weren’t getting pussy. Jesus Christ
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:11 AM
5

said so herself Mmhmm. So you’re telling me her ACTIONS aren’t matching her WORDS I feel like this subject is covered in detail
/r/askTRP30/12/20 01:03 AM
59

I’m diagnosing you with a severe case of oneitis. I’m writing a prescription for a gym membership and referring you to 5 other women to start talking to. You’ll feel better in a bit
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:44 PM
5

Go stand outside her window with a boombox playing a love song in the rain while crying. Works every time
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:42 AM
10

Sure thing bud. Kramer ends up running into a lot of money due to a wealthy family member dying and leaving him an inheritance. He then purchased a high rise luxury apartment. So Seinfeld and company come over to visit only to find Kramer has been bringing hookers up and murdering them in the apartment. They find severed heads and limbs in vats of acid decomposing as well as in the deep freezer. The gang decides they should confront their friend first about his problem before going to the police…
/r/MGTOW228/12/20 10:39 PM
2

I don’t lose attraction I just immediately put her in “plate only” territory. Think of it as them doing the work for you. You don’t have to vet you already know she’s not “dating” material. If the opportunity arises just fuck em and try to keep her spinning on the side for a bit until it inevitably breaks. Still pursue other women tho
/r/askTRP28/12/20 01:01 PM
1

Sounds like sour grapes fam. You’re upset younger girls are fucking older guys so you hamster it away by calling it “creepy.” Fact is it’s been happening for centuries. 18-22 is like prime fertility and attraction. Salty guys (and older women) don’t like that they’re not fucking (or getting fucked). You can sit and stew about it or you can work to better yourself. Then you can enjoy that 40 year old pussy I guess
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:57 PM
8

Literally happened to me twice in Med school with classmates. Don’t. I even fucked a girl in an entirely different program but on the same campus and it still brought up drama Came real close to some me too shit when the bitch got bitter. Could’ve cost me the career I’m in now
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:56 PM
3

You don’t. You just end up orbiting.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:51 PM
1

You can approach at work, on the street, at the grocery store, at the gym, yoga, rock climbing gym
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:03 AM
1

Stop using social media to approach. You will just end up orbiting.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:53 AM
1

Bingo. You don’t tell women. You make them feel. What’s the one thing she wants MOST from you? The one thing of value you have? Your attention. You give it and you take it away accordingly. When a girl like this plays these games, it should never feel like you’re trying to fuck her. It should feel like she’s trying to fuck you. That’s when you know you’re passing shit tests. So you don’t play her game. She must play yours
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:13 AM
1

It’s about power. She wants your attention. She wants to see you’re emotionally invested in her. So there is desire. But there are shit tests that women instinctively do when they desire someone or something. They inherently want to know you’re high quality. You have failed them so far and her attraction has dwindled. Keep in mind women are turned on by feelings. They apply that logic to men. So if they can control yours she knows you want her. And that gives her validation. I’m telling you the …
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:57 AM
1

It’s just how they’re biologically wired. It’s their nature. Don’t think of it as evil. Would you be mad at a cat killing a mouse or bird? It’s just what they do. They can’t help it. Instead of getting mad be amused. Use this opportunity to watch firsthand their behavior. Take genuine curiosity. A knee jerk reaction is to be mad. It’s hard to be mad when you’re inquisitive instead. It’s all about mindset. Women are the ones who are slaves to their emotions. You’re the one who is supposed to seek…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:50 AM
1

That’s what she wants man. She wants to get you emotional. You know what works? Not caring. Let this hoe be a hoe. You do your thing and forget about her. Once she sees you are unphased by any shit she pulls you’ll see desperation in her. Watch that hamster start spinning. “Why doesn’t he care? Did he not really like me? Did he find another girl? Is she prettier than me?” Paradoxically your chances to finally fuck this girl will increase. But you have to not care. If that day comes NEVER give he…
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:22 AM
3

That’s the kinda dumb shit gangs do. If you want camaraderie join the military. You’ll meet some of the best friends you’ll ever make in your life. Have you thought about escorts? Why haven’t you succeeded? You get good grades you go to college you get a job. Or even a trade school. Applying yourself pays off
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:13 AM
1

She controls you. She has you wrapped around her finger. She knows how to make you emotional. She controls your emotions she controls you. She has rejected your physical advances. That is the friend zone. She is stringing you along for her own amusement.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:10 AM
1

It happens to everyone. It’s their problem not yours. Keep doing your thing
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:05 AM
1

You are in orbit sir. Please have some self respect and eject
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:01 AM
2

There’s always something one girl has that the other doesn’t. I focus on that and enjoy that about them
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:57 AM
11

You willing to kill some random just for no reason? All for the CHANCE of pussy? That’s some desperation
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:56 AM
12

It doesn’t work like that. You’re jumped in and you don’t get to leave unless in a casket. Especially the low guy on the totem pole they gonna have you murk someone for no reason just to prove your loyalty
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:18 AM
2

cuz best believe imma do me hun 💅
/r/askTRP27/12/20 12:13 AM
3

There’s a key word that pops up often on red pill discussion: internalize. What you describe is still the process of learning. You’re examining yourself. Which is good. After enough time you’ll begin behaving in ways that better suit you without realizing it at first. But to get there takes a lot of self reflecting and applying knowledge you have picked up along the way. I’m not going to pretend to be a guru but I can just share my own experiences of the tide kinda shifting toward a healthier mi…
/r/askTRP26/12/20 02:18 AM
1

It depends on the girl. I’ll tell you something I did that really put things in perspective for one girl in particular. Typical attention whore. But cute. I wanted to fuck her. But so did a lot of guys and she knew it. We’d flirt but it never went anywhere. After a while I just said I’m not wasting my time with her I’ll focus on women who actually go through with the flirting. She snaps me one night. I open it up and it’s a selfie of her laying in bed. I thought about replying but then I thought…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 11:28 PM
18

A key that can open many locks is valuable. A lock that can be opened by any key is worthless.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:59 PM
6

It’s a journey. Books aren’t engaging for the end, they’re engaging because of the story. When it ends the fun ends. You just keep moving forward on the journey until you die. That’s the beauty of it, all about the story.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:55 PM
3

Have you been on a date yet? If she’s flaked twice already I wouldn’t be giving her a third chance unless she initiates 100%
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:19 AM
7

As you get older it’s just gonna be more and more of em popping up. You can either fuck em and have fun for a bit or not. But if you don’t, you’re decreasing the pool of available women for yourself. Especially in your 30’s It sucks because if a woman is around your age and she doesn’t have kids, she may be kinda neurotic. So you get to deal with that too Best bet is to stay fit and healthy to still attract mid 20’s. Maybe a few early 20’s here and there
/r/askTRP25/12/20 03:17 AM
1

I don’t have much to say other than FUCK Chicago is cold. Not just cold but windy. I absolutely hated it there dealing with the winter
/r/askTRP25/12/20 01:37 AM
1

Well you could always just flunk out so close to graduating, not use your degree at all, and let that debt build interest while you sit around writing posts on Reddit
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:39 AM
207

Had a few similar experiences with online dating. I can now have a p good idea what they really look like from the photos. Not smiling in any of them? Fucked teeth Only face pics? Fat Only edited/filtered pics? Average Only Staged/model-esque pics? Boring I started to get real quick at making judgment calls after the first half dozen dates
/r/askTRP24/12/20 12:37 AM
3

Stop breaking your fucking laptop holy shit And it’s not your friends fault
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:34 PM
2

You got that impression in three lines? Come on man
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:33 PM
2

social media game Pick one and only one What happens when your selfie gets a girl to message you bc she’s just so star struck by your face? You still have to meet her. You still have to approach in person. Sounds like you’re making excuses to not approach. Social media is comfy and safe for you? Well have fun orbiting
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:26 PM
2

A billion dollars is a lot. That’s a shit ton of money. But whatever keeps you motivated. For starters you should not be failing at school. You want several sources of income and yet you’re squandering an investment right now by failing. That should be a main priority for you. This is where your mission is. It’s one thing to say you want a billion. The fun part is developing plans to make it happen and implementing them.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:39 PM
3

And what’s your plan to get there?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:53 AM
3

It’s all about mindset. If you have some self respect and hard fought accomplishments under your belt, the opinion of someone who is not you is not going to matter.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:42 AM
1

She just probably thinks she has a dumb O face. You ever been with a girl you thought was hot and as she’s cumming she makes that weird face? And you’re looking at her like “damn that’s an ugly ass face.” She’s just insecure about it. In hindsight I think it’s cute
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:36 AM
2

Parks are great. You don’t need much experience hiking to walk a common trail. Fucking love nature. If you’re looking to just get your dick wet there are plenty of places for that. But I say plan a list of a few parks and hit them up. Stop by any events going on in the area and just walk around
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:20 AM
1

It happens dude. Just weren’t compatible with her. You’re not a bad person and neither is she. You two just wanted different things in life. That’s all.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:17 AM
1

I don’t think it was indifference. I’m not sure the dynamic you have with her I’m going off a small story here. What I gather is you told her something bothered you. She found out she can still do it anyways and you’re still around. So she feels your words are meaningless. The hand you have been dealt as a man in a relationship is limited compared to hers. So you gotta play your cards right. One of them is attention. She does something you disapprove of, you remove attention. The other is your t…
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:10 AM
4

Water pick. You can hook it up to your faucet. It is fucking amazing. I’m one of those weirdos who likes flossing. I can’t go to sleep if I feel I got shit in my teeth. Got me a water pick and it still blows out gunk the floss didn’t get. Also a good set of speakers is a game changer
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:52 PM
1

You’ve already tried words. Words don’t work. All she knows is feelings. You make her feel with your actions.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:47 PM
1

Sounds like you were her boyfriend but she wasn’t your girlfriend
/r/askTRP22/12/20 04:03 AM
4

You don’t get to say what two people consensually do with each other. What is with this controlling behavior? Why are you so possessive of a slut? You’re not over her
/r/askTRP22/12/20 03:59 AM
2

You sound like one of those dudes who is stuck in the past. Like a 50 year old high school quarterback or a washed up 80’s rockstar who is now struggling to sell out dive bars. Don’t be that guy. Nothing more pathetic than living in the past or having high school be the leak of their lives. You have to adapt to the time, nothing lasts forever. This requires foresight and planning. You should’ve spent your 20’s developing more lucrative skills other than drumming. Then your 30’s would’ve been com…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:52 PM
3

You kissed. Okay. But you haven’t fucked her? If so you’re her time hoe. She’s using you for dates and to chauffeur her around while she’s trying to get commitment from a better deal. She’s just not getting other guys she wants to commit to her so she’s falling back to you because you’re easy to control
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:35 PM
3

She’s shifting the power dynamic in her favor. When you walked out you shouldn’t have texted her. You need to punish behaviors like that by removing attention. She has to know that creating drama is not acceptable if she’s to be In an LTR with you. Let me tell you this behavior will not stop. It will only get worse. Unless you punish it swiftly and consistently. If she can’t handle it and you guys break up, so be it. Either that or she stops with the shit. But you’re going to see this kind of be…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:22 PM
1

You’re thinking women are like men. They’re not. Women are much more attracted from the emotions they get. Sure a visually good looking guy can pique some interest but if he’s a pussy they will feel nothing for him. A woman has to FEEL to be attracted. It’s not enough to be visually attractive. Some of the most average dudes I know absolutely slay because they tap in to the woman’s emotions. They don’t look any different than the next guy, they act different. And that sets them apart. Girls will…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 02:08 PM
2

Instead of trying to impress a girl through social media why don’t you approach girls in real life while doing your “cool” stuff?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:56 PM
2

I have never once not fucked a woman because I didn’t have social media. Maybe they’d think it’s creepy for you. But not for other guys. In that case you need to work on completely other things than social media to where you’re not creepy anymore.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:52 PM
3

Really think about this. What could possibly be their motive? Apply Occam’s razor here... an entire staff is plotting against you all the way up from the CEO down to the person hooking you up to hemodialysis. You said yourself you’ve been hauled around everywhere. Have other places found you to be noncompliant? There’s a saying if it smells like shit everywhere you go, check the bottom of your foot. What do any of them have to gain from reporting those things? They are doing what is called defen…
/r/askTRP19/12/20 01:30 PM
1

I started undergrad at 26. Took me a while to find my passion. And that involves doing a ton of different things in life
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:39 PM
3

Make the goals REALISTIC. If you’re struggling to fuck women now, don’t make a goal to fuck a million next year. Make the goal specific, measurable, and achievable. “Approach and talk to one girl I find attractive a week.” That’s 52 girls next year you’ll have met.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 01:00 PM
8

It happens. Been out with girls I thought were incredibly hot but there was just ZERO chemistry. Not her fault, not mine. Just we didn’t vibe and that’s fine it happens. Like yeah they’re hot but not even sure i could fuck her if the opportunity arises bc I just don’t feel anything for her. No spark It’s just you two didn’t vibe. Don’t stress it
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:52 PM
23

“Totally switches it up” “Roommates all sexually ambiguous sluts” Yep sounds like a keeper. Wife her up
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:48 PM
3

I started school at 26, Med school at 30. Lining my pockets now. Don’t regret a thing. Saw lots of friends starting family’s too. But then I look at what they’re doing. All jobs I wouldn’t want to do, much less HAVE to do bc I have mouths to feed. I had a passion and I went for it and now I’m happy. And all that money is going directly to me. Being a 30-something bachelor with fat pockets has its perks. You can not put a price on passion. Finding something you genuinely enjoy doing and making th…
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:49 AM
20

If she’s a plate who cares
/r/askTRP18/12/20 11:39 AM
1

Agreed. Never stated they weren’t. Society as a whole seems to enforce it
/r/MGTOW217/12/20 11:02 PM
2

I think that the narrative is and has been very well established by society and the upbringing of boys. From movies to music and traditional roles of teaching boys. I’ve been told to suck it up by my father, my mother, various jobs I’ve had since 16 years old, my peers, younger people, older people, women, etc. I’m happy you didn’t buy into the mantra. I unfortunately did when I was younger and it cost me. It takes me a while to learn something and after years of sacrificing my own happiness to …
/r/MGTOW217/12/20 10:14 AM
3

Selective service only applying to males. Combat roles traditionally assigned to men. Males paying the majority of child support. Men paying the majority of alimony. Men the majority of workplace deaths. Men the majority of violent crime victims. No men’s shelters. Men the majority of hazardous job workers. Men the scapegoat of anything bad. Violence against men from women in comedy movies normalized. “Man up.” The fact a man can have his reputation ruined from zero evidence and just the word of…
/r/MGTOW217/12/20 12:53 AM
36

She’s just playing on your emotions. Continue as usual. Don’t go soft
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:28 PM
1

Yeah, networking. I friended a hippie girl and got introduced into all this vegan cuisine, rock climbing, yoga, good hiking spots, coffee shops, and her cute friends.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 01:30 PM
8

Because once you’ve fucked enough women you realize just how rare a “basic” woman is with all those qualities you mentioned.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:58 PM
22

You’re told as a man you need to suck it up and make sacrifices your whole life. It’s how they’re raised. They inherently and logically know it’s a bad deal but c’est la vie... it’s the “right” thing to do. That’s why there’s all these sayings like “happy wife, happy life” or referring to her as “the ball and chain.” People know. It’s just they choose to suffer bc as a man you’ve been conditioned to believe that your role is to suffer for the sake of others
/r/MGTOW216/12/20 12:47 PM
6

Just fuck an escort and go back to the grind. Sounds like you’re making tons of excuses to be lazy. “I’m not lazy, I just like to do things MY way.” Every single job you have is going to have you do things their way. Best bet is to find a path where the job and your preferences align. Just play the game until you can make the move to independence successfully. Get an escort to stop freaking out for now. Why rush shit when you got the basics covered? Your parents are paying for your education and…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 11:49 AM
26

Meh. I’ve seen the most man hating women still a slave to some good dick. They still have that biological thirst that can’t be quenched in the sea of simps. Simply don’t be one and a vast majority of problems will not be yours to worry about
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 12:52 AM
1

Then miss her for a exactly what she is. She was a hoe. You can have fun with a hoe. They can be playful they can make you feel good. But they’re still a hoe. Love her for exactly what she is. There’s plenty of more hoes out there for ya. And you can love them for what they are. Just never date them
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:31 AM
1

You miss her pussy. That is literally the only thing. You do not miss the person the pussy was attached to
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:04 AM
1

I know this feel. My best advice is to really sit and think of just how far you’ve come with what you were given. Like for me I wasn’t given much, yet I’ve accomplished more with nothing than anyone else I know who were given more. I’m literally the only person I know who does exactly what they say they’re going to do when they set out on it. I haven’t met another person in my life who has build up so much from sheer work ethic. So basically you need to have self respect. And you get that by hon…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:58 PM
11

she’s got you in orbit
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:49 PM
10

Have some self respect dude.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:47 PM
2

No one will be good enough for her. Why tf are you seeking validation from some BPD hoe? Who gives a shit what she thinks. Fix your priorities
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:45 PM
4

I’m not understanding. Why are you shit testing men? How are you going about it? Are they present when you do? What is their response?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 11:39 PM
1

AA is just for quick responses and you keep it moving. It sounds like you’re referring to a chronic offender with insults. In that case you need to keep those people at arms length away from you and maybe even completely ignoring them. There’s playful banter. And then there’s vindictive people. No amount of social maneuvering is gonna stop a toxic person from being toxic
/r/askTRP13/12/20 01:04 PM
1

Fucking odd I had the same issue. I straight up told her where I’m at I don’t have good signal so I can’t be downloading 16gigs of fucking movies every 5 seconds bc it slows my shit down She didn’t get butthurt and stopped
/r/askTRP13/12/20 03:07 AM
1

Yeah man don’t hate her for being what she is. She was cool and fun to be with right? She just happened to be a hoe. Nothing inherently “good” or “bad” in that sense alone. Just appreciate her for exactly what she is. A fun hoe. That’s all. Just don’t date em next time and you can continue on having fun with em
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:16 AM
1

Nah I can’t say I agree. An object I’d stick my dick in regardless of other aspects. A woman still has to qualify herself as fuckable to me despite being attractive. A boring or absent personality is enough to turn me off from the baddest of bitches physically
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:13 AM
1

You knew she was a hoe and you STILL gave her gf status. Cool and all that you realize she ain’t shit now but don’t duck responsibility here, you need to take ownership of how you fucked up knowing better
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:10 AM
123

They’re insecure
/r/askTRP13/12/20 12:07 AM
3

Lmao you play the game man. Or you can sit on the sidelines and continue to complain about the rules
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:38 PM
4

You only really need to worry about that if you haven’t fucked her yet. If you’re already fucking you can reward her pics with some validation. A simple emoji or something. Now for women you’re not fucking yet then yes you’re correct you shouldn’t be giving out validation all willy nilly
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:37 PM
1

You’re projecting. No one cares where you stick your dick. You trying to police other men is weird
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:57 AM
3

Women can be very picky on those apps. Just bc they have a lot of options. For what it’s worth I’m a white dude who almost exclusively matched with latinas, Asians, Arabs. I never matched with white women. Granted I’m not really attracted to white girls but I figured I’d get a few matches here and there. I just think maybe they’re not realistic with the guys they expect to get. Bc I’m so picky with white women I’d only swipe on women I consider close to my league. But my only assumption is since…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 02:21 AM
2

You have some serious insecurities you need to hash out before you even consider a relationship with anyone
/r/askTRP10/12/20 01:42 AM
2

You’ll see in a decade those marriages will be shit, if even there at all. Dude will be stressed and desperate bc he ain’t getting any. Woman will be perpetually mad she settled for him. And you’re right. The fear of being alone is one of the biggest influences over people’s decisions. It’s why people stay in relationships that drain them. They’ll take being together and unhappy than being alone and content. I agree, monogamy, even from a very young age, didn’t make sense to me. I’ve always foun…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:37 PM
1

I didn’t know all that. If he’s buying her shit then fuck it. If I were you I’d ask for him to start buying you shit too. But yeah to your point, they keep them at a distance. When it’s outright them flirting in front of you, I think that’s stepping over the line. We all know some weasels trying to get in with your girl. She SHOULD be doing her job and brushing him off while keeping that leash tight around his neck. A dude flirting with your girl in front of you happens. It’s fine if it’s every …
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:11 PM
2

There’s so much more at stake. Reputation for one. A lot of women would LTR a man they inherently are not attracted to if she feels she is safe, has resources, and can tell others has a boyfriend for status. But that little bug in her will always be craving something more genetically viable to her. Morality comes into play because women have an image to uphold to remain viable for commitment. This is why lying is so prevalent among women. What they desire versus what they have currently. It’s th…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 05:30 PM
4

On one hand an average women could have an army of orbiters providing resources. This will inevitably inflate anyone’s perceived sexual market value. However on the other hand none of her orbiters are sexually viable for her. She thinks she’s a 10, so she thinks she could get a 10. Nothing below that will do. Her perception of herself online does not line up with reality offline. If you’re texting a girl multiple times... first stop. That’s not attractive. Second, it means she simply sees hersel…
/r/MGTOW208/12/20 05:04 PM
1

On a very base level I agree. We want to spread our seed in as many fertile women as possible. Women want to accrue as many resources as possible for security first, status secondary. We all want healthy offspring. So both sexes are attracted to mates that have qualities that would give potential offspring the best chance of success in their environment. We inherently acknowledge certain genetic traits as healthier. But as one poster stated, it goes well beyond that in today’s environment.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:52 PM
1

The amount of testosterone that you could conceivably alter by orgasm is so minuscule it would not affect cognition. According to studies I’ve seen regarding testosterone is that it is good for leadership qualities. Meaning you are more effective at managing social bonds. Anecdotally, from bodybuilding back in the day, when I was on supraphysiological doses of testosterone, I was more focused. Not a lot of outside shit could phase me. It could just be your dopamine fix from nutting. You were cra…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 04:40 PM
2

She can have orbiters but it’s a respect thing. If she values attention from some desperate dude more than her respect for you then you need to let her go. It’s a basic decency thing to stop outward advances when the creeper knows she’s in a relationship. If she lacks that, you need to start taking away your basic decency in a tit for tat deal. Attention is what she wants. Yours isn’t enough. So give your attention elsewhere since she doesn’t value it
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:51 PM
1

If we’re flirty and have been flirting for some time I’ll push to hang. Plausible deniability still applies. But something like inviting her over to watch a movie. Where it’s obvious what’s gonna happen you’re just giving her an excuse to say “it just happened.” If she’s cold to that then I just drop it all together. I remove my attention and give it to a different girl. Again, this is if we’ve been flirting back and forth and I’m just seeing if she’s about it or not. I don’t want to waste my ti…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:06 PM
2

Night mainly. Just the vibe seems much more flirty with all the liquid confidence going around. But I was also in a social group of college people. I was the oldest but we were all cool. And just kinda branched out from there.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 01:33 AM
6

I’m round your age. I’ve had a little luck on the apps. And at nightlife. But I was in a college town for what it’s worth. Just a numbers game when there THAT many girls around in that age range
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:10 PM
1

Depends on the bitch. You gotta sniff her out first to feel if she’s receptive to that kind of advance
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:22 PM
1

Stop talking bout it and just do it
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:20 PM
1

Bc she sees you’re controlled by your emotions. She can easily control your emotions, she can control you.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 10:01 PM
1

Sounds risky af. Especially in the states. Know a lot of dudes with kids with multiple women and they are raped financially.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:17 PM
8

Stop using this sub as your diary. There are plenty of other places to post this. If you want advice go to asktrp
/r/TheRedPill07/12/20 06:27 PM
2

To get power and control over you.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:23 PM
14

I mean you essentially are fucking a piece of meat. That’s what we all are. Maybe give your dick a break. I know if I start feeling like the sex is lackluster with a girl I won’t cum for about 3-4 days and by the time I see her I’ll be ravaging her again. Got any fetishes? Try them out with the girl. Always great to spice shit up and see how different girls respond
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:34 AM
4

Just have fun with them. Pretty much anything you do will be fascinating to them. They are amazed if you fix a simple thing... any kind of handiwork. Some of them are in it for the “daddy” relationship fetish thing. I don’t know what else to say. Basically they look up to you bc you have shit figured out by then. And their generation of men is simply different.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:29 AM
6

You’re getting ghosted often after sex? Are you pretty vanilla in bed? Do they cum? It’s pretty tough for a woman to give up some good dick even when she knows there’s no real future there I’d say one or two times... shit happens. But 80? You’re doing something wrong. If you couldn’t get one decent one to hang around then maybe look at improving your sex game
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:17 AM
7

Yes it’s intentional. And it’s working
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:07 AM
2

Work ethic beats natural talent. You may be smart but what good is that if you don’t use it? Try to find something that uses your natural talent. Work ethic combined with natural talent is where it’s at Ultimately you probably wanna do something that gives you a sense of purpose.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:05 AM
1

Just talk to her normally. Look for more signals from there. There’s a lot of autism here. So if you are indeed socially aware and she is legitimately dropping hints then just strike up a convo. But don’t lead it to a number exchange. Just talk. If she drops more signals then go from there. But again from the post I’m more inclined to believe you may be reading too much into it
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:58 AM
3

She don’t wanna be a slut. She wants you to chase to feel more validation about being a slut. Ultimately if this goes cold like she’s making it... well then congrats she’s a dumb one who made herself more of a slut by a ONS and being ghosted. Also when they say “I’m not the hookup type” or “I don’t usually do this” and then go on and fuck... well guess what? They usually do that. Actions not words my man. Leave this one alone she might have issues
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:49 AM
2

Instead of deleting it why not have fun with it instead? “I have my ways 🙃” Even if you strike out you learn something. Maybe it works. Maybe she sees you got balls. Maybe she likes it. Or maybe she thinks you’re a creeper. Who gives a shit just have fun with it. Also “10/10” gtfo
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:41 AM
1

Don’t try to sell your belief shit to someone. Just lead by example and do your own thing. If they dont buy in so be it. You gotta let people be people and do whatever it is they want.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:37 AM
4

Nah she needs him. She’s super unhealthy and can barely wipe her own ass. Plus she likes ordering him around. If he’s gone she wouldn’t know what to do And yet this dude is upset he’s not fucking that? It’s crazy to me
/r/TheRedPill07/12/20 12:34 AM
8

As I get older I see the same shit. I look at people giving advice and I sit there thinking “bitch what the fuck do YOU know about this?” Like I see you, I don’t want to be anything like you, why the fuck would I listen to you? Part of becoming a man is just figuring your own shit out your own way. Figuring life out of your rules with the cards you were dealt. Not saying not to listen to wisdom but some people have no business preaching. We’re all vastly different in mindset and circumstance
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 10:21 PM
1

It’s really great to zone out to
/r/askTRP06/12/20 10:18 PM
12

I saw this shit with my dad. He bends over backwards for his wife. Completely whipped. His biggest fear is upsetting her. Yet she’s always upset about something. And he complains he hasn’t been laid in like 5 years. I told him just do whatever the fuck you want. She’s gonna be mad regardless. She can’t take away something she’s not giving you either. But still, he simps. Feel sorry for the dude. He can’t even leave the house without asking permission
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 07:00 PM
9

Your mindset is off from the jump. You have outcome dependence. You’re going in with the goal to “win.” Shift your mindset, shift your goal. Go in there to meet people, see if they’re interesting, see if they’re decent and warm people. Go in with genuine curiosity. What may help to stop worrying about “winning” is to go into a few situations trying to “lose.” See what dumb shit you can come up with and watch their response. Make it entertaining for your own sole amusement. Sometimes I’ll approac…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:49 PM
12

I like watching “soft white underbelly” on YouTube when he interviews pimps. What I see is to be a decent pimp you have to know female nature. It’s fascinating how different they all are while maintaining some foundational beliefs
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:04 PM
1

Sometimes when people start meditating or they have a trip with psychedelics they gain some insight. Problem is a lot of times they consider themselves gurus with all the answers suddenly. I personally would quietly begin to demote her if you’re in a LTR. Keep fucking her but don’t expect her to take the relationship seriously. So you don’t take it seriously either. Consider this your opportunity to meet other women. It honestly sounds like she just wants to be a hippie with all this “free love”…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 01:01 PM
23

You’re overthinking. You don’t owe anyone anything. That was her choice to get you a gift. Do what ever it is you want. Do you want to keep fucking her? Then you’re gonna have to deal with her hitting your line up occasionally. Are you done? Just cut it off. You’re making this way bigger than it needs to be
/r/askTRP05/12/20 11:53 AM
3

Didn’t you post this like a month ago or something? Looks familiar. I don’t have an argument for you. Your mindset is yours and I can respect that you own it. If you’re happy that’s all that matters
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:47 AM
-1

Damn dude I’m thinking I’ll try it. Did your physique change at all? Did you keep your muscle mass and stuff?
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:40 AM
3

Cool beans dude. Did you end up trying out a vegan diet or nah? If you did what did you think of it? Thinking bout trying it out for shits and giggles. Maybe do some before and after bloodwork
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:20 AM
0

She could just be too prude. Some girls simply can’t relax enough to really let go. You may just be sexually incompatible
/r/askTRP05/12/20 12:05 AM
1

True but you can stack the odds in your favor. If you’re asking these questions to yourself, and your gut is telling you something ain’t right then that usually means you went in to a relationship with someone you don’t trust. It’s either that or you have insecurities you haven’t hashed out with yourself yet. Which you shouldn’t be bringing into a relationship either.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 02:06 PM
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I don’t fear relationships I’m just more realistic about them. And to counter your other point if anything I’m less responsive to women. If we’re not on the same page I’m not gonna jump through hoops I’m simply going to leave it be and find someone more compatible
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:43 PM
2

These are all things that should be vetted out BEFORE you girlfriend them up
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:32 PM
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TRP is one of the few places that approach problems by having men take ownership of it. You could post a question, include details, and you’ll get a bunch of responses on where YOU fucked up. If you’re not the prize then get there. Be better. That’s the mantra. You seem to have a fundamental misunderstanding of TRP. Or maybe the straw man was intentional bc there is some uncomfortable emotional baggage that is surfacing when reading material on here. In which I suggest if something doesn’t sit r…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 12:25 PM
1

Read into comfort tests and start playing with how best to approach it. I had the same problem for some time. Women need some level of beta for security. Doesn’t mean to go simp mode. But a surprise dinner date or something goes a long way. Or if there’s something you’ve been wanting to do (museum or some shit) invite a girl along. You’re still getting to do what you want and she becomes more comfortable with you
/r/askTRP03/12/20 12:58 PM
3

Devils advocate here. Are you sure you’re not trying too hard when you dance? I’m just tryna picture a dude dancing all aggressively and doing flips while everyone else is just casually moving. Like yeah you’re getting attention. But it’s not “I’m turned on” attention but maybe a “this dude takes this shit way too serious” thing. I’ll give you an example. I was at a club when I was freshly 21 and learning how that scene worked. I’m shoulder to shoulder moving through the crowd when all the sudde…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:20 AM
1

They really do love you AT THAT MOMENT. When they tell you those things they honestly believe it. But it’s all transient. Just enjoy the moment while you got it. And be setting up other women to love you briefly
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:11 AM
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Plenty of good looking dudes who simp. He may just not realize his potential. Don’t stress over his issues just worry about yourself
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:02 AM
7

All this shit for a stripper? Dude no. Stop overthinking it. Fuck a stripper like a stripper and keep it moving. Why are you even considering dating her?
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:59 AM
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The last sentence of your second paragraph tells me you got the right mindset. If you genuinely like fucking her and maybe even hanging then there’s nothing wrong with keeping that going. Just bc she’s a whore doesn’t mean she’s a bad person. Enjoy your time with her. Just don’t ever date her again. And be careful if she’s the vengeful type. But I’m assuming she’s p chill about hoeing around. To your question: all women have it in their nature to maximize their advantages. Some approach it diffe…
/r/askTRP03/12/20 12:16 AM
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Be busy with other hoes. Honestly the upside to attention whores is they are insanely predictable. You already know what she’s gonna do, so be three steps ahead of her every time. You also know she’s gonna advertise it blatantly. You sit back and chill, stay out of the spotlight, and start messing with other women. Nothing shuts a manipulative girl down more than her finding out thru the grapevine that this whole time she’s been trying to make you jealous you’ve been fucking Stacy. I’ve ran into…
/r/askTRP02/12/20 01:30 PM
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Your gut is telling you not to commit. Trust your gut. Keep fucking her and hanging if you like her company. But don’t take her seriously. She may straighten her shit up... or at least hide it better. Either way listen to your intuition and continue playing the field
/r/askTRP02/12/20 02:41 AM
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Most people die alone. Could’ve been married for decades, have kids, etc. but most people are put off to the side to pass away. From what I’ve seen, once you become a burden, your own family wants you to be someone else’s problem. That’s why they have assisted living facilities/skilled nursing facilities/ hospice. Your best bet is to stay healthy by exercising and eating decent. Whatever life throws at you you’ll at least have a better chance at maintaining your independence. It’s when people ma…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:22 PM
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You sound emotionally invested in an uninvested hoe. She probably in her peak phase and just trying to get it all in while she can. Just keep fucking her if you want. But stop thinking you two are a couple. If she wanna fuck other dudes then let her. You should be looking to fuck other women. To keep things civil don’t tell her you’re fucking other women. Just when you leave tell her you’re gonna go hang with a friend. She don’t want a relationship so you don’t have to tell her what you’re doing…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 02:16 PM
3

I’d say I was in my prime looks wise around 25-26 but started fucking way more women in my early to mid 30’s
/r/askTRP29/11/20 10:56 PM
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What do you have to lose? Text exactly what you need in order to cater to her request to visit. Say you just can’t unless you stay the night. If she says no then you lose nothing. Right now if you were to go over and jump through all these hoops JUST to hang for a couple hours then you’re just giving all this validation to her. That’s commitment on your part, something SHE needs to work for. It’s a tit for tat deal. If she’s not budging then don’t waste your time. ESPECIALLY if she has a history…
/r/askTRP28/11/20 12:59 PM
1

You say this now. Wait until you’re 30 something and fucking 18 year olds. You won’t be singing the same tune
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:07 AM
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A lot of times the girl will just want to be more than a fuck buddy so they’ll drop it if they feel like you’re not gonna commit. But occasionally you’ll get a super chill one who knows what’s up. Y’all fuck good but you both realize ain’t shit gonna come from it and enjoy each other as a booty call. You know she probably got something else on the side but it’s cool bc she probably knows you got something on the side too. Y’all just don’t bring it up and just enjoy each other when together. Hit …
/r/askTRP27/11/20 01:49 AM
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He sounds pretty insecure dude. Just let him be awkward by himself. Would a confident guy just stand and stare at someone who is talking to him? No. He’d use the opportunity to network. Shit he may even be intimidated by you for whatever reason and he’s trying to scare you. I wouldn’t worry about it. He sounds socially stunted
/r/askTRP26/11/20 01:01 PM
3

I do the same shit. If I put in effort to chat some bitch up and my effort isn’t being matched, or she’s just not reciprocating with a flirty enough vibe, I’ll block em. I’m not gonna orbit. They should be thrilled I’m talking to them. If they’re anything but that then I’m not wasting my time. Plenty of bitches out there with personalities and are appreciative of your approach. You’re just streamlining your success rate. Don’t be an orbiter. If she’s not “fuck yeah” about you then drop her and m…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:43 AM
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Does he ACTUALLY box or does he punch the air in the gym? Or maybe slap around the boxing bag a little? There’s a difference between an actual boxer who boxes people vs that weirdo who shadowboxes in the weight room trying to get attention. Don’t talk to the dude. Completely ignore him. He’s not gonna assault you randomly. And if he does well then that’s illegal. Sounds like you were trying to be friends with him and he wasn’t interested. Ok now you know. Leave him alone. He made his decision. B…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:35 AM
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But you broke up with her? You’re right respect is everything. That girl doesn’t deserve any after her behavior. Your bro just banged a hoe, that’s all it is. It’s all about mindset. You can either be the chump who committed to a hoe and got cucked... or you can be the dude who just fucked a hoe too. See what I’m saying? Right now you’re the former. So if you’re feeling “weak” it’s because of how you’re acting right now. Your bro now has every reason to let the friendship die too. Imagine fuckin…
/r/askTRP26/11/20 11:27 AM
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Similar shit happened to me some years ago. Thing is my buddy hardly got laid so I was genuinely happy for him. Bonus points bc the bitch was seething mad when she saw how I didn’t care and was still good friends with the guy. Look man a hoe is a hoe is a hoe. She’s gonna get around. And dudes are gonna fuck her. You’re all Eskimo brothers now. You have a closer bond after banging the same slut. That’s stuff you should be able to laugh about. The hoe knows what she is. And seeing dudes joke abou…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 02:08 PM
1

Not of the top my head that one just happened recently and it sparked something that was otherwise nothing with a girl. And yes it’s that playfulness factor they gotta have. If they’re too stuck up I know we’re best off not wasting each other’s time
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:39 PM
1

Kinda weird for me. I started off naturally redpill and slowly went blue due to conditioning. But I was raised by a single mom. And I saw first hand how women were when they didn’t think anyone was watching them. My mom had no interest into trying to hide who she was. Saw it all. So naturally when I started dating I treated women exactly how I knew them to be. Not the front they put up for society. But I knew their true nature. But also recognized I gotta put up with some shit inevitably if I’m …
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:43 PM
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Anything that can rev up her emotions a little. If I’m just not vibing with a bitch for whatever reason (could just be we don’t click personality wise) then I’ll ask a random off the wall question out of nowhere. Something like... “What’s your vice?” She went from bored to that hamster spinning real quick. She’s gonna start thinking all kinds of different things at once. And impressed with your forwardness. Maybe throw a question right back at you. But just stay chill and take genuine interest i…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:34 PM
1

P sure you can find all kinds of theoretical analysis on this phenomenon in the sidebar
/r/askTRP24/11/20 03:25 PM
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I had a few dudes who did this. Best thing I found is to match whatever physical thing they did with ever so slightly more force. Just enough to where it hurts them. But not a full on fight. Example from years ago. Some chump came in the room where there was me and some other girls present at work. He had a rolled up magazine and hit me in the head with it for no reason, probably to get noticed by the girls. I was wearing my work boots so I just laughed and did a leg kick right below his knee to…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 10:48 PM
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Goes to show you how prevalent the scarcity mindset is I suppose
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:35 PM
2

No problem man. You’re young and you’ve prob heard this a million times but this will be nothing in a few short years. And I appreciate it dude. I’ve explored places like Albania and had a blast so who knows. Hang in there man you’ll be fine. And you sound like a smart dude so you’ll be fine
/r/askTRP21/11/20 01:47 AM
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Honestly just start thinking logically about her and what the fuck she adds to your life other than busting a nut. If she actually adds something then contrast that with any added stresses that come with her presence.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:48 PM
2

Again you’re very young and this sounds like maybe your first girlfriend? It’s good to reflect but there comes a time when no matter what, you’re not gonna get any more “answers.” So you just gotta develop your own answers and keep it moving. This is where you build frame. You do things you know are best regardless of circumstance. As far as the simp part... just from the story it sounds like it could be a possibility. And the first and probably hardest step to getting over shit is to take owner…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:34 PM
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You’ve done posted this already. Youve BEEN posting about this bitch for months. Here and other boards. For starters you stop fucking posting about it. Just let it go dude. Understand that you have oneitis and that it’ll take some time. But sitting here ruminating on it asking for in depth answers to your feelings is not the way. You’re obsessing over her and her dude. Let them have each other. You gotta meet reality on realities terms. Maybe you were the biggest simp ever. Judging by how often …
/r/askTRP20/11/20 05:37 PM
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You’re doing it. It’s a process but you’re taking every step needed by focusing on yourself and being a better man. Don’t worry about why a bitch goes with another dude. It’s an emotional thing, not so much a “he’s better” thing. You’re 17 dude, you’ll look back at this time and laugh.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:13 PM
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You can’t fuck a friend and have the relationship stay the same. It’s not possible
/r/askTRP19/11/20 11:33 AM
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Why are you in a relationship with a woman who you think is capable of that? It means you saw red flags and ignored them. You plate those types, not LTR material
/r/askTRP19/11/20 11:05 AM
1

Then you gotta start approaching alone
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:21 AM
0

Is military an option?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 12:08 AM
1

Why is she on a dating app if she’s not looking to date?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:34 PM
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You’re doing all these things for women. Not for yourself. You’re so used to others disrespecting you that you don’t even respect yourself. Forget women right now. Just try being nice to yourself. Do what you want to do. Not for anyone else. I’m not gonna pretend to even have a clue as to what you’ve gone through. But it sounds rough. All I know is whenever I started developing a mindset that involved getting validation or happiness from other people, it has always ended bad. Sounds like this ha…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:52 PM
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Good move. I don’t play that “maybe” or “we’ll see” shit either. Like my time is valuable bitch I’m not gonna leave it up to your apathy. Just for that I’ll go find a hotter bitch than you. Just bc I’m petty
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:37 PM
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It very might well be a problem. She could be trying to get the attention of some other dude by showcasing a relationship with you. Hell she could’ve gotten insecure over something and is trying to scare you to gain power. Also you’re in the age of social media so you gotta understand bitches thrive off that validation shit. Could be a number of reasons. The point is none of them are in your control right now. What is in your control is frame. So just relax, fuck her when you want to, and start …
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:33 PM
1

Looks like she’s just not feeling it anymore. I think you did good on calling her out on her “maybe” shit. I personally wouldn’t waste any more of my time reaching out and leave it up to her. Most likely she won’t but who cares, go fuck another girl who isn’t flakey.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:47 PM
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Here you have a girl that doesn’t bother you when not together and you’re hamstering a way to ruin that... What’s the problem?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 01:35 PM
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Ok so what if you’re with someone and THEN something happens and on top of life shitting on you, that person leaves you? Double whammy. Happens all the time. People get injured and debilitated and their partner doesn’t want any of it. Now not only did you get dealt a bad hand you’re now more distraught because you put all your trust into a fickle person and it was shattered. I see people who are married and I admit, there’s some really good ones. At least from my perspective. But the vast majori…
/r/MGTOW214/11/20 05:53 PM
1

Could be you’re just taxing yourself too much. Rest is very important. If you’re going into the gym unmotivated or just can’t get into the groove maybe you need either a break or switch it up to something lighter or different. Often times when I feel weak I will simply try to get my reps in that day then use the next week as a deload phase. Where I drop the weight and volume and just go thru the movements and get the blood flowing. Usually come back more motivated and feeling strong again
/r/askTRP14/11/20 05:38 PM
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Luckily for you exercise science has a list of options to change. Yes it’s good to switch things up. No it doesn’t have to be every month. It can just be one little thing. FITT-VP Frequency Intensity Type Time Volume Progression You can switch any one or all of the above up and you’re good. Frequency: hit a lagging body part more often. You can even keep total volume the same. Just hit more times. Intensity: Increase weight, drop reps. Decrease weight, add reps. Several options here. Type: endur…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:39 PM
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Not a politics board. Please contain this shit on the several other boards provided for you
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:22 PM
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The trick is to start getting several different girls interested in you so you don’t put all your hope into just one. So next time a girl shows interest say okay cool, but imma still be trying to progress things with others. Don’t say “okay my job is done here this is the one”
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:18 PM
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You’re overthinking it. She didn’t respect your time. You did the right thing. Don’t let her guilt you keep doing whatever you want
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:42 AM
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I only read the title and yes right move. Drop that hoe
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:38 AM
7

Legit tryna picture a dude on all 4’s crawling thru the gym
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:35 AM
13

They don’t use it as a “mate finder” they use it as an “orbiter collector”
/r/askTRP14/11/20 12:08 AM
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Unfortunately there’s vastly more simps that will listen to her than there are people who will objectively question things. You’ll lose a few friends. But it’s a good opportunity to make new ones. And be more selective when deciding who you let in close to you. After some time, a year or two, those simps will see her true nature and they’ll reach out to you. Don’t let them. They had plenty of time to be a friend while you were around. It’s just what bitter women do. They try to socially hurt you…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:43 PM
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Fit is the most important. Go to the Levi’s store and try on the different jean styles. They have different fits depending on your build. Start with a basic color and take a few different fits of that color into the dress room. They have stuff like 511, 514, etc. I usually go for a bigger quad but tapered calf style. Now try them all on. Don’t just look in the one mirror in the fitting room, walk outside and look through the multiple angled mirror. See up close, see from a distance. You’ll know …
/r/askTRP06/11/20 02:25 PM
1

There’s your answer. If she doesn’t want that then it’s time to let it go
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:09 PM
2

Pasta was my go to for bulking. Cheap and can easily just pound it down with some tomato sauce.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:58 PM
0

A lot of women assume what makes a man attractive would carry the same weight vice versa. A man with his shit together and successful is a vastly more attractive partner. Men generally don’t give a shit if the woman is a doctor or flips burgers. They just care if the woman is attractive and pleasant to be around. Sure you’d opt for a doctor but if she’s a cunt you’d just as quickly nope her for the chick at McDonald’s.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:51 PM
2

Men and women are different. I know big surprise. Men are concerned with promiscuity because they want to ensure their offspring is indeed theirs. They are generally the most unforgiving of infidelity. Women are concerned with security because they want to ensure they and their offspring are protected long term. They are more forgiving of infidelity if it’s just physical. They consider the emotional connection they develop with other women as more concerning. A man giving his time and resources …
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:42 PM
2

“She’d never text me again” Ok and ask yourself how this is a problem. She wants you on her terms and you’re afraid you’ll be punished if you don’t comply with her demands. You are in her frame. However if you’re upfront and honest about what YOU want then you need to be okay if she doesn’t meet yours. The only compromise is you’re not just friendzoned but friendzoned at a distance. You can sit around and validate her or you can look towards other prospects and let this one go
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:27 PM
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Nah not like that. If I was you I’d just try again next time you hang with her. Texting her like that can do a few things. It might make her activate some anti slut defense right off the bat. Second it could be too forward to where she is just hit with that bombshell without building up the attraction first. Third you can come off as too thirsty. Doing it in person is much better bc you can build up attraction. You can escalate properly. Warm her up to it. Tap into her feels. Show her you’re not…
/r/askTRP03/11/20 01:23 PM
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Pistol squats are legit. Throw those in with some Bulgarian split squats. Should be good. If that’s not enough do walking lunges until you feel like your legs are about to give out
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:21 AM
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Bruh the only thing you’re missing is the pussy lol. Her as a person you’re glad to be rid of. You just miss having easy access to sex. Respect yourself, respect your decision, move on to greener pastures
/r/askTRP01/11/20 03:19 AM
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Nuance to everything. But me personally, which I am comfortable with and still stay satisfied, is taking ASD at face value. Any hint at a no and I just disregard and move on to the next. A lot will say you can bypass ASD and sure, I just am not personally for pressing beyond that. And I’m still getting laid having those personal rules. Plus I’m not about convincing a girl to let me fuck her, I’m seeing if she’s worthy of fucking me
/r/askTRP31/10/20 10:04 PM
3

Is her pussy really worth all this fucking drama? You already acknowledge it’s toxic. Have some self respect and don’t allow that kind of negativity in your life
/r/askTRP30/10/20 02:47 PM
1

I personally wouldn’t and just progress things with one of the other matches. There’s a lot of women still down to meet without having to do all these extra steps. Up to you tho
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:19 PM
2

I mean if the agency is reaching out to you it may be an easier transition. See if it’s something you could do on the side if the agency is willing to be flexible. You never know.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:47 PM
2

I was approached once by a modeling agency once. It depends on the type of modeling you do. So this particular agency said looks help but it’s mainly about your ability to sell a product. Can you convey emotion in your appearance. They ultimately want a customer to see you, be invoked with emotion, and decide to purchase based off that emotion. Long story short it has a lot to do with making people feel. Similar to how TRP talks about making women feel for true attraction. So many people fuck up…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:59 PM
2

Green meaning brand new to the game and zero experience. As for your other question the sidebar has all the material you need. Specifically hypergamy.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 02:55 AM
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You sound green dude. Your first sentence has me shaking my head. Do whatever you want and take whatever advice given but don’t put this bitch on a pedestal. She needs to prove that shit to you after you’ve been fucking for a while. You’re gonna sabotage yourself thinking like that
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:07 AM
2

Some ppl who simply don’t vibe with. Don’t worry about it. Good thing you figured it out fast though
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:02 AM
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It would be kinda funny if you wrote “I was saying no to the friends part you dumb bitch lol” then ghost her
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:39 PM
2

Scarcity mindset will get you in to trouble as you have found out. Have sex with other women. Who don’t lie about rape
/r/askTRP27/10/20 01:15 AM
1

I vibe with the lyrics of a lot of rappers but come to find out their real life they do some chump shit. I liked Kanye’s song runaway where he p much raps about cheating and being a scumbag but he knows he can bc he’s rich and he’ll just spoil them with some shit and continue doing whatever he wants
/r/askTRP26/10/20 10:05 PM
1

Should’ve just said “k” after the first response. The rest is just wasting your time. You don’t have to explain yourself and entertain a flakey bitch. She had her chance and she blew it. Stop giving her more attention
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:11 PM
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She was “known for being crazy” and you went ahead and charged right on forward with that info. Also it’s high school dude it doesn’t mean shit in a few short months. Vet better. Don’t get involved with chicks with major red flags
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:01 PM
4

Social media is 100% feminine frame. Validation is the currency women operate on. You’re starting already in a losing position and playing entirely on their rules. You’re operating in their game. The currency dudes operate on is sex. Imagine having tons of women wanting to ride your dick 24/7. You’d bound to get exhausted even if a hot one comes by. You simply just aren’t hard pressed to care to fuck her. Similar thing happens when you have true abundance. It’s just another drop in the bucket. Y…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:25 PM
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approach real life women
/r/askTRP25/10/20 06:25 AM
2

Something invigorating about that untapped energy that you’re gonna release on the next girl. You take charge not because you were told to take charge from some forums. You take charge bc you’re about to ravage a bitch. Great feeling dude stick with it. Just tell yourself you are not allowed to nutt unless it’s in a bitch. You’ll be escalating and closing like a pro. And the girls will have a great time
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:22 PM
2

You got any passions other than women? Music maybe? Or just working out? Having a passion that doesn’t involve the need for another person helps
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:53 PM
2

Yup. Your post reminded me of one girl in particular. We had fucked a few times. And tbh she was a great lay. BUT she had the exclusivity talk and I p much told her I’m happy with what we got. She started playing games just to fuck her. Saying stuff like “ok you can come over but we’re not fucking” but she’d be freshly shaven. Like why play these dumb games? It got so bad I eventually just stopped hitting her up. She got her LTR tho so happy for her. Just didn’t wanna play her game. She’ll hit m…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:24 PM
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I don’t miss the rollercoaster. I’m content. I’m cruising man. I’m comfy. And that’s all I can ask for. Sure you had high highs... but those low lows really drain you. And you learn to truly find happiness in yourself, not anyone else. P good feeling if you ask me
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:13 PM
2

It’s ultimately up to you what you decide is worth it. Fitness is important to you, saving money is, whatever. That’s fine. Other way is to go out with the same group every weekend, spending money, not fucking any of them, ruining your sleep, ruining your workout, having the girls cock block you if you meet another girl, watching drama unfold... to the point you don’t want to hang with them. Maybe you fuck one of them. Maybe you don’t. But you’re a grown man, you dictate your own life. FOMO is j…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:10 PM
2

Stop beating your dick for a few weeks. You’ll be so horny you’ll want to close
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:06 PM
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Where.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:04 PM
2

You can wanna fuck. But she needs to know you’re not gonna jump thru hoops to do so. If she does that again just say “k” and go about your business. Again back to abundance mentality. If it ain’t her, you’ll find someone else
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:57 PM
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A shit test here and there is inevitable. Relentless ones, like you said, are exhausting and will drain you. In my experience some girls are just like that and no matter how many times you navigate through, she will just come up with more. Up to you if the juice is worth the squeeze. Maybe someone else could give you good advice here but in my experience it’s not. I’d stay away from those types and focus on more pleasant ones
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:25 AM
1

You’re good dude you’re overthinking
/r/askTRP22/10/20 11:01 PM
5

If you gonna lose them for being you then you don’t want them as friends. Unless you’re an unpleasant person then work on yourself until you’re pleasant
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:57 PM
2

Stop being so fucking hard headed and learn to just give it up when something is working against you or just isn’t a good fit
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:56 PM
12

If I had a speech or presentation to give I’d practice it and then record myself. Playing it back shows you exactly how much you say “uhh” or “err” or whatever. Just keep practicing and recording until it’s fluid.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 10:33 AM
8

“I’ll look it up”
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:05 PM
1

If she was uncomfortable then good that’s the point. Could just be a defense mechanism. But she SHOULD now think twice before uncalled for insults. Bc she knows you’re not passive
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:51 PM
1

Shit talk is just inevitable with any kind of office life. When it has happened to me I always took the opportunity to confront the person. Not with an aggressive approach but a curious one. One of two things happens. They realize they can’t talk shit behind your back bc you will confront them about it. And it stops. Might even become friends with them. OR you realize they’re the type of person you should limit interaction with to the absolute bare minimum. Don’t approach upset. Some sample ques…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:23 PM
8

From my experience there isn’t much you can do other than lead by example. Even then there’s a high likelihood he won’t catch on. No one wants to be preached to, especially when it comes to how they’re losing. If he starts to reflect and see shit ain’t adding up, and develops genuine curiosity and actively asks you, by all means lay it out logically. And you can’t be coming with any residual emotion from the anger phase. Meaning don’t have him leaving the convo with the idea women are the villai…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:14 PM
1

I went to college at 26. It’s not too late
/r/askTRP18/10/20 12:24 AM
4

“She was ‘my rock’ during the roughest moments” One of the more jagged edges of swallowing the red pill is understanding that no woman will EVER be your rock, your foundation, your anchor, your momma. It doesn’t feel good at first. But there is something completely freeing about that. You become your own haven. You don’t look for strength in others. It is what it is man. You put too much stock in a fickle creature. Briffaults law applies here.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:58 PM
4

You’re gonna get some mixed messages here so sorry. But I’d recommend moving out. Something about independence really lights a fire under my ass. No better feeling to me personally. It’s your life, your time, you decide where you’re gonna take it. Sure you spend more in bills but you learn budgeting. You learn how to manage a household, how to cook, decide your own schedule, you can walk around naked dancing to music. It really becomes a home-home. Sure home with family is one thing. But YOUR ho…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:40 PM
2

In that case I wouldn’t NOT escalate with women you approach you. You could always work on escalation and closing. However you bring up a good point, you still gotta work on other aspects of game so I’d still approach other girls. It’s different being an attractive dude. On one hand you have women clearly showing interest. On the other hand you can strike out with strangers. You recognize that. Just know that it’s not always about looks with women. And especially during approach... you may look …
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:19 PM
1

It’s different. Dudes bust balls for fun. Women shit test to... well, test dudes. They’re sniffing you out on where you’re at compared to them. Guys don’t care about that they just wanna know if you’re a fun dude to be around. You don’t shit test women. You tease them. Instead of getting a serious “you’re mean” comment, you SHOULD be getting a giggle and playful slap on the arm.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:08 PM
3

She sounds like a fucking headache. Men are physically stronger, we take control of situations through force. Women must rely on other tactics to control things. She’s manipulated the fuck out of you. You’re fucking seventeen. You are not married. Why is it the end of the world and why must you suffer endlessly because you didn’t do things exactly how she wanted? You rewarded her manipulation by comforting her some more. The best thing you did was remove yourself for 5 days. But you go right bac…
/r/askTRP17/10/20 11:59 AM
1

Wrong in what regard? Women get horny too
/r/askTRP17/10/20 11:41 AM
1

Read the sidebar, it covers your exact situation in depth
/r/askTRP17/10/20 11:33 AM
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Don’t. It’s just another thing she could judge and lose tingles over. Meet in person. If she’s not down then fuck her on to the next Unless you think (you most likely don’t) have a crazy good social media presence
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:54 AM
2

The more you hold to your standards and self respect of your own time, regardless of how hot you think the bitch is, the easier it gets. I’ve ghosted what I thought were 9’s bc they wasted my time. No ones special in my lineup
/r/askTRP17/10/20 12:04 AM
2

Yes. One plate breaks you add another. Your time is valuable. If a bitch is gonna waste it drop her. Why tf is she on tinder if she’s not looking to date? She’s wasting your time. Drop her
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:30 PM
5

“There’s this one girl” Abundance, abundance, abundance. You want it too much, they can smell it on you. You’re already orbiting her social media
/r/askTRP16/10/20 10:19 PM
1

I did a graduate program. So higher ed. One of my classmates threw herself onto me one night out dancing as a group. Ends up kissing me. She had a bf that I knew and liked and she just had tons of red flags so I p much told her we can’t be doing that and thought it was cool. She gaslit the event only to start telling classmates I kissed her and the reason we don’t hang is bc I can’t control myself around her. So not rape but in a climate where they’re just looking for sexual assault it had me ki…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:40 PM
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Lack of any personality. If there’s no passion or playfulness in the convo. If she can’t lower her guard. If she can’t take a joke
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:13 PM
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You gotta get better at fucking them. You’d be surprised at how bad the average dude is at making her cum. You’d also be surprised at how similar they are to dudes once they have a guy making them nut consistently. They get thirsty wanting it all the fucking time to the point you may even think is too much. You do have to mentally attract them to fuck them first. But once they’ve been satisfied physically, the mind will hamster your worth mentally. Other than that I’d say you’re going down a par…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:16 AM
1

Bad bitch I know is mixed white and middle eastern and strictly in to brown guys bc she’s Muslim. But she looks mostly white. She was from Dallas area. I feel like Dallas has a lot of middle eastern girls that wanna keep it Muslim. And there are some light skin ones
/r/askTRP16/10/20 01:40 AM
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You can say you’re gonna fuck without saying you’re gonna fuck. Be playful about it. Girls aren’t that direct. Well most of the time they’re not. Maintain the fun vibe. Girls prefer the ability to have plausible deniability. But they also want the tingles. So if you walk the line of making comments that could go either way depending on how she reads in to it you’re good.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:35 AM
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You look like you could pull off a tony stark cocky rich asshole vibe. So get rich. And be an asshole.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:28 AM
1

Tbh I honestly don’t know. I’m not really in to white girls. I’m a white dude that likes brown girls and for whatever reason they like me. So it works out. But white girls (usually) aren’t really in to me. Which hey I don’t mind the feeling is mutual. But if you’re a brown dude I see a lot of white girls with diff races in the liberal college areas. Like Denton. Or even small rural towns outside of Dallas. I think a lot of country white girls think it’s taboo or something to do it so they think …
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:24 AM
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I’d personally take Florida or something. It’s like California but the bitches aren’t as stuck up. If you like latinas go to Texas. If you like Asians go to Texas. Dallas area. If you like Indians go to Texas. Dallas area. If you like middle eastern girl Dallas has a lot. Well shit I guess just go to fucking Texas.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 01:44 AM
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Dude that “hmm” comment hits home. So many girls will just sit and yak away about pointless shit and just to let them know I at least acknowledge they are emitting sounds from their mouth I will answer with “hmm” or a “mm.” And a lot of them get angry at that. I’m like bitch I don’t need to have a fucking opinion on everything stfu. I hear you. It’s stupid but I hear you and I’m respecting you enough to respond to your pointless rambling. But no I don’t have any input other than “mm” about how h…
/r/askTRP14/10/20 12:36 AM
1

She lied. I forgave her. She lied. I forgave her. Dude you should be very mad at yourself. Wtf were you thinking? People who lie like that should not be in close relationships with you. You’re asking what happened when you applied RP principles. For starters she’s a hoe. If you were expecting commitment from a hoe you fucked up. Second you encouraged her to lie by rewarding it. You did NOT apply RP principles. If she was coming over 4x/week how much time did you have for other women? Were you ev…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:46 PM
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Not him but after reading a few of your comments I can offer input. Still sounds like you’re super in her frame. You say you get it finally and know what to do. But you keep going back to blue pill questioning. She seems to have confidence only because you’re the one desperate to lock her down. And she knows it. All women are insecure about something. Could just be a bitch with a better ass than hers. But if she knows she’s your top pick she has nothing to be insecure about bc you’ve already sho…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:33 PM
1

Well then you’re dealing with some personality disordered bitch. Either she’s a genuine hoe or she’s got some screws loose in her head. None of those reasons are valid for you to keep interest in her
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:04 AM
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“Canthal tilt” Lol wtf dude no that’s not it. Maybe you’re coming off autistic or something? You can make up not so great looks with good game to a certain point. And you can completely ruin any good looks with poor game.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 09:21 PM
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At least it was just half. Leave that bitch a poor review 😤
/r/askTRP12/10/20 03:27 AM
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“Don’t want to hurt anyone” Can relate dude. It’s good you got empathy. But guarantee a hot bitch is playing dudes tryna find the best option she’s got. You should do the same. Doesn’t mean to break bitches hearts but don’t lead any of them on if you’re just tryna fuck. Meet up, treat them to a dinner or something, make em feel good for a night, fuck em good, and keep it at that for as long as you can. Don’t discuss relationship stuff and don’t lead her to believe you’re committed
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:31 AM
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Yeah OP wtf give us the story
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:26 AM
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Cuddle with her. take the lead
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:49 PM
2

I had the same hangup when I was younger. And my issue was I’d end up inadvertently bringing drama with bitches in the social circle and would get ostracized. Without fail, if there was a cute bitch in the group, it would end nasty with her and she’d be hella spiteful. Often times I’d feel like a loser not getting invited out anymore. But after some serious self reflection about what I really want, and what would make me happy, I was over it. I remember one Saturday night sitting at home and rea…
/r/askTRP10/10/20 02:16 PM
1

I mean yeah why not? If she flakes a second I’d ghost her ass tho
/r/askTRP10/10/20 01:39 AM
3

“Always assume attraction” Once I started doing that it was game over.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 01:10 AM
3

It’s ok to not trust them. If they’re gonna hoe around they’re gonna hoe around. Ya feel me? No amount of rules and stipulations is gonna change that. So a lot of times it’s best to just let them do whatever and keep your commitment locked up to yourself. I’m not a fan of the “don’t talk to other ppl” thing simply bc what kind of relationship is that? Already starting off on a bad foot with insecurity and control. Both sides. You giving into her frame and just adding another reason for you to lo…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:56 AM
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I’m on the fence. For one it truly helped with abundance for me. I could have new girls every week of all varieties. I was immune to shit any single one of them could do to me. Second, for the longest time my biggest weakness was escalating and closing. After many dates I’ve gotten very good at escalating properly to fucking that night with a girl I just met. Third it helped when I was isolated without a social circle after a move. Fourth it helped with performance anxiety I used to have. I used…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 10:51 AM
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Had the same issue with boring and complacent bros. I ended up going out alone. After some time you end up building a network outside of them. Really helps with social skills as well.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:34 AM
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Muscle grows at a fixed rate. You can’t make it grow faster by eating more. You just end up getting fatter. That said, yes you have to count calories and ensure you’re eating enough. A lot of skinny dudes swear they are but once the counting starts they realize it’s not the case. So just count your calories, ensure you’re at your target. But it’s stupid to go overboard and eat way over bc you’re not growing muscle any faster, that rate is set already, it’s just gonna be a longer diet to lose all…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:32 AM
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You fucked up in your second paragraph. Telling her about your feelings like that. Also your oneitis for her is not good at all. This hoe is letting you grab up on her while she has a bf and you’re considering her as LTR material? Extremely poor vetting. She’s played you well. This is why it’s important to ALWAYS have things going with other women. So you don’t get hung up on one
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:24 AM
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Whats the point of not letting her be friends with yours? If it’s fear she’s gonna be vindictive when stuff goes south that’s p much a guarantee anyways. The idea is to just let her and not care. Honestly it might be a good thing. If she gets mad and tries to fuck your friend out of spite to “get back” at you then good, your buddy takes the heat off you and you can use that as an excuse to continue not talking to her. The downside to all of this is you’re coming off controlling and insecure whic…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:13 AM
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They got that shit on audio on YouTube for free iirc Edit: also check out “soft white underbelly” where he interviews pimps. There’s like 5 of them all with unique mindsets
/r/askTRP07/10/20 11:15 PM
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yes taking your water bottle is the biggest shit test of all, you could've suffered heat stroke. hard next and fuck her aunt
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:36 AM
1

Kino isn’t reserved to just ass and tit grabbing. You could’ve patted her on the arm and had it not been weird for anyone who could see. But you’re still doing something physical and guaging her response
/r/askTRP05/10/20 01:59 AM
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I found just having a straight up sexy pic of yourself is enough to know they’re DTF. The ones with a stick up their ass will swipe left and the ones whose vagina immediately tingled at your pic will swipe right.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 10:17 PM
5

Move on. You got the itis and she’s got you exactly where she wants you. Which isn’t inside her
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:44 PM
1

Sounds like you might want it too much and it’s coming off as needy and it desperate/too people-pleasy. I’m only going off barely a paragraph so take that with a grain of salt. Basically stop NEEDING to be included and just develop yourself. You’ll organically fit in with groups you resonate with and it won’t be forced and others won’t feel smothered
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:40 PM
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Yuh she did. And she had a lot of her own problems too so I was always skeptical. But after getting to know my dad as I’ve grown up, I can see where she saw weakness and was turned off by it. Tbh I wouldn’t think either of them would make a good spouse. But yes she talked a lot of shit.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:38 PM
2

She sucking you in lol. Starting to feel bad for her? That’s how they do it. If she feels she’s lacking it, best believe she’s gonna start getting it elsewhere
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:00 PM
2

Yeah it was messed up but I see it as something wrong with him. Just how he is and I just had to accept it. He’s got good qualities about him. Like I can always fall back on him if I really needed some help. He’s big on supporting family. So there’s good with the bad if you will
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:58 PM
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My dad was similar. He’d take offense to the smallest slight but he’d stew on it all day until you were alone and he’d come up from behind and hit you. Just play the game until you can get out of there. Get a job that you can get your own place. Or a travel opportunity. That kinda environment can affect you if it’s as bad as you say
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:35 AM
5

Nah it goes away after enough times. But it’s normal to feel nervous at first don’t worry bout it. Just keep doing your thing and with every success the nerves go away
/r/askTRP01/10/20 02:08 AM
3

but my body is too fucked up Wtf kinda excuse is that?
/r/askTRP01/10/20 02:03 AM
7

👆👆👆 you have enough friends. Drop her and move on
/r/askTRP30/09/20 07:32 PM
3

Plenty of girls who claim they don’t give head yet are the same ones dying to give it if they want you enough. I’ve found it’s hit and miss. But I can usually always guarantee a good fuck from a Latina. In general I think they bring a little more passion than any other race Not to say I haven’t been blown away by others. But it’s so random, at least for me, who can fuck and can’t.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:12 AM
2

Embrace it. No shame. Yeah I smoked a little pot but I still... am fit/pull bitches/got the highest grade/whatever. People are forgiving of an alpha if he’s still the top. And it adds to your mystery. Just roll with it dude. You don’t have to apologize or explain yourself. You’re a grown ass man you decide what you do with your own life
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:24 PM
2

Wayyyy too stuck up in your own head. You got about a million scenarios of what could go wrong. Have you thought of one which could go right? Get out of your head. Just meet women. Don’t overthink it. Just start up a convo. No woman is going to yell “RAPE!” by a friendly guy casually talking to her. And if she does well congrats you just saved yourself from getting involved with a legitimate psycho. The whole idea about approach is it’s gotta be organic. To make it more natural, you gotta FEEL i…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 02:07 PM
1

Get you a friend who is none of those things but pulls women constantly. Really changes your perspective and helps you acknowledge just how far frame alone can get you
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:57 PM
2

Look at it like this: you saw the red flags, you subconsciously knew where this was going, you loved her anyways. Nothing wrong with loving someone else. But don’t hone that love in on one woman. Love women. Despite knowing AWALT you still chose to love her femininity. You can do that again with all other women. So yeah go ahead and love women, knowing it’s just your turn. But keep your time and commitment guarded next time. Appreciate a hoe for being a hoe when you’re horny. But don’t make it a…
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:55 PM
3

The best move is no move. Stop seeking to recover. Stop seeking revenge on the bitch. Stop trying to make things right. You fucked up. Swallow that jagged pill, stomach it, and grow from this. Get back on your mission, cut her out for good, let your friends go, and start becoming a better man. From reading I don’t think I’d wanna be your friend either. Work on that
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:44 PM
5

Honestly i feel kinda good about it. I’m just happy my dick still works even for the not so hot ones. No shame in my game
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:36 PM
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Maybe on her period. Don’t worry bout it too much
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:34 PM
3

Texting is fine as long as you’re having fun with it. Use it for your entertainment. Not for boring convo. Make yourself laugh. Even better after you’ve already fucked her bc she knows you can lay the pipe well. So say whatever you want and just have fun
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:20 PM
1

Lol I just posted about this. I turned her into my therapist purposely killing attraction and further testing RP theory
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:53 AM
2

This sounds odd but idk if it’ll work for you but it did me... So we all have shit that just bothers us and we sometimes avoid venting bc we don’t want to be annoying. I recently had a tinder date and the bitch showed up about 40 pounds heavier than her pics. I legit almost walked out on her. But I said fuck it maybe I’ll have fun anyways who knows. Well turns out I was hornier than I thought and we went back to hers. I knew I was fucking a fat bitch but I didn’t care. Something about it was nic…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:43 AM
4

It reads as if you’re putting too much stock in other peoples opinion of you. Just be who you are, don’t worry about what others think of you. It’s exhausting
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:56 PM
4

Don’t get comfortable. Always be working towards growth. See a lot of dudes my age who landed an ok job and just settled in. They’re still working and not really going anywhere in life. I mean if that’s your thing then ok. But for me personally I’d be dissatisfied looking back. They go to work, come home and get drunk. Rinse and repeat. Then they look back and realize they peaked in high school. Keep lifting. Keep your nutrition good. Keep networking. Keep studying. Keep advancing. Keep investin…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:50 PM
2

This gets asked a lot. You might find motivation using the search function. But to repeat what I’ve said before. Sometimes it just takes a lot of trial and error. Essentially figuring out what you DONT want. Do something for a while and if it’s not rewarding analyze why it isn’t. Then search for something that can give you what the last thing didn’t. Sometimes it takes a depression. I found my purpose after losing someone close to me. I figured out what gave me a fire in my gut and purpose in li…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:42 PM
1

Never implied women were evil. Just that the odds are stacked against you Well how do you manage a relationship correctly?
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:31 PM
1

Never been divorced. Seen it happen to family and friends tho
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:00 PM
2

I’ll be honest with you I’m scared of shit of marriage. I busted my ass my entire life to finally be seeing the fruits of my labor. I want to guard that viciously. Something about a fickle creature coming into my life and just saying “nah I changed my mind” then taking half of my entire life is downright terrifying. If marriage is your thing, and it is for a lot of people, then I’m not trying to bash you for it. I just want everyone to make informed options and heed warnings. So many guys have s…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:57 PM
1

Yes agreed but men can leverage logic over emotions in general. Or at least more adept. I don’t think gaming men as gay or bisexual is the same as women. The rules don’t really apply. But I do agree taking the material and using what works best for you is the best
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:48 PM
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He’s got a point. It’s like 50/50 you’ll get divorced. Out of those people not divorced you have like 33/33/33 the marriage is good/bad/meh. Then you have those dude in “good” marriages who say everything is good just their wife won’t fuck them which seems to be common. But I’ll say 50/50. So you have the odds that you could marry a dozen women and end up happy and “healthy” with just one of them.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 12:43 PM
1

Your first sentence. Treating women like children is one of the best ways to handle them. They’re emotional, play on that. Get them excited. Get them having fun. Get them in the moment. If they get crabby who cares? You’re gonna shrug off anything she says bc it’s like a child insulting you. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 10:43 PM
1

yeah I was there too. TRP would always say "assume attraction." And once I started just saying fuck it and assuming the girl I was with wanted me to kiss her I started getting a lot more success. girls have any number of hangups about initiating sex. could range from nerves to not wanting to look like a slut to just wanting the man to take charge. you got it my man, I know you'll do good
/r/askTRP21/09/20 12:12 AM
1

If she’s not batting your hand away you’re good. I was like you too. I’d get laying down with a girl and start stroking her leg and she wouldn’t do anything. Then you get in your head like “oh shit maybe she feel awkward.” Nope. She’s attracted from the get go for swiping right. She wants it to escalate by going home with you. A lot of girls want to be taken. I’m not saying rape the bitch. But a lot will outright kinda not give much of any indicator when you escalate bc she’s waiting for you to …
/r/askTRP20/09/20 10:26 PM
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Desperate for attention.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 10:14 PM
6

I’m usually not about the “text only for logistics” thing but in cases like this it has saved me sooo much time in gauging women’s interest. If you feel this bitch is playing games then she’s gonna stay playing games. Because you’re doing exactly what she wants. When you ONLY text to meet up and she’s not getting her validation from you chasing her it leaves her to either stop playing the stupid ass game or move on. Either way you save yourself some time and energy for other women who don’t fuck…
/r/askTRP19/09/20 01:09 AM
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Doesn’t matter how fucking fine she is when you first see her. You WILL get tired of fucking her after some time.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 12:00 AM
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Yeah I had that too when I was younger. You don’t wanna come off as fake. But as you get older I thing you just generally stop giving a shit. You’re riding your life and you’re gonna be the only one with yourself in the end. You gotta be happy with that person. And being happy means with some people you just gotta let them think whatever the fuck they want. You can’t control others or what they think. But you can control yourself and be happy with yourself. Regardless of others
/r/askTRP17/09/20 02:01 PM
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You don’t read a book for the ending. You enjoy the story. You set goals and once you accomplish them, set more. There is so much to learn and experience in life. Just think of laying on your deathbed and regretting not seeing the world, not experiencing music truly, not appreciating relationships with other humans. Learn an instrument, learn a dance, learn a language, travel, learn about cars, work on your own car, change your fitness goals, pick up a side hustle. You look at these old dudes cl…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:57 PM
1

I love cars. And I’ll go driving for fun. I like learning all the roads and backroads. I could go out and drive to interesting places and check em out. It’s a bonus bc when you do happen to have people with you, you know places and directions to tons of places and it makes you seem more “mysterious” I guess. Knowing a shortcut, or a cool ass spot with a view, etc. people look at you impressed like “how did you know about this.” Just smirk and say you get around.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:47 PM
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Embrace it. Bitches love drama or the “bad boy.” People are gonna talk shit and if you genuinely don’t care it makes you alllll the more attractive. If anything it’ll increase your SMV. Just as long as you’re not being autistic about red pill stuff. No one wants to hear about your “profound knowledge.” Just internalize it and do your thing. A lot of dudes make the mistake of trying to be a guru once they read a bit of the sidebar. That’s for you not anyone else. I think a lot of dudes on here ca…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:42 PM
5

Porn takes a while to “get out” of your system. Your brain strengthens neural pathways that are used a lot so they’re more efficient. You strengthened a dopamine pathway so it’s gonna take some time recovering from that. I recommend not looking at anything porn related. Not testing your erection. Nothing. You’ll see how sexualized our media is. Scrolling and you see hot chicks in bikinis, turn it off, move on. Had the same issue years ago after a drought with a LTR and clueless how to game again…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:33 PM
1

Lol just had a bumble date last night with a 20 year old and I’m mid 30’s. She told me she got turned on with the daddy/daughter thing. Whatever wets your whistle I guess I’m not judging But yeah my age range is typically 22-24. Been that way since I was 22. I kept aging but the girls I were seeing stayed the same age If you’re creepy you’re creepy. Doesn’t matter how old you are. I’ve seen the same girls mock creepy dudes their age just bc they’re being awkward.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:00 PM
5

I did physique. I’m glad I did it but in hindsight it wasn’t worth it. For the experience I guess. But you kill yourself for 12 weeks and it gets particularly rough last few weeks where you genuinely are starving. But all that suffering and expenses to compete just to pose on stage for 20 seconds was underwhelming. I am appreciative of it. Really aligns some priorities in life. And it enforces willpower. I remember saying you could a group of the hottest women in front of me ready to fuck or a c…
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:28 AM
6

Lol yes. I always say imma chill and take a break from it too. But I get horny after a few days and the process repeats
/r/askTRP17/09/20 04:43 AM
2

“Sure sounds good” This isn’t rocket surgery
/r/askTRP16/09/20 11:42 PM
3

Do NOT send that last message holy shit
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:38 PM
2

If she’s a plate and you’re still fucking her this should not bother you in the slightest.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:54 PM
1

Sounds like he doesn’t like you bc he’s jealous or something. So he’s trying to make you look bad bc you’re getting attention and he’s not. You could flip it on him. Just call him out on it. “Dude, I’m happy my eating is the highlight of your life but my gf is never gonna fuck you, stop trying so hard.” What’s something he’s beneath you on? Is he fat and you’re not? Just give me something and I’ll get an insult for ya.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:53 PM
1

There’s a sub for questions over at r/asktrp Also I like wrestling girls just bc it’s fun to fuck with them but a good bit of them get turned on by it so I’m sure you’ll be fine. If you get turned on enough you’ll have no problem finding a pussy a suitable spot to stick your dick. Don’t worry about it. I know some people use “sessiongirls” for competitive wrestling with women. Some of the girls on there look juiced up tho so expect a hell of a fight
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 01:26 PM
1

I appreciate the perspective. But as a guy who can see 40 on the horizon, I figured I would've met a woman who is wife material by now. Maybe I just got unlucky, or lucky, however you wanna put it, but I admit I may be labeling it sour grapes at this point. I do envy those in seemingly nice marriages. But I am aware of the risks, especially in this society even if the marriage is going good. A lot of my friends I grew up with got married and divorced. Some good guys who don't see their kids as m…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 12:14 AM
3

Coolidge effect. Eventually you get tired of fucking the same women repeatedly and want novelty
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:30 PM
1

Actually yeah you described it way better than I could’ve. But you’re right... and I see it with online dating. Girls can be so-so about you, not texting much, even leaning towards a “no” but if you manage to game her just right and it leads to sex and the sex is good... it’s like a light switch. All the sudden she’s smitten. All the sudden she’s texting you nonstop. Now she’s chasing you. Bc she knows you can get her off and you’re open to all kinds of stuff she may have repressed bc she though…
/r/askTRP14/09/20 01:58 PM
4

If it’s on the app don’t you guys already have pics of each other?
/r/askTRP14/09/20 03:13 AM
17

Start with a hug. If she’s weird about it from the start then you can prob start thinking about not wasting your time. It’s a date, you both find each other attractive enough, you’re adults, it would be weird to not hug. Escalate from there. Get her smiling. Get her laughing. Ask to see her manicure. Hold her hand while you look. Feel her response. When you leave to go elsewhere grab her hand. As the date progresses low back. Etc etc until back at yours or hers or wherever
/r/askTRP14/09/20 02:51 AM
1

I fuck them good first. I don’t jump straight into kinky stuff. I just make sure they get some good dick and they’re hooked afterwards. Then I get leeway with whatever I wanna add bc either way they know they’re getting a nutt too. So for example even by the second time we fuck i won’t even ask. I’ll just do something kinky but on the lighter side. Then once I see they’re in to it and open minded by the third or fourth time I straight up tell them what I wanna do so they come prepared next time …
/r/askTRP14/09/20 02:05 AM
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I wouldn’t man. You do you but I personally wouldn’t. She wants anything for that little hamster to start spinning and flip it on you making it your fault. You don’t owe her anything. Not even a response.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 09:06 PM
2

I think maybe you’re seeing her as above you. Higher than your smv. So you “had a shot” with her and it didn’t work. Now you see just how many other guys are getting their shot and it makes you feel shitty bc it’s like “proof” you’re not as good as them. Sounds like an ego thing. And maybe I’m way off in my guessing but I don’t have much to go on. But if you can be with a bad bitch but still Know she’s beneath you it’s not gonna hurt when/if she goes off and fucks someone else. Bc you didn’t los…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 08:57 PM
1

Bingo. You’re putting so much stock in the frame of women. Develop your own frame and you will 1) stop giving a shit about what she thinks and 2) become more attractive to women bc they see you as masculine Hang in there dude. Nothing bitches love more than a dude who’s got his shit together and doesn’t NEED them
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:26 PM
1

Then marry your mom. Why are you searching for support and approval from random girls? Grow regardless. If she has a problem with it dump her
/r/askTRP13/09/20 05:18 PM
0

Okay? So you don’t think women think the only reason you’re with them is bc they looked attractive enough? Bc it’s true and they know it. We all look for something to gain out of relationships. If a bitch wants your security then so be it. You want her pussy. You’re coming off as insecure. If you keep working on yourself you’ll (hopefully) become secure in who you are and the nature of reality. Then you’ll play the game accordingly. Don’t act like you’d give a dump truck the time of day. So don’…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:54 PM
2

Never once heard TRP bashing on chads. In fact the opposite
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:42 PM
6

I’m older. But when I see shit like this it comes off as very try hard to me. I’m not making a dig at you or your bro. I’m just saying if i look at a pic and I see more than just the pic. I see a dude setting up a tripod, angling it just right, going and posing, taking dozens of shots, then running back to and scrolling through each one meticulously, then uploading it and applying filters... it’s just... feminine to me. And I’m worried if I can sense it, women can sniff out a dude trying a littl…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 02:51 PM
3

Attract them mentally. Get them thinking about you. Get them feeling. You can be a good looking dude but if she doesn’t feel anything about you she’s not gonna be attracted.
/r/askTRP13/09/20 01:13 PM
1

Not a big deal. Also you could’ve and should’ve fucked her
/r/askTRP13/09/20 12:58 PM
17

Blue pill shit is denying who you really are and trying to nice your way into some pussy. Them dudes think doing favors and giving commitment away freely will grant them access. Some dudes get it and obsess over it thinking it’s theirs bc they had been doing everything for her. So they wanna hold on to it and thus do typical shit like mate guard and demonstrate scarcity
/r/askTRP13/09/20 03:53 AM
2

Women make the mistake of thinking men are turned on by what makes women turned on a lot of times. So if they see a guy who fucks different girls they’ll see him as more attractive. They try to imitate that same behavior with guys hoping it makes them more attractive. Or make you jealous. Or whatever. Either way it’s a red flag
/r/askTRP11/09/20 10:54 PM
5

If she’s texting you while drunk and “about to fuck” some dude... her genuine desire is for you. Think about it, is your mind ANYWHERE else when you’re fucking a girl? So why would hers immediately go to you? So congrats, she wants you. Problem is she is a hoe and also a colleague. Wouldn’t recommend.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 10:39 AM
2

You mean to tell me you did self reflection and couldn’t think of any reasons why you’re not successful? So you think the internet gonna tell You? Also them dudes could be crazy in debt you don’t know.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:46 AM
1

Maybe it was just a lame joke dude
/r/askTRP10/09/20 07:50 PM
4

Mods need a good flair for this one
/r/askTRP10/09/20 12:44 AM
4

Usually when I start hearing my ideas and words coming out of her mouth. For a relationship of course. Social interactions is when my mood is everyone else’s mood. If I’m energetic in a group and everyone’s body language is aimed at me and they’re smiling I can tell they’re feeling my vibe and liking it. If a Debbie Downer wanted to try to bring the energy down the group would ignore it.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:12 AM
2

Honestly if you’re fine with an occasional one here. Or two max I think that’s fine. Especially if you’re busy. The whole idea is to avoid getting tripped up over one and maintain abundance mentality. But it sounds like you’d be fine if your main squeeze suddenly dropped bc you’d just find another.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:06 AM
3

Lol wtf
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:01 AM
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I would be inclined to believe with the info you’ve given me is that you may be perceived as a player. So girls are protecting themselves. However one sentence you wrote has me second guessing. They never put out in a relationship. Which is very odd and makes me think you’re not building attraction. Maybe you’re physically appealing but aren’t emotionally appealing. I can only speculate. Try building deeper connections and rile up their excitement and feels. You can look good but a chick still h…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:00 AM
2

I moved around a lot when I was younger. Went to 5 different high schools. And my biggest fear was eating alone at lunch. So I was desperate to make friends as fast as I could before lunch rolled around. Damn still remember that gut wrenching anxiety. Anyways. I found trying to force things seemed to always make things worse. I was dependent on strangers and I didn’t really vibe with them anyways. Once I stopped really caring and just saying fuck it and eating by myself, eventually genuinely nic…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:20 AM
5

I would love kids and a family. But at my age I’m getting either a lot of single moms in my age or a lot of young 20-somethings who really don’t bring anything to the table other than their pussy. Figured I would’ve ran into one by now that I could see potential in. But I think time has moved on and it’s no longer an option for me. I’ve played with the idea of going overseas to find one who gives at least a little bit of shit about marriage roles. I’m not even saying they HAVE to cook and clean.…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 02:10 PM
2

Big YouTube channel. Tons of attention... come on man
/r/askTRP08/09/20 12:25 AM
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Curious. Any RPers that can give an argument FOR marriage? Bc I ain’t seeing shit but fuck all for potential benefits
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 12:19 AM
6

Just bc she’s a single mom doesn’t mean you can’t fuck her. She wants to have fun too. You’re overthinking it
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:41 AM
2

Good bulking food for me at least was pasta. Basically any carb that easy to eat in mass quantities. Also a difference between half a cup and a full cup of rice so keep it consistent. Meal 4 you could prob throw in some carbs
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:36 AM
2

Caveat to this shit is you gotta genuinely believe you’re better. And the way to exercise that belief is to have self respect and honor your commitments to yourself. But fuck man that post got me motivated
/r/askTRP05/09/20 12:04 PM
2

I only did bc I was competing so it gave me an excuse. I found the best way to show off gains is to be tagged by someone else of you shirtless playing volleyball or paddle boarding or whatever. That way they still see your gains but it’s not try hard. But I stay away from social media now bc it’s just not productive and makes me lazy with cold approaches
/r/askTRP05/09/20 10:40 AM
2

She’s asserting dominance by symbolizing the Eiffel Tower she intends to run on you. When two people high five over you you’re basically the sandwich of her pegging you and then performing fellatio on the dude. Only way to handle this is to actually suck the guy off before your girl pegs you. OR to have your girl peg you before you suck the guy off. Hopefully they are satisfied enough to leave the situation as is. In the sidebar you can find material on how to be pegged properly
/r/askTRP05/09/20 10:36 AM
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Set a list of priorities. They can be unique to you. I can just list mine and you can determine if it is applicable to you. 1) my health 2) my money 3) my family 4) pussy So I don’t let anything get in the way of my workout. I always set time in the day to get it in. Then my money will steer me so I make decisions that are lucrative and hope to coincide that with my other goals. But if it requires traveling away from family then so be it. Then family bc they’ve been security for me and I hope to…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:28 PM
2

Hug your bros
/r/askTRP04/09/20 11:12 PM
2

Back when I was a chump I’d try to ease my way into kinky stuff. Now I flat out say it with no shame and they’re always down. There might be like 1 out of 5 that won’t be in to it but will still at least try it. The rest are just excited someone’s making them feel a different kinda way for once
/r/askTRP04/09/20 01:11 AM
0

reads like oneitis boss
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:44 PM
1

You’re thinking too much about it. Who cares if she’s fucking someone else. Are you catching feelings?
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:46 PM
3

Fuck her daughter
/r/askTRP03/09/20 05:19 PM
4

If I would guess you’re relying entirely on social media to approach and to flex. Girls want attention and validation like guys want sex. They’re getting what they want out of you right away so have no need to get physical. Not saying girls don’t like getting fucked, but you’re not really putting yourself in a good position to build attraction. So they’re fine with another dude in the DM to feed their ego. I suggest stop using social media as a crutch and cold approach girls you don’t know. You’…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:44 AM
2

Bang her.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:25 AM
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Had a LTR similar to how you describe. Went on for some time before I simply had to cut her off. Women like this who need your attention and do things to control you (keeping you tired, managing your social media, threatening you of cheating) do not get better. It only gets worse. Count on it. She will continue to be needy and it will get out of hand. She will not want to see you do good at work, or even the gym. She will find ways to discredit any success you have bc it puts you further away fr…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 01:13 PM
3

Dude you’re beating yourself up more than anyone else is. Just last year I got rear ended on the highway after watching this guy riding my ass too close. Came over a hill to dead stop traffic and guess what: he hits me just like I predicted he would. I got out mad and then saw the damage. My car is a piece of shit. It has, like you, so many dents and scratches. And in a weird way I kinda like the look. Bc it’s reliable. But still a piece of shit. It was a slight crack in the bumper. Saw the dude…
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:15 AM
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You’ll find only dudes will say you’re too small. Stay lean, women love it. Capped delts and defined triceps will always look more aesthetically pleasing than arms that are “just big.” Bc everything big on the motherfucker... no silhouette effect
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:32 AM
3

Just do it. I remove numbers of people I haven’t connected with so I can’t get in touch even if I wanted to. I’ve forgotten who and how many I’ve done it to, I just know I had a reason. You seem to have yours. Make a decision and stick to your conviction. You gotta be fine riding solo in life. In the end that’s the only person you can count on. So don’t waste energy trying to give others more opportunity than they deserve if you had a reason to let them go
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:27 AM
10

Call for logistics. Text for anything else. This is the answer you’re looking for.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:22 AM
3

She playing you. Bitches dont fuck a dude bc “my friends told me to.” She fucked him bc she wanted to fuck him. Now that you’re catching feelings she gonna let you commit and continue being the same type of girl.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:21 AM
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Bc you’re devastated when you lose. You become Eliot Rodgers and decide to go on a killing spree when your oneitis fucks another dude. You can’t take a loss and you react badly and like another dude said, it’s predictable. Some women smart enough to play you when they sniff you out too
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:18 AM
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Get your n count up as much as you can and you won’t care as much. Also, by the time you’re in your 30’s and you’ve done everything right (lift, career, diet in check) you’ll have no problem continuing to fuck those same early 20’s girls. The dynamic shifts. And just maybe by that time society has shifted a bit in your favor to settle with a young girl if that’s your thing. Still don’t see marriage getting better any time soon though so just be cautious
/r/askTRP30/08/20 01:03 AM
12

Lol you right I did. Goes to show you women can’t even hold frame right
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:55 PM
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Yuh I cheated but it was bc she was disrespecting me. She spent the whole relationship accusing me of cheating finally I said might as well fucking do it since it’s all the same anyways. Can tell you it put my mind much more at ease dealing with her shit. Instead of trying to fight to convince her I was good I was just like “whatever bitch” any time she nagged me. In a weird way she willed it to fruition
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:12 PM
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Comfort test. You don’t have to do exactly what she demands. But you can make her feel good and loved by doing something small you wouldn’t normally do. Ie) don’t start texting her all day, just surprise her with lunch or something. This little bit of beta from you will make her feel loved and the fact it’s so unusual coming from you will make her think you’re really trying for her. But do it once and go back to regular duty. Too much beta and you know what happens
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:20 PM
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I’m diagnosing you with oneitis. Your treatment will be to stop thinking about her or analyzing her behavior. If she texts all happy and wants to fuck, go fuck her. But don’t sit and ponder her behavior outside of that. Don’t let her string you along like a chump at parties either. You will now begin pursuing other women as per usual.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:11 PM
3

No offense dude but that’s a lot of reading I’m not trying to do bc I’m lazy. Hopefully someone helps you out tho
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:10 AM
1

You went from fwb to LTR back to plate? So you upgraded then downgraded her? What for?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:05 AM
1

Ghost. Giving a trifling hoe closure just gives her hamster ammo to make it your fault
/r/askTRP28/08/20 09:36 PM
7

She knows she has another follower that will give her validation by liking her stuff. Calm down you autist
/r/askTRP28/08/20 12:44 PM
5

Yeah happened to me before as well. Could be another guy friend or could be another girl he decides to orbit. Just let him go. Good opportunity to work on your networking and relationship building with other people. No use trying to control him or the situation. No use trying to “get back” at him. No use making all the effort to hang and have it not be matched. Accept the loss and move on.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 12:35 PM
4

Clearly a shit test? You haven’t seen her in years I’m guessing? Do you ask out everyone who randomly likes a picture? There was zero escalation. You went full on thirst mode just bc she was being nice. Read way too much into that. Should’ve started off playfully and saw where it was going
/r/askTRP27/08/20 08:15 PM
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I think you just tell her to deal with it and go to sleep. As far as the other shit if she’s being a real drag and won’t drop the attitude it could be bc she either wants attention, wants food, or wants dick. If those three have been covered and she’s still bitchy, I would personally just leave and do my own thing
/r/askTRP26/08/20 09:29 PM
3

It can be nice to switch it up. Maybe you just want a fat booty and an ugly girls got that. Maybe all the “hot” ones have been acting a little too entitled lately and you want someone more grounded. Maybe you’re just really horny and that’s what’s available
/r/askTRP26/08/20 08:16 PM
24

Like Patrice said, when you bomb out in comedy you jump in that grenade and take everyone with you. Own that shit. Say yes bitch as a matter of fact you are fat. Just being real with ya. Take it or leave it but I ain’t gonna lie about it
/r/askTRP25/08/20 09:17 PM
3

Stop pretending that if you didn’t have that one asshole friend you wouldn’t laugh. Ever had an asshole friend? They’re hilarious. And it’s ok bc he’s “your” asshole friend
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:56 PM
2

You see what the problem is? Your confidence would be destroyed because you base your entire self worth on pussy. Stop trying to reap confidence out of that and find it elsewhere. Then you’ll get pussy. You’re wanting it too much
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:18 PM
2

Sounds like your ego is preventing you from an easy fix while simultaneously causing you to feel down for not being able to get any. Just get a hooker dude it’s not that big of a deal
/r/askTRP25/08/20 03:29 PM
3

Dude that’s completely normal to feel lonely when moving to new places where you don’t know anyone. Sometimes I’ve met decent guy friends and a few cute girls at the gym. Ask for a spot with the dude, work in a set with the girl. Also, the whole virus thing is bound to throw things off so just understand it might be slow building a network for a while.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 11:29 AM
3

If it’s getting annoying start teasing back with something you know they’re insecure about. Pretty much anything physical on them that wouldn’t make them “ideally” pretty. They learn quick if they keep playing they gonna start feeling all types of insecure when it’s done
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:24 AM
8

If they’re blocking you as calling you psycho then it’s safe to say you are doing something wrong.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 01:17 AM
13

Ego. You’re messing with narcissists. “How dare he not find me the MOST attractive woman in the world! I’ll show him!” Also you’re not exercising enough discretion. Avoid fucking around in the same social circle. Branch out more.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:44 PM
7

If you wanna go special forces focus on cardio. I don’t think running 3x/week is gonna cut it either. They run every day, most of the day. You not only want to build up your endurance but just get the body used to the sheer amount of volume and impact it’s about to go through. Usually it’s the big bulky guys who drop out first.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:40 AM
5

Yes completely normal. Although I wouldn’t maintain the cut indefinitely. Get your abs and slowly start introducing calories back in to the point you maintain abs but hormones recover.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:37 AM
5

Had a buddy like you. Former fatty who lost a lot of weight and turned out to be a good looking dude. He got a lot of female attention whenever we went out. Problem was every so often the hot girl in the group preferred me and we’d hit it off. My buddy would get so mad and pouty about it despite pulling the hot one 9 times out of 10. It got so bad I had to stop hanging out with the dude. My point is you may be good looking and all that. But big egos have a very hard time dealing with losing. And…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 01:25 PM
2

Well that’s a solid first step. If you can obviously see someone is not interested in talking with you and read their signals at least you’re not autistic. And you have enough self respect to remove yourself from the situation. What about the quiet outcast kids at school? Join them in D&D or something. That’ll give you something to do outside of school and a way to build social connections. Anybody who truly makes you laugh? Anybody you can make laugh? Just build on that and then start hanging o…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 03:01 AM
3

The fact that you’re 17 and can count on one hand the amount of times you’ve “hung out” with people leads me to believe you’re simply committing social errors. In other words you’re socially inept. Unfortunately the only way to improve that is more social interaction. It sounds like you got the basics figured out on how to not be repulsive. You just gotta integrate better into the social dynamics of things. Which comes from experience. You’re young. Just keep trying and taking note of things tha…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:49 AM
2

I’m fucking dumb the trolling went completely over my head. Well played
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:18 AM
2

Not fucking a girl when she wants to fuck is the ultimate rejection. It destroys their self esteem. That’s why they push you away. Stop beating your dick until you’ll fuck anything then you won’t have to worry bout it
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:11 AM
1

You’re probably squishing their bread. Boomers are very sensitive about their bread
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:10 AM
2

It may be a comfort test. You don’t have to entertain her accusation just genuinely listen to her complaints and then cuddle her and say something like “I’m still around ain’t I?” She’s gotta believe it so you gotta be confident in your delivery
/r/askTRP21/08/20 11:25 PM
1

How long you been seeing her physically?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 10:52 PM
1

It would’ve been perfect if she’s actually Colombian when you said that you preferred Colombian chocolate. But yeah you have the idea with your line. Push for the number. The whole point is to push things and let your intentions be known. So always be flirting and progressing. This has the benefit of filtering out time wasters and simultaneously putting physicality in their heads when you do meet them. If they don’t bite at your flirting, they were only looking for attention and validation.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:59 PM
2

Attraction is non negotiable. Your best bet is to stop “falling” for her and just keep fucking her while you can but start looking at other prospects. You can try to just get kinkier with her to see if she gets more turned on. Try some new shit on her and see how wet she gets. But it honestly sounds like she gonna stay hung up on the dude. You’re her “eh this’ll do for now” guy.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:49 PM
2

Sounds like you’re doing everything you can. Just relax and stuff will come of your efforts
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:35 PM
23

Same boat as you. The benefit is whatever frame of masculinity you develop it is 100% yours and not an imitation of a father figure or anyone else. But some fall into the trap of trying to be hyper masculine which leads to violence and a life of crime for a lot in similar situations. Other than that your post was too esoteric to essentially not make much of a point. I suggest hashing it out a little more. You might be on to something
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 09:30 PM
2

Ah I was reading all the other comments to cut them out. After rereading yours I was wrong you never mentioned that. But yes if you’re trying to dictate what they do with their dicks it is controlling. So I recommend you don’t disown them for simply wanting to fuck. And stop overthinking your bros like that. If you and I were best pals I’d encourage you to fuck my ex and then laugh about how big a hoe she was.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:24 PM
4

You’re boring. Playful banter is fine but don’t let it drag on. Always be looking to close for a date
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:15 PM
0

Why are you trying to control them? If she wants to fuck them she will. Then you’ll just be the chump who got pissy about it. Then the friends you disown will laugh about it bc they’re fucking your girl. Get over yourself You need to learn to laugh about shit. High five them bc you’re Eskimo brothers and even closer.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 09:05 PM
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I started with just the bar on all the lifts. Trust me in no time you’re slapping plates on. Very awesome beginner routine. I wouldn’t personally do it forever but to get strength and mass up I’m all for it. And agreed about the pull-ups. Honestly that’s my favorite exercise and SL doesn’t leave room for them. If I were you, I’d put em on the back burner FOR NOW and then once you’re at a decent strength level, do your own routine. I recently used SL to get my lifts back up from being away from t…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:20 PM
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I’mma go against the grains and say nah, pick one or the other. SL adds up if you’re following it properly. To the point you will NEED those off days. A routine isn’t a routine unless you follow it like it is outlined. You can do both sure, but you’re not gonna make serious progress with strength and mass by combining them.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:37 PM
2

“Oh is that what we doing now?” There you have it. She set the bar at that level in the relationship now. Go back to flirting with the other women. And now you have the privilege of hanging out with them. Because that’s where the relationship is at. And no, you don’t go backwards. From here on out you operate at this level until She lowers it again. This all assuming you stay with her.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 02:45 AM
2

Being an introvert in itself isn’t bad. You can enjoy alone time and still be socially savvy. The two aren’t mutually exclusive
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:29 AM
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Self respect. It’s one thing to sweet talk yourself. Another totally different beast when you actually start holding yourself accountable to your word. It has the benefit of solidifying frame. You’re not gonna be phased by much when you’re the sole arbiter of your self worth. Also just generally getting to know myself better and flowing with my strengths and weaknesses and developing strategies to work with it.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:27 AM
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Regardless that’s where we have lead as society. We can sit and complain and not accept it but it won’t change anything. We gotta adapt. You can’t fight a system that is 100% rigged against you. You can play it though. In a long enough timeline it all comes out in the wash. We just happen to be at X point in the timeline. The more men that get their life ruined in divorce, the more they wise up and warn others. Marriage is falling apart bc people are wising up.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:27 PM
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Do you have a pet? They shit and piss and whine and are needy as fuck. But you still love them for what they are. Women live in the moment. They’re great for deep passion and love in the moment. Once that moment has passed, leave it be. You gotta see them for what they are and appreciate the feminine energy. There’s just something pleasant about that energy even if it comes with emotions and insecurity and what not. It’s like the yin and yang. It should complement your energy. You gotta live you…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:15 PM
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You’re coming off autistic. Stop trying to control your friend. If he wants to simp let him simp. Just do the stupid project and move on. If you couldn’t bring up a logical counter to her idea about the project then you need to work on your debate skills. You’re coming off but hurt over the whole thing
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:58 PM
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“Soon” is subjective. Prob not likely to be “very soon” though. We all go through it man and trust me, you WILL look back and wonder what the fuck you were thinking to be having feelings for an ex. You just gotta keep trucking, doing exactly what you’re doing now, and the clouds will clear
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:41 AM
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No set time. You’ll come back and call yourself a bitch and laugh about this post in enough time. Just keep doing what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 02:48 AM
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They all say that they’ll “only” send pics or something. The problem is, the men on those sites have a plethora of options, women that will actually put out. They’re quickly going to dismiss anyone just wanting to send pics. They’ll want more and your girl will either not get any money anyways, or will be willing to start doing more. Everyone has a price. Including your love. I know you don’t wanna hear this. But that’s bad news. Red flag. Especially since it wasn’t a decision you guys might’ve …
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:51 AM
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Possible avenues are to donate sperm, have a kid with some random girl but stay separate, do one of those surrogate deals. Or you could adopt which isn’t your genes but your wisdom will be passed down at least.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 05:56 PM
1

Somewhere along the way in our conditioning they taught us this codependent mindset in a relationship. Which is unhealthy and inevitably leads to your world being shattered when things end. Sounds like you’re starting to internalize a lot of red pill and your frame of mind has shifted. Don’t sweat not being depressed, doesn’t mean you didn’t love her, just means you know you’re gonna be fine with or without her.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 02:01 PM
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Lmao dude drop the bitch. You wanna be in a relationship with an overgrown toddler? Fuck outta here
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:42 AM
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You on the right path. Keep approaching girls you’ll land one eventually. Tweak your game to see if the boyfriend line is a shit test playfully.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:36 AM
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Oddly enough some similar shit happened to me at a concert when I was with a girl. Buddy pushed me hard af from behind knowing I’d fall. I got off the floor and did a double leg takedown and slammed him hard on his ass. He never did that again. And that girl sucked my dick that night so she was obviously still attracted. Maybe you should’ve fucked him up lightly. But what’s best like others said is don’t have friends like that in the first place
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:30 AM
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Yes exactly that. Unfollow her and move on. She wasn’t feelin it
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:05 AM
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Bc she just wanted another follower on social media and you gave her just that. She’s gotten everything she wanted outta you
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:05 PM
1

It was a local. Really cute girl with her friend who seemed to just love tourists
/r/askTRP18/08/20 08:11 PM
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I’m lost. What was supposed to be the meaning of your reply?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:25 AM
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If pussy is your purpose you’re gonna get fucked
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:22 AM
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Some dudes prefer to stay out of the spotlight. Feels like they can be themselves with no eyes on em. Just think how annoying it would be with everyone expecting you to entertain them 24/7. All about perspective.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 04:18 AM
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Get good at whatever it is you wanna improve. Like dancing. You build confidence and then display it thru your dancing by being uninhibited. You don’t care what others think bc you know you’re good. Recommend going out as you improve and dancing with new people or strangers. Bc you’re still gonna feel inhibition if you’re with the same group who knew you couldn’t dance. Once you start getting compliments from people you don’t even know then you can make a fair assessment of your skills. Takes ti…
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:29 AM
2

Yeah stretching is okay just don’t be aggressive with it. And when it feels better go back into bicep work gradually. Slowly build up to your previous routine. Really listen to your body. And if it continues to give you issues I’d go see someone about it
/r/askTRP17/08/20 01:48 PM
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You were right about women finding you attractive if other women do. But it has to be organic. Shoving it in their face reeks of insecurity and is counterintuitive. You sound like you know what to do you’re just fucking up on implementing it
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:24 AM
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That’s two times. Hard next.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:19 AM
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Yes you most certainly did act like a bitch. You’re playing head games like a female, you’re basically her ex girlfriend by now.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:16 AM
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Sometimes you just have dry spells. Enjoy em while you can. Even if you get great at it, it really is a numbers game.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:11 AM
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I was in Split back in my blue pill days and still had success at the bar if that tells you anything
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:06 AM
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You need to back off volume and let it heal. You’ve strained the long head of your bicep. It runs up into your shoulder and attaches to what’s called the labrum. If the labrum tears it is fucking debilitating. In the meantime if it’s bothering you avoid engaging the long head. It crosses two joints: shoulder and elbow. It’s involved in elbow flexion and supination with some shoulder flexion. So any time you have to bend the elbow, pronate to keep it on slack. That will limit discomfort. You end …
/r/askTRP17/08/20 03:51 AM
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The long head of the bicep has a tendon that runs up into the shoulder into the labrum. You most definitely can get shoulder pain with biceps tendinitis
/r/askTRP17/08/20 03:45 AM
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You’re 20. I promise you your test has never been higher. It will never be higher than it is right now. If you’re legitimately concerned run some blood labs and see. Then if you’re THAT suppressed, you’re looking at TRT
/r/askTRP17/08/20 03:39 AM
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Sounds like she’s gonna paint you as the bad guy regardless. You could do everything she wants and she will still put shit in your daughters head... or her friends... or whoever will listen to her.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 03:08 AM
1

Yes. Dressing well increases attention. Make sure fit over fashion though. You can wear a $200 shirt but if it hangs off you like a bum you’ll still look like a bum. As far as contact I’d avoid social media as a lot of women just want another orbiter for likes and validation. I’d opt for number and to strike while the iron is hot. So set the date ASAP
/r/askTRP17/08/20 02:59 AM
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Get used to jealous dudes my man. You’d be surprised how vindictive some random chump can get without even knowing you. Just see it as a sign of success if just your mere presence makes them insecure. As far as fighting. Very rarely is it worth it in settings like that. Best to just leave it. You were the highlight of the party, guarantee you got some the interest in other girls at the party just by them seeing this “bad boy” getting kicked out. Just say alright and roll out. But if you risk get…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 02:34 AM
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I think we’re essentially on the same page and just clarifying semantics. Just be careful with claims like the initial one about plateauing. Unless of course it can be backed up. Just wanna keep the info correct when we give out lifting advice so people aren’t misguided. Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 02:14 AM
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appreciate that link. after checking some of his references and bouncing his "truths" off them he either poorly understood the conclusions or is just stating opinion as "truth" and then throwing articles in at the end just to add legitimacy. this is why you always gotta check the source. for example. key insight 1 "fact:" there is an optimal way to squat and should look identical. reference 11 contradicts this in bold in like the 4th paragraph. and anyone who has taken anatomy knows there are VA…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 11:21 PM
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because going below parallel won't cause your quads to grow more or get stronger. the systematic review of 135 scientific studies would disagree
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 11:06 PM
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why squat partial ROM when a full ROM takes care of all ranges? you're just making your training unnecessarily inefficient. also gonna need a citation on "full ROM causes plateauing" the research seems to disagree as far as growth is concerned: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6977096/
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 07:45 PM
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I have more respect for the guy who squats ass to grass with 95 pounds vs the guy who half squats 405.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 06:01 PM
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I’ve been doing it and I recommend it as long as you’re looking at it from an abundance point. I wouldn’t look for it as the means for an LTR. It bypasses a lot of the initial games and you can be very upfront about things. I got into it bc I’m getting up there in age but my tastes are still younger women. I’m just not around said women in my career or life so it was a means to do that. Don’t get me wrong I can still go to the bar and pull a young 22 year old on occasion but like I said, it take…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:57 PM
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luckily for men we have so many other ways to be attractive. you can be funny, socially gifted, rich, in shape, etc. just maximize what you do have. if all else fails, you can just go to a brothel to drain the pipes every so often.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 05:26 PM
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it's good that you recognize this. you're venturing down a path that can only lead to grief. big egos fall especially hard. there's always gonna be someone better than you. just accept that fact. nothing wrong with enjoying female attention. who doesn't like that? what's wrong is when you derive your entire self worth from female attention. you're giving all the power to a fickle creature. women are incredibly gifted at finding weakness in your character and once she knows she controls you, she …
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:24 PM
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Just flip it. If you were to do what she does to you would she be okay with it? You ultimately decide what is disrespect or not. And you communicate where you set the bar with your actions. You show them the level of respect you expect for yourself. Now if that bar is set, and she decides to lower it, then you decide if she's worth keeping around. If you want to keep fucking her, keep the bar at the level she set it at. Don't go backwards, that bar is set there now for the rest of the relationsh…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 01:46 PM
1

why could you fuck a bar hoe in one night yet struggle with fucking a tinder hoe in one night?
/r/askTRP15/08/20 01:23 PM
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Don’t worry about high value low value shit just pretend you’re a salesman and the longer you talk to the customer without any hint of a sale is the further you get from selling. Whatcha got going on this weekend? Grabbing a drink with you ;) Her response could either be: “great where we meeting!?” Or “woah I gotta get to know you a bit” in which case you just keep it short and sweet and keep pressing like above. You’re not there to be her pen pal you’re there to set a date up. That’s the whole …
/r/askTRP13/08/20 10:47 PM
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Same shit happened to me. Honestly reads as if I would write it years ago. I did what you did and cut them out. But being exiled from the group forced me to make new relationships bc I wasn’t gonna sit around and let a bitch and some shitty male “friends” leave me mopey. So by the time they came around I essentially told them nah I’m good. Several girls in the group too. One her roommate which would’ve been funny but still nah. My reasoning was they all had plenty of time to be a friend or wanna…
/r/askTRP13/08/20 04:15 PM
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Mmhmm where do you go hunting for this unicorn if you don’t mind sharing
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:04 AM
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I think so. Especially if it’s a creative joke on something everyone is subconsciously aware of on that person. But I think what’s even better is being able to take a roast. If you’re able to genuinely laugh at yourself others can’t really fuck with you.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 12:00 AM
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